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“Your voice matters. You matter. So by shining your light, by owning your worth, by using your voice, you actually give other people permission to do the same.” —Cathy Reilly You've climbed the ladder, followed the rules, and built a life that looks successful on the outside— so why does it feel like something is missing on the inside? That quiet ache of unhappiness isn't a sign of failure; it's your inner self telling you that your ladder is leaning against the wrong wall. The friction you feel comes from the gap between who the world told you to be and who you truly are, and it's dimming the very light you're meant to share. Cathy Reilly is a communication expert and the CEO of Sharing the Shine LLC, where she helps leaders say what they really mean to get what they really want. Drawing from 25 years in high-conflict litigation and her own entrepreneurial journey of hitting a frustrating ceiling, she discovered that misalignment—not a lack of ambition—is the ultimate dream killer. Her transformation from a quiet introvert to a powerful communicator provides a brilliant, lived-in roadmap for anyone ready to trade external validation for unshakeable internal clarity. If you're done with being a well-behaved version of someone you're not, this conversation is your permission slip to shine. Listen in to discover why true success is simply alignment in action, how to use the "three brains" (your head, heart, and gut) to guide you, and a simple exercise to uncover the core values that will finally lead you home to yourself. Be Inspired! with Daniel: Website (Makings of a Millionaire Mindset) Website (Daniel Gomez Global) Facebook Facebook Group X Instagram LinkedIn Pinterest YouTube Episode Highlights: 02:16 The Importance of Effective Communication 08:07 Personal Growth and Self-Esteem 11:44 Aligning with Core Values 24:52 The Role of Communication in Business Success 32:38 The Power of Positive Self-Talk 38:02 Seeking Clarity in Communication Connect with Cathy: Cathy Reilly, CEO of Sharing the Shine LLC and founder of The Clarity Code, is an international keynote speaker, best-selling author, corporate trainer, podcast host, leadership coach, mindset mastery coach, communication, and wellness specialist who draws on her rich expertise in psychology, neurolinguistics, business, and law. With over three decades of advocacy under her belt, she passionately empowers individuals and organizations to harness their inner strength, navigate change with resilience, navigate difficult conversations, and catalyze sustainable growth personally and professionally. Guided by the philosophy that true success emanates from within, Cathy ignites others to embrace their power and seize each day with purposeful intention. Schedule a Free Consultation with Cathy Website LinkedIn Instagram Facebook YouTube
Does Golf Affect Your Self-Esteem? | Golf Psychology Podcast In this episode, you will learn how to separate the person from the golfer. We discuss strategies to help you leave golf on the golf course and separate from your round. In The Golf Psychology Podcast series, mental performance coaches Dr. Patrick Cohn and Brock McCormack discuss how to improve your mindset for golf. Learn tips for pre-round routines, course management, how to swing freely, and much more. Great Resources for Golfers: Download a free golf psychology report to improve your preshot routine. Visit Golf Psychology Coach for more mental game articles and videos. Check out our golf psychology coaching programs at peaksports.com. *Please subscribe to The Golf Psychology Podcast on Apple *Please subscribe to The Golf Psychology Podcast on Spotify Dr. Patrick Cohn is a golf psychology expert and author of the "Golfer's Mental Edge" audio program and Breaking The Yips Cycle DVD program. He teaches amateur to tour professional golfers how to improve their mental game of golf using golf psychology strategies developed over the last 30+ years of his career.
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“The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others.” Sonya FriedmanWhat dreams have you put on hold not because you lacked talent or opportunity, but because deep down, you did not believe you were enough?In this episode of Explore the Heights, we continue our deep dive into self-esteem and self-image but this time, we focus on the cost of not having them. We uncover how a poor self-view can quietly sabotage your potential, delay your growth, and limit your future. But it is not all sad news — we also explore how to harness the power of self-esteem and craft a transformation plan that helps you rewrite your inner narrative.This is more than just a conversation — it is a call to rise.
Struggling with low self-esteem or feeling stuck in unhealthy relationships? This episode is all about building your self-worth from the inside out. I share four practical tools to help you shift your self-talk, rewrite your stories, and become your own biggest cheerleader, no matter your age or background. In this episode, you'll hear: How to recognize and change negative self-talk The power of rewriting your personal story Why becoming your own cheerleader matters Resources from this Episode: The Adult Chair book is NOW AVAILABLE! Join me in Boone, NC at The Art of Living Retreat Center September 12-14! Click here for more details. MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Academy of Awakening https://www.theacademyofawakening.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant
Welcome to Episode 267 of Autism Parenting Secrets.If you're a parent navigating autism—or know someone who is—this episode is an empowering reset.Dr. Stephen Cowan returns to the show with timeless wisdom and fresh insight on what truly matters.A developmental pediatrician who blends Eastern and Western medicine, Dr. Cowan shares how your presence profoundly shapes your child's path—often in ways that go unseen.This isn't just about your child's attention.It's about YOURS.Because where your attention goes, transformation begins.And the fastest way to support your child is to understand how they naturally focus and engage with the world.The secret this week is…ATTENTION Is the Beginning of DEVOTIONYou'll Discover:Why Interest = Attention, and Why That's So Empowering for Parents (3:53)How Labels Create Suffering and Miss The Child's Full Complexity (8:50)Why One-Size-Fits-All Medicine is Outdated and Dangerous (14:14)An Overview of the Five Arcetypes of Attention and What Each One Seeks (18:05) The “Wood” Child: Movers, Risk-takers, and Planners (20:45)The “Fire” Child: Joyful, Charismatic, and Easily Bored (24:27)The “Earth” Child: Relationship-focused and Harmony-driven (28:02)The “Metal” Child: Perfectionists Who Notice Every Detail (30:58)The “Water” Child: Deep Thinkers, Dreamers, and Visionaries (33:16) Why Presence Is The Ultimate Attention and How It Can Be Trained (37:21)When ADHD Meds Help—and When They Absolutely Don't (44:12) How Turning a “Should” Into a “Would” Unlocks Compassion (51:34) About Our Guest:Stephen Cowan, MD, is a board-certified pediatrician with over 35 years of experience and a subspecialty in Developmental Pediatrics. A fellow of the American Academy of Pediatrics and a clinical assistant professor at NY Medical College, Dr. Cowan bridges Eastern and Western medicine. His holistic approach empowers parents and honors the unique ecology of every child. He's the author of Fire Child, Water Child, and several children's books, including The Lost Elephant. He lectures internationally and serves as a member of the American Academy of Medical Acupuncture.https://www.drstephencowan.com/References In This Episode:Fire Child, Water Child: How Understanding the Five Types of ADHD Can Help You Improve Your Child's Self-Esteem and Attention by Dr. Stephen Scott CowanPrinceton Study: Decomposition of phenotypic heterogeneity in autism reveals underlying genetic programs, Nature GeneticsAutism Parenting Secrets Episode 14 with Dr. Stephen Cowan - Your Child is YOUR Teacher!Autism Parenting Secrets Episode 15 with Dr. Stephen Cowan - The "Cosmic Snowman" IS the Roadmap!Autism Parenting Secrets Episode 16 with Dr. Stephen Cowan - You Don't Know YETAutism Parenting Secrets Episode 104 with Dr. Stephen Cowan - Harness Your Child's True NatureAutism Parenting Secrets Episode 105 with Dr. Stephen Cowan - Go With The FLOW For ConnectionMary OliverAdditional Resources:To learn more about personalized 1:1 support, go to www.elevatehowyounavigate.comTake The Quiz: What's YOUR Top Autism Parenting Blindspot?If you enjoyed this episode, share it with your friends.
As a mom or dad, it’s easy to look at today’s media and get pretty discouraged. But the Plugged In team says we are in a Golden Age of Bible-based entertainment. They discuss some great kid-friendly options you may want to consider for your family. Kristin Smith then talks with Paul Asay about the new movie from Angel Studios titled Sketch. Click here to get your copy of Plugged In’s excellent book Becoming a Screen-Savvy Family! Connect with us! www.ThePluggedInShow.com Connect on Facebook Find us on Instagram EMAIL: team@thepluggedinshow.com PHONE: 800-A-FAMILY (800-262-3459) Learn more about Adventures in Odyssey: · Adventures in Odyssey Read the full review: · Dot Conner: Webtective · The Chosen · King of Kings · Veggietales: In the City · Young David · Minno Laugh and Grow Bible for Kids · The Wingfeather Saga · Dude Perfect · The Magic School Bus Rides Again: The Frizz Connection · Bluey · Bluey: The Videogame · The Bible Project · Sketch Check out the Plugged In Blog: · Focus Friday: Adventures in Odyssey: Not Just for Kids Anymore · The Plugged In Show Episode 154: Adventures in Odyssey and Family-Friendly Video Games · The Theology of The Chronicles of Narnia · What is Bentkey? · The Plugged In Show Episode 210: Social Media, Addiction and Self Esteem. Plus, a Look at Bentkey · The Plugged In Show Episode 157: Plugged In Thanksgiving Special and A Look at Minno · The Plugged In Show Episode 220: Navigating Children’s Television Landmines The Plugged In Tech Guide Focus on the Family with Jim Daly Episode: How Your Family Can Manage Technology Well Part 1 How You Can Make Wise Entertainment Choices for Your Family Donate Now! We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail. If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.
This episode focuses on the formation of body image in teenagers and the impact of peer pressure and social media. Dr. Amy Morse, a board-certified psychologist in Clinical Child and Adolescent Psychology, shares valuable tips for parents and caregivers on how to support teens in developing a healthy self-esteem. Tune in to learn how to counteract the negative influences and promote a positive body image. Learn more about Amy Morse, PsyD, ABPP
In this episode: It's all about letting go of self-esteem as a goal. It's vague, unmeasurable, and often just makes things worse—especially for people with ADHD/AuDHD. But self-efficacy is EVERYTHING. Simply put: it's the realistic belief that you have the skills to do a task or handle a situation. Your self-efficacy can be improved (thanks to neuroplasticity) and there is irrefutable science and studies that support its life-changing results. I'll explain more about the findings on self-efficacy, how it works, and give you some ways to start focusing on your self-efficacy today so that you can start projects, and actually follow through. Let's go! SHOW NOTES "This is A Lot" Resources Sign up for my “This Is A Lot” Newsletter: sent every 10 days Call The “A Lot” Line at (347) 674-2201 Send an email to the podcast at alotadhdpod at gmail dot com More Neurodivergent Friendly Resources 30 FREE DAYS to BRAIN FM Wire Your Brain For Focus! 15% Off HUGIMALS weighted stuffed animals with code JENKIRKMAN 15% off APPOINTED planners & notebooks with code JENKIRKMAN Sources Why Self-Efficacy Is More Important Than Self-Esteem; YouTube Dr. Albert Bandura Quotes Self-Efficacy Theory Of Motivation Explained; YouTube Self-Efficacy and Agentic Positive Psychology Self-Efficacy And Why Believing In Yourself Matters; VeryWell Mind
Summary: Can love really be quantified? In this enlightening episode of Higher Density Living, Zoey Charif reveals how heartbreak and data led her to design the groundbreaking Love Formula. From spiritual growth to psychological clarity, discover how compatibility, self-love, and purpose can be measured and mastered. Tune in and transform your understanding of relationships through the lens of consciousness and calculated connection. Overview: What if your most painful breakup held the key to unlocking your highest potential in love? This episode explores that profound question through the eyes of Zoey Charif, an Afghan-born, Vancouver-raised analyst turned relationship alchemist. After enduring cycles of unhealed romantic patterns, Zoey transmuted her emotional pain into purpose by crafting the “Love Formula”—a method to assess compatibility based on values, traits, and emotional intelligence. Jason Rigby and Zoey dive into how trauma, distorted self-worth, and cultural expectations can shape our relationship choices unconsciously. Zoey's approach doesn't eliminate emotion—it elevates it. Listeners will learn how to calculate their “Self Score,” identify top values, and consciously match with a partner whose score complements their own. From admiration as a foundation for love to understanding why purpose heals, this episode bridges the analytical and the ethereal, offering spiritual seekers a method to love wisely and fully. Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction to Love and Self-Awareness 02:39 Personal Insights and Self-Discovery 05:30 The Love Formula Explained 08:25 Understanding Compatibility and Attraction 11:07 The Role of Purpose in Relationships 13:59 Navigating Emotions and Impulsivity 16:45 Mismatch Relationships and Their Consequences 19:26 Celebrating Success in Relationships 22:10 Addressing Insecurities and Communication 25:00 The Impact of Trauma on Self-Worth 27:22 Understanding Toxicity in Relationships 30:25 Identifying Imbalances in Partner Dynamics 33:00 The Role of Self-Confidence in Relationships 37:35 Exploring Personality Types in Relationships 43:10 The Importance of Boundaries 48:50 Recognizing Deceivers in Dating Quotes: “You can admire your partner without losing yourself.” – Zoey Charif “Our emotions are primal. Our choices are divine.” – Jason Rigby “Love isn't luck. It's clarity, courage, and calculation.” – Zoey Charif Takeaways: Self-awareness is crucial for healthy relationships. The Love Formula helps measure compatibility scientifically. Understanding personal values can improve relationship choices. Attraction should not overshadow compatibility in relationships. Purpose in life can enhance relationship satisfaction. Emotions can cloud judgment; clarity is essential. Mismatched values often lead to relationship breakdowns. Celebrating each other's successes strengthens bonds. Jealousy often stems from insecurity and low self-worth. Recognizing toxic patterns can prevent future heartache. Resources:
In which we find ourselves thinking, "if I only knew then, what I know now!" On the curse of Sir Walter Raleigh and other things about which we know better. How to learn from other folks' mistakes! More on altruism, as Amy contemplates writing a book on Objectivism & Virtues for a general audience. Also, cigarette smoking in hospitals and on airplanes (and anywhere else), telephones without screens, payphones and dimes, and The Yellow Pages. Also, how to think about events when everyone is right (in their own epistemological & ethical context of knowledge) but disagree completely with one another. Which happens a lot more than you might think.
In this powerful episode of The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset, we sit down with cancer survivor and advocate Staci Kirk to explore the emotional, physical, and spiritual journey of overcoming cancer. Staci opens up about her diagnosis, the mindset shifts that helped her through the darkest moments, and the healing practices that supported her recovery.We discuss the impact of self-belief, confidence, and holistic health on the path to healing, as well as how to reclaim your life and identity after illness. Whether you're facing your own health battle or supporting a loved one, this episode offers real-life insight, inspiration, and actionable tools for transforming adversity into strength.You can find more from Staci here:Stiletto Boss Foundation: https://www.stilettobossfoundation.net/Hold On, Sis. Let Me Take My Wig Off: https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Sis-Let-Take-Wig/dp/1735273554
Molly Hildebrandt - Hildebrandt Consulting LLC On Learning and Knowing Thyself: "Being able to help people tap into their unique energy source will help them then be able to figure out where do they get energy? What are the energy drains?." Every professional athlete has a coach. The great athletes typically have an incredible coach. With business professionals, it is no different. But how do you choose a coach? What will the coach help you with? Molly Hildebrandt has a lifetime of experience in the business world and experience, first hand, some challenging times. Challenging enough for her to stop, rethink where she was heading and make a shift. With this awareness she made moves to build a business to help other professionals. We all know that entrepreneurship can be stressful, challenging and sometimes make your mind go a little crazy. This is where a professional like Molly can help. Listen as Molly explains a simple mental test to help you understand who you are, so you can then determine what you can do best to get into the groove of building your successful empire. Enjoy! Visit Molly at: https://www.mollyhildebrandt.com Podcast Overview: 00:00 Unlocking Personal Energy Sources 06:38 Discovering Your Intrinsic Self 12:39 "Overloaded Mental Load" 19:39 Avoiding Burnout Through Prioritization 26:08 Overcoming Imposter Syndrome Struggles 30:25 "Motherhood and Business Expectations" 33:04 "Building Genuine Self-Esteem" 40:52 From Bullying Roots to Leadership 43:35 Choosing Executive Coaching Over Personal Training 52:26 "Handling Criticism and Self-Esteem" 56:10 Empowering Leadership Development Autonomy 59:16 "Parenting: Recognizing Teen Growth Moments" 01:04:39 Mother-Daughter Bonding Through Communication 01:10:32 "Growth Amid Relationship Challenges" Podcast Transcription: Molly Hildebrandt [00:00:00]: Leaders and parents to discover who they are intrinsically, their uniqueness, so they can truly and intentionally lead from who they are, that the whole authentic leadership. James Kademan [00:00:11]: Yeah, you know, we love that word authentic. Molly Hildebrandt [00:00:13]: We love authentic. So authentic leadership. But then we really start to work through different thought processes and understand how their mind and their brain work so that they can dissolve and get to the root issue of various mental wellness hurts, hurdles and challenges. To really help them start stepping into mental resilience and to be able to hold their thought process regardless of what's going on with the kids or with. James Kademan [00:00:42]: You have found Authentic Business Adventures, the business program that brings you the struggle stories and triumphant successes of business owners across the land. We are locally underwritten by the bank of Sun Prairie. Downloadable audio episodes can be found in the podcast link found@drawincustomers.com and today we are welcoming Slash, preparing to learn from Molly Hildebrandt of Hildebrandt Consulting. Molly, how is it going today? Molly Hildebrandt [00:01:05]: Oh, fantastic. Thank you for having me. James Kademan [00:01:07]: Thank you for being on the show here. Let's just start out with the basic foundation. What is Hildebrandt Consulting? Molly Hildebrandt [00:01:13]: Hildebrandt Consulting is a leadership development company. James Kademan [00:01:16]: All right. Molly Hildebrandt [00:01:16]: I facilitate leaders and parents to discover who they are intrinsically, their uniqueness, so they can truly and intentionally lead from who they are. That the whole authentic leadership. James Kademan [00:01:28]: Yeah, you know, we love that word, authentic leadership. Molly Hildebrandt [00:01:30]: We love authentic. So authentic leadership. But then we really start to work through different thought processes and understand how their mind and their brain work so that they can dissolve and get to the r...
Send Dr. Li a text here. Please leave your email address if you would like a reply, thanks.Feeling overwhelmed or weighed down by indecision? In this episode of Make Time for Success, Dr. Christine Li shares actionable strategies to help you break free from procrastination, clear mental clutter, and tackle decision paralysis. Discover how focusing on just one thing, celebrating small wins, and reconnecting with your goals can set you back on a path of confidence and momentum. Don't miss the free worksheet to help you put these steps into action. Tune in now and reclaim your sense of control and success!Timestamps:[00:00:00] – Intro: Overwhelm and decision paralysis as common issues.[00:02:33] – Step 1: Avoid procrastination – practical advice for taking action.[00:07:19] – Step 2: Clear the decks to handle overwhelm; focus on one thing at a time.[00:11:19] – Step 3: Move past decision paralysis by letting go of perfection and staying in motion.[00:14:22] – Step 4: Stay connected to yourself with mindfulness and self-compassion.[00:16:21] – Reassurance and free worksheet offer.To get the free download that accompanies this episode, go to https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/connectionTo sign up for the Waitlist for the Simply Productive Program, go to https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SPFor more information on the Make Time for Success podcast, visit: https://www.maketimeforsuccesspodcast.comGain Access to Dr. Christine Li's Free Resource Library -- 12 downloadable tools and templates to help you bypass the impulse to procrastinate: https://procrastinationcoach.mykajabi.com/freelibraryTo work with Dr. Li on a weekly basis in her coaching and accountability program, register for The Success Lab here: https://www.procrastinationcoach.com/labConnect with Us!Dr. Christine LiWebsite: https://www.procrastinationcoach.comFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/procrastinationcoachInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/procrastinationcoach/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@procrastinationcoachThe Success Lab: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/lab Simply Productive: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SP
In this episode of Tactical Empire, John Ragno opens up about his journey from public service to starting his own mental health practice and vending business. He discusses the key mental health challenges men face, including self-worth, anxiety, and finding purpose in life. John shares powerful insights into balancing logic with emotion, overcoming struggles, and the role of community support in healing and growth.Chapters 00:00 Introduction to John Ragno03:03 Transitioning from Public Service to Private Practice06:06 Understanding Men's Mental Health Challenges09:09 Self-Worth vs. Self-Esteem: A Deep Dive11:50 Strategies for Managing Anxiety and Excitement14:45 Finding Purpose and Balance in Life18:01 The Importance of Community and Support20:54 Navigating Logic and Emotion in Problem Solving23:58 Future Aspirations and Goals for John Ragno
The harm of diet culture in college is real! A Mental Health Registered Dietitian, Lauren Dorman is a Nutrition Therapist and Body Image Expert who has 22 years of experience working alongside children and adults struggling with food anxiety, body image, and self-esteem, as well as disordered and emotional eating. She is also a certified diabetes educator. After graduating from Penn State University, where she earned a Bachelor's degree in Nutrition, she obtained a Master's degree in Nutrition from Rutgers University. Lauren is the owner of Schools, Master Food and Mood, presenting regularly to school districts (both professional development and student lessons) and at webinars, conferences and wellness events. She is also a frequent podcast guest. Lauren is known as a change leader, devoted to strengthening the next generation's mental, physical, and emotional well-being. She believes that everyone deserves to have access to education from a Registered Dietitian -- an expert in nutrition science who can help navigate nutrition misinformation, teach sustainable health habits, enhance brain health, and focus on a self-care behavioral approach toward developing a strong relationship with food, mind, and body. Join her email community with all the resources at: https://admirable-waterfall-367.myflodesk.com/auppulni98 In episode 594 of the Fraternity Foodie Podcast, we find out why Lauren chose Penn State and Alpha Phi, what led her to specialize in body image, food anxiety, and emotional eating, how her approach to health is different than what students might see online from “wellness influencers”, what is the difference between body positivity and body neutrality, how sororities and fraternities can create an inclusive environment around body image and food, what are the biggest nutrition myths or red flags on platforms like TikTok or Instagram, how college students can protect their mental and physical health from diet culture, what are common emotional eating triggers for students, how college students can get sustainable energy without caffeine or junk food, and trends on student wellness and nutrition. Enjoy!
Text me your thoughts! Do you find it hard to “speak up?” There are times when silence is not golden but a matte black that doesn't meet the challenge when something is wrong. It's important to gain a voice in these difficult times. In this episode I explore the capacity—and even the responsibility—of speaking up when silence feels easier.Where do we find courage to speak? It grows from self-esteem. For persons of faith, the inclusion in God's loving family provides a foundation of Worth. Those who understand their innate worth and dignity can turn that assurance into great courage. When a Power is seeking to further an agenda that hurts people, divides communities, or blocks well-being your voice can make a difference. Newsletter subscription Support the showSubscribe to this podcast for a monthly bonus episode, access to exclusive subscriber-only episodes, and the TRACKS EXPRESS weekly newsletter with more resources for well-being!Enjoy the Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/@tracksforthejourney77
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Could the stories you tell yourself be shaping how you see yourself? Sometimes those stories build us up, but other times, they are just quietly tearing us down. In this episode, Michael talks with Dr. Phil Lane, a licensed clinical social worker and the author of The Narrative Therapy Workbook for Self-Esteem, about how we can start to shift those inner stories in a healthier direction.Phil shares what led him to narrative therapy and why storytelling can be an incredibly powerful tool for healing. He talks about how many of us carry around dominant narratives, which are beliefs about ourselves that sometimes we may not even realize we've absorbed. And explains how you can learn to question and rewrite those beliefs, helping us reconnect with who we really are.You'll also benefit from the core techniques behind narrative therapy, like scaffolding and deconstruction, and explore what it's like to share your personal story in different settings.Listen and Learn: How the power of storytelling in a safe space can transform self-perception and healingChanging the story you've been telling yourself and beginning to see who you truly are, more fully and clearlyUncovering hidden parts of your life story beyond the dominant narrative you've acceptedHow inherited beliefs shape your story and how to consciously rewrite it for yourselfIdentifying faulty beliefs and clarifying your values helps rewrite your personal story for self-acceptanceUnderstanding your past to shape your present story empowers your daily life choicesHow to rebuild your personal story by carefully scaffolding and deconstructing it for true self-accuracyEmbracing curiosity to uncover and challenge the beliefs you've always seen as trueHow acceptance and reframing your story can empower you to embrace life's challenges and thriveViewing your life story as multi-genre can bring richer healing and balanceHow narrative therapy reveals deeper meaning beyond surface explanationsWhen and how to share your sacred story meaningfully beyond small talk and surface talkResources: The Narrative Therapy Workbook for Self-Esteem: Rewrite Your Story, Overcome Imposter Syndrome and Feelings of Inadequacy, and Build Lasting Confidence: https://bookshop.org/a/30734/9781648485312Phil's Website: https://www.phil-lane.com/You 2.0: Change Your Story, Change Your Life: https://hiddenbrain.org/podcast/healing-2-0-change-your-story-change-your-life/Connect with Phil on Social Media:https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100087891174326https://instagram.com/therapist_phil About Phil LanePhil Lane is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, psychotherapist in private practice and author of the books Understanding and Coping with Illness Anxiety, The Narrative Therapy Workbook for Self-Esteem and Overcoming Panic and Panic Attacks. Phil practices and writes from a humanistic point of view with a goal of normalizing and de-stigmatizing commonly experienced problems and challenges. Phil and his family live in the central part of New Jersey where he enjoys gardening, reading, writing, watching baseball, and model railroading. Phil can be found on Instagram at @therapist_phil and online at phil-lane.com. You can also find his author pages on Amazon and Goodreads. Related Episodes239. Edit Your Story, Change Your Life with Lori GottliebSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this powerful episode of The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset, we explore how men can navigate anxious thoughts, emotional overwhelm, and internal pressure in today's fast-paced world. If you've ever asked yourself, “Why do I feel so anxious all the time?” or struggled to express your emotions without shame, this conversation offers practical tools and powerful mindset shifts. Learn how to reconnect with your body, calm your nervous system, and build lasting confidence from within. Whether you're battling social anxiety, overthinking, or emotional shutdown, this episode will help you reclaim your mental clarity, self-worth, and personal power.You can find more from Ralph here:https://helpformen.com/selfesteem
Have you ever felt like an impostor when presenting yourself in a new job, role, or project? It's a common obstacle when putting ourselves "out there" in the world. Perhaps you doubt your abilities or don't feel like you have enough knowledge. Perhaps you fear making mistakes, especially if a past failure haunts you. There may even be a deep seated unworthiness at the core, keeping you from following your dreams. In this episode Kathleen Aspenns and Rochana Felde talk about the facets of imposter syndrome and how Flower Essence Therapy can be tuned to each nuance. We explore the key flower and gem essences to support us in unconditionally accepting ourselves, centering ourselves in trust, valuing our worth, and finding the courage to take the next step.
Children with ADHD endure much too frequent criticism from people in their lives. Larisa Litvinov, Ph.D., offers practical tools to help counteract negative feedback and build resilience and self-confidence in children with ADHD, from elementary school through high school. Self-confidence and Resilience with ADHD: Additional Resources Free Download: Evaluate Your Teen's Emotional Control Read: How to Invest In Your Child's “Emotional Bank Account” Read: Why We Feel So Much — and Ways to Overcome It Read: 6 Behavioral Parent Training Programs for ADHD Families Access the video and slides for podcast episode #566 here: https://www.additudemag.com/webinar/self-confidence-resilience-kids-adhd/ This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/additude and get on your way to being your best self. Thank you for listening to ADDitude's ADHD Experts podcast. Please consider subscribing to the magazine (additu.de/subscribe) to support our mission of providing ADHD education and support.
In this episode, Lisa and Benjamin Shields discuss the complex emotions and pitfalls surrounding the question, 'Can we still be friends?' after a romantic relationship ends. They delve into the reasons why people might hold on to these 'friendships,' the emotional distress and false hopes it creates, and offer advice on how to move forward in a healthy manner.Highlights:The Real Reasons Behind 'Can We Still Be Friends?'Consequences of Staying 'Friends'Personal Anecdotes and ObservationsThe False Hope CycleWhen to Cut TiesCase Study: A Year-Long ObsessionCompartmentalization and Friends With BenefitsImpact on Self-Esteem and Mental Health **Resources:**- Free 45-minute presentation: https://www.lisashieldlove.com/registration-page-final-page**Connect with Us:**- Website: https://www.lisashield.com/podcast/- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisashieldcoaching/- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisashieldcoaching/ Want more content like this? Continue On Your Journey: Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.com
Wake Me Up - Guided morning mindfulness, meditation, and motivation
Start your day with these powerful morning affirmations designed to build a strong mind, boost self-esteem, and increase your confidence. Whether you're getting ready for work, school, or simply setting the tone for a positive day, these uplifting affirmations will help you stay focused, resilient, and self-assured. In just a few minutes, reprogram your mindset with empowering thoughts that support mental strength, emotional balance, and unwavering self-worth. Listen daily to reinforce your inner confidence, release self-doubt, and embrace the powerful, capable person you truly are. Perfect for your morning routine, these positive affirmations will help you start your day with clarity, courage, and purpose.#affirmations #positiveaffirmations #morningaffirmations #strongmind #confidence Get ad-free access to the entire WMU catalog + bonus content by joining the WMU Premium Feed. Grab a 7-day free trial of Wake Me Up premium: https://goodpeoplestuff.supercast.com/ About Wake Me Up Wake Me Up is the # 1 guided morning routine podcast. Our guided morning wake ups offer affirmations, mindfulness, meditation, yoga, and motivation specifically designed to help you get out of bed and start your day with a positive mindset. Stop pressing the snooze button all morning long, and turn on an episode of Wake Me Up instead. You will be happier and more successful at everything in life because of it! Try out our different kinds of episodes to see what you like. And add it into your morning routine every day. Each day, you will be happier than the day before :) Check out my sleep meditation podcast, Sleep Escape on Apple Podcasts - Amazon Music - Spotify - Youtube I make this channel to serve you. Part of that is creating tools like journals and courses to dive deeper into certain topics, all of which you can find here: https://stan.store/goodpplstuff Follow Wake Me Up on Youtube - Spotify - Apple Podcasts - Amazon - Podchaser Say hi or request an episode at www.wakemeuppodcast.com/contact. See visual guides for the yoga and stretches in WMU episodes at www.wakemeuppodcast.com/stretches. **Only partake in the physical movements suggested in Wake Me Up episodes if you are physically able and in safe surroundings. All movements are done at the individual's own risk. Be safe, and always consult a doctor if you have any questions or concerns.** Have a wonderful day
In this powerful episode of The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset, I'm joined by Gina Kroezen to explore the hidden ways toxic environments can affect your mental, emotional, and physical wellbeing. We dive into how the spaces, people, and energy around you may be draining your confidence, disrupting your nervous system, and keeping you stuck in patterns of stress, burnout, and self-doubt.Gina shares practical tools to help you recognize environmental triggers, set healthy energetic boundaries, and create a space that supports healing, self-esteem, and personal growth. If you've ever felt weighed down by negativity, this episode will empower you to reclaim your power and choose environments that fuel your health and confidence.You can find more from Gina here:https://www.facebook.com/groups/thebiggrpicture/Free starterkit:https://healthstylist.online/holistic-bliss-starterkit
This week, Carly explores self-esteem. Drawing on ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), she shares personal stories, metaphors (yes, sushi trains are involved!), and practical tools to help you notice unhelpful thoughts without letting them run the show. It’s a powerful reminder that you don’t need high self-esteem to live a meaningful, courageous life.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In Part Two of this transformative teaching from my Empowerment Monday livestream simulcast, we continue our deep dive into the eternal design and divine framework of self-esteem. Picking up where Part One left off, this session shifts from understanding the roots of self-esteem to identifying the daily thoughts, behaviors, and belief systems that either support or sabotage your true identity.You'll gain deeper insight into how internal narratives are shaped, how culture and upbringing distort divine image, and how to confront false agreements you've unknowingly embraced. This episode is both revelation and reformation—equipping you with the language and tools to rewrite your self-concept and recover the confidence, clarity, and courage you were always meant to walk in.If Part One awakened something in you, Part Two will anchor it with strategy. Get ready to think differently, speak differently, and live with the authority of someone who knows exactly who they are.CONNECT WITH CT JOHNSON
Do you feel emotionally stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected from your body? In this transformative episode of The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset Podcast, I'm joined by breathwork guide MJ Renshaw to explore how the breath can be used as a powerful tool to release trapped emotions, regulate your nervous system, and rebuild self-confidence from the inside out.MJ shares how conscious breathing helps move suppressed emotions like shame, fear, and sadness out of the body — creating space for calm, clarity, and inner strength. We discuss the science and energetics of emotional release, and why many people hold onto emotional pain without even realising it. You'll also learn simple breath practices you can use daily to support emotional resilience, body awareness, and self-worth.Whether you're on a healing journey, processing old wounds, or just ready to feel more connected to yourself, this episode will help you unlock the power of the breath to reset your mind, body, and confidence.You can find more from MJ here:Freebie: Free Breathwork Masterclass https://view.flodesk.com/pages/63f4d269bfa7b6c4d965e560www.beingmethod.ca/instagram.com/mj.renshawinstagram.com/beingmethodbreathwork/facebook.com/thebeingmethod/linkedin.com/in/mj-renshaw-a65581169/tiktok.com/@beingmethodConnect with me:Instagram:jonnycpardoeFacebook:jonnycpardoeTikTik:jonnycpardoeLinkedIn:Jonny PardoeE-mail: speaking@jonnypardoe.com
In this episode Wendi dives into the difference between choosing foods based on our own self worth or foods that support our negative self-esteem. The impact of what we choose when, where, why and how can shift how and what we feel about ourselves. It is time we start to do better to feel better about ourselves. “If we change the way we look at things, the things we look at change.” -Wayne Dyer
This class explores one of the Torah's most striking rebukes, Moses' fiery confrontation with the tribes of Reuben and Gad and uncovers why they chose silence over self-defense. Through this encounter and a powerful Chassidic story about the Sefas Emes, Rabbi Bernath examines why we often recoil at criticism and how to reframe it as a holy opportunity for growth.From Moses to modern marriage, from a misunderstood heretic to the Maggid of Mezritch, we dive into the soul's secret defense system and how to disarm it with self-worth, humility, and Chassidic wisdom.Takeaways:The power of silence: Sometimes, it's more spiritually transformative to listen to criticism than to justify ourselves, especially when it comes from someone wise.Criticism doesn't define you: When you know your core worth, you can absorb criticism without collapsing.Not all rebuke is rejection: Moses' rebuke was intense, but it came from leadership and love.Marriage tip: Your spouse's critique might not be a judgment, it might be a chance to expand your perspective.The Maggid's wisdom: True self-esteem is found when neither praise nor criticism defines your value.Criticism is holy rain: It should nourish, not erode. But to receive it, we need rooted self-worth.#Bible #Torah #criticism #TorahPortion #TorahLessons #BibleStudy #Moses #selfesteem #God #self-esteem #sefasemes #maggid #solomonmaimon #humility #personalgrowth #Spiritual #spiritualleadership #emotionalresilience #torahwisdom Support the showGot your own question for Rabbi Bernath? He can be reached at rabbi@jewishndg.com or http://www.theloverabbi.comSingle? You can make a profile on www.JMontreal.com and Rabbi Bernath will help you find that special someone.Donate and support Rabbi Bernath's work http://www.jewishndg.com/donateFollow Rabbi Bernath's YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/user/ybernathAccess Rabbi Bernath's Articles on Relationships https://medium.com/@loverabbi
We're back, back, back again! Kinda. As I'm sure you've noticed, we've been on an extended hiatus for a bevy of reasons, some within our control and some not, but we wanted to give you guys this ep as a thank you for continuing to check in and make us feel loved
Send us a textThis class explores one of the Torah's most striking rebukes, Moses' fiery confrontation with the tribes of Reuben and Gad and uncovers why they chose silence over self-defense. Through this encounter and a powerful Chassidic story about the Sefas Emes, Rabbi Bernath examines why we often recoil at criticism and how to reframe it as a holy opportunity for growth.From Moses to modern marriage, from a misunderstood heretic to the Maggid of Mezritch, we dive into the soul's secret defense system and how to disarm it with self-worth, humility, and Chassidic wisdom.Takeaways:The power of silence: Sometimes, it's more spiritually transformative to listen to criticism than to justify ourselves, especially when it comes from someone wise.Criticism doesn't define you: When you know your core worth, you can absorb criticism without collapsing.Not all rebuke is rejection: Moses' rebuke was intense, but it came from leadership and love.Marriage tip: Your spouse's critique might not be a judgment, it might be a chance to expand your perspective.The Maggid's wisdom: True self-esteem is found when neither praise nor criticism defines your value.Criticism is holy rain: It should nourish, not erode. But to receive it, we need rooted self-worth.#Bible #Torah #criticism #TorahPortion #TorahLessons #BibleStudy #Moses #selfesteem #God #self-esteem #sefasemes #maggid #solomonmaimon #humility #personalgrowth #Spiritual #spiritualleadership #emotionalresilience #torahwisdom Support the showGot your own question for Rabbi Bernath? He can be reached at rabbi@jewishndg.com or http://www.theloverabbi.comSingle? You can make a profile on www.JMontreal.com and Rabbi Bernath will help you find that special someone.Donate and support Rabbi Bernath's work http://www.jewishndg.com/donateFollow Rabbi Bernath's YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/user/ybernathAccess Rabbi Bernath's Articles on Relationships https://medium.com/@loverabbi
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What if healing your body was the missing link to restoring your confidence, clarity, and emotional resilience? In this transformative episode of The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset Podcast, I'm joined by regenerative health specialist Carrie Drinkwine to explore how deep physical healing supports self-worth, nervous system regulation, and personal empowerment.Carrie shares how regenerative health goes beyond surface-level wellness to address the root causes of fatigue, anxiety, brain fog, and low self-esteem. We dive into the connection between gut health, detoxification, emotional trauma, and how your physical body directly impacts your mindset and confidence.Whether you've been dealing with chronic stress, hormonal imbalance, or feeling disconnected from your body, this episode offers practical tools and mindset shifts to help you feel energised, grounded, and aligned again.You can find more from Carrie here:https://www.carriedrinkwine.com/https://www.instituteofregenerativehealth.com/https://www.wisewellness.net/Connect with me:Instagram:jonnycpardoeFacebook:jonnycpardoeTikTik:jonnycpardoeLinkedIn:Jonny PardoeE-mail: speaking@jonnypardoe.com
EPISODE 273: Interview with Mike Barsamian. For 25 years Mike has coached, counseled, and pastored teens and families from conflict to connection helping them grow together for a lifetime. He developed the PACE method for parenting and lives in California with his wife and two boys. If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries
Explore self-esteem through God's eyes with Minister Gabriel Magaña. Discover how true self-worth is rooted in divine truth, not worldly measures, and learn to embrace your unique value as a creation of God.Minister Gabriel Magaña | July 22, 2025The Fountain Apostolic Churchone_ (2025)Learn more at tfachurch.com/plusChapters:00:00 The Importance of Relationships and Self-Esteem03:03 Understanding Self-Esteem and Its Dynamics06:07 The Role of Humility in Self-Esteem08:57 Self-Esteem Through God's Eyes12:07 The Impact of External Validation on Self-Esteem14:56 Building Healthy Self-Esteem17:55 The Foundation of True Self-Worth20:58 The Transformative Power of God's Truth23:48 Living Out Our Identity in Christ26:59 Conclusion: Embracing Our New Identity30:00 Final Thoughts on Self-Esteem and Faith
You don't need to fix yourself and you're NOT broken… You just need to stop ghosting your needs. In this episode, we go beyond affirmations and surface-level positivity to explore the real, embodied foundation of how to love yourself—especially when your mind says you're behind or broken. If you've been tying your worth to how much you do or how good you look, this one's for you. 00:45 — Why Affirmations Aren't Enough for Self-Love 03:15 — The 5-Minute Ritual That Rebuilt My Self-Worth 06:55 — Touch Without Critique: Healing Body Image Through Connection 12:20 — Opt Out of Numbers, Opt Into Emotional Healing 16:35 — Stop Over-Apologizing, Start Reclaiming Your Voice You'll hear the powerful story of how one five-minute ritual shifted everything, and how letting go of self-critique can be the start of your emotional healing and body image healing.
Struggling with low self-worth, emotional triggers, or repeating the same patterns in your life and relationships? In this powerful episode of The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset Podcast, I'm joined by inner child expert Anat Peri to explore how healing your inner child is the key to building lasting confidence, emotional freedom, and self-love.We dive into what inner child work really is, why it's essential for breaking cycles of self-sabotage, and how unresolved childhood wounds silently shape your identity, relationships, and self-esteem. Anat shares practical tools to reconnect with your inner child, reparent yourself with compassion, and start healing from the inside out.Whether you feel stuck in shame, perfectionism, or fear of abandonment — this episode will help you begin the process of healing, reclaim your confidence, and rewrite the story you tell yourself.You can find more info from Anat here:trainingcampforthesoul.com/trainingcampforthesoul.com/cultivating-safety-meditation/trainingcampforthesoul.com/5pp/instagram.com/anat.peri/?hl=enConnect with me:Instagram:jonnycpardoeFacebook:jonnycpardoeTikTik:jonnycpardoeLinkedIn:Jonny PardoeE-mail: speaking@jonnypardoe.com
Today, our special guest Dr. Jerry Tallo continues our series called "How Stuff Works", by focusing on the myth of Self Esteem!Want to learn more about Watermark?Visit: https://watermarkoc.com/We would love to start a conversation with you!
Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver answer your questions about personal hygiene.Next week, we want to hear your questions about SELF ESTEEM. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language, adult themes and strong sexual references. Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox Executive Producer: Dino Sofos Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds
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True value isn't about feelings or what others say about us but about the unique gifts God has given each of us. Amber and Pastor Mike share their personal struggles with self-esteem and confidence. They give practical advice on finding confidence through honest friendships and trusting in God's love, offering hope to anyone feeling uncertain about themselves. We are pressing pause on "Little Things" this month to give our staff a much-needed rest. In the meantime, we're introducing you to "Taboo Talk," a monthly podcast conversation from Amber and Pastor Mike from his podcast "Taboo Questions With Pastor Mike Novotny." They talk about topics many Christians don't want to talk about. We hope you enjoy these conversations. Want to hear more taboo topics? Search for "Taboo Questions With Pastor Mike Novotny" wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.Amber wants to hear from you! If you have feedback or ideas, drop her a line at amber@timeofgrace.org
What does it really mean to lead with your values — and how can it transform your confidence, clarity, and impact? In this inspiring episode of The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset Podcast, I'm joined by visionary leader and values-based strategist Peter Bissonnette to explore how aligning with your core values is the foundation for authentic leadership and lasting self-esteem.Peter shares powerful insights on how values shape your decisions, relationships, and emotional well-being. We dive into how living and leading from your values helps eliminate self-doubt, reduce burnout, and create a deeper sense of fulfillment — whether in business, personal growth, or everyday life.If you're tired of chasing validation, struggling with people-pleasing, or feeling disconnected from your purpose, this episode will guide you back to what truly matters — and show you how to lead from a place of grounded confidence and integrity.You can find Peter's book here:https://www.amazon.co.uk/Count-Me-Lessons-President-Communications/dp/1990688438/ref=sr_1_1
Learn how to embody queen energy, raise your standard, and stop entertaining anything that doesn't match your worth. Because here's the truth: Claim your throne? You'll get courted. Entertain a fool? You'll get ghosted. It's the law—energetic, emotional, and spiritual.MAGNETIC AFFIRMATIONS (25 MINUTE):https://youtu.be/diRQevBDhio?si=RnB1gMEk4SqYlhljMAGNETIC AFFIRMATIONS (1HR+): https://21-day-break-up-glow-up-challenge.teachable.com/p/making-mind-magnetic-affirmations-all-eyes-will-be-on-you-793498
Struggling with self-doubt, comparison, or imposter syndrome in the modeling world? In this empowering episode of The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset Podcast, I'm joined by model, mentor, and confidence advocate Angela “Stikks” Adams to dive into what it really takes to build confidence in the modeling industry — from the inside out.Angela shares her powerful journey through the highs and lows of modeling, including the mindset shifts that helped her overcome body image struggles, rejection, and the pressure to constantly prove herself. We explore how to own your presence, maintain your self-worth in competitive spaces, and develop the kind of inner confidence that radiates on and off camera.Whether you're an aspiring model, a creative professional, or someone working to build your self-esteem in any appearance-focused environment, this episode offers practical tools and powerful perspective to help you rise with authenticity and strength.You can find more from Angela here:www.instagram.com/stikksmodelwww.christianmodels.org
What if the key to reducing stress, calming your mind, and building real confidence was as simple as your breath? In this powerful episode of The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset Podcast, I'm joined by internationally renowned breathwork expert Anthony Abbagnano to explore the healing power of conscious breathing.Anthony shares how breathwork helps regulate the nervous system, release stored emotional tension, and reconnect you to your inner strength and clarity. We dive into how intentional breathing can reduce anxiety, improve emotional resilience, and support personal growth from the inside out.Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or simply want to experience more peace and grounded confidence, this episode will give you practical tools to transform your relationship with stress and access deep calm through the breath.You can find more from Anthony here:https://alchemyofbreath.com/
Garth Heckman The David Alliance TDAgiantSlayer@Gmail.com What do you love the most? A certain type of food? Your spouses hips or lips? Your job? The money you make? Your biceps? Your ministry? Your 1953 corvette? Your brand-new Mercedes? Your girlfriend? Alcohol? Drugs? Your phone? Or maybe it is far worse than that? Maybe you are in love with…. Thats where we are going today! What are you in love with… a lot of answers come to mind… but I believe they all stem from one basic foundation. We love to be approved by others. We love others approval. And we are willing to do just about anything to get it. The approval of other people is so important to most because it's deeply rooted in fundamental human psychological and evolutionary needs. Here's a breakdown of the key reasons: 1. Evolutionary and Survival Instincts: Historical Necessity: For much of human history, belonging to a group or tribe was essential for survival. Being accepted meant access to resources, protection from threats, and the ability to find a mate and raise offspring. Rejection from the group could be a death sentence. This deep-seated fear of rejection and need for acceptance has been passed down through generations. Social Connection: Humans are inherently social creatures. Our brains are wired for connection, and social interaction plays a crucial role in our well-being. Approval from others reinforces our sense of belonging and validates our place within a community. 2. Psychological Needs: Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs: The need for belongingness and love, and then esteem, are fundamental human needs in Maslow's hierarchy, ranking above basic physiological and safety needs. Approval from others contributes directly to these levels, making us feel loved, accepted, and valued. Self-Esteem and Self-Worth: For many, external validation acts as a mirror, reflecting back a sense of their own worth. When we receive approval, compliments, or praise, it can boost our confidence and reaffirm our abilities. Conversely, a lack of approval or criticism can lead to feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem. Fear of Rejection and Judgment: This is a powerful motivator. Many people seek approval to avoid the pain of being rejected, criticized, or judged. This fear can stem from childhood experiences where acceptance felt conditional. Dopamine Release: Receiving external validation, like likes on social media or compliments, can trigger the release of dopamine, a "feel-good" neurotransmitter in the brain. This creates a temporary sense of pleasure and satisfaction, which can lead to a desire to repeat behaviors that elicit this response. Social Comparison: We often compare ourselves to others to gauge our own performance, appearance, and social standing. Seeking approval can be a way to ensure we measure up favorably in these comparisons. 3. Childhood Experiences: Early Conditioning: Our early experiences, particularly with caregivers, heavily influence our need for approval. Children who receive consistent approval and validation tend to develop a stronger internal sense of self-worth. Those who experience neglect, criticism, or conditional acceptance may grow up with a persistent need for external validation. Learning Behavior: As children, we naturally look to our parents for recognition and validation when we accomplish something. This teaches us that external feedback is a way to understand if we've done "a good thing." 4. Societal and Cultural Factors: Social Norms: Society often has unspoken rules and expectations. Conforming to these norms can lead to increased social acceptance. Deviating from them can result in social exclusion. Social Media: The digital age has intensified the pursuit of approval. Platforms that revolve around "likes," "shares," and comments provide constant opportunities for external validation, which can become addictive and lead to an unhealthy reliance on others' opinions for self-worth. Botton line is this - you seek peoples approval because you don't know you you have Gods approval. Look one of my favorite memories is competing as a powerlifter and pulling 670 in Masters division one - it was a grind… drug free, no suit, just me and the iron - and when I was done I had Donnie Thompson who was at the judges table taking numbers call me over and tell me that it was a great lift. Donnie thompson is on the mount Rushmore of powerlifters. The first one ever to hit a 3000 pound total. When he says Great lift - it doens't really matter what anyone else thinks. He is the king of powerlifting. Well we serve another king who is the King of the world, the universe… and when we know we have his approval - nothing else matters. Galatians 1:10 Obviously, I'm not trying to win the approval of people, but of God. If pleasing people were my goal, I would not be Christ's servant. OOOHhhhh this is sooo good. Did you catch it? You serve the one who's approval you seek. So whomever you are hoping to be approved by - you will do whatever it takes to show them you are their servant. The world loves suckers like you. I live my life on one simple rule… If I know my relationship with God is good… then I don't give two cats meows about what anyone else thinks about me, what I do, what I say, where I go, what I believe in, what I stand for or what I preach or post on social media. I don't care - because God approves of me. How do you know God approves of you? Well you don't earn it. You don't have to be special, you don't have to be good enough… you simply trust in his grace and his work on the cross. And here is the real secret, when you know you have Gods approval, you are free to be exactly who he created you to be.
This is your blueprint for energetic self-worth, divine standard-setting, and throne-level transformation.
When George W. Bush created the PEPFAR program in 2003, it was celebrated by evangelical leaders and has saved more than 26 million lives in Africa from HIV/AIDS. So why weren't evangelicals outraged when Donald Trump killed PEPFAR, which has already resulted in over 75,000 deaths since January? Phil, Skye, and Kaitlyn unpack the arguments for and against PEPFAR, and how evangelical support for “small government” only applies to some programs. Then, Katilyn talks to Sharon Hodde Miller about what the self-esteem movement gets wrong about insecurity, and how we can recover the Christian virtue of service and self-forgetfulness. Also this week, rotten butter ants invade Europe. Holy Post Plus: Bonus Interview with Rachel Martin: https://www.patreon.com/posts/133604080/ Ad-Free Version of this Episode: https://www.patreon.com/posts/133671224/ 0:00 - Show Starts 3:22 - Theme Song 3:45 - Sponsor - Blueland - Get up to 25% off your first order by going to https://www.Blueland.com/HOLYPOST 4:50 - Sponsor - Sundays Dog Food - Get 40% off your first order of Sundays. Go to https://www.SundaysForDogs.com/HOLYPOST or use code HOLYPOST at checkout. 5:58 - Stinky Ants in Europe! 11:41 - PEPFAR and Evangelicals 21:00 - Spiritual Formation of Small Government Politics 25:35 - Addressing Anti-PEPFAR arguments 48:55 - Sponsor - Policy Genius - Secure your family's tomorrow so you have peace of mind today. Go to https://www.policygenius.com/HOLYPOST to find the right life insurance for you 50:12 - Interview 55:54 - Insecurity and Ministry 1:08:20 - The Emptiness of Self-Esteem 1:14:30 - Transactional Relationships 1:25:14 - End Credits Links from News Segment: Super Ants Invade! https://www.thetimes.com/world/europe/article/super-ants-germany-8wp8n83zm Why Evangelicals Turned Their Back on PEPFAR: https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2025/07/pepfar-evangelical/683418/ Other Resources: Holy Post website: https://www.holypost.com/ Holy Post Plus: www.holypost.com/plus Holy Post Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/holypost Holy Post Merch Store: https://www.holypost.com/shop The Holy Post is supported by our listeners. We may earn affiliate commissions through links listed here. As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases.
Are you ready for a confidence pep talk from my wise little sister?! Though she's only 17, her perspective on mental health, body-image, and self-love is relatable to teens and adults alike. Whether you're a big sister, auntie, parent, caretaker, or teen, you'll walk away with a confidence boost and encouragement for self-love. We talk about what it's like growing up today—from social media pressure, identity struggles, family dynamics, and bullying at school. But we also unpack the beautiful parts: the power of a positive mindset and how even the messiest moments can spark personal growth.You will learn about... the challenges teenagers face these days and how adults can show up for them why feeling lost is actually a good thing our crunchy mom and how that's impacted me and my sister's body-image how to deal with the grief of an absent or emotionally unavailable parent with self-compassion ways to cultivate confidence and a positive mindset as a teen girl what it's like growing up in an immigrant household what helps cope with bullying how caretakers can support a teens with mental health strugglesWhether you're struggling with your own self-esteem or supporting a teen who is, this episode reminds us that confidence isn't about being perfect. It's something all of us must practice. And sometimes, the people we think we're teaching (like little sisters) end up being our greatest teachers. Remember: If you're having a hard time with confidence, self-esteem, or mental health in general, please reach out to someone you trust. Talking about it is the first step to healing—and you never have to do it alone.And if you enjoyed this episode, screenshot it and tag @maryspodcast on Instagram! Sharing helps the message of self-love reach more women and girls around the world. For more empowering conversations on self-love, confidence, relationships, body-image, mindset and mental health, please explore past episodes of Mary's Cup of Tea: the Self-Love Podcast for Women.