Divorced Dad

DD community, this is our final episode. It's been an honor & pleasure - thank you.

It's been a while, an update on the "once" little ones.

Wow, OMG, amazing, I would have never believed it.Thanks ddad community.

Let's make 2025 the year of being selfless, here's a good reason why.

Let's discuss problems a few of our listeners are facing, and how we can help.......... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

Happy Holidays, some reflection and advice to make yours a great one. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

Divorce and post-divorce have many decisions with significant risk v reward scenarios. Unfortunately, mine seem always to have more risk..... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

This community is built for the listeners. Here are a few of their stories..... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

And with perspective (found in the desert) comes clarity. Now as divorced dads, our clarity is only good til the next bomb - but it is good to finally have some. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

After the cliff-fall with my kid's relationships, some needed travel & time away brought great perspective. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

If it's w/ your children, they're teens & the ex has full custody >>> don't do what I did. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

When your divorce from your ex-wife is official, do you also divorce your children? In some circumstances..............YES :( --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

Happy New Year team What's going on? Where have I been? Let's discuss...................... --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

It's the holiday season divorced dads. No agita or anxiety here - we have some tips on making this season a good & memorable one. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

Is a very fragile surface that appears during difficult and/or serious conversations that divorced dads are terrified of............... --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

Different forms of custody - what I learned - and how it will affect your kids. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

Happy back to school - which brings up the topic of communicating with the kiddos: not easy at all. Here's my take..... --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

This forum has introduced me to some great people going thru the same hell we did. Here are two that let me share some of their stories.......... --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

Our parents, our kid's grandparents. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

Happy Father's Day dads! I wanted to compile my thoughts pre, day of, and post fathers day this year. Not an easy one...................... --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

I get asked this question a lot: do you stay in the town or area you got divorced? The answer has a few layers........ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

BUT - it may not be that easy. "She'll" try to manipulate their time. Here's what I have planned............. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

What do I mean? - divorce is usually either clear cut: cheating, abuse, financial ruin, or harmful to the kids are the no-brainers. Or the grey area of "irreconcilable differences": this is where the divorce scale comes out. I find this is a dangerous area - it allows blatant marriage abandonment: usually masked as "good for the kids" (nope, a kid wrecker) - while pure selfishness is what really fuels it. Where are you on the scale? What kinds of BS did your ex give you to justify her side? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

An episode on my son, The difficulties he had in a bad marriage, and the difficulties he's having post-divorce --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

Is it me?? - or have women changed and has Narcissism gone wild?? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

I found out...............beware. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

The #2 reason for divorce: finance and/or cash issues. Let's examine..... --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

What to do about my 17yr old son? - whose caught in some bad co-parenting --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

What are the hardest things to regain post-divorce? Self-assurance and confidence are top of the list. Let's examine...... --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jeffrey-t-oh/support

and a few 2023 resolutions for us. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support

I wanted to let the DD community know about "the Dream" we're trying to build. Let me know your thoughts..... --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support

Let's discuss "spite" - what it means and how it affects us. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support

What's the best thing that's happened to me since starting this forum? Listening and helping YOU! Here are a few...... --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support

It's holiday time divorced dads: some past perspective and tips handling a dicey time of year. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support

I'm back from my little "hiatus". --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support

That's right team, we've finally reached signing day!! Halleluiah!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support

It's been too long.......... But there's much to share. The holidays were slow, but sometimes slow is fast. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support

Yup, we went into pre-trial optimistic. The light quickly turned to clouds and a raging storm fast Now - we're in a full-fledged $%^&*show --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support

We are here! The old pre-trial is up next. Can this be the end..................my friend? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support

Well my friends, we thought we were at the Endgame. Not so - back into the stinking Infinity Wars (sorry Marvel). But with a plan Stan, it might not be too far off. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support

We had our 2/9 "Remote Resolution Plan" meeting. The foundation is set and the end is near - but my feelings are going haywire. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support

It's 2021, can it be the year of "the decision":). The holidays brought reflection on my relationship with my girls, not in a great state - then last week a glimmer of hope, an email from the state. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support

Happy holidays to all! An update on the "case" and some thoughts on how to best deal during this holiday time. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support

We've waited a long time, but there's finally some movement. I spoke w/ my new "ace" attorney who guided me well. He then reached out to my ex's attorney......................... --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support

Some startling stats around our DD community and a few awesome listener feedback pieces --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support

Here we go folks > I've submitted all my ex's info to my new "sharky" attorney and am waiting for his next advice on a move. It's email refresh all day long. I'll review where we are and what I sent.............. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support

It's been a long summer into fall with no communication or movement and then BAM, an email drop and here we go. Now I prepped for this moment for a while....................will it work? I sure as hell hope so................ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support

July was a full court press to see more of my kids...............I planted a Trojan Horse and it worked:)! And I did a great webinar with the Divorced Dadvocate; https://youtu.be/-pDN-H231rU, plus, got a little insight into my case from the state. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support

I feel as if I have hit the "stall" segment of this show. Crickets from the other side. Do I press the issue or wait patiently? --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support

Sounds like a Star Wars sequel. The last we spoke a key decision was made...........and we were questioning: Did we do the right thing? Whats our next move.? Fear not dads, some solo time during quarantine have brought us to a new, hopefully better direction. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support

I want to thank the divorced dad community for over 100 great questions the past month, here are (3) that stood out - keep em coming! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jeffrey-t-oh/support