Call Me After9

This week's episode was a ColorTripz take-over! She guides the ladies through a conversation about 8 types of toxic people and 5 different types of boundaries to set when dealing with these types of people. The ladies discuss their experiences with individuals they have had to set boundaries with. Also, the growing pains of realizing some people are in your life for seasons. We hope you gain a lot from this episode and it applies well to your relationships with other. Let us know your thoughts in the voice messages on Anchor. Follow the hosts on their respective Instagram pages listed above as well as the pod @callmeafter9pod and Call Me After 9 Podcast on Facebook. You can now leave us voice messages on Anchor at https://anchor.fm/callmeafter9pod/support Big shoutout to Anchor for sponsoring this episode. If you would like to have your business advertised on the show please send us an email at callmeafter9pod@gmail.com.

You can be around your partner fresh faced without makeup, you have your own language, and use code words only you two understand. Sounds like your comfortable and secure in your relationship! Its a DANI BABYYY take-over this week! The ladies share their comfortability levels in relationships, along with hilarious stories, and the usual "girl talk". We hope you gain a lot from this episode and it applies well to your life. Let us know your thoughts in the voice messages on Anchor. Follow the hosts on their respective Instagram pages listed above as well as the pod @callmeafter9pod and Call Me After 9 Podcast on Facebook. You can now leave us voice messages on Anchor at https://anchor.fm/callmeafter9pod/support Big shoutout to Anchor for sponsoring this episode. If you would like to have your business advertised on the show please send us an email at callmeafter9pod@gmail.com.

In this weeks episode As.I.Amb poses the question, "Are you someone who flirts intentionally?". The ladies discuss their experiences flirting and talk about examples of their flirting styles. In true Call Me After 9 fashion, the host share laughs, stories, and personal insights throughout this episode. We hope you gain a lot from this episode and it applies well to your life. Let us know your thoughts in the voice messages on Anchor. Follow the hosts on their respective Instagram pages listed above as well as the pod @callmeafter9pod and Call Me After 9 Podcast on Facebook. You can now leave us voice messages on Anchor at https://anchor.fm/callmeafter9pod/support Big shoutout to Anchor for sponsoring this episode. If you would like to have your business advertised on the show please send us an email at callmeafter9pod@gmail.com.

This week was a ColorTripz takeover and she poses the question, "How important is religion/spirituality in relationships?" The ladies discuss their religious and spiritual backgrounds as well as their thoughts currently. In true Call Me After 9 fashion, the host share laughs, stories, and personal insights throughout this episode.  We hope you gain a lot from this episode and it applies well to your life. Let us know your thoughts in the voice messages on Anchor. Follow the hosts on their respective Instagram pages listed above as well as the pod @callmeafter9pod and Call Me After 9 Podcast on Facebook. You can now leave us voice messages on Anchor at https://anchor.fm/callmeafter9pod/support Big shoutout to Anchor for sponsoring this episode. If you would like to have your business advertised on the show please send us an email at callmeafter9pod@gmail.com.

We know how important effective communication is especially in romantic relationships. But we all know having healthy communication between your partner isn't always that simple or easy to get across. You maybe wondering how you can improve the communication in your relationship. In this episode you will learn different techniques and strategies for happier and healthier conversations to happen between you and your partner. The content from this episode is brought to you by positivepsychology.com. We hope you gain a lot from this episode and it applies well to your relationship. Let us know how communication works between you and your partner in the voice messages on Anchor. Follow the hosts on their respective Instagram pages listed above as well as the pod @callmeafter9pod and Call Me After 9 Podcast on Facebook. You can now leave us voice messages on Anchor at https://anchor.fm/callmeafter9pod/support Big shoutout to Anchor for sponsoring this episode. If you would like to have your business advertised on the show please send us an email at callmeafter9pod@gmail.com.

This week listen, to the ladies as they discuss their thoughts on finding closure. Sometimes we receive the closure that is needed to move on other times we may not. Follow the hosts on their respective Instagram pages listed above as well as the pod @callmeafter9pod and Call Me After 9 Podcast on Facebook. You can now leave us voice messages on Anchor at https://anchor.fm/callmeafter9pod/support Big shoutout to Anchor for sponsoring this episode. If you would like to have your business advertised on the show please send us an email at callmeafter9pod@gmail.com. Sponsorships: on for this episode

Welcome back listeners to Season 2 of the Call Me After 9 Podcast! We are starting this season with a fun ice breaker game called Would You Rather? ColorTripz is in charge this episode and she came to play asking Dani and As_i_am questions that pose the question, would you rather? Follow the hosts on their respective Instagram pages listed above as well as the pod @callmeafter9pod and Call Me After 9 Podcast on Facebook. You can now leave us voice messages on Anchor at https://anchor.fm/callmeafter9pod/support Big shoutout to Anchor for sponsoring this episode. If you would like to have your business advertised on the show please send us an email at callmeafter9pod@gmail.com. Sponsorships: on for this episode

