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On this episode of The Jon Gordon Podcast, I sit down with Robbie Emery, the Director of Character Development for the University of Michigan football team and a truly remarkable leader behind the scenes. For nearly a decade, Robbie has poured his heart into helping transform Michigan's program, cultivating a culture of faith, service, unity, and readiness that's simply inspiring. We talk about Robbie's unique journey—how a move to Michigan, a chance connection, and a willingness to serve (even picking up water bottles at practice) led to his life-changing role with the Wolverines. Robbie opens up about the real power of focusing on the team over the individual, and how faith and strong character have become the secret sauce behind Michigan's success on and off the field. We dive into what it means to truly serve others, to be ready for the moments when opportunity knocks, and why it's the little things—the small acts of consistency and kindness—that open the biggest doors in life. Robbie also shares stories from his new book, “Pick Me,” and reveals how staying prepared can create miracles, whether you're a student-athlete, business leader, or anyone chasing growth. This conversation is packed with wisdom, heart, and practical takeaways for anyone looking to make an impact—from the locker room to the boardroom. If you want to become the person who's ready when life shouts “Pick me,” this episode is for you. About Robby, Robby Emery is a sought-after dynamic speaker known for his unique approach to coaching and team building. With an engaging and inspiring presentation style, Robby offers practical insights that benefit businesses, organizations, and audiences of all backgrounds. He has shared stages with some of the most influential leaders of our time, leaving a lasting impact wherever he speaks. Robby is a pastor with nearly 25 years of experience serving his local community. His leadership journey extends beyond the pulpit, as he has also served as a special advisor to the Michigan Football team and as the executive assistant to head coach Jim Harbaugh. Currently in his 10th season, Robby serves as the Director of Character Development for the University of Michigan Football team, where he plays a vital role in instilling integrity, teamwork, and a championship mindset in players and staff. His approach to character development combines faith, family, and football to create a culture of unity and purpose. In addition to his work with Michigan Football, Robby is a trusted mentor and coach to executives both nationally and internationally. His passion for leadership and personal growth has made him a valued advisor to leaders from various industries. Robby has been married to Danielle for over 25 years, and together they have three teenage children—Ava, Brie, and Silas. His commitment to his family and community continues to inspire those around him, both on and off the field. For bookings and engagements, please contact Robby at robbyemery@me.com. Here's a few additional resources for you… Follow me on Instagram: @JonGordon11 Every week, I send out a free Positive Tip newsletter via email. It's advice for your life, work and team. You can sign up now here and catch up on past newsletters. Join me for my Day of Development! You'll learn proven strategies to develop confidence, improve your leadership and build a connected and committed team. You'll leave with an action plan to supercharge your growth and results. It's time to Create your Positive Advantage. Get details and sign up here. Do you feel called to do more? Would you like to impact more people as a leader, writer, speaker, coach and trainer? Get Jon Gordon Certified if you want to be mentored by me and my team to teach my proven frameworks principles, and programs for businesses, sports, education, healthcare!

In this episode, ⁠⁠Dr. Eric Bryant⁠⁠ interviews ⁠Robby Emery⁠ about his book Pick Me: A Story of Belonging. Robby serves as the Director of Character Development for  Michigan Football, along with being the team chaplain.5 Key Takeaways:Robby Emery emphasizes the importance of character development in young men.Leaders must be sensitive to the emotional needs of those they lead.Robby's book 'Pick Me' addresses the culture of belonging.Intimacy in relationships is essential for strong connections.Self-worth is crucial for valuing others.

„Ich liebe mein Kind – aber manchmal bereue ich, Mutter geworden zu sein.“Ein Gedanke, den kaum jemand ausspricht – aber viel zu viele fühlen.In dieser Folge spreche ich über das Konzept Regretting Motherhood, die Forschung von Dr. Orna Donath, den Unterschied zur postnatalen Depression und die systemischen Strukturen, die Frauen in die Mutterschaft drängen – ohne sie dort zu halten.Diese Folge ist kein Angriff auf Kinder.Sondern ein Befreiungsschlag für Frauen, die sich selbst vermissen.Die still funktionieren, aber innerlich schreien. Die sich nicht trauen, ehrlich zu sein – aus Angst, als Rabenmutter abgestempelt zu werden.Du bist nicht falsch.Buch deinen Call. Komm rein. Hör auf, dich zu verstecken!Meine Einladung an dich

What if the patriarchy isn't just upheld by men? What if the voices enforcing it are sometimes women's—your friends, your coworkers, your mother, or even...your own?In this powerful episode of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast, Lynn dives deep into the uncomfortable truth that many women, often unknowingly, support the very systems designed to hold them back. From internalized misogyny to the relentless pursuit of male approval, we break down how women are conditioned to uphold the patriarchy—and how we can begin to break free.You'll hear raw reflections on:The social programming that trains women to prioritize everyone but themselves“Pick Me” behavior and how it derails collective empowermentThe glorification of male validation and how it steals women's autonomySubtle ways women judge and police one another to stay “in line”How traditional gender roles keep women stuck in emotional labor and self-erasureSigns of internalized misogyny you may not realize you've adoptedThis is not about blaming women. It's about reclaiming power—and waking up to the unconscious beliefs that keep us small. As always, we keep it real, reflective, and focused on growth.Whether you're healing from narcissistic abuse, unpacking cultural conditioning, deconstructing the patriarchy, or exploring feminist recovery work, this episode will resonate deeply.

In this episode of 'Mr. Pick Me and the Man Hater Show,' Regan and Chesko dive into double standards, bodily autonomy, and the right to exist comfortably in shared spaces as We discuss the viral gym clothing debate currently raging on social media before moving on to discuss broader patterns of misogyny, false accusations, and the weaponization of exceptions to enforce control over women's bodies. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) - Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

In this short episode, Tracy and Sarah respond to a letter from a woman who's husband was astounded that after decades of marriage she left him. He was a church deacon, a Jesus cheater, with a double life. As she left, he told her "I thought you'd fight harder for me."

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This week on Chins and Giggles, Karina & Mayra are spilling the TEA and adding way too much to cart! We needed an Ulta Add-to-Cart edition – because self-control? Never heard of her. We're bringing back our teen era with piercings, tattoos & the body spray  that haunted the hallways. Are we Pick-Me girls?! Let's unpack the cringe and see how many traits we accidentally have! And cash register anxiety is SO real – why does paying for stuff feel like a full-on crisis?! Hit play NOW because we need a yap session with you queens.

