Avoiding Divorce

Episode 24: This episode explores the negative emotions that arise when a spouse expresses a desire for divorce. We discuss how to manage these emotions and avoid letting them drive harmful actions and behaviors. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/avoidingdivorce/support

In segment 1, dealing with inconsistency in the walkway spouse is examined. In segment 2, the importance of emotional consistency in the left-behind spouse is discussed. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/avoidingdivorce/support

In segment 1, the discussion centers on why some left-behind spouses struggle with Avoiding Divorce. In segment 2, the topic of trying to control things you have no control over is considered. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/avoidingdivorce/support

In segment 1, dealing with limbo in an in-home separation is considered. In segment 2, self-differentiation and why it is important is discussed. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/avoidingdivorce/support

In segment 1, why left-behind spouses shouldn't start relationship talks is discussed. In segment 2, why walkaway spouses sometimes initiate relationship talks is covered, and the way that left-behind spouses should handle relationship talks is discussed. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/avoidingdivorce/support

In segment 1, a summary of the Avoiding Divorce approach is discussed. In segment 2, an explanation is given related to snooping vs. intelligence gathering. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

In the first segment, making the walkaway spouse do the dirty work of divorce is discussed. In segment 2 avoiding divorce even after divorce is explained. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

In segment 1, reconnection attempts are discussed. In segment 2 Being consistent with avoiding divorce principles is the topic. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

Quick update to let listeners of the podcast know that new episodes are on the way! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

In segment 1 the subject of the walk away spouse's divorce fog is considered. In segment 2, listener questions on recapturing the life you once had when you're a parent, and being emotional even to fault are discussed. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

In segment 1 (audio fixed), not avoiding divorce to avoid divorce is explained. In segment 2, when should a left behind spouse decide it is okay to move forward with divorce themselves is discussed. (redo) --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

In the first segment, how to take your situation one day at a time is discussed. In segment 2, moving forward vs. moving on is the topic. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

In segment 1, the topic of marital problems being a marathon not a sprint is covered. In segment 2, the question about what to do after doing all you can to save your marriage, your spouse still wants a divorce is discussed. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

Episode 12 In the first segment the question of whether a left behind spouse should date during limbo is discussed. In segment 2, a walkaway spouse that gives little to no warning before leaving is covered. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

In this episode, segment 1 deals with why you should get into individual counseling. Segment 2 manipulation vs sincerity is discussed. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

Segment 1 deals with having core principles that guide your life and actions. Segment 2 explores whether or not you should confront your spouse's affair partner. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

Segment 1 discussed how to set proper boundaries. In Segment 2 remaining emotionally even is discussed --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

Commanding Respect is important, no one is attracted to a doormat. Also, understanding the difference between commanding respect and demanding respect. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

How do you survive through limbo, and FAQs: I love my spouse too much to let them go; focusing on self for the right reasons, and handling social media. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

What happens if there is an affair involved? In this episode we discuss affairs and how you should handle your situation in that case, whether its a physical or emotional affair. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

In segment 1, marriage counseling is discussed, should you try it in your situation? Segment 2 covers listening and validating in the event your walkaway spouse initiates a relationship discussion. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

Learning how to be happy by yourself. Becoming emotionally detached and self-differentiated. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

Recapturing your premarried life, and self-improving. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

Should you say I love you? And how to handle relationship discussions. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

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Your spouse has just told you that they want a divorce. Now what? We'll discuss next steps in this episode. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support