Podcasts about porn addiction

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No one plans to drift. No one plans to lose focus. No one plans to slowly trade what matters most for something temporary. And yet...it happens. In this message from our Eyes on the Prize series, we talk honestly about temptation: how it works, why it’s powerful, and how to overcome it before it pulls you off course. The Bible says sin “easily entangles” us. That means it rarely shows up loud and obvious. It shows up subtle. Normal. Manageable. Until it isn’t. In this sermon, you’ll discover: • Why temptation is common (and you’re not alone) • How sin begins in the heart, not just behavior • Why certain compromises are more destructive than we think • Practical, biblical steps to fight temptation • How real freedom is found in Jesus...not willpower This isn’t about guilt. It’s about clarity. It’s about freedom. If you’ve ever felt pulled in two directions… If you’ve ever wanted to stop a pattern before it became a problem… If you’re ready to live with purpose instead of regret… This message is for you.

In this ministry, we can find that it doesn't always have a pretty ending and can be heart wrenching to walk-through. Thankfully, this doesn't happen the majority of the time, but it does happen from time to time and we need to prepare hearts for if it does. In this episode Rodney Holmstrom, Global Field Director of celebrate recovery, will walk us through some important reminders to equip us in handling the deepest pain of losing someone that we walked along side and shepherded, maybe in death or relapse, etc. How do we heal and take our hearts to the Lord? How can we possibly keep going and what God has called us to in our ultimate purpose and mission? Listen to some important points to equip us in these rare but important possibilities.IMPORTANT: If you or someone you know is struggling with suicidal ideation or self-harm please seek help and consider professional attention if needed. Dial 988 to talk to a professional to be a bridge toward the help that you deserve.

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya Sam delves into the complexities of porn addiction, challenging the common misconception that addiction is purely about pleasure. He emphasizes that the true nature of addiction lies in the conflict between desire and self-loathing, where individuals often crave something they simultaneously detest. Drawing on the research of Dr. Gary Wilson, Sathiya explains how early excitement from porn fades, leading to a reliance on it as a coping mechanism for stress and discomfort. This creates a cycle of shame and confusion, where the desire for porn persists despite a lack of enjoyment.  

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Episode 321 addresses a vulnerable question from a man in recovery who fears he may have “overcorrected”—moving from sexual addiction to sexual numbness. After establishing over a year of sobriety, he wonders if suppressing his sexuality has led to aversion rather than health. We explain that this phase is not uncommon. Sobriety is essential, but it is only the beginning. When years of compulsive behavior have rewired the dopamine system, removing intense stimulation can initially feel flat. The brain and body require time to recalibrate, and during that process, desire may feel muted.We also explore the powerful role of shame and fear in suppressing healthy arousal. Many addicts carry beliefs that they no longer deserve sexual enjoyment because of the harm they caused. Unresolved shame can shut down vulnerability, which is essential for authentic intimacy. Additionally, medical variables such as stress and hormone imbalance should be ruled out, as libido is influenced by both emotional and biological factors. Healthy sexuality looks very different from addiction-driven intensity—it is relational, emotionally connected, and often built on appreciation rather than urgency.Ultimately, the goal of recovery is not sexual suppression but integration. Guardrails—healthy boundaries—are necessary to maintain safety, but walls built from fear prevent growth. As couples move from repair into creation, they can collaboratively define what authentic intimacy looks like for them. With patience, grace, and ongoing emotional connection, sexuality can evolve from something compulsive and destructive into a conscious, shared celebration of closeness and love.For a full transcript of this podcast in article format, go to:  Guardrails or walls—Moving from Sexual Aversion to Healthy Intimacy in Recovery Learn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at:  Reclaim Counseling Services

What if porn addiction isn't actually about sex?What if the real issue isn't lust… or self-control… or willpower?What if porn is a signal — pointing to something deeper in your unconscious mind?In this episode, I sit down with Michael Hallett to explore the root causes of porn addiction through the lens of shame, generational trauma, and the often-overlooked mother and father wounds that shape our emotional patterns.We go far beyond symptom management.We talk about healing at the root.If you've tried abstinence… if you've built strict boundaries… if you've white-knuckled your way through sobriety only to still feel tense, disconnected, or secretly struggling — this episode will challenge and expand the way you understand addiction recovery.Because porn addiction isn't just a behavior problem.It's an unconscious pattern.It's a trauma response.It's often a nervous system regulation strategy that developed long before you ever chose to open a browser.We also discuss how addiction and shame distort your internal sense of worth — pushing you to seek validation, control, achievement, or anesthesia rather than connection and integration.This is about more than quitting porn.It's about restoring emotional balance.It's about healing trauma.It's about reclaiming healthy masculinity.It's about learning how to regulate your nervous system instead of running from your emotions.And it's about understanding that your compulsive behavior may be pointing toward unresolved grief, unmet nurturing needs, and inherited emotional patterns — not moral failure.Interested in learning more about Michael Hallett's work? You can find out more about him at: https://www.michaelhhallett.com/Link to Blog Article for this EpisodeIf you're ready to build the mindset and lifestyle that lead to long-term freedom from porn addiction, join the No More Desire free online community and connect with men who are committed to real recovery. When you sign up, you'll gain access to The 4 Pillars of Recovery Online Course FREE. You can also check out my Free Workshop and Free Ebook, designed to help you overcome porn addiction, rewire your brain, and rebuild your life.Join the free No More Desire Brotherhood and access the February Challenge inside the community. You'll get a free PDF with daily body-gratitude meditations, the Story Over Skin tool, and an optional 10% discount for the full Reclaim Sexual Joy course. Sign up for the February Challenge here!Support the showNo More Desire

In Season 4, Episode 8 of the To Be Better Podcast, Chris and Peaches sit down for a real, no fluff relationship and life advice Q and A, reading listener emails and responding with direct coaching, hard truths, and practical next moves. Recorded on New Year's Eve, this episode is built for men and women who want stronger marriages, better communication, and more personal accountability, without the sugar coating.You'll hear them tackle a painful co parenting situation with an absent father and addiction, including how to set boundaries that protect kids emotionally, and what court and custody decisions really do and do not fix. They also dig into a workplace crush and whether to make a move, intimacy issues tied to body insecurity and weight gain after kids, starting a business when fear of failure is loud, and a marriage crisis involving an emotional affair, porn addiction, and accountability, plus a boundary conversation about “playful” touching that crosses the line.Disclaimer: We are not professionals. This podcast is opinioned based and from life experience. This is for entertainment purposes only. Opinions helped by our guests may not reflect our own. But we love a good conversation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/2-be-better--5828421/support.

