Podcasts about porn addiction

In celebrate recovery, we all have our own experiences and the way the Holy Spirit grows and changes us through the principles and steps of celebrate recovery. In this episode, Rodney Holmstrom, Global Field Director of Celebrate Recovery, sits down with North Central regional Director, Scott Kemp to talk about his favorite step & principle of CR. He shares his heart and why it means so much to him even 30+ years later in his recovery journey.

Send a text- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreFrom where did you get your Sex Ed knowledge back there during the developing childhood years, which you have been following through and repeatedly practising in adulthood? Was it 'Peers, banter and porn' which set up your sexual template, long before school Sex Ed - which got there way too late; the deed was already done. You give a wry smile when asked about Sex Ed at home from parents! For most - there was none at home; for others, if there was, it came way too late.Once the five senses of sight, smell, taste, touch & sound brings images and experiences onto the brain - those 'firsts' have already set up the templates - which will then be repeatedly played out in adulthood sexuality, as being 'right' and 'works'. Not necessarily true. They are templates, but they may not be accurate of 'right'. They are just what your brain experienced as 'first time' and the template is set up (whether wanted or not) and will reproduce and reproduce; churning out the same old, same old - 'seems to work'; (but you know it isn't working as you want it to work!The setting up of those templates during the childhood development period are called sexual myths. Sexual myths need to be unlearned. Then replaced with accurate knowledge about human sexually and physiological responses. That is what The Kairos Centre provide, when its Therapists are wearing a different hat and skill set called Psychosexual Therapy. (I use the shorted term of 'Sex Therapy').It can be transformation, when (for the first time) you experience Sensuality, Intimacy, Romance, Deep Love & Affection - at a must higher level (after cleansing out the dross); which is so fulfilling on its own; and you haven't even had sex yet!Come and see and experience it for yourself. Then you will have eyes to see and body to feel the difference of 'sex gone wrong' all those years that you have been doing it!Help is here for you: bit.ly/pornaddictionhelpGary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR Practitioner.Key words: sex addiction, addicted, partner, porn addiction, recovery, sex drive, therapy, sex therapy, podcast, relationships, relationship counseling, relationship advice, addiction, couples, couples therapy, sex therapy, emdr, love addiction, behavior, psychology, codependency, sex life, neuroscience, sex ed, sober, sobriety, sexual dysfunction, relationship issues, sex coach, sexual, trauma, ptsd, sex science, The sex porn love Addiction Podcast, The Singles Partners Marrieds and Long Time Marrieds Podcast, Gary McFarlane, porn addiction, what neuroscience says, neuroscience, young adults, sex, sex addict, porn, recovery, porn addiction issue, porn addiction in teens, sex addiction in teens, sex hormones,Support the show

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JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   Most men believe success is the solution. More money. More status. More access. More freedom.   But what if success actually makes the problem worse?   In this episode, Coach Frank Rich exposes a truth few people are willing to talk about: some of the most successful men in the world secretly struggle with porn addiction—including pro athletes, entrepreneurs, executives, doctors, and high performers across every industry.   This conversation breaks the myth that porn addiction is a "weak man's problem" and reveals why achievement alone never creates freedom.   In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why success often amplifies internal struggles instead of solving them   The hidden pressures high-performing men live under every day   How stress, dopamine depletion, and identity confusion fuel porn use   Why discipline alone fails—and what actually creates lasting change   The real reason porn addiction has nothing to do with money, sex, or status   This episode isn't about shame. It's about identity, alignment, and rebuilding the man from the inside out.   About The Rebuilt Man Podcast The Rebuilt Man Podcast helps men break free from porn, rebuild identity, and step into disciplined, purpose-driven leadership. Hosted by Coach Frank Rich, each episode delivers direct, real, and transformational conversations on masculinity, addiction recovery, identity, mindset, faith, discipline, and personal growth.   If you're ready to stop surviving and start becoming the man you were created to be — you're in the right place.     About Coach Frank Rich Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and creator of the Reboot Your Life transformation system. He helps men break free from porn addiction by rebuilding identity, discipline, and purpose through structure, brotherhood, and faith-rooted leadership. Frank's work has helped thousands of men overcome shame, rebuild marriages, and step into the men they were created to be.     Next Step: Start Rebuilding Today If this episode hit you, don't do what you've always done, feel inspired and go back to isolation.   Coach Frank invites you to take your first real step forward by joining the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset, where you'll get: Clear daily structure Brotherhood-based accountability Identity-focused tools to break the cycle A proven starting point into the Rebuilt Man system   2026 doesn't need another attempt. It needs a decision.    

What does the kinda porn you're into mean? Is it just a fantasy or is it deeper than that?And how do you deal with feelings of shame and guilt if what you like to get off to, doesn't align with who you are in your everyday life. In this ep, Dee chats to sexologist Lauren French about what your porn taste says about you. SHOW NOTES:Lifeline: 13 11 141800 RESPECT: 1800 737 732 MensLine Australia: 1300 78 99 78 Qlife (Queer support services): 1800 184 527Pornaddiction.com: PornAddiction.com Sex Addiction Australia: https://www.sexaddictionaustralia.com.au/RELATED EPISODES:What Kind Of Porn Are You Into?: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UWABwwal8II&list=PLFqO_oqoHHMzFwCWPXOj6CDpOdG3eS8cE&index=1DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

When betrayal is confessed, both partners are immediately forced into territory they never chose. In this episode (#319), we address a powerful submission from a man whose pornography use and delayed disclosure led to the end of a serious relationship. We unpack why betrayal permanently changes a relationship's landscape and why healthy boundaries for the betrayed partner begin with space, agency, and the right to decide what future—if any—feels authentic. Boundaries are not punishments; they are acts of self-protection and clarity in the wake of shattered trust. We also address a critical but often misunderstood issue: waiting for the “right time” to tell the truth. While many addicts believe delayed honesty is protective, we explain how it actually constitutes integrity abuse and creates layered, complex trauma for the partner. By managing the timing and flow of truth, the addict unintentionally manipulates the relationship and deprives the partner of informed consent. We emphasize that honesty at all costs is not about guaranteeing forgiveness—it is about preserving reality, which is the foundation of any healthy boundary. Finally, we turn to the addict's side of the boundary equation. Addicts do not get to set boundaries on betrayed partners—but they must establish uncompromising internal boundaries around truth, transparency, and integrity. We discuss what it means to continue recovery when honesty leads to rejection, and why authentic change must eventually be internally motivated rather than driven by fear of loss. Even when a relationship ends, living honestly prepares an addict to become a healthier partner in the future and prevents repeating the same cycle of deception and harm.For a full transcript of this podcast in article format, go to:   When Betrayal is Confessed, What are Healthy Boundaries for the Partner & Addioct?Learn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at:  Reclaim Counseling Services

