Podcasts about self compassion

In this episode, Dr. Stacey Cordivano joins us to discuss the importance of self-compassion for veterinarians. She discusses how negative self-talk can harm mental health, highlights research showing that self-compassion is a key factor in building resilience, and shares important resources for veterinarians who want to learn more.The Business of Practice podcast is brought to you by CareCredit.This information is shared solely for your convenience. You are urged to consult with your individual advisors with respect to any information presented.Business of Practice Podcast Hosts, Guests, and Links Episode 145:Hosts: Dr. Amy Grice and Carly Sisson (Digital Content Manager) of EquiManagement | Email Carly (csisson@equinenetwork.com) | Connect with Carly on LinkedInGuests: Dr. Stacey CordivanoPodcast Website: The Business of Practice

Are you enough? With all of your flaws and imperfections, with all of your mistakes and misunderstandings, how can you really be enough? As women, many of us have spent years grappling with this concept of being enough, and very often we come up wanting. We don't feel we are pretty enough, skinny enough, compassionate enough, tough enough, strong enough, vulnerable enough, happy enough, etc. You name it, we often don't feel we are enough of it, unless we start to believe we are too much of something: too outspoken, too strong, too vulnerable, too compassionate, too happy, to skinny, etc. So where do we find the place of being content – happy with who we are and the path we're on, while also acknowledging our human imperfections? Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts: #33 Forgiving Yourself on Apple on Spotify #34 Self-Compassion on Apple on Spotify #55 Don't Should Yourself on Apple on Spotify #72 Unconditional Self-Love on Apple on Spotify #104 Cultivating Self-Love on Apple on Spotify #105 Self-Love in Our Past, Present, and Future on Apple on Spotify #106 Fierce Self-Love on Apple on Spotify #137 Not Enough? Not True on Apple on Spotify #195 What Are You Sorry For? on Apple on Spotify #217 Self-Respect and Being Wrong on Apple on Spotify #260 Your Lovability and Your Love Ability on Apple on Spotify #305 When We Don't Feel Good Enough on Apple on Spotify #351 Grace, Shame, and Letting Yourself Off the Hook on Apple on Spotify #385 Self-Forgiveness on Apple on Spotify Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion.  You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in one-on-one coaching and a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4105: Kat Medina explains what happened when her usual tough-love, get-it-together approach failed during a weeks-long slump. She shares the three state-changers that got her back on track: creating space, connecting with close friends, and doing something outside her comfort zone, and why trusting that lows pass is real self-improvement. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.katmedina.com/article?id=selfcare Quotes to ponder: "The more I tried to snap myself out of my funk, the further into it I fell." "Trust that this too shall pass and that every part of life is transitory." "These lows help you to appreciate the highs and are opportunities to practice finding the good even when it seems to be hidden." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4105: Kat Medina explains what happened when her usual tough-love, get-it-together approach failed during a weeks-long slump. She shares the three state-changers that got her back on track: creating space, connecting with close friends, and doing something outside her comfort zone, and why trusting that lows pass is real self-improvement. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.katmedina.com/article?id=selfcare Quotes to ponder: "The more I tried to snap myself out of my funk, the further into it I fell." "Trust that this too shall pass and that every part of life is transitory." "These lows help you to appreciate the highs and are opportunities to practice finding the good even when it seems to be hidden." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4105: Kat Medina explains what happened when her usual tough-love, get-it-together approach failed during a weeks-long slump. She shares the three state-changers that got her back on track: creating space, connecting with close friends, and doing something outside her comfort zone, and why trusting that lows pass is real self-improvement. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.katmedina.com/article?id=selfcare Quotes to ponder: "The more I tried to snap myself out of my funk, the further into it I fell." "Trust that this too shall pass and that every part of life is transitory." "These lows help you to appreciate the highs and are opportunities to practice finding the good even when it seems to be hidden." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What is the difference between having goals and living from aspiration? How do we respond when fear takes over? What if self-compassion feels impossible? How do we forgive ourselves, navigate profound grief, heal from trauma, or rediscover joy in practice? In this first Ask Me Anything session, Tara responds to heartfelt questions from our global community, exploring many of the challenges that touch us most deeply. Together we investigate how mindfulness and compassion help us meet fear, shame, loss, trauma, illness, and uncertainty—not by escaping our experience, but by discovering the awareness and love that can hold it all. These reflections are offered as practical guidance and as an invitation to trust the innate wisdom and tenderness that live within each of us.

A calming meditation session: I Choose Self-Compassion. Perfect for relaxation and sleep.DISCLAIMER

Hello Beautiful, I'm so grateful you're here with me. Not every day needs to be conquered, sometimes it simply needs to be met with kindness. This gentle affirmation meditation invites you to soften your expectations, release pressure, and move through today with greater ease and self-compassion. A beautiful practice for stress relief, mindfulness, emotional wellness, inner peace, and gentle living. Love,

In almost every class Adrienne teaches, she tells her students that struggling is inevitable, but suffering is optional. She doesn't mean we get to choose whether difficult things happen to us or not. But sometimes we add another layer by fighting what we're already feeling. We tell ourselves we shouldn't be sad, shouldn't be anxious, shouldn't be angry, or that we should be farther along than we are. That struggle can create even more suffering.Today's meditation is simply an invitation to set that extra layer down, even if it's only for a few minutes.Sometimes we come to meditation because we want to become calmer, happier, more enlightened, or more awake. But if we look closely, that can become just another form of striving. Just another way of trying to be someone other than who we are in this moment.What if, instead, you didn't have to become anything? What if there was nothing to fix?When you forget there's nothing to fix, press play.Send us Fan MailWe Didn't Plan For This Special SeriesThis series exists because so many of you reached out and said, “I didn't plan for this either.”If you've gone through a diagnosis, a loss, a life change, a career shift, a divorce, becoming a caregiver, moving, starting over — we want to hear your story.EMAIL US: WDPFTPodcast@gmail.comYou don't have to have it figured out. You just have to be willing to share honestly.How Yoga Changed My Life a PodcastSend Us Your Stories!If you have a story about how yoga, meditation, breath work, journaling, or movement changed your life, we want to hear from you! These podcasts are really about the same thing — how people move through the seasons of life they didn't plan for, and what helps them along the way.If you'd like to be on the show or share your story:  Fill out our guest form or email us at yogachanged@gmail.com Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@yogachangedFollow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/yogachanged/More info, go to https://howyogachangedmylife.comFor th...

