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Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Non Physical Betrayal!You're not having an affair. You've never cheated. And somehow your marriage is still falling apart. Here's what nobody's telling you: there are forms of betrayal that don't involve physical contact — and they're just as destructive.In Ep451 of The 'NEW' Marriage, Cass and Kathryn Morrow go deep on every type of non-physical betrayal — some obvious, some that will make you defensive, and some that will change how you think about the word entirely."Betrayal isn't about whether you slept with someone. Betrayal is about putting anything above your spouse that shouldn't be above your spouse."
Send us Fan MailHave you ever found yourself wondering, "What else can I do?"In this episode, Christine shares a powerful insight from a recent marriage roundtable that challenged the way she thinks about couples who are struggling. The speaker made a simple but profound statement:"Most people don't want to get divorced. They just don't know what else they can do."Together, we'll explore what happens when one spouse is leaning into the marriage while the other is leaning out, why traditional marriage counseling isn't always the right starting place, and how gaining clarity can sometimes be more important than finding immediate solutions.If you're feeling stuck, discouraged, or unsure of what your next step should be, this conversation will offer hope, perspective, and a reminder that there may be more paths forward than you realize.In this episode you'll learn:• Why some couples struggle to engage in marriage counseling• The difference between fixing a marriage and finding clarity• The three paths explored in discernment counseling• How self-reflection can create movement when you feel stuck• Why many people considering divorce are actually searching for hopeIf you'd like support navigating your own marriage crossroads, schedule a Courageous Love Conversation using the link in the show notes.CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving RelationshipDoes communication feel hard in your marriage? Get my Gentle Start Communication Guide, where I share a gentle daily practice that helps you stay present, name what's true for you, and build connection without escalation or problem-solving.Unlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now!Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage.More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings....
As we begin the month of June, most children are out of school and home for the summer. And, almost immediately, they begin to complain that they're bored.What do you do with your kids when they're bored? Well, for many parents, they let them play video games or watch TV for most of the day. When we give our children a lot of access to technology, they are missing out on so many ways to grow and mature.They miss out on how to solve their problem of boredom. They miss out on learning to be creative. They miss out on connections with their siblings and parents.They miss out on experiencing the joy of simple living and human interaction.This episode is about how technology can affect your children. Before you let them have a summer with lots of tech time, listen to this episode to understand how it affects your children's brain, mood, and ability to connect with others.Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching
Send us Fan MailIt's not what you say; it's how you say it. Learn how simple it is to go from manger-speak to invitation-language, and watch your husband step in and respond! Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.
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This episode is a replay from 2023, but I thought it was especially timely during this season of Lent.We all judge. Some more than others. Those who judge others, are often victims of judging - their own.We're very good at judging ourselves - of seeing all the ways in which we fail or don't measure up. We're good at comparing ourselves to other women and quickly seeing where we don't measure up, as opposed to seeing the gifts and talents we have.Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching
Send a textBefore you start mothering your husband, your nervous system gives you physical indicators of a deeper underlying need for self-protection. In this episode Chelsey teaches you how to move from stress-fueled reaction to Spirit- led response that honors your husband, expresses yourself, and creates space for vulnerability and deeper connection than you've ever experienced yet. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender. This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.
Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Stop doubting your success—start living it.In this episode of The ‘NEW' Marriage (Ep382), Cass and Kathryn rip apart the lies that keep you stuck: self-sabotage, mixed signals, emotional manipulation, and the “nice guy” trap. We get brutally honest about financial infidelity, betrayal, and why most couples are terrified of actually winning.Ready to break the cycle?DM PODCAST for real answers.
Send us a textI've been thinking a lot lately about how many couples quietly stop having fun together—not because they don't care, but because life gets heavy and serious and… well, slowly you start feeling more like you're running a household than living inside a relationship.You're managing schedules.Paying bills.Getting through the week.And one day you look up and realize…the lightness is gone.You can't remember the last time you laughed together.Or were silly on purpose.Or even felt playful inside your own body.And if I'm honest, I know this feeling well.Jeff and I lived there for a season—two reserved people doing life side by side, with that quiet spark buried somewhere under responsibility and exhaustion.So this week on the podcast, I'm talking about something that feels tender and hopeful:How to bring fun back into your marriage—even if it's been years,even if it feels awkward,even if your spouse is more stoic than spontaneous.We explore why fun disappears, why it feels vulnerable to bring it back, and the tiniest little ways to reintroduce lightness without it feeling forced or fake.(And yes… I share what my own awkward journey into playfulness has looked like.)If your marriage has felt serious for far too long…or if you've been craving just a little more joy…this one's for you.CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving RelationshipUnlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now! Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage. More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings. Subscribe to the podcast here! Book your free Courageous Love Conversation here.Instagram...
