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This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét clear up their NYC timelines, Monét explains her true relationship with Jasmine Rice, and Bob shares his thoughts on opera. They wonder if they're actually drag savants, debate the hottest superhero, and once again discuss Wicked and their thoughts on “For Good.” Monét names an actor she feels was a miscarriage of casting, they question whether Galinda is the real villain, and decide if Part Two lived up to expectations. Bob breaks down his feelings about Elphaba's “sexy sweater,” and they share their reactions to the new songs. Thanks to our sponsors: Rula patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at ⁠https://www.rula.com/rivalry⁠ #rulapod For a limited time, Home Chef is offering my listeners FIFTY PERCENT OFF and free shipping for your first box PLUS free dessert for life! Go to ⁠https://HomeChef.com/RIVALRY⁠ Visit ⁠https://WaldenU.edu⁠. Walden University. Set a Course for Change®. Certified to operate by SCHEV Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week on Sibling Watchery, Bob and Monét break down the RuPaul's Drag Race Season 18 Meet the Queens promo. They react to the Season 18 cast reveal, review the promo video, and debate which Drag Race season had the best promo ever. They share early predictions for the queens who will do well and analyze the contestants' answers about why they chose to compete. They also discuss signature scents, the correct way to apply fragrance, and which cereal mascot is secretly the hottest. Plus, is this the smartest Drag Race cast yet, is Monét already coming for a queen, which contestant should join the Sibling Rivalry family, and is every queen somewhere on the Drag Delusion spectrum? Thanks to our sponsors: Rula patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at https://www.rula.com/rivalry #rulapod For a limited time, Home Chef is offering my listeners FIFTY PERCENT OFF and free shipping for your first box PLUS free dessert for life! Go to https://HomeChef.com/RIVALRY Visit https://WaldenU.edu. Walden University. Set a Course for Change®. Certified to operate by SCHEV Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Welcome back! We open intense (of course), talk about my dad's birthday and why it's still weird eight years later, our family dog passing, then immediately pivot into lighter things like why Black Friday is STILL happening and why my coffee machine is officially performative décor.Life updates include: my newfound 9/11 hyperfixation, Jonas Brother concert collabs, and my ongoing inability to move on from the assassination of Charlie Kirk and obsession with Candace Owen's podcast series about it. We go down holiday memory lane, do a Thanksgiving recap, discuss my 2026 planner, getting competitive about golf, spin class, and the current state of my house (wainscoting, window tinting, extreme decluttering). Plus: a reframe about wifehood, algorithmic brainwashing, and why cleaning your kitchen and doing laundry doesn't make you a tradwife. It means you're a responsible adult. News bits, a Luigi Mangione update, the “Taylor & Travis never fight” discourse, and a Content Cop-Out finale: Reddit advice and a chaotic Doomscroll-With-Me challenge. Subscribe + Join the Patreon2025 Roundup coming later this month! Thanks for tuning in and supporting my show! REVIEW THE SHOW ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ https://open.spotify.com/show/4ijzUBunTIHgVmahB0ISEN BECOME A PATRON! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/tjms⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ KEEP IN TOUCH!INSTAGRAM »⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jacquelinemonroe/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TIKTOK » jacqueline.monroe EMAIL THE SHOW!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ tjmsshow@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ MY MUSIC GUY⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://soundcloud.com/robmonmusic⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SPONSORSSpotify for Podcasters

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Monét is impressed by the new generation of counterfeit bags, and Bob tests her ability to tell real from fake and they wonder whether good cartoons are still being made. Monét declares Teyana Taylor the new It Girl, they discuss how a movie poster can make or break a film, and ask how much it costs to put up a billboard. Bob explains how buildings are demolished in NYC and talks about the chaos of their group chat. They compare phone etiquette, Monét gives an update on her missing wigs, and debate whether Google Maps counts toward screen time. Plus: going live while driving, being bad at texting, texting and driving, and whether LA or NYC changes how you respond to a woman crying on the street. Thanks to our sponsors: Head to https://DRINKAG1.com/RIVALRY you'll get the welcome kit, a Morning Person hat, a bottle of Vitamin D3+K2, a AG1 Flavor Sampler and you'll get to try their new sleep supplement AGZ for free. Stop putting off those doctors appointments and go to ⁠https://Zocdoc.com/RIVALRY⁠ to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! Ready to start? Visit ⁠https://WaldenU.edu⁠ today. Walden University. Set a Course for Change®. Certified to operate by SCHEV. Go to https://HomeChef.com/RIVALRY for 50% off your first box and free dessert for life! Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Is competition, jealousy, and conflict between brothers and sisters a normal part of growing up? While bickering and nitpicking can be hard for parents, can sibling rivalry also be a way for children to learn life skills? Kathryn talks with Clinical Psychologist and mum of three, Jacqui Maguire.

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Monét tests Bob's singing range before they break down roasts and reading. They share the phrases that drive them crazy, and Bob tells the story of his reversible pants and the grammar correction that almost got him into a fight at school. They discuss the teasing styles in their families and how Bob's religious relatives reacted when the rapture didn't happen. They share their favorite Drag Race reads of all time and whether either of them has ever had their feelings hurt. Thanks to our sponsors: Head to https://DRINKAG1.com/RIVALRY you'll get the welcome kit, a Morning Person hat, a bottle of Vitamin D3+K2, a AG1 Flavor Sampler and you'll get to try their new sleep supplement AGZ for free. Stop putting off those doctors appointments and go to ⁠https://Zocdoc.com/RIVALRY⁠ to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! Ready to start? Visit ⁠https://WaldenU.edu⁠ today. Walden University. Set a Course for Change®. Certified to operate by SCHEV. Go to https://HomeChef.com/RIVALRY for 50% off your first box and free dessert for life! Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Ms. Pat joins Bob and Monét to talk about Clayton County, her viral meet and greet videos, and her creative partnership with Jordan E. Cooper. She shares her philosophy on supporting the LGBTQ+ community, and Ms. Pat steps in to settle some of Bob and Monét's beef. They discuss AI and whether Monét has been biting Bob's style. Plus, Ms. Pat on cancel culture, open relationships, and how she handles men hitting on her. Thanks to our sponsors: Go to https://zbiotics.com/RIVALRY and use RIVALRY at checkout for 15% off any first time orders of ZBiotics probiotics. Join today for a new member welcome bonus after minimum qualifying purchases at https://Rakuten.com. Terms and conditions apply. Ready to start? Visit https://WaldenU.edu today. Walden University. Set a Course for Change®. Certified to operate by SCHEV. Getting contacts doesn't have to be a hassle, order online at https://1800Contacts.com or download the free 1-800 Contacts app today! Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét are talking about sitcoms, whether Gilmore Girls actually makes sense, the similarities between the Full House and Family Matters themes and why Gen Z is missing out on iconic TV theme songs. They compare their heights to other Drag Race queens, talk about twink status and whether facial hair ruins it, and break down what “hung” really means. They build a dream guest list to celebrate the upcoming milestone of ten years of Sibling Rivalry and ask if the Rock might be the greatest showman of all time. Plus, semi truck accidents and their ideal balance of alone time and togetherness in relationships. Thanks to our sponsors: Go to https://zbiotics.com/RIVALRY and use RIVALRY at checkout for 15% off any first time orders of ZBiotics probiotics. Join today for a new member welcome bonus after minimum qualifying purchases at https://Rakuten.com. Terms and conditions apply. Ready to start? Visit https://WaldenU.edu today. Walden University. Set a Course for Change®. Certified to operate by SCHEV. Getting contacts doesn't have to be a hassle, order online at https://1800Contacts.com or download the free 1-800 Contacts app today! Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Charlotte Brontë wasn't born the eldest child, but she was thrust into a leadership role at the age of ten, as the Brontë children dealt with the tragic deaths of their mother and two eldest sisters. How did this affect their family dynamic? And when the younger two sisters, Emily and Anne, had their novels accepted while Charlotte's alone was rejected, how did Charlotte respond? In this episode, Jacke talks to author Catherine Rayner, expert in the Brontës and a qualified nurse who's studied the effects of childhood on the development and psychology of adults, about the swirl of sibling psychologies explored in her book The Brontë Family: Sibling Rivalry and a Burial in Paradise. PLUS author Keith Cooper (Amazing Worlds of Science Fiction and Science Fact) stops by to discuss his choice for the last book he will ever read. Join Jacke on a trip through literary England (signup closing soon)! The History of Literature Podcast Tour is happening in May 2026! Act now to join Jacke and fellow literature fans on an eight-day journey through literary England in partnership with ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠John Shors Travel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Scheduled stops include The Charles Dickens Museum, Dr. Johnson's house, Jane Austen's Bath, Tolkien's Oxford, Shakespeare's Globe Theater, and more. Find out more by emailing jackewilsonauthor@gmail.com or masahiko@johnshorstravel.com, or by contacting us through our website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠historyofliterature.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Or visit the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠History of Literature Podcast Tour itinerary⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠John Shors Travel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. The music in this episode is by Gabriel Ruiz-Bernal. Learn more at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠gabrielruizbernal.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Help support the show at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon.com/literature ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠historyofliterature.com/donate ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. The History of Literature Podcast is a member of Lit Hub Radio and the Podglomerate Network. Learn more at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠thepodglomerate.com/historyofliterature⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fluent Fiction - Hebrew: Stormy Adventure: A Hanukkah Tale of Courage & Kinship Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/he/episode/2025-11-20-08-38-20-he Story Transcript:He: החורף התקרב והיער בכרמל החל להתעטף בצבעי שלכת יפים.En: Winter was approaching, and the forest in the Carmel began to wrap itself in beautiful autumn colors.He: העלים נשרו לאדמה וירוק הפך לאדום וזהוב.En: The leaves fell to the ground, and green turned to red and gold.He: נועה וגל יצאו עם המשפחה לטיול מחנאות מיוחד לחג החנוכה.En: Noa and Gal went on a special camping trip with the family for the holiday of Hanukkah.He: האוויר היה קריר ופריך, ניחוח של אדמה ואורנים מילא את האוויר.En: The air was cool and crisp, with the scent of earth and pines filling the air.He: האוהל שלהם נדלק עם אור חמים של חנוכייה, והמשפחה התכנסה לחגוג ביחד בעזרת אור הנרות והטבע.En: Their tent was lit with the warm light of a Hanukkiah, and the family gathered to celebrate together with the light of the candles and nature.He: גל, נערה צעירה שמחפשת תמיד לפלס את דרכה, הרגישה שהיא נאלמת בצל של אחיה.En: Gal, a young girl always seeking to pave her way, felt overshadowed by her brother.He: נועה, בת הדוד ההרפתקנית וגם מעט חסרת אחריות לעתים, תמיד השתדלה להגן על גל כמו אחות גדולה.En: Noa, the adventurous and sometimes slightly irresponsible cousin, always tried to protect Gal like an older sister.He: גל רצתה להוכיח שהיא עצמאית, שיש לה כוחות משלה.En: Gal wanted to prove she was independent and had her own strengths.He: "בואו נצא לטיול רגלי ביער," הציעה גל למשפחה, מבקשת להוביל את הטיול בעצמה.En: "Let's go for a walk in the forest," suggested Gal to the family, eager to lead the trip herself.He: נועה, קצת מודאגת, הזהירה את גל, "גל, יש סופה שמתקרבת.En: Noa, a bit worried, warned Gal, "Gal, there's a storm approaching."He: " אבל גל, נחושה להראות שהיא יכולה להסתדר לבד, התעקשה.En: But Gal, determined to show she could manage on her own, insisted.He: היא הביאה מפה ופנס והובילה את הקבוצה אל תוך היער.En: She brought a map and flashlight and led the group into the forest.He: העננים התקרבו והגשם החל לרדת.En: The clouds gathered, and the rain started to fall.He: הסופה הגיעה במהירות, עם רוחות חזקות ורעם.En: The storm came quickly, with strong winds and thunder.He: גל ונועה מצאו עצמן מתחת לעץ גדול, מחפשות מחסה.En: Gal and Noa found themselves under a large tree, searching for shelter.He: גל הרגישה פחד, אבל ידעה שעליה לקחת החלטות מהירות.En: Gal felt fear, but she knew she had to make quick decisions.He: היא מצאה מערה קטנה וסימנה לנועה להיכנס פנימה.En: She found a small cave and signaled Noa to enter.He: בתוך המערה, הן ישבו קרובות זו לזו.En: Inside the cave, they sat close to each other.He: גל הבינה שעליה להקשיב לאינסטינקטים שלה.En: Gal realized she needed to listen to her instincts.He: נועה הסתכלה על גל בחיוך ושאלה, "מה עכשיו?En: Noa looked at Gal with a smile and asked, "What now?"He: " גל השיבה בביטחון, "נחכה שהגשם ירד לפני שנחזור למחנה.En: Gal replied confidently, "We'll wait for the rain to stop before we return to the camp."He: "כאשר הסופה שככה, השתיים יצאו בחזרה למחנה עם צעד בטוח.En: When the storm subsided, the two set off back to the camp with confident steps.He: גל הצליחה להוביל אותן בשלום ואפילו הרגישה שהרווח הגדול הוא הקירבה המחודשת לנועה.En: Gal successfully led them safely and even felt that the real gain was the renewed closeness with Noa.He: נועה הבינה שעליה לסמוך על גל לפעמים.En: Noa understood that she needed to trust Gal sometimes.He: כשחזרו, המשפחה הדליקה את הנרות בחנוכייה באוהל, וכולם שמחו למראה הבנות שחזרו הביתה.En: When they returned, the family lit the candles on the Hanukkiah in the tent, and everyone rejoiced to see the girls return home.He: גל הביטה בנועה, והשכנה לחשה לה, "את חזקה יותר ממה שחשבתי.En: Gal looked at Noa, and her cousin whispered to her, "You're stronger than I thought."He: " וגל פעם ראשונה הרגישה שהיא באמת מצאה מקום שייך לה ומסוגלת גם להוביל.En: And for the first time, Gal felt she truly found a place she belonged and was capable of leading.He: הפעם, גל עמדה זקופה ונרגשת.En: This time, Gal stood tall and excited.He: היא הובילה את ההדלקה של הנרות, עם חיוך בליבה.En: She led the candle lighting, with a smile in her heart.He: חנוכה הזה היה שונה ובלתי נשכח.En: This Hanukkah was different and unforgettable.He: גם החג וגם ההרפתקה ביער השאירו סימן בלב של גל.En: Both the holiday and the adventure in the forest left a mark on Gal's heart. Vocabulary Words:approaching: מתקרבwrap: להתעטףcrisp: פריךscent: ניחוחlit: נדלקovershadowed: נאלמת בצלadventurous: הרפתקניתpave: לפלסgathered: התקרבוthunder: רעםshelter: מחסהinstincts: אינסטינקטיםconfidently: בביטחוןsubside: שככהrenewed: מחודשתcapable: מסוגלתunforgettable: בלתי נשכחventure: הרפתקהcousin: בת הדודinsisted: התעקשהsignaled: סימנהconfidence: ביטחוןrejoiced: שמחוdetermined: נחושהshadow: צלdecisions: החלטותawait: לחכותentered: נכנסוflashlight: פנסcapable: מסוגלתBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/fluent-fiction-hebrew--5818690/support.

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét talk LGBTQ resistance, whether businesses should be allowed to deny service over personal beliefs, and if water can actually get stale. They ask whether conservatives still get in trouble for not being PC, and if Scary Movie holds up today. Monét reads fan reviews from one of Bob's cruise appearances, Bob confronts a Facebook critic, and they role play how they think the other interacts with fans. Monét breaks down her cruise adventures, Bob gets denied a foot massage, and they learn what truly makes a Cuban heel. Thanks to our sponsors: Go to https://HomeChef.com/RIVALRY for 50% off your first box and free dessert for life! Rula patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at https://www.rula.com/rivalry #rulapod #ad  Go to https://Chime.com/RIVALRY to work on your financial goals!  Set a Course for Change at https://WaldenU.edu today! Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét prepare for the end of the world, talking about gun safety, zombie survival plans, and bug-out bags. They test which dystopian movie scenarios they'd survive, play the Hunger Games district generator, and share thoughts on crisis management. Monét explains the pregnant challenge, Bob describes a very specific kink, and they take an etiquette test. Plus: IKEA frustration, NYC kids, and the problem with bad wig placement on set. Thanks to our sponsors: Go to https://HomeChef.com/RIVALRY for 50% off your first box and free dessert for life! Rula patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at https://www.rula.com/rivalry #rulapod #ad  Go to https://Chime.com/RIVALRY to work on your financial goals!  Set a Course for Change at https://WaldenU.edu today! Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét debate if Things Fall Apart belongs in middle school and compare literacy levels in NYC vs. Atlanta. Bob reviews Monét's protein chips, they question whether protein is showing up too many foods, and wonder if phones are really listening. They talk about raccoon talents, hotel carpet hygiene, and Bob's candy bar technique. Plus, Weapons spoilers, LA vs. NY dating, and what it means to be low-key or private. Thanks to our sponsors: If you've been waiting for the right moment, this is it. Head to WaldenU.edu and take that first step! Head to DRINKAG1.com/RIVALRY to get a FREE Welcome Kit with an AG1 Flavor Sampler and a bottle of Vitamin D3 plus K2, when you first subscribe! Go to HomeChef.com/RIVALRY for 50% off your first box and free dessert for life! Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Fluent Fiction - Italian: Harmony in Hues: A Sibling Tale of Thanksgiving Décor Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/it/episode/2025-11-12-23-34-02-it Story Transcript:It: Il sole di novembre splendeva debole attraverso le finestre del salotto della grande casa di famiglia.En: The November sun shone weakly through the windows of the living room in the large family house.It: Enzo e Bianca, fratello e sorella, erano impegnati in una missione importante: decorare la casa per il Giorno del Ringraziamento.En: Enzo and Bianca, brother and sister, were engaged in an important mission: decorating the house for Giorno del Ringraziamento.It: "Aspetta, Bianca!En: "Wait, Bianca!It: Quella piuma di tacchino è fuori posto," disse Enzo, lasciano uscire un leggero sospiro.En: That turkey feather is out of place," said Enzo, letting out a slight sigh.It: Era alto, con gli occhiali che brillavano mentre allineava le decorazioni.En: He was tall, with glasses that gleamed as he aligned the decorations.It: Amava la simmetria e l'eleganza nei più piccoli dettagli.En: He loved symmetry and elegance in the smallest details.It: "Ma Enzo, è bellissimo così!"En: "But Enzo, it looks beautiful as it is!"It: rispose Bianca con un sorriso.En: replied Bianca with a smile.It: Lei era esattamente l'opposto di Enzo, vivace e colorata come le sciarpe che indossava.En: She was his exact opposite, lively and colorful like the scarves she wore.It: Si trova la bellezza nel caos, e adorava appendere ghirlande colorate ovunque.En: She found beauty in chaos and loved hanging colorful garlands everywhere.It: Nella grande sala, le loro differenze erano ben evidenti.En: In the large room, their differences were evident.It: Enzo si piegava in modo meticoloso per sistemare i tovaglioli a forma di foglie perfette sul lungo tavolo da pranzo.En: Enzo bent meticulously to arrange the napkins into perfect leaf shapes on the long dining table.It: Dall'altra parte, Bianca lanciava fili di lucine multicolori sugli scaffali, ridendo di gioia.En: On the other side, Bianca tossed strings of multicolored lights onto the shelves, laughing with joy.It: La tensione cresceva lentamente, una battaglia di stile senza parole.En: The tension slowly grew, a wordless battle of styles.It: La notte cadeva, ma la sfida continuava.En: Night fell, but the challenge continued.It: Enzo aspettava che Bianca andasse a dormire per sistemare le decorazioni in modo perfettamente simmetrico.En: Enzo waited for Bianca to go to bed so he could perfectly align the decorations.It: Bianca, d'altro canto, si alzava presto per aggiungere un tocco selvaggio e nuovo.En: Bianca, on the other hand, got up early to add a wild and new touch.It: Una mattina, mentre l'alba colorava di rosa il cielo, le cose presero una piega comica.En: One morning, as the dawn painted the sky pink, things took a comical turn.It: I due si contendevano una lunga stringa di luci, tirando avanti e indietro.En: The two were tussling over a long string of lights, pulling back and forth.It: Improvvisamente, la porta d'ingresso si aprì e la zia Maria entrò, sorpresa.En: Suddenly, the front door opened, and Aunt Maria entered, surprised.It: "Oops!"En: "Oops!"It: esclamarono insieme Enzo e Bianca, rimanendo immobili mentre le luci si srotolavano tutt'attorno, creando una sfilza di lampadine intermittenti e sparpagliate.En: Enzo and Bianca exclaimed together, freezing as the lights unraveled all around, creating a string of flashing, scattered bulbs.It: La zia Maria scoppiò a ridere, e i due fratelli si guardarono, rendendosi conto di quanto fosse assurdo il loro comportamento.En: Aunt Maria burst into laughter, and the two siblings looked at each other, realizing how absurd their behavior was.It: Con un respiro profondo, Enzo e Bianca decisero di unire le forze.En: With a deep breath, Enzo and Bianca decided to join forces.It: Sistemarono insieme le decorazioni, mescolando eleganza e colore.En: They arranged the decorations together, mixing elegance with color.It: Le ghirlande erano ordinate ma adornate di foglie autunnali vivaci, le luci scintillavano sopra tavoli elegantemente apparecchiati con tovaglioli a forma di tacchino.En: The garlands were orderly but adorned with vibrant autumn leaves, and the lights twinkled above elegantly set tables with turkey-shaped napkins.It: Alla fine, il risultato fu sorprendente.En: In the end, the result was surprising.It: La grande casa era bella e accogliente, un perfetto rifugio autunnale.En: The large house was beautiful and welcoming, a perfect autumn retreat.It: La famiglia, radunata intorno al tavolo, ammirava il lavoro dei due.En: The family, gathered around the table, admired the work of the two.It: Enzo e Bianca si scambiarono un sorriso, capendo che assieme avevano creato qualcosa di veramente speciale.En: Enzo and Bianca exchanged a smile, understanding that together they had created something truly special.It: Impararono entrambi che la bellezza si trova non solo nell'ordine o nel caos, ma nell'equilibrio tra i due.En: They both learned that beauty is found not only in order or chaos but in the balance between the two.It: E così, quel Giorno del Ringraziamento, la famiglia fu riunita non solo da un pasto delizioso, ma anche dall'armonia creata dall'unione dei loro talenti.En: And so, on that Giorno del Ringraziamento, the family was united not only by a delicious meal but also by the harmony created from the union of their talents. Vocabulary Words:living room: il salottodecorating: decorarefeather: la piumasigh: il sospiroglasses: gli occhialisymmetry: la simmetriaelegance: l'eleganzaopposite: l'oppostoscarves: le sciarpegarlands: le ghirlandenapkins: i tovagliolishelves: gli scaffalitension: la tensionebattle: la battagliachallenge: la sfidadawn: l'albatussling: contenderestring: la stringabulbs: le lampadinelaughing: riderecomical: comicoharmony: l'armoniaretreat: il rifugiowelcoming: accoglientewild: selvaggiodifferences: le differenzeleaf shapes: forma di fogliescattered: sparpagliatetogether: insiemeautumn leaves: le foglie autunnali