ABOUT THE EPISODE:You have probably rehearsed the apology. I'm sorry I didn't catch this sooner. I'm sorry I wasn't a better parent. I'm sorry this is happening to you. If some version of that speech runs on a loop in your head, this quick solo episode is me asking you to put it down.Real accountability matters. If there is something you actually did that caused harm, owning it is valid and important. But that is not the same as taking responsibility for your kid's choices, their biology, a disease you didn't cause, or life's timing. Most of the guilt I hear from parents lives in that second category, and it is quietly stealing the energy you need for what's sitting right in front of you.In this episode I talk about why so much of what we call guilt is actually something else wearing a disguise, and I give you a litmus test that tells you in one question whether you're making a real apology or doing something else entirely.I also take you back to one of the heaviest seasons of my own life, when my son was transported to wilderness therapy at 16 and I spent months buried under a mountain of shame. What I was doing during that time, and what I wasn't doing, taught me the difference between guilt that sharpens how you show up and guilt that just corrodes. I close with a short pen and paper exercise that might leave you staring at a nearly empty page, in the best possible way.There is no award for the most guilt-ridden parent on the planet. If there were, I would have already won it. Consider this your permission slip.YOU'LL LEARN:Why "I'm sorry I didn't catch it sooner" is not the apology you think it isThe difference between real accountability and misdirected responsibility, and why collapsing the two keeps you stuckThe two emotions parents often carry that get mistaken for guiltA one-question litmus test that separates a real apology from self punishmentA five minute writing exercise that shows you how much of your self blame is actually yoursEPISODE RESOURCES:Free e-book, Worried SickTry The Stream free for two weeksAnger Solo - Podcast Episode 335 This podcast is part of a nonprofit called Hopestream CommunityLearn about The Stream, our private online community for momsFind us on Instagram hereWatch the podcast on YouTube hereDownload a free e-book, Worried Sick: A Compassionate Guide For Parents When Your Teen or Young Adult Child Misuses Drugs and AlcoholHopestream Community is a registered 501(c)3 nonprofit organization and an Amazon Associate. We may make a small commission if you purchase from our links.

During this talk, Susan Baxter describes the cultivation of self-compassion, using the work of Dr. Kristin Neff and Sharon Salzberg as references.  Susan invites those participating to consider how contemporary culture fosters self-doubt and self-loathing and provides some of the exercises recommended by Dr. Neff for transforming these harsh ways of being towards kindness regarding self and others.

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You're manifesting every single day. You're just doing it the wrong way. That's according to Dr. James Doty, a Stanford neurosurgeon and neuroscientist who has spent decades studying what actually happens in your brain when you set an intention. His new book, Mind Magic, breaks down the neuroscience most manifestation advice leaves out completely. Here's the block nobody talks about. It's not a lack of belief. It's fear. It's shame. It's insecurity running your nervous system without your permission, and it's keeping you stuck in survival mode instead of the state where real change actually happens. Doty grew up in poverty with an alcoholic father and a mother who attempted suicide multiple times. A stranger in a magic shop taught him a technique that rewired how his brain worked, and decades later he's the one teaching it to brain surgeons and first responders. This conversation gets into the exact mental shift between wanting something and needing it, why self criticism sabotages your relationships, and the small daily ritual Doty still uses to reset his nervous system every single morning. Mind Magic: The Neuroscience of Manifestation and How It Changes Everything Amazon Audiobook Into the Magic Shop: A Neurosurgeon's Quest to Discover the Mysteries of the Brain and the Secrets of the Heart Amazon Audiobook In this episode you will: Learn the neuroscience difference between hedonic happiness and lasting fulfillment Discover why fear and insecurity are the real blocks to manifesting anything  Overcome limiting beliefs using the value tagging technique to reprogram your subconscious Recognize how compassion physically shifts your nervous system and strengthens your immune response Build a daily manifestation ritual using breathwork, awe, and a simple morning mantra For more information go to https://lewishowes.com/1960 More SOG episodes we think you'll love! Get More From Lewis! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Are you stuck in heavy brain fog, unable to get going even though you know exactly what you need to do today? When your list is right there but your mind feels wrapped in cotton wool, this 10-minute guided meditation is your safe sanctuary to clear mental fatigue and gently unlock your momentum.Join clinical hypnotherapist and former frontline paramedic Martin Hewlett for a restorative "coffee break for the soul." Instead of forcing your mind to perform instantly, you will use a steady box breathing rhythm to settle an exhausted nervous system and learn the power of letting a cold engine warm up naturally.What you'll experience in this 10-minute sanctuary:The Box Breathing Pattern: An even, unrushed $3$-second square breath (inhale, hold, exhale, pause) to bring immediate balance to mind and body. The Cold Engine Visualization: A calming mental shift to release the pressure to perform and allow your capability to return naturally. Permissive Affirmations: Reprogramming the subconscious to accept moving slowly while still arriving exactly where you need to be. 3 Daily Caring Tips: Practical hacks to externalize your plans, trigger sensory shifts, and clear away cognitive fog right now. Time Chapters00:00 – Caught in the Morning Brain Fog01:08 – The $3$-$3$-$3$-$3$ Box Breathing Technique03:21 – The Cold Engine Metaphor: Permission to Idle05:09 – Affirmations to Unlock Motion & Focus08:04 – 3 Daily Caring Tips for Mental Fatigue09:01 – Gently Returning to Your Senses09:30 – Martin's Reflection: Shifting My Own Negative Mood TodayMid-Show Content: AffirmationsTo be repeated quietly within your mind during the session: "My mind doesn't need to be sharp before I begin." "One small movement is enough to start the engine." "Fog lifts in its own time; I don't need clear skies to take the next step." "I am allowed to start slowly and still arrive." "My capability returns with motion, not before it." 3 Daily Caring TipsValue the Idle Time: An engine that is already idling warm is significantly easier to drive than one trying to force motorway speeds while freezing cold. Give yourself five minutes of zero-pressure preparation before attacking your day. Externalize the Plan: When your mind is wrapped in cotton wool, stop trying to hold the whole project in your head. Write down or say out loud only the very next physical action your hands need to take—not the entire job. Change the Air in the Room: Brain fog often responds much faster to a sensory shift than a mental one. Break the cognitive loop by opening a window, stepping outside for two minutes, or moving to a completely different room to signal a reset to your senses.Caring CTA & LinksIf you are looking for a structured, deeply supportive path through your anxiety beyond the daily morning fog, take the next step with our specialized course. The Anxiety Circuit Breaker Course: Access five complete, clinical hypnotherapy sessions designed to break the loops of panic and overwhelm for just $67 at calminganxiety.fm. Stream the Entire Sanctuary: Keep the full, ad-free meditation library right in your pocket wherever life takes you by downloading the Anchored app. Thank you for warming up your day with me. As always in everything... mind-love, positivity whenever you can, and your beautiful self—be kind

Fan Mail: Tell Wendy how you're saying yes to yourself!In this episode, Wendy sits down with Kristine Jensen, a psychotherapist who spent 35+ years helping clients heal shame, while carrying a deep sense of unworthiness herself. After closing her practice and moving to the California coast, she finally became her own client. What she discovered: shame is foundational, not superficial. It's not embarrassment or guilt. It's a survival mechanism rooted in childhood, where you learned to collapse, comply, and hide in order to feel safe. And it shapes everything.They explore:Shame vs. other emotions: the misunderstood feeling that keeps women small, quiet, and disempoweredSelf-soothing internal dialogue: the practice children with healthy self-esteem learn early, and what happens when you have to teach it to yourself as an adultStop telling your old story: why repeatedly reliving trauma reinforces neural pathways, and how moving toward who you're becoming shifts everythingThe work isn't about understanding what happened to you. It's about learning to talk to yourself the way you'd talk to someone you love. Building an internal vocabulary of self-encouragement. Getting tired of your old story so you can create a new one. This is how unworthiness heals.Connect with Kristine:kristine-jensen.comFacebook: facebook.com/kristinebjensenauthorLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kristine-jensen-203a09129/Get her book, Bruised Not Broken: amazon.com/Bruised-Not-Broken-Troubled-Childhood/dp/B0DZ2PZN37?tag=syty-20________________________________________________________________________________________Connect with Wendy:LinkedinInstagram: @wendy.harropFacebook: Phineas Wright HouseWebsite: Phineas Wright House PWH Farm StaysPWH Curated Experience and TravelInterested in being a guest on the show? Send your pitch to podcast@phineaswrighthouse.comPodcast Production By Shannon Warner of Resonant Collective Want to start your own podcast? Let's chat!If this episode resonated, follow Say YES to Yourself! and leave a  5-star review. It helps more women in midlife discover the tools, stories, and community that make saying YES not only possible, but powerful.

