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CoupleUp has soft launched in the San Francisco Bay Area, so if you're nearby go sign up at CoupleUpNow.com! Continuing to share updates as I build.  Want to come on the show when I resume Q&A with ladies? Email greg AT debugdating DOT com   Here's what I talk about in the episode: Last week was challenging. I'm feeling a bit depressed today; definitely was yesterday as well. And there's some good things, so I want to share those, too. Since I've mentioned before that I struggled with depression, I want to talk about that. Not just pretend everything's amazing. My counselor frequently reminds me to not just focus on the negatives, as I have a tendency to do.

Changed the name of the dating app to CoupleUp! And we've launched in the San Francisco Bay Area, so if you're nearby go sign up at CoupleUpNow.com This is another update as I build, and I'm looking for people to come on, to resume the dating Q&A. Want to be an anonymous guest? Go to DebugDating.com/questions   Here's what I talk about: Feeling overwhelmed with too many directions to go in Continuing to work on positioning to explain *why* this is different from all the other dating apps Soft launch Launching in San Diego next month Ideas for rewarding people who invite their friends You can also follow along on the journey on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoupleUpNow Or Twitter: https://twitter.com/CoupleUpDating    Submit your questions or Come on the Show! DebugDating.com/questions   Subscribe to not miss an episode: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn Help others find the podcast: a rating or review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher helps others find it.

It's been a while since I released an episode -- because I'm building a dating app! It's specifically for finding Long Term Relationships. Tentatively calling it Bubble Dating -- changed the name to CoupleUp!     Here's what I talk about: It's been nearly three weeks, because I've been struggling with my depression Still nervous about discussing depression and challenges of building publicly Friends have said that my discussing it openly helped them And openness and compassion is what I want in the dating community I'm building Challenge 1: Apple rejected all my TestFlight builds for bugs, and then Monday's build as “dating app spam” I got really angry and depressed My counselor helped by encouraging me to privately tantrum out anger and sadness Found out Apple says "App Store has enough fart, burp, flashlight, fortune telling, dating, and Kama Sutra apps, etc. already. We will reject these apps unless they provide a unique, high-quality experience." And that apps “submitted for beta distribution via TestFlight should be intended for public distribution” Oops. I've only built individual features to test! Still, it seems stupid to only allow testing a full fledged app. Entered a 30 second pitching competition and took 2nd place! Challenge 2: taking critique very personally :( Apple's rejections, obviously Other people I pitch the idea to Taking the rest of Christmas Eve off, as well as Christmas Day If you celebrate it, have a Merry Christmas 

It's been a while since I released an episode -- because I'm building a dating app! It's specifically for finding Long Term Relationships. Tentatively calling it http://bubble.dating/ Once a week you get on video and go on 5-minute video dates. Each week's event is $10. It's also about having compassion for each other, something very much missing from other dating apps. For now I'm testing it in the San Francisco Bay Area. Want to try it out? Use code "podcast" for $2 off.    Submit your questions or Come on the Show! DebugDating.com/questions   Subscribe to not miss an episode: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn Help others find the podcast: a rating or review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher helps others find it.

How can we date during the Coronavirus pandemic, aka COVID-19? 35-year-olds Z and C answer questions about how they're dating during this era of face masks, sheltering in place, and social distancing. Submit your questions or Come on the Show! DebugDating.com/questions   This episode covers: - Are your expectations of guys' efforts to date you, higher or lower than prior to the quarantine? - What are your top 2 languages of love? - What are the types of video dates? e.g. normally we have coffee dates, dinner dates, hiking dates, etc - Would you feel comfortable giving him your address to be able to get the delivery, if he sent you a meal? - What do you look for on someone's instagram? What stands out? What's meh? - If you're having sex, has anything changed about it? - Any last things you really appreciate when guys do?   Submit your questions or Come on the Show! DebugDating.com/questions   Subscribe to not miss an episode: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn Help others find the podcast: a rating or review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher will help more people find the show