Jim Tilley is a former pastor with a PHD in clinical psychology. In this second of two broadcasts Jim continues the discussion the story of his journey to hope and healing, which includes watching his father videotape young women at a swimming pool in front of Jim’s mother when Jim was 13, (his father, who was an elder of a church, ended up doing prison time) the lies that were implanted in Jim’s heart at an early age, his struggles with the worship of women, porn and masturbation, 3 major depressive episodes… and his journey to finding Jesus and freedom. Jim also talks about the affect that his struggles had on his marriage.

In this episode, we continue the conversation with a dear sister in Christ, Amanda. We get to hear how God took her from the pains of a sexual assault and addictions to a new beautiful life of giving back, through her words and deeds sharing the good news with other people. Listen in on this episode with Rodney Holmstrom, global field, Director of celebrate recovery, as he has a continued conversation of part two of this incredible hope-filled testimony.

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Support the podcast through Buy Me a Coffee! https://buymeacoffee.com/drlizbonet Jeremy Lipkowitz joins us on the podcast to talk about porn addiction and recovery from a Buddhist perspective rather than 12-step recovery. We talk about: When a habit crosses over from a problem to addiction How to approach a partner about a problem behavior or addiction Key buddhist concept for recovery from addiction The men's porn recovery group Jeremy runs based on Buddhist principles Mindfulness and meditation for the meditation averse and ADHD mind See more about Jeremy and his online group for porn addiction recovery at https://https://www.unhookedacademy.com Take an online quiz to see if you have a sex or porn addiction at https://www.saa-recovery.org   -------------- Support the Podcast & Help yourself with Hypnosis Downloads by Dr. Liz! http://bit.ly/HypnosisMP3Downloads Do you have Chronic Insomnia? Find out more about Dr. Liz's Better Sleep Program at https://bit.ly/sleepbetterfeelbetter Search episodes at the Podcast Page http://bit.ly/HM-podcast --------- About Dr. Liz Interested in hypnosis with Dr. Liz? Schedule your free consultation at https://www.drlizhypnosis.com Winner of numerous awards including Top 100 Moms in Business, Dr. Liz provides psychotherapy, hypnotherapy, and hypnosis to people wanting a fast, easy way to transform all around the world. She has a PhD in Clinical Psychology, is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) and has special certification in Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy. Specialty areas include Anxiety, Insomnia, and Deeper Emotional Healing. A problem shared is a problem halved. In person and online hypnosis and CBT for healing and transformation.  Listened to in over 140 countries, Hypnotize Me is the podcast about hypnosis, transformation, and healing. Certified hypnotherapist and Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Dr. Liz Bonet, discusses hypnosis and interviews professionals doing transformational work. Thank you for tuning in!

JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   In this powerful I Am Rebuilt episode of the The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank Rich sits down with former student Larry Fuentes to share one of the longest and most profound transformation stories ever featured on the show.   At the time of recording, Larry has been over 16 months free from porn, after struggling with porn addiction, compulsive behaviors, and identity confusion for nearly two decades.   This is not a story about willpower or quick fixes. This is a story about identity change, radical responsibility, faith, and rebuilding life from the inside out.   Episode Summary Before joining The Rebuilt Man in October 2024, Larry was trapped in a recurring cycle of relapse that escalated beyond porn and into dangerous real-world behaviors. Years of addiction had stripped away his self-worth, distorted how he saw himself and others, and left him without direction or purpose.   Although he had tried multiple recovery paths in the past, including 12-step programs, Larry realized something critical during this journey: his addiction wasn't the real problem, it was a symptom of a deeper identity issue.   Inside The Rebuilt Man, Larry was challenged to stop reinforcing an "addict identity" and begin building a new one. Through structured discipline, community accountability, faith, and daily identity-based action, everything began to change.   As Larry surrendered fully to the process and the brotherhood, he began facing old resentments, taking ownership of his past, rebuilding self-respect, and learning how to live with courage instead of avoidance.   Today, Larry describes his life as finally beginning. With clarity, purpose, and confidence restored, he's pursuing meaningful passions, building healthy relationships, and stepping into a future he once believed was impossible.   His message to the man still struggling is clear: Freedom is possible… but it requires effort, honesty, risk, and a willingness to rebuild your life.   What You'll Learn in This Episode How porn addiction often escalates beyond the screen when left unaddressed   Why identifying as an "addict" can keep men stuck in the cycle   The power of identity-based transformation vs. behavior control   How discipline, discomfort, and structure rebuild self-trust   Why porn is often a symptom of deeper emotional and spiritual wounds   The role of brotherhood, accountability, and faith in lasting freedom   What life actually looks like on the other side of porn addiction Key Takeaway Porn addiction isn't the core problem—it's a signal. When a man rebuilds his identity, his habits follow.   Larry Fuentes' story is proof that no matter how long the struggle has lasted, real freedom and a meaningful life are possible.   Take the First Step Toward Freedom If you resonate with Larry's story and want to begin rebuilding your own life, you're invited to start with the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset.   You'll get: 7 days of clear, actionable steps A free trial inside the Rebuilt Man Brotherhood The same community and structure that helped Larry create lasting freedom   About The Rebuilt Man Podcast The Rebuilt Man Podcast helps men break free from porn, rebuild identity, and step into disciplined, purpose-driven leadership. Hosted by Coach Frank Rich, each episode delivers direct, real, and transformational conversations on masculinity, addiction recovery, identity, mindset, faith, discipline, and personal growth. If you're ready to stop surviving and start becoming the man you were created to be — you're in the right place.   About Coach Frank Rich Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and creator of the Reboot Your Life transformation system. He helps men break free from porn addiction by rebuilding identity, discipline, and purpose through structure, brotherhood, and faith-rooted leadership. Frank's work has helped thousands of men overcome shame, rebuild marriages, and step into the men they were created to be.   Next Step: Start Rebuilding Today If this episode hit you, don't do what you've always done, feel inspired and go back to isolation.   Coach Frank invites you to take your first real step forward by joining the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset, where you'll get: Clear daily structure Brotherhood-based accountability Identity-focused tools to break the cycle A proven starting point into the Rebuilt Man system 2026 doesn't need another attempt. It needs a decision.  