Tuesday Headlines: Albo backs removal of Andrew from royal line of succession, Coalition’s ISIS brides proposal slammed, Australia’s first bullet train could be “shovel ready” in two years, Trump Tower greenlit for the Gold Coast and punch the monkey soft toy sells out. Deep Dive: Australians are about to see a major shift in how they access pornography online, with new age-verification rules set to require users to prove they’re over 18. For Jason Blyth, the issue is deeply personal. He was first exposed to porn at just 10 years old, and what began as something secretive and normalised spiralled into addiction - one that ultimately led him to rehab at 30. In this episode of The Briefing, Helen Smith speaks with Jason about breaking a porn addiction, why many young people don’t recognise the warning signs, and whether Australia’s new age-verification laws can meaningfully curb harm. Further listening from the headlines: Secrets We Keep Uncovered | Confronting Prince Andrew on EpsteinThe Weekend Briefing | Meet the journalist who brought down Prince Andrew Follow The Briefing: TikTok: @thebriefingpodInstagram: @thebriefingpodcast YouTube: @TheBriefingPodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A question that might come up in the Recovery journey is "why should I deal with my past? Doesn't Paul say we should forget the past and strain forward?" Understanding the difference between getting stuck in our past and honoring our past with the whole goal of moving forward with a new purpose is essential to walking in freedom or staying stuck in our past trauma and pain. In this episode, Rodney Holmstrom, global field Director of Celebrate Recovery, will walk us through a conversation on what it looks like to understand the difference between staying stuck in our past and honoring our past so that God can bring redemption and restoration so that we can walk in Freedom.

Send a text- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreMate/Partner selection, Collusive/Couple fit and all that: Why did I choose you and not someone else on planet earth?"I have never met you before or hardly know you, yet in a room of 100 people, I gravitate to you". How does that happen?My reply as a Therapist: "Because you 'promise' (or hold the potential) to fix and supplement an aspect of me which needs what you have - but I am not going to tell you that and make myself vulnerable."Say what? Yep."So you are saying that we gravitate to sameness (to compliment each other), as well as differenceness (to supplement my perceived deficits) - which I don't want you to know about and even I don't necessarily and consciously want to own that fact?"All very odd. Yep - because most of that dynamic lives in the unconscious, which is what Therapy with The Kairos Centre helps you with - to move as much from the unconscious into the conscious; so that when it is now in the conscious, you get the opportunity to try to do something about it; but just because it is now in the conscious does not mean you will be able to change what is now visible - quickly. It takes take to effect change.Why? Because you are going after patterns of behaviours set up in the childhood development period, where blueprints and templates were established and set in place and practised into adulthood. "So my thoughts and behaviours are going down a predictable course because of repeatedly practiced patterns of behaviours which have become neural pathways and it takes time to change well entrenched and well established patterns of behaviours which have become neural pathways?". Yep. You got it."Little wonder then that I set about trying to avoid getting it wrong again (by choosing that wrong type of partner) and to avoid that, I go to extreme opposite ends of the spectrum of attributes and blow me, I end up with someone where the same negative behaviours eventually show up again. Oh - yuk"!Get some help from The Kairos Centre. See what you cannot see. Begin to change that which you begin to better understand.Help is here for you: bit.ly/pornaddictionhelpGary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR Practitioner.Key words: sex addiction, addicted, partner, porn addiction, recovery, sex drive, therapy, sex therapy, podcast, relationships, relationship counseling, relationship advice, addiction, couples, couples therapy, sex therapy, emdr, love addiction, behavior, psychology, codependency, sex life, neuroscience, sex ed, sober, sobriety, sexual dysfunction, relationship issues, sex coach, sexual, trauma, ptsd, sex science, The sex porn love Addiction Podcast, The Singles Partners Marrieds and Long Time Marrieds Podcast, Gary McFarlane, porn addiction, what neuroscience says, neuroscience, young adults, sex, sex addict, porn, recovery, porn addiction issue, porn addiction in teens, sex addiction in teens, sex hormones, Support the show

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JOIN "THE REBUILT MAN" ON SKOOL - ▶️ www.skool.com/rebootyourlife   If you're doing the work to quit porn—but still feel discouraged, stuck, or unsure if you're actually making progress—this episode is for you.   One of the biggest reasons men quit is not failure… It's doubt.   In this episode, Coach Frank Rich breaks down 10 clear, overlooked signs that real progress is happening—even if urges still show up and the journey still feels hard.   At The Rebuilt Man, we believe freedom isn't built through perfection—it's built through identity, structure, and brotherhood. This episode will help you see progress for what it really is and keep you moving forward.   In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why struggle does not mean you're failing   How to tell if your brain is actually rewiring   The difference between behavior change and identity change   Why awareness and honesty are major signs of growth   How real freedom develops long before urges disappear   What to do next if you're seeing these signs in your life   The 10 Signs of Real Progress: You're more aware of your triggers There's a pause between urges and action Porn feels less appealing and more empty You tell the truth faster instead of hiding You think about porn less overall Your emotions are coming back online You're choosing structure over willpower Your identity language is changing You're more present in real life You get back up faster after setbacks   These aren't small wins—they're proof that change is already underway.     Why This Matters Most men think progress means "never struggling again." That belief keeps them stuck.   Real progress looks like awareness, honesty, structure, and persistence—and those are exactly the traits that lead to lasting freedom.   If you're seeing even a few of these signs, you are on the right track.    

