Podcasts about self compassion

Welcome to episode 212 where we talk about 'Making Sense of Mind Chatter'. Ever feel like your brain just won't stop talking? That constant swirl of thoughts—whether it's fear, doubt, self-criticism, or overwhelm—is what I like to call mind chatter. In this episode, I break down that chatter into three distinct voices: the sleepy sloth, the yappy dog, and the wise owl. Each one has something to say—and believe it or not, they all matter. Together, we explore how to identify which voice is speaking up in your mind, how each one feels, and how to respond with more clarity and confidence. You'll learn that none of these thoughts make you broken or weak—it just means you're human. And by recognizing these voices instead of reacting to them, you gain more emotional maturity, more peace, and more power to create the mission and life you truly want. Whether you're preparing to serve, currently on your mission, adjusting to post-mission life, or supporting someone who is, this episode will help you understand your brain better—and maybe even befriend that noisy mind of yours. As always, if you found this episode helpful, I want to invite you to subscribe if you aren't already, share this episode with your friends and missionaries you know, and write a review. I know this work will help LDS missionaries around the world and it would mean so much to me if you did. Until next week my friends.     Website | Instagram | Facebook   Get the Full Show Notes and Text/PDF Transcripts: HERE   Free PDF Download:  Podcast Roadmap   Free PDF Download:  Preparing Missionary Cheat Sheet   Free Training for Preparing Missionaries:  Change Your Mission with this One Tool   RM Transition Free Video Series:  3 Tools to Help RMs in Their Transition Home   Free Guide:  5 Tips to Help Any Returning Missionary   Schedule a Free Strategy Call:   Click Here

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Happy 4th birthday to this little pod! Join me as I celebrate my podcast's 4-year anniversary! Discover how my show has evolved from supporting therapists to empowering women entrepreneurs to build thriving businesses without burnout. I'll share personal insights, including my journey of discovering I'm neurodivergent (Autistic ADHD) and how it's deepened my self-compassion.   Links to Dr Hayley D Quinn Resources Reclaim Your Time and Energy: 6 Key Boundaries for Women Business Owners Download here, completely FREE! https://drhayleydquinn.com/resources/ Book Waitlist: https://drhayleydquinn.myflodesk.com/bookwaitlist Link to podcast mailing list: https://drhayleydquinn.com/podcast/ Group Coaching Waitlist: https://drhayleydquinn.myflodesk.com/timetothrivewaitlist Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drhayleydquinn LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedIn.com/in/dr-hayley-d-quinn-43386533 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drhayleydquinn

Self-compassion without accountability is self-sabotage with better marketing.There's a fine line between being kind to yourself and making excuses. Between honoring your needs and avoiding discomfort. Between grace and giving up.This episode is for the woman who's tired of not knowing when to push through and when to step back.Here's what we're covering:·       The difference between being tired FROM your work vs. tired OF your work·       How to tell if you need rest or if you're avoiding discomfort·       When "listening to your body" becomes an excuse to quit·       The signs you need grace vs. when you need accountabilityThe truth? Sometimes the most compassionate thing you can do is hold yourself accountable. Sometimes the kindest choice is the harder one.We'll break down:·       Red flags that your "self-care" is self-sabotage·       When burnout is real vs. when resistance is normal·       How to be honest with yourself about what you actually need·       Practical strategies for making decisions when emotions are highYou don't need more permission to quit when things get hard. You need better discernment about when pushing through serves you and when it doesn't.Stop using self-compassion as an excuse to avoid growth. Start using it to fuel sustainable progress.Because the goal isn't to be perfect, it's to be honest.Not Another Diet Book: https://www.amazon.com/Not-Another-Diet-Book-learning/dp/B0B45Q4CLH/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1656499379&sr=8-1Schedule a Session: https://www.heathermaio.com/coaching-options 

Hey humans, welcome to "What If," a new, short-format summer mini-series. I know life is busy, so these episodes are five minutes or less, designed to help you focus inward. This week, we're tackling a feeling many of us have been made to feel: that we are "too much". Whether you've been called too emotional, too quiet, or too opinionated, these labels can cause us to internalize the message that we must shrink ourselves to be accepted. I struggled with this myself after being told for years that my intuition was irrelevant and I needed to rely only on data. But embracing our full selves is what leads to resilience and well-being. So, here is your assignment: write a letter to your younger self affirming the very parts of you that were once labeled "too much". The goal is to begin seeing that you are not, and never were, too much. It's about reframing what was called "too emotional" into the compassion and love it truly represents. Enjoy, Stacie More episodes at StacieBaird.com.

If you're curious as to whether you have any stored emotions or trauma that might be causing your illness, preventing you from achieving your best, or even just showing up as the best, authentic version of yourself, I invite you to take my free Stored Emotions and Trauma Quiz.“You're Not Broken. You're Buried.”In this episode, Stephanie cracks open the hidden dynamics of our internal world—the parts of us that run the show from the shadows. From the wounded healer to the inner child, she explores why these parts exist, how they sabotage or support us, and what it really means to lead ourselves with compassion and power. Drawing from frameworks like Internal Family Systems, Jungian archetypes, and her own healing journey, Stephanie guides you through practical, eye-opening exercises to begin connecting with—and healing—your most hidden selves. If you've ever felt stuck, reactive, or just not yourself, this episode hands you the map back home.You'll Learn:How parts work helps decode your emotional reactionsWhat internal “managers” and “firefighters” reveal about your stress patternsHow the wounded healer archetype can drive burnout or breakthroughWhy your inner child holds the key to lasting emotional changeHow to use subconscious prompts to connect with hidden parts of yourselfWhy dissociation and overachievement might stem from the same rootHow to identify when old protective patterns are sabotaging your goalsWhat it really means to “dialogue” with your inner childHow stored trauma clouds your authentic self—and how to clear itWhat makes emotional release more powerful than just mindset shiftsTimestamps: [00:00] Introduction [00:30] What parts work actually means [01:04] Why people seek personality frameworks for self-understanding [01:56] The most common parts that show up in healing work [02:32] How identifying your parts helps you lead yourself better [03:12] Overview of Internal Family Systems model [03:48] What manager parts do to control emotions [04:33] How firefighter parts react in moments of overwhelm [05:20] The role of exiles and their hidden emotional pain [06:01] Why inner child work overlaps with exile parts [06:35] The purpose of naming and understanding parts [07:10] The wounded healer archetype explained [07:48] How personal illness can drive the desire to heal others [08:31] Why “fixing” isn't the goal of healing [08:57] What it means to return to your authentic self [09:32] Why shifting physiology alone isn't enough [10:00] How emotional transformation unlocks confidence [10:35] Why protective parts often block growth [11:04] How to talk to your inner child before sleep [11:46] What subconscious downloads can reveal about your healing [12:08] How inner child work shows up during regression [12:42] When to speak directly to your inner child in a session [13:07] A simple way to release emotional patterns with love [13:37] Why dialogue is key to healing stored emotion [14:05] The power of asking for help when things surfaceResources Mentioned:Internal Family Systems | WebsiteJovian Archive Human Design | WebsiteMyers Briggs Archetypes | WebsiteFind More From Dr. Stephanie Davis:Dr. Stephanie Davis | WebsiteQuantum Rx | InstagramQuantum Rx | Skool

Episode Highlights With JessicaShe was a surprise twin and she and her sister could communicate in their own language before they could even talkWhat reparenting is and how we have the ability to give ourselves what we might not have gottenACE scores and what we know about how highly traumatized people suffer from diseases at much higher ratesThe difference in how women and men respond to stressful events. Women don't respond with fight or flight, but men doHow do women respond to trauma? Usually tend and befriendWhat self-parenting is - it's the feeling of safety you get when your best friend hugs you and tells you it is going to be ok, or the feeling you get when all of your needs are metThe things from childhood that can leave a lasting imprint and can help by being reparentedWhy we can seek partners, situations, and jobs that reinforce childhood patterns until we resolve themQuestions to ask to begin to go within and skills to build to begin reparenting Looking at how you judge yourself is one of the best ways to avoid passing on this judgement to our kidsResources MentionedThe Loving Diet - websiteJessica's Instagram