Send us a text- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centrePart 5 of 5 of an interview with Caroline Brown of -  This Crazy over 40s Life - a Black & ethnicity perspectiveHere is a portion of an article by Lauren Dubinsky - Founder of Good Women Project: What I Wish I'd Known Before Watching Porn, 2012 "Pornography is a charged subject, and it's a word that rarely crosses the lips of most women. Yes, there are now breeds of the modern woman who watch, talk and joke about it regularly, but most of us still stay farther away from speaking the word than we actually stay away from it...... but statistics show that, at least in Australia, more than one-third of pornography viewers are women. Just last week, I received an email from a girl who leads a small women's group; they'd just discovered that every single one of them were watching porn.When I was in high school, pornography was on the long list of "bad things" that I didn't know much about -- and unfortunately also on the list of things I had participated in. Never mind why I was watching it, the how is the same for nearly all of us: We stumbled upon it because of someone else. And none of us knew what to expect, or how to handle it.I wish someone had talked about how women watch it too, so I wouldn't have had to spend years living under the shame that comes with being "the only one" and thinking there was something wrong with me....."What are the psychosexual issues that we work with as Sex Therapists, which young people are storing up and manifests in their twenties.Erectile Dysfunction: Inability to get or keep an erectionDelayed/Retarded ejaculation: Inability or 'long' delay in being able to ejaculatePremature Ejaculation: Coming too quicklyVaginismus: Inability for penis to enter the vagina due to vaginal musclesDyspareunia: Female pain during vaginal penetrationSexual Desire Disorder: Little or no desire for sexLack of Orgasm: Inability to reach an OrgasmSpectatoring during sex: Coaching self during sex and so not fully presentGenital/body dysmorphia: Belief that genitals are not 'normal'Spermaphobia: Fear of ejaculation and specifically spermEurotophobia: Aversion to/fear of female genitaliaSickle cell Priapism: Ejection failure to reduce and is longlastingVulvar painGet some help from The Kairos Centre. See what you cannot see. Begin to change that which you begin to better understand.Help is here for you: bit.ly/pornaddictionhelpGary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR Practitioner.Key words: sex addiction, addicted, partner, porn addiction, recovery, sex drive, therapy, sex therapy, podcast, relationships, relationship counseling, relationship advice, addiction, couples, couples therapy, sex therapy, emdr, love addiction, behavior, psychology, codependency, sex life, neuroscience, sex ed, sober, sobriety, sexual dysfunction, relationship issues, sex coach, sexual, trauma, ptsd, sex science, The sex porn love Addiction Podcast, The Singles Partners Marrieds and Long Time Marrieds Podcast, Gary McFarlane, porn addiction, what neuroscience says, neuroscience, young adults, sex, sex addict, porn, recovery, porn addiction issue, porn addiction in teens, sex addiction in teens, sex hormones,Support the show

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn.info/    Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes? Email me here:  sam@healingcouples.org   Episode show notes: How can a wife ever feel secure again after pornography use? How do you know real change is happening—and that he won't fall back into old patterns? In this episode of the Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction podcast, we walk through four clear indicators that show when a man is doing the kind of work that actually prevents returning to pornography and helps rebuild emotional safety in a marriage. This conversation is designed for both wives and husbands. For wives, it speaks directly to the fear, anxiety, and lack of security that often linger long after discovery. For husbands, it offers concrete milestones to aim for—so change isn't vague, fragile, or dependent on willpower alone. You'll learn: Why transparency (not monitoring) helps calm anxiety and rebuild trust How remorse and emotional empathy restore connection after betrayal The specific skills men need to resolve urges at the root, manage stress, and work through shame Why consistent follow-through is what actually creates long-term security This episode reframes porn addiction recovery away from promises, streaks, and fear-based vigilance—and toward root cause healing, emotional capacity, and relational safety. If you're navigating porn in marriage, struggling with pornography triggers, or looking for a healthier approach to relapse prevention that actually works, this episode offers clarity, direction, and hope.  

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Why do so many men keep relapsing into porn—even when they genuinely want recovery?Why does willpower work for a while… and then completely fall apart under stress, loneliness, or exhaustion?In this episode, I'm breaking down one of the most important truths men need to understand if they want to overcome porn addiction for good:Porn addiction is not a willpower problem. It's a nervous system problem.Most recovery approaches focus almost entirely on the thinking brain—your thoughts, beliefs, and self-control. But neuroscience tells a much deeper story. You are not driven by one brain. You are driven by three: the brain, the heart, and the gut.And when those three brains are out of sync, porn cravings feel overwhelming and impossible to resist.In this episode, I walk you through the real neuroscience of porn addiction, including how stress shuts down the prefrontal cortex, why willpower fails under pressure, and how cravings are often driven by emotional dysregulation and gut-level safety signals, not sexual desire.You'll learn why porn becomes wired in as a fast regulator for stress, loneliness, and emotional pain—and how to replace that cycle by restoring brain–heart–gut coherence.This conversation is grounded in psychology, neurobiology, and nervous system research, but it's taught in a practical, human way—so you can actually apply it in your daily life.If you've ever wondered why you “know better” but still relapse… If porn cravings seem to come out of nowhere when you're tired, stressed, or overwhelmed… If you're tired of white-knuckling and want real stability instead of constant internal battles…This episode will change how you understand yourself and your recovery.It comes from learning how to regulate your system, lead your inner world, and restore coherence between your mind, body, and emotions.That's the work we do here.If this episode helps you, make sure to follow the podcast, leave a rating, and share it with another man who's struggling with porn addiction and looking for a better way forward.You're not weak.You're not broken.And you're not meant to fight this alone.Link to Blog Article for this EpisodeIf you're ready to build the mindset and lifestyle that lead to long-term freedom from porn addiction, join the No More Desire free online community and connect with men who are committed to real recovery. When you sign up, you'll gain access to The 4 Pillars of Recovery Online Course FREE. You can also check out my Free Workshop and Free Ebook, designed to help you overcome porn addiction, rewire your brain, and rebuild your life.Join the free No More Desire Brotherhood and access the February Challenge inside the community. You'll get a free PDF with daily body-gratitude meditations, the Story Over Skin tool, and an optional 10% discount for the full Reclaim Sexual Joy course. Sign up for the February Challenge here!Support the showNo More Desire

