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Steamy Stories Podcast
About Emily: Part 1

Steamy Stories Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2025


Girlfriend's coworker walks in on me masturbating.In 2 parts, By rtyuuioyuih1. Listen to the ► Podcast at Connected. Chapter 1There was a knock at the door.I chose to ignore it. It was probably just the delivery guy with some package my girlfriend Abby, had ordered. He could just leave it in the hall. I was, shall we say, indisposed at the moment: in bed, pants off, headphones on,  you get the picture. My Abby was at work and I had chosen to spend my evening with a little stress relief. We have a healthy and active sex life, don't get me wrong. But there's something different about doing it yourself every now and then."Ben, open up!"God damn it. I recognized that voice. Although, I had never heard it here before. That was Abby's coworker, Emily. They were waitresses together at the place a couple buildings over. The nice thing about living downtown is that everywhere we needed to go, including work, was walking distance. I had met Emily on several occasions when I'd come by the restaurant. We had even gone out for drinks as a group after my girlfriend got off work.I always liked hanging out with Emily. She was genuinely sweet, funny, and enjoyable company. She was also, coincidentally, stacked. I can only guess of course, but I'd estimate she's 5'6", 110 pounds (10 of which were boobs), and maybe a 34E. She looked like a brunette Kate Upton. And clearly, I wasn't the only one who thought so. My girlfriend had raved about how nice Emily's boobs were, and would affectionately laugh at how her friend always seemed to show up to work with the back zipper pulled down, when rent was due. One night after drinks, I was feeling particularly brash, and on the walk home I confessed to my girlfriend that I found her friend difficult to look in the face. She playfully slapped my arm, but then conceded that she too struggled to make eye contact after a couple beers. That wasn't the only allusion my girlfriend made to her bi-curiosity, but that's a story for another time."Ben, hurry, I know you're in there! I only have a few minutes!"Whoops. How long had I left Emily knocking at the door? I guess my reminiscing had melded into my fantasizing. God damn it, "Coming!" I yelled to her. I thought I heard a small giggle from the hallway. I opened the door from my apartment only wide enough to stick my head out. I didn't necessarily want her to see the rest of me like this. "Hey, Emily, what's up?""Finally!" Emily said. "Your girlfriend told me you'd be home to let me in. Look, while we were doing our side work, I accidentally spilled marinara sauce all over my bodice. I don't have time to run all the way home, and your place is so close to work, and your girlfriend said I could clean it here.""Oh, um, sure. Of course. Um, come in, " I hoped my extra-long tee shirt would hide my dwindling erection. I wasn't sure how my girlfriend expected one of her shirts to fit Emily - my girlfriend is the hottest girl I know, but she's not as well-endowed as Emily; no one I'd ever met is as well-endowed as Emily.Emily pushed past me into the apartment. She gave me a quick look up and down, smirked, and said, "Cute outfit. Where's your girlfriend's dresser?""In the bedroom, to the left there," I informed her. I was so pleased to be of assistance to this wildly attractive, platonic friend that I briefly forgot the state of the bedroom. A little too late, I clamored to follow Emily in, hoping to subtly straighten up.Emily saw the sheets thrown back, the open laptop, the headphones. She looked back at me, starting with my boxers, and then flicking her eyes up to meet mine. She smirked, and said, "Don't worry. Your girlfriend warned me what I'd be interrupting."Great, I thought. I know girls talk, but I'd prefer these sorts of habits were more of a private matter between me and my girlfriend."And don't be embarrassed," Emily continued. "I spend my days off the same way."That shocked me. While my sex life had been pretty active since getting to college, and I had learned a lot about the world from the internet and my girlfriend, I had grown up in a very conservative household - the type where it was assumed girls didn't enjoy sex and that masturbation was an exclusively male past time. I was relieved to learn over the past couple years that those were all inaccurate assumptions.While I was reeling from Emily's brazen confession (and trying not to picture her in action until after she'd left), she had apparently chosen a shirt: one my girlfriend would probably consider over-sized and comfy, but might look tight and sexy on Emily's frame. Emily had exited to the living room, and I distractedly followed. "Well, I'm glad I was able to help. Are you gonna make it back to the restaurant in time for-"I froze mid-sentence. Emily had stripped off her one-piece right there in my living room - right there in front of me! Her boobs were as perfect as I had imagined. They didn't sag or droop an inch when released. Her nipples were tight and erect, right at the center of two perfect pink, quarter-sized areola."Ben? Ben. Ben!" Emily giggled and I became aware I'd missed the last several seconds of whatever she'd been saying. "Are you alright, Ben?" I nodded. "They're just tits, Ben. Although, I'm happy you like them." I nodded again. "Why don't you have a seat, Ben? You look like you're gonna fall over." Emily giggled again. I loved that giggle. She washed out the stain and grabbed a bath towel to pat the outfit dry. It was a black satin, so any wetness was not too noticeable."As I was saying," Emily continued, "I actually don't have to be back at work for a little while. It turns out they overscheduled us tonight. I just want to be back for the dinner rush. Seeing as we've got some time to kill, I thought maybe I'd hang out here for a little bit?"I finally found my voice. "That sounds great!" Too eager. "That sounds great," I repeated more measuredly. I'm not sure when Emily had put on my girlfriend's shirt, but I was finding it easier to think now - even despite her nipples poking so prominently through the thin cotton. "What do you want to do?""Well," Emily stretched out the word as she stretched her arms up to the ceiling, stretching the tits up to expose more of her midriff temporarily. She giggled again as she couldn't help but notice me noticing her body. "Maybe we could finish what you started?""What?""You know. You could go get your laptop and we could finish whatever you were watching. I'm always curious what other people are into.""I don't know, ""Come on, Ben, it'll be fun!" She bounced in her chair as she said so. I was still hesitating, so Emily got up and went back to the bedroom herself. She talked as she walked, "Look, it'll be harmless. You touch yourself; I'll touch myself. No harm, no foul."I finally gave up. This was too good an opportunity to miss. And she was right, if we both kept to ourselves, then we weren't doing anything too illicit, right? But then I remembered what I had been watching when Emily knocked."Oh," I heard from the doorway. "Busty college slut titty-fucks lucky guy," Emily read the title as she carried my laptop back to the living room. "I should have guessed. And she's a brunette too. Fantasizing about anyone in particular?" she teased me.I was so embarrassed. I don't always masturbate thinking about Emily,  but I'd be lying if I didn't say she's a lead actress in my mental entourage. I didn't know how this was supposed to proceed (my girlfriend knew I watched porn, but we had never watched together), so I was glad Emily was taking the lead. She set my laptop on the coffee table, sat down next to me, and cuddled up next to me. Already, we were touching, but I guess it wasn't sexual touching."I usually watch girl on girl," Emily casually informed me. "I just find the female form more sensual. But I can get off to this too."I was watching, but I couldn't pay attention. I was too nervous about what I was expected to do next, and I kept stealing glances at Emily's. Emily kept looking from the porn to me, back to the porn, and back to me. "Go ahead," she encouraged. "Finish what you started." When I hesitated, Emily stood up, unceremoniously shook her ass at me, and sat back down. That was enough for me. One glance at Emily's tight ass, and my cock popped through the flap of my boxers all by itself. "Finally!" Emily said. "That's what I've been waiting for."The porn was long-forgotten. I was too busy admiring Emily's fit body, the curve of her thighs, and the trimmed brunette triangle of hair just above her cunt lips. Likewise, Emily was too busy admiring my penis. It stood proudly erect, I want to believe it can get to 7 inches long and 4and a half inches around. "You've got some good equipment," she complimented me as casually as if we were comparing kitchen aid mixers. And with that, she got to work: she stuck three fingers of her right hand in her mouth, sucked them gratuitously, lowered them to her cunt, and began fingering her clit. I was awestruck and frozen in place. Rolling her eyes, Emily grabbed my right hand, licked my palm up to my fingertips, sucked three of my fingers into her mouth, and then placed my hand on my cock. I got the message and started stroking.We watched each other play for what felt like a lifetime. Every fidget of her fingers, every twitch of her thighs, every flutter of her eyelashes, and every gasp from her lips was burned into my memory forever. She knew exactly how to touch herself to get herself off, and I knew she was telling the truth when she said she spent her days off the same way I do. All too soon, her body tensed up and I knew she was on the verge of orgasm. Still, she surprised me one last time."Choke me," she demanded softly."What?"She looked me right in the eye, and said, "Choke me."I was too far gone to remember our "hands to ourselves" rule, so ever the accommodating host, I wrapped my left hand around her neck and squeezed. That pushed Emily over the edge and her whole body convulsed and shook with orgasm. Her fingers were a blur on her clit. Her face turned red and her lips clamped tightly shut. I almost came just at the sight of this powerful orgasm.When she finally opened her eyes and gasped for breath, I released my grip on her throat. She came down slowly and her breathing evened out. She looked me in the eyes again. "Thank you.""No, honestly, thank you! That was the sexiest thing I've ever seen.""Did you get off too?" Emily asked, while looking around for some evidence of my cum."No, not yet.""Is that due to performance anxiety, or wishful thinking?" Emily asked coyly."I was a bit distracted," I teased back."Well, I think I need to thank you for letting me in to borrow your sink" she suggested. My heart leapt as Emily slid to the floor in front of me. She grabbed my cock with her right hand, which was still wet from playing with her cunt. She started to jack me off, slowly but firmly. As I sunk into my seat on the couch, she leaned forward and licked all the