Podcasts about Narcissism

Ever fallen for someone who looked flawless on paper, but in real life turned out to be your personal nightmare with a Christian smile slapped on top? In today's episode, I sit down with Maile, a bright spark in our Flying Free community, who thought she'd landed in God's will when she married her second husband. Instead, she found herself suffocating under spiritual gaslighting, emotional sabotage, and escalating violence, all hidden behind the shiny veneer of “good Christian marriage.”This is a real story of what it looks like to wake up, break free, and rebuild your life, even when you've already done the divorce thing once before, and the church ladies are clutching their pearls at you for round two.In this episode:The red flags Maile ignored during dating (love bombing, control, snooping)How spiritual abuse kept her stuck under the “good Christian wife” lieWhy COVID became the unexpected wake-up call she neededHow she found the courage to leave, even after already being divorced onceWhat freedom and faith look like on the other side of abuseRead the full show notes and/or ask Natalie a question hereRelated Resources:Book mentioned: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk.Some other survivor stories: Shelley's story and Stacie's story.

TW: Discussion of ED, DV and abuseIn this supersized TWO-HOUR episode, Melissa, Lyndsay and Brady discuss RHOM, RHOSLC, Next Gen NYC, RHOC and The Valley. The group begin with bravo news including Larsa Pippen's newest face drama, the teaser for RHOSLC, a tale of two different Meredith's (SLC versus Next Gen NYC) and is next Gen NYC better than RHONY?The group discusses RHOC including a discussion on relational aggression aka mean girl behavior. Melissa discusses the psychology behind this behavior including the dark triad traits. This leads to a discussion on body image and ED. Melissa is a two-time cancer survivor who gives opinions on fans accusing Tamra of using Tedd to manipulate. The group finishes the episode discussing the mental health warnings that should come with The Valley. Melissa discusses narcissistic personality disorder, outlining the psychology of this disorder. The reunion part two was discussed including Jesse vs Michelle, Jasmine vs. Danny, Janet and Jason versus everyone except Jax. Please enjoy this episode full of giggles, kikis, and psychological info!Please follow YBT podcast & Recap Rodeo, click automatic downloads and give a 5-star rating (it really helps!)Please follow @yourbishtherapist on Instagram, Patreon, YouTube, FB, TT, and Blue Sky and @venderpodrecaps @recaprodeoFor full video (ad free, bonus content & early releases) visit YBT Patreon, Spreaker Supporters Club or YouTubePatreon: https://patreon.com/YourBishTherapist?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLinkSpreaker Supporters club:  https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/supportYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCu8bmVPTlWANg5v7rGRJjow?subconfirmation=1 Brand Ambassador: www.Iamhumanthebrand.com for clothing with a purpose. Code BISH20 for 20% off purchaseTo find links to all YBT content: https://linktr.ee/yourbishtherapistPodcast website page:  https://www.spreaker.com/show/your-bish-therapist Disclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback.  

These days, it feels like everyone is calling someone a narcissist. Ex-partner? Narcissist. Difficult boss? Narcissist. Confident stranger on Instagram? Must be a narcissist. The term has been thrown around so loosely that it's lost its meaning—and worse, it's become a lazy way to avoid reflection or real understanding. In this episode, we cut through the noise and get to the core of what narcissism really is—and what it isn't. You'll learn: Why narcissism exists on a spectrum—and why we all have narcissistic traits The difference between clinical, subclinical, and just human behavior The 4 distinct types of narcissism you'll likely encounter in life or work How narcissistic traits show up in covert, communal, and even “insecure” ways Tactical ways to respond to each type—without losing your mind Why spotting narcissism in yourself isn't something to fear—but something to work with If you've ever struggled to deal with someone manipulative, overly self-focused, or exhausting to be around… Or if you've ever wondered “wait… am I the problem?”—this one's for you. Don't forget: You're never going to get better at dealing with challenging personalities—or improving your own communication—unless you actually come practice it in a hands-on setting. Check out one of our live, immersive workshops at: www.artofcoaching.com/events And to stay sharp, subscribe to our newsletter at: www.artofcoaching.com/begin Follow Us: Website: ArtofCoaching.com Instagram: @coach_brettb X: @coach_brettb

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Avoidant vs. anxious attachment explainedWhy self-love is essential before partnershipHow to preserve your peace—mentally, energetically, emotionallyIf you've experienced emotional whiplash, gaslighting, or toxic cycles, this episode will provide clarity, validation, and a roadmap for healing. Whether single, dating, or partnered, learn how to set boundaries and choose from a place of strength.

You've prayed. You've begged. You've tried everything—counseling, marriage intensives, even changing yourself completely. But he's still not changing. Why? In this episode of the Enough is Enough podcast, Dr. David E. Clarke, Christian psychologist and author, exposes the painful truth: narcissists don't change—and the church often gets it wrong by telling women to stay and suffer. In this episode, you'll learn: Why your narcissistic husband won't change—no matter how much you pray How Christian communities unintentionally enable abuse by preaching patience over action Why the man you married was fake—and how narcissists use “just enough” kindness to keep you trapped The spiritual truth: God does not call you to be a martyr to abuse What steps to take to get emotionally strong and break free Dr. Clarke explains how the cycle of manipulation, false hope, and emotional torment keeps women stuck—and what actually works to break free and heal.