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob is joined by Meatball to ask if she's an unofficial sibling and why she has beef with so many queens. They talk LA vs. NY party times, family dynamics, and Meatball's many hometowns. Bob pitches a podcast idea, compares singing skills, and shows off his Rihanna impression. Plus, pageant looks, cosmetic surgery, padding secrets, and clown pageants. Thanks to our sponsors: If you've been waiting for the right moment, this is it. Head to WaldenU.edu and take that first step! Head to DRINKAG1.com/RIVALRY to get a FREE Welcome Kit with an AG1 Flavor Sampler and a bottle of Vitamin D3 plus K2, when you first subscribe! Go to HomeChef.com/RIVALRY for 50% off your first box and free dessert for life! Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét trace the origins of phrases like The Great White Way and The Silver Screen and identify their personal “hear me out” moments. They test how good they are at identifying inches, debate whether saying “nevermind” mid-thought is annoying, and reveal if they have accents in their heads. Bob and Monét play a compromise game—deciding on a shared pet, a desert island playlist, and a party guest list. They talk cats vs. dogs, why reptiles are a bad idea, and the ground rules for sharing a car. Plus, does The Cheesecake Factory really have something for everyone? Stop putting off those doctors appointments and go to https://Zocdoc.com/RIVALRY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét debate the right room temperature, Invisalign etiquette at the table, and whether teeth are technically bones. Bob talks about almost getting scammed during a dental visit and recalls his vending machine investment, while Monét shares how she was duped over custom wigs, grills, and an Uber scam. They compare plant knowledge, discuss bulls and bullfighting, and test what they know about pH balance. Plus: doxy-PEP in the UK, people who call every ex a narcissist, and whether they've ever scammed anyone themselves. Stop putting off those doctors appointments and go to https://Zocdoc.com/RIVALRY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The Bible portrays sibling rivalry through stories such as Cain and Abel, Jacob and Esau, Joseph and his brothers, Isaac and Ishmael, and Leah and Rachel. These accounts reveal how jealousy, pride, and favoritism can breed conflict, deceit, and even violence within families. Rivalry is described in Scripture as a “work of the flesh” that causes chaos, dishonors God, and undermines unity among believers (Galatians 5:19–21; James 3:16).Yet, amid these cautionary tales, the Bible also offers hope. Through examples like the reconciliations of Jacob and Esau and Joseph with his brothers, it emphasizes repentance, forgiveness, and divine restoration. Ultimately, Scripture calls believers to reject rivalry and embrace love, humility, and harmony as “brothers and sisters in Christ.”Causes of Sibling RivalryCompetition for attention: Children may vie for parental love and approval, especially when one receives more care or praise.Developmental differences: Conflicts arise as siblings go through different stages with varying needs and goals.Personality clashes: Differences in temperament or closeness in age can intensify rivalry.Identity and comparison: Constant comparison fosters jealousy as siblings seek to define their worth and uniqueness.Parental favoritism and jealousy: As seen in stories like Cain and Abel or Jacob and Esau, favoritism and envy can lead to resentment, conflict, and sin.Remedies for Sibling RivalryRecognize God's purpose: Like Jacob and Joseph, conflicts can become opportunities for growth and divine reconciliation.Pursue harmony: Scripture teaches that peace among brothers and sisters honors God and strengthens families.Embrace spiritual family: The New Testament calls believers to see one another as “brothers and sisters in Christ,” practicing unity and grace.Honor diversity: Celebrate each child's unique gifts and teach that every person has value and purpose in God's design.Cultivate humility and love: Following Philippians 2:3, treat others as more important than yourself, replacing rivalry with kindness and compassion. Find us on Apple iTunes, Spotify, PandoraFacebook:  https://www.facebook.com/EnrichedPInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/enriched_perspectives/YouTube:   @Enriched_Perspectives

Fluent Fiction - Mandarin Chinese: Family Ties and Jade Heirlooms: A Chongyang Festival Tale Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/zh/episode/2025-11-02-23-34-02-zh Story Transcript:Zh: 在上海的科学博物馆里，秋天的阳光穿透玻璃窗，洒在展厅的地板上。En: In the ke xue bo wu guan in Shanghai, the autumn sunlight penetrated the glass windows, casting light on the exhibition hall's floor.Zh: 各式各样的展柜中展示着中外的古代科技发明，吸引着孩子和游客们的目光。En: Various display cases showcased ancient technological inventions from both China and abroad, capturing the attention of children and visitors.Zh: 今天是重阳节，门外的小摊上燃着蜡烛，En: Today is the Chongyang Festival, and candles are lit on the small stalls outside.Zh: 温暖的火光伴随着外面飘落的黄叶，让节日的气氛更加浓厚。En: The warm glow of the candles, along with the falling yellow leaves, adds to the festive atmosphere.Zh: 小明是大哥，认为家族传承非常重要。En: Xiaoming is the eldest brother and believes that family heritage is very important.Zh: 他一边感受着博物馆的氛围，一边思考着今天的计划。En: As he absorbed the museum's atmosphere, he contemplated today's plan.Zh: 他决定今天和妹妹美玲谈谈关于家传玉佩的事。En: He decided to talk to his sister, Meiling, about the heirloom jade pendant.Zh: 美玲是个富有创造力的女孩，渴望独立和认同。En: Meiling is a creative girl, yearning for independence and recognition.Zh: 玉佩是祖父母留下的家族遗物，小明希望把它交给能真正珍惜家族传统的人。En: The jade pendant was a family heirloom left by their grandparents, and Xiaoming hoped to give it to someone who truly cherishes family traditions.Zh: 就在他们走到古代发明展览区时，小明趁机说起家族传承的事。En: As they reached the ancient inventions exhibition area, Xiaoming took the opportunity to bring up the family heritage issue.Zh: “美玲，我觉得我们得谈谈玉佩的继承问题了。”他语气坚定。En: "Meiling, I think we need to talk about the inheritance of the jade pendant," he said firmly.Zh: 美玲皱眉，她不想让哥哥支配一切，她也认为自己有权继承它。En: Meiling frowned; she didn't want her brother to control everything and believed she had the right to inherit it too.Zh: 争吵在此时开始升温，他们的声音在宽敞的展厅中回荡，引起了周围人的侧目。En: The argument began to heat up at this point, and their voices echoed through the spacious exhibition hall, drawing the attention of those around them.Zh: 这时，最小的弟弟小伟走上前来，En: At this moment, their youngest brother, Xiaowei, stepped forward.Zh: 他一直在旁观着哥哥姐姐的对峙。En: He had been observing the standoff between his older siblings.Zh: 他是家里的调和者，总能找到平衡的办法。En: As the family's peacemaker, he always found a way to balance things out.Zh: 他对小明和美玲说：“我们都是家的一部分，为什么不能共享这个玉佩？”En: He said to Xiaoming and Meiling, "We are all part of the family. Why can't we share the jade pendant?"Zh: 小伟继续解释：“我们可以轮流保管玉佩，同时每个人都负责组织一次家族聚会，En: Xiaowei continued to explain, "We can take turns keeping the pendant, and everyone can be responsible for organizing a family gathering.Zh: 这样不仅尊重了传统，也尊重了每个人的想法。”En: This way, we respect tradition and everyone's ideas."Zh: 哥哥姐姐听罢，愣了片刻，随后都点头同意。En: His older siblings paused for a moment, and then both nodded in agreement.Zh: 小明意识到，聆听和理解是保持家庭和睦的关键。En: Xiaoming realized that listening and understanding are key to maintaining family harmony.Zh: 美玲也欣然接受，她知道这样能让每个人都更亲近彼此。En: Meiling also gladly accepted, knowing that this way, everyone would feel closer to each other.Zh: 这次争执终于落下帷幕，兄弟姐妹们脸上都露出了释怀的微笑。En: The dispute finally came to an end, and the siblings had relieved smiles on their faces.Zh: 在这座充满历史和未来的博物馆深处，他们达成了共识。En: In the depths of this museum, full of history and the future, they reached a consensus.Zh: 走出博物馆时，黄叶在脚下轻轻作响，空气中弥漫着重阳节的温暖气息，家庭的纽带更加坚固。En: As they walked out of the museum, the yellow leaves crunched lightly underfoot, and the warmth of Chongyang Festival filled the air, solidifying the family bonds.Zh: 故事的结尾，每个人都明白，无论发生什么，他们永远都是一家人，共同分享快乐和责任。En: By the story's end, everyone understood that no matter what happens, they would always be family, sharing happiness and responsibilities together. Vocabulary Words:penetrated: 穿透casting: 洒showcased: 展示exhibition: 展览heirloom: 家传pendant: 玉佩yearning: 渴望contemplate: 思考heritage: 传承firmly: 坚定frowned: 皱眉standoff: 对峙peacemaker: 调和者consensus: 共识crunched: 作响inheritance: 继承responsible: 负责relieved: 释怀harmony: 和睦recognition: 认同traditions: 传统spacious: 宽敞siblings: 兄弟姐妹reside: 居住captured: 吸引bond: 纽带gathering: 聚会absorbed: 感受atmosphere: 氛围cherishes: 珍惜

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét are in drag to celebrate Halloween. Bob shares his morning routine, debates early morning vs. late-night workouts, and calls out the worst thing a venue can do to a drag queen. They revisit past prosthetic looks, discuss what kind of characters Trixie and Katya would play on Dungeons and Drag Queens, and ask if Halloween parties are automatically costume parties. Monét reveals a nickname she has for Andy, Bob theorizes about Jinkx's Broadway success, and they predict the Halloween costume of the year.  Thanks to our sponsors: Go to  ⁠⁠https://zbiotics.com/RIVALRY⁠⁠ and use RIVALRY at checkout for 15% off any first time orders of ZBiotics probiotics! Go to ⁠HomeChef.com/RIVALRY⁠ for 50% off your first box and free dessert for life! Use code RIVALRY at ⁠jonesroadbeauty.com⁠ to get a Free Cool Gloss with your first purchase! #JonesRoadBeauty #ad Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The holidays can feel like a ticking time bomb in blended families — forced togetherness, high expectations, and the pressure to make everything magical can lead to major tension between stepkids and bio kids.In this episode, Alicia Krasko tackles the emotional chaos of holiday dynamics: sibling rivalry, stepkid drama, and what to do when your partner doesn't step up. She shares practical tools, mindset shifts, and boundary-setting strategies to help you protect your peace — especially when the oldest child is acting like a second parent.You'll learn how to:Navigate step vs. bio kid tension during the holidaysTalk to your partner when they won't take the leadRecognize and relieve the “parentified” oldest childSet boundaries that keep the chaos in checkAdopt a mindset of progress, not perfectionWhether you're hosting the big dinner or just trying to survive another blended holiday, this episode gives you real-world support and permission to prioritize your peace.Support the showWant a specific topic covered? Let me know here.After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think!Get all the FREE RESOURCES here.Want to learn more about The Stepmom Side community? Here's where you get all the info. Looking forward to connecting with you on the inside.All things Alicia visit www.aliciakrasko.comGet on the list, get behind the scene info on Stepmom life, and tips delivered to your inbox.

