Thots and Perspectives: A Swinger Lifestyle Podcast

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A physician couple in the swinger lifestyle covering topics in a fun and conversational way.

Ben & Kae


    • May 27, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 43m AVG DURATION
    • 23 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from Thots and Perspectives: A Swinger Lifestyle Podcast

    April 2025 Bliss Cruise Recap

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2025 58:04


    Ben and Kae recap their eventful April 2025 Bliss Cruise.

    Episode 22: Dirty Vegas and An Ask Reddit Question

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2024 53:16


    Ben & Kae discuss their visit to Dirty Vegas this is year and a Reddit question about a husband who does not like seeing his wife with other men.

    Episode 21: Sailing the High Seas

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2024 42:19


    Ben and Kae reflect on their experiences on the April 2024 Bliss Cruise.

    Episode 20: Temptations Cancun Review and Birthday MFM

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2024 57:11


    Kae and Ben go to Temptations for Kae's 40th Birthday and share their thoughts on the resort.

    Episode 19: Preferences

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2023 35:16


    Kae and Ben talk about what they've been up to recently and why they disappeared. They also cover a Reddit post about a wife preferring younger men and preferences in partners in the lifestyle.

    Episode 18: Lessons Learned

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2023 39:23


    Kae and Ben discuss the lessons they've learned while in the lifestyle.

    Episode 17: Attachment

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2023 44:48


    Ben and Kae talk about fear of attachment in the lifestyle and nerd out a little bit about oxytocin and bonding.

    Episode 16: The Approach

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2023 52:34


    Ben & Kae discuss approaching other couples in the lifestyle and their hints at successful and stories of abject failure.

    Episode #15: Orgies and Such

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2022 55:08


    Lifestyle couple Kae and Ben discuss group encounters.

    Episode #14: Reddit QnA #3

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2022 51:33


    Ben and Kae discuss a variety of topics from /r/swingers. Includes: does being in the lifestyle make vanilla things less fun, a tough first encounter and what a big guy should do to be more appealing.

    Episode 13: Attractiveness in the Lifestyle

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2022 49:24


    Ben and Kae talk about what they find attractive and what attractiveness means in the swinging lifestyle.

    Episode 12: Lifestyle Fears

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2022 38:35


    Ben and Kae discuss their relationship fears while engaging in the swinging lifestyle. @thotsandpodcast

    Episode 11: Threesomes

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2022 45:52


    Kae and Ben talk about the ins-and-outs of threesomes.

    Episode 10: The Condom Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2022 38:31


    Ben & Kae discuss condoms. Polyurethane versus latex. German and Japanese brands. Particularly, what are the best ever-so-slightly-larger-than-average condoms are the market, in Ben's opinion?

    Episode 9: Plastic Surgery, Piercings, Periods and Fitness. All things body.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2022 52:20


    Ben and Kae discussed a variety of body and self-care related topics as they pertain to the lifestyle. We discuss plastic surgery, piercings, managing your period during travel. We also have an extensive discussion on a variety of diets and workout routines we've tried in the past.

    Episode 8: Porn Addiction

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2022 32:36


    Ben & Kae talk about porn, porn's effect on relationships, and the effect of porn in the swinging lifestyle.

    Episode 7: Male Performance

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2022 53:29


    Ben & Kae talk about male performance from a lifestyle and medical perspective. Buckle up, it's a long one!

    Episode 6: Daters, Pods and Poly-quads

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2022 31:48


    Ben & Kae talk about different ways couples approach the swinging lifestyle that they didn't know about in the beginning.

    Episode 5: Bliss Cruise Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2022 36:34


    Ben & Kae talk about their experiences with swinger cruising on Bliss Cruises. Lots of tips for people interested in cruising.

    Episode 4: Bliss Cruise Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2022 34:43


    Ben & Kae talk about their experiences with swinger cruising on Bliss Cruises. Lots of tips for people interested in cruising.

    Episode 3: Reddit QnA #2

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2022 27:02


    Ben & Kae cover more topics from r/Swingers. This episodes topics include: How young is too young? How is it so hard to make friends in the lifestyle? Penis size. And a question about intimacy.

    Episode 2: Reddit QnA #1

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2022 30:55


    We cover our take on selected topics from r/swingers.

    Episode 1: About Us

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2022 31:48


    This is our into episode. We'd like to tell you all a bit about ourselves. Please follow us to hear our thoughts on Bliss/lifestyle cruises, BDSM, performance anxiety and other upcoming topics!

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