In this episode of Perfect Prey, I sit down with filmmaker and NXIVM Whistleblower, Mark Vicente, to explore the insidious nature of narcissism and coercive control. Known for his role in exposing the NXIVM cult and for his upcoming documentary Narcissist Playbook, Mark brings a rare blend of lived experience and narrative insight to a conversation that is both deeply personal and profoundly educational.Together, we examine how narcissistic abuse thrives on confusion, manipulation, and silence. Coercive control isn't always visible—often it hides in plain sight, eroding a survivor's sense of self through emotional, psychological, and sometimes spiritual abuse. Mark shares how he came to recognize the patterns of power and control he endured, and why storytelling and awareness are key to dismantling these dynamics.As a licensed clinical social worker and survivor of coercive control myself, this conversation is one I know will resonate. We talk about the trauma of emotional abuse, the grooming tactics abusers use to gain and maintain control, and the long road to healing after escaping these toxic dynamics. Mark's courage and clarity offer validation to those still trying to make sense of what happened to them, and hope to those who are just beginning to find their voice.This is more than a podcast episode… it's a call to awareness, to healing, and to action. Tune in to better understand the trauma of coercive control and narcissistic relationships, and to remember that your truth is the first step toward freedom.Connect with Mark:Mark's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markvicente/?hl=enNarcissist Playbook Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thenarcissistsplaybook/?hl=enWebsite: https://www.empathynotincluded.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/markvicente/Listen to Mark's Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wtf-is-on-my-mind/id1646783869Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCX1OsELrINqvPVImbyM6qdQResources Mentioned in this Podcast:

Jamie Lynn is a marriage and family therapist, FHM cover model, and returning guest on the podcast. She openly shares her personal journey through abuse, healing, and professional growth, offering insight into mental health, narcissism, and self-worth. Her experience gives her a powerful and compassionate voice in both therapy and public conversations. 00:00:00 – Intro 00:01:12 – Clarifying The Drama 00:02:25 – Is He a Narcissist or Just Not Into You? 00:03:37 – Patterns vs Red Flags 00:04:50 – Empathy or Lip Service? 00:06:02 – Women and the Victim Mindset 00:07:15 – Misusing Pop Psychology 00:08:27 – Victimhood as an Identity 00:09:40 – Manipulation Through Guilt 00:10:53 – The Trap of Empath Label 00:12:05 – Nobody Really Cares 00:13:18 – “That Won't Work for Me” Syndrome 00:14:30 – Linking Therapy & Fitness 00:15:43 – Physical Health, Mental Health 00:16:55 – Skirting Around the Truth 00:18:08 – What Body Positivity Hides 00:19:20 – Therapists and Avoidance 00:20:33 – CBT vs Real Change 00:21:46 – Rewiring the Brain 00:22:58 – Behavioral Activation Basics 00:24:11 – Depression vs Inactivity 00:25:24 – The “Just Move” Advice Debate 00:26:36 – Labeling People Isn't Helpful 00:27:49 – Diagnosing Doesn't Fix It 00:29:01 – Narcissist vs NPD 00:30:14 – Court-Ordered Therapy Explained 00:31:27 – Behavior Without Remorse 00:32:39 – Stop Dating Red Flags 00:33:52 – Healing Without Closure 00:35:04 – Bullet Removal Analogy 00:36:17 – Imposter Syndrome or Self-Doubt 00:37:30 – Split Thinking in Success 00:38:42 – The Root is Low Self-Esteem 00:39:55 – Specific vs Situational Confidence 00:41:07 – Authenticity vs Insecurity 00:42:20 – Childhood Trauma & Belief 00:43:32 – Abusive Home Life 00:44:45 – Religious Confusion & Abuse 00:45:57 – Growing Through Education 00:47:10 – Forgiveness Is For You 00:48:22 – Letting Go of Justice 00:49:35 – Closure Is Not Reconnection 00:50:48 – Resentment Bonds You 00:52:00 – Forgiveness and Spiritual Freedom 00:53:13 – Narcissist Still Controls You 00:54:25 – Heal to Stop Obsessing 00:55:38 – Abundance as Antidote 00:56:51 – Betrayal Still Hurts 00:58:03 – Forgiveness Is Daily Work 00:59:16 – Busy Over Bitter 01:00:28 – Power of Forward Vision 01:01:41 – No One Is Coming to Save You 01:02:53 – How She Met Her Ex 01:04:06 – Attracted to Power 01:05:18 – First Signs of Manipulation 01:06:31 – Creating Jealousy Early 01:07:43 – Triangulation Tactics 01:08:56 – Control Through Insecurity 01:10:08 – Going to Therapy After Abuse 01:11:21 – Why She Chose Psychology 01:12:34 – Knowing Her Purpose Early 01:13:46 – Happiness Through Work 01:14:59 – Not Idle, Not Depressed 01:16:11 – Focus on the Future 01:17:24 – Saving Herself, Not Waiting 01:18:36 – First Red Flags in Marriage 01:19:49 – Idealizing False Safety 01:21:02 – Ignoring the Warning Signs 01:22:14 – When Love is a Trauma Bond 01:23:27 – Psychological Abuse Isn't Loud 01:24:39 – The Power of Projection 01:25:52 – Living for Someone Else 01:27:04 – Silence as a Weapon 01:28:17 – Leaving Without Closure 01:29:30 – Self-Worth After Breakup 01:30:42 – Dating While Healing 01:31:55 – Falling Into Old Patterns 01:33:07 – Looking for Safe Chaos 01:34:20 – Why Trauma Feels Like Home 01:35:33 – Fantasy Relationships 01:36:45 – Emotional Safety vs Excitement 01:37:58 – Recognizing Real Love 01:39:10 – Drama Isn't Chemistry 01:40:23 – Trust Takes Time 01:41:35 – Slow is Safe 01:42:48 – Conflict Avoidance Patterns 01:44:01 – Learning to Speak Up 01:45:13 – Boundaries Are Self-Love 01:46:26 – When to Walk Away 01:47:38 – Coaching vs Counseling 01:48:51 – What Clients Really Need 01:50:04 – Accountability Over Validation 01:51:16 – The Truth About Change 01:52:29 – Helping People Who Won't Help Themselves 01:53:41 – Final Thoughts on Narcissism 01:54:54 – Leaving the Past Behind 01:56:06 – Stay Grounded in Reality 01:57:19 – The Power of Reflection 01:58:31 – Own Your Healing 01:59:44 – Thank You Jamie Lynn

  Why do con artists and scammers exist? Because of men who seek and believe they deserve whatever woman they want... no matter how much or little they can purchase. Using funds from others, whether that means lying or stealing. That is... after they use up all their own money first! Using Apple gift cards is the specialty... so you can't track the scammer/con artists down. AI has made these imaginary women that much more racy! Why do men believe Asian women are easy sex objects? What made you believe this theory in the first place!? Do you think they are just mere personal sex slave objects at your disposal? Their culture is nothing like what you imagine. In fact, it's quite the opposite! Some people never learn because they refused to learn. Let the universe teach em the hard way. No wonder any son to a guy to who acts like this will always choose to completely walk away. When reaching adulthood, they cut off all communication with the father. It's embarrassing. The behavior. Who could blame them?