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Most women think showing their emotions means compromising their Emaan and that belief is wrecking everything, friendships, marriages, and their relationship with Allah SWT. In this episode I sit with Umm Zackariya @islamicmarriagecoach who is a Marriage Coach with extensive knowledge on the deen. She has completed her Islamic studies at Imam Mohamed Bin Saud University, and memorized the Quran studying it in five qira'ā.Together we dismantle the shame, expose the real root of emotional overwhelm, and show you how your feelings and your faith are meant to work together, not against each other.If you're tired of guilt-driven advice and want to learn how to use your emotions to strengthen your deen in your daily life, this is the episode you can't afford to skip.Guest bio:Hana Abdi, aka Umm Zackariya, is a marriage coach and public speaker, helping Muslim women step into the more secure version of themselves by embracing the softness that Allah SWT placed within them. You can connect with Umm Zackariya here____Want to work with me? Applications to join the Jan 2026 cohort of the Find Your Nur Group Coaching Programme is open. Deadline to apply is December 30th 2205. Only 10 spots available. First come first serve. Click here to apply.
Episode Description:What if one vulnerable conversation could completely transform your marriage? Dan Purcell, marriage intimacy coach and creator of the Intimately Us app, shares the pivotal moment when a friend's honesty about his sex life turned Dan's world upside down—and ultimately changed the trajectory of his marriage and career.In this raw and honest conversation, Dan opens up about growing up in a conservative environment where sex was taboo, the anxiety that carried into his marriage, and the courage it took to have a five-hour vulnerable conversation with his wife at 9 PM that didn't end until 2 AM. What emerged wasn't just better sex—it was better communication, better parenting, and a completely different level of connection.Glenn and Phyllis explore with Dan the common barriers that keep couples from experiencing rich intimacy, the danger of viewing yourself as superior to your spouse, and why solving sexual problems requires "second-order change"—not just redecorating the kitchen, but remodeling it entirely.Key Topics:- Mental health and emotional vulnerability in marriage- Breaking through sexual shame and conservative upbringings- The courage required for authentic conversations about intimacy- Desire discrepancy and what really causes it- How superiority thinking destroys sexual connection- Moving from transactional to transformational intimacy- The power of one vulnerable conversation to change everything- Creating play and creativity in your sex life- Leadership development through emotional honestyWhat You'll Learn:- Why most couples miss on authentic connection (even when they think they're doing fine)- How to have the scary conversation that could transform your marriage- The real reason behind sexual desire discrepancy (hint: it's not about being too busy)- Why solution-oriented approaches often backfire in intimacy- How to move from wearing masks to true vulnerability with your spouse- Practical tools and games to bring playfulness back to foreplayAbout Our Guest: Dan Purcell is a marriage intimacy coach who helps couples create deeper sexual and emotional connection. After a career-changing conversation eight years ago, he developed the Intimately Us app and now coaches couples full-time, helping them experience breakthrough moments in their marriages.Get your free resources: getyourmarriageon.com/connection-codes - 100 Creative Ways to Initiate Sex guide - 101 Ways to Have Sex guide - Jump Start Guide (books, articles, podcasts, frameworks)Get Your Free Core Emotion Wheel: www.connectioncodes.co/podcastReady to Transform Your Marriage? Book a Connection Codes certified coach: https://connectioncodes.co/coaches
Let us know how you enjoyed this episode!Your marriage doesn't just grow on its own — it grows because you choose to nurture it.After 11 years of marriage and 3 kids, I've learned that a thriving relationship doesn't happen by accident. It takes intention, small daily habits, and a willingness to grow through every season of life.In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on six things I personally do to keep my marriage healthy and connected — even with a full plate as a mom and business owner.These habits aren't about perfection — they're about intention. When you consistently show up for your marriage in small but meaningful ways, you build the foundation for lasting love, connection, and teamwork.Thanks for listening!Connect and send a message letting me know what you took away from this episode: @michellepurtacoaching and follow me on threads @michellepurtacoaching!If you would like to support this show, please rate and review the show, and share it with people you know would love this show too!Additional Resources:Ready to put a stop to the arguments in your marriage? Watch this free masterclass - The #1 Conversation Married Couples Need To Have (But Aren't)Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!Support the show