This week, the gurls recap Saving Private Leo, aka WW2 Don't Deserve This, announce the new episode schedule, and update on when guest appearances will occur. The gurls force themselves to get through a Leo Wyatt-centered episode that has Phoebe Halliwell sinking lower on the Pick Me ladder.Rae overprepares for this week's episode by watching Saving Private Ryan and learning school shooter statistics. The episode has echoes of All Hell Breaks Loose, which triggers Nelle. The girls discuss the "Think Fast" TikTok challenge and wonder why Cole didn't do more to prove his devotion to Phoebe.Luckily for the gurls, Paige's comedic timing saves the day.There is a trigger warning at 31:19-32:24

This week, the gurls recap Saving Private Leo, aka WW2 Don't Deserve This, announce the new episode schedule, and update on when guest appearances will occur. The gurls force themselves to get through a Leo Wyatt-centered episode that has Phoebe Halliwell sinking lower on the Pick Me ladder.Rae overprepares for this week's episode by watching Saving Private Ryan and learning school shooter statistics. The episode has echoes of All Hell Breaks Loose, which triggers Nelle. The girls discuss the "Think Fast" TikTok challenge and wonder why Cole didn't do more to prove his devotion to Phoebe.Luckily for the gurls, Paige's comedic timing saves the day.There is a trigger warning at 31:19-32:24

Today marks 1-year of Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater! Regan and Chesko spend today looking back and reflecting on some of your favorite (and most controversial) episodes! Thanks for your support as we look forward to year two of building our wonderful community! Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/ Follow Us on Social Media: https://www.youtube.com/@mrpickmeandthemanhater https://www.instagram.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) - TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/ Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) - TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf Theme song by Odanis the Rapper - https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

On this episode, Frank & Skylar discuss Casey Anthony, some TikTok thing, a man falling off the treadmill, "Pick Me", and The Open Palm Weave. Enjoy!

Deadbeat: a person (male/female) who deliberately avoids paying debts or neglects responsibilities. How many times have we found ourselves in the "Pick Me" phase in life? Well Yolanda, what do you mean by that? Come on in, let's get ta chattin'. Did you know...? Yolanda is an award-winning author with over 15 written works? Including magazine articles, writing collabs, and novels? Are you looking for some Great Reads? Novels & Novellas with Dramatic storylines full of surprising & shocking Twists & Turns? If so, jump into Yolanda's Books! Book of the Month! The Women of Shah's Place (novel) https://www.amazon.com/Women-Shahs-Place-Yolanda-Randolph/dp/B0D4KXCR8N/ref=sr_1_1? Synopsis Andra, River, Genesis, and Karla are strangers, solely connected by their ties to Shah's Place. The women are all in the throes of misery, anguish, and, in some cases, sorrow. Andra, single mother of two, is mortified by a devastating secret involving one of her children. River's happily married life is abruptly and cruelly interrupted by a vicious twist of fate. Genesis, struggling with the daily grind of life, finds a solution to all of her problems only to find herself thrown backwards into a downward spiral. And Karla's affair with a prominent married man rudely disrupts her carefully crafted life. Each woman has found herself in the midst of life's storms. They have no one to turn to, but when their own personal circumstances unexpectedly mend them together, they soon learn that they all have more in common than meets the eye... with the very ones they condemned.

Cabin Code girl Janine is back for Wrong'Uns and sparks a debate about who's a “Pick Me!” when it comes to gaining favour on a plane. Also, Cinderbella and Ben battle out the final of the quiz and Calum presents Greg with a special gift.

In this episode, we break down some of the most popular social media buzzwords, such as "Pick Me," "Simp," "Misogyny," "Misandry," and more. We explore their meanings, how they've evolved, and their impact on online conversations. It's a fun and insightful look into the language shaping our digital world. (Note: Apologies for the slight background noise and occasional voice clarity issues—we're working on improving the audio experience for future episodes!)

Welcome to another episode of The Savvy Dentist Podcast with Dr. Jesse Green, where we explore groundbreaking ideas and the brilliant minds behind them.  Today, we're excited to introduce Lynne Schinella, an accomplished speaker, author, and creator of the Fruit Personality Profiling System—a unique and insightful approach to understanding human behavior and enhancing communication. Lynne's innovative system uses fruits as metaphors to represent different personality types, making it accessible, relatable, and fun for individuals and teams alike. With decades of experience in training and development, Lynne has worked with organisations around the globe to help people navigate the complexities of workplace dynamics and interpersonal relationships. Her Fruit Personality Profiling System identifies four distinct "fruit" types—Apples, Mangoes, Limes, and Bananas—each with their own strengths, challenges, and ways of interacting with others. By decoding these traits, Lynne empowers individuals to better understand themselves and those around them, fostering collaboration and mutual respect in personal and professional settings. Author of Bite Me! And Other Do's and Don'ts of Dealing with our Differences, Lynne pens a regular blog series, and hosts two podcasts Fruitful Conversations and Fruitful Pairs. Lynne's second book is Pick Me! Loving and Living with People You Just Don't Get. In today's episode, we'll explore the story behind Lynne's creation of the Fruit Personality Profiling System and dive into how this tool can transform the way we connect and communicate. We'll also hear firsthand insights from Lynne about what makes each "fruit" type tick, how to leverage your personality traits for success in your dental practice, and why embracing diversity is key to thriving in today's world.  When we have more respect and understanding for each other's differences in every way, we can connect more effectively as human beings. We have less stress. We get more done. The world is a kinder place. Get ready to discover a fresh perspective on personality profiling and a practical tool that could change the way you interact with others—let's get started! [04:05] - How you become a 'Fruit Chick'. [10:52] - Utilising Lynne's Fruit Profiling will allow you to understand your people better, they'll be more productive, and at the end of the day you'll get to go home on time. [14:47] - An overview of the Fruit Profile characteristics. [24:33] - What types of people make up a dental practice business. [30:04] - How to deal with different people in your team.

