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Relationships can be a real life Da Vinci code thriller! We are passionate about deciphering the code of our relationship. Each week we invite you to join us as we reminisce, discuss, and share the blue print that helped us to decode our relationship’s V.I.P. Status (Value, Identity, and Purpose).

Quentin Crumbey


    • Apr 26, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
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    • 32m AVG DURATION
    • 44 EPISODES


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    Wives have you lost yourselves in the marriage/relationship? - Episode 44

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2021 38:04


    In this episode - We discuss ways to create a space for the wives to feel free to express themselves. We also discuss a few different ways for a relationship to maintain a healthy level of Freedom to help our wives to be inspired to live out their dreams.

    How to balance Marriage and Friendships! - Episode 43

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2020 41:47


    In this episode "How to balance Marriage and Friendships!" - We discuss 4 type of friendships that are bad for a marriage/relationship, and 4 types of friendships that are good for a marriage/relationship. We also talked about how to balance those friendships and marriage/relationship. 

    Evaluating the Role of Faith in Relationships and Marriage - Episode 42

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2020 40:49


    In this episode "Evaluating the role of Faith in Relationships and Marriage!" - We discuss the benefits of building a strong Faith and Spiritual foundation to help anchor the relationship. 

    Intro into our Season 3 Theme "Faith and Friends" - Episode 41

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2020 11:55


    This episode give a sneak peak of our "Faith and Friends" theme for this Season 3!  We will be discussing the importance, impact, and favor that is provided to us when we are strong in our Faith, and having a strong circle of Friends. Please Tune in every Monday to listen as we unpack the truth of truly having your relationship centered in Jesus Christ. And how to be watchful on when is the right time to evaluate your friendships.

    Bonus Interview Episode - Cafecito for Two with Javier and Christina - Episode 39

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2020 69:06


    Topic: "Relationships Decoded" What You Will Learn: How to put faith ahead of gender differences and parenting styles and live out sacrifice in marriage in a healthy, productive way that strengthens and unites your partnership and devotion to God.

    45 Tips to help keep your marriage ALIVE! Part #3 - Episode 39

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2020 34:32


    In this episode "45 Tips to help keep your marriage ALIVE! " - We discuss the next 10 (35 of 45) tips to create a relationship that will help keep us together. We also share some more insight in our own relationship as it relates to these tips, and how they have helped shape our relationship.

    45 Tips to help keep your marriage ALIVE! Part #2 - Episode 38

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2020 36:10


    In this episode "45 Tips to help keep your marriage ALIVE! " - We discuss the next 15 of 45 tips to create a relationship that will help keep us together. We also share some more insight in our own relationship as it relates to these tips, and how they have helped shape our relationship.

    45 Tips to help keep your marriage ALIVE! Part #1 - Episode 37

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2020 35:12


    In this episode "45 Tips to help keep your marriage ALIVE! " - We discuss the first 10 of 45 tips to create a relationship that will help keep us together. We also share some more insight in our own relationship as it relates to these tips, and how they have helped shape our relationship.

    The Power of a Promise! - Episode 36

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2020 35:21


    In this episode "The Power of a Promise! " - We discuss critical areas we are to stay committed and dedicated to the commitment made before God. We also discuss the importance of the marriage vows, and how we should really understand the power they have behind them.

    Moving Forward - Lets keep our foot on the gas! - Episode 35

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2020 31:02


    In this episode "Moving Forward - Lets keep our foot on the gas!" - We discuss ways to create a space for both spouses to grow, and create a space for the relationship to continue to move forward. We also discuss a few different ways to maintain a healthy mindset.

    We discuss 4 helpful aids of getting Rid of Unforgiveness! - Episode 34

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2020 46:06


    In this episode "We discuss 4 helpful aids of getting Rid of Unforgiveness!" - We discuss 4 ways to create the courage to get rid of Unforgiveness over ourselves and the one has hurt us.

    We Debate and Discuss the importance of forgiveness in a relationship! - Episode 33

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2020 38:54


    In this episode "We Debate the importance of forgiveness in a relationship!" - We discuss ways to create a space for words of Forgiveness to be expressed with and to each other. We discuss 5 ways to forgive your partner fully after they hurt you. 

