Podcasts about self compassion

Episode 260: Let It Be Easy; Even When Life Feels Hard (Full Episode on Patreon) | This is a preview of a subscriber-only episode from Aligned Access, my sacred space on Patreon where we go deeper than ever before.In this bonus episode, I'm sharing why ease isn't about avoiding effort, it's about releasing resistance. We dive into the mindset shift of choosing softness over struggle, how to stop overcomplicating your routines and what it actually means to let things be easier (even when life feels anything but).

In this heartfelt conversation, Wendy and Terry are joined by the incredible Dr. Shauna Shapiro—clinical psychologist, bestselling author, and mindfulness researcher—to talk about what it really looks like to weave self-compassion and mindfulness into our everyday family life. You'll hear how Shauna's IAA model (Intention, Attention, Attitude) helps us respond to our kids with more presence and less reactivity, and why “what you practice grows stronger” is such a powerful truth for parents. Together, they dive into the real-life stuff: how to pause in the heat of a moment, release shame, and offer ourselves the same kindness we give our children. You'll walk away with simple, beautiful tools—like the “Good morning, I love you” practice—that can rewire your brain, soften your heart, and help you find calm even on the wildest of days. Whether you're in a season of overwhelm or simply craving more joy at home, this episode will leave you feeling inspired, grounded, and reminded that it's never too late to begin again. For links & more info about everything discussed in this episode, head to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.freshstartfamilyonline.com/⁠287⁠⁠⁠⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠

Hey Team! My guest today is Dr. Jennifer Dall, a grief-informed neurodivergence specialist, ADHD coach, and educator with more than 25 years of experience. She's the founder of ADHD Holistically, and blends her expertise in education, yoga, and grief work to build a focus on the whole person to create personalized, sustainable approaches for neurodivergent brains. In our conversation today, we dig into how societal expectations and outdated research have kept so many women from being recognized as having ADHD. We explore the ways ADHD symptoms often present differently in women, the impact of masking, and the hidden toll of trying to “just keep up.” Dr. Dall also shares quick, real-world strategies for tackling the everyday hurdles that come with ADHD, from taming your to-do list to breaking free of shame around getting help. adhdholistically.com If you'd life to follow along on the show notes page you can find that at HackingYourADHD.com/238 YouTube: https://tinyurl.com/y835cnrk Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/HackingYourADHD This Episode's Top Tips 1. Low-interest tasks like laundry, dishes, or paying bills often aren't just one thing. They're a series of micro-steps that might require you to switch gears, remember where you were, and re-engage. Each step is a potential stall point for an ADHD brain, especially if the task is competing with something more engaging. 2. Watch out for overstimulation shutdowns; ADHD brains can have trouble filtering out sensory input and mental noise. If we can learn to recognize when we're starting to hit sensory or mental overload, it makes it easier for us to take care of ourselves without burning out. 3. Tasks like keeping track of everyone's schedules, making sure the pantry's stocked, or managing the emotional climate of a household often go unnoticed, but these tasks are still real work and they're important. If we can give this work the weight it deserves, it can help us start seeing ourselves (or someone else in our household) as productive even when the results aren't as visible or tangible as other tasks.

In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton speaks with Franklin Swann, founder and CEO of Swans Furniture and Design, about the journey of personal growth, resilience, and the importance of emotional health in men's lives. Franklin shares his struggles with self-worth and the pivotal moment that led him to serve other men. The conversation delves into the significance of coaching, the tools for managing overwhelm, and the transformative power of self-talk and self-respect. Franklin emphasizes the need for balance between high standards and self-compassion, and the role of family values in sustaining a legacy. The episode concludes with insights on biblical masculinity and the impact of fatherhood on personal development. Takeaways Franklin Swann emphasizes the importance of community and support for men. Personal struggles can lead to a greater purpose in helping others. Coaching played a crucial role in Franklin's journey to self-improvement. Emotional health is often the missing piece in men's lives. Self-talk and self-respect are vital for emotional well-being. Balancing high standards with self-compassion is essential. Forgiveness and appreciation for oneself can transform one's outlook. Family values contribute significantly to business success and legacy. Biblical masculinity provides a foundation for fatherhood and personal growth. Investing in oneself is the first step towards leading others. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Modern Man Podcast 01:19 Meet Franklin Swann: A Journey of Resilience 03:20 The Call to Serve Other Men 07:33 Overcoming Personal Struggles and Finding Purpose 09:46 The Importance of Coaching and Support 11:14 Navigating Life's Pressures and Expectations 13:28 Tools for Managing Overwhelm 15:37 Emotional Health: The Missing Piece 19:20 Transforming Self-Talk and Self-Respect 20:41 Balancing High Standards with Self-Compassion 24:48 Manifesting Self-Love in Daily Life 28:30 Journaling for Self-Improvement 30:44 Family Values and Business Legacy 33:42 Biblical Masculinity and Fatherhood 38:16 Final Thoughts and Resources Swann’s Links Website: theworldneedsmen.com Facebook: franklin.swann Instagram: theworldneedsmen Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://rebrand.ly/m2ebook   ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernmanpodcast.com/thenobleknights  

Have you ever felt almost afraid to set a boundary—especially with someone you love? You're not alone. In this episode, I share the story of a client who jokingly called it “boundary phobia” and how that phrase perfectly captures the fear and discomfort so many of us feel when we try to protect our time, energy, or emotional well-being. We'll talk about: The fears that keep us saying “yes” when we want to say “no” The myths we've been taught about boundaries and relationships Why boundaries are about action as much as they are about words How to set healthy boundaries with yourself first—and why that's the key to holding them with others A short guided reflection to help you identify one internal boundary you can start practicing today If you've been feeling drained, resentful, or guilty about saying no, this episode will help you shift the way you think about boundaries so they feel less like walls and more like doors you control.   References from this episode: Parents Magazine study on accepting unwanted invitations: https://www.parents.com/why-saying-no-is-good-for-your-mental-health-8415963 Stanford Student Affairs research on boundaries strengthening relationships: https://studentaffairs.stanford.edu/how-life-treeting-you-importance-of-boundaries 2020 study on relational boundaries and enforcement: https://self-compassion.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/11/Luchner-and-Snyder-2020-The-Importance-of-Flexible-Relational-Boundaries-.pdf Mental Health Center on boundaries and burnout: https://www.mentalhealthctr.com/boundaries-and-mental-health Dr. Kristin Neff's self-compassion research: https://self-compassion.org/the-three-elements-of-self-compassion-2   Resources Mentioned: Better Than Before Breast Cancer Life Coaching Membership: https://www.thebreastcancerrecoverycoach.com/lifecoaching Creating a Life You Love in 168 Hours a Week: https://www.thebreastcancerrecoverycoach.com/168-hours-sp   Let's Connect! If this episode helped you breathe a little easier, please share it with a friend or leave a review. Every share helps spread this message of hope, healing, and whole-person wellness.