Hi Parents! Sibling rivalry. Friend drama. Conflict that seems to pop up out of nowhere. For parents of teens, it can feel exhausting and confusing to know how much to intervene or when to step back. In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Rosina McAlpine, parenting expert, author, and CEO of Win Win Parenting, to explore why sibling and peer rivalry happens, and how we can guide our teens through it without adding fuel to the fire. Dr. Rosina shares insights from research that reveal the three main ways kids resolve conflict - coercion, negotiation, and disengagement - and explains why teens often use very different approaches with siblings compared to friends. We also dive into the fascinating role of birth order, what to watch out for when rivalry crosses into bullying, and the values-based strategies parents can use to help their teens build healthier, stronger relationships. More About Dr. Rosina: Dr. Rosina McAlpine is an internationally recognized parenting expert, author, and CEO of Win Win Parenting. Through her workplace parenting education programs, she helps busy working parents balance career and family life while navigating everyday parenting challenges such as screen time, emotional regulation, and sibling conflict. Dr. Rosina's practical, evidence-based approach has been featured widely in the media, and her programs support parents, carers, and educators across Australia and beyond. If you've ever worried about constant bickering at home or felt unsure how to help your teen manage peer tension, this episode offers both practical tools and a sense of relief that you're not alone in facing these challenges. Big hugs, Monica Crnogorac Next Steps Book a Free Discovery Call Visit My Website for More Information on My 8-Week Program Connect With Me on Instagram

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Monét enjoys her protein juice while Bob tests her limits with a $40 million scenario: how long would they serve prison time for money, and what's the difference between jail and prison anyway? Bob reveals a glitch in the matrix and wonders whether multiple murders in one house over a decade can really be unrelated. They question if it's finally time to launch the Sibling Rivalry OnlyFans and reflect on fear of death and how long they'll keep doing drag and stand-up. Plus, The View and the next “Anything You Can Do” challenge in the works. Thanks to our sponsors: Go to  ⁠https://zbiotics.com/RIVALRY⁠ and use RIVALRY at checkout for 15% off any first time orders of ZBiotics probiotics! Go to HomeChef.com/RIVALRY for 50% off your first box and free dessert for life! Use code RIVALRY at jonesroadbeauty.com to get a Free Cool Gloss with your first purchase! #JonesRoadBeauty #ad Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét welcome Kim Chi to look back on the time since their season, the gigs they've done together, and driving adventures with Kim and Naomi. They talk about LA vs. NYC drivers, airport pickups, and which city is best for up-and-coming artists. Kim shares the story behind Kim Chi Eats the World, how a tweet about libraries sparked the idea, and who inspired the villain in her book Donutella Hamachi and the Library Avengers. They test their origami skills and debate whether Chicago beaches count as real beaches. Plus: TikTok rice wars, Kim's umami secret, Monét's special ranch recipe, what they would choose as their last meal, and who makes the best wings. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at ⁠https://www.rula.com/rivalry⁠ #rulapod Open an account in 2 minutes at ⁠https://Chime.com/RIVALRY⁠. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét go through the Rolling Stone Top 10 Songs of the 21st Century and debate whether the list is accurate or just rage bait. They ask when a song officially becomes an oldie, discuss Pulitzer-winning rappers, Beyoncé's essential tracks, and which Taylor Swift era Bob followed. Bob talks about his voice lessons while they get mixed up between The White Stripes and Whitesnake before naming their top five songs (for now). Plus, Bob reveals his all-time favorite diva, they discuss artists' secret albums, the makeup-in-bed dilemma, and which country is doing too much with kiss greetings. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at https://www.rula.com/rivalry #rulapod Open an account in 2 minutes at https://Chime.com/RIVALRY. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Are you quick to pull the trigger on those around you? Especially people close to you? Sherri Kreps looks at a case of sibling rivalry to see what makes us prone to jealousy and criticism. Discover how a change in focus changes your outlook!As a thank you for your support this month, please choose from two excellent books—each designed to encourage and equip you as you grow in Christ:Mostly Scripture QD:  500 Scripture-based questions with quick, practical reflections to help tackle life's toughest challenges.Life after Death:  Explores what happens when we die and how that shapes the way we live today.Yours with a gift of any amount.Thank you for supporting the mission of Christ.

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob is ready to fight everyone. They discuss the origins of the Romance languages and the difference between Nordic and Scandinavian countries before diving into family prayers, gratitude lists, and a crafty nun story. They discuss the dance stamina of Britney Spears, Gaga, and Beyoncé, then test each other's memory on tattoos, quiz one another on culinary terms, debate whether eggs count as dairy, and determine the ideal consistency for dunking an Oreo. Stop putting off those doctors appointments and go to https://Zocdoc.com/RIVALRY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Womanhood Wellness is where functional medicine meets feminine wisdom—guiding you to balance hormones, awaken libido, and prepare for pregnancy with intention. Join todayWhat if chasing health and beauty ends up making us sick, anxious, and disconnected?This episode is all about choosing joy instead of fear and questioning the pressure to do everything “right,” from Botox to seed oils. That lens applies to everything, hair dye, kids' snacks, and even the bread at an Italian restaurant. We need to ask what actually serves our bodies and our stress levels.The internet is a great resource, but it has created immense confusion around wellness because for every idea you can easily find an opposition with just as much conviction. We explore that same middle ground in fertility, where IVF might make sense for some while natural approaches fit others. Of course, we always bring it home to motherhood and discuss screens, childcare, and the everyday mess of trying to balance it all without losing ourselves in the extremes.You'll Learn:[00:00] Introduction[06:09] Where the line blurs between natural beauty choices and Botox[09:08] The hidden costs of breast implants and why “safe” options aren't risk-free[10:18] How losing facial expression with Botox may impact kids and human connection[22:33] Why obsessing over toxins or food rules can harm more than help[26:11] The mindset shift that transforms health choices from fear to joy[32:56] Navigating the nuanced spectrum between fertility treatments and natural approaches[38:57] How to balance being present with your kids while still holding boundaries[41:25] The real struggles of working motherhood and why guilt shows up on both sides[51:06] Why extremes create suffering and why most wisdom lives in the middleResources Mentioned:Healthy as a Mother podcast episode on How to Handle Sibling Fights with Ralphie Jacobs | Apple or Spotify or YouTubeFind more from Dr. Leah:Dr. Leah Gordon | InstagramDr. Leah Gordon | WebsiteWomanhood Wellness | WebsiteFind more from Dr. Morgan:Dr. Morgan MacDermott | InstagramDr. Morgan MacDermott | WebsiteUse code HEALTHYMOTHER and save 15% at RedmondFor 20% off your first order at Needed, use code HEALTHYMOTHERSave $260 at Lumebox, use code HEALTHYASAMOTHER

This week on Sibling Rivalry they kick off a new season with big news—Monét is engaged and Bob is making his Broadway debut! Monét shares why she's been hesitant to talk about the proposal, practices asking RuPaul to officiate her wedding and they start building the guest list. They discuss Beyoncé's possible next album genre, Shania Twain's early songs, and the legacy of Black musicals on Broadway. Plus, destination weddings, living abroad, and whether hope is fading in the U.S. Bob also shares what he learned about orphan oil wells from Ayesha Rascoe on KCRW, while Monét tries to make it through the episode without stuttering. Stop putting off those doctors appointments and go to https://Zocdoc.com/RIVALRY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét catch up on morning routines, city life, and the best ways to start your day. Bob gives another update on his Russian neighbors and his building, while Monét shares how she gets around in NYC. They compare biking and walking habits from the pandemic, debate which city has the most bridges—Portland, Pittsburgh, or New York. Monét gives advice for dealing with difficult coworkers, they discuss meditation, food prep, and whether Bob could handle Keto. Plus, morning playlists, bed-rotting days off, and Monét suggests another Anything You Can Do challenge. Home Chef is offering my listeners 50% off and free shipping for your first box PLUS free dessert for life! Go to ⁠https://HomeChef.com/RIVALRY⁠. Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét wife-swap with No Gorge for a crossover episode — No Rivalry with Gottmik. Bob asks what it's really like working with Violet Chachki and how Mik handles fan backlash for critiquing Drag Race queens. They break down the wildest Gottmik rumors, talk new music, and The Knockout Tour with Violet. Bob recalls bringing queens on stage during the Madonna tour, tests his color blindness, and apologizes for the music video they did together. Plus, they compare fashion hits and misses, Madonna's confusion over Mik's makeup, and ask which queen is the biggest Gaga fan. Home Chef is offering my listeners 50% off and free shipping for your first box PLUS free dessert for life! Go to https://HomeChef.com/RIVALRY. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You can listen wherever you get your podcasts, OR— BRAND NEW: we've included a fully edited transcript of our interview at the bottom of this post.In this episode of The Peaceful Parenting Podcast, we have a coaching call with Laurel and Derrick. This call is such a good one because we cover ALL the big ideas behind the peaceful parenting approach, while applying them to real life scenarios in a home with three kids. Topics include sibling rivalry, nurturing our kids, self regulation, how to handle kids asking lots of questions and always wanting more, what parenting without punishment looks like, and more!**If you'd like an ad-free version of the podcast, consider becoming a supporter on Substack! > > If you already ARE a supporter, the ad-free version is waiting for you in the Substack app or you can enter the private feed URL in the podcast player of your choice.Know someone who might appreciate this post? Share it with them!We talk about:* 7:00 What it looks like when our children truly respect us* 9:00 7-year-old refusing to get dressed* 12:10 Why it is okay baby and nurture our kids* 14:00 Tuning into our own self regulation* 18:00 Mindset shifts to give our kids the benefit of the doubt* 19:30 How to handle sibling rivalry* 24:00 Don't try to make it a teachable moment* 38:00 When kids ask questions over and over* 41:00 Why kids always want more!* 45:00 Helping kids see how their actions affect other people* 55:00 Why kids lie and what to do* 57:00 Natural consequences, boundaries, and limits* 1:02 Peaceful Parenting MantrasResources mentioned in this episode:* Yoto Player-Screen Free Audio Book Player* The Peaceful Parenting Membership* Free Stop Sibling Fights E book* Free How To Stop Yelling at Your Kids e-coursexx Sarah and CoreyYour peaceful parenting team- click here for a free short consult or a coaching sessionVisit our website for free resources, podcast, coaching, membership and more!>> Please support us!!! 