How can we date during the Coronavirus pandemic, aka COVID-19? 35-year-olds Z and C answer questions about how they're dating during this era of face masks, sheltering in place, and social distancing. Submit your questions or Come on the Show! DebugDating.com/questions   This episode covers: - What's the first dating thing you're going to do when quarantine is over? - In terms of priority level, what level was dating before, and how has it changed now? - Have you changed your distance or started chatting with people from farther away as a result of quarantine? Why? - What are you looking for from men you match with online? How has the coronavirus changed that? - Are you more attracted to optimists or realists? Has that changed since before the coronavirus? - Is it easier or harder for you to feel more comfortable with a guy right now, since it's harder to meet up at present? - Normally how long would you want to wait to go on a first date? And now with the Shelter-in-place, how long are you willing to forgo meeting the guy in person? - Are you thinking about breaking quarantine to meet in person and be intimate? - How would you rate your sex drive, compared to the average woman's? - Do you want sex more or less as a result of the current situation?    Submit your questions or Come on the Show! DebugDating.com/questions   Subscribe to not miss an episode: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn Help others find the podcast: a rating or review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher will help more people find the show

Bonus episode for women. The ladies on the last interview asked for advice for themselves, so I thought I'd share that with you. Please email me and let me know what you think of the episode! I'm greg@debugdating.com. If you'd be interested in hearing more episodes where men answer your questions, email me that as well.    This episode covers: - What is your advice to me? Can you help me be better on a zoom date? - Articulating your desires - From a male perspective, what vibe are you looking for when you go on a virtual date? Is that different from an in-person date? - How do you have a date where you can see how they really look 360, and you can show your whole physical self without being crass?      Enjoyed the episode? Help others find the podcast! It only takes 30 seconds to write a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to not miss an episode: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

Once COVID-19 hit, I knew I wanted to restart this podcast. Like many of my friends, I'm sure you're wondering how to date right now. So pardon the lower quality audio of my guests! How can we date during the Coronavirus (aka COVID-19)? S and D answer your questions about how they're dating during this era of pandemic (part 2) Submit your questions! DebugDating.com/questions This episode covers: - Do you want sex more or less as a result of the current situation? - What are the types of video dates? e.g. normally we have coffee dates, dinner dates, hiking dates, etc - What are your expectations for a video date? - Are you thinking about breaking quarantine to meet in person and be intimate? - If a man suggested breaking quarantine to be intimate, how would you react? Or, what would you want to have happened, to be comfortable with that? - If you're having sex, has anything changed about it? - What do you look for on someone's instagram? What stands out? What's meh? - What are your top 2 languages of love? - How have you evolved in your dating preferences from 20 to 30? - How would you rate your sex drive, compared to the average woman's?     Enjoyed the episode? Help others find the podcast! It only takes 30 seconds to write a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to not miss an episode: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

Once COVID-19 hit, I knew I wanted to restart this podcast. Like many of my friends, I'm sure you're wondering how to date right now. So pardon the lower quality audio of my guests! How can we date during the Coronavirus pandemic, aka COVID-19? S and D answer your questions about how they're dating during this era of face masks, sheltering in place, and social distancing. Submit your questions! DebugDating.com/questions This episode covers: - What's the first dating thing you're going to do when quarantine is over? - In terms of priority level, what level was dating before, and how has it changed now? - Have you changed your distance or started chatting with people from farther away as a result of quarantine? Why? - What are you looking for from men you match with online? How has the coronavirus changed that? - Is it easier or harder for you to feel more comfortable with a guy right now, since it's harder to meet up at present? - Are you more attracted to optimists or realists? Has that changed since before the coronavirus? - Normally how long would you want to wait to go on a first date? And now with the Shelter-in-place, how long are you willing to forgo meeting the guy in person?     Enjoyed the episode? Help others find the podcast! It only takes 30 seconds to write a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to not miss an episode: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

A (27), J (27), Lauren (37) answer your questions about dating and sex. In the San Francisco Bay Area? I'm hosting two VIP Online Dating deep dives, each limited to 8 people, so I can give you personal attention. During the VIP session we'll: - Debug your profile, including fixing common mistakes you're undoubtedly making - Prioritize the qualities that you want in a date, so you can recognize a match when you meet one - Brainstorm qualities of you that will attract those matches - Upgrade your profile to attract that match, instead of people in general! - Platinum ticket: guaranteed session with me on how to continue iterating Palo Alto: Monday April 29th at 7pm SF: the first Monday of May, June, & July at 7pm If you're serious about getting your online dating working, grab your ticket before they're gone! (You can also get tickets at debugdating.com/vip)   This episode covers: - Outside of online dating, what are the best venues to meet potential partners? - What are your top 2 languages of love? - Guys tend to think gifts [in the Languages of Love] means diamond rings and crazy expensive items. What are some of the gifts that you really appreciated, and why? - How can we tell if she's not interested in us? - After we match, if you follow me on Instagram, what's the next step? Do we talk there, or on the dating app? - After we match, if you don't respond the first time I send a message, should I send another? - What's the best way to get consent? Explicit and direct, or a bit more nuanced? Tell us how you tell us yes. - What's a way you like for a man to create connection on a date? - What kind of aggressiveness do you like in a man, and what kind is scary? - How can a man tell if a woman has a high or low sex drive? - Things you appreciate that men do Get your questions answered: debugdating.com/questions   Enjoyed the episode? Help others find the podcast! It only takes 30 seconds to write a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to not miss an episode: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