Is your child dating, engaged to, or married to a narcissist? If you're seeing disturbing changes in your son or daughter's personality, health, and faith—this episode is for you. Dr. David E. Clarke, Christian psychologist and author, walks you through the devastating signs your child may be in a toxic relationship with a narcissist. From emotional breakdowns to spiritual disconnection, the impact is real—and it's dangerous. In this episode, you'll learn: How to recognize the emotional, physical, and spiritual signs of narcissistic abuse Why your child is making excuses for their toxic partner What a trauma bond looks like and how it blinds your child to abuse Why “protecting” the narcissist will cost your child dearly What you can do as a parent to speak truth and start the rescue process For a full, step-by-step plan, get the video series: "My Child Is in Love with a Narcissist" — available only at www.davideclarkephd.com If you don't recognize your own child anymore, this podcast will give you clarity, direction, and biblical truth.

Our world is about narcissism, it being uncovered (the truth abounds!) and the portal of fertility attempting to be closed. Guest Lindsay Goodwin, reveals more as she talks about her gunpoint/NDE then stalking adventure, then we go into infertility, fertile frequencies, how to get pregnant AND her work with spirit babies and the new age kids—getting wombs ready! We close with ashwagandha, NAC and Vaxxx injuries.Her "Just Be Practice" is a channeling about being seen and emotions. Weeee!Connect with Lindsay:Websites: https://www.fertilefrequencies.com & https://garnetmoonlove.comPodcast: https://www.lindsaygoodwininc.com/IntuitiveMindLabRadio FB: https://www.facebook.com/lindsay.goodwin.993811Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lindsay_goodwin_officialYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@IntuitiveMindLab Self-Mastery & Decoding the Universal Signs is your ultimate guide to understanding the cosmic connection between the mind, manifestation and your self-awareness. https://www.lindsaygoodwininc.com/download-your-free-manifesting-ebookApply to Work With Lindsay: Self-Mastery or Intuitive Business Academy.https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSciXpFgLpcjm7Y6n-qpssg3bmAuK5oDkSETOD8nKHgJKjOOGA/viewform*Host Eden Koz is a soul realignment specialist utilizing such gifts as psychological empathy, intuition, psychic ability, mediumship, meditation, mindset shift, Reiki, dimensional and galactic healing, to name a few. She can also perform a spiritual Co#id Vac+ Healing as well as remote & face-to-face sessions with individuals and groups. Contact info for Eden Koz / Just Be®, LLC:Website: EdenJustBe.com Socials: Insta, FB, FB (Just Be), LinkedIn Just Be~Spiritual BOOM Podcast can be found on the audio directories: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Stitcher, iHeart Radio, TuneIn+Alexa, ...

Nothing can ruin the Year of You quite like narcissism! Dr. Kim Lannon explains how to recognize the roles narcissists play in our lives, as well as our own roles in those relationships. She then offers insights on how to effectively make positive changes.

This episode explores one of the most insidious aspects of emotional abuse: shame offloading. When someone can't face their own emotional wounds—whether it's failure, inadequacy, or internal contradictions—they often project that pain onto the person closest to them. You become the emotional scapegoat, the one who's blamed, punished, or humiliated—not because you did something wrong, but because they can't sit with their own discomfort.I walk through how this dynamic shows up in abusive relationships, how it fractures your sense of safety and self, and why the nervous system starts to adapt to the abuse as a form of survival. I explore how abusers develop internal scripts to justify their behavior, how survivors unconsciously internalize those scripts, and what it takes to start breaking that pattern.Support the showJoin the Patreon: https://patreon.com/Youarenotcrazy *New Course*: Unhooked: Map the Cycle of Abuse in your Relationship Website: Emotional Abuse Coach and high-conflictdivorcecoaching.comInstagram: @emotionalabusecoachEmail: jessica@jessicaknightcoaching.com{Substack} Blog About Recovering from Abuse {E-Book} How to Break Up with a Narcissist{Course} Identify Signs of Abuse and Begin to Heal{Free Resource} Canned Responses for Engaging with an Abusive Partner

Have you ever crawled your way out of an emotionally abusive relationship, finally free, only to be met with cold shoulders, Christian cliques, and confused stares from the very people who should've been first in line at your welcome-back party? Or maybe you've thought about getting out, but your instincts all tell you that you'll lose everyone you love in the process?In this episode, I answer two listener-submitted questions that go straight to the heart of what so many Christian women wrestle with post-abuse: rejection from family, exclusion in church, and the confusion that comes with trying to be a decent human in the aftermath of emotional trauma.We talk:The underbelly of emotional immaturitySpiritual bypassing in religious circlesWhat “grace” actually looks like (hint: it's not begging for scraps)And why your healing is not up for debateThis one's for every woman who's been ghosted by her family or made to feel like a spiritual pariah in the church lobby.Read the full show notes and/or ask Natalie a question hereRelated Resources:Get a free chapter of my book, “Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage” and companion workbook when you hop on my mailing list. Listen to some related Flying Free Podcast episodes, including “Why Being Rejected by Your Church and Family Hurts So Bad” and “When You've Been Hurt by Church.”

