Podcasts about self compassion

In this episode of 8 Self‑Care Practices for Times of Injustice and Rising Fascism — we dive into self‑compassion, and how it can support you when old coping habits like emotional eating, numbing, late‑night eating, or eating for comfort show up. I unpack the nervous‑system science for how self‑criticism triggers stress responses and how (on the flipside) self‑compassion literally calms your body and nervous system, helping you think clearly and respond intentionally rather than reactively . I share real examples from my own journey and how noticing without judgment and asking "What do I actually need?" changes everything. This isn't self‑care fluff. It's much needed support and medicine. Press play. xo Brenda ps. Explore the different ways to work with me — my signature coaching program TL10, 30-day course She Creates Freedom or Private Coaching: The Last 10 (TL10) → www.brendalomeli.com/the-last-10 She Creates Freedom (SCF) →  www.brendalomeli.com/she-creates-freedom Private Coaching → www.brendalomeli.com/private-coaching

In this episode of It's All Your Fault, host Megan Hunter interviews Amanda Smith, LCSW, about her groundbreaking new book on self-compassion and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) skills for people who have borderline personality disorder traits. The discussion explores how incorporating self-compassion into treatment can enhance recovery and improve outcomes.Understanding Self-Compassion in BPD TreatmentThe conversation delves into how self-compassion serves as a vital but often overlooked component in treating borderline personality disorder traits. Amanda Smith draws on 19 years of clinical experience to explain why traditional confrontational approaches often backfire, while self-compassion can help reduce self-destructive behaviors and improve emotional regulation.Research shows that increased self-compassion correlates with better mental health outcomes, healthier relationships, and reduced anxiety and depression. This episode examines how these findings specifically apply to people working to manage borderline personality disorder traits.Questions We Answer in This EpisodeHow has treatment for borderline personality disorder evolved over the past 20 years?What role does self-compassion play in DBT skills training?How can family members support loved ones who cannot access immediate treatment?When should boundaries and limits be introduced in treatment?How does self-compassion affect recovery outcomes?Key TakeawaysSelf-compassion can serve as a replacement skill for self-destructive behaviorsDBT skills can be learned and practiced by family members to support loved onesTreatment approaches work best when starting with validation before introducing structureRecovery is possible with appropriate evidence-based treatmentEarly intervention, even before age 18, can be beneficial when approached appropriatelyThe episode provides hope and practical guidance for anyone impacted by borderline personality disorder traits, while highlighting the importance of combining clinical skill development with self-compassion practices. Listeners will gain insights into both professional and personal approaches to supporting recovery.Additional ResourcesWatch this episode on YouTube!Expert Publications by Amanda L. SmithThe Self-Compassion Workbook for BPDThe Dialectical Behavior Therapy Wellness Planner: 365 Days of Healthy Living for Your Body, Mind, and SpiritThe Borderline Personality Disorder Wellness Planner for Families: 52 Weeks of Hope, Inspiration, and Mindful Ideas for Greater Peace and HappinessExpert PublicationsSLIC Solutions for Conflict: Setting Limits & Imposing Consequences in 2 1/2 StepsProfessional & Personal DevelopmentAmanda Smith's Family DBT courseHCI's courses:Conflict Influencer® - for co-parents (new classes starting January 2026)Conflict Influencer® - for famlies (new classes starting January 2026)High-Conflict Law Certification - for legal professionalsConnect With UsVisit High Conflict Institute: highconflictinstitute.comSubmit questions for Bill and MeganBrowse our complete collection of books and resources in our online store—available in print and e-book formatsFind these show notes and all past episode notes on our websiteImportant NoticeOur discussions focus on behavioral patterns rather than diagnoses. For specific legal or therapeutic guidance, please consult qualified professionals in your area. (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault (00:46) - Meet Amanda Smith (03:34) - Creating a Life Worth Living (06:03) - Progression Over Time (09:45) - Other Terms (11:54) - Lack of Awareness (13:30) - Addressing with DBT (14:50) - Exceptions and Causes (16:11) - Giving Hope (17:55) - Age Groups (19:51) - When They Can't Get Into Treatment (24:37) - Boundaries and Limits (28:32) - Amanda's New Book (31:57) - Compassion for Self (37:11) - Trying the Opposite (41:59) - The Book (43:32) - Wrap Up

Stop being your own worst critic. These sleep affirmations teach you how to radiate kindness inward, developing a practice of deep self-compassion that lasts throughout your waking hours. Unwind now with our positive sleep affirmations podcast. Our soothing affirmations relax the mind and prepare the body for rest. Hit play, and drift into Good Sleep... Listen to more positive sleep affirmations by subscribing to the audio podcast in your favorite podcast app:  Apple Podcasts: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-sleep-positive-affirmations/id1704608129⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/3OuJvYoprqh7nPK44ZsdKE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ And start your morning with Optimal Living Daily! Apple Podcasts: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/optimal-living-daily-mental-health-motivation/id1067688314⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/1hygb4nGhNhlLn4pBnN00j?si=ca60dcfd758b44b4⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Stop being your own worst critic. These sleep affirmations teach you how to radiate kindness inward, developing a practice of deep self-compassion that lasts throughout your waking hours. Unwind now with our positive sleep affirmations podcast. Our soothing affirmations relax the mind and prepare the body for rest. Hit play, and drift into Good Sleep... Listen to more positive sleep affirmations by subscribing to the audio podcast in your favorite podcast app:  Apple Podcasts: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-sleep-positive-affirmations/id1704608129⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/3OuJvYoprqh7nPK44ZsdKE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ And start your morning with Optimal Living Daily! Apple Podcasts: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/optimal-living-daily-mental-health-motivation/id1067688314⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/1hygb4nGhNhlLn4pBnN00j?si=ca60dcfd758b44b4⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you've ever felt like no matter how much you get done, you're still somehow behind—behind in your work, behind in your life, behind where you think you should be—this episode is for you. We're going to look at why that "never enough" feeling shows up, how patterns like over-responsibility early in life, conditional validation, and fear-based survival wire us into always pushing and never quite feeling caught up, and how simply understanding this can start to soften the cycle you've been stuck in.   In this episode, you will learn: Why the feeling of being "behind" has so little to do with your actual productivity, and so much to do with how you learned to stay safe and valued The three core patterns that wire high-achievers into constant pressure, overdoing, and never feeling like enough How understanding where this cycle came from can start to loosen its grip, so you can relate to yourself with more compassion and less self-blame   ✨ Remember: You are exactly where you need to be right now. ✨   00:00 Introduction: The Never Enough Feeling 01:20 Understanding the Feeling of Being Behind 03:18 Core Patterns Leading to Overwhelm 03:32 Over Responsibility in Childhood 05:10 Conditional or Inconsistent Validation 06:13 Fear-Based Survival 07:19 Breaking the Cycle and Self-Compassion 08:52 Re-Parenting and Self-Acceptance 10:37 Conclusion and Next Steps ——————— Calmly Coping is a self-improvement podcast for high achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety to help you feel more calm, balanced, and confident from within. ———————

In this episode: A loving-kindness meditation focused on the bodyLearn to tune into your body's wisdomThis guided practice helps you cultivate kind, curious, and loving awareness toward your physical being.Begin by checking in with how you're feeling in this moment.Move through a gentle body scan, offering loving attention to each area.Close by expressing gratitude and compassion for your body, which enables every experience in your life.

