As kids, interracial, adoptive siblings, Hannah Jackson Matthews and Greg Jackson Stumbras, were often told they weren't real siblings. In spite of those who delegitimized their relationship they impishly dubbed themselves, The Fake Siblings. Pairing their sarcastic, yet sincere natures... or would it be nurtures? ... Hannah and Greg, share real conversations all about the unique dynamics of adoptive siblingship.
Hannah Jackson Matthews and Gregory Jackson Stumbras
In this special episode of The Fake Siblings Podcast, cohosts and interracial adoptive siblings, Hannah and Greg wrap up an incredible first season with a triple celebration!Join them as they dive into the significance of Juneteenth, sharing its history and why it's a day of reflection and joy.They also take a moment to celebrate their summer birthdays with some hilarious family anecdotes and even a game of This or That. Finally, they reflect on their journey through season one, highlighting favorite moments, lessons learned, and what to look forward to in season two. Tune in for a heartwarming and festive finale filled with laughter, insights, and celebration!Don't miss out—this episode is a perfect blend of fun, reflection, and excitement.Hit play and join the party!
In the ninth episode of our first season, co-hosts Hannah and Greg celebrate Poppa Jackson and his enduring love of horses. In a special tribute, both Hannah and Greg draw horses in his honor, sharing heartfelt stories and fond memories. But that's just the beginning.The conversation takes a deeper turn as they discuss navigating Father's Day in the context of adoption. Hannah opens up about her reunion with her birth father, offering an intimate look into her journey and the emotions involved. They also explore the role of birth fathers in adoption as a whole, providing insights and perspectives that resonate deeply with their experiences.This episode is a heartfelt and thought-provoking dialogue, and both Hannah and Greg agree that it's one of their favorites so far.Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, rate, review, and share it with others. Your support means the world to us!
In a world that's growing more divided and with an election season brewing, Hannah Jackson Matthews and Greg Jackson Stumbras are taking a step back to reflect on their unique siblingship. Amidst the "us vs. them" rhetoric, how have they managed to find common ground and compassion despite their many differences?
Hold onto your hats, folks, because Hannah Jackson Matthews and Greg Jackson Stumbras are hosting a garage sale like no other!
In their fifth episode, Hannah and Greg, discuss the rap beef between Drake and Kendrick Lamar. The chorus of Kendrick's latest track repeats "They Not Like Us" over an unapologetic, unmistakably West Coast beat; however, the question that quickly emerges during this episode is who are transracial adoptees most like -- Drake or Kendrick? And in what ways? Through their commentary, Hannah and Greg begin to notice parallels in the internal and external conflicts created due to insecure identity and arrested development. Works referenced:Clip from Donald Glover's special "Only Black Kid in School" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mb5CZ8v1jT0"Euphoria" - Kendrick Lamar https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NPqDIwWMtxg"Meet the Grahams" - Kendrick Lamar https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2QiFl9Dc7D0"Not Like Us" - Kendrick Lamar https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T6eK-2OQtew"Drake: Timeline of Rapper's Rise to Stardom" Business Insider https://www.businessinsider.com/drake-life-career-timeline-2018-10#aubrey-drake-graham-was-born-on-october-24-1986-1Additional Info:A History of Drake v. Kendrick Beef - Where's the Dirt? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2hjA_L7yjfY&t=16s
In their fourth episode, co-hosts and interracial adoptive siblings, Greg and Hannah divert from their typical format of listener submitted topics and questions to address comments made recently (4-26-24) by, UFC 303 Headliner and transracially adoptive father, Michael Chandler on The Shawn Ryan Show.When asked about how Chandler approaches raising his two, Black adopted sons, he said, "I'm not raising black children, I'm raising children. Whether you are black or you are white, no matter what race that you are,.. Being a good man, a good man of reputation, none of that has to do with skin color. Everything has to do with the character of the man. Probably not an answer that some people would say is important but that's where the world has gone. Where we think that the most important thing about us is our skin color or our gender or our political affiliation."After hearing this quote and watching the entire interview, Hannah and Greg, were struck by Chandler's racial colorblindness, and wanted to take the necessary time to center the impacts of racial colorblindness on Black adoptees and their experiences.
After reflecting on the release of their debut episode, Hannah and Greg struggle with being too critical. Greg identifies, at times, how he has been dismissive and insensitive about hard conversations, and Hannah calls him in about his self-identified conflict avoidance during their conversations. As they find resolution, they practice embracing a growth mindset about their mistakes, even and especially when they feel shame for messing up. Ultimately, they are asking themselves and their listeners, what role does growth mindset play in acknowledging our varied levels of privilege? And how can growth mindset help us build and maintain more "real" connections?
In this episode, Hannah and Greg talk sibling birth order, including but not limited to middle child syndrome, attention seeking, and dealing with jealousy. Greg, in true middle child fashion, tries his best to shift focus away from himself, while naturally, the youngest, Hannah gladly takes the spotlight and deep dives into dating and rejection as a Black girl in a predominantly white town. Additionally, a super special guest, the last of the fake siblings, our older brother, Tyler Jackson, chimes in!Works Referenced:The Birth Order Book: Why You Are The Way You Are by Dr. Kevin LemanBirth order characteristics from betterhelp.com article "Birth Order Theory: Insights Into Your Personality"Consider following us on social media @fakesiblingspod. Thanks for listening!
In their debut episode, Hannah and Greg introduce themselves, explain the name "fake siblings", swap most embarrassing times at the movie theater stories, and welcome all aboard their sibling-ship. Toot toot! When asked what their parents did to help them understand and navigate the unique dynamics of adoption, like true millennials, they made fun of their boomer parents before shockingly, briefly appreciating them for making sure that no matter how many people tried to invalidate their sibling relationship, their sibling bond remained secure.Consider following us on social media @fakesiblingspod. Thanks for listening!
April 10th is National Siblings Day, so it is the perfect day to debut our podcast! In this clip from our first episode we start explaining the ifs, how, and why's behind the legitimacy of our sibling-ship. Be sure to listen to the first episode for even more explanations.