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No one listening or watching and they can't go where you don't want them to go and they aren't watching screens. BUT they are being entertained or kept company with audio that you can buy from YOTO or create yourself on one of their blank cards. Check them out HERETranscript:Derrick: Hi, good morning.Sarah: Hi Derek. Nice to meet you. Hi Laurel. Hi. Are you a firefighter, Derek? I'm—yeah, I'm actually—I see you've got your sweatshirt.Derrick: Yeah. Just a heads up, I may have to jump off if we get a call.Sarah: Okay. Well, so nice to meet you guys. So you've got three—boy, girl, girl. And what would you like to talk about today?Laurel: I think I just love your whole—I've sent Derek a couple things—but I just love your whole premise of peacefulness and remaining calm when it's easy to get angry. Mm-hmm. And just some tools for doing that. I guess like some basic things, because we would both like to say where, you know, we have like, you know, the streaks where we're all calm, calm, calm, and then just—and then her, yeah, limit. Yeah.And so yeah, just tools for when that happens. We have very typical age-appropriate kind of response kids, mm-hmm, that need to be told 80 times something. And so it's frustrating. And then how to help them kind of see—without bribing, without threatening discipline, without all of that. Yeah. Like how to have a better dialogue with our kids of teaching respect and teaching kind of “we do this, you do this.”Sarah: Yeah. Yeah. So, I mean, maybe. Okay. So there's always gonna be situations where it's hard to stay calm, you know? Just being a parent—like of course your kids are gonna push your buttons sometimes. But rather than—so, we do always start with self-regulation.And what I mean by self-regulation isn't that you never get upset. It's that when you do get upset, you know how to calm yourself and take a minute, take a breath—whatever you need to do—so that you don't yell. Because yelling hurts our relationship with our kids. You mentioned respect. I think there's an old idea of respect that used to mean that kids were afraid of their parents, right?But real respect is that you care what another person thinks. Like, that's real respect. I don't want to do this because I don't want my dad or my mom to be unhappy with me—not that I'm afraid of what's gonna happen if I do it, but I care what they think and they care what I think. And that's how I define respect. True respect doesn't mean that you're afraid of somebody; it means that you care what they think, right?So when we yell, we chip away at that. Like yeah, we could get them to do what we want through yelling or threatening things or taking things away, but we're chipping away at our relationship with them. And that's really the only true influence.And as your kids are getting older, you're gonna see that you can control them when they're little, right? Because you can pick them up and move them from one place to another or whatever. But there's a famous quote by a psychologist that says, “The problem with using control when kids are young is that you never learn how to influence them, which is what you need as they get older.” Right? You need to be able to influence them, to get them to do what you would like them to do. And it's all about the relationship. That's really what I see as the most important thing.So back to what I was saying about yelling—yes, that's really important to be working on—but there's also: how do I be more effective so the kids will listen to me and I don't have to ask 80 times? How do I get their attention in an effective way? How do I get them to cooperate the first time or at least the second time?So it's a combination of learning how to calm yourself and stay calm when things are hard, and also being more effective as a parent—not asking 25 times, because that just trains them to ignore you. Like, “Oh, I don't have to do it until they yell,” or “I don't have to do it until they've asked me 25 times.”If there's something really unpleasant you had to do at work that you didn't want to do, you might also ignore your boss the first 24 times they asked you until you knew they were really serious, right? Mm-hmm. I mean, you wouldn't, but you know what I mean. If they can keep playing a little bit longer, they will keep playing a little bit longer.So I think what would be helpful is if you gave me some situations that have happened that you find challenging, and then we can do a little bit of a deeper dive into what you could have done instead, or what you could do next time if a similar thing comes up.Laurel: Yeah. I mean, for my daughter, for example, the middle one—she's so sweet, she's such a feeler—but then when she gets to the point where she's tired, hungry, it's all the things. She often doesn't wanna pick out her clothes. Something super simple like that.But when I'm making lunches and the other kids are getting ready and all the things, I just have to have her—I'm like, “You're seven, you can pick out clothes.” I give her some options, and then she'll just lay on the floor and start screaming, “You don't care! Why don't you pick out my clothes?”And then instead of me taking the time that I know I need to, I just tell her, “You have one minute or else this—so you lose this.” I just start kind of like, “This is yesterday.” You know, so she doesn't wanna get dressed, doesn't wanna get her shoes on. “You get my socks, you get all the big—” And then I end up picking her up, standing her up, “You need to get dressed.” And then both of us are frustrated.Sarah: Yeah. No, that's a great example.So first of all, whenever there's difficult behavior in our child, we try to look below the surface to see what's causing it. The symptom you see on the outside is a kid lying on the floor refusing to do something she's perfectly capable of doing herself. That's the iceberg part above the water. But what's underneath that?To me, I'm seeing a 7-year-old who has a 3-year-old sibling who probably does get help getting dressed, a capable older brother, and it's hard to give enough attention to three kids. What I see this as is a bid for attention and connection from you.I don't know if you listen to my podcast, but I did an episode about when kids ask you to do things for them that they can do themselves. Seven is a perfect age because you're like, “Oh my God, you're so capable of getting dressed yourself—what do you mean you want me to put your shoes on you?” But if you can shift your mind to think, Ah, she's asking me to do something she can do—she needs my connection and nurturing.So what if you thought, “Okay, I just spent all this energy yelling at her, trying to get her to do it. What if I just gave her the gift of picking her clothes out for her and getting her dressed?” It would probably be quicker, start your day on a happier note, and you would have met that need for connection.And yes, it's asking more of you in the moment, because you're trying to make lunches. But this is a beautiful example because you'll probably see it in other areas too—what's underneath this difficult behavior? Kids really are doing the best they can. That's one of our foundational paradigm shifts in peaceful parenting. Even when they're being difficult, they're doing the best they can with the resources they have in that moment.So when someone's being difficult, you can train yourself to think: Okay, if they're doing the best they can, what's going on underneath that's causing this behavior?I just want to say one more thing, because later on you might think, “Wait—Sarah's telling me to dress my 7-year-old. What about independence?” Just to put your fears aside: kids have such a strong natural drive for independence that you can baby them a little bit and it won't wreck them. Everybody needs a little babying sometimes—even you guys probably sometimes. Sometimes you just want Laurel to make you a coffee and bring it to you in bed. You can get your own coffee, but it's nice to be babied and nurtured.So we can do that safely. And I tell you, I have a 14-year-old, 17-year-old, and 20-year-old—very babied—and they're all super independent and competent kids. My husband used to say, “You're coddling them.” I'd say, “I'm nurturing them.”Laurel: Oh, I like that.Sarah: Okay. So I just wanted to say that in case the thought comes up later. Independence is important, but we don't have to push for it.Derrick: Yeah. No, I think that's super helpful. And I love—one of my good buddies just came out with a book called The Thing Beneath the Thing.Sarah: Oh, I love that.Derrick: It's such a good reminder. I think sometimes, like you addressed, Laurel is often a single mom and there is the reality of—she's gotta make lunch, she's gotta do laundry, she's gotta whatever. And sometimes there's just the logistical impossibility of, “I can't do that and this and get out the door in time and get you to camp on time, and here comes the carpool.”And so sometimes it just feels like there needs to be better planning. Like, “You just gotta wake up earlier, you gotta make lunch before you go to bed, or whatever,” to have the space to respond to the moment. Because the reality is, you never know when it's coming.Like, totally independent, and she wants to pick out her own clothes in one example—but then all these things creep up.Another way to describe what Laurel and I were talking about in terms of triggers is: I feel like we both really take a long time to light our fuse. But once it's lit, it's a very short fuse.Sarah: Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.Derrick: So it's like for me especially, I'm cool as a cucumber and then all of a sudden the wick is lit and I'll explode.Sarah: Yeah. I think that's really good to be aware of. The thing is, if you go forward from today and start looking—you're calm, calm, calm, calm, calm—sometimes what's actually happening is what my mentor calls gathering kindling.We don't realize it, but we're gathering kindling along the way—resentment, eye-roll frustration. If you can start tuning in a little bit, you'll see that yeah, you're not yelling, but maybe you're getting more frustrated as it goes on. That's when you can intervene with yourself, like, “Okay, I need to take a five-minute break,” or, “We need to shift gears or tap each other out.”Because it feels like it comes out of nowhere, but it rarely does. We're just not aware of the building process of gathering kindling along the way.Derrick: Yeah. No, that's helpful. I have two examples that maybe you can help us with. You can pick one that you think is more important.Sarah: Sure. And I just want to comment on one more thing you said before you go on—sorry to interrupt you. If it's annoying to have to dress a 7-year-old in the middle of your morning routine, you can also make a mental note: Okay, what's under the thing? What's under the difficult behavior is this need for more connection and nurturing. So how can I fill that at a time that's more convenient for me?Maybe 7:30 in the morning while I'm trying to get everyone out the door is not a convenient time. But how can I find another time in the day, especially for my middle child? I've got three kids too, and I know the middle child can be a bit of a stirring-the-pot kid, at least mine was when he was little, trying to get his needs met. So how can I make sure I'm giving her that time she's asking for, but in more appropriate times?Derrick: Yeah, no, that's helpful. I think part of my challenge is just understanding what is age-appropriate. For example, our almost 10-year-old literally cannot remember to flush the toilet.Sarah: Mm-hmm.Derrick: And it's like, “Bro, flush the toilet.” It's been this ongoing thing. That's just one example. There are many things where you're going, “You're 10 years old, dude, you should know how to flush the toilet.” And then all the fears come in—“Is he ADD?”