Podcasts about talk sex

Send us a textTalking about kink doesn't have to be awkward — in fact, when you do it right, the conversation itself becomes part of the turn-on.In today's episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we're breaking down how to explore kink with a partner in a way that feels safe, connected, and genuinely exciting… long before anything physical happens.I'm joined by Lisa Opel, pleasure coach at Joy Club, author, educator, and speaker who teaches people around the world how to navigate desire, boundaries, and curiosity with confidence. Together, we're diving into why negotiation is one of the most misunderstood parts of kink, and how it can actually build trust, intimacy, and erotic tension.You'll learn: • How to talk about new desires without making things uncomfortable • What to say when you're nervous to bring something up • How to explore fantasies in a judgment-free way • Why negotiation can become its own form of foreplay • Tools for building trust, safety, and connection before you try something new • How to start small, communicate clearly, and create a deeper, more playful dynamicWhether you're a beginner exploring kink for the first time or you've been curious for years, this episode gives you the exact language, mindset, and steps to talk about your desires in a way that brings you closer — not farther apart.Find out more about Lisa at: Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Experience the Pheromone Advantage at 15% off  with my code LRT15Use code LRT15  at Eyeoflove.com And you'll get 15% off pheromone powered perfumes, colognes, and more. Check out my Diaries on OF. Enjoy exclusive access to intimacy video how-tos, guided self-pleasure meditations, and more!https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textMost people think climax is one quick moment — but her body is capable of so much more. Rolling orgasms are deeper, longer waves of pleasure, and once she learns this rhythm, intimacy changes for both of you.In this episode, I break down how to help her stay in sensation longer, understand her arousal curve, and use the Kiiroo Pearl 3 to build the rhythm that allows rolling orgasms to unfold naturally. This is a skill anyone can practice, solo or partnered, and it can reignite desire and make intimacy feel easier, hotter, and more connected again.You'll learn: • what rolling orgasms are • how to build her arousal rhythm • how breath, depth, and movement shape the experience • how she can carry this into partnered intimacyIf you want more intimacy tips, hit Like and Subscribe.

Send us a textIn this episode, we're breaking down exhibitionism — why being watched can feel exciting, how to tell if it's your kink, and simple ways to explore it without making things awkward.I'm joined by Laura Desiree, creative director of Sanctum and a powerful voice in performance and desire. We cover:✨ What exhibitionism really is ✨ Why being seen can amplify pleasure ✨ Signs it might be your kink ✨ How to try it safely (solo or partnered) ✨ Tips for beginners, from mirror work to first-time eventsIf you've ever been curious about being watched—or just want to understand the psychology behind it—this is your Exhibitionism 101.

Send us a textWant to be the best she's ever had… without needing a big anything? You're not alone. Most men secretly worry about size, performance, or whether they measure up to her past partners. But here's the truth:What makes sex unforgettable has nothing to do with what you were born with — and everything to do with what you do with it.In today's episode, I'm breaking down the real skills that make you her top-tier experience: ✔ rhythm ✔ pressure ✔ body reading ✔ psychological arousal ✔ confidence without ego ✔ and the technique every woman wishes more men knewIf you want deeper connection, better feedback, more confidence, and sex that she remembers… this is the episode to watch.Don't forget to subscribe for more how-to episodes every Monday.

Today, we're diving into a concept highlighted in a recent "Let's Talk Sex" podcast episode: the profound journey "From Match to Manipulation." This phrase captures the often-insidious progression from a state of fairness or genuine connection to one of unfair influence, deception, and control. Understanding this transition is more crucial than ever, as manipulation permeates our personal lives, global politics, and increasingly, our digital interactions.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lets-talk-sex--5052038/support.