Welcome to the Via Stoica Podcast, the podcast on Stoicism.In this episode, we explore why self compassion matters if we want to make real progress. Stoicism is demanding, and it can easily turn into a quiet kind of perfectionism, where every mistake feels like failure. But the Stoics were never asking us to be finished, they were asking us to keep training.Marcus Aurelius begins his reflections on Antoninus Pius with a simple lesson: “compassion.”Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, 1.17For the Stoics, this wasn't about being soft or excusing yourself, but about staying fair, steady, and willing to learn. When Marcus points to compassion, he isn't encouraging comfort for its own sake, but reminding us that harsh self judgment clouds reason, and makes it harder to correct course.You will hear practical reflections on the difference between being nice and being kind, how to use the Pause to step back instead of spiraling, and how the four virtues can guide honest self review without self punishment. The goal is not to lower the standard, but to keep moving toward it, as a student, one decision at a time.Listen to the full episode now and discover how self compassion can transform the way you think, act, and see your life.Read the related article: https://viastoica.com/why-stoic-progress-requires-self-compassion/Support the show

In this episode, Liz Boyd (11:23) shares her inspiring journey of recovery after suffering a stroke, detailing the physical and emotional challenges she faced. Liz candidly discusses the unexpected losses she experienced, including muscle mass, vision, and hearing, and how these changes affected her mental health. She emphasizes the importance of self-compassion during the recovery process, highlighting the struggle of transitioning from an overachiever to someone who had to relearn basic skills. Liz also opens up about the sensory overload she experienced in everyday situations, such as dining out, which led to panic attacks. As the conversation progresses, Liz reveals her newfound purpose in life: to raise awareness about stroke recovery and support others facing similar challenges. She recounts her incredible achievement of running the Boston Marathon just two years after her stroke, illustrating her determination and resilience. Liz's story serves as a powerful reminder of the strength of the human spirit and the importance of kindness and understanding in our interactions with others, as everyone has their own struggles and stories to tell.During the Tros, Eric and Six Star Erika catch up as Erika preps for her trip to Myrtle Beach for another Ultra, the Patriots are back in the AFC Championship game, and Eric gives his initial review of his new fruit phone, which just happens to be his first ever iPhone.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Weekend Recap11:23 Introducing Liz Boyd and Her Inspiring Journey15:10 Liz's Nursing Career and Passion for Healthcare20:59 The Impact of Community and Connections24:00 The Stroke: A Life-Changing Event40:57 The Journey to the Hospital46:25 Understanding the Medical Procedures53:39 The Last Ditch Effort: Mechanical Thrombectomy55:18 The Last Ditch Effort56:25 The Journey of Recovery58:07 Relearning Life Skills01:07:09 Mental Health and Emotional Recovery01:15:47 The Road to the Boston Marathon01:22:59 The Marathon Experience: Overcoming Challenges01:26:40 The Role of Family in Personal Growth01:29:35 Hot Takes for 2026: Shifting Social Media Narratives01:36:36 The Influence of a Strong Father Figure01:37:57 Future Aspirations and Running Goals01:42:42 The OutroTakeawaysI lost my muscle mass, vision, and hearing.It's okay to not be okay.We all have a story; you just don't know what others are going through.My purpose is to shed light and provide support.We need more real and unfiltered stories in social media.Strava GroupLinktree - Find everything hereInstagram - Follow us on the gram YouTube - Subscribe to our channel Patreon - Support usThreadsEmail us at OnTheRunsPod@gmail.com Don't Fear The Code Brown and Don't Forget To Stretch!

In this episode, Dr. Debi explores two fundamental aspects of healing from betrayal that don't get enough attention: worthiness and self-compassion. She reveals how early conditioning shapes our sense of worth, how betrayal amplifies these wounds, and why the shattering experience of betrayal offers a profound opportunity to rebuild yourself intentionally.  Key Topics Covered  The Roots of Unworthiness  How worthiness issues often start in early childhood  The ways institutions, religion, and caregivers may have taught you to "earn" your worth  Why some people had a vested interest in keeping you feeling unworthy  How these early beliefs follow us into adulthood unquestioned  When Betrayal Meets Unworthiness  Why betrayal can feel like confirmation of unworthiness  The dangerous cycle: tolerating what shouldn't be tolerated, accepting what shouldn't be accepted  How feeling unworthy can set up conditions for future betrayals  The missed opportunity when we don't question who we were and who we're ready to become  The Intuition Factor  Why we sometimes turn down our intuition before betrayal happens  The fear of "pulling the thread" that might unravel everything  How questioning one thing means questioning your entire life setup  Understanding why this is so difficult (and not your fault)  The Beauty in the Shattering  Why betrayal's complete destruction is actually an opportunity  How to intentionally rebuild rather than just return to who you were  The power of questioning decades-old beliefs as an adult  Dismantling beliefs that no longer serve you  The Self-Compassion Struggle  Dr. Debi's personal story: tying worth to productivity and achievement  The belief that "if you're having fun, you're not being responsible"  Why we're compassionate to everyone else but brutal to ourselves  The familiar pattern: "If I spoke to a friend how I spoke to myself, I wouldn't have a friend in the world"  Changing the Internal Dialogue  Dr. Debi's "adorable" practice: replacing self-criticism with kindness  Why being "easy on yourself" feels wrong (and why it's actually right)  The revelation: best ideas don't come from grinding at the computer  How rest and being (versus constant doing) actually increases productivity  The Bicoastal Shift  How moving between New York and California helped break the "hustle and grind" pattern  Recognizing deeply ingrained conditioning that needs undoing  The experiment: testing whether self-compassion affects productivity (spoiler: it improves it)  Key Quotes  "If nothing changes, nothing changes"  "Everything is energy" (referencing Masaru Emoto's water crystal experiments)  "Hard now, easy later. Easy now, hard later. Take your pick."  "Why in the world would you just want to go back to who you were?"  "You're worthy just because you exist—that's enough of a reason"  For Coaches and Practitioners  Critical reminder: Betrayal is a different type of trauma requiring a different way to heal. The right tools at the wrong time will set clients back. Beautiful tools that work with other clients may not work with betrayal clients. If your tools aren't working, there's very likely betrayal at the root.  Action Steps  Question your worthiness beliefs: Where did they come from? Do they still serve you?  Experiment with self-compassion: Try replacing one critical thought with kindness  Test the productivity myth: Take intentional time away and observe what happens  Pull the thread: Start questioning beliefs that no longer serve you  Rebuild intentionally: Don't just heal—decide who you want to become  Bottom Line  Betrayal shatters everything, which means you get to intentionally rebuild. Take on worthiness. Take on self-compassion. You're healing from one of the most painful human experiences—you deserve both.  If you're a coach, healer or practitioner interested in learning how to effectively guide clients through betrayal recovery, learn more about PBT Certification at https://thepbtinstitute.com

Do you ever wake up after a night of drinking feeling anxious, ashamed, and confused - like you can't trust yourself… even if nothing “that bad” happened?In this episode, I'm joined by Kathryn Elliott, a Specialist Binge Drinking and Alcohol Coach, to break down what binge drinking is doing to your mind and why so many people think they're “just anxious,” when alcohol is the actually causing it..We unpack the loop that keeps you stuck: drinking to cope, waking up with anxiety and self-criticism, then drinking again to escape it. We also talk about the “tipping point,” why your brain clings to familiar pain, and how to handle the social pressure of not drinking without feeling like you're letting people down.This episode will help you change your life by changing your relationship with alcohol.Kathryn Elliott is a Specialist Binge Drinking and Alcohol Coach.Timestamps: (00:00) Introduction(00:23) The Impact of Alcohol on Anxiety(01:25) The Journey to Sobriety(04:09) Social Pressures and Personal Boundaries(05:48) Mindset Shifts and Long-Term Benefits(09:40) Self-Compassion and Resilience(14:30) Reflecting on the Past: Regrets and Lessons(20:46) Practical Advice: Moderation and Awareness(27:22) The Dangers of Alcohol: Personal Reflections(28:20) The Consequences of Drunk Decisions(30:53) The Alter Ego: Drunk Personas(34:20) Mental Health and Alcohol(37:13) Health Implications of Alcohol(42:01) Societal Norms and Alcohol(51:12) Personal Reflections and Advice(54:41) ConclusionGet the FREE Move Your Mind Masterclass here:go.nickbracks.com/moveyourmindAccess FREE Move Your Mind training here:https://go.moveyourmind.io/trainingConnect with Nick:Instagram: https://instagram.com/nickbracksWebsite: http://nickbracks.comEmail: contact@nickbracks.comConnect with Kathryn:https://www.thealcoholmindsetcoach.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of the Get Strong podcast, Jessie Mershon dives deep into the struggles women face regarding body image and self-worth, particularly during challenging times. She shares her personal experiences from a difficult month, emphasizing the importance of self-compassion and the need to ask ourselves critical questions about our thoughts. Jessie introduces three key questions to help listeners navigate their feelings: Is this thought factual? Is it useful? Does it move me forward? By reflecting on these questions, she encourages women to take ownership of their feelings and actions, ultimately leading to personal growth and resilience. Jessie also discusses the significance of maintaining healthy habits during tough seasons, highlighting how routines can serve as anchors in our lives. She stresses that acknowledging our struggles is essential for moving forward and that we should challenge negative thoughts that do not serve us. The episode concludes with a powerful reminder that we are all made for more, and by taking ownership of our lives, we can become the best versions of ourselves, both physically and emotionally.     takeaways Ask yourself, 'Is this thought factual?' Acknowledge your struggles to move forward. Maintaining routines is crucial during hard seasons. Challenge negative thoughts that don't serve you. You are made for more; take ownership of your life. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Body Image Struggles 02:23 The Importance of Self-Compassion 04:18 Three Key Questions for Self-Reflection 10:24 Reframing Negative Thoughts 20:25 Taking Ownership and Moving Forward   Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs encouragement. Take your personalized vitamin quiz here:  https://meology.shaklee.com/?country=US&lang=en_US&site=jessie 1:1 Mindset Coaching: E-mail JessieMershon@gmail.com  Connect with me at https://www.instagram.com/jessiemershon