Struggling with mom guilt? Don't feel like you're a good enough mom? Give this episode a listen as we discuss how to overcome mom guilt and leave it behind!This week I chatted with Beth Isbell as we did a deep-dive into all things mom guilt! Beth shares SUPER GOOD strategies for dealing with mom guilt, overcoming criticism, and having a positive mindset.Catch all the awesome tips and strategies for recognizing and battling mom guilt. Best of all, you'll learn about super easy ways to manage it!Here's what we chatted about in this week's episode: - What is mom guilt?- Does mom guilt get better?- Strategies for managing mom guilt- Family members helping mom guilt- Positive thoughts with mom guilt- Productive vs. unproductive struggle- Mom guilt and criticismand MORE!------------------------------------------------------------------------------------IMPORTANT LINKS:-  Confidently Therapy - coaching for high achieving moms                    DM Alexis 'LTM' at @confidently.therapy on Instagram for your free strategy call.- BisbeeBaby's portable  breastmilk and formula warmer HERE                    Use code MOM10 for 10% off                    Connect with them on Instagram Here                    Connect with them on Facebook Here- Truly Free Home- Toxin Free Cleaning Supplies HERE          Use code LEARNINGTOMOM for 30% off their whole website- Connect with Beth HERE- Scripture before Scroll Challenged linked HERE------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Why is mom guilt so hard, how to overcome mom guilt, how to combat mom guilt, how to ease mom guilt, what causes mom guilt, how to relieve mom guilt, when does mom guilt go away, mom guilt when pregnant with second child, mom guilt when baby is sick, mom guilt when child is sick, how to fight mom guilt, what does mom guilt mean, how to fix mom guilt, how to alleviate mom guilt, what are mom guilt symptoms, what is guilty mother syndrome, what are the signs of guilty mother syndrome, what is toxic motherhood, why is mom guilt so strong, why is mom guilt so intense, how do you deal with constant mom guilt, what is the parent guilt syndrome, does mom guilt ever go away, how to overcome mother's guilt, what percentage of people have mom guilt, what is the difference between mom guilt and mom shame, what is the meaning of mom shame, mom guilt with twins, mom guilt with newborn and toddler, mom guilt with second baby, mom guilt with newborn, mom guilt for getting frustrated with toddler, mom guilt for working, mom guilt for formula feeding, mom guilt for stopping pumping, mom guilt and burnout, mom guilt and shame, mom rage and guilt, mom guilt for yelling at toddler, mom guilt for going on vacation, mom guilt for having second baby, mom guilt for having another baby, mom guilt for daycare, mom guilt for losing patience, mom guilt for not breastfeeding, mom guilt and anxiety, mom guilt and dating,  mom guilt meaning, Infant podcast, New baby podcast, 

We speak to  Dr. Lucy Pickard-Sullivan and Dr. Charlotte Stockley about how compassionate leadership can transform medical institutions and improve clinician and patient outcomes.   They share insights from their grassroots workshops on compassionate leadership, emphasizing the importance of self-compassion, dealing with challenges in the NHS, and creating psychologically safe environments. The episode also covers the power of compassionate leadership at every level of medical training, the impact of compassionate practices on patient care, and recommendations for listeners interested in implementing similar programs.   00:00 Introduction and Hosts' Backgrounds 00:30 Episode Overview: Compassionate Leadership 01:11 Guest Introduction: Dr. Lucy Pickard Sullivan and Dr. Charlotte Stockley 02:12 Defining Compassionate Leadership 03:46 Implementing Compassionate Leadership in Medicine 07:51 Workshops and Training Programs 08:35 Self-Compassion and Its Importance 12:31 Real-Life Applications and Challenges 18:56 Personal Experiences with Leadership 26:52 Leadership at Every Level 28:45 Exploring Leadership in Medical Training 29:09 The Importance of Seeking Leadership Opportunities 29:34 Balancing Clinical Skills and Leadership Training 30:55 Diversity in Leadership Styles 31:26 Compassionate Leadership in Medicine 34:15 The Role of Psychological Safety 42:09 Feedback and Future Plans for Leadership Training 46:03 Advice for Aspiring Compassionate Leaders 51:48 Final Thoughts and Contact Information   Resources mentioned in this episode:   Article on King's Fund: What is compassionate leadership? (By Michael West and Suzie Bailey)  Compassionate Leadership: Sustaining Wisdom, Humanity and Presence in Health and Social Care (Book by Michael West)  Listen to Michael West talk about compassionate leadership on The Locked up Living Podcast Also Human: The Inner Lives of Doctors (Book by Caroline Elton) - the book Natasha mentioned Research mentioned which features in ‘Also Human': Rates of medication errors among depressed and burnt out residents: prospective cohort study Wellness wonder:  The Society for Assistance of Medical Families Find out more at samf.org.uk.  Need help? Call 07894 299755 Email info@samf.org.uk Or get in touch through their website Want to help? You can donate on their website Other resources: Samaritans UK Samaritans USA Doctors in Distress NHS Practitioner Health See more episodes: thefullywelldocpod.podbean.com Email us: fullywelldocpod@gmail.com Find us on social media: Instagram @fullywelldocpod TikTok @fullywelldocpod   Looking for coaching? Reach out for a free call with one of us: Emily - www.fullybecoaching.com or Natasha - www.thewelldoctor.org   You can also connect with Emily or Natasha on social media: Emily is on Instagram and LinkedIn Natasha is on Instagram, TikTok and LinkedIn   Photography by Antony Newman @fixit_pix on Instagram Music by Alex_MakeMusic on Pixabay

Authentically ADHD – ADHD, Alexithymia, and Anhedonia: Understanding Emotions and MotivationHello and welcome to Authentically ADHD! I'm Carmen, your host. Today, we're diving into a topic that might hit very close to home for a lot of us: the confusing intersection of ADHD, alexithymia, and anhedonia. Now, those are some big, clinical-sounding words – but don't worry. We're going to break them down in plain language and talk about how they can overlap in real life. If you've ever thought, “Why can't I figure out what I'm feeling?” or “Why don't I enjoy things the way I used to?”, or if you find yourself emotionally drained after a long day of masking your ADHD traits, then this episode is for you.In this 25–30 minute journey, we'll mix a bit of neuroscience (in a friendly, non-intimidating way) with personal storytelling. I'll share some of my own experiences, and we'll explore what research says about why these experiences happen. By the end, you'll have a clearer understanding of what ADHD, alexithymia, and anhedonia really mean, why they often go hand-in-hand (especially in neurodivergent folks like us), and what we can do to cope and thrive. We'll also bust some common myths and misunderstandings – including why these issues often get overlooked or dismissed, especially in women and people diagnosed later in life. And as always, we'll wrap up with strategies and a big dose of validation and hope. So, get comfy (or start that task you've been putting off and take us along!), and let's get started.Understanding ADHD, Alexithymia, and AnhedoniaBefore we delve into how these things intersect, let's clearly define each of these terms. They each describe a different piece of the puzzle of our emotional and mental life. Understanding what they are will help us see how they connect. In a nutshell:ADHD (Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder): ADHD is a neurodevelopmental disorder characterized by persistent patterns of inattention (difficulty focusing, forgetfulness), hyperactivity (restlessness, fidgeting), and impulsivity (acting without thinking) that interfere with daily functioningneurolaunch.com. In adults, ADHD can look like struggling to stay organized, constantly losing your keys, jumping from one idea to another, or even feeling emotionally impulsive. It's not just “kids being hyper” – it's a lifelong brain-based condition affecting how we concentrate, manage time, and regulate behavior and emotions.Alexithymia: Alexithymia is not a disorder but a personality trait or profile, often described as having difficulty identifying and describing your emotionsneurodivergentinsights.com. The word literally means “without words for emotion.” If you have alexithymia, you might feel strong emotions physically (like a racing heart or a knot in your stomach) but struggle to pinpoint what the emotion is (is it anxiety? anger? hunger?) and find words to express it. Alexithymia exists on a spectrum – some people have mild trouble with emotions, others have it to a more severe degreeneurodivergentinsights.com. It frequently co-occurs with neurodivergent conditions; in fact, research suggests that a significant subset of people with ADHD (estimates range from about 20% to over 40%) also have alexithymianeurodivergentinsights.combhcsmt.com. So, if you have ADHD and you've always felt “out of touch” with your emotions, alexithymia might be a concept that resonates with you.Anhedonia: Anhedonia means an inability or reduced ability to experience pleasure. It's like the volume knob for enjoyment is turned way down. People with anhedonia struggle to feel joy or interest in activities that used to be fun or rewardingneurolaunch.com. This term is often discussed in the context of depression (since losing pleasure is a core symptom of depressive episodes), but it's not exclusive to depression. As we'll explore, anhedonia can also show up in ADHD. If you find that hobbies, socializing, or accomplishments don't light you up the way they do for others (or the way they once did for you), anhedonia could be at play. It can feel like emotional flatness or being chronically “uninspired” – you want to want things, but the feeling isn't there.Each of these three – ADHD, alexithymia, and anhedonia – is distinct. ADHD is an officially recognized neurodevelopmental condition affecting attention and self-regulation. Alexithymia is a descriptive trait about emotional awareness. Anhedonia is a symptom state of not experiencing pleasure. Yet, despite their differences, these experiences often overlap and tangle together, especially for neurodivergent individuals. When someone has ADHD, they're more likely to also experience traits of alexithymianeurodivergentinsights.com, and they may be more prone to anhedonia or “low hedonic tone” (low baseline ability to feel reward) than the general populationen.wikipedia.org. Why is that? Let's dig into the brain science to find out.The Neuroscience Behind the OverlapSo, why do ADHD, alexithymia, and anhedonia so often form a trio? To answer that, we need to talk about how our brains process emotions and rewards. Don't worry – we'll keep it conversational. Imagine your brain as an orchestra: different sections handle different parts of the music. When everything's in tune, you get a harmonious experience of life – you feel emotions, you find joy in activities, you focus when you need to. With ADHD, alexithymia, and anhedonia, some sections of the orchestra are either playing off-key or playing too quietly to hear.One key player here is dopamine, a neurotransmitter often nicknamed the “reward chemical.” Dopamine is heavily involved in motivation, pleasure, and attention – basically the brain's way of saying “Hey, this is important/fun, focus on this!” In ADHD brains, dopamine signaling doesn't work typically; it can be underactive or dysregulatedneurolaunch.comneurolaunch.com. Think of it like a weak Wi-Fi signal in the reward circuits of the brain – messages about reward and pleasure just aren't getting through fast or strong enough. Because of this, everyday tasks might not feel as rewarding to someone with ADHD as they do to someone without ADHD. Science actually shows that ADHD-related dopamine impairments can dysregulate the brain's reward processing and lead to anhedonia (difficulty feeling pleasure) in some individualsen.wikipedia.org. In other words, the same brain chemistry quirk that makes it hard to concentrate can also turn down the volume on enjoyment and motivation.Now, what about alexithymia? While dopamine is more about the reward system, alexithymia has a lot to do with our brain's emotional awareness and interoception (a fancy word for sensing the internal state of your body). Some researchers believe alexithymia is essentially a problem with how the brain's insula and related regions process internal signalsbhcsmt.com. The insula is like the brain's monitor for bodily and emotional sensations – it helps you notice a fast heartbeat and connect it to “I feel anxious,” for example. In alexithymia, that monitoring system might be glitchy. Emotions are still happening under the hood (we still produce the bodily reactions and basic emotional responses), but the translation of those signals into conscious awareness and labels doesn't work well. It's as if the brain doesn't label the emotions correctly or at all. This is why someone with alexithymia can seem calm or unaffected externally while internally their heart is pounding – they truly might not recognize what they're feeling, or they might just register a vague discomfort without an emotional label. Interestingly, alexithymia has been called a “disconnect between the emotional and thinking parts of the brain.” The emotional signals are there, but the cortex (thinking brain) can't interpret them properly.So, how do these tie together? ADHD and alexithymia share some overlapping brain differences. For one, both are linked to difficulties in emotional regulation. ADHD isn't just about attention – many experts now recognize that emotional impulsivity and difficulty regulating feelings are core aspects of ADHD for many peopleneurodivergentinsights.com. If you have ADHD, you might feel things more intensely but also more fleetingly, and you can struggle to manage those feelings (for example, quick frustration, or being easily hurt by criticism, then rapidly switching to another mood). Now add alexithymia into the mix: you have big emotions (possibly ADHD-related) but poor insight into them. That's a challenging combo! In fact, having alexithymia can make it even harder for ADHDers to understand and regulate their emotional ups and downsneurodivergentinsights.comneurodivergentinsights.com. It's like trying to drive a car with a super sensitive gas pedal (ADHD emotions) but a foggy windshield (alexithymia blocking your view of what's happening inside you).Neuroscience also hints at other overlaps. Both ADHD and alexithymia have been associated with atypical functioning in the prefrontal cortex (the brain's executive control center) and in connections between the cortex and deeper emotional brain regions. ADHD's executive function challenges mean the brain can struggle to pause and reflect – which might also affect the ability to reflect on and name emotions. If you're constantly chasing the next stimulus or fighting to focus, you might not have the bandwidth to analyze “What am I feeling right now?” Similarly, alexithymia may involve less activation or connectivity in areas that integrate bodily states into emotional awareness (like the anterior insula, for those who love brain specifics). There's even some evidence pointing to dopamine's role in emotional awareness: conditions with dopamine dysfunction (like Parkinson's disease and yes, ADHD) show high rates of alexithymiabhcsmt.com. Fascinatingly, one study found that when ADHD patients with alexithymia were treated with stimulant medication (which boosts dopamine), their alexithymia scores improved and they became more emotionally aware over six monthsbhcsmt.combhcsmt.com. That's a neat clue that brain chemistry ties these experiences together. Dopamine doesn't just help you focus; it also might help you feel.In summary, the brain's reward and emotion systems are interconnected. ADHD's neurochemistry (like low dopamine) can set the stage for anhedonia – the brain isn't signaling “reward!” as it should, so you might not feel the pleasure or motivation that others do from the same eventneurolaunch.comen.wikipedia.org. Meanwhile, ADHD's cognitive and emotional dysregulation can set the stage for alexithymia – life is fast, attention is scattered, emotions swing, and the self-reflection wires get crossed, leaving you unsure of what you feel. And of course, alexithymia itself can contribute to anhedonia: if you struggle to recognize feelings, you might also have trouble recognizing pleasure or excitement. In fact, one hallmark of alexithymia is an externally oriented thinking style and little attention to inner feelings, which has been linked to a reduced ability to experience positive emotionsneurodivergentinsights.com. That sounds an awful lot like blunted pleasure. So these three concepts feed into each other in a cycle. Next, let's talk about what that cycle feels like in everyday life.When These Worlds Collide: Emotional Regulation, Motivation, and Daily LifeLiving with any one of these — ADHD, alexithymia, or anhedonia — can be challenging. But when they overlap, it can feel like a perfect storm. Let's paint a picture of how that overlap can complicate emotional regulation, motivation, and just day-to-day functioning:1. Emotional Regulation Woes: With ADHD, emotions can be intense and quick to change, but also quick to be forgotten. Add alexithymia, and you might not even know what you're feeling until it boils over. Many of us with ADHD have been told we're “too sensitive” or “overreacting,” when in reality we felt an emotion suddenly and strongly, and it was hard to modulate it. Now imagine not having a good handle on what that emotion was – that's the alexithymia piece. You might go from zero to sixty (calm to furious or panicked) without recognizing, “I'm getting upset” until you're at the breaking point. Afterwards, you might struggle to explain to someone (or to yourself) why you reacted that way, because you lack words for those internal states. This overlap often leads to feeling out of control or ashamed of one's emotions. It can also lead to something I call emotional whiplash: you're overwhelmed by feelings in one moment, and utterly numb the next. That numbness can be a form of anhedonia or emotional shutdown – a brain response where, after so much intense feeling and confusion, you kind of just go blank. Over time, experiencing this rollercoaster can make you anxious about your own emotional reactions (“What if I explode or break down and I don't even know why?”).2. Motivation and Reward: A common ADHD experience is struggling to start or finish tasks that aren't inherently interesting – our brains crave stimulation (the “interest-based nervous system,” as it's sometimes called). Now tack on anhedonia. If you don't feel much pleasure or reward even when you complete something or do something fun, it's doubly hard to motivate yourself. It becomes a vicious cycleneurolaunch.comneurolaunch.com: ADHD makes it hard to stick with activities (so you might impulsively seek something new or get distracted), and anhedonia makes it unrewarding to do so (so even if you stick to it, you feel like “meh, that was pointless”). Picture trying to play a video game where every time you accomplish a mission, the game doesn't give you any points or fanfare – you'd probably lose interest quickly! That's what the ADHD-anhedonia combo can feel like in real life. Even hobbies you know you used to love might not give you the dopamine hit they once did, which is deeply frustrating. You might cycle through activities or careers or relationships, always searching for that spark of joy or interest, but finding that your brain's reward system isn't lighting up as expected. People around you might label you as flaky or lazy, when in truth your brain is under-stimulated and under-rewarded, making sustained effort feel like running a marathon with ankle weights on.3. Daily Functioning and Executive Function: Executive functions (things like planning, organizing, time management) are already a challenge in ADHD. Combine that with these emotional and motivational difficulties, and daily life can get chaotic. For instance, say you have an important project to do. ADHD might have you procrastinating until the last minute because, well, focus is hard until urgency kicks in. Anhedonia means even the reward of “I'll feel proud when this is done” or “I'll enjoy doing this piece I usually like” doesn't register strongly, so there's not much internal pull to start the task. Meanwhile, alexithymia means you might not realize how anxious it's making you to leave it so late – you just feel a vague tension or you get irritable without connecting it to stress. All of this might result in a last-minute panic, tears of frustration you didn't see coming, or even a shutdown where you just can't do it at all. Daily tasks like household chores or self-care can similarly fall apart. You know on some level that you'll feel better if you shower or clean the kitchen, but you don't feel that reward normally (anhedonia), and you don't really register how crummy it feels to be unwashed or in a mess until it's extreme (alexithymia's lack of internal cues), and ADHD has you distracted by a million other more interesting things in the moment. It's easy to see how this trio can impact routines, health, work performance – basically any aspect of daily living.4. Social and Relationship Impact: Emotions and enjoyment are huge parts of how we connect with others. When you have alexithymia, people might perceive you as distant, cold, or uninterested because you don't express emotions in a typical way or struggle to empathize verbally. You might care deeply, but you don't show it with “I'm so happy for you” or “I'm upset about this” because you can't quite identify those feelings in the first place. With ADHD, you might interrupt or space out in conversations, or you feel emotions so strongly that you come on too intense, which can be hard for others to navigate. Now, add anhedonia – maybe you stop wanting to go out with friends or initiate activities because you just don't find joy in them, so people think you're avoiding them or being negative. Misunderstandings abound. A friend might think you don't care about their troubles because you didn't show much emotion when they were sad (when in fact you did care but couldn't express it). A partner might feel hurt that you never seem excited about doing things together anymore, or that you're disengaged. Daily life with others becomes a minefield of potential misinterpretations, where your internal state and your outward actions don't line up in the “expected” way.Everything we just described can seriously affect one's self-esteem and mental health, too. It's common for people in this overlap to start thinking, “What's wrong with me?” or to assume they're just bad at life or broken. Let me assure you right now: you are not broken, and you're not alone in this. There are explanations for why you feel the way you do, and with understanding comes the ability to find new strategies. But before we get to coping strategies, it's important to address some of those misunderstandings from the outside world in a bit more detail – especially how they play out for women and late-diagnosed adults.Misunderstandings and Missed DiagnosesWhen you're dealing with ADHD, alexithymia, and anhedonia, other people in your life (and even some professionals) might not “get it.” These conditions – particularly alexithymia and anhedonia – are often invisible. To someone on the outside, your behaviors might be misread in a bunch of uncharitable ways. Let's clear the air on some common misunderstandings:“You're just being lazy/unmotivated.” How many of us with ADHD have heard that one?

