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Professional dating coaches Scot and Emily McKay from X & Y Communications have experienced wildly successful dating lives, eventually meeting each other and forming the "Dynamic Duo of Dating Dilemmas". Now, they bring you lightning-fast yet hard-hitting dating tips that you can start using RIGHT N…

Scot and Emily McKay


    • Mar 2, 2009 LATEST EPISODE
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    • 104 EPISODES


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    DatingCast #52--Dating And Pets

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2009 1:12


    Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #52--Dating And Pets

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2009 1:12


    Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #51--The Right Way To Have An Argument

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2008 2:15


    Having disagreements in a relationship is inevitable. And there's definitely a right way and a wrong way to handle them. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #51--The Right Way To Have An Argument

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2008 2:15


    Having disagreements in a relationship is inevitable. And there's definitely a right way and a wrong way to handle them. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #50--Is There Any Place For Jealousy In A Relationships?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2008 1:54


    If your partner is chasing skirts, should you skirt the issue? And what's the diff between being jealous and showing some self-esteem? Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #50--Is There Any Place For Jealousy In A Relationships?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2008 1:54


    If your partner is chasing skirts, should you skirt the issue? And what's the diff between being jealous and showing some self-esteem? Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #49--What Do You Do When Someone Else Is Hitting On Your Date?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2008 1:34


    Emily and Scot talk about how to handle situations when someone is inappropriately forward with someone you're with. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #49--What Do You Do When Someone Else Is Hitting On Your Date?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2008 1:34


    Emily and Scot talk about how to handle situations when someone is inappropriately forward with someone you're with. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #48--Dating When You Have Kids (Part Two)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2008 1:34


    How do you find 'quality time' for a significant other when you've got kids? Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #48--Dating When You Have Kids (Part Two)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2008 1:34


    How do you find 'quality time' for a significant other when you've got kids? Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #47--Dating When You Have Kids (Part One)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2008 1:18


    Here's part one in a two part series on how to have a wildly successful dating life even when you're a single parent. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #47--Dating When You Have Kids (Part One)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2008 1:18


    Here's part one in a two part series on how to have a wildly successful dating life even when you're a single parent. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #46--Dating After Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2008 1:18


    Here's hoping this doesn't sound like an oxymoron, because it shouldn't be. Emily and Scot share secrets for having a wildly successful dating life...with your spouse. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #46--Dating After Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2008 1:18


    Here's hoping this doesn't sound like an oxymoron, because it shouldn't be. Emily and Scot share secrets for having a wildly successful dating life...with your spouse. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #45--How To Be An Individual Without Being Weird

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2008 1:36


    Women love a guy who stands out from the crowd. Find out from Scot and Emily the key differences between being a man who defies the 'cookie cutter' image versus being the 'creepy guy'. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #45--How To Be An Individual Without Being Weird

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2008 1:36


    Women love a guy who stands out from the crowd. Find out from Scot and Emily the key differences between being a man who defies the 'cookie cutter' image versus being the 'creepy guy'. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #44--20/20 Foresight For Dating Wisdom

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2008 1:32


    So what can we do ahead of time to make sure we don't settle for less than we want or deserve in a partner later? Emily and Scot offer at least three golden ideas. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #44--20/20 Foresight For Dating Wisdom

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2008 1:32


    So what can we do ahead of time to make sure we don't settle for less than we want or deserve in a partner later? Emily and Scot offer at least three golden ideas. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #43--Are You Too Picky Or Are You Settling?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2008 2:03


    What if you are dating someone and you like them...but there's just that ONE little thing about them that's making you wonder? Emily and Scot talk about what a genuine dealbreaker might look like. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #43--Are You Too Picky Or Are You Settling?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2008 2:03


    What if you are dating someone and you like them...but there's just that ONE little thing about them that's making you wonder? Emily and Scot talk about what a genuine dealbreaker might look like. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #42--Asking The Hard Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2008 2:13


    When exactly is a good time to bring up all the important and even difficult questions? Emily and Scot discuss strategies for getting the ball rolling in an appropriate and timely manner, even if... Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #42--Asking The Hard Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2008 2:13


    When exactly is a good time to bring up all the important and even difficult questions? Emily and Scot discuss strategies for getting the ball rolling in an appropriate and timely manner, even if... Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #41--Date Many To Find One

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2008 1:29


    Emily and Scot agree that the best way to find one great partner for the long term is to date as many people as possible in the short term. Ironic? Perhaps...but highly effective when done the... Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #41--Date Many To Find One

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2008 1:29


    Emily and Scot agree that the best way to find one great partner for the long term is to date as many people as possible in the short term. Ironic? Perhaps...but highly effective when done the... Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #40--How To Get Control Over Weakness

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2008 1:41


    If you've got a stumbling block in your life (meeting women, for example), here's a simple way to re-frame the issue so that you retrain yourself to view the solution rather than the problem. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #40--How To Get Control Over Weakness

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2008 1:41


    If you've got a stumbling block in your life (meeting women, for example), here's a simple way to re-frame the issue so that you retrain yourself to view the solution rather than the problem. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #39--How Do You Get Over Shyness?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2008 1:54


    Scot and Emily cover practical steps to becoming a man or woman who can overcome shyness, become more social and...yes...enjoy a more fulfilling dating life. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #39--How Do You Get Over Shyness?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2008 1:54


    Scot and Emily cover practical steps to becoming a man or woman who can overcome shyness, become more social and...yes...enjoy a more fulfilling dating life. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #38--Why Guys Don't Get Second Dates

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2008 1:35


    Find out the main reasons why a man might suffer from 'One And Done Syndrome'. But what good is presenting a problem without a solution, right? Emily and Scot explain how guys can get first dates... Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #38--Why Guys Don't Get Second Dates

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2008 1:35


    Find out the main reasons why a man might suffer from 'One And Done Syndrome'. But what good is presenting a problem without a solution, right? Emily and Scot explain how guys can get first dates... Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #37--Ending A First Date When It Went Badly

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2008 1:35


    So what if you've been on a date that didn't go well? What's the right way to end it? Scot and Emily prevent two distinctly different options for two very different scenarios. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #37--Ending A First Date When It Went Badly

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2008 1:35


    So what if you've been on a date that didn't go well? What's the right way to end it? Scot and Emily prevent two distinctly different options for two very different scenarios. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #36--Ending A First Date When It Went Well

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2007 1:27


    Been on a first date that went well? Scot shares the ultimate secret for separating yourself as a man from any other guy she's gone out with. Emily takes it a step further. Do this and she'll... Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #36--Ending A First Date When It Went Well

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2007 1:27


    Been on a first date that went well? Scot shares the ultimate secret for separating yourself as a man from any other guy she's gone out with. Emily takes it a step further. Do this and she'll... Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #35--How To Dress For A First Date

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2007 1:39


    Scot and Emily talk about how a woman can dress for success when it comes to making the right impression on a first date. Plus a great tip for guys. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #35--How To Dress For A First Date

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2007 1:39


    Scot and Emily talk about how a woman can dress for success when it comes to making the right impression on a first date. Plus a great tip for guys. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #34--The Worst Possible Topic For First Dates

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2007 1:23


    Emily identifies the one topic you should never, ever bring up on a first date...and Scot agrees. Do you? Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #34--The Worst Possible Topic For First Dates

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2007 1:23


    Emily identifies the one topic you should never, ever bring up on a first date...and Scot agrees. Do you? Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #33--Every Man Must Know Pickup Skills

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2007 1:19


    Pickup 'game' is closely associated with PUAs (Pick-Up Artists). But here it is: EVERY man needs pickup skills whether he aspires to be a PUA or not. Learn why. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #33--Every Man Must Know Pickup Skills

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2007 1:19


    Pickup 'game' is closely associated with PUAs (Pick-Up Artists). But here it is: EVERY man needs pickup skills whether he aspires to be a PUA or not. Learn why. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #32--Fantasizing About Someone Else

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2007 1:15


    If this isn't one of the most powerful indicators of having 'settled', we don't know what is. But everyone fantasizes, right? Here's a simple yardstick to measure what's really going on. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #32--Fantasizing About Someone Else

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2007 1:15


    If this isn't one of the most powerful indicators of having 'settled', we don't know what is. But everyone fantasizes, right? Here's a simple yardstick to measure what's really going on. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #31--Pressure To Be Exclusive

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2007 1:29


    How do you handle pressure from someone you are dating to enter into an exclusive relationship? Emily and Scot offer some answers. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #31--Pressure To Be Exclusive

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2007 1:29


    How do you handle pressure from someone you are dating to enter into an exclusive relationship? Emily and Scot offer some answers. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #30--Are You On The Road To 'Settling'?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2007 1:04


    Scot and Emily nail down the single most accurate indicator of whether you're 'settling' or not...or do they? Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #30--Are You On The Road To 'Settling'?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2007 1:04


    Scot and Emily nail down the single most accurate indicator of whether you're 'settling' or not...or do they? Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #29--What If You've Already 'Settled'?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2007 1:32


    If you are in a relationship and feel as if you have 'settled' is there any hope? Emily and Scot cut to the chase. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #29--What If You've Already 'Settled'?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2007 1:32


    If you are in a relationship and feel as if you have 'settled' is there any hope? Emily and Scot cut to the chase. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #28--The Social Cost Of Having A Great Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2007 1:26


    Being a happy couple is kind of like being the Homecoming King and Queen in school. Scot and Emily talk about the pros and cons. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #28--The Social Cost Of Having A Great Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2007 1:26


    Being a happy couple is kind of like being the Homecoming King and Queen in school. Scot and Emily talk about the pros and cons. Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

    DatingCast #27--When Other Couples Are Jealous

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2007 1:43


    When you have a great relationship with your partner, others often want what you have. And when they don't have it, things can get weird. Scot and Emily explore solutions for making friends without... Got bandwidth? Find full-length podcasts from Scot and Emily at www.x-net-media.com. Also be sure to subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com and get a free special report on acing first dates.

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