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In this episode of The Quest for Success Podcast, Jam and Dylan Pathirana sit down with Dr Hannah Macdougall, a dual Paralympian turned researcher, for a deeply thoughtful conversation on mindset, resilience, and what it really takes to build a well life, not just a well-performing one.Hannah shares her journey from her early influences and family, through to her Paralympic debut at the Athens 2004 Games, and the years of training, setbacks, and self-discovery that followed. She opens up about the neuroscience behind obsessive versus harmonious passion, the role gratitude and self-talk played in her own resilience, and how she navigated grief, perfectionism, and the pressure of elite competition.The conversation moves beyond sport into Hannah's PhD research on athlete well-being, her work bringing mindfulness and mental health support into Melbourne Football Club, and her advocacy for inclusive language and systemic change in how we talk about and support athletes. She also shares practical, evidence-based tools for resilience and self-compassion that apply far beyond the world of elite sport.This episode is a powerful reminder that success isn't only measured in medals. It's measured in how well you know yourself, how you treat yourself when things go wrong, and how deliberately you choose to keep growing.What we cover:The neuroscience of obsessive versus harmonious passionEarly influences and overcoming challenges as a young athleteThe journey to the Paralympics and the Athens 2004 experienceRedefining success in sport and in lifeThe role of gratitude and self-talk in resilienceTransitioning out of elite sport and into new chaptersNavigating grief and holding onto joyEarly awareness of being different and self-acceptanceTraining the brain to focus on the positiveManaging perfectionism and the drive for excellenceHandling setbacks and being benchedInclusive language and systemic change in sport"Success in sport and life requires both.""You need to temper your drive with harmony.""Bring kindness into your self-talk."Resources mentioned:The Resilience Project by Hugh van CuylenburgMelbourne Football Club: https://www.melbournefc.com.au/Dr Rory Darkins' work on breath and well-being: https://rorydarkins.comLee Rath's Pain Play Lab: https://painplaylab.comConnect with Dr Hannah Macdougall:LinkedIn: https://au.linkedin.com/in/hannahmacdougallInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/hanmacdougall06/Website: https://hannahmacdougall.com.au/Chapters:00:00 The brain science behind passion and mindset00:28 Hannah's early influences and overcoming challenges01:36 Her journey to the Paralympics and Olympic debut02:19 Redefining success in sport and life03:05 The influence of gratitude and self-talk04:22 Transitioning out of elite sport and new passions06:36 The impact of grief and resilience12:46 Early awareness of being different and acceptance15:40 Training the brain to focus on the positive22:06 Setting goals as a young athlete24:47 The experience of competing in Athens 200430:56 The drive for excellence and managing perfectionism39:45 The realities of training and sport life42:31 Handling setbacks and being benched47:45 The importance of grief, joy, and living in the moment01:01:15 Practical advice for inclusion and systemic change01:02:27 Supporting athletes' mental health at Melbourne Football Club01:07:34 Reflections on success and future plans#QuestForSuccess #HannahMacdougall #Paralympian #AthleteWellbeing #Resilience #MentalHealth #Mindset #Inclusion #SportsScience #SuccessMindset #Podcast #Wellbeing #Inspiration #DisabilityInclusion #WomenInSportFollow us on all your favourite platforms:Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheQuestforSuccessPodFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/The-Quest-For-Success-Podcast/61560418629272/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thequestforsuccesspod/Twitter: https://x.com/quest4success_LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-quest-for-successTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thequestforsuccesspodWebsite: www.thequestforsuccesspodcast.com Please share this around to anyone you think will get value from it : )

Scott's recent visit to the dermatologist created an opportunity for him to see the connection between the importance of applying regular doses of both sunscreen and self-compassion for one's overall well-being. The Living Compass app has several meditations on self-compassion.  Find it at: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/living-compass/id6738334257 https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=org.livingcompass&hl=en https://app.livingcompass.org Scott can be reached at scott@livingcompass.org Self-Compassion Quotes referenced in this episode: Kristin Neff: "Unlike self-criticism, which asks if you're good enough, self-compassion asks what's good for you." Louise Hay: "You've been criticizing yourself for years and it hasn't worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens." Dr. Christopher Germer: "Self-compassion is simply giving the same kindness to ourselves that we would give to others." Jack Kornfield: "If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete." Brené Brown: "Talk to yourself as you would to someone you love." Eleanor Brown: "Stop beating yourself up for beating yourself up."

In this episode, Trisha and I answer two thoughtful listener questions that so many women will relate to. The first is about perfectionism and the pressure to get everything right. If you've ever felt like giving up because you couldn't do something perfectly, you're not alone. We explore why this mindset can keep us stuck and how we can begin to be kinder to ourselves. The second question looks at the balance between self-discipline and self-compassion. How do we know when to push ourselves and when it's ok to rest? It can be difficult to tell the difference, especially when guilt gets involved. As always, Trisha McHale brings her psychotherapist's perspective to the conversation, helping us look beneath the surface of these common struggles. If you've ever wrestled with perfectionism, questioned whether you're being too hard on yourself, or wondered how to find the balance between discipline and compassion, this episode is for you. Click play and let's dive in. To apply for membership to Thrive Academy, Jessica's coaching program, go to www.jessicacooke.ie/thrive To contact Trisha McHale for more information on Therapy and Counselling services: galway@mindandbodyworks.com 091 725 750 About Trisha McHale: Trisha is a Psychotherapist and Director of Mind & Body Works Counselling and Psychotherapy Centre, based in Galway, with centres in Galway and Dublin. Their team of over 50 Psychotherapists and Psychologists work with adults, couples, adolescents, and children, offering therapies including CBT, EMDR, and Art Therapy. They also run a low-cost counselling service.

Welcome back to In Sanity: A Piece of Mind. In this episode, I'm responding to more of your questions and feedback from recent episodes, because these questions and comments are worth discussing together. Then I'm digging deeper into shame itself and discussing a few old things and a few new things. Healthy shame is the kind that keeps you aligned with your own values — it's a signal, not a verdict. Unhealthy shame is the kind that convinces you something is wrong with who you are, not just what you did. I'll walk through how that shows up in daily life and in parenting, and how to start noticing your own personal triggers before they run the show.I'll also talk about why self-kindness matters so much here — treating yourself the way you'd treat a good friend, not the way your inner critic wants to. I'm drawing on Kristin Neff's research on self-compassion and common humanity, plus what we know about the neuroscience of change: how repeated, mindful practice actually builds new neural pathways over time. My hope is you walk away with something practical — a way to catch shame in the moment and respond to it differently.apieceofmindpodcast@gmail.comKristin Neff, Self-Compassion — https://www.amazon.com/Self-Compassion-The-Proven-Powerful-Happiness/dp/0143120359Kristin Neff, Mindful Self-Compassion — https://self-compassion.org/