Send us a textWhy are boyfriends suddenly embarrassing? A recent piece by Vogue titled “Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?” sparked a global reaction, pointing out that some women are now hesitant to post their partners, claim relationships publicly, or even say “boyfriend” without flinching. In this episode, I chat with sex + relationship coach Sienna Sinclair about what's really behind this trend. We explore:Why boyfriends may feel like a “brand risk” nowThe emotional labour and identity loss behind the trendWhat it says about visibility, desire & modern relationship expectationsHow to know if your hesitation is a red flag — or a signal for changeAnd how real baddies post about their menIf you've ever thought “Why do I feel weird saying ‘boyfriend' out loud?”, or you're a guy wondering why you haven't made her Gram — this episode is your answer.

Brian celebrates his first successful afternoon on the apps in six weeks, applying a lesson from a recent episode and proving a point he's made in others. Judson shares recommendations for Anthony Amiewalan's novel Eddie & Alan, Michael Finkel's biography of Stéphane Breitwieser, The Art Thief, Kaveh Akbar's novel, Martyr!, and Nicholas Colia's film, Griffin in Summer. Both hosts are tickled by the Hookup of the Week, which describes a listener's decision to throw himself a birthday party to reclaim the sexual awakening that homophobia denied him as a teenager. Then, Brian and Judson are joined by partners in life and work, James Nguyen and AC Gottlieb, costume designers currently represented on stage by Chappell Roan in her Visions of Damsels and Other Dangerous Things tour and by Messy White Gays off-Broadway. James and AC chat with the hosts about the origin of their relationship and their evolution to openness, making and maintaining queer friendships–including navigating boundaries around sex with friends, entering into couples therapy, and their past dalliances with throuple-dom. The pair also discuss finding independence within a codependent relationship, how much we let dating apps inform our feelings about ourselves, the pursuit of their professional dreams, and how they came to design for Chappell Roan. Finally, James and AC help Brian and Judson respond to a Go Ask Your Dad question submitted by a listener who has concerns about hosting hookups at home. Find James and AC online at https://www.jamesandac.com Find James on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/itsjamesnguyen/ Find AC on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/alexand3rcole/ Email your Hookup of the Week and Go Ask Your Dad submissions to dadsanddaddies@gmail.com Dads and Daddies on the Web: https://www.dadsanddaddies.com/ Dads and Daddies on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadsanddaddiespod Dads and Daddies on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dadsanddaddiespod Dads and Daddies on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/dadsanddaddiespod.bsky.social Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Send us a textOn today's episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm answering one of the most common questions I get from men:“How do I get my partner to want intimacy again — not out of obligation, but because she actually desires me?”The truth is this: Most women don't open from direct sexual touch. They open from nervous system activation, emotional attunement, and how your hands move across their body before anything intimate happens.This episode gives you the exact four-minute blueprint for how to touch a woman so her body softens, melts, and naturally opens to deeper intimacy.You'll learn: • Why women disconnect when touched too quickly • The 3 zones that unlock feminine desire • The 4-minute sequence that warms her open • What to say to deepen trust and connection • How safety and presence create arousalThis method is for the men who are tired of feeling rejected… for the couples who miss the electricity they once had… and for anyone who wants deeper intimacy that doesn't feel forced.

Send us a textGrindr isn't just a hookup app—it's where identity, secrecy, and desire collide. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Zach Zane, author of Boyslut and the official Sex & Relationship Expert for Grindr, to talk about what's really happening on the world's most infamous app.We're diving into the truth about discreet profiles, married and “straight” men exploring in secret, and how Grindr has evolved from quick meetups to a space where love, power, and vulnerability all play out in real time.Zach also shares what bisexuality looks like inside gay spaces, how cruising culture started, and the surprising ways queer men are using Grindr to find connection, community, and even long-term partners.If you've ever wondered who's actually on the grid—and what it reveals about men, shame, and modern desire—this one's for you.Find Out More About Zach Here: https://www.zacharyzane.com/

