Upside Of Life With Oasis

My actual realization of what it means to LOVE MYSELF.

Jus me venting about how dead i feel inside

Happy new yr and all the best yall

My baby boy is giving me problems because he is frustrating other kids in his school..how do i deal with this?

Brief run down of why i have been MIA..sorry

Lets learn to raise awareness in any way we can about any topic we have knowledge on. Its how we can change the world and educate each other as we live our lives. In this episode am talking about what vitiligo is and it's effects on those who suffer from it

Hey guys..join me for more detailed banter on what I've been experiencing the past few weeks

In this episode i talk about my wins as a mommy.. lawd knws raising kids is a mammoth task..am excited we're finally getting somewhere with my kids

Jus a few details abt your's truly.. nothing major

I am talking abt the importance if giving new people in your life the chance to prove themselves and show you that they are not the same as the old people.. do not hold everyone accountable to the mistakes that other people did to you..you need to learn to let go and move on..

In this delightful episode im talking about manifesting..i jus started this journey today and i thought it would be a great idea for me to record it and probably i will come back and tell you if my manifestations were fulfilled

Everyone has their own story, their own journey and their own timing,we may come across each other but it doesn't mean our timing are aligned..you need to learn to understand your own pace and pattern...tune in and hear more on why you shouldn't rush yourself

Why do people glorify sex so much? In this episode i share with you the reasons why sex is and should be overrated.Its such a huge part of life and it's very enjoyable and pleasurable given that meaning is attached to it..take a listen and maybe share with us how you feel towards this subject.. Personally, however i feel that its a private act,ab expression of ones inner most desire hence it should be glorified

All the things i wish my mother told me before I turned 20,jus to prepare me for the real big world..its okay though im for figuring them out as i live life

I decided to speak swahili in this episode,am still learning so the flow is not continuous.. Bear with a sister..i will record the translation as well

Been AWOL but im baack!

Here are some of the key points to note in your spiritual journey, although its not a one size fits all situation some things can't be compromised on...tune in and enjoy great insightful banter

Im talking abt trust and how it affects our relationships, what is trust? How do we build it? How do we fix it? We need to learn to open up and embrace the ingredients that make up a great relationship and trust is one of them,stop missing out because you have trust issues

In this episode i talk abt live languages because we all have a different way of receiving love and here i help you figure out which category.. Remember you need to know and understand ur own love languages in order for you to be able to identify these things in your partner as well

Hey family! Hey upsiders,join me as i give insight about what BDD is and how to identify the signs in our loved ones..is there any known treatment? What aggravates it? Come on and lets dive in as i talk about the importance of mental health ✌

Random night time rambles

Reminder that i ain't quit..i had lost my voice..but amma be back soon✌

What do you do when you have a partner who attracts and commands so much attention? How do you deal with it? Wnt you be jus viewed as an insecure partner? What makes them command si much attention anyway?

Exercising and keeping yourself well taken care of is highly important,how can you love others when you dmt knw and love yourself? Tune in for more✌

How to spot a fake or toxic friend,one that always makes u feel inadequate or less,,you need to run from these type of people,,they killing you

Im giving you a few helpful golden tips on how to get started on doing something you have always wanted to do,be it a vision, goal, dream,you name it,,lets talk about here✌

Music awakens one and gives them pleasure,pain, nostalgia,and all kinds of emotions,it makes moments extra special and memorable,it touches and soothes ur soul..hear more about what music does in this episode ✌

Why should women tolerate injustices inflicted in them because its seen as normal in our cultures,as a people we need to move away from these primitive practises and embrace the full and true nature of a WOMAN

My special poem to all the women out there.. strong, beautiful, powerful women.. especially AFRICAN women

A continuation of my spiritual journey and spiritual awakening

My journey through an emotional abusive marriage,riddled with affairs and heartache

In this episode i talk abt the relationship between a blesser and his blessee and the almost obvious downfall of the blesser..

These are my personal letters that i write to my mother..its my way of dealing wth her death and not completely letting her memory fade away..its also how i am learning to address all those things i couldn't tell her in real life that hurt me as a child...❤️❤️ I post these letters once every month..may her soul rest in ☮️

I express my thoughts abt the trendy news of the the thigh vendor who had sexual intercourse with a 13 year old boy

In this episode i talk abt how I was left with no sense of belonging after being turned down from helping out in church because they said i had a demon..it shattered me,even at that early age because i knew something powerful lived in me and it wanted to do good on earth..regardless i found my own way and am happier there..i found my own upside