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They get it. Hosts Audre Nelson and Devin Kleffer know all too well the challenges of dealing with mental health issues. From early childhood trauma, to addiction, to failed relationships, and more, they've journeyed through a variety of challenges - an


    • Oct 13, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
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    How do I change my perspective? Featuring Donna Otmani

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2021 64:56


    On this episode, Audre and Devin sit down with professional life coach, Donna Otmani, and take a closer look at how we can change our perspective on life's lemons. If you found this episode useful, please consider buying us a cup of coffee - or even becoming a member of the Here's the Deal podcast family! Members receive exclusive episodes, the opportunity to vote on show topics, live Zoom chats, and more. Audre Nelson is a licensed therapist and life coach. Devin Kleffer is a professional educator and business owner. The situations and insights shared on Here's the Deal are meant as generalized advice and in no way are a substitute for individualized professional therapy from a licensed therapist. Some topics and episodes may contain material or language not suitable for young listeners - please use your own discretion. Here's the Deal is a production of Be Heard Studios. Please visit Be Heard Studios to discover how we can help you launch and maintain your own podcast, or checkout our book "Be Heard! The Definitive Guide to Podcasting." KEYWORDS: mental health, goal setting, resolutions, lifestyle

    How to Forgive the Unforgivable - A Follow-Up Conversation with Brenda Adelman

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2021 34:19


    On this episode, Audre and Devin sit down with Brenda Adelman and continue their discussion about the power of forgiveness. If you found this episode useful, please consider buying us a cup of coffee - or even becoming a member of the Here's the Deal podcast family! Members receive exclusive episodes, the opportunity to vote on show topics, live Zoom chats, and more. Audre Nelson is a licensed therapist and life coach. Devin Kleffer is a professional educator and business owner. The situations and insights shared on Here's the Deal are meant as generalized advice and in no way are a substitute for individualized professional therapy from a licensed therapist. Some topics and episodes may contain material or language not suitable for young listeners - please use your own discretion. Here's the Deal is a production of Be Heard Studios. Please visit Be Heard Studios to discover how we can help you launch and maintain your own podcast, or checkout our book "Be Heard! The Definitive Guide to Podcasting." KEYWORDS: mental health, goal setting, resolutions, lifestyle

    What does a healthy dating relationship look like? Featuring Lisa Shields, Professional Dating Coach (Part 2 of 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2021 42:34


    On this episode, Audre and Devin sit down with professional dating coach, Lisa Shields, for part two of a two-part series. If you found this episode useful, please consider buying us a cup of coffee - or even becoming a member of the Here's the Deal podcast family! Members receive exclusive episodes, the opportunity to vote on show topics, live Zoom chats, and more. Audre Nelson is a licensed therapist and life coach. Devin Kleffer is a professional educator and business owner. The situations and insights shared on Here's the Deal are meant as generalized advice and in no way are a substitute for individualized professional therapy from a licensed therapist. Some topics and episodes may contain material or language not suitable for young listeners - please use your own discretion. Here's the Deal is a production of Be Heard Studios. Please visit Be Heard Studios to discover how we can help you launch and maintain your own podcast, or checkout our book "Be Heard! The Definitive Guide to Podcasting." KEYWORDS: mental health, goal setting, resolutions, lifestyle

    What does a healthy dating relationship look like? Featuring Lisa Shields, Professional Dating Coach (Part 1 of 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2021 53:03


    On this episode, Audre and Devin sit down with professional dating coach, Lisa Shields, for part one of a two-part series. If you found this episode useful, please consider buying us a cup of coffee - or even becoming a member of the Here's the Deal podcast family! Members receive exclusive episodes, the opportunity to vote on show topics, live Zoom chats, and more. Audre Nelson is a licensed therapist and life coach. Devin Kleffer is a professional educator and business owner. The situations and insights shared on Here's the Deal are meant as generalized advice and in no way are a substitute for individualized professional therapy from a licensed therapist. Some topics and episodes may contain material or language not suitable for young listeners - please use your own discretion. Here's the Deal is a production of Be Heard Studios. Please visit Be Heard Studios to discover how we can help you launch and maintain your own podcast, or checkout our book "Be Heard! The Definitive Guide to Podcasting." KEYWORDS: mental health, goal setting, resolutions, lifestyle