The worst was truly saved for last as the final part of the Real Housewives of Orange County reunion focuses on Pick-Me personified, Alexis, and her fresh batch of talking points from Shannon's ex. The show begins with a teaser that important news comes as soon as the reunion wraps. Then Andy, the cast, and viewers all witness more illogical madness as a reminder of why Jesus Jugs making a cameo this season isn't something that should be repeated. We're shown more footage of the man Shannon bought shoes for and hear enough of his side for a lifetime. The news that drops turns out to be information a few ladies held onto throughout the reunion, but Shannon is eager to be understanding, forgive, and move-on. We all hope her ex does as well. All opinions are personal and not representative of any outside company, person, or agenda. Information shared is cited via articles, legal documents, press releases, government websites, public videos, news reports, and/or direct quotes and statements and may be paraphrased for brevity. Wanna support this independent pod? Links below:BuyMeACoffee - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/BBDBVenmo @TYBBDB Get ad-free listening with a Patreon membership Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jacqueline welcomes listeners, new and seasoned, to hear the re-release of the premier episode of the podcast that originally aired in January 2023. In this episode, Jacqueline shares the first part of her deeply personal and emotional fertility journey, starting from her attempts to conceive, to the challenges she faced with infertility, and the subsequent processes including IUIs. She recounts the traumatic loss of her twin daughters and the impact it had on her, as well as transitioning to a new fertility clinic to eventually pursue IVF.ALL THE THINGS:Motherhood Intended websiteJoin our FREE Motherhood Intended CommunityFollow @motherhood_intended on InstagramDownload a FREE Month-by-Month Guide to Feeling Grounded & Focused on Your Journey to BabyDownload a FREE Habit & Goal TrackerLeave a review for the podcastApply to be a guest on the show!Send us a Text Message with questions, suggestions, or to just say hello!Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterHosted by Chesko (Mr. Pick Me) and Regan (The Manhater). Join us as we laugh (so as...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showIf you're interested in helping give the absolute greatest gift to deserving intended parents, learn more about becoming a surrogate (and earn up to $650 just for taking the first few simple steps!): share.conceiveabilities.com/hello12

Send us a textOn today's episode, I welcome narcissistic abuse survivor Catherine Castillo. A global citizen with a passion for life, Catherine recently ended a year-and-a-half-long abusive relationship. Although Catherine has lived in Sweden for four years, we recorded our interview while she was back in the U.S., focusing on her healing journey. Despite being out of her toxic relationship for only a month, Catherine offered a huge amount of nuanced perspective for her fellow survivors. Connect with Catherine:LinkedInThreadsInstagramInstagram passion project, "Dear N(ex), It's Me"Recovery From Narcissistic Abuse, Gaslighting, Codependency, and Complex PTSD, by Linda HillRelated episodes dealing with emotional abuse and the brain:Episode 40, "What's the Connection Between Emotional Abuse and the Brain? With Dr. Hayley Nelson"Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterHosted by Chesko (Mr. Pick Me) and Regan (The Manhater). Join us as we laugh (so as...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showGet my free download, "Discover Your Brand Voice in 3 Easy Steps"Follow me on InstagramListen to the podcast on YouTubePlease support the show by buying me a coffee!You can also reach me through my professional websiteIf you're interested in sharing your story on the podcast, please fill out this form.You can also drop me a line at hello@sareneleedswrites.com or DM me on Instagram. Be sure to follow me there while you're at it, and don't forget to rate, review, and subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts!Podcasting resources:Buzzsprout for podcast hosting and analyticsRiverside for remote video and audio recording

It's Thanksgiving week, and Gavin is obviously giving thanks. We talk about new eras of parenting, we ask our listener to send us questions, Gavin is annoyed with grades, we rank the top 3 covers that are better than the original, and this week we are joined by two of the brightest and best (excpet for the moment they agreed to be on our stupid little podcast) Avgi Saketopoulou & Ann Pellegrini,  authors of the new book "Gender Without Identity," where we talk all things gender, raising kids to be their most authentic selves, why they think all gender is rooted in trauma, and somehow, some way, we make Ann even gayer than they already were.Questions? Comments? Rants? Raves? Send them to GaytriarchsPodcast@gmail.com, or you can DM us anywhere @GaytriarchsPodcastMr. Pick Me & The ManhaterHosted by Chesko (Mr. Pick Me) and Regan (The Manhater). Join us as we laugh (so as...Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

00:00:00 Intro00:01:45 The Friendship Recession00:09:27 International Mens Day00:18:00 Why Don't You Talk About Women's Stuggles?00:22:14 Depression and Suicide00:27:32 Why Are Men Suicidal?00:29:41 Why Is Therapy Failing Men?00:32:11 What NO ONE Underestands About Mens Mental Health00:40:31 Why Do Men Not Cry?00:40:54 "Male Tears"00:42:49 Why Does Jordan Peterson Get Shamed For Crying?00:45:11 Who Teaches Men Not To Cry?00:46:55 Are Men The Enemy Of Women?00:48:46 Should Men Cry In Front Of Women?00:55:20 Male Breadwinners, Jobs, Workplace Deaths and the Military00:58:19 Are Men Advantaged In The Workplace?01:03:09 Are Men The "Expendable" Sex01:06:18 Why Men Literally Work THemself To Death01:12:59 Abuse And Assault01:17:02 Erin Pizzy and Earl Silverman: The Truth About Domestic Abuse Shelters01:20:25 Do Men Or Women Commit More Domestic Abuse?01:22:51 Why Don't Men Report Abuse?01:25:54 Why Are There No Mens Shelters?01:29:09 What Happened To Earl Silverman?01:32:25 Male Childhood Sexual Abuse01:34:32 Wes's and My abuse stories01:40:33 How This Impacts Little Boys and Men Psychologically01:41:16 Can Sex Abuse Turn Men Gay?01:44:19 Discomfort Around Men After Abuse01:45:23 What Religion Teaches Abused Boys01:47:16 Parents Of Sexual Assault Victims (A Talk With My Mom)01:50:21 Does Sex Abuse Impact Sexuality and Promiscuity?01:55:03 What Happened To Me As A Kid01:56:05 More Of Wes's and My Stories01:59:51 If You Were A Victim Of Sexual Assault02:04:37 Is Feminism For Men?02:11:13 What HAppened To "The Red Pill" Documentary by Cassie Jay?02:13:04 Why Do Feminists Hate Feminist Speaker Warren Farrel?02:14:13 "Am I Having A Daughter Or An Abortion?"02:14:53 Why Are Boys Falling Behind Girls In Every Way?02:16:20 Toxic Masculinity and Mansplaining02:17:49 Have Liberals or Conservatives Abandoned Men More?02:18:58 Transgender Prisoners and Prison Rape02:20:08 Who Is Speaking Out For Men?02:21:07 Who Are The Good Male Role Models?02:28:06 Strong Men Are NOT The Problem, Weak Men Are02:29:31 The Overton Window On Men's Mental Health02:30:01 What Nora Vincent Learned Pretending To Be A Man For a Year and a Half02:30:45 Trans Men's Stories: The HARSH Reality Of Manhood02:35:28 "Pick Me" Girls Who Support Men02:36:59 Do You Hate Women?02:39:48 Male Body Positivity and Dating02:42:33 Why Is Dating So Complicated Now?02:43:53 Family Law For Dads02:47:00 The Danger Of Dating For Men02:47:45 Error Management Theory for Men02:48:28 The Hikikomori In Japan02:49:12 Error Management Theory for Women02:49:50 "Do Not Approach Women"02:51:39 Henry Cavill (Public harrassment Of Men)02:53:22 "Creepy" Men Approaching Women02:54:16 #MeToo02:55:15 Fatherhood, Parenting and Divorce02:56:14 Are Traditional Families The Best For Kids?02:57:25 How Divorce Impacts Children02:58:04 The Dad Deficit: Where Did All The Father Go?03:02:32 Are Step Parents A Danger To Children?03:03:33 Kids Are Forced To Choose Between Mom And Dad03:05:09 Crime and Mental Health for Children Of Broken Homes03:06:55 Parental Guilt about Divorce03:09:23 The Solution03:11:23 What Children Can ONLY Learn From Their Fathers03:12:12 Children Emulate Their Parents03:14:00 Good Families Make Good Children. Good Children Make A Good World03:14:59 If You Disagree With This Documentary...03:16:14 Family Issues Are HUMAN Issues03:17:51 RIPSupport the show@RealAndrewBriggs @HolisticMotionco HolisticMotion.com