On today's episode, I talk with Jeremy Lipkowitz about his journey from porn addiction to recovery and coaching. We explore the addiction cycle, underlying causes, mindfulness and meditation, building equanimity, and practical strategies for men to regain control, improve relationships, and find lasting fulfillment. This episode offers insights, personal stories, and actionable steps for anyone struggling with pornography or supporting someone who is.   —The Anxiety Recovery Program— https://unpluganxiety.com/my-program/ —1 on 1 Coaching— https://unpluganxiety.com/1-on-1-coaching/ —The Website— https://unpluganxiety.com  

In episode 320, we address a betrayed partner's heartbreaking story of separation turning into divorce as her husband's addiction spirals further out of control. What was supposed to be a wake-up call instead became deeper indulgence, leaving her feeling disrespected, confused, and searching for closure. We explore how addicts can reach a point where fantasy feels “authentic,” and how emotional immaturity, avoidance of discomfort, arrested development, and untreated mental health issues often drive such drastic decisions. While these factors may help explain the behavior, we make it clear: they do not excuse it.We then confront the painful but empowering reality that he has the right—through his autonomy and agency—to make destructive choices. Acceptance of that truth does not mean approval or forgiveness; it means recognizing what cannot be controlled. Betrayed partners cannot force recovery, insight, or maturity. Fighting that reality only prolongs suffering. True empowerment begins when the focus shifts from changing him to strengthening oneself.Finally, we address the complicated reality of co-parenting after betrayal. When children are involved, complete separation is rarely possible. We emphasize the importance of thoughtful boundaries, structured communication, and protecting children from emotional crossfire. Revenge-driven decisions often create long-term damage, whereas clarity-driven boundaries create stability. Though he may choose to “screw up his life,” the betrayed partner retains the power to heal, protect her peace, and build a stronger future for herself and her children.For a full transcript of this podcast in article format, go to:  He has the Right to Completely Screw Up His Life!Learn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at:  Reclaim Counseling Services

In celebrate recovery, we all have our own experiences and the way the Holy Spirit grows and changes us through the principles and steps of celebrate recovery. In this episode, Rodney Holmstrom, Global Field Director of Celebrate Recovery, sits down with North Central regional Director, Scott Kemp to talk about his favorite step & principle of CR. He shares his heart and why it means so much to him even 30+ years later in his recovery journey.

Send a text- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreFrom where did you get your Sex Ed knowledge back there during the developing childhood years, which you have been following through and repeatedly practising in adulthood? Was it 'Peers, banter and porn' which set up your sexual template, long before school Sex Ed - which got there way too late; the deed was already done. You give a wry smile when asked about Sex Ed at home from parents! For most - there was none at home; for others, if there was, it came way too late.Once the five senses of sight, smell, taste, touch & sound brings images and experiences onto the brain - those 'firsts' have already set up the templates - which will then be repeatedly played out in adulthood sexuality, as being 'right' and 'works'. Not necessarily true. They are templates, but they may not be accurate of 'right'. They are just what your brain experienced as 'first time' and the template is set up (whether wanted or not) and will reproduce and reproduce; churning out the same old, same old - 'seems to work'; (but you know it isn't working as you want it to work!The setting up of those templates during the childhood development period are called sexual myths. Sexual myths need to be unlearned. Then replaced with accurate knowledge about human sexually and physiological responses. That is what The Kairos Centre provide, when its Therapists are wearing a different hat and skill set called Psychosexual Therapy. (I use the shorted term of 'Sex Therapy').It can be transformation, when (for the first time) you experience Sensuality, Intimacy, Romance, Deep Love & Affection - at a must higher level (after cleansing out the dross); which is so fulfilling on its own; and you haven't even had sex yet!Come and see and experience it for yourself. Then you will have eyes to see and body to feel the difference of 'sex gone wrong' all those years that you have been doing it!Help is here for you: bit.ly/pornaddictionhelpGary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR Practitioner.Key words: sex addiction, addicted, partner, porn addiction, recovery, sex drive, therapy, sex therapy, podcast, relationships, relationship counseling, relationship advice, addiction, couples, couples therapy, sex therapy, emdr, love addiction, behavior, psychology, codependency, sex life, neuroscience, sex ed, sober, sobriety, sexual dysfunction, relationship issues, sex coach, sexual, trauma, ptsd, sex science, The sex porn love Addiction Podcast, The Singles Partners Marrieds and Long Time Marrieds Podcast, Gary McFarlane, porn addiction, what neuroscience says, neuroscience, young adults, sex, sex addict, porn, recovery, porn addiction issue, porn addiction in teens, sex addiction in teens, sex hormones,Support the show