way up my shaft, before sucking the head into her mouth. She rolled the head around and flicked her tongue on the underside. Then, she steadily and deliberately pushed my cock deeper and deeper into her throat until her nose was in my pubic hair. I twitched in her mouth, but held on for dear life. I didn't want this to end just yet. She pulled her head back off my penis and breathed in deeply, a trail of spit leading from my tip to her lips."Have you ever actually titty-fucked a busty college slut?" she asked me. I shook my head violently and Emily giggled. "Well, what are you waiting for?" She got up on her knees in front of me, bunched up my girlfriend's shirt until it covered her boobs but exposed her midriff again, and pulled me by my knees toward the front of the couch. She spit into her own cleavage and then rubbed it in. Seemingly frustrated by the lack of lubrication, her eyebrows furrowed briefly. Then, her eyes brightened as she reached down to her still dripping cunt, inserted one finger at a time between her lips, and then brought her now re-wetted hand to rub into her cleavage. Satisfied, she turned her attention back on me and thrust my penis between her luscious boobs. As she bounced her tits on my cock, I thought nothing could ever top this experience.I was glad I had already cum this afternoon and had been on round two when Emily knocked, or I never would've lasted as long as I did. The feeling of her big boobs squeezing my cock, the knowledge that her pussy juice was providing the lube, the sight of my cock peeking out of her cleavage, and the taboo of Emily wearing my girlfriend's shirt were leading me to orgasm quickly. Emily looked up at me with her big beautiful doe eyes and asked if I wanted to try one more thing with my little college slut. Of course I did.Emily extracted my cock from her tits, stood up, and walked around the coffee table. I watched her ass sway and wondered what she had in store for me next. Emily laid on her back on the coffee table with her head towards me, poked her chin toward the ceiling, looked me in the eye, and winked. That was all the invitation I needed. I got on my knees and roughly shoved my cock down her throat again. I fucked her face like I longed to fuck her cunt. Emily fondled my balls while I drove my cock in and out of her mouth recklessly. This final position was too much and I quickly told her, "I'm gonna cum!" I pulled out and reached to start jerking myself off, but Emily slapped my hand out of the way and took over finishing the job."Cum!" she ordered. "Cum all over my pretty little face. Cum all over my slutty little lips. Cum all over my tits in your girlfriend's tiny little shirt!" Who was I to refuse her request? After so much buildup, I came everywhere. I came on her pretty little face. I came on her slutty little lips. I came on her tits in my girlfriend's tiny little shirt.Emily smiled and giggled. "Yum, that was so much fun!" she exclaimed. She sat upright and turned to look at me. Her mascara was running down her cheeks, there was spit all over her face, cum was dangling off her nose and her chin, there were puddles of cum on her clavicle running down into her cleavage, and there were wet spots of cum on her shirt.In my post-cum clarity, I began to feel an inkling of guilt, but Emily promptly squashed that. "Your girlfriend was in on this by the way.""What!?""Your girlfriend was in on this. She spilled the marinara on me on purpose. She told me you'd be here masturbating. She told me you fantasized about my tits. She told me to get a little crazy with you. If you don't believe me, check your phone."My phone? Where was my phone? I ran to the bedroom to retrieve it, and there was a text from my girlfriend from half an hour ago. "Send me a photo of that little cum-slut!" I chuckled at how I'd been set up, and in admiration for my wonderful girlfriend. We'd talked about opening our relationship but only as a fantasy while we were fucking. I never thought she'd actually condone it."She wants a photo," I informed Emily. Emily smiled at me with cum still dripping off her face, with her nipples poking through my girlfriend's shirt, and with her neatly trimmed bush on display. She gave a peace sign as she posed for the photo."Send that to me too," Emily requested. I offered her a tissue, but she only cleaned up the mascara and then threw the tissue away. "I think I'll leave the cum there. At least until I get back to work. I heard it's good for the skin." Emily winked at me as she pulled on her jeans. "Hey, you should meet us for drinks after work. And no more jacking off between now and then! I don't think we're done with you just yet."Emily headed out the door, and I collapsed onto the couch. As I looked to my right, I saw Emily's black thong on the floor under the coffee table. My phone chimed, and I saw a new message had arrived. Emily had sent me a photo. She was back at work and she had taken a selfie in the bathroom mirror. My girlfriend was with her and was licking a glob of my cum off Emily's face. The message read, "I got some help cleaning up before I clocked in." Despite all it had been through today, my cock rallied to attention. It was going to be tough not masturbating again until I met up with these girls for drinks.Fun with girlfriend's coworker continues in bar after work.Chapter 2It seemed like midnight would never come, but finally I was walking into the bar my girlfriend and her coworkers frequent after work. I had thought abstaining from jacking off would be difficult, but honestly I was so worn out from my first round with Emily that I needed the time to refuel. I glanced around to our favorite spots in the bar and quickly found my girlfriend waving me over toward the corner booth.Like her coworkers, my girlfriend Abby was still dressed for work, in a black one-piece strapless maillot. It harkened to the days of the Playboy clubs. Her shoulder-length brown hair had been set free from the hair pins. Her 32C boobs had not been set free from her push-up uniform. She looked a bit like a 5'10" version of Anna Kendrick.Abby got up so I could slip past her into the booth. That left Abby at the end, me next, Emily in the middle, a girl I hadn't met after Emily, and another coworker (Beth? I think?) at the other end. "The guys are milling around the bar trying to get laid," Abby informed me. "Joke's on them, we snagged the hottest girl for our table!" The girl I hadn't met yet choked on her beer, glared briefly at Abby, and then stared down into her beer, blushing. "Oh I'm just teasing you! Ben, this shy little thing is Becky." Becky smiled at me and held out her hand. "She was one of my last tables tonight. She got stood up for a date - don't be embarrassed! He was probably a loser anyway! - She got stood up tonight, so we invited her out with us.""Nice to meet you, Becky." I reached across Emily to shake Becky's hand. Becky was cute. She looked like Kristen Stewart when she chooses to be blonde. On any other night, I would've enjoyed chatting up Becky, but tonight I was a bit distracted by what the hell would or would not happen with Emily and my girlfriend later. "Well, I should probably catch up a bit. Abby, will you let me out so I can go grab a drink?""I'll come too!" the coworker I was now sure is named Beth announced. "I'm due for another round." Beth followed me up to the bar."I'll have a pint of the rotating pale ale, whatever it is tonight. Whatever Beth is drinking, you know what, how about another round for that whole table in the corner. Thanks!""Aw, thanks Ben!" Beth leaned in to hug me. Then, just soft enough for me to hear, she said, "I hope you're expecting to get lucky tonight. Although, I suspect you already did. I walked into the bathroom at work earlier and found your girlfriend and Emily taking a pretty interesting photo. Was that all your cum I saw on Emily's face? By the look on Abby's face it must have tasted pretty good. I wouldn't mind getting a taste myself. If Abby's cool with it, of course.""Here are your drinks, Ben. On your tab?" the bartender interrupted.I nodded, as Beth took her beer off the tray. "Think about it!" Beth said as she winked at me and headed off to chat with one of the male waiters they worked with: Mark, or Mack, or Matt, or Chris, not important.I set the tray of drinks on the table and Abby got up to let me by. As I settled into the middle of the corner booth, I tried to get caught up on the conversation. Becky was a sophomore at the local college, studying engineering. Tonight was supposed to be her first date since high school, as she had preoccupied herself with her studies.I was already only half-listening, when I became further distracted by the feeling of a hand resting on my upper thigh. I turned to my girlfriend and saw her smirk, but she never broke eye contact with Becky."There must be a lot of guys in your classes to choose from. I wouldn't get too hung up on this one." Abby said casually, as she started pulling down my zipper with one hand. I definitely did not hear Becky's answer, as Abby fished my cock out and held it gently. Maybe I'm alone in this, but I love the feeling of starting out soft and growing in a girl's hand or mouth. As opposed to getting aroused and hard before even getting my pants off. Abby knew this about me. Lucky for me, she also finds it erotic to suck on me while I'm still soft, although I don't stay soft for long in her mouth. As Abby began stroking me under the table, I looked around the bar and sipped my beer, trying to not draw too much attention to myself. It felt like everyone knew and was talking about it, but I'm sure that was all in my head. The bar was dark and the benches were pushed in a little too far under the table.At some point, Becky excused herself to use the restroom. My girlfriend looked at me, then looked at Emily. I looked at Emily. Emily looked at me, then my girlfriend. I felt like the three of us were having a conversation, but that I didn't speak the same language as the two girls. Emily looked back at me, giggled, winked, and then slipped under the table. I looked at Abby, who smiled back at me. Next thing I knew, Abby's hand was gone and the now familiar feeling of Emily's lips had replaced it. I must've groaned involuntarily because Abby shushed me. But what was I supposed to do as I felt Emily's tongue trailing up one side of my cock and down the other? I just hoped that Abby's body, the purses on the floor, and the darkness of the bar would hide what we were doing.Becky returned to the table and slid back into her end of the bench, which was somewhat across from me in this corner booth. "Where's Emily?" Becky asked."Oh, she got tired of peanuts, so she went looking for a bigger snack," my girlfriend quipped."Oh, okay." Becky accepted. "So, how did you two meet?"I couldn't believe how casually my girlfriend was talking to this new girl, while her friend was under the table blowing me. Emily was getting so sloppy, I was sure my pants were gonna have a big wet spot on them from her spit. Meanwhile, the suction from her throat was pulling me in like Emily's uvula was