00:00 - Intro 03:01 - Road Rage and Scary Drivers 13:40 - Friendships Between Reality TV Stars 49:32 - Pick Me's and Average Privilege  This episode is sponsored by: - BetterHelp: Visit https://www.betterhelp.com/outofthepods to get 10% off your first month - Essie: Shop essie nail polish for the holidays in-store at https://www.target.com/b/essie/-/N-78jvl  - HeatHolders: Head over to https://www.heatholders.com and use the code OUTOFTHEPODS at checkout to get 15% off your entire order.  - TodayTix: Go to https://www.todaytix.com/outofthepods and use promo code outofthepods to get $20 off your first TodayTix purchase

We're not the first people to point out that Johnathan Lee Iverson did what so many of us have considered doing, but it's really true. As the ringmaster at Ringling Brothers, Barnum and Bailey, Johnathan Lee Iverson learned his craft from some of the most talented people in the business. Now, as part of Circus Vargas Johnathan is helping the next generation see how it's done.For more information on Circus Vargas and to see Johnathan in person, check out their website.Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterHosted by Chesko (Mr. Pick Me) and Regan (The Manhater). Join us as we laugh (so as...Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

0:00 Intro 2:35 How to be a Ho for the Holidays!!!!!  16:55 Maggie, Do You Care? 17:25 Brianna Chickenfry vs. Zach Bryan 21:30 Grammy Nominations/ Was Ariana Grande snubbed? 26:03  The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City and The Worst Husband Contest 28:50 Love is Blind DC 31:12 Our Sexiest Man Alive 32:37 Wicked Press Tour Ariana/Ariana and SpongeBob 34:15 The Challenge: ERAS Season 40 Analysis  39:50 Dancing With the Stars (Glee Cast Version) 49:16 Over-Apologizing 50:50 Pick Me's 53:30 Carrie Ann Inaba 55:44 Nostalgia/Re-reading the Animorphs 57:25 Coping Mechanisms 58:00 Johnny Bananas

Send us a textNarcissistic relationships are parasitic in nature. Toxic personalities often drain others of their time, money, attention, and resources.In this podcast, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss the high and sometimes hidden cost of narcissistic relationships.Reference: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van de Kolk: https://amzn.to/3AtGt6zReady to heal from narcissistic abuse? Join Lisa and my upcoming Healing Strong live group coaching. Groups limits to 8 and the next group begins Jan 9, 2024. Secure your spot here! Looking for direction on what first steps you should take to heal from a toxic relationship? Become a Substack newsletter subscriber and get immediate access to this week's Podcast Extra interview. Get your access here: substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuseDid you know you don't need to wait a week for your next podcast fix? For only $5/month, sign up for weekly podcast extras!  Join me on Substack! Follow Dr. McAvoy!YouTube: @kerrymcavoyphdInstagram: @kerrymcavoyphdFacebook: @kerrymcavoyphdE-mail: hello@kerrymcavoyphd.comNewsletter: https://breakingfreenarcabuse.substack.com/ Website: https://www.breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com/Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D., a mental health specialist and author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships, deconstructing narcissism, and understanding various other mental health-related issues. Her memoir, Love You More: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross, gives an uncensored glimpse into the dynamics of narcissistic abuse.As an Amazon affiliate, a commission is earned from qualifying purchases.Mr. Pick Me & The ManhaterHosted by Chesko (Mr. Pick Me) and Regan (The Manhater). Join us as we laugh (so as...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the show

