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This week Elle and Vee chat with Annette Benedetti, badass sex educator, pleasure expert, and host of Talk Sex with Annette, known for her no-bullshit approach to sex, orgasms, and sexual health. They dive into her 365 Days of Pleasure experiment, daily masturbation, favorite sex toys, and why the intermittent setting actually exists on the Magic Wand (do people really use that?!). If you want the real talk on clitoral, G-spot, cervical, blended, rolling, A-spot, P-spot, and anal orgasms, don't miss this conversation.365 Days of Pleasure: taking the pressure off the orgasm and reframing pleasure from work to fun. (00:42)The Specifics: What it actually looks like to orgasm every day for a year. (07:51)Porn and gang bang fantasies, and why what porn we watch feels like such a vulnerable question. (13:01)Womanizer Blend: Annette's favorite toy for workday quickies, combining G-spot and clitoral stimulation for blended orgasms. (18:18)A-spot orgasms: where it is, how to find it, and accessing pleasure after micro-traumas. (24:28)Cervical orgasm versus A-spot orgasm, and how to tell the difference. (31:24) 2 things that make orgasm possible: anticipation and consistency. (36:16)Elle's favorite toy for blended orgasms. (40:30)Anal orgasms, P-spot, and K-spot pleasure. (41:31)Orgasms and partnership, and whether committing to a personal pleasure challenge creates pressure on a partner. (44:02)Accessing your inner power through self-pleasure. (47:21)Masturbation for vaginal health. (50:48)Benefits of masturbation for men and prostate health. (53:09)A sneak peek into the full 365 Days of Pleasure journey with Annette. (55:57)____________________Annette Benedetti Links:Website: www.talksexwithannette.com YouTube: @talksexwithannette Instagram: @annettebenedettiSupport the showWhere to Find Us & How to Support the Show:

Send us a textWhy do so many women lose interest in sex—and why is the blame so often placed on them?In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, Annette is joined by Dr. Trina Read to unpack what women are really saying when they say, “I just don't want sex anymore.”We talk about:Why low desire is often a reasonable response, not a personal failureHow pressure, routine, and male-centric sex shut down arousalWhat's happening in the body and mind during long-term relationshipsWhy orgasms alone don't guarantee satisfying sexSmall, practical shifts that help women reconnect with desireThis episode is for:Women questioning their libidoPartners who want to understand what's beneath the surfaceAnyone tired of being told to “fix hormones” instead of fixing the experienceBy the end of this conversation, you'll have a clearer, shame-free framework for understanding women's desire—and how to start changing it.

Send us a textIn this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm breaking down three specific positions that are more orgasm-friendly by design—because they support anatomy, nervous system regulation, and clitoral engagement instead of rushing straight to penetration and hoping for the best.And I want to be clear right from the start: This episode exists because my audience voted for it.Every week, I run a poll on my YouTube channel where you help decide which how-to I cover next. If you want a say in future topics, make sure you're subscribed on YouTube and signed up for my e-newsletter—that's where the voting happens.In this episode, you'll learn:How angle, pacing, and connection dramatically change orgasm likelihoodThree positions that support female orgasms without relying on speed or forceHow to use eye contact, sensual touch, and clitoral stimulation without breaking flowThis episode is for women, their partners, and anyone tired of feeling like orgasms are random, rare, or out of reach.Links to products in the podcastWe-Vibe Melt 2 (Discount EXPLORES15 15% Off): https://wevibe-north-america.sjv.io/bOezRbThe Peach Toy Review (Discount EXPLORES15 15% Off): https://youtu.be/tm6r87jv6PsThe Peach Toy: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/womanizer-peach

Send us a textForeplay shouldn't feel inconsistent.If you've ever taken your time and still felt like her body wasn't fully responding — this episode is for you. And if you've ever wanted to be into it but felt tense or distracted instead, this one's for you too.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down 9 foreplay moves most guys skip — not because they don't care, but because no one ever taught them how arousal actually works.We'll talk about why foreplay “sometimes works,” what's really happening in the nervous system when desire shuts down, and how to lead her body into arousal without rushing, pressure, or performance.This isn't about tricks or trying harder. It's about pacing, presence, and learning how to keep desire open instead of overwhelming it.Here is the link to my Yoni Massage tutorial: https://talksexwithannette.com/how-to-give-a-yoni-massage/Here's How to touch a clit: https://talksexwithannette.com/20-incredible-ways-to-touch-a-clit/

Send us a textIn this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we explore why solo pleasure is becoming a major cultural shift—and how it's actually improving partnered sex, not replacing it.Joined by Sarah Tomchesson, Certified Intimacy Coach and Director of Marketing at Magic Wand, we break down insights from the 2026 Sexual Wellness Trends Report based on data from 1,000 participants. The findings reveal how solo sex supports desire, confidence, nervous system regulation, and deeper intimacy with partners.We cover:Why solo sex is increasing across generationsHow pleasure-focused practices improve partnered sexWhy orgasm isn't the goal—and why that leads to better sexSimple ways to start a solo pleasure practice that supports real connectionThis conversation blends culture, science, and real-life experience to reframe pleasure as a powerful tool for better sex and stronger relationships.