What happens when your personal evolution begins to stretch the space between you and your partner? In this deeply honest and compassionate conversation, Emily sits down with feminist marriage coach Maggie Reyes to explore what she calls The Growth Gap, the tension that arises when one partner is actively growing, healing, or awakening, while the other clings to what feels safe, familiar, or expected.Together, they unpack how to navigate seasons of self-discovery, faith shifts, and identity work without losing connection or abandoning yourself. Maggie introduces her signature “Power of One” philosophy, rooted in systems theory, which teaches that when one person in a relationship changes, the entire dynamic begins to shift. Through humor, real-life stories, and grounded examples, she offers practical tools for honoring your transformation while creating deeper intimacy, even when your partner isn't “doing the work.”They discuss what it means to “go first,” how to recognize the difference between fear and disrespect, and how to communicate your growth in ways that invite curiosity instead of defensiveness. Maggie also shares powerful re-frames around resentment, compassion, and the myth that both partners must grow at the same pace or in the same way.Whether you're deconstructing long-held beliefs, exploring new layers of yourself, or simply feeling the growing pains of change within your relationship, this conversation is a breath of relief and a roadmap for love that expands instead of contracts.In this episode, we explore:What The Growth Gap is and why it happens when one partner evolves and the other resists changeHow to honor your personal growth without abandoning your relationship or yourselfMaggie's “Power of One” framework and how one person's transformation can shift the entire relationshipThe myth that partners must grow at the same pace (and what actually sustains long-term connection)How to communicate your insights and new awareness without triggering defensivenessThe difference between fear, indifference, and contempt, and how to know which you're facingWhat to do when your growth brings up tension around faith, identity, or worldview differencesThe mindset of “I go first” and why it's key for creating healthy changeWhy curiosity, consent, and compassion are essential for meaningful conversationsHow to know when growth differences are workable, and when they signal deeper misalignmentBe sure to hit subscribe so you never miss the latest episode!Connect with Maggie:Download The Growth Gap Workshop, a free resource for when you're evolving and your partner isn't on the same pathListen to The Marriage Life Coach PodcastExplore her self-study program, The Marriage Mindset MakeoverLearn about Private CoachingCheck out her bestselling book, Questions for Couples JournalFollow on Instagram: @themaggiereyesVisit her website: maggiereyes.comConnect with Emily:Website:
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We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!Thank You,Bryan and Paul
We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!Thank You,Bryan and Paul
We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!Thank You,Bryan and Paul
We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!Thank You,Bryan and Paul
As a former teacher and former homeschooler, I LOVE this time of year! Back to school means new notebooks, new uniforms, new challenges, and new joys. But there are a few very important lessons your children won't learn.Only you, as a parent, can teach your children how to truly love God, how to have faith, hope, and how to embrace virtues that define your child's character.Schools teach academics, and some really great schools can support you in teaching faith and values.But ultimately, you are your children's first teachers in forming their character. It's both a privilege and a responsibility given from God. Schools and even really great teachers can't teach your children the most important things in life – that's not their job – that's your opportunity.Don't give away your most precious gift from God – the privilege and responsibility of forming good, holy Christian men and women.Ready to learn how to teach your children virtue and good habits? Check out my Virtue-Based Parenting Program HERE: janetquinlan.com/parentingCheck out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching
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Amanda Louder is a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach who helps Christian men, women, and couples overcome their obstacles to create a more emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and physically intimate relationship. She is also the host of the Sex for Saints Podcast that has over 1.5 Million Downloads.In addition to being a coach, Amanda is also a wife to Kevin, and mom and step-mom to 5 kids, ranging in ages from 16-25. In her spare time, she enjoys reading, watching her kids play sports, fishing, and camping.Https://amandalouder.comHttps://instagram.com/christiansexcoachhttps://amandalouder.com/blog/podcast____________________________Register for First Friday's Free coaching and learn other ways to work with me: https://paperbell.me/meagan-skidmorehttps://meaganskidmorecoaching.com.Please help the podcast grow by following, leaving a 5 star review on Spotify or Apple podcasts and sharing with friends.Living Beyond the Shadow of Doubt™ is a proud member of the Dialogue Podcast Network [DialogueJournal.com/podcasts].Hopeful Spaces, a monthly support group facilitated by Meagan Skidmore Coaching, is a Dallas Hope Charities component of Hopeful Discussions sponsored by Mercedes-Benz Financial Services USA. Send an email to chc@dallashopecharities.org to join.