Steamy Stories
About Emily: Part 1

Steamy Stories

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2025


Girlfriend's coworker walks in on me masturbating.In 2 parts, By rtyuuioyuih1. Listen to the ► Podcast at Connected. Chapter 1There was a knock at the door.I chose to ignore it. It was probably just the delivery guy with some package my girlfriend Abby, had ordered. He could just leave it in the hall. I was, shall we say, indisposed at the moment: in bed, pants off, headphones on,  you get the picture. My Abby was at work and I had chosen to spend my evening with a little stress relief. We have a healthy and active sex life, don't get me wrong. But there's something different about doing it yourself every now and then."Ben, open up!"God damn it. I recognized that voice. Although, I had never heard it here before. That was Abby's coworker, Emily. They were waitresses together at the place a couple buildings over. The nice thing about living downtown is that everywhere we needed to go, including work, was walking distance. I had met Emily on several occasions when I'd come by the restaurant. We had even gone out for drinks as a group after my girlfriend got off work.I always liked hanging out with Emily. She was genuinely sweet, funny, and enjoyable company. She was also, coincidentally, stacked. I can only guess of course, but I'd estimate she's 5'6", 110 pounds (10 of which were boobs), and maybe a 34E. She looked like a brunette Kate Upton. And clearly, I wasn't the only one who thought so. My girlfriend had raved about how nice Emily's boobs were, and would affectionately laugh at how her friend always seemed to show up to work with the back zipper pulled down, when rent was due. One night after drinks, I was feeling particularly brash, and on the walk home I confessed to my girlfriend that I found her friend difficult to look in the face. She playfully slapped my arm, but then conceded that she too struggled to make eye contact after a couple beers. That wasn't the only allusion my girlfriend made to her bi-curiosity, but that's a story for another time."Ben, hurry, I know you're in there! I only have a few minutes!"Whoops. How long had I left Emily knocking at the door? I guess my reminiscing had melded into my fantasizing. God damn it, "Coming!" I yelled to her. I thought I heard a small giggle from the hallway. I opened the door from my apartment only wide enough to stick my head out. I didn't necessarily want her to see the rest of me like this. "Hey, Emily, what's up?""Finally!" Emily said. "Your girlfriend told me you'd be home to let me in. Look, while we were doing our side work, I accidentally spilled marinara sauce all over my bodice. I don't have time to run all the way home, and your place is so close to work, and your girlfriend said I could clean it here.""Oh, um, sure. Of course. Um, come in, " I hoped my extra-long tee shirt would hide my dwindling erection. I wasn't sure how my girlfriend expected one of her shirts to fit Emily - my girlfriend is the hottest girl I know, but she's not as well-endowed as Emily; no one I'd ever met is as well-endowed as Emily.Emily pushed past me into the apartment. She gave me a quick look up and down, smirked, and said, "Cute outfit. Where's your girlfriend's dresser?""In the bedroom, to the left there," I informed her. I was so pleased to be of assistance to this wildly attractive, platonic friend that I briefly forgot the state of the bedroom. A little too late, I clamored to follow Emily in, hoping to subtly straighten up.Emily saw the sheets thrown back, the open laptop, the headphones. She looked back at me, starting with my boxers, and then flicking her eyes up to meet mine. She smirked, and said, "Don't worry. Your girlfriend warned me what I'd be interrupting."Great, I thought. I know girls talk, but I'd prefer these sorts of habits were more of a private matter between me and my girlfriend."And don't be embarrassed," Emily continued. "I spend my days off the same way."That shocked me. While my sex life had been pretty active since getting to college, and I had learned a lot about the world from the internet and my girlfriend, I had grown up in a very conservative household - the type where it was assumed girls didn't enjoy sex and that masturbation was an exclusively male past time. I was relieved to learn over the past couple years that those were all inaccurate assumptions.While I was reeling from Emily's brazen confession (and trying not to picture her in action until after she'd left), she had apparently chosen a shirt: one my girlfriend would probably consider over-sized and comfy, but might look tight and sexy on Emily's frame. Emily had exited to the living room, and I distractedly followed. "Well, I'm glad I was able to help. Are you gonna make it back to the restaurant in time for-"I froze mid-sentence. Emily had stripped off her one-piece right there in my living room - right there in front of me! Her boobs were as perfect as I had imagined. They didn't sag or droop an inch when released. Her nipples were tight and erect, right at the center of two perfect pink, quarter-sized areola."Ben? Ben. Ben!" Emily giggled and I became aware I'd missed the last several seconds of whatever she'd been saying. "Are you alright, Ben?" I nodded. "They're just tits, Ben. Although, I'm happy you like them." I nodded again. "Why don't you have a seat, Ben? You look like you're gonna fall over." Emily giggled again. I loved that giggle. She washed out the stain and grabbed a bath towel to pat the outfit dry. It was a black satin, so any wetness was not too noticeable."As I was saying," Emily continued, "I actually don't have to be back at work for a little while. It turns out they overscheduled us tonight. I just want to be back for the dinner rush. Seeing as we've got some time to kill, I thought maybe I'd hang out here for a little bit?"I finally found my voice. "That sounds great!" Too eager. "That sounds great," I repeated more measuredly. I'm not sure when Emily had put on my girlfriend's shirt, but I was finding it easier to think now - even despite her nipples poking so prominently through the thin cotton. "What do you want to do?""Well," Emily stretched out the word as she stretched her arms up to the ceiling, stretching the tits up to expose more of her midriff temporarily. She giggled again as she couldn't help but notice me noticing her body. "Maybe we could finish what you started?""What?""You know. You could go get your laptop and we could finish whatever you were watching. I'm always curious what other people are into.""I don't know, ""Come on, Ben, it'll be fun!" She bounced in her chair as she said so. I was still hesitating, so Emily got up and went back to the bedroom herself. She talked as she walked, "Look, it'll be harmless. You touch yourself; I'll touch myself. No harm, no foul."I finally gave up. This was too good an opportunity to miss. And she was right, if we both kept to ourselves, then we weren't doing anything too illicit, right? But then I remembered what I had been watching when Emily knocked."Oh," I heard from the doorway. "Busty college slut titty-fucks lucky guy," Emily read the title as she carried my laptop back to the living room. "I should have guessed. And she's a brunette too. Fantasizing about anyone in particular?" she teased me.I was so embarrassed. I don't always masturbate thinking about Emily,  but I'd be lying if I didn't say she's a lead actress in my mental entourage. I didn't know how this was supposed to proceed (my girlfriend knew I watched porn, but we had never watched together), so I was glad Emily was taking the lead. She set my laptop on the coffee table, sat down next to me, and cuddled up next to me. Already, we were touching, but I guess it wasn't sexual touching."I usually watch girl on girl," Emily casually informed me. "I just find the female form more sensual. But I can get off to this too."I was watching, but I couldn't pay attention. I was too nervous about what I was expected to do next, and I kept stealing glances at Emily's. Emily kept looking from the porn to me, back to the porn, and back to me. "Go ahead," she encouraged. "Finish what you started." When I hesitated, Emily stood up, unceremoniously shook her ass at me, and sat back down. That was enough for me. One glance at Emily's tight ass, and my cock popped through the flap of my boxers all by itself. "Finally!" Emily said. "That's what I've been waiting for."The porn was long-forgotten. I was too busy admiring Emily's fit body, the curve of her thighs, and the trimmed brunette triangle of hair just above her cunt lips. Likewise, Emily was too busy admiring my penis. It stood proudly erect, I want to believe it can get to 7 inches long and 4and a half inches around. "You've got some good equipment," she complimented me as casually as if we were comparing kitchen aid mixers. And with that, she got to work: she stuck three fingers of her right hand in her mouth, sucked them gratuitously, lowered them to her cunt, and began fingering her clit. I was awestruck and frozen in place. Rolling her eyes, Emily grabbed my right hand, licked my palm up to my fingertips, sucked three of my fingers into her mouth, and then placed my hand on my cock. I got the message and started stroking.We watched each other play for what felt like a lifetime. Every fidget of her fingers, every twitch of her thighs, every flutter of her eyelashes, and every gasp from her lips was burned into my memory forever. She knew exactly how to touch herself to get herself off, and I knew she was telling the truth when she said she spent her days off the same way I do. All too soon, her body tensed up and I knew she was on the verge of orgasm. Still, she surprised me one last time."Choke me," she demanded softly."What?"She looked me right in the eye, and said, "Choke me."I was too far gone to remember our "hands to ourselves" rule, so ever the accommodating host, I wrapped my left hand around her neck and squeezed. That pushed Emily over the edge and her whole body convulsed and shook with orgasm. Her fingers were a blur on her clit. Her face turned red and her lips clamped tightly shut. I almost came just at the sight of this powerful orgasm.When she finally opened her eyes and gasped for breath, I released my grip on her throat. She came down slowly and her breathing evened out. She looked me in the eyes again. "Thank you.""No, honestly, thank you! That was the sexiest thing I've ever seen.""Did you get off too?" Emily asked, while looking around for some evidence of my cum."No, not yet.""Is that due to performance anxiety, or wishful thinking?" Emily asked coyly."I was a bit distracted," I teased back."Well, I think I need to thank you for letting me in to borrow your sink" she suggested. My heart leapt as Emily slid to the floor in front of me. She grabbed my cock with her right hand, which was still wet from playing with her cunt. She started to jack me off, slowly but firmly. As I sunk into my seat on the couch, she leaned forward and licked all the way up my shaft, before sucking the head into her mouth. She rolled the head around and flicked her tongue on the underside. Then, she steadily and deliberately pushed my cock deeper and deeper into her throat until her nose was in my pubic hair. I twitched in her mouth, but held on for dear life. I didn't want this to end just yet. She pulled her head back off my penis and breathed in deeply, a trail of spit leading from my tip to her lips."Have you ever actually titty-fucked a busty college slut?" she asked me. I shook my head violently and Emily giggled. "Well, what are you waiting for?" She got up on her knees in front of me, bunched up my girlfriend's shirt until it covered her boobs but exposed her midriff again, and pulled me by my knees toward the front of the couch. She spit into her own cleavage and then rubbed it in. Seemingly frustrated by the lack of lubrication, her eyebrows furrowed briefly. Then, her eyes brightened as she reached down to her still dripping cunt, inserted one finger at a time between her lips, and then brought her now re-wetted hand to rub into her cleavage. Satisfied, she turned her attention back on me and thrust my penis between her luscious boobs. As she bounced her tits on my cock, I thought nothing could ever top this experience.I was glad I had already cum this afternoon and had been on round two when Emily knocked, or I never would've lasted as long as I did. The feeling of her big boobs squeezing my cock, the knowledge that her pussy juice was providing the lube, the sight of my cock peeking out of her cleavage, and the taboo of Emily wearing my girlfriend's shirt were leading me to orgasm quickly. Emily looked up at me with her big beautiful doe eyes and asked if I wanted to try one more thing with my little college slut. Of course I did.Emily extracted my cock from her tits, stood up, and walked around the coffee table. I watched her ass sway and wondered what she had in store for me next. Emily laid on her back on the coffee table with her head towards me, poked her chin toward the ceiling, looked me in the eye, and winked. That was all the invitation I needed. I got on my knees and roughly shoved my cock down her throat again. I fucked her face like I longed to fuck her cunt. Emily fondled my balls while I drove my cock in and out of her mouth recklessly. This final position was too much and I quickly told her, "I'm gonna cum!" I pulled out and reached to start jerking myself off, but Emily slapped my hand out of the way and took over finishing the job."Cum!" she ordered. "Cum all over my pretty little face. Cum all over my slutty little lips. Cum all over my tits in your girlfriend's tiny little shirt!" Who was I to refuse her request? After so much buildup, I came everywhere. I came on her pretty little face. I came on her slutty little lips. I came on her tits in my girlfriend's tiny little shirt.Emily smiled and giggled. "Yum, that was so much fun!" she exclaimed. She sat upright and turned to look at me. Her mascara was running down her cheeks, there was spit all over her face, cum was dangling off her nose and her chin, there were puddles of cum on her clavicle running down into her cleavage, and there were wet spots of cum on her shirt.In my post-cum clarity, I began to feel an inkling of guilt, but Emily promptly squashed that. "Your girlfriend was in on this by the way.""What!?""Your girlfriend was in on this. She spilled the marinara on me on purpose. She told me you'd be here masturbating. She told me you fantasized about my tits. She told me to get a little crazy with you. If you don't believe me, check your phone."My phone? Where was my phone? I ran to the bedroom to retrieve it, and there was a text from my girlfriend from half an hour ago. "Send me a photo of that little cum-slut!" I chuckled at how I'd been set up, and in admiration for my wonderful girlfriend. We'd talked about opening our relationship but only as a fantasy while we were fucking. I never thought she'd actually condone it."She wants a photo," I informed Emily. Emily smiled at me with cum still dripping off her face, with her nipples poking through my girlfriend's shirt, and with her neatly trimmed bush on display. She gave a peace sign as she posed for the photo."Send that to me too," Emily requested. I offered her a tissue, but she only cleaned up the mascara and then threw the tissue away. "I think I'll leave the cum there. At least until I get back to work. I heard it's good for the skin." Emily winked at me as she pulled on her jeans. "Hey, you should meet us for drinks after work. And no more jacking off between now and then! I don't think we're done with you just yet."Emily headed out the door, and I collapsed onto the couch. As I looked to my right, I saw Emily's black thong on the floor under the coffee table. My phone chimed, and I saw a new message had arrived. Emily had sent me a photo. She was back at work and she had taken a selfie in the bathroom mirror. My girlfriend was with her and was licking a glob of my cum off Emily's face. The message read, "I got some help cleaning up before I clocked in." Despite all it had been through today, my cock rallied to attention. It was going to be tough not masturbating again until I met up with these girls for drinks.Fun with girlfriend's coworker continues in bar after work.Chapter 2It seemed like midnight would never come, but finally I was walking into the bar my girlfriend and her coworkers frequent after work. I had thought abstaining from jacking off would be difficult, but honestly I was so worn out from my first round with Emily that I needed the time to refuel. I glanced around to our favorite spots in the bar and quickly found my girlfriend waving me over toward the corner booth.Like her coworkers, my girlfriend Abby was still dressed for work, in a black one-piece strapless maillot. It harkened to the days of the Playboy clubs. Her shoulder-length brown hair had been set free from the hair pins. Her 32C boobs had not been set free from her push-up uniform. She looked a bit like a 5'10" version of Anna Kendrick.Abby got up so I could slip past her into the booth. That left Abby at the end, me next, Emily in the middle, a girl I hadn't met after Emily, and another coworker (Beth? I think?) at the other end. "The guys are milling around the bar trying to get laid," Abby informed me. "Joke's on them, we snagged the hottest girl for our table!" The girl I hadn't met yet choked on her beer, glared briefly at Abby, and then stared down into her beer, blushing. "Oh I'm just teasing you! Ben, this shy little thing is Becky." Becky smiled at me and held out her hand. "She was one of my last tables tonight. She got stood up for a date - don't be embarrassed! He was probably a loser anyway! - She got stood up tonight, so we invited her out with us.""Nice to meet you, Becky." I reached across Emily to shake Becky's hand. Becky was cute. She looked like Kristen Stewart when she chooses to be blonde. On any other night, I would've enjoyed chatting up Becky, but tonight I was a bit distracted by what the hell would or would not happen with Emily and my girlfriend later. "Well, I should probably catch up a bit. Abby, will you let me out so I can go grab a drink?""I'll come too!" the coworker I was now sure is named Beth announced. "I'm due for another round." Beth followed me up to the bar."I'll have a pint of the rotating pale ale, whatever it is tonight. Whatever Beth is drinking, you know what, how about another round for that whole table in the corner. Thanks!""Aw, thanks Ben!" Beth leaned in to hug me. Then, just soft enough for me to hear, she said, "I hope you're expecting to get lucky tonight. Although, I suspect you already did. I walked into the bathroom at work earlier and found your girlfriend and Emily taking a pretty interesting photo. Was that all your cum I saw on Emily's face? By the look on Abby's face it must have tasted pretty good. I wouldn't mind getting a taste myself. If Abby's cool with it, of course.""Here are your drinks, Ben. On your tab?" the bartender interrupted.I nodded, as Beth took her beer off the tray. "Think about it!" Beth said as she winked at me and headed off to chat with one of the male waiters they worked with: Mark, or Mack, or Matt, or Chris, not important.I set the tray of drinks on the table and Abby got up to let me by. As I settled into the middle of the corner booth, I tried to get caught up on the conversation. Becky was a sophomore at the local college, studying engineering. Tonight was supposed to be her first date since high school, as she had preoccupied herself with her studies.I was already only half-listening, when I became further distracted by the feeling of a hand resting on my upper thigh. I turned to my girlfriend and saw her smirk, but she never broke eye contact with Becky."There must be a lot of guys in your classes to choose from. I wouldn't get too hung up on this one." Abby said casually, as she started pulling down my zipper with one hand. I definitely did not hear Becky's answer, as Abby fished my cock out and held it gently. Maybe I'm alone in this, but I love the feeling of starting out soft and growing in a girl's hand or mouth. As opposed to getting aroused and hard before even getting my pants off. Abby knew this about me. Lucky for me, she also finds it erotic to suck on me while I'm still soft, although I don't stay soft for long in her mouth. As Abby began stroking me under the table, I looked around the bar and sipped my beer, trying to not draw too much attention to myself. It felt like everyone knew and was talking about it, but I'm sure that was all in my head. The bar was dark and the benches were pushed in a little too far under the table.At some point, Becky excused herself to use the restroom. My girlfriend looked at me, then looked at Emily. I looked at Emily. Emily looked at me, then my girlfriend. I felt like the three of us were having a conversation, but that I didn't speak the same language as the two girls. Emily looked back at me, giggled, winked, and then slipped under the table. I looked at Abby, who smiled back at me. Next thing I knew, Abby's hand was gone and the now familiar feeling of Emily's lips had replaced it. I must've groaned involuntarily because Abby shushed me. But what was I supposed to do as I felt Emily's tongue trailing up one side of my cock and down the other? I just hoped that Abby's body, the purses on the floor, and the darkness of the bar would hide what we were doing.Becky returned to the table and slid back into her end of the bench, which was somewhat across from me in this corner booth. "Where's Emily?" Becky asked."Oh, she got tired of peanuts, so she went looking for a bigger snack," my girlfriend quipped."Oh, okay." Becky accepted. "So, how did you two meet?"I couldn't believe how casually my girlfriend was talking to this new girl, while her friend was under the table blowing me. Emily was getting so sloppy, I was sure my pants were gonna have a big wet spot on them from her spit. Meanwhile, the suction from her throat was pulling me in like Emily's uvula was

