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Xia and Nish host three weekly podcasts: Deep Dive Dater™; So Help Me Pod!™, and Slayed™ (Coming Soon!). Deep Dive Dater™ : Ever feel like online dating is like a never ending journey through the twilight zone? Join Xia and Nish as we explore the ups an


    • Mar 11, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
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    • 41m AVG DURATION
    • 23 EPISODES


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    Finale Here We Come! (AKA You're a Trooper)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2021 78:44


    Xia and Nish finally make it to the Season 1 finale despite many obstacles, the hosts reflect on the crazy journey of their first season by sharing the lessons they have learned. Xia drinks too much on an empty stomach and grapples with how to pronounce "culminate." Nish learns what a "DM" is and confesses that her tongue is actually too big for her mouth. Support this podcast

    Go Forth, Confident Dater Part 2 (AKA A Dimple is a Good Wrinkle)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2021 36:52


    Xia and Nish continue the confident dater convo with Kylie McDonald, the host of the Chapter Twenty - Something podcast. Xia admits she is accidentally sexy, Nish explains that she's a "touch me not", the girls discuss sexy moves for each gender and examine what confident people do differently. Support this podcast

    Go Forth, Confident Dater Part 1 (AKA Are We Old and Stale?)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2021 42:02


    Xia and Nish welcome Kylie McDonald, the host of the Chapter Twenty - Something Podcast. The girls dish on why confidence matters, how to boost it and evaluate if dating is different in your 20"s verses 40's. Support this podcast

    Communication Please Part 2 (AKA I'm a One Finger Texter)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2021 39:22


    Xia continues harping on her communication woes with the Blue Diamond, Nish ponders if Xia was being held at arm's length on purpose and the hosts give their best communication tips to help you slay the dating world. Support this podcast

    Communication Please Part 1 (AKA Bye Bye Clint Eastwood)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2021 41:13


    Communication is not as easy as you think! Xia is on the stuggle bus as she stumbles her way through the communication episode, Nish gives her take on why guys blow off dates and the hosts analyze in detail why Xia's last dating scenario failed. Support this podcast

    Ask Me Something Part 2 (AKA What the Hell is a Dried Egg?)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2021 47:25


    More wine and more funny conversation ensues as the hosts continue their game night, Xia schools Nish on "Negging" and Nish makes up a challenge question on the fly after failing to do her homework. Support this podcast

    Ask Me Something Part 1 (AKA Me and Netflix are Like Besties)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2021 53:42


    The hosts sip wine and randomly hit each other with impromptu topics, Xia picks which popular film and tv characters she'd rather date and Nish gives her own personal interpretation of cliche breakup lines. Support this podcast

    Falling for Imperfection (AKA Those Glass Slippers Will Cut You Up)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2021 51:19


    The hosts talk about why you shouldn't try to snag a "perfect" person, Xia warns against being a picky ass dater and Nish debunks the Cinderella Syndrome while encouraging a wabi sabi mindset. Support this podcast

    Know Your Worth (AKA Heigh Ho, It's Off to Therapy We Go)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2021 50:18


    Xia and Nish welcome their first guest, Counselor Juan Santos. The host attempt to act serious (but fail), Xia gets free therapy for some toxic dating scenarios and Nish identifies Xia's kryptonite. Support this podcast

    Wrap'n Up 2020 Part 2 (AKA No Room at the Inn)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2021 42:27


    Xia and Nish tie up some loose ends, Xia investigates cuteness aggression, and Nish shares the one and only New Year's resolution you need for 2021. Support this podcast

    Wrap'n Up 2020 Part 1 (AKA Do I Smell a Hypocrite?)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2020 41:57


    Xia and Nish talk about being podcasters, Xia analyzes her spirit potato and Nish explains why she's hot for "ugly" celebrities. Support this podcast

    Is It Me Part 2 (AKA A Little Miffed)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2020 45:53


    Nish needs to put the wine away, Xia tries to figure out whether she's an old maid or a spinster and the hosts play teacher and student as Xia takes a self-evaluation. Support this podcast

    Is It Me Part 1 (AKA Rack Em In and Rack Em Up)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2020 51:55


    Xia tries to decide if she's the problem when it comes to dating, Nish can't get down with fairy portals and the hosts discuss why it's important to be both reflective and adaptive. Support this podcast

    The Infamous 1st Date Spark (AKA Fizzles Instead of Flies)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2020 48:49


    Are you looking for that initial spark or waiting to see if there is a slow burn? Nish analyzes if the spark is even necessary, Xia begs guys to lose the carpenter pants and the hosts talk about whether you should try to change someone. Connect with us on Instagram! @deepdivedaterpod Support this podcast

    Xia Gets a Do Over (AKA Fishing in a Puddle)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2020 51:52


    Xia gets a second chance to make an impression, Nish learns how to reel in a silver fox and the hosts discuss why personal growth and adequate time investment are important factors for a successful connection. Connect with us on Instagram! @deepdivedaterpod Support this podcast

    Would You or Wouldn't You? (AKA Apply Here)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2020 38:40


    Ever feel like online dating is a never ending journey through the twilight zone? Join Xia and Nish as they explore the bizarre landscape of online dating, examine dating profiles that make you say hmmm, and harness the power of manifestation! Connect with us on Instagram! @deepdivedaterpod Support this podcast

    Bad Dates (AKA Fried Green Beans)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2020 48:33


    Xia is bitter after another bad date, Nish learns the merit of fried green beans and the hosts give their expert fishing advice on how to avoid getting catfished... and being a catfish. Connect with us on Instagram! @deepdivedaterpod Support this podcast

    Quality Over Quantity (AKA Give Me Three Crunchy Tacos)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2020 50:02


    Nish just doesn't get the coffee date, Xia wonders why dating feels like a bull in a china cabinet and the hosts discuss why focusing on quality rather than quantity will lead to better dating and relationship experiences. Connect with us on Instagram! @deepdivedaterpod Support this podcast

    Let Them Go (AKA Hair in a Biscuit)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2020 43:40


    Nish chokes on her wine and the hosts discuss how to know when someone is not right for you, how to tap into your intuition and when to cut that fool loose. Connect with us on Instagram! @deepdivedaterpod Support this podcast

    Deep Dive Dater Trailer

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2020 2:00


    Trailer for the Deep Dive Dater Podcast. Hosts Xia and Nish tell you some of the topics they will delve into in this funny, honest podcast about love, dating and relationships. Connect with us on Instagram! @deepdivedaterpod Support this podcast

    3rd Date Rule (AKA Male Strip Coat Moves Should Come with a Warning)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2020 49:16


    Xia and Nish dispel the myth of the 3rd Date Rule. Xia experiences her first male striptease in her own living room and the hosts give critical advice on developing effective dating communication skills. Connect with us on Instagram! @deepdivedaterpod Support this podcast

    Xia Interview

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2020 2:09


    Nish interviews Xia on why she wanted to do a podcast about love, dating and relationships. Connect with us on Instagram! @deepdivedaterpod Support this podcast

    Nish Interview

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2020 1:32


    Xia interviews Nish on why she wanted to do a podcast about love, dating and relationships. Connect with us on Instagram! @deepdivedaterpod Support this podcast

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