In this episode (#318), we respond to a deeply painful and thought-provoking submission from a partner married for fifteen years who discovered her husband's long-standing pattern of visual sexual behaviors. While he insists he rarely masturbated, his compulsive scanning, voyeurism, and objectification left her questioning whether “just looking” could really constitute addiction—and why it felt so devastating. We outline how repeated denial, trickle-truth, and gaslighting created not only sexual betrayal but integrity abuse, leading to severe betrayal trauma marked by hypervigilance, loss of identity, shame, and emotional exhaustion.We then break down why addiction is not defined by orgasm alone. While climax powerfully reinforces behavior, sexual addiction is fueled by much more: anticipation, novelty, entitlement, secrecy, and emotional escape. Visual sexual behaviors can flood the brain with addictive neurochemicals long before orgasm ever occurs, training the brain to seek stimulation without intimacy. We explain how scanning and objectification allow addicts to bypass vulnerability while still receiving powerful neurological rewards, and how edging and prolonged preoccupation can become addictive in their own right.Finally, we address why visual sexual addiction often hurts partners more than masturbation. For many partners, “just looking” feels deeply personal—it involves comparison, preference, and emotional pursuit, not just physical release. We emphasize the vital distinction between sobriety and recovery, the necessity of full honesty through formal disclosure, and the importance of dismantling sexual entitlement rather than merely abstaining from behaviors. True healing, we conclude, requires integrity, empathy, and an intentional choice to move out of addiction and fully into relationship.For a full transcript of this podcast in article format, go to:   Can "Just Looking" Destroy a Marriage:  Understanding Visual Sexual AddictionLearn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at:  Reclaim Counseling Services

JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   Gratitude Is Not Soft — It's a Weapon for Freedom   Most men think porn is their biggest problem. It's not.   The real battle is happening in your emotional state, long before temptation ever shows up.   In this episode, Coach Frank Rich breaks down why gratitude is one of the most overlooked — yet powerful — tools for rewiring your brain, strengthening discipline, and reclaiming control over your thoughts, emotions, and habits.   This is not feel-good motivation. This is neuroscience, identity, and faith in action.   In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why relapse usually starts with stress and emotional drift — not lust   How gratitude activates the part of the brain responsible for discipline and impulse control   The connection between gratitude, dopamine, and nervous system regulation   Why porn thrives in anxiety, resentment, and numbness   How gratitude reshapes beliefs and reinforces a stronger identity   The biblical foundation for renewing the mind through gratitude   A simple daily gratitude practice that actually rewires your brain   Why spoken declarations matter more than silent thoughts     Key Takeaways: Gratitude is not weakness — it's leadership   You don't relapse because you're broken, but because your nervous system is dysregulated   What you focus on consistently becomes your identity   Gratitude trains your brain to look for strength instead of lack   A grateful man is grounded — and a grounded man is harder to tempt      

Jim Tilley is a former pastor with a PHD in clinical psychology. In this first of two broadcasts Jim shares his story, which includes watching his father videotape young women at a swimming pool in front of Jim’s mother when Jim was 13, (his father, who was an elder of a church, ended up doing prison time) the lies that were implanted in Jim’s heart at an early age, his struggles with the worship of women, porn and masturbation, 3 major depressive episodes… and his journey to finding Jesus and freedom.

Over 75% of Christian Men and 40% of Christian Women struggle with a porn addiction. Shame from our stories and even our churches can cause many to struggle in isolation, when the only cure is sunlight. Join our panel of experienced Christian leaders as we dive into the keys to freedom, family and marriage dynamics, why "just trying harder" doesn't work and how we can help loved ones who are struggling. Let's spread hope and stand with our brothers and sisters as we together set others free.

One of the most valuable tools we have in celebrate Recovery is speaking out loud what God has done inside of us. Anytime we have a courageous brother or sister in Christ share their life change story it becomes oxygen for all of our soul regardless of how long we've been on the journey. In this episode, Rodney Holmstrom, global field Director of celebrate Recovery, has an impactful and heartfelt conversation with one of our sisters and celebrate recovery, Amanda. A young woman who walked through immense suffering and pain toward Jesus and healing. Amanda is a part of a celebrate Recovery at Lifeline Church in Princeton West Virginia and meets on Sunday nights at 5 PM. Listen to this incredible story and be blessed.

Ep. #800 | A simple, proven framework for getting past the toxin of porn.

Send us a text- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centrePart 4 of 5 of an interview with Caroline Brown of -  This Crazy over 40s Life - a Black & ethnicity perspectiveCovid-19 contributed to a significant increase in the compulsive use of porn in 10 to 75 years old. Women gravitated to webcam usage during lockdown – maybe coerced by partners making it seem like a necessary substitute. Many such females do not yet know they might be addicted until they try to stop.What is this thing called “Love Addiction”? Well, I believe it is all about trying to fill an Insecure Attachment need. What's that? Set up in childhood development where the bonding with key parental figures was not 'good enough'. “Say what!'. There may be a high level of sincere motivation to stop, but the physiology demand for its chemical fix, situational triggers and disturbing/upsetting feelings, causes a PART of the personality to sabotage. Logic goes offline. There is little care about the demands of the other PARTS of the personality. "I see, I desire, I want, so I take" kicks in. Immediate gratification rules.So, a lot of women worldwide, have become addicted or have a compulsion towards porn, but do not realise it. Arguably, there is greater 'Shame' for women, who then need to go deeper under ground and sty 'hidden. Stay means hide/hidden - don't tell or be found out. Remember SHAME + NARICISSISM = SEX ADDICTION.Some interesting stats from BACP Mindometer 2025 News from BACP: This annual survey into the state of the nation's mental health identified that almost two thirds (64%) of therapists say the public's mental health has deteriorated over the past year. Nearly all therapists identified financial pressures and the rising cost of living as major contributing factors, while 83% reported that war and global conflict have also negatively affected people's wellbeing.The survey gathered insights from almost 3,000 members, highlights several emerging trends:62% of therapists who work with men with addiction said they noticed a rise in alcohol addiction over the past yearOver half (53%) of therapists who work with men with addiction said they noticed a rise in porn addiction over the past yearWhat a shame the questions were focussed primarily on men. Interesting isn't it!In August 2024, BACP published its Addictions Competence Framework, identifying specialist knowledge, skills and abilities that counsellors require to effectively support adults living with addictions.  Get some help from The Kairos Centre. See what you cannot see. Begin to change that which you begin to better understand.Help someone: https://igg.me/at/ThekairosCentreHelp is here for you: bit.ly/pornaddictionhelpGary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR Practitioner.Key words: sex addiction, addicted, partner, porn addiction, recovery, sex drive, therapy, sex therapy, podcast, relationships, relationship counseling, relationship advice, addiction, couples, couples therapy, sex therapy, emdr, love addiction, behavior, psychology, codependency, sex life, neuroscience, sex ed, sober, sobriety, sexual dysfunction, relationship issues, sex coach, sexual, trauma, ptsd, sex science, The sex porn love Addiction Podcast, The Singles Partners Marrieds and Long Time Marrieds Podcast, Gary McFarlane, porn addiction, what neuroscience says, neuroscience, young adults, sex, sex addict, porn, recovery, porn addiction issue, Support the show