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This week, we're joined by multihyphenate artist Stephanie Graham to delve into Pick Me culture. Remoy has no idea what that means, so Samantha walks him through what Pick Me culture is, the nuances in the ways women interact with each other when talking about relationships with men, and what that means for MASKulinity.Have you ever done anything out of character to be picked or chosen? This question is at the crux of this episode, and Remoy shares his own personal experience, which mostly includes success without shame.Along the way, Samantha breaks down what a simp is, which according to Urban Dictionary, is the male version of being a Pick Me. The crew walks through how each term started out as a way to call folks out for bending their self-respect for desired love interests who don't care for them but evolved into insults toward people doing anything nice or pleasing to the object of their affection.Samantha traces back the origins of “woman who's not like other women” to the “cool girl,” a compliment given to women who never required too much from their man and just went with the flow, drank beer, watched sports, while being hot and keeping a size 2.Remoy gives all the reasons why his partner is a cool girl, and they're just because she's a cool person who does cool stuff. But the “cool girl” is a trope of a woman suppressing parts of herself so that she can appeal to a man by not taking up too much space. Remoy gives a great example from popular culture.Samantha shared her own “cool girl” attempt as a 12-year-old girl trying to impress a boy.Stephanie vulnerably shares seeking sneaker-swag validation from men, albeit platonically.Is Samantha's story an example of Pick Me behavior - What do you think?At the crux of the Pick Me is her superiority to other women for her ability to be appealing to men, whereas the cool girl suppresses her needs and aligns her interests with her man for appeal. They overlap.Samantha provides examples and Remoy picks up on the suggested requirement to be demure to be a real woman, and Stephanie picks up on the chastisement of women who aren't putting domesticity at the top of their priority list.They get into Stephanie's work exploring gender through art. Stephanie shares her experience photographing men for her Love You Bro series, celebrating friendships between Black men. The responses to her project had her questioning whether she was a Pick Me.Remoy makes an important point about how patriarchy drives up these insecurities and conflicts among women.Samantha points out the rewards that women get when participating in Pick Me/Cool Girl culture.Men enjoy being appealed to, and men's interests being viewed as superior to women's automatically legitimizes Cool Girls.It gets complicated. Folks calling out Pick Me behavior may just be performing a different type of sexism. Calling out women for their behavior and what they prefer is sometimes also folded into the Pick Me trope, when it's really sexism.Samantha calls out that the onus of dismantling patriarchy falls on men. Remoy and Stephanie cosign.Remoy makes an important statement about how men can step in and stand for what's right.Stephanie shares small ways that men can intervene using their values rather than telling women what to do.In our Five Questions segment, Stephanie shares what Pick Me culture can look like in her art and in real life.Stephanie illustrates the ways that Pick Me culture is rewarded in our culture.Girls get the prize: the guy.Women compete and win the prize, but it can backfire when they want to put their own needs first later in the relationship.They get into the trad wife trend. Is this another example of Pick Me culture. Sort of. The trad wife trend has been blazing online but it's a performance of gender. Women peddling the trad wife are businesswomen selling a lifestyle that they're not actually living for profit.Stephanie lets us in on her project #NEWGLOBALMATRIARCHY. The performance and installation project explores friendships between women through the lens of goddesses. Why is there a supposed hierarchy between women in their friendships? There isn't and this project explores that. It contradicts the trope of Pick Me culture pitting women against each other for an ultimate prize.Stephanie's photography project Love You Bro explores male friendships. The closeness between men is seldom expressed, instead painting a picture of men as inherently violent.She gets into the discomfort folks have seeing men being affectionate with one another.Samantha wonders what the reception was from both the participants and the audience.Stephanie shares the concerns men had doing the project, and the eventual glee and satisfaction of the participants.The hot seat is flipped this week! Remoy answers Stephanie's question to the host. What was the turning point for Remoy that got him to question patriarchy?Remoy shares his upbringing seeing women's leadership. He witnessed abuse growing up, which led to insensitivity toward women on his part.Remoy's turning point shows that it's possible for men to transform and be more thoughtful about patriarchy and its harms.Referenced on this episode:Gone Girl: book monologue and movie monologueExamples of Pick Me cultureLove You Bro#NEWGLOBALMATRIARCHYCOMPANION PIECES:The Marriage Episode

