Life: Talk About It. Anything Goes.

Random thought: How would you feel as a man if the woman you helped get a BBL left you? What emotions are you going through? What thoughts are rendering? Tune in and let's talk about it. ➕VIBES➕

They say that “Comparison is the killer of all joy”, took a few times to repeat it before it made sense. It's been a while so let's talk about it

In this episode I ask the question to mainly the women, is it too much to ask if a man request at either your first interaction or video call, or maybe a few meetings later, “that you come with no make up on, no lashes, and no hair accessories?”. The reason I ask this is because I feel like the “made up” faces are so common and everyday wear now, what lies underneath once that's all gone? Tune in! Positive vibes. Positive

Bisexuality: Should a man who is bisexual provide that information to a woman prior to anything moving beyond the first date or conversation? Should it be mandatory information given? Would you as a woman feel betrayed if that information came about later? If your given that information upfront, does it change things instantly for what the relationship can become, and if so why? Tune in to hear my thoughts. Positive Vibes. ➕

MYE: STUPID? What is MYE? What does it stand for? Where did it come from? Tune in and get an understanding of what that means to me and what it could mean to you. Let's go! Positive Vibes. ➕

Talking, chatting, shooting the breeze, or just chopping it up. Verbally. How often does it happen? How often should it happen? Why should it happen? When should it happen? Tune in to here my thoughts on this matter. Positive vibes. ➕

Henessey? Dusse? Old English? Silver Satan? Miller High Life? I used to drink whatever alcohol available, didn't matter dark or clear, pour it up! Let's get it! I started drinking at an early age but it wasn't until high school when the turn up elevated, got serious and became the beginning to a string of events. Drank from night to morning, went to sleep drinking then woke up drinking. So many things happened and so many experiences came from this demon of mine, I tried all types of strategies to beat it, I thought I had it, but nope. Tune in to see how it all panned out and hear some of the things I learned. Positive Vibes. ➕

This episode was inspired by conversing and in the midst of this conversation came a topic worthy comment. “I don't have time” time for what exactly? For who exactly? When exactly? How exactly? Tune in and see what comes up. Positive Vibes. Positive Energy. ➕

How do you gain experience? Where do you gain experience? Who determines what experience is yours to gain? All of that is completely your choice, you are 100% in charge of how much experience is charged to your life's “Experience Card.” Positive Vibes. Positive Energy. ➕

So many times I feel like we overlook the positive and good things in our life, things both big and small. Take for granted how blessed we are because all we can focus on is what we don't have, what didn't happen, how it could've been, or what we wanted it to be. There is a difference between what we “need” and what we “want”, we tend to lose sight of that difference from time to time. Tune in to hear what my take is on all of that. Positive Vibes. Positive Energy. ➕

Quick update on my status with the podcast, where I've been, and how I build to recording each episode. But also about what the new norm is for us as a people during this pandemic. Gotta call from one of my boys about a situation that raised some concern for him and me once he told me the story. Tune in! Positive Vibes. Positive Energy. ➕

Suggested topic by a listener, how to mesh two families together. Coming into a relationship with a child, how does one truly become one family/unit? Guards have to be lowered in order for their to be trust and progress. Tune in. Positive Vibes. Positive Energy. ➕

This was a request by one of my good people's, asked what I thought about it and what the pros/cons are. Also asked if I thought it was worth it? So in this episode I offer my insight/opinion on “marriage” and what I feel it is and should be. Tune in. Positive Vibes. Positive Energy. ➕

Every year I vote, doesn't matter who's running or not. Don't care what they promise to do or accomplish if they are elected. I vote because the right was not something that came free of charge, someone paid the price for me to have that right. Someone sacrificed, bled, hurt, and even died so that WE can be able to VOTE! Tune in! Positive Vibes. Positive Energy. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/abornking75/support

Keep people around and near you, next to you, so that they ELEVATE you! What's the value of each individual in your so called “circle”, what value do they add to your self progress? I heard this on a video or some interview while browsing, and it made re-evaluate my circle and the people in it. Asking myself “What Do They Contribute To My Evolution?” Then began sharing that same question with them. Tune in! Positive Vibes. Positive Energy. ➕

We've all been in a situation like this, a conversation like this, or even a discussion where no matter how great your advice or message is it still doesn't register with the other party. Wonder what it will take or what you can do in order to change that? Easy! Understand you are NOT the messenger, not like for a business pitch or anything like that, you know the types of situations I'm talking about. Tune in and see what I'm talking about... Positive Vibes. Positive Energy. ➕

This is what I practice, what I live by, how I operate, in terms of everything related to my life. Everything I/we do requires energy, I realized how important it is to manage my energy, and what the value of my energy really is. EVERYONE/EVERYTHING doesn't deserve your energy, it's just how it has to be in order to keep yourself at a peaceful center. In order to remain in Positive Vibes and Positive Energy, you have to whole heartedly understand the WHY behind managing your energy. Tune in and see what I mean. Positive Vibes. Positive Energy. ➕

“The Social Dilemma” on Netflix was something I planned on watching after hearing about it on “Your Undivided Attention” podcast with Tristan Harris. I knew I had to watch it, there were no questions asked, everything that I've listened to on the podcast has been converted to a movie?! I give my feedback and some of my experience and reasons why I'm tuned into these particular issues. The importance of just being AWARE is a make or break situation for us as a people. ➕

Popularity? Most of us can appreciate it and most of us want it, I get it. What person in their right mind living in this day and age doesn't want to be part of what's "trending or popular?" If you don't crave this such attention then your on the wrong planet! Being popular requires work, effort, sacrifice, and time. If that is what you desire, by all means acquire it. But... For me I'd rather not engage in this race for entry into the "In Crowd", it's over crowded as it is. Not to mention I'm perfectly ok in the space I occupy, outside of the popular masses. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/abornking75/support

The appeal and attraction to the “hood” and all it consist of, baffles me. I don't understand why so many want IN when all we wanted was OUT. The ability to share instantly or broadcast from wherever and whenever are contributors to this appeal. I was raised in South Central LA, firsthand experience is priceless, the street smarts that you gain cannot be taught in a class. You have to had been there, gone through the trials and tribulations. There is no other way. People don't realize that, you can't just want to be a native or a part of all the hood is made of, there is no ticket or wrist bad or stamp. Your either from there because that's where you grew up and was raised or your NOT. Tune in. Positive Vibes. Positive Energy. ➕

I was like many of us today, a social media addict. Yes I consider the Facebooks and Instagrams to be addictive. Why wouldn't I? They are structured to deploy the same appeal as a slot machine, pull the lever and hope to win! Cal Newport was the beginning of why I really even had the thought, watching one of his interviews about “Digital Minimalism”. The key takeaway for me was when he asked us, the audience, to think of what VALUE each application held or added to our lives. Got me thinking, then I watched an interview with Tristan Harris where he's basically exposing these applications for their designs and flaws. I asked myself the question “What Value Do These Applications Add To My Life?” Listen to the episode to find out my answer. Positive Vibes. Positive Energy. ➕

I've learned over the years how much someone can affect you, how you perform, how you feel, and how you think. What realized is that when you reach a point where you've pieces together a great version of you, and your proud of this version of you, those things people used to be able to do, don't work. You enter a space where your just being you! The hard worker, the go getter, the business handler, the person who hits beast mode as soon as it's showtime. Not because you want to show off or gain recognition and attention, no. But because that's just who you are! Let people assume or make up what ever story they would like to tell themselves or others. But the truth is YOUR JUST BEING YOU! Positive Vibes. Positive Energy! ➕

As people it's natural for us to observe and be curious of one another. We share things about ourselves, people read things about us, and thus an identity or a rough draft of who are is formed! Boom! We are not obligated to control the narrative of that “rough draft”, if we do it, it is only by choice. See people will think what they want regardless, it's what we do. There are some people who want to know about you for reasons other then pure curiosity. Be mindful of those people, watch for the behaviors, and most importantly they only know what we reveal or share intentionally or unintentionally. Positive Vibes. Positive Energy. ➕

What's perfect? What's perfection? WHO defines these such things? Questions! My answer is: YOU! You control and determine what is perfect and what is perfection! You! Nobody else but YOU! Allow input when valid or sincere, however guard your self definitions and beliefs diligently. The world will never exist without input and opinions, it's part of the systems mechanics. But, stay fast to your own definitions such as what is PERFECT and PERFECTION! Positive Vibes. Positive Energy. ➕

Yesterday is done, it's over with so let's move on, right? Why hold a grudge? Who is affected more by this grudge? Is it you or the person the grudge is against? If yesterday wasn't a great day then why bring it into TODAY! Now, if yesterday was awesome, appreciate it and learn from it, then make the most of the day you have before you. Make it count, money wasted is money wasted. Time wasted, well that is a more of loss then anything monetary or of value. Time has a hidden value that we overlook constantly, if only we can process its true value, how greater our understandings will be. Positive Vibes. Positive Energy. ➕

Traditionally we are taught not to be selfish and to do onto others as we want them to do onto us. We are taught it is always better to GIVE then to RECEIVE. We will give all to others whether it's for our spouse or our kids or the jobs of our choosing. Give all of us away, until there is nothing left for SELF. Being selfish is a must, if we want to be the best and healthiest versions of ourselves. We have to give to ourself also, not only to others. But make time for self. Set aside energy for self. Do something for self. BE SELFISH! Positive Vibes. Positive Energy. ➕

This episode reflects on how we sometimes miss the small things in life. Whether it's daily, weekly, and even monthly. People do things because they want too, not because it's demanded of them, and when they do these things you play a part in whether or not they continue to do so. If you something out the kindness of your heart or because it's just who you are, don't let people who don't appreciate it change that about you. It's a dope quality to have, trust me. Don't allow your life to move a such a speed that you don't see the small things that are happening around you, the things that are being done for you or because of you. If someone packs you lunch each time you head out to work, never make it an expectation or forget to say thank you. Be grateful. Positive Vibes. Positive Energy. ➕

Choices? Do we really understand the power of choice? How there's always a choice no matter what? The results of our choices and the lessons we learn from the choices we make in our life. EVERYTHING we do is a choice! Period. I'll talk about some of my choices and where they placed me, what I learned, and how they helped me evolve. Positive Vibes. Positive Energy. ➕