For years, I was doing everything “right”—checking the boxes, building a life that looked good on the outside—yet deep down, something felt off. I didn't realize it at the time, but I was betraying my Authentic Self, letting old patterns and my Inner Critic run the show. In this episode, I'm sharing the deeper truth about what it really means to live your true calling—not by fixing your life, but by unhooking from the thoughts, roles, and beliefs that no longer serve you. If you've ever felt stuck, restless, or quietly wondered, “Is this really it?”—this is the conversation your soul has been waiting for. Watch now to reconnect with the version of you who's always been there, just waiting to be remembered.   Your weekly reflection questions: Where in your life are you saying “yes” when your Authentic Self is quietly saying “no”? What truth have you been avoiding that your body already knows? If you stopped trying to prove, fix, or strive—who would you allow yourself to become? Looking for the Redesign Your Future: The Hidden Truth About Transformation Masterclass? >> You can find all the info here

Send us a textHave you ever beaten yourself up for procrastinating, assuming it meant you were lazy or unmotivated?  That you should do more?What if your scrolling, fridge-checking, or mental fog is not a flaw — but a wise signal from your nervous system asking for safety?In this validating episode, Dr. Amen Kaur reframes procrastination as a freeze response — not failure. Drawing on trauma science, nervous system healing, and feminine-coded success psychology, she explores how the brain's amygdala, cortisol response, and prefrontal cortex interplay when fear of failure or rejection is triggered.✨ Inspired by the work of Bessel van der Kolk and others, you'll discover how trauma lives in the body and why procrastination often protects you from unseen emotional threat.You'll also explore:Why moderate “delays” enhance creativity (Einstein & Beatles style)How dopamine and incubation can restore motivation3 powerful strategies to shift from freeze to flow (without shame)You are not lazy. You are intelligent. And your body is doing its best to keep you safe while you grow.

I'm back .... We're so often taught that clarity means choosing one thing. One path. One feeling. But what if multiple things can be true at once? What if honoring that is the most truthful thing we can do?   Today's solo episode is a little more personal, a little more layered — and if I'm honest, it's been brewing inside me for a while. I want to talk about what it means to hold multiple truths at once — without needing to choose just one, or explain away the rest. I'm living in that space right now — loving life here in Costa Rica and knowing it's time to root part of my year somewhere else. Feeling grateful for the health practices that once saved me and realizing they're no longer what my body needs. This episode is for anyone standing in that messy, beautiful, expansive place between what was and what's becoming. Let's talk about what it means to live truthfully, even when it's not neat and tidy — especially then. Takeaways We're talking about: The paradox of loving where you are… and still feeling the call to go somewhere else Why the health routines, relationships, or beliefs that once worked may be keeping you small The parts of yourself you haven't fully mined — and how the world is asking you to show up, open-hearted and true What it means to hold yourself with both compassion and accountability — and become the support system you actually need How to stop trying to make life neat and tidy, and instead live in the truth of your wholeness If you've been standing in a season of contradiction, expansion, or quiet reckoning — this one's for you.   Want more?   If this episode stirred something in you, I'd love to invite you into my Breathe Into Being Breathwork Membership — a space to regulate, release, and reconnect with the truth of who you are. You'll get access to live transformational sessions, express breathwork practices, a growing on-demand library, and a supportive community of breathers walking this path with you. And because you're tuning in from the podcast, you can join for FREE for your first month. Just use the code PODCAST at checkout. Come breathe with us: https://soulinspiredgurl.com/membership/ Your breath will meet you right where you are.   Also,  HER SEASON: A Retreat for the Woman Who's Ready for What's Next October 23–26, 2025 | Muskoka Lakes, Ontario This is your invitation to slow down, breathe deeper, and return to yourself. HER SEASON is a 4-day intimate retreat for 10 women who are ready to step into their next chapter — rooted, regulated, and reconnected. Through guided breathwork, nervous system support, journaling, nature immersion, and sisterhood, you'll remember who you are beneath the noise. This is a space for clarity, expansion, and grounded transformation. With farm-to-table meals, cozy lakeside accommodations, and real conversations that shift you from the inside out — this retreat is the pause before the becoming. Because it's your season. And your time is now. Learn more + reserve your space: https://soulinspiredgurl.com/her-season-2025/  

In this powerful conversation, Heidi Steel and Alice Bramhill dive deep into the transformative world of self-compassion, unschooling, and neurodivergent family life. They explore how breaking free from traditional educational and societal expectations can lead to more authentic, compassionate living.Key Highlights:The challenges of unschooling neurodivergent children.Deconstructing, deschooling, and decolonising societal expectations about education and success.Practical strategies for developing self-compassion.The importance of curiosity and permission in personal growth.Guest Bio:Alice Bramhill - Psychotherapist, mental health nurse, and unschooling parent specialising in neurodivergent can be found atAliceBramhill.co.uk and on Instagram: @‌AliceBramhillTop Takeaways:Practice daily self-check-insChallenge your inner criticGive yourself permission to be curiousRecognise that personal growth is non-linear"The way we show up at home is how we change the world."

In today's episode, we're talking all about meal plans – how, when, and why to use them in eating disorder recovery. Meal plans can be a helpful tool, but they can also bring up a lot of anxiety and resistance, so I want to break down how to approach them in a way that feels supportive, not restrictive. I'll share when using a meal plan might be a good idea and how to stay flexible with food without feeling trapped by numbers or rules.Here's what we'll cover:Why meal plans can be useful in early recovery to create structure and consistency.How to use meal plans without letting them control you or trigger old habits.When to move away from a structured meal plan and listen more to your body.Meal plans aren't one-size-fits-all, and in recovery, they're just a tool to help you along the way. My Nutrition Guide ⭐️Let me know your thoughts! SOCIALS:Instagram: @flourishwithciandra @recovertoflourish_podTikTok: @flourishwithciandraWebsite: https://flourishwithciandra.com/Contact: info@flourishwithciandra.com

In this episode of the Leadership Shop Podcast, we're talking about the often misunderstood topic of self-compassion. Self-compassion isn't weakness. It's what keeps you sharp, steady, and clear when things go sideways. Let's talk about how it can make you a better leader.

Peace rises the moment you allow calm to enter. Let the noise fade and the quiet within anchor you. Listen to the latest episode "Bringing In Peace and Calm." If this episode was helpful and you want to leave a tip, simply go to AffirmationPod.com/TipJarThe sister episode to this one is Episode 458 Release for Peace https://AffirmationPod.com/ReleaseForPeaceReady to change the way you think and start seeing real results?Want to start thinking more positively and feel more confident?Secure your one-on-one affirmations coaching spot at AffirmationPod.com/CoachingWANT MORE EPISODES LIKE THIS ONE? Episode 319 Releasing Judgements on Yourself https://AffirmationPod.com/ReleasingJudgements Episode 317 Self-Compassion https://AffirmationPod.com/SelfCompassion Episode 224 Dealing With the Fear of Criticism and Judgement https://AffirmationPod.com/FearOfCriticism Episode 156 Inner Critic and Inner BFF https://AffirmationPod.com/InnerBFF REVIEWS

In this episode of The Psychedelic Podcast, Paul F. Austin speaks with Natalie Baird-King, a board-certified attorney in marital and family law who discovered the transformative power of forgiveness through psychedelic experiences. Find full show notes and links here: https://thethirdwave.co/podcast/episode-310/?ref=278 Natalie shares her journey from childhood abuse and depression to spiritual healing catalyzed by ayahuasca. As the author of Forgiving Unforgivable, she explains her HOPE model (Harken back, Open your heart, Proclaim forgiveness, Experience freedom) and how forgiveness—particularly self-forgiveness—became the key to healing her trauma and stepping into her purpose. Natalie also discusses how her psychedelic experiences improved her professional approach as a mediator, bringing more compassion to her legal practice and inspiring her to share her story despite potential professional risks. Natalie Baird-King is an accomplished author, transformational coach, and TEDx speaker dedicated to helping others overcome trauma and embrace forgiveness. She is the author of Forgiving Unforgivable and is currently working on her second book focusing on self-forgiveness. A survivor of childhood abuse, Natalie channels her personal experiences into coaching high-performing professionals to overcome emotional barriers. Inspired by her late father-in-law, legendary broadcaster Larry King, Natalie uses storytelling to empower others to heal and thrive. Highlights: Stumbling upon forgiveness through ayahuasca The practice of self-forgiveness as liberation Reconnecting with her father in a celestial journey Breaking free from depression and alcohol dependency The HOPE forgiveness model Bringing compassion to the legal profession Challenging professional stigma around psychedelics Mentorship from legendary broadcaster Larry King Advocating for psychedelic healing within legal circles Transforming anger into purpose Episode links: Forgiving Unforgivable (Book) Natalie Baird Mediations Episode links: Golden Rule Mushrooms - Get a lifetime discount of 10% with code THIRDWAVE at checkout

Why Beating Yourself Up Isn't Making You Better Rewiring the Inner Critic For most of us men, we were raised on self-esteem, (either resourceful input, or non-resourceful input) Be confident. Stand tall. Don't screw up. Win at all costs. That's self-esteem culture. It's about feeling good about yourself when you're doing well — when you're successful, strong, admired, competent, and on your game.  But the second you fall short? That's when self-esteem gets shaky. You feel like less of a man. This is where self-compassion comes in — and most of us weren't taught this growing up. What's the Difference? Self-Esteem Self-esteem says: “I'm valuable because I'm good at something.” But what happens when you're not good? When you fail? When you screw up as a dad, partner, or professional? You beat yourself up. You think you're weak. You try harder, you push down or numb feelings, you obsess, or you isolate. Self-Compassion Self-compassion says: “Even when I mess up, I still matter.” It's not about lowering your standards or letting yourself off the hook. It's about treating yourself like you would treat a friend. You don't rip him to shreds when he's struggling — you encourage him. You support him. You give him a chance to recover and rise. Why This Matters for Men A lot of men stay stuck in silence because they think they have to “man up” through every failure. We're told emotions make us soft. That kindness toward ourselves is weakness. But the truth? Beating ourselves into the ground never made us better — it just made us more disconnected, more numb, and more alone. Self-compassion isn't soft. It's strength with grace. It's resilience over shame. It's authenticity without self-hate. We often refuse to use self-compassion because we think it's lazy or we will lose motivation if we let ourselves off the hook.  So Which One Should You Build? Both. But start with self-compassion. Because when your confidence fails, your self-worth shouldn't. Confidence is built on success. Compassion is built for failing. And you're going to need both.

You Must Start From Self-Compassion: The Key to OCD & Anxiety RecoveryRecovery from OCD and anxiety begins with how you treat yourself. In this episode, Matt Codde, LCSW, explains why self-compassion isn't something to earn—it's the essential starting point for true healing, freedom, and growth.

Damn, this chat was a ripper. James is a clinical psych and researcher who’s deep in the world of compassion-focused therapy, and I reckon we could’ve kept yapping for hours. We kicked off with how he stumbled into psychology after watching Good Will Hunting (iconic but apparently fading into the abyss) and then unpacked all sorts of juicy stuff like why we suck at accepting help, how kindness and compassion aren’t the same thing, and why we’re way nicer to our mates than we are to ourselves. SPONSORED BY TESTART FAMILY LAWYERS Website: testartfamilylawyers.com.au TIFFANEE COOK Linktree: linktr.ee/rollwiththepunches/ Website: tiffcook.com LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tiffaneecook/ Facebook: facebook.com/rollwiththepunchespodcast/ Instagram: instagram.com/rollwiththepunches_podcast/ Instagram: instagram.com/tiffaneeandco See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Anné ["Anna"] Klint is a spiritual rebel who refuses to play by anyone else's rules—including her own from yesterday. As an energy worker and psycho-spiritual insurrectionist, Anné's work is a love letter to women who are absolutely done with playing small. She's here for the midlife mystics who are sick of hiding their soul gifts, tired of prioritizing everyone else's comfort over their own truth, and ready to become so ungovernable in their self-love that they accidentally start a revolution. Liberation is your birthright!I first connected with Anné a few years ago when she invited me to be part of an online summit she was hosting. We hit it off, and last year we started teaching together, in Santa Fe and online, and we've become good friends in the process. Anné has a lot of wisdom to share, based on her own experience of navigating the dark night of the soul. She's now on her third tour through the underworld, and she offers some very useful advice for these times, as all of us are now experiencing a collective dark night of the soul. We talked about:* The personal crisis that catalyzed Anné's transition from artist to soul guide and healer;* The dark night's mandate to kill off old versions of self and old ways of living;* What it looks like to surrender to the process vs. coping and resisting;* The collective dark night and the opportunity to open to greater power and possibility;* Navigational guidance for the dark night - starting with radical curiosity;* The power of dis-identifying with what we think we know and who we think we are;* The gifts on the other side of the dark night, when we're willing to face the pain;* And much more!Find out more about Anné's work:* main site: AnneMKlint.com * Anné on Substack: The Love and Liberation Diaries* Receive a free 10-day self-compassion challenge: SelfCompassion.rocksJoin Anné and me in Santa Fe for a women's mini-retreat! Saturday, July 12th: Uranus in Gemini - Know and Express Your Revolutionary Truth. All women are welcome, including astro-beginners. Early-bird pricing through July 1st. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit embodiedaquarian.substack.com/subscribe

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Hey mission fam! In this special episode#210, I'm sharing an incredible interview from the Christ-Centered Family Summit with Stephanie Bundrock. We dive deep into the world of missionary mindset, anxiety, and how we can support our missionaries before, during, and after their missions. I share my journey of becoming an LDS mission coach and why I'm so passionate about helping young adults navigate the unique challenges of missionary life. We talk about some game-changing strategies for managing anxiety, including my favorite technique of "becoming the compassionate watcher." I break down how parents and leaders can support missionaries by normalizing their feelings, validating their experiences, and meeting them exactly where they are - just like Christ would. Whether you're a preparing missionary, a current missionary, a return missionary, or a missionary parent, this episode is packed with insights on how to approach the mission experience with love, understanding, and emotional resilience. As a bonus, I'm offering two free resources: a Preparing Missionary Cheat Sheet and a guide with 5 Tips to Help Your Return Missionary Transition Home. These tools are designed to help you and your missionary build confidence, manage emotions, and create a Christ-centered mission experience. Grab them in the show notes, and remember - you've got this, and I'm here to support you every step of the way! As always, if you found this episode helpful, I want to invite you to subscribe if you aren't already, share this episode with your friends and missionaries you know, and write a review. I know this work will help LDS missionaries around the world and it would mean so much to me if you did. Until next week my friends. Stephanie Bundrock is the founder of My Children's Heroes, a Christ-centered company that helps families bring the Book of Mormon to life—starting right in their bedrooms with beautifully designed hero bedsheets. These daily visual reminders pair perfectly with her Family Scripture Study system, a quick, meaningful, and teen-approved way for families to consistently draw closer to Christ. Stephanie is married to her best friend of 25 years and adores her five beautiful teens and young adults. She finds joy in sunset walks, watercoloring, country dancing, lunch with friends, and quiet moments of prayer and meditation. Her greatest passion is helping families strengthen their connection with each other, and bringing them closer to their Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. Book a Free Family Vision Session with Stephanie and get a seven day trial to her “Family Scripture Study” that is currently changing habits and hearts. Click Here:  Free Family Vision Session Follow along with Stephanie and My Children's Heroes: Website | Instagram | Facebook   Follow Along with Jennie: Website | Instagram | Facebook   Get the Full Show Notes and Text/PDF Transcripts: HERE   Free PDF Download:  Podcast Roadmap   Free PDF Download:  Preparing Missionary Cheat Sheet   Free Training for Preparing Missionaries:  Change Your Mission with this One Tool   RM Transition Free Video Series:  3 Tools to Help RMs in Their Transition Home   Free Guide:  5 Tips to Help Any Returning Missionary   Schedule a Free Strategy Call:   Click Here