We face temptation to sin multiple times a day. We want to glorify God, we read our Bible and pray - so why do we struggle so much with temptation?Learn more about the ministry of The Purity Coach at  http://www.thepuritycoach.comSHARE HOW GOD IS USING THIS PODCAST!Support the show

JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   Porn doesn't stay private, it shows up in your marriage.   In this powerful episode of The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank Rich confronts the uncomfortable truth most men avoid: many of the struggles in your relationship aren't caused by your wife… they're caused by the silent impact of porn.   Frank breaks down the 7 hidden ways porn addiction erodes trust, intimacy, leadership, and emotional connection, and why real freedom doesn't come from willpower — it comes from rebuilding your identity as a man.   This is not an episode about shame. It's a call to higher standards, masculine leadership, and personal responsibility.   If you're serious about becoming the husband, leader, and man you were created to be — this episode is required listening.   In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why porn creates emotional distance in your marriage   How secret shame destroys your confidence and leadership   The subtle ways porn damages intimacy and attraction   Why porn kills motivation, discipline, and masculine drive   How emotional disconnection leads to anger and conflict   Why women feel the impact even when they don't know the behavior   How porn keeps men stuck in boyhood instead of rising into leadership   What real freedom actually requires (identity, structure, brotherhood    

Porn addiction can destroy your life. Find out how to quit porn once and for all with a few simple strategies on overcoming addiction. Learn how to beat urges, eliminate triggers, and stop watching porn for good!

In this episode (#317), we address one of the most destabilizing experiences betrayed partners face: the collapse of reality after discovering a partner's hidden addiction. When betrayal comes from someone who appeared kind, loving, and emotionally present, the trauma can feel especially disorienting. Partners often question their intelligence, intuition, and judgment—but we make it clear that intuition cannot detect information that was deliberately concealed. Betrayal is not a failure of perception; it is the result of sustained secrecy, compartmentalization, and integrity abuse.Rather than focusing on whether the addict is truly in recovery or what the future might hold, we invite partners to gently shift their attention back to themselves. Grounding becomes essential in the aftermath of betrayal, as the nervous system is often locked in hypervigilance and survival mode. We explore the importance of pausing—not freezing—so that decisions are not driven by fear, pressure, or urgency. Authentic wants and needs are not ultimatums or selfish demands; they are expressions of self-truth that deserve to be honored, especially after trauma.Finally, we discuss what it means to reclaim self-trust. Loving another person authentically requires seeing them as they truly are, not just through hope or potential—but it also requires honoring one's own authentic limits, capacity, and bandwidth. This episode is not about making the “right” relationship decision. It is about choosing a path that allows the betrayed partner to remain congruent, grounded, and whole. Healing does not require predicting the future; it begins by staying honest with yourself in the present.For a full transcript of this podcast in article format, go to:   From Shock to Self-Trust:  Reclaiming Your Inner Truth After BetrayalLearn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at:  Reclaim Counseling Services

We've been talking about the important discussion around sex, and how God uses it as a beautiful gift in the confines of a marriage between a man and a woman. In this part two conversation, Rodney Holmstrom, global field Director of Celebrate Recovery, walks us through some additional points to consider in how a false view of sexual intimacy can be a counterfeit to true intimacy and healthy relationships with God and others. What is a healthy biblical view of sex and is their hope for us? What if we are struggling with things like pornography, sexually acting out, or other lust mindsets that are consuming us on a daily basis? Listen to this episode and hear some hope that change is possible, if we will acknowledge the struggle and then trust the process as we invite God into our pain and struggles.

Episode 89Preventing human trafficking involves raising awareness, strengthening laws, and supporting vulnerable communities to stop exploitation before it starts. At the same time, addressing porn addiction requires education, access to support resources, and fostering healthy relationships. Together, these efforts empower individuals and communities to protect themselves and others from harm. Join me as MSO interview's Joe Madison, Executive Director of Demand Disruption (https://demanddisruption.org/) to discuss these society challenges that impact us all! More of Demand Disruption can be followed at: Podcast, Instagram, YouTube, and FaceBook.Lastly Congratulations to Deman Disruption celebrating their 10th year in fighting human trafficking. Much love from MSO!Send us a textMen Speaking Out...Talking to reveal, not conceal! menspeakingout.com