Brian and Judson celebrate the victory of mayor-elect Zohran Mamdani and the fact that friend-of-the-podcast Brandon Kyle Goodman has extended their run in HEAUX CHURCH off-Broadway at Ars Nova through November 21. Brian raves about the Broadway play Liberation by Bess Wohl. Judson's trick is a treat on Halloween. Brian prepares for a sex party by listening back to his own advice on a previous episode and discovers he may, in fact, be vers. After listening to the Hookup of the Week, the two wax nostalgic for their younger years, hooking up in bars. ​They are then joined by comedian, writer, and actor Jay Jurden, whose debut television special, “Yes, Ma'am,” is now streaming on Hulu. Jay discusses the journey to getting “Yes, Ma'am” on screen, why it was important for the special to be so sex-positive, the necessity of stand-up for marginalized audiences, the new hour he is taking on his “Nothing Special" tour, his 14-year relationship with his now husband, identifying as bisexual, his former career as a personal trainer, his possible future on Broadway, and his deep, queer connection to Marvel's X-Men. ​To cap off the episode, Jay helps Brian and Judson respond to a Go Ask Your Dad question from a listener who is hurt after his partner declines his request for sex, only to go and have a repeat hookup with someone else. Find Jay Jurden on all social media platforms at @jayjurden and stream his debut special, “Yes, Ma'am” on Hulu now. Email your Hookup of the Week and Go Ask Your Dad submissions to dadsanddaddies@gmail.com Dads and Daddies on the Web: https://www.dadsanddaddies.com/ Dads and Daddies on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadsanddaddiespod Dads and Daddies on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dadsanddaddiespod Dads and Daddies on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/dadsanddaddiespod.bsky.social Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Send us a textYou know that moment when you think she's into you… but you're not sure? Or maybe you've been with your partner for years and you're wondering—does she still want me like that?In this episode, I'm breaking down the three subtle, science-backed signs that show when attraction is real—and exactly how to respond when you see them.This isn't pick-up artist nonsense. It's real neuroscience, psychology, and connection. Because desire doesn't always use words—it shows up in breath, body language, and timing. When you know how to read those cues, you can stop guessing and start creating the kind of connection that leads to real, lasting intimacy.You'll learn: 

Send us a textYou want to bring toys into the bedroom… but every time you try, it feels awkward, forced, or like it kills the vibe. So the toys go back in the drawer and you go back to “just us” — even if “just us” has started to feel a little routine.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm joined by Kate Cova (In Bed With Kate) — sex educator, product developer, and one of the most trusted voices in the pleasure product world. Together, we break down exactly how to use sex toys without making it weird, and how to turn them into foreplay that actually brings you closer.Whether your partner is hesitant, you're scared of making it awkward, or you're just tired of guessing what goes where, this episode gives you the language, the mindset, and the toy ideas to start tonight.

Send us a textNot all orgasms are created equally. There's a world of difference between a quick release… and the kind of deep, full-body orgasm that makes her melt into you. And here's the kicker: it's not about going harder or faster.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm breaking down how to create deeper, more connected pleasure through rhythm, pressure, and body awareness. We'll cover what most people get wrong when they try to “go deep,” the science of how the body responds during arousal, and step-by-step techniques to help your partner experience more intense, unforgettable pleasure.This is part two of last week's episode on how to read her body—but this time, we're going deeper. Literally.✨ What you'll learn: • Why “harder” isn't the answer • The science behind deeper sensation and vaginal tenting • How to use rhythm and angle to your advantage • How to read her body for real-time feedback • The one mistake that kills deeper pleasure—every time

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Send us a textMost people talk about threesomes like they're either a wild fantasy or a relationship wrecking ball. But here's the truth—when done right, a threesome can deepen intimacy, build trust, and light your desire on fire.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm joined by Ally Iseman—ICF-certified relationship coach, kink-aware educator, and founder of Passport 2 Pleasure. Ally's work has been featured in The New York Times, and she specializes in helping couples explore their desires without losing their connection in the process.Together, we're breaking down how to go from fantasy to follow-through—without the jealousy, awkwardness, or aftermath you've heard horror stories about.We'll cover: 

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Send us a textSubmission isn't weakness. It's power offered—not power lost.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we're pulling back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood dynamics in kink: how to top as a submissive.This isn't about topping from the bottom. It's about guiding the scene with your breath, movement, and energy — without ever taking control away from your Dominant.We'll explore: 