If the word “selfish” still triggers guilt for you, this episode is the permission slip you didn't know you needed. I'm joined by the ever-wise Suzy Reading to explore why so many of us in midlife struggle to receive support, set boundaries, and prioritize our own needs — even when we know better.We unpack the deep roots of people-pleasing, the pressure to be endlessly self-reliant, and how we can start to reclaim selfish as something powerful, not shameful. If you've been doing all the “right” self-care things and still feel depleted, this conversation will help you connect the dots — and offer a new, more compassionate way forward.Learn more about Suzy Reading and her new book How To Be Selfish here: https://www.suzyreading.co.uk/Did you enjoy this episode?#58 - Rest to Reset - Redefining Self-Care with Suzy Reading#132 - Why You Need to Put Capacity, Self-Compassion, & Self-Care on the MenuWhat did you think of this episode? Click here and let me know!Join this year's Midlife By Design workshop on January 25th by becoming a Feaster! Join the Midlife Feast Community and get this workshop alongside all the support you need to make this year about your needs too! ➡️ Go to https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/themidlifefeastcommunity to learn more

In this episode of Widowed AF, Rosie Moss is joined by Betsy Ronel, a widow of 15 years, mother, New York real estate agent, and host of the podcast Heavens to Betsy.Betsy shares the story of her marriage to Daniel, a gifted plastic surgeon known for his integrity and deep ethical conviction. From early online dating to raising young children within a small-town medical community, their life together was shaped by love, ambition, and complexity. Daniel's sudden death in a car accident shattered that world overnight, leaving Betsy to navigate shock, public scrutiny, parenting through trauma, and the long, slow work of survival.With striking honesty, Betsy reflects on the realities of widowhood that rarely get spoken about: the corrosive myths around “moving on,” the stigma attached to grief-related coping behaviours, and the way loss reshapes identity over years rather than months. She speaks candidly about mental health, financial instability, therapy, and rebuilding a life that still makes room for love and memory.Rosie and Betsy also explore the concept of what they call “pure grief”, mourning without betrayal or anger.Threaded throughout the conversation is humour, tenderness, and a deep respect for the person who died, alongside the hard truth that grief does not disappear. As Betsy puts it, “There's no way around the grief, it will be waiting for you when you come back to Earth.”This is an episode about enduring love, dignity in grief, and finding ways to keep going without pretending the pain ever fully leaves.Key themes:Sudden loss and long-term widowhoodParenting children after the death of a parent“Pure grief” and mourning without betrayalMental health, stigma, and coping behavioursPublic scrutiny and navigating loss in small communitiesRebuilding identity and life after lossChapters0:02 Introducing Betsy Ronel and Shared Widowhood Experience5:08 Love After Loss: The Beginning of a New Chapter9:52 Building Family and Life Transitions17:24 Professional Challenges and Sudden Loss27:11 The Day Daniel Died and Immediate Aftermath43:40 Facing Grief, Public Scrutiny, and Legal Battles57:43 Navigating Grief and Single Parenthood64:31 Supporting Grieving Children and Parenting Challenges69:09 Financial Struggles, Rebuilding, and New Beginnings78:20 Reflections on Healing, Self-Compassion, and Endurance#widowhoodjourney #griefsupport #emotionalresilience #childbereavement #suddenloss #mentalhealthafterloss #parentingthroughgrief #careeraftertragedy #griefandhealing #traumaticloss

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Resilience isn't about staying calm all the time or never falling apart. It's a skill you can build, especially when you're a working mom juggling a demanding career, family life, and constant mental load. In this episode, we talk about what real resilience actually looks like in everyday life and how to recover faster when stress, mistakes, or overwhelm hit.This conversation is especially relevant for working moms with ADHD or anyone who feels emotionally drained, behind, or hard on themselves when things don't go as planned.What you'll learn:Why resilience isn't perfection or constant productivity, but trusting yourself to recoverHow emotional regulation helps you move from panic or shutdown into problem-solvingThe role of growth mindset and self-compassion in building long-term resilienceA simple grounding technique to calm your body when stress spikesHow to tell if your resilience is growing, even when life still feels hardIf you've ever felt overwhelmed, burned out, or discouraged by your own reactions, this episode will help you see resilience in a new, more compassionate way and give you practical tools you can actually use.Free Resources:

How I'm Betting on Myself in 2026 (Without the January Pressure)As a new year begins, many of us feel the pressure to rush into resolutions, big goals, and nonstop productivity. In this short solo episode of Reinvention Rebels, I'm sharing a different approach to starting the year — one rooted in listening, intention, and self-trust, especially in midlife.Rather than pushing for momentum or perfection, I reflect on how I'm betting on myself in 2026 in a way that feels quieter, more compassionate, and more sustainable. I share how shifting away from all-or-nothing thinking around diet and exercise, protecting my energy, and allowing clarity to unfold over time has changed the way I approach growth and reinvention.If January feels louder or more demanding than you expected, this episode offers permission to slow down, tune in, and trust your own timing.In this episode, I share:✨ Why January pressure often leads to burnout instead of lasting change

This episode of Gay Men Going Deeper is less of a casual conversation and more of a confidence masterclass. One you'll likely want to come back to again and again. We break down what real, unshakeable confidence actually is (and what it isn't). Not the loud, performative kind, but the grounded confidence that comes from self-trust, self-compassion, and emotional regulation. We talk honestly about why confidence can feel harder for gay men, how minority stress and shame shape a harsh inner critic, and how we deal with setbacks. In this episode, we cover: How confidence is built through action, discomfort, self-compassion How shame and the inner critic quietly undermine self-trust Whether “fake it till you make it” actually works… and where it falls apart Why taking action builds confidence (and how inaction erodes it) How self-compassion keeps confidence intact when things go wrong What to do when confidence wobbles after rejection, embarrassment, or insecurity If you've ever looked confident on the outside but felt shaky on the inside, this episode will help you understand why, and give you a clear, grounded path forward. Save this one. It's the kind of episode you'll get something new from every time you listen. Today's Hosts: Michael DiIorio - Take the 360° Self-Review for Gay Men Matt Landsiedel Reno Johnston Support the Show - viewer and listener support helps us to continue making episodes - CONNECT WITH US - Watch podcast episodes on YouTube Join the Gay Men's Brotherhood Facebook community Get on our email list to get access to our monthly Zoom calls Follow us on Instagram | TikTok Learn more about our community at GayMenGoingDeeper.com - LEARN WITH US - Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others. Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame. Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series. Take the Attachment Style Qui... Chapters (00:00:05) - Gay Men Going Deeper: How to Build Confidence(00:01:05) - How to Build Unshakable Confidence(00:04:35) - What Actually Build Unshakable Confidence?(00:11:14) - How Do You Build Unshakable Self Confidence?(00:15:18) - How to Build Confidence(00:19:02) - Self-Compassion vs. Boastful(00:20:16) - What helps you build confidence? Join our Connection Circles(00:21:06) - Faking It Till It Actually Works(00:24:55) - "Faking It" Has It Work For You?(00:29:26) - Kinda Like Fake It Till You Make It(00:33:30) - You Should Be More Frumpy On The Podcast(00:33:48) - Gay Men: Unshakable Self Confidence(00:34:53) - How To Deal With Confirmations(00:39:15) - Reno on Being Confident(00:41:55) - How Do You Deal With Confidence(00:47:48) - Queens Talk About Self-Compassion(00:52:33) - Gayman's Brotherhood: Connection Circle