The JTrain Podcast
Help Me! I Keep Fantasizing about my Ex! - MONDAY MAILBAG - The JTrain Podcast with Jared Freid

The JTrain Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2025 37:35


Happy Labor Day! Dating feels like job hunting, virginity confessions in your late 20s, and rebound sex that won't leave your head just another Monday with Jared on the JTrain. Between emails, Jared riffs on life from the road, comedy headaches, and whatever else sets him off that week. It's equal parts advice, rants, and oversharing, the kind of stuff you'd gossip about over brunch. Hop aboard and keep the laughs (and the complaints) rolling.Get 10% off your Hero Bread order. Use code JTRAIN at https://www.hero.co

Pillow Talks
E221: How to Explore Your Kinks Without Shame (Cuckolding, Pegging, Breeding, and more)

Pillow Talks

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2025 65:21


Ever wondered why you have a certain kink? Or if it's OK to fantasize about someone else during sex? Or maybe you've been curious about cuckolding, breeding kinks, or pegging… but didn't know who to ask. Well some of you asked us! And today, we're answering your questions about kinks and fantasies. From the psychology of desire to navigating mismatches with your partner, we're tackling the wild, the vulnerable, and the deeply human side of sexual exploration (as always, with zero shame and plenty of insight). Whether you're curious, cautious, or kinky AF, this episode is packed with permission, perspective, and practical advice. Let's get into it.

Unf*ck Your Relationships
Ep 206: Why Fantasizing Your Way Through Dating is F*cking You Over

Unf*ck Your Relationships

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2025 31:54


So…I did the thing. I am officially back on the dating apps. That's right, my loves—I'm back in the dating trenches. All the things you're going through? I'm going through them right along with you. (I figured if I'm releasing a program about dating, it's only fair that I do it alongside you, right?) But as long as I'm here, I'm going to talk about some of the reasons why you might not be having much success with dating. First and foremost, the fact that you'll go on one date with a man and come home already planning the wedding. It's great to be excited when you meet someone new. But it's TOO fucking easy to get swept straight into a full-blown fantasy about who this person is…when in reality, you have no idea who they actually are. “But Michelle, we're soulmates!” No, you're STRANGERS. And you need to remember that before you dive too deep into something you don't even want.   WORK WITH MICHELLE:  Sign up for SWIPE RIGHT, my signature dating program that is going to help you attract genuine, long-term love: https://michellepanning.com/swipe-right  These aren't just retreats. These are where we turn your inner chaos into GOLD. Sign up for THE AWAKENING RETREATS now before they sell out: https://michellepanning.com/awakening  Sign up for THE EXPERIENCE, an exclusive 12-month mentorship experience where you go all in on YOU (aka, you get direct access to me as a mentor, access to every offer I run over your year, and MORE): https://michellepanning.com/the-experience   CONNECT WITH MICHELLE: Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/michellepanning Website: http://www.michellepanning.com

Shameless Sex
#437 O to Oh Ohh Ohhhh! Unlock Multiple Orgasms

Shameless Sex

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2025 75:36


Ready to demystify multiple orgasms and discover how to tap into full-body pleasure? We're joined by one of our favorite sex educators, Sarah Tomchesson—a Certified Sex Educator, Intimacy Coach, Magic Wand's Marketing Director, Vice Chair of SIECUS, and co-host of the queer feminist podcast Fuck Yeah—to unpack everything you need to know about expanding your orgasmic potential. In this episode, you'll learn: What exactly are multiple orgasms, and can everyone experience them?   The common roadblocks that make multiple orgasms tricky to achieve (and how to overcome them)   Essential mindset and environmental tips to set the stage for mind-blowing pleasure   What to avoid—because sometimes the biggest pleasure killers are the things you don't realize   The concept of “full body arousal” and practical ways to cultivate it   Why breath-work is a game-changer—and beginner-friendly breathing techniques tailored for all bodies   The ins and outs of edging: what it is, why it helps, and how to do it without frustration   Sarah's top 3 orgasm-enhancing tips to take your pleasure next-level   If you've been curious about unlocking new layers of sexual empowerment or just want to upgrade your orgasmic toolkit, this episode is pure gold. Plus, Sarah shares how you can work with her to deepen your embodied sexual growth. Don't miss this juicy conversation that'll make you rethink everything you thought you knew about orgasms. Learn more about Sarah Tomchesson: https://sarahtomchesson.com To listen to the Fuck Yeah podcast: https://fuckyeahpod.com Follow her on IG at @sarahtomtom Bonus: Audience member at our last live show put these sex question in our box - we ran out of time to answer theCheck out these episodes for answers to commonly asked sex questions that we couldn't answer at our last live show:   How to make anal pleasurable (#108 & #418)   Meds for mental health and lower libido (#113 & #154)   Queer sex (#20 & #424)  Erectile Dysfunction when meds aren't an option (#184, #281, & #403) Edging and orgasm tips (#80, #249, & #253)    Group play/sex (#256 & #326) & check out July episode with sex party do's and don'ts  Squirting: try getting a Magic Wand (#80 & #249) Fantasizing about something/someone else during sex (#98 & #253) Wanting partner to be more vocal during sex: buy our book Is it common to need hours of sex to be satisfied: listen to this episode with Sarah! Take the Magic Wand challenge AND see why new research shows how using Magic Wand improves more than just your sexual wellness!!! magicwandstudy.com  Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get 15% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at ⁠⁠⁠http://butterwellness.com⁠⁠ Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Theory 2 Action Podcast
MM#415--Beyond Positive Thinking: The Science of Making Dreams Reality & Becoming Dreamers & Doers

Theory 2 Action Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2025 9:01 Transcription Available


FAN MAIL--We would love YOUR feedback--Send us a Text MessageHave you ever wondered why all that positive visualization hasn't transformed your life? Despite your vivid daydreams of success, you find yourself still sitting on the couch, no closer to your goals? Motivation science has the answer, and it's not what you might expect.This eye-opening episode dives deep into Gabrielle Oettingen's revolutionary research on motivation as explored in her 2014 book "Rethinking Positive Thinking." We uncover the counterintuitive truth that simply dreaming about your desired future can actually make you less likely to achieve it. When we engage in pleasant fantasies about our goals, our brains experience a false sense of fulfillment that drains our motivation to tackle real-world challenges. As Oettingen explains, "By fooling our brains into thinking we're already successful, we lose motivation and energy to do what it actually takes to become successful."But don't despair! We explore Oettingen's powerful alternative technique called "mental contrasting" - a method that transforms wishful thinking into actionable energy. Rather than abandoning your dreams, mental contrasting teaches you to pair your positive vision with a clear-eyed assessment of the obstacles in your path. This balanced approach has been scientifically proven to significantly increase motivation across numerous domains, from weight loss to academic performance to business negotiations. Through mental contrasting, you can become both a dreamer AND a doer - someone who not only imagines a better future but takes concrete steps to create it.Ready to stop daydreaming and start achieving? Visit teammojoacademy.com where we've gathered everything discussed in this podcast along with additional resources to help you apply these concepts immediately. Let's put theory into action and get your mojo on!Key Points from the Episode:• Merely visualizing success puts us in a state of "bliss, calmness and lethargy" that saps our energy• Fantasizing tricks our brain into thinking we've already achieved our goals• "Dreamers are not often doers" - positive visualization without reality awareness doesn't work• Mental contrasting is the solution: visualize both dreams AND obstacles standing in your way• This technique energizes us by creating "the necessity to act"• Studies show mental contrasting has helped people quit smoking, lose weight, improve grades, and enhance relationships• The key is becoming both "dreamers AND doers" rather than just dreamersCheck out our show page at teammojoacademy.com for everything discussed in this podcast and other great resources to help you get your mojo on.Other resources: Want to leave a review? Click here, and if we earned a five-star review from you **high five and knuckle bumps**, we appreciate it greatly, thank you so much!