Many of you know that I was an elementary school teacher. I have taught every grade in public and private schools, and I homeschooled our 7 children.The schools ask the teachers to prepare a supply list for the parents each year of all the things their children will need in order to learn well.Crayons, glue sticks, notebooks, pencil box, markers, pencils, Kleenex and many other items.And while it's important for your children to have the necessary supplies they need to complete their work, I think there's another back-to-school list that is actually more important.Check out my course, Virtue-Based Parenting, at janetquinlan.com/coursesCheck out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching
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We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!Thank You,Bryan and Paul
What is self-image? How your child sees themselves and how they think others see them – what they think about themselves and what they tell themselves about what and who they are.A child with a poor self-image will often have low self-esteem. Low self-esteem is when a child lacks confidence about who they are and what they can do. A poor self-image contributes to low self-esteem which contributes to low self-confidenceCheck out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching
There's a basic human need of belonging that everyone possesses.A family culture gives that "sense of belonging" to each child. It is the set of shared attitudes, values, goals, and practices that characterize your family. It is the foundation of your family.A family culture doesn't take away the individuality of people within the family, it simply characterizes what we work to have in common.Creating a shared vision or family culture bonds the parents and children as well as siblings because they support and challenge each other to live up to the family code of conduct.They “aren't the only ones” who can or can't do something in social settings. Their siblings also follow the set rules of the family and if they don't, a sibling will usually inform the parents.If WE don't give our children a culture to belong to, society or their peer group will. Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching
Marriage is hard! So, as Michael and I just celebrated 41 years of marriage (kind of a big deal ;) I thought I'd share this replay of an episode that helps with practical tools to help you have a long and happy marriage.You can also check out my marriage course, Foundations of a Happy Marriageat janetquinlan.com/marriage to help you improve a marriage that is struggling and/or make a good marriage great!Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching
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So, let's let's go through some reasons why being a mom is hard. In this episode I talk about the specific areas that many moms find difficult,So, let's be truthful about motherhood – it is hard sometimes because it requires constant giving of yourself — physically, emotionally, and mentally.Everything in life that is good and holy has hard times – sometimes the hard times seem more frequent than the easy times.But when we focus on WHY we're mothers, it makes it so much easier to accept the hard without letting it defeat us or make us feel angry or overwhelmed.If we allow it, motherhood transforms us.. Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching
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The difficult, the monotony, the repetition is the sacrifice of motherhood. But it is ALWAYS in the sacrifice that we end up finding joy – if we're looking for it.It's when we sacrifice for another out of love, that we become a better person. We have a God-given mission as mothers – and as dads for those men listening.We are in partnership with God in conception and in raising our children. We are our children's first teachers in everything!When we see our role in our child's life as teacher, mentor, model, and as a calling from God it will change the way you parent.Check out my Virtue-Based Parenting Course to help you parent better and find JOY!Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching
The mother-in-law/daughter-in-law relationship has been the subject of jokes, sitcom shows, stereotypes and unfortunately, for some, painful moments in our lives.In this episode, I'm sharing the "Families of Character" podcast episode in which Jordan Langdon and I discuss the sometimes complex relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.Let's talk about how to have a better (dare I say great?) relationship with your daughter-in-law or mother-in-law!Check out Jordan's resources on how to have a great family HERE.If you want help to make your relationship with your mother-in-law or daughter-in-law better, please see the details of my course: "The MIL/DIL Dynamic Course" HERE.Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching
We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!Thank You,Bryan and Paul