Is it just us, or does American culture have narcissism fever? Are we becoming more narcissistic? Or are we now over-using and misusing this term to the point of meaninglessness? Wait, is obsessing about other people's narcissism its own kind of narcissism? In this Magical Overthinkers episode, host Amanda Montell settles in for an illuminating chat with psychologist Dr. Ramani Durvasula, author of the New York Times bestseller "It's Not You." From the episode:  Subscribe to the Magical Overthinkers podcast Follow Amanda Montell on Instagram @amanda_montell Follow Dr. Ramani Durvasula on Instagram @doctorramani and read her New York Times best seller "It's Not You" Join the "Magical Overthinkers Club" by following the pod on Instagram ⁠@magicaloverthinkers To access early, ad-free episodes and more, subscribe to the Magical Overthinkers ⁠Substack⁠ Pick up a hard copy of Amanda's book ⁠The Age of Magical Overthinking⁠, or listen to the ⁠audiobook⁠

If you've ever swallowed your discomfort and ignored your boundaries just to keep the peace, pull up a chair. We talk about narcissistic men all the time. What about the friend who constantly blows up on you, yet you're the one left apologizing? The mom who never takes accountability and makes you question your sanity the second you set a boundary? The sister who made everything a competition, then blamed you for the fallout? Therapist Seana Iwanyk joins us to unpack how narcissism shows up in women, and what happens when you finally stop playing along.Follow Unbothered on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Chloe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ & ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Alexa⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get in touch with licensed marriage & family therapist Seana Diemer Iwanyk (now accepting new clients).

I sat down with author/comedian Elizabeth Redmond and discussed her amazing novel, "The Final Resting Place of a Butterfly." I really enjoyed this book; the imagery was palpable and touched upon all of the five senses, it made you feel like you were really there in the midst of the Mexican Revolution. Redmond's novel also deals with themes such as multiculturalism, dealing with narcissistic abuse, generational trauma, and feminism. This book truly pulled on my heartstrings, and I highly advise people to check it out.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/bad-book-bash--5889791/support.

While millions starve and suffer in Gaza, Donald Trump only cares about personal projects instead of public needs. Steve Schmidt looks at Trump's Gaza comments and how Karoline Leavitt is deceiving the public in her press conferences. Subscribe for more and follow me here: Substack: https://steveschmidt.substack.com/subscribe Store: https://thewarningwithsteveschmidt.com/ Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/thewarningses.bsky.social Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SteveSchmidtSES/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thewarningses Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thewarningses/ X: https://x.com/SteveSchmidtSES

In this gripping episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt takes a deep dive into the often-misunderstood world of psychopaths and sociopaths. With her unique blend of insight and humor, Brianne explores the key differences between these two personality types, unraveling the complexities of their behaviors and the underlying causes that shape them.Throughout the episode, Brianne shares her experiences working with individuals who exhibit these traits, emphasizing that while psychopaths are often born with certain genetic predispositions, sociopaths develop their behaviors through environmental factors and trauma. She highlights the stark contrasts in their behaviors—psychopaths tend to be controlled and manipulative, while sociopaths exhibit impulsive and erratic tendencies.Listeners will gain valuable insights into the characteristics that define these personalities, from the lack of empathy and emotional connections to the calculated and often charming facade that psychopaths can present. Brianne provides practical advice for recognizing and protecting oneself from these individuals, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care.This episode serves as a powerful reminder of the impact that understanding personality disorders can have on our relationships and well-being. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that encourages listeners to navigate their interactions with empathy and awareness, all while safeguarding their own mental health.

In this episode, we sit down with Richard Grannon for a raw and wide-ranging conversation about trauma, perception, and the psychology of narcissism. He shares insights on how narcissistic dynamics take root, why the popular use of the term often misses the mark, and how childhood wounds shape adult identity and behavior. We explore the cost of outsourcing meaning-making, the traps of victimhood and blame, and the deeper process of reclaiming one's internal authority. This is a conversation about power, responsibility, and what it takes to stop living in a reality defined by your past.Time Stamps (00:00) Start(00:37) Introduction to Richard Grannon and His Work(02:29) Richard Grannon's Personal Journey(05:48) Defining Narcissism Clinically(09:15) Childhood Conditions Leading to Narcissism(12:28) Different Types of Narcissism(12:59) The Over-Pathologization of Society(17:22) Critique of Modern Psychology(30:18) The Role of Purpose and Suffering in Modern Life(45:36) Exploring the Mystical Tradition and Self-Awareness(45:56) Rites of Passage and Cultural Context(46:39) The Individual vs. The Collective(54:24) Narcissism and Therapy(59:12) AI and Narcissism(01:08:02) Codependency and Childhood Influences(01:20:36) Parentification and Emotional Incest(01:23:18) Reflections on Fatherhood and Personal Choices(01:25:47) Conclusion and Final ThoughtsGuest Linkshttps://www.richardgrannon.com/https://www.instagram.com/richard.grannon/Connect with UsSubscribe to Here for the Truth FridaysTake the Real AF Test NowDiscover Your Truth Seeker ArchetypeJoin our membership Friends of the TruthWatch all our episodesConnect with us on TelegramAccess all our links

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What if the root of many problems faced by middle-aged men - burnout, broken relationships, anxiety, aggression - stemmed from something hiding in plain sight: entitlement and narcissism? In this fascinating conversation, psychologist and Dean of the University of Wollengong in Australia, Simon Moss explains why our culture's emphasis on status, dominance, and self-importance might be making us miserable, and what we can do about it. Drawing on decades of research, Simon introduces his new project, RadicalHumility.com, and shares practical strategies to reduce narcissism, build resilience, and embrace humility, not as weakness, but as a superpowerfor better relationships, leadership, and mental health. What you'll learn: What humility really is (and why it's often mistaken for weakness)The surprising link between narcissism and burnout, anxiety, and domestic abuseHow humble men are actually more confident, credible, and respectedWhy humility improves emotional resilience and relationshipsHow societal uncertainty drives narcissistic behaviour and how to resist itEveryday signs of narcissism in yourself or others and how to spot themWhy humility is essential in the AI-driven, uncertain world we now live inHow partners, friends, and colleagues can support men stuck in patterns of entitlementA simple 3-step method to practice and cultivate lasting humilityThis episode isn't about blame. It's about awareness, growth, and changing the narrative. Whether you're struggling with control, frustration, or just feel something's off, this episode offers a way forward.If you want to find out more about Simon's movement to nullify narcissism and end entitlement, visit his website: https://radical-humility.com/ where you'll find lots of information, including freely available videos and other useful content. 

