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Season 1, we brought a different group of people together from different backgrounds with an array of perspectives to discuss the dynamics of love and relationships. Season 2, co-hosts Tasha Ray & Deven Lee set out to find the secrets of the opposite sex by inviting one man into the hot seat each week to answer all the juicy questions women want the answers to!

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    • Jul 8, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 57m AVG DURATION
    • 33 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from Secrets of the Opposite Sex

    S5, E1 — Overstaying in Relationships & the Single Stigma

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2024 79:11


    To kick off Season 5 we invited some of our favorite friends of the show, Cinnamon, Mark & Nico back to discuss the complex dynamics of single life & overstaying in relationships. We explore how the fear of loneliness can impact our choices and discuss key questions to evaluate whether a relationship is worth pursuing. We also tackle the challenges of dealing with external pressures and judgment when ending a relationship, and offer advice on self-growth and rebuilding self-esteem after a breakup. To submit a question or a story for advice, please DM us on Instagram or TikTok @SecretsoftheOppositeSex & follow us on YouTube for extended episodes. This podcast is sponsored by the party game, Secrets of the Opposite Sex available for download on Apple App Store.

    Season 4 Finale Roundtable (Part 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2023 80:47


    In the second episode of this two part season finale, our host, Tasha Ray, is joined by some of our favorite guests from the season. Jessica, Brittany, Skoob, Keith & Nico come together to get into the hottest topics of the season, rekindling the fiery debates and insightful discussions that made this season a standout. For extended episodes, subscribe to our YouTube channel by searching Secrets of the Opposite Sex.

    Season 4 Finale Roundtable (Part 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2023 92:04


    In the first episode of this two part season finale, our host, Tasha Ray, is joined by some of our favorite guests from the season. Mark, Kari, Danielle, Kevin, and Drew come together to get into the hottest topics of the season, rekindling the fiery debates and insightful discussions that made this season a standout. Make sure you check out Secrets of the Opposite Sex on YouTube to watch the extended episodes!

    S4, E5 — Love Bytes: Exploring Online Dating

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2023 86:03


    Whether you're a seasoned online dater, someone curious about the world of digital romance, or simply seeking a fun and informative conversation, this episode offers a diverse range of perspectives and stories that will leave you with a deeper understanding of online dating in today's interconnected world. Lyka, Kevin & Skoob join us to discuss the highs and lows of dating in the digital age. Watch extended episodes on the Secrets of the Opposite Sex YouTube page!

    S4, E4 — Dating in Major Cities: Overhyped or Exceeding Expectations?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2023 71:21


    Kari, Terrell, and Jodi join us this week to spill the beans on their dating escapades in two vibrant cities—Atlanta and New York City. With humor and candor, they share their contrasting experiences, revealing the quirks and surprises each city has to offer when it comes to matters of the heart. Tune in for a lively discussion and decide if you should make that move to a major city to find love or stay put!

    S4, E3 (Part 2) — Navigating the Ex Factor

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2023 54:03


    Join us for a humorous 2 part episode, exploring the challenging terrain of dating and exes, where past and present collide in unexpected ways. Will you side with Mark, Brittany, or Drew in this spirited debate? Be sure to follow us on Instagram, TikTok & YouTube for Extended clips & episodes @SecretsoftheOppositeSex — see you there!

    S4, E3 (Part 1) — Navigating the Ex Factor

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2023 48:07


    Join us for a humorous exploration of the challenging terrain of dating and exes, where past and present collide in unexpected ways. Will you side with Mark, Brittany, or Drew in this spirited debate? Be sure to follow us on Instagram & YouTube for Extended episodes @SecretsoftheOppositeSex — see you there!

    S4, E2 — Candid Conversations with Women Approaching 40

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2023 58:06


    Join host Tasha Ray in this thought-provoking episode as she engages in heartfelt conversations with dynamic women on the brink of their 40s. In a world where dating dynamics have evolved, these women share their personal stories, dating experiences, and the unique challenges they face as they approach this pivotal age. From redefining priorities to embracing self-confidence, Mia, Jessica & Danielle, delve into the intricacies of finding love, building connections, and embracing the journey of romance ahead. To watch extended interviews, subscribe to Secrets of the Opposite Sex on YouTube or follow us @SecretsoftheOppositeSex.