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Even in the healthiest marriages, disappointment is inevitable—especially after kids. Maybe your spouse forgets something important, doesn't show up how you hoped, or just doesn't respond the way you needed in that moment. It's frustrating, lonely, and can stir up a lot of resentment if it isn't dealt with well. In this episode, I'm walking you through how I personally deal with those moments of disappointment in my own marriage, and the tools I use with clients to keep these experiences from quietly unraveling connection. If you've ever felt let down by your partner (or struggled when your partner felt let down by you), this episode is for you. Tune in to discover: Why disappointment hits harder after kids—and how to make sense of it How I stopped reacting and started responding when I felt disappointed The exact process I use before communicating hurt (and why it matters) How to turn disappointment into a conversation that actually strengthens your marriage What it actually takes to release resentment and rebuild connection FREE Marriage Shutdown Checklist: https://marriedafterkids.com/marriage-shutdown?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=links&utm_campaign=MSoptin Connect with me for a FREE Married After Kids Intervention Call: https://marriedafterkids.satoriapp.com/offers/277730-married-after-kids-intervention-call Follow me on Instagram so you don't miss a thing! www.instagram.com/marriedafterkids
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Whether you're in the early days of parenting or years into raising kids, this conversation is going to speak to your heart. Dr. Joanna Parga-Belinkie, neonatologist, pediatrician, and mom of three, joins me to talk about what babies really need from us (hint: it's not perfection), how those early moments of connection matter more than we realize, and why the same emotional tools that build strong bonds with our kids also strengthen our marriages. This episode is full of warmth, wisdom, and truth, and I know you're going to feel so seen and encouraged by it. Tune in to discover: What truly helps your baby feel safe, loved, and connected from day one Why bonding is about showing up consistently, not getting it “right” How your relationship with your baby lays the foundation for all future relationships The powerful overlap between parenting and marriage connection A new way to think about missed moments (and why it's never too late to reconnect) This is the episode every new parent (and honestly, every human) needs to hear. And if you know someone who's expecting or in the thick of new parenthood, send it their way. It's also a beautiful conversation about what makes connection last—for our children and for ourselves. Connect with Joanna: Purchase her book! https://a.co/d/8wykSfW Website: https://www.jpbelinkiemd.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jopargalinkiemd/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joanna-parga-57133923/ Connect with Lindsay: FREE Married After Kids Intervention Call: https://marriedafterkids.satoriapp.com/offers/277730-married-after-kids-intervention-call Marriage Shutdown Checklist: https://marriedafterkids.com/marriage-shutdown?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=links&utm_campaign=MSoptin Follow me on Instagram so you don't miss a thing! www.instagram.com/marriedafterkids
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Have you ever found yourself prepping everything before you leave the house—or swooping in to “just fix it” when your partner handles a parenting moment differently than you would? It might feel helpful or necessary in the moment, but over time, it can quietly erode your partnership and leave you feeling more like a manager than a teammate. In this episode, I'm breaking down the hidden cost of stepping in too often, why it happens (hint: it's not just about your spouse), and how you can begin to shift this pattern in a way that benefits everyone in your family. This isn't about blame—it's about awareness, relief, and building the kind of marriage where you feel held, supported, and safe to let go a little. Tune in to discover: The deeper reasons why moms step in, even when they don't want to What stepping in too often teaches your partner (and why it's not helping) The emotional weight of always being “on” and how it builds resentment The powerful mindset shift that helped me finally stop doing it all Conversations that build real partnership instead of more to-do lists Connect with me for a FREE Married After Kids Intervention Call: https://marriedafterkids.satoriapp.com/offers/277730-married-after-kids-intervention-call FREE Marriage Shutdown Checklist: https://marriedafterkids.com/marriage-shutdown?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=links&utm_campaign=MSoptin FREE TRAINING! The Three Secrets to a Happier Marriage: https://marriedafterkids.com/3-secrets Get your FREE EBOOK! 3 Ways To Connect More With Your Spouse (In 5 Min or Less): https://marriedafterkids.com/freebie Follow me on Instagram so you don't miss a thing! www.instagram.com/marriedafterkids
