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On this episode, Jamie runs down a few of her fave (and not so fave) scary movies and Mr. Ug breezes through online traffic school. If that's not enough for ya' they also discuss movie sequels, kitty carpets and math teachers. So come on in and enjoy some Uglee Truth!
Episode Summary In this episode of the Canadian Immigration Podcast, hosts Mark Holthe and Alicia Backman-Beharry shine a light on one of the most overlooked pathways to staying in Canada: the open work permit for spouses and dependent children of permanent residence sponsorship applicants. They clarify who qualifies, how the process differs for in-Canada vs. Family Class applications, and how to avoid costly mistakes. With processing delays, stricter rules, and fewer temporary pathways, this episode is essential for couples navigating the PR journey. Key Topics Discussed Who's Eligible: Only spouses and dependent children included in a PR sponsorship (not PGWP holders or student spouses). Inland vs. Outland Sponsorship: Family Class applicants can now apply for open work permits too—without losing the right to appeal or travel. Processing Times & AOR: You generally need an Acknowledgment of Receipt (AOR) to apply—but there's a two-week grace rule if your status is expiring. How to Apply Properly: Must apply online through IRCC's portal with correct job codes and supporting documents—no flagpoling or border apps allowed. Out-of-Status Pathway: A slower paper-based route exists for applicants with no valid status, but only after getting approval in principle. Key Takeaways A valid PR sponsorship with AOR unlocks the open work permit. Don't wait—timing and document accuracy are critical. Even Family Class sponsors in Canada may qualify. Seek legal help to avoid costly delays or misrepresentation. Quotes from the Episode Mark Holthe:“If you don't follow the instructions, the processing times are so long that if something goes wrong, you're probably landing in a really tough spot.” Alicia Backman-Beharry:“You only have a two-week window. This is why I wanted to bring attention to this category—it can make a huge difference in people's lives.” Links and Resources Watch this episode on YouTube Canadian Immigration Podcast Book a consult Enroll in the Express Entry Accelerator and Masterclass Subscribe for MoreStay up-to-date with the latest in Canadian immigration by subscribing to the Canadian Immigration Podcast on iTunes, Spotify, or YouTube. Don't miss future episodes on policy changes, strategies, and practical advice for navigating Canada's immigration process. Disclaimer This episode provides general information about Canadian immigration and is not intended as legal advice. For personalized assistance, consult an immigration lawyer.
Episode 150: What Vets2PM Does to Help Military Members, Veterans, Spouses, and Companies SucceedIn this episode, Cathy Miclat and Misty Moreno share exactly what Vets2PM does to support the military community and the employers who hire them.Vets2PM helps military service members, veterans, and spouses become project managers. Through programs like the Master Project Leadership Workshop (MPLW) at Fort Bliss and Fort Campbell, participants train to earn three project management certifications and prepare to show & tell the skillset via the resume/interview/LinkedIn. We also offer standalone PMP and ACP certification training, SkillBridge internships, and career services that guide every graduate toward meaningful, long-term employment.At the same time, we help companies find and hire skilled, disciplined, and certified professionals who are ready to make an impact. From introducing businesses to our SkillBridge candidates to providing group training and certification programs for their teams, Vets2PM makes veteran hiring simple, effective, and beneficial for everyone involved.
Two tragic deaths to discuss this week including an acting legend and a random grandmother at Disneyland. Plus, while Mr. Ug is away, cauliflower and cannelini beans come out to play. Thanks for listening to another episode of the Uglee Truth podcast!
Episode Notes Themes: relationship maintenance, couples therapy, relationship needs It makes sense that we focus on our needs first and foremost. But often times, we do this at the expense of caring for what our spouse desires in the relationship. Let's talk about it. Ready to Work Together? Schedule a consult on my website | For residents of GA (or those interesting in traveling to ATL for a therapeutic intensive) Follow @myintimacytherapist on Instagram Download resources for relationship and sexual health at myintimacytherapist.com
General Manager Leslie Ludlow (Westhaven Golf Club; previously Sahalee, The Club at Snoqualmie Ridge, Spanish Hills) joins Tyler to unpack a career arc that moved from elite athlete to sales leader to multi-property operator, driving double-digit revenue growth and culture change along the way. Leslie shares how “data over drama” wins boardrooms, why feedback cultures accelerate teams, and how women can move confidently into leadership even when they don't “check every box.” From tactical wins (spouses-as-stakeholders, visibility in the first 90 days) to mindset shifts (apply anyway, servant leadership, athlete competitiveness), this episode is a masterclass for current and aspiring club leaders. Visit Bloom Golf Partners here. What you'll learn Data > drama: How to arm your board conversations with facts (utilization, compaction, P&L drivers) to speed alignment. Revenue first: Why “you can't save your way to a budget” and practical levers to grow top line across golf, aquatics, rackets, F&B, and membership. Feedback culture: How to normalize real-time coaching so performance improves and emotions de-escalate. Women in leadership: Applying when you don't meet every criterion, earning the benefit of the doubt, and navigating legacy perceptions. 90-day trust plan: Visibility, presence, and quick wins that establish why you're in the chair. Spouses as stakeholders: Simple hosting and gifting strategies that defuse off-course politics and build support systems. Athlete mindset at work: Compete, take clear feedback, and move fast from mistake → improvement. The “benevolent dictator” model: What it is, when it works, and why clarity + care beats consensus without direction. Career pivots that compound: Translating sales, training, and operations into a GM toolkit. Courage & clarity: “If you win, you win. If you lose, you learn”—how to make bigger moves with less fear. Bloom Golf Partners Research Links Connect with Leslie Ludlow (LinkedIn): https://www.linkedin.com/in/leslieludlow/
Mr. Ug's mom has a birthday dinner, Francine the Lowe's Cat has been recovered, Jamie spills coffee (again), the new Doritos commercial is disturbing and the latest Taylor Swift album is unskippable. Hope you're taking notes, we have a lot of important stuff to cover on this episode!
Is it too late to rebuild your relationship with your adult child? What if there's grief, resentment, or even silence between you? In this episode, Kathy Cunningham, a Christian counselor, ordained minister, coach, and inner healing ministry leader shares her deeply personal journey of healing, transformation, and restored connection with her adult children. Kathy went through a journey with both of her kids and started to see more and more parent child estrangement in her counseling practice. This led her to start a ministry that helps parents grow and be a cheerleader instead of controlling their adult kids. Here is some of what we cover: Why your own healing journey is key to restoring connection Setting healthy boundaries in your home while honoring your child's independence What to do when your child has cut off contact Radical acceptance: creating space for disagreement without division Moms whose identity has been wrapped up in parenting find themselves feeling lost and unsure of who they are once their kids leave home- what to do next Connect with Kathy Cunningham: Website: Grace For The Journey Facebook: A Seed of Hope Instagram: Katherine L Cunningham (@kathycunningham717) Links Mentioned: Doing Life with Your Adult Children: By Jim Burns Parents of Addicted Loved Ones | Support Group for Parents, Spouses, Family of Addicted Loved One FREE resources for parents to reconnect with adult children Grace Restored Membership Related Episodes: “How do I connect better with my kids?” [Ep 475] Building Healthy Relationships by Exploring Adult Attachment Patterns (Part 1) :: Charissa Lopez [Ep 498] Building Healthy Relationships by Exploring Adult Attachment Patterns (Part 2) :: Charissa Lopez [Ep 499] Featured Sponsors: GoPure Beauty–For a limited time, our listeners get 25% off goPure with code DMA at checkout. Just head to gopure.com, use code DMA, and you're all set. And after you buy, do us a favor—when they ask where you heard about goPure, tell them it was from our show! Policygenius: Head to policygenius.com to compare life insurance quotes and get the coverage you need. Because being financially protected? That's the ultimate self-care. Hiya Health: The same multivitamin that more than a million parents trust is now available with an enchanting Disney Princess welcome kit, with a new Princess unboxing experience including Princess bottle and stickers. And we've worked out a special deal with Hiya for their best selling children's vitamin. Receive 50% off your first order. To claim this deal you must go to hiyahealth.com/DMA. This deal is not available on their regular website. get your kids the full-body nourishment they need to grow into healthy adults. Find links to this week's sponsors and unique promo codes at dontmomalone.com/sponsors.
