Vutomi Baloyi Talks

People will always talk whether you do good or bad.

"Your enemy's enemy is your friend." They say. Don't be fooled and fall into that trap. Nothing is exciting about forming relationships based on someone.

Hard work is needed for survival. Manifesting requires work too. Don't waste time thinking you can achieve things without putting in the work. PUT IN THE WORK!

There are a lot of people who are in toxic relationship but due to having normalized toxicity they fail to walk away.

There is nothing damaging than allowing negativity to consume one. Negativity and its effects are not talked about mostly hence many people do not know the power of negativity over one's life and mind.

There are different types of friendships. From my observations and past experiences, there are more bad types of friendships than good types of friendships. Associate yourself with people on the same mission as yours. Have good friendships that will last a lifetime.

Don't get yourself into a polygamous relationship because you feel like you will never love a person as much as you love your current partner. Get into a polygamous relationship because you know what is in for you and you are emotionally and financially stable and ready. Know your worth and value.

Lack of support makes people do things they not proud of. It makes one feel like what he/she is doing is not good enough or he/she is not good enough. Lack of support shouldn't make one start caring about what people think and say. Supporting ourselves is always the best thing to do. In all that we do, we need support. But that shouldn't make us lose out on certain things.

The healing process doesn't mean that we will fully heal from past traumatic experiences, but it actually makes us know how to deal with things that trigger past traumatic experiences. The healing process is hard and long, it needs a person who is patient.

Raising awareness about Free Pads Campaign

Losing a loved one has to be one of the most painful things a human being as well as an animal can experience.

It is sad that many people have normalized gender-based-violence. A violence that doesn't only prove that opposite genders don't respect one other but also shows that a person belonging to a particular gender will always be ready to prove a point...

We are different people with different journeys.

Jealousy can block your blessings. Normalize being happy for other people when things go right... Your time is coming.

Depression & Anxiety is real! Learn more about it. Get help as soon as possible!

Self confidence is important. Many people have let opportunities pass them because of having no confidence at all. Change that! Have as much confidence as you can possibly have and more if you can have more.

Listen to my podcast in order to get to know the definition of low self-esteem, it's negative effects and how you can improve your self-esteem.

The healing process is hard. There are times whereby we feel like giving up. There are times whereby we feel like we have a lot to deal with. But that doesn't simply mean that we should give up. Yes, it is hard. But it doesn't simply mean that we should give up. Giving up is not the solution! The healing process can be as long as it wants, but we definitely not giving up.

African spirituality is what many people avoid talking about. African spirituality has always been here in Africa and will continue to be here. African spirituality is truly holistic!

Having a favorite child is normal but don't put it out there. You ruining your children's relationship by doing so.

I talk about how many of us disrespect the single parent that raised us because of the other parent that was never there for us. THE OTHER PARENT WOULD HAVE BEEN A PART OF YOUR LIFE IF SHE/HE WANTED TO. Don't throw away a diamond for a mere rock.

Don't be a victim of peer pressure. Some friends are not the sh*t.

Few words to motivate you. Don't stop believing in God. Put your faith in Him.

I talk about what substance abuse does to you and your loved ones on this episode. SUBSTANCE ABUSE RUINS AND KILLS YOU NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND.

I introduce myself before telling you what I'll be talking about on my podcast.