Ben is flying solo again this week. After managing technical and medical difficulties, he's champing at the bit and excited to talk about his PAX West 2024 Exhibit Hall experiences! But first, Ben has an abbreviated review of Deathbound; for the full review of this game check out our Substack page! Any feedback would be appreciated! Then Ben dives right in and shares his favorite games and booths at the show this year. If any of these games sound interesting to you, please follow the links in the show notes, like, wishlist, subscribe… do ALL the things! *** 00:00:20 - Intro, explanation, apology, and CHECK OUT OUR SUBSTACK! 00:02:02 - Ben's Deathbound thoughts 00:04:26 - 3 UPs: amazing music, great graphics for an indy, and the unique combat system 00:05:30 - 3 DOWNS: issues with targeting, perspective shift bug, and too few essences at first You can read Ben's full Deathbound review “It's Inspired by… Don't Call it a Soulslike - A Review of Deathbound on PS5” on Substack here… https://substack.com/home/post/p-149861815 00:08:43 - PAX West 2024  Day 1 00:09:05 - Ysbryd Games - https://www.ysbryd.net/ 00:09:24 - Love Eternal - https://loveeternalgame.com/  00:10:33 - Everdeep Aurora - https://www.everdeepaurora.com/  00:11:40 - ENDER MAGNOLIA: Bloom in the Mist - http://www.endermagnolia.com/en/  00:13:39 - Anshar Publishing - https://store.steampowered.com/publisher/AnsharPublishing 00:13:48 - Coridden - https://www.coridden.com/ 00:14:32 - Bytebond - https://store.steampowered.com/app/1952690/Bytebond/ 00:15:49 - Rugrats: Adventure in Gameland - https://store.steampowered.com/app/2633950/Rugrats_Adventures_in_Gameland/ 00:16:33 - Railgun Games - https://www.railgungames.com/ 00:17:01 - Virtual World Centers - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BattleTech_Centers  00:17:32 - Red Planet - Training Video  https://youtu.be/DIPMK4L_Qv4?si=ho3Wj0xcJ2rRt9TF 00:17:51 - Deathland Drifters - https://www.youtube.com/@railgungamesdev 00:18:37 - A Corgi's Cozy Hike - https://scalisco.com/pages/a-corgis-cozy-hike 00:19:09 - Ukiyo Studios - https://www.ukiyostudios.com/ 00:19:12 - Nine Sols - https://store.steampowered.com/app/1809540/Nine_Sols/ 00:19:20 - Infinity Bullets - https://infinitybullets.com/ 00:20:37 - Pacific Drive - https://www.pacificdrivegame.com/ 00:21:20 - Heartworm - https://heartwormgame.com/ 00:22:37 - The Mortuary Assistant - https://store.steampowered.com/app/1295920/The_Mortuary_Assistant/ 00:23:12 - Section 13 - https://oceandrive.studio/blackout-protocol/ 00:24:51 - The Behemoth Games - https://www.thebehemoth.com/ 00:25:51 - Path of Exile 2 - https://pathofexile2.com/ Day 2  00:27:19 - DORONKO WANKO - https://store.steampowered.com/app/2512840/DORONKO_WANKO/   00:29:09 - Pizza Bandit - https://www.jofsoft.com/  00:30:00 - Jay and Silent Bob: Chronic Blunt Punch - https://www.interabangent.com/ 00:31:11 - Optillusion - https://www.optillusion.games/ 00:31:28 - While Waiting - https://store.steampowered.com/app/2449160/While_Waiting/ 00:31:50 - Pick Me, Pick Me - https://www.pickmepickme.ai/ 00:33:08 - PLAYISM - https://playism.com/en/ 00:33:21 - Nitro Express - https://playism.com/en/game/nitro-express/ 00:33:43 - Homura Hime - https://playism.com/en/game/homura-hime/ 00:34:09 - Outrider Mako - https://playism.com/en/game/outrider-mako/ 00:34:26 - Metal Bringer - https://playism.com/en/game/metal-bringer/ 00:34:45 - HARUKA: Beyond the Stars - https://playism.com/en/game/haruka-beyond-the-stars/ 00:35:25 - Million Depth - https://playism.com/en/game/millionｰdepth/ Day 3 00:35:58 - Shroom Siege - https://www.upsidedownbird.com/shroom-siege 00:37:07 - Exercise Your Demons - https://www.vyersoft.com/eyd 00:38:15 - MythWalker - https://mythwalker.com/ 00:43:38 - Highway Police Simulator - https://highwaypolicegame.com/ 00:46:51 - Fish Game - https://www.fish.game/ 00:48:14 - Kriegsfront Tactics - https://www.togeproductions.com/project/kriegsfront-tactics/ 00:49:10 - Alterium Shift - https://alteriumshift.com/ Day 4 00:51:01 - ANTONBLAST - https://store.steampowered.com/app/1887400/ANTONBLAST/ 00:53:09 - Honeycomb: The World Beyond - https://store.steampowered.com/app/1510440/Honeycomb_The_World_Beyond/ 00:54:22 - Winter Burrow - https://www.pinecreekgames.com/ 00:56:27 - Rogue Climber - https://store.steampowered.com/app/2673440/Rogue_Climber/ Other Things 00:58:00 - Bateman Labs - https://batemanlabs.com/ 00:58:28 - Dragon Roast Coffee - https://dragonroast.coffee/ 00:58:58 - Small Rice Studios' new game Roast -  https://www.roast-game.com/ 00:59:53 - PAX West 2025 Plans   *** Follow Two Vague on… Our website: https://www.twovaguepodcast.com On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/two_vague_podcast On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@twovaguepodcast On Substack: https://substack.com/@twovaguepodcast For show appearance and other inquiries email us at twovaguepodcast@gmail.com For all of your PRI and 2VP merch check out the Partly Robot Industries store at TEEPUBLIC! 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We LOVED chatting and laughing with podcaster/influencer Becca Moore on this episode! She shares how being slut shamed by a prospective employer led her to her career today, and then we discuss the opportunistic “friends” (and mean girls) you meet when you first move to a city, and we break down sibling drama in large families. Becca shares her story of realizing she liked women, how she pursued her current partner, and why she had anxiety about hooking up with a woman for the first time. And then we talk about Pick Mes – what makes a Pick Me Girl, why guys can be Pick Me too, and how to handle these people in your friend circle. Before Becca joins us, we're talking about Ashley officiating her first same-sex wedding, Rayna's girl crush, our "imaginary" friends, and why we're about to come to life in the fall. Enjoy! Check out Becca on instagram @becccamooore and tiktok @becccamooore and listen to her podcast For the Girls. Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit https://girlsgottaeat.com for tour dates, merchandise, and more.Thank you to our partners this week:Nutrafol: Get $10 off your first month's subscription + free shipping at http://nutrafol.com with code GGE10.Caraway: Get 10% off your next purchase at https://carawayhome.com/gge10 or with code gge10.Seed: Get 25% off VS-01 at https://seed.com/GGE with code 25GGE.Bilt: Get points by paying rent at https://joinbilt.com/GGE.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Cut an LVAT wire to the tune of Snow Patrol, because we're talking to drag queen, gamer and superfan, Juice Boxx about the steamy medical drama that kills more people that it saves; GREYS ANATOMY! We discuss iconic soundtracks, weird medical cases, the origin of the ‘Pick Me' girl, behind the scenes cast drama, a misguided musical episode, a parking lot of no return, the endless string of increasingly ridiculous disasters and why the plane crash episode was TOO far. Plus, a not entirely improbable game of marry/f*ck/kill.  Produced by Andrew Ivimey as part of The From Superheroes Network.

Ep. 105. I discuss Love Island USA S6 and my favourite contestants and couples, dating in general and good traits some male contestants exhibited. Then I switch to the concept of pick-meism, who a pick-me is and how they exhibit their traits. Lastly, I end with an evolved outlook on previous viewpoints around dating and pick-meism that indicates maturity. Segments L for Love Island Favourite Contestants and Couple Dating Pick-Me ism Who is a Pick-Me? Pick-Me traits M for Maturity Follow the podcast: Twitter Instagram Youtube Tik Tok

In this high-value episode of Pivot Parenting, we explore the concept of "Pick Me" parenting and its impact on your relationship with your teen. Are you unknowingly seeking your teen's approval by trying to be the "cool parent" or competing for their attention? While it might seem like a way to connect, this approach can lead to common parenting pitfalls and undermine your authority. Join host, Heather Frazier as she uncovers the signs of "Pick Me" parenting and offers practical strategies to avoid it. Learn how to set clear boundaries, maintain your parental authority, and build genuine respect with your teen. Discover effective communication techniques and parenting strategies to foster a healthy, balanced relationship. We'll explore how these dynamics play out, the long-term impact on both you and your teen, and provide actionable strategies to shift from approval-seeking to fostering a truly connected relationship. Learn how to stop seeking validation from your child and start building a bond based on mutual respect and understanding. Don't let the need to be liked get in the way of being the parent your teen truly needs. What you'll learn in this episode: How to identify harmful parenting habits of seeking validation from your kids Recognize the harm these habits are causing Learn what to do instead to have an authentic, healthy relationship with your teen To implement what you learn with more efficiency and effectiveness, book a free 30 minute consultation HERE  and we can discuss your situation and your next best step in building the relationship you want with them. xoxo  

