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4 Fathers, Chris, J, Brad & E-man share their own opinions, views, advice and answers on both fatherhood and questions mothers want answering from fathers. Follow us on Instagram and let us know your views and opinions. If you have any questions for us you want answered, send us a DM! Thanks for li…

Father's with a say


    • Sep 5, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 41m AVG DURATION
    • 29 EPISODES


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    Episode 18 - Why put your friends before your kids?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 5, 2021 39:30


    So many parents put their friends before their kids. This week we discuss this and whose at fault for this and how we as fathers would handle a situation if we felt like this was being done to our kids. Hope you enjoy this episode and as always feel free to get in touch via our instagram @fatherswithasay

    IT'S OK TO KNOW YOU'RE A SH*T PARENT BUT NOT BE ONE

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2021 35:37


    This week we look at doing too much as a parent and if it's possible. We also touch on signs that you're being a sh*t parent, taking accountability and more. Hope you enjoy this episode, share it with a friend and on your socials if you did. Catch you you next week

    INSTAGRAM IS FOR ENJOYABLE CONTENT NOT YOUR PARENTAL ISSUES

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2021 38:02


    In this we episode we talk about bring dramas to instagram. Why is this the place parents go to. Is it for attention or a cry for help? If you have you'd like to discuss further feel free to DM us (@fatherswithasay), or you can come on the podcast and we can go further into it. As always hope you enjoy this episode and thanks for listening

    YOUR NEW PARTNER ISN'T YOUR CHILD'S PARENT

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2021 44:40


    This episode we have a conversation on a child calling their parents new partner mum or dad? Would we be comfortable with it, should it even be a thing and can it have damaging or confusing implications for the child? As always if you enjoyed this episode or have anything to add or discuss further, send us a direct message on Instagram (@fatherswithasay) and we can go from there. Thanks for listening

    YOU MOVING HOME DISRUPTS OUR CHILDS LEARNING

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2021 40:08


    Finally back at the table to discuss a load more around fatherhood. This week we discuss living situations surrounding our child and how certain decisions can effect their lifeystyle, especially schooling. Enjoy this one and get in touch via instagram @fatherwithasay, if you have any comments on this episode.

    LITTLE BOYS NEED A MALE PRESENCE GROWING UP!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 26, 2020 42:18


    In this episode we touch on why we think little boys need a male presence as well as why little girls would need a female presence growing up. The views shared in this podcast do not mean we or anyone single handily is against young boys being raised by their mothers only. Hopefully you listen to the podcast and understand before casting judgment based on the title alone. Hope you enjoy this this, and as always if you have any views you'd like to discuss, please don't hesitate to get at us in our DM's - Instagram: @fatherswithasay

    HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH YOUR KID BRINGING DRUGS IN THE HOUSE?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2020 37:24


    Finding drugs in your house. How would you approach this and what would you do with your child. We discuss how we would face these challenges. If you can relate to this topic we would love to hear how you dealt with this situation, DM us on instagram with your responses @fatherswithasay

    SHOULD CHILD ABUSERS BE HUNG?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2020 49:58


    In this episode we discuss the unfortunate circumstance of the abduction of an 11 year old girl on her way to school. How would we handle it if it was our daughter, what should his punishment be and should people that harm children really be hung? Let us know your views on this topic over on our instagram @fatherswithasay

    WOULD YOU PUT YOUR CHILD IN A CAB BY THEMSELVES?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2020 40:20


    In this epiosde we look at parental guidance and how we would build trust with our kid. We also discuss if would put our child in a cab by themselves at 13 years old? What would you do? Send us a message on instagram @fatherswithasay

    SHOULD MY KIDS SEE ME IN PRISON?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2020 50:17


    In this episode we discuss whether or not we would want our kids to come and see us in prison. We also talk about how we would react in certain situations that could ultimately put us in prison away from our kids. If you can relate to the topics discussed we'd love to hear from you or for you to come on for an episode. Dm us on instagram @fatherswithasay! Thanks for listening, catch you in episode 10!

    Being a new dad and having a child with a disability

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2020 34:54


    In this episode we discuss Brad being a dad for the second time and also look at the possibility of having a disabled child and what we would feel and do. We know some subjects will be sensitive to some people and we hope we don't cause any offence to anyone. However these are our thoughts that we stick by and would be open to any further discussions if you would like to have any. Message us on our Instagram @fatherswithasay. Thanks for listening to this episode

    ARE YOU ENTITLED TO KNOW WHERE YOUR CHILD IS?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2020 28:15


    In this episode we discuss whether we think you as the other parent can ask where your kids are. Are you entitled to know of their whereabouts if they aren't with who you thought they were with, even if it's not your week/weekend to have them. Enjoy this episode and let us know your thoughts over on our instagram @fatherswithasay

    SAVE YOUR BEST FRIENDS FAMILY OR LEAVE THEM TO RUIN IT?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2020 49:48


    In this episode we discuss a few topics. One being what we would do if your best friend was messing around whilst they had a family at home. It's so easy to egg our mates on but what would do...leave them to live their life or think about their family at home and try save a family that could be broken? Thanks for listening, get at us on Instagram @fatherswithasay if you have any comments or discussions you'd like to carry on

    WHO ARE YOU SAVING, YOUR MUM OR YOUR WIFE?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2020 53:47


    In this episode we cover various topics from how we would react to our partner being racist, who comes first between our mother, daughter and wife and much more. Like always if you have any you'd like to discuss following on from our conversations please feel free to send us a message on Instagram - @fatherswithasay Thanks for listening.

    FINDING OUT THE CHILD ISN'T YOURS AFTER 3 YEARS!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2020 56:44


    In this episode we discuss the unfortunate situation that some father's go through of finding out that the child they believed was theirs actually isn't. We unpack our thoughts and share if we think we would stay or go. We also discuss if we would rather know the truth or be non the wiser forever. Enjoy this episode and if you have any thoughts or conversations you'd like to carry on, send us a message on instagram, @fatherswithasay. *ALSO REMEMBER TO RATE THIS EPISODE *

    CAN I BE A FATHER TO A CHILD THAT'S NOT MINE?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2020 53:42


    In this episode we discuss whether we would be a father figure/dad to our ex partners child if their dad wasn't in their life. We also touch on adoption and if it's for us or not. As always we hope you enjoy this episode. If you have any thoughts or questions regarding this episode, feel free to continue the conversation with us on our Instagram @fatherswithasay Thanks for listening

    MY CHILD'S MUM IS DEAD, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2020 61:01


    In this episode we discuss how we would be effected if the mother's of our kids passed away and how we would deal with the responsibilities and everything that came with it Condolences to Maya Rivera and Nicole Thea as well as all the other mother's that have unfortunately lost their lives in similar circumstances.

    THE UPS AND DOWNS TO FATHERHOOD

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2020 66:13


    Welcome back to the new and improved podcast! In this episode we touch on our 4 different experiences to fatherhood, taking accountability and more. Enjoy this one and DM us on instagram (@fatherswithasay) if you have any thoughts or questions regarding today's episode.

    I FINANCE MY CHILD'S MOTHER BUT DONT GET TO SEE MY CHILD...AM I AN IDIOT? EPISODE 11

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2020 65:10


    Welcome back to another sesh...In this episode amongst all the chat we discuss whether or not a guy is an idiot for financing the living luxuries of his child's mother. Listen to what we think and we would love to know what you think so head over to our instagram and let us know you opinion.

    MEN ARE TRASH...EXPLAINED | EPISODE 10

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2020 50:45


    Welcome back to another one! This week we have a guest who talks about why men are trash and other surrounding issues. As always send us your opinions, follow us on Instagram and twitter @fatherswithasay and we'll catch you next pod!

    I'D RATHER LIE TO YOU OVER AND OVER AGAIN THAN HIT YOU | EPISODE 9

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2020 20:22


    Welcome back to EPISODE 9! Quick session this time with Emmanuel and Chris. We discuss a situation sent in to us by a listener and give our views on it. Do you think a man should be allowed around his kids if he continuously hits the child's mother? As always we hope you enjoy this session with our views and let us know and get at us on our Instagram by sending us a DM or commenting. Thanks for listening

    MY CHILD CAN'T CALL HER MUM'S PARTNER DAD! | EPISODE 8

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2020 29:37


    Welcome back to EPISODE 8! How would you feel if your child calls your ex's new partner mum or dad? Absolute madness, that can't run. Listen and find out our opinions on this. What's your opinion on this? Could you let that run? As always we hope you enjoy this session with our views and let us know and get at us on our Instagram by sending us a DM or commenting. Thanks for listening

    IS SOCIAL MEDIA THE PLACE TO SLANDER YOUR CHILD'S FATHER?/ SHOULD DADS PAY CSA IF THEY’RE STOP ACCESS FROM SEEING THEIR CHILD ? | EPISODE 7

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2020 31:27


    Welcome back to EPISODE 7! Is it right to air out your dirty laundry on social media? Why do women go to socials to slander the father of their child? Should the child have the mother's last name too? Should a mother expect anything I.e money from the father of her child even if he said he didn't want the child form the beginning? Just some of the topics discussed in this podcast! As always we hope you enjoy this session with our views and let us know and get at us on our Instagram by sending us a DM or commenting. Thanks for listening

    SHOULD FATHER'S TAKE TIME OFF WORK LIKE MOTHER'S DO FOR THEIR SICK CHILD? | EPISODE 6

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2020 21:54


    Welcome back to EPISODE 6! In this episode we discuss who should take time off work to look after their sick child. Normally it's expected for mother's to take the time off but should father's do the same? Listen to our split views on this and let us know what you think on our Instagram by sending us a DM or commenting. Thanks for listening.

    YOUR GIRLFRIEND OR YOUR BABY MUM, WHO GOES TO YOUR CHILD'S PARTY? | EPISODE 5

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2020 42:22


    Welcome to episode 5! Would you bring your partner to your child's party if your ex partner didn't want them there? Press play, and hear what we would do. As always there's always a divided opinion but we also want to know what you would do! Head over to our instagram and leave us a comment on this episode or in our DM's and let us know your thoughts!

    DO YOU GET TO SEE YOUR CHILD ON CHRISTMAS? | EPISODE 4

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2020 35:44


    Welcome to episode 4! In today's podcast we discuss the Christmas season and what it's like not spending Christmas with your kids and dramas around that Listen, enjoy and let us know what you think. Do you have issues similar to those discussed? Did you even see your kids on Christmas? Head over to our instagram and leave us a comment on this episode or in our DM's and let us know your thoughts! Thanks for listening and we'll see you next week!

    WHY DO MEN GET JEALOUS WHEN THEIR BABY MOTHER'S MOVE ON? | EPISODE 3

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2019 26:49


    Welcome to episode 3! In today's podcast we discuss if men get jealous when their baby mothers move on? Is that even true... We also share our view on if it's right to continue to see a girl/guy if their hygiene level was low!? Listen, enjoy and let us know what you think. Would YOU continue to see someone in the same circumstances discussed? Head over to our instagram and leave us a comment on this episode and let us know your thoughts! Thanks for listening and we'll see you next week!

    SHOULD YOU GET INVOLVED IN YOUR BABY MUM/DAD'S DRAMA? | EPISODE 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2019 28:33


    Welcome to episode 2! This week we discuss whether we think it's right to get involved in your ex's drama with their current partner. Listen, enjoy and let us know what you think. Would you get involved? Head over to our instagram and leave us a comment on this episode and let us know your thoughts! Thanks for listening and we'll see you next week!

    DO BABY FATHER'S HAVE A SAY IN A MOTHERS HOUSEHOLD? | EPISODE 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2019 33:50


    Welcome to our first episode! Bit of a warm up but we get right in to it and discuss whether father's have any say in what goes on in their baby mamas house! Follow us on Instagram and let us know your views on it. If you have any questions for us you want answered, send us a DM! Thanks for listening

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