"RealTalk With T"

Joined by my best friend and now boyfriend, we answer questions asked by YOU!! This new journey of my life has moved incredibly fast, and I am still trying to catch up! I will say, transitioning from best friend to certified lover girl as been CLUTCH! For any shoutouts, questions or episode suggestions email accountableliving@realtalkwitht.com

Father's Day has become one of the most controversial holidays amongst single mothers, and those with whom they have procreated. So why do some women wish themselves a "Happy Father's Day?" And why are so many people bothered? In this episode I will explain the ways this is depicted among single mothers, while I am not condoning it, I understand. If you have questions, comments, or episode suggestions, please shoot me an email--> taneishae@gmail.com OR slide in the DM on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/taneisha.early.54/ or Instagram at -->https://www.instagram.com/_coachedbyt/ I welcome ALL feedback and criticism. RATE & REVIEW.

A few take aways for those starting a business, and feeling like they need support from those who you expected to support you.

Have you ever allowed what you saw to distract you from what you see?

Where does the strong friend go when they no longer can or want to be strong? In this episode, I will discuss how being a strong friend affects the dynamics of the friendship and the stability of the individual. I will discuss how the friend on the receiving end should consider being more aware of what they are asking of their friend, and adjust their actions. Friendships are just like any other type of relationship: It should benefit each person in one way or another. How are you benefiting from this friendship? Is it draining you dry, or filling you up?

Let's face it, we all have that one friend who we KNOW going to be there no matter what. You need a driver to flee the scene? They there. You need an accomplice. They got you. You need an alibi. They got you for that too. You need to cry, slob, and make horrible life choices. They riding shotgun. But what about them? Who looks out for them? Who do they go too when they no longer have the strength to be strong?

In continuation to my transparency episode AND from the poll on topics to discuss, brings me to this: I am sick and tired of dating or trying to be an understanding adult in 2020. Follow me on Facebook “Taneisha LE” and IG “@real.talk.with.t”

This is raw unfiltered and real feelings in this episode. I share it so you know, I experience the same things as you all, and I feel just like you. Sometimes those feelings aren’t good but they’re honest.

As a mother, I often wonder if I am doing a good job? Am I being too harsh? Too lenient? Too mean? Too nice? It’s a natural thought to have cross your mind, as we are raising our children in a world full of “likes, shares, views” and going “viral.” Brooklyn and I are having a candid conversation about our relationship as mother and daughter. Her views on me as a mother and ways I can improve at being a better mother for her, and how she can be the best daughter and person based on the values, morals, & expectations of a mother trying to figure it out.

In this season we are taking a deep dive into motherhood, and all the feelings women don’t want to admit they have. We will discuss how being the person who has to experience love from afar and for others has become the “norm.” We will discuss how to deal with those feelings which make us feel inadequate, unloved, invisible, and alone. Season 2 will not be for the faint hearted. Real shit. Real feelings. Real conversations & and Real Raw. T is not for everyone, and she is okay with that, however if you happen to enjoy a good illustrated story, with raw emotions and genuine feelings. This is the podcast for you. Enjoy!

Once upon a time there was a young black boy, who became a young black man, who manifested the life and wife he wanted, and he went viral..  On today's Season 1 Finale, we are joined by none other than Mr. Vashaad Randolph, father, entrepreneur, businessman, educated King and man of God whose life took an insane turn for the better after a video he posted, just saying what he wanted in a wife. Some called it a "Stepmama Application." Vashaad just calls it "God's Plan." I have spent the last 9 episodes discussing my experiences as a woman, single mother, and black woman on many levels, dating and working in my purpose being the most prevalent. Today, I am picking the brain of a man, and we will discuss a mans view, and hopefully give some insight to men and women on their journey of finding true love. Grab a notebook and pen, take notes, draw a bath, or grab a drink, and indulge in candid conversation between two individuals, on the same journey, taking different paths, crossed paths, came together to help inspire others to be their best selves, manifest their lives by speaking into themselves, and keeping God first. Be inspired. **To contact Vashaad on social media follow him on IG @ https://www.instagram.com/iamvashaad/?hl=en as well as his business page @ https://www.instagram.com/vcreationzneonsigns/?hl=en and of course Facebook @ "Vashaad Randolph" ** ***I DO NOT OWN COPYRIGHTS TO THIS SONG OR ANY AUDIO USED IN THIS EPISODE*** --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Today's episode hits home specifically to myself, and many others. I am joined by my friend and sister in spirit- Celestine Hendrix. Celestine will be celebrating her 5 year survivorsary of leaving a relationship in which she experienced domestic violence, by the hands of someone she trusted and loved. I will also share experiences of my own, in hopes of bringing continued awareness to everyone about how common domestic violence is, and what red flags and signs to look for, whether you are the "victim" or witness to someone you think may be in an unsafe situation. The purpose is to make others aware of the things that are happening right under our noses, and how we can help, support, and BE PRESENT for our loved ones. **THERE IS HELP AVAILABLE FOR THOSE WHO NEED IT** National Domestic Violence Hotline (1.800.799.7233) [SAFE] or https://www.thehotline.org/ Information and statistics found on https://www.thehotline.org/ and Psychology Today https://www.psychologytoday.com/us If you would like to reach out to Celestine Hendrix personally, her Facebook is: https://www.facebook.com/celestine.hendrix and as you know you can email me at taneishae@gmail.com or Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/taneisha.early.54/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

We have all been in a place where our friends who we EXPECT to support, don’t. At least not on social media where it “counts” right? Well, here is a mini booster for those who have asked and “feel a way.”

An all time question over the years has been: Can men and women be JUST "FRIENDS?" I cannot answer this for everyone, I used to not think so, however when you are the "friend" that way of thinking quickly changes. Today we are discussing the 2 monumental moments in my life, that altered my friendships with these men, and what I learned about myself in the process. The 1st taught me boundaries, and the 2nd solidified those boundaries. Thank for all the support from my listeners/subscribers! You all are truly appreciated. Don't forget to like, follow/subscribe rate & review! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

The last couple weeks have been fulfilling and overwhelming with the release of my very first book. Ya girl is a whole author in these streets. I have just needed some time to recuperate. I suggest we all take some needed time and make sure we are good. Click below if you are a reader, and if not click anyway and gift a friend or family member. =) Barnes & Noble- Hardcover https://www.amazon.com/Through-My-Eyes-Journey-Truth-ebook/dp/B08HMG88LQ/ref=sr_1_1?crid=4QCE5T7PJ4VZ&dchild=1&keywords=taneisha+early&qid=1600179528&sprefix=taneisha+%2Caps%2C221&sr=8-1 Amazon-Kindle https://www.amazon.com/Through-My-Eyes-Journey-Truth-ebook/dp/B08HMG88LQ/ref=sr_1_1?crid=4QCE5T7PJ4VZ&dchild=1&keywords=taneisha+early&qid=1600179528&sprefix=taneisha+%2Caps%2C221&sr=8-1

This week has been rough. We lost a legend, a hero, a true man of God, Chadwick Boseman who fulfilled his purpose as he was anointed too. Chadwick Boseman, did just as Malcolm X stated, "By Any Means Necessary." I wasn't sure where to go with this weeks episode, because of the sadness our community is facing, but I had to recall my purpose, and thinking of how Chadwick persevered despite his diagnosis, despite his feelings, despite what he wanted or felt like doing. RESPECT. \So this week, we are discussing how the roles "required" by women have changed. Some people feel the only job women are supposed to have is "get married an have kids." While that is a goal, it is NOT the only goal. We also discuss being transparent with yourself, in order to manifest your spouse (when you are ready)// ***I DO NOT OWN COPYRIGHTS TO THE AUDIO USED IN THIS EPISODE*** As always please rate and review.. and email me taneishawrites@gmail.com with feedback, questions, suggestions or just to say "hi!".. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Therapy is one of those taboo topics, but it is also a topic that needs to be addressed, especially within the black community. I am an advocate for seeking professional help. Just because you seek professional help, doesn't make you psychotic. Wanting to help yourself by any means, includes your mental psyche, just as much as your emotional/physical/spiritual. How can we change the negative perceptions associated with seeking mental health help? PTSD is not just reserved for soldiers and war heroes. Trauma comes in many forms, variations, and is allotted for anyone. www.betterhelp.com as mentioned in the episode, this site can help place you with a professional for your specific needs, whether individual, couples, or teens. www.apa.org for any additional information. (American Psychological Association) IF YOU ARE IN DISTRESS, AND HAVING FEELINGS OF SUICIDE, PLEASE CONTACT 911 IMMEDIATELY OR THE SUICIDE HOTLINE 1.800.273.8255 https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/our-crisis-centers/ **taneishawrites@gmail.com** Send any questions, concerns, and feedback. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

In the preview for episode 6, we will discuss mental health in the black community and why we choose to not utilize the help of professionals.

In today’s episode, I discuss the TWO times I was ghosted, and how it has affected me in my dating life, or lack there of.. if you or someone you know are victims of “being ghosted” you may too suffer from PTGD. **taneishawrites@gmail.com** --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

How? How you just disappear? How you talking to someone and everything is A1, and then POOF! They gone, like a True Crime episode of “Disappeared”..

On today’s bonus episode, I am joined by my daughter, Brooklyn. She knew she was going to be featured, but she wasn’t sure why or about what... for questions, suggestions, comments, and of course to say “Hi.” --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Sometimes God needs you to deliver a message to someone.... **I do not own copyrights to the audio/music used in this episode**

You are a mother, raising a kid alone, and losing yourself as a woman. How can we date in 2020, or in general for that matter? **I do not own copyrights to the music/audio** Please email taneishawrites@gmail.com for episode suggestions, questions or concerns! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

We all have a purpose. There is something special about each and every one of us. Purpose isn’t about YOU though, it’s about who you need to reach, and convey what THEY need. You are just the vessel. ** if you have any questions, please feel free to email me at taneishawrites@gmail.com** --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Balance. Purpose. Is there a difference? Can you be working in your purpose and be unbalanced?

African American culture has desensitized the term “baby mama.” What used to mean a woman with a child, in no type of relationship, has became a negative reference to single mothers everywhere. It’s time we change the conversation and connotation associated with it. It’s starts with us; as a culture, community, and our societal acceptance of things commonly associated with being black. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app