For this week's episode, we're sharing a super interesting conversation from my other podcast - the Mr. Pick Me and Manhater Podcast that you all are going to love... or hate? Hate to love?  It's the story of a man who cheats on his pregnant wife - told by the woman he betrayed. But this isn't a tragic tale. No, no, no. According to them, this is an inspirational tale of a woman who stood by her man for the Lord. This is about HER strength (not HIS transgressions). And believe me, transgressions is PLURAL. And not only does this couple think they are the picture of true love, they think they are qualified to be both relationship and faith coaches for other couples. Listen to the episode and let me know if you think they're qualified.    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: Regan Reacts (F the Nice Guy Page)

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*BETTERHELP* - Take a moment. Take.  A. Moment.   with BetterHelp. Visit betterhelp.com/TRASHTUESDAY today to get 10% off your first month.  Betterhelp.com/trashtuesday   SAY IT WITH US *SKIMMMMMMSSSS* Shop the SKIMS T-Shirt Shop at SKIMS.com.  Now available in sizes XXS - 4X.  If you haven't yet, be sure to let them know we sent you! After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select our show in the dropdown menu that follows. The “It” girl of the moment Hannah Berner is here & it feels right as rain. Go watch Hannah's Special “We Ride at Dawn” on Netflix!! The girls talk looking like little boys at the airport, the way Zendaya holds a racket, Nature vs. Nurture, Boyfriends at comedy shows and much more. We love us some Hannah! More Hannah Berner YouTube:    / @hannahberner   Instagram -   / beingbernz   Giggly Squad Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... TikTok -   / hannah_berner   Website - https://www.hannahberner.com/   00:00 Stop Being so Pick Me, Khalyla! 01:00 Hannah Berner is in the STU 06:46 Esther is having a Career/Mom Crisis  18:00 Hannah Berners Family Dynamic 24:36 Hannah Talks about a Schizophrenia Documentary 28:00 Esther's Ex's Thrive After They Break Up w/ Her 31: 06 Hannah is Everywhere and What's That Like? 40:00 Once Again, We Talk Bed Rotting 45:00 Hannah's Mother in Law 47:30 Esther's Promise to Herself She's Breaking 50:00 Do We Want to Cum Giving Birth? 57:30 Hannah's Thoughts on The Challengers 01:01:11 Hannah's Thoughts on the Tennis Craze 01:07:34 Wrapping Up   FOLLOW TRASH TUESDAY!!! Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itstrashtuesday Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itstrashtuesday   Listen to Trash: Trash Tuesday Podcast iTunes Audio Feed: https://bit.ly/TrashTuesdayPod Trash Tuesday Podcast Spotify Audio Feed: https://bit.ly/TTPodAudio   More Esther: Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@esthermonster Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/esthermonster More Khalyla:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/khalamityk Tigerbelly Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@TigerBelly   Production: Stella Young: https://www.instagram.com/estellayoung Tiny Legends, LLC: https://www.instagram.com/tinylegends.prod   Shot and Edited By:  Guy Robinson: https://www.instagram.com/grobfps Sean Wanless: https://www.instagram.com/soundandshutter   Art Direction and Social Media: Ariel Moreno: https://www.instagram.com/jade.rabbit.cce   Branding & Music: Branding & Logo: https://www.instagram.com/jason_cryer Theme Song: https://www.instagram.com/bobbyleelive Banana Break Song by: Can Nguyen: https://www.candyedits.com

When it comes to social movements, humans tend to swing from one extreme to another. Today we sit down with our good sis Adella Afadi to ask the question, have we gone too far with some of our responses to internet trends and conversations on the male gaze, being a ‘pick me' and recovering from people pleasing?

In this episode, we discuss Mr. Pick Me spending Spring Break in the hospital (which leads into a long discussion on medical gaslighting, fatphobia and racism in medicine.Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy): TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguyPodcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof):TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprofFacebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprofYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@therealspeechprofTheme song by Odanis the Rapper: https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

This week's episode is a little different because it's actually a story Chesko and I shared on our other podcast - Mr. Pick Me and The Man Hater (a name so lovingly given to us by an internet troll despite the fact that I don't hate men and Chesko has been picked). It's an AITA from reddit and honestly it's just too good not to share here so buckle up because this one is a DOOZY!    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page

On this episode the crew is joined by friend of the show Kony Jen! Topics and discussions include:The strictness of religion and atheism (3:57)The struggles within the lesbian community (22:30)Pick Me's (33:15)How to get over a breakup/ best sitcoms (49:20)Finding the vibes in racist travel destinations (59:45) Defending problematic Black people/ Matchmakers (71:20)First baddie syndrome/ being a gentlemen (90:30) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The softboys are fighting! The Pick Me(n) are turning on each other! The timeline wants to know, is the man content creating painting his nails, talking about the glass ceiling and lipsynching to Hozier a feminist or misogynist in sheeps clothing???   DIVE DEEPER No Deep Dives TikTok No Deep Dives Instagram No Deep Dives Substack No Deep Dives Slack https://www.tiktok.com/@quinnickleshow/video/7346640693902937390 https://www.tiktok.com/@quinickle/video/7232337055605378346?q=quinnickle&t=1712558892570 https://www.tiktok.com/@quinickle/video/7298752921800363306?q=quinnickle&t=1712558892570 https://www.tiktok.com/@angieemann/video/7182369370180422955?q=strange%20kevin&t=1712558799606 https://www.tiktok.com/@misterstrang4/video/7301150160363556139?q=strange%20kevin%20female%20gaze&t=1712558857512 https://www.tiktok.com/@tellthebeees/video/7349382297138892062?_r=1&%3B_t=8l0sr2k8DPm TIMESTAMPS Welcome to the latest episode of No Deep Dives, hosted by Flex. Today, we're diving into the intricate world of TikTok's social dynamics. Our focus? The emergence of 'pick me men' and the intriguing concept of the female gaze. Flex delves into the trend of men strategically distancing themselves from 'pick me' behaviours to position themselves as more self-aware than their fellow counterparts. Then dissects the evolution and occasional misinterpretations of the male gaze, ultimately leading to the emergence of the female gaze phenomenon. Through the lens of notable TikTok creators like Strange Kevin and Quinn, we'll analyze how these trends mirror deeper societal shifts in gender dynamics, self-presentation, and the pursuit of authenticity in digital spaces. Join Flex to challenge preconceptions and unravel the layers of these trends. Who truly benefits, and are we witnessing genuine progress or just a fresh coat of paint on age-old patriarchal norms? Let's dive in and find out. 00:33 The Rise of 'Pick Me' Men 02:13 Decoding the Male Gaze 05:38 The Female Gaze: A Counter-Narrative or a New Form of Objectification? 11:46 TikTok's Influence: From Strange Kevin to Quinnical 22:44 The Complexity of the Female Gaze: Perception vs. Reality