Early on, Annette Benedetti learned that it's normal for women not to have orgasms during sex. And then, for years into adulthood, she didn't. After a marriage and raising a daughter, she felt disconnected from her sensual self. Spicy exploration and a tipsy, New Year's Eve proclamation led her to a vow that would change her life – and her pleasure experiences – for good. Check out her coaching offerings and her podcast, Talk Sex with Annette: https://talksexwithannette.com/ Sign up for August's email list for occasional updates: https://substack.com/@augustmclaughlin IG: @GirlBonerMedia   FB: @MyGirlBoner  TT:: @augustmclaughlin.gb  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys: https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.  

Send us a textWhat if locking it up could actually unlock better sex?Welcome to Locktober 2025, the orgasm control challenge that's helping men become more attentive, connected, and seriously better lovers. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm joined by Lilith Fox — a queer, BIPOC, neurodivergent, kinky, and polyamorous Board-Certified Sexologist and Certified Sexuality Educator who actually practices chastity play with her partner.Together, we're breaking down: 

Send us a textWhat if the hottest thing you could do for your partner… was not come?Welcome to Talk Sex with Annette, where we're diving into one of the most misunderstood—and surprisingly intimate—kinks out there: male chastity. Whether you've seen the cages popping up all over your feed this “Locktober,” or you're just curious what all the denial hype is about, this episode breaks down how to try chastity play without freaking out, fumbling it, or killing the mood.You'll learn: 

This month only! Dr. Cheryl is teaching some FREE relationship workshops! Sign up NOW for one of her Passion Masterclasses—choose the time that works best for you. You'll also hear about the 12-week Become Passion program—it kicks off in October. Doors are now open! You can check it out and join the program HERE  “Why does lust fade in long-term relationships?” “How do happy couples keep their sex life alive after years together?” “Is it normal to lose desire for my partner over time?” “What's the best way to bring back passion after kids or menopause?” Turns out bunny-rabbit lust has an expiration date—but on Sex, Love and Elephants, Dr. Cheryl makes it clear your sex life doesn't have to expire with it. In this candid and funny re-release, she and her sweetheart dive deep into intimacy, desire, and what really happens when sex shifts over time. From menopause to scheduled sex, from the biology of lust to the reality of long-term love, this conversation is both raw and reassuring. If you've ever wondered why you and your partner don't connect the way you used to—or if you've worried that something is “wrong” because you're not in the mood 24/7—this episode is your permission slip to drop the fairy tales and start focusing on what actually builds passion that lasts. Cheryl and her husband share their own story, including struggles, dry spells, and what it really takes to keep desire alive. Spoiler: no couple is “broken” just because spontaneous lust fades. The ones who thrive are the ones who adapt, laugh, and keep choosing each other—in and out of the bedroom. Want to know more about my program? Check out the Become Passion testimonials for reviews from actual couples that I've helped through this profound program. In This Episode, You'll Learn: (05:57) Why lust is always temporary—and why that's not a bad thing (15:38) How menopause can shake up your sex life, and what to do about it (21:09) Why long-term couples often experience low desire—and why you're not “broken” if you do (29:36) The biology behind fading lust and how to work with it, not against it (39:19) Today's LoveByte: Schedule sex. Don't tell me it's not romantic to schedule sex. I'll tell you what's not romantic: never having sex. Wherever you are, we begin where you are, bring sensuality back. Snuggle your sweetheart today and make your erotic life a priority again.  Want to learn more about Buddhism and relationships? Cheryl's book Buddha's Bedroom is a great resource!  Let's Connect!   Follow @DrCherylFraser on Instagram Website - Sign up for Weekly LoveBytes here  Youtube

