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John Kim (theangrytherapist.com) is a professional therapist and Gabi Conti (@itsgabiconti) is well, slightly less qualified, but filled with plenty of advice and opinions. What happens when the live calls start pouring in and it's time to give advice? A raucous collision of tried and true therapy m…

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    • Dec 7, 2017 LATEST EPISODE
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    Episode 30: Prenups and Relationship Gift Guide

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2017 22:45


    John Kim (The Angry Therapist) Gabi Conti answer a listener question about prenups, and delve into their relationship gift guide. Let's go! Catch Gabi Conti and John Kim LIVE every other week, Fridays at 5pm at Facebook.com/theangrytherapist. Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Get your FREE half hour relationship coaching session today at shop.shft.us.   Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license. Asking for a Friend is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

    Episode 29: Dating with Self Compassion (ft. Megan Bruneau)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2017 36:37


    John Kim (The Angry Therapist) Gabi Conti and Megan Bruneau talk dating and treating yourself with self compassion.You can find megan at: www.meganbruneau.com Catch Gabi Conti and John Kim LIVE every other week, Fridays at 5pm at Facebook.com/theangrytherapist. Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Get your FREE half hour relationship coaching session today at shop.shft.us.   Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license. Asking for a Friend is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

    Episode 28: Serendipity and #MeToo

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2017 24:46


    CONTENT WARNING: Discussion of sexual harassment and sexual assault John Kim (The Angry Therapist) and Gabi Conti talk serendipity, chance, happenstance and the #metoo movement. Catch Gabi Conti and John Kim LIVE every other week, Fridays at 5pm at Facebook.com/theangrytherapist. Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Get your FREE half hour relationship coaching session today at shop.shft.us.   Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license. Asking for a Friend is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

    Episode 27: Is Age Just a Number? and How to Know if You’re Exclusive

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2017 29:59


    John Kim (The Angry Therapist) and Gabi Conti talk about reader submitted questions, including if age matters that much in relationships and how to know when you're exclusive with a partner. Catch Gabi Conti and John Kim LIVE every other week, Fridays at 5pm at Facebook.com/theangrytherapist. Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Get your FREE half hour relationship coaching session today at shop.shft.us.   Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license. Asking for a Friend is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

    Episode 26: Answering The Big Questions (From Listeners, That Is!)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2017 30:35


    John Kim (The Angry Therapist) and Gabi Conti answer relationship, love and advice questions from listeners! If you sent in a question in the past few weeks -- we probably answered it this week! Let's go. Catch Gabi Conti and John Kim LIVE every other week, Fridays at 5pm at Facebook.com/theangrytherapist. Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Get your FREE half hour relationship coaching session today at shop.shft.us.   Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license. Asking for a Friend is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

    Episode 25: Soulmates and Twin Flames

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2017 29:31


    John Kim (The Angry Therapist) and Gabi Conti dive deep into the age-old question of soul mates: if they exist, if you've already met yours, and what the heck even is a twin flame? Are Gabi and John twin flames!? How do you know when you find your twin flame? Let's go! Catch Gabi Conti and John Kim LIVE every other week, Fridays at 5pm at Facebook.com/theangrytherapist. Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Get your free half hour relationship coaching session today at shop.shft.us.   Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license. Asking for a Friend is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

    Episode 24: How to Make Your Relationship Last

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2017 25:02


    John Kim (The Angry Therapist) and Gabi Conti discuss the 50 things everyone should do to make their relationship bulletproof. As always, lots of laughs, discussion of taboos and dating norms, silliness and seriousness. Catch Gabi Conti and John Kim LIVE every other week, Fridays at 5pm at Facebook.com/theangrytherapist. Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Get your free half hour relationship coaching session today at shop.shft.us.   Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license. Asking for a Friend is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

    Episode 23: Is Dating Dead?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2017 35:15


    John Kim (The Angry Therapist) and Gabi Conti nail down what exactly is up with dating right now -- is dating dead? Who killed it? How can we bring it back to life? Catch Gabi Conti and John Kim LIVE every other week, Fridays at 5pm at Facebook.com/theangrytherapist. Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a Tribe today at www.shft.us using code FRIEND for 50% off.   Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license. Asking for a Friend is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

    Episode 22: This is Keeping You From Finding Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2017 31:26


    John Kim (The Angry Therapist) and Gabi Conti want you to be happy in a relationship -- so what's keeping you from finding love? The answers may surprise you! Catch Gabi Conti and John Kim LIVE every other week, Fridays at 5pm at Facebook.com/theangrytherapist. Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a Tribe today at www.shft.us using code FRIEND for 50% off.   Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license. Asking for a Friend is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

    Episode 21: Things Women Will Never Understand About Men

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2017 35:50


    John Kim (The Angry Therapist) and Gabi Conti tackle the big topics of misunderstandings between the genders and take a listener question about a marriage that spans countries. Catch Gabi Conti and John Kim LIVE every other week, Fridays at 5pm at Facebook.com/theangrytherapist. Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a Tribe today at www.shft.us using code FRIEND for 50% off.   Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license. Asking for a Friend is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

    Episode 20: You'll Regret This The Most

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2017 28:08


    John Kim (The Angry Therapist) and Gabi Conti tackle the big topics, give advice on listener questions and go deep on the things we'll all regret most when we're old. Catch Gabi Conti and John Kim LIVE every other week, Fridays at 5pm at Facebook.com/theangrytherapist. Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a Tribe today at www.shft.us using code FRIEND for 50% off.   Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license. Asking for a Friend is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

    Episode 19: "Perfect" Partner or Perfect For You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2017 27:57


    John Kim (The Angry Therapist) and Gabi Conti tackle the big topics, give advice on listener questions and go deep on what's sexy, what isn't sexy, and how we can all be a bit better in our relationships and life. This episode covers finding the "perfect" partner, why we set ourselves up for failure and how we can avoid this super common trap! Catch Gabi Conti and John Kim LIVE every other week at Facebook.com/theangrytherapist. Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a Tribe today at www.shft.us using code FRIEND for 50% off.   Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license. Asking for a Friend is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

    Episode 18: What's Sexy To You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2017 41:30


    John Kim (The Angry Therapist) and Gabi Conti tackle the big topics, give advice on listener questions and go deep on what's sexy, what isn't sexy, and how we can all be a bit better in our relationships and life. Catch Gabi Conti and John Kim LIVE every other week at Facebook.com/theangrytherapist. Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a Tribe today at www.shft.us using code FRIEND for 50% off.   Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license. Asking for a Friend is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

    Episode 17: The Difference Between Men and Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2017 27:27


    John Kim (The Angry Therapist) and Gabi Conti tackle the big topics, give advice on listener questions and go deep on the differences between men and women, the differences in communication styles and finding joy in the little things in life. Catch Gabi Conti and John Kim LIVE every other week at Facebook.com/theangrytherapist. Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a Tribe today at www.shft.us using code FRIEND for 50% off.   Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license. Asking for a Friend is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

    Episode 16: The 9 Things That Make You Unlikable

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2017 34:23


    John Kim (The Angry Therapist) and Gabi Conti tackle the big topics, give advice on listener questions and go deep on the 9 things that make you unlikable, what 165 people think the MOST important thing in a relationship is, and answer some burning listener questions. Let's go! Catch Gabi Conti and John Kim LIVE every other week at Facebook.com/theangrytherapist. Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a Tribe today at www.shft.us using code FRIEND for 50% off.   Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license. Asking for a Friend is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

    Episode 15: The 20 Kinds of People You Date

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2017 41:22


    John Kim and Gabi Conti tackle the big topics, give advice on listener questions and go deep on the 20 kinds of people you meet while dating, the perils and wonders of the dating app scene and get into fitness and keeping it all positive. Let's go! Catch Gabi Conti and John Kim LIVE every other week at Facebook.com/theangrytherapist. Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a Tribe today at www.shft.us using code FRIEND for 50% off.   Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license. Asking for a Friend is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

    Episode 14: Getting Over Someone Isn't Always Easy

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2017 29:06


    John Kim and Gabi Conti tackle the big topics and take listener questions. Should you ruin a good friendship over attraction to that person? How do you deal with your parents' expectations for your life? What's the best way to move on and get over someone?Catch Gabi Conti and John Kim LIVE every other week at Facebook.com/theangrytherapist, and find Maddy Moon at maddymoon.com Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a free Tribe today at www.shft.us using code FRIEND for 50% off.   Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license. Asking for a Friend is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

    Episode 13: Body Image and Self Love (ft. Maddy Moon)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2017 34:13


    John Kim and empowerment coach Maddy Moon go deep on body image, self love, feminine and masculine energy and a whole lot more in this special episode. Catch Gabi Conti and John Kim LIVE every other week at Facebook.com/theangrytherapist, and find Maddy Moon at maddymoon.com Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a free Tribe today at www.shft.us using code FRIEND for 50% off.   Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license. Asking for a Friend is Produced and Audio Engineered by Amanda Meyncke.

    Episode 12: Making The Best of Breakups

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2017 41:40


    Gabi and John take a listener question and discuss the ins and outs of long distance relationships, dating and so much more. Catch Gabi and John LIVE every other week at Facebook.com/theangrytherapist In the 12th episode of their show, John Kim (theangrytherapist.com) and Gabi Conti (@itsgabiconti) are at it again -- dishing out great advice and offering up their own experiences as they discuss the state of their love lives, their rants and raves and the revelation of the week. Let's go! Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a free Tribe today at www.shft.us using code FRIEND for 50% off. Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license.

    Episode 11: Long Distance Lovers

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2017 39:21


    Gabi and John take a listener question and discuss the ins and outs of long distance relationships, dating and so much more. In the eleventh episode of their show, John Kim (theangrytherapist.com) and Gabi Conti (@itsgabiconti) are at it again -- dishing out great advice and offering up their own experiences as they discuss the state of their love lives, their rants and raves and the revelation of the week. Let's go! Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a free Tribe today at www.shft.us using code FRIEND for 50% off. Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license.

    Episode 10: Having and Not Having Sex with Buddy Wakefield

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2017 56:41


    Gabi and John start with a bang (or lack therof!) and talk to accomplished poet Buddy Wakefield about celibacy, the power of authenticity, dirty dreams, Buddy's experiences with meditation as a guiding light, and so much more. Wakefield also shares one of his newest poems with us. You can find more about Buddy Wakefield here: www.buddywakefield.com In the tenth episode of their show, John Kim (theangrytherapist.com) and Gabi Conti (@itsgabiconti) are at it again -- dishing out great advice and offering up their own experiences as they discuss the state of their love lives, their rants and raves and the revelation of the week. Let's go! Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a free Tribe today at www.shft.us using code FRIEND for 50% off. Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license.

    Episode 9: Friends With Benefits and What Values Guide You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2017 47:08


    Gabi and John hit the phones right away with a tough call from a listener -- What to do if your partner doesn't like your friends? Gabi dishes on a recent relationship and unfollows people live on air, John and Gabi discuss their deeply held values and more. In the ninth episode of their call-in show, John Kim (theangrytherapist.com) and Gabi Conti (@itsgabiconti) are at it again -- dishing out great advice and offering up their own experiences as they discuss friends with benefits, when to know the relationship is the right one, what's at stake and drawing boundaries with sharpie not chalk. Let's go! Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a free Tribe today at www.shft.us using code FRIEND for 50% off. Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license.

    Episode 8: Ask a Celebrity Trainer (ft. Pieter Vodden)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2016 44:18


    Fitness, health, exercise and eating better -- as we head into 2017, Gabi and John sit down with celebrity trainer Pieter Vodden to ask him your questions and hopefully get a better understanding of cheat meals, proper nutrition and how to really excel at fitness. In the eighth episode of their show, John Kim (theangrytherapist.com) and Gabi Conti (@itsgabiconti) are at it again -- dishing out great advice and offering up their own experiences as they discuss fitness, eating right (and wrong) and more with guest Pieter Vodden (http://www.pvtraining.co.uk/). Let's go! Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a free Tribe today at www.shft.us using code FRIEND for 50% off. Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license.

    Episode 7: Two Therapists Talk Relationships (ft. Megan Bruneau)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2016 59:26


    John and guest Megan Bruneau talk healthy relationships, being open, the dangers of closing yourself off, how to commit, when the right time is to leave a relationship, figuring out what you want, surviving breakups and how to get to know yourself. In the seventh episode of the live call in show, John Kim (theangrytherapist.com) is at it again -- dishing out great advice and offering up his own experiences as he talks discuss life, love and so much more along with guest Megan Bruneau, psychotherapist, writer and wellness coach. (meganbruneau.com). Let's go! Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a free Tribe today at www.shft.us using code FRIEND for 50% off. Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license.

    Episode 6: Soulmates and Sex Addiction (ft. Erin Mallory Long and Sean Cardinalli)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2016 45:25


    Are soulmates even real? What does a healthy relationship look like? What are the ins and outs of sex addiction and love addiction? What to do when you get a bad therapist? Plus classics like rants/raves and the word of the week. In the sixth episode of their live call in show, John Kim (theangrytherapist.com) and Gabi Conti (@itsgabiconti) are at it again -- dishing out great advice and offering up their own experiences as they discuss life, love and hit the phone lines along with guests Erin Mallory Long (@erinmallorylong) and sex addiction specialist Sean Cardinalli. Let's go! Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a free Tribe today at www.shft.us using code FRIEND for 50% off. Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license.

    Episode 5: Chasing vs. Attracting and Dating Fabio (ft. Anika Reitman)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2016 50:29


    What separates the men from the boys? Is it worth it to put yourself out there? Gabi and John discuss unconventional dates, ignoring the red flags in a relationship, and the biggest thing to block potential. And for pete's sake -- what's it like to date FABIO? In the fifth episode of their live call in show, John Kim (theangrytherapist.com) and Gabi Conti (@itsgabiconti) are at it again -- dishing out great advice and offering up their own experiences as they discuss life, love and hit the phone lines along with guest Anika Reitman (@anikacorinaa) from Catching Kelce! Let's go! Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a free Tribe today at www.shft.us and get 50% off ANY TRIBE with code: FRIEND Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license.

    Episode 4: False Intimacy and Dating Co-Workers (with Annabelle Desisto of Adderall and Compliments)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2016 53:28


    What's up with dating a co-worker? What standards should women and men have in relationships? What's the deal with sex on the first date and false intimacy? In the fourth episode of their live call in show, John Kim (theangrytherapist.com) and Gabi Conti (@itsgabiconti) are at it again -- dishing out great advice and offering up their own experiences as they discuss life, love and hit the phone lines along with guest Annabelle Desisto (@annabelledesisto) of Adderall and Compliments. Let's go! Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a free Tribe today at www.shft.us! Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license.

    Episode 3: Toxic Relationships and The Power of Attraction

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2016 28:43


    Why can't anyone commit? What's up with staying too long in a toxic relatsch? Is the power of attraction real or nonsense? In the third episode of their live call in show, John Kim (theangrytherapist.com) and Gabi Conti (@itsgabiconti) are at it again -- dishing out great advice and offering up their own experiences as they discuss life, love and hit the phone lines. Let's go! Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a free Tribe today at www.shft.us! Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license.

    Episode 2: What Does it Look Like to Love You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2016 54:39


    In this episode of their live call in show, John Kim (theangrytherapist.com) and Gabi Conti (@itsgabiconti) are at it again -- dishing out great advice and offering up their own experiences as they discuss what it looks like to love them, relationships, choosing a partner, the friend zone, the paradox of choice and the epidemic of emotional littering. Let's go! Asking for a Friend is brought to you by SHFT -- helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Join a free Tribe today at shft.us! Music in this episode is by Kevin Hartwell and Kenzo, used under a creative commons license.

    Episode 1: Bring Your Questions and Leave With More

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2016 33:14


    It's our very first episode and live call in show! John Kim (theangrytherapist.com) is a professional therapist and Gabi Conti (@itsgabiconti) is well, slightly less qualified but filled with plenty of advice and opinions. What happens when the live calls start pouring in and it's time to give advice? A raucous collision of tried and true therapy mixed with frank, outspoken truth. As we always say -- Bring your questions and leave with more. Asking For a Friend is brought to you by SHFT. SHFT is community-based self betterment, helping people change through small group Tribes and immersive group coaching. Questions? Hit us up: podcastaskingforafriend@gmail.com

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