In this episode of Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater, Chesko and Regan answer the question, "Who should pay for the first date?" Merch Store: https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy): TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguyPodcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof):TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprofFacebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprofYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@therealspeechprofTheme song by Odanis the Rapper: https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

This week the ladies are joined by Julie Ginger, the BBW Extraordinaire! First the ladies go into what is truly considered as a "BBW" in the content world along with the "Pick-Me's" that try to hop on the "trend". After talking about her weight-loss journey, Julie explained her line of content and the fun she has making it. "Big Back Behavior" is then questioned after the topic being brought up on the Breakfast Club. Then the ladies and Julie talk about the stigma of black men loving bigger white women. For the Heauxdearve, Julie gives us a DEEP demo of her skills on a banana. Plus they get into size kinks, weird requests, Heauxmail, and much more! Follow Our Guest! @BBWJulieGinger SUNDAY, MAY 5TH 2024 EartH Theatre! London, England. We are coming for our final show! So get off your fanny, spend some quid, and come see the bloody show mate! http://tinyurl.com/wun2p8v3 SAT MAY 25TH & SUN MAY 26TH TwoGether Land! We are coming to Fair Park in Dallas, Texas! https://twogetherland.com/ SATURDAY, APRIL 27TH 2024 BLACK EFFECT PODCAST FESTIVAL Atlanta, Georgia! The ladies join the rest of the Black Effect crew and are going in RAW. https://tinyurl.com/32sfn7jb Become a Patron at http://Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Whoreible Decisions pages Instagram @whoreible_decisionsTwitter @whoreiblepod Don't forget to tag #whoreibledecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want some Whoreible Decisions merchandise? GET YOURS NOW AT http://WHOREHIVE.COMSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater, Chesko and Regan breakdown the AITA  "My family wants me to break up with my girlfriend about how she responded to my brother's prank?"Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy): TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguyPodcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof):TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprofInstagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprofFacebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprofYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@therealspeechprofTheme song by Odanis the Rapper: https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

Mr. Pick Me and the Manhater have returned to bring you Part 2 of these HORRIBLE wedding vows. And if you thought the last guy was bad... buckle up.    We're breaking down terrible vows, talking about the ACTUAL BS double standards when it comes to holding bad men accountable, going on a couple tangents, and giving you a very exciting update about our new podcast Mr. Pick Me and the Manhater!    F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page    

On this episode DCMWG starts with the ongoing Megan Thee Stallion & Nicki Minaj feud after Megan released her song “Hiss” which lead to Nicki Minaj firing back via X (3:16), Young Thug's jail call with Mariah The Scientist gets leaked online and the “Pick Me's” picked me'd (13:30), Mos Def gave his opinion on Drake as a musician and….yea, it was exactly that (18:16), which Black women were the inspirations in reality TV? (24:10), Youtuber Noluvmar and his crew allegedly showed up to a competing YouTuber's video shoot, pistol whipped them and stole their footage (30:05), Baddies update (37:18), Manifestations (41:02), Voicemails (47:32) & more.  Get your real life advice from Mona on the show! Dial 267-225-2492 and leave a question for a chance to have your voicemail answered on an episode. JOIN THE NEW DCMWG PLUS COMMUNITY FOR BONUS EPISODES, AD-FREE LISTENING & OTHER EXCLUSIVE CONTENT CLICK HERE: https://dcmwg.supportingcast.fm This episode is sponsored by Factor Meals. Head to https://FactorMeals.com/DCMWG50 to get 50% off Executive Producers for Breakbeat: Dave Mays & Brett Jeffries Executive Producer: Don't Call Me White Girl Producer: Tom Flies Production: Creative Mind Productions: Vernon Ray (@AllMoneyShots) & Zack James (@ZJames_RHC) Filmed on Location: Jet Phynx Films Instagram: @BreakbeatMedia @DontCallMeeWhiteGirl @PhelpsJugo @TomFlies Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to The Viall Files: Going Deeper Edition! At the beginning of the episode, we discuss current pop culture topics such as Olivia Rodrigo's new song and “professional friends” in LA, along with Skims saving a woman's life and what Matt Damon and his wife agreed on in couple's therapy. We also ask if you would rather have your text messages shared online, or have an ex write a song about you.  Then, we are joined by Gina Kirschenheiter from The Real Housewives of Orange County to talk about this season's drama, her relationships with her castmates, and how she is navigating her personal relationships with her partner and ex-husband. We dive into pop culture topics like Miranda Lambert stopping a show to selfie-shame, and Sofia Vergara's divorce announcement. We also discuss Bebe Rexha posting screenshots of her boyfriends' texts, and if that's ever okay (during or after a relationship). We then have a Texting Office Hours caller who isn't sure if her long term best friend is either protective or manipulative - she's made some judgemental comments about her ex, the city she lives in, and the choices she's making.  “Is Jenn a mid-40s Pick Me?” Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/  Please make sure to subscribe so you don't miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to asknick@theviallfiles.com to be a part of our Monday episodes. Join us for our new LIVE show on Thursdays at 9PM ET/6PM PT on Amp, available in the Apple app store. Android User? Listen here: https://www.onamp.com/  To Order Nick's Book Go To: http://www.viallfiles.com   If you would like to get some texting advice on Office Hours send an email to asknick@theviallfiles.com with “Texting Office Hours” in the subject line! To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles  THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Drizly - Drizly is the most convenient way to buy beer, wine and spirits, with delivery to your doorstep right when you want it. Download the Drizly app or go to https://www.Drizly.com  Brooklinen - Use promo code VIALL for $20 off your online purchase of $100 or more plus free shipping on https://www.Brooklinen.com  Paramount - Paramount Plus. Stream Now.  Rocket Money - Stop throwing your money away. Cancel unwanted subscriptions – and manage your expenses the easy way – by going to https://www.RocketMoney.com/VIALL  Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @ginakirschenheiter @alison.vandam @liffordthebigreddog @dereklanerussell   

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