Send us a textLosing an erection during intimacy is far more common than people admit — but what you do next is what actually defines great lovers.In this episode, I walk you through exactly what to do when an erection is lost, how to stay confident and connected in the moment, and how to continue sex in a way that still deeply satisfies her.Because sex isn't penetration-based — it's presence-based.This is a grounded, science-informed how-to that shows you how to:Respond calmly instead of panicking when arousal dropsStay erotically present instead of pulling awayShift the moment so intimacy doesn't collapseRedefine sex beyond penetrationSatisfy her in ways that women actually rememberWe'll also talk about why pressure shuts arousal down, how adaptability builds desire, and why confidence isn't about performance — it's about leadership in unexpected moments.

Send us a textEvery January, men promise to fix their bodies and stop worrying about performance in bed. But what if trying harder is actually the problem?In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we dive into the 2026 Sex Reset for Men with sex and relationship coach Caitlin V, host of Good Sex on Discovery+ and HBO Max, and author of Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger.We explore why performance anxiety disrupts confidence, arousal, and connection, how the nervous system plays a bigger role than most men realize, and what actually helps men feel confident and present in bed again.This episode is for men ready to move out of performance mode—and for partners who want better, more connected intimacy in 2026.Find out more about Caitlin V Here: https://caitlinvneal.com/harder-better-longer-stronger-the-book/

Send us a textMost people think they know how the clitoris works. They don't.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down the one clit move that quietly kills orgasms—and the simple shift that changes everything.We're talking about why overstimulation backfires, how the nervous system actually responds to touch, and what creates arousal that builds instead of shuts down.If orgasms feel inconsistent, muted, or harder to reach than they used to be, this episode will change how you think about pleasure.

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Send us a textIn 2022, I made a decision that changed my life.I committed to 365 Days of Orgasms — and what began as a personal experiment became a radical return to pleasure, embodiment, and self-trust.In this episode, I'm inviting you into a new version of that journey for 2026:365 Days of Orgasms: Pleasure Is the Resolution.This is not a challenge.It's a daily pleasure practice and an erotic journey designed to help you reconnect with your body, your desire, and your sense of aliveness — without pressure or performance.*Throughout the year, we'll explore:*Orgasm as awareness, energy, and emotional release*G-spot, A-spot, and blended pleasure pathways*How desire returns when the body feels safe*How pleasure deepens confidence, creativity, and connection*How erotic energy expands into the rest of your lifeThis journey is designed for Everyone.Here's all you need to do:Subscribe to this podcast and follow me on social media — that's where I'll be sharing daily guidance, reflections, and weekly practices.Bookmark this page:

Send us a textWhen sex starts feeling like work, it's not because desire is broken.It's because the body has learned to brace.In this episode, I teach a five-minute pleasure practice that helps the body relax out of performance mode and back into genuine arousal — without pressure, goals, or trying to “make” anything happen.This is the exact kind of practice I'll be guiding inside 365 Days of Orgasms, my upcoming daily pleasure journey for 2026.You'll learn:Why many women stop wanting sex even when attraction is still thereHow goal-oriented touch shuts arousal downThe nervous-system reason sex starts to feel draining instead of nourishingA simple, repeatable five-minute practice you can do solo or with a partnerHow steady, non-demanding touch helps desire return naturallyWhy this approach trains partners to become better lovers without learning more “moves”This practice is especially powerful if sex has started to feel heavy, pressured, or avoidable — or if you've noticed pulling away, shutting down, or feeling disconnected when erotic touch begins.You'll also hear how this work becomes the foundation for deeper pleasure, internal arousal, emotional release, and embodied connection inside 365 Days of Orgasms — a year-long invitation to explore pleasure without pressure.No performance. No fixing. Just five minutes of touch the body can actually receive.