    S4, E1 — Men's Roundtable: Navigating Dating in Your Thirties

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2023 66:13


    As men transition into their thirties and beyond, they often find themselves navigating a dating landscape that's quite different from their earlier years. We'll delve into the expectations that society places on individuals of this age group – from career stability to family aspirations – and how these factors have influenced dating choices for Nico, Drew & Keith. For the extended interview, subscribe to Secrets of the Opposite Sex on YouTube or follow us @SecretsoftheOppositeSex.

    S4, E1 — Men's Roundtable: Navigating Dating in Your Thirties

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2023 74:57


    As men transition into their thirties and beyond, they often find themselves navigating a dating landscape that's quite different from their earlier years. We'll delve into the expectations that society places on individuals of this age group – from career stability to family aspirations – and how these factors have influenced dating choices for Nico, Drew & Keith. For the extended interview, subscribe to Secrets of the Opposite Sex on YouTube or follow us @SecretsoftheOppositeSex.

    Episode 7 — Dating with Intention

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2022 50:20


    Francoise, the woman behind some of Instagram's most inspirational pages, joins us to give her take on how to date with intention in today's dating climate. Grab your notebooks, single friends--class is in session as she drops her best dating tips! Follow this week's guest: @heyfrancoise @blacklovepage                                          Follow us on Instagram: @SecretsoftheOppositeSex @Tljthe3rd @MissTashaRay                                                              This episode is sponsored by the mobile app, Secrets of the Opposite Sex. Download it & play from home on Google Play, Apple App Store or visit www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com

    Episode 6 — Dating Internationally

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2022 77:57


    Expatriate, Cinnamon, joins us all the way from Portugal to dish on what dating has been like since leaving the US. Psst...we may have learned that Europeans know a little something that American guys may not know about in the bedroom. Tune in to find out what! Follow this week's guest: @drivenspice Follow us on Instagram: @SecretsoftheOppositeSex @Tljthe3rd @MissTashaRay This episode is sponsored by the mobile app, Secrets of the Opposite Sex. Download it & play from home on Google Play, Apple App Store or visit www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com.

    Episode 5 — Dating a Latina Entrepreneur

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2022 59:27


    Latina boss, Janet, joins us in the hot seat this week to discuss finances, cultural dating differences & a few more things that are a little more racy—you'll have to listen until the end to find out about that one! Tune in now! Follow this week's guest: @latina_money Follow us on Instagram: @SecretsoftheOppositeSex @Tljthe3rd @MissTashaRay This episode is sponsored by the mobile app, Secrets of the Opposite Sex. Download it & play from home on Google Play, Apple App Store or visit www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com.

    Episode 4 — Dating an Accountant

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2022 65:45


    Sondra lets us in on how she balances her love life with being a single parent and entrepreneur! We talk finances, faking orgasms, deal breakers and more--be sure to tune in! Follow this week's guest: @theetravelingaccountant Follow us on Instagram: @SecretsoftheOppositeSex @Tljthe3rd @MissTashaRay This episode is sponsored by the mobile app, Secrets of the Opposite Sex. Download it & play from home on Google Play, Apple App Store or visit www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com.

    Episode 3 — Dating a Flight Attendant

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2022 48:50


    Your new favorite Flight Attendant, Britney, joins us this week to dish on what dating is like when you travel for a living and lets the single ladies know where the best places are to find eligible bachelors! Don't miss out—tune in now. Follow this week's guest: @_britneynicole_ Follow us on Instagram: @SecretsoftheOppositeSex @Tljthe3rd @MissTashaRay This episode is sponsored by the mobile app, Secrets of the Opposite Sex. Download it & play from home on Google Play, Apple App Store or visit www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com.

    Episode 2 — Dating an R&B Singer

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2022 49:39


    North Carolina native and R&B singer, Heather Victoria, joins us this week to dish on everything from worst dates to what it takes to date a woman like her. Gems are dropped, so don't miss out! Follow this week's guest: @Heather__Victoria Follow us on Instagram: @SecretsoftheOppositeSex @Tljthe3rd @MissTashaRay This episode is sponsored by the mobile app, Secrets of the Opposite Sex. Download it & play from home on Google Play, Apple App Store or visit www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com.

    Episode 1 — Dating a Luxury Realtor

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2022 72:41


    Tasha & Terrell are turning the tables on the ladies this season and getting all of the tea! Deven, our Guest Host from Season 2, joins us as our first guest in the hot seat. From the quality of bachelors to date by city to online dating—you won't want to miss this hilarious season premiere. Follow this week's guest: @DevenBLee Follow us on Instagram: @SecretsoftheOppositeSex @Tljthe3rd @MissTashaRay This episode is sponsored by the mobile app, Secrets of the Opposite Sex. Download & play from home on Google Play, Apple App Store or visit www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com.