Think BIG Bodybuilding
It's Just Bodybuilding 367 Was Nick Walker Robbed⁉️ + Say Something Unpopular

Think BIG Bodybuilding

Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2025 86:01


Pittsburgh Pro Recap, NY Pro Preview?, Megamass Gym Equipment Overrated? & More It's Just Bodybuilding Podcast 337 Big Ron Partlow, Dusty Hanshaw, Scott McNally 0:00 intro 1:00 Was Nick Robbed? 12:00 Nick's Momentum 14:20 The quality of the Pittsburgh Pro 18:00 Terrence Ruffin and classic physique 22:30 William Bonac vs Martin Fitzwater 23:45 Krizo 28:00 Natalia Coelho in Women's Physique 29:45 Lola Montez in Figure 35:30 NY Pro - Martin vs Nick Rematch? 38:20 Megamass Gym Equipment 44:20 Ron's machines that broke 48:50 Dusty' Arm Day To Grow Arms 51:20 Tips to first time competitor 59:20 Fantasizing about food while dieting 1:06:44 It's Just Bodybuilding - Wives Edition 1:09:00 Say Something Unpopular! Go Back To Work 1:11:20 Motorcycle Speeds Need to Come Down 1:20:00 Protecting Our Rights

Residue: A True Crime Podcast
Jacksonville Beach Nightmare

Residue: A True Crime Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2025 26:12


In November 1998, 25-year-old Corey Parker was living her dream in Jacksonville Beach, Florida — taking college classes, working as a waitress, and embracing her independence. But just days after a night out with friends, Corey was found brutally murdered in her apartment — stabbed dozens of times, her killer leaving behind a blood-soaked crime scene and no immediate suspects.With no forced entry and few clues, the case went cold for nearly two years — until a tip from a casual lakeside conversation led police to Robert Denny, a quiet teenager who had lived in the apartment next door. He had been watching Corey. Fantasizing. Planning. He was just 17 when he crawled through her window and carried out one of the most disturbing crimes the city had ever seen.Sources: In Ice Cold Blood: Season 2, Epi 1: Peeping PervDateline: Rear Window https://www.jacksonville.com/story/news/crime/2013/03/16/jacksonville-beach-murder-is-subject-of-documentary/11509407007/https://www.news4jax.com/news/2018/07/16/man-sentenced-to-life-in-ragtime-waitresss-murder-hopes-for-new-trial/Send us a textEmail Residue: residuepodcast@gmail.comFind RESIDUE online:Instagram: @residuepodcastTik Tok: @residuepodcast Facebook: Residue:A True Crime Podcast Credits: RESIDUE is Hosted/Produced/Researched/Edited by Chrissy Champagne THEME SONG: "Dance Of Death" by Purple Planet Music collection written and performed by Chris Martyn and Geoff Harvey. Additional music provided by Epidemic Sound. Residue logo designed by Tricia Cappelli

Before You Kill Yourself
Three "F's" of mental health: Fantasize, Frame, Follow Through

Before You Kill Yourself

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2025 18:30


Hope can lead to painful disappointment. Fantasizing can prevent us from taking action. How do we bridge the two?Thrive With Leo Coaching: If you want to improve in the areas of health, wealth and/or relationships, go to www.thrivewithleo.com to begin your journey.If you or anyone you know is considering suicide or self-harm, or is anxious, depressed, upset, or needs to talk, there are people who want to help.In the US:Crisis Text Line: Text CRISIS to 741741 for free, confidential crisis counselingThe National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 or 988The Trevor Project: 1-866-488-7386Outside the US:The International Association for Suicide Prevention lists a number of suicide hotlines by country. Click here to find them.

SexTok with Zibby and Tracey
S12 Ep. 6: Fantasizing to Spice Up Married Sex, Eye Gazing, and Why Can't He See My Affair as a Positive Thing?

SexTok with Zibby and Tracey

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2025 15:23


In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) Is it wrong to fantasize about another person when you are in bed with your partner? I've been married for a very long time and—as you both talk about often—we feel more like friends than lovers. To make sex more arousing, I often fantasize about a woman at work who I mildly flirt with. I sometimes feel a little guilty. Should I? Is this something everyone does?2) For years, I was in a sexless marriage with a husband who didn't see me. I got friendly with a man I work with and ended up having an affair. It had more to do with loneliness than lust, even though I did care for him. My husband found out and all hell broke loose. We nearly split up, but therapy saved us. The thing is, I see the affair as something that saved our marriage. He sees it as a humiliating betrayal, even though he understands why I did it. I think it's because he's the big boss at work and isn't used to not getting his way. He wants to pretend it never happened, whereas I would like to talk more about it because I see it as a positive thing.3) Does every couple look each other in the eyes when having sex? Or does that just happen in the movies? I can look at my husband for a moment, but usually I want to focus on all the other senses. Plus, I worry my face looks weird. We have great sex, and although my husband looks at me a lot, it doesn't bother him if I keep my eyes closed. Any tips on how to have longer eye contact and enjoy it? Is there any science related to eye contact during sex?To have Tracey and Kelsey discuss YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously at https://bit.ly/3C4AelUWant a copy of Tracey's book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Best Kept Secret
Finally meeting the man you've been fantasizing about every night - Erotica Audiobook

Best Kept Secret

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2025 11:46


"I could show you what goes on behind closed doors. I could make your fantasies into a reality."---Your next door neighbour and his “friend” kept you up all night, and this wasn't the first time. You have your own personal reasons to let it slide, but you didn't expect to run into him on your way to work, let alone get stuck inside the elevator… alone. This is your chance to make all your fantasies about this stranger come true.---IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO HEAR THE FULL SPICY VERSION OF THIS AUDIO, YOU CAN LISTEN HERE Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Rise & Grind
Fantasizing About Jimmy Butler, Golden Globes Recap, And Titans Get The No. 1 Pick

Rise & Grind

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2025 114:01


Jessica shares her thoughts on Grizzlies fans fantasizing about Jimmy Butler, talks to Gary Parrish about the Memphis Tigers win over the weekend, shares her thoughts on week 18 in the NFL and more.start set the show:07 SNOW IN MEMPHIS:10 Grizzlies weekend recap:12 ALLEGEDLY: Jimmy Butler and the Heat to part ways:24 Fans fantasizing about Jimmy Butler:43 Gary ParrishStill fantasizing about Jimmy ButlerMemphis men's basketball starts conference playGolden Globes1:24 Grizzlies v. Mavs preview1:25 NFL week 18 highlightsLions get No.1 seed in NFCTitans get No. 1 overall pickNFL firings1:43 HOT MESS EXPRESSJeremy Strong Golden Globes fitKim Mulkey fitTyreek Hill wants out of MiamiThe Mayo Bowl is funBahamas Bowl shenanigansWhat is the worst thing to be hit by at a football game?

Creating a Family: Talk about Infertility, Adoption & Foster Care
An Adoptee's Search for Identity, Family, and Belonging

Creating a Family: Talk about Infertility, Adoption & Foster Care

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 2025 44:53 Transcription Available


Click here to send us a topic idea or question for Weekend Wisdom.Join our discussion with an adult adoptee about her search for her birth family and her identity. We will talk with Julie Ryan McGue, a domestic adoptee and an identical twin. She is the author of Twice a Daughter, which explores her coming to terms with her adoption and her search for her birth parents, and Twice the Family, which explores more of her relationship with her adoptive family.In this episode, we cover:Tell us your adoption story.What role did adoption play, if any, in your childhood?Feelings of needing to be perfect.Fantasizing about birth family. When did you begin to search for your birth parents? Was searching for your birth family something you knew you would do from a young age?After considerable effort, you located your birth mother. At first, she said she did not want contact. How did that leave you feeling? After you had phone calls and met, you didn't want to tell her much about your adoptive parents. How did your mom (your adoptive mom) react to your search and when you found your birth mother? How do you wish she had reacted?What happened with your search for your birth father?Did you feel the same sense of shame, embarrassment, and rejection? Your birth mom's reticence to help you find your birth father and your continued search caused a rift in your relationship. How is the relationship now?The tension between the birth parents' right to privacy vs. the adoptee's right to know. Your experience with online adoptee forums. The primal wound.Importance of adoptee support groups.Support the showPlease leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content: Weekly podcasts Weekly articles/blog posts Resource pages on all aspects of family building

The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction Podcast
Brain stuff - that isn't boring for the Porn Addict

The Sex, Porn & Love Addiction Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2024 9:49


Send us a text- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreI like this article by Luke Gilkerson (as long ago as 2012), when he interviewed a Neuroscientist called Dr William Struthers - author of the book "How pornograpghy Hijacks the male brain"Dr Struthers explains what hormones and neurotransmitters are involved in porn addiction. Hope you find this intriguing and interesting:Testosterone: Testosterone drives a man's interest in sex. Fantasizing or viewing images, will release testosterone. This creates an intense and growing desire for sexual release.Norepinephrine: Is the brain's version of adrenaline. It is responsible for making us alert, help us to wake up, fall asleep and to stay alert upon the task in hand. During sexual arousal, it alerts the brain to “Something is about to happen and we need to get ready for it.” It “ramps up” the brain for activity.Serotonin: is a neurotransmitter tied to mood. Low serotonin levels can lead to struggling with depression. Although not specifically tied to sex, when sexual arousal happens, serotonin is released in small packets in the brain. It elevates the overall sense of excitement and enjoyment. Dopamine: Dopamine is not sexually specific (like testosterone). The brain is wired in such a way that it wants to remember where our natural drives are satisfied; Just like when we are thirsty, we know where to find water. The brain is wired to place significance on the place we found it so we can return to that place. Dopamine is the drive-related neurotransmitter that accomplishes this mental focus for us. When we have a dopamine surge, the sense we feel is, “I have got to have this thing. This is what I need right now, and here's where I get it.” Dopamine is the way your brain remembers how sexual craving was satisfied in the past, pushing you to seek out the same thing in the future. For the porn addict, Dopamine creates a sharp focus on finding porn.Endogenous Opiates: The body produces natural forms of opium called endorphins. Endorphins relieve pain. Like opium, it gives a euphoric feeling of well-being. When a man ejaculates, these opiates create a “high” and a wave of pleasure coursing over the body.Oxytocin and Vasopressin: These are hormones released in the brain in response to ejaculation. They help lay down the long-term memories for the cells. They “bind” a person's memories to the object that gave the sexual pleasure. When someone returns to pornography again and again, this cements a “relationship” with what he has seen.So, bringing them all together: As a male goes through his day, testosterone levels begin to increase as he stares at the source of his sexual attraction or fantasizes. He creates a desire for sexual release. Norepinephrine is being released, making his brain more and more primed and ready for action. Serotonin is also released, creating a sense of excitement about the pending sexual “payoff.” Dopamine is focusing the mind, telling the brain, “You have to go back to the attraction where that reliable payoff is at.” As he seeks out the attraction, he masturbates, releasing endogenous opiates into the brain, giving him a rush of euphoria. Oxytocin and vasopressin are released, binding him to the images he sees.Repeat, beckons in the immediate future – when it will all start again and again, and again and again….Until the cycle is interrupted. Interesting hey?No quick fixes guys. Quick fixes does not exist!Want to know more? Click the link and come get me. Get the help you need:

The Hook Up
Is It Bad To Fantasise About Other People While In A Relationship?