The host end season one in random and playful memory recall of their favorite moments through out the season. The ladies laugh their way out go the season with girl jokes, playful banter and a small sneak peek of things to come. They provide a glimpse of what they will do on their one month break and depart this season excited for the next. Follow the hosts on their respective Instagram pages listed above as well as the pod @callmeafter9pod and Call Me After 9 Podcast on Facebook. You can now leave us voice messages on Anchor at https://anchor.fm/callmeafter9pod/support Big shoutout to SWOOP Saint Louis - Transportation Service and Anchor for sponsoring this episode. If you would like to have your business advertised on the show please send us an email at callmeafter9pod@gmail.com.

In this episode, the ladies talked about the different stages and phase of self-discovery. With the help of Erik Erikson's Psychological Development, we dive into his theories on how our childhood parallels with our current adulthood habits and ideologies. The hosts also discuss how to strengthen and improve the theories for a healthier self and healthier relationships. Follow the hosts on their respective Instagram pages listed above as well as the pod @callmeafter9pod and Call Me After 9 Podcast on Facebook. Check out @color_tripz in various shows: Commerce Bank www.whatmattersmost.com You can now leave us voice messages on Anchor at https://anchor.fm/callmeafter9pod/support Big shoutout to SWOOP Saint Louis - Transportation Service and Anchor for sponsoring this episode. If you would like to have your business advertised on the show please send us an email at callmeafter9pod@gmail.com.

In this episode the hosts talk about imposter syndrome. The ladies reflect on times when they have felt inadequate or like they were out of tune with themselves. Many people have suffered from imposter syndrome but the Wall Street Journal cautions that when faced with such, train your mind to know that theses thoughts are false and not your reality. ColorTripz, As.I.Am and, Dani all share their struggles with imposter syndrome after college and entering the "real world". Follow the hosts on their respective Instagram pages listed above as well as the pod @callmeafter9pod and Call Me After 9 Podcast on Facebook. Check out @color_tripz in various shows: Commerce Bank www.whatmattersmost.com NY Live Arts Red Spring Part II: Upheavals and Resistance Pick up a Mothers' day card made created by ColorTripz at the St. Louis Diaper Bank or at the Green Door Art Gallery sold until May 9th!!!! You can now leave us voice messages on Anchor at https://anchor.fm/callmeafter9pod/support Big shoutout to SWOOP Saint Louis - Transportation Service and Anchor for sponsoring this episode. If you would like to have your business advertised on the show please send us an email at callmeafter9pod@gmail.com.

In this episode the ladies discuss their comfortability levels when dating and moving in with a partner. The conversation turns vulnerable as the hosts discuss self-worth and honoring yourself as a woman. This episode might get a little bit heavy but sis you might need to hear this! Get cozy and get some tissues. This is some good girlfriend tea! Follow the hosts on their respective Instagram pages listed above as well as the pod @callmeafter9pod and Call Me After 9 Podcast on Facebook. Check out @color_tripz in various shows: Commerce Bank www.whatmattersmost.com NY Live Arts Red Spring Part II: Upheavals and Resistance Pick up a Mothers' day card made created by ColorTripz at the St. Louis Diaper Bank or at the Green Door Art Gallery You can now leave us voice messages on Anchor at https://anchor.fm/callmeafter9pod/support Big shoutout to SWOOP Saint Louis - Transportation Service and Anchor for sponsoring this episode. If you would like to have your business advertised on the show please send us an email at callmeafter9pod@gmail.com.

Do you think you have dealt with a narcissist? Have you ever felt like you were being gaslit? Well.... in this episode the host talk about the signs to watch for in the case of being intimately involved with a narcissist. They further discuss the prevention methods to not promote the narcissist's behaviors. The hosts also discuss gaslighting with is a form of manipulation used to make others feel like they are wronged to in turn make the other person blameless. The host review their past experiences and more on this weeks episode of Call Me After 9 Podcast. Follow the hosts on their respective Instagram pages listed above as well as the pod @callmeafter9pod and Call Me After 9 Podcast on Facebook. You can now leave us voice messages on Anchor at https://anchor.fm/callmeafter9pod/support Big shoutout to SWOOP Saint Louis - Transportation Service and Anchor for sponsoring this episode. If you would like to have your business advertised on the show please send us an email at callmeafter9pod@gmail.com.