Welcome to Season 10 of Welcome to Self®, it is such a pleasure to have you here for this new chapter. In this opening episode, I am inviting you to take a long exhale and think about the relationship you have with your future self. Everything we do in the here and now is either a benefit to our future self or a cost they will have to pay later on. Join me as we explore how to move forward intentionally, remembering that we are always human first and perfection is never the goal. Links to Dr Hayley D Quinn Resources Reclaim Your Time and Energy: 6 Key Boundaries for Women Business Owners Download here, completely FREE! https://drhayleydquinn.com/resources/ Book now available: https://drhayleydquinn.com/product/book/ Link to podcast mailing list: https://drhayleydquinn.com/podcast/ Group Coaching Waitlist: https://drhayleydquinn.myflodesk.com/timetothrivewaitlist Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drhayleydquinn LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedIn.com/in/dr-hayley-d-quinn-43386533 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drhayleydquinn   00:00 Podcast Intro 00:41  Why Your "Future Self" Matters 01:00 My "Time Travel" Secret 01:46 A Kindness for Future You 02:27 Avoiding Problems Down the Track 02:51 The 80-Year-Old Perspective 03:11 Silencing Your Inner Critic 04:05 The Strength in Your History 04:30 Book Update: From Self-Neglect to Self-Compassion is almost here!. 05:43 What is Coming This Season 06:30 Choosing to Thrive 07:21 Learning from the Past 08:55 How do you want things to be moving into 2026? 09:35 Final thoughts on being "human first" and avoiding the pressure of perfection. 10:01 Podcast Outro

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Today's episode is with Dr. Ellen Albertson. Ellen is a woman in the middle entrepreneur who's a psychologist, registered dietitian, board-certified health and wellness coach, and mindful self-compassion teacher who empowers midlife women to reclaim their energy, confidence, and purpose.In this episode, you will learn:How to make self-compassion your superpower in midlife.Break free from the midlife trifecta: self-criticism, perfectionism & people-pleasing.Know your human design—your blueprint for aligned success.Connect with Ellen at:https://themidlifewhisperer.com/https://rockyourmidlife.podbean.com/https://www.instagram.com/the_midlife_whisperer/https://www.facebook.com/DrEllenAlbertsonConnect with Suzy:Take the New Midlife Quiz! Get unstuck and learn what your future self is craving so that you can take steps to regret-proof your life! Free! Only takes about 90 seconds. www.midlifequiz.comMidlife Happiness Jumpstart Experience: Enjoy a powerful experience of tiny joys and big shifts! Get ready for 14 Days of Happiness “Boosts,” which are tiny, science-backed actions delivered to your inbox daily, with a private WhatsApp group for connection and sharing together. Each happiness boost only takes approximately 5 - 10 minutes or less and builds your momentum for more of the same. Feel more grounded, present, and connected to more happiness now! Sign Up HereWomen in the Middle® Entrepreneurs: Are you a 50+ woman business owner or entrepreneur who's dealing with navigating classic midlife issues that are affecting the way you run your business? We're looking to interview guests just like you from a wide variety of different businesses! Apply now: www.midlifeinterviews.com. LISTEN HERE for iTunes and HERE for Suzy's website.HAPPINESS BREAKTHROUGH COACHING SESSION: Imagine having a private 2-hour coaching call to get some solid clarity about what's holding you back and be confident about your next steps forward! Time for a breakthrough! Limited spots available. Book here.THE WOMEN IN THE MIDDLE® ACADEMY: The “Academy” is an exciting, life changing, 12-month, online group coaching program and community for midlife women. You will develop a roadmap to help you go from being unclear about what you want to be crystal clear about how to create a more fun, meaningful, and regret free next chapter! Head over to www.womeninthemiddleacademy.com and apply and book your free call. I can help you find what's missing so that you love your life after 50.WOMEN IN THE MIDDLE SHOP:

Last year was a lot, especially if you have a sensitive soul. As we enter 2026, listen to this episode of the Awaken Your Wise Woman podcast as host Elizabeth Cush shares tips for slowing down and savoring the good in this new year. "I want to make 2026 the year of savoring, of really enjoying what is. And as sensitive beings, those of you who are highly sensitive, savoring often comes naturally. But you might need to be more intentionally mindful about your everyday experiences to truly savor the present moment."—Biz CushFor so many of us, the year we've just left behind was filled with intense energy, conflict, bullying and complicity. If you're tired of feeling exhausted by your news feed and the stress of living in the world today, you're not alone. The good news is that you don't have to feel that way. In this episode of the Awaken Your Wise Woman podcast, host Biz Cush, LCPC, a licensed professional therapist, founder of Progression Counseling in Maryland and Delaware, and a life coach for highly sensitive women, talks about the importance of balancing sensory input with quiet time and mindfulness, and the benefits of finding appreciation and gratitude in daily life. Listen in as she shares some tips that you can use to slow down and enjoy what each day of this new year brings.You can find the full show notes and resources mentioned for this and every episode here.Support the showI hope you enjoyed the show! You can also follow me here: Instagram YouTube Facebook

Negative self-talk can quietly erode your confidence, motivation, and emotional well-being — but it's not a personality flaw. It's a learned pattern your brain can unlearn.In this episode of Your Courageous Life, Kate explores three psychology-backed ways to shift the inner critic using tools from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), cognitive reframing, and self-compassion research. You'll learn how to separate yourself from self-critical thoughts, replace judgment with curiosity, and build a “counter-evidence” list to retrain your brain for truth instead of fear.This isn't about fake positivity — it's about building real psychological safety within yourself so you can live with more courage and clarity.

Struggling with body image? In this episode, authors Deb Schacter, MSW and Whitney Otto, MA, PCC share practical tools to navigate bad body image days, interrupt harmful cycles, and foster a deeper connection with your authentic self.  Learn how to "decode" your body image thoughts, turn judgment into curiosity, and strengthen the "BodySelf" muscles of awareness, curiosity, and compassion. They'll also guide you through exercises on understanding family influences, unpacking jealousy, exploring your relationship with clothing, and handling life's "Bad Body Image Moments". Packed with actionable insights, this episode empowers you to feel freer in your body, more connected to yourself, and better equipped to handle challenging body image struggles.   If you enjoy our show, please rate, review, subscribe, and tell your friends and colleagues!   Interested in being a guest on All Bodies. All Foods.? Email podcast@renfrewcenter.com for a chance to be featured.   All Bodies. All Foods. is a podcast by The Renfrew Center. Visit us at: https://renfrewcenter.com/

546. Self-compassion sounds simple—be kind to yourself—but for those of us with a loud inner critic, it can feel surprisingly hard to put into practice. This week, we'll break down three truths that make self-compassion more doable and less fuzzy. If you've ever worried that self-compassion means lowering your standards, let this week's episode (kindly) change your mind.Find Dr. Ellen Hendriksen on Substack.Find Dr. Jade Wu on her website.Find a transcript here.Have a mental health question? Email us at psychologist@quickanddirtytips.com.Find Savvy Psychologist on Facebook and Twitter, or subscribe to the newsletter for more psychology tips.Savvy Psychologist is a part of Quick and Dirty Tips.Links: https://quickanddirtytips.com/savvy-psychologisthttps://www.facebook.com/savvypsychologisthttps://twitter.com/qdtsavvypsych Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Are you self-aware? Thankfully, it's not a yes or no question. Self-awareness is the practice of knowing yourself without judgment and it isn't a one-and-done achievement. It's a lifelong practice that exists on a spectrum, varies across different domains of your life, and requires us to embrace all our multitudes—even the parts we'd rather push away. The truth is that you are worth knowing. All of you. We'll dig into some of the obstacles and superpowers that self-awareness brings, including its foundation for psychological health, wellbeing, and ultimately, living a more inspired life. About: The Joy Lab Podcast blends science and soul to help you cope better with stress, ease anxiety, and uplift mood. Join Dr. Henry Emmons and Dr. Aimee Prasek for practical, mindfulness-based tools and positive psychology strategies to build resilience and create lasting joy. If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review us wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts!   Like and follow Joy Lab on Socials:  Instagram TikTok Linkedin Watch on YouTube    Sources and Notes: Joy Lab Program: Take the next leap in your wellbeing journey with step-by-step practices to help you build and maintain the elements of joy in your life. Related Joy Lab Podcast Episodes Unmasking Your True Self: Exploring Authenticity and Awe [ep. 216] Embrace Your True Self: Accepted, Connected, & In The Game [ep. 217] The Road Most Travelled: Awakening Through Suffering [ep. 218]  Follow Your Bliss: Awakening to Joy [ep. 219] The Still Small Voice: Awakening with Soulfulness [ep. 220] Equanimity: A Tool for Emotional Reactivity & the Power of Grounding [ep. 48] Equanimity: When an Emotional Storm Hits & Thoughts Start Spiraling [ep. 49] Equanimity: Seeing our Storylines and Changing Course [ep. 50] Equanimity: Emotional Reactivity and Damage Control [ep. 51] Equanimity: Cleaning Up After the Storm with Self-Compassion [ep. 52] Self love is not narcissism [ep. 227] Authenticity series: Weathering emotional storms series: "They who have not looked on sorrow will never see joy." - Khalil Gibran "Once the storm is over, you won't remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won't even be sure whether the storm is really over. But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won't be the same person who walked in. That's what the storm's all about." - Haruki Murakami "We are not nouns. We are verbs. I am not a thing, an actor or writer. I am a person who does things. I write, I act, and I never know what I'm gonna do next. I think you can be imprisoned if you think of yourself as a noun." - Stephen Fry "The universe is not outside of you. Look inside yourself. Everything that you want, you already are." - Rumi Full transcript and show notes here Coming This Month on Joy Lab January's series on Self-Connection will explore: Self-Awareness practices and principles Self-Acceptance techniques for compassionate inner dialogue Self-Alignment strategies for living in integrity with your values Self-Concordant Goals: a powerful alternative to traditional goal-setting Applied mindfulness practices to deepen each component Please remember that this content is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to provide medical advice and is not a replacement for advice and treatment from a medical professional. Please consult your doctor or other qualified health professional before beginning any diet change, supplement, or lifestyle program. Please see our terms for more information. If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, help is available. Call the NAMI HelpLine: 1-800-950-6264 available Monday through Friday, 10 a.m. – 10 p.m., ET. OR text "HelpLine" to 62640 or email NAMI at helpline@nami.org. Visit NAMI for more. You can also call or text SAMHSA at 988 or chat 988lifeline.org.

