Avoiding Divorce

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Common sense methods for saving your marriage after your spouse has said they want a divorce. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

Steve B


    • Nov 20, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 29m AVG DURATION
    • 26 EPISODES


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    Episode 24: Dealing with the emotions related to your situation.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2024 24:39


    Episode 24: This episode explores the negative emotions that arise when a spouse expresses a desire for divorce. We discuss how to manage these emotions and avoid letting them drive harmful actions and behaviors. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/avoidingdivorce/support

    Episode 23: Inconsistency in the walkaway and left-behind spouses

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2024 34:51


    In segment 1, dealing with inconsistency in the walkway spouse is examined. In segment 2, the importance of emotional consistency in the left-behind spouse is discussed. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/avoidingdivorce/support

    Episode 22: Left-behind spouses struggling with Avoiding Divorce and giving up control of things

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2023 33:31


    In segment 1, the discussion centers on why some left-behind spouses struggle with Avoiding Divorce. In segment 2, the topic of trying to control things you have no control over is considered. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/avoidingdivorce/support

    Episode 21: Dealing with limbo in an in-home separation and Self-differentiation

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2023 36:17


    In segment 1, dealing with limbo in an in-home separation is considered. In segment 2, self-differentiation and why it is important is discussed. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/avoidingdivorce/support

    Episode 20: Relationship talks

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2023 33:34


    In segment 1, why left-behind spouses shouldn't start relationship talks is discussed. In segment 2, why walkaway spouses sometimes initiate relationship talks is covered, and the way that left-behind spouses should handle relationship talks is discussed. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/avoidingdivorce/support

    Episode 19: Avoiding Divorce Approach Summary and Snooping vs Intelligence Gathering

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2023 37:58


    In segment 1, a summary of the Avoiding Divorce approach is discussed. In segment 2, an explanation is given related to snooping vs. intelligence gathering. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

    Episode 18: Not doing the dirty work of divorce and avoiding divorce even after divorce

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2022 36:12


    In the first segment, making the walkaway spouse do the dirty work of divorce is discussed. In segment 2 avoiding divorce even after divorce is explained. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

    Episode 17: Should you try reconnection? And being consistent in avoiding divorce.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2022 30:55


    In segment 1, reconnection attempts are discussed. In segment 2 Being consistent with avoiding divorce principles is the topic. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

    New episodes are coming!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2022 2:15


    Quick update to let listeners of the podcast know that new episodes are on the way! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

    Episode 16: The walk away divorce fog and listener questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2022 35:38


    In segment 1 the subject of the walk away spouse's divorce fog is considered. In segment 2, listener questions on recapturing the life you once had when you're a parent, and being emotional even to fault are discussed. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

    Episode 15: Not avoiding divorce to avoid divorce and when the left behind spouse should divorce

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2022 31:40


    In segment 1 (audio fixed), not avoiding divorce to avoid divorce is explained. In segment 2, when should a left behind spouse decide it is okay to move forward with divorce themselves is discussed. (redo) --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

    Episode 14: Taking one day at a time, and moving forward vs. moving on.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2022 30:57


    In the first segment, how to take your situation one day at a time is discussed. In segment 2, moving forward vs. moving on is the topic. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

    Episode 13: Sprint vs. marathon, and after doing all I can, spouse still wants a divorce.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2022 28:00


    In segment 1, the topic of marital problems being a marathon not a sprint is covered. In segment 2, the question about what to do after doing all you can to save your marriage, your spouse still wants a divorce is discussed. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

    Episode 12: Dating during limbo and walk away spouses that just up and leave

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2021 29:50


    Episode 12 In the first segment the question of whether a left behind spouse should date during limbo is discussed. In segment 2, a walkaway spouse that gives little to no warning before leaving is covered. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

    Episode 11: Individual counseling, and manipulation vs. sincerity

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2021 32:09


    In this episode, segment 1 deals with why you should get into individual counseling. Segment 2 manipulation vs sincerity is discussed. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

    Avoiding Divorce Episode 10: Having principles and confronting the affair partner

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2021 30:57


    Segment 1 deals with having core principles that guide your life and actions. Segment 2 explores whether or not you should confront your spouse's affair partner. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

    Avoiding Divorce Episode 9: Setting Boundaries and Remaining Emotionally Even

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2021 28:44


    Segment 1 discussed how to set proper boundaries. In Segment 2 remaining emotionally even is discussed --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

    Avoiding Divorce Episode 8: Commanding Respect

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2021 25:25


    Commanding Respect is important, no one is attracted to a doormat. Also, understanding the difference between commanding respect and demanding respect. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

    Avoiding Divorce Episode 7: Handling limbo and frequently asked questions.

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2020 38:20


    How do you survive through limbo, and FAQs: I love my spouse too much to let them go; focusing on self for the right reasons, and handling social media. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

    Avoiding Divorce Episode 6: What do you do if there is an affair involved?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2020 37:02


    What happens if there is an affair involved? In this episode we discuss affairs and how you should handle your situation in that case, whether its a physical or emotional affair. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

    Avoiding Divorce Episode 5: What about marriage counseling? And listening and validating.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2020 32:19


    In segment 1, marriage counseling is discussed, should you try it in your situation? Segment 2 covers listening and validating in the event your walkaway spouse initiates a relationship discussion. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

    Avoiding Divorce Episode 4: Learning to be happy inside.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2020 33:00


    Learning how to be happy by yourself. Becoming emotionally detached and self-differentiated. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

    Avoiding Divorce Episode 3: Finding yourself and improving yourself.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2020 33:09


    Recapturing your premarried life, and self-improving. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

    Avoiding Divorce Episode 2: Saying "I love you" and dealing with relationship discussions.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2020 31:35


    Should you say I love you? And how to handle relationship discussions. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

    Avoiding Divorce (Trailer)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2020 0:51


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    Avoiding Divorce Episode 1: What do you do after your spouse says that they want a divorce?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2020 29:56


    Your spouse has just told you that they want a divorce. Now what? We'll discuss next steps in this episode. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/avoidingdivorce/support

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