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JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   Most men believe success is the solution. More money. More status. More access. More freedom.   But what if success actually makes the problem worse?   In this episode, Coach Frank Rich exposes a truth few people are willing to talk about: some of the most successful men in the world secretly struggle with porn addiction—including pro athletes, entrepreneurs, executives, doctors, and high performers across every industry.   This conversation breaks the myth that porn addiction is a "weak man's problem" and reveals why achievement alone never creates freedom.   In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why success often amplifies internal struggles instead of solving them   The hidden pressures high-performing men live under every day   How stress, dopamine depletion, and identity confusion fuel porn use   Why discipline alone fails—and what actually creates lasting change   The real reason porn addiction has nothing to do with money, sex, or status   This episode isn't about shame. It's about identity, alignment, and rebuilding the man from the inside out.   About The Rebuilt Man Podcast The Rebuilt Man Podcast helps men break free from porn, rebuild identity, and step into disciplined, purpose-driven leadership. Hosted by Coach Frank Rich, each episode delivers direct, real, and transformational conversations on masculinity, addiction recovery, identity, mindset, faith, discipline, and personal growth.   If you're ready to stop surviving and start becoming the man you were created to be — you're in the right place.     About Coach Frank Rich Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and creator of the Reboot Your Life transformation system. He helps men break free from porn addiction by rebuilding identity, discipline, and purpose through structure, brotherhood, and faith-rooted leadership. Frank's work has helped thousands of men overcome shame, rebuild marriages, and step into the men they were created to be.     Next Step: Start Rebuilding Today If this episode hit you, don't do what you've always done, feel inspired and go back to isolation.   Coach Frank invites you to take your first real step forward by joining the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset, where you'll get: Clear daily structure Brotherhood-based accountability Identity-focused tools to break the cycle A proven starting point into the Rebuilt Man system   2026 doesn't need another attempt. It needs a decision.    

What does the kinda porn you're into mean? Is it just a fantasy or is it deeper than that?And how do you deal with feelings of shame and guilt if what you like to get off to, doesn't align with who you are in your everyday life. In this ep, Dee chats to sexologist Lauren French about what your porn taste says about you. SHOW NOTES:Lifeline: 13 11 141800 RESPECT: 1800 737 732 MensLine Australia: 1300 78 99 78 Qlife (Queer support services): 1800 184 527Pornaddiction.com: PornAddiction.com Sex Addiction Australia: https://www.sexaddictionaustralia.com.au/RELATED EPISODES:What Kind Of Porn Are You Into?: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UWABwwal8II&list=PLFqO_oqoHHMzFwCWPXOj6CDpOdG3eS8cE&index=1DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

When betrayal is confessed, both partners are immediately forced into territory they never chose. In this episode (#319), we address a powerful submission from a man whose pornography use and delayed disclosure led to the end of a serious relationship. We unpack why betrayal permanently changes a relationship's landscape and why healthy boundaries for the betrayed partner begin with space, agency, and the right to decide what future—if any—feels authentic. Boundaries are not punishments; they are acts of self-protection and clarity in the wake of shattered trust. We also address a critical but often misunderstood issue: waiting for the “right time” to tell the truth. While many addicts believe delayed honesty is protective, we explain how it actually constitutes integrity abuse and creates layered, complex trauma for the partner. By managing the timing and flow of truth, the addict unintentionally manipulates the relationship and deprives the partner of informed consent. We emphasize that honesty at all costs is not about guaranteeing forgiveness—it is about preserving reality, which is the foundation of any healthy boundary. Finally, we turn to the addict's side of the boundary equation. Addicts do not get to set boundaries on betrayed partners—but they must establish uncompromising internal boundaries around truth, transparency, and integrity. We discuss what it means to continue recovery when honesty leads to rejection, and why authentic change must eventually be internally motivated rather than driven by fear of loss. Even when a relationship ends, living honestly prepares an addict to become a healthier partner in the future and prevents repeating the same cycle of deception and harm.For a full transcript of this podcast in article format, go to:   When Betrayal is Confessed, What are Healthy Boundaries for the Partner & Addioct?Learn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at:  Reclaim Counseling Services

Jim Tilley is a former pastor with a PHD in clinical psychology. In this second of two broadcasts Jim continues the discussion the story of his journey to hope and healing, which includes watching his father videotape young women at a swimming pool in front of Jim’s mother when Jim was 13, (his father, who was an elder of a church, ended up doing prison time) the lies that were implanted in Jim’s heart at an early age, his struggles with the worship of women, porn and masturbation, 3 major depressive episodes… and his journey to finding Jesus and freedom. Jim also talks about the affect that his struggles had on his marriage.

In this episode, we continue the conversation with a dear sister in Christ, Amanda. We get to hear how God took her from the pains of a sexual assault and addictions to a new beautiful life of giving back, through her words and deeds sharing the good news with other people. Listen in on this episode with Rodney Holmstrom, global field, Director of celebrate recovery, as he has a continued conversation of part two of this incredible hope-filled testimony.

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Support the podcast through Buy Me a Coffee! https://buymeacoffee.com/drlizbonet Jeremy Lipkowitz joins us on the podcast to talk about porn addiction and recovery from a Buddhist perspective rather than 12-step recovery. We talk about: When a habit crosses over from a problem to addiction How to approach a partner about a problem behavior or addiction Key buddhist concept for recovery from addiction The men's porn recovery group Jeremy runs based on Buddhist principles Mindfulness and meditation for the meditation averse and ADHD mind See more about Jeremy and his online group for porn addiction recovery at https://https://www.unhookedacademy.com Take an online quiz to see if you have a sex or porn addiction at https://www.saa-recovery.org   -------------- Support the Podcast & Help yourself with Hypnosis Downloads by Dr. Liz! http://bit.ly/HypnosisMP3Downloads Do you have Chronic Insomnia? Find out more about Dr. Liz's Better Sleep Program at https://bit.ly/sleepbetterfeelbetter Search episodes at the Podcast Page http://bit.ly/HM-podcast --------- About Dr. Liz Interested in hypnosis with Dr. Liz? Schedule your free consultation at https://www.drlizhypnosis.com Winner of numerous awards including Top 100 Moms in Business, Dr. Liz provides psychotherapy, hypnotherapy, and hypnosis to people wanting a fast, easy way to transform all around the world. She has a PhD in Clinical Psychology, is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) and has special certification in Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy. Specialty areas include Anxiety, Insomnia, and Deeper Emotional Healing. A problem shared is a problem halved. In person and online hypnosis and CBT for healing and transformation.  Listened to in over 140 countries, Hypnotize Me is the podcast about hypnosis, transformation, and healing. Certified hypnotherapist and Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Dr. Liz Bonet, discusses hypnosis and interviews professionals doing transformational work. Thank you for tuning in!

JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   In this powerful I Am Rebuilt episode of the The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank Rich sits down with former student Larry Fuentes to share one of the longest and most profound transformation stories ever featured on the show.   At the time of recording, Larry has been over 16 months free from porn, after struggling with porn addiction, compulsive behaviors, and identity confusion for nearly two decades.   This is not a story about willpower or quick fixes. This is a story about identity change, radical responsibility, faith, and rebuilding life from the inside out.   Episode Summary Before joining The Rebuilt Man in October 2024, Larry was trapped in a recurring cycle of relapse that escalated beyond porn and into dangerous real-world behaviors. Years of addiction had stripped away his self-worth, distorted how he saw himself and others, and left him without direction or purpose.   Although he had tried multiple recovery paths in the past, including 12-step programs, Larry realized something critical during this journey: his addiction wasn't the real problem, it was a symptom of a deeper identity issue.   Inside The Rebuilt Man, Larry was challenged to stop reinforcing an "addict identity" and begin building a new one. Through structured discipline, community accountability, faith, and daily identity-based action, everything began to change.   As Larry surrendered fully to the process and the brotherhood, he began facing old resentments, taking ownership of his past, rebuilding self-respect, and learning how to live with courage instead of avoidance.   Today, Larry describes his life as finally beginning. With clarity, purpose, and confidence restored, he's pursuing meaningful passions, building healthy relationships, and stepping into a future he once believed was impossible.   His message to the man still struggling is clear: Freedom is possible… but it requires effort, honesty, risk, and a willingness to rebuild your life.   What You'll Learn in This Episode How porn addiction often escalates beyond the screen when left unaddressed   Why identifying as an "addict" can keep men stuck in the cycle   The power of identity-based transformation vs. behavior control   How discipline, discomfort, and structure rebuild self-trust   Why porn is often a symptom of deeper emotional and spiritual wounds   The role of brotherhood, accountability, and faith in lasting freedom   What life actually looks like on the other side of porn addiction Key Takeaway Porn addiction isn't the core problem—it's a signal. When a man rebuilds his identity, his habits follow.   Larry Fuentes' story is proof that no matter how long the struggle has lasted, real freedom and a meaningful life are possible.   Take the First Step Toward Freedom If you resonate with Larry's story and want to begin rebuilding your own life, you're invited to start with the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset.   You'll get: 7 days of clear, actionable steps A free trial inside the Rebuilt Man Brotherhood The same community and structure that helped Larry create lasting freedom   About The Rebuilt Man Podcast The Rebuilt Man Podcast helps men break free from porn, rebuild identity, and step into disciplined, purpose-driven leadership. Hosted by Coach Frank Rich, each episode delivers direct, real, and transformational conversations on masculinity, addiction recovery, identity, mindset, faith, discipline, and personal growth. If you're ready to stop surviving and start becoming the man you were created to be — you're in the right place.   About Coach Frank Rich Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and creator of the Reboot Your Life transformation system. He helps men break free from porn addiction by rebuilding identity, discipline, and purpose through structure, brotherhood, and faith-rooted leadership. Frank's work has helped thousands of men overcome shame, rebuild marriages, and step into the men they were created to be.   Next Step: Start Rebuilding Today If this episode hit you, don't do what you've always done, feel inspired and go back to isolation.   Coach Frank invites you to take your first real step forward by joining the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset, where you'll get: Clear daily structure Brotherhood-based accountability Identity-focused tools to break the cycle A proven starting point into the Rebuilt Man system 2026 doesn't need another attempt. It needs a decision.  

Send us a text- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centrePart 5 of 5 of an interview with Caroline Brown of -  This Crazy over 40s Life - a Black & ethnicity perspectiveHere is a portion of an article by Lauren Dubinsky - Founder of Good Women Project: What I Wish I'd Known Before Watching Porn, 2012 "Pornography is a charged subject, and it's a word that rarely crosses the lips of most women. Yes, there are now breeds of the modern woman who watch, talk and joke about it regularly, but most of us still stay farther away from speaking the word than we actually stay away from it...... but statistics show that, at least in Australia, more than one-third of pornography viewers are women. Just last week, I received an email from a girl who leads a small women's group; they'd just discovered that every single one of them were watching porn.When I was in high school, pornography was on the long list of "bad things" that I didn't know much about -- and unfortunately also on the list of things I had participated in. Never mind why I was watching it, the how is the same for nearly all of us: We stumbled upon it because of someone else. And none of us knew what to expect, or how to handle it.I wish someone had talked about how women watch it too, so I wouldn't have had to spend years living under the shame that comes with being "the only one" and thinking there was something wrong with me....."What are the psychosexual issues that we work with as Sex Therapists, which young people are storing up and manifests in their twenties.Erectile Dysfunction: Inability to get or keep an erectionDelayed/Retarded ejaculation: Inability or 'long' delay in being able to ejaculatePremature Ejaculation: Coming too quicklyVaginismus: Inability for penis to enter the vagina due to vaginal musclesDyspareunia: Female pain during vaginal penetrationSexual Desire Disorder: Little or no desire for sexLack of Orgasm: Inability to reach an OrgasmSpectatoring during sex: Coaching self during sex and so not fully presentGenital/body dysmorphia: Belief that genitals are not 'normal'Spermaphobia: Fear of ejaculation and specifically spermEurotophobia: Aversion to/fear of female genitaliaSickle cell Priapism: Ejection failure to reduce and is longlastingVulvar painGet some help from The Kairos Centre. See what you cannot see. Begin to change that which you begin to better understand.Help is here for you: bit.ly/pornaddictionhelpGary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR Practitioner.Key words: sex addiction, addicted, partner, porn addiction, recovery, sex drive, therapy, sex therapy, podcast, relationships, relationship counseling, relationship advice, addiction, couples, couples therapy, sex therapy, emdr, love addiction, behavior, psychology, codependency, sex life, neuroscience, sex ed, sober, sobriety, sexual dysfunction, relationship issues, sex coach, sexual, trauma, ptsd, sex science, The sex porn love Addiction Podcast, The Singles Partners Marrieds and Long Time Marrieds Podcast, Gary McFarlane, porn addiction, what neuroscience says, neuroscience, young adults, sex, sex addict, porn, recovery, porn addiction issue, porn addiction in teens, sex addiction in teens, sex hormones,Support the show