Content warning - Mentions of Death, Suicide in this episode at the 54 minute mark. Join Elle and I as we discuss the importance that music plays in strip clubs, from helping to completely change and reset a vibe, to what non verbal clues you can get from it as well. Elle and I discuss navigating loss of loved ones, and still inhabiting the same living space we shared with them. How you overcome the grief and eventually find solace in the little reminders of them throughout your house. Elle discusses how she's able to stay as informed as possible on really pressing and sensitive issues regarding sex, sex work and more in a world that seemingly rewards misinformation. How she manages to find a balance in life in all of her creative endevors and more in this chat. Music:Hard Lines by Tom Denney Show Sponsor:Rockabilia (⁠www.rockabilia.com⁠) USE OUR CODE BREWTALLY AND GET 10% OFF YOUR TOTAL ORDER!!Links:Facebook:www.facebook.com/ellelynnstanger  www.facebook.com/rockabiliacomwww.facebook.com/brewspeakpodInstagram:@stripperwriter, @theytalksexpodcast, @rockabiliacom, @brewspeakpod, @jbeatty616 Twitter:@ElleStanger, @rockabilia, @brewspeakpod, @jbeatty616Website: www.stripperwriter.comwww.theytalksex.comEmail:Brewtallyspeaking@gmail.comRATE/REVIEW/SUBSCRIBE!!

Send us a textEvery year we promise ourselves more sex, better performance, or more confidence — and every year those goals quietly fall apart.In this episode, I'm joined by sex educator Goody Howard to talk about a different approach to sexual resolutions for 2026 — one that focuses on intention, education, and pleasure that actually lasts.This isn't about pressure or porn-inspired goals. It's about setting sexual intentions that support your body, deepen intimacy, and create better sex, not just more of it — in and out of the bedroom.In this conversation, we explore:Why “more sex” usually isn't the answerWhat actually helps sexual goals stickHow education and intention lead to better intimacyA more realistic, embodied way to think about sexual growth in 2026If you're ready for a smarter, more grounded approach to your sex life in the new year, this episode is for you.Find Goody here: https://www.instagram.com/askgoodyThe Peach toy: https://youtu.be/tm6r87jv6Ps

Send us a textIf you've ever worried that pleasure depends on size, this episode will completely change how you think about intimacy.In this video, Annette breaks down three sex positions that feel incredible—no matter your size—because they work with anatomy, angle, rhythm, and the nervous system, not performance pressure.This is not about going harder, deeper, or faster. It's about understanding what actually helps bodies respond, relax, and experience more pleasure.You'll learn:Why size is rarely the reason intimacy doesn't feel greatHow angle and positioning matter more than depthThree positions that increase comfort, connection, and sensationHow to enhance partnered pleasure safely using supportive toolsWhy reducing anxiety and pressure makes pleasure more accessible for both partnersThis episode is educational, body-positive, and focused on connection over performance—designed for anyone who wants intimacy that feels better, not more stressful.More How-Tos on Missionary: https://youtu.be/sYgwo-0DDKwWomanizer Enhance Review: https://youtu.be/PHivDXUnL3EFirmtech Tech Ring: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedettiFirm Tech Ring Review: https://youtu.be/n9nCYX3VAZ4Intimacy wedge: https://lovehoneyus.sjv.io/GKeMN2

Send us a textWhat if the best sex of your life starts after 50?In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm joined by the sex educator behind Taboo to Truth, Karen Bigman to talk about why women over 50 are becoming more confident, more curious, and more sexually adventurous than ever.We break down the myths about aging and desire—and explore how self-knowledge, confidence, and freedom from old expectations create a powerful midlife sexual glow-up. From bolder communication to increased curiosity around pleasure and exploration, this conversation reframes sex after 50 as expansion, not decline.If you're a woman over 50—or you love one—this episode will change how you think about desire, intimacy, and what's possible next.Because your sex life isn't behind you. It's just getting started.

Send us a textWhy does it feel like everything is working… until it suddenly isn't?You're touching her. She's aroused. She's close. And then—her body pulls away, the moment disappears, and the orgasm never lands.In this episode, intimacy coach Annette breaks down the most common mistake people make with their hands that actually stops orgasms instead of creating them—and why trying harder often makes it worse.This isn't about fancy techniques or doing more. It's about pressure, rhythm, consistency, and restraint—and understanding how the body actually responds to touch.You'll learn:Why hands are one of the most powerful (and most misused) tools for orgasmHow changing stimulation too often interrupts climaxThe difference between arousal and overloadWhat to do when it's working—and why that's the moment most people mess it upHow to create the conditions where her body can finish what it startsIf you've ever thought, “I was doing everything right… so why did it stop?” This episode will answer that.No shame. No gimmicks. Just clear, grounded guidance on how to touch with confidence—and stop unintentionally interrupting pleasure.

