21st Sintury

IT'S THE 21ST EPISODE OF THE 21ST SINTURY!!!!!! This episode was so fun for me to plan and record. It felt like you guys were so much more apart of it. I answered 21 questions that you sent in. I talk about my sex life, my fears, the weird stuff, and even give tips and tricks for going downtown. Thank you so much for being apart of this journey with me. Enjoy! Insta: sarahmyerz 21st_sintury --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/21stsintury/support

Sinners! Join me this week to hear about how casual sex ruined my self esteem. My sophomore year of college I was a one night stand queen. I created a reputation for myself of being a party girl and basically a sure thing for the guys. It was fun for a while, but listen to find out why it wasn't anymore. PLEASE, I can not emphasize this enough, practice safe sex. Condoms, contraceptives, all the things. I convinced myself these guys liked me for me when in reality I was the easiest girl in the room and they knew that. Enjoy! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/21stsintury/support

Sinners! It's time to talk about the self proclaimed "nice guys." News flash: they're not actually nice. They're manipulative and overall not great people. They know what to say and what to do to reel you in. I read texts from an ex from the beginning of our relationship. He said all the right things to get me to fall for him. If they call themselves a nice guy and their personality revolves around how nice they are...run. Women don't own men a single thing in exchange for being treated with respect. Enjoy! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/21stsintury/support

TW//Sexual Assault and Rape Hi Sinners. Please do not listen to this episode if the trigger warnings are sensitive for you, or use your best judgment while listening. November of 2018 I was sexually assaulted by a Sigma Nu brother. I am choosing to share this story now due to a recent contest conducted by instagram account App State Chicks. They hosted a march madness equivalent for fraternities called "Frat Madness." Sigma Nu was the winner. I'm sick and tired of seeing fraternities glorified and continuing to get away with their behavior. They need to be held accountable and victims and survivors need to be protected. Greek life is a toxic breeding ground for all kinds of heinous activities and I'm tired of pretending like everything's fine. Things need to stop being swept under the rug and frats need to face consequences and be held responsible. I'm sick of seeing survivors have to live with their trauma and be silenced while their assaulters get away with it. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/21stsintury/support

TW // Sexual assault In August of 2021, my best friend, Rachel Scott, was sexually assaulted by a coworker. This is her story. She has uploaded Youtube videos and the links to part one and part two will be below. When I first spoke out to spread awareness on her behalf, I was threatened with a lawsuit. This is for every survivor everywhere who has been forced into silence. This is for every survivor who was told it was their fault. For every survivor who spoke up and was met with resistance. This is for you. Part One: https://youtu.be/vdR-Zl7t6lY Part Two: https://youtu.be/NejBoC2LJb8 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/21stsintury/support

Alright Sinners listen up. This week I'm giving you all the bitch boy knowledge. I break down what is a bitch boy, examples of bitch boys and how to spot them, and most importantly....how to fend them off. And I'm guessing my answer isn't what you're thinking it is. Bitch boys are mutating and multiplying like rabbits in todays world. From the brads and chads, to daddy's money, to the alpha male beta bitch boy...I cover them all. Enjoy. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/21stsintury/support

Hello my sinners. Unfortunately, this week's episode is a short one due to my raging kidney infection. SO! Part one covers why you should and/or shouldn't have sex on the first date. The potential issues that may arise with 1st date sex, the joys and wonders of it, and a feminist rant for ya. Although this episode is a short one, you're still getting quality content and I encourage my ladies to take back the power. Men don't think twice about being considered easy...so why should we? Enjoy sinners and stay tuned for part two. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/21stsintury/support

*Trigger warning: my suicide attempt 5:10-7:36* *Trigger warning: sexual assault 36:53-43:00* Sinners...it happened. I finally moved. To good 'ole Nashville, Tennessee. I spent my 23rd birthday and the music city with my mom and incredible roommates. This episode is an interesting one to be honest. I serenade you all with some 50 Cent, 2 Chainz and more. I open up and share a very dark part of my past and why my birthdays are weird for me. Oh...and I talked some big shit this week. Some BIG shit. Tune in to hear what had me so fired up this week. I also share an audio clip of my hotel parking lot breakdown after saying bye to my dad. I love you all. Enjoy some insight into my life. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/21stsintury/support

Please tell me you guys got the reference in the title...lions, tigers, and bears oh my! Moving on! Meet my best friend, Lauren. We talk about all things sex toys. Where to buy them, how to bring up using them to your partner, best toys for "beginners," oh...and we watched porn together. Our sex toy research lead us to the good 'ole Hub to learn how some of these things work. And boy did we see some things. I hope this episode helps you feel more confident and equipped to bring up using sex toys to your partner! Sex positivity is going to be a massive element throughout this show so "let's talk about sex *toys* BAY BAY!!! Xoxo Instagram: @sarahmyerz @21st_sintury --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/21stsintury/support

Yup. You read it right. I shit my pants in good 'ole Nash Vegas. Nasty Nash. Smashivlle. My future home. Straight up shart. So what do I do naturally? Talk about it on the pod, duh. This week I share my poop pants story, hotel/travel safety tips, my grievances with Nashy, and why I think New Year's resolutions are stupid. BUT if you're going to have one, I break down how to actually stick to it. This is the second to last episode I will be putting out from Raleigh. Next stop? Nashville. I love you guys, and as always, thank you for the support! *Drinking game: take a sip every time I say "Nashville," "resolution" or "resolutions are stupid." Instagram: @sarahmyerz @21st_sintury nodayswasted.co/sinner and use promo code "SINNER" at checkout for 15% off and free shipping anywhere in the U.S. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/21stsintury/support

*TRIGGER WARNING: Topics discussed include: suicide, eating disorders, depression, addiction, anxiety, toxic family members, loss and grief. I love you all, listen with caution if any of these topics are sensitive for you.* Happy Holidays Sinners. This week covers some heavier topics. We start off with the pressure of giving/receiving gifts. We talk about common stressors during the holidays, how to cope with them, how to prevent them, all the things. Straight up not wanting to be around certain people you're pressured to be around and how to tell them no. We then switch gears into the darker reality of the holidays. Mental health effects. Triggers. How to manage these feelings. Therapy isn't an option for everyone, so I did include several hotlines for resources. Holidays aren't always holly and jolly and that's ok. Let's talk about it and stop pretending everything is perfect. I love you all. Thank you endlessly for the support. Hotlines: Anxiety and Depression Association of America (ADAA): (240)-485-1001 Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance (DBSA): (800)-826-3632 International OCD Foundation: (617)-973-5801 National Center of Excellence for Eating Disorders (NCEED): (800)-931-2237 or text “NEDA” to 741741 Schizophrenia and Related Disorders Alliance of America (SARDAA): (240)-423-9432 Sidran Institute (trauma and dissociation): (410)-825-8888 Treatment and Research Advancements for Borderline Personality Disorder (TARA): (888)-482-7227 The Suicide Prevention Lifeline: (800)-273-8255 or text “HELLO” to 741741 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/21stsintury/support

This week we're going in a different direction. I decided to talk about a very NSFW topic...porn. Specifically, what kinds people watch, why people watch it, effects of porn in a relationship, and I even scratch the surface on addiction. Majority of the facts shared come from Porn Hub's 2019 Year in Review article. In this episode, I share a vulnerable story with you guys. I talk about how a previous partner of mine had a porn addiction and I describe the effects it had on my self esteem. There's much much MUCH more to be said on this topic, so consider this part one. I love you all and thank you again for your support. Sex Addicts Anonymous 1-800-477-8191 Instagram @sarahmyerz @21st_sintury https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2019-year-in-review nodayswasted.co/sinner and use promo code "SINNER" at checkout --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/21stsintury/support

♫ Don't wanna be..allll bi myysseelllffffff ♫ Cringe I know. Moving on! This week I talk about different bi stigmas, stereotypes, and different things bi individuals face. Disclaimer, I don't speak for all bisexuals, so know that what I say doesn't apply to everyone. I share my own experiences with the stigmas, why coming out in college and in a sorority didn't feel like an option for me, and the toxic thinking of wanting to "look more gay." And more! This is the first episode on LGBTQ+ related topics and I am so excited to share more about different communities with guests. I also update on moving, the boy from the one they tell you not to worry about, and of course, more sorority tea. I'm really proud of this episode and the things I shared so I hope you love it as much as I do! Instagram: @Sarahmyerz @21st_sintury Nodayswasted.co/SINNER and use promo code "SINNER" at checkout for 15% off and free shipping anywhere in the U.S. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/21stsintury/support

SINNERS! I missed you all last week. I'm back with part two of the greek life series. This time, with a guest. A fellow Kappa Apple Pie sister. Unlike part one, we discussed the pros of greek life and shed some light on the positive aspects. But don't you worry. We still spilled our fair share of tea. Including a sister making homophobic comments and not receiving any kind of consequences. Tsk tsk. Messy messy. We also talked about the fakeness and more of the cons you don't see. Including how a 19 year old was responsible for an entire sorority formal and how it was a total shit show. OH let's not forget about Georgia's most savage moment. This episode is brought to you by Aldi champagne and apple cider. Enjoy Sinners. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/21stsintury/support

Alright let's break it down. When your partner tells you not to worry about someone...more often than not, you should definitely worry. I dropped some truth bombs and called my own self out this week. OH, I also share how a man recently lied to me about being in a relationship. Oh yeah and his girlfriend messaged me on instagram. So does that make me the one to worry about? Question for a higher power. The tea definitely got spilled this episode. But seriously, I share tips and tricks on how to cope and heal from the pain of seeing your ex with the one they told you not to worry about. I share reasons why they end up with that specific person after you break up. This week had some hard pills to swallow, but someone's gotta say it. I love you all, thank you endlessly for your support. P.S. I played some J Cole so please don't flag this episode for copyright lol. Instagram: @sarahmyerz @21st_sintury Song: She Knows Artist: J Cole --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/21stsintury/support

SINNERS! This episode is so special because not only did I record it with my soul mate, we recorded this ON HER BIRTHDAY! ALSO....I announce something I have not posted anywhere else. But, for real though, we address several relationship red flags. This is part one of a part two series, but strap on in because we did not hold back this week. Most of these apply to people of all identities, but some pertain only to men or women. This episode consists of two best friends shooting the shit together more than anything else. If you notice any of these signs in your partner, relationship, or maybe even yourself, pay very close attention because you NEVER stay in a toxic relationship. Enjoy Heathens I love you all xox Follow me on Instagram: @sarahmyerz Follow the podcast: @21st_sintury --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/21stsintury/support

Alright guys. Let's talk about wieners. It's time to stop with the unsolicited dick pics. I'm going to answer your most burning questions. Why do men send unsolicited nudes? What to do and how to respond when you get one? I address the double standard of unsolicited nudes from men and women. I even walk you through step by step how to send a good dick pic. Like...a good good wiener picture. I'm simply out here trying to make the world a better place one high quality nude at a time. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/21stsintury/support

This week we get right into all things older men. Why the attraction? Pros and cons. Daddy issues? How much is too much of an age gap? We even cover grooming. Recorded with my first anonymous guest, nothing is off limits. That's right. We covered it all. Enjoy Sinners. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/21stsintury/support

Hello Sinners. Have you ever wanted to know the inside scoop on Only Fans? What's it like being a creator? How much money can you actually make? Want to hear about my ex boyfriend subscribed to Only Fans accounts? Y'all have been asking for this episode and sending in questions. and guess what? They're finally getting answered. This is my longest episode BUT...the tea is worth it. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/21stsintury/support

Hello all my beautiful sinners. This is the very first episode of your new favorite podcast, 21st Sintury, hosted by yours truly. Greek life was a highly requested topic so let's kick it off with recruitment. Ever wondered what sorority recruitment is reeaalllyyyy like? Well, wonder no more dear sinner because now you will know. I went through as a PNM, potential new member, initiated sister, and a recruitment counselor. The tea was definitely spilled. I can't wait to see what this show brings all of us so get your tea cups ready!  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/21stsintury/support