    We Explore Compliment and Adoration - Can I get a thank you Please? - Episode 32

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2020 30:07


    In this episode "We Explore Compliments and Adoration! " - We discuss ways to create a space for words of Kindness to be expressed with and to each other. 

    We Explore having Freedom in our Relationship! - Episode 31

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2020 32:20


    In this episode "We Explore having Freedom in our Relationship! " - We discuss ways to create a space for both spouse to feel free to express themselves. We also discuss a few different ways to maintain a healthy level of Freedom.

    Is Love Enough, or do we need an Experience? - Episode 30

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2020 24:36


    In this episode "Is Love Enough, or do we need an Experience?" - We discuss ways that Love is increased when we connect with one another, and create an unbreakable bond through an experience. We also discuss a few ways to maintain a healthy Emotional Connection through changing the way we take care of one another during a traumatic event.

    Ladies, do find that you have lost yourselves in the Relationship/Marriage? - Episode 29

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2020 38:03


    In this episode "Ladies, do find that you have lost yourselves in the Relationship/Marriage?" - We discuss ways that will help ladies re-connect with themselves, and not allow the overwhelming job of a mother or wife to hold them from their purpose. We also discuss a few ways to increase the way the Man in their life can help with their re-connecting with themselves through changing the way they interact with each other daily.

    Is your Work, Drive and Success driving a wedge in your Relationship? -Episode 28

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2020 38:59


    In this episode "Is your Work, Drive and Success driving a wedge in your Relationship?" - We discuss ways to protect your relationship from Intruders like work, drive, and success. We also discuss a few ways to increase and maintain a healthy way to create a relationship where both partners feel successful individually.

    Maintaining the Emotional Connection - Episode 27

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2020 36:05


    In this episode "Maintaining the Emotional Connection" - We discuss ways to connect with one another, and create an unbreakable bond. We also discuss a few ways to increase and maintain a healthy Emotional Connection through changing the way we interact with each other daily.

    Join us as we take a stroll down our vacation memory lane! - Episode 26

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2020 38:07


    In this episode "Join us as we take a stroll down our Vacation Memory Lane! " - We talk and laugh, as we go down memory lane as we are stuck in this quarantine. We are ready to go on vacation, and this episode really got us in the right frame of mind. And hope it does the same for you.

    Quality time during the Quarantine - is that Possible? - Episode 25

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2020 38:20


    In this episode "Quality time during the Quarantine - is that Possible?" - We discuss ways to connect with each other during this Shut In. We also discuss ideas of changing the way we look at this shut in. And use it to find ways to grow stronger together.   

    Where we explore when Actions & Words don't align in Relationships - Episode 24

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2020 38:09


    In this episode "Where we explore when Actions & Words don't align in Relationship!" - We understand that we all come into a relationship or marriage believing that it will or should go a certain way. So we discuss the dangers, and the impact created by our actions and words not aligning to what we believed. 

    Forgiveness does not equal no Consequences - Episode 23

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2020 23:36


    In this episode "Forgiveness does not equal no Consequences!" - We discuss the dangers, and the impact of being the person who creates a Crisis within the relationship. We also talk about the process it takes to heal properly when we take our partner or spouse through a Crisis.

    When Life throws a Curve Ball - Don't Panic!!! - Episode 22

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2020 38:00


    In this episode "When Life throws a Curve Ball - Don't Panic!!!" - We discuss the dangers, and the impact of not having a strong foundation in place when our relationships are confronted with Crisis.

    Let's Pump the brakes on being CONTROLLING!!! - Episode 21

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2020 34:23


    In this episode "Let's Pump the brakes on being CONTROLLING!!!" - We discuss the dangers, and the impact of trying to Control each other.

    How to Prioritize Dating, even if on a Budget! - Episode 20

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2020 19:01


    In this episode "How to Prioritize Dating, even if on a Budget!" - We discuss the low cost and free ways to invest in each other by spending quality time together.

    Stop Judging that's not HOT!!!! - Episode 19

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2020 34:28


    In this episode "Stop Judging that's not HOT!" - We discuss the dangers, and the impact of Judging each other instead of working on ourselves will have on our relationships.

    Setting Balance and Boundaries with Parents - Episode 18

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2020 36:22


    In this episode "Setting Balance and Boundaries with Parents!" - We discuss the dangers, and the impact of not setting boundaries will have on our relationships.

    Exploring Our Needs vs Our Wants!!! - Episode 17

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2020 29:08


    In this episode "Exploring our Needs vs our Wants!" - We explore the value we put on what we needs vs what we want, and the impact they have on our relationships.

    Life is Short: Don't Sweat the Small Stuff!!!! - Episode 16

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2020 30:27


    In this episode "Life is Short: Don't Sweat the Small Stuff!" - We explore the value of quality time needed with our spouses.

    What!!! Did he just say that? - Episode 13

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2019 40:05


    In this episode "What!!! Did he just say that?" - we explore the positive and negative impact of words.

    We Examine Far Sided or Near Sided - What is the vision for your marriage?- Episode 12

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2019 37:25


    In this episode "We Examine Far Sided or Near Sided - What is the vision for your marriage?" as we discuss the importance of establishing a vision for your Marriage.

    Boonie & Clyde Choose Salvation - Episode 11

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2019 35:28


    In this episode "Bonnie & Clyde Choose Salvation!!!" we discuss the importance of salvation in establishing the foundation for your marriage during the engagement period.

    He asked, and She said YES!! - Episode 10

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2019 34:30


    In this episode "He asked and she said, YES!!!" we discuss the best time to pop the big question, WILL YOU MARRY ME!!!!. And the thoughts and emotions leading up to that day.

    Date Nights or Bust - Episode 9

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2019 28:13


    In this episode "Date Nights or Bust" we discuss the priority placed on dating in relationships.   

    Building Our Empire....Episode 8

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2019 32:06


    In this episode "Building Our Empire" we assessed and answered the question of whether our spouse was a competitor or a partner in the process. 

    The Fundamental Blueprint of Boundaries (Part 1) - Episdoe 7

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2019 25:11


    In this episode "The Fundamental Blueprint of Boundaries" we discuss the timing and identification of boundaries that would help us as our relationship and a future together started to move forward.

    The Stamp of Exclusivity - Episode 6

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2019 25:36


    In this episode "The Stamp of Exclusivity" we discuss the timing and identification of when we knew we were fully committed to our relationship and a future together. 

    Assessing the Value of Friendship - Episode 5

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2019 30:36


    In this episode "Assessing the Value of Friendship" we discuss the friendship building block that foundationally helped to strengthen our marriage.   

    We Gambled, Took a Risk, & Won (Part2) - Episode 4

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2019 31:08


    In this episode "We Gambled, Took a Risk, & Won" where we continued our discussion on how we found ourselves at the dice table of life and were willing to risk it all. Even though the risks were high, our reward was great! 

    We Gambled, Took a Risk, & Won (Part1) - Episode 3

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2019 33:12


    In this episode "We Gambled, Took a Risk, & Won" we discuss how we found ourselves at the dice table of life and were willing to risk it all.  Even though the risks were high, our reward was great! We Gambled, Took a Risk, & Won (Part1) - Episode 3

    PULSE CHECK! Is our relationship healthy or on life support? - Episode 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 15, 2019 30:21


    In this episode "Pulse Check! Is our relationship healthy or on life support?" we do a check-up and discuss the factors we feel help to keep our relationship from flatlining.  

    Honey have you seen my keys? -Episode 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2019 21:48


    In this episode "Honey have you seen my keys?" we discuss the foundational keys we've found that have kept us and our relationship completely intact and unable to be infiltrated by outside forces, distractions, or diversions. 

    Did You Learn Anything? - Pilot Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2019 11:57


    In this episode we discuss a couple that has been both impactful and influential in our lives, and what we've learned from them.  Just a few simple takeaways from this couple has helped to shape our relationship and we can't wait to share.

    Introducing the Crumbey's - Episode 0

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2019 5:04


    This episode give a sneak peak of who Quentin and Melissa Crumbey really are!  Tune in every Monday to learn more about them and their journey to becoming The Crumbey's.

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