“Why didn't I leave sooner?” can feel like a realistic question but the most real thing about it is how full of shame and self judgement that question is. We turn hindsight into a weapon and put the past version of us on trial. I want to slow that moment down and offer a different path, one rooted in self-worth after divorce and real emotional resilience.I'll talk you through what's actually underneath that question, the fear of “What's wrong with me?” and why that belief is both untrue and unhelpful. I share how I coach women to widen the lens and find the real reasons staying made sense. Those reasons are not character flaws. They're information, and they can be the start of post-divorce healing instead of another loop of self-criticism.Then we walk through the emotional stages that often come before leaving a marriage. I also offer a powerful reframe to practice right away so you can rebuild self-trust after divorce.If you're ready for less shame and more grounded forward motion, press play, share this with a friend who needs it, and subscribe. If it helps, please leave a rating and review so more women can find this support.To download your FREE "Becoming You Again Podcast Map" click here. To schedule your complimentary consult with Karin click here.Struggling after divorce to get to know yourself? Click here to grab my $7 guide to get started!If this podcast resonated with you in any way, please take a minute to follow and give me a rating wherever you listen to podcasts.======================================DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR EDUCATIONAL, INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND ARE NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING PSYCHOLOGICAL, COUNSELING OR PROFESSIONAL HEALTHCARE ADVICE. =======================================

This week's Live Well Be Well Moment with Ruby Wax, comedian, author and mental health advocate.We delve into why self compassion feels so cringeworthy and why Ruby believes it might be the most important thing you can do for your mental health. Plus the moment Ruby discovered what took the poison away.My book 'Healthy Shouldn't Be This Hard': https://www.amazon.co.uk/Healthy-Shouldnt-Be-This-Hard-ebook/dp/B0G1DHNRV5This episode is sponsored by:NOWATCH: The compassionate health tracker Connecting body and mind with unique stress recovery insights so you can live fully today.

A calming meditation session: I Choose Self-Compassion Today. Perfect for relaxation and sleep.DISCLAIMER

Today is launch day! I am beyond excited to celebrate the release of our newest book: When Love Is Not Enough: The Hard Truth About Loving Someone with an Addiction – Stories of Strength, Hope, and Resilience from the SYKM Collective. Today also happens to be International Self-Care Day, and I truly couldn't imagine a more meaningful day to release this book. In this special episode, I share why self-care is so much more than bubble baths and spa days—especially when you love someone with an addiction. Self-care becomes the courageous decision to stop abandoning yourself while trying to save someone else. Drawing from the science of positive psychology, happiness studies, and the heart of the Saving You Is Killing Me community, we explore why healing begins with four essential practices: ✨ Self-Compassion ✨ Self-Care ✨ Courage ✨ Community These Four C's have become the foundation of healing within our SYKM community and are woven throughout every chapter of this remarkable collection. This book features the courageous stories of twenty-seven contributors who chose vulnerability over silence. Their stories remind us that while every journey is unique, none of us has to walk it alone. A heartfelt thank you to every contributor who trusted us with your stories. Your honesty, courage, and generosity will help readers around the world feel seen, understood, and hopeful. I'm also deeply grateful to Mike O'Riley, founder of The Art of Recovery Magazine, for writing such a meaningful foreword. Mike's personal experience with addiction and loss beautifully reminds us that while addiction changes lives, hope and healing are always possible. How You Can Help If this book speaks to you, I'd love your help in spreading hope. ❤️ Share it with someone you love.

Self-Care Is Not Selfish: A Lifeline When You Love Someone with an Addiction Today is International Self-Care Day, and we're talking about why self-care isn't selfish—it's essential, especially when you love someone with an addiction. In this episode, I explore what self-care really means through the lens of positive psychology, happiness studies, and my HAPPY Framework. Together, we'll look at practical ways to care for your health, protect your energy, strengthen your relationships, reconnect with your purpose, and remember that your life matters too. If you've been pouring all of your time and energy into someone else's addiction, this episode is your gentle reminder to begin pouring some of that love back into yourself. In This Episode: Why self-care becomes a lifeline The Four C's: Self-Compassion, Self-Care, Courage & Community Self-care through the HAPPY Framework Simple ways to prioritize your own well-being

This week we answer questions from listeners trying to be more compassionate to themselves, feeling attacked by "I feel" statements, and struggling with loneliness. Join our patreon!Listen ad-free, get the show a day early and enjoy the pre-show hang out on the same app you're using RIGHT NOW at www.Patreon.com/Therapy where you can also access our vast library of deep dives, interviews, skill shares, reviews and rants as well as our live discord chat!If you are an Apple user please rate us!If you are a Spotify user, please rate us!Submit a question to the show!Help us reach #1 on Goodpods!Interested in Nick's mental health approach to fitness? Check out www.MentalFitPersonalTraining.comCheck out Dr. Jim's book "Dadvice: 50 Fatherly Life Lessons" at www.DadviceBook.comGrab some swag at our store, www.PodTherapyBaitShop.comPlay Jim's Neurotic Bingo at home while you listen to the show, or don't, I'm not your supervisor.Submit questions to:www.PodTherapy.netPodTherapyGuys@gmail.comFollow us on Social Media:FacebookInstagramTwitterResources:Suicide Prevention Lifeline - 1-800-273-8255.Veterans Crisis Line - 1-800-273-8255.Substance Abuse & Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline - (1-800-662-HELP (4357)OK2Talk Helpline Teen Helpline - 1 (800) 273-TALKU.S. Mental Health Resources Hotline - 211

Hello Beautiful, I'm so grateful you're here with me. Every emotion deserves space to be felt, acknowledged, and honored. This guided meditation helps you navigate anxiety, stress, sadness, and overwhelm with compassion and presence. Together, we'll create room for emotional balance and gentle healing. Love,