—and we start throwing things out there we don't even know.But it seems so simple: poop in the toilet, you flush it when you're done. Why is that? And that'll light a wick pretty quick, the third or fourth time you go in and the toilet's not flushed.Sarah: Yeah.Derrick: And then you talk about it very peacefully, and he'll throw something back at you.Sarah: So do you have him go back and flush the toilet?Derrick: We do.Sarah: Okay, good. Because if you make it a tiny bit unpleasant that he forgot—like he has to stop what he's doing and go back and flush it—that might help him in a kind and firm way. Like, “Oh, looks like you forgot. Pause your video game. Please go back and flush the toilet.”Also, maybe put up some signs or something. By the sink, by the toilet paper. There are just some things that, if they're not important to kids, it's very hard for them to remember. Or if it's not…I can't tell you how many times I've told my boys, “Don't put wet things in the hamper.” They're 17 and 20 and it drives me insane. Like how hard is it to not throw a wet washcloth in the hamper? They don't care if it smells like mildew.Derrick: Yeah.Sarah: It's very frustrating. But they're not doing it on purpose.Derrick: That's the narrative we write though, right? Like, you're just defiant, you're trying—because we've talked about this a million times. This is my desire.Sarah: And you feel disrespecedt.Derrick: Right.Sarah: That is so insightful of you, Derek, to realize that. To realize that's a trigger for you because it feels like he's doing it on purpose to disrespect you. But having that awareness and a mindset shift—he's not trying to give me a hard time. He's just absent-minded, he's 10, and he doesn't care if the poop sits in the toilet. He's just not thinking about it.Derrick: Yeah.I think the other example, which I'm sure is super common, is just: how do you manage them pushing each other's buttons? They can do it so quickly. And then it's literally musical chairs of explosive reactions. It happens everywhere. You're driving in the car, button pushed, explosion. The 3-year-old's melting, and Kira knows exactly what she's doing. Then Blake, then Kira. They just know. They get so much joy out of watching their sibling melt and scream. Meanwhile, you're in the front seat trying to drive and it's chaos.For me, that's when I'll blow my top. I'll get louder than their meltdown. And my narrative is: they're not even really upset, they're just turning it on to get whatever they want.Sarah: Classic sibling rivalry. Classic. Like, “How can I get Mom or Dad to show that they love me more than the other kid? Whose side are they gonna intervene on?” That's so classic.Kira came along and pushed Blake out of his preferred position as the baby and the apple of your eye. He had to learn to share you. Is it mostly Kira and Aubrey, or does everything roll downhill with all three?Derrick: It just triangulates and crosses over. They know each other's buttons. And you're right—it's always, “You always take her side. You never—”Sarah: Yes. And whenever you hear the words “always” and “never,” you know someone's triggered. They're not thinking clearly because they're upset and dysregulated.Sibling rivalry, or resentment, whatever you want to call it, is always about: “Who do they love more? Will my needs get met? Do they love me as much as my brother or sister?” That fear is what drives the button-pushing.It doesn't make sense that you'd pick a fight hoping your parent will choose you as the one who's right. But still, it's this drive to create conflict in hopes that you'll be the chosen one.So I could go over my sibling best practices with you guys if you want. That's really helpful for rivalry.Derrick: Yeah.Sarah: Okay. Do you currently have any rules about property or sharing in your house?Laurel: Not officially. I mean—Derrick: We typically will say stuff like, “That's Kira's. If she doesn't want to share it with you, give it back.” But the problem is we have so much community property.Sarah: Okay. That's what I call it: community property. Yeah. So you're doing exactly the right thing with things that belong to one person. They never have to share it if they don't want to, and other people have to ask before they touch it. Perfect.And in terms of community property, I'd suggest you have a rule: somebody gets to use something until they're done. Period. Long turns.I didn't know this when my kids were little, and I had ridiculous song-and-dance with timers—“Okay, you can have it for 10 minutes and then you can have it for 10 minutes.” But that actually increases anxiety. You want to relax into your play, not feel like, “Oh, I've only got this for 10 minutes.”So if it belongs to everyone, the person using it gets to use it as long as they want. And you empathize with the other person: “Oh, I know your brother's been playing with that pogo stick for an hour. It's so hard to wait, isn't it? When it's your turn, you'll have it as long as you want.”So if you have good sharing rules and community property rules right off the bat, you take away a lot of opportunities for resentment to build upDerrick: My biggest question is just how do you intervene when those rules are violated?Sarah: You just calmly say something like, “Oh, I know you really, really wanna play with the pogo stick. You cannot push your brother off of it just because you want a turn.” I'm just making things up here, but the idea is: you can't push your brother off just because you want something. Then you go back to the family rules. You could even make a sign—I actually have one I can send you to print out—that says, “In our family, we get to use it as long as we want.”And then you empathize with the aggressor about how hard it is to wait. Keep going back to the rules and offering lots of empathy. If someone's being difficult, recognize that they're having a hard time.Laurel, when Derrick said, “You always…” or “You never…,” anytime you hear words like that, you know somebody's hijacked by big feelings. That's not the time to make it a teachable moment. Just empathize with the hard time they're having. Nobody ever wants to calm down until they feel empathized with, acknowledged, and heard. You can always talk about it later if something needs to be discussed, but in the moment of heightened tension, just acknowledge feelings: “Oh my goodness, you were doing this thing and then your brother came and took it. This is so hard.”I also have a little ebook with these best practices laid out—I'll send it to you.The third best practice is: always be the moderator, not the negotiator. If there's a fight between the kids, your goal is to help them talk to each other. Don't try to solve it or say who's right or wrong. Even if you're right and careful not to favor one child, your solution will always fuel sibling rivalry. The child who wasn't chosen feels slighted, and the one who was chosen might think, “Dad loves me best.”So my phrase is: “Be Switzerland.” Stay neutral, intervene in a neutral way, and help them talk to each other. Give each child a chance to speak. Do you want to give me an example we can walk through?Derrick: A lot of times it's not even about taking, it's about disrupting. Aubrey has this baby doll she's obsessed with. She carries it everywhere—it looks really real, kind of creepy. Blake will walk by, pull the pacifier out of its mouth, and throw it across the room. Instant meltdown. His thing is, he knows the rules and how to toe the line. He'll say, “I didn't take the baby, I just disrupted it.”Sarah: Right, right.Derrick: And then, “Deal with it.”Sarah: Yeah, okay. So that's not exactly a “be Switzerland” moment, because it's not a two-way fight. He's just provoking his sister to get a rise out of her. That's classic sibling rivalry. It also sounds like he worries you don't love him as much as his sisters. Does he ever say that out loud?Laurel: He has sometimes. His other big thing is he doesn't have a brother, but they have each other. He constantly brings that up.Sarah: That's what I call a chip on his shoulder. When he provokes her like that, it's because he has feelings inside that make him act out. He's not a bad kid; he's having a hard time. Picking fights is often an attempt to get rid of difficult feelings. If we have a bad day and don't process it, we might come home cranky or pick a fight—it's not about the other person, it's about us.So I'd suggest having some heart-to-hearts with Blake, maybe at bedtime. Give him space to process. Say, “It must be really hard to have two little sisters and be the only boy. I bet you wish you had a brother.” Or, “I wonder if it's hard to share me and mom with your sisters. I wonder if it's hard being the oldest.” Share your own stories: “I remember when I was growing up, it was hard to be the big sister.” Or Derrick, you could share what it was like for your older sibling.The same goes for Kira: “It must be hard being in the middle—your big brother gets to do things you can't, and your little sister gets babied more.” The point is to let them express their feelings so they don't have to act them out by provoking.That provocative behavior is just difficult feelings looking for a way out. Your role is to open the door for those feelings. Say things like, “I know this must be hard. I hear you. You can always talk to me about your feelings. All your feelings are okay with me.” And you have to mean it—even if they say things like, “I wish they didn't exist,” or, “I wish you never had that baby.” That's totally normal. Don't be afraid of it. Resist the urge to offer silver linings like, “But sometimes you play so well together.” It's not time for optimism—it's time for listening and acknowledging.You can also say, “I'm sorry if I ever did anything that made you feel like I didn't love you as much as your sisters. I couldn't love anyone more than I love you.” You can say that to each child without lying, because it's true. That reassurance goes to the root of sibling rivalry.Derrick: That's really helpful. I'd love your insight on some of the things we're already doing. Lately, I've realized I spend more time in the girls' room at bedtime. Blake has his own room. He's more self-sufficient—he can read and put himself to sleep. For the past year, I've been reading in the girls' room instead, since they need more wrangling. So I've tried to switch that and spend more time in Blake's room reading with him. We've also started doing “mom dates” or “dad dates” with each kid.Sarah: That's perfect! My final best practice is one-on-one time. You're on the right track. It doesn't have to be a “date.” Special Time is 15 minutes a day with each child, right at home. You don't need to go to the aquarium or spend money. Just say, “I'm all yours for the next 15 minutes—what do you want to play?” Try to keep it play-centered and without screens.Laurel: Sometimes when we call it a “mommy date,” it turns into something big. That makes it hard to do consistently.Sarah: Exactly. You can still do those, but Special Time is smaller and daily. Fifteen minutes is manageable. With little ones, you might need to get creative—for example, one parent watches two kids while the other has Special Time with the third. You could even “hire” Blake to watch Aubrey for a few minutes so you can have time with Kira.Laurel: That makes sense. I did think of an example, though. What frustrates me most isn't sharing, but when they're unkind to each other. I harp on them about family sticking together and being kind. For example, last week at surf camp, both kids had zinc on their faces—Blake was orange, Kira was purple. She was so excited and bubbly that morning, which is unusual for her. In front of neighbor friends, Blake made fun of her purple face. It devastated her. I laid into him, telling him he's her protector and needs to be kind. I don't want to be too hard on him, but I also want him to understand.Sarah: Based on everything we've talked about, you can see how coming down hard on him might make him feel bad about himself and worry that you don't love him—fueling even more resentment. At the same time, of course we don't want siblings hurting each other's feelings. This is where empathic limits come in.You set the limit—“It's not okay to tease your sister because it hurts her feelings”—but you lead with his perspective. You might say, “Hey, I know people with color on their faces can look funny, and maybe you thought it was just a joke. At the same time, that really made your sister feel bad.” That way, you correct him without making him feel like a bad kid.Do you think he was trying to be funny, or was he trying to hurt her?Laurel: I think he was. He'll also reveal secrets or crushes in front of friends—he knows it's ammo.Sarah: Right. In that situation, I'd first empathize with Kira: “I'm so sorry your brother said that—it never feels good to be laughed at.” Then privately with Blake: “What's going on with you that you wanted to make your sister feel bad?” Come at it with curiosity, assuming he's doing the best he can. If he says, “I was just joking,” you can respond, “We need to be more careful with our jokes so they're not at anyone's expense.” That's correcting without shaming.Laurel: I love that. Sometimes I'm trying to say that, but not in a peaceful way, so he can't receive it. Then he asks, “Am I a bad kid?” and I have to backtrack.Sarah: Exactly—skip the part that makes him feel like a bad kid. Sensitive kids don't need much correction—they already feel things deeply. Just get curious.Laurel: That makes sense. Correcting without shaming.Sarah: Yes.Laurel: We also tried something new because of the constant questions. They'll keep asking: “Can I do this? Can I watch a show?” We