Do you sometimes feel like, even after years of marriage, your partner still doesn't know how to love you in the way you truly need? In this episode, I'm opening up about a pivotal shift in my own relationship—one that completely changed the way I felt seen, loved, and supported in my marriage. If you've ever found yourself wishing your partner could understand your needs without you having to constantly explain them, or if you've felt the slow burn of resentment building, this episode will speak directly to your heart. Tune in to discover: Why feeling unloved doesn't mean your marriage is broken What needed to shift in me before I could ever expect change in him The quiet ways resentment builds (and how I stopped it) How I helped my spouse understand the kind of love I actually needed What changed when I stopped dropping hints and started being clear Connect with me for a FREE Married After Kids Intervention Call: https://marriedafterkids.satoriapp.com/offers/277730-married-after-kids-intervention-call Marriage Shutdown Checklist: https://marriedafterkids.com/marriage-shutdown?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=links&utm_campaign=MSoptin Follow me on Instagram so you don't miss a thing! www.instagram.com/marriedafterkids
Mother's Day is supposed to be a celebration of moms—but for many of us, it just ends up highlighting how much we're carrying, how little help we're getting, and how unseen we feel most of the time. While the cards and flowers are sweet, they don't solve the deeper issue of the mental load so many moms are buried under. In this episode, I'm getting real about what's really going on beneath the surface, and why one day of appreciation isn't enough when you're carrying it all the other 364. I'll walk you through the steps I took to get out of resentment, build true partnership, and create a system where I feel supported every day—not just on Mother's Day. Tune in to discover: Why the mental load is about way more than just household tasks What your heart is actually craving (and it's not a better gift) How to feel more emotionally supported by your spouse The difference between a “manager” and a true partner—and how to shift out of that role What to ask for when you're tired of holding it all alone This episode is for every mom who feels like one day of celebration just isn't enough (because it's not). Let's create the kind of marriage and support system that makes every day feel like you matter. Connect with me for a FREE Married After Kids Intervention Call: https://marriedafterkids.satoriapp.com/offers/277730-married-after-kids-intervention-call Marriage Shutdown Checklist: https://marriedafterkids.com/marriage-shutdown?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=links&utm_campaign=MSoptin FREE TRAINING! The Three Secrets to a Happier Marriage: https://marriedafterkids.com/3-secrets 3 Ways To Connect More With Your Spouse (In 5 Min or Less): https://marriedafterkids.com/freebie Follow me on Instagram so you don't miss a thing! www.instagram.com/marriedafterkids
Do you find yourself spiraling after a single comment, text message, or weird tone from your spouse—wondering what it meant, why it happened, and if your marriage is okay? If you've ever found yourself overanalyzing or panicking that you'll never feel truly loved or happy again, this episode is for you. I'm sharing exactly how I stopped freaking out about my marriage (yes, even when things feel hard!) and how you can too. This isn't about ignoring real issues. It's about building systems, tools, and a mindset that help you feel calmer, more secure, and able to respond in a way that creates the connection you're really craving. Tune in to discover: Why spirals and freakouts happen—and why they don't mean something is wrong with you or your marriage What I realized in one powerful moment that changed everything for how I show up in my relationship The mindset shift that keeps me grounded and out of panic-mode (even during conflict) The exact tools I use when I start to spiral—so I don't push my spouse away when I'm actually craving closeness How to create a system with your partner to get through tough moments together This episode will help you replace panic with peace—and feel more secure, connected, and loved in your marriage. Share it with a friend or partner who needs it too! Marriage Shutdown Checklist: https://marriedafterkids.com/marriage-shutdown?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=links&utm_campaign=MSoptin FREE TRAINING! The Three Secrets to a Happier Marriage: https://marriedafterkids.com/3-secrets 3 Ways To Connect More With Your Spouse (In 5 Min or Less): https://marriedafterkids.com/freebie Connect with me for a FREE Married After Kids Intervention Call: https://marriedafterkids.satoriapp.com/offers/277730-married-after-kids-intervention-call Follow me on Instagram so you don't miss a thing! www.instagram.com/marriedafterkids
You know something feels off in your marriage—but where do you even begin? When you're not fighting, but also not feeling close… when you're carrying the load and still feeling unseen… it can feel overwhelming to figure out what to do next. This episode answers one of the most common questions I hear: “Where do I start if I want things to change?” I'm breaking down where to focus your energy (especially if your partner isn't on board yet), and how just one shift can start bringing you back to a place of connection and support. Tune in to discover: What to stop focusing on when you want things to improve The mistake many couples make when they're feeling disconnected Where to start when your partner isn't doing their part Why your emotions are the key to reconnecting (yes, even the hard ones) The first step toward a marriage that feels more loving, supportive, and connected If you've been stuck in “I don't know where to begin,” this episode will give you the clarity and encouragement to take that first powerful step forward. Marriage Shutdown Checklist: https://marriedafterkids.com/marriage-shutdown?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=links&utm_campaign=MSoptin FREE TRAINING! The Three Secrets to a Happier Marriage: https://marriedafterkids.com/3-secrets 3 Ways To Connect More With Your Spouse (In 5 Min or Less): https://marriedafterkids.com/freebie Connect with me for a FREE Married After Kids Intervention Call: https://marriedafterkids.satoriapp.com/offers/277730-married-after-kids-intervention-call Follow me on Instagram so you don't miss a thing! www.instagram.com/marriedafterkids
You've probably heard of attachment styles — anxious, avoidant, secure — and maybe you've even taken a quiz to figure out your own. But what happens after that? Does knowing your attachment style actually help your marriage… or can it do more harm than good? In this episode, we're unpacking what attachment theory really means in real life and whether it can be the key to a stronger relationship — or just another label that keeps you stuck. Tune in to discover: Why understanding your attachment style can feel validating and frustrating The most important mindset shift if you want to use this info to improve your marriage How knowing your partner's attachment style can reduce conflict and increase connection What to do if you're “insecurely attached” and don't know how to change it The #1 way to avoid using attachment styles as an excuse for disconnection Whether attachment theory is brand new to you or you've gone deep into it, this episode will help you use it as a tool — not a limitation — to grow a more connected, resilient relationship. Marriage Shutdown Checklist: https://marriedafterkids.com/marriage-shutdown?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=links&utm_campaign=MSoptin FREE TRAINING! The Three Secrets to a Happier Marriage: https://marriedafterkids.com/3-secrets 3 Ways To Connect More With Your Spouse (In 5 Min or Less): https://marriedafterkids.com/freebie Connect with me for a FREE Married After Kids Intervention Call: https://marriedafterkids.satoriapp.com/offers/277730-married-after-kids-intervention-call Follow me on Instagram so you don't miss a thing! www.instagram.com/marriedafterkids
Setting boundaries in marriage should help you feel more respected, connected, and secure—but what if they just lead to more frustration instead? If you've ever tried to set a boundary with your spouse, only to have it ignored, misunderstood, or make things worse, you're not alone. In this episode, I'm breaking down why so many boundaries fail and what to do differently so they actually work. Tune in to discover: The biggest mistakes couples make when setting boundaries (and how to avoid them) Why boundaries are about YOU, not controlling your spouse What to do when your spouse resists or ignores your boundary A key mindset shift that makes enforcing boundaries easier How to set boundaries that actually strengthen connection instead of causing conflict If boundaries haven't worked for you in the past, don't give up yet! This episode will help you set them in a way that feels good for both you and your spouse. Share it with a friend who needs this too! FREE Marriage Shutdown Checklist: https://marriedafterkids.com/marriage-shutdown?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=links&utm_campaign=MSoptin FREE TRAINING! The Three Secrets to a Happier Marriage: https://marriedafterkids.com/3-secrets Get your FREE EBOOK! 3 Ways To Connect More With Your Spouse (In 5 Min or Less): https://marriedafterkids.com/freebie Connect with me for a FREE Married After Kids Intervention Call: https://marriedafterkids.satoriapp.com/offers/277730-married-after-kids-intervention-call Follow me on Instagram so you don't miss a thing! www.instagram.com/marriedafterkids
