Kall It Like It Is

Unfortunately like many, we try to impress others. Impress the opposite sex, by showing them another version of us that momentarily exists. Many of us step into relationships and switch up. So why the sudden change when it comes to specific people in your life, and why the sudden change to want to feel love? Let's dive into this topic and how to keep it

We all have things that come up, that automatically trigger us. Why not talk about some triggers that are more common and how to deal with them. I share my triggers in this episode and how I deal with it! So what's your trigger? Let's dive into this topic! Let's be friends

Chances, oh how we would all love to give them out like candy! Unfortunately it doesn't work that way! Chances are something that so many people face when in a relationship of any kind. So how many chances are you giving before you're saying ENOUGH IS ENOUGH and walk away. Todays episode we dive into this topic a bit more! Let's be friends

If you're just starting off with someone new, and they start off strong but then you catch them in a lie, or white lie, will it bother you? Or make you see red. Red flags are never easy to navigate especially when some white lies are so minuscule. I'll get into my own personal experience and things I've noticed with my fair share of interactions with some liars in my day! Tune in for this red flag!

How does it feel if the person you're talking to is still in communication with their ex? Does it rise any question or is it a deal breaker? Do you see red and proceed with this person or take a step back to re-evaluate the situation? Today we get into this red flag. Let's be friends

Okay, okay we all have seen red flags and we're getting into one today! Specifically if someone has NEVER been in a long term relationship! I'm talking about if their last "serious" relationship was High school or freshman year of college. Does that bring a red flag to your eyes? Or do you bypass that piece of information? Let's talk about it on this episode! Let's be friends

Two episodes ago, I addressed when your best friend and your partner are too close, but what happens when they can't get along for the life of you! Ever been caught up in the middle of such a dilemma? Does that relationship or friendship survive? Can it ultimately work out between you guys? I discuss this topic deeper and discuss what can be done during such a hard uncomfortable situation. Let's be friends

The good old forgive and forget. We should all do be able to do that right? WRONG. In this episode I dive into forgiveness and why we forgive others and ourselves. So, what happens if you can't forgive? Well this is the part of the episode where I speak about being indifferent. Let's dive in and figure out how to navigate forgiveness and being indifferent. Let's be friends

So we've talked about relationships with your significant other, and relationships between friends, but now join us as we dive into the relationship between your significant other and your best friend. What does that look like? How do you navigate it? What is appropriate? And what makes red flags fly? How close is too close for comfort, and what behaviors are acceptable? This may look different for every scenario, but I think there are some non-negotiattbles in this particular relationship. Let's see if we agree…

Ever wonder what it's really like being a flight attendant? Well get to know a bit in the life of one in todays episode with my guest Naomi. She's been around the block a few times to share her experiences. Get the ins and outs on what to stay away from when flying too! Join on us o this topic when we talk things flights! ✈️ Let's be friends

Let's dive into surviving a heart break, and how to move forward. We all know it's not the easiest task to take on, but once we're healed we're unstoppable! So what steps can we take to heal ourselves? Or do we actually need that closure to try and move on. Let's be friends

We all have fallen a victim of being in a relationship where you can't express yourself. A safe space in regards to communication is very important if you want the relationship to grow. So how do we create a safe space for our partners and for ourselves? In this episode we get right in this topic here and how it came about. Let's be friends

Ladies, let's not devalue ourselves or get too comfortable. We do things at the best of our abilities, and no one can say different. So, this rant is for us on this episode on why sometimes we devalue ourselves or allow people to think they can come incorrect just because we're "comfortable" when you know damn well you're not. Let's be friends

If your partner asks you to share your location, regardless of what you ultimately decide on, it's about respecting their feelings and listening to the reason behind the request. Sometimes limits get pushed, but are you pushing it? Sharing location is a debatable topic, so let's dive in. Let's be friends

We've all been there, we're in a relationship and all of a sudden things are different or are shifting in a different direction. I know we neglect them, or really just don't see the signs that you're relationship is ending. So, what happens when things are obvious and no longer tolerable? Let's get into this topic, as I share my own experience with signs I saw before my any of my relationships ended. Let's be friends

We've all been there, a relationship ends and we find ourselves crawling into the next persons open arms. Immediately this person feels stronger, safer, and possibly the real thing…finally. But you know damn well, even if you don't want to admit it, you're rebounding. If you're aware you're doing it, it can be a good way to move on. But if you're blinded by your past, you have no business catching feelings for the rebound. Or worse than that, what if you find yourself in a relationship and it dawns on you, is it you? Are you the rebound? Let's be friends

Ladies this one is on us, why are we making excuses and lies for men who don't want to see us after the first date of fifth date? The amounts of excuses are endless and the little white lies we tell one another is even worse. Let's get into this topic because, it really needs to be addressed. I'll discuss some examples that we as women hear from one another when in reality "He's just not that into you". Hold on because, this one is a little bumpy. Let's be friends

Let's get away and see some sh*t! But wait, things are looking pricey though. Let me help you, look for things that could possibly help you catch a deal to that place on your bucket list! I'm no expert but I sure as hell LOVE to travel as much as I can so here are my little tips and tricks when traveling or booking a flight! Let's be friends: ✨Instagram: @Podcast_KILII ✨Youtube:Youtube Channel Dreamland Audio for artist credit Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/atm/dream-land --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kallitlikeitis/support

Have you've ever met someone and things are going great, then they tell you they've got a fetish or kink that they really love exploring and it's a part of their arousal? What did you do next? How did you make it a safe place for your partner to speak their truth? Or if it was you, how did you bring it up? Let's dive in and explore the ins and outs of navigating your desires and bringing them into a relationship. Let's be friends

So you've met a nice guy or a nice girl who actually cares and is sweet all the time? What not to love!! Let me guess, theres just “one thing” that you don't like. I'm sure many have been in this scenario in not giving this nice guy or the nice girl a chance, but I'm sure a nice bad boy with an ego will definitely add a touch of harm to your emotions. Let's dive in as to why nice guys and nice girls finish last and why we end up choosing these god forsaken “bad boys." Let's be friends ✨Instagram: @Podcast_KILII ✨Youtube: Youtube Channel Disclaimer: Dreamland Audio for artist credit Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/atm/dream-land --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kallitlikeitis/support

Have you ever just caught a glimpse of someone and stopped dead in your tracks? Your heart starts racing, you start picturing your life together and swear you've fallen in love, when in reality you don't even know their first name. Is it really possible to love someone upon first sight? Or are you just lusting after them? Because it wasn't their winning personality that won you over, it was just a simple glimpse. This isn't reality TV, no one is falling in love based on high cheek bones and a nice body…so let's Kall it like it is. Let's be friends

Are you caught in a cycle of promising yourself “this is the last time”? Then something happens and you find yourself back in bed with the person you swore you were finished with. You start justifying it by saying you're falling for them (even though you're not) or they are there when you need them (even though they aren't)… in ACTUALITY you're just addicted to the feeling sex provides along with the anatomy attached. Well I hate to break it to you, it's not love. Let's dive in to season 2 of Kall it Like it is and talk about why you're hung up. Lets be friends

Or can you? With anything, people have to WANT to change. But what about those who just want to have fun until they find the person they want to fully commit to? Can “getting it out of your system” actually make you a better partner later? And lastly, why is it that men celebrate each other during this phase and women seem to be deemed “unmarriable” for doing the same thing? Join us as we debate the ho phase and answer the hard questions. Lets be friends

Are you constantly trying to be in your partners space, OR are you showing that you're paying attention to detail? We all love having our partners around and love being attentive to them, but lets kall it like it is, we all want that small amount of space to have your own time. They say being attentive and clingy are two different things. So, what are some signs that maybe being attentive is just straight clingy. Lets dive into the signs of what's actually a healthy level of affection and attention opposed to the unhealthy signs of a stage 5 clinger. Let's be friends

We were all taught in order to be respected to not give it up too soon. Third date rule, am I right? But do we actually abide by it? And does it make a difference? On the other hand, some people believe if you're not sexually compatible, the relationship won't last anyway, so why put off the inevitable? In todays episode we answer the age old question of when it's okay to have sex with a new partner for the first time. Lets be friends