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and build a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn.info/    Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes? Email me here:  sam@healingcouples.org   Episode show notes: How can a wife ever feel secure again after pornography use? How do you know real change is happening—and that he won't fall back into old patterns? In this episode of the Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction podcast, we walk through four clear indicators that show when a man is doing the kind of work that actually prevents returning to pornography and helps rebuild emotional safety in a marriage. This conversation is designed for both wives and husbands. For wives, it speaks directly to the fear, anxiety, and lack of security that often linger long after discovery. For husbands, it offers concrete milestones to aim for—so change isn't vague, fragile, or dependent on willpower alone. You'll learn: Why transparency (not monitoring) helps calm anxiety and rebuild trust How remorse and emotional empathy restore connection after betrayal The specific skills men need to resolve urges at the root, manage stress, and work through shame Why consistent follow-through is what actually creates long-term security This episode reframes porn addiction recovery away from promises, streaks, and fear-based vigilance—and toward root cause healing, emotional capacity, and relational safety. If you're navigating porn in marriage, struggling with pornography triggers, or looking for a healthier approach to relapse prevention that actually works, this episode offers clarity, direction, and hope.  

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Why do so many men keep relapsing into porn—even when they genuinely want recovery?Why does willpower work for a while… and then completely fall apart under stress, loneliness, or exhaustion?In this episode, I'm breaking down one of the most important truths men need to understand if they want to overcome porn addiction for good:Porn addiction is not a willpower problem. It's a nervous system problem.Most recovery approaches focus almost entirely on the thinking brain—your thoughts, beliefs, and self-control. But neuroscience tells a much deeper story. You are not driven by one brain. You are driven by three: the brain, the heart, and the gut.And when those three brains are out of sync, porn cravings feel overwhelming and impossible to resist.In this episode, I walk you through the real neuroscience of porn addiction, including how stress shuts down the prefrontal cortex, why willpower fails under pressure, and how cravings are often driven by emotional dysregulation and gut-level safety signals, not sexual desire.You'll learn why porn becomes wired in as a fast regulator for stress, loneliness, and emotional pain—and how to replace that cycle by restoring brain–heart–gut coherence.This conversation is grounded in psychology, neurobiology, and nervous system research, but it's taught in a practical, human way—so you can actually apply it in your daily life.If you've ever wondered why you “know better” but still relapse… If porn cravings seem to come out of nowhere when you're tired, stressed, or overwhelmed… If you're tired of white-knuckling and want real stability instead of constant internal battles…This episode will change how you understand yourself and your recovery.It comes from learning how to regulate your system, lead your inner world, and restore coherence between your mind, body, and emotions.That's the work we do here.If this episode helps you, make sure to follow the podcast, leave a rating, and share it with another man who's struggling with porn addiction and looking for a better way forward.You're not weak.You're not broken.And you're not meant to fight this alone.Link to Blog Article for this EpisodeIf you're ready to build the mindset and lifestyle that lead to long-term freedom from porn addiction, join the No More Desire free online community and connect with men who are committed to real recovery. When you sign up, you'll gain access to The 4 Pillars of Recovery Online Course FREE. You can also check out my Free Workshop and Free Ebook, designed to help you overcome porn addiction, rewire your brain, and rebuild your life.Join the free No More Desire Brotherhood and access the February Challenge inside the community. You'll get a free PDF with daily body-gratitude meditations, the Story Over Skin tool, and an optional 10% discount for the full Reclaim Sexual Joy course. Sign up for the February Challenge here!Support the showNo More Desire

In this episode (#318), we respond to a deeply painful and thought-provoking submission from a partner married for fifteen years who discovered her husband's long-standing pattern of visual sexual behaviors. While he insists he rarely masturbated, his compulsive scanning, voyeurism, and objectification left her questioning whether “just looking” could really constitute addiction—and why it felt so devastating. We outline how repeated denial, trickle-truth, and gaslighting created not only sexual betrayal but integrity abuse, leading to severe betrayal trauma marked by hypervigilance, loss of identity, shame, and emotional exhaustion.We then break down why addiction is not defined by orgasm alone. While climax powerfully reinforces behavior, sexual addiction is fueled by much more: anticipation, novelty, entitlement, secrecy, and emotional escape. Visual sexual behaviors can flood the brain with addictive neurochemicals long before orgasm ever occurs, training the brain to seek stimulation without intimacy. We explain how scanning and objectification allow addicts to bypass vulnerability while still receiving powerful neurological rewards, and how edging and prolonged preoccupation can become addictive in their own right.Finally, we address why visual sexual addiction often hurts partners more than masturbation. For many partners, “just looking” feels deeply personal—it involves comparison, preference, and emotional pursuit, not just physical release. We emphasize the vital distinction between sobriety and recovery, the necessity of full honesty through formal disclosure, and the importance of dismantling sexual entitlement rather than merely abstaining from behaviors. True healing, we conclude, requires integrity, empathy, and an intentional choice to move out of addiction and fully into relationship.For a full transcript of this podcast in article format, go to:   Can "Just Looking" Destroy a Marriage:  Understanding Visual Sexual AddictionLearn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at:  Reclaim Counseling Services

JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   Gratitude Is Not Soft — It's a Weapon for Freedom   Most men think porn is their biggest problem. It's not.   The real battle is happening in your emotional state, long before temptation ever shows up.   In this episode, Coach Frank Rich breaks down why gratitude is one of the most overlooked — yet powerful — tools for rewiring your brain, strengthening discipline, and reclaiming control over your thoughts, emotions, and habits.   This is not feel-good motivation. This is neuroscience, identity, and faith in action.   In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why relapse usually starts with stress and emotional drift — not lust   How gratitude activates the part of the brain responsible for discipline and impulse control   The connection between gratitude, dopamine, and nervous system regulation   Why porn thrives in anxiety, resentment, and numbness   How gratitude reshapes beliefs and reinforces a stronger identity   The biblical foundation for renewing the mind through gratitude   A simple daily gratitude practice that actually rewires your brain   Why spoken declarations matter more than silent thoughts     Key Takeaways: Gratitude is not weakness — it's leadership   You don't relapse because you're broken, but because your nervous system is dysregulated   What you focus on consistently becomes your identity   Gratitude trains your brain to look for strength instead of lack   A grateful man is grounded — and a grounded man is harder to tempt      

Jim Tilley is a former pastor with a PHD in clinical psychology. In this first of two broadcasts Jim shares his story, which includes watching his father videotape young women at a swimming pool in front of Jim’s mother when Jim was 13, (his father, who was an elder of a church, ended up doing prison time) the lies that were implanted in Jim’s heart at an early age, his struggles with the worship of women, porn and masturbation, 3 major depressive episodes… and his journey to finding Jesus and freedom.

One of the most valuable tools we have in celebrate Recovery is speaking out loud what God has done inside of us. Anytime we have a courageous brother or sister in Christ share their life change story it becomes oxygen for all of our soul regardless of how long we've been on the journey. In this episode, Rodney Holmstrom, global field Director of celebrate Recovery, has an impactful and heartfelt conversation with one of our sisters and celebrate recovery, Amanda. A young woman who walked through immense suffering and pain toward Jesus and healing. Amanda is a part of a celebrate Recovery at Lifeline Church in Princeton West Virginia and meets on Sunday nights at 5 PM. Listen to this incredible story and be blessed.

Ep. #800 | A simple, proven framework for getting past the toxin of porn.

We face temptation to sin multiple times a day. We want to glorify God, we read our Bible and pray - so why do we struggle so much with temptation?Learn more about the ministry of The Purity Coach at  http://www.thepuritycoach.comSHARE HOW GOD IS USING THIS PODCAST!Support the show

JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   Porn doesn't stay private, it shows up in your marriage.   In this powerful episode of The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank Rich confronts the uncomfortable truth most men avoid: many of the struggles in your relationship aren't caused by your wife… they're caused by the silent impact of porn.   Frank breaks down the 7 hidden ways porn addiction erodes trust, intimacy, leadership, and emotional connection, and why real freedom doesn't come from willpower — it comes from rebuilding your identity as a man.   This is not an episode about shame. It's a call to higher standards, masculine leadership, and personal responsibility.   If you're serious about becoming the husband, leader, and man you were created to be — this episode is required listening.   In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why porn creates emotional distance in your marriage   How secret shame destroys your confidence and leadership   The subtle ways porn damages intimacy and attraction   Why porn kills motivation, discipline, and masculine drive   How emotional disconnection leads to anger and conflict   Why women feel the impact even when they don't know the behavior   How porn keeps men stuck in boyhood instead of rising into leadership   What real freedom actually requires (identity, structure, brotherhood    

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In this episode (#317), we address one of the most destabilizing experiences betrayed partners face: the collapse of reality after discovering a partner's hidden addiction. When betrayal comes from someone who appeared kind, loving, and emotionally present, the trauma can feel especially disorienting. Partners often question their intelligence, intuition, and judgment—but we make it clear that intuition cannot detect information that was deliberately concealed. Betrayal is not a failure of perception; it is the result of sustained secrecy, compartmentalization, and integrity abuse.Rather than focusing on whether the addict is truly in recovery or what the future might hold, we invite partners to gently shift their attention back to themselves. Grounding becomes essential in the aftermath of betrayal, as the nervous system is often locked in hypervigilance and survival mode. We explore the importance of pausing—not freezing—so that decisions are not driven by fear, pressure, or urgency. Authentic wants and needs are not ultimatums or selfish demands; they are expressions of self-truth that deserve to be honored, especially after trauma.Finally, we discuss what it means to reclaim self-trust. Loving another person authentically requires seeing them as they truly are, not just through hope or potential—but it also requires honoring one's own authentic limits, capacity, and bandwidth. This episode is not about making the “right” relationship decision. It is about choosing a path that allows the betrayed partner to remain congruent, grounded, and whole. Healing does not require predicting the future; it begins by staying honest with yourself in the present.For a full transcript of this podcast in article format, go to:   From Shock to Self-Trust:  Reclaiming Your Inner Truth After BetrayalLearn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at:  Reclaim Counseling Services

We've been talking about the important discussion around sex, and how God uses it as a beautiful gift in the confines of a marriage between a man and a woman. In this part two conversation, Rodney Holmstrom, global field Director of Celebrate Recovery, walks us through some additional points to consider in how a false view of sexual intimacy can be a counterfeit to true intimacy and healthy relationships with God and others. What is a healthy biblical view of sex and is their hope for us? What if we are struggling with things like pornography, sexually acting out, or other lust mindsets that are consuming us on a daily basis? Listen to this episode and hear some hope that change is possible, if we will acknowledge the struggle and then trust the process as we invite God into our pain and struggles.