How many sorries are too many? In this episode the ladies discuss when is the appropriate time to apologize and the 5 Apology Languages. Also, when you feel like someone owes you an apology and vice versa. The hosts as he their experiences apologizing to others and being apologized to. This episode was inspired by an interview from the Relationship Podcast with Dr. Jen Thomas a TED speaker, psychologist and author. Join @color_tripz, @iamdaninicole314, and @as_i_amb as they reflect on their own personal experiences growing as individuals being able to communicate a proper apology. They also discuss how they have been hurt by others and how they have coped with these feelings. Follow the hosts on their respective Instagram pages listed above as well as the pod @callmeafter9pod and Call Me After 9 Podcast on Facebook. You can now leave us voice messages on Anchor at https://anchor.fm/callmeafter9pod/support Big shoutout to SWOOP Saint Louis - Transportation Service and Anchor for sponsoring this episode. If you would like to have your business advertised on the show please send us an email at callmeafter9pod@gmail.com.

In this episode the ladies explore the meaning and effects their menstrual cycle has on their mental, physical and sexual health. They go in-depth about how it affects their partner and the role it plays on the opposite sex. You'll also find various resources suitable for all women to use during their cycle. Listener Discretion is advised the conversation in this episode is not advised for children. If you are not comfortable with hearing about the menstruation of the female anatomy, this my not be a suitable episode for you. This episode was inspired by Episode 231 of the Relationship Advice podcast by Chase and Sarah. In their episode the couple speak to Gabrielle Litcherman founder of Hormonology the creator of the Hormone Horoscope App for Women and the Female Forecaster App for men. This episode was sponsored by Swoop Transportation, the Black-owned ride-share service that does it all, offering a variety of services for the St. Louis region. Also, Anchor-The easiest way to make a podcast! Follow us on Instagram and Facebook at @callmeafter9pod

In this episode the ladies are joined by a special guest, Mama Misha- as they indulge in topics concerning what is considered basic sex or daring and adventurous. A good time was had by the ladies as they let their hair down and discuss their own kinks and what sex looks like in their lives. They also talked about the now infamous Derek Jackson video that has been circulating over the social media stratosphere. With the situation we unpack whether or not your level of “freakiness” plays a role in infidelity. Be sure to tap in and leave us voice messages it you're in for a treat with this episode. Warning: explicit in sexual content is used in the promotion of this episode. Listeners' discretion is advised.

In this episode we dive deep into our personal lives and discuss issues rooted in trauma. We talk about how trauma affected our childhoods, how we react to trauma when it triggers us, and the role it plays in our romantic relationships. While all three of us have very different experiences when it comes to the issue, we still feel that's what makes the stories even more eye opening. *DISCLAIMER* Please be aware this episode contains sensitive content and could potentially be triggering to hear. Listen at your own risk.

In this week's episode we invite two special guests to give us a man's perspective on some questions we have. Later, we discuss our thoughts on the comments Nas made about the current state of Hip Hop. Be sure to follow us on Instagram at @callmeafter9pod , @color_tripz , @iamdaninicole314 , @as_i_amb SUBSCRIBE AND FOLLOW!

In this episode we discuss the challenges and adversity that young people experience in their 20's. We talk about the struggle of figuring out identity and when is the right time to "grow up". Getting out of old bad habits, conquering adulthood, and balancing everything else that comes with life as we mature. We drew our inspiration from singer SZA's song 20 Somethings from her debut album CTRL. This is the fairest description of what happens in your 20's and the struggle of getting through those tough years unscathed. Hang in there 20 somethings! Follow us on Instagram: @callmeafter9pod, @color_tripz, @iamdaninicole314, @as_i_amb

In this episode we about Lori Harvey, her past dating history, and the comments made by rapper Boosie. We highlight a young woman's choice to date at her own leisure and make her own choices. Later, we discuss influencer B. Symone's opinion about making an "Ideal List" for men. We reference this to confirm if either of us use a list to decide a partner.  Remember, you can always leave us voice memos at https://anchor.fm/callmeafter9pod/message and we can feature your comments anonymously. Pay close attention to our social media this week we will be having new content and a giveaway. To enter:  Send us a DM @callmeafter9pod of you listening to the Podcast  Like the original giveaway post  Tag 3 people under the same post Follow us on Instagram: @callmeafter9pod, @color_tripz, @iamdaninicole314, @as_i_amb

In this episode, we dive into the importance of becoming whole and one with yourself after a breakup. We learned from Jayda Cheaves, ex of rapper Lil Baby that she hasn't been single since high school. As a result, we figured it would be dope to take a deeper look at knowing how to heal and love you before moving on. We also talk about Britney Spears' new documentary and more. Be sure to check us out on Instagram at @callmeafter9pod, @color_tripz, @iamdaninicole314 @as_i_amb

In this episode we discuss the challenges of long distance relationships and healthy ways to keep them growing strong. As always, we discuss hot topics that happened this week, black owned businesses, visual artists in STL, and sports gossip. Remember, you can always leave us voice memos at https://anchor.fm/callmeafter9pod/message and we can feature your comment anonymously. Thank you for listening follow us on Instagram @callmeafter9pod and the hosts at @color_tripz, @as_i_amb, and @iamdaninicole314!