    Episode 8 — Dating a Flight Attendant (Finale)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2021 53:51


    To close out Season 2, we invited Terrell into the hot seat to tell us what Flight Attendant life is really like! Join us for the laughs as we talk about the Mile High Club, hoes in every area code & the best/worst lies he's ever told! For more information about SOTOS podcast visit us at www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com, YouTube for extended episodes & follow us on Instagram @secretsoftheoppositesex. Follow this week's guests on Instagram: @tljthe3rd Hosts: @devenblee @misstasharay This episode is sponsored by the mobile app, Secrets of the Opposite Sex, available for download on Google Play & Apple App Store.

    Episode 7 — Dating a Rapper

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2021 52:42


    Oakland's own, GQ, joins us in the hot seat this week to dish on what dating is like as a rapper. From worst dates to red flags, you won't want to miss this! For more information about SOTOS podcast visit us at www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com, YouTube for extended episodes & follow us on Instagram @secretsoftheoppositesex. Follow this week's guest on Instagram & Twitter: @thetowngq Hosts: @devenblee @misstasharay This episode is sponsored by the mobile app, Secrets of the Opposite Sex, available for download on Google Play & Apple App Store.

    Episode 6 — Dating & Marriage in Your Thirties

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2021 74:04


    This week we dive headfirst into what dating and marriage life is like after thirty. Jaret & Ant G. give us their honest take on the pros & cons of it all (with a dab of toxicity). We don't call them our Toxic Kings for nothing! For more information about SOTOS podcast visit us at www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com, YouTube for extended episodes & follow us on Instagram @secretsoftheoppositesex. Follow this week's guests on Instagram: @antgoree @_jlloyd This episode is sponsored by the mobile app, Secrets of the Opposite Sex, available for download on Google Play & Apple App Store.

    Episode 5 — Dating in Your Twenties

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2021 64:52


    20 something co-hosts of the podcast Puppy Luv are in the hot seat this week dishing on what the dating scene is really like! You won't want to miss this! For more information about SOTOS podcast visit us at www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com, YouTube for extended episodes & follow us on Instagram @secretsoftheoppositesex. Follow this week's guests on Instagram: @puppyluvtheshow This episode is sponsored by the mobile app, Secrets of the Opposite Sex, available for download on Google Play & Apple App Store.

    Episode 4 — Dating an Artist

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2021 53:28


    This week we have brothers & bandmates of the musical group NiiTO in the hot seat. They share their experiences of how being in the music industry has shaped their dating lives—the good, bad, & ugly! You won’t want to miss this! For more information about SOTOS podcast visit us at www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com, YouTube for extended episodes & follow us on Instagram @secretsoftheoppositesex. Follow this week’s guest on Instagram: @Niito_5 This episode is sponsored by the mobile app, Secrets of the Opposite Sex, available for download on Google Play & Apple App Store.

    Episode 3 — Dating Long Distance

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2021 39:04


    This week, Evan Ravenel joins us from Japan and gives us some insight on what it’s like having to date long distance and dishes on a few of his deal breakers—tune in! For more information about SOTOS podcast visit us at www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com & follow us on Instagram @secretsoftheoppositesex. Follow this week’s guest on Instagram: @e_rav24 This episode is sponsored by the mobile app, Secrets of the Opposite Sex, available for download on Google Play & Apple App Store.

    Season 2, Ep 2 — Dating a Social Media Sensation

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2021 42:39


    Ever wondered what it’s like to date a social media sensation? Well, this week we invited Drew Comments into the hot seat to find out! And trust us—he DID NOT disappoint with the gems he dropped! For more information about SOTOS podcast visit us at www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com & follow us on Instagram @secretsoftheoppositesex. Follow this week’s guest on Instagram: @drewcomments This episode is sponsored by the mobile app, Secrets of the Opposite Sex, available for download on Google Play & Apple App Store.

    Season 2, Ep 1 — Dating a Professional Athlete

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2021 52:10


    Ever wondered what it’s like to date a professional athlete? Joe Mixon & Jordan Evans are in the hot seat to kick off Season 2, dishing on crazy dating stories, red flags & more! You won’t want to miss these answers... For more information about SOTOS podcast visit us at www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com & follow us on Instagram @secretsoftheoppositesex. Follow this week’s guests on Instagram: @joemainmixon @jordanevs26 This episode is sponsored by the mobile app, Secrets of the Opposite Sex, available for download on Google Play & Apple App Store.

