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Manic Rambling Spiral (MRS) is a podcast about single parenting, but it's not a parenting podcast. Rather, MRS is a podcast about living life - having a life, a career, and a self - in a setting that is constantly dictated by, built around and sabotaged by our children.

Heather B. Armstrong & John R. Bray

  • Mar 10, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
  • infrequent NEW EPISODES
  • 52m AVG DURATION
  • 166 EPISODES


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165: Is this thing on?

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2021 27:07


We’re back. Sort of. Changes are imminent, and we think you'll pee your pants. It's been a while so please excuse the awkward as we settle in behind the mic.Also, does John's voice trigger ASMR or what. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

164: School Comes Home

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2020 58:48


In addition to everything else happening as a result of the COVID-19 pandemic, kids around the world are suddenly at home for school. But despite some of the smug homeschool memes and comments floating around, this isn’t homeschool. And it’s not easy. So take it from John (a homeschooling parent): you’re not crazy for being completely overwhelmed. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

163: Come On Eileen

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2020 59:06


We didn't plan for this to be about COVID-19, but most of the world didn't plan for anything that's happening right now. As everyone scrambles to understand social distancing and isolation while grappling with the unknown, Heather and John talk about school closure and the state of the country before spiraling into a more serious conversation related to teenage emotions. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

162: MRS Turns 4

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2020 58:01


Our first episode landed on St. Patrick's day 2016 and, four years later, we're still kicking. Admittedly, we've been kicking a lot less lately, but we're back to explain why, talk about Heather's weight (have you noticed?), provide an update compared to where we were four years ago, and tease some exciting changes coming to MRS (for real this time; they're going to be amazing). See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

161: In Memory of Coco

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2020 64:01


After more than 12 happy years of squawking, barking, and being herded by her favorite business partner, Heather and her family said their final goodbyes to Dame Eleanor Ritzford-Fitzsimons "Coco" Puffs. Heather shares some of those final moments as we discuss the significance of dogs and their place in our homes. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

160: Out With the Old

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2019 58:23


Wrapping up the year with our first monthly episode.Wondering about John, Lexton, and Lilly? We covered that. Curious about Heather's gut? We covered that, too. We also talk a bit about mail, resolutions, teens (ugh teens), organization, and meditation. Like we said before: Same MRS, just a little less often. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

159: Change is Afoot

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2019 24:50


Get it? A FOOT? Because Heather's foot? Perfect. Now that you're smiling about that we can let you know that you're going to be hearing from us less often. A lot less often. As in only once a month. Why? There are a lot of reasons, but "Life" is probably the best summary. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

158: Fun with Fur and Feet

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2019 58:01


We never know where we’re going or how we get there, but maybe that’s part of the charm? Anyway, Heather’s getting some answers, John’s a Furminator convert, and Marlo is Marlo (which is somehow also very Lexton). Also: Dog socks. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

157: We Call it Hygge

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2019 58:40


What does laundry share in common with cold, leftover nachos? Comfort. Yes, cold nachos provide comfort and we’re ready to die on this hill. Sure, we are open to other opinions, but you know what they say: it’s not a difference of opinion, you’re just ill-informed. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

156: Reddit for Relationships

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2019 51:20


We talk about more than Bumble (you know you want an update), but John’s text to Heather is probably the best description for this episode. “Without fail, the women on this app are in three distinct categories: 1. Want kids, 2. Don’t want a relationship, 3. Way out of my league. However, even if nothing in their bio is a fit, I always swipe right on the women who look like they could kick my a$$.” See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

155: A Dating App Newcomer

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2019 55:46


It finally happened. John joined the online dating scene and it’s as confusing and empty as he’s always imagined. It has, however, made him realize how many people are terrible at taking selfies. But don’t worry, MRS’s resident optimist is staying hopeful. Just kidding! All is lost. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

154: The Price of a Pet

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2019 53:58


An update on Coco (a pupdate?), some commentary on Halloween, and a discussion on how much our pets are worth. What's that? We're heartless and evil? Yeah, okay, probably, but that should have been clear years ago. And don't worry, we take a softer approach when discussing orthodontics and swimming. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

153: Canines and Curriculum

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2019 53:29


We moved right from Elizabethan collars into pop punk- and it wasn’t a smooth transition. That’s John’s fault. But somehow we still managed to cover homeschool curriculum, the climate, and a bit about vaccinations. If this seems chaotic, you should see our texts. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

152: Fitted and Folded

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2019 54:00


Sure, we took a week off due to both of us being sick, but we didn’t actually get a week off. There were endoscopies to be had, sheets to be folded, and puppies to be chased. And this weed won’t just eat itself. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

151: Injury and Insult

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2019 55:30


It’s been a busy week without any travel or big changes. How so? Well, Heather’s foot is still an issue, her GI tract is making waves, and John’s battling school policy. Oh yeah, there was also an incident with a gun at Leta’s school. Don't worry, it’s not all somber and sad. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