We explore how mindful self-compassion helps women founders trade hustle and grind for gentle, sustainable motivation. A counselor shares practical tools, early warning signs of overload, and simple grounding skills to build a business with real boundaries.• definition of mindful self-compassion for female entrepreneurs• compassionate motivation versus hustle culture• using mindfulness to return to the present• therapist-backed skills before other interventions• Melissa's journey from burnout to better boundaries• designing business hours and email expectations• three pillars: mindfulness, self-kindness, common humanity• warning signs of overload and isolation• grounding methods: 5-4-3-2-1, nature, “where are your feet”• self-kindness tactics: comfort, soothe, validate, provide, protect, motivateGuest handout link ...please write us a review and subscribe so you don't miss any of the upcoming showsSupport the showConnect with Wendy Manganaro: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendymanganaro1/

Dr. Alexandra is joined by sobriety influencer, podcast host, and author, Suzanne Warye, and her husband, Russell Warye, to talk about the role alcohol played for them at various stages of their lives and their respective journeys towards sobriety. You'll hear them talk about the trouble with approaching alcohol with moderation, how shame becomes entwined with alcohol use, and how sobriety clears the landing for self-compassion and worthiness. Throughout, they discuss how their sobriety journeys impacted their relationship, both when Suzanne pursued sobriety first and then years later, when Russell followed suit. Resources worth mentioning from the episode:The Sober Shift by Suzanne Warye: https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-sober-shift-a-modern-day-guide-to-living-an-abundant-sober-life-suzanne-warye/016d6eef4f5d0831?ean=9780063437616&next=tSuzanne Warye's Podcast The Sober Mom Life, When Your Partner Stops Drinking (With My Husband!) https://thesobermomlife.com/2024/07/22/when-your-partner-stops-drinking/Suzanne Warye's Podcast The Sober Mom Life, How Sobriety Affects Your Relationship: https://thesobermomlife.com/2022/08/22/how-sobriety-affects-your-relationship/Learn more about Suzanne Warye: https://mykindofsweet.com/about-suzanne/Reimagining Love episode, “I Think I've Outgrown My Relationship!”: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-think-ive-outgrown-my-relationship/id1588419386?i=1000739258061Thriving Through the Holiday Chaos on MasterClass: http://masterclass.com/holidaysContinue the conversation with Dr. Alexandra Solomon:Ask a question! Submit your relationship challenge: https://form.jotform.com/212295995939274Order Dr. Alexandra's book, Love Every Day: https://bookshop.org/p/books/love-every-day-365-relational-self-awareness-practices-to-help-your-relationship-heal-grow-and-thrive-alexandra-solomon/19970421?ean=9781683736530Cultivate connection by subscribing to Dr. Alexandra's newsletter: https://www.dralexandrasolomon.com/Learn more on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.alexandra.solomon/ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Subscribe to Alli's New Substack - Wise Woman Method    Welcome to 2026! I'm starting the year with two best-of episodes focused on identity, confidence, and discovering who God made you to be. These truths are the foundation for everything you'll face this year.   Today, I'm sharing key moments from recent solo episodes—practical, scripture-based strategies to help you let go of limiting beliefs, build confidence, and pursue your biggest dreams. True leadership begins with knowing who you are.   Use this episode as your guide to real identity work. Apply what fits, revisit as needed, and let these insights transform your self-view for 2026.   Timestamps: (01:28) — What Self-Compassion Is & the Three Key Components That Change Everything (07:38) — The Confidence Myth and How God Created Us to Renew Our Minds (13:03) — Stop Playing Small and Start Showing Up Like You Mean It (19:45) — How to Stop Letting Old Stories Run Your Life and Rewrite the Narrative WATCH ALLI  ON YOUTUBE   Links to great things we discussed:    Catalyst Mastermind The Uplift app is here! Try it free for 30 days. Subscribe to Alli's New Substack - Wise Woman Method   I hope you loved this episode!

Send one way text to Rev Rachel Season 7 Begins: Releasing the Inner Critic and Choosing Self-Compassion in 2026As Season 7 of the Recover Your Soul Podcast begins, I invite you into a deeper conversation about healing self-judgment and choosing a more compassionate relationship with yourself.The spiritual path to a happy and healthy life is not linear. For many of us, the journey into healing begins through codependency, people pleasing, over-functioning, and self-abandonment. We learn early on to take care of others, to stay small, and to silence our own needs in order to feel safe or loved. Over time, this creates an inner critic that speaks harshly in the name of protection.In this episode, I reflect on how the Recover Your Soul Process invites us to gently uncover these patterns, understand where they came from, and release what no longer serves us. As we step into 2026 and a new season, we are being called to move beyond awareness and into embodiment, living from our wholeness rather than our wounds.I also share my own experience of how self-compassion, honesty, and spiritual practice allow real healing to occur by choosing kindness and truth instead of self-judgment.In this episode, we explore:How codependency and people pleasing lead to self-abandonmentThe role of the inner critic as a learned protectorUsing the Recover Your Soul Process to release old patternsChoosing self-compassion as a spiritual practiceStepping into a new cycle of healing and Start your journey with the FREE Recover Your Soul™ 9-Step Mini-Workbook- A gentle spiritual path to healing, letting go, and awakening. This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not allied or representative of any organizations or religions, but is based on the opinions and experience of Rev. Rachel Harrison or guests. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein. Take what you need and leave the rest.Support the showRev Rachel & Recover Your Soul www.recoveryoursoul.net FREE Support Group on Zoom 6-7PM MT on the 1st Monday of the Month Work the Process with Rev Rachel TRYASESSION for 40% off 1st session Working the Steps Program WORKSTEPS%50 Instagram, Insight Timer, TikTok, YouTube and Facebook private Facebook group RYS Bonus Podcast Patreon Member or subscribing on Apple Podcasts. Transcripts