Send us a text- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreWhat is 'Manly'? A conversation with Damian Andrews of SHAIR.Care Podcast (Australia) in 2023.Therapy is about you not me.What do you want from Therapy? Are Fetishes or Paraphilia activities to be included? Where does your view come from? Is it your view or a 'hand me down?'What is for sure is that Therapy won't work until you are ready. But if you take too long (as the masses do), then the hand grenade may go off in your face and then you are left picking up shrapnel. Picking up shrapnel is to be re-active. What might shrapnel look like? It could be: getting caught by a partner; found out by an employer from office PC activities; the early morning knock by the police for viewing Child Sexual Abuse Material.Better to make conscious choices, even if wrong choices; (at least you know you made those choices and so, can own the fallout). Don't let lack of choice be done to you because you did not chose the activities, but they were done to you. You then own the repercussions. Make sense?CBT= Cognitive Behaviour (Therapy). The Cognitive (your thinking) will always come before Behaviour (the action). Change your thinking before trying to change Behaviour. If you can change your Mind, you can change your life.Whichever addiction you are caught up in (whether Alcohol, smoking, eating, sex, porn, seeking out connection with love, drugs, phone, gambling or gaming), the craving to use are not under direct conscious control. The neuro-chemicals or self induced chemicals take over and demand repeat fix. I see, I desire, I want, so I take, kicks in – where “Immediate gratification rules again.Design your sobriety with help from The Kairos Centre. Begin to change that which you begin to better understand.Help is here for you: bit.ly/pornaddictionhelpGary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR Practitioner.Key words: sex addiction, addicted, partner, porn addiction, recovery, sex drive, therapy, sex therapy, podcast, relationships, relationship counseling, relationship advice, addiction, couples, couples therapy, sex therapy, emdr, love addiction, behavior, psychology, codependency, sex life, neuroscience, sex ed, sober, sobriety, sexual dysfunction, relationship issues, sex coach, sexual, trauma, ptsd, sex science, The sex porn love Addiction Podcast, The Singles Partners Marrieds and Long Time Marrieds Podcast, Gary McFarlane, porn addiction, what neuroscience says, neuroscience, young adults, sex, sex addict, porn, recovery, porn addiction issue, porn addiction in teens, sex addiction in teens, sex hormones, Support the show

Jeremy Lipkowitz joins Veronica to discuss his descent into porn addiction, how it made him depressed and isolated, and how he now helps other men break free. To learn more, visit the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠show notes⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   What happens when the content you used to watch no longer does it for you?   In this powerful Q&A episode of The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank Rich and Head Coach Arnold tackle one of the most common  and most misunderstood  experiences men face in porn addiction: escalation into more extreme content.   A listener bravely asks: "Why do I keep escalating… and can I undo the damage?"   Frank and Arnold break down the neuroscience behind porn escalation, explain how dopamine desensitization rewires the brain, and share practical steps men can take to reverse the conditioning and reclaim control.   This episode covers: Why the brain craves more extreme content over time   The science of desensitization and dopamine tolerance   How escalation happens (and why it's not a character flaw)   Why social media fuels relapse without men realizing it   Cold turkey vs. gradual recovery — what actually works   How to retrain your brain toward healthy dopamine   The role of identity, environment, and brotherhood in real transformation   Why isolation keeps men trapped — and community accelerates healing     If you've ever felt ashamed of where your habits have taken you, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and a proven path forward.   You are not broken. But you must take this seriously. And there is a way out.   If you're serious about breaking the cycle and becoming the man you were created to be, this episode will hit home.  

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In this episode (#316) we focus on the critical role of proactive honesty in healing relationships impacted by addiction, betrayal, and trauma. Proactive honesty goes far beyond “not lying”—it means leading with truth rather than waiting to be confronted, asked the right question, or forced into disclosure. When honesty becomes reactive instead of proactive, trust erodes, emotional safety collapses, and partners lose the ability to make informed choices. We emphasize that honesty struggles are not limited to addicts; partners can also drift into dishonesty through self-silencing, conflict avoidance, or fear of toxic reactions.We examine the many reasons honesty breaks down, including fear of conflict, shame, habitual deception, emotional dysregulation, and attempts to manage or control others' perceptions. While these patterns may be understandable survival strategies, they are never harmless. Dishonesty—whether through outright lies, partial truths, minimization, or “everything's fine” responses—undermines accountability, intimacy, and recovery. We explain why clarity equals respect, why intent does not erase impact, and how avoiding the full truth often creates repeated betrayals rather than preventing harm.Finally, we outline what practicing proactive honesty actually looks like: catching dishonesty early, naming wrongs clearly, telling the whole truth, acknowledging impact without defensiveness, expressing accountability without shame, backing words with measurable actions, and allowing the other person's response without trying to control it. We also stress the importance of choosing appropriate environments for difficult conversations—without using that as an excuse to deceive. Proactive honesty is uncomfortable and challenging, but it is essential for rebuilding trust, restoring integrity, and creating relationships rooted in safety, authenticity, and real connection.For a full transcript of this podcast in article format, go to:   What Does "Proactive Honesty" in Your Daily Life & Relationships Look Like?Learn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at:  Reclaim Counseling Services

In this episode of The Mental Healness Podcast, Lee Hammock explores the complex and often devastating relationship between Narcissistic Personality Disorder and pornography addiction.We dive into the concept of Object Constancy—the inability to maintain an emotional connection when a partner isn't physically present—and how this drives narcissists toward the instant, low-effort supply found in digital adult content.Key Discussion Points:Why porn provides a 'safe' space for narcissists who fear true intimacy.The role of Splitting in addiction: The 'Perfect' digital image vs. the 'Flawed' real-life partner.How this addiction manifests as a form of covert betrayal and gaslighting within the home.Steps toward awareness and breaking the cycle of objectification.Stay Aware. Stay Healed.Connect with Lee:My Courses: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://courses.mentalhealness.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: ⁠⁠⁠https://link.me/mentalhealness⁠⁠⁠All My Link: ⁠⁠⁠https://beacons.page/mentalhealness ⁠⁠⁠Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesss

There hasn't been a day this week that the dangers of Grok haven't been highlighted: particularly the nudification of women and children. However, AI's dangerous and dark influence has been seeping in for many people, and now AI is impacting porn addiction in a big way as people begin to seek help…Family Psychotherapist specialising in porn addiction, David Kavanagh is highlighting this trend, and joins Seán to discuss.

We've been talking about God's natural design for release of dopamine, and how the enemy can distort that and even hijack His original design as it relates to sex in the confines of a marriage. What are some ways the enemy lies to us around sex? What are the costs to this? In this episode, Rodney Holmstrom, Global Field Director of celebrate recovery, will dive into part one of this important topic and how we can learn and grow through the counterfeit ways the enemy hijacks God's design and get back to the natural God-given gift design to walk in healthy intimacy with God and others.

JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset Most men struggling with porn addiction aren't stuck because they're weak. They're stuck because they're still believing lies about who they are.   In this powerful solo episode, Coach Frank Rich confronts the hidden self-deceptions that keep high-functioning men trapped in secrecy, shame, and divided identity. From "I'm a good man because I provide" to "I can handle this on my own," Frank exposes the internal narratives that sabotage freedom and shows why real change starts with truth, ownership, and identity transformation.   This is not an episode about behavior management. It's about becoming the man you were created to be.   If you've ever felt like two different versions of yourself — the man the world sees and the man you hide in private — this episode will hit you straight in the chest.   What You'll Learn in This Episode Why porn addiction survives through self-deception, not desire   The difference between being successful externally and aligned internally   How "stress relief" is often emotional avoidance in disguise   Why isolation keeps men stuck and brotherhood sets them free   How shame fuels relapse and identity fuels freedom   Why most men fail with willpower but succeed with structure   How the Reboot Your Life framework helps men rebuild identity, discipline, and purpose     The 9 Lies Covered in This Episode "I'm a good man because I provide." "Porn is just stress relief." "At least I'm not cheating." "I'm too busy to work out." "I'll quit when life slows down." "I can handle this on my own." "This is just how I'm wired." "I've tried everything and nothing works." "I hate this part of myself." Each one is confronted with truth, identity reframing, and practical insight.   Who This Episode Is For Men struggling with porn in silence   High-achieving professionals who feel divided internally   Husbands and fathers who want to lead with integrity   Men who are tired of relapse cycles   Anyone who wants freedom through identity transformation, not willpower   About Coach Frank Rich Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and creator of the Reboot Your Life transformation system. He helps men break free from porn addiction by rebuilding identity, discipline, and purpose through structure, brotherhood, and faith-rooted leadership. Frank's work has helped thousands of men overcome shame, rebuild marriages, and step into the men they were created to be.   Next Step: Start Rebuilding Today If this episode hit you, don't do what you've always done, feel inspired and go back to isolation.   Coach Frank invites you to take your first real step forward by joining the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset, where you'll get: Clear daily structure Brotherhood-based accountability Identity-focused tools to break the cycle A proven starting point into the Rebuilt Man system   2026 doesn't need another attempt. It needs a decision.

Send us a text- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreWhat is 'Manly'? A conversation with Damian Andrews of SHAIR.Care Podcast (Australia) in 2023.Make the real thing the real thing; prioritise the right thing. Fight the right battles. Don't fight some battles, but lose the war. It will drain you and then you want to self-soothe and dissipate your energy.Your brain may sideswipe you to focus on non-essentials. What is the real issue. Take your eyes off others and do your own battles and fights. Not ones which others have set up for you. Focus on self love and self value. Only then can you learn to truly love someone else.….then, after sorting self, maybe you will have more energy to pick up other things and fulfil your best potential in the right aspects of life that is destined for you to impact beneficially. Become the best that you can be and leave your positive deposit on this earth. Consider a re-set, re-set, re-set. Get back to the real thing. Your focus is to change the trajectory that you are on. Change it by just one degree and in a year, see where your new trajectory has taken you.Compulsive and addiction behaviours is causing you to live and experience a lower quality of life, than you are entitled to and deserve.The Kairos Centre is all about helping you to see what you cannot see; then you can go after the right stuff, effect change and seek to be the best that you can be, so others can become the best that they can be –  because you have become the best that you can be - without SHAME, bringing colour back to life. Come taste and see! Get some help from The Kairos Centre. See what you cannot see. Begin to change that which you begin to better understand.Help someone: https://igg.me/at/ThekairosCentreHelp is here for you: bit.ly/pornaddictionhelpGary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR Practitioner.Key words: sex addiction, addicted, partner, porn addiction, recovery, sex drive, therapy, sex therapy, podcast, relationships, relationship counseling, relationship advice, addiction, couples, couples therapy, sex therapy, emdr, love addiction, behavior, psychology, codependency, sex life, neuroscience, sex ed, sober, sobriety, sexual dysfunction, relationship issues, sex coach, sexual, trauma, ptsd, sex science, The sex porn love Addiction Podcast, The Singles Partners Marrieds and Long Time Marrieds Podcast, Gary McFarlane, porn addiction, what neuroscience says, neuroscience, young adults, sex, sex addict, porn, recovery, porn addiction issue, porn addiction in teens, sex addiction in teens, sex hormones, Support the show

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Top headlines for Monday, January 12, 2026A U.S. Border Patrol agent in Portland opens fire after an alleged car attack, Tucker Carlson warns of the cultural dangers of widespread pornography, and a Texas teachers union pushes back on a state investigation they say threatens free speech.00:11 2 people shot by Border Patrol agent in Portland identified01:04 Tucker Carlson warns porn addiction exposes US to conquest01:50 Union sues Texas for investigating teachers' Kirk reactions02:39 OnlyFans models among growing number of visa applicants03:30 Homicide charge against woman who aborted, buried baby dimissed04:16 4 things to know about suspect who vandalized JD Vance's home04:59 Indiana church to raise $1 million to build new homeless shelterSubscribe to this PodcastApple PodcastsSpotifyGoogle PodcastsOvercastFollow Us on Social Media@ChristianPost on TwitterChristian Post on Facebook@ChristianPostIntl on InstagramSubscribe on YouTubeGet the Edifi AppDownload for iPhoneDownload for AndroidSubscribe to Our NewsletterSubscribe to the Freedom Post, delivered every Monday and ThursdayClick here to get the top headlines delivered to your inbox every morning!Links to the News2 people shot by Border Patrol agent in Portland identified | U.S.Tucker Carlson warns porn addiction exposes US to conquest | PodcastUnion sues Texas for investigating teachers' Kirk reactions | U.S.OnlyFans models among growing number of visa applicants | U.S.Homicide charge against woman who aborted, buried baby dimissed | U.S.4 things to know about suspect who vandalized JD Vance's home | U.S.Indiana church to raise $1 million to build new homeless shelter | Church & Ministries

Have you ever found yourself in a place of fatigue, depression, isolating from others and just feeling like you're tolerance for things that used to bring life joy just aren't there anymore? There could be many things that contribute to this, but one of the things that can be contributing is something called dopamine crash. How does the dopamine crash take us out of God's design for life? In this episode, Rodney Holmstrom, Global Field, Director of Celebrate Recovery, will unpack what a dopamine crash is and how going outside of God's design for stimulation and natural dopamine release can lead to unhealthy consequences. There is hope and a way out of it if we're willing to acknowledge it and understand it and invite God and others into it.