    Season 2 Premiere is on the way!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2021 0:35


    This season we’re inviting men into the hot seat each week to answer some of the juiciest questions from the app Secrets of the Opposite Sex! You won’t want to miss these answers...Subscribe now so you can be the first to listen!

    Episode 7 — The Roundtable (Season Finale)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2020 44:15


    We’re bringing back your faves from Season 1 for a round table discussion on the hottest topics that we’ve covered so far and to answer a few new juicy questions. You won’t want to miss this finale! Follow SOTOS & our guests on Instagram: @secretsoftheoppositesex || @karievette || @keith_dopemusic || @devenblee || @_hillionaire || @thebookofbrittany This episode is sponsored by the mobile app & party game, Secrets of the Opposite Sex, available for download on Google Play & Apple App Store. You can find out more about SOTOS podcast at https://www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com Listen, subscribe, comment, & enjoy!

    Episode 6 — I Do...Now What?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2020 36:35


    You found the one—now what? On this episode, we talk openly about marriage with two married couples and find out the secrets to maintaining a happy & healthy marriage. You can find out more about SOTOS podcast at https://www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com. Follow SOTOS on Instagram: @secretsoftheoppositesex This episode is sponsored by the mobile app, Secrets of the Opposite Sex, available for download on Google Play & Apple App.

    Episode 5 — Gender Roles & Social Media

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2020 46:44


    Should women be submissive to men? Has social media ruined dating? On this episode, we dive deep into gender roles and how social media has changed the dating climate. You can find out more about SOTOS podcast at https://www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com. Follow SOTOS & this week’s guests on Instagram: @karievette || @therealskinaddicts ||@secretsoftheoppositesex This episode is sponsored by the mobile app, Secrets of the Opposite Sex, available for download on Google Play & Apple App Store.

    Episode 4 — The Dating Game

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2020 50:39


    What happened on your worst date? If you slept with a friend of your new boo, would you tell them? On this episode, we explore the good, the bad & the ugly of the dating game with our special guests @devenblee & @keithcorbettjr. Join us on Instagram Live for the after show if you’d like to get in on the conversation this Wednesday, 11/4 @ 7pm EST @secretsoftheoppositesex. You can find more about SOTOS podcast at https://www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com. This episode is sponsored by the mobile app, Secrets of the Opposite Sex, available foor download on Google Play & Apple App Store.

    Episode 3 — It’s a Man’s World

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2020 47:35


    Our guest host shares questions that the men want to know the answers to along with our guest, Cortland Hill, host of Nosey Neighbor Eats in Las Vegas. From petty to heavy—we’re answering all of your questions! You can find more about SOTOS podcast at https://www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com & follow us on Instagram for The After Show streaming live on 10/21 @ 7pm EST at @secretsoftheoppositesex. Follow this week’s guest on Instagram: @_hillionaire || @noseyneighboreats This episode is sponsored by the mobile app, Secrets of the Opposite Sex, available for download on Google Play & Apple App Store.

    Episode 2— I Can’t Date You If...

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2020 47:24


    Do you meet the standards that you have for the people you want to date? On this episode, we explore dating turn offs, standards & more with our special guest host @thebookofbrittany. Join us on Instagram Live for the after show if you’d like to get in on the conversation, @secretsoftheoppositesex. You can find more about SOTOS podcast at https://www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com. Follow SOTOS & this week’s guest hosts on Instagram: @thebookofbrittany ||@sneaks4days231 || @secretsoftheoppositesex This episode is sponsored by the mobile app, Secrets of the Opposite Sex, available foor download on Google Play & Apple App Store.

    Episode 1 — To Prenup or Not to Prenup

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2020 68:06


    Would you sign a prenup if your partner asked you to? Would you start dating someone before they’re legally divorced? We’ve brought together a group of people with different perspectives and life experiences to share their stories & opinions on these topics and more! And by the end of it, we find out a few secrets from the opposite sex too! You can find more about SOTOS podcast at https://www.secretsoftheoppositesex.com. Follow SOTOS & this week’s guest hosts on Instagram: @secretsoftheoppositesex || @letemknowlive This episode is sponsored by the mobile app, Secrets of the Opposite Sex, available for download on Google Play & Apple App Store.

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