    Discussing "Your Turn," with author Julie Lythcott-Haims

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2021 72:41


    On this episode, Audre and Devin sit down with Julie Lythcott-Haims, author of Your Turn, and How to Raise an Adult. If you found this episode useful, please consider buying us a cup of coffee - or even becoming a member of the Here's the Deal podcast family! Members receive exclusive episodes, the opportunity to vote on show topics, live Zoom chats, and more. Audre Nelson is a licensed therapist and life coach. Devin Kleffer is a professional educator and business owner. The situations and insights shared on Here's the Deal are meant as generalized advice and in no way are a substitute for individualized professional therapy from a licensed therapist. Some topics and episodes may contain material or language not suitable for young listeners - please use your own discretion. Here's the Deal is a production of Be Heard Studios. Please visit Be Heard Studios to discover how we can help you launch and maintain your own podcast, or checkout our book "Be Heard! The Definitive Guide to Podcasting." KEYWORDS: mental health, goal setting, resolutions, lifestyle

    How can I make the transition back to school easier?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2021 29:29


    On this episode, Audre and Devin discuss returning to school this Fall, by asking, "How can I make the transition back to school easier?" If you found this episode useful, please consider buying us a cup of coffee - or even becoming a member of the Here's the Deal podcast family! Members receive exclusive episodes, the opportunity to vote on show topics, live Zoom chats, and more. Audre Nelson is a licensed therapist and life coach. Devin Kleffer is a professional educator and business owner. The situations and insights shared on Here's the Deal are meant as generalized advice and in no way are a substitute for individualized professional therapy from a licensed therapist. Some topics and episodes may contain material or language not suitable for young listeners - please use your own discretion. Here's the Deal is a production of Be Heard Studios. Please visit Be Heard Studios to discover how we can help you launch and maintain your own podcast, or checkout our book "Be Heard! The Definitive Guide to Podcasting." KEYWORDS: mental health, goal setting, resolutions, lifestyle

    How do I conquer stress, pressure, and underperformance? Featuring Dr. Ellen Reed

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2021 49:01


    On this episode, Devin sits down with Dr. Ellen Reed to discuss her book, Relentless Focus Solution, and how its principles can be applied to everyday situations. If you found this episode useful, please consider buying us a cup of coffee - or even becoming a member of the Here's the Deal podcast family! Members receive exclusive episodes, the opportunity to vote on show topics, live Zoom chats, and more. Audre Nelson is a licensed therapist and life coach. Devin Kleffer is a professional educator and business owner. The situations and insights shared on Here's the Deal are meant as generalized advice and in no way are a substitute for individualized professional therapy from a licensed therapist. Some topics and episodes may contain material or language not suitable for young listeners - please use your own discretion. Here's the Deal is a production of Be Heard Studios. Please visit Be Heard Studios to discover how we can help you launch and maintain your own podcast, or checkout our book "Be Heard! The Definitive Guide to Podcasting." KEYWORDS: Dr. Ellen Reed, Dr. Jason Selk, mental health, problem solving, biology, self-help

    How do short-term goals positively impact my daily life?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2021 46:53


    On this episode, Audre and Devin discuss daily goal setting, by asking, "How do daily and short-term goals positively impact my life?" If you found this episode useful, please consider buying us a cup of coffee - or even becoming a member of the Here's the Deal podcast family! Members receive exclusive episodes, the opportunity to vote on show topics, live Zoom chats, and more. Audre Nelson is a licensed therapist and life coach. Devin Kleffer is a professional educator and business owner. The situations and insights shared on Here's the Deal are meant as generalized advice and in no way are a substitute for individualized professional therapy from a licensed therapist. Some topics and episodes may contain material or language not suitable for young listeners - please use your own discretion. Here's the Deal is a production of Be Heard Studios. Please visit Be Heard Studios to discover how we can help you launch and maintain your own podcast, or checkout our book "Be Heard! The Definitive Guide to Podcasting." KEYWORDS: mental health, goal setting, resolutions, lifestyle