Life isn't always sunshine and butterflies. It doesn't matter who you are or where you are in your spiritual walk, the storms of life WILL come. So build your life wisely.Learn more about the ministry of The Purity Coach at  http://www.thepuritycoach.comSHARE HOW GOD IS USING THIS PODCAST!Support the show

There's something incredibly powerful when we get to hear the hope and life change that happens in one of our brothers and sisters in Christ. When we hear another's story, it gives us hope to keep going ourselves. Listen in as Rodney Holmstrom, Global Field Director of Celebrate Recovery, interview Jim, to hear an encouraging word and a portion of a powerful life change story.

Do you suffer from sexual frustration? Do you look at questionable content on your screen? Do you have porn addiction? In today’s Tafsir, we explain why this happens and give you the heavenly solution God prescribed so you can bring peace to your life.

JOIN "THE REBUILT MAN" ON SKOOL - ▶️ www.skool.com/rebootyourlife   As the year comes to a close, Coach Frank Rich challenges men to stop carrying the same struggles into another year by asking one critical question: Are you asking the right questions?   In this episode, Frank explains why most men fail to break free from porn addiction, not because they lack information or discipline, but because they're trying to solve a deep identity and emotional issue with surface-level behavior changes.   Rather than offering tactics or motivation, Frank walks through 10 powerful questions every man must ask himself heading into 2026. These questions expose the real reasons behind porn addiction, reveal how identity and emotional avoidance fuel relapse, and clarify the path toward lasting freedom.   Frank also introduces the Reboot Your Life system, a proven identity-based transformation framework that goes beyond sobriety to help men rebuild their structure, discipline, brotherhood, and purpose.   This episode is a must-listen for any man who's tired of starting over and ready to make a real decision heading into the new year.     Key Takeaways Most men stay stuck because they ask the wrong questions   Porn is a symptom, not the root problem   Addiction often serves a hidden emotional or psychological purpose Identity is revealed through private patterns, not public intentions   Relapse is usually driven by emotional avoidance, not desire   Beliefs always come before behavior—lies fuel the cycle   Isolation strengthens addiction; brotherhood breaks it   Structure protects against relapse and chaos feeds compulsion   Looking honestly at the future creates urgency for change   Questions create clarity, but action creates freedom       Ready to Stop Fighting and Start Becoming Free? If you're ready to stop fighting alone and step into a container built for growth, support, and freedom:   ➡ Join The Rebuilt Man Skool Community — Free 7-Day Trial www.TheRebuiltMan.com/7dayreset   Inside you'll gain access to: Daily accountability Weekly coaching The 7-Day Reset The 12-Week "Reboot Your Life" Framework And a brotherhood of men who refuse to quit   – Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich   Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

In episode #313, we address a hard but necessary truth: addicts cannot change what they refuse to see. Using two deeply moving submissions from betrayed partners, we illustrate how years of porn use, dishonesty, staggered disclosure, and fake recovery create devastating emotional, psychological, relational, and financial consequences. These stories highlight partners who are not “impatient” or “unforgiving,” but who are reaching the end of their capacity after living in chronically unsafe relationships shaped by manipulation, gaslighting, and emotional abandonment.We explore how addiction in committed relationships represents a fundamental breach of contract—one in which the addict continues to benefit from a partner's love, loyalty, emotional labor, and sexual availability while secretly violating the very agreements that relationship was built upon. Drawing on clinical concepts such as Integrity Abuse and intentionally manipulated reality, we explain how chronic deception strips partners of informed consent, destabilizes their nervous systems, and forces them into hyper-vigilance, self-doubt, and long-term trauma. The damage extends beyond the relationship itself, often impairing a partner's future capacity for trust, intimacy, and connection.Finally, we issue a direct plea to addicts: face the devastation honestly and let it become the catalyst for real change. This is not about collapsing into shame, but about developing clarity, humility, and resolve. We emphasize that words, promises, and intentions are no longer enough—only consistent action, accountability, sacrifice, and transparency demonstrate true recovery. The episode closes with a sobering reminder from a listener who lost his marriage after decades of delay, underscoring the urgency of choosing change now, before the cost becomes irreversible.For a full transcript of this podcast in article format, go to:   Face the Devastation You Have Heaped Upon Your Partner and then CHOOSE TO CHANGE!Learn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at:  Reclaim Counseling Services

One of the misconceptions of the enemy is that he is big, loud, and easy to see coming our way. But the truth is, that he is slow, sneaky, and even strategic in how he tries to get us off course. In this episode, Rodney Holmstrom, Global Field Director of Celebrate Recovery, will talk about some things to be aware of and the lies the enemy can feed us as he prowls around like a lion seeking to devour us. Listen in and find some practical ways to combat the enemies sabotage attempts so that we can keep moving and growing forward in our recovery with our forever family, and Jesus Christ as our higher power.

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In recovery, one of the essential principles that we need to fuel our recovery is Hope. If the enemy can get inside our head and heart and convince us that our situation is hopeless and there's no point in moving forward, he has us right where he wants us. But there is another way and some things to think about that can keep the enemy from winning his sabotage efforts. In this episode, Rodney Holmstrom, Global Field Director of Celebrate Recovery, will lean into some things and ways the enemy might try to sabotage our recovery with hopelessness as we face our situations. Listen in and being encouraged. 

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn.info/    Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes? Email me here:  sam@healingcouples.org   Episode show notes: If you've quit porn — or you're trying to — but your partner still doesn't feel safe, this episode will help you understand why porn addiction recovery isn't just about stopping the behavior. It's about changing the patterns that created it. In this episode, I break down a real, step-by-step trust rebuilding plan I created with a client working to overcome porn addiction and heal the damage caused by long-term pornography use. We talk about why promises alone don't rebuild trust, why many men get stuck in cycles of “doing better” without feeling free, and why wives often stay triggered even when porn use has stopped. You'll learn: Why porn addiction recovery fails when it's based on willpower instead of patterns How deception — not porn itself — breaks trust in relationships What actually helps a wife feel safe again after porn addiction How to replace secrecy with transparency during porn recovery The daily actions that create lasting freedom from pornography addiction Why emotional avoidance fuels porn use — and how to heal the root cause This episode is for men who want to overcome porn addiction for good, not just manage urges, and for couples trying to rebuild trust after pornography addiction has damaged emotional safety. If you're searching for real help with: porn addiction recovery pornography addiction healing stopping porn permanently rebuilding trust after porn addiction understanding porn triggers freedom from pornography this episode will give you clarity, direction, and a practical framework for real change — not through fear or control, but through consistency, emotional growth, and new patterns that last.