Episode 89Preventing human trafficking involves raising awareness, strengthening laws, and supporting vulnerable communities to stop exploitation before it starts. At the same time, addressing porn addiction requires education, access to support resources, and fostering healthy relationships. Together, these efforts empower individuals and communities to protect themselves and others from harm. Join me as MSO interview's Joe Madison, Executive Director of Demand Disruption (https://demanddisruption.org/) to discuss these society challenges that impact us all! More of Demand Disruption can be followed at: Podcast, Instagram, YouTube, and FaceBook.Lastly Congratulations to Deman Disruption celebrating their 10th year in fighting human trafficking. Much love from MSO!Send us a textMen Speaking Out...Talking to reveal, not conceal! menspeakingout.com

Jeremy Lipkowitz joins Veronica to discuss his descent into porn addiction, how it made him depressed and isolated, and how he now helps other men break free. To learn more, visit the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠show notes⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   What happens when the content you used to watch no longer does it for you?   In this powerful Q&A episode of The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank Rich and Head Coach Arnold tackle one of the most common  and most misunderstood  experiences men face in porn addiction: escalation into more extreme content.   A listener bravely asks: "Why do I keep escalating… and can I undo the damage?"   Frank and Arnold break down the neuroscience behind porn escalation, explain how dopamine desensitization rewires the brain, and share practical steps men can take to reverse the conditioning and reclaim control.   This episode covers: Why the brain craves more extreme content over time   The science of desensitization and dopamine tolerance   How escalation happens (and why it's not a character flaw)   Why social media fuels relapse without men realizing it   Cold turkey vs. gradual recovery — what actually works   How to retrain your brain toward healthy dopamine   The role of identity, environment, and brotherhood in real transformation   Why isolation keeps men trapped — and community accelerates healing     If you've ever felt ashamed of where your habits have taken you, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and a proven path forward.   You are not broken. But you must take this seriously. And there is a way out.   If you're serious about breaking the cycle and becoming the man you were created to be, this episode will hit home.  

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In this episode (#316) we focus on the critical role of proactive honesty in healing relationships impacted by addiction, betrayal, and trauma. Proactive honesty goes far beyond “not lying”—it means leading with truth rather than waiting to be confronted, asked the right question, or forced into disclosure. When honesty becomes reactive instead of proactive, trust erodes, emotional safety collapses, and partners lose the ability to make informed choices. We emphasize that honesty struggles are not limited to addicts; partners can also drift into dishonesty through self-silencing, conflict avoidance, or fear of toxic reactions.We examine the many reasons honesty breaks down, including fear of conflict, shame, habitual deception, emotional dysregulation, and attempts to manage or control others' perceptions. While these patterns may be understandable survival strategies, they are never harmless. Dishonesty—whether through outright lies, partial truths, minimization, or “everything's fine” responses—undermines accountability, intimacy, and recovery. We explain why clarity equals respect, why intent does not erase impact, and how avoiding the full truth often creates repeated betrayals rather than preventing harm.Finally, we outline what practicing proactive honesty actually looks like: catching dishonesty early, naming wrongs clearly, telling the whole truth, acknowledging impact without defensiveness, expressing accountability without shame, backing words with measurable actions, and allowing the other person's response without trying to control it. We also stress the importance of choosing appropriate environments for difficult conversations—without using that as an excuse to deceive. Proactive honesty is uncomfortable and challenging, but it is essential for rebuilding trust, restoring integrity, and creating relationships rooted in safety, authenticity, and real connection.For a full transcript of this podcast in article format, go to:   What Does "Proactive Honesty" in Your Daily Life & Relationships Look Like?Learn more about Mark and Steve's revolutionary online porn/sexual addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing program at—daretoconnectnow.comFind out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at:  Reclaim Counseling Services

In this episode of The Mental Healness Podcast, Lee Hammock explores the complex and often devastating relationship between Narcissistic Personality Disorder and pornography addiction.We dive into the concept of Object Constancy—the inability to maintain an emotional connection when a partner isn't physically present—and how this drives narcissists toward the instant, low-effort supply found in digital adult content.Key Discussion Points:Why porn provides a 'safe' space for narcissists who fear true intimacy.The role of Splitting in addiction: The 'Perfect' digital image vs. the 'Flawed' real-life partner.How this addiction manifests as a form of covert betrayal and gaslighting within the home.Steps toward awareness and breaking the cycle of objectification.Stay Aware. Stay Healed.Connect with Lee:My Courses: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://courses.mentalhealness.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: ⁠⁠⁠https://link.me/mentalhealness⁠⁠⁠All My Link: ⁠⁠⁠https://beacons.page/mentalhealness ⁠⁠⁠Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesss

We've been talking about God's natural design for release of dopamine, and how the enemy can distort that and even hijack His original design as it relates to sex in the confines of a marriage. What are some ways the enemy lies to us around sex? What are the costs to this? In this episode, Rodney Holmstrom, Global Field Director of celebrate recovery, will dive into part one of this important topic and how we can learn and grow through the counterfeit ways the enemy hijacks God's design and get back to the natural God-given gift design to walk in healthy intimacy with God and others.

Have you ever found yourself in a place of fatigue, depression, isolating from others and just feeling like you're tolerance for things that used to bring life joy just aren't there anymore? There could be many things that contribute to this, but one of the things that can be contributing is something called dopamine crash. How does the dopamine crash take us out of God's design for life? In this episode, Rodney Holmstrom, Global Field, Director of Celebrate Recovery, will unpack what a dopamine crash is and how going outside of God's design for stimulation and natural dopamine release can lead to unhealthy consequences. There is hope and a way out of it if we're willing to acknowledge it and understand it and invite God and others into it.