Shan chews on life with other people.
Because people treating other people crappy in the name of Jesus shouldn't get to be done so quietly. And while I may get called “disgruntled” or “bitter” among other things, I kept all the emails and recordings so that “liar” couldn't be added to that list. The church where I used to work did not protect me/others from sexual harassment. They ignored my requests to create a safer workplace and then eventually paid the harasser to leave the staff. It gnaws at me that a secular organization would have handled this well. I let my expectations hurt my own feelings but I have learned my lesson. For-profit is held to a weirdly higher standard regarding business practices versus nonprofit. It feels criminal, but it isn't. Nonprofits can receive PPP loans and have them forgiven all the while not reporting income to the government. Abusive employment practices are allowed because there are no real consequences. They do not pay into unemployment nor do they pay taxes. There is no accountability for poor management styles and so, overlooking and minimizing sexual advances or unwanted behavior is much easier to do and get away with. The clown in this story gets to float on to his next job with direct deposits still hittin because of the toxic church culture that protects pastors and silences victims. Our grandmothers taught us that a mistake made more than once is a decision. Since I was not the first woman to speak up about a pastor that made her uncomfortable at the church where I used to work, the efforts to cover up, minimize and ignore my accusation weren't a mistake but a choice. And it is that type of culture in church leadership that gave Matt Chandler the audacity to start his speech last week with “I am going to be the pastor here for the next 20 years.” As promised, here are 2 organizations worth your time and dime if you have it to spare. BloomIndia.com AbideWomen.org There were a lot of positive memories in these last years that I am beyond thankful to take with me into the next season. It will have to be more memories than people, but I think my heart is finally ok with that. Props to the woman who called out Matt Chandler in the foyer, and to Ruth Graham for reporting on church hurt and the systems that perpetuate it. ✌
Apologies for the wonky sound, it will sound normal next week. I promise. LOL
Been too long, but I have a little bit more structure this time around.... Lets see where this takes us
The girls talk about a few of the most dangerous men this country has ever seen.. Tuck in pals, here we go!! As always, send questions and comments to saltandpepperbangs@gmail.com I promise to get better microphones soon. I know, I know.
I don't know what else to say except yes, we laugh this much in real life too. Side-splitting, face sore, laughter headaches. In between giggles, we talk about famous people we are in love with. No big deal Send show ideas, comments, and concerns to saltandpepperbangs@gmail.com
True crime chat with my homies! I am very excited. I could talk about true crime ALL DAY, YOU GUYS.
Everything is fine. I now spend my days choosing a story for my wicked new shoulder scar. Honorable mentions so far? I got into a knife fight with a Karen over a mask and/or a prison fight... Send me show ideas and comments or concerns to saltandpepperbangs@gmail.com Thanks for being here!!
The fearless foursome is back again to chat about their favorite albums, musicians, and songs that changed their lives. Also, Shannon drops a Weird Al related bombshell. Send topic requests and hot gossip to- saltandpepperbangs@gmail.com
Brian and I chat about our favorite movies.... OF ALL TIME! I also added a couple of new titles to my need to watch pile.
Yall already know what it is. I am not a pastor but I still try to make it plain from time to time. See your comments and questions to saltandpepperbangs@gmail.com The book I referenced in the episode- https://www.amazon.com/White-Tears-Brown-Scars-Feminism/dp/194822674X
As always, send me questions, comments or show ideas to saltandpepperbangs@gmail.com
On the one year anniversary of when our lives turned upside down, we talked about what has changed in this year? Besides everything we do and everyone we see, doy. Send questions or comments or show ideas to saltandpepperbangs@gmail.com
I got to unpack the Enneagram and giggle with one of my favorite gal pals, Katie. If you want to take the enneagram - here is a link-- https://www.truity.com/test/enneagram-personality-test As Katie suggests, it may be better to read about the enneagram instead of taking a test so check out these books that are all about the enneagram- Road Back to You Essential Enneagram Enneagram Made Easy
The snow has come and gone and I pulled Kyla and Marcus in giggle with me and Brian for an hour.
I am so excited to chat with the homie, Brian. We giggle through conspiracy theories, aliens, and ghost stories in this first of hopefully many episodes with one of our funniest friends. Send me show ideas and comments to Saltandpepperbangs@gmail.com
Just a few words explaining why I am hosting this podcast and what I hope comes from it. The plan is to drop new content at least once a week! If you have an idea for a show or want to join me on an episode, send me email - saltandpepperbangs@gmail.com
Camille and I catch up and talk about some of our favorite things that happened on January 20th and answer a couple of questions.
A teaser to say I am doing even more talking and processing in 2021. Join me!!
Shannon and Victoria bookend their thoughts on race and answer some of your questions
Victoria and Shannon talk a little bit about race. Let's get into it!! Send more questions to saltandpepperbangs@gmail.com
Let's talk about sex!!! Views, feelings, and problems with it. I sit down with my friend Victoria who has an initiative at https://thebrokenbeautiful.co/ We talk about perspective, pornography addiction and a partridge in a pear tree. Edited and produced by the wonderful Dallas Stacy
Starting a new series called "LETTUCE TALK ABOUT" We begin this series by talking about something we all know and love and need- food
Addicted to.... loving someone who is struggling with a problem.
Amy and I talk about 2018! New name, same giggles.
Sitting and talking with and about the Amazing Amy Aupperlee. Produced by Sissy, Edited by Dallas, Music by Fleslit
**Music by Fleslit **Produced by Dallas Stacy Shannon answers a few questions about her recent surrogacy journey. **Spoiler Alert- the baby is white**
The Lifted twosome do a quick Q&A about the current state of Shannon's womb.
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