You know that moment when you look at your spouse and wonder, Are we even connected anymore? Maybe you're not fighting, but you're not exactly feeling close either. If your marriage feels more like a business partnership than a loving relationship, you might be experiencing marriage shutdown: a slow, sneaky disconnection that erodes intimacy and leaves you feeling unseen, unappreciated, and alone. In this episode, I'm breaking down what marriage shutdown really is, why it happens, and the subtle ways it's impacting your emotional and physical connection. More importantly, I'm giving you the tools to wake your marriage back up and start feeling like a team again. Tune in to discover: The sneaky signs of marriage shutdown most couples miss Why your marriage might feel more like a business partnership than a relationship How small, everyday habits could be killing intimacy without you realizing it A simple shift to make conversations feel meaningful again The first step to reigniting connection (even if you feel exhausted or resentful) If your marriage feels stuck in autopilot, this episode will help you recognize what's really going on and give you practical steps to shift things in the right direction. And if you want even more support, grab my Marriage Shutdown Checklist by commenting "Checklist" on any of my Instagram posts. Let's get you and your spouse back on the same page! For more on this topic, check out Ep 154: Are You In Marriage Shutdown? FREE TRAINING! The Three Secrets to a Happier Marriage: https://marriedafterkids.com/3-secrets Get your FREE EBOOK! 3 Ways To Connect More With Your Spouse (In 5 Min or Less): https://marriedafterkids.com/freebie Connect with me for a FREE Married After Kids Intervention Call: https://marriedafterkids.satoriapp.com/offers/277730-married-after-kids-intervention-call Follow me on Instagram so you don't miss a thing! www.instagram.com/marriedafterkids
Social media has us believe that a great marriage means feeling like newlyweds forever, with constant passion, weekly date nights, and never-ending butterflies. But that's not real life. And when we compare our relationships to those unrealistic expectations, it's easy to feel like something is missing. In this episode, I'm breaking down what a truly strong, healthy marriage looks like, what Instagram gets wrong, and how to shift your perspective so you actually appreciate the marriage you have. Tune in to discover: The misleading message social media sends about what a happy marriage “should” look like Why the absence of passion or frequent date nights doesn't mean your marriage is failing The key expectations that can make or break how satisfied you feel in your relationship The sneaky comparison trap that might be making you feel less connected to your spouse What a healthy, fulfilling marriage actually looks like and how to build one that feels good for you Let's redefine what a great relationship really is, one that makes you feel safe, secure, and truly supported. FREE TRAINING! The Three Secrets to a Happier Marriage: https://marriedafterkids.com/3-secrets Get your FREE EBOOK! 3 Ways To Connect More With Your Spouse (In 5 Min or Less): https://marriedafterkids.com/freebie Connect with me for a FREE Married After Kids Intervention Call: https://marriedafterkids.satoriapp.com/offers/277730-married-after-kids-intervention-call Follow me on Instagram so you don't miss a thing! www.instagram.com/marriedafterkids
THIS. CONVO. IS SO JUICY. RAW & TACTICAL. You're going to LOVE it! We have on Jocelyn Freeman who is half of @meet_thefreemans on Instagram (one of my favorite marriage accounts to follow) and we dig into it ALL; how childhood experiences shape adult relationships, the challenges of maintaining connection after having children, and the importance of understanding the 'roommate phase' many couples experience. We talk about real time examples, how to determine your own emotional triggers and super practical strategies to help you have that DEEP connection with your significant other that we all want. I cannot WAIT to hear what you think of this one! Connect with Joceyln (& her husband Aaron): On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/meet_thefreemans/?hl=en Snag their book: https://www.meetthefreemans.com/argument-hangover Check out their podcast: https://www.meetthefreemans.com/couples-podcast Special thank you to our sponsor of today's podcast: CLEARSTEM! Cuz GIRLFRIEND….are you looking for a new SKINCARE line that works and is ACTUALLY non-toxic with no hormone disruptors or CRAP in it? If so, you've got to check out my FAVORITE anti-acne, anti-aging line CLEARSTEM! They have no hormone disrupters or TOXINS and honestly…. Their products have been game-changer in my life for the last 6+ years I've been using them! Tap this link: https://glnk.io/rqop/kacia to check them out & use code “KACIA” for a sweet discount! Ways to connect outside of the podcast: Join our empowerHER text community! Text “START” to 512-548-2728 for FREE daily inspo, juicy news, and fun perks sent straight to your phone!Connect with me on Instagram: @kacia.ghetmiri | @empowerher.podcast& come check out our new YouTube channel: EmpowerHER Podcast
Is your marriage everything you hoped it would be? If you're like most couples, the answer is probably no. But that doesn't mean your relationship is doomed. In this episode, I sit down with marriage coach Natalie Clay to tackle your toughest questions about making marriage work. We discuss how to navigate different spiritual beliefs, emotional abuse, and the age-old question: should I stay or should I go? Natalie brings her wisdom from coaching countless couples, including bishops, stake presidents, and even a general authority couple. Her insights will give you a fresh perspective on the challenges you may be facing in your own marriage. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://jodymoore.com/499