got tired of repeating no. So now we say, “I don't know yet. Let me think about it. But if you ask again, the answer will be no.” Is that okay?Sarah: I used to say, “If I have to give a quick answer, it's going to be no.” I'd also say, “You can ask me as many times as you want, but the answer will still be no.” With empathy: “I know it's hard to hear no, but it's still no.” Another thing I said was, “It would be so much easier for me to say yes. But I love you enough to say no.” That helped my kids see it wasn't easy for me either.Laurel: That's helpful. Another thing: our kids do so much—they're busy and around people a lot, partly because of our personalities and being pastors. We try to build in downtime at home, but often after a fun day they complain on the way home: “Why do we have to go to bed?” They don't reflect on the fun—they just want more.Sarah: That's totally normal. You could go to an amusement park, eat pizza and ice cream, see a movie, and if you say no to one more thing, they'll say, “We never do anything fun!” Kids are wired to want more. That's evolutionary: quiet kids who didn't ask for needs wouldn't survive. Wanting isn't a problem, and it doesn't mean they'll turn into entitled adults.Kids live in the moment. If you say no to ice cream, they fixate on that, not the whole day. So stay in the moment with them: “You really wanted ice cream. I know it's disappointing we're not having it.” Resist the urge to say, “But we already did all these things.”Laurel: I love that. We even started singing “Never Enough” from The Greatest Showman, and now they hate it. It feels like nothing is ever enough.Sarah: That's normal.Laurel: I also want to bring it back to peaceful, no-fear parenting. I can be hard on myself, and I see that in my kids. I don't want that.Sarah: If you don't want your kids to be hard on themselves, model grace for yourself. Say, “I messed up, but I'm still worthy and lovable.” Being hard on yourself means you only feel lovable when you don't make mistakes. We want our kids to know they're lovable no matter what—even when they mess up or bother their siblings. That's true self-worth: being lovable because of who you are, not what you do. That's what gives kids the courage to take risks and not stay small out of fear of failure. They'll learn that from your modeling.Laurel: That makes sense.Sarah: And I've never, ever seen anyone do this work without being compassionate with themselves.Laurel: Hmm. Like—Sarah: You can't beat yourself up and be a peaceful parent.Laurel: Yeah, I know. Because then I'd see them doing it. It's like, no, I don't. Yeah. Yeah. I purposely don't want you guys to be that way. Yeah. That's great. Those are all good things to think about. I think the other questions I can tie back to what you've already answered, like being disrespectful or sassiness creeping in—the talking back kind of stuff. And that's all from, I mean, it stems from not feeling heard, not feeling empathized with.Sarah: Totally. And being hijacked by big feelings—even if it's your own big feelings of not getting what you want. That can be overwhelming and send them into fight, flight, or freeze. Sassiness and backtalk is the fight response. It's the mild fight. They're not screaming, hitting, or kicking, but just using rude talk.Laurel: Hmm. And so same response as a parent with that too? Just be in the moment with their feelings and then move on to talking about why and letting them kind of—Sarah: Yeah. And empathizing. Just like, “Ah, you're really…” Say they're saucy about you not letting them have some ice cream. “You never let me have ice cream! This is so unfair! You're so mean!” Whatever they might say. You can respond, “Ugh, I know, it's so hard. You wish you could have all the ice cream in the freezer. You'd eat the whole carton if you could.” Just recognize what they're feeling. It doesn't have to be a teachable moment about sugar or health. You can just be with them in their hard time about not getting what they want. And they'll get through to the other side—which builds resilience.Laurel: How do you discipline when it's needed—not punish, but discipline? For example, a deliberate rule is broken, somebody gets hurt, or stealing—like when it's clear they know it was wrong?Sarah: You want to help them see how their actions affect other people, property, or the community. That's where they internalize right and wrong. If you give them a punishment for breaking something, that only teaches them how their actions affect them—not how their actions affect others. That makes kids think, “What's in it for me? I better not do this thing because I don't want to get in trouble,” instead of, “I better not do this because it will hurt my sister or disappoint my parents.” So punishments and imposed consequences pull kids away from the real consequences—like someone getting hurt or trust being broken.You really want to help them understand: “The reason why we have this rule is because of X, Y, Z. And when you did this, here's what happened.” If they have a problem with the rule, talk about it together as a family. That works much better than punishment.Laurel: We had an incident at church where our 10-year-old was talking about something inappropriate with another kid. The other parent reached out, and I feel like we handled it okay. We talked with him, he was open, and we discussed what was said. Then we apologized to that parent in person and had a conversation. It didn't feel like we were forcing him to do something bad or shaming him.Sarah: That's good—it's about making a repair. That's always the focus. Without knowing the whole situation, I might not have said apologizing to the parent, because technically the parent wasn't directly involved. But if your son was willing and it felt authentic, that's great. What matters is the outcome: repair. Sometimes parents suggest an apology to make the child feel ashamed so they'll “remember it,” but that's not helpful. The question is: does the apology or repair actually improve the situation? That's what you keep in mind.Laurel: Well, thanks for all your wisdom.Sarah: You're welcome. It was really nice to meet you both.Part 2:Sarah: Welcome back, Laurel and Derek. Thanks for joining again. How have things been since our first coaching call?Laurel: Yeah. I feel like we gained several really good nuggets that we were able to try. One of them was about my daughter in the mornings—not wanting to get dressed, feeling stuck in the middle and left out. I've gotten to stop what I'm doing and pay attention to her. Even this morning, she still had a meltdown, but things went faster by the end compared to me being stubborn and telling her to do it on her own.Sarah: So you dropped your end of the power struggle.Laurel: Yeah. And it felt great because I wasn't frustrated afterward. I could move on right away instead of also blowing up. If we both blow up, it's bad. But if she's the only one, she can snap out of it quickly. I can't as easily, so it usually lingers for me. This way, it was so much better.We've had some challenging parenting moments this week, but looking at them through the lens of making our kids feel worthy and loved helped us respond differently. One thing you said last time—that “the perpetrator needs empathy”—really stuck with me. I always felt like the misbehaving child should feel our wrath to show how serious it was. But we were able to love our kids through a couple of tough situations, and it worked.Derrick: For me, the biggest takeaway was the “kindling” metaphor. I've even shared it with friends. Before, I thought I was being patient, but I was just collecting kindling until I blew up. Now I recognize the kindling and set it down—take a breath, or tell the kids I need a minute. This morning on the way to soccer, I told them I needed a little pity party in the front seat before I could play their game. That helped me calm before reengaging.Sarah: That's fantastic. You recognized you needed to calm yourself before jumping back in, instead of pushing through already-annoyed feelings.Laurel: Yeah. We did have questions moving forward. We had a couple of situations where we knew our kids were lying about something significant. We told them, “We love you, and we need you to tell the truth.” But they denied it for days before finally giving in. How do we encourage truth-telling and open communication?Sarah: Kids usually lie for three reasons: they're afraid of getting in trouble, they feel ashamed or embarrassed, or they're afraid of disappointing you. Sometimes it's all three. So the focus has to be: we might be unhappy with what you did, but we'll just work on fixing it. When they do admit the truth, it's important to say, “I'm so glad you told me.” That helps remove shame.Natural consequences happen without your involvement. If they take money from your wallet, the natural consequence is that you're missing money and trust is broken. But adding punishments just teaches them to hide better next time.Derrick: How do you frame the difference between a consequence and a boundary? Like if they mess up in an environment and we don't let them back into it for a while—is that a consequence or a boundary?Sarah: In peaceful parenting, we talk about limits. If they show they're not ready for a certain freedom, you set a limit to support them—not to punish. A consequence is meant to make them feel bad so they won't repeat it. A limit is about guidance and support.The way to tell: check your tone and your intent. If you're angry and reactive, it will feel punishing even if it's not meant to be. And if your intent is to make them suffer, that's a punishment. If your tone is empathetic and your intent is to support expectations, it's a limit.Derrick: That's helpful. Sometimes we beat ourselves up wondering if we're punishing when we're just setting limits. Your tone-and-intent framework is a good check.Sarah: And if you mess up in the moment, you can always walk it back. Say, “I was really angry when I said that. Let's rethink this.” That models responsibility for when we act out while triggered.Derrick: That's good.Sarah: You mentioned sibling rivalry last time. Did you try the “It's theirs until they're done with it” approach?Derrick: Yes—and it's like a miracle. It worked especially in the car.Sarah: That's great. I know car rides were tricky before.Laurel: What about mantras to help us remember not to let our kids' behavior define us as parents—or as people?Sarah: What you're talking about is shame. It's when we feel unworthy because of our kids' behavior or what others think. We have to separate our worth from our kids' actions. Even if your child is struggling, you're still a good, worthy, lovable person.Laurel: Almost the same thing we say to our kids: “You are worthy and lovable.”Sarah: Exactly. So when you feel yourself going into a shame spiral, remind yourself: “Even though my child did this thing, I am still worthy and lovable.” Hold both truths together.Laurel: Yes. That helps. One last question: mornings. School starts in a day, and we worry every morning will be a struggle with Kira. She resists everything—getting dressed, socks, breakfast. Then she's fine once we're in the car. How can we help her set her own boundaries about mornings?Sarah: It sounds like she gets anxious around transitions. She doesn't do well with being hurried. That anxiety overwhelms her, and she goes into fight mode—pushing back, lashing out.Laurel: Yes, that's exactly it.Sarah: So part of it is adjusting your routine—giving her more time in the morning. But another part is building resilience. The anti-anxiety phrase is: “We can handle this.” Remind her, “Even if it's not going how you wanted, you can handle it. We can do hard things.” Add in laughter to ease tension.And maybe accept that for now, you might need to spend 10 minutes helping her get dressed. That's okay. You can balance it by giving her extra nurturing at other times of the day so she doesn't seek it as much during rushed mornings.Derrick: That's good.Sarah: Thank you both so much. I've loved these conversations.Derrick: Thank you, Sarah.Sarah: You're welcome. It's been wonderful. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sarahrosensweet.substack.com/subscribe

Dr. Corinna Tucker joins host Dr. Edith Bracho-Sanchez to talk about sibling rivalry. They explore what healthy conflict looks like, how birth order and age gaps shape sibling interactions, and the often-overlooked issue of sibling abuse and its long-term effects on mental health and relationships. They also provide practical tips for preventing conflict and defusing tense moments. 