Download: The ANT Catcher WorksheetHave you ever felt like your mind was invaded by a constant stream of tiny, negative whispers? Like there's an army of ants crawling through your head, each one carrying a toxic message that you're not good enough, you can't handle it, or you're going to fail?In this powerful episode of The Addicted Mind Plus, hosts Duane and Eric reveal the hidden enemy that might be sabotaging your recovery without you even knowing it. They introduce you to ANTs – Automatic Negative Thoughts – those lightning-fast, barely noticeable thoughts that create a vicious cycle of pain, triggers, and destructive behaviors.Drawing from cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), one of the most research-backed therapeutic approaches available, the hosts break down the critical connection between your thoughts, feelings, and actions. They explain how changing just one corner of this triangle can transform your entire emotional experience.But here's the game-changer: most of us try to change our behaviors through pure willpower, completely missing the thoughts that are actually driving the whole cycle. These automatic thoughts happen so fast they're almost subconscious, yet they have the power to hijack your entire day – and your recovery.Duane and Eric don't just identify the problem; they give you practical tools to fight back. They introduce the concept of "metacognition" – thinking about your thinking – and show you how to become a scientist of your own mind. By learning to spot these mental ants, you create psychological distance from them and stop seeing them as the absolute truth.The episode includes a 24-hour mission designed to help you become an "ant hunter," complete with specific steps for catching and labeling these thoughts without judgment. You'll learn why physically writing down these thoughts is so powerful and how this simple practice can be the foundation for lasting change.Whether you're in recovery, supporting someone who is, or just tired of being controlled by negative self-talk, this episode offers hope and practical strategies. The hosts provide a free worksheet to help you track your progress and emphasize the importance of being gentle with yourself as you discover these hidden patterns.This isn't about positive thinking or willpower – it's about awareness, understanding, and gradually taking back control of your mental landscape one thought at a time.Key Topics• ANTs Explained: What automatic negative thoughts are and how they operate below conscious awareness • The CBT Triangle: How thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are interconnected and influence each other • Metacognition Techniques: Learning to observe your thoughts rather than being controlled by them • The Ant Spotting Exercise: Practical 24-hour mission to catch and label negative thoughts • Why Willpower Fails: Understanding why behavior change without addressing thoughts doesn't work • Writing vs. Thinking: The power of physically recording your thoughts for lasting change • Self-Compassion in Recovery: Being gentle with yourself while developing awarenessKey Timestamps• [00:01:00] - Introduction to the "mental infestation" concept and ANTs metaphor • [00:03:00] - Real examples of how automatic negative thoughts trigger destructive behaviors • [00:06:00] - Introduction to CBT and the thoughts-feelings-behaviors triangle • [00:07:00] - Dr. Aaron Beck's research and the science behind automatic negative thoughts • [00:09:00] - The concept of "defusion" - separating yourself from your thoughts • [00:12:00] - The 24-hour ANT spotting mission explained step-by-step • [00:14:00] - Practical tips for tracking thoughts and the importance of writing them downSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today, I'm chatting on neurodivergence and the little tricks I'm doing to be more productive. Stay connected here! https://linktr.ee/tammyu_wellnessIf you enjoy, please share with a friend, rate, and subscribe. Thanks for listening! :)

Episode 258: True Wellness = Flexibility, Not Perfection | In this episode, I'm sharing a gentle but important reminder: true wellness isn't about perfection, it's about flexibility. We explore the all-or-nothing mindset, how to hold routines with softness instead of rigidity and why real alignment comes from presence, not performance. If you've been hard on yourself for “falling off track,” this episode will help you reframe those moments as invitations to realign.✨ To hear the deeper, behind-the-scenes and unfiltered Soul Session on this topic, join my Patreon!Connect with Shayla✨ Aligned Access: Bonus Episodes & Exclusive Content on PatreonActivate Align Expand Guided Journal & PlannerActivate Align Expand ProgramActivate Align Expand Affirmation DeckInstagram: @shaylaquinn YouTube: www.youtube.com/shaylaquinn TikTok: @shayla.quinn Website: www.shaylaquinn.com Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/shaylaquinn Learn more about TYIL Program

Summary In this conversation, Ali Damron and Kylie Larson delve into the complexities of stubborn weight loss, discussing the importance of understanding nutrition, the all-or-nothing mentality, and the significance of behavior change in achieving and maintaining weight loss. They explore the role of exercise, daily activity, and the necessity of preparation in managing weight. The discussion also touches on mindfulness, self-compassion, and the evolution of perspectives on self-help and personal growth. Ultimately, they emphasize the importance of intention and the journey of behavior change in achieving lasting results. Takeaways Stubborn weight loss often stems from nutrition illiteracy. Understanding macronutrients is crucial for effective weight management. Behavior change is essential for sustainable weight loss. Living in maintenance requires a different mindset than dieting. Preparation is key to making healthier choices. Exercise can sometimes lead to increased hunger, complicating weight loss. Daily activity levels significantly impact weight management. Finding balance in strength training is important for overall health. Mindfulness and self-compassion play a role in behavior change. The journey of personal growth is ongoing and requires intention. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Stubborn Weight Loss 02:54 Understanding Nutrition Illiteracy 05:53 The All or Nothing Mentality 09:04 Navigating Life's Obstacles 11:42 The Importance of Preparation 14:53 Exercise and Body Composition 17:57 Steps and Activity Levels 23:56 Finding Natural Movement in Daily Life 28:58 The Importance of Self-Compassion and Grace 35:00 Navigating Change and Discomfort 39:17 The Evolution of Self-Help and Personal Growth 46:25 The Future of Fitness and Behavior Change   Ali's Resources:  Calm the Chaos: Practical Tips and Tools for Stopping Anxiety in It's Tracks Course! Consults with Ali  BIOptimizers Magnesium Breakthrough 10% off using code ALIDAMRON10 www.alidamron.com/magnesium Master Your Perimenopause Course + Toolkit "Am I in Perimenopause?" Checklist.  What Hormone is Imbalanced? Quiz! Fullscript (Get 10% off all supplements) "How To Balance Your Hormones For Better Sleep, Mood, Periods and Energy" Free, On Demand Training Website  Ali's Instagram Ali's Facebook Group: Holistic Health with Ali Damron 

 Dajana Yoakley, a peaceful parenting coach and founder of Delight in Parenting, joins us to discuss the importance of self-compassion for high-achieving women. With her expertise rooted in neuroscience, Dajana helps us move past perfectionism and self-criticism to overcome burnout and live a more intentional life. In this episode, we explore the transformative power of self-compassion, practical steps to integrate self-care, and why setting boundaries is an act of self-love. Join us to learn how to fill your own cup and show up as the confident, joyful leader you are meant to be. In this powerful episode, we explore:

Is midlife really a crisis, or is it the launchpad to your most vibrant chapter yet? In this empowering episode, Dr. Ellen Albertson, The Midlife Whisperer, brings her infectious energy and groundbreaking wisdom to debunk myths about aging, body image, and what it means to thrive after 50.At 62, Dr. Albertson radiates confidence that challenges society's obsession with youth. Her secret? Self-compassion. Through transformative research with Dr. Kristin Neff, she discovered that women who practice self-compassion experience less body shame and greater appreciation for themselves—without changing a single thing physically.We dive into why the outdated "eat less, exercise more" approach fails midlife women and explore how working with, rather than against, your changing hormones can lead to sustainable, joyful health. Dr. Albertson shares her "big four" factors: wholesome nutrition, stress management, quality sleep, and joyful movement that strengthens both body and mind.But that's not all! This conversation takes a candid turn as Dr. Albertson talks about beauty, silver hair transitions, and intimacy in midlife. Far from diminishing, these aspects of life can deepen as we shed the societal pressures to perform and embrace our authentic selves. As Dr. Albertson puts it, "We know ourselves and we're done with the BS."If you're ready to transform your relationship with aging, shed the shame, and step into your prime time glow up, this episode is a must-listen._________________________________________Are you ready to reclaim your midlife body and health? I went through my own personal journey through menopause, the struggle with midsection weight gain, and feeling run-down. Faster Way, a transformative six-week group program, set me on the path to sustainable change. https://www.fasterwaycoach.com/?aid=MicheleFolanHave questions about Faster Way? Please email me at:mfolanfasterway@gmail.com Sign up for Michele's weekly newsletter for more health and fitness tips and insights. https://michelefolanfasterway.myflodesk.com/i6i44jw4fq RIMAN skincare finally gave me real, visible results—restoring my glow, firmness, and confidence in my skin at 61. RIMAN Korea's #1 Skincare Line - https://michelefolan.riman.com*Transcripts are done with AI and may not be perfectly accurate.**This podcast is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute the practice of medicine, nursing, or other professional healthcare services, including the giving of medical advice. The content of this podcast is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

In this Episode of Inner Voice, Dr. Foojan Zeine welcomes Judy Belmont — psychotherapist, author, and corporate trainer with 40+ years of experience — for a powerful conversation on mental wellness. Judy shares practical strategies from her latest book: "110 CBT Tips and Tools: Proven Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Strategies for Anxiety, Depression, Stress, Anger, and More." Learn actionable tools to manage your mental health, improve emotional resilience, and lead a more balanced life.

 We're Julietta and Graciela, and we're sooooo excited to invite you into our Cacao Conversations—your weekly dose of heart-opening chats, all served with a warm cup of cacao. You'll feel like one of the family during this podcast where we speak frankly, and humorously, about some of life's big questions. We share wisdom we've picked up along the way and wonder out loud about lots of life's mysteries. Whether we're diving deep into transformation, laughing at life's quirks, or simply talking about the weather (which is, like, a much bigger deal at this age, isn't it?!?), you get a front row seat to our sometimes crazy, mostly spiritual and always authentic lives. From sweat lodge ceremonies to sweaty teen socks, we cover it all. So, grab your favorite mug, fill it with cacao and join us for some profound laughter. Cacao Conversations is about empowering you to remember who you are and step into the life that feels authentically yours. What's a mantra that helps you through challenging times? When life gets messy (because let's be honest—it always does), sometimes all it takes is a simple phrase to help us find our center again. In this heartfelt episode, we're sharing our favorite mantras—the words that have carried us through the storms, held us in the messy middle, and reminded us of who we really are when everything feels upside down. We talk about how to create or choose a mantra that resonates deeply with your soul, how to weave it into your daily practices, and why these small, powerful phrases can be life-changing tools for resilience and self-compassion. If you've been needing a little soul medicine to help you navigate life's twists and turns, this conversation is your invitation to breathe, soften, and remember your power. So pour your cacao, let the words wash over you, and maybe even find a mantra that becomes your new best friend in the hardest moments. Your cup is ready. Your journey is waiting. Let's sip, chat, and transform—together. Find out more at https://www.bodyandsoulevents.love/ Hey! Thanks for listening! If you liked this episode, please send us a message. We'd love to hear from you!Your cup is full, your journey awaits. Let's sip, chat, and transform together. Find out more at https://www.bodyandsoulevents.love/ Julietta Wenzel Founder of Body & Soul Ministries, Julietta is a healer, guide, and visionary dedicated to helping others remember their true selves and step into their authentic power. With a background as a physical therapist turned spiritual practitioner, she combines individual healing sessions, sacred ceremonies, and transformative retreats to guide her community toward joy, fulfillment, and alignment. https://bodyandsoulministries.love/ Instagram: @bodyandsoulministries Graciela Laurent Co-founder of Body & Soul Ministries, Graciela is a Reiki Master, Sound Practitioner, Cacao Ceremonialist, Forest Therapy Guide, and award-winning photographer. Her work blends spirituality, healing, and artistry to create transformative experiences that honor authenticity and connection. https://gracielalaurent.com/ Instagram: @gracielalaurentphotography Shine bright and have a magical day!Julietta & Graciela

In this episode of the Recover to Flourish podcast, we're diving into something that can be pretty confusing in recovery: mental hunger.You've probably experienced that feeling of hunger in your mind rather than your body – that constant thinking about food, even after eating. I'll talk about what mental hunger really is, why it happens during eating disorder recovery, and most importantly, how to respond to it without getting overwhelmed. I know it can be frustrating when your mind keeps asking for more food, but it's actually a sign your body is healing. I'm here to help you make sense of it, find ways to manage it, and approach it with compassion as you continue your recovery journey.Let me know your thoughts! SOCIALS:Instagram: @flourishwithciandra @recovertoflourish_podTikTok: @flourishwithciandraWebsite: https://flourishwithciandra.com/Contact: info@flourishwithciandra.com

In Episode 315:7 of the Best Books for Women with ADHD, You Will Discover: Powerful books that help you feel seen in your ADHD experience The neuroscience of ADHD to work with your brain instead of fighting it Resources offering both validation and practical strategies you can implement today Work With Me:

In this episode, we break down what self-compassion actually means—without the fluff or fake positivity. We'll explore why being kind to yourself feels so hard, especially if you're used to self-criticism as a motivator. You'll learn practical ways to start treating yourself with the same care you'd give a friend, even on your worst days. Get ready for real ideas and strategies about WTF self-compassion is and why it might be the game-changer you didn't know you needed.Send us a text message to be anonymously read and responded to! Support the showYou can find Sara on Instagram @borderlinefromhell. You can also find the podcast on IG @boldbeautifulborderline Corey Evans is the artist for the music featured. He can be found HERE Talon Abbott created the cover art. He. can be found HERE Leave us a voicemail about your thoughts or questions on the show at boldbeautifulborderline.comIf you like the show we would love if you could rate, subscribe and support us on Patreon. Patreon info here: https://www.patreon.com/boldbeautifulborderline?fan_landing=true Purchase Sara's Exploring Your Borderline Strengths Journal at https://www.amazon.com/Exploring-Your-Borderline-Strengths-Amundson/dp/B0C522Y7QT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=IGQBWJRE3CFX&keywords=exploring+your+borderline+strengths&qid=1685383771&sprefix=exploring+your+bor%2Caps%2C164&sr=8-1 For mental health supports: National Suicide Pr...

Self-criticism is often at the root of anxiety, depression, and stress. The final step in this week's series is about moving from self-compassion to a kinder, more accepting attitude toward yourself. The simple act of being grateful is a powerful tool for neuroplasticity.  WELCOME TO THIS WEEK'S SERIES: THE FIRE WITHIN: MEDITATIONS ON ANGER, POWER, AND PURPOSE Welcome to "The Fire Within: Meditations on Anger, Power, and Purpose" In a world that often tells us to "just let go," "The Fire Within" challenges the conventional wisdom about anger. This isn't a series about suppressing or escaping your feelings. Instead, it is a guided journey to sit with your anger, to understand it, and to transform its intense energy from a destructive force into a potent catalyst for growth. Over seven episodes, you will learn to listen to what your anger is truly telling you, to reclaim your power from reactivity, and to forge a path forward with courage and clarity. This is a series for those ready to confront the uncomfortable truth of their emotions and emerge with an unshakable inner strength. This is day 7 of a 7-day meditation series, "The Fire Within: Meditations on Anger, Power, and Purpose," episodes 3353-3359. YOUR WEEKLY CHALLENGE Calming the Flame Quest: Take one small, proactive step every day this week to address a situation that has been causing you frustration or anger. Choose one action that feels empowering, not reactive. YOUR MEDITATION JOURNEY DURING THIS WEEK'S SERIES Day 1:   Feeling Safe Visualization Day 2:  Affirmation: "I release worry and fear as I reclaim my true essence." Day 3:  Calming Breath Day 4:  Mudra to Trust Yourself Day 5:  Third chakra inner flame focus Day 6: Flow meditation combining the week's techniques Day 7:  Weekly review meditation and closure SHARE YOUR MEDITATION JOURNEY WITH YOUR FELLOW MEDITATORS Let's connect and inspire each other! Please share a little about how meditation has helped you by reaching out to me at Mary@SipandOm.com or better yet -- direct message me on https://www.instagram.com/sip.and.om. We'd love to hear about your meditation ritual!  WAYS TO SUPPORT THE DAILY MEDITATION PODCAST SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss a single episode. Consistency is the KEY to a successful meditation ritual. SHARE the podcast with someone who could use a little extra support. I'd be honored if you left me a podcast review. If you do, please email me at Mary@sipandom.com and let me know a little about yourself and how meditation has helped you. I'd love to share your journey to inspire fellow meditators on the podcast! All meditations are created by Mary Meckley and are her original content. Please request permission to use any of Mary's content by sending an email to Mary@sipandom.com. FOR DAILY EXTRA SUPPORT OUTSIDE THE PODCAST Each day's meditation techniques are shared at: sip.and.om Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sip.and.om/ sip and om Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SipandOm/ SIP AND OM MEDITATION APP Looking for a little more support? If you're ready for a more in-depth meditation experience, allow Mary to guide you in daily 30-minute guided meditations on the Sip and Om meditation app. Give it a whirl for 7-days free! Receive access to 2,000+ 30-minute guided meditations customized around a weekly theme to help you manage emotions. Receive a Clarity Journal and a Slow Down Guide customized for each weekly theme.  2-Week's Free Access on iOS https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/sip-and-om/id1216664612?platform=iphone&preserveScrollPosition=true#platform/iphone All meditations are created by Mary Meckley and are her original content. Please request permission to use any of Mary's content by sending an email to Mary@sipandom.com.Let go of repetitive negative thoughts. The beach waves were composed by Mike Koenig. Music composed by Christopher Lloyd Clark licensed by RoyaltyFreeMusic.com, and also by musician Greg Keller.

You know those days where your brain just won't let up? Where you're being hard on yourself, even though you know it's making the whole thing feel worse and yet you just can't stop?You've been learning, unlearning, trying to be kinder to yourself… but somehow you're right back in the spiral of self-criticism, guilt, chaos around food or body image and you can't shake it.This episode is about those days. Why they happen. What's really going on. And how to respond in a way that actually helps, even when compassion feels TOTALLY out of reach so you can halt the spiral WAY sooner and not feel like you're walking eggshells when it comes to food or your body. And if you're ready to stop getting stuck in these same cycles, where food thoughts, guilt and body shame hijack your day no matter how much you keep telling yourself "I should know better by now" - 1:1 coaching is where we free you from that for GOOD by understanding and rewriting your body story ⬇️DETAILS HERE

You can't truly love yourself if you're lying to yourself.And you certainly can't find peace in a version of you that's not real.Because when you try to love a version of yourself that isn't true, it feels empty. It's like people-pleasing: if you sacrifice authenticity for approval, then who are they really approving of? Not the real you. And the same goes for self-approval. If we dress up a lie and call it self-love, we're building a facade that will inevitably crumble.In this episode, you will learn…Why women, in particular, tend to lie to themselves (even more than they lie to others)What all major religions and spiritual teachings say about truth-telling3 simple but profound ways to use honesty as a daily practice of loving yourselfWe'll also explore ideas from authors like bell hooks, George Saunders, Don Miguel Ruiz, and Tara Brach, whose teachings remind us that honesty is the foundation of love.If you've ever felt like self-love doesn't “work” for you, or that you're doing everything but still feel disconnected, this episode might reveal why and inspire you to honestly love yourself.Remember: telling the truth isn't about sharing every secret, it's about staying rooted in what's real. And what's real—no matter how messy—is worthy of love.Deepen your self-love journey with Mary's books:The Gift of Self-Love, an interactive workbook that will help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself.100 Days of Self-Love, a guided journal with 100 prompts to help you calm self-criticism and learn to love who you are.Follow Mary on IG: @maryscupofteaa and @maryspodcastIf you're enjoying this self-love podcast, share it with the women in your life. Your support helps keep this show—and the message of self-love, confidence, and mental health—alive and thriving.

For so long, I believed that the only way to create a successful, fulfilling life was by pushing harder, doing more, and holding it all together—until I realized that real transformation begins the moment I stop gripping and start trusting. In this episode, I'm sharing the deeper truth about why effort alone isn't the answer—and how your Inner Critic may be keeping you stuck in fear, doubt, and striving. Together, we'll explore how to shift from force to flow, from scarcity to abundance, and from control to alignment using the MIND Method™. If you're craving more ease, clarity, and freedom—not just in what you do, but in who you're becoming—this is a conversation you don't want to miss. ✨ Tune in and begin to remember the version of you who already holds the key.   Your weekly reflection questions: What part of me is still gripping for control, and what would it feel like to finally let go? Where in my life am I chasing worth instead of embodying it? Who am I becoming when I choose alignment over striving?  

In this episode I share about the 3 layers of my Hope Map Graphic/my work:1. Outer, seasonal living layer2. Yellow macro view of core concepts. To go one layer deeper, take the Hope Map Assessment: https://www.alifeinprogress.ca/take-the-hope-map-assessment/3. Inner Cycle of Self-Awareness + Self-Compassion + Imperfect Action = Reclaim Your AgencyThen I walk you through the inner cycle and explain how to begin applying it to your life starting today.The next four episodes will take you deeper into the "Inner Cycle." You'll learn more about HOW to practice each step as well as what supports the practice and what hinders it. The Life Visioning Course (save $100): https://www.alifeinprogress.ca/guided-life-visioning-process/Join the Brave + Beautiful Community waitlist: https://www.alifeinprogress.ca/community/

In this episode, Kristen sits down with Licensed Professional Counselors and co-authors of Sticky Note Mantras, Helene Zupanc and Beth Valdez, to explore how simple, personal mantras can shift negative thought patterns and bring more self-compassion, humor, and joy into everyday life.   stickynotemantras.com   When you purchase these books through these Amazon affiliate links, you're helping support the podcast at no extra cost to you:     1. Sticky Note Mantras: The Art and Science of Choosing Your Thoughts: https://amzn.to/3IpHCiT     Book Recommendations: 1. The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom (A Toltec Wisdom Book: https://amzn.to/453lBPO   2. Brain Lock, Twentieth Anniversary Edition: Free Yourself from Obsessive-Compulsive Behavior: https://amzn.to/44tRZuJ     Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please go to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

In this episode, host Talaya Dendy sits down with Katharine Giovanni, an award-winning author, speaker, and transformation mentor. As a stage three breast cancer survivor, Katharine knows firsthand that everyone tells you to forgive, but no one teaches you how. Katharine shares her journey of survival and demystifies the practice of forgiveness. The conversation explores how to navigate difficult emotions, enhance quality of life, and find peace after a life-altering event like cancer. Listeners will learn how forgiveness can be a powerful tool for healing, self-compassion, and emotional resolution, not just for cancer survivors, but for anyone facing life's toughest challenges.

Join Claire Pedrick in this episode of The Coaching Inn as she welcomes Teresa Wilson, a seasoned coach with a passion for shadow work and personal development. Teresa shares her journey from community development to coaching, highlighting the transformative power of shadow work and the importance of self-compassion. Discover how Teresa's unique approach to coaching can help individuals embrace their true selves and unlock their full potential.   "We change when we become more of who we are."  "Shadow work allows us to meet our edges with curiosity."   Don't forget to subscribe to The Coaching Inn and leave a review wherever you listen to your podcasts!    Contact: Connect with Teresa Wilson on LinkedIn for more insights into her work. Contact Claire by emailing info@3dcoaching.com  or check out our Substack where you can talk with other listeners. Further Information: Subscribe or follow The Coaching Inn on your podcast platform or our YouTube Channel to hear or see new episodes as they drop. Find out more about 3D Coaching and get new ideas and offers in our weekly email. Coming Up: Book Corner with Nathan and Kelly Keywords: Coaching, Shadow Work, Personal Development, Self-Compassion, Neurodivergence, Inclusivity, Transformation, Personal Growth, Professional Growth, Community Development, Gestalt Coaching, Self-Awareness, Mindfulness, Compassion, Leadership, Coaching Retreats, Emotional Intelligence, Inner Wisdom, Self-Reflection, Authenticity, Empowerment, Mental Health, Coaching Journey, Self-Discovery, Transformation Journey   We love having a variety of guests join us! Please remember that inviting someone to participate does not mean we necessarily endorse their views or opinions. We believe in open conversation and sharing different perspectives.

Do you ever feel like anxiety and negative thoughts take over before you even realize it? In this episode, I'll teach you the two key steps to break free from this cycle. First, you'll learn how to build self-awareness so you can catch the scary thoughts before they spiral. Then, I'll walk you through how to rewire the habit by leaning into neutral or positive sensations — even if it feels unfamiliar at first. This simple practice is an act of self-compassion, and it's the foundation for overcoming chronic anxiety, negative thought patterns, and even physical symptoms that show up when your nervous system is on high alert. Tune in now and start shifting your thoughts today. Ali's Resources:  Calm the Chaos: Practical Tips and Tools for Stopping Anxiety in It's Tracks Course! Consults with Ali  BIOptimizers Magnesium Breakthrough 10% off using code ALIDAMRON10 www.alidamron.com/magnesium Master Your Perimenopause Course + Toolkit "Am I in Perimenopause?" Checklist.  What Hormone is Imbalanced? Quiz! Fullscript (Get 10% off all supplements) "How To Balance Your Hormones For Better Sleep, Mood, Periods and Energy" Free, On Demand Training Website  Ali's Instagram Ali's Facebook Group: Holistic Health with Ali Damron 

Is walking actually exercise, or are we just lying to ourselves? This simple question has sparked heated debates across social media, but the truth might surprise you—and it could completely change how you approach your fitness journey.In this episode of Broads, I sit down with Alex Allen, a strength training coach who's not afraid to challenge popular fitness trends. We dive into the dangerous myth of motivation and why cycle syncing might be doing more harm than good for women. We also discuss her controversial take on intuitive eating during deficits and the truth about reverse dieting.Alex Allen is a certified trainer and host of the Born to Thrive podcast. She's coached thousands of women in building strength, repairing their relationship with food, and taking up space, in the gym and in life.We Discuss:02:58 – Why walking is actually exercise (and why that matters) 09:41 – What reverse dieting actually is and who really needs it 17:16 – Calories in vs calories out (CICO) for beginners 29:17 – Why cycle syncing is problematic and potentially harmful 34:09 – How to actually fix your relationship with food 44:25 – How to love your body while working on it 58:24 – Why motivation is a lie and what to focus on insteadThank You to Our Sponsors:Broads: Broads 1:1 – Ready to ditch the bullshit and start feeling good in your body? Choose your level and let's do this together. Apply for BroadsCOACH or BroadsCHAMPION today at broads.appFind more from Tara:Website: https://www.taralaferrara.com/Instagram: @taralaferrara @broads.podcast @broads.appYoutube: Tara LaFerraraTiktok: @taralaferraraFind more from Alex Allen: Instagram: @thealexallenBorn to Thrive Podcast YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AlexAllen

In this episode of the Recover to Flourish podcast, we're talking about gastroparesis and how it can affect eating disorder recovery. If you've been dealing with delayed stomach emptying or digestive issues, you know it can complicate your relationship with food and recovery. I'll share what gastroparesis is, how it often shows up in people with eating disorders, and why it's so important to approach recovery with both compassion and patience when digestive issues are in the mix. It's a tough road, but I want to help you understand the connection and give you some tips on how to support your body through it. Let me know your thoughts! SOCIALS:Instagram: @flourishwithciandra @recovertoflourish_podTikTok: @flourishwithciandraWebsite: https://flourishwithciandra.com/Contact: info@flourishwithciandra.com

Send us a textWhat if being kind to yourself wasn't just a nice idea—but the key to better relationships, leadership, and daily peace?In this episode, Angela sits down with executive coach and author Massimo Backus to explore what self-compassion in action really looks like—especially for high achievers and recovering perfectionists. With Sami on a surprise maternity leave (yay!), Angela and Massimo keep it real, diving into everything from early childhood stories and emotional filters to workplace typos and repairing strained relationships.You'll learn:Why self-love is hard to say—and even harder to practiceHow childhood coping strategies become adult roadblocksThe 3-part framework for building a self-compassion habitWhy trying to "silence" your inner critic doesn't workHow to respond differently (and more kindly) to conflict, failure, and feedbackThis isn't fluff. It's practical, transformative, and—yes—a little messy. But that's what makes it so powerful.

Do you ever feel like you're stuck in a loop of negative self-talk? You're not alone!   In this remix moment, we are diving into the sneaky power of self-talk and how it can either uplift you or keep you stuck in a rut.   I also share my Triple C Belief Breakthrough Method, which is all about catching, checking, and changing the thoughts that don't serve you.   Let's work together to replace limiting beliefs with empowering ones! Tune in to discover how to break free from the thought patterns that are holding you back and start creating a mindset that works for you!  

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2680: Melani Schweder explores the subtle yet profound impact of everyday language on mental and emotional well-being. By tuning into the words we use, especially in self-talk, she reveals how small shifts in phrasing can boost self-compassion, reduce stress, and support lasting personal growth. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.abrighterwild.com/blog/your-words-matter Quotes to ponder: "Your words have power, and they're always sending messages to others and to yourself." "When you say 'I'm so bad at this,' your brain believes you. When you say 'I'm learning how to do this,' your brain believes that too." "Small shifts in your self-talk can create massive changes in how you feel and how you show up in the world." Episode references: Loving What Is: https://www.amazon.com/Loving-What-Is-Four-Questions/dp/1400045371 The Gifts of Imperfection: https://www.amazon.com/Gifts-Imperfection-Think-Supposed-Embrace/dp/159285849X The Four Agreements: https://www.amazon.com/Four-Agreements-Practical-Personal-Freedom/dp/1878424319 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation with Val Thompson, a woman of Grace & Grit, we dive deep into the reality of midlife for women today. If you're navigating the fog of hormonal shifts, processing major life transitions, or simply wondering “what's next?” as you create your second-half-of-life blueprint, this discussion offers both validation and direction. Here's what you'll discover in this episode: Practical approaches to reclaim your energy when you feel depleted by life's demands How to make peace with your “expectations” for how your body is supposed to behave at midlife Mindset shifts to help you embrace restoration as an act of sef-honoring. The truth is, midlife isn't a crisis—it's an invitation to reclaim yourself. To stop putting yourself last. To recognize that your healthiest, most fulfilling years can absolutely be ahead of you, not behind you. Listen now if you're ready to shift from feeling overwhelmed and overscheduled to becoming aligned, empowered, and energized in this magnificent midlife season. Learn more and listen here: https://graceandgrit.com/podcast-388 MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Free Discovery Call with Val *** ⬇️ Tools to rock your second act. ✅ Start Here: https://graceandgrit.com/start-here/ ✅ Listen to the Podcast: https://graceandgrit.com/podcast ✅ Weekly Bit of Grace & Grit: https://graceandgrit.com/rumbleandrise ✅ ️Leave a Podcast Review: https://graceandgrit.com/podcastreview ✅ Rumble & Rise with Courtney: https://graceandgrit.com/readytorumble ✅ Subscribe on YouTube: https://graceandgrit.com/youtube-subscribe ✅ Visit us online: https://graceandgrit.com  

➡ CLICK HERE to send me a text, I'd love to hear what you thought about this episode! Leave your name in the text so I know who it's from! This week's episode is chock FULL of tips on how to set boundaries if and when we decide to return to social media after this summer detox. If you've been following along on your own detox, but fear the dip back into the socials like I do, this is the episode you don't want to miss. Thekla and I talk all about protecting ourselves and being mindfully aware of our intentions upon return. And if you want to dive more into some of the research we talk about in today's episode, here are the links you'll want (h/t Thekla!) Self-Compassion in the Age of Social Media ResourcesScholarly ArticlesCastelo, N., Kushlev, K., Ward, A.F., Esterman, M., & Reiner, P.B. (2025). Blocking mobile internet on smartphones improves sustained attention, mental health, and subjective well-being. PNAS Nexus, 4(2): pgaf017. https://doi.org/10.1093/pnasnexus/pgaf017. PMID: 39967678; PMCID: PMC11834938.Kuchar AL, Neff KD, Mosewich AD. Resilience and Enhancement in Sport, Exercise, & Training (RESET): A brief self-compassion intervention with NCAA student-athletes. Psychol Sport Exerc. 2023 Jul;67:102426. doi: 10.1016/j.psychsport.2023.102426. Epub 2023 Mar 28. PMID: 37665879.Wadsley M, Ihssen N. A Systematic Review of Structural and Functional MRI Studies Investigating Social Networking Site Use. Brain Sci. 2023 May 11;13(5):787. doi: 10.3390/brainsci13050787. Erratum in: Brain Sci. 2023 Jul 17;13(7):1079. doi: 10.3390/brainsci13071079. PMID: 37239257; PMCID: PMC10216498.Websites/OrganizationsCenter for Humane Technology. humanetech.comDigital Wellness Lab at Boston Children's Hospital. digitalwellnesslab.orgAfter Babel by Jonathan Haidt. (Substack)Scales/MeasuresThe Bergen Social Media Addiction Scale (BSMAS)Support the show

A lack of self-confidence shows up in small and big ways. Here are 5 not-so-obvious signs that you're struggling with self-confidence, things that Mary is personally working on as well. You will learn how to... stop trying to fill inner voids with external things start trusting yourself more get out of a victim mindset Remember: No shiny new thing is going to give you the confidence, happiness, and positive feelings you're looking for. You're the only one who can change your mindset and it has to come from within. If you enjoyed this episode, screenshot it and tag @maryspodcast on social media! And make sure to get Mary's books two on self-love: The Gift of Self-Love: https://maryscupoftea.com/gift-of-self-love. This is a self-love workbook that will help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself. 100 Days of Self-Love: maryscupoftea.com/journal. This is a guided journal with 100 prompts to help you calm self-criticism and learn to love who you are.

For so long, I shaped my life around who I thought I needed to be—checking the boxes, playing the roles, staying safe in the familiar. But deep down, something was always stirring: a quiet knowing that I was meant for more. In this episode, I'm inviting you into the sacred space between who you've been… and who you're becoming. We'll explore what it really means to step out of your Inner Critic's identity—the one built on perfection, control, and people-pleasing—and into the version of you who's wise, whole, and wildly free. ✨ If you've been feeling restless, like you're outgrowing the life you once worked so hard to build—this conversation is your invitation to stop performing and start returning to your truth. Listen now and begin the next chapter of your life rooted in power, presence, and your Authentic Self.   Your weekly reflection questions: What version of me have I been performing—and what truth have I been hiding underneath that role? Where in my life am I still letting my Inner Critic make the decisions—and what would shift if I chose from my Authentic Self instead? If I stopped waiting for permission, recognition, or certainty… what bold step would I take next?  

We all want to feel seen, heard, and understood—but how often do we actually offer that to ourselves or others?This episode explores the deep emotional difference between validation and invalidation. You'll learn how simple, kind words like “It makes sense you feel that way” can calm the nervous system, reduce stress, and create true connection. In contrast, phrases like “You're overreacting” or “You shouldn't feel that way” can lead to shame, anxiety, and emotional disconnection.The episode also touches on self-compassion versus self-judgment—reminding us that we can hold space for our own emotions without criticism. Scientific insights show how emotional validation regulates the nervous system, improves vagal tone, and strengthens emotional resilience. From a yogic lens, it connects to ahimsa (non-harming), especially in how we treat ourselves and others emotionally.Gentle breathing practices and reflection questions are offered to help you anchor these teachings in your body. Whether in relationships or in your own self-talk, this episode is a powerful reminder: validation doesn't require agreement—just presence.

In this episode of The Wholehearted Series, we explore the powerful shift from perfectionism to self-compassion. Perfectionism ties our worth to performance, fueling fear, shame, and disconnection. But self-compassion offers a new way—one rooted in kindness, common humanity, and mindful awareness.We unpack:The difference between self-esteem and self-compassionHow perfectionism mirrors a fixed mindsetWhy many of us resist self-compassion (hello, Backdraft)And how learning to meet ourselves with tenderness can transform how we live, relate, and growLetting go of perfectionism isn't about lowering the bar—it's about reclaiming your worth, exactly as you are.Get your free Wholehearted Living journal prompts. https://calm-sun-843.myflodesk.com/x5yo2oyoyuBook a free discovery coaching call: www.ella-hooper.comFollow me on Instagram:@ella.hooper__

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Send us a textOne bad eating day doesn't mean you've failed—and it definitely doesn't mean you need to start over on Monday. In this compassionate solo episode I share practical, empowering strategies to help you bounce back from overeating without guilt, restriction or punishment.Learn why skipping meals, over-exercising, or obsessing over perfection actually backfires—and what to do instead. You'll discover how to use self-compassion, simple nutrition habits, and mindset shifts to keep your progress going strong.Inside the episode: – Why guilt makes overeating worse (and how to stop the cycle) – What to do the morning after a binge or emotional eating episode – The “Start Your Week on Friday” trick that transforms your weekends – Why habits > rules, and how to feel in control again fast – How to use extra energy to your advantage, not as punishmentThis is your invitation to drop the guilt, refocus your energy, and treat yourself with kindness.

Do you often find yourself being your own toughest critic? Running a business as an interior designer requires resilience, but constantly focusing on what you haven't done perfectly can hold you back from reaching your true potential. In today's episode, I'm diving into why practicing self-compassion is one of the most powerful tools you can develop as a designer CEO.   Self-compassion isn't about letting yourself off the hook; it's about shifting your mindset to support yourself through challenges, setbacks, and mistakes. By embracing kindness and understanding toward yourself, you'll break free from perfectionism and quiet your inner critic. You'll discover how this approach not only helps you feel better but also increases your efficiency and problem-solving ability.   Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.desicreswell.com/145   For the resources mentioned in this episode, click here: https://www.desicreswell.com/resources   Click here to enroll in CEO Summer School: https://www.desiid.com/summerschool

Healing can be a frustrating, difficult, and discouraging process at times. When you're trying to progress one day but feel like you're regressing the next, self-compassion is often the first thing to slip through the cracks. In this raw and honest conversation, Hero and Accountability Coach Bonnie Heim explores how being kind, caring, and compassionate to yourself is an essential part of the healing journey.Bonnie opens up about a season of burnout, emotional dysregulation, and the messy process of reconnecting with her nervous system. Together, she and Chandler reflect on the real work of tending to your inner world — not through perfection or performance, but through presence, softness, and truth.What You Will Learn[00:07:15] Why extending compassion to yourself can feel harder than offering it to others[00:08:52] How to recognize when you're dysregulated and what it feels like in the body[00:10:35] What it means to “co-regulate” with a safe person and why it matters[00:12:47] How to sit with and process difficult emotions instead of suppressing them[00:13:59] Why “nervous system regulation” should be a key part of healing work[00:14:56] How Bonnie recognizes when her nervous system needs attention[00:15:30] The moment Bonnie realized her inner critic was mimicking her fear of being a burden[00:17:45] Why trying to “fix” yourself can be a form of avoidance rather than healingLet's Connect!Follow The Healing Heroes on Instagram & LinkedIn.Bonnie HeimWebsite | InstagramChandler StroudWebsite | LinkedIn | InstagramMixing and editing provided by Next Day Podcast.

Be honest—how many times have you decided to lose weight after a harsh look in the mirror or a moment of self-judgment? You're not alone. But here's the truth: sustainable weight loss doesn't come from a place of self-loathing or punishment. It comes from partnership—with your mind, your body, and most importantly, yourself. In this week's powerful episode of the podcast, I'm diving into Self-Compassion Secrets to Sustainable Weight Loss. If you've ever thought, “I'll love myself when I'm thinner,” then this episode is especially for you. It's time to flip that script—and I'll show you how. Come on in!   In This Episode, You'll Also Learn… Why shame and self-criticism don't work (and actually backfire). How your inner critic might be sabotaging your weight release. What it really means to build a compassionate relationship with your body. Why loving yourself now is the key to long-term success.   Links Mentioned in the Episode: Join my FREE Online Masterclass:  BREAKING FREE: Mastering Your Mindset for Lasting Weight Release Join my FREE Masterclass:  "How to Stop the "Start Over Tomorrow" Weight Struggle Cycle and Begin Releasing Weight for Good." Sign up for the FREE HYPNOSIS DOWNLOAD : Shift Out of Sugar Cravings My book,  From Fat to Thin Thinking: Unlock Your Mind for Permanent Weight Loss (Includes a 30-day hypnosis process.) What would you love to hear about on the podcast?  Click here and let me know Subscribe to the email list so that you never miss an episode! Get more thin thinking tools and strategies  

Episode 179 – Proof You're Still Doing Great (Even If You Missed a Week)Hey friend—today's episode is short, honest, and from the heart. I missed releasing an episode last week. First time in over three years. And guess what? I didn't panic. I rested. And now I'm here to talk about what that taught me.

Send us a textEpisode 183 - When It Comes Out of Nowhere: The Emotional Gut PunchWhat do you do when a family conflict hits you out of nowhere and leaves you reeling? In this episode, Tina Gosney shares how to navigate the emotional “gut punch” of sudden family hurt. You'll learn why these moments are so disorienting, how our reactions can intensify suffering, and how to begin responding with clarity, courage, and self-compassion.Tina explains the Buddhist teaching of the Two Arrows and the difference between clean pain and dirty pain—two powerful concepts that will change the way you process emotional pain. This episode is packed with validation, insight, and practical tools for anyone who feels blindsided by family conflict and doesn't know how to move forward.Episode OutlineThe “Gut Punch” of Sudden Family Conflict Tina introduces the metaphor of the emotional gut punch—how it feels, why it's so destabilizing, and why it's common in family relationships.The Two Arrows: Pain vs. Suffering Learn the Buddhist concept of the first and second arrow. Discover how we unintentionally add suffering to our pain by believing fearful or self-critical thoughts.Clean Pain vs. Dirty Pain Explore the difference between honest emotional pain and the reactive patterns that keep us stuck. Learn how to stay present with clean pain instead of spiraling into dirty pain.How to Stay Grounded After the Gut Punch Tina offers practical steps to care for yourself in the moment—naming the pain, noticing the second arrow, letting the emotions move, and finding compassion for yourself.Why These Moments Can Become Turning Points Hear how these painful moments, while difficult, can also be invitations to grow stronger, set new boundaries, and reconnect with your core self.Related Episodes & Additional Resources Download: Heal the Rift – 5 Steps to Reconnect with Your Adult Child – A free resource with simple, powerful steps to begin rebuilding connection CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD THE GUIDESet up a Connection Call with Tina: CLICK HERE TO SET UP YOUR FREE CALL Tina Gosney is the Family Conflict Coach. She works with parents who have families in conflict to help them become the grounded, confident leaders their family needs. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us: Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/tinagosneycoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tinagosneycoaching ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Tina is certified in family relationships and a trauma informed coach. Visit tinagosney.com for more information on coaching services.

We're Julietta and Graciela, and we're sooooo excited to invite you into our Cacao Conversations—your weekly dose of heart-opening chats, all served with a warm cup of cacao. You'll feel like one of the family during this podcast where we speak frankly, and humorously, about some of life's big questions. We share wisdom we've picked up along the way and wonder out loud about lots of life's mysteries. Whether we're diving deep into transformation, laughing at life's quirks, or simply talking about the weather (which is, like, a much bigger deal at this age, isn't it?!?), you get a front row seat to our sometimes crazy, mostly spiritual and always authentic lives. From sweat lodge ceremonies to sweaty teen socks, we cover it all. So, grab your favorite mug, fill it with cacao and join us for some profound laughter. Cacao Conversations is about empowering you to remember who you are and step into the life that feels authentically yours. How do you embrace imperfection in your healing journey? We've all been there—wanting to “get it right,” to heal perfectly, to check all the boxes and finally feel “done.” But healing isn't linear, and it definitely isn't perfect. In this episode, we're pulling back the curtain on what it really looks like to embrace imperfection as part of the journey. We talk about the messy, non-glamorous parts of healing that no one posts about on Instagram, the magic of showing up as you are, and the deep liberation that comes from letting go of unrealistic expectations. We'll share our personal stories, the missteps that taught us the most, and how we learned (and are still learning!) to love ourselves through every phase. If you've ever felt like you're “failing” at healing, this is your permission slip to breathe, laugh, and keep going. So pour your cacao, drop the pressure, and let's celebrate the beauty of being a perfectly imperfect work in progress—together. Your cup is ready. Your journey is waiting. Let's sip, chat, and transform—together. Find out more at https://www.bodyandsoulevents.love/ Hey! Thanks for listening! If you liked this episode, please send us a message. We'd love to hear from you!Your cup is full, your journey awaits. Let's sip, chat, and transform together. Find out more at https://www.bodyandsoulevents.love/ Julietta Wenzel Founder of Body & Soul Ministries, Julietta is a healer, guide, and visionary dedicated to helping others remember their true selves and step into their authentic power. With a background as a physical therapist turned spiritual practitioner, she combines individual healing sessions, sacred ceremonies, and transformative retreats to guide her community toward joy, fulfillment, and alignment. https://bodyandsoulministries.love/ Instagram: @bodyandsoulministries Graciela Laurent Co-founder of Body & Soul Ministries, Graciela is a Reiki Master, Sound Practitioner, Cacao Ceremonialist, Forest Therapy Guide, and award-winning photographer. Her work blends spirituality, healing, and artistry to create transformative experiences that honor authenticity and connection. https://gracielalaurent.com/ Instagram: @gracielalaurentphotography Shine bright and have a magical day!Julietta & Graciela

In today's episode of the Recover to Flourish podcast, we're talking about something many of us struggle with in recovery: social eating. Whether it's family meals, eating out with friends, or social gatherings, eating in front of others can be tough when you're recovering from an eating disorder. I'll share some personal experiences, tips, and strategies to help you feel more at ease with social eating and break free from the anxiety it can cause.Here's what we'll cover:Why social eating can trigger anxiety in recovery.Practical tips for navigating social eating situations without guilt or shame.How to build confidence in your choices and focus on enjoying the moment.Social eating doesn't have to be overwhelming. Even if it is right now - you can do something about it with a little help and patience.Let me know your thoughts! SOCIALS:Instagram: @flourishwithciandra @recovertoflourish_podTikTok: @flourishwithciandraWebsite: https://flourishwithciandra.com/Contact: info@flourishwithciandra.com

Many leaders grew up with a mindset that encouraged giving 120% all day, every day.But giving 120% all the time is not your best, says Amanda Younts, because it's not sustainable.Known to her audience as The Midlife Catalyst, Amanda promotes a leadership model that encourages self-compassion–a model that sustains leadership performance and improves the workplace for both leaders and their people.In this conversation with Daniel and Peter, Amanda shares her philosophy and some practical advice to create sustainable, self-compassionate leadership.Tune in to learn:How to customize your daily routines to your preferences, needs, and energy levelsThe difference between self-compassion and self-careWhy you should have a “Board of Directors”“It's the small things in the day” that help you stay on top of your energy, outlook, and performance, Amanda says. “Your best is good enough.”Questions, comments, or topic ideas? Drop us an e-mail at podcast@stewartleadership.com.In this episode:2:20 – Introduction: Amanda Younts3:04 – The Relationship Between Leaders and Self-Compassion7:00 – How Leaders Can Practice Self-Compassion13:10 – When is Our “Good Enough” Not Good Enough?17:42 – How to Balance Self-Compassion and Development20:52 – Managing the Inner Voice23:28 – Tips for Exercising Self-Compassion27:32 – The Dangers of Not Practicing Self-CompassionResources:Amanda Younts's SubstackThe Midlife Catalyst WebsiteStewart Leadership Insights and Resources:How to Zoom Out and Manage Your Inner ChatterManage Your Energy, Not Your Time4 Ways “Green Therapy” Can Make You a Better Leader9 Ways to Live Longer and Lead Better5 Ways “Cloud Watching” Improves Your Leadership6 Ways Leaders Can Master Emotional Self-Control7 Steps to Lessen Your FrustrationIf you liked this episode, please share it with a friend or colleague, or, better yet, leave a review to help other listeners find our show, and remember to subscribe so you never miss an episode. For more great content or to learn about how Stewart Leadership can help you grow your ability to lead effectively, please visit stewartleadership.com and follow us on LinkedIn, Instagram, and YouTube.

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 1756: Angel Chernoff offers ten empowering ways to stay motivated after making a mistake, helping you transform regret into resilience. Her guidance encourages self-compassion, personal responsibility, and forward movement through life's inevitable stumbles. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.marcandangel.com/2012/04/05/keep-you-motivated-after-a-mistake/ Quotes to ponder: "Mistakes are the growing pains of wisdom." "You are not your mistakes. They are what you did. Not who you are." "Every mistake teaches you something new about yourself." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this enlightening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt dives deep into the transformative philosophy of intuitive eating. With her signature blend of humor and vulnerability, Brianne shares her personal journey of healing from an eating disorder and body dysmorphia, emphasizing the importance of making peace with food and embracing a non-diet mentality.Throughout the episode, Brianne unpacks the nine key principles of intuitive eating, encouraging listeners to reject the restrictive dieting mentality and instead honor their hunger cues. She discusses the significance of challenging the “food police,” recognizing the satisfaction factor in meals, and discovering the joy of eating without guilt or shame. By sharing relatable anecdotes and practical strategies, Brianne empowers listeners to reconnect with their bodies, appreciate their health, and cultivate a positive relationship with food.Listeners will gain valuable insights into how intuitive eating can lead to improved self-esteem, better mental health, and a healthier body image. Brianne's candid discussion serves as a reminder that nourishing our bodies should be a joyful experience, free from judgment and emotional turmoil. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation that invites you to embrace your body and food in a whole new way.