Let's dive into some unconscious ways us women tend to sabotage our self-love—especially in times of collective stress, societal pressure, and emotional overwhelm. In a world that constantly demands more from women—more productivity, more perfection, more performance—it's no wonder we struggle to stay connected to our own self-worth.If you've ever felt reactive, rushed, or stuck in regret, this conversation will give you the mindset shifts and grounding reminders you need to return to yourself.You will learn how to...Stay rooted in self-worth when the world feels like it's on fireRecognize the difference between reacting and respondingFree yourself from the cycles of rushing and regrettingThis self-love podcast episode is meant to help you reflect rather than react, slow down instead of rushing, and trust yourself instead of spiraling in regret.We often think of self-love as something fluffy or indulgent, but the truth is: it's crucial. It's the foundation for how we show up in the world, how we treat others, and how we protect our peace. As you'll hear in this episode, the more you cultivate self-love, the less reactive you become. The more grounded you are, the less likely you are to betray yourself in moments of stress or uncertainty.Remember: self-love isn't a luxury—it's the foundation of personal and collective healing.If you enjoyed this self-love podcast, share it with your friends to spread the gift of self-love!Deepen your self-love journey with Mary's books:*The Gift of Self-Love,* an interactive workbook that will help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself.*100 Days of Self-Love,* a guided journal with 100 prompts to help you calm self-criticism and learn to love who you are.Follow Mary on IG: @maryscupofteaa and @maryspodcastMentioned In This Episode…Joy Sullivan's newsletter “Women at the Protest”Meditations for Mortals by Oliver BurkemanEp. 250 on Mary's Cup of Tea: Productivity Advice Meets Self-Compassion with Oliver Burkeman

In this episode of the Dethroning Your Inner Critic podcast, Joanna Kleinman explores why you might still feel empty or disconnected even when life looks good on the outside, uncovering the quiet struggle of “high-functioning depression.” She invites you to stop chasing future happiness and instead tune into your unique biopsychosocial blueprint—your biology, psychology, and social environment—to cultivate real fulfillment from within. By mastering your inner energy, surrendering control, and trusting the Universe, you can unhook from the Inner Critic's fear-driven voice and step into alignment, peace, and your Authentic Self.   If you're ready to move beyond surviving and start truly living with clarity and joy, this episode offers compassionate insights and practical tools to redesign your inner world and embrace the life you were meant to live.   Your weekly reflection questions: What does feeling truly fulfilled and alive look and feel like for me right now, beyond external achievements? How am I currently managing the voice of my Inner Critic, and what would it take to unhook from its fear-based stories? In what ways can I begin trusting the present moment and the Universe to guide my next steps without needing all the answers? Looking for the Redesign Your Future: The Hidden Truth About Transformation Masterclass? >> You can find all the info here

Why do so many women struggle with food—and why does dieting often make it worse? In this week's episode of Health Coach Talk, Dr. Sandi welcomes Lydia Knight, founder of The She Center and an expert in helping women end disordered eating. Together, they explore how our relationships with food are shaped by thought patterns, not willpower, and how healing begins when we ditch the shame and break the cycle. Full show notes: https://functionalmedicinecoaching.org/podcast/lydia-knight-136/

Dating today feels like emotional gymnastics — and no one knows that better than Talia, a dating expert and podcast host who went on 150 dates in one year. In this episode, I sit down with Talia to unpack what she learned, how she stayed grounded, and why modern dating can be so mentally exhausting.We talk about:The neuroscience of dating and attachment stylesHow to build resilience after rejectionDating app burnoutWhat “slow burn chemistry” actually meansThe role of neuroplasticity in healing unhealthy patternsWhy self-compassion might be your strongest dating toolTalia also shares daily practices, mindset shifts, and practical advice that will help anyone — whether you're new to dating, starting over, or just tired of the same dead-end patterns.This conversation will change how you think about dating, love, and your brain.

In this episode, Sarah Gormley discusses the quiet pain of self-loathing and finding the courage to face it. Sarah had it all – a thriving corporate career, success, and admiration. But beneath was a quiet, relentless self-loathing she couldn't shake. In her memoir, The Order of Things, Sarah shares the profound turning point at 40 when she finally asked, is this how it's going to feel forever? She unpacks why therapy isn't linear, how grief can deepen gratitude, and the freedom that comes when we stop performing and start genuinely living.Feeling stuck? It could be one of the six saboteurs of self-control—things like autopilot, self-doubt, or emotional escapism. But here's the good news: you can outsmart them. Download the free Six Saboteurs of Self-Control ebook now at oneyoufeed.net/ebook and start taking back control today!Key Takeaways:Journey of self-discovery and self-acceptanceImportance of mental health and therapyStruggles with self-loathing and emotional challengesImpact of grief on personal growth and gratitudeRelationship dynamics and self-worthCaregiving experiences and their emotional complexitiesNavigating grief while supporting othersThe role of compassion in healingTools for managing negative self-talk and thought patternsThe interplay of environment, genetics, and personal agency in shaping identityIf you enjoyed this conversation with Sarah Gormley, check out these other episodes:How to Tame Your Inner Critic with Dr. Aziz GazipuraHow to Practice Self Compassion with Dr. Shauna ShapiroFor full show notes, click here!Connect with the show:Follow us on YouTube: @TheOneYouFeedPodSubscribe on Apple Podcasts or SpotifyFollow us on InstagramSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode of SuperPsyched, Dr. Adam Dorsay converses with authors Wendy O'Leary and Louise Shanagher about their book, 'Growing Self-Compassionate Children.' The discussion dives into the importance of self-compassion for children and how it can positively impact their resilience and kindness. They define self-compassion as incorporating mindfulness, common humanity, and self-kindness, distinguishing it from self-esteem. They also address misconceptions about self-compassion and its association with productivity and motivation. Strategies for parents to support their children's self-compassion, including practical tips and activities, are shared. The episode underscores the broader societal benefits of fostering self-compassion from an early age.00:00 Introduction to SuperPsyched00:28 The Importance of Self-Compassion for Children01:39 Meet the Authors: Wendy O'Leary and Louise Shanagher02:32 Understanding Self-Compassion05:24 Self-Compassion vs. Self-Esteem08:06 The Misconceptions About Self-Compassion15:56 Practical Tips for Cultivating Self-Compassion19:50 Empowering Children with Self-Compassion32:40 Final Thoughts and Takeaways38:43 Conclusion and FarewellHelpful Links:Wendy O'Leary, M.Ed.Louise Shanagher MSc"Growing Self-Compassionate Children-A Family Guide for Nurturing Resiliency and Kindness” Book

In today's episode of the Recover to Flourish podcast, I'm joined by Meg, a lovely content creator who talks all things eating disorder and period recovery. We're talking about Hypothalamic Amenorrhea (HA) – a condition where your period stops due to stress, restrictive eating, and over-exercising. If you've lost your period and are working on getting it back, this episode is for you! Meg shares practical advice on how to approach HA recovery, why getting your period back is a crucial step in healing, and how to navigate the process with patience and self-compassion.Here's what we'll cover:The role of stress, nutrition, and exercise in Hypothalamic Amenorrhea.Practical tips for restoring your period and supporting your body's natural rhythm.Why HA recovery is a marathon, not a sprint, and how to stay motivated through it.If you're dealing with HA or struggling to get your period back, this episode will give you the support and insight you need to keep moving forward in your recovery journey.//Follow Meg:Instagram: @meg.n.recoveryWebsite: https://megnrecovery.comLet me know your thoughts! SOCIALS:Instagram: @flourishwithciandra @recovertoflourish_podTikTok: @flourishwithciandraWebsite: https://flourishwithciandra.com/Contact: info@flourishwithciandra.com

We speak with Dr. Sam Anthony about her transformative journey through cancer, burnout, and her revolutionary concept of 'Permitted to Pause.'     Dr. Sam shares her life-changing experiences and emphasizes the importance of giving oneself permission to take breaks, whether for health reasons or purely for rest. The conversation uncovers the personal and professional impacts of her illness and burnout, and the strategies she now employs to ensure her well-being. The episode also touches on the systemic issues in medical training and career paths that contribute to burnout and the urgent need for planned career breaks. A truly inspiring episode for anyone curious about self-care and the power of taking a step back to recharge and reflect.     00:00 Introduction and Hosts' Welcome 00:30 Episode Overview and Key Questions 01:16 Introducing Dr. Sam Anthony 01:29 Dr. Sam's Journey: Cancer and Burnout 01:52 The Concept of 'Permitted to Pause' 02:23 The Importance of Taking Breaks 03:08 Personal Reflections and Experiences 11:29 The Role of Guilt and Permission 15:38 Practical Steps for Taking a Career Break 18:40 Support Systems and Returning to Work 22:23 Advocating for Structured Breaks 30:45 Super Doctor Syndrome and Medical Identity 35:08 Embracing Limitations and Teamwork in Medicine 35:31 The Perils of Perfectionism in Healthcare 36:10 Self-Compassion and Wellbeing for Doctors 37:05 Reflecting on Good and Bad Days 40:19 Creating Space and Leaving Work at Work 41:28 Prioritizing Self-Care and Setting Boundaries 45:02 The Impact of Cancer on Perspective and Prioritization 56:23 The Lifelong Journey of Recovery 01:01:03 Finding Purpose and Gratitude in Medicine 01:03:39 Final Thoughts and Advice for Doctors   Resources mentioned in this episode:   Find Dr Sam Anthony on instagram @permittedtopause and on her website    Doctors in Distress Guest Blog: Granting Ourselves Permission – Why Is It So Hard? by Dr Samantha Anthony   BMJ Blogs: Career breaks should be supported, not feared - by Dr Samantha Anthony    Dr Marc Brackett - Permission to Feel book which Emily mentioned.   Flex Appeal (#flexappeal) - the campaign for more flexible working for everyone – from Anna Whitehouse and Matt Farquharson of Mother Pukka   Wellness wonder: Sick Doctors' Trust   Need help? Call their helpline 0370 444 5163   Want to help? Donate on their website Other resources:   Samaritans UK   Samaritans USA   Doctors in Distress   NHS Practitioner Health   See more episodes: thefullywelldocpod.podbean.com   Email us: fullywelldocpod@gmail.com   Find us on social media:   Instagram @fullywelldocpod   TikTok @fullywelldocpod   Looking for coaching? Reach out for a free call with one of us:   Emily - www.fullybecoaching.com or Natasha - www.thewelldoctor.org   You can also connect with Emily or Natasha on social media:   Emily is on Instagram and LinkedIn Natasha is on Instagram, TikTok and LinkedIn   Photography by Antony Newman @fixit_pix on Instagram Music by Alex_MakeMusic on Pixabay

In our second episode with Dr. Sandra Primiano, we discuss the nuances of trauma, emphasizing that it is not solely defined by major life events but can also stem from repeated minor experiences. The conversation explores how these traumas shape behaviors and relationships, the importance of self-awareness, and the journey towards transforming learned behaviors. Dr. Primiano highlights the significance of neuroplasticity in changing emotional pathways, the necessity of embracing all emotions, and the power of self-compassion and gratitude in personal development. Connect with me here: • https://www.linkedin.com/in/francesco-lombardo-fea-496a7966/ • https://www.facebook.com/VeritageFamilyOffice • https://www.youtube.com/@VeritageInternational • https://veritage.ca  

Loneliness isn't just about being alone — it's about feeling unseen and disconnected. In this powerful episode, Harvard-trained psychology coach Jerry Henderson breaks down the surprising science behind loneliness, why it physically affects your brain and body, and shares the one proven thing anyone can do to start healing loneliness today.You'll learn:What loneliness really is (it's not what you think)The shocking health risks of chronic lonelinessThe role of emotionally safe relationshipsHow to start building one authentic connection that can change everythingIf you've ever struggled with feeling disconnected — even when surrounded by people — this episode is for you.

In this story session, April MacKinnon, founder of Anointment Natural Skin Care, opens up about nearly a decade of navigating perimenopause. From the early waves of anxiety and disrupted sleep to the surprising strength she found through resistance training, she shares her very relatable experience. You'll learn:How anxiety showed up early in perimenopause and how April found ways to manage itWhy resistance training helped more than other methodsWhat it means to reconnect with your body through skincare, rituals, and restHow friendships and parenting shift in midlife—and why boundaries matter more than everWhy honoring the transitions of midlife means letting go of outdated identitiesHow skincare can be less about appearance and more about self-care. Connect with April

Happy Satiated Saturday! Labels like stress eating and emotional eating need some updating. By tacking on the words stress or emotional to eating, it gives the perception that the "problem" is stress or emotions, and if you can fix being a stressed person or person who feels (an impossible task), THEN the food behavior might go away. Stress and emotions are a part of life. Because of this, the practice can be to see the presence of stress or any emotion as body communication. It is telling you how it is processing your external and internal environments. Your body doesn't need help getting rid of the stress or the emotion. These things are present to get your attention that your body needs your support. With this perspective, stress eating can be seen as a bodily messenger letting you know that your body needs you to connect. In this week's Satiated Podcast episode, I chat with Melissa McCreery, PhD, Psychologist, Emotional Eating Expert, and Author about: The complexities of stress eating including how stress impacts food choices and behaviorsNavigating emotional responses to foodPractical strategies for pausing and checking inBuilding routines around self check insAcknowledging your needs and who you want to be that could lead to making different food decisionsBefriending stressYou can also read the transcript to this week's episode ​here​: www.stephaniemara.com/blog/navigating-stress-eatingI loved this episode and I hope you enjoy it as well! With Compassion and Empathy, Stephanie Mara FoxKeep in touch with Melissa here: Website: ⁠https://toomuchonherplate.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/TooMuchOnHerPlate Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toomuchonherplate/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissamccreery/Support the showKeep in touch with Stephanie Mara:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_stephaniemara/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephaniemarafoxWebsite: https://www.stephaniemara.com/https://www.somaticeating.com/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephmara/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stephaniemarafoxContact: support@stephaniemara.comSupport the show:Become a supporter: https://www.buzzsprout.com/809987/supportMy favorite water filter: https://www.pureeffectfilters.com/#a_aid=somaticeatingReceive 15% off my fave protein powder with code STEPHANIEMARA at checkout here: https://www.equipfoods.com/STEPHANIEMARAUse my Amazon Affiliate link when shopping on Amazon: https://amzn.to/448IyPl Special thanks to Bendsound for the music in this episode. ...

Hey mission fam! In this week's episode, 209. The Response Effect,  I'm diving deep into what I call "The Response Effect" - a powerful concept that's been on my mind lately. We're exploring how our responses to situations, mistakes, and challenges matter WAY more than the actual event itself. Whether you're a missionary, preparing to serve, or a returned missionary, this episode is all about understanding how grace, curiosity, and compassion can completely transform your experience. I'll share some personal stories - like the time a scout leader handled a situation with my son, and how my own parents' even-keeled responses shaped my understanding of love and support. We'll talk about why we often have reactive responses (spoiler: it's usually fear-based!), and how shifting to curiosity, acceptance, and unconditional love can create incredible ripple effects in our lives. Most importantly, I want you to understand that how you respond to yourself matters just as much as how you respond to others. This episode is a game-changer for anyone wanting to grow, embrace their mission experience, and learn to love themselves through every twist and turn. If you're ready to transform your perspective and create more compassionate, powerful responses in your life, this episode is for you. Let's do this!  As always, if you found this episode helpful, I want to invite you to subscribe if you aren't already, share this episode with your friends and missionaries you know, and write a review. I know this work will help LDS missionaries around the world and it would mean so much to me if you did. Until next week my friends.     Website | Instagram | Facebook   Get the Full Show Notes and Text/PDF Transcripts: HERE   Free PDF Download:  Podcast Roadmap   Free PDF Download:  Preparing Missionary Cheat Sheet   Free Training for Preparing Missionaries:  Change Your Mission with this One Tool   RM Transition Free Video Series:  3 Tools to Help RMs in Their Transition Home   Free Guide:  5 Tips to Help Any Returning Missionary   Schedule a Free Strategy Call:   Click Here

Integrating self-compassion practices into family life is a profound gift. Educators and co-authors Wendy O'Leary and Louise Shanagher share creative practices that create a culture of kindness and compassion in the family that will nourish children throughout their lives.

Send us a textHillary Kallenberger is a dedicated yoga teacher based on the west coast of Florida, known for her transformative approach to body movement and mindfulness. With a rich background in high-level dance performance in New York, Hillary transitioned into yoga and bodywork, combining her passion for movement with a keen understanding of the human body. Previously a licensed counselor, Hilary has excelled in betterment coaching, helping clients achieve holistic wellness. Her recent journey through hip replacement surgery has further deepened her personal insights, enhancing her empathetic and therapeutic approach to teaching yoga and assisting others.Visit Hillary: https://www.currentmanifestationssrq.com/Key Takeaways:Embracing modern medicine alongside natural healing can be an essential part of recovery, even for those committed to holistic practices.Experiencing acute pain can lead to unexpected personal growth and a deeper connection with one's body.Self-compassion and asking for help are vital components of healing and personal well-being.Practicing gratitude and presence can transform one's relationship with their body and promote holistic healing.Thanks for listening to this episode. Check out:

Ruthie Lindsey joins us for a powerful and tender conversation about healing, self-compassion, and what it truly means to love yourself. As a speaker and author, Ruthie shares her journey of navigating chronic pain, deep grief, and religious trauma. Her story reminds us that even in the most painful chapters of life, there is beauty to be found—and that healing is possible when we learn to come home to ourselves.In this episode, you'll hear:How Ruthie “came back to life” after both physical and emotional traumaThe ongoing journey of processing grief, including the loss of her father and how it shaped her healingThe challenges of living with chronic pain while still choosing to love your bodyWhat “embodied healing” means and feels likeEmbodiment practices that help you process and release traumaHow religious trauma shapes our relationship with ourselves and how to rediscover spirituality on your own termsWhat it looks like to reparent yourself and love yourself through the processThis episode is especially meaningful for women who are on a healing journey whether it's navigating grief, mental health, faith shifts, body image struggles, or simply trying to feel more comfortable in your body. Ruthie offers a compassionate reminder that you don't need to be “fixed” to be worthy. You just need to show up with presence, honesty, and a willingness to love yourself as you are. You are enough.Follow Ruthie on Instagram: @ruthielindsey Check out her upcoming workshops and retreats.If this episode resonates with you, screenshot and share it on social media! Tag @maryspodcast and @ruthielindsey so we can thank you for spreading the love.Mentioned in this episode:Watch the toddler video we talked about

In this conversation, Nina Caviggiola and Alivia Hall explore the significance of understanding and processing emotions in the body. They discuss the importance of sitting with feelings, the challenges of emotional awareness, and the necessity of self-compassion. The dialogue also touches on how to navigate feelings of exclusion, the impact of core beliefs on emotional responses, and practical strategies for emotional regulation. Finally, they emphasize the importance of modeling emotional awareness for children, highlighting that parents must first regulate their own emotions to effectively teach their kids. Alivia Hall, LCSW, is a psychotherapist and the founder of LiteMinded, a boutique private practice based in New York City. Her work focuses on helping young adults in their 20s and 30s navigate the quiet struggles of modern adulthood—like anxiety, perfectionism, people-pleasing, and complex trauma. Through a relational and compassionate lens, she supports clients in untangling what's weighing them down so they can feel more grounded, connected, and like themselves again.You can find her on Instagram at @litemindedtherapy, where she shares honest insights about mental health, relationships, and the emotional growing pains no one talks about. 00:00 Understanding Emotions in the Body 03:03 The Importance of Sitting with Feelings 06:04 Navigating Emotional Awareness 08:47 Judgment and Self-Compassion in Emotions 14:49 Healing Core Beliefs 18:01 Accessible Emotional Practices 21:06 Modeling Emotional Regulation for Kids Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us a textCould psilocybin help people with eating disorders process unconscious trauma? What's the difference between the effects of psilocybin and SSRIs on depression? How does formulation and route of administration affect a LSD experience? What role does self-compassion play in the treatment of PTSD with MDMA-assisted therapy? In today's episode of the Psychedelic Therapy Frontiers podcast, we explore recent research on these topics and more. For those of you who are new to the show, welcome! Psychedelic Therapy Frontiers is brought to you by Numinus Network and is hosted by Dr. Steve Thayer and Dr. Reid Robison.Learn more about our podcast at https://numinusnetwork.com/learn/podcast/Learn more about psychedelic therapy training opportunities at https://numinusnetwork.com/training/Learn more about our clinical trials at https://www.numinusnetwork.com/researchLearn more about Numinus at https://numinusnetwork.com/Email us at ptfpodcast@numinus.com Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drstevethayer/https://www.instagram.com/innerspacedoctor/https://www.instagram.com/numinushealth/

Melinda Wenner Moyer, author of the new book Hello, Cruel World! joins me to break down the most essential skills kids need to thrive in today's complicated times.   Together we explore:   The three powerful themes Melinda saw again and again in her research and how you can tap into these to help you be more effective in your parenting. Practical and realistic ways to help kids feel truly seen and heard. How slowing down, staying curious, and fostering a growth mindset isn't just for kids, but for parents too. The surprising power of guiding children to discover answers on their own—and how this can actually build critical neural circuitry in their brains A simple, impactful question you can ask your child to help them reflect and learn to trust their own judgment. The critical yet often overlooked role of self-compassion in mental health, and the three key components of self-compassion every parent should know. What it really means when kids say things like “I hate myself” or “I shouldn't be part of this family,” and how to respond with empathy.   If you've ever felt overwhelmed by the pressures of modern parenting or worried about helping your child manage their feelings and decisions, this episode offers research-backed, actionable wisdom you won't want to miss.     LEARN MORE ABOUT MY GUEST: ✨ https://www.melindawennermoyer.com/   READ HER BOOKS:

In this episode, we explore the transformative practice of "Starting Again" - a meditation that teaches us the art of beginning anew with each breath. Learn a gentle approach to mindfulness that emphasizes the power of starting fresh, whether you're a beginner or experienced practitioner.Through guided instruction on posture, breath awareness, and working with distractions, you'll discover how to cultivate a kind and curious attitude toward your experience. The practice concludes with a heart-opening gratitude exercise, helping you connect with what matters most in your life.Perfect for anyone seeking to develop greater presence and self-compassion in their daily life, this meditation reminds us that every moment offers an opportunity to begin again.PS: Introducing the…

Do you ever feel like parenting brings out parts of you that you didn't even know were there?If you grew up in a home where emotions weren't safe or your needs were often unmet, becoming a parent yourself might hit extra hard.In this episode of The Enlightening Motherhood Podcast, host Emily Hamblin sits down with licensed therapist Bryana Kappadakunnel to explore how childhood emotional wounds can resurface in parenting—and why self-compassion is crucial to the healing process.You'll discover:How trauma responses can quietly show up in everyday parentingWhy perfectionism and emotional reactivity may stem from past painWhat self-compassion really looks like in the middle of messy momentsHow to model healing and growth for your children—without shameThis conversation is for any parent trying to break cycles, reconnect with themselves, and show up with more grace—even when it's hard.

You know that relentless, negative inner voice—the DJ spinning tracks on “Beat Yourself Up FM?” Yeah, I've got one, too. But what if I told you there's a way to finally change that channel and replace it with compassion? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Kristin Neff, a true pioneer in self-compassion research, who's not only studied the science for years but has also used it to navigate her own life's biggest challenges—including motherhood and her son's autism diagnosis. Together, we break down why self-compassion is an absolute superpower, how it's different from self-esteem, and the real-world (not fluffy!) ways you can start putting compassion into practice—especially when you're going through hard times. Whether you fear that self-kindness is “selfish,” worry it'll make you lazy, or struggle to silence your inner critic, this episode is packed with science-backed strategies and powerful re-frames you need to hear. SHOWNOTES Why our inner negative voice is so persistent—and how self-compassion can help us turn the volume down 02:53 – The difference between self-esteem and self-compassion (and why compassion is more reliable) 09:43 – Common myths about self-compassion: self-pity, selfishness, complacency, and more 10:43 – Moving from “woe is me” self-pity to true self-compassion through common humanity 13:40 – Why comparing your suffering (up or down) can actually backfire and how to find balance 17:56 – Why self-compassion isn't selfish and how it actually helps you support others better 24:19 – The science behind self-soothing touch (and how to actually use it when it feels weird) 29:24 – Using second-person and terms of endearment when speaking to yourself: practical tips 39:59 – How fierce self-compassion (aka “Mama Bear” energy) leads to healthy boundaries and motivation 41:06 – Healing after abuse: what to do when self-compassion feels scary or triggers “backdraft” FOLLOW KRISTIN NEFF:Website: https://self-compassion.orgGuided meditations, practices, and research: https://self-compassion.org/category/exercisesTwitter: https://twitter.com/neffselfcompassFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/selfcompassionInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/Neffselfcompassion (For more resources, trainings, and to test your self-compassion, visit her website above.) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if a little bit of delusion might be exactly what you need to boost your confidence? As the kids these days say: “being delulu is the solulu!” Mary shares 4 mindset shifts– that some might consider “delusional”– but will do wonders for your confidence. You will learn how to... - lie to yourself in an empowering way lol - stop comparing yourself to others with one very simple mindset shift - break free from external validation and derive your confidence from within - balance self-trust with consistent, confident action-taking - release perfectionism and believe in yourself Especially for women, embracing a positive mindset is often the first rebellion against a world that profits off of our self-doubt. This isn't about toxic positivity or lying to yourself in a way that's avoidant. It's about consciously choosing beliefs rooted in self-love that remind you that you are enough. Reclaim your self-esteem by choosing self-talk that inspires action and fuels your dreams, regardless of personal insecurities or cultural expectations. Remember: Confidence doesn't always have to be logical. It just has to set you free. If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends to spread the gift of self-love! We love women empowering women! Deepen your self-love journey with Mary's books: 1. The Gift of Self-Love, an interactive workbook that will help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself. 2. 100 Days of Self-Love, a guided journal with 100 prompts to help you calm self-criticism and learn to love who you are. Follow Mary on IG: @maryscupofteaa and @maryspodcast Mentioned In This Episode... Ep. 212 How To Be Honest with Yourself How Often Do People Lie? University of Wisconsin article Ep. 246: The Breakup That Paved My Self-Love Journey @alok on Instagram Ep. 250: Productivity Advice Meets Self-Compassion with Oliver Burkeman Useful Not True by Derek Sivers

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3625: Marc Chernoff outlines ten toxic personalities that can quietly undermine our happiness, relationships, and self-esteem. By recognizing and addressing these traits, ranging from perfectionism to procrastination, we lay the groundwork for greater self-compassion, emotional maturity, and lasting personal growth. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.marcandangel.com/2012/07/16/10-toxic-personalities-living-inside-you/ Quotes to ponder: "You cannot tailor-make the situations in life, but you can tailor-make the attitudes to fit those situations." "Jealousy is the art of counting someone else's blessings instead of your own." "You don't have to see the whole staircase, you just have to take the first step." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices