Two or More to Tango

In this episode we discuss our swinging adventures at Naughty in N'Awlins 24 and we give away TWO Motorbunny Bucks. Yes, it's been a while (again) but "Life" once again intervened. We also discuss how a fun party with a room full of people became one of the most impressive examples of someone being amazing to help someone struggling with self esteem issues. We hope you enjoy!

A listener who is new to the Swinging Lifestyle asked us if it is wrong to "use" other couples as "Human Sex Toys?" We explore what they meant and whether playing with other couples with no intent of becoming long term friends, but rather purely for the sex, is somehow a bad thing. We also answer another listener's question on whether they are too old for the swinging lifestyle.

In this episode we are very transparent in sharing why we have been so sporadic in the last couple of year publishing episodes. We also talk about some fun stuff and our future plans for a MUCH more adventurous journey in the Lifestye!

How do couples in the swinging lifestyle change in their rules, expectations, play styles, etc. as they gain experience? We chat with our good friends Nick and Nora as we discuss what couples told us about how they've evolved in their swinging lifestyle journey.Mentioned in this episode: our favorite place for purchasing and advice on sex toys and accessories and more:www.casualtoys.com

The Swinging Lifestyle can be a tricky thing to maneuver, and, especially when you're first starting, it's easy to have no success in connecting with other likeminded couples or singles and wonder what you're doing wrong. We asked a lot of people in the Lifestyle community for their input on how to fail in the Lifestyle. The result is this podcast; these were the most common responses on how to totally screw it up.

We interview @notyouraveragemr and @notyouraveragemrs, a VERY hot couple who have been in the swinging lifestyle for just about a year (though together for a much longer time!) We talk about their very active first year in the Swinging Lifestyle!

We talk about our fun times at Naughty in Nawlins 22! A fun Sybian and Motorbunny Buck Party, Jay and Angie getting on stage at The Cat's Meow on Bourbon St. and giving us all a Karaoke show, and much more. We also have our Toy of the Month review and we will be giving two of these away to two lucky listeners! Mentioned in this episode:www.averageswingers.comwww.casualswinger.comwww.casualtoys,com@swingerdiaries (Twitter)@ready2jam1 (Twitter)@NotYourAverageMrs (Twitter)

This is a a special pre-Naughty in N'Awlins 2022 episode we recorded during a break in packing! We just wanted to let any listeners who will be there know how to connect with us and share a Titos or your favorite adult beverage. This will be our 7th Naughty in N'Awlins; we had a break in 2020 and 2021.Podcasts mentioned in this episode:Swinger Diaries (no longer online!)casualswinger.comaverageswingers.com

A couple with a strong religious background shares their journey, and struggles as the entered the Swinging Lifestyle and how they progressed from feeling guilty at softswap to full gang bangs.Sites mentioned:www.casualtoys.com

We're back and talking sex toys with the couple from Casual Toys (and the Casual Swinger podcast.) They know more about sex toys than anyone we know, and they tell us things everyone who uses sex toys should know. Oh, and a huge Bad Dragon dildo at 45,000 feet in the sky is not the funniest thing in this podcast!Links you should follow:https://www.casualtoys.com

It's Sex Game Night with our good friends Nick and Nora! We intended to publish this several months ago but we had some life interruptions, but better late than never! We always have a great, fun, sexy time with these two. We took The Game of Lifestyle card game that you hear a lot about in LS podcast and created a modified version for the 4 of us. We hope you enjoy listening as much as we enjoyed playing!

We finally publish our review of the Motorbunny Buck; the short version is that Mrs. Tango likes it. A lot. And we've just scratched the surface of what it can do. The big news is that Mrs. Tango is finally back home again after a LOT of "Life Stiff." So we talk some about Life vs. The Lifestyle when big life events take over your life.

Ever wonder what the swinging lifestyle is like in other countries? With Mrs Tango away on a family emergency, the smart and funny Cate from Wanderlust Swingers (AKA Swinging Down Under) cohosts this episode with Mr. Tango. She and her husband have lived in a wide variety of places in the world and they have traveled the globe, getting a taste of the lifestyle experience in different countries and cultures. We also talk about the LS culture in general, "Red Flags" for LS newbies (and experienced swingers!) and Cate talks about the Podcast-a-Palooza encore coming up in Dallas in November. Links: https://podcast-a-palooza.com https://www.swingingdownunder.com

In Part 2 of our series on Sexual Fantasies, we chat with Cory and Jeni from Episode 30, BDSM Surprise, and Tif and Rachel from Sapphic Swingers, and chat about their good and bad experiences living out their sexual fantasies, as well as those that are still on the “to do” list. Of course, we don't stay on topic the entire time! Lots of sexy and funny from these 4! sapphicswingers.com

In this two part episode, we interview 4 fun and sex couples and let them talk about their sexual fantasies: the ones they've experienced, the ones still on the “Not yet” list, and which fantasies met or exceeded expectations and which ones were disappointing. In Part 1 we talk with Ams and Kat from the 2Hotwives podcast and Andi and Dave from Double Date Nation.  

In Part 2 of our series on Sexual Fantasies, we chat with Cory and Jeni from Episode 30, BDSM Surprise, and Tif and Rachel from Sapphic Swingers, and chat about their good and bad experiences living out their sexual fantasies, as well as those that are still on the “to do” list. Of course, we don’t stay on topic the entire time! Lots of sexy and funny from these 4! The post Episode 34 Sexual Fantasies Part 2 appeared first on Two or More To Tango.

In this two part episode, we interview 4 fun and sex couples and let them talk about their sexual fantasies: the ones they’ve experienced, the ones still on the “Not yet” list, and which fantasies met or exceeded expectations and which ones were disappointing. In Part 1 we talk with Ams and Kat from the 2Hotwives podcast and Andi and Dave from Double Date Nation.   The post Episode 33 Sexual Fantasies Part 1 appeared first on Two or More To Tango.

We’re back! And for our relaunch we are joined by Jay and Angie of @Averageswinger and Mr and Mrs Ready2Jam. After a year on hiatus due to a major life disruption, we’re happy to join you all again. This one is a bit of a party with mics, as we discuss our Lifestyle likes, dislikes, the Lifestyle in a world of COVID, and a lot of alcohol fueled rambling. Podcasts mentioned in this podcast: @Averageswingers […] The post Episode 32 Six or More to Tango appeared first on Two or More To Tango.

We're back! And for our relaunch we are joined by Jay and Angie of @Averageswinger and Mr and Mrs Ready2Jam. After a year on hiatus due to a major life disruption, we're happy to join you all again. This one is a bit of a party with mics,

Episode 31 Ladies of Lifestyle LOL Part 1 While at Naughty in N'Awlins several female swinger podcasters got together in a hotel room and had a few drinks and discussed a variety of lifestyle topics, from a female point of view. In this episode, we share part 1 of that discussion. Part 2 will be released in Bonus Episode 78 of The Swinger Diaries on September 9th, and Part 3 will be released in Episode 115 of Average Swingers on September 16th. Podcasts mentioned in this episode: Average Swingers (https://www.averageswingers.com) Swinger Diaries (https://swingerdiaries.podbean.com) The Euphoria Chronicles (https://theeuphoriachronicles.com) Torrid Souls (https://www.torridsouls.com) Royalty Free Music in this episode: Tango by Asteroidsparik Don't You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

While at Naughty in N’Awlins several female swinger podcasters got together in a hotel room and had a few drinks and discussed a variety of lifestyle topics, from a female point of view. In this episode, we share part 1 of that discussion. Part 2 will be released in Bonus Episode 78 of The Swinger Diaries on September 9th, and Part 3 will be released in Episode 115 of Average Swingers on September 16th. Podcasts […] The post Episode 31 Ladies of Lifestyle LOL Part 1 appeared first on Two or More To Tango.

Episode 30 BDSM Surprise If you're like us, a "normal" (whatever that means) swinger couple, we will bet that everything you know about BDSM is wrong. We thought we understood it just from watching it at events, casually talking with people who enjoyed it, etc. However, in this episode, we interview Cory and Jeni, a wonderful couple, and much to our surprise, the entire podcast was about BDSM. Even more surprising, they introduced Mrs. Tango to it. And most surprising of all, she LOVED it! Podcasts mentioned in this episode: We Gotta Thing (at www.wegottathing.com) Royalty Free Music in this episode: Tango by Asteroidsparik Don't You Ever Leave by Mark Cook Try it Like This by William Brooks

If you’re like us, a “normal” (whatever that means) swinger couple, we will bet that everything you know about BDSM is wrong. We thought we understood it just from watching it at events, casually talking with people who enjoyed it, etc. However, in this episode, we interview Cory and Jeni, a wonderful couple, and much to our surprise, the entire podcast was about BDSM. Even more surprising, they introduced Mrs. Tango to it. And most […] The post Episode 30 BDSM Surprise appeared first on Two or More To Tango.

Mrs. Tango is away so Mr. Tango is going solo with this episode, which could prove dangerous. We talk about Mrs. Tango's sensual core persona and reveal her sensual alter ego first name! We talk about podcasts and the risk Swinging Lifestyle podcasters...

Mrs. Tango is away so Mr. Tango is going solo with this episode, which could prove dangerous. We talk about Mrs. Tango’s sensual core persona and reveal her sensual alter ego first name! We talk about podcasts and the risk Swinging Lifestyle podcasters who are not “out” take by doing what we do. There’s an exciting announcement about the amazing podcast that started it all! And Mr. Tango answers listener emails from male listeners asking […] The post Episode 29: One or More to Tango appeared first on Two or More To Tango.

Mrs Tango tells the details of her life in the swinging lifestyle, from her first realization that she is Bi all the way through her full swap group room fun! We've heard from our listeners that they want to hear more from Mrs Tango (Mr Tango does tend...

Mrs Tango tells the details of her life in the swinging lifestyle, from her first realization that she is Bi all the way through her full swap group room fun! We’ve heard from our listeners that they want to hear more from Mrs Tango (Mr Tango does tend to do a lot of the talking!) so here’s a two parter where Mrs Tango opens up and talks about the details of her swinger journey. This […] The post An Intimate Interview with Mrs. Tango Part 2 appeared first on Two or More To Tango.

Mrs Tango tells the details of her life in the swinging lifestyle, from her first realization that she is Bi all the way through her full swap group room fun! We've heard from our listeners that they want to hear more from Mrs Tango (Mr Tango does tend...

Mrs Tango tells the details of her life in the swinging lifestyle, from her first realization that she is Bi all the way through her full swap group room fun! We’ve heard from our listeners that they want to hear more from Mrs Tango (Mr Tango does tend to do a lot of the talking!) so here’s a two parter where Mrs Tango opens up and talks about the details of her swinger journey. This […] The post Episode 27: An Intimate Interview with Mrs Tango Pt1 appeared first on Two or More To Tango.

This is a special episode, with contributions from some of our favorite podcasters! Once you decide to take the plunge and enter the Swinging Lifestyle, how do you actually make your first play connections?

This is a special episode, with contributions from some of our favorite podcasters! Once you decide to take the plunge and enter the Swinging Lifestyle, how do you actually make your first play connections? We had a couple email us and tell us that they had decided to finally make the jump into the Swinging Lifestyle, and they asked us to hold their hands and guide them. We asked the hosts of the podcasts Swinger […] The post Episode 26: A Beginners Guide to First Steps into the Swinging Lifestyle appeared first on Two or More To Tango.

Tonight we answer some of the questions we get from our listeners about the Swinging Lifestyle. “Why do we have a hard time connecting with other couples at huge events?” “I'm a woman and a female friend of mine said she'd like to try G/G play for the ...

Tonight we answer some of the questions we get from our listeners about the Swinging Lifestyle. “Why do we have a hard time connecting with other couples at huge events?” “I’m a woman and a female friend of mine said she’d like to try G/G play for the first time with me, but without her husband’s knowledge?” “If we only play once in a while, are we still considered to be part of the Lifestyle?” […] The post Episode 25: Listener Questions about the Swinging Lifestyle appeared first on Two or More To Tango.

Tori and Soul of Torrid Souls are different: a female couple in which both members are bisexual. They are also funny, sexy, articulate, and they have a new podcast called Torrid Souls in which they will discuss their swinging lifestyle adventures.

Tori and Soul of Torrid Souls are different: a female couple in which both members are bisexual. They are also funny, sexy, articulate, and they have a new podcast called Torrid Souls in which they will discuss their swinging lifestyle adventures. We met them in Naughty in N’Awlins 2018 and immediately hit it off with them, and made them promise to let us interview them when they were ready to release their podcast. The podcast […] The post Episode 24: An Interview with Torrid Souls appeared first on Two or More To Tango.

In this episode we talk about our fun times at Naughty in N'Awlins 2018! From sexy times with sexy couples to a fun party with dueling Sybians, it was an event to remember! Podcasts mentioned in this episode: Average Swingers Sex Uninterrupted The Swinger Diaries We Gotta Thing Royalty Free Music in this Episode Tango by Asteroidsparik Don't You Ever Leave by Mark Cook Kick Off Your Shoes by Loco Zydeco Into the Night by Loco Zydeco

In this episode we talk about our fun times at Naughty in N’Awlins 2018! From sexy times with sexy couples to a fun party with dueling Sybians, it was an event to remember! Podcasts mentioned in this episode: Average Swingers Sex Uninterrupted The Swinger Diaries We Gotta Thing Royalty Free Music in this Episode Tango by Asteroidsparik Don’t You Ever Leave by Mark Cook Kick Off Your Shoes by Loco Zydeco Into the Night by […] The post Episode 23: Naughty in N’awlins 2018 appeared first on Two or More To Tango.

In this episode we interview Bunny from Sybian! She is the daughter of the man who invented the Sybian, over 30 years ago. If you listen to our podcast, you know how much we love our Sybian and the adventures we've had with it, especially letting ladies who've never experienced riding one get their first ride! We talk to Bunny about how the Sybian was invented, who were the women who first tested it, and more. We also talk about our upcoming trip to Naughty in N'awlins 2018 (we're on the way there now!) and yes, we are bringing our newly recovered Ruby Red Sybian with us! Podcasts mentioned in this episode: We Gotta Thing Average Swingers Swinger Diaries Sapphic Swingers Royalty Free Music in this episode: Tango by Asteroidsparik Made for Two by Robin Stine Don't You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

In this episode we interview Bunny from Sybian! She is the daughter of the man who invented the Sybian, over 30 years ago. If you listen to our podcast, you know how much we love our Sybian and the adventures we’ve had with it, especially letting ladies who’ve never experienced riding one get their first ride! We talk to Bunny about how the Sybian was invented, who were the women who first tested it, and […] The post Episode 22: Interview with Bunny from Sybian appeared first on Two or More To Tango.

The Swinging Lifestyle is supposed to be all about acceptance, the one place where you can feel safe being honest about who you are. Yet we contend there is significant bias in the swinging Lifestyle when it comes to Bisexuality. Many women tell us that if they don't put Bi or Bi-Curious in their profiles, they significantly less interest. Worse, many women tell us that, even if they say they are straight, they still feel pressure to play with other women, as if there is something wrong with them if they don't enjoy F/F play. But it's much worse on the side of men. While Mr. Tango is not Bi, many couples have told us that, if the man says in his profile that he is Bi or Bi curious, even though he may say that is completely optional, the number of couples willing to play with them plummets. We also give all manner of signals that, while women playing with women is expected and welcome and hot, no one in the LS wants to SEE a Bi man interacting with another man. Many clubs ban that activity in public rooms, and it's just understood in the LS that such play is not acceptable where others can see it (unless in a specially designated and segregated Bi Male Couples playroom.) We love that our Swinging Lifestyle is so open to everyone and every kink. But we feel like we need to talk about this bias, and yes, bigotry, in the Lifestyle that prides itself on being so open and accepting. Podcasts mentioned in this podcast: Average Swingers Royalty Free Music in this podcast Tango by Asteroidsparik Spanish Dance no 2 (Oriental) by Daniel Estrem Living The Lie by Big Bad Sun Don't You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

The Swinging Lifestyle is supposed to be all about acceptance, the one place where you can feel safe being honest about who you are. Yet we contend there is significant bias in the swinging Lifestyle when it comes to Bisexuality. Many women tell us that if they don’t put Bi or Bi-Curious in their profiles, they significantly less interest. Worse, many women tell us that, even if they say they are straight, they still feel […] The post Episode 21: Bisexuality Bias in the Swinging Lifestyle appeared first on Two or More To Tango.

You and your partner show up to a big Lifestyle event, or a Lifestyle resort, or maybe a house party or a club. You don't know anyone, but people in the Lifestyle are open and welcoming, right? But everyone seems to be standing or sitting with others, laughing and having a great time. You feel like you're on the outside looking in. And you decide that the Lifestyle is filled with cliques. But we're like to convince you that the Lifestyle IS the most open and welcoming bunch of people you'll ever meet. In this episode we discuss what can look like cliques in swinger events, how simple it is to feel welcome and included, and what experienced swingers can do to make sure newbies don't feel on the outside looking in. We'll also talk about our trip to the Average Swingers Pub Crawl for Charity, our misadventures with a large suction cup dildo, and an appendage that looked like a large forearm (it wasn't!) And we included a short congrats Snapshot to Mr. and Mrs. Jones of We Gotta Thing podcast for their 50th published episode. Podcasts mentioned in this episode: Average Swingers We Gotta Thing Royalty Free Music in this episode Tango by Asteroidsparik Lonely World by Ash Ganley Don't You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

You and your partner show up to a big Lifestyle event, or a Lifestyle resort, or maybe a house party or a club. You don’t know anyone, but people in the Lifestyle are open and welcoming, right? But everyone seems to be standing or sitting with others, laughing and having a great time. You feel like you’re on the outside looking in. And you decide that the Lifestyle is filled with cliques. But we’re like […] The post Episode 20: Cliques in the Lifestyle appeared first on Two or More To Tango.