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob shares his new bouldering hobby while Monét explains how she keeps her hands soft and callus-free. They compare their experiences bouldering, debate names that would be nice if they didn't already mean something else, and role play what they'd do if a friend tragically couldn't make it to a concert. They get into K-pop demon hunters, the Céline Dion-inspired movie, and the most played songs on YouTube. They ask if telekinesis is real and whether people can really move things with their minds, share their thoughts on reincarnation, explain stardust and the Big Bang. Bob puts it to the test by showing off his fork-bending “magic. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Got sick kids? Click here to learn all our favorite natural remedies for children from newborn through to big kids!What if sibling rivalry isn't something to fix, but something kids actually need?In this episode, we sit down with Ralphie Jacobs, founder of Simply On Purpose. She's a mom of four, holds a degree in early childhood education, and has spent years turning her curiosity about child development into practical parenting wisdom.We get into the messy reality of siblings fighting and why it's not only unavoidable but also essential for growth. Ralphie shares how to know when to step in, when to step back, and how to shift the way we see conflict so it doesn't push our kids apart but helps them build stronger bonds.You'll Learn:The reason sibling rivalry shows up in every multi-child homeWhat happens when parents label normal behavior as a fixed character traitThe link between sibling conflict and stronger skills in communication, negotiation, and resilienceThe damage of comparing kids and creating competition inside the familyWhy it often backfires when parents insert adult meaning into childhood strugglesWhy most kids' misbehavior is inconsequential and how shifting perspective changes everythingThe simple shift from making things “fair” to meeting each child's individual needsHow one-on-one time with older kids lowers rivalry and strengthens bondsThe stop–redirect–reinforce approach for handling physical conflict safelyWhy focusing on the good reduces 80% of junk behavior without constant correctionTimestamps:[00:00] Introduction[04:25] Why sibling rivalry can be healthy and how parents can respond wisely[09:51] How labeling children shapes their identity and how parents can guide with compassion[17:32] Fostering sibling connection by avoiding comparisons and focusing on individual needs[25:36] Why one-on-one time with older children reduces sibling rivalry and builds security[32:12] When to step into sibling arguments and when to let kids work it out[42:10] Why parents should avoid negative labels and focus on guiding developmental behavior[44:00] Creating a calm home by focusing on what really matters in parentingJoin Ralphie for a LIVE webinar and learn scientifically proven strategies to decrease fighting in your home, Sibling Rivalry: What Helps and What Doesn'tLearn more from Ralphie on the Simply On Purpose website. You can also follow her on Instagram.Find more from Dr. Leah:Dr. Leah Gordon | InstagramDr. Leah Gordon | WebsiteDr. Leah Gordon | WebsiteFind more from Dr. Morgan:Dr. Morgan MacDermott | InstagramDr. Morgan MacDermott | WebsiteUse code HEALTHYMOTHER and save 15% at RedmondFor 20% off your first order at Needed, use code HEALTHYMOTHERSave $260 at Lumebox, use code HEALTHYASAMOTHER

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This week on Sibling Rivalry, Monét is again confronted about her messy website links before Bob and Monét start DARVO-ing each other. They rehash their foot race drama, debate shoe sizes, and test their Spanish comprehension while asking if speaking louder actually helps when someone doesn't understand. They discuss who really came up with the idea for the podcast, and Bob calls out the tipping point of Monét's lies—including the revelation of who she almost started a podcast with instead of him. They also ask if Monét is intimidated by Bob's singing, and then Monét (and Jacob) spoil an old show Bob just started watching. Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét go live at 3 Dollar Bill in Brooklyn for The Family Reunion. They debate Idina Menzel's career, Let it Go vs. Into the Unknown, share sibling stories from fights to being the favorite child, and ask if they'd want their kids to have siblings. They name their Drag Race and non-Drag Race “sisters,” play Name That White Woman, and wonder if Nicole Kidman knows who Bob is. Plus, twin hookups, Housewives fights, gooning, and Monét putting Bob's sensitive feet on the line. Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét compare the best concerts they've seen this summer, debate SZA vs. Nicki, and weigh in on Jada Essence Hall serving her Cowboy Carter look. They ask if recording someone for “receipts” without consent is okay and discuss how Dapper Dan changed fashion. They ask what exactly counts as a fairy tale, if Disney movies qualify, and whether The Lion King fits the bill. Bob and Monét share if they had bedtime stories growing up, the age Monét started reading, and Bob's earliest memory. Plus, stolen-pillow drama, remembering family and friends' birthdays, and why Monét still doesn't get Bob's style. Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét dig into the many meanings of cheating. They swap wig stories from TikTok melting techniques to the struggle of finding lace that matches skin tone, and debate whether larger heads make wigs harder to fit. Bob defines the rules of his relationships, while Monét shares hers with Andy and reveals whether she's ever cheated in her relationships. They talk about game night scandals, drinking games (without alcohol), and cheating on tests in school. Plus, flat tummy tea side effects, lip balm habits, and whether Monét really was Bob's caregiver after dental surgery—or was she cheating at that? Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét dive into customer service chaos, from Monét's artwork pickup gone wrong to Bob's wild Uber ride. They swap Uber ratings, get an update on Monét's “AirbnBeef,” and get into the long text Bob got from a videographer. They wonder what was so special about No. 2 pencils, where Monét's freckles land on the pain scale, and what she just realized about Beyoncé's eyes. Plus: cosmetic surgery, rare blood types, and whether Bob will let Monét shine. Thanks to our sponsors: Go to ⁠https://MASAChips.com/SIBLING⁠ and use code SIBLING for 25% off your first order! Rula patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at ⁠https://www.rula.com/rivalry⁠ #rulapod  Get started with Chime today at ⁠https://chime.com/SIBLING⁠  Go to ⁠https://HomeChef.com/RIVALRY⁠ for 50% off your first box and free dessert for life! Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét talk all about acting, share audition stories, dream roles, and discuss how Broadway auditions differ from opera. Bob talks about his best acting performance and wonders if he should take singing lessons. Monét addresses why she didn't ask Bob for help on Life Be Lifin'. Plus: does Hillary Clinton really carry hot sauce in her bag, they argue about pronunciation, whether Monét's yard has bugs in it, and which celebrities they wish were gay. Thanks to our sponsors: Go to https://MASAChips.com/SIBLING and use code SIBLING for 25% off your first order! Rula patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at https://www.rula.com/rivalry #rulapod  Get started with Chime today at https://chime.com/SIBLING  Go to https://HomeChef.com/RIVALRY for 50% off your first box and free dessert for life! Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét cover everything from wigs to crime sprees. Bob challenges Monét to a wig-length showdown, they debate where measurements should start, and reveal their real shoe sizes. They imagine how they'd plot as serial killers in Los Angeles before swapping hookup stories—including Bob's scavenger hunt–style hookup adventure. They discuss how to respond to crying without being inappropriate and recall moments when they were mad enough to need to be held back. They confess who leaves hotel rooms messier and ask if Black and brown neighborhoods are really louder. Plus: New York geography confusion, their favorite NYC drag shows, and an old argument that gets Bob heated all over again. Thanks to our sponsors: Rula patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at ⁠https://www.rula.com/rivalry⁠ #rulapod Download the free Rakuten App or go to ⁠https://Rakuten.com⁠ to start saving today.  Go to ⁠https://HomeChef.com/RIVALRY⁠ for 50% OFF your first box and free dessert for life! Click this link ⁠https://bit.ly/45eFzaV⁠ to start your free trial with Wix Make everyday purchases count with Chime's Secured Credit Builder Visa® Credit Card at ⁠https://chime.com/SIBLING⁠. Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét get into the world of influencers, social media, and how they'd fit in if the game had started earlier. Bob reflects on his stint in children's theater and recalls documenting everything with his camcorder. Monét talks about her pre-social media days as a singer and how shifting workday hours might change productivity. They compare LA and New York influencers, debate whether Bob is one, and ask why he isn't making more money from TikTok. They examine the difference between Black and African American identity and debate who treats fans better at meet and greets. Plus: pop fandoms, Survivor, alliteration in geography, jewelry eras, and whether singers or dancers are cringier online. Thanks to our sponsors: Rula patients typically pay $15 per session when using insurance. Connect with quality therapists and mental health experts who specialize in you at https://www.rula.com/rivalry #rulapod Download the free Rakuten App or go to https://Rakuten.com to start saving today.  Go to https://HomeChef.com/RIVALRY for 50% OFF your first box and free dessert for life! Click this link https://bit.ly/45eFzaV to start your free trial with Wix Make everyday purchases count with Chime's Secured Credit Builder Visa® Credit Card at https://chime.com/SIBLING. Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Trigger warning: This episode contains discussion of disordered eating around the 45 - 55 minute mark. Viewer discretion advised. This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét share their bucket list dreams, from travel destinations to career goals. Bob raves about seeing Death Becomes Her on stage, spills on being invited to a Lady Gaga show in San Francisco, and names the most annoying pop fans. They talk Broadway ambitions, thrill seekers, and the juicing era, while debating if Madonna was born in New York City. Bob reveals his love for hotels over travel, breaks down his “three types of cities” theory, and asks for Monét's take on his Phantom of the Opera performance. Plus, they swap stories about celebrities from their neighborhoods and wonder—does Monét have a Prince Albert fetish? Thanks to our sponsors: Stop putting off those doctors appointments and go to ⁠https://Zocdoc.com/RIVALRY⁠ to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Get 35% off your entire order at ⁠https://Lolablankets.com⁠ by using code RIVALRY at checkout. Experience the world's #1 blanket with Lola Blankets. Slay your summer look. Go to ⁠https://paireyewear.com/SIBLING15⁠ for 15% off your first pair! Go to ⁠https://brooklynbedding.com⁠ and use promo code RIVALRY to get 30% off site wide!  Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week on Sibling Rivalry, Bob and Monét break down fake compliments and the things people say when you do something outside the norm. Bob shares the compliments he will and will not accept, they reveal what they did to get their mothers to slap them when they were younger, and they discuss the age gap limits for sibling fights. They talk about collecting fads, why people are going wild for Labubus, where Bob got his first one, and role-play to see what Monét would do if a fan brought one for her. Plus, is Monét a hater, who is better at meet and greets, and who has had more public beef? Thanks to our sponsors: Stop putting off those doctors appointments and go to https://Zocdoc.com/RIVALRY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Get 35% off your entire order at https://Lolablankets.com by using code RIVALRY at checkout. Experience the world's #1 blanket with Lola Blankets. Slay your summer look. Go to https://paireyewear.com/SIBLING15 for 15% off your first pair! Go to https://brooklynbedding.com and use promo code RIVALRY to get 30% off site wide!  Want to see exclusive Sibling Rivalry Bonus Content? Head over to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/siblingrivalrypodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to see our latest Sibling Rivalry Podcast Videos! @BobTheDragQueen @MonetXChange Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices