Podcast appearances and mentions of Roger K Allen

Welcome back to another episode of Man vs Marriage. I'm Quincy Moran, aka the Q-DawG, coming to you live from the Moran Family Studio.Today I am honored to sit down with a man who has spent more than four decades helping people grow in their relationships and personal development. Dr. Roger K. Allen is a psychologist, bestselling author, and relationship educator. In 1980 he founded and served as president of the Human Development Institute, where he provided thousands of hours of individual, marriage, and family therapy. He has taught hundreds of thousands of people through seminars, workshops, and online programs and has certified more than 1,500 coaches and consultants worldwide in his methodologies.Roger is the author of several powerful books, including The Hero's Choice, Living from the Inside Out, Raising Responsible Emotionally Mature Children, Six Habits of a Healthy Marriage, and How to Build Trust, Connection, and Lasting Love.Check out his work! : https://www.rogerkallen.com/meet-roger/#journeyIn this conversation we talk about:What 50 years of marriage has taught him about personal and relational maturationWhy marriage is one of the most powerful contexts for becoming more Christ-likeThe journey of “becoming” and how we grow through the hard momentsHow to handle conflict without defensivenessLearning to pause, own your emotions, and create emotional safetyThe difference between reacting and respondingPractical tools for creating shared understanding instead of winning the argumentBringing grace to yourself and your spouse when you mess upRoger shares real, vulnerable stories from his own marriage — including moments at the dinner table, phone scrolling, emotional differences between partners, and how he has learned to take ownership instead of defending himself.This is a rich, practical, and deeply encouraging episode for any man who wants to lead better at home and grow in emotional maturity.Key TakeawaysMarriage is one of the greatest classrooms for personal growth, humility, and becoming more Christ-like.Lasting love is not luck — it is built through intentional daily choices rooted in awareness, kindness, and responsibility.Emotional maturity starts with managing yourself first (your feelings, your reactions, your defensiveness) before trying to communicate better.When you get triggered, pause. Own what you are feeling. Then come back and create a safe space for your spouse to share.You do not have to be perfect. You can ask for a “do-over.”Shared understanding matters more than being right.Bring grace to yourself and to your spouse.Your Call to ActionThis week, practice pausing the next time you feel defensive. Name what you are feeling. Then invite your spouse to share without interrupting or defending.Tag a brother who needs this conversation and share the episode with him.Men Helping Men. Hope Starts Here. Legacy is the long game.Contact & LinksQuincy Moran Email: quincy@mvsmpodcast.com Website: https://quincymoran.comFor more from Dr. Roger K. Allen, search for his books: The Hero's Choice • Living from the Inside Out • Six Habits of a Healthy Marriage • How to Build Trust, Connection, and Lasting LoveHashtags #ManVsMarriage #DrRogerAllen #HealthyMarriage #EmotionalMaturity #LegacyRoadmap #MenHelpingMen

In this enlightening episode, The Matts delve into the research of Dr. Roger K. Allen, PhD, to explore four toxic relationship patterns commonly observed in gay male relationships. Dr. Allen, a renowned psychologist and relationship expert, has dedicated his career to understanding the dynamics that can both strengthen and undermine romantic partnerships. We will discuss: 1. escalation 2. invalidation 3. pursuing/withdrawing 4. negative interpretations ...while unpacking the harmful effects of these unhealthy and destructive patterns. We'll provide practical tips and actionable advice based on Dr. Allen's research and our own, helping listeners identify and address these toxic patterns in their own relationships. By understanding and mitigating these dynamics, gay male couples can build stronger, more resilient partnerships. Tune in to gain valuable insights and take the first step toward a healthier, more fulfilling relationship. Follow Us: Stay updated with our latest episodes and relationship tips by following us on instagram @howtofindandkeepagayman

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Learning the language of emotional maturity is like learning a second language. Your upbringing, life experiences, and your natural disposition all shape the way we respond to difficult situations. In other words, emotional maturity is when someone can manage their emotions no matter their circumstances. Hear what The Jamison’s have been going through the last few months as they level up their emotional maturity in their 24+ year  relationship. LINKS: Roger K. Allen Article, Emotional Maturity Private FB Group: Sex, Money & Real Estate Group IG: @sexmoneyrealestate email: SexMoneyRealEstate@gmail.com Review: SexMoneyRealEstate.com Balance Chart Accountability App: TheYdbg.com

How do we help our kids cultivate a positive self-image? How can we help them find that positive inner voice so when they encounter trials or struggles or darkness in life, they can be the light that chases away the opposition? In this episode, we share 10 simple tips that you can implement right now to help your kids cultivate a positive self-image. SPONSOR: Check out our new audio course: Live the Story You Want to Tell. SHOW NOTES: 10 tips for helping your kids cultivate a positive self-image: Be mindful of the language you use to describe your children and their behavior. Provide your kids small opportunities for success. Show your children that you have faith in their goodness and their abilities. Spend time together. Support your child’s interests. Natural consequences reign supreme. Help your child work out their own problems. Be a safe place. Let them get out and explore. Make sure you have fun with your kids, and everything doesn’t have to be a teaching moment. Bonus: Encourage, encourage, encourage x 100,000 Listen to Episode 028 here. Check out The Power of Deep Listening by Roger K. Allen FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @BeckyHigginsLLC and @BeckyProudfit. THANKS FOR THE LOVE! Love the podcast? Please share with your friends, tag us in your instagram stories, and leave a review on iTunes!

How do we help our kids cultivate a positive self-image? How can we help them find that positive inner voice so when they encounter trials or struggles or darkness in life, they can be the light that chases away the opposition? In this episode, we share 10 simple tips that you can implement right now to help your kids cultivate a positive self-image. SPONSOR: Check out our new audio course: Live the Story You Want to Tell. SHOW NOTES: 10 tips for helping your kids cultivate a positive self-image: Be mindful of the language you use to describe your children and their behavior. Provide your kids small opportunities for success. Show your children that you have faith in their goodness and their abilities. Spend time together. Support your child's interests. Natural consequences reign supreme. Help your child work out their own problems. Be a safe place. Let them get out and explore. Make sure you have fun with your kids, and everything doesn't have to be a teaching moment. Bonus: Encourage, encourage, encourage x 100,000 Listen to Episode 028 here. Check out The Power of Deep Listening by Roger K. Allen FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @BeckyHigginsLLC and @BeckyProudfit. THANKS FOR THE LOVE! Love the podcast? Please share with your friends, tag us in your instagram stories, and leave a review on iTunes!

We're so lucky to talk with Roger Allen in this episode! We met him as a presenter at BYU Education Week and he changed how both of us parent! His ideas are actually life-changing. What an honor to share him and his ideas with YOU! With a dual background in psychology and organizational behavior, Roger brings a unique perspective to his parenting philosophy and ideas. We talk about how to build trust with our children by reacting less, listening more, and letting our kids take more responsibility. His suggestions are simple but can make a huge impact in our parenting. Show notes can be found on the blog at BeckyHiggins.com. DIRECT LINK. Follow us on instagram — @BeckyHigginsLLC and @BeckyProudfit. Love the podcast? Please share with your friends, tag us in your instagram stories, and leave a review on iTunes!

We're so lucky to talk with Roger Allen in this episode! We met him as a presenter at BYU Education Week and he changed how both of us parent! His ideas are actually life-changing. What an honor to share him and his ideas with YOU! With a dual background in psychology and organizational behavior, Roger brings a unique perspective to his parenting philosophy and ideas. We talk about how to build trust with our children by reacting less, listening more, and letting our kids take more responsibility. His suggestions are simple but can make a huge impact in our parenting. Show notes can be found on the blog at BeckyHiggins.com. DIRECT LINK. Follow us on instagram — @BeckyHigginsLLC and @BeckyProudfit. Love the podcast? Please share with your friends, tag us in your instagram stories, and leave a review on iTunes!

Dr. Roger K. Allen is back to talk about defining an organization's core processes. Dr. Allen first made his appearance on the High Performance Leadership Podcast back in episode 60. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

How do we help our kids cultivate a positive self-image? How can we help them find that positive inner voice so when they encounter trials or struggles or darkness in life, they can be the light that chases away the opposition? In this episode, we share 10 simple tips that you can implement right now to help your kids cultivate a positive self-image. SPONSOR: Check out our new audio course: [Live the Story You Want to Tell](https://classroom.beckyhiggins.com/courses/live-the-story). SHOW NOTES: 10 tips for helping your kids cultivate a positive self-image: Be mindful of the language you use to describe your children and their behavior. Provide your kids small opportunities for success. Show your children that you have faith in their goodness and their abilities. Spend time together. Support your child's interests. Natural consequences reign supreme. Help your child work out their own problems. Be a safe place. Let them get out and explore. Make sure you have fun with your kids, and everything doesn't have to be a teaching moment. Bonus: Encourage, encourage, encourage x 100,000 Listen to Episode 028 [here](https://beckyhiggins.podiant.co/e/028-helping-kids-cultivate-better-self-esteem-37385145cfbd72/). Check out [The Power of Deep Listening](https://www.rogerkallen.com/products/listening-skills-online-course/) by Roger K. Allen FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: @BeckyHigginsLLC and @BeckyProudfit. THANKS FOR THE LOVE! Love the podcast? Please share with your friends, tag us in your instagram stories, and leave a review on iTunes!

We're so lucky to talk with Roger Allen in this episode! We met him as a presenter at BYU Education Week and he changed how both of us parent! His ideas are actually life-changing. What an honor to share him and his ideas with YOU! With a dual background in psychology and organizational behavior, Roger brings a unique perspective to his parenting philosophy and ideas. We talk about how to build trust with our children by reacting less, listening more, and letting our kids take more responsibility. His suggestions are simple but can make a huge impact in our parenting. Show notes can be found on the blog at [BeckyHiggins.com](http://beckyhiggins.com/). [DIRECT LINK](https://beckyhiggins.com/podcast-show-notes-episode-067-life-changing-parenting-framework-roger-k-allen). Follow us on instagram — @BeckyHigginsLLC and @BeckyProudfit. Love the podcast? Please share with your friends, tag us in your instagram stories, and leave a review on iTunes!