In this episode of The Light Inside, host Jeffrey Besecker delves into the complexities of reactivity in parenting, focusing on arousal misattribution and how it impacts the parent-child dynamic. He discusses how a parent's emotional responses can often misinterpret a child's behavior due to early developmental experiences, unmet needs, and role pressures. The conversation explores the critical juncture where parents may mistakenly attribute their feelings of urgency, shame, or overwhelm to their child's actions, rather than recognizing the broader context. This episode offers valuable insights for both clinicians and parents, providing tools to foster healthier, more compassionate relationships within families. Tune in to explore these themes and more on The Light Inside.Timestamps00:00:00 - Introduction to The Light Inside Podcast00:00:11 - Understanding Behavior in Context00:00:22 - Parental Reactivity and Child Behavior00:00:32 - Early Developmental Structures00:00:44 - Clinician's Role in Parental Reactivity00:00:54 - Identifying Organizational Hinges00:01:16 - Exploring Reactivity in Parenting00:02:32 - Returning to Parenting Discussion00:02:43 - Parental Urgency and Child Behavior00:03:04 - Developmental Patterns in Parenting00:03:25 - Clinical Alliance in Parenting00:03:36 - Introduction of Jen Lumanlon00:04:09 - Jen Lumanlon's Background00:04:28 - Jen's Approach to Trauma-Informed Intervention00:05:44 - Client Models and Interactions00:06:04 - Concrete Examples in Parenting00:06:38 - Addressing Older Children00:07:00 - Parental Arousal and Child Behavior00:07:41 - Distinguishing Between Triggered and Flooded00:08:14 - Exploring Parental Reactions00:09:35 - Parental Attribution of Child Behavior00:10:06 - Role of Therapy in Parental Coaching00:11:01 - Client Alliance and Rupture Repair Cycle00:11:23 - Parental Body State as a Clinical Cue00:11:53 - Treating Parental Arousal00:12:03 - Specific Incident Exploration00:13:07 - Identifying Recurring Patterns00:14:10 - Early Developmental Patterns00:14:32 - Parental Attribution and Child Behavior00:15:25 - Testing Arousal Representation00:16:07 - Constructing Emotions00:16:57 - Creating Meaning from Parental Reactions00:18:20 - Arousal and Attribution00:19:15 - Parental Internal State Attribution00:20:06 - Self-Compassion in Parenting00:21:09 - Identifying Successful Responses00:22:10 - Parental Role Reversal00:23:15 - Tracking Parental Body Language00:24:06 - Creating a Meaningful Narrative00:25:00 - Needs-Based Framework in Parenting00:26:11 - Meeting Both Parent and Child Needs00:27:11 - Connecting with Self and Others00:28:28 - Experimenting with Strategies00:30:04 - Decoupling Safety from Control00:31:00 - Pausing to Reflect00:32:02 - Avoiding Catastrophizing00:33:58 - Offering Choices and Agency00:35:06 - Recognizing Unconscious Coercion00:36:08 - Parental Authority and Autonomy00:37:01 - Resistance as a Signal00:38:59 - Child's Experience of Agency00:40:01 - Developmental Phases and Autonomy00:41:14 - Safety and Autonomy00:42:29 - Iterative Experiments in Parenting00:44:03 - Raising Needs-Aware Children00:45:09 - Grandparenting Perspective00:46:05 - Developmental Expectations and BiasesFive key takeaways 1. Arousal is data, not proof.A parent's tightening throat, stomach tension, shame, or urgency matters, but it does not automatically prove that the child is causing the distress.2. The child may be the contact point, not the cause.3. The clinical question is not “How do we fix the child?”4. Needs create a cleaner pathway than scripts.5. Agency must be real, not performed.CreditsHost: Jeffrey BeseckerGuest:Jen LumanlanExecutive Program Director: Anna GetzProduction Team: Aloft Media GroupMusic: Courtesy of Aloft Media GroupConnect with host Jeffrey Besecker on LinkedIn.

What if the most transformative thing you could do isn't become someone new - but finally learn to love and trust the person you already are? For many people, especially those raised in religious traditions that emphasized self-sacrifice over self-compassion, self-love can feel uncomfortable... even wrong. In this heartfelt conversation, Brenda sits down with Brian Beall to explore his journey from fear and self-doubt to self-acceptance. Together, they discuss how healing, emotional awareness, and learning to trust yourself can deepen—not diminish—your relationship with the Divine. Whether you've questioned your faith, wrestled with religious conditioning, or simply wondered if caring for yourself is somehow selfish, this episode offers permission to approach your healing with curiosity, compassion, and courage. In this episode, we explore: Why self-love isn't selfish Healing from religious conditioning and spiritual shame Learning to trust yourself and your intuition The role of somatic healing and emotional awareness Why feeling your emotions creates freedom instead of weakness Moving from fear and self-doubt to self-acceptance What true transformation looks like ✨ If this conversation resonates with you, the POWER waitlist is now open for women who are ready to deepen their self-trust, discernment, and inner authority. You can also learn more about private coaching through the links below. Learn more about POWER and join the waitlist to be the first notified when the fall cohort becomes available: https://www.brendawinkle.com/power Learn about private coaching and apply: https://www.brendawinkle.com/coaching Keywords: Self Trust, Self Love, Intuition, Discernment, Religious Trauma, Faith and Spirituality, Emotional Healing, Somatic Healing, Personal Growth, Empath, Highly Sensitive Person, Embodiment, Nervous System Regulation, Spiritual Growth, Conscious Living, Self Compassion, Your Yes Filled Life Podcast, Brenda Winkle, Brian Beall, Your Yes Filled Life

In this episode I sit down with the wonderful Chris Fraser, a therapist with 29 years of experience, a fellow ADHDer, and the person who coined a term Neuromagnificent.Chris and I talk about what it actually means to embrace your neurodivergent brain, not just manage it or accommodate it, but truly see it for the magnificent thing it is. We go deep into the inner critic, shame, self-compassion, and what it feels like to finally stop hiding the parts of yourself that the world has told you are too much or not enough.I hope there is something in here that helps you see yourself a little differently.A gentle note, this episode touches on themes of shame, self criticism and the emotional experience of growing up neurodivergent, so please take care of yourself as you listen.Links to Dr Hayley D Quinn ResourcesWebsite: https://drhayleydquinn.comFREE resource https://drhayleydquinn.com/resources/Book - From Self-Neglect to Self-Compassion: https://drhayleydquinn.com/product/book/Join the Welcome to Self®: Compassion Community https://drhayleydquinn.myflodesk.com/communityWelcome to Self®: Co-working sessionshttps://tidycal.com/3oze991/welcome-to-self-co-working-sessionLink to podcast mailing list: https://drhayleydquinn.com/podcast/Group Coaching Waitlist: https://drhayleydquinn.myflodesk.com/timetothrivewaitlistContact me for personalised training / speaking for your organisation or event https://drhayleydquinn.com/contact-me/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drhayleydquinnLinkedIn: https://www.linkedIn.com/in/dr-hayley-d-quinn-43386533Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drhayleydquinnLinks to Chris Fraser's ResourcesWebsite: https://www.cmcollab.com/chris-fraserBook: https://www.amazon.com/Freedom-Mindful-Compassion-Chaotic-Purpose-driven/dp/0578526956

On this episode of The Aluna Experience Podcast, I talk to Katie Mae, who shares how fleeing from California wildfires and Florida hurricanes—events that could be be perceived as tragedy—were actually Divine guidance that led her to exactly where she was supposed to be.She shares how music, specifically dancing at Grateful Dead concerts, marked the beginning of her spiritual connection through music and dance, and how chronic medical issues and reaching a dead end in the medical system led her to a homeopathic healer who opened the doorway to the Bhagavad Gita, yoga, meditation, and a deepened spiritual practice.Through her journeys with Ayahuasca, Katie Mae came to embody a deeper understanding of her Jewish heritage and organized religion as a whole, finding compassion and empathy for all beings—especially herself. She recognized the illusion of separation, her unbreakable connection to Mother Earth, and a deeply felt truth of belonging within herself regardless of where she was physically in the world.@aluna_healing_centerwww.alunahealingcenter.com@bri.anahatawww.brianahata.com

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Tainted Love (Part 3): Reclaiming Your Power No Matter What You Decide When you've been living in a relationship impacted by addiction, the decision to stay or leave can feel overwhelming. But underneath that question is something even more important: “How do I not lose myself in this?” This episode explores a powerful shift — moving from focusing on the decision itself to focusing on who you become while making it. Addiction relationships often create something known as identity fusion, where your sense of self becomes deeply tied to managing someone else's behavior. You may find yourself becoming the fixer, the rescuer, the stabilizer — slowly losing connection with your own needs, values, and identity. Reclaiming your power means gently separating yourself from that dynamic. It means remembering something essential: You are not the outcome. You are not the relapse. You are not the chaos. You are a whole person outside of this relationship. This episode also introduces the concept of post-traumatic growth — the idea that through consciously processing difficult experiences, people can emerge with stronger boundaries, clearer values, and deeper self-trust. Not because the experience was easy. But because they faced it honestly. This is where true empowerment begins. Not in choosing perfectly — but in choosing yourself in the process. Whether you stay. Whether you leave. Whether you take space. You can reclaim your power in any direction. If this resonates, this is the heart of Andrea's book:

Caring deeply about people, justice, and change can be meaningful—but it can also be exhausting. When the world feels heavy and the work never seems to end, compassion fatigue and burnout can quietly take hold.In this replay episode of DEI After 5, Sacha Thompson talks with Dr. Rebecca Eldridge, a psychotherapist specializing in compassion and self-compassion, about how to recognize stress, protect your well-being, and make grounded choices when the work starts costing too much.Together, they explore what compassion fatigue looks like, how the socio-political climate affects our capacity, and why self-compassion is not about checking out—it is about staying connected to yourself while navigating difficult realities. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit deiafter5.substack.com/subscribe

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ANN BIASETTI, PHD, LCSW, C-IAYT, is a transpersonal psychologist, licensed clinical social worker, and certified yoga therapist. She specializes in helping individuals heal their relationships with their bodies, food, and sense of self through somatic therapy, yoga therapy, and embodied self-compassion.   Dr. Biasetti is the creator of the Befriending Your Body Program, a somatic, self-compassion-based recovery program for disordered eating, and the author of Befriending Your Body: A Self-Compassionate Approach to Freeing Yourself from Disordered Eating and The Awakening Self-Compassion Card Deck: 52 Practices for Self-Care, Healing, and Growth. She contributed the chapter "The Process of Self-Compassion in Eating Disorder Recovery" to Grounding Psychotherapy in Self-Compassion.   Dr. Biasetti consults and lectures extensively on somatic psychotherapy, embodiment, polyvagal theory, and interoceptive awareness in the context of disordered eating and eating-disorder recovery. Additionally, she serves as an instructor with the Center for Mindful Body Awareness and the Self-Compassion in Psychotherapy (SCIP) Program. A featured Professional Education Systems Institute (PESI) presenter, Dr. Biasetti has appeared on multiple podcasts and trains professionals through the Befriending Your Body (BFYB) somatic certification training program.   Dr. Biasetti maintains a private therapy and consultation practice based in Saratoga Springs, New York, where she integrates mind-body modalities to facilitate holistic healing and personal growth. On any given day you can find her practicing and teaching yoga and meditation in her community and enjoying her family, friends, nature, animals, music, and embodied living.  Latest Book: "Your Body Never Meant You Any Harm"   Websites: www.anembodiedlife.com www.befriendingyourbody.com  

Send us Fan MailThis is the summer edition of something we explored earlier this year with kapha dosha — bringing the yamas and niyamas, yoga's ethical and personal observances, into conversation with the season we're actually in. And right now, we are in pitta season. Fire and water. Heat, intensity, drive, sharpness, focus — all of it turned up.Pitta's gifts are extraordinary. The clarity, the capacity to make things happen, the warmth. But when pitta goes out of balance in the height of summer  — the fire can start to scorch the very life it's trying to build.These five practices are the medicine.What we cover:Ahimsa (non-violence) — how pitta's perfectionism and self-criticism are the most common forms of self-harm we never name, why Ayurveda recommends exercising to only 60–70% capacity in summer, and a simple practice of just noticing the moments you override your body before trying to change anythingSatya (truthfulness) — the practice of learning to hear the voice of what is actually true for you beneath the voice of obligation, habit, and expectation, and how body-led movement like Somatic Stretch and Shake creates a small safe container to begin that listeningBrahmacharya (moderation) — why pitta is drawn to intensity and how the short, brilliant Maine summer perfectly illustrates the urge to consume everything at once, and what it means to direct energy into balanced endeavors rather than burning both ends of the candleSaucha (purity) — the nervous system cost of a cluttered space, why pitta season is naturally detoxifying without any imposed cleanse, the foods that are cooling and cleansing right now (including a beloved herb sauce recipe), and movement as a lymphatic practiceSantosha (contentment) — the research on why our brains are genuinely unreliable estimators of how much big achievements will make us happy, the impact bias named by psychologists Dan Gilbert and Timothy Wilson, what the hedonic treadmill actually does to us, and why collecting small daily moments of contentment — what the Japanese call Sho-Katkou, small but certain happiness — may be one of the most powerful things a pitta person can doLinks mentioned:Somatic Stretch and Shake — free class on YouTubePitta season Somatic Stretch & Shake class coming soon — join the email list to stay in the loop: Email NewsletterResearch mentioned:Impact Bias — Gilbert, D. & Wilson, T. (1998). The tendency to overestimate how much future events will affect our emotions and for how longHedonic treadmill — Brickman, P. et al. (1978). Lottery winners and accident victims: Is happiness relative? Journal of Personality and Social PsychologySho-Katkou / micro-happiness — Small but Certain Happiness in Daily Life: Structure and Relation with Well-Being. Journal of Happiness Studies, Springer Nature, 2025The Big Joy Project — UC Berkeley study with 17,598 participants across 169 countries on micro-joys and wellbeingResources:Free Masterclass:  The Alchemy of the Perimenopause PortalAyurvedic Dosha Quick Reference GuideAbhyanga Self Massage GuideWeekend Nervous System ResetNourished For Resilience Workbook Find me at www.nourishednervoussystem.comand @nourishednervoussytem on Instagram

Send us Fan MailHello Dear Friend,Childhood experiences shape far more of our adult lives than we often realize.

Natalie Stavola and Christopher Louis dive into what really creates attraction in today's digital world—and it's not the perfect photo or carefully curated profile. From dating app pictures and social media filters to confidence, presence, and self-worth, they explore how authenticity becomes your greatest advantage. They share personal stories, practical strategies, and mindset shifts for building genuine confidence, overcoming self-doubt, handling rejection with resilience, and showing up as your most authentic self. You'll also learn why your energy matters, how presence changes the way others experience you, and simple techniques to instantly access greater confidence in everyday life. Whether you're navigating dating apps, building stronger relationships, or working on personal growth, this conversation offers actionable insights to help you stop performing and start attracting from a place of authenticity.  Keywords: dating profiles, authenticity, self-confidence, social media, photos, self-image, dating apps, inner work, self-love, digital dating confidence, energy, presence, self-worth, relationships, personal growth, mindset, authenticity, rejection, success Key Topics The importance of authentic photos on dating apps How social media influences self-perception The role of inner confidence in dating success Tips for taking genuine and flattering photos The impact of editing and filters on self-image The role of self-confidence in social interactions How energy and mindset influence attraction Techniques to switch on confidence instantly Handling rejection without losing self-worth The importance of presence and authenticity in success Takeaways Confidence is a skill that fluctuates and can be learned.  Energy and mindset directly impact how others perceive us. Practicing presence helps in reducing anxiety and increasing authenticity. Reframing rejection as a growth opportunity boosts resilience. Being true to your emotions accelerates personal and relational growth. Sound Bites "You look how you look like who you look like." "iPhones distort your face." "Confidence is a skill set." Chapters 00:00 – Introduction and Personal Stories 01:55 – The Reality of Bathroom Selfies and Profile Photos 04:01 – The Evolution of Self-Perception and Photos 06:02 – The Skill of Taking Good Photos and Posing 09:01 – Authenticity vs. Filters and FaceTune 12:03 – The Impact of Social Media and Editing Apps 15:06 – Inner Confidence and Self-Love in Dating 17:54 – The Future of Video Profiles and Authenticity  21:07 – Rejection, Self-Worth, and Inner Work 24:01 – The Power of Self-Perception and Belief Systems 28:02 – The Fluctuation of Confidence and How to Manage It 30:08 – Techniques to Instantly Switch on Confidence 35:12 – Handling Rejection and Maintaining Self-Worth 40:42 – The Power of Presence and Authenticity 44:59 – Using Energy to Attract Success and Love 50:35 – Overcoming Childhood Programming and Limiting Beliefs 55:01 – Practical Tips for Staying Present in Daily Life 1:00:00 – The Role of Inner Work in Personal Transformation 1:05:02 – Celebrating Small Wins and Building Confidence 1:10:02 – The Importance of Self-Compassion and Forgiveness Sponsor: If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: https://learn.nocd.com/dating Hosts info: Natalie Stavola - Instagram Natalie Stavola Coaching - https://natalie-stavola-coach.com Christopher Louis - Instagram Dating Intelligence - https://dating-intelligence.com/