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Send us a textPremature ejaculation is the most common sexual struggle men face—yet almost no one is talking about it honestly.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Jeff Bennett, CEO of Morari, to unpack what really causes PE and explore the many solutions men can try. From lifestyle shifts and breathwork to cutting-edge sexual health tech, we dig into how you can last longer, reduce performance anxiety, and actually enjoy sex without the pressure.Because let's be real: PE isn't just about control—it's about confidence, connection, and pleasure for both partners.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why premature ejaculation is so common (and nothing to be ashamed of)The science behind PE: mind, body, and nervous systemSimple strategies you can try tonight to last longerEmerging solutions that combine technology and pleasureHow lasting longer changes not just sex, but your relationshipCheck out Mor and/or Join the research www.yourmor.com Use Code Annette25 for 25% offYou can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textWe're told some things in the bedroom are off limits — too risky, too taboo. But the truth? Those “forbidden” moves might be the key to more trust, more intimacy, and more unforgettable connection.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm sharing 7 forbidden-ish intimacy moves that surprise, excite, and actually bring you closer. From consent contracts to mirror play to controlled pauses, these science-backed techniques turn taboo into trust.This is also your Kinktober primer

Send us a textEver feel like you and your partner just aren't speaking the same sexual language? You're not “broken,” you might just be mismatched. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Nicholas Velotta, Head of Relationship Research at Arya and PhD researcher at the University of Washington, to unpack the Erotic Persona Framework—the 4 sexual archetypes that explain why routine sex fizzles, why desire misfires, and how to finally sync with your partner.We cover:

Doc and Angus review the Eisner and Harvey award winning 'Sex Criminals' by Matt Fraction and Chip Zdarsky! The climax of our Image Comics Month celebration in May!Sex Criminals: Complete Editionhttps://www.amazon.com/Sex-Criminals-Complete-Matt-Fraction-ebook/dp/B0CW1KSZ3V/Leave a message at kirbyskidspodcast@gmail.comJoin the Community Discussions ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://mewe.com/join/kirbyskids  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Please join us for our 2025 Graphic Novel Reads⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.kirbyskids.com/2024/11/kirbys-kids-giving-thanks-2025-graphic.html⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠For detailed show notes and past episodes please visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.kirbyskids.com