150: Boots and Bowels

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2019 54:50


Somehow this episode came full circle. From boots and bus stops to pets and school routines, we cover a lot and bookend the whole thing with bowels. Sometimes we even surprise ourselves, but not as much as Leta will surprise herself when she finally understands that a car does not steer itself. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

149: Don't Forget to Steer

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2019 57:15


Another week, another couple dozen lessons in stress management. But we’re still taking our own advice and letting things slide. Invasive dogs, oversleeping teens, and even the thought of complete obliviousness behind the wheel of a large metal box hurtling at other objects. One of these days the dogs are definitely going to make us snap, though. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

148: Slow Down

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2019 49:13


Weird title for a show called "Manic Rambling Spiral," but here we are. Heather ditched her FitBit and her Apple Watch and, as a result, a whole lot of anxiety; so this week is focused (eventually) on slowing down, taking things in stride, and some very relevant advice from an Englishman in a Dutch bar. And yes, MRS is back from break. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

147: From Paris to Puppies

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2019 56:06


Socialized medicine doesn’t disappoint, especially when the phenomenon of “hot doctor” clearly exists in all countries. But John’s doctor? Nah. He prefers the shotgun approach. And yes, we also talk about Lilly. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

146: Friends and Fashion

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2019 56:28


John and Heather are both facing some child-free time, and it’s going to be glorious. We bask in that notion, discuss friendships as an adult, and even touch on Heather’s questionable fashion decisions. We’d say everything is related, but that probably isn’t true. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

145: No Topic Needed

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2019 54:15


We had a meetup last week! It was great. To say "thank you!" to everyone who joined us, we spent most of this episode talking about healthcare. That wasn't really the plan, but that's how things go around here. We also touched on John's dog, the woes of air travel, and a couple apologies related to Ep 144. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

144: Reunited at Last

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2019 70:32


We got the band back together. Well, the band never really broke up, but Heather and John are in the same (hotel) room recording MRS for the first time ever and we're talking about Chicago and homelessness and also teeth. It was easy. Mostly. A little awkward because we also recorded a video. So, yeah, that's a thing. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

143: Musical Therapy

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2019 57:31


A topic! We have a topic! It’s music, and we almost don’t stray from it. This week we’re talking about some of the music we enjoy, the beauty of a truly sad song, a dog whose alias is “Taco,” and is that tickle you just felt behind your ear a tick? Better check. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

142: Making Small Talk

Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2019 46:42


You find out a lot about people when you take the time to start a conversation. Does this apply to Stephen Dorff? We may never know, will we, HEATHER? That's okay. We have bigger things to worry about like an MRS meet-up in Chicago - suggestions welcome! - and an Instagram account for John's dog. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

141: An MRS Overhaul

Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2019 52:42


You’ve kept us up and running for over three years (3 YEARS!), and now it’s time for our little podcast to grow and change. How? We’re figuring that out and, with your help, we know it’s going to be amazing. But, as you’ll notice in this episode, we’ll still be rambling. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

140: Fun Facts About Sleeping

Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2019 55:58


If there are two takeaways from this week, they are as follows: Heather sleeps naked, John does not. Does this information have anything to do with John's puppy, the half marathon he ran, teen independence, or the last couple weeks of Heather's book tour? No. And, honestly, it's not even related. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

139: There Will Be Bandaids

Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2019 59:23


What do book tours and bandaids have in common? A lot. It's sort of like the relationship between diarrhea and a week of stressful schedule juggling. You know, peas and carrots, poop and planes. We also talk a bit about puppies, but let's be honest: The Valedictorian deserves the mic this week. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

138: The Book Tour Begins

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2019 58:35


Heather hits the road next week for her book tour, so of course we talked about misplaced socks, pantyhose, and toxic plastics that make their way into cosmetics. But we also talked about her book - The Valedictorian of Being Dead - which comes out on April 23. John says, “It’s a hell of a read.” Because it is. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

137: It's All Puppies

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2019 55:18


At least 75% of this episode is about dogs and puppies and the horrors of pet ownership because John is a dog person now. Why? Honestly, he has no idea, but his hands are covered in bite marks, he's tired all the time, and his life is now even less his own. So, yeah, Heather was right: It's worse than having a baby. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

136: Type A Chaos

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2019 56:54


Renovations, broken boilers, puppies, and John's resistance to help even when it's generously offered. It's all loosely related. And somehow we still manage to touch on teenage emotions near the end because we're making rambling an art form. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

135: Breaking Millennials

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2019 55:15


It’s Spring Break. We could’ve easily talked about the woes of that for an hour. However, we still managed to discuss university selection, unfair expectations placed on teens, and career choices. In other words, we don’t get a Spring Break. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

134: Mostly Public Speaking

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2019 55:16


Wandering tangents seem to be the way of things around here lately. This week it's James Blake, the joy of celebrity interaction, Marlo's public speaking finesse, and The Legend of Zelda. But don't worry, that's only a fraction of what we covered, so it's still your weekly dose of, "What the hell was that about?" See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

133: Spring Forward Feverishly

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2019 54:15


We're ringing in the time change in style. As always. Moderate injury, serious fever, and a healthy dose of feeling all together a little off have marked the last week or two. Also, a friendly reminder that if you're suddenly feeling a surge in anxiety or depression, the time change has a way of contributing to that. It's not just you. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

132: Hot Doctors

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2019 47:38


Why do people looking their absolute best have to be the ones who see you at your absolute worst? We don't have an answer, but that's just what happens. Every time. Even when someone has to navigate a camera to your colon. Life has jokes, and Heather was just the butt of one of them. Like, actually the butt. At least True Detective is good. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

131: Announcements and Bowels

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2019 56:02


Heather has a newsletter and some GI business to attend to. John has a newsletter and perfectly functioning bowels. Some things just aren’t fair, that’s why there’s Miralax. #notsponsored See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

130: Replicating Childhood

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2019 52:07


Yeah, we spiraled again, but we also found ourselves looking back at how we were raised and how those experiences affect our parenting today. Less “get off our lawn” and more about what we want our kids to experience. Also, Leta turned 21. Maybe these spirals are more productive than we thought? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

129: Random Rambles

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2019 53:12


How did we get from A to B? Your guess is as good as ours. But it's not our fault that audiobooks, Mormon mission trips, forgetful teens, the weather, and black eyes are all related. Life is weird. We just go with it. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

128: Attendance is Mandatory

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2019 56:14


After John's extended fanboy moment about Heather's book (side note: It's incredible and you want to read it and probably give a copy to everyone you know), we're talking a little bit about teens, growing to emotionally process increasing responsibility, and the importance of attending funerals. We're pretty sure it all fits together. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

127: Dating Forecast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2019 57:25


It's winter and the weather is awful and life keeps plowing forward. So, naturally, in the thick of this mess John is sort of possibly dabbling in the dating world and OH WOW IS THAT A THING. He's bad at it? Maybe? Only one way to go from here? See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

126: Unhealthy Healthcare

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2019 49:49


We’re talking about insurance again. And mental health. And the absurdity of dealing with medical needs in the US. Why? Because it needs to be talked about until it changes and we’re happy to initiate the conversation. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

125: Grab Bullying by the Phone

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2019 54:51


Bullying has always been a problem, but technology is creating new platforms and increasingly removed ways to hate and harm. Spurred by a jarring episode involving Marlo, we’re talking about bullying, emotions, and the way judgment and blame continue to shape a generation. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

124: Stumbling into 2019

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2019 49:58


Another year... and you know what? We're excited for it (even John). Sure, we're getting older and keeping blood pressure journals, but that's life. As long as there are no formal parties with dress codes in the near future, we're downright optimistic. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

123: Ho Ho Hum

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2018 46:32


OH MY GOD. Are we whining about the holidays? No, not really. Just marveling at the passage of time and the value of hiring movers while catching our breath. We also spend a surprising amount of time talking about breakfast cereal. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

122: "A Single Man"

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2018 58:38


It's official. John is a homeowner! And his relationship status? That's permanently established via legal documents. Super awesome. Regardless, this is a big step. And Heather? Well, she's helping her mom move, nursing a stubbornness injury, and contemplating mortality. Life is wild. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

121: Holidays and Whatnot

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2018 54:51


What happened this week? What day is it? Just kidding, we never really know. Between high-school dances, holiday gifts, packing, and ironing sheets (there's always time for that), everything is a blur. Unless you're Leta, and you're making a 10-year plan. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

120: A Semi-Uncomfortable Comfort Zone

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2018 57:26


The holidays are a crazy time that brings many together and makes others feel extremely alone. So yes, it’s sort of another episode about loneliness, but we feel it’s an important topic because we’ve spent years stubbornly making ourselves alone. Sort of. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

119: Look Up

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2018 56:56


Heather's back from Rome, John's buying a home, and the holidays are here. Moral of the story: No rest for the weary or the wicked or the parents, and if you fit into more than one category, buckle up. Happy Thanksgiving! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

118: Drama and Contacts

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2018 52:28


We recorded this on Election Day too early to talk about polls, so instead we decided to focus on monster trucks, contact lenses, and some other odds and ends. A bit of a life download before we take next week off. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

117: Make Change

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2018 52:27


The month has changed, the season continues to change and, if you live in the US, you can help make change on November 6. Vote for something better. Vote for those who've had their voices silenced. Just vote. Maybe even listen to this episode on your way to the polls. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

116: Happier Parenting

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2018 59:41


We’re thrilled to have KJ Dell’Antonia join the spiral to talk to us about changing perspectives, realistic expectations, and her her new book: "How to Be a Happier Parent: Raising a Family, Having a Life and Loving (Almost) Every Minute.” Wait, are we being optimistic? Yeah, but don’t worry. We still complain a little. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

115: Rebrand for Jesus

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2018 57:04


Hard to believe we can somehow go from missing a week to covering the removal of wisdom teeth, limiting screen time, and remaining responsive and flexible as parents; all in one episode, but that's our gift. What does Jesus have to do with any of this? Just trust us. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

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