What if some of the traits that drive high performance – are also at the very core of narcissism? This week on Finding Mastery, we welcome clinical psychologist and narcissism expert Dr. Ramani Durvasula to explore one of the most complex psychological dynamics of our time.Narcissism isn't always loud or obvious. Dr. Ramani breaks down how narcissism lives on a spectrum, from subtle manipulation and gaslighting to full-blown disorders, and how it shows up in high performers, workplaces, relationships, and even within ourselves.In this conversation, we explore:The 4 major types of narcissism and how gender influences their expressionWhy high achievers may unknowingly enable narcissistic tendenciesHow to recognize gaslighting, and why we often miss itHer 5-step framework for managing narcissistic relationshipsThe cost of constantly accommodating others at the expense of your own wellbeingThis conversation is a must-listen for anyone navigating tough personalities, leadership challenges, or recovering from emotionally confusing relationships. Dr. Ramani's insights are practical, powerful, and grounded in decades of research and clinical experience.Links & ResourcesSubscribe to our Youtube Channel for more conversations at the intersection of high performance, leadership, and wellbeing: https://www.youtube.com/c/FindingMasteryGet exclusive discounts and support our amazing sponsors! Go to: https://findingmastery.com/sponsors/Subscribe to the Finding Mastery newsletter for weekly high performance insights: https://www.findingmastery.com/newsletter Download Dr. Mike's Morning Mindset Routine: findingmastery.com/morningmindsetFollow on YouTube, Instagram, LinkedIn, and XSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Narcissism is very real and sneaks into our lives. Be alert for signs so you can serve God properly.

Why do emotionally abusive people double down on false narratives, deny reality, and convince themselves they're the victim—even when they're causing visible harm?I'm joined by Paul Colaianni, host of The Overwhelmed Brain and Love and Abuse podcasts and creator of The Healed Being program, one of the few resources for people who have been emotionally abusive and genuinely want to change.We unpack one of the most confusing dynamics in abusive relationships: the distorted thinking that abusers use to justify their behavior and the self-protective systems that keep them from taking accountability.We cover:Why abusers truly believe their own version of realityThe psychology of self-righteousness, control, and emotional arroganceHow survivors internalize blame and begin to question their own kindnessThe painful tipping point between self-sacrifice and self-protectionWhat real change actually looks like—and why it often comes after the survivor walks awayResources mentioned:The Mean Workbook by Paul Colaianni: https://theoverwhelmedbrain.gumroad.com/l/jkSoJessica's Boundaries Deep Dive + 1:1 Validation Calls: emotionalabusecoach.comThe Unhooked Private Podcast & Course on the Cycle of Abuse: https://jessicaknight.thinkific.com/courses/unhookedWork with me: emotionalabusecoach.com highconflictdivorcecoaching.comSubscribe to my Substack: jessicaknightcoaching.substack.comSupport the showJoin the Patreon: https://patreon.com/Youarenotcrazy *New Course*: Unhooked: Map the Cycle of Abuse in your Relationship Website: Emotional Abuse Coach and high-conflictdivorcecoaching.comInstagram: @emotionalabusecoachEmail: jessica@jessicaknightcoaching.com{Substack} Blog About Recovering from Abuse {E-Book} How to Break Up with a Narcissist{Course} Identify Signs of Abuse and Begin to Heal{Free Resource} Canned Responses for Engaging with an Abusive Partner

So you're getting out of your emotionally and spiritually abusive marriage (congratulations, by the way, you're a hero), and you think the hard part is over? Honey, buckle up. This episode pulls back the curtain on what actually goes down in family court and why women like you and me need to step into the CEO role of our divorce process.I talk with Amy Polacko, a woman who's been through it, wrote a book about it, and now helps other women survive it. We cover everything from strategic silence and choosing the right attorney, to the "he's such a good guy" nonsense that courts just eat up.Here's the low-down: You could be framed. Literally. Not metaphorically. Actually framed. So let's talk about how to not let that happen.Key Takeaways: You must be the CEO of your divorce. Do not—I repeat, do NOT—hand the wheel to someone else and hope for the best.The justice system isn't always just. Especially if you're a woman who dares to leave an abuser.Document everything and hire smart. Get a coach before you get an attorney. Better yet, get Amy. Abusers have a playbook. And Amy knows what's on every page.Your “Christian” husband might still screw you over. Faith language doesn't mean he's safe. It might just mean he's scarier.Kids grow up. Even if you lose custody, there's hope. Connection isn't court-mandated, it's soul-deep. We'll talk about what to do if the unthinkable happens.Read the full show notes and/or ask Natalie a question hereRelated Resources:Check out Amy's website and get some one-on-one coaching with her.Get Amy's FREE resource, 10 Divorce Mistakes You Can't Afford to Make. Get the Proactive Playbook for Divorce or take her course, Divorce Decoded.Read her co-authored book, Framed: Women in the Family Court Underworld.Connect with Amy on Instagram. Go listen to some related Flying Free Podcast episodes, including “Winning Child Custody & Divorce Battles” and “How to Be the Parent Your Child Needs During Divorce.” And of course, consider joining the Flying Free Kaleidoscope where we make education and support for Christian women in emotionally abusive marriages (or making their exit) affordable and life-changing. (Plus Amy is one of our resident coaches!)Amy is a divorce coach and an award-winning journalist who is a domestic abuse survivor. Through her Freedom Warrior coaching business, she has guided hundreds of women out of toxic relationships and empowers women to be the CEO of their divorce. She is a former full-time investigative reporter on television. Amy's work has been featured in HuffPost, The Washington Post, Newsweek, NBC News, The Independent, New York Observer and Ms. She co-authored the groundbreaking book FRAMED: Women in the Family Court Underworld with Dr. Christine Cocchiola which exposes the gender bias crisis in our justice system

Subscribe in a reader Have you ever wondered if EMDR could really help survivors of narcissistic abuse and trauma bonding? In this video, I talk with Katrina Reese Newton — a trauma expert and EMDR therapist — to break down what EMDR is, how it works, and why it can feel almost like a “magic […] The post EMDR for Narcissistic Abuse: Fast Healing or False Hope? | with Katrina Reese Newton appeared first on Narcissist Abuse Support.

