Podcasts about self compassion

Send us a textYou know that moment when you catch your reflection in the TV at 10 p.m., half a bag of chips deep, and think, “Is this… it?” That was Tara Bohle. Homeschooling three kids, caring for a baby, and stuck in that endless loop of exhaustion and guilt—couch, chips, repeat. Until one random scroll changed everything.In this episode, I chat with Tara about what it really looks like to rebuild your habits from the ground up when you've got zero energy and even less time. We talk about the exact moment that flipped her switch (spoiler: it involved a Facebook ad and a serious “enough is enough” moment), how she found herself again after years of putting everyone else first, and how she's been rocking her health and energy ever since, without the all-or-nothing bullshit.This isn't one of those “and then I lost 40 pounds in two weeks” stories. It's a real woman talking about what happens when you decide you're done feeling like crap and start showing up for yourself, even if it's just by going to bed early and hiding the chips in the garage. Tara is funny, honest, and proof that transformation doesn't come from perfection. It comes from one badass decision at a time.If you've ever thought, “I just don't have time,” or caught yourself saying, “I'll start Monday,” you need this episode. Because Tara didn't wait for the perfect time, she made it.What's Inside:The single “couch moment” that sparked Tara's transformationHow she built healthy habits while homeschooling three kids and caring for a babyThe mindset shift that ended her guilt-shame-start-over cycle for goodWhy letting go of “all or nothing” thinking might be the most freeing thing you'll ever doWhat's keeping you on the couch right now? The chips, the exhaustion, or that sneaky voice saying you'll start tomorrow? Look, you can totally change your life without flipping it upside down. I want to hear your story. What's your “enough is enough” moment? DM me on Instagram and let's talk about it.Mentioned in This Episode:Check out Tara on spotify!Tara Bohle on InstagramOonagh Duncan on InstagramFit Feels GoodLeave me a voice note on Speak Pipe!

Ever find yourself thinking: “I should be further along by now”? Our society is so OBSESSED with finishing things… what if strength lives in what's still taking shape?I've been taking an adult learning programme on resilience at my old university, University College Cork,  and spending more time in my friend Juli's clay studio. There, I noticed: the clay pieces I tried to make perfect felt lifeless. The ones with flaws felt alive. This naturally led me back into the world of Wabi‑sabi — the Japanese aesthetic of imperfection, impermanence, and incompleteness — and how it mirrors resilience. In this episode, I walk you through:The cultural myth of “completion” and why we still chase itHow wabi-sabi challenges that mythWhat resilience really is — and how it shows up in softness not hardnessA short practice you can use this week to lean into being unfinishedIf you felt even a flicker of recognition in this episode, share it with someone who might need a reminder that perfection isn't the point — being alive is. And if you're ready to lean into being imperfect and resilient, head to my site and check out my coaching options → jenniferwalter.me/coachingSend me a DM_____________________________________________________________________ Visit jenniferwalter.me – your cosy corner where recovering perfectionists, tired minds, and those done pretending to be fine find space to breathe, dream, and create real change.

Meditation changed everything for Chris Lee. From Green Beret to father and high-performance coach, meditation wasn't just a tool—it was a lifeline that helped Chris thrive on the battlefield and at home. In this episode, you'll discover how meditation gave Chris an edge when pressure mounted, and how meditation helped him become a better leader, a more connected dad, and a genuinely fulfilled human being. Chris's journey proves that meditation isn't just about sitting still—it's about transforming anger into calm, stress into resilience, and uncertainty into clear purpose.Hear real stories of how Chris Lee used meditation to push past old limits and unlock patience, clarity, and strength. He combines insights from elite special forces training with practical meditation advice fit for any man navigating work and family life. With hard-won lessons and a dose of humor, Chris shows us why meditation belongs in your daily routine—whether you're chasing success, battling overwhelm, or simply looking to be a stronger, more present man.Timestamps:00:00 - Introduction01:48 - Engaging in Meditation02:50 - One Breath Grounding Practice03:32 - Chris's Journey to Meditation04:11 - The Evolution of Chris's Practice06:11 - Walking Meditation Insights08:44 - Self-Compassion in Meditation10:20 - Meditation's Impact on Relationships12:14 - Realizing the Benefits of Meditation14:40 - Transition from Military to Mindfulness18:27 - The Need for Awareness21:13 - Career Shift to Coaching23:33 - Meditation as a Superpower25:00 - The Journey to Inner Peace27:25 - Removing Labels Through Meditation30:02 - Resistance in Meditation31:41 - Non-Doing in Meditation34:18 - Finding Time for Meditation36:02 - Tracking Progress and Metrics39:15 - Mindful Choices and Alcohol42:57 - Creating a Daily Meditation ProtocolFeeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Welcome back to the Dr. Kinney Show!This week, I'm joined by Sara Corckran, mindset and positive psychology coach, speaker, and author of Grit and Grace: How to Find Clarity and Optimism in Overwhelming Situations. Sara's story and work beautifully bridge mindset and medicine, showing how the way we think about our challenges can change how we move through them.In this conversation, we talk about the power of slowing down, listening to your body, and learning to truly care for yourself, not just by doing more, but by being more intentional. Sara shares how her own journey through caregiving, cancer, and healing reshaped her understanding of resilience, self-compassion, and what it means to live in alignment with your body and mind.In this episode, we discuss:Sara's personal journey through adversity and what inspired Grit and GraceHow positive psychology tools can shift your mindset and your healingWhy loving yourself and letting others in can be so hard, and how to startThe importance of gratitude and reframing adversity as opportunityHow listening to your body can prevent burnout and diseaseThe “thermometer” of self-awareness and what it teaches usThe connection between slowing down, creativity, and nervous system balanceWhy boundaries, rest, and unplugging are acts of self-respectHow mindset influences physical healing and recoveryThe value of support, and why we're not meant to do life aloneThis episode is a warm, real reminder that healing isn't about perfection, it's about presence, self-kindness, and learning to tune in to what your body and mind have been trying to tell you all along.Connect with Sara Corckran:Visit corckrancoaching.com to learn more about her coaching programs and upcoming offeringsFollow her on Instagram and Substack for uplifting insights and mindset toolsPick up Grit and Grace: How to Find Clarity and Optimism in Overwhelming Situations on Amazon or at your favorite local bookstore

Send us a textWhen your child is in full meltdown mode, what do you do?If you've ever felt like you're trying to hold it together while everything around you is falling apart—you're not alone. In this powerful episode, Brigitte talks with Lisa Candera, solo mom to a teen with severe autism and OCD, full-time attorney, and certified life coach for autism moms.Lisa shares the hard-earned tools that helped her stop reacting out of overwhelm and start responding with calm, clarity, and compassion. She introduces her Meltdown Action Plan—a simple, step-by-step approach to staying regulated when your child isn't.

If motherhood ever cracked you open in ways you didn't expect—old grief surfacing, worthiness wobbling, “Who even am I now?”—this conversation will feel like oxygen.I'm joined by Anna Seewald—Armenian-born educator, psychologist, and parenting & co-parenting specialist. After surviving the 1988 Spitak earthquake at 13 (losing her mother, home, friends, and community), Anna built a life and practice in the U.S. For the last 17 years she's worked with parents in New Jersey as a therapist and divorce mediator, helping families heal patterns at the root—without perfectionism, shame, or Band-Aid fixes.We're diving into: ✔️ Trauma-informed parenting 101: why early loss/relational wounds resurface in pregnancy and the “dark side” of early motherhood—and how to stop repeating unconscious patterns ✔️ Worthiness, shame, and the nervous system: why self-compassion (not self-critique) is the real regulator—and how to practice acceptance even when you don't “love” every part of you ✔️ Practical repair tools: catching the harsh inner critic, shifting from people-pleasing to needs-honoring, body gratitude over body punishment, and simple in-the-moment resets (hand-on-heart, kinder self-talk, micro-choices)If you feel like you've been hanging onto parents for dear life—or minimizing your story because it's not “capital-T” trauma—this episode offers grounded hope and clear next steps.

Having chronic pain often feels incredibly lonely. You might not know anybody else who has the same condition. In addition, most people you're close to, even though they might be well-intentioned, might not understand what you're going through.  But the fact is that probably thousands and thousands of people all over the world know exactly what you're feeling. In this meditation, Christiane Wolf offers a guided practice to meet your own body in pain and relieve that sense of isolation by internally connecting with others who understand your experience.  Christiane Wolf, MD, PhD is a former physician, internationally known mindfulness and Insight (Vipassana) meditation teacher. She is passionate about translating ancient wisdom teachings into accessible and applicable modern-day language. She is the author of Outsmart Your Pain – Mindfulness and Self-Compassion to Help You Leave Chronic Pain Behind and the co-author of the classic training manual for mindfulness teachers, A Clinician's Guide To Teaching Mindfulness. Christiane is the lead-consultant and teacher trainer for the VA's (US Department of Veteran Affairs) National Mindfulness Facilitator Training and a senior teacher at InsightLA. She is the mom of three amazing humans and can usually be found in the Los Angeles area training for ultramarathons and triathlons. The transcription of this guided meditation will be online at Mindful.org next week.  Stay curious, stay inspired. Join our community by signing up for our free newsletter:  mindful.org/signup Show Notes Find more from Christiane Wolf here. Go Deeper Living with chronic conditions is one of the most difficult challenges to face—the effects are never just physical. While mindfulness is never a cure-all for pain or illness, it can offer relief in sometimes-surprising ways. To learn more about how mindful practices can ease suffering in mind and body, check out these articles from the archive: Let Your Pain Be a River: Vidyamala Burch on Living and Teaching With Chronic Pain  The Science of Chronic Stress, Inflammation, and Mindfulness  How to Live Well with Chronic Pain and Illness  How Mindfulness Provides Relief from Chronic Pain  For more practice using meditation to be with your body, even when it's in pain, here is a meditation from pain expert Vidyamala Burch: Filling the Body With Light: 12 Minute Meditation.  And more from Mindful here: More episodes of 12 Minute MeditationLet us know what you thought of this episode of 12 Minute Meditation by leaving a review or by emailing yourwords@mindful.org.