Ever find yourself stuck in drama, reacting before you think, or feeling powerless in situations you care about?  In this episode of The Greatness Machine, Donna Zajonc dives deep into the Drama Triangle and its positive alternative, The Empowerment Dynamic (TED). She and Darius explore how cultivating awareness, clarifying intention, and practicing self-compassion can turn automatic reactivity into conscious leadership and personal growth. Donna shares practical strategies for recognizing when we fall into victim, persecutor, or rescuer roles, and how to shift into creator, challenger, or coach roles that empower both ourselves and others. Whether in family life, friendships, or at work, these tools offer a roadmap to more meaningful, effective, and empowered interactions. In this episode, Darius and Donna will discuss: (00:00) Introduction to the Empowerment Dynamic (02:35) Donna Zajonc's Journey and Background (05:34) The Drama Triangle Explained (08:26) The Empowerment Dynamic Framework (11:23) Understanding the Roles in the Drama Triangle (14:15) Shifting from Drama to Empowerment (16:50) The Importance of Awareness and Choice (19:59) Leadership and the Empowerment Dynamic (22:39) Challenging vs. Persecuting Roles (27:29) The Power of Words and Personal Growth (29:12) Understanding the Drama Triangle (31:07) Shifting from Persecutor to Challenger (33:06) The Role of Intention in Communication (34:54) Curiosity as a Tool for Growth (37:00) Navigating the Rescuer Role (38:53) Empowerment Dynamics in Leadership (40:57) The Importance of Self-Compassion (42:50) Tools for Personal and Professional Growth (44:37) Creating a Culture of Empowerment Donna Zajonc, MCC, is the Director of Coaching at the Center for The Empowerment Dynamic, where she designs and facilitates coaching programs based on the TED* framework (The Empowerment Dynamic). A Master Certified Coach since 2013 and recipient of Washington State's Excellence in Coaching Award in 2017, Donna has been dedicated to professional coaching since 2001. Alongside her business partner David Emerald, she helps coaches and leaders move from the Drama Triangle to the empowering roles of Creator, Challenger, and Coach. Donna lives in the Pacific Northwest, enjoying beach walks, good books, dark chocolate, microbrews, and time with her children and grandchildren. Connect with Donna: Website: https://theempowermentdynamic.com/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/donna-zajonc-mcc-612455/  Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine  Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Resilience isn't about staying calm all the time or never falling apart. It's a skill you can build, especially when you're a working mom juggling a demanding career, family life, and constant mental load. In this episode, we talk about what real resilience actually looks like in everyday life and how to recover faster when stress, mistakes, or overwhelm hit.This conversation is especially relevant for working moms with ADHD or anyone who feels emotionally drained, behind, or hard on themselves when things don't go as planned.What you'll learn:Why resilience isn't perfection or constant productivity, but trusting yourself to recoverHow emotional regulation helps you move from panic or shutdown into problem-solvingThe role of growth mindset and self-compassion in building long-term resilienceA simple grounding technique to calm your body when stress spikesHow to tell if your resilience is growing, even when life still feels hardIf you've ever felt overwhelmed, burned out, or discouraged by your own reactions, this episode will help you see resilience in a new, more compassionate way and give you practical tools you can actually use.Free Resources:

As we step into a new year, this solo episode invites you to pause, reflect, and intentionally define how you want to lead starting from the inside. Laura explores what it means to trust yourself as a leader and to draw from your internal vision, values, capabilities, and ways of knowing to guide how you want to lead in this new year. Rather than focusing on resolutions or external expectations, this episode centers alignment, self-compassion, and joy as powerful leadership strategies. You'll be guided through reflection and forward-looking practices designed to help you flex your leadership with clarity, confidence, and resilience in the year ahead. Laura walks listeners through the SELF Framework as both a reset and a call forward. The four-part approach includes Setting Your Vision & Parameters, Excavating Your Excellence, Leveraging Your Environment, and Framing Your Mindset with Self-Compassion. Laura ends the episode with a new year leadership challenge, inviting listeners to use their reflections from the SELF framework to write a leadership intention statement, identify three leadership strengths to intentionally honor this year, and to commit to one boundary that protects joy and wellbeing. This challenge is designed to be revisited quarterly as your leadership evolves. Tune in to this episode as an invitation to begin the year aligned, intentional, and deeply rooted in self-trust. Click here to download the companion reflection worksheet for this episode: https://blackwomanleading.com/leading-from-within-reflection-worksheet/  Also referenced in this episode >>  S6E7: Strengthening Mindful Self-Talk: https://blackwomanleading.com/s6e7-strengthening-mindful-self-talk/ About Laura Laura Knights is the Creator of Black Woman Leading® and host of the podcast. She is an executive coach, speaker, facilitator, and licensed clinical social worker with 20+ years of experience creating personal and professional development programs that have touched leaders worldwide. Her expertise and background in business, human resources, adult education, and social work uniquely equip her to teach others how to deal with both the "head work" and "heart work" required to succeed at work and in life.  She is the Founder and CEO of Knights Consulting LLC,  a leadership development consultancy that provides customized training and coaching programs to create more confident leaders and high-performing teams. Black Woman Leading® is a research-backed initiative which offers leadership development programming, a podcast, and an annual conference for Black women professionals. Black Woman Leading® is an initiative of Knights Consulting LLC. Learn more at blackwomanleading.com.   BWL Resources: Now enrolling for both the January  sessions of the Early Career and Mid-Career programs.  Learn more at https://blackwomanleading.com/programs-overview/ Full podcast episodes are now on Youtube.  Subscribe to the BWL channel today! Check out the BWL theme song here Check out the BWL line dance tutorial here Download the free Black Woman Leading Career Reset Kit - https://blackwomanleading.com/career-reset-kit/   Credits: Learn about all Black Woman Leading® programs, resources, and events at www.blackwomanleading.com Learn more about our consulting work with organizations at https://knightsconsultinggroup.com/ Email Laura: info@knightsconsultinggroup.com Connect with Laura on LinkedIn Follow BWL on LinkedIn Instagram: @blackwomanleading Facebook: @blackwomanleading Youtube: @blackwomanleading  Podcast Music & Production: Marshall Knights  Graphics: Dara Adams Listen and follow the podcast on all major platforms: Apple Podcasts Spotify Stitcher iHeartRadio Audible Podbay  

Are you tired of the New Year, New Me pressure? New Year's Eve can be a peak time for anxiety, driven by the stress of resolutions and feeling 'behind.' This guided self-compassion meditation is your antidote.Instead of demanding a total overhaul, this practice gently guides you to acknowledge the past year without judgment and meet any feelings of inadequacy with radical self-kindness. We focus on being enough right now, using supportive touch and simple, powerful affirmations to release the need for perfection. Perfect for finding peace and setting a gentle intention before midnight.Key Topics & Timestamps:0:00 - Introduction: Letting Go of the 'New Year, New Me' Pressure2:30 - Acknowledging Unmet Goals with Common Humanity4:30 - The Supportive Hand: Anchoring Self-Kindness6:00 - Self-Compassion Phrases: May I be free from pressure.10:00 - Setting One Soft Intention for the Year AheadDownload and save this practice to listen right before the clock strikes twelve.

It's New Year's Eve, and you're probably already thinking about January 1st. About fresh starts and new resolutions. About finally getting it right this time. But what if instead of another promise to fix yourself, you could step into 2026 with something completely different?In this episode, we explore what it actually takes to create lasting change (hint: it's not more discipline or willpower), and I share a new offering I've created specifically to support this work.What You'll Discover:• Why January 1st won't change you (and what will)• How to set intentions that actually align with what you want• The difference between fixing yourself and reconnecting with yourself• A new monthly space designed for nervous system safety and self-trustImagine waking up in 2026 without the constant mental noise about food. Imagine trusting yourself, feeling calm in your body, and actually appreciating the life you have. It's possible—but not through another resolution.Join The Gathering: A monthly space to stop trying to fix yourself and start learning to listen to yourself. Learn more and join at janepilger.com/gatherSpecial January Offer: Join by January 10th to receive free access to the 90-minute Intention Setting and Alignment Workshop on January 12th at 5pm Eastern.Founding member rate available if you join by January 20th.Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Binge Breakthrough Mini Series today.