The Hook Up

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2024 28:33


Ever fantasised about someone else other than your partner? Did you feel guilty about it? From replaying hot memories with your ex, to exploring your sexuality - we hear who/what you're thinking about and whether you reckon it's a red flag in a relationship.SHOW NOTES:ABC article on fantasisingDM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

Luke Ford
Decoding Trump 2.0: The Shock & Awe Version (12-1-24)

Luke Ford

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2024 245:32


01:00 I was ahead of the game until I took that supplement to get my chi moving 04:00 Trump's Next Move: The Legal Battle That Could Change EVERYTHING, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ewE5SEkFnTM 07:00 Conservative Host WALKS OFF Show After CoHost Calls Her A NAZI, https://thehill.com/opinion/white-house/5012229-trump-dei-merit/ 24:15 Maladaptive Daydreaming: Avoiding Pain by Fantasizing, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oqXbZtQ11SM 28:40 Behind the Curtain: Trump's shock and awe, https://www.axios.com/2024/12/01/trump-cabinet-kash-patel-fbi 35:15 Putin abandons 'weak' Assad as rebels head for Syrian capital | Stefanie Glinski, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WWdB984gz08 40:20 Putin's armies too stretched to aid Assad's 'catastrophically bad' military | Mark Galeotti, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2pxr6tAfCxs 48:00 Trump tariffs 1:14:00 Glenn Greenwald: Dangerous New Escalation in Russia, & Our Blackmailed Politicians, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AKh4txSD0eQ 1:20:00 Christopher Caldwell: Speaking Trumpian: Persuasion in a post-oratorical age, https://claremontreviewofbooks.com/speaking-trumpian/ 1:34:20 Post-Thanksgiving Extravaganza, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=if04NMat9_4 1:43:30 Biden's Parting Gifts, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xXQDOSzglW4 1:47:00 Claremont: All the President's Mental Lapses: Democracy dies in deception, https://claremontreviewofbooks.com/all-the-presidents-mental-lapses/ 2:05:50 Who moved my chi? 2:29:45 Velvet Prisons: Russell Jacoby on American Academia, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6qlBJpJZE0I 2:38:00 Character Trouble: Undisciplined Essays on Moral Agency and Personality, https://www.amazon.com/Character-Trouble-Undisciplined-Essays-Personality-ebook/dp/B09KM7MPG4 2:47:20 Kip joins to talk about how we affect other people 3:26:00 Milgram experiment, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Milgram_experiment 3:30:00 Stanford prison experiment, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stanford_prison_experiment 3:37:30 John Doris: Rewriting the history of psychology, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GIhp_zxoc2k 3:39:00 The replication bros vs Amy Cuddy, https://www.nytimes.com/2017/10/18/magazine/when-the-revolution-came-for-amy-cuddy.html 3:45:00 I find redheads disturbing

Chaos in the Attic
Are You Over Fantasizing?

Chaos in the Attic

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2024 2:06


What is truly valuable to you? Thank you for tuning in x Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review and rate this podcast. I appreciate YOU so much! ----------------------------------------- Get My Guide: https://www.ro-hik.com/books/p/28-days-to-home-a-guide-to-your-soul ----------------------------------------- Follow me on: @andbeyondpodcast For health coaching: @rohikbynoor  @noorkaawach --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chaosintheattic/support

The Matt Thomas Show
Fantasizing with Dr. Roto, When to Have Your 2nd Kid, MEATLOAF

The Matt Thomas Show

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2024 130:01 Transcription Available


The Matt Thomas Show
Fantasizing with Dr. Roto, When to Have Your 2nd Kid, MEATLOAF

The Matt Thomas Show

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2024 130:01 Transcription Available


It's All About Connection! NVC With Dr. B!
209- Fantasizing About NVC in Politics

It's All About Connection! NVC With Dr. B!

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2024 12:56


Additional Resources:Website: https://www.thebigbiemethod.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/thebigbiemethodTwitter: @TheBigbieMethodInstagram: @thebigbiemethodLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cindybigbienvcYouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/channelBe sure to leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts and share it with a friend that would get some value!The Bigbie Method website: https://www.thebigbiemethod.com

Blunt Talk
2192. Fantasizing.

Blunt Talk

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2024 29:29


Episode 2192. Fantasizing. Featuring a cover of Tears of Gold by Violet King. Blunt Talk Podcast is guaranteed TO LIFT. X Fitness is committed to lifting in body, mind, and soul. There is enough depressing news. We won't add to it. Good Inspirational News Only. Free, permanently archived downloads compliments of X Fitness. Blessings & all good things. #peace

View from the Cheap Seats with the Sklar Brothers

NFL Network Fantasy Football expert Adam Rank joins Jason and Randy to discuss teams full of 5-star recruits vs teams with chemistry and culture in NCAA football, excitement for the Chicago Bears, how to best create your NFL fantasy team this season, Fanatics is suing Marvin Harrison Jr., Chargers players got stuck in a Dallas hotel elevator for 2 hours, ESPN's Field Yates dislocated his shoulder during a fantasy draft show, and Nicolas Cage leaves a voicemail about being cast as John Madden, and so much more!

Shekel Up Podcast
Fantasizing!

Shekel Up Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2024 58:58


Send us a Text Message.The hosts discuss their experiences with fantasy football and share their strategies for drafting quarterbacks. They also debate the rankings of various running backs and discuss potential sleeper picks. In this part of the conversation, Eric and Anthony discuss the rankings of wide receivers and tight ends in fantasy football. They debate the placement of players like Justin Jefferson, CD Lamb, and Amon-Ra St. Brown. They also discuss the impact of older players like Mike Evans and Cooper Kupp. The conversation then shifts to the rankings of team defenses and kickers, with a focus on the top defenses and the importance of streaming kickers based on matchups. They also mention the option of playing with individual defensive players (IDP) instead of team defenses. The episode concludes with a discussion about the upcoming $100 challenge and a reminder to like, subscribe, and share the podcast.takeawaysDrafting a quarterback in the first three rounds of fantasy football is not recommended.Will Levis from the Tennessee Titans is a questionable pick for fantasy football.Saquon Barkley and Christian McCaffrey are top running backs to consider.There are several sleeper picks to watch out for in the running back position.The hosts have different opinions on the rankings and potential of certain players. Rankings in fantasy football can be subjective and may vary depending on individual opinions and strategies.Streaming kickers based on matchups can be a viable strategy, as kickers' performances can be unpredictable.Consider playing with individual defensive players (IDP) instead of team defenses for a more engaging and strategic fantasy football experience.Research and stay updated on player performances, injuries, and team dynamics to make informed decisions in fantasy football.Engage with the podcast by liking, subscribing, and sharing the content to support the hosts.00:00Introduction and Discussion of Fantasy Football07:26Debate on Will Levis' Potential in Fantasy Football11:39Rankings and Sleeper Picks for Quarterbacks18:44Discussion on Running Back Rankings29:47Excitement for Wide Receivers in Fantasy Football32:03Debating Wide Receiver Rankings46:28Predicting Colkomet's Success52:13The Lions' Defense and Defense Rankings57:43Preheating for the NFL Seasonhttps://linktr.ee/Shekeluppodcast https://twitter.com/shekeluphttps://www.facebook.com/ShekelUpPodcast https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVGLEl-SwjQ7xR-Ooh_9ARwhttps://discord.gg/FDrgEgwshttps://patreon.com/Shekeluppodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_linkThe BetMGM sportsbook app brings you closer to the sports you love with real-time betting odds, enhanced offers, and tons of different betting formats from moneyline and point spread bets to parlays and futures. Not to mention the player props and live, in-game betting options!Experience the excitement of betting on major Football, Baseball, Basketball, Hockey, MMA, Soccer, and Tennis leagues including NBA, NFL, NHL, MLB, MLS and UFC, as well as College Football, College Basketball, and College Baseball.https://www.pubtrack.co/cmp/78K5KQH/9FQQ57/Support the Show.Support the Show.

Game Of Tones
Tone Troy - Fantasizing (Original Mix)

Game Of Tones

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2024 5:01


New from Tone Troy as part of a 2 track EP on KMS Records releasing on August 16th Fantasizing EP A Side: Fantasizing B Side: Love Is For Fools

original mix fantasizing kms records tone troy
Ira Kaufman Podcast -- Bucs & More
Ira Kaufman Talks Rachaad White Watch, Preseason Game Fallout & Fantasizing, Changing National Landscape, And More

Ira Kaufman Podcast -- Bucs & More

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2024 38:29


Plenty to chatter about with Joe as opening day inches closer and the Bucs have a preseason game in the books. Enjoy!!! The wisdom and fun of Ira and Joe is presented by Bill Currie Ford. Click play above or listen […] The post Ira Kaufman Talks Rachaad White Watch, Preseason Game Fallout & Fantasizing, Changing National Landscape, And More appeared first on JoeBucsFan.com.