Send us a textAre politics turning people on more than we realize?Today on Talk Sex with Annette, we're diving into a surprising and fast-growing fantasy showing up in bedrooms, dating apps, and long-term relationships: the political humiliation kink — when opposing beliefs become part of a consensual power-play dynamic.In this episode, I sit down with acclaimed psychosexual therapist and sex educator Gigi Engle to unpack why this trend is rising right now, how emotional tension becomes erotic tension, and how couples can explore fantasy safely without crossing real-life boundaries.We break down:✨ Why political tension can create unexpected attraction✨ The psychology behind power-play role dynamics✨ How to talk about fantasies with a partner (without chaos!)✨ What to avoid if you and your partner truly disagree politically✨ Signs this fantasy is playful — and signs it's NOTYou can find Gigi here: https://www.missgigiengle.com/

Send us a textWant to take your oral intimacy skills from “pretty good” to absolutely unforgettable? In this episode, I'm breaking down the advanced rhythm, pacing, and attunement techniques that cause full-body reactions, deeper connection, and those moments where she completely loses control.This isn't about flashy moves or performance pressure. This is about understanding the science of her arousal, her nervous system, her breath, and the rhythm patterns that help her body relax, build intensity, and let go.You'll learn: ✨ Why steady rhythm creates stronger pleasure responses ✨ How to read her breath, tension, and micro-movements ✨ The psychology behind anticipation and sensory focus ✨ What not to do if you want to keep her in the moment ✨ How to hold a rhythm long enough for her body to take overIf you want to feel more confident, more attuned, and more skilled in creating intimacy that stays with her long after it's over, this episode is for you.

Send us a textTalking about kink doesn't have to be awkward — in fact, when you do it right, the conversation itself becomes part of the turn-on.In today's episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we're breaking down how to explore kink with a partner in a way that feels safe, connected, and genuinely exciting… long before anything physical happens.I'm joined by Lisa Opel, pleasure coach at Joy Club, author, educator, and speaker who teaches people around the world how to navigate desire, boundaries, and curiosity with confidence. Together, we're diving into why negotiation is one of the most misunderstood parts of kink, and how it can actually build trust, intimacy, and erotic tension.You'll learn: • How to talk about new desires without making things uncomfortable • What to say when you're nervous to bring something up • How to explore fantasies in a judgment-free way • Why negotiation can become its own form of foreplay • Tools for building trust, safety, and connection before you try something new • How to start small, communicate clearly, and create a deeper, more playful dynamicWhether you're a beginner exploring kink for the first time or you've been curious for years, this episode gives you the exact language, mindset, and steps to talk about your desires in a way that brings you closer — not farther apart.Find out more about Lisa at: Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Experience the Pheromone Advantage at 15% off  with my code LRT15Use code LRT15  at Eyeoflove.com And you'll get 15% off pheromone powered perfumes, colognes, and more. Check out my Diaries on OF. Enjoy exclusive access to intimacy video how-tos, guided self-pleasure meditations, and more!https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/ Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textMost people think climax is one quick moment — but her body is capable of so much more. Rolling orgasms are deeper, longer waves of pleasure, and once she learns this rhythm, intimacy changes for both of you.In this episode, I break down how to help her stay in sensation longer, understand her arousal curve, and use the Kiiroo Pearl 3 to build the rhythm that allows rolling orgasms to unfold naturally. This is a skill anyone can practice, solo or partnered, and it can reignite desire and make intimacy feel easier, hotter, and more connected again.You'll learn: • what rolling orgasms are • how to build her arousal rhythm • how breath, depth, and movement shape the experience • how she can carry this into partnered intimacyIf you want more intimacy tips, hit Like and Subscribe.

Send us a textIn this episode, we're breaking down exhibitionism — why being watched can feel exciting, how to tell if it's your kink, and simple ways to explore it without making things awkward.I'm joined by Laura Desiree, creative director of Sanctum and a powerful voice in performance and desire. We cover:✨ What exhibitionism really is ✨ Why being seen can amplify pleasure ✨ Signs it might be your kink ✨ How to try it safely (solo or partnered) ✨ Tips for beginners, from mirror work to first-time eventsIf you've ever been curious about being watched—or just want to understand the psychology behind it—this is your Exhibitionism 101.

Send us a textWant to be the best she's ever had… without needing a big anything? You're not alone. Most men secretly worry about size, performance, or whether they measure up to her past partners. But here's the truth:What makes sex unforgettable has nothing to do with what you were born with — and everything to do with what you do with it.In today's episode, I'm breaking down the real skills that make you her top-tier experience: ✔ rhythm ✔ pressure ✔ body reading ✔ psychological arousal ✔ confidence without ego ✔ and the technique every woman wishes more men knewIf you want deeper connection, better feedback, more confidence, and sex that she remembers… this is the episode to watch.Don't forget to subscribe for more how-to episodes every Monday.

Send us a textWhy are boyfriends suddenly embarrassing? A recent piece by Vogue titled “Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?” sparked a global reaction, pointing out that some women are now hesitant to post their partners, claim relationships publicly, or even say “boyfriend” without flinching. In this episode, I chat with sex + relationship coach Sienna Sinclair about what's really behind this trend. We explore:Why boyfriends may feel like a “brand risk” nowThe emotional labour and identity loss behind the trendWhat it says about visibility, desire & modern relationship expectationsHow to know if your hesitation is a red flag — or a signal for changeAnd how real baddies post about their menIf you've ever thought “Why do I feel weird saying ‘boyfriend' out loud?”, or you're a guy wondering why you haven't made her Gram — this episode is your answer.

Brian celebrates his first successful afternoon on the apps in six weeks, applying a lesson from a recent episode and proving a point he's made in others. Judson shares recommendations for Anthony Amiewalan's novel Eddie & Alan, Michael Finkel's biography of Stéphane Breitwieser, The Art Thief, Kaveh Akbar's novel, Martyr!, and Nicholas Colia's film, Griffin in Summer. Both hosts are tickled by the Hookup of the Week, which describes a listener's decision to throw himself a birthday party to reclaim the sexual awakening that homophobia denied him as a teenager. Then, Brian and Judson are joined by partners in life and work, James Nguyen and AC Gottlieb, costume designers currently represented on stage by Chappell Roan in her Visions of Damsels and Other Dangerous Things tour and by Messy White Gays off-Broadway. James and AC chat with the hosts about the origin of their relationship and their evolution to openness, making and maintaining queer friendships–including navigating boundaries around sex with friends, entering into couples therapy, and their past dalliances with throuple-dom. The pair also discuss finding independence within a codependent relationship, how much we let dating apps inform our feelings about ourselves, the pursuit of their professional dreams, and how they came to design for Chappell Roan. Finally, James and AC help Brian and Judson respond to a Go Ask Your Dad question submitted by a listener who has concerns about hosting hookups at home. Find James and AC online at https://www.jamesandac.com Find James on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/itsjamesnguyen/ Find AC on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/alexand3rcole/ Email your Hookup of the Week and Go Ask Your Dad submissions to dadsanddaddies@gmail.com Dads and Daddies on the Web: https://www.dadsanddaddies.com/ Dads and Daddies on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadsanddaddiespod Dads and Daddies on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dadsanddaddiespod Dads and Daddies on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/dadsanddaddiespod.bsky.social Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Send us a textOn today's episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm answering one of the most common questions I get from men:“How do I get my partner to want intimacy again — not out of obligation, but because she actually desires me?”The truth is this: Most women don't open from direct sexual touch. They open from nervous system activation, emotional attunement, and how your hands move across their body before anything intimate happens.This episode gives you the exact four-minute blueprint for how to touch a woman so her body softens, melts, and naturally opens to deeper intimacy.You'll learn: • Why women disconnect when touched too quickly • The 3 zones that unlock feminine desire • The 4-minute sequence that warms her open • What to say to deepen trust and connection • How safety and presence create arousalThis method is for the men who are tired of feeling rejected… for the couples who miss the electricity they once had… and for anyone who wants deeper intimacy that doesn't feel forced.

Send us a textGrindr isn't just a hookup app—it's where identity, secrecy, and desire collide. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Zach Zane, author of Boyslut and the official Sex & Relationship Expert for Grindr, to talk about what's really happening on the world's most infamous app.We're diving into the truth about discreet profiles, married and “straight” men exploring in secret, and how Grindr has evolved from quick meetups to a space where love, power, and vulnerability all play out in real time.Zach also shares what bisexuality looks like inside gay spaces, how cruising culture started, and the surprising ways queer men are using Grindr to find connection, community, and even long-term partners.If you've ever wondered who's actually on the grid—and what it reveals about men, shame, and modern desire—this one's for you.Find Out More About Zach Here: https://www.zacharyzane.com/

Brian and Judson celebrate the victory of mayor-elect Zohran Mamdani and the fact that friend-of-the-podcast Brandon Kyle Goodman has extended their run in HEAUX CHURCH off-Broadway at Ars Nova through November 21. Brian raves about the Broadway play Liberation by Bess Wohl. Judson's trick is a treat on Halloween. Brian prepares for a sex party by listening back to his own advice on a previous episode and discovers he may, in fact, be vers. After listening to the Hookup of the Week, the two wax nostalgic for their younger years, hooking up in bars. ​They are then joined by comedian, writer, and actor Jay Jurden, whose debut television special, “Yes, Ma'am,” is now streaming on Hulu. Jay discusses the journey to getting “Yes, Ma'am” on screen, why it was important for the special to be so sex-positive, the necessity of stand-up for marginalized audiences, the new hour he is taking on his “Nothing Special" tour, his 14-year relationship with his now husband, identifying as bisexual, his former career as a personal trainer, his possible future on Broadway, and his deep, queer connection to Marvel's X-Men. ​To cap off the episode, Jay helps Brian and Judson respond to a Go Ask Your Dad question from a listener who is hurt after his partner declines his request for sex, only to go and have a repeat hookup with someone else. Find Jay Jurden on all social media platforms at @jayjurden and stream his debut special, “Yes, Ma'am” on Hulu now. Email your Hookup of the Week and Go Ask Your Dad submissions to dadsanddaddies@gmail.com Dads and Daddies on the Web: https://www.dadsanddaddies.com/ Dads and Daddies on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadsanddaddiespod Dads and Daddies on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dadsanddaddiespod Dads and Daddies on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/dadsanddaddiespod.bsky.social Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Send us a textYou know that moment when you think she's into you… but you're not sure? Or maybe you've been with your partner for years and you're wondering—does she still want me like that?In this episode, I'm breaking down the three subtle, science-backed signs that show when attraction is real—and exactly how to respond when you see them.This isn't pick-up artist nonsense. It's real neuroscience, psychology, and connection. Because desire doesn't always use words—it shows up in breath, body language, and timing. When you know how to read those cues, you can stop guessing and start creating the kind of connection that leads to real, lasting intimacy.You'll learn: 

Send us a textYou want to bring toys into the bedroom… but every time you try, it feels awkward, forced, or like it kills the vibe. So the toys go back in the drawer and you go back to “just us” — even if “just us” has started to feel a little routine.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm joined by Kate Cova (In Bed With Kate) — sex educator, product developer, and one of the most trusted voices in the pleasure product world. Together, we break down exactly how to use sex toys without making it weird, and how to turn them into foreplay that actually brings you closer.Whether your partner is hesitant, you're scared of making it awkward, or you're just tired of guessing what goes where, this episode gives you the language, the mindset, and the toy ideas to start tonight.

Send us a textNot all orgasms are created equally. There's a world of difference between a quick release… and the kind of deep, full-body orgasm that makes her melt into you. And here's the kicker: it's not about going harder or faster.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm breaking down how to create deeper, more connected pleasure through rhythm, pressure, and body awareness. We'll cover what most people get wrong when they try to “go deep,” the science of how the body responds during arousal, and step-by-step techniques to help your partner experience more intense, unforgettable pleasure.This is part two of last week's episode on how to read her body—but this time, we're going deeper. Literally.✨ What you'll learn: • Why “harder” isn't the answer • The science behind deeper sensation and vaginal tenting • How to use rhythm and angle to your advantage • How to read her body for real-time feedback • The one mistake that kills deeper pleasure—every time

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Send us a textMost people talk about threesomes like they're either a wild fantasy or a relationship wrecking ball. But here's the truth—when done right, a threesome can deepen intimacy, build trust, and light your desire on fire.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm joined by Ally Iseman—ICF-certified relationship coach, kink-aware educator, and founder of Passport 2 Pleasure. Ally's work has been featured in The New York Times, and she specializes in helping couples explore their desires without losing their connection in the process.Together, we're breaking down how to go from fantasy to follow-through—without the jealousy, awkwardness, or aftermath you've heard horror stories about.We'll cover: 

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Send us a textSubmission isn't weakness. It's power offered—not power lost.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we're pulling back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood dynamics in kink: how to top as a submissive.This isn't about topping from the bottom. It's about guiding the scene with your breath, movement, and energy — without ever taking control away from your Dominant.We'll explore: 

Early on, Annette Benedetti learned that it's normal for women not to have orgasms during sex. And then, for years into adulthood, she didn't. After a marriage and raising a daughter, she felt disconnected from her sensual self. Spicy exploration and a tipsy, New Year's Eve proclamation led her to a vow that would change her life – and her pleasure experiences – for good. Check out her coaching offerings and her podcast, Talk Sex with Annette: https://talksexwithannette.com/ Sign up for August's email list for occasional updates: https://substack.com/@augustmclaughlin IG: @GirlBonerMedia   FB: @MyGirlBoner  TT:: @augustmclaughlin.gb  augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner    patreon.com/girlboner   Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys: https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.  

Send us a textWhat if locking it up could actually unlock better sex?Welcome to Locktober 2025, the orgasm control challenge that's helping men become more attentive, connected, and seriously better lovers. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm joined by Lilith Fox — a queer, BIPOC, neurodivergent, kinky, and polyamorous Board-Certified Sexologist and Certified Sexuality Educator who actually practices chastity play with her partner.Together, we're breaking down: 

Send us a textWhat if the hottest thing you could do for your partner… was not come?Welcome to Talk Sex with Annette, where we're diving into one of the most misunderstood—and surprisingly intimate—kinks out there: male chastity. Whether you've seen the cages popping up all over your feed this “Locktober,” or you're just curious what all the denial hype is about, this episode breaks down how to try chastity play without freaking out, fumbling it, or killing the mood.You'll learn: 

This month only! Dr. Cheryl is teaching some FREE relationship workshops! Sign up NOW for one of her Passion Masterclasses—choose the time that works best for you. You'll also hear about the 12-week Become Passion program—it kicks off in October. Doors are now open! You can check it out and join the program HERE  “Why does lust fade in long-term relationships?” “How do happy couples keep their sex life alive after years together?” “Is it normal to lose desire for my partner over time?” “What's the best way to bring back passion after kids or menopause?” Turns out bunny-rabbit lust has an expiration date—but on Sex, Love and Elephants, Dr. Cheryl makes it clear your sex life doesn't have to expire with it. In this candid and funny re-release, she and her sweetheart dive deep into intimacy, desire, and what really happens when sex shifts over time. From menopause to scheduled sex, from the biology of lust to the reality of long-term love, this conversation is both raw and reassuring. If you've ever wondered why you and your partner don't connect the way you used to—or if you've worried that something is “wrong” because you're not in the mood 24/7—this episode is your permission slip to drop the fairy tales and start focusing on what actually builds passion that lasts. Cheryl and her husband share their own story, including struggles, dry spells, and what it really takes to keep desire alive. Spoiler: no couple is “broken” just because spontaneous lust fades. The ones who thrive are the ones who adapt, laugh, and keep choosing each other—in and out of the bedroom. Want to know more about my program? Check out the Become Passion testimonials for reviews from actual couples that I've helped through this profound program. In This Episode, You'll Learn: (05:57) Why lust is always temporary—and why that's not a bad thing (15:38) How menopause can shake up your sex life, and what to do about it (21:09) Why long-term couples often experience low desire—and why you're not “broken” if you do (29:36) The biology behind fading lust and how to work with it, not against it (39:19) Today's LoveByte: Schedule sex. Don't tell me it's not romantic to schedule sex. I'll tell you what's not romantic: never having sex. Wherever you are, we begin where you are, bring sensuality back. Snuggle your sweetheart today and make your erotic life a priority again.  Want to learn more about Buddhism and relationships? Cheryl's book Buddha's Bedroom is a great resource!  Let's Connect!   Follow @DrCherylFraser on Instagram Website - Sign up for Weekly LoveBytes here  Youtube

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Send us a textPremature ejaculation is the most common sexual struggle men face—yet almost no one is talking about it honestly.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Jeff Bennett, CEO of Morari, to unpack what really causes PE and explore the many solutions men can try. From lifestyle shifts and breathwork to cutting-edge sexual health tech, we dig into how you can last longer, reduce performance anxiety, and actually enjoy sex without the pressure.Because let's be real: PE isn't just about control—it's about confidence, connection, and pleasure for both partners.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why premature ejaculation is so common (and nothing to be ashamed of)The science behind PE: mind, body, and nervous systemSimple strategies you can try tonight to last longerEmerging solutions that combine technology and pleasureHow lasting longer changes not just sex, but your relationshipCheck out Mor and/or Join the research www.yourmor.com Use Code Annette25 for 25% offYou can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textWe're told some things in the bedroom are off limits — too risky, too taboo. But the truth? Those “forbidden” moves might be the key to more trust, more intimacy, and more unforgettable connection.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm sharing 7 forbidden-ish intimacy moves that surprise, excite, and actually bring you closer. From consent contracts to mirror play to controlled pauses, these science-backed techniques turn taboo into trust.This is also your Kinktober primer

Send us a textEver feel like you and your partner just aren't speaking the same sexual language? You're not “broken,” you might just be mismatched. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Nicholas Velotta, Head of Relationship Research at Arya and PhD researcher at the University of Washington, to unpack the Erotic Persona Framework—the 4 sexual archetypes that explain why routine sex fizzles, why desire misfires, and how to finally sync with your partner.We cover:

Rickey and the crew sat down with a sex and intimacy therapist, who broke down how open communication, honesty, and vulnerability can deepen relationships and help couples keep the spark alive. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

On today’s episode of The Rickey Smiley Morning Show Podcast, the crew tackled breaking news, Hollywood rumors, real-talk about intimacy, and major updates in the Charlie Kirk shooting case. The RSMS crew digs into a string of terroristic threats that forced lockdowns and class cancellations at multiple historically Black colleges and universities (HBCUs) across the U.S. Institutions such as Alabama State, Hampton, Virginia State, Southern, Bethune-Cookman, Spelman, Clark Atlanta, and Morehouse were affected. Although no credible threat has been confirmed, the timing—shortly after Charlie Kirk’s shooting—has many students and administrators on edge, with heightened security in place. Rickey and the crew sat down with a sex and intimacy therapist, who broke down how open communication, honesty, and vulnerability can deepen relationships and help couples keep the spark alive. And during the last hour, the crew revealed that a suspect in the fatal shooting of conservative activist Charlie Kirk is now in custody. The suspect has been identified as 22-year-old Tyler Robinson of Utah, arrested after a tip from someone close to him, according to Utah law enforcement. Authorities say Robinson acted alone, and there are indications in messages and bullet engravings that the shooting was politically motivated. Website: https://www.urban1podcasts.com/rickey-smiley-morning-show See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Send us a textFemDom doesn't have to be scary, it can be soft, playful, and insanely hot.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down 5 simple steps to Gentle FemDom, so you can explore dominance without latex, whips, or dungeon vibes. Because real FemDom is about confidence, not costumes. What you'll learn:The body language shift that makes you instantly more commandingHow to use your voice to turn requests into irresistible commandsSimple touch and rituals that make your partner crave your leadWhy praise and aftercare are the real secret weapons of dominanceIf you've been curious about FemDom or just want to shake up your sex life, this episode gives you the tools to lead with confidence—and make your partner melt.You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textWant to last longer in bed—without numbing creams, pills, or awkward distractions? You've been told to count backwards, think about baseball, or change positions… but none of that actually works. And worse? It disconnects you from your partner.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'll show you 3 science-backed moves you can use tonight to control your arousal, boost her orgasms, and turn ordinary sex into the kind she replays in her head for days.Here's what you'll learn:The truth about why you finish too fast (and how to retrain your nervous system)The Grind & Anchor: How slow circles can align with her clitoral network and keep you in controlThe Edge & Tease Reset: How to build anticipation while resetting your arousalThe Root Lock Pulse: A pelvic floor hack that intensifies her orgasm while giving you staminaNo gimmicks. No distractions. Just moves that make you unforgettable in her bed and her brain.By the end of this episode, you'll know exactly how to last longer, keep your erection strong, and give her orgasms that feel deeper and more intense.You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Growing up in a Latino household, real conversations about sex often felt one-sided—or didn’t happen at all. In this special episode, Dramos opens up about how that silence made it harder to talk openly with friends and partners about sex, intimacy, and boundaries. He explores the fears and cultural pressures that make these talks intimidating, from worries about inexperience to the weight of tradition. Dramos also shares why learning to be vulnerable with peers and partners is so important for sexual health and building real trust. From navigating dating and safe sex to getting tested regularly, this episode breaks down why these “hard conversations” matter—and how having them can help protect yourself and others, emotionally and physically. This episode is brought to you by Healthysexual from Gilead Sciences.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You're in my Hotlines today, and Producer Erica and I are taking your calls! Today's theme: conversations you need to have with your sex partners. First, how long should you wait to tell casual sex partners you're sleeping with other people? We're all up-leveling our communication skills, so I make the case for telling them immediately. Next, she's on ADD medication and likes a drink or two – is it negatively affecting her orgasm? Or should her partner have a deeper conversation with her about turn-ons? After that, we've got a young couple who just started having oral sex. She's sore afterwards -- is it a medical condition or underlying shame? Finally, she just discovered her partner watches porn… and the subjects don't look like her. How can she talk to him about it without judgment? Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily. Nobody does selling better than Shopify. Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/swe Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you'll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website  Let's get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let's text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.