The Girl Doc Survival Guide: Wellbeing in MedicineIn this New Year's Eve 2026 short, Christine highlights the focus of this podcast on work-life balance, physician wellbeing, burnout, and self-care; as well as compassion, empathy, career development, and emotional experiences in healthcare. Upcoming episodes will feature conversations with Dr. Oksana Babenko on preventing burnout with exercise and mindset, and Dr. Bulat Ibragimov on decoding decisions using eye tracking.00:00 Introduction and New Year Greetings00:20 Upcoming Topics and Expert Interviews01:03 Special Guests and Future Episodes01:25 Closing Remarks and Holiday Wishes

2025 was the year of the snake—a time of shedding layers, going blind in the process, and trusting that new skin would emerge. Alex reflects on the uncomfortable growth that came with letting go of old patterns, past trauma, and the identity he'd been carrying. This episode dives into self-compassion practices, why discomfort is necessary for transformation, and how embracing the unknown leads to freedom. If you're in a season of difficult change and need reassurance that shedding old skin is part of personal growth, this conversation about resilience and mindfulness will speak to you. Your turn to start the fire. Like what you heard today on Alex Perry on Fire? Tell us about it. Want to share what has helped you on your journey? We want to hear about that, too. Comment on social, DM us or give us a call.  Instagram: @alexperryonfire     TikTok: @alexperryonfire Call: 214-506-8023 

Send us a textI thought I was recording a tidy little year-end recap. A highlight reel. A greatest hits moment. Easy.Instead, I found myself staring at this year of conversations and realizing something way more uncomfortable and way more interesting. Certain themes kept showing up. Across guests who had nothing in common. Across topics that should not have overlapped. And somehow, those themes quietly rewired how I think about goals, ambition, self-compassion, and what I'm willing to accept in my own life.So this episode is not a highlight reel.It's a reflection on the three biggest lessons this podcast taught me this year and why they might matter for you too.One of them completely changed how I look at “stuck” goals and the stories we tell ourselves about why something isn't possible yet. Another challenged the way I think about self-compassion and why being kind to yourself does not mean settling or giving up. And the third forced me to take a hard look at what I'm letting into my brain every single day and how much low-quality noise we've all been normalizing.I share the moments that cracked these lessons open for me, the guests who sparked the shifts, and the questions that stopped me mid-spiral more than once this year.This episode is part reflection, part pattern recognition, and part invitation to stop carrying goals and beliefs that feel heavy, obligatory, or vaguely punishing.If you're heading into a new season thinking about what you want next or wondering why certain goals just don't light you up anymore, this one might land closer to home than you expect.What's Inside:The patterns I couldn't unsee after reviewing a full year of conversationsWhy some goals quietly drain you before you even startA reframing of self-compassion that removes shame without removing choiceWhat happens when you stop letting low-quality noise rent space in your brainThis episode isn't about doing more or fixing yourself. It's about noticing what keeps repeating and having the courage to question it. I'd love to know which theme made you pause or which one you're still chewing on. DM me on Instagram and tell me what you're carrying forward and what you're ready to leave behind.Mentioned in This Episode:Oonagh Duncan on InstagramFit Feels GoodLeave me a voice note on Speak Pipe!

The negative emotions that can accompany motherhood take many women by surprise. In this episode of the Awaken Your Wise Woman podcast, host Elizabeth Cush and Jess Althoff talk about how highly sensitive women can manage the overwhelm. “We are breathing all the time, but most of us aren't breathing correctly, and most of us aren't using our breath in ways that are beneficial to us.”  — Jess AlthoffExhaustion. Frustration. Overwhelm. Self-doubt. Anxiety. Guilt. Irritability. Even rage. No matter how much you wanted to be a mother, you may have been blindsided by the negative emotions that nobody warned you about. In this episode of Awaken Your Wise Woman, host Biz Cush, LCPC, a licensed professional therapist, founder of Progression Counseling in Maryland and Delaware, and soul guide for highly sensitive women, welcomes Jess Althoff, author of the blog “Raising Slow,” for a talk about postpartum anxiety and rage, and the importance of self-care techniques like meditation and breathwork in managing mental health. They also share their own experiences, as well as practical tips and techniques that can help mothers and other highly sensitive women get in touch with their bodies, reduce irritability, You can find the full show notes and resources here.Support the showI hope you enjoyed the show! You can also follow me here: Instagram YouTube Facebook

The Well Made Woman Audio Drop is a time-bound audio experience releasing a series of teachings that explore 13 inner skills for emotional self-leadership and healthy relationships.Each episode addresses a specific struggle many women face — such as emotional reactivity, self-doubt, resentment, overgiving, mental exhaustion, and disconnection — and offers a grounded, practical framework for change.After listening to the full series, you'll be invited to choose one pillar to focus on and begin practicing intentionally. What's Coming Next:Beginning January 1st, Dr. Chavonne will host a free experience calledWell Made Woman: New Year Energy — a space to take what you've learned and start living it in real time as you step into the new year.SIGN UP FOR THE CHALLENGE HERE:https://drchavonne.com/new-year-energy-challenge/

Welcome back to Pep Talk Friday! In this episode, Melissa Jones offers a reassuring, pressure-releasing message for parents navigating the emotional highs and lows of the holiday season. When expectations are high and routines are off, it's easy to feel like things should look a certain way—this pep talk is a reminder that real life (and real families) are beautifully imperfect.Melissa speaks candidly about why holiday moments don't always go as planned and why that doesn't mean you're doing anything wrong. She normalizes emotional outbursts—especially in girls—explaining that they often happen when daughters feel safest. With warmth and clarity, she introduces the idea of “resetting the day” as a simple, powerful tool parents can use to move forward after tough moments, without guilt or shame.In this episode, you'll hear:Why perfection isn't the goal—especially during family gatheringsHow your daughters's big emotions can be a sign of safety and connectionA practical explanation of what it means to “reset the day”Encouragement to meet emotional moments with presence instead of pressureA gentle reminder that patience and connection matter more than getting it rightThis episode is an invitation to release unrealistic expectations and give yourself grace—especially during the holidays. Parenting isn't about flawless moments; it's about showing up again and again with love, even when things feel messy.If this message resonates, consider sharing it with another parent who could use a little encouragement today. You're not alone—and sometimes, a simple reset can change everything.Melissa's Links:• Website • Instagram • Facebook• TikTok• LinkedIn

It's Christmas Eve, and maybe you're already thinking about January 1st. Already making plans to finally fix yourself—to eat better, exercise more, have more control. But what if the greatest gift you could give yourself this holiday has nothing to do with fixing yourself at all?In this episode, we explore why the constant search for the next fix keeps you stuck, and what actually creates lasting change. What You'll Discover:• Why trying to fix yourself is actually keeping you stuck• What your body really needs instead of more control• How to rebuild self-trust from the inside out• The gift that actually changes everythingWhether the holidays are joyful or difficult for you, whether you're surrounded by loved ones or navigating loss, there's insight here that can help you break free from the fixing cycle.Want to know why you struggle with food and what to do next? Start watching The Binge Breakthrough Mini Series today.

The holidays can feel especially heavy after the loss of a loved one, and in this heartfelt episode, Jen opens up about her own journey through grief during Christmas. She shares honest reflections and personal lessons learned from her first Christmas as a widow—how the holidays transformed from a source of pain to a season of deeper meaning. Whether you're facing your first holiday without your spouse or are years into your healing, this episode is here to remind you that you're not alone.3 Key Takeaways:Love Outlasts Loss: how the love for those we've lost doesn't disappear—it deepens and remains a meaningful part of our holiday traditions.Light Exists Within Darkness: Grief and the holidays can feel overwhelming, but Jen explains how small acts—like lighting a candle or sharing a laugh—allow light and hope to gently coexist with sorrow.Self-Compassion is Essential: Christmas is not a test of strength. Jen encourages giving yourself permission to rest, set boundaries, and embrace new traditions. Treating yourself with kindness opens your heart to compassion for yourself and others.If you're navigating grief this holiday season, tune in for comforting insights, practical tips, and the gentle reminder that—despite the pain—the heart of Christmas is still within reach.Only 3 more days to get the Widow 180 Workbook Series bundle on sale now. Get instant access to all 7 workbooks for one low price only until Christmas! Go to: https://widow180.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/1189761/?action=signup Be sure to join our Facebook group, Widow 180 The Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/312036956454927Also follow us on Insta: https://www.instagram.com/widow_180/Check us out on YouTube at Widow 180: The Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-DK_dl31qMilJ5cE6t9MVQFor more blog posts and resources go to www.widow180.comQuestions? Email me at jen@widow180.com

Episode SummaryJoin Adam Coelho for a gentle guided meditation focused on the transformative practice of starting again. This 10-minute meditation guides you through mindful breathing, present moment awareness, and the powerful reminder that no matter how many times your mind wanders, you always have the ability to begin fresh with just one breath.This practice emphasizes self-compassion and the understanding that distraction isn't a failure—it's simply an opportunity to return to the present moment. The meditation concludes with a gratitude practice, inviting you to connect with something you're grateful for and feel that appreciation throughout your body.Perfect for both beginners and experienced meditators looking for a reminder that starting again is always available, anywhere, anytime.What You'll PracticeBreath awareness: Finding your home base in the sensations of breathingNon-judgmental awareness: Meeting your experience with openness, kindness, and curiosityThe art of beginning again: Recognizing when attention has wandered and gently returning to the presentGratitude practice: Cultivating appreciation and letting it infuse your entire beingAccessibility: Understanding that this practice is available with just one mindful breathKey TakeawaysMeditation isn't about never getting distracted—it's about noticing when you've wandered and choosing to come backEach in-breath is a new beginning; each out-breath is a chance to let goThe ability to start again applies not just to meditation, but to life more broadlyWhen you notice your mind has wandered, you're already back—simply choose to begin againGratitude can be a full-body experience that infuses every cellThis practice is accessible anywhere, anytime, with just one conscious breathResources MentionedMindful Fire Envisioning Guide: mindfulfire.org/start - Download this free 10-minute guide to craft a clear and inspiring vision for your life