In this episode we talk about the top 10 Lifestyle newbie mistakes. You've either made them yourselves or encountered them in another couple! In addition, we ask for some help with Mrs. Tango's first single male experience: How do you find a good single man to add to your play? We also correct our info from last podcast on the upcoming Average Swingers pub crawl. Podcasts mentioned in this episode: Average Swingers Swinging Down Under Royalty Free Music in this episode: Tango by Asteroidsparik You Can't Keep a Good Man Down by Mike Goudreau Jazz Band Don't You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

In this episode we talk about the top 10 Lifestyle newbie mistakes. You’ve either made them yourselves or encountered them in another couple! In addition, we ask for some help with Mrs. Tango’s first single male experience: How do you find a good single man to add to your play? We also correct our info from last podcast on the upcoming Average Swingers pub crawl. Podcasts mentioned in this episode: Average Swingers Swinging Down Under […] The post Episode 19: Top 10 Lifestyle Newbie Mistakes appeared first on Two or More To Tango.

Whether you are going to a lifestyle resort, a lifestyle event, a house party, or just meeting a couple for the first time that you've been chatting with online, you can't help but have expectations. And if you're not careful, those expectations can ruin what could have been a good time (even if they weren't met!) In this episode we discuss managing expectations in the lifestyle. We also recap a visit to our house by some out of town lifestyle friends, and the GREAT time we had! And lastly, we chat about some sexy things we'd like to try in 2018. Podcasts mentioned in this episode: We Gotta Thing Average Swingers Swinger Diaries Royalty Free Music in this podcast: Tango by Asteroidsparik Exceed my Expectations by Emma Wallace Don't You Ever Leave by Mark Cook

Whether you are going to a lifestyle resort, a lifestyle event, a house party, or just meeting a couple for the first time that you’ve been chatting with online, you can’t help but have expectations. And if you’re not careful, those expectations can ruin what could have been a good time (even if they weren’t met!) In this episode we discuss managing expectations in the lifestyle. We also recap a visit to our house by […] The post Episode 18: Expectations in the Lifestyle appeared first on Two or More To Tango.

If you're on Twitter and follow LS posters, you have probably seen posts by a very sexy couple who go by the handle @FunItalianCpl. We were lucky enough to have met them while we were at Naughty in N'Awlins, and the four of us had a fun, sexy discussion one afternoon. They were gracious enough to allow us to air that interview on our podcast, and we think you'll really enjoy listening to this hot couple! Podcasts mentioned in this episode: Average Swingers We Gotta Thing The Swinger Diaries Royalty free music in this podcast: Tango by Asteroidsparik Never Say Goodbye by Robin Stine Tell Me a Story by Big Bad Sun

If you’re on Twitter and follow LS posters, you have probably seen posts by a very sexy couple who go by the handle @FunItalianCpl. We were lucky enough to have met them while we were at Naughty in N’Awlins, and the four of us had a fun, sexy discussion one afternoon. They were gracious enough to allow us to air that interview on our podcast, and we think you’ll really enjoy listening to this hot […] The post Episode 17: Our Interview with @FunItalianCpl appeared first on Two or More To Tango.

FINALLY, we get to tell you about the rest of our adventure at this years Naughty in N’awlins! This is Friday through Sunday, and once again we had enough to talk about that this is a long episode. In part 2, we discuss a very hot couple we met and how Mrs. Tango and the wife from this couple generated amazing heat (even for New Orleans!) This lady should be in the Sybian hall of fame (you’ll hear why!) We had a very unexpected but very hot encounter in the group room. And we talk about some of our favorite podcasters. Podcasts mentioned in this episode: Average Swingers We Gotta Thing Swingercast The Unicorn Report Royalty Free Music in this episode: Tango by Asteroidsparik Never Say Goodbye by Robin Stine Follow @2ormoretotango !function(d,s,id) { var js,fjs=d.getElementsByTagName(s)[0]; if(!d.getElementById(id)) { js=d.createElement(s); js.id=id;js.src="//platform.twitter.com/widgets.js"; fjs.parentNode.insertBefore(js,fjs); } } (document,"script","twitter-wjs");

FINALLY, we get to tell you about the rest of our adventure at this years Naughty in N’awlins! This is Friday through Sunday, and once again we had enough to talk about that this is a long episode. In part 2, we discuss a very hot couple we met and how Mrs. Tango and the wife from this couple generated amazing heat (even for New Orleans!) This lady should be in the Sybian hall of […] The post Episode 16: Naughty in N’awlins 2017 PT2 appeared first on Two or More To Tango.