So what does it mean? There's a popular belief that if your significant other isn't posting you on social media, they are hiding you. But is that always the case? Social media seems to dictate a lot of our lives, but not everyone feels the need to live in the public eye. Let's chat. Lets be friends

But she's certainly not messing with any broke men since she got herself a sugar daddy! Today my guest Paula and I dive into the world of sugar babies and their daddy's. Not only is it women doing it, but so do men! Does this situation benefit everyone? Is it possible to just collect a paycheck without getting attached? What are the boundaries? And most importantly, what are the allowances? Join us as we get into this F*CK yeah or F*CK off episode. Lets be friends

I'm sure everyone at some point in their life has found themselves single either by choice or not. Whether you're set in your ways or willing to change, I'm sure when you truly sit and think about it, it becomes glaring why you or someone you know is single, and it's not because you're “too perfect.” So if you're single, put your hands up, this one's for you. I'm willing to disclose all of the harsh truths and Kall it Like it Is! Lets be friends

Do you ever find yourself caught up in the world of boomerangs, reels, perfectly applied makeup, gym flexes, and feel overwhelmed? Well, you're not the only one! Social Media apps were created to bring people together and connect, and for the most part they do—but filters and highlight reels can really play tricks on your mental health. I'm here to say F*CK THAT —show up, be yourself and don't let social media dictate your happiness! Lets be friends

“You up?” the infamous line sent by a f*ck boy, because of course he waited until last minute to send a text during bewitching hours trying to get in those jeans! But don't pretend men are the only culprits—f*ck girls have their own plots and ploys to satisfy their needs. This episode we aren't just talking about f*ck boys, but the infamous f*ck girls, because they are sneaky to catch. Don't worry, we also cover the main attraction and the real MVPs here— our true gentleman and nice guys, who I hope aren't finishing last in todays toxic ass world! Let's be friends

Smooth talkin', so rockin', he's got everything that a girls wantin', he calls me cutie, when he's lyin to me, telling me I'm always doing something stupid. That's the tune of the narcissist—makes you feel on top of the world, then takes every opportunity to tear you down and make sure you feel as if they are doing you a favor by being your partner. I'm here to tell you, YOU are not the problem, their narcissism is. Let's Be Friends

Get in loser, we're podcasting! It's October 3rd and you know what that means—we're dishing all the secrets the plastics won't tell you about friendship, like butter is totally a carb and traveling with your bestie isn't always totally fetch. And ugh, jealousy in a friendship? You can't help it that you're popular, but that doesn't mean it's a good friendship trait. So tune in today for all the answers you've been dying to know about friendships, it's like we have ESPN. And if you don't—whatever, I'm getting cheese fries. Let's Be Friends

On today's episode we debate—is it possible to stay friends with an ex? I bet someone popped into your head just now, right? Simply mentioning the word “ex” makes you reminisce and is bound to drudge up feelings. So does it make you miss them? Or miss the way they made you feel? Do you find yourself comparing? I'm sure there are plenty of good memories—but lets pop that f*cking bubble because I'm going to Kall it like it is on situations where people are “just friends” with an ex. Is it possible to stay platonic with an ex? Does it bring issues into your life/moving on/new relationship? And most of all, is it possible? Is this a F*CK yeah or a F*CK off situation for you? Let's Be Friends

When faced with an ultimatum, how will you decide? Do you let an ultimatum dictate your life or do you free yourself of the situation entirely? No matter what you choose, it's clear no one wins in an ultimatum. Tune in to this weeks episode, or don't…your choice, we don't do ultimatums around here. Let's Be Friends

Kalling all swingers! LOL Jk but let's talk about it! How are open marriages and relationships operating? What's the modern day twist to these old school ways? along with divulging in the mindsets from individuals who are ok with this type of situation. So tell me, Is it a F*CK yeah or F*CK off for you? Let's be friends

Where perspectives and thoughts are put out on the line. I leak my opinion if an FWB is worth it or not, so which way do you lean towards? Are you telling your FWB F*CK yeah or F*CK off?! Let's be friends

So who the hell am I? You'll find out soon

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