Send us a textWhat do self-compassion, Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs, and gratitude have in common—and how can they help you navigate life transitions with more clarity and confidence?In this reflective episode, Debbie McAllister, Spiritual Transformational Coach and host of the Light Up Your Worth Podcast, shares her wandering thoughts on personal growth, emotional healing, and rebuilding your life from the inside out. Debbie explores how meeting your core needs, practicing self-compassion, and cultivating gratitude can unlock deeper self-worth and inner alignment.This episode is especially for women in transition—whether you're navigating career shifts, relationship changes, personal reinvention, or spiritual awakening—and looking for grounded, soulful guidance.What You'll Learn in This Episode• How self-compassion supports emotional healing and resilience• The role of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs in personal growth and self-worth• Why gratitude is a powerful tool during times of transition• How to identify and release subconscious blocks and self-sabotaging patterns• Gentle ways to move forward with confidence and inner alignmentAbout Debbie McAllisterDebbie McAllister is a Spiritual Transformational Coach, intuitive healer, and host of the Light Up Your Worth Podcast. She helps women in transition identify and overcome internal blocks that prevent them from living out their deepest desi You've built a successful career, checked all the boxes—but inside, you feel exhausted, burned out, and lost. 'Is this all there is?'I'm Debbie McAllister, Midlife Fulfillment Coach. I created the Beyond Success Blueprint—a structured process for high-achieving midlife women who refuse to choose between success and fulfillment. I'll help you rediscover what lights you up and create your next chapter beyond titles, expectations, and exhaustio  Thank you for joining me on another episode of Light Up Your Worth. If today's conversation resonated with you, I invite you to leave a review and share this episode with a friend who's ready to create her next chapter beyond titles, expectations, and exhaustion. Remember, you've built incredible success and you deserve to feel aligned, fulfilled, and authentic. Visit light up your worth.net . Until next time, keep shining your liSupport the showI'd be honored to walk beside you in this intimate space through my monthly Light Up Your Worth Society soul circle. Come home to yourself and join our heart-centered community. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lightupyourworth YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/Lightupyourworthpodcast Facebook Business Page: https://www.facebook.com/LightUpYourWorthwithDebbieMcAllister From my heart to yours, I'd love to invite you to support our podcast journey! If you've found value in our conversations and would like to share some love, you can treat me to a virtual coffee for just $5. It's a beautiful way to contribute whenever you feel called - no pressure, no commitments, just pure appreciation flowing both ways. https://www.buymeacoffee.com/lightupyrworth Spread your light with our soul family across 35 countries and beyond!

Self-awareness can be powerful, but without self-compassion, it can easily turn into self-criticism or shame. In this episode of Love Each Other Better, I talk with Cheri Krause, Licensed Professional Counselor, Coach, and teacher of Nonviolent Communication, and my friend and colleague of nearly twenty years. Cheri is passionate about the transformative power of self-compassion, and shares her knowledge, experience, and wisdom with us generously in this conversation. In this episode, you'll learn: What self-compassion actually is and why it's essential alongside self-awareness A practical six-step approach to self-compassion that can be applied right away How to shift from self-abandonment to self-accompaniment in daily life Ways to strengthen relationships through compassion for yourself and others Tools to feel connected, good enough, and grounded even under life's pressures Whether you want to bring more kindness to yourself, deepen your relationships, or navigate life with more ease, this episode is full of insights and practices you can start using today.  Connect with my guest, Cheri Krause: Cheri Krause is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Coach. They are a nonbinary individual who first learned about Nonviolent Communication while living in the country, India, where they lived for over ten years. Most recently, Cheri has been fascinated by self compassion, like that taught by Kristin Neff, Ph.D. https://www.invitingpresence.com cheri@invitingpresence.com   Connect with your host, Ali Miller: Training + Coaching Explore my 9-week private coaching program for couples: Stop Fighting! (without stuffing your feelings or sacrificing your needs): https://www.alimillercoaching.com/stopfighting Free Resources Feelings & Needs Cheatsheets: https://www.alimillercoaching.com/feelingsandneeds Free Mini-Course: The 4 Steps to Stop Any Fight Without Giving In https://www.alimillercoaching.com/freeminicourse Befriending Ourselves: Resources for Inner Peace & Compassionate Self-Care Connect with Ali Instagram: @alimillercoaching Free Private Facebook Group: NVC for Couples https://www.facebook.com/groups/nvcforcouples Email: ali@alimillercoaching.com Website: https://www.alimillercoaching.com  

After the blockbuster success of her first book, Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat, Samin Nosrat felt pressure to follow it up with something big. But when depression and grief hit, she was forced to slow down and accept help (and cooking) from people around her. In this episode, Samin talks about getting "chef 911" texts from friends on Thanksgiving, new romance, and finding happiness outside of success. Samin's new cookbook is Good Things: Recipes and Rituals to Share with People You Love Listen to How to Face Your Fears With Steve-O, Laurel Braitman, and Rev. angel Death, Sex & Money is now produced by Slate! To support us and our colleagues, please sign up for our membership program, Slate Plus! Members get ad-free podcasts, bonus content on lots of Slate shows, and full access to all the articles on Slate.com. Sign up today at slate.com/dsmplus. Use the promo code DSM50 for half off through the end of the year! And if you're new to the show, welcome. We're so glad you're here. Find us and follow us on Instagram and you can find Anna's newsletter at annasale.substack.com. Our new email address, where you can reach us with voice memos, pep talks, questions, critiques, is deathsexmoney@slate.com. Get 50% Off Monarch Money, the all-in-one financial tool at ⁠www.monarchmoney.com/DSM⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

After the blockbuster success of her first book, Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat, Samin Nosrat felt pressure to follow it up with something big. But when depression and grief hit, she was forced to slow down and accept help (and cooking) from people around her. In this episode, Samin talks about getting "chef 911" texts from friends on Thanksgiving, new romance, and finding happiness outside of success. Samin's new cookbook is Good Things: Recipes and Rituals to Share with People You Love Listen to How to Face Your Fears With Steve-O, Laurel Braitman, and Rev. angel Death, Sex & Money is now produced by Slate! To support us and our colleagues, please sign up for our membership program, Slate Plus! Members get ad-free podcasts, bonus content on lots of Slate shows, and full access to all the articles on Slate.com. Sign up today at slate.com/dsmplus. Use the promo code DSM50 for half off through the end of the year! And if you're new to the show, welcome. We're so glad you're here. Find us and follow us on Instagram and you can find Anna's newsletter at annasale.substack.com. Our new email address, where you can reach us with voice memos, pep talks, questions, critiques, is deathsexmoney@slate.com. Get 50% Off Monarch Money, the all-in-one financial tool at ⁠www.monarchmoney.com/DSM⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

After the blockbuster success of her first book, Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat, Samin Nosrat felt pressure to follow it up with something big. But when depression and grief hit, she was forced to slow down and accept help (and cooking) from people around her. In this episode, Samin talks about getting "chef 911" texts from friends on Thanksgiving, new romance, and finding happiness outside of success. Samin's new cookbook is Good Things: Recipes and Rituals to Share with People You Love Listen to How to Face Your Fears With Steve-O, Laurel Braitman, and Rev. angel Death, Sex & Money is now produced by Slate! To support us and our colleagues, please sign up for our membership program, Slate Plus! Members get ad-free podcasts, bonus content on lots of Slate shows, and full access to all the articles on Slate.com. Sign up today at slate.com/dsmplus. Use the promo code DSM50 for half off through the end of the year! And if you're new to the show, welcome. We're so glad you're here. Find us and follow us on Instagram and you can find Anna's newsletter at annasale.substack.com. Our new email address, where you can reach us with voice memos, pep talks, questions, critiques, is deathsexmoney@slate.com. Get 50% Off Monarch Money, the all-in-one financial tool at ⁠www.monarchmoney.com/DSM⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices