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Danielle from Brands By Bravo on Instagram & TikTok and comedian Sue Funke watch a unique episode of Real Housewives of New York. It's 'take your audience to work day' with the RHONY ladies! Every woman's work is spotlighted; Bethenny takes cover photos that never see the light of day, LuAnn publishes Class with The Countess, writer girl Kelly Bensimon is also a famous jeweler, Ramona has brand identity issues, Jill reigns over Zarin Frabric, and Alex not only works as a graphic designer - but also as The Husband Whisperer. Run in front of cabs with us (okay, seriously, please don't) as we go down Bravo Memory Lane. Please, download, like, subscribe, and tell a friend to do the same. Thank you so much for listening! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Let's talk husbands. Not all husbands. Just the complainers. The whiners. The picture haters. The bribers. The threateners. The time checkers. The killers of finalized orders and those “too busy” to attend a consultation or sales appointment, but not too busy to scuttle the actual sale. Actually…that might just cover 87% of husbands. If you are a family photographer, you know EXACTLY what I'm talking about. As much as we love the men in our lives, one of the questions I get most from my Art of Selling Art students is “what do we do about the husbands?” In today's podcast, Kathryn Langsford and I discuss our own journey in learning to “Speak Husband”. Becoming a certified Husband Whisperer means: Including the husband in the process Acknowledging his “pain” Respecting his time by getting to the point Coming prepared Figuring out how to engage the husband is worth your time. It will change the experience for everyone involved. Moms will feel less like the monkey in the middle trying to please everyone, and you might actually gain an ally (yep, the husband). And before long, you might just hear our most favorite sentence when answering a call from a client: “My husband has been bugging me to call and book our session!” Here's a glance at this episode: [2:57] - The common issues with husbands we both noticed during sessions. [4:03] - Kathryn describes some of the common problems. [5:56] - Now that they know how to speak to them, the process is way easier. [6:34] - Kathryn now acknowledges that the husband may not want to be involved for a lengthy amount of time unless they want to. [8:02] - Even though their time is respected and they only plan to stay for a few minutes, Allison shares that they rarely leave even though they're able to. [9:52] - When it comes to money, husbands are already on edge with the cost of clothing and prepping for the shoot. Acknowledging this lightens the mood. [11:20] - Find out if this is a decision that needs to be made together or a project that may only involve the wife. [13:27] - What happens when the husband and wife are not at all on the same page but don't realize it until the sales appointment. [16:19] - What Kathryn and Allison know now came from years of experiences and tweaking their strategies. [17:05] - The process needs to be extremely clear. [18:36] - A benefit of having pricing conversations together is that everyone is on the same page. [20:21] - The consistent feedback Kathryn got earlier in her career is that the sessions didn't have a clear end-goal. [21:49] - When she changed the way she ran consultations, things were much clearer for everyone. [24:05] - Allison shares the importance of having husbands included in the selection of photos. [26:02] - Editing the number of photos down so as not to overwhelm. [28:12] - People are busy and it's important to take them through a process that doesn't waste time (including your own time). [30:45] - The best client experiences are when both partners are included. [32:40] - Acknowledge time and help them work together to be decisive. Links and Resources: Drake BusathWebsite | Instagram | Italy Workshops Do The ReWorkWebsite | Instagram Allison Tyler JonesWebsite | Instagram | LinkedIn
The episode features a marriage coach and therapist Janna Denton-Howes. She is known as "The Chief Libido Officer" and "The Husband Whisperer." She speaks to the audience about women's decreased desire to have sex. She explains her program in helping women to want sex more.
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Janna Denton-Howes is a Shameless Mom to 2 daughters and marriage coach who is pioneering a movement for women to free themselves from sexual expectations and redefine intimacy in their marriages. Affectionately called, "Chief Libido Officer" and "Husband Whisperer" by her participants and coaching clients, Janna not only helps married women take sex off their to-do lists but shows couples how to transform conflict into connection in 5 seconds or less! One of her greatest accomplishments in life has been to beat the odds of teenage marriage and still be partnered up with her prom date, 18 years later. When she isn't working from her garden shed office, you can find her having a beach fire with her husband and their two daughters or curled up with a book about the male brain. Listen in to hear her share: Why the culture around sex is changing for the better Causes of low libido in women and why your low libido has nothing to do with you What men really want: to be desired and admired Women really want: protection and connection Routines to make intimacy easier, more relaxed, and more enjoyable How couples can make a 180-degree shift in their relationship Links Mentioned: Connect with Janna: Janna Denton Howes Janna on Facebook Janna on Youtube Janna's Program: 30 Days to Wanting it More Janna’s 7 Day Pleasure Challenge
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Janna Denton-Howes is a professionally trained Marriage Coach who is known for her popular program, 30 Days To Wanting It More". Affectionately called, "Chief Libido Officer" and "Husband Whisperer" by her participants and coaching clients, Janna not only helps married women take sex off their to-do lists but brings couples back to each other.