Stuart and I opened the room with a simple truth. Progress comes from consistency. The Intensive works because it anchors everyone to a living plan that links a three-to-five-year vision to an annual focus and down to a current sixteen-week sprint. When owners follow the process, complete their dashboards, and show up to the weekly rhythm, results compound. The Intensive is where that discipline gets renewed. People sit with peers, compare notes, and see with fresh eyes that the next leap is in reach when the right activity happens in the right order. A major theme this time was sales and marketing as part of our Scale with Confidence model. Many owners had been waiting for a perfect moment to build a pipeline engine. The Intensive reminded everyone that the engine starts turning when daily activity is tracked, reviewed, and refined. We unveiled a refreshed New Client Runway roadmap that simplifies the work into three plain steps with clear sub steps, templates, and ownership. The reaction in the room said it all. Heads were nodding. Teams could see what to do, when to do it, and who would lead each piece. Confusion lifted and energy rose because the path was visible. That is the purpose of the Intensive. Remove guesswork and create momentum. Leadership development featured strongly. Our leadership coach, Julie Hutchison, helped owners face a vital question. Who do I need to be to lead this next phase. Not only what do I need to do. The distinction matters. Doing solves tasks. Being sets culture, creates standards, and unlocks others. Julie also highlighted the power of partners in the room. Spouses and business partners arrived a little cautious then quickly felt welcomed as integral contributors. Once they saw where they fit in the plan they spoke up with insight and took ownership of the levers they can pull. The Intensive gave them a safe space to step forward. That is a win for alignment and a win for home life too. Finance was front and centre with our finance coach, Clare Elliott. Clare tied the sales and marketing conversation back to numbers that tell the truth. Run rate. Margins. Pipeline value by stage. Activity to meeting to proposal to sale. She challenged everyone to share financial targets with their teams so the whole business can rally. One client set a monthly target, shared it openly, and within forty-eight hours the gap narrowed to a few thousand pounds as the team pulled together. Another client crossed their million-pound milestone during the event. The cheer that went up summed up the spirit of the Intensive. Clear targets, shared ownership, and collective pride in progress. Across the tables a pattern emerged. Several owners felt overwhelmed even as the business was growing fast. They were in the thick of success and could not see the wood for the trees. The solution in the room was practical and calm. Step up to thirty thousand feet. Look back at how far you have come. Reconnect to the plan. Trim distractions. Commit to three priorities for the next sixteen weeks and move everything else to the later list. The Intensive created that breathing space. People left lighter because they made decisions and booked actions with dates and names against them. Community remains a secret weapon. The infamous quiz returned. Shirt of the day became a thing. Laughter flowed. Underneath the fun sits a very real benefit. Owners discover they are not alone. They swap playbooks, borrow templates, and set up follow up calls across the room. New friendships form that carry accountability far beyond the two days. The Intensive is a serious working event with a generous dose of human connection. That balance is why people come back. My own light bulb moments were clear. First, our support tracks are landing. Transform Your Profits, Team Performance Engine, Future Leaders, and the marketing implementation track are lifting capability across the community. Owners are not only learning frameworks. Their finance leads, marketing coordinators, and service managers are in the room learning the same language and building the same muscle. Second, our refreshed marketing roadmap removed friction. When people see the journey end to end, confidence goes up and action follows. Third, the message we share with the wider market needs to meet owners at the point where many decide to change. A large client leaves. A key staff member moves on. A retirement horizon becomes real. The Intensive surfaced that pattern again and it will inform our outreach so we can help at the right moment. To close, here is the essence of this episode and of the Intensive. Scaling an MSP is a process. Know your numbers. Build a plan you believe in. Execute the right activities in a steady rhythm. Develop leaders who can think and act without you. Share targets so your team can win with you. Surround yourself with a community that will cheer you on and hold you to account. The September Client Intensive delivered all of that. Plans were refreshed, confidence was renewed, and the ripple effect will show up in better weeks, stronger months, and a more valuable business. If you want your MSP to move from busy to purposeful and from hope to a clear path, the Intensive is where that shift begins and where it gets reinforced every time we come together. Make sure to check out our Ultimate MSP Growth Guide, a free guide that walks you through a proven process to take your MSP from stuck to scalable, without working even more hours. It's 44 pages rammed with advice, insights and inspiration to help you decide what support is available to you now if you want to grow and scale your business. Click HERE to get your copy. Connect on LinkedIn HERE with Ian and also with Stuart by clicking this LINK And when you're ready to take the next step in growing your MSP, come and take the Scale with Confidence MSP Mastery Quiz. In just three minutes, you'll get a 360-degree scan of your MSP and identify the one or two tactics that could help you find more time, engage & align your people and generate more leads. OR To join our amazing Facebook Group of over 400 MSPs where we are helping you Scale Up with Confidence, then click HERE Until next time, look after yourself and I'll catch up with you soon!
This week Dr. Ken and Cynthia discuss a challenge almost every parent faces—what to do when you and your spouse don't see eye-to-eye on planned emancipation. From different approaches to devices and curfews, it's not always easy to stay on the same page while raising young adults.We discuss why keeping your marriage first changes the conversation, how to navigate disagreements without turning them into power struggles, and what it looks like to support each other even when you don't fully agree. We also touch on blended families and shared custody, and why it's never too late to start giving teens the message that they're growing into adulthood.It's a practical, hope-filled conversation with plenty of humor (including a surprise iPad cameo from Cynthia's youngest) and the kind of perspective every parent needs when the plan and the parenting don't always match up.
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When emotions run high in marriage, one of the most common traps couples fall into is what to do with each other's feelings. Should you validate them? Should you challenge them? Or should you just offer a quick solution so you can move on? The truth is when emotional validation is missing or misunderstood, small hurts linger, conflicts spiral, and one or both partners can end up feeling dismissed, forced into solutions, or left unresolved. It's also one of the biggest complaints we hear from spouses…”you're not validating my feelings!” In this episode, we unpack: Why couples often confuse validation with agreement The hidden ways spouses accidentally invalidate each other Why solutions don't stick if this piece is missing What actually creates the safety to collaborate, repair, and move forward together If you've ever wondered “Am I supposed to validate even when I don't agree?”—this conversation is for you. Because the order in which you respond to your partner's emotions might be the very thing that determines whether you stay stuck… or actually grow closer. Also, register for our LIVE + FREE Marriage WebClass coming up on: The 5 Root Causes of Conflict and Disconnection…and the Tools to Overcome Them! Register For The Webclass HERE
Jamie and Mr. Ug watched their daughter's house while she was on vacation and, because it's a long drive, they had some quality car time all week. In other words, you should be really impressed that we still had enough to talk about to do a new episode. HaHa! Love you HUgs... enjoy the show!
In this conversation, Sathiya and Kyle discuss the often-taboo subject of sex within Christianity, exploring the reasons behind the fear of discussing it openly. They delve into the impact of purity culture, the importance of viewing sex as a gift from God, and the necessity of selflessness in sexual relationships. Kyle shares the origins of Kingdom Sexuality, emphasizing the need for healthy conversations about sex and the role of spouses in fostering communication. They also address challenges such as sexless marriages and offer insights on how to spice up intimacy in a biblical context. The discussion concludes with thoughts on the future of sexual conversations in the church and the importance of creating safe spaces for these discussions. Join Deep Clean Inner Circle – The Brotherhood You Need (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Know more about Kyle and Kingdom Sexuality: Access Their Website Follow Kingdom Sexuality on Instagram Listen to their Podcast Know more about Sathiya's work: Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This Chapters: (00:00) Introduction to Kingdom Sexuality and Its Mission (03:11) The Fear of Discussing Sex in Christianity (06:07) Reconstructing a Biblical Framework for Sex (08:57) The Importance of Selflessness in Sexual Relationships (11:47) The Origins of Kingdom Sexuality (15:00) Navigating Boundaries in Conversations About Sex (27:13) Involvement of Spouses in the Podcast (30:26) Facilitating Conversations About Sex (32:49) The Role of Communication in Marriage (35:37) Guidelines for Trying New Things (39:29) Navigating Personal Convictions (42:50) Addressing a Sexless Marriage (44:48) Spicing Things Up in the Bedroom (49:58) The Role of the Church in Sexual Conversations
Eddie had an experience at the grocery store similar to the one Emily had last week. However, things took a turn that nobody expected which led Eddie to regret the decision he made.We sent Jaime down to the bars this weekend to find the drunkest people out there and ask them basic trivia questions so we could play Bombed at the Beach.There was a thread going around describing what professions make the worst spouses and some reasoning behind them. We put our guesses in then broke down the list we found
Eddie had an experience at the grocery store similar to the one Emily had last week. However, things took a turn that nobody expected which led Eddie to regret the decision he made.We sent Jaime down to the bars this weekend to find the drunkest people out there and ask them basic trivia questions so we could play Bombed at the Beach.There was a thread going around describing what professions make the worst spouses and some reasoning behind them. We put our guesses in then broke down the list we found
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For years, many in the faith community have been taught the idea that God hand-picks a spouse for every individual. This belief has shaped expectations, fueled disillusionment, and even contributed to unhealthy relationship dynamics. In this thought-provoking episode, Coach Bryan Thomas challenges that narrative head-on and opens up a fresh, freeing perspective on marriage, choice, and responsibility.Coach Bryan explains that while marriage is a sacred institution created by God, it is not mandated for all, nor is it a pre-assigned arrangement where one must wait for “the one.” Instead, marriage is a journey, not a sprint—something that should be entered into with maturity, clarity, and care.This episode dives into six key truths:Marriage is not mandated by God but designed as a framework for family and legacy.Marriage is a journey that requires patience and preparation, not a race to the altar.Spouses are not chosen by God; they are chosen by us, based on knowledge, wisdom, and discernment.Free will matters—God has a will for your life, but He also gives you the ability to make choices within it.Responsibility outweighs benefits—when we focus only on perks and miss the weight of responsibility, chaos follows.Every marriage is unique—there is no single blueprint or perfect model. Maturity and growth are the true cornerstones.Listeners will be encouraged to let go of the passivity that comes with waiting on “divine matchmaking” and embrace the responsibility of their own decisions. By reframing marriage as a partnership rooted in intentional choice and spiritual maturity, this conversation empowers singles and couples to move forward with clarity and confidence.If you've ever wrestled with the belief that God will one day drop “the one” into your life—or if you've struggled with the pressure that narrative creates—this episode will give you the freedom to rethink marriage from a healthier, biblically sound, and more practical perspective.
Carguments' Spouses are the Most Annoying Passengers, and it can end relationships, according to research And the RSA is issuing study results today on the use of phones while driving. With Distracted driving due to handheld mobile device usage is one of the dangerous behaviours that leads to road traffic collisions.All this and more to discuss with Conor Faughnan Transport Consultant.
Is it ever okay to walk away from your own mother… or your husband? (Cue the gasps from the peanut gallery clutching their pearls.) If you grew up in church culture, you probably heard that honoring your parents and submitting to your husband meant swallowing abuse with a smile. But guess what? That's not actually what Jesus had in mind.In this episode, I sit down with Christian counselor and author Kris Reese (yes, the YouTube powerhouse with over 476,000 subscribers) to dismantle the toxic myths that keep Christian women chained to destructive relationships.Together, we talk about:The big guilt trip – Why Christians confuse “honor” with “obey” and how that keeps grown women stuck in parent-child dynamics with their 70-year-old mothers.The covenant conundrum – What makes walking away from a spouse more complicated, and why wisdom (not religious rule-keeping) is the real key.The fog machine – Fear, obligation, and guilt: the trifecta abusers use to keep you running in circles like a hamster who just discovered Peloton.Boundaries ≠ lack of forgiveness – FACTS: You can forgive your mom and still not show up to her guilt-drenched Sunday dinners. You can forgive your husband and still not share a bed with him while he weaponizes scripture against you.Manipulation tactics 101 – Victimhood and scripture-twisting are the go-to moves of toxic moms and spouses everywhere. (“You're not being a good daughter/wife” translates to: “My control over you is slipping and I hate it.”)Trauma bonds and porcupines – Why you might be clinging to the emotional equivalent of a barbed-wire teddy bear, and how to finally put it down without losing your sanity.Why Christians stay too long – It's not because they're lazy or selfish. It's because they've been conditioned to confuse holiness with masochism.Read the full show notes and/or ask Natalie a question hereRelated Resources:Go to Kris' website to get on the waitlist so that you're the FIRST to know when her new book, Breaking the Narcissist's Grip, is released!Get her FREE Narcissist Survival Guide. Check out her YouTube channel.Connect with Kris on Instagram and Facebook.Kris Reece is a Christian counselor, author, and speaker who helps believers break free from toxic relationships and codependency biblically and practically. With over 30 years of combined personal and professional experience, Kris has guided thousands through the emotional wreckage left by narcissistic and manipulative relationships. She blends deep biblical truth with real-world strategies to help others reclaim their identity, rebuild confidence, and walk in the freedom Christ offers. Kris is the author of Breaking the Narcissist's Grip and host of a fast-growing YouTube channel where she equips Christians to set boundaries, overcome manipulation, break trauma bonds, and heal after toxic relationships.
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Are we getting too self-focused in marriage? In this episode, we unpack the cultural messages that push hyper-individualism (“fill your cup first”) and show why great marriages are actually built on mutual care, not solo self-care. We talk about healthy vs. overcorrected boundaries, why prosocial actions (doing good for your partner) boost your own mood, how to shift from short-term impulses to a long-term family vision, and practical ways to “out-love” each other in daily life. What you'll learn from this episode: The trap of “me first” and how it quietly erodes connection Mutual care vs. self-care (and why you can't get to 100% alone) Boundaries that protect vs. boundaries that avoid A neuroscience-backed reason to give more (and feel better) How shared vision → shared sacrifice → shared joy Simple ways to prioritize your partner without losing yourself If this helped, drop a comment with your biggest takeaway, hit
"Connections are at the heart of growth". Listen as Dr. Brent Wolf, school principal and lifelong educator discusses the importance of meaningful connections in building relationships. Connecting with students, parents, and educators creates a true foundation of growth. This podcast is made possible by generous funding from the Wiesbaden Community Spouses' Club, Inc., and Ramstein Officers' Spouses' Club. To learn more, visit https://wiesbadencommunityspousesclub.wildapricot.org/ and https://www.ramsteinosc.org/. Audio mixing by Concentus Media, Inc., Temple, Texas. Show Notes: Resources: 2025 MCEC Global Training Summit https://militarychild.org/event/gts/ Bio: Brent Wolf has taught students in elementary and middle school for sixteen years before stepping into his role as the Principal at Derby Hills Elementary School in Derby, Kansas. For over a decade, he has taught as an adjunct professor at Baker University, Southwestern College, Wichita State University, and Cowley College. He holds a Bachelor's degree in Elementary Education with a minor in Leadership Studies from Southwestern College, as well as a Master's degree in Education from Baker University, Doctoral Coursework from Kansas State University, a Building-level Administrator Certificate from Pittsburg State University, and a Doctorate in Educational Administration from Southwestern College. South Central Kansas has always been near and dear to Brent's heart. He taught 3rd through 8th grade in Winfield, KS. Following those years, Brent moved into an Instructional Technology Specialist position for two years. After eight years teaching middle school English in Derby, KS (suburb of Wichita), Brent moved into the role as Building Principal at Derby Hills Elementary. This is his 5th year in that role. Brent's honors include making the first-ever website for Winfield Public Schools with his students through the GenY program. In 2015, Brent was named the KAKE News Golden Apple Award Recipient. In 2017, Brent was Derby Public School's Secondary Teacher of the Year. That year, he also was named Region IV Teacher of the Year. He was a finalist for Kansas Teacher of the Year. Brent also was named a Spotlight Faculty Member at Baker University's School of Professional and Graduate Studies. Brent serves on several committees through the Kansas State Department of Education. Brent currently is a member of the Higher Education Review Committee which accredits Kansas colleges' education programs. He also serves as District 9-10 member of the Commissioner of Education's Advisory Council. Brent is a newer member of the Kansas Teacher Recruitment and Retention Committee Member. Brent was the chair of the committee that wrote the ELA standards for PreK-12 in 2017. Brent was recently inducted into the Southwestern College Educators' Hall of Fame. Brent's longest service period has been as a member and Vice President of the Winfield's Board of Education. Brent served nine years and worked with hiring three superintendents, managing two bond issues, and tackling one global pandemic.
This week on the Military Life Podcast, you've got me, or should I say, I've got you! I thought I would put together another episode for the new Defence Partners. The ones who are trying to get their heads around all things Defence life. The ones who are finding their feet when it comes to figuring out the good bits, the not-so-good bits and the…what the bits. In PART FOUR, I talk all about; -Remote Postings -Deployments and ROCL (Relief Out of Country Leave) -Overseas Postings -Financial Support -Relationship Breakdown -Defence Special Needs Support Group -DEFGLIS (Defence Gay & Lesbian Info Service) -DFA (Defence Families Australia) Below are all the links and resources discussed in this episode of the podcast. Remote Postings https://pay-conditions.defence.gov.au/perform-duty-remote-location Remote Location Leave Travel https://pay-conditions.defence.gov.au/remote-location-leave-travel-rllt ADF District Allowance https://pay-conditions.defence.gov.au/adf-district-allowance Deployment https://pay-conditions.defence.gov.au/deployment https://www.defence.gov.au/adf-members-families/military-life-cycle/absence-from-home/deployment Relief Out of Country Leave (ROCL) https://pay-conditions.defence.gov.au/pacman/chapter-17/part-8/div-3 Overseas Postings https://www.defence.gov.au/adf-members-families/military-life-cycle/posting-relocating/overseas-posting Military Life Podcast Episode- Overseas Postings Episodes 60, 69, 173 and 174 Financial Support, Services & Education ADF Financial Services Consumer Centre https://adfconsumer.gov.au/home-v2/ Emergency Support for Families Scheme https://www.defence.gov.au/adf-members-families/crisis-support/emergency-support-schemes/emergency-support-families-scheme The Navy's Anchorage- Grants and Loans https://thenavysanchorage.com.au/ Royal Australian Navy- Keeping Watch/Relief Trust Fund https://www.keepingwatch.org.au/about-us/ran-relief-trust-fund Army Relief Trust Fund https://armyrtf.com.au/ RAAF Welfare Trust Fund https://raafwelfaretrustfund.gov.au/ Bravery Trust https://braverytrust.org.au/ Wounded Heroes https://www.woundedheroes.org.au/ Veteran and Families Hubs- RSL Lifecare https://www.dva.gov.au/what-we-help-with/advocacy-representation-advice/veterans-and-families-hubs Legacy https://www.legacy.com.au/get-support/ Rising Sun Charity https://risingsuncharity.org.au/ Relationship Breakdown https://pay-conditions.defence.gov.au/pacman/chapter-6/part-5/div-10 https://pay-conditions.defence.gov.au/pacman/chapter-8/part-11 Ex ADF Spouse Support Group https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1G3mEMXNAn/ Defence Special Needs Support Group (DSNSG) https://www.dsnsg.org.au/ DEFGLIS (Defence Gay Lesbian Information Service) https://defglis.com.au/ Defence Families Australia https://militarylife.com.au/defence-partner-info-hub/dfa/ Past DFA Advocacy Maps https://militarylife.com.au/dfaadvocacymaps/ Helplines/Crisis Support Defence Member and Family Helpline 1800 624 608 A 24/7 helpline for services and information from Defence Member and Family Support. 1800 IMSICK 1800 467 425 A 24/7 phone service providing nurse triage and health support for members after hours or off-base. All-hours Support Line 1800 628 036 A confidential 24/7 phone service triaging access to medical, psychology and social work services. Sexual Misconduct Prevention and Response Office 1800 736 776 A confidential 24/7 phone service for those affected by sexual misconduct at home or work. Chaplaincy Services 1300 333 362 (ask to speak to the on-call Chaplain in the area) A 24/7 on-call chaplaincy service for pastoral care, support or advice. Support outside Defence The following helplines are not affiliated with Defence. Defence does not endorse or recommend any third party products or services. 1800 RESPECT 1800 737 732 National sexual assault and domestic violence counselling. Beyond Blue 1300 22 46 36 Help for anywhere in the mental health journey. Kids Helpline 1800 55 1800 Support for kids anytime, any reason. Lifeline 13 11 14 Crisis support and suicide prevention. Mens Line Australia 1300 78 99 78 Helping men deal with relationship problems. Open Arms 1800 011 046 Counselling, group programs and suicide prevention for members, veterans and families. Safe Zone Support (hosted by Open Arms) 1800 142 072 Free and anonymous counselling line (separate to Open Arms). SANE Australia 1800 187 263 Helping Australians affected by mental illness. Suicide Call Back Service 1300 659 467 Free nationwide phone counselling service.
Have an episode suggestion? Text us!Spouses are told to learn the addict, but who teaches the addict what their choices did to the spouse's brain, safety, and sense of self? In this conversation, Matt and Paige build on Paige's recent mini episode to name the gap in traditional recovery. We break down why amends without education fall short, how betrayal trauma rewires responses, and why partners are mislabeled as codependent when many are reacting to real harm. We walk through a family-program handout to show what is missing, tackle the pros and cons of introducing this education early, and outline what mutual respect and real accountability look like at home. Expect validation, clarity, and practical next steps for couples who are genuinely rebuilding and for individuals choosing their own healing. Your experience matters. Your recovery matters too.Find video clips and full length video from this episode on YouTube and our other social media pages!On the web:www.twfo.comSupport the Show:Buy Us a Coffee!Online Course: www.independentlystrong.comUse code WHEELIES75 for 75% off the entire course!Soberlink Device:www.soberlink.com/wheelsCheck out our blog:https://twfo.com/blogFollow us on TikTok:https://tiktok.com/@twfo_coupleFollow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/twfo_couple/Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/TWFOCoupleFollow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@twfo_coupleFind Taylor Counseling Group:https://taylorcounselinggroup.com/Donate to Counseling for the Future Foundation:Donate Here
Jamie and Mr. Ug are back after a brief hangover, I mean HOLIDAY, break last week. And boy do we have an adventure to tell you about... a desert road trip that included a dive bar, a glorifed motel and an exciting new addition to the Uglee family. Enjoy the show!
Have an episode suggestion? Text us!In this episode of Paige's Perspective, I dig into a powerful comment from one of our listeners: “As the spouse, I'm basically told to become an expert on their addiction, yet they don't have to become an expert on my trauma.” This one line exposes the imbalance in the recovery world. Spouses are often told to go to Al-Anon, read the Big Book, and learn about addiction, but no one tells them to study their own trauma caused by their partner or expect their partner to understand the harm they've caused.I'll share why this matters so deeply, how living in chaos rewires your brain and body, and why hyper-vigilance, self-doubt, panic, and physical symptoms are not “character defects”... they're trauma responses. We'll also explore different forms of betrayal trauma beyond lying and cheating, from financial secrecy to emotional neglect, broken promises, safety violations, and more.This episode is about reclaiming the focus: your trauma, your healing, and your right to be understood. Because recovery isn't just about learning their dopamine pathways; it's about acknowledging how their choices have impacted you and giving yourself permission to heal.Find video clips and full length video from this episode on YouTube and our other social media pages!On the web:www.twfo.comSupport the Show:Buy Us a Coffee!Online Course: www.independentlystrong.comUse code WHEELIES75 for 75% off the entire course!Soberlink Device:www.soberlink.com/wheelsCheck out our blog:https://twfo.com/blogFollow us on TikTok:https://tiktok.com/@twfo_coupleFollow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/twfo_couple/Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/TWFOCoupleFollow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@twfo_coupleFind Taylor Counseling Group:https://taylorcounselinggroup.com/Donate to Counseling for the Future Foundation:Donate Here
One common problem with filing Form I-130 is that some cases receive a Request for Evidence letter. This Podcast answers the most frequently asked questions about the process, timelines, documents needed, and how to avoid delays in your petition.
The complexities of alignment among founders, employees, and even spouses. They debunk the notion that perfect alignment exists, emphasizing that often, perceived alignment is more fiction than reality. The conversation covers the inevitable differences in expectations, contributions, and risk tolerances that arise between co-founders and employees. The hosts also delve into the personal side, exploring how founders' professional decisions impact their relationships at home. Through candid anecdotes and practical insights, they highlight the importance of mutual respect and understanding in managing these fundamentally misaligned expectations in both business and personal life.Resources:Startup Therapy Podcasthttps://www.startups.com/community/startup-therapyWebsitehttps://www.startups.com/beginLinkedInhttps://www.linkedin.com/company/startups-co/Join our Network of Top FoundersWil Schroterhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/wilschroter/Ryan Rutanhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/ryan-rutan/What to listen for:00:42 The Myth of Alignment in Startups01:06 Investor Alignment: Fact or Fiction?01:48 The Role of Spouses in Startup Alignment03:09 The Challenge of Aligning with Employees04:59 Generational Differences in Work-Life Balance14:50 The Reality of Co-Founder Alignment21:16 The Challenge of Co-Founder Alignment22:45 Spousal Support and Startup Life25:45 Understanding and Managing Differences28:31 The Myth of Perfect Alignment
Peng Liyuan, President Xi Jinping's wife, invited spouses of foreign leaders who were attending the Shanghai Cooperation Organization Summit 2025 in Tianjin to a sightseeing tour on the Haihe River on Monday afternoon.彭丽媛,习近平主席的妻子,邀请了参加2025年上海合作组织峰会的外国领导人的配偶,周一下午进行海河游览。The 72-kilometer-long Haihe River, hailed as Tianjin's mother river, winds its way through the city and flows eastward into the Bohai Sea. The river, flanked by historical landmarks and modern architectural marvels, encapsulates the essence of Tianjin's diversity, inclusiveness, openness and innovation.72公里长的海河,被誉为天津的母亲河,蜿蜒穿过这座城市,向东流入渤海。河流两岸是历史地标和现代建筑奇迹,体现了天津的多样性、包容性、开放性和创新精神。Peng warmly greeted the guests, shaking hands with them one by one before joining them for a group photo.彭热情地迎接了宾客,逐一与他们握手,然后与他们一起合影。At the pier, a group of children sang a joyful song, I'm Waiting for You in Tianjin, and waved Chinese and foreign national flags to welcome them.在码头,一群孩子唱着愉快的歌曲《我在天津等你》,而且挥舞着中国和外国的国旗来欢迎他们。Peng then joined the guests on a boat ride along the river, where they learned about the city's history and development.彭随后与客人们一起乘船沿河游览,在那里他们了解了这座城市的历史和发展。Peng told the guests that Tianjin is a city blending historical depth and modern vitality, and that the Haihe River has witnessed the city's development and exchanges and mutual learning of diverse cultures. Peng said she looked forward to having an unforgettable time with the guests.彭告诉客人们,天津是一个融合历史深度和现代活力的城市,海河见证了这座城市的发展以及多元文化的交流与相互学习。彭表示她期待与客人们度过一个难忘的时光。During the tour, they enjoyed the riverside views, had a chat over tea and enjoyed an ensemble of sanxian, a three-stringed traditional Chinese instrument. They also posed for a group photo on the deck.在旅行中,他们欣赏了河边的美景,喝着茶聊天,并欣赏了三弦乐队的表演,三弦是一种传统的中国三弦乐器。他们还在甲板上拍了张合影。The guests spoke highly of traditional Chinese culture and praised the remarkable achievements in advancing Chinese modernization.宾客们高度评价了中国传统文化,并赞扬了中国现代化进程中的卓越成就。The guests included spouses of Uzbek President Shavkat Mirziyoyev, Mongolian President Ukhnaa Khurelsukh, Azerbaijani President Ilham Aliyev, Turkish President Recep Tayyip Erdogan, Armenian Prime Minister Nikol Pashinyan, Nepali Prime Minister KP Sharma Oli, Egyptian Prime Minister Mostafa Madbouly and Malaysian Prime Minister Anwar Ibrahim, and daughter of Iranian President Masoud Pezeshkian.l spouses of foreign leadersn.外国领导人配偶 /spaʊzɪz ɒv ˈfɒrən ˈliːdəz/l Haihe Rivern.海河/haɪ ˈhʌɪ hə ˈrɪvə/
#59: One of the biggest hurdles to baby-led weaning can be… the grandparents. When the people helping care for your baby don't understand or agree with how you're feeding them, tensions can rise. In this episode, I'm joined by Aaron Larsen, founder of The Grandparents Academy, to talk about how adult parents can better communicate with their own parents about baby-led weaning and other modern parenting choices.. If you want to honor the important role your baby's grandparents play while sticking to your feeding philosophy, this episode will show you how. Listen to this episode to learn: 1. How to navigate tough conversations with your baby's grandparents about parenting choices like baby-led weaning without creating conflict 2. Practical ways to include and honor grandparents even when your feeding approach looks different from how they raised you. 3. Scripts and language for inviting grandparents into the conversation through events like the Grandparents Week Summit, so they feel empowered, not excluded. Shownotes for this episode can be found here: https://www.babyledweaning.co/podcast/59 Links from this episode: • Invite the grandparents in your life to join Aaron's Grandparents Week free online summit - sign up at grandparentsacademy.com/BLW • Download your copy of my free feeding guide 11 Sample Scripts for Talking to Grandparents About Baby-Led Weaning here • Baby-Led Weaning with Katie Ferraro program with the 100 First Foods™ Daily Meal Plan, join here: https://babyledweaning.co/program • Baby-Led Weaning for Beginners free online workshop with 100 First Foods™ list to all attendees, register here: https://babyledweaning.co/baby-led-weaning-for-beginners Other episodes related to this topic: • Episode 22 - Grandparents, Spouses & Partners: Getting Others on Board with BLW • Episode 237 - Getting Grandparents on Board: BLW Across Generations • Episode 331 - Interviewing my Mom: How She Didn't Like BLW at First & Why She Changed
#59: One of the biggest hurdles to baby-led weaning can be… the grandparents. When the people helping care for your baby don't understand or agree with how you're feeding them, tensions can rise. In this episode, I'm joined by Aaron Larsen, founder of The Grandparents Academy, to talk about how adult parents can better communicate with their own parents about baby-led weaning and other modern parenting choices.. If you want to honor the important role your baby's grandparents play while sticking to your feeding philosophy, this episode will show you how. Listen to this episode to learn: 1. How to navigate tough conversations with your baby's grandparents about parenting choices like baby-led weaning without creating conflict 2. Practical ways to include and honor grandparents even when your feeding approach looks different from how they raised you. 3. Scripts and language for inviting grandparents into the conversation through events like the Grandparents Week Summit, so they feel empowered, not excluded. Shownotes for this episode can be found here: https://www.babyledweaning.co/podcast/59 Links from this episode: • Invite the grandparents in your life to join Aaron's Grandparents Week free online summit - sign up at grandparentsacademy.com/BLW • Download your copy of my free feeding guide 11 Sample Scripts for Talking to Grandparents About Baby-Led Weaning here • Baby-Led Weaning with Katie Ferraro program with the 100 First Foods™ Daily Meal Plan, join here: https://babyledweaning.co/program • Baby-Led Weaning for Beginners free online workshop with 100 First Foods™ list to all attendees, register here: https://babyledweaning.co/baby-led-weaning-for-beginners Other episodes related to this topic: • Episode 22 - Grandparents, Spouses & Partners: Getting Others on Board with BLW • Episode 237 - Getting Grandparents on Board: BLW Across Generations • Episode 331 - Interviewing my Mom: How She Didn't Like BLW at First & Why She Changed
What really happens when one spouse passes away? In this episode of Safer Retirement Radio, Brian Decker and Arrin Wray break down one of retirement's most difficult—but essential—topics: preparing financially and legally for the loss of a spouse. You'll learn: - The must-have estate documents (wills, trusts, powers of attorney, and healthcare directives) - The “pour-over” provision that helps families avoid probate nightmares - How Social Security, pensions, and taxes change for a surviving spouse - Why compensation clauses and unclear distribution instructions can tear families apart - Steps to protect income, minimize taxes, and create a smooth transition Planning ahead means your spouse and children are cared for—and your legacy is preserved without unnecessary stress or conflict.
Other people can be valuable companions in our decluttering and organizing journeys, or they can interfere with our best efforts. We have to be careful and mindful about who gets a say in our decision-making. In episode #269 of The Clutter Fairy Weekly, Gayle Goddard, professional organizer and owner of The Clutter Fairy in Houston, Texas, discusses people who influence our organizing process and offers strategies for working with—or around—those whose choices impact the clutter in our lives.Show notes: https://cfhou.com/tcfw269The Clutter Fairy Weekly is a live webcast and podcast designed to help you clear your clutter and make space in your home and your life for more of what you love. We meet Tuesdays at noon (U.S. Central Time) to answer your decluttering questions and to share organizing tools and techniques, success stories and “ah-hah!” moments, seasonal suggestions, and timeless tips.To participate live in our weekly webcast, join our Meetup group, follow us on Facebook, or subscribe to our mailing list. You can also watch the videos of our webcast on YouTube.Support the show
Send us a textNavigating relationships is already challenging—but when ADHD gets added to the mix, emotional labor, communication breakdowns, and resentment can quietly build up over time.In this session, we are joined by Dusty Chipura—Master-Certified ADHD Coach and doula—to explore the unequal domestic load in ADHD partnerships. Dusty shares insights on why "trying harder" doesn't always fix relationship struggles, the role of gender dynamics, how emotional labor shows up, and practical tools to build healthier, more equal partnerships.This event was hosted by the Men's ADHD Support Group, a nonprofit dedicated to providing resources and community for men and masc-aligned individuals with ADHD.
For prospective PlayStation 5 owners, America's new tariff regime has struck at a most inopportune time. Having carved through their backfill of PS5 units in America, and seemingly moving at least some of the console's manufacturing process out of China, Sony still has to foot the bill to import the machine. A $50 increase across the board -- on standard and Pro units alike -- has led to much consternation. What do we think about the whole situation? Beware: It's impossible to talk about this issue sans politics. Plus: Hollow Knight: Silksong gets a surprise release date in literally two weeks, storied 'closer' Rod Fergusson joins Cloud Chamber to help ship the beleaguered fourth BioShock, Triangle Strategy randomly launches on PS5 (but not PS4) three years after its Switch debut, long-time studio lead Pete Parsons leaves Bungie after more than 20 years, PS3 JRPG Tales of Xillia is finally being remastered, and more. Then: Listener inquiries! Is there a desire for more modern and grounded military shooters? Should Guerrilla abandon Aloy as Horizon's protagonist? What's our hype level (if any) for Borderlands 4? Is Dustin's hometown well and truly haunted? Please keep in mind that our timestamps are approximate, and will often be slightly off due to dynamic ad placement. 0:00:00 - Intro0:31:02 - Is Last Stand in trouble?0:50:48 - Car totaled while listening to Sacred0:53:46 - Our relationship with comments1:13:53 - PS5 price increase2:16:15 - Silksong release date2:30:21 - Gamescom announcements2:41:04 - Ghost of Yotei is getting a Legends mode2:47:44 - Helldivers 2 x ODST2:54:24 - Rod Fergusson is moving to Cloud Chamber to save Bioshock 43:09:49 - Call of Duty: Black Ops 7 launches November 14th3:17:18 - Triangle Strategy is out on PSN3:21:10 - Tales of Xillia Remastered launches in October3:27:34 - Callisto Protocol sold 6-7 million copies3:28:26 - Sony unloads EVO shares to a subsidiary3:29:54 - Bungie leadership change3:38:13 - What We've Been Playing (Doom: The Dark Ages, MindsEye, Mafia: The Old Country, Battlefield 6, Indika)4:10:16 - Is the podcast parasocial relationship unhealthy?4:17:20 - Is FPS culture shifting?4:23:14 - Hype level for Borderlands 44:28:29 - Killing Aloy4:32:55 - Spouses interrupting game time4:38:06 - Colin doesn't play driving games because he doesn't drive Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
On this episode, Jamie doesn't do brunch, Vanderpump knows how to decorate a restaurant and Mr. Ug needs to practice taking off a bra. What other teases could you possibly neeed to check out this week's show? Thanks for listening.
In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, hosts Karen Potter and Theo McManigal continue their interview with Jim O'Day, Executive Director of Integrity Restored, a ministry dedicated to helping men, women, and families break free from pornography.Jim shares how Integrity Restored equips priests, churches, and families to confront today's hypersexualized culture through the Three Pillars to Purity program and practical tools like Covenant Eyes.You'll discover:Why priests are the first line of defense in the battle against pornographyHow betrayal trauma impacts marriages — and how healing is possibleThe neuroscience behind porn triggers and the “fight, flee, freeze… fornicate” brain responseWhy accountability and community are essential for recoveryHow science and faith together reveal the truth about pornography's effectsThis episode is filled with encouragement, science-backed insights, and faith-filled strategies to support healing and hope in individuals, marriages, and the Church.
The Springs in the Desert Podcast: Catholic Accompaniment Through Infertility
This week Ann welcomes very special guest Keith, her bestfriend and husband of 14 years. Ann and Keith talk about their experience of infertility early in marriage, how things have changed since then, and the ways God is calling them to be fruitful in surprising and fulfilling ways.Keith is the “behind-the-scenes” support for Ann in ministry, but this isn't his first appearance on the podcast! Dive into the archives and go way back to 2020 to hear how Keith, Ann, and the Springs Team shared about navigating infertility in all of our relationships.Links:Infertility is Martyrdom blog postInfertility is Martyrdom Blogcast episodeHolding Gabriel blog postHolding Gabriel Blogcast episodeCommunicating with our Spouses, Family, and Friends through Infertility
Welcome to the Personal Development Trailblazers Podcast! In today's episode, we'll help the spouses of firefighters build peace and balance at home while standing strong beside their partner.Sarah Talley is a former athlete and higher education leader who spent over 15 years helping young people make life-changing decisions about their education and their future. But four years ago, her world took an unexpected turn when she and her husband attended his department's spouse conference. That experience completely shifted how she viewed the fire service—and it ignited a passion in her to empower the people often overlooked in the conversation: the spouses.Today, Sarah is a life and wellness coach who works specifically with fire service spouses to help them discover their capabilities, build resilience, and navigate the challenges of “fire life” with confidence. She's the founder of Next Step Connect, and the creator of coaching programs that strengthen marriages, foster department support, and create genuine connections within the fire community. Her most recent 8-week program is set to kick off in early September. She and her husband have partnered up and are coordinating the Round Rock National Spouse Conference, scheduled for December 5-7, 2025. Whether you're looking to bring fresh energy to your department, support the well-being of your firefighters' families, or learn how to thrive in a life that can be unpredictable and demanding, Sarah brings a unique blend of lived experience, professional coaching, and a passion for creating change.Connect with Sarah Here: https://dot.cards/nextstep4realhttps://www.thenextstepconnects.com/Grab the freebie here: https://www.thenextstepconnects.com/firelifecoaching===================================If you enjoyed this episode, remember to hit the like button and subscribe. Then share this episode with your friends.Thanks for watching the Personal Development Trailblazers Podcast. This podcast is part of the Digital Trailblazer family of podcasts. To learn more about Digital Trailblazer and what we do to help entrepreneurs, go to DigitalTrailblazer.com.Are you a coach, consultant, expert, or online course creator? Then we'd love to invite you to our FREE Facebook Group where you can learn the best strategies to land more high-ticket clients and customers. QUICK LINKS: APPLY TO BE FEATURED: https://app.digitaltrailblazer.com/podcast-guest-applicationDIGITAL TRAILBLAZER: https://digitaltrailblazer.com/
TALK TO ME, TEXT ITEver wonder if your hotel checkout routine brands you as "old-fashioned"? You're not alone! Today's episode dives into the surprisingly heated debate over proper hotel etiquette, where younger travelers champion the "ghost exit" while others defend the traditional front desk farewell as basic courtesy to hardworking staff.The absurdity of corporate America takes center stage with Mattel's lawsuit against podcaster Ken Bibiragi for daring to use his actual name in his show "Coffee with Ken." The toy giant claims this creates confusion with Barbie's boyfriend—a stretch that has us questioning whether legal departments sometimes have too much time on their hands. This David-versus-Goliath no battle reveals how aggressive trademark protection can border on the ridiculous.We also explore Zoe Kravitz's misadventure at Taylor Swift's $25 million mansion, where a pet snake escape led to bathroom demolition, and tackle a controversial Dear Abby letter from a woman considering divorce after 50 years of marriage because her 70-year-old husband has taken up daily marijuana use. This sparks our deeper discussion about cannabis legalization, medical benefits, and societal double standards between marijuana and cigarette smoking. Share your thoughts on these topics—especially if you work in healthcare, we'd love to hear your professional perspective on marijuana's legitimate uses versus recreational consumption!Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREE Thanks for listening! Liberty Line each week on Sunday, look for topics on my X file @americanistblog and submit your 1-3 audio opinions to anamericanistblog@gmail.com and you'll be featured on the podcast. Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREESupport the showTip Jar for coffee $ - Thanks Music by Alehandro Vodnik from Pixabay Blog - AnAmericanist.comX - @americanistblog
Jamie and Darryl have returned from their anniversary trip to the Canadian Rockies and have many stories to share. None of which involve wildlife, mush to Jamie's dismay. Plus Darryl has some airport and hotel pet peeves and our Uglee and Awkward Moments of the Week are back!
Jim's gone, but the show goes on! This week we have questions from a writer who hyperfixates on the death of her husband, a writer looking for sex advice, and another who needs to tell Mom how dissappointed they are in her. Join our patreon!Listen ad-free, get the show a day early and enjoy the pre-show hang out on the same app you're using RIGHT NOW at www.Patreon.com/Therapy where you can also access our vast library of deep dives, interviews, skill shares, reviews and rants as well as our live discord chat!If you are an Apple user please rate us!If you are a Spotify user, please rate us!Submit a question to the show!Help us reach #1 on Goodpods!Interested in Nick's mental health approach to fitness? Check out www.MentalFitPersonalTraining.comCheck out Dr. Jim's book "Dadvice: 50 Fatherly Life Lessons" at www.DadviceBook.comGrab some swag at our store, www.PodTherapyBaitShop.comPlay Jim's Neurotic Bingo at home while you listen to the show, or don't, I'm not your supervisor.Submit questions to:www.PodTherapy.netPodTherapyGuys@gmail.comFollow us on Social Media:FacebookInstagramTwitterResources:Suicide Prevention Lifeline - 1-800-273-8255.Veterans Crisis Line - 1-800-273-8255.Substance Abuse & Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline - (1-800-662-HELP (4357)OK2Talk Helpline Teen Helpline - 1 (800) 273-TALKU.S. Mental Health Resources Hotline - 211
REBROADCASTIn this valuable encore episode, Bill and Megan tackle three critical listener questions that remain deeply relevant. They begin by addressing a parent's concern about protecting their toddler during a high-conflict custody case involving someone displaying narcissistic traits, offering practical strategies for both the legal process and emotional support. The conversation then shifts to handling intimidating behavior and urgent decision-making scenarios, particularly when dealing with someone who attempts to force their approach. Finally, they explore the complex dynamics of living with someone who has BPD traits, discussing both the potential psychological impact and the importance of finding appropriate therapeutic support for recovery.Additional ResourcesExpert PublicationsThe Borderline Personality Disorder Wellness Planner for FamiliesSplitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with BPD/NPDHigh-Conflict Co-Parenting Survival GuideThe Healthy Parent's ABC's by Benjamin D. Garber, PhDProfessional DevelopmentNew Ways for Families Online Class and CoachingHigh Conflict Separation & Divorce Basics Audio SeriesConnect With UsVisit High Conflict Institute: highconflictinstitute.com Submit questions for Bill and MeganBrowse our complete collection of books and resources in our online storeFind these show notes and all past episode notes on our websiteImportant NoticeOur discussions focus on behavioral patterns rather than diagnoses. For specific legal or therapeutic guidance, please consult qualified professionals in your area. (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault (02:21) - Listener Questions (02:59) - Handling a Toddler with a Narcissistic Parent (09:00) - Managing Intimidating Behavior (14:31) - Is There Ever a Time to Explain the Truth? (17:22) - Can You Develop BPD Traits From Another? (24:57) - Reminders & Coming Next Week: More Listener Questions! Learn more about our Conflict Influencer Class. Get started today!
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Are you constantly hurt by a spouse who struggles to prioritize you? Do they avoid setting boundaries with their parents—even when it damages your marriage? If your partner was raised in a toxic or emotionally immature home, their nervous system may have been wired for survival—not connection. That early programming can lead to deep-rooted abandonment wounds, emotional shutdown, and a fear of conflict that puts your relationship at risk. In this episode of Breakdown to Breakthrough, Breakthrough Life Coach and creator of The Conscious Healing Academy, Lisa A. Romano, unpacks the hidden trauma behind emotionally unavailable partners and explores why some spouses can't put their significant other first—despite their best intentions. You'll learn: Why your spouse might feel safer pleasing their parents than protecting your marriage How unhealed childhood trauma impacts adult intimacy and emotional prioritization The subconscious fears that drive people to abandon their partner to avoid being rejected themselves What you can do to begin shifting this painful dynamic in a healthy way
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Top Ten from 2024: #4 Surprising Discoveries of Sex in Marriage: An Interview with Shaunti Feldhahn *DISCLAIMER* This episode is intended for adults. **Transcription of original episode** 224. Surprising Discoveries of Sex in Marriage: An Interview with Shaunti Feldhahn Deuteronomy 29:29a (NKJV) "The secret things belong to the LORD our God, but those things which are revealed belong to us" Questions and Topics We Cover: Are there any specific questions you recommend we ask our spouse periodically? Will you elaborate on your finding that "men and women tend to have different insecurities that the process of sex can help heal or hurt"? You write "Having a comfortable way to signal (and receive) openness or interest will create connection and prevent much pain." So, how can couples begin to develop their own private language or signals to communicate effectively in a healthy manner? Thank You to Our Sponsor: The Sue Neihouser Team Shaunti Feldhahn received her graduate degree from Harvard University and was an analyst on Wall Street before unexpectedly becoming a social researcher, best-selling author, and popular speaker. Today, Shaunti applies her analytical skills to investigate eye-opening, life-changing truths about relationships, both at home and in the workplace. Her groundbreaking research-based books, such as For Women Only, The Kindness Challenge, and Thriving in Love & Money, have sold more than 3 million copies in 25 languages. Her books and studies are popular in homes, counseling centers, and corporations worldwide. Shaunti (often with her husband, Jeff) has spoken around the world, sharing her findings with audiences ranging from churches to women's and marriage conferences to arena events to youth camps and cruises (yes, those are particularly painful…). Her research and commentary are regularly featured in media as diverse as The Today Show, Focus on the Family, The New York Times and MomLife Today. Shaunti, Jeff, and their two children live in Atlanta and enjoy every minute of living life at warp speed. Secrets of Sex and Marriage Website Previous Episodes on Sexual Intimacy on The Savvy Sauce: Fostering a Fun, Healthy Sex Life with your Spouse with Dr. Jennifer Konzen Ways to Deepen Your Intimacy in Marriage with Dr. Douglas Rosenau Ten Common Questions About Sex, Shared Through a Biblical Worldview with Dr. Michael Sytsma Easy Changes to Enhance Your Sexual Intimacy in Marriage with Dr. Clifford and Joyce Penner Hope For Treating Pelvic Pain with Tracey LeGrand Treatment for Sexual Issues with Certified Sex Therapist, Emma Schmidt Talking With Your Kids About Sex with Brian and Alison Sutter Natural Aphrodisiacs with Christian Certified Sex Therapist, Dr. Douglas Rosenau Healthy Sexuality, Emotional Intelligence, and Parenting Children with Autism with Counselor, Lauren Dack Pain and Joy in Sexual Intimacy with Psychologist and Certified Sex Therapist, Dr. Jessica McCleese Identifying and Fighting Human Trafficking with Dr. Jeff Waibel Bridging the Gap Between Military and Civilian Families with Licensed Professional Counselor, Cuthor, Podcaster, and 2015 Military Spouse of the Year, Corie Weathers Enjoying a God-Honoring, Healthy Sex Life with Your Spouse with Certified Sex Therapist and Ordained Minister, Dr. Michael Sytsma Enjoying Parenting and Managing Conversations About Sex with Certified Sex Therapist and Author, Dr. Jennifer Konzen 63 Maximizing Sexual Intimacy During the Three Most Challenging Phases of Marriage with Christian Sex Therapist Pioneers, Dr. Clifford and Joyce Penner Conflict Resolution, Infidelity, and Infertility with Licensed Psychologist and Certified Sex Therapist, Dr. Jessica McCleese Hormones and Body Image with Certified Sex Therapist, Vickie George Passion Pursuit with Dr. Juli Slattery Female Orgasm with Sue Goldstein Erectile Dysfunction, Premature Ejaculation, and Treatments Available with Dr. Irwin Goldstein Turn Ons, Turn Offs, and Savoring Sex in Marriage with Dr. Jennifer Konzen Desire Discrepancy in Marriage with Dr. Michael Sytsma Answering Listener's Questions About Sex with Kelli Willard Anatomy of an Affair with Dave Carder Supernatural Restoration Story with Bob and Audrey Meisner Healthy Minds, Marriages, and Sex Lives with Drs. Scott and Melissa Symington Female Pornography Addiction and Meaningful Recovery with Crystal Renaud Day Building Lasting Relationships with Clarence and Brenda Shuler Healthy Ways for Females to Increase Sexual Enjoyment with Tracey LeGrand Pornography Healing for Spouses with Geremy Keeton Sexual Sin Recovery for You and Your Spouse (Part Two) Personal Development and Sexual Wholeness with Dr. Sibylle Georgianna Our Brain's Role in Sexual Intimacy with Angie Landry Discovering God's Design for Romance with Sharon Jaynes Sex in Marriage and Its Positive Effects with Francie Winslow, Part 1 Science and Art of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage, Part 2 Making Love in Marriage with Debra Fileta Mutually Pleasing Sex in Marriage with Gary Thomas Sex Series: God's Design and Warnings for Sex: An Interview with Mike Novotny Sex Series: Enhancing Female Pleasure and Enjoyment of Sex: An Interview with Dr. Jennifer Degler Sex Series Orgasmic Potential, Pleasure, and Friendship: An Interview with Bonny Burns Sex Series: Sex Series: Healthy Self, Healthy Sex: An Interview with Gaye Christmus Sex Series: Higher Sexual Desire Wife: An Interview with J Parker Sex Series: Six Pillars of Intimacy with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo 215 Enriching Women's Sexual Function, Part One with Dr. Kris Christiansen 216 Enriching Women's Sexual Function, Part Two with Dr. Kris Christiansen 217 Tween/Teen Females: How to Navigate Changes during Puberty with Dr. Jennifer Degler 218 Secrets of Sex and Marriage: Interview with Dr. Michael Sytsma Connect with The Savvy Sauce on Facebook or Instagram or Our Website Please help us out by sharing this episode with a friend, leaving a 5-star rating and review, and subscribing to this podcast! Gospel Scripture: (all NIV) Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,” Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.” Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.” Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.” Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.” John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.” Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.” Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.” Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“ Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“ Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”
As always, I’m taking time off during the summer. This year, though, we’re trying something new! We’re sharing the audio of previous live Q&As that I did on YouTube. If you only listen to the podcast, this will be all new to you! We’ll be back with our regular format mid-August. This episode includes my […] The post 462: Advice for Spouses & Family, Mobility Challenges & Elderly Parents, Decluttering Sentimental Family History Items appeared first on Dana K. White: A Slob Comes Clean.