A (27), J (27), Lauren (37) answer your questions about dating and sex. In the San Francisco Bay Area? I'm hosting two VIP Online Dating deep dives, each limited to 8 people, so I can give you personal attention. During the VIP session we'll: - Debug your profile, including fixing common mistakes you're undoubtedly making - Determine how to recognize the match you're really looking for - Upgrade your profile to attract that match, instead of women in general! SF: Monday April 1st at 7pm South Bay: Monday April 8th at 7pm If you're serious about getting your online dating working, grab your ticket before they're gone! (You can also get tickets at debugdating.com/vip)   This episode covers: - Do you expect anything different from matches high end of your age range vs the average or low end? - What are the Pros/Cons of Online Dating sites (PoF, OkCupid) vs Apps (e.g. Tinder)? - How do you think men and women experience online dating differently?  - If you could choose any activity for your next first date, what would it be and why? - Do you care how much the guy makes? What if he makes less than you, does that make him less attractive? - If you're 2 dates in and there's still no kiss, would you move on? - Is there an etiquette for when I'm too busy one month, and want to get in touch with an old match to try again? - How does your career/work affect your libido / sex life? - Please rate your sex drive compared to the average woman's. - How long is your ideal sex session (the in and out portion, not the foreplay)? what is the minimum amount of time that is satisfactory? conversely, how much time before it's too long? - What are your biggest turn-ons before sex? - What are your biggest turn-ons during sex? - Which question do you prefer: may I do this, can we do this, or what would you like? - What's your favorite way to have your clitoris touched? Get your questions answered: debugdating.com/questions   Enjoyed the episode? Help others find the podcast! It only takes 30 seconds to write a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to not miss an episode: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

R (36), S (27), and G (26) finish answering your questions about dating and sex. In the SF Bay Area? I'm hosting two VIP Online Dating deep dives, each limited to 8 people, so I can give you personal attention. During the VIP session we'll: - Debug your profile, including fixing common mistakes you're undoubtedly making - Determine how to recognize the match you're really looking for - Upgrade your profile to attract that match, instead of women in general! SF: Monday April 1st at 7pm South Bay: Monday April 8th at 7pm If you're serious about getting your online dating working, grab your ticket before they're gone! (You can also get tickets at debugdating.com/vip)   This episode covers: - Where is your favorite place to be touched for foreplay? How do you like to be touched there? - How do you like to be asked during sex what you like and want (direct, not asking at all and intuitively feeling it out, etc...) - How does it feel as a woman when you want sex more than your partner does, and you can't use that asymmetry to exercise power over him? - Who pays on the first date, what do you prefer? - What do you find attractive about men's bodies? - I love it when my partner squeezes her kegels while we're having sex. Is that something you can do? Do you enjoy it? - Beyond the first time you have sex, how do you like your boyfriend to tell you he wants to, and is excited to, have sex with you that night? - Any last things you really appreciate when guys do? Get your questions answered: debugdating.com/questions   Enjoyed the episode? Help others find the podcast! It only takes 30 seconds to write a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to not miss an episode: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

R (36), S (27), and G (26) answer your questions about dating and sex. In the SF Bay Area? I'm hosting two VIP Online Dating deep dives, each limited to 8 people, so I can give you personal attention. During the VIP session we'll: - Debug your profile, including fixing common mistakes you're undoubtedly making - Determine how to recognize the match you're really looking for - Upgrade your profile to attract that match, instead of women in general! SF: Monday April 1st at 7pm South Bay: Monday April 8th at 7pm If you're serious about getting your online dating working, go to debugdating.com/vip and grab your ticket before they're gone! This episode covers: - What's a good first date activity? What's one that is boring or overdone? - What's the best way to get consent? Explicit and direct, or a bit more nuanced? Tell us how you tell us yes. - What's a way you like for a man to create connection on a date? - What are your top 2 languages of love? - After we match, if you don't respond the first time I send a message, should I send another? - What kind of aggressiveness do you like in a man, and what kind is scary? - Rate your sex drive compared to the average woman's - How do you like to discuss fantasies that aren't mainstream, or might have sensitivities attached to them? - How long is your ideal sex session (the in and out portion, not the foreplay)? What is the minimum amount of time that is satisfactory? conversely, how much time before it's too long? Get your questions answered: debugdating.com/questions     Enjoyed the episode? Help others find the podcast! It only takes 30 seconds to write a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to not miss an episode: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

Stefanie Maegan (28), the host of the Broke Girl Therapy podcast, and Rose McAleese (29) answer your questions! (Part 2 / 2) Get your questions answered: debugdating.com/questions This episode covers: - Beyond the first time you have sex, how do you like your boyfriend to tell you he wants to, and is excited to, have sex with you that night? - When you want to have sex more than your partner does, or your partner wants to have sex more than you do, what do you feel like is the best way to work through that, to talk through that, to deal with it? - How can you tell if she's not interested in you? - Do you enjoy teasing men (like leaning in for a kiss, then pulling back if he leans in)? What do you get out of it? How do you think it feels for us? What's the best way to deal with a woman who's teasing me? - Do you care how much the guy makes? What if he makes less than you, does that make him less attractive? - What's a way you like for a man to create connection on a date? - What are your biggest turn-ons during sex? - Any last things you really appreciate when guys do? Finally, here's Rose's playlist for sex:  https://open.spotify.com/user/1220199229/playlist/51pLZJ7nNCMfJvp29lFC6U?si=vIZTpPFNTouAmDblKJ7SBw   Enjoyed the episode? Help others find the podcast! It only takes 30 seconds to write a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to not miss an episode: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

Stefanie Maegan (28), the host of the Broke Girl Therapy podcast, and Rose McAleese (29) answer your questions! (Part 1 / 2) Get your questions answered: debugdating.com/questions This episode covers: - How would you like to be approached at work? Have you ever been? How did that feel? - What are the Pros/Cons of Online Dating sites (PoF, OkCupid) vs Apps (e.g. Tinder, Bumble)? - If you're 2 dates in and there's still no kiss, would you move on? - What kind of aggressiveness do you like in a man, and what kind is scary? - How can we spot a female profile that is catfishing us? - What do you think is the solution to your work stress affecting your dating and libido? What can men do to help you with that? - Please rate your sex drive compared to the average woman's. - When you're ready to have sex with him, when do you prefer talking about your preferences and desires for sex? In bed before sex, while having sex, outside the bedroom? - There's a phrase "opposites attract". Has that been true in your good relationships? - Which question do you prefer: may I do this, can we do this, or what would you like?   Enjoyed the episode? Help others find the podcast! It only takes 30 seconds to write a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to not miss an episode: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

Note: this episode got messed up on my podcast host, with 2 minutes of silence and a weird speed adjustment (no, I wasn't on helium!) so I've re-uploaded it. Sorry about that -- give it another listen! Z, Janey, and Chloe answer your questions! Office hours, Wednesdays in February @ 1pm Pacific Time: facebook.com/debugdating   Hear your questions get answered! Send them to Greg: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - If a guy isn't interested in you, how would you like him to tell you that? - How can you tell if she's not interested in you? - Do you care how much the guy makes? What if he makes less than you, does that make him less attractive? - Who pays on the first date, what do you prefer? - What behaviors in your partner help you be open and clear with your sexual requests? - How does your career/work affect your dating life? - What do you think is the solution to your work stress affecting your dating and libido? What can men do to help you with that? - Please rate your sex drive compared to the average woman's - How can a man tell if a woman has a high or low sex drive? - Beyond the first time you have sex, how do you like your boyfriend to tell you he wants to, and is excited to, have sex with you that night? - How long is your ideal sex session (not including foreplay)? What is the minimum amount of time that is satisfactory? Conversely, how much time before it's too long?   Enjoyed the episode? Help others find the podcast! It only takes 30 seconds to write a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to not miss an episode: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

Z, Janey, and Chloe answer your questions! Office hours, Wednesdays in February @ 1pm Pacific Time: facebook.com/debugdating   Hear your questions get answered! Send them to Greg: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - What are the first date topics that meaningful and enjoyable for you to talk about? - What are your top 2 languages of love? - Why do women so often just answer with something short ("things are great"), and not even ask a question back to me? (Is this something guys do, too?) - What do you find attractive about men's bodies? - After we match, if you follow me on Instagram, what's the next step? Do we talk there, or on the dating app? - What do you look for on someone's Instagram? What stands out? What's meh? - Do you expect anything different from matches high end of your age range vs the average or low end? - Any strong thoughts/feelings about "how to proceed when established partner is not really into it at the moment but realizes these things go both ways." For example, is "be a good sport" a worthy rule of thumb? If not, what is the preferred rule of thumb? - Any last things you really appreciate when guys do?   Enjoyed the episode? Help others find the podcast! It only takes 30 seconds to write a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to not miss an episode: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

Ms J, BL, and LLJT answer your questions! Office hours, Wednesdays in February @ 1pm Pacific Time: facebook.com/debugdating   Hear your questions get answered! Send them to Greg: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - Do you enjoy teasing men (like leaning in for a kiss, then pulling back if he leans in)? What do you get out of it? How do you think it feels for us? What's the best way to deal with a woman who's teasing me? - Outside of online dating, what are the best venues to meet potential partners? - Who pays on the first date, what do you prefer? - Any last things you really appreciate when guys do?   Enjoyed the episode? Help others find it by writing a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to stay up to date: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

Ms J, BL, and LLJT answer your questions! Workshops: facebook.com/debugDating/events SF: find a date for Valentine's Day LA: Get the first dates you want!  Office hours, Wednesday 1pm PT: facebook.com/debugdating   Hear your questions get answered! Send them to Greg: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - What do you find attractive about men's bodies? - Where is your favorite place to be touched for foreplay? How do you like to be touched there? - What's your favorite way to have your breasts touched? What about your nipples? - Beyond the first time you have sex, how do you like your boyfriend to tell you he wants to, and is excited to, have sex with you that night? - How does it feel as a woman when you want sex more than your partner does? - When you want to have sex more than your partner does, or your partner wants to have sex more than you do, what do you feel like is the best way to work through that, to talk through that, to deal with it?    Enjoyed the episode? Help others find it by writing a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to stay up to date: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

Ms J, BL, and LLJT answer your questions! Workshops: facebook.com/debugDating/events SF: find a date for Valentine's Day LA: Get the first dates you want!  Office hours, Wednesday 1pm PT: facebook.com/debugdating   Hear your questions get answered! Send them to Greg: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - What's a good first date activity? What's one that is boring or overdone?  - If you could choose any activity for your next first date, what would it be and why? - Since it's currently the winter holidays, what first dates are you most excited by? - What's a way you like for a man to create connection on a date? - How does your career/work affect your dating life? - Please rate your sex drive compared to the average woman's. - How often would you like to have sex? - What are your top 2 languages of love? - How does your career/work affect your libido / sex life? - What behaviors in your partner help you be open and clear with your sexual requests? - How do you like to be asked during sex what you like and want?   Enjoyed the episode? Help others find it by writing a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to stay up to date: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

Two frequent travelers, Patricia and Anna answer your questions.   Hear your questions get answered! Send them to Greg: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - What are your biggest turn-ons before sex? - What are your biggest turn-ons during sex? - Please rate your sex drive compared to the average woman's - Outside of online dating, what are the best venues to meet potential partners? - How can you tell if she's not interested in you? - Any last things you really appreciate when guys do? - What are your top 2 languages of love?   Enjoyed the episode? Help others find it by writing a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to stay up to date: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

Two frequent travelers, Patricia and Anna answer your questions.   Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - After we match, if you don't respond the first time I send a message, should I send another? - After we match, if you follow me on Instagram, what's the next step? Do we talk there, or on the dating app? - Who pays on the first date, what do you prefer? - What's a good first date activity? What's one that is boring or overdone? - How have you evolved in your dating preferences from 20 to 30? - How important is it that your partner be emotionally present during sex? If so, what does emotional presence look like to you?   Enjoyed the episode? Help others find it by writing a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to stay up to date: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

Answering your questions about dating and sex we have: - Christina Weber, founder of Deepen - Ozzie Osbourne, a love & relationship coach with a podcast of her own: "The Sexy Shift" Plus Ozzie is collaborating with me to host a dating workshop in LA on January 17th 2019. Get your tickets here: http://bit.ly/laWorkshop Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - What are your biggest turn-ons before sex? - What are your biggest turn-ons during sex? - There's a phrase "opposites attract". Has that been true in your good relationships? - After we match, if you follow me on Instagram, what's the next step? Do we talk there, or on the dating app? - What do you look for on someone's Instagram? What stands out? What's meh? - Outside of online dating, what are the best venues to meet potential partners? - Any last things you really appreciate when guys do?   Enjoyed the episode? Help others find it by writing a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to stay up to date: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

Answering your questions about dating and sex we have: - Christina Weber, founder of Deepen - Ozzie Osbourne, a love & relationship coach with a podcast of her own "The Sexy Shift".  Plus Ozzie is collaborating with me to host a dating workshop in LA on January 17th 2019. Get your tickets here: http://bit.ly/laWorkshop Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - What are the first date topics that meaningful and enjoyable for you to talk about? - What are your top 2 languages of love? - What do you find attractive about men's bodies? - What do you think is the solution to your work stress affecting your dating and libido? What can men do to help you with that? - How long is your ideal sex session (the in and out portion, not the foreplay)? What is the minimum amount of time that is satisfactory? Conversely, how much time before it's too long? - Please rate your sex drive compared to the average woman's. - What behaviors in your partner help you be open and clear with your sexual requests? - How do you like to be asked during sex what you like and want? - How can a man tell if a woman has a high or low sex drive? - What are things that you've found men can do to kick-start your sex drive with them? To create conditions for having that higher interest in sex?   Enjoyed the episode? Help others find it by writing a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to stay up to date: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

Marissa and Ms. X answer your questions about dating and sex.  Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - What's your favorite way to have your breasts touched? What about your nipples? - What's your favorite way to have your clitoris touched? - There's a phrase "opposites attract". Has that been true in your good relationships? - How do you like to be asked during sex what you like and want  - Please rate your sex drive compared to the average woman's. - Any last things you want to tell the guys listening?    Enjoyed the episode? Help others find it by writing a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to stay up to date: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn  

Marissa and Ms. X answer your questions about dating and sex.  Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - How have you evolved in your dating preferences from 20 to 30? - How important is it that your partner be emotionally present during sex? If so, what does emotional presence look like to you? - What are the best conditions for you in wanting sex? Do you want your partner to work for it a little? Can you have sex if you are upset about something with your partner? - How does it feel as a woman when you want sex more than your partner does, and you can't use that asymmetry to exercise power over him? - How does what happens during the day or time period before sex affect your desire or experience for sex? Does your partner teasing you or hinting at sex, such as via texts earlier in the day, make it more enjoyable later?    Enjoyed the episode? Help others find it by writing a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to stay up to date: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

J and Dr. Lanae St. John [ themamasutra.net/biography ] answer your questions about dating and sex.  Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - What's a good first date activity? What's one that is boring or overdone? - What are your top 2 languages of love? - What's a way you like for a man to create connection on a date? - What are the first date topics that meaningful and enjoyable for you to talk about? - Does your career/work affect your dating life? - How can you tell if she's not interested in you? - Please rate your sex drive compared to the average woman's. - Does your career/work affect your libido / sex life? - Outside of online dating, what are the best venues to meet potential partners? - What behaviors in your partner help you be open and clear with your sexual requests? - What are the best conditions for you in wanting sex? - Can you have sex if you are upset about something with your partner? - Any last things you want to tell the guys listening?   Enjoyed the episode? Help others find it by writing a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to stay up to date: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

Lady-bosses Jessica, Hope, and Jen answer your questions about dating and sex. This is the third and final part of our discussion! Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - Do you care how much the guy makes? What if he makes less than you, does that make him less attractive? - How do you think men and women experience online dating differently? (e.g. I think women get 10 times more attention) - Discussion on catfishing, why to use current photos, and in general what to not do in your profile - Any last things you want to tell the guys listening?     Enjoyed the episode? Help others find it by writing a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to stay up to date: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

Lady-bosses Jessica, Hope, and Jen answer your questions about dating and sex. Our discussion went so long, it's going to be three parts! Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: - What are your biggest turn-ons during sex? - When you're ready to talk have sex with him, when do you prefer talking about your preferences and desires for sex? In bed before sex, while having sex, outside the bedroom? - How do you like to be asked during sex what you like and want (direct, not asking at all and intuitively feeling it out, etc...) - Which question do you prefer: may I do this, can we do this, or what would you like? - How long is your ideal sex session (the in and out portion, not the foreplay)? What is the minimum amount of time that is satisfactory? Conversely, how much time before it's too long? - Is there an etiquette for when you are too busy one month, and want to get in touch with an old match to try again?   Enjoyed the episode? Help others find it by writing a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to stay up to date: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

Lady-bosses Jessica, Hope, and Jen answer your questions about dating and sex. Our discussion went so long, it's going to be three parts! Part 2 is coming on Wednesday.  Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers: This episode covers these questions: - What's the best way to get consent? Explicit and direct, or a bit more nuanced? Tell us, how you tell us yes. - What do you find attractive about men's bodies? - Where is your favorite place to be touched for foreplay? How do you like to be touched there? - What behaviors in your partner help you be open and clear with your sexual requests? - What are your biggest turn-ons during sex? - How long is your ideal sex session (intercourse, not foreplay)? What's the minimum amount of time that is satisfactory? - Beyond the first time you have sex, how do you like your boyfriend to tell you he wants to, and is excited to, have sex with you that night? - What kind of aggressiveness do you like in a man, and what kind is scary?   Enjoyed the episode? Help others find it by writing a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to stay up to date: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

Women answer your questions about sex! Part 2 of 2. Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers these questions: - I love it when my partner squeezes her kegels while we're having sex. Is that something you can do? Do you enjoy it? - What are your biggest turn-offs during sex? - How do you like to discuss fantasies that aren't mainstream, or might have sensitivities attached to them? - How do you like to be asked during sex what you like and want (direct, not asking at all and intuitively feeling it out, etc...) - Any strong thoughts/feelings about "how to proceed when an established partner is not really into it at the moment but realizes these things go both ways." For example, is "be a good sport" a worthy rule of thumb? If not, what is the preferred rule of thumb? - Please rate your sex drive compared to the average woman's. - Any last things you want to tell the guys listening?   Enjoyed the episode? Help others find it by writing a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to stay up to date: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn  

Women answer your questions about sex! Part 1 of 2. Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers these questions: - What's the best way to get consent? Explicit and direct, or a bit more nuanced? Tell us, how you tell us yes. - What do you find attractive about men's bodies? - Where is your favorite place to be touched for foreplay? How do you like to be touched there? - What behaviors in your partner help you be open and clear with your sexual requests? - What are your biggest turn-ons during sex? - How long is your ideal sex session (intercourse, not foreplay)? What's the minimum amount of time that is satisfactory? - Beyond the first time you have sex, how do you like your boyfriend to tell you he wants to, and is excited to, have sex with you that night? - What kind of aggressiveness do you like in a man, and what kind is scary?   Enjoyed the episode? Help others find it by writing a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to stay up to date: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn

Women answer your questions about dating! Part 2 of 2. Guests: Courtney, Yijen, and Li. Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers these questions: - After we match, if you follow me on Instagram, what's the next step? Do we talk there, or on the dating app? - What do you look for on someone's Instagram? What stands out? What's meh? - After we match, if you don't respond the first time I send a message, should I send another? - How long should a guy wait before sending the second message?   Enjoyed the episode? Help others find it by writing a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to stay up to date: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Overcast, Stitcher, Spotify, RadioPublic, Podbean, Podcatcher, TuneIn

Women answer your questions about dating! Part 1 of 2. Guests: Courtney, Yijen, and Li. Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions This episode covers these questions: - Why do women so often just answer with something short ("things are great"), and not even ask a question back to me? (Is this something guys do, too?) - What's a good first date activity? What's one that is boring or overdone? - Who pays on the first date, what do you prefer? (lots of discussion on this!)   Enjoyed the episode? Help others find it by writing a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Subscribe to stay up to date: Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Overcast, RadioPublic, Podbean, TuneIn  

Hello! I'm Greg Schwartz, thanks for listening to this podcast. On each episode I ask a group of women questions submitted by men like you. Questions on dating, sex, whatever you'd like to know.  To submit your questions, go to makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions The next episodes are a two-part episodes with women answering your questions about dating. We cover many questions, including: - If you don't respond the first time I send a message, should I send another? - Why do women so often write a short response? - What's a good first date activity? That's followed by a two-part episode with women answering your questions about sex, including: - What are your biggest turn-ons during sex? - How long is your ideal sex session?  - Where is your favorite place to be touched for foreplay, and how do you like to be touched there? So download the other episodes, you'll be blown away by their honesty!