Hiii friends! Originally posted in July of 2021, this episode is where Caleb Campbell and I discuss the power of vulnerability, self-compassion and self-acceptance and how they are all related. We are faced with these everyday, basically like the air around us. Having these conversations will help raise our self-awareness to it.Do you think the root of pressure can be us resisting our want to be vulnerable?What roles to self-compassion and self-acceptance play in vulnerability?We discuss all of this and more! This episode is deep and really makes you think (I sure did lol)Caleb Campbell is a life coach, keynote speaker and used to play football in the NFL. He has a story to tell and hopefully you take away something special from it today. His insight is truly inspiring!Caleb Campbell's information:Instagram: Caleb Campbell ~ Keynote Speaker, Author of Unstriving (@caleb_campbell) • Instagram photos and videosWebsite:Burnout Keynote Speaker for Leaders & Teams | Caleb CampbellMy information:Instagram: (@decompress_with_jess) • Instagram photos and videos

(Show Notes) What if addiction isn't the real problem? In this powerful episode of Why Not Me? Embracing Autism and Mental Health Worldwide, Tony Mantor sits down with psychologist, TEDx speaker, and bestselling author Dr. Adi Jaffe to challenge everything we've been taught about addiction, recovery, trauma, and personal transformation. Drawing from both his professional expertise and his own remarkable journey from addiction and prison to becoming a UCLA-trained psychologist, Dr. Jaffe explains why destructive behaviors often begin as attempts to survive emotional pain—not moral failures. Together they discuss: • Why addiction is often a response to trauma, pain, and unmet emotional needs • The powerful role shame plays in keeping people trapped • Why willpower alone rarely creates lasting change • How habits are formed in the brain—and why changing them takes time • The connection between anxiety, depression, addiction, and self-worth • Why healing begins with understanding instead of judgment • The importance of self-compassion during recovery • How changing your mindset can transform your life Whether you struggle with addiction, love someone who does, or simply want to better understand human behavior, this conversation offers practical wisdom, compassion, and hope. If this episode speaks to you, please follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who may need encouragement today. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode of The Feminist Dating Show is a juicy one-- I'm responding to a listener's voicemail about feeling completely hopeless after being ghosted... And after validating the hell out of her (because getting ghosted SUCKS), I got down to answering her question with a tactical action plan: How do you build hope in your dating life after so much disappointment? Is it even realistic to be hopeful in this dating climate? If these questions resonate with you, you're going to love love love this episode.  Links: Date Brazen on TikTok Date Brazen on Instagram 127. My response to the question, "Will I just die alone?" 128. The questions you don't say out loud.. 139. Body image and your dating life with Bri Campos 140. My bless and release strategy for letting go Kristen Neff, SelfCompassion.org Simone Seol's Joyful Marketing Podcast Work with Lily Join the Main Character Dating: https://datebrazen.com/dating Get the book, Thank You, More Please: https://datebrazen.com/book Download my free Essence-Based Preferences Creation Guide: https://datebrazen.com/workbook Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datebrazen/ Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@datebrazen Follow me on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DateBrazen

Host Mike Palmer connects with behavioral neuroscience expert and executive coach Dr. D. Ivan Young to discuss his book, Leading from the Heart. They analyze the balance between artificial intelligence and human emotion, detailing how self-empathy, compassion, and psychological safety impact leadership. Dr. Young also shares practical insights on managing emotional signals, navigating media-driven dopamine loops, and using metacognition to reset negative thought patterns. Key Discussion Topics: Self-Empathy First: Leaders cannot effectively provide empathy or compassion to others if they do not first possess it within themselves. Thermostats vs. Thermometers: Effective leaders actively regulate the energy and psychological safety of an environment rather than merely reflecting the existing temperature. Weaponized Empathy: Modern social media algorithms and political messaging exploit emotional triggers to divide populations, requiring individuals to consciously choose harmony instead. The Thought Map: A tactile, metacognitive exercise using physical writing shifts activity across brain regions to halt an amygdala hijack. Ethical AI & "Uriel": A clinical, patient-centered AI designed to eliminate programming bias and promote user self-efficacy and resilience. Authentic Human Connection: Addressing the loneliness epidemic requires disconnecting from curated online personas and grounding oneself in nature. Subscribe to Trending in Education on your preferred podcast platform, leave a review, and share this episode with your network. Visit TrendinginEd.com for more episodes. Learn more about Dr. D. Ivan Young and pick up Leading from the Heart: The Essential Guide to Self-Empathy and Self-Compassion in Coaching and Clinical Practice

Have you been setting the bar impossibly high for yourself today? When we fall short of perfection, that voice inside can quickly turn sharp, critical, and unkind. In this episode of Calming Anxiety, clinical hypnotherapist and former frontline paramedic Martin Hewlett guides you through a powerful 10-minute mindfulness session dedicated to silencing the inner critic and regulating your nervous system.Discover how to harness the power of the extended exhale to signal safety to your body, let go of stress, and gently reset your mental state. Whether you are coping with a panic attack, daily stress, or high standards that leave you feeling overwhelmed, this session offers a gentle space to breathe, release self-criticism, and return to a place of kindness.Chapters & Timestamps00:00 – Confronting the Impossibly High Bar & Your Inner Critic00:39 – Welcome to Calming Anxiety with Martin Hewlett01:34 – The Power of the Exhale: Shifting the Nervous System to Safety02:03 – Guided Deep Breathing Exercise for Stress Release03:04 – Visualizing the Color of Tension and Leaving It Behind04:37 – 5 Powerful Affirmations for Being Present07:40 – 3 Daily Caring Tips for a Happier, Imperfect Life09:08 – Bringing Awareness Back to the Present Moment09:32 – Final Insights & How to Overcome Darker Moments10:24 – Brand Sign-off: A Daily Mirror PracticeToday's AffirmationsRepeat these internally or softly on your lips to help them sink into your body:"I am doing the best I can with what I have today, and that is genuinely enough.""I release the need to be perfect. I choose instead to be present.""I speak to myself with the same kindness I would offer someone I love.""Falling short does not make me less. It makes me human, and being human is the whole point.""Today, I begin again—not from failure, but from experience."3 Daily Caring Tips for Self-Compassion1. Catch the Critic: The next time your inner voice turns harsh, pause and ask, "Would I say this to a friend?" If the answer is no, rewrite it in your mind using a gentler tone.2. Lower the Bar (Just for Today): Choose one heavy burden on your to-do list and consciously decide it can wait, be changed, or be dropped entirely. Permission to be imperfect is wisdom, not failure.3. Name One Thing You Actually Did: Stop focusing on what you missed. Count the small wins—getting up, showing up, breathing, or making a cup of tea for someone else. They all count.Go Deeper: The Anxiety Circuit Breaker CourseIf you are ready to stop just managing your anxiety and truly want to understand its root causes, the Anxiety Circuit Breaker Course is waiting for you.Built upon the exact clinical hypnotherapy techniques Martin has used to help thousands of frontline patients, this online course features five profound clinical sessions designed to rewire your response to panic, fear, and stress.

Shame is one of the most powerful forces shaping the nervous system. It can quietly influence how we think, relate, perform, heal, and even how we experience ourselves. Yet most approaches treat shame as something to challenge cognitively rather than something that has become embodied through years of protective adaptations. In this episode of Trauma Rewired, Jennifer Wallace and Elisabeth Kristof explore the neuroscience of self-compassion and why it is not simply "being nice to yourself." Self-compassion is a neurobiological intervention that changes brain function, increases emotional regulation, reduces threat activation, and creates the conditions for genuine nervous system change. Together, they unpack why shame becomes wired into the brain, how protective survival responses reinforce shame over time, and why healing requires more than insight. Through the lens of Neurosomatic Intelligence (NSI), they explain how creating safety within the nervous system allows new neural pathways to develop, making lasting transformation possible. If you've ever struggled with perfectionism, chronic self-criticism, people-pleasing, burnout, or the feeling that you're somehow "not enough," this conversation offers both the neuroscience and the practical tools to begin rewiring those deeply learned patterns. In This Episode What shame actually is from a nervous system perspective How chronic shame changes brain function and reinforces survival patterns The difference between guilt, shame, and healthy accountability Why self-compassion is a biological process—not positive thinking How self-criticism activates threat physiology The neuroscience behind safety, neuroplasticity, and emotional regulation Why insight alone rarely resolves shame How early attachment experiences shape lifelong self-perception The relationship between self-compassion and resilience Practical ways to begin rewiring shame through Neurosomatic Intelligence Why shame is often an adaptive survival strategy rather than a character flaw How your nervous system learns patterns of self-protection Why changing your internal dialogue without changing physiology often doesn't last How compassion supports neuroplasticity and nervous system regulation Why healing requires increasing capacity—not forcing change Small practices that help shift the nervous system toward safety and connection     Featured in This Episode Throughout this conversation, we mention the following resources:

In today's episode, Gina discusses the role of time in our anxiety healing journey, and specifically, our thoughts and perceptions of time. Urgency and the role of technology, constant notifications and information overload in exacerbating our anxiety are important factors discussed in this show. Listen in for tools and strategies you can use to reduce the effects of these factors that seem to rob us of our time and space. Start feeling better today!Stillpoint Fridays is my once-a-week Friday note — a slower, more personal reflection that's different from what I share on the podcast.If you'd like a quiet place to land as the week winds down, you can join here: http://eepurl.com/bR2F9P or on our website anxietycoachespodcast.com and sign up for the newsletter.Please visit our Sponsor Page to find all the links and codes for our awesome sponsors! https://www.theanxietycoachespodcast.com/sponsors/Website https://www.theanxietycoachespodcast.comJoin our community Group Coaching Join our Group Coaching Full or Mini Membership Program1:1 Coaching Learn more about our One-on-One CoachingIf you prefer to listen AD-FREE, try our Supercast premium access membership:Learn more about anxiety What is anxiety?Free Guided Meditation for Calming Your Anxious Mind 10-Minute Body-Scan Meditation for AnxietyQuote:Life is available only in the present moment.-Thích Nhat Hạnh Chapters0:27 Time and Urgency3:29 Anxiety Warps Time8:59 Chronic Urgency Harms Body11:32 Rhythm Over Rush14:06 Four Doors Away From Now15:38 A Practice for Presence17:23 You Haven't Missed LifeSummaryIn this episode we talk about urgency and how it sits beneath much of our anxiety. We reflect on how time pressure has changed over the years, with constant notifications, information overload, and the expectation of being always available making many of us feel perpetually behind.We explore how anxiety changes our relationship to time. We describe how the mind turns ordinary time into a threat, making us feel that we are running out of time, late in life, or behind in healing. We also note how language such as “I don't have time” or “I'm killing time” reflects a strained view of time.We consider the impact of chronic urgency on the body. We say that long-term time stress can affect sleep, digestion, concentration, irritability, inflammation, and overall nervous system activation. We also point out that people often mistake hurry for productivity and live in constant preparation rather than participation.We offer a different approach based on rhythm and presence. We distinguish healthy planning from rehearsing disaster or replaying regret, and we identify four ways we leave the present: regret, guilt, fear, and urgency. We close with a simple practice of pausing, taking one slow breath, and focusing on what needs attention right now, with the reminder that healing begins when we stop racing toward a future version of ourselves.#TimeUrgency, #AnxietyCoachesPodcast, #GinaRyan, #NervousSystem, #SlowingDown, #PresentMoment, #AnxietyRelief, #MentalHealth, #Overwhelm, #AlwaysAvailable, #DigitalDetox, #SocialMediaStress, #ComparisonCulture, #HealingJourney, #TimePressure, #Mindfulness, #InnerPeace, #StressManagement, #ChronicStress, #ProductivityTrap, #NatureRhythms, #ThichNhatHanh, #Presence, #MentalWellbeing, #SelfCompassion, #NervousSystemRegulation, #PresentMomentAwareness, #MentalHealthEducation, #DigitalOverwhelm, #ACPSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On the path to power through peace, our surprising energetic fingerprint, and practicing self-compassion.  0:00 — Introduction and Guest Welcome 1:39 — Discussion on "Permission to Glow" 3:50 — Exploring the Four Permissions 6:17 — The Difference Between Shining and Glowing 10:32 — The Pause Button and Personal Practices 13:23 — Meditation and Personal Transformation 19:28 — Self-Compassion and Personal Growth 19:40 — Conclusion and Final Thoughts Kristoffer Carter ('KC') is the author of Permission to Glow: A Spiritual Guide to Epic Leadership, which guides his team's coaching of Fortune 500 executive leaders. He is the CEO and founder of Epic Leadership, which has created a meditation practice for thousands. Kris's teachings have been featured in Men's Health, Fast Company, Thrive Global, and Good Life Project podcast. Kris sits on the Board of Directors of Yoga Alliance, and serves the global work of Paramahansa Yogananda, author of Autobiography of a Yogi. He teaches at Kripalu, and on Substack, via his column Permission to Chill. Kristoffer lives in Northeast Ohio with his three children.

In this guided loving-kindness meditation, I walk you through a powerful self-compassion practice designed to help you soften self-criticism, support the anxious parts of yourself, and cultivate a kinder relationship with your mind.

Healing isn't about skipping to action, it's about first listening to your body and taking little, intentional steps. Jennie and Dr. Sula Wingassen continue their conversation as the doctor shares a practical roadmap to mind-body healing; from finding the right health provider to reclaiming your sense of safety and self-compassion.Follow @IChooseMewithJennieGarth on Instagram and TikTokFollow @JennieGarth on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.