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On today’s episode of The Rickey Smiley Morning Show Podcast, the crew tackled breaking news, Hollywood rumors, real-talk about intimacy, and major updates in the Charlie Kirk shooting case. The RSMS crew digs into a string of terroristic threats that forced lockdowns and class cancellations at multiple historically Black colleges and universities (HBCUs) across the U.S. Institutions such as Alabama State, Hampton, Virginia State, Southern, Bethune-Cookman, Spelman, Clark Atlanta, and Morehouse were affected. Although no credible threat has been confirmed, the timing—shortly after Charlie Kirk’s shooting—has many students and administrators on edge, with heightened security in place. Rickey and the crew sat down with a sex and intimacy therapist, who broke down how open communication, honesty, and vulnerability can deepen relationships and help couples keep the spark alive. And during the last hour, the crew revealed that a suspect in the fatal shooting of conservative activist Charlie Kirk is now in custody. The suspect has been identified as 22-year-old Tyler Robinson of Utah, arrested after a tip from someone close to him, according to Utah law enforcement. Authorities say Robinson acted alone, and there are indications in messages and bullet engravings that the shooting was politically motivated. Website: https://www.urban1podcasts.com/rickey-smiley-morning-show See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Send us a textFemDom doesn't have to be scary, it can be soft, playful, and insanely hot.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down 5 simple steps to Gentle FemDom, so you can explore dominance without latex, whips, or dungeon vibes. Because real FemDom is about confidence, not costumes. What you'll learn:The body language shift that makes you instantly more commandingHow to use your voice to turn requests into irresistible commandsSimple touch and rituals that make your partner crave your leadWhy praise and aftercare are the real secret weapons of dominanceIf you've been curious about FemDom or just want to shake up your sex life, this episode gives you the tools to lead with confidence—and make your partner melt.You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textWant to last longer in bed—without numbing creams, pills, or awkward distractions? You've been told to count backwards, think about baseball, or change positions… but none of that actually works. And worse? It disconnects you from your partner.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'll show you 3 science-backed moves you can use tonight to control your arousal, boost her orgasms, and turn ordinary sex into the kind she replays in her head for days.Here's what you'll learn:The truth about why you finish too fast (and how to retrain your nervous system)The Grind & Anchor: How slow circles can align with her clitoral network and keep you in controlThe Edge & Tease Reset: How to build anticipation while resetting your arousalThe Root Lock Pulse: A pelvic floor hack that intensifies her orgasm while giving you staminaNo gimmicks. No distractions. Just moves that make you unforgettable in her bed and her brain.By the end of this episode, you'll know exactly how to last longer, keep your erection strong, and give her orgasms that feel deeper and more intense.You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textQuickies don't have to be rushed, sloppy, or forgettable. In fact, when you know what to do, a 10-minute quickie can be hotter, more intense, and more memorable than an all-night session.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm breaking down the science of why urgency and anticipation heighten arousal, the mistakes most people make that ruin quickies, and the exact step-by-step moves that will make any quickie feel like the best sex of her life.You'll learn: ✅ The brain chemistry that makes quickies so powerful (dopamine, adrenaline, and oxytocin) ✅ The biggest quickie mistakes that kill desire instantly ✅ How to prime her body and mind so she's ready fast — without rushing or skipping arousal ✅ The best quickie-friendly positions for maximum sensation in minimum time ✅ How to stack sensations to make 10 minutes feel like 60 ✅ Why the afterglow is the secret to making her crave the next oneWhether you're short on time or just want to inject more passion into your relationship, this episode will give you the tools to make quickies unforgettable.Watch what to do after sex to make her crave the next time: https://youtu.be/_fWyLBt3xJoYou can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textBefore you even touch her, you can have her thinking about you, craving you, and pulling you closer. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I reveal the exact blueprint for what to do hours before sex so she's already turned on and fully invested when you get to the bedroom.✅ The psychology & science of building anticipation ✅ Step-by-step moves that work without crossing her boundaries ✅ Common mistakes men make that kill her desire instantlyWhether you've been together for years or you're just starting to date, these tips will change the way she experiences you — and the way she remembers your time together.⏩ Watch next: What to Do After Sex to Make Her Crave You → https://youtu.be/_fWyLBt3xJoYou can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textIn this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we're diving into the surprising ways sex toys are revolutionizing sexual health—and why more medical professionals are finally taking pleasure seriously.You'll learn:Why vibrators are being recommended by doctors and therapistsThe science behind using pleasure tools to treat conditions like pelvic pain, low libido, and arousal disordersHow integrating toys into your health routine can improve intimacy, confidence, and connectionWhat to look for in a “therapeutic” toy—and where to startWhether you're navigating postpartum sex, menopause, erectile dysfunction, or just want better orgasms—this episode is packed with insight, guidance, and the kind of real talk your doctor should be having.You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

หนังสือ Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life ของ Vanessa Marin with Xander Marin - การคุยเรื่องเซ็กซ์จำเป็นแค่ไหน แล้วเราควรจะคุยกับคนรักของเราไหม - เมื่อปัญหาใหญ่ที่สุดที่คู่รักส่วนใหญ่เจอก็คือ การเชื่อมต่อเรื่องบนเตียงกันไม่ได้ - วิธีแก้ไขนั้นไม่ยาก แค่สนทนาเรื่องเซ็กซ์เท่านั้นเอง เช่น ชอบแบบไหน รู้สึกอย่างไร คิดเห็นอย่างไรบ้าง - จุดเล็ก ๆ เป็นสิ่งที่ไม่ควรมองข้ามอย่างเด็ดขาด มันคือจุดที่จะลุกลามไปไกลได้ถ้าไม่รู้จักป้องกัน - การแต่งงานเป็นจุดเริ่มต้น อย่าเพิ่งคาดหวังว่าหลังแต่งจะดีกว่าก่อนแต่ง มันอยู่ที่การสนทนากันหลาย ๆ เรื่องก่อนแต่ง

There's a big difference between not wanting sex and not wanting sex with that person while you're drowning in life admin, kids, stress, and mental load. Let’s get one thing straight—low libido isn’t always about hormones, broken sex drives, or being “too tired.” Sometimes? You’re just not turned on by your life. In this spicy (but real) episode, we dive deep into the truth behind dwindling desire—because it’s not just about what’s not happening in the bedroom… but what’s overflowing outside of it. From the mental load and resentment no one wants to admit to the burnout of being everyone’s everything (except your own), we’re unpacking why so many women feel flat, disconnected, and totally meh about intimacy. Whether you’re in a relationship, dating, or navigating sex after babies—this episode will have you laughing, nodding, and possibly sending it straight to your partner with a few underlined time stamps. Follow us on Instagram @sherises.podcast Join us in our Facebook forum

Growing up in a Latino household, real conversations about sex often felt one-sided—or didn’t happen at all. In this special episode, Dramos opens up about how that silence made it harder to talk openly with friends and partners about sex, intimacy, and boundaries. He explores the fears and cultural pressures that make these talks intimidating, from worries about inexperience to the weight of tradition. Dramos also shares why learning to be vulnerable with peers and partners is so important for sexual health and building real trust. From navigating dating and safe sex to getting tested regularly, this episode breaks down why these “hard conversations” matter—and how having them can help protect yourself and others, emotionally and physically. This episode is brought to you by Healthysexual from Gilead Sciences.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Send us a textIs body shame secretly killing your sex life? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we're diving into one of the biggest (and most overlooked) blockers of desire and orgasm—body image anxiety.If you're hiding under the covers, turning off the lights, or keeping your shirt on during sex… this episode is for you.You'll learn: 

Send us a textWhat happens when a woman truly owns her sexuality?The s*x gets better. The spark comes back. And trust us—he'll feel it too.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm joined by Dr. Bonnie Comfort—psychologist, author, and expert in helping women ditch sexual shame and step into real, raw pleasure. We're breaking down how to stop performing, start feeling, and completely transform your sex life—from the inside out.You'll learn:

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We're back for Part 2 — and this one's just as unfiltered, cheeky, and honest as the last. In this episode, we're unpacking even more of the questions you'd only ask your closest friends.

Send us a textYou've heard the whispers. Maybe even fantasized about it. But what actually happens behind closed doors at high-end sex parties?In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we're pulling back the velvet curtain with special guest Shannon Wong—a performer, kink educator, and fierce advocate for sex-positive, female-led spaces. From her roots as a SuicideGirl and burlesque dancer to curating experiences in the world of ethical non-monogamy, Shannon gives us the inside scoop on what really goes down at elite sex events—and how women are changing the game.We dive into: 

Send us a textYou think she wants you because of how good you were during sex?Think again.What you do after sex is what sets you apart—and makes her crave you all over again.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we're flipping the script and diving into what happens in the 5 minutes after you come. Because that window? It's not downtime—it's prime time.You'll learn:

Send us a textIs it true that girth matters more than length? Or is it all in your head… and maybe hers too? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we're pulling back the sheets on one of the most common questions men obsess over: Am I thick enough?Joining me is Dr. Amy Pearlman, board-certified urologist and sexual health expert, here to break down the science behind penile girth, sexual satisfaction, and why so many men tie their self-worth to size.We're covering: 

Send us a text Most men have no idea just how kinky their partner might secretly be. We've all heard the tired myths—“women aren't as into sex,” or “guys are the freaky ones.” But here's the truth: women are just as kinky, just as curious, and often have wild desires they're too afraid to say out loud. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm diving into 5 surprising, research-backed kinks that women love—yes, love—that will flip the script on what you think you know. These aren't your standard fare; we're talking primal urges, psychological turn-ons, and play that builds real emotional intensity. Whether you're a guy looking to understand what she's craving or a woman ready to explore more of your own erotic edge, this episode is your permission slip to go deeper, get bolder, and finally have the hot, honest conversations that turn bedroom blah into

You're in my Hotlines today, and Producer Erica and I are taking your calls! Today's theme: conversations you need to have with your sex partners. First, how long should you wait to tell casual sex partners you're sleeping with other people? We're all up-leveling our communication skills, so I make the case for telling them immediately. Next, she's on ADD medication and likes a drink or two – is it negatively affecting her orgasm? Or should her partner have a deeper conversation with her about turn-ons? After that, we've got a young couple who just started having oral sex. She's sore afterwards -- is it a medical condition or underlying shame? Finally, she just discovered her partner watches porn… and the subjects don't look like her. How can she talk to him about it without judgment? Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily. Nobody does selling better than Shopify. Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/swe Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you'll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let's get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let's text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Chronic illness impacts every aspect of our lives, including the bedroom. In this refreshingly candid conversation, we break down the walls of shame and silence surrounding sexuality when living with chronic conditions.Ali returns from her mountain cabin retreat to share how her diagnosis completely changed her relationship with intimacy—once a proudly sexual person who even won a Thunder Down Under fake orgasm contest (with her mother cheering her on!), years of severe symptoms and medication side effects left her disinterested in physical connection. Only after prioritizing rest and health did she reconnect with that part of herself – a journey many Spoonies can relate to.The discussion expands into how religious upbringings compound these challenges. From Catholic households to Mormon traditions, many of us received messages of fear and shame rather than education about our bodies. Jen's mother joins the conversation, offering fascinating insights into Mormon temple practices, including special garments with symbolic markings and secret names women aren't allowed to speak. Her powerful story of liberation – shouting her temple name from a mountaintop – demonstrates how breaking free from restrictive beliefs can be part of our healing journey.Personal stories range from embarrassing (smuggling a vibrator through Middle Eastern customs) to deeply concerning (the lack of comprehensive sex education in today's schools). We examine how gender expectations shaped our understanding of roles within relationships and how breaking these generational patterns through open, honest conversations can create healthier foundations for our children.Whether you're struggling with reclaiming your sexuality through chronic illness or want to better understand how illness impacts intimacy, this episode offers validation, laughter, and a reminder that your experiences deserve to be acknowledged without shame. Join us for this profoundly human conversation about one of the most natural yet seldom-discussed aspects of the Spoonie experience.Send us a text Are you living with a chronic illness and want to make your voice heard? Rare Patient Voice connects patients and caregivers with research opportunities—so you can share your experiences and get paid for your time! Your insights help drive real change in healthcare.Let's Get Started - Rare Patient Voice

Are you and your partner sexually compatible? That's the theme of today's Hotline Calls show, as my Producer and I break down these couples' sex and relationship issues. First, when your partner isn't pleasuring you as much as you'd like, does that mean they aren't attracted? Or just nervous? Next, do you squirt during sex? It's a goal for many, but what if it's happening more than you'd like? How about sex drive discrepancy? When you've had more chemistry with past partners – and more sex – is your current partner not a fit? Or do you need to find a middle ground? Finally, what happens when your partner's got a kink that weirds you out? We don't yuck anyone's yum here, but one caller needs advice on navigating brother-sister role play. Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily. In today's episode, you'll learn: The surprising truth about sexual compatibility—and why mismatched libidos aren't the end of the road. Why squirting too much can actually be a turn-off (and how to control it if it's becoming an issue). The best way to respond when your partner's kink catches you off guard—without killing the mood. Show Notes: Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you'll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let's get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let's text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

On today's show, I'm answering more of your questions from the Sex with Emily hotline. Topics include: how to tell your partner you want more oral sex, what to do if you can't get over the sex you had with your toxic ex, how to explore your bisexuality without unnecessary drama, the best ways to avoid negative thought patterns while dating and how to explore mutual masturbation and edging with a partner.  Have a question of your own? You can call me anytime and leave a voicemail: 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739). In this episode, you'll learn: How to ask your partner for more oral sex and introduce fun tools like flavored lubes. Ways to break free from a toxic ex and open yourself to healthier relationships. Tips to explore mutual masturbation and edging for better intimacy. Show Notes: Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you'll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let's get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let's text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

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