We are all busy people. That’s why its important we prioritize our needs. In Episode 8 of the It’s Time to be You Podcast, Janna Denton-Howes helps explain this necessity in the bedroom, reminding us all that if you wait for an absolutely perfect time and circumstance, it’s not going to happen. Janna helps couples take sex off the to-do list and rekindle intimacy. Though she’s now a professionally trained marriage coach known to her clients as the “Husband Whisperer,” Janna came into her profession through her own harrowing experiences. Janna married her husband at 17, and their differing sex drives quickly became the biggest source of tension in their relationship. After years of uncomfortable experiences with different therapists and educational materials, she eventually gained the courage to create her own sex-methodology, and is proud that she can share the tools that saved her relationship with others. -- Questions Asked on This Podcast: 1. How did you get into your profession? 2. What types of programs do you offer? 3. Why do you feel this is such an issue with woman at this time? 4. Besides your programs, what is one thing daily someone can do to increase the connection with their partner? 5. Can you talk about how having kids can affect your connection with your partner and what we can do to keep the spark alive? -- Bio: Janna Denton-Howes is a professionally trained Marriage Coach who is known for her popular program, 30 Days To Wanting It More". Affectionately called, "Chief Libido Officer" and "Husband Whisperer" by her participants and coaching clients, Janna not only helps married women take sex off their to-do lists but brings couples back to each other. One of her greatest accomplishments in life has been to beat the odds of teenage marriage and still be married to her prom date! When she isn't working from her garden shed office, you can find her having a beach fire with her husband, John, and their two daughters or curled up with a book about the male brain. Check out her stories, tips and inspiration at jannadentonhowes.com and learn how connection is just around the corner. -- Resources: https://www.facebook.com/jannadentonhowes/ jannadentonhowes.com -- Follow me on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/laura_loveandfit/
Pleasure is productive... It's not a side thing that you're doing, it's the main event. It helps you do what you want to do in your life. – Janna Denton Howes On this episode of the Plan Simple Podcast, we're talking about something of a taboo topic—sex. I'm so excited to have Janna Denton-Howes, a marriage coach and expert on sex and the male brain here today. We really dive into it, so put in some earbuds if you're listening in with kids around. It's funny, we DO talk about sex, and Janna has 4 pillars to share for couples wanting more and better sex, but the first three are outside of the bedroom. We start off talking about why we need more pleasure, and not the sexual kind. Janna gives lots of examples of prioritizing pleasure in our lives, and amazingly, it's not necessarily about making more room in our calendars. We do talk about scheduling though. Janna recommends scheduling sex, but not like she did at first. She shares the experience of scheduling sex for Friday night and feeling sick thinking about it every Thursday. Instead she suggests scheduling exploration dates. For two hours or more, you prioritize pleasure, trust what feels good and what does not, and you stay connected with your body in a sexual experience rather than thinking about what he wants, what lights him up. We talk about: Sex being good for your mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual wellness, drawing a line of having sex anymore unless you want it—and also about how you can learn to want it more Prioritizing your pleasure in daily life—Janna explains how this isn't the same as self-care Letting go of “shoulds” and trusting what feels good and what doesn't Connecting with your body on an emotional and physical level and how you can be compassionate and start a conversation with yourself, even when it feels awkward and triggers childhood or religious shame Taking charge of the sexual experience and how more pleasure does NOT involve “spicing things up” Scheduling sex in a way that doesn't feel like more pressure to perform—and how only having scheduled sex can be freeing Why to separate sex from date night and how to actually have sex when you have kids in the house Tips for talking with kids about sex Janna Denton-Howes is a professionally trained Marriage Coach who is known for her popular program, 30 Days To Wanting It More". Affectionately called, "Chief Libido Officer" and "Husband Whisperer" by her participants and coaching clients, Janna not only helps married women take sex off their to-do lists but brings couples back to each other. LINKS http://jannadentonhowes.com/ 30 Days to Wanting It More Better Sex Through Mindfulness Doable Changes from this episode: PRIORITIZE YOUR PLEASURE. This doesn't have to cost anything and it doesn't have to take a lot of time. Janna gives examples of just enjoying the feel of water on your skin in the shower or taking a walk because you enjoy it (not for exercise) or having a dish soap you enjoy the scent of while you are washing dishes, or enjoy the sunshine streaming through your window. Prioritizing pleasure isn't something you have to make more time for, it's something you can do while doing anything else in your day. GET TO KNOW YOUR BODY. I talk a lot about food and how it affects our bodies, but I admit, I didn't really know parts of my body until my first baby was born. I'm not the only one. Get a mirror and get to know your vulva, labia, and clitoris. Maybe your doable change is just saying those words right now. Do that, and then have a look. Explore SCHEDULE SEX. Go ahead, block off a couple of hours in your planner. Label it SEX or exploration date. Set up the ground rules around this: prioritize your pleasure, trust what feels good and what does not, and stay connected with your body in a sexual instead of thinking about what your partner wants. This takes some communication. It may feel uncomfortable. But try it. See how it changes the dynamic. See what you like and don't. See what you might want to explore next.
This season on the Recapture Self podcast it’s our intention to give you a peek at the lives of moms and women who are balancing daily life, motherhood, and a commitment to their creative selves. These are women who are making time and space for their passion projects whether that be writing a book, designing a blog, photographing their family, or running a business. Prepare to be inspired by their stories. This week I'm chatting with my friend Janna Denton-Howes. Janna is a professionally trained Marriage Coach who is known for her popular program, 30 Days To Wanting It More". Affectionately called, "Chief Libido Officer" and "Husband Whisperer" by her participants and coaching clients, Janna not only helps married women take sex off their to-do lists but brings couples back to each other. One of her greatest accomplishments in life has been to beat the odds of teenage marriage and still be married to her prom date! When she isn't working from her garden shed office, you can find her having a beach fire with her husband, John, and their two daughters or curled up with a book about the male brain. You can learn more about Janna and what she does here > http://jannadentonhowes.com/