Mia is a survivor of narcissistic abuse. She has an award-winning memoir titled Bride-Made. I am passionate about raising awareness of narcissism and helping other victims find their voices and know they are not alone. Narcissism is affecting far too many people today and so many victims are stuck in these relationships due to fear, financial abuse and gaslighting and coercive control. Mia hopes that my story can help others break free and find a life outside of abuse.

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Dr. Melinda Edwards—psychiatrist, author, and founder of the nonprofit Living Darshan—returns to share her deeply personal and professional journey through autism, motherhood, and spiritual healing. In this intimate conversation, she explores the sacred sensitivity of autistic individuals, the evolution of human consciousness, and how our deepest wounds often become the doorway back to love.Dr. Edwards' book, Psyche and Spirit: How a Psychiatrist Found Divinity Through Her Lifelong Quest for Truth and Her Daughter's Autism, is available on Amazon and other platforms. Learn more or support her mission at:

Send us a textToday we discuss: Unmasking Narcissism Part 1Check us out atgraceintheshadowsor.orgdrjonathan@graceintheshadowsor.org(251) 244-4645*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!Donate to support a church/school multipurpose building and a motorcycle for the missionary to the Maassia tribe. https://www.purecharity.com/fundraisers/sc-africa-talley  (We only need to raise about $6200 for this mission.Support the show

Think it's just romantic partners who can be narcissistic? Think again.In this episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, I'm diving deep into how narcissism shows up in all types of relationships—not just the romantic ones. That charming coworker? The controlling parent? The friend who always plays the victim? Yep, narcissism can hide in plain sight, and you need to know what to look for.From coercive control in the workplace to gaslighting in families, we're breaking down the red flags of narcissistic abuse and how it can completely distort your reality—no matter who it's coming from. You'll hear real examples, practical strategies, and straight talk to help you finally see through the manipulation and protect your peace.

Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleEmail: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactWebsite: https://www.psychologyinseattle.comMerch: https://psychologyinseattle-shop.fourthwall.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychologyinseattle/Facebook Official Page: https://www.facebook.com/PsychologyInSeattle/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kirk.hondaJuly 23, 2025The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

What if the miracle you've been begging God for—the divine intervention, the total transformation of your emotionally bankrupt marriage—is actually you walking out the door?In this episode, I pull back the curtain on my own bathroom-floor prayer sob sessions (complete with cold tile and mascara rivers) and challenge the dangerous theology that says staying in abusive marriages = holy martyrdom. If you've been stuck in a cycle of “pray harder, suffer longer,” it's time to consider that the still, small voice urging you to get out might actually be God.Key Takeaways:You might be the miracle. Sometimes, walking away is the divine answer.God doesn't endorse abuse. Staying to suffer isn't a spiritual badge of honor.Faith isn't a formula. Praying harder won't fix what someone refuses to change.Waiting on God means moving. Biblical waiting sometimes involves action, not passive endurance.Peace is holy. A quiet, safe life isn't boring—it's blessed. Leaving can be faith-filled. Seeking safety is aligning with God's heart, not betraying Him.You're already worthy. Your value isn't tied to enduring mistreatment.Read the full show notes and/or ask Natalie a question hereRelated Resources:If you liked today's episode, you may relate to some of my others, including “What Are the Biblical Grounds for Divorce?” and “How Can You Tell if Your Abusive Partner Has Changed?” 

Big Breakdown - Inside The Disturbed Mind Of Bryan Kohberger What kind of mind plans a brutal quadruple homicide—and then walks back into class like nothing happened? In this chilling deep dive, we examine the disturbing psychological profile of Bryan Kohberger, the former criminology Ph.D. student now accused of murdering four University of Idaho students. Was he simply an academic obsessed with crime—or was he using his studies to script the perfect murder? We explore Kohberger's eerie behavioral patterns, his fascination with forensic science, and the bizarre contradictions between his public persona and his alleged crimes. From online posts theorized to be his anonymous thoughts, to his obsession with power, control, and social rejection—we connect the dots between what he studied and what he allegedly did. Narcissism, psychopathy, detachment, and cognitive dissonance all play a role in building a picture of a man who might've been dissecting his own criminal impulses in real time. You'll hear expert commentary on: The psychological red flags Kohberger allegedly displayed How his criminology background may have fueled—not prevented—his descent Whether his behavior post-crime reveals a compulsion, a fantasy fulfilled, or a serious unraveling This is not just a trial of evidence—it's a trial of the mind. And it raises a deeper question: how many “Bryan Kohbergers” are hiding in plain sight? Subscribe now for expert analysis, court developments, and psychological breakdowns. #BryanKohberger #IdahoMurders #TrueCrime #Criminology #PsychologicalProfile #ForensicPsychology #DarkMinds #HiddenKillers #TrialWatch #JusticeForTheVictims If you're a fan of true crime, legal drama, and psychological deep dives—hit that subscribe button and ring the bell. #truecrime #BryanKohberger #EpsteinList #IdahoMurders #JeffreyEpstein #KohbergerTrial #EpsteinConspiracy #ForensicPsychology #Criminology #JusticeForVictims Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video? Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/@hiddenkillerspod Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspod X Twitter https://x.com/tonybpod Listen Ad-Free On Apple Podcasts Here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/true-crime-today-premium-plus-ad-free-advance-episode/id1705422872

Big Breakdown - Inside The Disturbed Mind Of Bryan Kohberger What kind of mind plans a brutal quadruple homicide—and then walks back into class like nothing happened? In this chilling deep dive, we examine the disturbing psychological profile of Bryan Kohberger, the former criminology Ph.D. student now accused of murdering four University of Idaho students. Was he simply an academic obsessed with crime—or was he using his studies to script the perfect murder? We explore Kohberger's eerie behavioral patterns, his fascination with forensic science, and the bizarre contradictions between his public persona and his alleged crimes. From online posts theorized to be his anonymous thoughts, to his obsession with power, control, and social rejection—we connect the dots between what he studied and what he allegedly did. Narcissism, psychopathy, detachment, and cognitive dissonance all play a role in building a picture of a man who might've been dissecting his own criminal impulses in real time. You'll hear expert commentary on: The psychological red flags Kohberger allegedly displayed How his criminology background may have fueled—not prevented—his descent Whether his behavior post-crime reveals a compulsion, a fantasy fulfilled, or a serious unraveling This is not just a trial of evidence—it's a trial of the mind. And it raises a deeper question: how many “Bryan Kohbergers” are hiding in plain sight? Subscribe now for expert analysis, court developments, and psychological breakdowns. #BryanKohberger #IdahoMurders #TrueCrime #Criminology #PsychologicalProfile #ForensicPsychology #DarkMinds #HiddenKillers #TrialWatch #JusticeForTheVictims If you're a fan of true crime, legal drama, and psychological deep dives—hit that subscribe button and ring the bell. #truecrime #BryanKohberger #EpsteinList #IdahoMurders #JeffreyEpstein #KohbergerTrial #EpsteinConspiracy #ForensicPsychology #Criminology #JusticeForVictims Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video? Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/@hiddenkillerspod Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspod X Twitter https://x.com/tonybpod Listen Ad-Free On Apple Podcasts Here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/true-crime-today-premium-plus-ad-free-advance-episode/id1705422872

Big Breakdown - Inside The Disturbed Mind Of Bryan Kohberger What kind of mind plans a brutal quadruple homicide—and then walks back into class like nothing happened? In this chilling deep dive, we examine the disturbing psychological profile of Bryan Kohberger, the former criminology Ph.D. student now accused of murdering four University of Idaho students. Was he simply an academic obsessed with crime—or was he using his studies to script the perfect murder? We explore Kohberger's eerie behavioral patterns, his fascination with forensic science, and the bizarre contradictions between his public persona and his alleged crimes. From online posts theorized to be his anonymous thoughts, to his obsession with power, control, and social rejection—we connect the dots between what he studied and what he allegedly did. Narcissism, psychopathy, detachment, and cognitive dissonance all play a role in building a picture of a man who might've been dissecting his own criminal impulses in real time. You'll hear expert commentary on: The psychological red flags Kohberger allegedly displayed How his criminology background may have fueled—not prevented—his descent Whether his behavior post-crime reveals a compulsion, a fantasy fulfilled, or a serious unraveling This is not just a trial of evidence—it's a trial of the mind. And it raises a deeper question: how many “Bryan Kohbergers” are hiding in plain sight? Subscribe now for expert analysis, court developments, and psychological breakdowns. #BryanKohberger #IdahoMurders #TrueCrime #Criminology #PsychologicalProfile #ForensicPsychology #DarkMinds #HiddenKillers #TrialWatch #JusticeForTheVictims If you're a fan of true crime, legal drama, and psychological deep dives—hit that subscribe button and ring the bell. #truecrime #BryanKohberger #EpsteinList #IdahoMurders #JeffreyEpstein #KohbergerTrial #EpsteinConspiracy #ForensicPsychology #Criminology #JusticeForVictims Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video? Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/@hiddenkillerspod Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspod X Twitter https://x.com/tonybpod Listen Ad-Free On Apple Podcasts Here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/true-crime-today-premium-plus-ad-free-advance-episode/id1705422872

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Greg Thomasand I discuss  Cures for Narcissitic Personality Disorder (NPD)? How to and how NOT to handle a narcissist in your life? How to communicate with a loved one who is a narcissist?  Famous historic narcissists    All Greg Thomas Podcasts  https://vkubik.podbean.com/category/greg-thomas Narcissism with Greg Thomas https://vkubik.podbean.com/category/narcissism

We all carry a little narcissist inside us. But when ego becomes armor—and empathy is left behind—what happens to our capacity for love, connection, and truth? In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Sterlin Mosley, professor, writer, and author of The Narcissist in You and Everyone Else and Center of the Universe. We explore […]

In this episode, Dan addresses the pervasive issue of narcissistic behavior and its impact on individuals and communities, especially within the body of Christ. The discussion covers various forms of abuse, particularly narcissistic abuse, and its primary response of dissociated rage. Biblical references from Romans 12 are used to contrast narcissistic traits with Christian virtues. Dan delves into the characteristics and consequences of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), the continuum of narcissistic behaviors, and the intense struggle faced by individuals dealing with narcissistic abuse.This episode also explores myths, psychology, and strategies for identifying and managing narcissistic traits, emphasizing the importance of accountability, transformation, and deliverance through faith in Christ.

We're diving deep into The Real Housewives of Miami and the unforgettable narcissism party that had everyone talking. We also explore the growing rumors surrounding the newest Housewife, Stephanie, her bold response to the online chatter, and how she's confronting fans head-on. To top it all off, we're recapping standout moments from the Real Housewives of Atlanta reunion. Sponsors: NAD+ Effecty.com with code ALLABOUTTRH at checkout. Be sure to join us and support us on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ AllAboutTRH Patreon ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@AllAboutTRHpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠AllAboutTRH.com ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠for everything Real Housewives and Bravo TV  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@AllAboutTRHpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Trauma and PTSD leave a lasting imprint on how we see ourselves and navigate the world, which is why Debbie sits down with returning guest Dr. Robyn Walser for this episode, a clinical psychologist and expert in evidence-based treatment for PTSD, to explore the path to trauma recovery. Robyn unpacks the principles of exposure therapy, the importance of processing traumatic experiences, and insights from her new book, which she co-authored with Darrah Westrup, You Are Not Your Trauma. This conversation offers a deep understanding of PTSD, the wide-ranging effects of trauma, and how healing involves redefining one's relationship to past events rather than being retraumatized by them. Listen and Learn:Breaking free from trauma's grip and reconnecting with the deeper, fuller self beyond itWhy understanding the true meaning of trauma matters and how misusing the word can impact healingUnderstanding how trauma, whether single events or complex, can cause avoidance, disrupt life, and impact relationshipsHow trauma's fear cycle traps you and how changing your relationship to thoughts frees you to live againReclaiming your life by embracing fear and living your values fully through trauma recovery in ACTEmbracing the natural flow of trauma memories helps you process and regain freedomUsing written exposure therapy helps you safely process trauma by revisiting and writing about itHow structured, flexible exposure therapy in Robyn and Darrah's new book, You Are Not Your Trauma, helps you process trauma and build lasting resilienceResources: Coming Soon—You Are Not Your Trauma: An Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Guide for Healing from Within by Robyn Walser and Darrah Westrup: https://bookshop.org/a/30734/9781462557899Robyn's Website: https://robynwalser.com/Connect with Robyn on Social Media: https://www.instagram.com/walser.robyn/https://www.facebook.com/theheartofacthttps://www.linkedin.com/in/robynwalser About Robyn D. WalserRobyn D. Walser, Ph.D., is an internationally recognized clinical psychologist, educator, and author. She is the Director of Trauma and Life Consultation and Psychology Services, Assistant Professor at the University of California, Berkeley, and Director of Research at Bay Area Trauma Recovery Clinical Services. Dr. Walser has contributed significantly to the dissemination of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and holds a pivotal role in implementing ACT in one of the US's largest national healthcare systems. She also works at the National Center for PTSD, where her work focus is on trauma recovery, depression, and moral injury. A writer and scholar, Dr. Walser has co-authored nine influential books on ACT, including the widely respected The Heart of ACT: Developing a Flexible, Process-Based, and Client-Centered Practice Using Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. Her research and clinical expertise have made her a sought-after voice in advancing the application of ACT to address a variety of complex psychological challenges. Since 1997, Dr. Walser has led ACT workshops worldwide, bringing her passion for process-based, experiential learning to therapists and clinicians. Known for her compassionate and client-centered approach, Dr. Walser's teaching emphasizes the integration of evidence-based practices with human connection and flexibility. Whether through her books, articles, or live training, Dr. Walser continues to influence the evolution of ACT and inspire professionals in their pursuit of effective, transformative therapy. To learn more about her work, visit robynwalser.com.Book: You Are Not Your Trauma: An ACT Guide for Healing from Within by Robyn D. Walser and Darrah WestrupRelated Episodes: 383. What My Bones Know: C-PTSD with Stephanie Foo279. ACT for Healing Black Racial Trauma with Jennifer Shepard Payne 313. ACT-Informed Exposure for Anxiety with Brian Pilecki and Brian Thompson355. What is EMDR with Jamie Marich 77. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy with Jill Stoddard 320. Anger and Forgiveness with Robyn Walser 106. Therapy from “The Heart of ACT” with Robyn Walser98. Narcissism with Avigail Lev and Robyn Walser 49. Empowering Women with Robyn Walser345. Writing for Personal Growth with Maureen Murdock See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever wondered what it's like to be married to someone who swears allegiance to both their country and their ego? Meet Elizabeth, a brave survivor of emotional, spiritual, and psychological abuse within a military marriage. Spoiler alert: It's not all flag-waving and family barbecues.Key Takeaways:Abuse in Uniform: Elizabeth shares how military culture and constant relocation masked the escalating abuse in her marriage.Gaslight Central: Her husband weaponized patriotism, shifting blame and memory-wiping every argument like a bad magician.Mother of All Burnouts: From managing everything—including his moods—to finally realizing she wasn't the crazy one, Elizabeth walks us through her awakening.Mini Steps, Mega Impact: Discover how moving into a different bedroom and refusing to play the smiling spouse at a promotion ceremony were small, powerful boundaries.From Silence to Sisterhood: Elizabeth's healing journey took off with Flying Free, and she's now part of our “veteran” squad of badass women who got out, stayed out, and grew like weeds in springtime.Read the full show notes and/or ask Natalie a question hereRelated Resources:Listen to some of our other recent survivor stories, including Lisa's story and Erin's story. 

The Real Housewives of Orange County premiered and we were so confused that somehow a Narcissism Coach on Real Housewives of Miami made a little more sense?!!?!?!

Scott answers a question about masculinity and service: why don't more men volunteer, and how do we change that? He then discusses how narcissism relates to success (and whether he'd ever quit social media). Finally, he shares advice for workers trying to get re-hired in today's tough tech job market. Want to be featured in a future episode? Send a voice recording to officehours@profgmedia.com, or drop your question in the r/ScottGalloway subreddit. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Let's talk about that weird emotional hangover you get after confronting your husband's bad behavior. You know, the one where he hurts you, but somehow you end up feeling sorry for him? Yep. That old chestnut. In this episode, I get real about the trap so many of us Christian women fall into, the compassion boomerang that keeps us stuck in abusive marriages.I've lived this. I breathed this for 25 years. I know exactly what it feels like to see the abuse for what it is, feel a spark of righteous anger… only to have it snuffed out by a fake tear, a Bible verse, or a bouquet of “I didn't mean it that way” flowers. Before you know it, you're back to feeling like the monster for having feelings in the first place.So I'm calling it out. We're unpacking why this happens, how it messes with your brain, and what you can do to flip the script and start feeling sorry for the person who truly deserves your compassion: you.What I Want You to Walk Away With: You're not crazy. You're chemically trauma bonded. And yes, that's a thing.Your compassion is beautiful, but when it's misdirected at your abuser, it becomes a prison.The church has taught us to tolerate abuse in the name of Jesus—and honestly, Jesus would've flipped a table over that.Grief isn't the enemy. Denial is. Grief is the beginning of healing.You can feel sorry for yourself. You should. That's what healing starts with.You don't need to be brave enough for the whole mountain—just the next step.You are the one who's going to rescue you. (No prince required.)Read the full show notes and/or ask Natalie a question hereRelated Resources:Liked this episode? Then you'll like two of my other Flying Free Podcast episodes, “How Can You Tell if Your Abusive Partner Has Changed?” and “Why You Can't Stop Thinking About Your Abuser - and When That Changes.”

Have you ever wondered if someone in your life is truly a narcissist — or just selfish? In this episode, I break down the difference between narcissistic personality disorder and everyday selfish behavior. I'll help you identify the signs of real narcissism, explain how it affects your mental health, and give you practical tools to protect yourself if you're in a toxic relationship.Reveal the hidden patterns shaping your choices, habits, and success. Take my FREE Identity Quiz to discover who you really are and how to break through to the next level. Join here