Porn Brain Rewire with Dr. Trish Leigh
#Episode 135: Can't Stop Fantasizing About Sex? w/ Dr. Trish Leigh

Porn Brain Rewire with Dr. Trish Leigh

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2024 8:01


Fantasizing about porn and sex is one of the most dangerous aspects of pornography addiction.Unlike with other drugs that you can create physical distance from, porn offers no such luxury. The memory of scenes you've watched will often continue to pop in your mind, releasing dopamine, and trapping you in the screen.This is why the unwire, rewire, and hardwire phase of porn addiction recovery is so crucial to your journey. The most effective way to do this is through neurofeedback brain training. When you tackle porn addiction at its root -the brain- these images will no longer hold you hostage. Without Neurofeedback, the path to recovery can be a long and taxing one.If you're interested in leaving the screen behind for good:➡️Enroll in Porn-Free Brain Forever: https://drtrishleigh.com/porn-brain-rewire-programs/➡️Enroll in Neurofeedback: https://drtrishleigh.com/neurofeedback-coaching-program/Support the Show. Listen Now...About this Porn Rewire Channel: Hi. I am Dr. Trish Leigh, a Cognitive Neuroscientist, and Sex Addiction Recovery Coach. I am on a mission to help people heal their brains from porn use. My videos are designed to help you learn that:

No More Desire â„¢ Porn Addiction Recovery
60: Stop Porn Cravings | 7 Tools to Overcome Fantasizing & Lust Habits

No More Desire â„¢ Porn Addiction Recovery

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2024 55:13


What if you had a mental toolbelt to stop porn cravings and overcome fantasizing and lust habits? Today, I'm going to give you exactly that. By the end of this episode, you will have 7 tools to overcome fantasizing and lust, so you can beat porn cravings and stop wanting pornography. But - just like anything - in order for them to work, you have to apply them.Imagine you're at the gym and you see a girl in her gym outfit, or you're browsing online and see some ad pop up with a woman in a bathing suit, or you're walkin' down the street and you see a girl with short-shorts and cleavage. Many of these situations can be very challenging when you've struggled with porn addiction and you're trying to get sober. You may feel sick of these triggers popping up around you, and you may think if you can just avoid them then you won't be tempted to watch porn.But the answer to handling these triggers, and working through porn cravings, fantasizing, and lust is not avoidance. Instead, it's about having mental strategies to think through triggers and cravings. It's about building psychological habits - new mental processes - to replace the default mental processes that are leading to porn relapse. It's easy to let the mind wander and focus on lust and fantasies. Most men do this. But these thoughts don't serve you or those around you, nor do they help you become the strong, capable, and courageous man, husband, and father that you want to be. Overcoming these default mental habits of fantasizing, lust, and craving is challenging (I won't lie!), but it's also something that anyone can do. It's something that you can do. I'll show you how.Blog Article: Stop Porn Cravings | 7 Tools to Overcome Fantasizing & Lust HabitsBUILD THE NO MORE PORN LIFESTYLEJoin My Email NewsletterFREE EBOOK to help you break free from pornThe Intensive Porn Addiction Recovery ProgramSet Up a FREE Evaluation Call with JakeMORE EPISODES3 Thought Strategies to Prevent Porn Addiction and CravingsThe 4 Root Causes of Porn AddictionHow to Help Someone with a Porn Addiction in 3 Steps8 Rules to Get You 3 Months Sober from PornTrauma, Attachment, Shame & Porn AddictionThe Porn Addiction Funnel: How To Break Porn AddictionNo More Desire

Get Piped
129 The Courier: Fantasizing in the South (Country Squire Fantasy South Series)

Get Piped

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2024 113:19


Send us a Text Message.Well met friends! In this episode of the Get Piped Podcast, Adam and Nick follow The Courier through the American South to create the Fantasy South series from The Country Squire.Use Code GETSQUIRED for 5% off now through July 6th 2024__________Sign up for the Sutliff 175th Anniversary Party!Don't forget to subscribe/follow  the GPP so you never miss an episode.We want to hear from you! If you have any further questions, comments, or recommendations, send them to show@getpiped.co.__________Follow Get Piped on Instagram. Follow Producer Guy on Instagram.Check out the Get Piped YouTube for more content.Join the Get Piped community Discord here.Support the GPP by joining the Buy a Round ClubCheck out the Get Piped merch store.GPP is created by Adam Floyd (Get Piped)GPP is produced by Nick Masella (Producer Guy).Music for this episode is from StreamBeats. Support the Show.

Your Secret Is Safe With Me
192. When Will I Stop Fantasizing About My Ex-Affair Partner?

Your Secret Is Safe With Me

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2024 39:58


Do you ever find yourself fantasizing about your ex-affair partner? Do you torture yourself reminiscing on the wonderful times you shared, and the amazing memories you hold with them, even though the infidelity situation has since come to an end?   Discover the reasons you might still be fantasizing about your ex-affair partner, and how to start to ease your way out of this if you really do want to relegate your memories to the compost bin of history. I share some tips to help you take action that is right for you the next time you notice yourself thinking about your ex-affair partner and the three choices you always have available to you when it comes to fantasizing about your ex-affair partner.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://mariemurphyphd.com/192

Joyanima Dating Advice For Men
How Older Men Can Tell a Younger Woman Is Fantasizing About Them (Mind-Blowing Facts!)

Joyanima Dating Advice For Men

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2024 9:44


Hey there, it's Sarah. Have you ever caught yourself wondering if a younger woman is not just interested in you but actually fantasizing about you? Today, we're zeroing in on the distinct signs that many men overlook, signs that reveal a deeper attraction. At the end of this video we share our bonus tip! Make sure you stick around for it as it's a vital piece of advice for properly interpreting and responding to these signs, enhancing both your understanding and approach. Don't miss it! #Joyanima #Dating #attraction #flirting #crush #facts #psychology #datingtips #datingadvice #relationship

The Valenti Show
Fantasizing About LeBron In Detroit

The Valenti Show

Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2024 10:29


The guys continue on with Valenti's Pistons 5-pack and wonder what it would look like to have LeBron James and Bronny James playing in Detroit. 

How To Be Awesome At Everything Podcast
289. How To Be Awesome At ACTUALLY Doing The Thing

How To Be Awesome At Everything Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2024 19:38


This episode is all about sneaky procrastination!   Because I think all of us in some ways trick ourselves into thinking we are doing the thing- that thing you want to do or need to do - the hard thing that will bring you growth in the way you want - whatever that thing is for you right now.    And instead of actually doing the thing - we do a whole host of things like - make lists, we say we are planning, we talk about it, we do endless research on it OR we avoid it completely and go refold drawers or something.    I am going to read you the best short article I've read on the topic and we're going to unpack it so you can apply it to your life in real time.    Why do we let ourselves get distracted or procrastinate when something feels hard or uncomfortable?  What are we doing to trick ourselves to think we are working on it when actually we just aren't doing the thing?   I read this article by Strangest Loop called    things that aren't doing the thing      Here it is:    Preparing to do the thing isn't doing the thing. Scheduling time to do the thing isn't doing the thing. Making a to-do list for the thing isn't doing the thing. Telling people you're going to do the thing isn't doing the thing. Messaging friends who may or may not be doing the thing isn't doing the thing. Writing a banger tweet about how you're going to do the thing isn't doing the thing. Hating on yourself for not doing the thing isn't doing the thing. Hating on other people who have done the thing isn't doing the thing. Hating on the obstacles in the way of doing the thing isn't doing the thing. Fantasizing about all of the adoration you'll receive once you do the thing isn't doing the thing. Reading about how to do the thing isn't doing the thing. Reading about how other people did the thing isn't doing the thing. Reading this essay isn't doing the thing. The only thing that is doing the thing is doing the thing. -------------------   You can dress it up however you want  But the work just needs doing    Ultimately - it's hitting play and recording the podcast or starting the blog or lifting the weight or making the first healthy meal.    We are motivated by the avoidance of discomfort.    Figure out - what is the discomfort?   Often times, have no idea what the discomfort is - we are just avoiding it.    If you have a hard email to write, you might refold and entire set of drawers to avoid doing the thing.    Or if you get to a hard point in writing a book - when it gets hard - we reach for our phone for distraction. WHY Because we are avoiding the discomfort.  Ask- WHY am I avoiding this? Maybe you need more research. Don't keep banging your head. When you become aware of the discomfort - you make a plan to attack it.    I've heard Steven Bartlette say it in this way…  What is the psychological discomfort I am avoiding right now?      Write down - what is the THING.  Unpack it.    WHY it's important to force yourself to do the actual thing… because it's the only thing that matters in becoming the person you want to be or reaching the goal you want to achieve.    Thank you for listening!  Have an awesome day! 

Crisco, Dez & Ryan After Hours Podcast
Secrets: What are you fantasizing about instead of working?

Crisco, Dez & Ryan After Hours Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2024 3:28


What are you fantasizing about instead of working? "I fantasize about the Vikings winning the Super Bowl. Key word is fantasize." "I am fantasizing about this new guy I met on bumble

Crisco, Dez & Ryan After Hours Podcast
Secrets: What are you fantasizing about instead of working?

Crisco, Dez & Ryan After Hours Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2024 3:58


What are you fantasizing about instead of working? "I fantasize about the Vikings winning the Super Bowl. Key word is fantasize." "I am fantasizing about this new guy I met on bumble

The Horny Housewife
QUICKIE- Retroactive Jealousy & fantasizing about past partners

The Horny Housewife

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2024 23:43


Whiskers update + my thoughts on keeping your maiden name. Today were discussing retroactive jealousy..do you fantasize about past partners? BlueChew: Get your first months supply FREE using code "Housewife" at checkout at BlueChew.com

Bad Counsel
The Marijuana Mongoose (or Sack Taps and Bean Dips)

Bad Counsel

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2024 160:13


TakeawaysInside jokes and playful banter create a fun and lighthearted atmosphere.Experimenting with edibles can lead to unexpected and entertaining experiences.Accommodations can vary and sometimes come with unexpected charges.Fantasizing about living together and creating a unique dynamic can be entertaining.Custom car horns and fart sounds can add humor and personalization to everyday experiences.Reflecting on a trip and the memories made can bring joy and laughter. Maintaining a friendship with an ex can be a positive sign if both parties are mature and respectful.It's important to have open and honest communication about sexual experiences and expectations.Personal hygiene and cleanliness are important factors in sexual experiences.Online resources, such as instructional videos, can provide guidance and information on various topics. Toilet etiquette and habits vary greatly, and there are different perspectives on what is considered acceptable.Gathering feces as revenge is an extreme and unhygienic approach to dealing with conflicts.The concept of 'whole nother' is a colloquialism that is commonly used but is not grammatically correct.The design and architecture of toilets can greatly impact the user experience and cleanliness.The use of phones in the bathroom has become a common practice, but it is important to maintain proper hygiene and cleanliness. Reading magazines in the bathroom is a common pastime and can be a way to impress guests.Nostalgia for old magazines like Vice can evoke a sense of coolness and edginess.Feeling dead inside is a common sentiment and can be a result of various factors.Using words accurately and expanding vocabulary can enhance communication and understanding.The future of human lifespan is uncertain, but advancements in nutrition and medicine may lead to longer lifespans.Language is a powerful tool for expression and can bring joy and fascination. The use of euphemisms and humor in language can create viral trends and memorable phrases.AI and personal devices have a significant influence on daily life, from personalized recommendations to intrusive listening.Context plays a crucial role in understanding humor and euphemisms, allowing for inference and meaning comprehension.AI can impact decision-making processes and personal preferences, shaping individual experiences and interactions. Sex toys can be acceptable in relationships if introduced gradually and thoughtfully.The presentation of sex toys plays a crucial role in their acceptability.Experience and familiarity with sex toys can provide a competitive advantage in relationships.Conversations about sex toys require nuance and understanding.It is important to navigate conversations with others respectfully and consider their perspectives. Humor and laughter play a significant role in creating an enjoyable conversation.Spontaneity and creativity can lead to entertaining and engaging discussions.Personal experiences and preferences contribute to the unique dynamics of a conversation.Brainstorming and exploring ideas can lead to new and exciting projects or initiatives. Launching a podcast can be challenging, and it's important to be prepared for potential pitfalls.Respectful communication and setting boundaries are crucial in maintaining a healthy podcast team dynamic.Navigating personal topics in podcast conversations requires sensitivity and empathy.Understanding and respecting different perspectives is essential in creating a balanced and inclusive podcast.Self-reflection and growth are important for personal and professional development in podcasting.Addressing relationship challenges and maintaining open communication is vital for the success of a podcast team.ParticipateSend us a question and you'll be part of the show!X - @badcounsel1Instagram  - @bad.counselFacebook  - @badcounselpodcastEmail - badcounsel4u@gmail.comVoicemail - (541) 604-8487 ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★

The Openlove101 Show
Does Fantasizing About Someone Else Mean Cheating?