What if every ending was just the beginning of your next transformation? In this Big Crystal Energy deep dive, host Ashleigh Bodell explores the intense, mystical energy of Scorpio Season - a time of death, rebirth, and profound renewal. Drawing inspiration from the myth of Persephone, the Phoenix, and her own shadow-season experiences, Ashleigh reveals how to work with this energy through crystals, tarot, and ritual.You'll discover the most powerful stones for emotional healing and spiritual rebirth - like black obsidian, garnet, and malachite - plus journal prompts and intuitive practices to help you integrate your shadows and rise stronger than before.Whether you're crystal-curious, a mystic in metamorphosis, or just feeling Scorpio's cosmic pull, this episode invites you to dive deep, shed old skins, and reclaim your magic.Because transformation isn't a phase - it's your evolution.Key Moments: 15:29 "Scorpio: Transformation and Taboo"18:36 "Scorpio's Transformative Journey"22:12 Self-Reflection and Inner Healing26:18 Scorpio Season: Death as Renewal28:15 Scorpio's Transformative Stones.33:17 "Crystals for Self-Compassion"34:02 Scorpio Energy: Serpentine & Garnet38:53 "Scorpio Transformation Crystal Ritual"42:49 "Shadow Work Crystal Guide"44:49 Scorpio Influences: Fortune & Sagan48:40 Scorpio Season: Death & Rebirth50:53 "Power Lies in Your Shadows"Meet Ashleigh Bodell – your guide to the mystical and the magical on the Big Crystal Energy Podcast.By day, she's a dedicated orthopedic physician assistant, but by night, she dives deep into the metaphysical, exploring crystals, energy work, and the unseen forces that shape our world. From childhood fascinations with witches and faeries to a transformative rediscovery of crystals, Ashleigh's journey bridges science and spirituality, the practical and the mystical. A mom, a wife, and a seeker, she brings a relatable, no-fluff approach to exploring the “spooky and kooky” side of life. Through Big Crystal Energy, she creates a space where the magical and the mundane coexist—because we don't have to choose between our careers, families, and the call of the unknown.Tune in as she uncovers wisdom from crystal healers, spiritual coaches, and magic makers, inviting you to embrace your own big crystal energy.Connect Ashleigh : https://www.instagram.com/bigcrystalenergypodcast/https://www.instagram.com/mystical.mama.ashSend me any questions or comments you may have and I will answer them on upcoming podcast episodes!! Looking forward to hearing from you!Please message me with any questions or comments. bigcrystalenergypodcast @gmail.com

In this episode, Branchy and Delby are joined by health and fitness guru, adventurer, and ultra runner Andrew Pap for a deep and grounded conversation that extends far beyond physical endurance. Together they explore the growing polarisation in society — how the loudest extremes often drown out the majority who live in the flexible, sensible middle. The trio discuss the importance of compassion and understanding, both for others and for ourselves, and how meaningful change begins with self-work. This episode dives into why having honest conversations with those we disagree with is vital for collective progress, and how true freedom means respecting each other's beliefs without imposing our own.A powerful blend of philosophy, fitness, and emotional awareness — this one's about building stronger humans inside and out.PATREON Support The Hard Yarns and get access to exclusive drops, content, live shows and promo codes : www.patreon.com/thehardyarnspodcast FIND US Email: info@thehardyarns.com Instagram: @thehardyarnspodcast TikTok: @thehardyarnspodcast Web: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.thehardyarns.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SPONSORS All Trades Cover - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.alltradescover.com.au⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Crafted Finance - https://www.craftedfinance.com.auHard Yarns is Produced by B32media ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠#hardyarns⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠#podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠#comedy⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 

Sarah Bergenfield, MA, IFS educator, explains how Internal Family Systems can help autistic clients reduce overwhelm, understand their parts, and build confidence through self-compassion and predictability. Interview with Elizabeth Irias, LMFT. Earn CE credit for listening to this episode by joining our low-cost membership for unlimited podcast CE credits for an entire year, with some of the strongest CE approvals in the country (APA, NBCC, ASWB, and more). Learn, grow, and shine with Clearly Clinical Continuing Ed by visiting https://ClearlyClinical.com.

In this episode of Passion for Dance, Dr. Chelsea talks about self-compassion in dancers who are usually very hard on themselves. Inspired by a listener's question, the episode explores how treating oneself with kindness can improve performance, enhance resilience, and bolster overall mental health. Dr. Chelsea breaks down the concept of self-compassion into three key areas: self-kindness, mindfulness, and common humanity. She offers actionable strategies like reflective journaling, mindfulness, and visualization to help dancers develop this crucial skill. The episode emphasizes that self-compassion doesn't mean lowering standards but rather supporting oneself through challenges to foster continuous growth and motivation. Coaches and dance educators are also given tips on how to model and integrate self-compassion into their feedback.   Episode Resources: https://passionfordancepodcast.com/228   Got an Episode Idea?! Send Dr. Chelsea a message: Voicenote: https://passionfordancepodcast.com/voicemail Written message: https://passionfordancepodcast.com/question   Episode Breakdown: 00:59 The Importance of Self-Compassion 02:18 Defining Self-Compassion 02:47 Key Ideas of Self-Compassion 05:00 Why Self-Compassion Matters in Dance 08:23 Developing Self-Compassion 11:06 Tools for Coaches and Teachers 12:32 Conclusion and Takeaways  

The Sacred Duty of Healthcare: A Conversation with Theresa BrownIn this episode of The Girl Doc Survival Guide, Christine interviews Theresa Brown, PhD, RN, a registered nurse, New York Times bestselling author, and cancer survivor. The discussion delves into Brown's experiences as both a clinician and a patient, highlighting the emotional challenges and the need for compassion in healthcare. Brown shares insights from her books, 'The Shift' and 'Healing,' and talks about her upcoming book, 'A Nurse Finds Hope in Healthcare.' The conversation explores the significance of listening to patients, the emotional toll of illness, and the struggles healthcare professionals face within a corporatized system. Both agree on the importance of empathy, self-care, and the need to improve the patient-caregiver relationship.00:00 Introduction to Theresa Brown, PhD, RN00:52 Theresa's Journey from Academia to Nursing01:09 Insights from 'Healing': A Nurse's Perspective as a Patient01:56 The Emotional and Physical Challenges of Cancer Treatment04:06 The Importance of Compassion and Communication in Healthcare05:20 Balancing Information and Emotional Support for Patients06:16 Personal Stories and Reflections on Patient Care07:14 The Impact of Personal Illness on Healthcare Professionals17:23 Finding Hope and Purpose in Healthcare20:28 Final Thoughts and Reflections

Moms, You Don't Need More Patience—You Need More Presence (w/ Katie Krimitsos) If you've ever whispered to yourself, ‘I just need more patience,' this episode is your permission slip to stop striving and start being. Katie Krimitsos, founder of the Women's Meditation Network, joins us to share how presence—not perfection—is what actually brings calm in motherhood. Say goodbye to Anxiety with Katie!Download the 5 Secrets to Unleashing Your Meditation Magic, HERE!Listen to Dailly Affirmations with Katie:I Am Proud of the Mother I Have Become-HereIn this special episode of the Toddler Toolkit podcast, we sit down with Katie Krimitsos, founder of the Women's Meditation Network. Katie's meditations have been downloaded over a hundred million times by women worldwide. Join us as Katie shares her inspiring journey from recording in her bedroom closet to reaching nearly 200 million downloads. We discuss the power of stillness amid motherhood chaos, moving from reaction to reflection, and embracing the idea that we already are love. This episode is full of grounding and emotional wisdom for every overwhelmed or disconnected mom. Katie also shares practical tips on building a meditation practice, the importance of self-love, and intentional parenting. Tune in for a heartfelt and insightful conversation that will resonate with moms everywhere.00:00 Welcome to Toddler Toolkit Podcast00:05 Meet Katie Krimitsos: Founder of Women's Meditation Network01:07 Katie's Journey: From Bedroom Closet to Global Impact02:55 The Turning Point: Pregnancy and Intuition04:26 Launching the Women's Meditation Network04:56 Overcoming Imposter Syndrome07:04 Balancing Motherhood and Meditation10:36 The Power of Meditation in Motherhood12:29 Debunking Meditation Myths17:34 Connecting with Intuition Amidst Chaos21:13 Mindful Parenting: Handling Meltdowns with Grace22:54 Struggles with Reading and Self-Perception24:06 A New School Brings New Beginnings25:36 The Power of Meditation in Parenting28:14 Intentional Parenting and Family Values30:35 Self-Compassion and Overcoming Mom Guilt37:37 Modeling Love and Self-Acceptance42:20 Closing Thoughts and Encouragement------------------------------------------------------"If you're struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It's called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!Watch us Chat for the Podcast Interviews with YouTube Video HERE!Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course.  You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!Let's unlock the secrets to understanding toddler behavior, preventing meltdowns, and raising intuitive, resilient children.Grab the  The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them FastCheck out the Transform Tantrums: A Listening Toddler In 7 Days mini-course!Join the Toddler Mom CommunityFollow me on Instagram @heatherschalkparentingWatch the YouTube channelCheck out the blog

Send us a textFeeling tired of trying? In this episode Dr Amen Kaur blends neuroscience and spirituality to show you how to calm your amygdala, reset your nervous system, and rewire your brain for genuine joy and freedom.When life feels like constant effort, it's not because you're weak - it's because your brain has been trained for survival, not joy. In this deeply personal episode, Dr Amen Kaur unpacks what really happens when you feel exhausted from “trying” and how to gently re-program your nervous system to make calm and happiness feel safe again.You'll hear:Why the amygdala tags disappointment as danger — and how that blocks joyHow “foreboding joy” makes us catastrophize good thingsThe neuroscience of emotion as energy + frequencyA simple practice to tune disappointment into compassionThe four-step Frequency of Compassion framework to rewire the brain through loveWhat “true power” means — and how it frees you from fear and burnoutYou'll learn that giving up isn't failure; it's surrendering the war against yourself.

We inherit shame like an unspoken family heirloom — stitched into our bodies, our ambition, our idea of enough. It's the quiet undertone behind so many brilliant women asking, “Why do I still feel like I'm not enough?”In this conversation, Jennifer Walter sits down with therapist and facilitator Kyira Wackett to unpack the hidden ways shame shapes our lives — from body image and burnout to perfectionism and belonging. Together, they explore how shame isn't just a feeling — it's a learned survival strategy. One we can unlearn.You'll hear about the difference between “good” and “bad” pain, why setting boundaries feels so hard, and how to start building shame resilience without burning yourself out.This episode is part psychology, part real talk — a compassionate deep dive into the quiet stories that keep women performing, proving, and people-pleasing.If you're tired of hustling for worth, this one's your permission slip to rest, reflect, and begin again.

Welcome back, friends, to Fishing Without Bait: A Lifetime Without Definitive Expectations. In Episode 490, Jim Ellermeyer and producer Mike Sorg explore what leadership truly means through the lens of Jesus of Nazareth. From the radical humility and servant leadership he modeled 2,000 years ago to his timeless call for justice and compassion, Jim examines how these teachings apply to the world's political and social climate today. This thoughtful conversation covers: • How Jesus's example challenges modern power and ego • The moral responsibility of leaders to serve everyone—not just their supporters • Why integrity, honesty, and empathy are essential in times of division • The enduring wisdom of “Blessed are the peacemakers” and “Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also” Jim also reflects on the story of the Good Samaritan and closes with a reminder that hope—and helping others—remains our greatest prescription.

Welcome back, friends, to Fishing Without Bait: A Lifetime Without Definitive Expectations. In Episode 490, Jim Ellermeyer and producer Mike Sorg explore what leadership truly means through the lens of Jesus of Nazareth. From the radical humility and servant leadership he modeled 2,000 years ago to his timeless call for justice and compassion, Jim examines how these teachings apply to the world's political and social climate today. This thoughtful conversation covers: • How Jesus's example challenges modern power and ego • The moral responsibility of leaders to serve everyone—not just their supporters • Why integrity, honesty, and empathy are essential in times of division • The enduring wisdom of “Blessed are the peacemakers” and “Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also” Jim also reflects on the story of the Good Samaritan and closes with a reminder that hope—and helping others—remains our greatest prescription.

Asher and Dusty explore how ADHD-related experiences—repeated negative feedback, rejection sensitivity, and a focus on weaknesses—undermine self-esteem and self-worth. They explain how people with ADHD often dismiss abilities that come easily, assume others are more capable, and measure themselves by low moments rather than by peaks of high performance. The hosts emphasize the importance of recognizing ADHD patterns (peaks and valleys), valuing strengths that feel “too easy,” and reframing accomplishments so people see their role in their own story instead of attributing successes to luck. Those with ADHD also connect self-worth to relationships and boundaries: chronic people-pleasing and fear of rejection invite boundary-pushing others and can erode self-respect. Practical approaches offered include perspective work (imagining how you treat friends with flaws), inventorying where life already feels easy, and choosing relationships that match realistic expectations (e.g., not expecting people to be “on demand”). Together these shifts—understanding ADHD, celebrating strengths, setting limits, and changing perspectives—help rebuild healthier self-esteem and sustainable boundaries. Episode links + resources: Join the Community | Become a Patron Our Process: Understand, Own, Translate. About Asher and Dusty For more of the Translating ADHD podcast: Episode Transcripts: visit TranslatingADHD.com and click on the episode Follow us on Twitter: @TranslatingADHD Visit the Website: TranslatingADHD.com

If you're the kind of person who walks into a room and picks up the subtle vibes immediately, and that energy sometimes drains you, listen in on this episode of Awaken Your Wise Woman, as host Elizabeth Cush welcomes Lauren Sapala, an author, teacher and creative guide, on honoring your intuition.  “The basic strategy I teach is that most writing methods are achievement oriented. They really hold a lot of masculine energy.”  — Lauren SapalaIf you're highly sensitive, chances are you experience the world differently. You might see and feel things that others just don't. You've probably always seen that as a detriment, but it doesn't have to be. Your perceptions are actually a gift that can help you better understand yourself and others. In this episode of Awaken Your Wise Woman, host Elizabeth “Biz” Cush, LCPC, a licensed professional therapist, founder of Progression Counseling in Maryland and Delaware, and a mid-life women's coach, welcomes Lauren Sapala, author of several non-fiction books for intuitive creatives, including The INFJ Writer, The INFJ Revolution and Writing on the Intuitive Side of the Brain. In their discussion on living a more creative, empowered life as a sensitive intuitive, they'll talk about boundaries, overcoming overwhelm, and finding a community where your creative process can unfold safely and help move you toward healing. You can find the full show notes and resources mentioned here- https://www.elizabethcushcoaching.com/awaken-your-wise-woman-podcastSupport the show

Jamie Lee is an executive coach who helps women and marginalized leaders get promoted and better paid—without playing politics or throwing anyone under the bus. Risky Conversations is about the messy, brave, and brain-based side of leadership growth.--In this episode of Risky Conversations, I sit down with Dr. SD Shanti—pediatric dentist, clinical psychologist, and founder of the World Love Forum—to explore how we can prevent violence and promote well-being on a global scale. Dr. Shanti shares her non-linear journey from academia to activism, and together we discuss the power of self-compassion, the importance of empowering women, and innovative ways to create lasting social change.We discussed:• The staggering global impact of violence: 1 in 3 women and 1 in 2 children are affected.• Why Dr. Shanti left a secure career to pursue her mission of preventing suffering.• The founding and vision of the World Love Forum: launching a global campaign for love and violence prevention.• How entertainment-education (like soap operas) can reach millions and shift cultural norms.• The critical role of empowering women as agents of social change.• Practical self-compassion techniques—both “tender” and “fierce”—to help manage emotions, set boundaries, and prevent burnout.• The science behind why kindness and compassion are essential for leadership and personal well-being.Tune in to be inspired by Dr. Shanti's story and discover actionable tools for creating a more compassionate world—starting with yourself.Timestamps:00:00 - Intro02:40 - Dr. SD Shanti's Risky Career Pivot08:37 - The Birth of the World Love Forum15:22 - Shocking Global Violence Statistics21:05 - Solutions: The Blueprint for Hope30:48 - Self-Compassion: Tender & Fierce Techniques39:56 - The Power of Loving-Kindness Meditation41:49 - Compassionate Leadership & Workplace Well-being44:45 - Closing Thoughts & How to ConnectMentioned:• Dr. SD Shanti LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sdshanti/• Dr. SD Shanti's World Love Forum https://worldloveforum.org/• Dr. SD Shanti's Brush Your Mind Blog https://brushyourmind.org/• Jamie's website:  https://www.jamieleecoach.com/• Jamie's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leejieunjamie/• Jamie's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamieleecoach/Text me your thoughts on this episode!Enjoy the show? Don't miss an episode, listen and subscribe via Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Leave me a review in Apple Podcasts. Connect with me Book a free hour-long consultation with me. You'll leave with your custom blueprint to confidence, and we'll ensure it's a slam-dunk fit for you before you commit to working with me 1:1. Connect with me on LinkedIn Email me at jamie@jamieleecoach.com

In today's episode, Gina shares a technique for creating calm within yourself: developing your own inner sanctuary. The strength of this inner sanctuary lies in its perpetual presence within us, we can go to it any time, any where. Breathing practices to help enter your inner sanctuary are provided, as are visualizations for making your inner sanctuary as calming and relieving as possible. Listen in and discover your super power: your inner sanctuary!Please visit our Sponsor Page to find all the links and codes for our awesome sponsors!https://www.theanxietycoachespodcast.com/sponsors/ Thank you for supporting The Anxiety Coaches Podcast. FREE MUST-HAVE RESOURCE FOR Calming Your Anxious Mind10-Minute Body-Scan Meditation for Anxiety Anxiety Coaches Podcast Group Coaching linkACPGroupCoaching.comTo learn more, go to:Website https://www.theanxietycoachespodcast.comJoin our Group Coaching Full or Mini Membership ProgramLearn more about our One-on-One Coaching What is anxiety? Find even more peace and calm with our Supercast premium access membership:For $5 a month, all episodes are ad-free! https://anxietycoaches.supercast.com/Here's what's included for $5/month:❤ New Ad-Free episodes every Sunday and Wednesday❤ Access to the entire Ad-free back-catalog with over 600 episodes❤ Premium meditations recorded with you in mind❤ And more fun surprises along the way!All this in your favorite podcast app!Quote:Peace is all around us—in the world and in nature—and within us, in our bodies and our spirits. Once we learn to touch this peace, we will be healed and transformed.-Thich Nhat HanhChapters0:26 Introduction to Inner Peace2:43 Constructing Your Inner Refuge5:38 Breathing Into Calm8:26 Strengthening Your Sanctuary10:50 Filling Your Sanctuary with Nourishment13:23 Caring for Your Inner Space14:39 Returning to Your Calm Center16:25 Conclusion and ReflectionSummaryIn this episode of the Anxiety Coaches Podcast, I delve into the concept of finding calm within ourselves by constructing a personal inner sanctuary designed specifically for anxiety relief. I explore the notion that the safest and most peaceful space we can inhabit is always accessible, regardless of external circumstances. My aim is to guide you in recognizing and nurturing the inherent peace that resides within you, often overshadowed by the distractions and chaos of daily life.We unpack the societal tendency to seek solace outside ourselves, pointing out how this quest can lead to a perpetual state of frustration and anxiety. The illusion of external control can be exhausting, pulling our attention away from the wealth of tranquility that already exists within. I emphasize that while life presents challenges and unpredictability, we can create a steady inner refuge—a sanctuary that offers steadfast calm amidst the storms of external chaos. This inner space allows us to cultivate resilience and strength, enabling us to respond thoughtfully rather than reactively to the world around us.As we begin this journey of building your inner sanctuary, I invite you to take a moment to visualize what this safe space may look like for you. Through gentle breaths and mindfulness techniques, we focus on grounding ourselves and returning to our bodies, fostering a sense of safety in the present moment. I encourage you to engage with sensory details that evoke feelings of peace, whether through the sound of water, the warmth of sunlight, or simply the natural rhythm of your breath. Each element you envision becomes a powerful anchor that helps your nervous system recognize tranquility.#InnerSanctuary, #AnxietyRelief, #FindYourCalm, #MentalWellness, #InnerPeace, #Mindfulness, #GinaRyan, #TheAnxietyCoachesPodcast, #SelfCompassion, #Breathe, #QuietStrength, #InnerRefuge, #ZenLiving, #MentalHealthMatters, #StopReactingStartResponding, #CopingSkills, #WorryFree, #MindBodyConnection, #MeditationPractice, #EmotionalSafety, #PresentMoment, #ThichNhatHanh, #TraumaInformed, #NervousSystemRegulationSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this personal growth podcast episode, Kristie Kemp and June Blackhurst of June Loop Swimwear share how true self-compassion and self-care for mothers start with embracing your body at every stage. They open up about aging, perfectionism, and the daily habits that lead to real personal growth and development. If you've ever wondered how to feel happy in your own skin—or how to stop being a perfectionist—this self-help podcast conversation will remind you that confidence and contentment are the keys to self-improvement and how to be happier every day.Listen to the full episode here: https://www.aboutprogress.com/blog/juneloop Sign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! More for Moms Conference Leave a rating and review Check out my ⁠workshops⁠! Follow About Progress on YOUTUBE! Book Launch Committee Free DSL Training Full Show Notes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

STOP anxiety and racing thoughts instantly.This 10-Minute Positive Affirmation Meditation is your daily reset designed to cultivate inner strength and lasting ease as you move through November. Perfect for a quick daily moment of calm, this session guides you through deep relaxation and powerful morning affirmations for anxiety.In just 10 minutes, you will:Find Grounding Relief: Use a proven breathing technique to calm your nervous system and access grounding tools for anxiety.Boost Inner Strength: Replace patterns of worry with loving affirmations to foster belief and self-compassion.Achieve Lasting Ease: Release muscle tension and emotional burdens, ensuring you step into your day with peace and clarity.Press Play now to get your essential 10-Min Guided Meditation for Anxiety Relief.Use Promo code Calming  at CozyEarth.com  for 41% off everything !!!   Get a great night sleep with their awesome bedding!   Support the Show:Ad-Free Listening: Enjoy Calming Anxiety without ads at https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/calming-anxiety--4110266/supportBuy Me a Coffee: Support hosting costs at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/calminganxietyRate & Review: Leave a 5-star review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts to help us reach more listeners!Resources & Courses:Book Hypnotherapy: Schedule a one-on-one session with Martin at https://calendar.app.google/rXHMt8sRYft5iWma8 Pain & Anxiety Course:Manage negative thoughts and pain with The Physio Crew's course at https://offers.thephysiocrew.co.uk/home-painBreathing Challenge: Try our relaxing breathing challenge at https://www.martinhewlett.co.uk/breathing-challenge/Gift a Subscription: Share Calming Anxiety with loved ones at https://www.martinhewlett.co.uk/shop/calming-anxiety-gift-subscription/Get the App:iOS: Download Calming Anxiety at https://apps.apple.com/gb/app/calming-anxiety/id1576159331 Android:Get it on Google Play at https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=digital.waterfront.calming.anxiety&hl=en-GBConnect With Us:Email: Share feedback or requests at calminganxiety@martinhewlett.co.ukYouTube: Watch all episodes at https://www.youtube.com/c/calminganxiety?sub_confirmation=1 Social Media Support: For younger listeners struggling with social media stress, visit https://www.icanhelp.net/Backing Music: Chris Collins===================Affiliate links to the gear I use the items that give me a more tranquil life.Rode Podmic - https://amzn.to/3LN1JEdZoom Livetrak L8 - https://amzn.to/36UCIbySony ZV 1 - https://amzn.to/3JvDUPTGoPro Hero 8 Black - https://amzn.to/372rzFlDJI Mini 2 - https://amzn.to/3NQfMdY=============================Items I use for a more relaxed way of life :)Organic Pure Hemp CBD Capsules - https://amzn.to/3Ready for More Calm?Thank you for listening to the Calming Anxiety Podcast, featuring guided meditation, mindfulness, and sleep hypnosis sessions with Martin Hewlett. Our mission is to provide you with proven tools for anxiety relief, stress reduction, and a path toward deep relaxation. Use this episode anytime you need to calm your mind and feel more at ease.

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Today we're exploring the skill that ambitious, anxious brains often resist: self-compassion. You'll hear attorney Mark Goldstein's candid story of OCD, depression, panic attacks, and the leave of absence that helped him rebuild a career and a life with support, therapy, mindfulness, and (yes) compassion. Then, Dr. Kristin Neff, pioneer of self-compassion research, teaches practical tools you can use today. We cover how to handle rumination, reframe “perfection” into being a “compassionate mess,” and when to turn on fierce self-protection versus tender care. If you hold yourself to impossible standards, this conversation will give you language, strategies, and permission to be human and still perform. In this Episode, You Will Learn 00:00 Why self-compassion is a performance skill for anxious achievers. 02:00 Learn from Mark Goldstein on perfectionism, OCD, and the billable-hour trap. 05:45 “I couldn't stop checking”: the 2017 spiral and panic attacks. 09:30 When did you decide you needed help and where did you start? 13:00 Taking a leave of absence, the fear of perception, and the reality of support. 18:45 Reframing “weakness” and treating mental health as a disability. 21:00 Dr. Kristin Neff on why our brains default to self-criticism. 23:30 The hack to turn caregiving inward. 25:15 Tips for practical self-talk (authentic compassion, NOT empty affirmations.) 27:30 When to deploy fierce vs. tender compassion and harnessing anger for protection. 30:00 How to stop rumination. 32:15 How to create room for compassion and grow without fear. Resources + Links Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever Watch the podcast on YouTube  Find more resources on our website morraam.com Follow Follow me: on LinkedIn @morraaronsmele + Instagram @morraam

Do you ever wonder why you are the way you are, or why certain patterns keep repeating in your life and relationships? What if the path to healing isn't about becoming someone new, but coming home to who you've always been?In today's pod, I sit down with internationally accredited Enneagram teacher and author of The Enneagram of the Soul, Nhien Vuong, to explore how this powerful tool can serve as your roadmap to authenticity, spiritual growth, and creative freedom.From this episode, you'll learn:-What the Enneagram really is and why it's more than just a personality typing system-How to find your type and why it's different from what you think -How to soften your inner critic and develop self-compassion-How to identify the box you're unconsciously living in (and how to get out) and -How to use the Enneagram as a spiritual and creative practice Get Nhien's Book: https://nhien-vuong.com/book/ More on Nhien

In this episode, we explore affirmations that promote forgiveness, acceptance, and emotional balance. We focus on transforming pain into growth and inviting calm into your heart.https://selfpause.com/app/

In today's episode, Gina discusses the calming power of the breath, particularly as she has been inspired by James Nestor's recent book: Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art. The reasons why the breath is so important are discussed, as well as the science behind why calm breathing can be so helpful. The emotional and spiritual sides of breathing are touched upon then practical steps on how to use the breath to improve your experience of peace and calm are covered. Listen in and become a master of your breath today!Related Episodes You Might EnjoyIf you'd like to continue exploring how breath and the body work together to calm anxiety, check out these episodes from The Anxiety Coaches Podcast:Episode #1095 – Using Your Breath to Calm the Mind and BodyTools and practices to help you use breath for immediate calm and stress relief.Episode #1138 – Understanding the Sensitized Nervous SystemLearn more about how the nervous system reacts to stress and anxiety — and what you can do to reset it.Both episodes offer practical strategies to support your nervous system, reduce anxiety, and reconnect with a natural sense of calm. You can listen to them anywhere you access podcasts, or visit The Anxiety Coaches Podcast for full access to all episodes.Please visit our Sponsor Page to find all the links and codes for our awesome sponsors!https://www.theanxietycoachespodcast.com/sponsors/ Thank you for supporting The Anxiety Coaches Podcast. FREE MUST-HAVE RESOURCE FOR Calming Your Anxious Mind10-Minute Body-Scan Meditation for Anxiety Anxiety Coaches Podcast Group Coaching linkACPGroupCoaching.comTo learn more, go to:Website https://www.theanxietycoachespodcast.comJoin our Group Coaching Full or Mini Membership ProgramLearn more about our One-on-One Coaching What is anxiety? Find even more peace and calm with our Supercast premium access membership:For $5 a month, all episodes are ad-free! https://anxietycoaches.supercast.com/Here's what's included for $5/month:❤ New Ad-Free episodes every Sunday and Wednesday❤ Access to the entire Ad-free back-catalog with over 600 episodes❤ Premium meditations recorded with you in mind❤ And more fun surprises along the way!All this in your favorite podcast app!Quote:Breathing is the greatest secret of longevity. How you breathe determines how you feel, how you age, and even how you die.-James NestorChapters0:26 Welcome to the Breath Journey3:42 Exploring the Power of Breath9:07 The Science of Calm Breathing14:12 Breath as Self-Compassion16:06 Practical Steps for Healthier Breathing17:21 Closing Thoughts and ReflectionsSummaryIn this episode of the Anxiety Coaches Podcast, I delve into the profound impact of our breath on anxiety and emotional regulation. As I explore the significance of breath, I highlight it as a fundamental, yet often overlooked, tool for achieving a state of tranquility and balance within our bodies and minds. Drawing inspiration from James Nestor's enlightening book, "Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art," I emphasize how the way we breathe can dramatically influence our overall well-being.Throughout the discussion, I unpack the automatic nature of breathing and how our typical patterns can betray us, especially in moments of anxiety. When we are overwhelmed, it's common for our breathing to become shallow and rapid, sending distress signals to our brain and maintaining a state of hyperarousal. I reflect on my own journey of discovering the benefits of long, slow exhalations and conscious breathing, which not only transformed my personal anxiety management but also allowed me to assist others in making similar changes.I stress the importance of breathing through the nose, as highlighted by Nestor, reclaiming what he describes as the "lost art of breathing." I detail the physiological benefits of proper nasal breathing — it calms the nervous system and activates the parasympathetic response, ensuring that our bodies can transition to rest and digest mode. Practical exercises are woven throughout the episode, allowing listeners to engage with their breath in real time, guiding them away from stress and towards a newfound sense of safety.#AnxietyCoachesPodcast, #Breathwork, #AnxietyRelief, #NervousSystem, #MindBody, #JamesNestor, #BreathTheNewScienceOfALostArt, #NasalBreathing, #SlowBreathing, #Calm #Mindfulness, #RelaxationTechniques, #VagusNerve, #SelfCompassion, #HealthAndWellness, #StressManagement, #ConsciousBreathing, #RestAndDigest, #AnxietySucks, #BreathingExercises, #ReduceStress, #PodcastLife, #DailyPractice, #InhaleExhale, #InnerPeace, #EmotionalHealth, #MentalWellness, #NaturalCalm, #ResetButton #GinaRyan #ACPSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Guided Meditation for Self-Compassion: I Am a Vessel of Loving KindnessHold space for your heart in this tender guided meditation episode of the Calming Anxiety Podcast, embracing the affirmation "I am a vessel of self-compassion." This 15-minute practice, perfect for beginners or those deepening emotional wellness, guides you through affectionate breathing and loving-kindness techniques to dissolve self-criticism, fill your inner world with warmth, and nurture resilience—ideal for quiet mornings or restorative pauses.Inspired by 2025's compassion-based trends and timeless mindfulness wisdom, this self-compassion meditation helps you cultivate inner peace, boost positivity, and respond to life's challenges with grace and understanding. Whether self-judgment arises in moments of doubt or you're building a kinder inner dialogue, these gentle affirmations create a safe harbor for growth, fostering joy, self-love, and profound emotional balance.Step into this session now for a soothing embrace that reminds you: kindness starts within—tailored for anyone seeking daily self-care and mindful acceptance. Subscribe to Calming Anxiety Podcast for more guided meditations, loving-kindness series, and tips on compassion practices for stress relief and spiritual nurturing. You are worthy of this vessel's fullness—let it overflow.Support the Show:Ad-Free Listening: Enjoy Calming Anxiety without ads at https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/calming-anxiety--4110266/supportBuy Me a Coffee: Support hosting costs at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/calminganxietyRate & Review: Leave a 5-star review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts to help us reach more listeners!Resources & Courses:Book Hypnotherapy: Schedule a one-on-one session with Martin at https://calendar.app.google/rXHMt8sRYft5iWma8 Pain & Anxiety Course:Manage negative thoughts and pain with The Physio Crew's course at https://offers.thephysiocrew.co.uk/home-painBreathing Challenge: Try our relaxing breathing challenge at https://www.martinhewlett.co.uk/breathing-challenge/Gift a Subscription: Share Calming Anxiety with loved ones at https://www.martinhewlett.co.uk/shop/calming-anxiety-gift-subscription/Get the App:iOS: Download Calming Anxiety at https://apps.apple.com/gb/app/calming-anxiety/id1576159331 Android:Get it on Google Play at https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=digital.waterfront.calming.anxiety&hl=en-GBConnect With Us:Email: Share feedback or requests at calminganxiety@martinhewlett.co.ukYouTube: Watch all episodes at https://www.youtube.com/c/calminganxiety?sub_confirmation=1 Social Media Support: For younger listeners struggling with social media stress, visit https://www.icanhelp.net/Backing Music: Chris Collins===================Affiliate links to the gear I use the items that give me a more tranquil life.Rode Podmic - https://amzn.to/3LN1JEdZoom Livetrak L8 - https://amzn.to/36UCIbySony ZV 1 - https://amzn.to/3JvDUPTGoPro Hero 8 Black - https://amzn.to/372rzFlDJI Mini 2 - https://amzn.to/3NQfMdY=============================Items I use for a more relaxed way of life :)Organic Pure Hemp CBD Capsules - https://amzn.to/3Ready for More Calm?Thank you for listening to the Calming Anxiety Podcast, featuring guided meditation, mindfulness, and sleep hypnosis sessions with Martin Hewlett. Our mission is to provide you with proven tools for anxiety relief, stress reduction, and a path toward deep relaxation. Use this episode anytime you need to calm your mind and feel more at ease.

In this heartfelt episode, we explore the transformative power of self-kindness and why learning to love yourself is essential for true happiness and personal growth. If you've ever struggled with negative self-talk, perfectionism, or burnout, this episode will show you how to shift your mindset and start treating yourself with the compassion you deserve. Join us as we talk about how self-compassion, emotional healing, and mindfulness can help you break free from unrealistic expectations and the constant pressure to be perfect. You'll learn simple yet powerful ways to speak to yourself with love, reduce inner criticism, and build a stronger sense of self-worth. Whether you're on a healing journey, working toward emotional balance, or simply ready to reconnect with your authentic self, this episode will remind you that being gentle with yourself is not a luxury—it's a necessity. Tune in and discover how to embrace grace, inner peace, and the confidence that comes from truly being your own best friend. Contact me: https://melissaoatman.com melissaoatman77@gmail 636-748-4943   Become a Patron:   https://www.patreon.com/moatman?fan_landing=true   Buy my new book Beautiful Mourning   https://amzn.to/4cW9rJq   Audiobook Beautiful Mourning: A Guide to Life After Loss by Melissa Oatman   Purchase Podcast Merchandise https://awaken-your-inner-awesomeness.creator-spring.com/   Download a free guided meditation for healing grief   https://mailchi.mp/f9c87a649084/guided-meditation-for-healing-grief     Download my free checklist: Habits of Highly Successful People   https://mailchi.mp/b8078533248a/habits-of-highly-successful-people   Download my free eBook on Manifesting   https://mailchi.mp/240e02dfadcf/ebook   Join my monthly membership:   https://www.melissaoatman.com/magical-mo   Free Heart Chakra Healing Guided Meditation https://www.melissaoatman.com/landing-page   Purchase my book Beautifully Broken:   https://www.audiobooks.com/audiobook/beautifully-broken-the-spiritual-womans-guide-to-thriving-not-simply-surviving-after-a-breakup-or-divorce/459896   https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/beautifully-broken-melissa-oatman/1136174371?ean=9781989579060 https://www.amazon.com/Beautifully-Broken-Spiritual-Thriving-Surviving/dp/198957906X https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/50977070-beautifully-broken   Purchase my book Mindfulness Matters https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08HDSKGGH/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=melissa+oatman&qid=1599159677&sr=8-2   Follow me on social media: tiktok.com/@melissaoatman https://www.facebook.com/groups/awakenyourhearttopurpose/https://www.facebook.com/reikiwithlissa/ http://www.instagram.com/melissaoatman222 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQPtU9hPeEWjbHr62LxuEXA https://twitter.com/MelissaOatman   Donations are not necessary, however, if you feel inclined to donate to my channel through Venmo or PayPal, your energetic gifts are very much appreciated! Venmo @Melissa-Ann-161 PayPal: melissaoatman77@gmail.com

In this episode, we're exploring Dr. Gabor Maté's fifth and final level of compassion: The compassion of possibility. We'll dig into how we can see beyond suffering and dysfunction to recognize the good within ourselves and others. This is a skill we can all practice and get better at. And importantly, this isn't some toxic positivity exercise. This is a skill that helps us see the whole picture, the full truth of whatever we're looking at. Seeing that full picture allows us to step into our wisdom and power so that we can make decisions that are more nourishing. About: The Joy Lab Podcast blends science and soul to help you cope better with stress, ease anxiety, and uplift mood. Join Dr. Henry Emmons and Dr. Aimee Prasek for practical, mindfulness-based tools and positive psychology strategies to build resilience and create lasting joy. If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review us wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts! Like and follow Joy Lab on Socials: Instagram TikTok Linkedin Watch on YouTube Sources and Notes: Joy Lab Program: Take the next leap in your wellbeing journey with step-by-step practices to help you build and maintain the elements of joy in your life. Previous episodes for this series: Part 1: Ordinary Human Compassion & Self-Compassion to Improve Mental Health Part 2: Understanding Ourselves & Others Part 3: Reducing Self-Criticism & Judgment by Recognizing Our Shared Human-ess Part 4: Facing Pain and Finding Freedom Gabor Mate's website. Full transcript here Please remember that this content is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to provide medical advice and is not a replacement for advice and treatment from a medical professional. Please consult your doctor or other qualified health professional before beginning any diet change, supplement, or lifestyle program. Please see our terms for more information. If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, help is available. Call the NAMI HelpLine: 1-800-950-6264 available Monday through Friday, 10 a.m. – 10 p.m., ET. OR text "HelpLine" to 62640 or email NAMI at helpline@nami.org. Visit NAMI for more. You can also call or text SAMHSA at 988 or chat 988lifeline.org.

Are you your harshest critic? Dr. Kristin Neff shows how self-compassion is the key to resilience, growth, and high performance. Discover research-backed techniques—mindful awareness, compassionate self-talk, and supportive touch—that help you reduce stress, prevent burnout, and turn setbacks into opportunities. By treating yourself with the same kindness you give others, you can boost focus, emotional strength, and long-term success.Read her book “Mindful Self-Compassion for Burnout” to discover science-backed strategies for resilience, emotional balance, and sustainable success that will help you reduce stress, prevent burnout, and thrive even under pressure.

Kate and Michelle are joined by Zelda Eli, author of "BPD: How Horror Genre Became My Borderline Therapy." Zelda openly shares her own history of mental health struggles and how far she's come since finding a therapist who was finally a good fit for her. She reads a chapter of her book aloud and speaks to the benefits that can come from engaging with horror content. TRIGGER WARNING: Please note that content that may be triggering is discussed from 24:28-25:20.If you want to read more of the book, email Zelda at zehorror@gmail.com. Put "Podcast" in the subject line of the email when you reach out. You can also check out "The Mindful Path to Self-Compassion" here at this link: https://www.amazon.com/Mindful-Path-Self-Compassion-Yourself-Destructive/dp/1593859759 Support the showWant to get 15% off of ALL Guildford Press titles? Use this link (code is DBTME at checkout): https://www.guilford.com/dbtmeIf you want to sign up for Kate's free DBT peer support group, you can sign up here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/dbt-discussion-group-tickets-518237601617Check out our Etsy shop for DBT-inspired items and our journaling workbook (only $7.50!): https://www.etsy.com/shop/dbtandmeOur book, "DBT for Everyone" is available! Order your copy on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Dbt-Everyone-Pitfalls-Possibilities-Better/dp/1839975881/Consider providing ongoing support to the podcast by becoming a patron at https://www.patreon.com/dbtandmeYou can join our facebook community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dbtandmepodcastCheck out our other podcast, The Couch and The Chair, on Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-couch-and-the-chair/id1554159244) or on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/3MZ8aZPoRKxGmLtFcR4S4O)If you need support/have questions, email us at dbtandmepodcast@gmail.com

Most of us are busier, more “optimized,” and more connected than ever - yet somehow feel less alive. Why? And what would it look like to reclaim a deeper, wilder sense of humanness in a world obsessed with control?This week, Oliver Burkeman, bestselling author of Four Thousand Weeks and Meditations for Mere Mortals, returns to explore the paradox at the heart of modern life: the more we chase mastery, certainty, and perfect systems, the more we squeeze out the very aliveness we're craving. From the illusion of control to the quiet courage of letting go, we dig into how to live fully now, not “one day when everything's sorted.”Together we explore:Aliveness vs. optimization: why feeling in control can be the enemy of feeling alive — and how to make room for vitality again.“Letting go” without giving up: Elizabeth Gilbert's reframe you're not losing control; you never had it, only anxiety.Productive discomfort tolerance: sitting with the first five messy minutes, parenting, deep work, reading, and why difficulty isn't a personal failing.Resilience as release: from kintsugi to self-trust, why strength often arrives after the break, and why gripping harder rarely works.Plans that don't kill the work: using structure as a North Star, not a taskmaster, so projects keep their spark.Spontaneity on schedule? The weird trap of “time-boxing serendipity,” and the liberating truth that every moment is a choice.Comparison culture: inside vs. outside, and why someone else's serene grid may mask chaos you can't see.AI, therapy, and the human need to be held in mind: where tools help, and where only a person will do.This is a conversation about refusing to postpone life until after the emails, the crises, or the algorithm say you're done, and choosing to show up, human and imperfect, right now.Love,Sarah Ann

Dr. Alexandra's conversation with Dr. Kristin Neff is all about self-compassion, an essential tool for your emotional well-being toolkit (and that's scientifically proven!). Dr. Kristen Neff, a trailblazer in the field of self-compassion research, introduces the three foundational pillars of self-compassion, illustrating how integrating all three of these elements empowers individuals to confront their inner critic and cultivate healthier connections.   The discussion delves into the biological and family of origin influences that shape our self-criticism, while also addressing the grief that may surface when embarking on a self-compassion journey.  You will also learn about Fierce Self-Compassion, and how we can lean into this action-oriented facet to be ambitious and to fulfill our life's purpose.You'll come away from this episode with:A deeper understanding of the three pillars of self-compassion and their impact on relationships. Insights into how practising self-compassion can cultivate self-love, foster connection, enhance intimacy, and reduce anxiety, shame, and isolationA new perspective on some common myths of self-compassion, such as:Are self-compassion and self-esteem the same thing? Is “self-compassion” just “self-pity” rebranded? Does practising self-compassion encourage people to not take personal accountability?Does embracing self-compassion mean we can't be ambitious or want to come in first place?Strategies for integrating self-compassion into your routine, with a simple starting point that Dr. Kristin Neff herself practices dailyResources worth mentioning from the episode:Learn more about Dr. Kristin Neff and Self-Compassion: https://self-compassion.org/Join the Self-Compassion Community: https://self-compassion.org/self-compassion-community/Fierce Self-Compassion by Dr. Kristin Neff: https://bookshop.org/p/books/fierce-self-compassion-how-to-harness-kindness-to-speak-up-claim-your-power-and-thrive-dr-kristin-neff/76d3f59a98e08da8?ean=9780062991065&next=tSelf-Compassion by Dr. Kristin Neff: https://bookshop.org/p/books/self-compassion-the-proven-power-of-being-kind-to-yourself-dr-kristin-neff/a22f80fa1a9efa3b?ean=9780061733529&next=tManaging Back to School Stress on MasterClass:  http://masterclass.com/backtoschoolContinue the conversation with Dr. Alexandra Solomon:Ask a question! Submit your relationship challenge: https://form.jotform.com/212295995939274Order Dr. Alexandra's book, Love Every Day: https://bookshop.org/p/books/love-every-day-365-relational-self-awareness-practices-to-help-your-relationship-heal-grow-and-thrive-alexandra-solomon/19970421?ean=9781683736530Cultivate connection by subscribing to Dr. Alexandra's newsletter: https://dralexandrasolomon.com/subscribe/Learn more on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.alexandra.solomon/ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What happens to your private practice—and your finances—when perimenopause hits and you just don't feel like you used to?As therapists and health practitioners, we're used to holding space for others—even when our own capacity is changing. If you're noticing changes in your energy, focus, or mood and wondering how to keep your practice (and your finances) healthy, this episode might be just what you need.In this episode, I break down the real impact of perimenopause on therapists, from brain fog and fatigue to the tough decisions about reducing your caseload or raising your fees.I share some practical ways to adjust your schedule, automate your money systems, and, most importantly, ask for support so your business and finances work with your new reality. Remember—your practice can and should support you through every season of life!Supporting Yourself Financially and Professionally Through Perimenopause in Private Practice(00:04:14) Perimenopause's Impact on Therapists(00:07:59) Align Business with Current Reality(00:12:15) Prioritize Time, Health, and Money(00:15:11) Streamline Finances, Seek Support(00:18:33) Money Clarity for TherapistsPrivate Practice Finances for Therapists Experiencing PerimenopauseIf you've been noticing a shift in your health, energy, or focus as you move through your late 30s or 40s—especially the ups and downs of perimenopause—you're not alone.Let's be honest: perimenopause comes with a “whole list of not fun”—from hot flashes and brain fog to headaches, irritability, and unrelenting fatigue. If your capacity isn't what itused to be, please know that adjusting your expectations and routines isn't just okay—it's necessary.Listen in for practical steps to create more ease in your schedule, value your expertise as your career progresses, and make sure your money truly supports you through this transitional season. I encourage you to create a clear system and habits for yourself, so you don't have to think fresh every time you sit down to work on your money. Having a nice, clear checklist of the tasks that you do whenever you do money time will help clear mental barriers and make the best use of the energy you have in that moment.(00:15:37) "Let's reduce the cognitive load associated with your finances when that cognitive energy right now would probably better serve you somewhere else because it might be in more limited supply than it used to be." - Linzy BonhamFinancial Self-Care for Therapists Navigating Perimenopause ChallengesHere are 3 key takeaways for therapists in private practice:· Accept Your New Reality: Your energy and focus may look different than they used to. Instead of holding yourself to past standards, adapt your schedule and expectations—this is about working with your reality, not against it.· Let Your Business & Money Support You: Adjust your caseload, consider increasing your fees, and schedule self-care. Your financial decisions now can directly support your health and quality of life.· Simplify Your Systems—And Ask for Help: Clear routines, automation, and seeking support (like hiring a bookkeeper) can help lighten your mental load, freeing up energy for both your work and your wellness.Ready to feel confident with your money?Are you a Solo Private Practice Owner?I made this course just for you: Money Skills for Therapists. My signature course has been carefully designed to take therapists from money confusion, shame, and uncertainty – to calm and confidence. In this course I give you everything you need to create financial peace of mind as a therapist in solo private practice. Want to learn more? Click here to register for my free masterclass, “The 4 Step Framework to Get Your Business Finances Totally in Order.”This masterclass is your way to get a feel for my approach, learn...

In this episode: Mindfulness, minimalism, simplicity, the concept of enough, financial independence, entrepreneurshipEpisode SummaryIn this episode, Adam interviews Rose Lounsbury, a minimalist and author, about the concept of enough and the journey towards simplicity. They discuss the challenges of decluttering, the importance of self-compassion, and the ongoing practice of mindfulness. Rose shares her personal journey and insights on finding peace of mind and creating space for what truly matters.Guest BioRose Lounsbury is a minimalist, author, and speaker who helps people simplify their homes and lives. She is a firm believer in the power of decluttering to create more time, space, and freedom. Rose has written a book on minimalism and has given TEDx talks on the subject. She is dedicated to helping others find simplicity and embrace the concept of enough.Guest Contact InformationRose's free 30 Day Simplicity ChallengeWebsite: www.roselounsbury.comInstagram: @roselounsburyRose's TEDx TalkRose's Talk at EconomeRose's Campaign for Ohio HouseResources & Books MentionedZen Habits - Blog by Leo BabautaThe Joy of Less by Francine JayKey TakeawaysDecluttering physical possessions can lead to a greater sense of peace of mind and free time.Letting go of the excess things allows for more focus on self-care and personal well-being.Mindfulness and simplicity are lifelong practices that require self-awareness and self-compassion.The journey to enough involves both external decluttering and internal letting go of patterns and beliefs.

In today's episode, we're diving into something that's not talked about enough — the overlap between OCD and eating disorders. If you've ever noticed that your food rules, rituals, or routines feel more like compulsions, or that anxiety drives many of your eating behaviours, this one's for you. I'll break down how OCD and eating disorders can feed into each other, what signs to look out for, and how to start untangling the two so you can move toward real recovery. It's such an important conversation because understanding the why behind your behaviours helps you build the tools to change them. Hope this helps you understand the overlap a little better.Let me know your thoughts! SOCIALS:Instagram: @flourishwithciandra @recovertoflourish_podTikTok: @flourishwithciandraWebsite: https://flourishwithciandra.com/Contact: info@flourishwithciandra.com

First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do.—Epictetus, "Discourses"Language is a powerful thing... a word tossed in the air can either build a fortress of confidence or sting like a summer hornet." Grandpa Bill's poem: Call me silly, call me smart... But if you toss a name that stings, it flaps its wings... and ouch, it zings!Today, we're talking about kindness, niceness, and the holistic medicine of good words. It's not just about manners; it's about optimizing our health and the relationship we have with our companions.The Vagus Nerve Connection: Explain that when we receive a kind word, our bodies release feel-good chemicals like oxytocin (the "cuddle hormone") and dopamine. This calms the vagus nerve, lowering heart rate and blood pressure—a true holistic healing response.The Ripple Effect: When we speak kindly to others, we experience the same benefit. Kindness is a two-way street for wellness.Kindness to Our Pets: Our dogs may not understand every word, but they absolutely grasp our tone and intention. A gentle voice for "Good boy!" or "Stay close" fosters a sense of security and strengthens their attachment to us. Contrast this with a sharp, angry tone which can elevate their stress hormones (cortisol).The Inner Critic: The harshest words are often the ones we say to ourselves ("I'm an idiot," "I'm always messing up"). This self-talk is toxic to our holistic health.BH Sales Kennel Kelp Tip: Challenge listeners to use the same gentle tone they use with their pet when they talk to themselves. Instead of "I failed," try: "That was a learning opportunity. I'll be kinder to myself next time."Affirmations as a Supplement: Encourage the daily use of simple, kind affirmations to reprogram the mind. (e.g., "I am capable," "I am enough," "I am centered.")Recap: Kind words are not just an accessory; they are a fundamental part of our holistic well-being and the cornerstone of a trusting relationship with our loved ones and our pets.Closing Challenge: For the next 24 hours, commit to replacing one harsh word (spoken or thought) with one gentle, kind one. Listen to the difference it makes in your body and your relationships."Thank you for joining me on the BH Sales Kennel Kelp Holistic Healing Hour! Choose your words wisely, and until next time, live kindly."#KennelKelpPodcast, #BHSalesKennelKelpHolisticHealingHour,#Wellness,#Kindness#PowerOfWords, #Niceness, #SelfCompassion, #MentalWellness,#HumanPetBond, #DogWellness, #KindDogTraining, #PositiveReinforcement, #DogTalk,#KennelKelpPodcast, #BHSales KennelKelpHolisticHealingHour,#KindnessMatters #PowerOfWords #Niceness #SelfCompassion #MentalWellnessPet Focus#HumanPetBond #DogWellness #KindDogTraining #PositiveReinforcement #DogTalk

Welcome to The Power Lounge, your go-to space for engaging conversations with influential leaders. This episode features Amy Vaughan in conversation with Jewell Siebert, a retired Army colonel turned bestselling author and EFT practitioner. Jewell's unique blend of military experience and emotional wellness expertise is reshaping how women tackle high-pressure careers.Jewell shares her journey from military life to mastering Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), a practice designed to manage stress and enhance confidence. Discover how tapping into this method can calm anxiety and help you face challenges with assurance.Explore Jewell's personal transformation, learn about the nervous system's response to stress, and gain practical EFT techniques for your professional life. This episode offers valuable insights into the link between childhood experiences and emotional triggers, empowering you to build lasting self-confidence. Whether you're familiar with EFT or new to the concept, this conversation provides the tools to foster a more balanced and empowered self.Jewell Siebert, based in San Antonio, TX, lives with her daughter and two playful black cats.Chapters:00:00 - Introduction00:10 - "Power Lounge: Empowerment & EFT"05:31 - Stress Response and Survival Mode09:41 - "Triggers, Nervous Systems, and Tapping"13:04 - "Understanding Inner Child Trauma"15:46 - Tapping Techniques for Imposter Syndrome19:31 - Subtle Stress-Relief Techniques24:09 - "The Second Arrow of Pain"26:24 - Body Informs Brain Reaction29:58 - "Feel, Process, Show Compassion"33:20 - "Compartmentalizing and Leading Through Adversity"35:18 - Emotional Regulation in Leadership38:24 - Navigating Stress and Burnout Spectrum42:14 - "Breaking Free from Unhealthy Patterns"45:00 - "Science, Experience, and Skepticism"50:52 - "Tapping for Calm and Clarity"51:59 - "Podcast, Community, and Growth"52:41 - OutroQuotes:"Real transformation starts when we allow ourselves to feel and make space for where we are."- Jewell Siebert"By understanding our nervous system and listening to our bodies, we reclaim our power in overwhelming moments."- Amy VaughanKey Takeaways:Breaking the Stigma of Stress ManagementUnderstanding EFT: Tapping into Calm and ConfidenceHealing Begins with the Inner ChildEmbracing All Emotions—Even the Messy OnesPractical Tools You Can Use TodayFrom Burnout to BreakthroughSelf-Compassion as FoundationConnect with Jewell Siebert:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/Jewell-siebert-8a8986101/Website: https://Jewellsiebert.com/Connect with the host Amy Vaughan:LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/amypvaughanPodcast:Power Lounge Podcast  - Together DigitalLearn more about Together Digital and consider joining the movement by visiting Home - Together DigitalSupport the show

When we try to protect others from our pain, we often end up isolating ourselves. In this episode, Laura Lummer, The Breast Cancer Recovery Coach, shares her concept of the protective barrier — the invisible wall that forms when we hold our emotions in and pretend everything is “normal.” Through the lens of radical transparency and supported by research on emotional expression, Laura explains how honest communication reduces stress, strengthens immunity, and builds trust with our champions — the people who love and support us through it all. Listen and learn how vulnerability can be one of the most healing tools in your recovery.   Explore more support: Better Than Before Breast Cancer Life Coaching Membership: https://www.thebreastcancerrecoverycoach.com/lifecoaching   Let's Connect! If this episode helped you breathe a little easier, please share it with a friend or leave a review. Every share helps spread this message of hope, healing, and whole-person wellness.

In episode #227, “Hitting a Language or Growth Plateau,” I dive into what it really means to feel “stuck” — whether you're learning a new language on your mission or working toward any kind of growth goal. We'll talk about how powerful your thoughts are, how labeling yourself as “stuck” can actually keep you there, and how to shift your mindset to get unstuck with more compassion and intention. I'll teach you how to move from fear-based motivation—like pressure, judgment, or comparison—to love-based motivation rooted in purpose, connection, and service. In this episode, I also explore a new way to think about the gift of tongues: what if true communication isn't just about perfect words, but about heart-to-heart intent and the Spirit? We'll look at how to reframe your progress, appreciate the middle moments of learning, and keep growing—not because you “should,” but because you genuinely want to. Whether you're a currently serving missionary, preparing to go, home from your mission, or a missionary mom or leader, this episode will help you strengthen your emotional resilience, faith, and love for the process of becoming. As always, if you found this episode helpful, I want to invite you to subscribe if you aren't already, share this episode with your friends and missionaries you know, and write a review. I know this work will help LDS missionaries around the world and it would mean so much to me if you did. Until next week my friends.   Website | Instagram | Facebook   Get the Full Show Notes and Text/PDF Transcripts: HERE   Free PDF Download:  Podcast Roadmap   Free PDF Download:  Preparing Missionary Cheat Sheet   Free Training for Preparing Missionaries:  Change Your Mission with this One Tool   RM Transition Free Video Series:  3 Tools to Help RMs in Their Transition Home   Free Guide:  5 Tips to Help Any Returning Missionary   Schedule a Free Strategy Call:   Click Here  

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Send us a textIn this powerful episode, I sit down with Holly, a remarkable professional who transforms her harrowing journey through anorexia into a mission of mental health advocacy. From battling a life-threatening eating disorder as a teenager to now leading digital mental health technology regulation, Holly shares an intimate and inspiring story of survival, resilience, and purpose. Holly Coole is Senior Manager for Digital Mental Health at the MHRA and lead forthe Wellcome-funded project to explore the clinical evaluation and regulation ofdigital mental health technologies. She has also worked for NHS Supply Chain asthe Patient Safety and Innovation Manager. Holly has a background in psychiatricnursing, previously working for Nottinghamshire Healthcare NHS Foundation Trustas a Community Psychiatric Nurse for several years along with experience in anumber of mental healthcare services such as inpatient forensic, older adults andchild and adolescent mental health. Holly has also undertaken training in cognitivebehavioural therapy and brings her own insights to lived experience of mental health.Holly sincerely discusses her struggles with perfectionism, her cyclical recovery, and how she's turned her most challenging experiences into a force for positive change.This episode offers a raw, honest look at mental health, breaking stigmas, and finding hope when all seems lost. You will be moved by Holly's courage and insights into self-compassion, personal growth, and the importance of supporting those battling mental health challenges.If you've ever felt trapped by your own expectations, this episode will set you free.Watch it on YouTube: https://youtu.be/6MonJ7Rnca4Don't forget to "Like and Subscribe", so we can reach more people to help.Visit www.mindandmood.co.uk, email info@mindandmood.co.ukor call us on +44 (0)207 183 6364 to find out more.#MentalHealthAwareness #EatingDisorderRecovery #SelfCompassion #MentalHealthJourney #WellnessTechnology #Resilience #BreakTheStigma #MentalHealthAdvocacy #PersonalGrowth #SelfLove #RecoveryStory #MentalHealthTech #Perfectionism #Healing #WomensHealth #MentalWellness #SurvivorsStory #DigitalHealth #MindBodyHealing #InspirationalStorySupport the show

What if your anger toward your body isn't something to hide — but a sign that it's finally time to start healing?If you've ever felt angry at your body — for not doing what you hoped it would, for betraying your trust, or for making something as natural as motherhood feel impossibly hard — this episode is for you.In this solo episode, Jacqueline opens up about the unspoken emotion so many women carry after infertility, loss, or complicated pregnancies: anger. She shares why that anger is valid, what it's really trying to tell you, and how to start rebuilding trust with your body again. You'll walk away feeling seen, understood, and reminded that healing doesn't mean ignoring your pain — it means allowing yourself to feel it with compassion.Key Takeaways:

In this heartfelt solo episode, I return with a candid update on my life, health journey, and the realities of aging as a woman. I share personal stories from the past few months including moving across the country! I can't wait to connect with you through this episode.Chapters:01:32 – Hormones, Aging, and Normalizing Health03:36 – Training, Moving, and Managing Stress06:02 – Prioritizing Health & Long-Term Mindset08:39 – Summer Activity, Weight Training, and Body Composition11:45 – Embracing Change: Photo Shoot Reflections15:15 – Moving to Toronto & New Beginnings19:57 – Italy Trip, Stress, and Gut Health24:37 – Training Goals & Body Recomposition29:08 – Mindset, Self-Compassion, and LongevitySay Hi to Ciara:Ciarafoy.com @ciarafoyinc Don't forget to leave a rate & review!

Send us a textOkay friends, we're getting our woo on. And before you roll your eyes, let's talk about that word for a sec. My guest today, award-winning journalist Anne Bokma, makes an amazing point: why do we call women's spiritual practices “woo woo” while accepting some seriously wild stuff from organized religion as totally normal? Virgin births, anyone?Anne is the author of My Year of Living Spiritually: From Woo Woo to Wonderful, and this conversation had me nodding, laughing, and getting misty-eyed in equal measure. I'd read her book once before, but re-reading it hit different. We get into everything: death, drugs, dating in your 60s, and what happens when you go looking for meaning without the rules of religion.Anne shares how she left a strict Dutch church upbringing, lost connection with her family over it, and then spent a year trying every spiritual practice she could find, from meditation and gratitude journaling to witch camp, past life regression, and yes, magic mushrooms. We talk about what worked, what didn't, and what she learned about trusting her own intuition.This episode isn't about becoming a crystal-carrying moon priestess (unless that's your jam). It's about finding a deeper sense of connection on your own terms. Whether you've got religious trauma, church nostalgia, or just an inner skeptic who still kinda wants to believe, Anne's story will remind you that spirituality doesn't have to come with a side of guilt.What's Inside:How Anne's “Year of Living Spiritually” helped her heal from religious trauma and reconnect with her momThe difference between religion and spirituality and why women's wisdom has been dismissed as “woo”What happened when Anne tried everything from witch camp to magic mushroomsHow activism (like protesting Bill Cosby's show) can be a deeply spiritual actWhat does being “spiritual” mean to you? Is it lighting candles and meditating, or is it showing up in the world with more compassion and courage? Whatever your version looks like, it's about feeling connected and awake. That could be you. I'd love to know what practices make you feel more grounded (or more “woo”). Message me on Instagram and let's talk about it.Mentioned in This Episode:My Year of Living Spiritually: From Woo-Woo to Wonderful by Anne BokmaAnne Bokma's WebsiteAnne Bokma on InstagramOonagh Duncan on InstagramFit Feels GoodLeave me a voice note on Speak Pipe!

In this conversation with Dr. Kristin Neff, Associate Professor of Educational Psychology at the University of Texas and the pioneering researcher who introduced self-compassion into modern psychology, we explore why self-esteem is a fair-weather friend while self-compassion provides steady support through challenge and failure. Dr. Neff shares how her early mindfulness practice reshaped her own relationship with shame, and how research now shows that self-criticism keeps the body's threat system active while compassion engages the brain's caregiving network—reducing cortisol, inflammation, and emotional reactivity. Together we examine the three pillars of self-compassion—mindfulness, common humanity, and kindness—and how these transform both personal healing and co-regulation. You'll learn about the concept of backdraft (why opening to care can surface old pain), the difference between tender and fierce compassion, and why caring for yourself actually strengthens motivation and performance. If you've ever felt that being softer might make you weaker, this episode offers a science-based reframe: self-compassion is strength regulated. Timestamps: 00:00 Why self-compassion matters in trauma healing 05:10 Self-compassion vs. self-esteem: stable worth vs. comparison 12:30 Three components: mindfulness, common humanity, kindness 20:45 Threat vs. care systems; shame, rumination, regulation 29:00 “Backdraft” and pacing: minimum-effective-dose practices 37:20 Tender & fierce self-compassion: soothing + boundaries 46:15 Motivation myths: keeping your edge without self-attack 55:00 Post-traumatic growth, wisdom, and everyday practices Key Takeaways: Self-esteem is contingent; self-compassion is unconditional. Worth isn't earned—it's acknowledged, especially when things go wrong. Three pillars: notice suffering (mindfulness), remember you're not alone (common humanity), respond with support (kindness). Threat vs. care: self-criticism can keep the threat system active; compassion practices can engage caregiving circuits and support regulation. Expect “backdraft.” Opening to care may surface old pain—go slow, titrate, choose tools that feel safe for your system. Compassion supports performance. Less shame → better learning, repair, and values-aligned motivation. Resources Mentioned: Self-Compassion (book) - Kristin Neff Fierce Self-Compassion (book) - Kristin Neff Neurosomatic Intelligence Coaching Certification - NeurosomaticIntelligence.com BrainBased community - BrainBased.com Call to Action: If this episode brought you clarity, comfort, or a deeper understanding of your emotional world, share it with someone who needs to hear it. Don't forget to subscribe on your favorite audio platform or hit the bell on YouTube so you never miss an episode.

What does a healthy relationship with alcohol really look like? Dr. Nzinga Harrison, chief medical officer and co-founder of Eleanor Health, joins Natalie to break down the realities of addiction, substance use disorders, and how compassion and open conversations can transform families. With deep expertise in adult psychiatry and addiction medicine, Dr. Harrison shares actionable tools to recognize early signs, navigate stigma, and support loved ones—plus insights from her new book and experience as a parent. You'll learn how to use the powerful CAGE screening tool, why support systems are essential, and how addiction is influenced by both biology and environment. Discover the importance of self-compassion, how to talk with teens, and the value of the sober curious movement. Whether you're reevaluating your own habits or helping someone else, this episode equips you with practical strategies and hope for lasting wellness. Follow Natalie: Website: https://natalietysdal.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/ntysdal TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@ntysdal Facebook: https://facebook.com/natalietysdal Disclaimer: Natalie Tysdal is a health journalist, not a licensed medical professional. This podcast is informational only, not medical advice.