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We're millennials, we're lesbians, we're black women, we're married and we're here to talk about it. Please be sure to follow us as We're discussing how we navigate life as two black women loving each other, unapologetically. you can keep up with us on IG: @luvlifeandlabels & youtube @Thesweetlife

Esh and Lei


    • Jul 8, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
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    Marriage and partnership

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2021 73:08


    If marriage is simply a piece of paper, a contract; why aren't we taking seriously the consequences of entering into this partnership? Why is it so important to understand partnership especially in lesbian marriages? This week Lei & Esh discuss the lack of emphasis placed on partnership in lesbian relationships and marriages and why that is a huge mistake. Follow us on Instagram and YouTube @_Lovelifeandlabels submit your listener letters to asklovelifeandlabels@gmail.com Get your free month of audible at audibletrial.com/lovelifeandlabels submit voice messages at https://anchor.fm/lovelifeandlabels/message --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Infidelity and Accountability

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2021 63:57


    When dealing with infidelity who's truly to blame? Should your frustrations be directed towards the woman on the side or your girlfriend/ wife? Is it fair to place the blame on the side chick? How much responsibility does she have in the situation? Or, is your wife solely to blame? Who do we hold accountable when both parties are guilty? These are the questions we're trying to answer this week. Join your favorite black queer wives as we unpack accountability & cheating. To submit your listener letters please email us at AskLovelifeandlabels@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram @_Lovelifeandlabels --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Too aggressive to be feminine

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2021 86:37


    We're unpacking what is expected of feminine women in the LGBTQIA community. Women are more than one thing but can feminine women be assertive or aggressive and still be a catch? How do we combat the patriarchy and fight misogyny in a community full of women? Submit your listener letters to asklovelifeandlabels@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    The power of No

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2021 67:22


    Saying no and standing firm in that decision has been one of the toughest journeys we've embarked upon as a couple. Finding the balance between being true to yourself and setting boundaries can be challenging. How has the ability or inability to say no affected you and your relationships with others and yourself? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Centering Alone Time

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2021 68:41


    Is it healthy to demand your woman spend every waking moment with you? How do you navigate talking about alone time? How important is autonomy in a relationship? This week we're discussing toxic controlling behavior and the importance of privacy and identity in marriage and dating. please rate comment and share. Follow us on Instagram to continue the conversation @_lovelifeandlabels submit Listener letters to Asklovelifeandlabels@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Surviving 2020

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2021 67:54


    2020 changed everything for us. Our household income was reduced. We started a business. We conceived a child. The pandemic showed us so much about not only ourselves but it opened our eyes to the world around us and forced us to really take in what we saw. This is what 2020 taught us. Was 2020 as transformative for you as it was for us? please don't forget to like share rate and comment. to submit listener letters email us at AskLovelifeandlabels@gmail.com

    18 And Engaged

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2020 84:37


    is 18 too young to be married and how do you handle unreasonable in laws? Whew it gets real as we discuss the affects of Covid on our lives and welcome you all back to a new era of Love life and labels. instagram _lovelifeandlabels YouTube Love life and labels amazon.com/shop/lovelifeandlabels

    Corona Chronicles

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2020 77:22


    corona chronicles ya'll! This is our first recap our gay ass quarantine season. We've got all the tea on our corona shenanigans. Visit www.Audibletrial.com/lovelifeandlabels for your free audioook. Hum vitamins https://www.shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1112986&u=2359993&m=76159 Email: asklovelifeandlabels@gmail.com

    Lovers And Friends

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2020 78:32


    Are you friends with your ex? Can lesbians truly be friends with an ex while in a new relationship? Submit your topic suggestions and requests for advice to Asklovelifeandlabels@gmail.com Find us on Instagram @_lovelifeandlabels

    Keep It Spicy Y’all.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2020 54:39


    We're unpacking sex in long term relationships. we know lesbians can move quickly, and sometimes the fire burns out even quicker. How do you keep the sex good after being together for a while?

    What Is Good Sex?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2020 61:13


    what is Good sex? what makes sex good? on this episode of the podcast we're talking about what makes sex good and what makes sex great. We all know lesbians talk a good game when it comes to bedroom action , well these married lesbians are going to give you our take on good sex.

    Catching Feelings

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2020 63:03


    sex minus emotions, is it real?

    How About The First Time

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2020 73:46


    It's the month of love and we're talking SEX baby! submit your questions and requests for advice to asklovelifeandlabels@gmail.com follow us on Instagram @lovelifeandlabels

    Happy Wife Happy Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2020 66:44


    Does a Happy wife truly equal a happy life? well what happens when there are two wives? Does carrying the responsibility for your wife's happiness cause problems long term? Let's unpack this idea

    Too Pretty To Be Butch

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2020 62:03


    it's time to re examine what's masculine and what's feminine

    First Impressions

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2020 75:53


    Did we live up to our first impressions?

    Light Skin Is The Right Skin?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2019 68:39


    Is light skin "IN"??? Has colorism made its way into the black lesbian community?

    Where's The Meat

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2019 63:57


    We don't need your Dick.

    Why did I get married?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2019 61:28


    We're celebrating our 2 year anniversary and reflecting on our journey to the altar to answer the age old question...Why the hell did I get married???

    Bringing Sand To The Beach

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2019 72:51


    It's pride month and we celebrated in a huge way! Tune in to find out how we showed our pride.

    Is She The One

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2019 95:31


    Is it always obvious when you've found "The one". we love and appreciate your support! meet us over at Luvlifeandlabels on IG and theSWEETlife on youtube! Head over to Amillilittlethings.com for all of your all natural handmade body care

    Pillow Talk Pt2

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2019 68:24


    Caramel is Golden Brown! Thank you all for listening. We appreciate your support in growing our community here. Please feel free to subscribe, share and rate our podcast. You can also follow our shenanigans on our other platforms. Instagram @Luvlifeandlabels Youtube.com/lovelifeandlabels Facebook TheSweetLife

    Zebra Head

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2019 79:00


    are you down with the swirl? Have you ever dated a white girl? Are you open to dating outside of your race? Tune in to find out I we've ever been down with the swirl. Engaging with you all is the best part of doing this show, we are so grateful for your love and support. Lets keep the conversation going. Find us on Instagram @LuvLiveandLabels or email us at EshandLei@gmail.com Peace, Esh & Lei

    Pillow Talk

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2019 73:19


    We're answering Listener Questions and having a little pillow talk this week. We will have a pillow talk episode once a month so please feel free to write in and submit your questions, dilemmas funny stories and everything in between. Engaging with you all is the best part of doing this show, we are so grateful for your love and support. Lets keep the conversation going. Find us on Instagram @LuvLiveandLabels or email us at EshandLei@gmail.com Peace, Esh & Lei

    What's your Love Language?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2019 57:04


    Do you have a hard time communicating love to your wife? Or maybe you aren't feeling the love from your wife the way you used to. Are you falling out of love? that could be, but maybe you aren't speaking your wife's love language. Let's talk about it. To submit your listener questions or topic suggestions EshandLei@gmail.com IG: LuvLIfeandLabels

    She comes first

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2019 57:49


    the gender gap, also known as the orgasm gap is an issues in many women but does it effect the lesbian community? We're talking about all the things and getting to the bottom of it. Thank you for your continued support and love! please share and tell your friends and please don't forget to like, rate comment and most importantly subscribe. we're on instagram @_Lovelifeandlabels love and light!

    Daddy Issues

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2019 82:31


    how are you dealing with your past traumas? We've sat down and we're unpacking some serious emotional baggage. Get your tissues ready because this one is a doozy. We're getting personal and taking a seat on the couch, grab your wine it's time to come to grips with our childhood traumas. If you aren't already please follow us on our other platforms we'd truly appreciate your support. we're on Instagram @Lovelifeandlabels

    the bounce back

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2019 71:24


    It has been one of those weeks ya'll! There was calamity left right and sideways. We made it through though. Here's a recap of the past week of being young black lesbian and married. please don't forget to follow us on IG @Luvlifeandlabels to keep up with us and join the conversation and be sure to subscribe to our youtube channel youtube.com/lovelifeandlabels

    Having your cake and eating it too

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2019 25:49


    What's the deal with Lesbians who don't date bisexuals? Is it really that big of a deal? We're talking about it join the conversation and please don't forget to follow us on IG @Luvlifeandlabels

    50 shades of greedy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2019 44:48


    can there be reconciliation after infidelity? Is Cheating the end all be all or can relationships last. Let's discuss, Please don't forget to rate, comment and subscribe for new content. New episodes every Monday! Follow us online IG @luvlifeandlabels and youtube @TheSweetLife

    Did you pack your raincoat?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2019 66:04


    Let's talk about sex Baby! Why is the conversation surrounding safe sex taboo in the lesbian community? Why are we so uncomfortable discussing boundaries and expressing our needs? Well, we're talking about it and we're gonna get to the bottom of things?

    How we met

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2018 46:28


    We're spilling all the Tea and telling you how we met and where it all started. We've known each other for ten years and have seen each other through some interesting times, we're discussing everything from exes, to recognizing "the 1" to being "flewed out" Tune in to find out how we made it. To keep up with us be sure to follow us on IG @_lovelifeandlabels as well as on youtube youtube.com/lovelifeand labels

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