The Openlove101 Show

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2024 10:33


#112 A couple asked us the other day if it's bad to fantasize about someone else while being intimate with your partner. Is that wrong? Is it cheating? Is it bad? Let's dive into this rabbit hole of fantasy talk and where it could go!

Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective
SWM 123 – AQ – Enjoying anal sex, periods and vacation, aging and orgasms, fantasizing, and condoms for handjobs

Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2024 15:20


Topics include: The monthly masturbation challenge How do I make anal sex enjoyable for her? Periods and vacations and sex Aging and orgasm struggles How do I know if I'm in right? Does fantasizing about my husband make it a shared experience? Condoms for handjobs Resources for newlywed virgins

No More Desire â„¢ Porn Addiction Recovery
45: How to Stop Cravings & Fantasizing

No More Desire â„¢ Porn Addiction Recovery

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2024 28:25


Do you wish you felt in control? Are you tired of experiencing porn cravings everyday? Today, we're going to talk about how to stop cravings and fantasizing so you can overcome porn addiction for good.I remember what it felt like dealing with non-stop cravings and wondering if I'd ever get better. I remember feeling out of control and hopeless. Now, after 9 years of sobriety, and helping others achieve their own recovery, I can say it is not hopeless at all. There is so, so much hope.Quitting porn requires a shift in mindset. It's not about trying hard enough, it's about knowing how to try. Today, I'll share a real life example of addiction recovery that I believe will give you several significant guidelines you can follow in order to get sober and stay that way.If you want to get serious about addiction recovery, join my coaching program. I'll help guide you to success and sobriety through:One-on-one sessions with someone who has both personal and professional experience in recovery.Daily Check-ins that help you understand what's really leading to your addiction so you can break free of porn for good.Personalize Plans and Goals we work on step-by-step to transform your life and well-being.Recovery Curriculum that teaches you the mindset and lifestyle you need to be sober.Click Here to Book a Consultation.DOWNLOAD MY FREE EBOOK to help you break free from pornDefining Addiction and Recovery PDFPorn Recovery Coaching for ChristiansOther Episodes to help you stop porn addiction:Why Porn Addiction Destroys Motivation and What to Do About ItDependence, INdependence, INTERdependenceWhat the Stoics Teach Us About Recovery5 Steps to Bounce Back After a Slip/Relapse with PornMy Spouse & I Just Fought. I Feel Triggered. How Do I Stay Clean?4 Simple Practice to Overcome Addiction CravingsUsing Mindfulness to Overcome AddictionTo Resist. To Accept. | A Simple, Daily Practice to Overcome Porn AddictionMy Conversion and Porn Addiction Recovery StoryMore EpisodesNo More Desire

All Black Men Need Therapy
Ep.101 Clip: Is it chemistry or are you fantasizing it?

All Black Men Need Therapy

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2024 1:13


Chief, Bell and Prentice discuss the idea of romanticizing chemistry instead of there actually being chemistry. Support the showhttps://www.abmnt.com

Boomer & Gio
Fantasizing About Sam Darnold As Super Bowl MVP

Boomer & Gio

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2024 1:08


Lit AF
134. Are you fantasizing about your ex? Here's how to stop.

Lit AF

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2023 18:31


Are you spending alot of time fantasizing about your ex? Do you wish they would call or you could get back together? Are you the one that did the breaking up and you're still thinking about them? It might be surprising to hear that this is actually common. In this episode I share a few sneaky ways your brain might be fantasizing about your ex without you even realizing it, hello Instagram stories! The good news is that your brain is both really smart and also really simple. You'll learn a few tools to help your brain stop thinking about your ex, for good, that don't involve willpower or a social media strike.If you're interested in overcoming old relationship patterns like people pleasing, codependency, and lack of boundaries book a free discovery call to see if my 1:1 coaching program is the right fit for you. Here's the link to book: https://calendly.com/hello-3224/getting-to-secure-consult-callFollow Lit AF on Instagram: @itsmesarahcohan.comVisit the Lit AF Website: https://www.sarahcohan.com/

The Horny Housewife
150- fantasizing about ex's, in search of more sexual experiences, a lying ass boyfriend, & getting off to her past.

The Horny Housewife

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2023 55:39


Get cozy today it's all about whats going on behind your closed doors. Like audio erotica? Join the Patreon. Ask Anonymously at www.thehornyhousewifepodcast.com EveryPlate: Get your first box for $1.49 per meal going to Everyplate.com/podcast and using code "49housewife" Beducated: Use code "JORDYN" to get 24 hours ALL ACCESS + 40% yearly subscription at https://beducate.me/pd2338-jordyn Fusion CBD Products: Go to FusionCBDproducts.com and use code "HORNY20" to get 20% off your order. Advertising: admin@pleasurepodcasts.com Collabs: thehornyhouswewifepod@gmail.com

XO Higher Self
Rewind Ep: Why Am I Still Fantasizing About My Ex And What Does It Mean For My Current Relationship?

XO Higher Self

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2023 16:45


Bunny returns to a listener question that was originally aired in episode 56, reflects on their answer and adds new commentary.  Want to submit a question to Bunny or listener response to be featured on a future episode? There are 3 options for sending in your question. Option 1: Write question on this form: https://www.bunnymichael.com/xo-higherself-podcast-1 Option 2: Record a voice memo and email it to xohigherself@gmail.com.  Option 3: Leave us a voice mail at 740-481-1216. For ad-free episodes and bonus content, including bi–weekly bonus episodes subscribe to our Patreon at Patreon.com/xohigherself or sign up as an Apple subscriber. Theme music composed by Michael Beharie Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Read Me Romance
FLESHING IT OUT by Karla Doyle

Read Me Romance

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2023 116:45


LAURA When my son asks if I'll rent the spare bedroom to his new friend from work, I figure, why not? The house is too quiet since my twenty-five-year-old baby moved out. I never thought I'd miss the sounds of video games, but apparently, I do. But that's not the background noise I get when Hudson moves in. Turns out, my son's coworker isn't a like-minded gaming geek. Hudson doesn't play video games. He works out. A lot. Now my house is filled with the masculine grunting of a very fit, very handsome, younger man who owns shirts, but isn't inclined to wear them. Ditto for pants. Everywhere I turn in my tiny house, Hudson is there. Flexing. Smoldering. I can't resist looking at him. Or using him for inspiration while I write my current romance novel. Fantasizing about him when I'm lying in my bed. He's my tenant. My son's coworker. A man fifteen years younger than me. Hudson is fodder for my mind, but that's all he can be… until the night he puts every fantasy I've had to shame. HUDSON House hunting is a slow process, and hotel living sucks, so I jump at the opportunity to temporarily rent a room from my coworker's mother. I'm told the place is clean, and the woman is easy to get along with. Perfect. What the guy across the office doesn't tell me? That his mom is ten-out-of-ten hot. Single. And sexual, if the sounds seeping through the paper-thin wall separating our bedrooms are any indication. I'm not a pushy guy, but a man has his limits. Being perpetually hard around her, hearing her moan every night—it's more than I can take. So I make a move. A big one. And it pays off, in the best ways possible. Our chemistry is red hot. We connect outside the bedroom, too. I'm only supposed to be here temporarily, but every minute I spend with Laura makes me determined never to leave. Get the eBook Now: https://amzn.to/3ow8QKU Hope Harbor Series: https://bit.ly/43SlKDi Giveaway: https://bit.ly/41wE2rZ Once Upon a Beast: https://amzn.to/3N1t6hz More Karla Doyle: https://www.karladoyle.com/ ♥ ♥ ♥ RMR Website: https://bit.ly/3ifFIyw Weekly New Release: https://bit.ly/30iDete READ ME ROMANCE - Patreon: https://bit.ly/3IYk16H Follow Read Me Romance on Instagram: https://geni.us/uUVdVeY Join Read Me Romance Headquarters on FB: https://geni.us/IdL7B Read Me Romance Theme Song by L.B. Ballard Podcast Production by Lola

Read Me Romance
Podcast Episode 208: FLESHING IT OUT by Karla Doyle

Read Me Romance

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2023 116:45


LAURA When my son asks if I'll rent the spare bedroom to his new friend from work, I figure, why not? The house is too quiet since my twenty-five-year-old baby moved out. I never thought I'd miss the sounds of video games, but apparently, I do. But that's not the background noise I get when Hudson moves in. Turns out, my son's coworker isn't a like-minded gaming geek. Hudson doesn't play video games. He works out. A lot. Now my house is filled with the masculine grunting of a very fit, very handsome, younger man who owns shirts, but isn't inclined to wear them. Ditto for pants. Everywhere I turn in my tiny house, Hudson is there. Flexing. Smoldering. I can't resist looking at him. Or using him for inspiration while I write my current romance novel. Fantasizing about him when I'm lying in my bed. He's my tenant. My son's coworker. A man fifteen years younger than me. Hudson is fodder for my mind, but that's all he can be… until the night he puts every fantasy I've had to shame. HUDSON House hunting is a slow process, and hotel living sucks, so I jump at the opportunity to temporarily rent a room from my coworker's mother. I'm told the place is clean, and the woman is easy to get along with. Perfect. What the guy across the office doesn't tell me? That his mom is ten-out-of-ten hot. Single. And sexual, if the sounds seeping through the paper-thin wall separating our bedrooms are any indication. I'm not a pushy guy, but a man has his limits. Being perpetually hard around her, hearing her moan every night—it's more than I can take. So I make a move. A big one. And it pays off, in the best ways possible. Our chemistry is red hot. We connect outside the bedroom, too. I'm only supposed to be here temporarily, but every minute I spend with Laura makes me determined never to leave. Get the eBook Now: https://amzn.to/3ow8QKU Hope Harbor Series: https://bit.ly/43SlKDi Giveaway: https://bit.ly/41wE2rZ Once Upon a Beast: https://amzn.to/3N1t6hz More Karla Doyle: https://www.karladoyle.com/ ♥ ♥ ♥ RMR Website: https://bit.ly/3ifFIyw Weekly New Release: https://bit.ly/30iDete READ ME ROMANCE - Patreon: https://bit.ly/3IYk16H Follow Read Me Romance on Instagram: https://geni.us/uUVdVeY Join Read Me Romance Headquarters on FB: https://geni.us/IdL7B Read Me Romance Theme Song by L.B. Ballard Podcast Production by Lola

The GaryVee Audio Experience
Stop Fantasizing About Yesterday and Focus on The Technologies of NOW

The GaryVee Audio Experience

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2022 15:42 Very Popular


Today's episode of the GaryVee Audio Experience is a best moments of the Digital Ascendant Fireside Chat I did recently! We discussed why we should care about the current NFT space, building a brand, why people struggle with the concept of Web 3, the difference between cryptocurrency and NFTs, why I want you to do your 50 hours of homework on NFTs, and how NFTs are more stable than the currency. Enjoy! Let me know what you thought. Check out my new NFT project: veefriends.com Join the VeeFriends Discord: https://discord.gg/veefriends Tweet Me! @garyvee Text Me! 212-931-5731 My Newsletter: garyvee.com/newsletter