    How do I play the cards I'm dealt? Featuring Donna Otmani

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2021 46:53


    On this episode, Audre and Devin sit down with professional life coach Donna Otmani, and discuss making the most out of the circumstances we're given in life. You can learn more about Donna Otmani and her coaching services by visiting her site here. If you found this episode useful, please consider buying us a cup of coffee - or even becoming a member of the Here's the Deal podcast family! Members receive exclusive episodes, the opportunity to vote on show topics, live Zoom chats, and more. Audre Nelson is a licensed therapist and life coach. Devin Kleffer is a professional educator and business owner. The situations and insights shared on Here's the Deal are meant as generalized advice and in no way are a substitute for individualized professional therapy from a licensed therapist. Some topics and episodes may contain material or language not suitable for young listeners - please use your own discretion. Here's the Deal is a production of Be Heard Studios. Please visit Be Heard Studios to discover how we can help you launch and maintain your own podcast, or checkout our book "Be Heard! The Definitive Guide to Podcasting."

    How should I deal with co-workers I don't like?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2021 42:43


    On this episode, Audre and Devin discuss workplace issues, by asking "How should I deal with co-workers I don't like?" If you found this episode useful, please consider buying us a cup of coffee - or even becoming a member of the Here's the Deal podcast family! Members receive exclusive episodes, the opportunity to vote on show topics, live Zoom chats, and more. Audre Nelson is a licensed therapist and life coach. Devin Kleffer is a professional educator and business owner. The situations and insights shared on Here's the Deal are meant as generalized advice and in no way are a substitute for individualized professional therapy from a licensed therapist. Some topics and episodes may contain material or language not suitable for young listeners - please use your own discretion. Here's the Deal is a production of Be Heard Studios. Please visit Be Heard Studios to discover how we can help you launch and maintain your own podcast, or checkout our book "Be Heard! The Definitive Guide to Podcasting."

    How do I know if my kid is struggling with low self worth?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2021 39:34


    On this episode, Audre and Devin discuss how to detect early signs of self worth issues, and explore various ways to approach this delicate topic. If you found this episode useful, please consider buying us a cup of coffee - or even becoming a member of the Here's the Deal podcast family! Members receive exclusive episodes, the opportunity to vote on show topics, live Zoom chats, and more. Audre Nelson is a licensed therapist and life coach. Devin Kleffer is a professional educator and business owner. The situations and insights shared on Here's the Deal are meant as generalized advice and in no way are a substitute for individualized professional therapy from a licensed therapist. Some topics and episodes may contain material or language not suitable for young listeners - please use your own discretion. Here's the Deal is a production of Be Heard Studios. Please visit Be Heard Studios to discover how we can help you launch and maintain your own podcast, or checkout our book "Be Heard! The Definitive Guide to Podcasting."

    How can I forgive the unforgivable? Featuring Special Guest, Brenda Adelman

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2021 36:58


    Brenda Adelman's father murdered her mother, and then went on to marry Brenda's aunt. In what seems like a made-for-television event, this chain of real life circumstances ultimately led Brenda to learn the power of authentic forgiveness. On this episode, Audre and Devin sit down with Brenda and seek insight into the process of forgiveness she now helps others find. You can learn more about Brenda and her story here, and purchase a copy of her book, My Father Killed My Mother and Married My Aunt: Forgiving the Unforgivable, here. If you found this episode useful, please consider buying us a cup of coffee - or even becoming a member of the Here's the Deal podcast family! Members receive exclusive episodes, the opportunity to vote on show topics, live Zoom chats, and more. Audre Nelson is a licensed therapist and life coach. Devin Kleffer is a professional educator and business owner. The situations and insights shared on Here's the Deal are meant as generalized advice and in no way are a substitute for individualized professional therapy from a licensed therapist. Some topics and episodes may contain material or language not suitable for young listeners - please use your own discretion. Here's the Deal is a production of Be Heard Studios. Please visit Be Heard Studios to discover how we can help you launch and maintain your own podcast, or checkout our book "Be Heard! The Definitive Guide to Podcasting."

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    How do I make sure I'm not raising entitled kids?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2021 42:53


    On this episode, Audre and Devin discuss the hazards of wanting to shield our kids from adversity, by asking "How do I make sure I'm not raising entitled kids?" If you found this episode useful, please consider buying us a cup of coffee - or even becoming a member of the Here's the Deal podcast family! Members receive exclusive episodes, the opportunity to vote on show topics, live Zoom chats, and more. Audre Nelson is a licensed therapist and life coach. Devin Kleffer is a professional educator and business owner. The situations and insights shared on Here's the Deal are meant as generalized advice and in no way are a substitute for individualized professional therapy from a licensed therapist. Some topics and episodes may contain material or language not suitable for young listeners - please use your own discretion. Here's the Deal is a production of Be Heard Studios. Please visit Be Heard Studios to discover how we can help you launch and maintain your own podcast, or checkout our book "Be Heard! The Definitive Guide to Podcasting."

    How do my own fears negatively impact my kids?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2021 55:24


    On this episode, Audre and Devin discuss how kids can pickup on our stress, by asking "How do my own fears negatively impact my kids?" If you found this episode useful, please consider buying us a cup of coffee - or even becoming a member of the Here's the Deal podcast family! Members receive exclusive episodes, the opportunity to vote on show topics, live Zoom chats, and more. Audre Nelson is a licensed therapist and life coach. Devin Kleffer is a professional educator and business owner. The situations and insights shared on Here's the Deal are meant as generalized advice and in no way are a substitute for individualized professional therapy from a licensed therapist. Some topics and episodes may contain material or language not suitable for young listeners - please use your own discretion. Here's the Deal is a production of Be Heard Studios. Please visit Be Heard Studios to discover how we can help you launch and maintain your own podcast, or checkout our book "Be Heard! The Definitive Guide to Podcasting." --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    What's stopping me from pursuing what I really want or love?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2021 40:22


    On this episode, Audre and Devin discuss roadblocks to achieving the things we want in life by asking, "What's stopping me from pursuing what I really want or love?" If you found this episode useful, please consider buying us a cup of coffee - or even becoming a member of the Here's the Deal podcast family! Members receive exclusive episodes, the opportunity to vote on show topics, live Zoom chats, and more. Audre Nelson is a licensed therapist and life coach. Devin Kleffer is a professional educator and business owner. The situations and insights shared on Here's the Deal are meant as generalized advice and in no way are a substitute for individualized professional therapy from a licensed therapist. Some topics and episodes may contain material or language not suitable for young listeners - please use your own discretion. Here's the Deal is a production of Be Heard Studios. Please visit Be Heard Studios to discover how we can help you launch and maintain your own podcast, or checkout our book "Be Heard! The Definitive Guide to Podcasting." --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Why don't I have enough time to do the things I love?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2021 39:52


    On this episode, Audre and Devin discuss trying to find time in our busy schedules and ask Why don't I have enough time to do the things I love? The discussion includes different methods of prioritizing goals and life in general, including Devin's reliance on using the Eisenhower Matrix. If you found this episode useful, please consider buying us a cup of coffee - or even becoming a member of the Here's the Deal podcast family! Members receive exclusive episodes, the opportunity to vote on show topics, live Zoom chats, and more. Audre Nelson is a licensed therapist and life coach. Devin Kleffer is a professional educator and business owner. The situations and insights shared on Here's the Deal are meant as generalized advice and in no way are a substitute for individualized professional therapy from a licensed therapist. Some topics and episodes may contain material or language not suitable for young listeners - please use your own discretion. Here's the Deal is a production of Be Heard Studios. Please visit Be Heard Studios to discover how we can help you launch and maintain your own podcast, or checkout our book "Be Heard! The Definitive Guide to Podcasting." --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Why is failing at something so vital to becoming the person I want to be?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2021 47:46


    On this episode, Audre and Devin discuss the benefits of letting go of a performance-based life, and reframe how we look at failure. The conversation discusses perspectives for the individual, as well as helping parents avoid the performance trap for their kids. If you found this episode useful, please consider buying us a cup of coffee - or even becoming a member of the Here's the Deal podcast family! Members receive exclusive episodes, the opportunity to vote on show topics, live Zoom chats, and more. Audre Nelson is a licensed therapist and life coach. Devin Kleffer is a professional educator and business owner. The situations and insights shared on Here's the Deal are meant as generalized advice and in no way are a substitute for individualized professional therapy from a licensed therapist. Some topics and episodes may contain material or language not suitable for young listeners - please use your own discretion. Here's the Deal is a production of Be Heard Studios. Please visit Be Heard Studios to discover how we can help you launch and maintain your own podcast, or checkout our book "Be Heard! The Definitive Guide to Podcasting." --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Filling Your Bucket

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2020 35:21


    It's easy to get down on one's self - especially in 2020! On this episode, Audre and Devin discuss the need to find self-affirming habits of mind, and the necessity of self-care. If you found this episode useful, please consider buying us a cup of coffee - or even becoming a member of the Here's the Deal podcast family! Members receive exclusive episodes, the opportunity to vote on show topics, live Zoom chats, and more. Audre Nelson is a licensed therapist and life coach. Devin Kleffer is a professional educator and business owner. The situations and insights shared on Here's the Deal are meant as generalized advice and in no way are a substitute for individualized professional therapy from a licensed therapist. Some topics and episodes may contain material or language not suitable for young listeners - please use your own discretion. Here's the Deal is a production of Be Heard Studios. Please visit Be Heard Studios to discover how we can help you launch and maintain your own podcast, or checkout our book "Be Heard! The Definitive Guide to Podcasting." --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Being Fed Up with Quarantines, Masks, and 2020

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2020 23:51


    Remember 'normalcy'? It's been a while! Months have transpired since COVID-19 began reshaping our lives - and the lack of social engagement has been tough on a lot of us. On this episode, Audre and Devin take a look at parenting in 2020, and how to enjoy life despite the challenges. If you found this episode useful, please consider buying us a cup of coffee - or even becoming a member of the Here's the Deal podcast family! Members receive exclusive episodes, the opportunity to vote on show topics, live Zoom chats, and more. Audre Nelson is a licensed therapist and life coach. Devin Kleffer is a professional educator and business owner. The situations and insights shared on Here's the Deal are meant as generalized advice and in no way are a substitute for individualized professional therapy from a licensed therapist. Some topics and episodes may contain material or language not suitable for young listeners - please use your own discretion. Here's the Deal is a production of Be Heard Studios. Please visit Be Heard Studios to discover how we can help you launch and maintain your own podcast, or checkout our book "Be Heard! The Definitive Guide to Podcasting." --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Misplaced Anxiety and its Tie to Our Past

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2020 31:55


    On this episode, Audre and Devin discuss the many avenues and causes of anxiety, including how it's often tied to events from our own past. If you found this episode useful, please consider buying us a cup of coffee - or even becoming a member of the Here's the Deal podcast family! Members receive exclusive episodes, the opportunity to vote on show topics, live Zoom chats, and more. Audre Nelson is a licensed therapist and life coach. Devin Kleffer is a professional educator and business owner. The situations and insights shared on Here's the Deal are meant as generalized advice and in no way are a substitute for individualized professional therapy from a licensed therapist. Some topics and episodes may contain material or language not suitable for young listeners - please use your own discretion. Here's the Deal is a production of Be Heard Studios. Please visit Be Heard Studios to discover how we can help you launch and maintain your own podcast, or checkout our book "Be Heard! The Definitive Guide to Podcasting." --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Welcome Back

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2020 3:08


    After a hiatus and a reboot, Audre and Devin are back at it, delivering insight on a number of topics. In this episode, they set the stage for the new podcast and welcome back their listeners. If you found this episode useful, please consider buying us a cup of coffee - or even becoming a member of the Here's the Deal podcast family! Members receive exclusive episodes, the opportunity to vote on show topics, live Zoom chats, and more. Audre Nelson is a licensed therapist and life coach. Devin Kleffer is a professional educator and business owner. The situations and insights shared on Here's the Deal are meant as generalized advice and in no way are a substitute for individualized professional therapy from a licensed therapist. Some topics and episodes may contain material or language not suitable for young listeners - please use your own discretion. Here's the Deal is a production of Be Heard Studios. Please visit Be Heard Studios to discover how we can help you launch and maintain your own podcast, or checkout our book "Be Heard! The Definitive Guide to Podcasting." --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

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