Podcasts about setting boundaries

HR leaders spend all day surrounded by people. So why does it often feel like the loneliest job in the building? In this episode, Tom Emery, former Chief People Officer at a top City of London wealth manager, 20-year corporate HR veteran (ex-HSBC), and founder of HEX Talent & Development, joins Al and Leanne to pull back the curtain on the reality of HR leadership. Tom shares his powerful "Vet Analogy" for HR: just like veterinarians enter the profession out of love for animals only to see them at their illest, weakest, or most aggressive, HR leaders enter the role because they love people, only to be brought in when people are backed into a corner. Together, they dive deep into how HR leaders can step out of the isolated "police officer" role and step into the room as true strategic drivers, how senior leaders can build psychological safety by simply asking for help, and why learning to disagree well is the missing ingredient in high-performing C-suites.

In this episode, Sathiya sits down with Laura Cheadle, J.D., a former corporate attorney turned betrayal trauma coach, to explore how couples can rebuild trust after pornography addiction, infidelity, and relational betrayal. Drawing from her own experience of discovering her husband's long-term affairs after 15 years of marriage, Laura shares why healing begins with learning to trust yourself again and explains the essential roles of honesty, empathy, accountability, and patience in restoring a relationship. Together, they discuss how betrayed partners can process trauma, why genuine change requires more than apologies or quick fixes, and how couples can create a stronger, more authentic marriage through intentional communication and mutual healing. Whether you're seeking forgiveness or recovering from betrayal, this conversation offers compassionate, practical guidance for navigating one of the most difficult challenges a relationship can face. SATHIYA'S RESOURCES: Free Recovery Book (The Last Relapse) Join the brotherhood (DeepClean Inner Circle) Live Training To Quit Porn For Good LORA'S RESOURCES: Explore her website Send her an email Timestamps: 01:09 Laura's Personal Betrayal Journey and Initial Counseling Challenges 07:53 Understanding the Betrayer's Pain and Compassionate Perspectives 16:56 Rebuilding Communication, Honesty, and Nervous System Regulation 23:44 De-Personalization and Setting Boundaries in the Healing Process 26:41 Navigating Family Dynamics and Social Reactions 30:05 Commitment to Truth, Complete Disclosure, and the “Slow Drip” Phenomenon 33:57 Trust Rebuilt Through Consistent Repair, Vulnerability, and Partnership 39:33 Applying Betrayal Recovery Insights to Pornography Addiction Context 44:49 Sexual Intimacy and Rebuilding Connection Post-Betrayal 49:33 The Importance of Pacing and Patience in Healing 54:28 Self-Trust as the Foundation for Sustainable Relationship Healing 01:03:16 Current Status and Reflection on Growth After Eight Years

From physician assistant to DPC physician, Dr. Reid Lancaster took the long road on purpose. In this episode of My DPC Story, he sits down with Dr. Maryal Concepcion to trace his journey from PA to DO and the moment a three-minute news clip about direct primary care planted a "worm in his brain" he couldn't shake.Dr. Lancaster is the founder of Ethos Modern Medicine in La Quinta, California, just outside Palm Springs in a community as economically diverse as almost anywhere in the country. He shares why he chose to become a physician rather than practice independently as a PA, the honest differences he sees between PA, NP, and physician training, and how residency shaped what he can now do for his patients in primary care.This conversation is packed with practical wisdom for anyone weighing a DPC of their own. Dr. Lancaster opens up about the naysayers he faced through medical school and residency, the mentors who pushed him to "cash in" on a traditional job, and the wife who kept the dream alive when the doubt crept in. He also reflects on the business side he never trained for, from California compliance surprises to the taxes and systems that fall through the cracks in year one and beyond.You'll hear the real stories behind the lessons: the AI answering service named Jarvis that tanked his consults by 80 percent, the patients stuck in referral limbo despite having insurance, and the goals he wrote down before opening that he rediscovered in an old drawer. Dr. Lancaster makes the case that mistakes are lessons, that hiring a little earlier than feels comfortable can accelerate growth and protect your quality of life, and that clear boundaries set upfront are what keep DPC sustainable.Now three and a half years in and effectively full at 600 patients with no marketing, Dr. Lancaster reflects on what growth looks like from here, the working partnership he's exploring with PAs and NPs in the DPC space, and why the local coffee shop model, not the franchise, may be the future of direct primary care.Whether you're a pre-med student, a resident or a physician eyeing the exit from fee-for-service, or a DPC owner thinking about your next step, this episode is a reminder that you've done hard things before and you can do this too.Head to mydpcstory.com to find your starting point, and come say hi at the AAFP co-sponsored DPC Summit in New Orleans.Meet the My DPC Story team at DPC Summit NOLA! Summit bundles are live: HERE the Physician Owner's PlannerThe "insurance is not healthcare" teeA digital tool bundle for your practice A website reviewA 50% off our $350 Patient Explainer VideoPlus a chance to win an hour with Dr. Concepcion.  Cooperative of American Physicians or CAP. Learn more about the medical malpractice company used by Dr. Maryal Concepcion since 2021 at capphysicians.com or by calling 800-356-5672.Guava Health. A premium patient experience, pulling data from EHRs and wearables, helping  see the full picture and uncover root causes to deliver personalized care. ZION HealthShare. Get peace of mind for major medical events without going back into the insurance maze. Support the showGET your FREE MONTHLY BUSINESS TOOL DOWNLOADBecome A My DPC Story PATREON MEMBER! SPONSOR THE PODMy DPC Story VOICEMAIL! DPC SWAG!FACEBOOK * INSTAGRAM * LinkedIn * TWITTER * TIKTOK * YouTube

In this week's episode of the Push Pull Legs Podcast, Dan and Tom reveal why the trendy obsession with "client touchpoints" is turning online fitness coaches into 24/7 babysitters instead of real humans... We explain how to establish "office hours", set professional boundaries, and demand mutual respect for your time. Next, we unpack the physiology of cardiovascular conditioning. Learn why a low resting heart rate and rapid heart rate recovery (HRR) are the markers of longevity, and how to program cardio using real-time heart rate zones. Plus, the debate - ultimate condiments tier list and call out disrespectful barbers! 0:00 Welcome to the Push Pull Legs Podcast 1:00 Barbers, Bookings, and Client Respect 4:11 Upcoming Moves and Podcast Schedule 5:24 Top Five Soft Drinks Feedback 6:33 Introduction to Heart Rate and Conditioning 9:08 The Myth of "Touchpoints" and Over-Communication 14:31 Setting Boundaries and Office Hours 20:29 Top Five Condiments Debate 31:44 Tracking Heart Rate for Longevity and Health 35:26 Using Heart Rate Recovery for Conditioning 41:48 Show Recommendations and Wrap-Up 2 FREE Running Webinars - Strength & Plyometrics - https://the-combine-coaching-community.circle.so/training-to-run-in-the-gym 6 Week Strength & Plyo Plan for Runners! - https://market.teambuildr.com/programs/combine-coaching/6-weeks-gym-plyo-for-running-starter-pack  

Christina Dinolfo didn't grow up dreaming of becoming a CEO — she just kept saying yes to problems no one else wanted to solve. Now she's leading a fintech group-gifting platform, and in this episode she's unpacking exactly how she got there without a traditional career map. We talk about what it actually takes to advance in your career (hint: it's not "working hard"), why investing in yourself is the one financial move she never regrets, and the mistake so many women make when negotiating a raise or promotion. Christina also gets real about burnout, learning to say no, remote vs. hybrid work debates, and why chasing someone else's version of success will always leave you short. If you're building something — a career, a business, a life that doesn't look like anyone else's — this conversation is full of the practical, no-fluff advice we wish someone had handed us earlier. In this episode: Why "how hard you work" is the wrong pitch for a raise or promotion The financial mindset shift every woman needs (and the one book she recommends) Scaling a business to $54M without a background in the industry Remote vs. hybrid work — and why "one size fits all" doesn't work Recognizing burnout before it recognizes you Her honestly-not-that-wacky morning routine Connect with Christina on LinkedIn Follow us on socials:  Carine's Instagram Podcast Instagram Page Subscribe to our newsletter:  

I was walking on a beach when God said something I wasn't ready to hear. Not comfort. Not ease. Peace. "If you don't bring me peace, you don't get a place at my table." I thought I understood what that meant. I didn't. I thought protecting my peace meant cutting out anyone who challenged me. But challenge is not the enemy of peace — emotional hijacking is. Some people don't challenge you. They hijack you. You leave every interaction drained, defensive, replaying the conversation in the shower at 2am. That's not growth — it's an open loop quietly stealing your energy, and it won't close itself. If you're tired of draining relationships that never change, this episode gives you a way to discern who belongs at your table — and the courage to stop setting a place for those who don't. In this episode: • The difference between a holy challenge and emotional hijacking • The "aftermath test" — one question that reveals who stays at your table • 4 practical steps to protect your peace — no drama, no guilt • Why protecting your peace is stewardship, not selfishness This is the heart of Stop Stealing From Yourself — starting with the relationships you keep saying yes to.

Episode 12: Asking for Help & Setting Boundaries One of the hardest parts of a cancer diagnosis isn't just managing treatments—it's learning how to navigate relationships with the people who love you. In Episode 12 of My 15 Years, Melody shares her experiences managing the expectations of friends and family after being diagnosed with ocular melanoma. She talks about the challenges of asking for help when you need it, setting boundaries when well-intentioned support isn't what you need, and finding a balance that works for you. Drawing from 15 years of lived experience, Melody offers practical advice for patients, caregivers, and loved ones, along with helpful tools and resources that can make the journey a little easier. She discusses platforms like CaringBridge, Meal Train, and WhatFriendsDo, as well as the valuable support available through oncology social workers and other community resources. Whether you're navigating a new diagnosis or supporting someone who is, this episode provides honest insights and actionable ideas to help make communication, support, and caregiving a little less overwhelming. No one should have to figure it all out alone. Rare Cancer. Resilient Hope. Revolutionary Research.

Disaster always hits before a breakthrough. If you're rebuilding your business after chaos, you're not alone. The Impulsive Thinker® explains why ADHD entrepreneurs never get a smooth path forward — and why that's the real sign of progress.   In This Episode: Why every big leap in business comes right after everything blows up How old habits come back — even when you know better Setting boundaries to keep your business built around you, not everyone else   What You'll Take Away: Your worst business disaster is the price of actual progress, not a sign you failed When pressure hits, survival habits come back fast — know how to catch them Building your business for yourself first is the only way it will work long-term You know what needs to change — stop negotiating with yourself and start moving Respect for your boundaries is non-negotiable, no matter who's pushing back   ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® confronts the fallout and rebuild after an ADHD entrepreneur's business falls apart. The Impulsive Thinker® dishes the real ADHD experience — disaster, forced lessons, and why you can't build back the old way. It hits the hard truths about boundaries, saying no, and how even your best habits get tested when survival mode kicks in. This one's for ADHD entrepreneurs sick of serving everyone but themselves and tired of apologizing for how their brain works. If you're done pretending burnout is normal and want your business to serve you — hit play.   Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.   GUEST BIODr. Brandie Keates is a neurodivergent entrepreneur and founder of Bloom Sanctuary. She built and sold one of the largest chiropractic practices in her state and now creates practical support for women in pain.   Follow Dr. Brandie YouTube Facebook Instagram Website DrBrandie.com  

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!There are people in your life right now who you genuinely like — good people — who still need to go. Cass and Kathryn Morrow break down the hardest social boundary to hold: not cutting off toxic people, but cutting back on people you actually care about who are anchoring you to the version of your life you're trying to leave.

While the podcast team is taking a Radical Sabbatical, Kim is interviewing authors of the books that have had a big impact on her in the past two years.  How can parenting skills help us become better team members and leaders in the workplace?  Sure, you can't “ground” your direct report when they screw up an important project, but the lessons of good parenting can certainly help us all be better at building effective and healthy teams.   In this episode, Kim speaks with Dr. Becky Kennedy, the author of Good Inside, a New York Times #1 bestseller.  Dr. Becky's background as a clinical psychologist and years of experience working with families give her valuable insights into navigating the stresses of raising kids amid a busy work schedule.  She has developed a loyal following among parents.  Kim and Dr. Becky talk about how these two worlds overlap and, in some cases, where they don't. For example, they talk about how “repair” and taking responsibility for handling something poorly can play a key role in increasing connection among team members.   Guest Background: Dr. Becky is the clinical psychologist and mom of three behind the breakthrough parenting company Good Inside. She specializes in helping parents become sturdy leaders in their homes by sharing the skills and strategies parents need to raise resilient kids. Dr. Becky is a #1 New York Times bestselling author, a TED speaker, and the host of the chart-topping podcast Good Inside with Dr. Becky, and has amassed a global following of millions of parents.  Dr. Becky received a BA in Psychology and Human Development, Phi Beta Kappa and summa cum laude, from Duke University and a PhD in Clinical Psychology from Columbia University. She has a certificate in Relational Psychotherapy from the Steven Mitchell Center. CHAPTERS (00:00) Introduction to Radical Kindness and Good Inside (03:02) Balancing Boundaries and Connection in Parenting (05:56) The Impact of Unfinished Business from Childhood (08:54) Curiosity as a Tool for Effective Communication (12:02) Connection Capital: Building Relationships with Kids (14:55) The Importance of High-Impact Moments (17:53) Repairing Relationships After Mistakes (20:56) Modeling Accountability for Children (24:09) Changing the Narrative Around Parenting and Guilt (27:06) Compassionate Criticism in Parenting and Work (29:04) Understanding Anger and Setting Boundaries (29:59) Compassionate Discipline: Balancing Boundaries and Understanding (32:24) Two Truths: Boundaries and Emotions (34:38) The Power of Belief: Encouraging Better Behavior (36:01) Redefining 'Nice': The Importance of Respectful Communication (39:31) Emotions as Information: Listening to Our Feelings (41:27) The Role of Emotions in Leadership and Parenting (44:32) Curiosity Over Fury: Navigating Emotional Responses (52:04) Preventing Bullying: Safety and Intervention Strategies Connect with the Radical Candor team: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's time, once again, to open up the mailbag! In this monthly Q&A episode of Art Ed Radio, host Tim Bogatz is joined by Amanda Heyn, to answer your most pressing questions about the world of art education. This month's topics run the gamut: from a quest for new art supplies to thoughtful questions about navigating the first year of teaching—including how to work with administrators, build community with colleagues, and protect your work-life balance. Tim and Amanda also tackle the summer curriculum planning struggle, weigh in on whether summer sketchbook challenges are actually worth assigning, and dig into a big question about social media: is it ultimately good or bad for art teachers?   Enjoy this episode? Subscribe to Art Ed Radio on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen. Have a question for a future mailbag? We'd love to hear from you--leave us a voicemail at (515) 209-2595! Resources and Links First-Year Art Teacher's Guide – The Art of Education University 15 Fun Art Supplies to Try Out This Summer Jumpstart Your Creativity: Easy Mini Art Practices for This Summer Join the AOEU Community – Free at community.artofeducation.edu Art Ed Now Conference – Register at theartofeducation.edu/now

You didn't burn out. You got bored, and your brain did the rest. André Brisson, The Impulsive Thinker®, breaks down what actually happens when ADHD entrepreneurs walk away — or get forced out. It's not about losing. It's about refusing to do it on someone else's terms.   In This Episode: Why "putting yourself first" is non-negotiable for ADHD Entrepreneurs Setting boundaries and learning which clients and team members still respect you Regulating your batteries before your brain and business crash   What You'll Take Away: Running your own company doesn't mean anyone else gets a say Survival mode isn't strategy — it's your ADHD brain in panic spinning its wheels Doing work that makes you angry or bored is a signal, not a moral failing You can drop 75% of your revenue and still come out ahead — if your boundaries are right If you're burned out and overwhelmed, it's time to quit validating your decisions with outside opinions   GUEST BIODr. Brandie Keates is a neurodivergent entrepreneur and founder of Bloom Sanctuary. She built and sold one of the largest chiropractic practices in her state and now creates practical support for women in pain.   Follow Dr. Brandie YouTube Facebook Instagram Website DrBrandie.com   ABOUT THIS EPISODE The Impulsive Thinker® and Dr. Brandy Keats get brutally honest about business breakups, burnout, and why ADHD brains refuse the slow death of "steady" growth. They talk about why boundary-setting is everything for ADHD Entrepreneurs and what really happens when you decide to put yourself first. This conversation digs into overwhelm, the real cost of bad-fit teams and clients, and the guilt that comes from doing less but getting more. It's a direct look at neurological regulation, dropping work that kills your batteries, and how to build a business that survives the ADHD cycle. If you've ever felt the urge to burn it all down or start over, this episode is your permission slip. Hit play if you're ready to stop apologizing and actually run things your way. Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.  

Send us Fan MailThis week, Eileen meets a real-life stranger on the internet but you would have never known without us saying so.  Special guest Kira Sabin joins the show this week to talk all things Gen X. From comfort toxic television, trauma,  the perimenopause madness,  to learning how to break the patterns that most of us weren't even aware existed. Kira and Eileen connect and cackle their way through the toxicity that Gen X collectively wears as a badge of honor. Things get a little nutso in the buttso, but it's time we talked about it. Connect With KiraKira is a personal coach who has over 18 years of experience helping people, primarily women, quiet their overthinking, realize their self-worth, build unshakeable relationships, or uncover more little moments of joy throughout their day. A self-proclaimed Hope Dealer helping others channel their rage. Kira offers group intensive coaching programs, personalized 1:1 midlife edit coaching, and inspiring retreats designed specifically for women who want clarity, confidence, and joy—without the BS. No fluff, just results. https://www.thrivewithkira.com/work-with-kiraListen To Her Podcast: Thrive With Kira Podcast https://www.thrivewithkira.com/podcastFollow Kira Here IG: https://www.instagram.com/thrivewithkiraYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/ ⁨@kirasabin⁩  TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@thrivewithkiraChapters List 00:00 Introduction and Excitement for Podcasting05:07 Exploring Gen X and Historical Context07:29 The Power Dynamics of Gen X Women10:22 Navigating Aging and Life Challenges13:00 Media Influence and Societal Norms16:00 Trauma and Unspoken Experiences of Gen X18:56 Addressing Past Harms and Healing21:38 Numbing and Coping Mechanisms of Our Generation24:16 Numbing Mechanisms and the Need for Healing25:49 Encouraging Emotional Healing in Men27:17 The Impact of Generational Trauma29:21 Empowerment and Emotional Expression31:32 Processing Trauma and Compassion33:04 Breaking the Cycle of Silence34:24 Navigating Parenting and Emotional Validation36:13 The Humor in Childhood Experiences39:06 Cultural Connections Through Food41:23 Social Anxiety and Coping Mechanisms47:17 Nostalgia and Television as a Babysitter49:51 Cultural Influence of Past Generations52:35 Romantic Comedies and Their Impact55:20 Gender Dynamics and Societal Expectations59:17 Breaking Generational Cycles01:03:18 Navigating Relationships and Emotional Health01:09:23 Sibling Abuse and Family Dynamics01:11:11 Generational Trauma and Parenting Challenges01:14:05 Healing and Empowerment of Gen X Women01:16:49 Work-Life Balance and Generational Differences01:19:03 Setting Boundaries and Self-Advocacy01:22:03 Reflections on Childhood and Cultural Shifts01:24:35 Humor Across Generations and Its Impact01:31:24 FULLSWKOUTRO.mp4Support the showStrangers With Kittens is a podcast created by Eileen Kelly and Produced by Ashley Aker. Original music composed and performed by Chris Hajian. You can listen to full podcast episodes on Spotify, Amazon, Audible, and Apple Podcasts. Follow Strangers With Kittens On Social Media Facebook InstagramTikTokYouTubeKeep The Conversation Going https://www.strangerswithkittens.com/

Mike and Shauna Jones built and scaled a lash company to 154 employees, got sued three to four times a year, and learned to handle difficult clients the hard way. Now they teach it. This conversation covers the part of the lash business no one prepares you for: the client who is always late, the one who hates a flawless full set, the one whose name on the books fills you with dread. Mike and Shauna walk through setting firm boundaries, refusing service the right way, documenting incidents to protect your team, and the principle that reframes the whole thing: not all money is good money. Practical guidance for lash artists and salon owners who want their business to serve their sanity, not drain it.

Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy! Check out the full episode: https://greatness.lnk.to/1478DM Simon Sinek focuses on redefining self-worth metrics and measuring a fulfilling day. Sinek advocates assessing one's value based on positive impacts on others rather than tangible metrics like bank account numbers. He shares a personal anecdote about the immeasurable impact of his book, highlighting the challenge of quantifying influence. The conversation extends to questioning traditional judgments around ambition and laziness, emphasizing that caring about work and life quality is paramount. Sinek also underscores the importance of setting collaborative boundaries through discussions, ensuring alignment in both professional and personal relationships. Sign up for the Greatness newsletter! TOPICS Simon Sinek, self-worth, finding fulfillment, measuring success, impact over money, redefining ambition, setting boundaries, work-life balance, leadership and purpose, personal values Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Talk to KimIn this insightful interview, Sandra Wood shares her journey of self-discovery, the importance of boundaries, and how women can reconnect with their authentic selves during midlife. Discover practical strategies for inner exploration, healing relationships, and embracing your true identity.Chapters00:00 The Journey of Self-Discovery02:45 Awakening Through Adversity05:34 Setting Boundaries and Redefining Identity08:19 Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth11:06 Building a Relationship with Yourself14:03 Embracing Your Inner Landscape19:17 Embracing Wisdom from Life Experiences22:11 The Journey of Coaching and Personal Growth25:49 Navigating Business Challenges and Entrepreneurship28:38 Rediscovering Self: Values and Non-Negotiables31:10 The Importance of Self-Compassion and Kindness resourcesSandra Wood's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sandrawoodcoach/Substack Articles by Sandra Wood - https://sandrawood.substack.com/Sandra Wood's Official Website - https://sandrawood.coachHave you been listening to Midlife with Courage™ and thinking, "That's me"?It's Not J.U.S.T. You™ is a transformational 4-week workshop designed for women who are ready to stop shrinking themselves, take up space, and live more boldly. We'll uncover the ways we make ourselves smaller, explore why, and practice tools to communicate with confidence, set boundaries, and step fully into the life we deserve.Ready for the next step? Support the showHave you been listening to Midlife with Courage™ and thinking, "That's me"?Now it's time to take the next step.It's Not J.U.S.T. You™ is a transformational 4-week workshop designed for women who are ready to stop shrinking themselves, take up space, and live more boldly. Together, we'll uncover the subtle ways we make ourselves smaller, explore why those patterns exist, and practice the tools to communicate with confidence, set healthy boundaries, and step fully into the life we deserve.If you're ready to move from inspiration to transformation, I'd love to have you join us this September.Click HERE for Priority Access. The podcast starts the conversation. The workshop is where the transformation begins.*****************************************************Want to be a guest on Midlife with Courage™-Bold Women Thriving After Forty with Kim Benoy? Send Kim Benoy a message on PodMatch, here: Podmatch Link NEWSLETTER WEBSITEFACEBOOK

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Tired of the constant mental chatter? Feeling drained by unresolved issues and endless to-do lists? You're a high-performer, always striving for excellence. But that drive often comes with a hidden cost: a mind full of "open loops" – those nagging thoughts, unfinished tasks, and unresolved conflicts that silently steal your energy. In this powerful discussion, we dive deep into the concept of neutrality – not as indifference, but as a strategic superpower for the exhausted high-achiever. Discover how embracing neutrality can help you: Stop the energy drain: Learn to identify and close those "open loops" that keep you mentally busy and emotionally depleted. Navigate conflict with calm: Instead of reacting and escalating, find your "defining moment" to manage situations with steady, anchored presence, even when things matter deeply. Reclaim your peace and sanity: Understand how to pause, gain clarity, and avoid the knee-jerk reactions that lead to bigger problems and deeper exhaustion. Transform relationships: Discover how a neutral stance can foster understanding, prevent damage, and create space for genuine repair, even in your most challenging interactions. Unlock more solutions: See how stepping back from immediate judgment and reaction opens up a world of possibilities and empowers you to find more effective outcomes. We'll explore practical strategies like: Noticing the "surge": Identifying what triggers your emotional reactions. Questioning your "story": Challenging your ingrained beliefs about situations and people. Asking for clarity: Slowing down conversations to truly understand, rather than assume. "Eating your popcorn": Observing situations without getting emotionally entangled. If you're ready to move beyond constant reaction and cultivate a powerful inner calm that fuels your performance without burning you out, this video is for you. Learn how to be present, hear clearly, and manage yourself so you don't "give up your sanity or your peace." Don't let open loops dictate your energy. Tap into the power of neutrality and reclaim your focus, peace, and effectiveness. If this resonated, there's probably an open loop of your own worth closing. My free Close the Loop tool walks you through it in about 15 minutes — a gentle place to start.

This one's personal. We're having an honest conversation about what it's like when your parents don't approve of your spouse. How do you honor your marriage while still loving your family? Why does setting boundaries with your parents come with so much guilt? We dive into the guilt trips, the unsolicited opinions, the "pero es tu mamá" and "pero es tu papá" comments, and the emotional tug-of-war so many of us experience. If you've ever felt stuck between choosing your peace and trying to keep everyone else happy, this episode will remind you that protecting your marriage doesn't mean you love your parents any less.Send us Fan MailSupport the show@dosboldlatinas

As a mom of three boys, one of the questions I think about most is: how do we raise healthy, resilient kids in a world that feels increasingly complicated? In this special compilation episode, I'm revisiting some of my favorite conversations about parenting, emotional health, food, independence, and resilience. These discussions have shaped the way I approach motherhood and have given me practical tools that I come back to again and again. You'll hear from Dr. Lauren Hartman on helping kids develop a healthy relationship with food and their bodies, Devon Kuntzman on understanding toddler behavior and responding with connection instead of reaction, Lenore Skenazy on why independence is one of the greatest gifts we can give our children, and Nicole Runyon on setting boundaries that foster confidence, resilience, and emotional strength. No matter what stage of parenting you're in, I hope these conversations remind you that raising healthy kids isn't about perfection, it's about showing up with consistency, presence, and trust. → Leave Us A Voice Message!  Topics Discussed: → How can parents reduce childhood anxiety? → What are signs of resilient children? → How do you avoid parenting power struggles? → How do kids develop healthy self-esteem? → What creates emotional resilience in children? Sponsored By:  → Function | Check your health the way I do. Function provides 160+ lab tests for $1/day and member pricing on MRI and CT scans. Join at https://functionhealth.com/bewellbykelly and use code BEWELL25 for a $25 credit. → Be Well By Kelly Protein Powder & Essentials | Get $10 off your order with PODCAST10 at https://bewellbykelly.com. → Timeline | Timeline's clinically proven formula is now more accessible. Mitopure starts at $99, and listeners can get 20% off at: https://timeline.com/KELLY Timestamps:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction → 00:01:23 - Dr. Lauren Hartmen: Eating Disorder Warning Signs  → 00:05:05 - The Physical Signs  → 00:06:55 - Talking to your child → 00:10:01 - Eating Disorder Education   → 00:14:22 - No One's To Blame → 00:17:26 - Personal Backstory → 00:22:01 - Finding The Balance + Rabbit Study  → 00:26:37 - Devon Kuntzman: Toddler Brain 101  → 00:31:54 - Teaching Emotional Regulation  → 00:37:17 - Knowing The Plan  → 00:40:48 - Tantrums vs Meltdowns → 00:43:34 - Handling Tantrums  → 00:47:21 - Setting Boundaries  → 00:49:06 - Lenore Skenazy: Why I Let My 9-Year-Old Ride The Train Alone → 00:52:48 - Helicopter Parenting Fears → 00:58:52 - Stop “Worst Case” Thinking → 01:04:28 - Nicole Runyon: Middle School Mental Health → 01:08:12 - Building Independence → 01:10:59 - Development Milestones → 01:14:34 - Cultivating Bravery  → 01:17:30 - Teen Driving Tips → 01:20:21 - Holding Kids' Boundaries Further Listening:  → Teen Eating Disorders, Early Signs, + How Parents Can Help | Dr. Lauren Hartman → Toddler Tantrums, Boundaries + Raising Emotionally Safe Kids | Devon Kuntzman → Why Kids Are More Anxious Today and How to Fix It | Lenore Skenazy → How to Raise Resilient Kids in a Tech Obsessed World | Nicole Runyon Check Out Dr. Lauren: → Freeing Children and Young Adults From Shame, Skills, and Stigma (book) → Website → Instagram Check Out Devin:  → Instagram → Website → Transforming Toddlerhood (Book)  Check Out Lenore: → Let Grow Kids  → Website → X ( Twitter) → Instagram → YouTube → Free Range Kids (Book) Check Out Nicole: → Website → Free To Fly (Book) → Instagram Check Out Kelly: → Instagram → Youtube → Facebook

In this episode: • Why we really avoid hard conversations (it's rarely "keeping the peace") • The four hidden costs of avoidance — the 2am rehearsal, the resentment that "builds the bomb," the slow drift, and the erosion of your own self-trust • How to get clear on what you actually want before you speak • How to "open it soft" so the truth gets through instead of hitting a wall of defense • Why their pushback means the conversation is working — not failing • Emotional stamina: the skill of staying steady, and why it's a muscle you build with reps The conversation is the way forward. This week: name one loop, get clear on what you want, and take one real step toward having it.

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Putting yourself first sounds simple until you actually try to do it. If you've ever said yes when you meant no, shrunk your own needs down before anyone even asked you to, or felt a wave of guilt the second you did something for yourself — this episode is for you. Lauren breaks down why so many women struggle to make themselves the priority in their own lives, and why it has nothing to do with being weak or not knowing better. From the way we're conditioned from childhood to center everyone else, to codependency patterns that hide behind generosity, to the attachment wounds that make self-advocacy feel like a threat — this episode names what's actually underneath the pattern so you can start seeing it clearly.Stay connected here Connect with me on Instagram  Please email me here: Lauren@ohyeahcoaching.comApply for coaching HEREWould You Date You? FREE guide

Show notes:What does it really take to build a wedding business that lasts for more than 30 years?In this episode, I'm delighted to welcome Kevin Dennis back onto the podcast. Kevin was actually a guest back in 2024 and since then, this podcast has become award-winning, so it felt like the perfect time to invite him back for another conversation. Kevin is the founder of Fantasy Sound Event Services, Wedding IQ and host of the Mind Your Wedding Business podcast. With more than three decades in the wedding industry, he's seen huge changes in how couples plan their weddings, how businesses market themselves and how technology is shaping the future of our industry. We dive into what it really takes to stay relevant over the long term, why relationships and networking still matter more than ever and how to embrace new technology without losing the human side of your business.Fantasy Sounds Event ServicesWedding IQMind Your Wedding Business podcastTime stamps:00:29 - Setting Boundaries for Better Work-Life Balance08:01 - The Journey of a Wedding Professional18:38 - Networking in the Wedding Industry28:28 - Embracing Technology in the Wedding Industry34:23 - Exploring CRM Systems and AI Tools52:38 - The Impact of AI on Technology Integration53:01 - The Impact of AI on Podcast PitchesMentioned in this episode:Club 150 - Wedding Pro Members LoungeA private membership for wedding business owners and venues who are ready to invest in their growth. Weekly coaching from Becca, monthly guest masterclasses, and a full on-demand training vault, all inside a community capped at just 150 members. Find out moreWedding Pro Members Lounge

In this powerful episode of the Finding God Podcast, host Keana W. Mitchell explores the emotional and spiritual impact of toxic church culture and how setting boundaries can be a sacred act of healing. Building on last week's episode about fear-based theology and its effects on mental health, Keana dives into how exclusion, racism, spiritual abuse, and prosperity gospel distort the image of God and damage our relationship with the Divine.Through Scripture, psychological insight, and trauma-informed reflection, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and practical tools for reclaiming your spiritual autonomy. Whether you've experienced religious trauma or are simply seeking a more authentic connection with God, this episode affirms that you are worthy of love, safety, and spiritual clarity.

What happens when life gives you a gut-check so intense, it transforms the way you measure success, joy, and purpose? In this deeply inspiring episode of Get Real, Get Results, Chantell Preston sits down with ESPN legend Holly Rowe—one of the most respected voices in sports reporting and a celebrated advocate for women in athletics—for a no-holds-barred conversation about resilience, redefining achievement, and living intentionally.Holly shares her journey from breaking barriers in a male-dominated industry to facing a stage 4 cancer diagnosis that forced her to re-examine everything: her career, motherhood, and what truly matters day to day. Discover Holly's powerful “joy journey,” the life-changing lessons that came from fighting mortality, and how she flips the script on people-pleasing, guilt, and the relentless chase for outside validation.You'll learn why embracing intentional downtime is essential, how to set boundaries without sacrificing passion, and ways to reframe self-talk for greater power and fulfillment. Holly opens up about the pressures women face to do it all, why quality wins over quantity in motherhood, and how to find courage and joy—even in the toughest moments. If you're craving real conversation about ambition, vulnerability, and what it means to truly “have it all,” don't miss this episode. Subscribe for more honest, transformative stories—and share with a friend who needs a shot of hope and perspective today.CHAPTERS00:00 Facing Mortality: A Doctor's Sobering Advice03:28 30 Years in Sports: One Missed Game, Many Lessons06:00 Earning Respect in a Male-Dominated Industry08:27 Redefining Success at Every Life Stage10:07 Make the Big Time Where You Are12:14 The Cancer Diagnosis That Changed Everything14:45 Choosing Joy: The Origins of a Joy Journal17:43 Setting Boundaries and Energy as Currency20:46 The Truth About Over-Achieving Moms22:50 Scheduling Downtime: Productivity in Stillness25:04 Power Statements: “I Am Magical, Powerful, Courageous”30:54 Vulnerability in Crisis: Admitting Fear and Asking for Help36:57 Chasing Joy Instead of External Validation38:19 Motherhood's Next Chapter: Grieving and Growth40:23 Spreading Joy: The Mission of the Joyous Foundation"Join host Chantell Preston, a seasoned professional with over two decades of experience in healthcare operations, project management, and consulting, as she shares invaluable insights and lessons learned from navigating the complexities of career advancement and personal satisfaction. Through candid conversations and expert advice, "Get Real, Get Results" serves as your go-to resource for achieving harmony between work and life without sacrificing well-being. Learn more at: https://chantellpreston.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chantellpreston

Every new manager has the potential to hit the same wall: burnout. The workload is real — but the thing that tips you over is a boundary problem you probably don't even see. In this episode, Jen breaks down the 3 boundaries new managers need to prevent burnout: ↳ Upward boundaries — When your boss keeps adding scope and after-hours demands  ↳ Downward boundaries — When you absorb your team's problems and underperformance ↳ Lateral boundaries — When you volunteer for peer requests and committee work Overfunctioning isn't dedication. It's a boundary failure — and on top of an already heavy workload, it leads straight to burnout. If you're noticing early burnout symptoms like chronic exhaustion, resentment toward your team, or the feeling that everything depends on you, this is the episode to listen to before it gets worse. Whether you're a first-time manager, a newly promoted team lead, or someone stepping into leadership development for the first time, these boundary strategies will help you protect your energy and actually lead instead of just surviving. Connect with Jen: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenparnold/ Are you a new leader looking for support? Check out Made to Lead, our 12-week cohort for first time people leaders. Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@themadeleader  

Have you ever felt guilty for saying no? Do you find yourself constantly explaining your decisions, justifying your boundaries, or seeking approval from others before making choices that are right for you? In this episode of The Luke Mind Power Podcast, Luke dives deep into the importance of self respect, healthy boundaries, and giving yourself permission to grow without feeling guilty. You'll discover why so many people struggle to receive compliments, why we often feel responsible for managing other people's emotions, and how learning to say "I receive that" can completely transform your confidence and self worth. This episode will help you: • Set boundaries without guilt • Stop over explaining your decisions • Learn how to receive compliments with confidence • Build stronger self worth and self respect • Release the need for approval from others • Prioritise your growth without feeling selfish • Create healthier relationships through honest communication Remember: Not everyone will understand your growth, and that's okay. You don't need permission to become the person you're meant to be. Connect with Luke Mind Power: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lukemindpower Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lukemindpower TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lukemindpower YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lukemindpower Website: https://www.lukemindpower.com Apply to Work With Luke: https://bh7srk181uk.typeform.com/mission100 Luke Mind Power Coaching Institute: https://bh7srk181uk.typeform.com/applyinstitute Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is intended for educational and personal development purposes only and should not be considered medical, psychological, legal, financial, or professional advice. Always seek appropriate professional guidance regarding your individual circumstances. Any opinions expressed are those of the host and guests at the time of recording and are subject to change. Results from coaching, personal development, or mindset work will vary based on individual effort, commitment, and circumstances. It's a blessing to be alive. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Have you ever set a boundary, chosen yourself, or walked away from a situation you knew wasn't healthy only to find yourself overwhelmed with guilt, anxiety, self-doubt, or the urge to go back?If so, you're not alone.In this episode, Dr. Kelly Kessler explores one of the biggest misconceptions about boundaries: the hard part isn't setting them. The hard part is staying loyal to yourself afterward.You'll learn why choosing yourself can trigger anxiety, guilt, overthinking, and the pull back into old patterns of self-abandonment. Kelly explains how the nervous system often interprets disappointing others, creating conflict, or stepping outside familiar roles as a threat, making it difficult to maintain boundaries even when you know they're right for you.In this episode, you'll discover:• Why boundaries often feel harder after you've set them• The connection between guilt, people-pleasing, and self-abandonment• Why your mind spirals and your body reacts after choosing yourself• How fear of rejection, conflict, and disappointing others keeps you stuck• The difference between setting a boundary and staying loyal to yourself• How to build the nervous system capacity to stop abandoning yourselfIf you've ever found yourself taking back a boundary, overexplaining your decisions, or questioning whether you're being selfish for honoring your needs, this conversation will help you understand what's really happening beneath the surface.Because the goal isn't simply setting boundaries.The goal is becoming the woman who can stay connected to herself even when guilt, fear, uncertainty, and other people's expectations try to pull her back into self-abandonment.Connect with Kelly:Ready to go deeper?If this episode resonated, start with my free Self-Abandonment Audit — a powerful first step to uncover where you may be putting everyone else first, overriding your needs, or talking yourself out of what you know is right for you.Get the audit here:⁠https://drkellykessler.com/selfaudit⁠Ready for more support? The Self-Respect Reset is my 4-week self-paced course designed for women who know what they need but struggle to follow through. You'll learn how to navigate guilt, build self-trust, create healthier boundaries, and stop abandoning yourself in the moments that matter most.Learn more here:⁠https://drkellykessler.com/selfrespectreset⁠Looking for personalized support? The Self-Loyalty Mentorship is for the woman who is ready to stop second-guessing herself, stay true to what she knows, and build the capacity to hold her boundaries and decisions with confidence—even when it's uncomfortable.Learn more here:⁠https://drkellykessler.com/selfloyaltymentorship⁠

Sandra Beck of Coach Talk Radio sits down with relationship expert Duana Welch to talk about one of the most delicate family dynamics—integrating your partner's children into your home. Blending families isn't just about logistics. It's about expectations, boundaries, and emotional undercurrents that can quickly create tension if they're not addressed directly. In this episode, Dr. Welch breaks down how to establish respect without overstepping, how to communicate with your partner as a unified team, and how to create structure that supports everyone in the household. The conversation also tackles common missteps—trying too hard to be liked, avoiding conflict, or failing to define roles early—and how those choices can backfire over time. Instead, you'll get practical strategies to build trust, maintain balance, and navigate the gray areas that come with blended family life. If you're living this reality—or considering it—this episode offers a grounded approach that prioritizes clarity, consistency, and long-term stability. Coach Talk Radio is available on Audible, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, iHeartRadio, Stitcher, Player FM, and Podcast Addict.

In this episode, Dr. Stuart Slavin is joined by Julie Beckerdite, director of education for the Departments of Pathology and Psychiatry, and Carrie Racsumberger, fellowship program manager in the Department of Pathology - both at Mass General Brigham. Together, they share insights from their work on the ACGME Coordinator Advisory Group in a practical conversation on the relationships that shape the program coordinator role in graduate medical education (GME). Drawing on their experience, Beckerdite and Racsumberger discuss how interactions with residents, fellows, faculty members, and program leaders can be both a major source of satisfaction and a source of ongoing challenge. They share strategies for setting expectations early, communicating effectively, and addressing common issues like delayed responses, professionalism concerns, and recurring administrative demands. They also emphasize the importance of establishing clear boundaries with the support of leadership while maintaining a respectful, collaborative approach that promotes accountability and teamwork. The conversation highlights the meaningful connections coordinators build with residents/fellows, and the important role they play in supporting professional development and fostering psychological safety within programs. Throughout the discussion, Beckerdite and Racsumberger emphasize perspective-taking, consistency, and the value of strong relationships in navigating difficult situations. Listeners will gain practical insights into how intentional communication and clear role definition can strengthen team culture and enhance the coordinator experience in GME. Podcast Chapters (00:00) – Intro and Guest Introduction (00:45) – Focus on Coordinator Well-Being and Relationships (02:10) – Managing Task Completion and Setting Expectations (04:41) – Using Leadership Support and Accountability (06:45) – Coordinator Role in Professionalism and Recruitment (09:20) – Setting Boundaries and Defining the Coordinator Role (11:45) – Finding Satisfaction in Resident Relationships (13:25) – Managing Difficult Interactions and Perspective (15:52) – Growth, Meaning, and Supporting Trainees (16:26) – Psychological Safety and Connection (17:23) – Coordinators as Leaders (18:20) – Closing and Resources

You say yes when you mean no.You smile through disrespect. You swallow words that deserve to be spoken. You let people cross lines you didn't even know you were allowed to draw.And then you wonder why your body aches in places medicine can't explain. Why exhaustion isn't fixed by rest. Why resentment builds in spaces you can't name.Here's the truth they didn't tell you: Anger is not the problem. The suppression of anger is the problem.You were taught that good people don't get mad. That anger is destructive. That keeping the peace is more important than keeping yourself whole.So you buried something vital. You buried your RIGHTEOUS RAGE CIRCUIT — the critical system in your brain designed to protect you, to say no more, to draw the sacred line.But rage isn't what they told you it was.At its root, rage is passion. It is the fire that says: I matter. My needs are real. I deserve to take up space.And when you bury that fire, you don't extinguish it. You just force it underground where it burns differently — as chronic pain, as autoimmune flare-ups, as depression that no amount of gratitude journaling can touch.Let me explain how this works neurologically.Your brain runs a system — the rage circuit — rooted in your amygdala and hypothalamus. When activated, it releases adrenaline and cortisol. It sharpens your focus. It mobilizes your body. It prepares you to protect what matters.In its healthy expression, this is the energy of boundaries. Of assertiveness. Of passion that builds rather than destroys.If anger is allowed to flow appropriately, it does its job and moves through.If anger is suppressed chronically, it doesn't disappear. It rewires your nervous system into a state of constant, silent defense.Your body stays tight. Your jaw clenches without you noticing. Your shoulders carry weight that isn't yours. And over time, the suppression itself becomes the wound.Here's how the vow forms: If expressing anger was punished in your early environment — if a raised voice meant danger, if asserting yourself led to abandonment, if conflict taught you that feeling strongly equals being unsafe — your brain made a deal.Suppress the fire. Keep the peace.Disappear if necessary.The internal dialogue cement unconscious vows like … - I must suppress my anger - It's dangerous to be assertive - I must avoid conflict at all costs to be invisible This is your operating system running beneath everything — your relationships, your career, compounding your body's chronic tension.These vows were wise when they very much did feel like protection. They kept you safe in environments that couldn't hold your full power.But you are no longer that small. And the fire does not have to stay buried.I want to be very clear about something: Healthy anger is not violence. It is vitality.It is the part of you that refuses to betray yourself one more time. It is the energy that says this far, no further. It is the force that protects what you love — including yourself.If you've been taught that anger makes you a bad person, then you've been taught to abandon yourself at the first sign of discomfort.And that is not spiritual. That is not evolved. It's just another way of shutting down and disappearing.FLIP IT.Instead, gently turn toward your heart—where the hurt still lives and the lingering anger quietly simmers.I created this 10-minute audio journey to help you meet the part of yourself that carries this fire. Not to unleash it recklessly, but to restore it as a source of strength, clarity, and healthy boundaries.In this frequency-based experience, we explore The Fire of Passion—the RAGE circuit that fuels your assertiveness, courage, and ability to protect what matters.If you've ever struggled to say “no,” stand up for yourself, or express anger without shame, this holds the key.The immersion supports you in:* Releasing chronic people-pleasing and self-abandonment* Reconnecting with healthy anger as a source of vitality* Softening stored tension in the body* Building nervous system safety around assertiveness* Reclaiming your personal power—without aggressionEasily Listen Here. This journey was co-created with our resident intuitive guide, who masterfully works with the 7 emotive circuits that shape your reality. The frequency-based design creates spaciousness in your nervous system—so your natural curiosity can return, free from pressure or performance.After you listen, I invite you to explore the unconscious vows that may still be keeping your fire contained.For just $7/month, you'll receive all 5 guides plus the complete 5-Layer Trauma-Informed healing process.This isn't about becoming more aggressive.It's about coming home to the full spectrum of your aliveness—where healthy anger is no longer the problem…but the power that finally finds its way back to you.And that is the bravest kind of beginning.

Would you sue your own grandmother's homeowner's insurance if she broke your leg? What if your brother stole from you and refused to pay it back? Today, we are getting real about toxic family dynamics and the myth of unconditional forgiveness. Welcome back to another episode of the Palm Wine Central Podcast with Unkle AK, Hann P, and Tutu! In this episode, things get heated as we debate when it is finally time to cut off toxic family members. Tutu shares why she hasn't spoken to her brother in two years after a financial betrayal, and we discuss the viral story of a 26-year-old who sued his grandmother's homeowner's association after she fell and broke his femur. We also dive into setting boundaries with disrespectful aunties in African households, debate whether you need a Costco or Sam's Club membership, and react to the disgusting viral trend of washing underwear in hotel coffee makers!Topics:- Intro & Hannah's Pickleball Injury Talk - Do you need to have the last word in an argument?- Tutu's 2-Year Silence: When Family Steals from You- Viral Debate: Suing Grandma for a Broken Femur!- Setting Boundaries with Disrespectful African Aunties- Costco vs. Sam's Club: Which is Actually Better?- Hygiene Habits: How Many Showers Should You Take a Day?- Washing Underwear in Hotel Coffee Makers?! (Gross)- Final Thoughts & OutroIf you enjoyed the debate today, make sure to SMASH that subscribe button to help our channel grow! Like this video and drop a comment down below to let us know whose side you are on.- Produced by: Palm Wine Central Productions- Listen On: Spotify | Apple Podcasts | YouTube | Amazon Music- Watch more: https://www.youtube.com/@pwcpodcast-

Setting boundaries in a narcissistic relationship isn't just hard — it can feel impossible. In this Community Chat, Renee is joined by 2 ladies from the CNG community for an honest conversation about what boundaries really looked like in their relationships with covert narcissists. They talk about growing up without healthy boundary models, what happened when they tried to voice even the most basic needs, and how guilt, fear, and exhaustion became part of their everyday lives. Miranda shares what it felt like to finally set a boundary and have it met with encouragement instead of punishment. Nicole opens up about the years she spent scripting conversations perfectly — only to have them blow up anyway — and the moment she stopped taking the bait. If you've ever felt like your needs were too much, been guilt-tripped for asking for basic respect, or wondered why something so simple felt so terrifying, this episode will help you feel seen. Topics covered: Why boundaries were absent or unmodeled in childhood What happens when you set a boundary with a narcissist The guilt that comes even when you know the boundary is right The exhaustion of over-explaining and people pleasing What it feels like the first time a boundary is actually respected How to start setting boundaries when you're scared The Covert Narcissism Podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. Nothing shared here should be taken as professional mental health advice. If you are in crisis or need support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What does it take to move from being a transactional Executive Assistant to becoming a true strategic business partner?In this episode of The EA Campus Podcast, I sit down with Gillian Gelston, Executive Assistant at Salesforce, to discuss her career journey from the Northern Ireland Fire and Rescue Service to supporting senior leaders in one of the world's leading technology companies.Gillian shares how she built a successful remote EA career, the systems and workflows that have helped her save time and money for her Executive, and why understanding personality types has transformed the way she works with different leaders.We also discuss:How Gillian transitioned into the Executive Assistant professionBuilding trust and credibility as a remote EAThe importance of boundaries and protecting your timeUsing Slack workflows to streamline approvals and reduce email overloadHow a simple budget approval workflow saved thousands in unauthorised spendWhy compliance can be a valuable area of expertise for Executive AssistantsManaging competing priorities in a fast-paced sales environmentCreating a single source of communication to reduce overwhelmThe role of personality frameworks in understanding ExecutivesFinding your support network as a remote EADeveloping a growth mindset and continuing professional developmentThe books, podcasts and resources Gillian recommends for Executive AssistantsThis conversation is packed with practical ideas for Executive Assistants who want to become more strategic, work more effectively with their Executive, and create systems that make work easier for everyone around them.Whether you work remotely, in the office, or in a hybrid role, you'll come away with plenty of ideas you can implement immediately.Training & Courses→ The Strategic Business Partner Online Course (The EA Campus)→ Elite EA Course by C&C AcademyBooks→ The Modern-Day Assistant by Lucy Brazier→ The Happiness Advantage by Shawn Achor→ The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen CoveyPodcasts→ The EA Campus Podcast→ The Crodie Files→ Executive Office InsightsFrameworks & Assessments→ Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI)→ The Four Tendencies by Gretchen RubinTechnology & Tools→ Slack→ Slack Canvas→ Slack Workflow Builder→ ChatGPT→ Google Gemini→ Google DocsLearning Resources→ Slack Academy→ The Global Skills Matrix for Executive Assistants→ The Rundown AI The EA Campus

What's up, y'all? Welcome back to Damn We Grown! On this beautiful Wednesday, Mike and Tiff are sliding some serious soul into your feed, and they didn't come alone. This week, they are joined by the soulful, sultry, ready-to-save-the-world therapist extraordinaire, Shimeka Arnold!The couch gets real comfortable real quick as Shimeka drops absolute gems on everything from her early days as an elementary school conflict counselor (shout out to the yellow shirts!) to the profound impact of epigenetics and generational trauma in the Black community.But the real breakthrough happens when the conversion flips to relationships, mental health, and the specific pressures Black men face. Mike gets put in the hot seat about his own hesitation toward therapy, leading to a powerful, paradigm-shifting breakdown of what "strength" actually means. Shimeka completely deconstructs the colonizer-ingrained mindset that men have to carry everything alone, explaining why vulnerability isn't a weakness—and why a true partner is there to help share the emotional weight.From hilarious breakdowns of "energy vampires" and how to hit them with boundaries, to a legendary analysis of a classic James Baldwin and Nikki Giovanni discussion, this episode balances deep, therapeutic wisdom with the signature comedic chemistry you love.Plus, Shimeka leaves the listeners with some powerful, free energy-work mantras to help shift your mind, protect your peace, and transform your daily life.Contact Shimeka for all your therapy needs and energy work.www.LovelyDayFamilyTherapy.com@LovelyDayFamilyTherapy

This week on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi unpack why it can feel more upsetting when someone quietly backs out of a commitment than when they simply say no. A listener writes in after a friend offers to dog-sit, only to seemingly retract the offer without actually owning the change of heart. The hosts discuss the difference between setting boundaries and avoiding discomfort, why indirect communication can feel so invalidating, and how a little honesty can go a long way in preserving trust. Plus, they share advice for navigating disappointment when expectations don't match reality. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You've started setting boundaries.You've blocked focus time on your calendar.And yet somehow… you're still overwhelmed.Because overwhelm at senior levels isn't usually caused by a lack of boundaries.It's caused by your inability to let go and say “no.”You're still reviewing every deck.Fixing other people's work.Sitting in meetings you don't need to attend.Making yourself available for every question, decision, and fire drill.And without realizing it, you've made yourself responsible for far more than you should be carrying.In this episode of Breaking Free from the Grind, I'm diving in to discuss:Why high-performing women remain overwhelmed even after setting boundaries…and how the real problem is making yourself the safety net for everyone and everything around youThe Let Go & Say No Gap: how struggling to delegate, release control, trust your team, and say no without guilt keeps you trapped in reactive leadership, constant urgency, and exhaustionThe critical identity shift from “my value comes from being needed” to “my value comes from leading strategically”...and how this shift creates more time, stronger teams, greater leadership impact, and sustainable successIf you find yourself reviewing every deliverable, rewriting emails, staying involved in everything, and feeling like the only way things get done right is if you do them yourself...This episode will help you identify exactly where you're still carrying work that no longer belongs to you—and show you how to start leading at your level instead.Next Level™ Leader Quiz: You're smart. Capable. Proven. So why does the next level still feel harder than it should? Take my free Next Level™ Leader quiz to uncover the hidden pattern slowing your rise…and what to do next. Take the Next Level™ Leader Quiz here. 30-min. Leadership Strategy Consult: On a private consult, we'll identify exactly where you're still operating as the doer, fixer, problem-solver, and safety net inside your organization. Together, we'll uncover the patterns keeping you overwhelmed and map out the leadership shifts required to help you lead more strategically, create stronger boundaries, and thrive at the next level without burnout. If you're serious about accelerating into your next level of leadership without sacrificing your sanity to get there, this is the place to start.  Book your 30-min. Leadership Strategy Consult here. About AmeliaAmelia Noël is an executive coach and former investment banking and consulting professional who helps high-achieving women in demanding corporate roles develop their Executive Edge™ to rise into senior leadership...and thrive there without burnout. Through her coaching, workshops, and podcast, Breaking Free from the Grind, Amelia helps women strengthen their executive presence, increase visibility and influence, communicate their value with confidence, and shift from overworking to leading more strategically at their next level. Her work blends over a decade of real-world corporate experience with practical leadership development to help women become the kind of leaders that bigger opportunities, and bigger rooms, are built for. Connect with Ameliawww.amelianoelcoaching.comIG: @breakingfreefromthegrindLinkedIn: Amelia Noel

Morning Mantra: "I own my words, thoughts, and actions. I don't own your reaction to them. “Setting limits with toxic people doesn't mean you're not concerned about the feelings of others. It simply means you recognize the importance of your peace. Your peace of mind should be the most important thing. If someone reacts strongly to your boundaries that's on them.  So pay attention to when people react with anger and hostility to your boundaries.  You have found the line where their respect for you ends.It's never really about your boundary. It's about their emotional immaturity.  Boundaries set limits that reveal emotional immaturity.  But you, just like everyone else are allowed to have limits to what you will tolerate.#BeOKWithBoundaries #BeHappy #BeHorsey #BeHippie #HorseHippie #MorningMantra #WordsToInspire #InspirationalQuotes #SmallBusinessOwner #WomenOwned #HorseHippieBoutique #MorningMotivation #Equestrian #HorseLover #QuotesToInspire #HorseHippieBoutique

When someone you love is in real, chronic pain — how do you set a boundary without feeling like a monster? This episode tackles one of the most complex and underaddressed dynamics in narcissistic abuse recovery: what happens when covert narcissism and chronic illness exist in the same relationship. Prompted by a heartfelt question from a listener in a long-term marriage, this episode explores how legitimate vulnerability — illness, mental health struggles, financial hardship — can become a tool for guilt and obligation in the hands of a covert narcissist. We walk through the caretaker trap, how caring people get conditioned into carrying everything, and the crucial difference between supporting someone and being responsible for them. You'll also learn what it looks like to set boundaries with empathy — not harshly, not meanly, but firmly and with care — even when the person on the other side is genuinely suffering. If you've ever felt guilty for having limits, this episode is for you. Topics include: The caretaker trap Legitimate vulnerabilities used as leverage Difference between support and responsibility How a narcissist responds when you try to step back Wetting boundaries with empathy in chronic illness situations. Ready to stop navigating this alone? Learn about coaching at covertnarcissism.com The information provided by Renee Swanson, Covert Narcissism Podcast, and CNG Life Coaching is for educational purposes only and is not to be used for diagnosis purposes and not intended to be a substitute for clinical care. Please consult a health care provider for guidance specific to your case. This material discusses narcissism in general. Renee shares stories from her personal experiences as well as from those she has talked with for several years. Her material does not claim that any specific person has narcissism and should not be used to refer to any specific person as having narcissism. Permission is not granted to link to or repost this material to support an allegation or support a claim that any specific person is a narcissist. That would be an unauthorized misuse of the material and information provided. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

SummaryThis episode explores the challenges faced by the sandwich generation—adults caring for aging parents while managing their own families and careers. Dr. Natalie shares insights on emotional, physical, and financial strains, and offers practical strategies for setting boundaries, seeking support, and prioritizing self-care to navigate this demanding phase of life.Keywordssandwich generation, midlife, caregiving, self-care, boundaries, emotional health, physical strain, financial stress, family dynamics, personal growthKey TopicsStatistics on adult caregivers and gender differencesEmotional and physical toll of caregivingFinancial challenges faced by caregiversThe shift from transactional to relational caregivingStrategies for setting boundaries and seeking supportTakeawaysPrioritize self-care to sustain caregiving capacitySet clear boundaries to protect emotional and physical healthSeek support and resources to avoid burnoutReframe caregiving as an act of self-love and modeling for future generationsRecognize that saying no is a valid and necessary choiceSound bites:"You're not alone in this.""64% report moderate to high emotional strain.""Saying no is a valid and necessary choice."Chapters00:00 Understanding the Sandwich Generation06:22 Financial Strain and Overwork11:19 Setting Boundaries and Self-Care16:39 Modeling Healthy Behaviors for Future GenerationsResources & Links to Connect with Dr. Natalie:Learn to Love Your Story Coaching- ⁠⁠https://learntoloveyourstory.com⁠⁠Dr. Natalie's Counseling Practice - ⁠⁠https://nataliemarcounseling.com⁠⁠ If you are in MN, book your free 15-minute consultation with Dr. Natalie. Facebook:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/learntoloveyourstory⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/dr.nataliemarr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Linked In:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/natalie-m-marr/⁠⁠⁠⁠Tik Tok:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@doc.natalieDISCLAIMER: The content in this podcast and video is not a replacement for therapy and is not clinical, medical, or mental health treatment. Dr. Natalie Marr is a Licensed Psychologist in the state of Minnesota. Her work with ⁠⁠(⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://LearnToLoveYourStory.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠)⁠, ⁠(⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://NatalieMarrCounseling.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠),⁠ and all affiliate social media entities is educational and coaching based ONLY. She IS NOT offering therapeutic services of any kind on these mediums. If you or someone you know is having a mental health crisis or having thoughts of suicide, please use the following crisis resources (this is not an exhaustive list of available resources):National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org⁠/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠or CALL 988Crisis Text Line:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.crisistextline.org/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠or Text HOME to 741741

In this episode, we're getting real about boundaries (the kind we know we need but don't always set ). We talk through our own experiences with grief, support, and how community has shifted—from in-person friendships to more online connections. We also dive into balancing advocacy, friendships, and actually having time for ourselves. Friendships look different in every season, and finding your people—whatever that looks like—matters more than ever. Consider this your reminder that taking care of yourself isn't optional. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

The Practice of Setting Boundaries

Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeHow to set & enforce boundaries without looking weak or insecure.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who says he struggles to address difficult relationship topics. He's worried about looking weak, jealous or insecure when bringing up things his girlfriend does that he doesn't like. She has some male orbiters who she texts with and he wants it to stop. If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1

Dr. Becky Kennedy is the founder and CEO of Good Inside, a parenting movement that overturns a lot of conventional, modern parenting practices to empower parents to become sturdy, confident leaders and raise sturdy, confident kids. She is the author of the bestselling book Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be, a chart-topping podcast, a TED talk with more than 5 million views on the power of repair.This episode is brought to you by:Monarch track, budget, plan, and do more with your money: Monarch.com/Tim Shopify global commerce platform, providing tools to start, grow, market, and manage a retail business: Shopify.com/tim*This episode was originally published in December 2024. Show notes and links: https://tim.blog/2024/12/27/dr-becky-kennedy-good-inside/TIMESTAMPS:[00:00:00] Start.[00:01:55] The power of repair.[00:04:50] "It's never your fault when I yell at you."[00:08:55] What does it mean to be a "good" parent?[00:10:32] Activating curiosity over judgment.[00:13:33] Alternatives to saying "Good job" as a confidence builder.[00:20:50] Making kids happy vs. building capability.[00:24:18] A pilot metaphor for sturdy leadership.[00:29:30] Role confusion.[00:32:04] Defining boundaries.[00:35:07] How parenting becomes a two-way mirror for growth.[00:40:09] The MGI (Most Generous Interpretation) approach.[00:42:52] Biggest challenges in parenting.[00:46:52] Recommended reading for someone with kids in their life.[00:52:11] Advisable prerequisites for singles who aim to build a family.[00:56:18] Setting boundaries with grandparents and dealing with different parenting styles.[01:01:42] Handling frustration when a child is pushing your buttons.[01:09:58] Lessons learned from working with eating disorders.[01:13:26] Managing troublemaker behavior.[01:17:38] Bad influence intervention.[01:22:52] Cultivating resilience in "deeply feeling" kids (DFKs).[01:28:58] The trials and errors that birthed Good Inside.[01:32:53] "Our words are not our wishes. Our words are our fears."[01:40:07] Billboard messages and mantras.[01:48:00] Fan-favorite scripts on saying no, boundaries, and repair.[01:51:15] The tennis court metaphor for boundaries.[01:55:45] Resources and parting thoughts.For show notes and past guests on The Tim Ferriss Show, please visit tim.blog/podcast.For deals from sponsors of The Tim Ferriss Show, please visit tim.blog/podcast-sponsorsSign up for Tim's email newsletter (5-Bullet Friday) at tim.blog/friday.For transcripts of episodes, go to tim.blog/transcripts.Discover Tim's books: tim.blog/books.Follow Tim:Twitter: twitter.com/tferriss Instagram: instagram.com/timferrissYouTube: youtube.com/timferrissFacebook: facebook.com/timferriss LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/timferrissSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What if you didn't have to please everyone? Good news is... you don't.  High achieving moms often fall into the people pleaser trap, but carrying the mental load of everyone else's expectations creates a "gross energy" of resentment that actually repels abundance. So we are diving into the power of mindful boundaries and how to transition from depletion to reciprocal energy.  Push play to learn how to speak your truth and create the grounded, solid energy that money loves to be around!   PS. Ready to see the "forest in the trees" and create a bigger vision for your life? BOOK YOUR CALL

Does setting boundaries make you immediately feel guilty?Do you finally decide to say no, ask for space, or stop carrying everyone else's emotions… and then immediately wonder if you're being selfish?You're not alone.In this episode, Alicia is diving into why boundaries can feel so uncomfortable—especially for stepmoms who are used to people pleasing, over-functioning, and carrying the emotional weight of everyone around them.If you've ever felt responsible for keeping the peace, fixing everyone's feelings, or making sure nobody is disappointed, this episode will help you understand why boundaries can feel "mean" even when they're healthy.You'll learn why guilt doesn't always mean you're doing something wrong, how people pleasing can quietly fuel resentment, and practical ways to start setting boundaries without feeling like the villain in your own home.Because boundaries aren't about pushing people away.They're about protecting your peace.Resources Mentioned:Download your free boundaries resource:Aliciakrasko.com/boundariesJoin The Stepmom Side Community:The Stepmom Side CommunitySupport the showWant a specific topic covered? Let me know here.After you listen to this, tag me on Instagram @aliciakrasko and let me know what you think!Get all the FREE RESOURCES here.Want to learn more about The Stepmom Side community? Here's where you get all the info. Looking forward to connecting with you on the inside.All things Alicia visit www.aliciakrasko.comGet on the list,  get behind the scene info on Stepmom life, and tips delivered to your inbox.

Pre-Order new book, The Price of Becoming www.LearningLeader.com/Becoming This is brought to you by Insight Global. If you need to hire one person, hire a team of people, or transform your business through Talent or Technical Services, Insight Global's team of 30,000 people around the world has the hustle and grit to deliver My Guest: Dr. Nicole LePera is the creator of The Holistic Psychologist, a platform with over 12 million followers, and the author of three New York Times bestselling books, including her newest, Reparenting the Inner Child. Key Learnings: Nicole was good at everything, so struggling meant failure. Her family's message was clear: success in life meant financial security through academics or athletics. The implicit message: you're worthy when you're bringing home A's, when you're winning the softball game. She quickly learned to identify things she wasn't immediately good at and just not pursue them. She filtered life, staying on the path of comfort. Your childhood adaptations don't leave. Nicole calls it the inner child. It doesn't matter how old you are or how far beyond your childhood you think you've gotten. It impacts you in reactions, in identities, in your way of being. What was once your best attempt at safety, security, or connection still drives behavior today. Not all adaptations are problems. Many continue to benefit us. The question isn't whether the adaptation is good or bad. The question is: are you choosing it, or is it choosing you? Nicole's drive for achievement created opportunities. It led to massive impact. But she still has the overachiever who wants to blow past her limits and say yes when she's exhausted but means no.   The Holistic Psychologist started in 2018, and Nicole had no idea it would explode. She was living in Philadelphia, operating within a private practice model. Within the first year, people from around the world were resonating, joining, and interested in working with her in this new way. But at the beginning, even learning how to speak on camera was such a big challenge. Her partner would say, "Say what you said to me earlier," and Nicole's mind would go blank. Just putting a camera in front of her was near debilitating. Boundaries are about knowing who and when to take feedback from. Sometimes the feedback from a loved one, while uncomfortable, is helpful to hear. Other times, it's a helpful boundary where you're not opening yourself up to the opinion of someone who has a different vantage point or is speaking from their own projection. That's allowed Nicole to create safety in herself, confidence in herself, which translates to flow. Several years in, Nicole's dad sat front row at her book event, crying with pride. In the beginning, her dad and mom would ask, "Why do you have to use us as the example? Why do you have to share about our family?" Nicole would explain: " This is the only experience I can speak from, and our family's experience is so common. To see her dad, who came from a family largely shut down emotionally, crying in understanding and pride, was overwhelming and validating for why she does this work. At 13, Nicole was getting straight A's but unraveling on the inside. She was socially shy, struggled to order food at restaurants, and had very few friends. Then she discovered alcohol and pot made her feel comfortable. That anxiety she lived with suddenly felt freer. She would stumble through the living room at night, her parents already in bed, then wake up at 6:00 AM the next day, pitch a softball tournament, win it, and seemingly be fine. Her parents had no idea. She was very good at suppressing her emotions and coping. By contrast, on the surface, it seemed like she was doing well. They were a family who didn't really talk about emotions, so they had no indication. The drive itself isn't the problem. It's the energy that inspires action. Nicole's dad worked into the night to support the family. Her mom would say, "why not 100?" when Nicole brought home a 96. That translated into drive and ambition. That's not a problem. For a lot of us, it's the energy that inspires action and translates into impact. It can become a problem when we have no limits to our working, where we exhaust ourselves and burn out, where we don't feel worthy in moments of inaction or rest. The marker of a healthy relationship with drive is flexibility. When you're forced to stop because you're sick, exhausted, emotionally overwhelmed, or someone else needs you, can you be flexible enough to do that without feeling terrible about yourself? The ability to choose to say, "Okay, contextually speaking, I need to pause," and still feel okay about yourself, that's the marker.   Hold space for both: acknowledging harm and taking agency. Other people have contributed to our discomfort. Maybe parents didn't meet our needs. If we don't acknowledge that, we suppress. But we also can't stay stuck in anger and resentment. A true boundary isn't demanding that someone else be different. That's still giving away your agency. A true boundary is saying: you've hurt me, and I'm gonna take responsibility that I'm allowing it. I'm gonna show up differently now to limit the impact of what you're doing. Talking about trauma can keep it alive in your body. Trauma doesn't live in logic and understanding. It lives in your body. It lives in habits and reactions. Your mind is so powerful that you can think something and feel as if you're living it in that moment. If you're going week after week talking about all the things that are hurting you, you're continuing to keep that alive in your body. Holistic psychology bridges the gap between mind and body. Traditional psychology focused solely on the mind. The CBT model says if we think differently, we produce different feelings, then different actions. But Nicole was missing the body. Our nervous system, our earliest environments, neurobiologically created patterns wired into us. Science now shows we maintain the ability to change throughout our lives. Drop into your body. Where is your attention right now? Are you feeling your muscles, your heels impacting the earth, where you're sitting? Or are you so lost in thought you're disconnected? Jaw clenched? Fists clenched? Shoulders up to your ears? Holding your breath? Breathing short and quick from your chest? These are markers that your body is under stress right now. Once you have that information, make small shifts. Slow and deepen your breath. Elongate your exhale just a little longer than your inhale. If your movements are quick, slow them down. If you're holding tension, release it. Now you're regulating your body so you can show up differently. Meditation is just awareness. It's not sitting cross-legged trying to make your mind quiet. Life can be a meditative experience. Thoughts are helpful. They're where we create things, have insights. The goal isn't a blank, quiet mind. The goal is awareness. Nicole calls it her spaceship. Her protective habit for so long has been to dissociate, to disconnect. She pursued clinical psychology where she can live in her mind. When what she's feeling in her body is too uncomfortable, the quickest path out is to distract herself with someone else, with the next achievement. This work has made Nicole's relationships more real. More authentic. More grounded in vulnerability, messiness, emotion as opposed to curated versions of who she thinks she needs to be. What she's most familiar with is dealing with all her feelings alone. The Harvard study found one thing leads to a happy life: love. Ryan referenced the longitudinal Harvard study that has gone on for 90 years studying what leads to a happy life. At the end of the day, it's love. The ones who live the happiest, longest, most fruitful lives are surrounded by people they love and who love them.  What a gift it is to be loved for all of yourself, not just the perfect parts. When you can show someone all of yourself, your messiness, the things you hid and kept secret, and still be loved. The overachiever gets to show more parts of herself, and people don't abandon her. They stay. That's the love most of us are striving for. We are all a bunch of messy humans trying to figure it out as we go. Nicole's champagne moment a year from now: presence and beingness. Whatever is happening or not happening in her life, she's celebrating the celebration of that moment. Being alive. Feeling the gratitude, the joy. Not focusing on what was produced to give her the opportunity to celebrate, but being present to the life around her. The taste of the champagne, the humans surrounding her in that moment.  Reflection Questions Which childhood adaptations are still driving your behavior today? Are you choosing them, or are they choosing you? When was the last time you actually dropped into your body and checked: am I tense? Am I holding my breath? Am I stressed? Who in your life sees all of you, not just the polished version, and loves you anyway? More Learning #547: Dr. Michael Gervais - Stop Worrying About What People Think of You #140: Dr. Carol Dweck - The Power of a Growth Mindset #229: Dr. Henry Cloud - Be So Good They Can't Ignore You Podcast Chapters 00:00 Book Announcement  01:08 Show Intro and Guest Setup  02:36 Good at Everything: The Hidden Cost  06:47 When Therapy Stopped Working  09:32 How The Holistic Psychologist Started on Instagram  11:20 Purpose, Fame, and Setting Boundaries  15:06 How Her Family Reacted to the Spotlight  19:21 At 13: Straight A's and Self-Medicating  22:12 What Her Parents Missed  23:48 Drive vs. Worthiness: Where It Becomes a Problem  29:20 Why Flexibility Beats Rigidity  31:03 Agency vs. Blame in Therapy  31:57 When Therapy Becomes an Excuse  33:47 What a Real Boundary Actually Is  35:44 The "Bad Therapy" Debate  38:50 What Holistic Psychology Actually Means  41:35 Daily Body Practices, Not Retreats  44:06 How to Drop Into Your Body  46:38 Meditation Is Just Awareness  49:36 Why Vulnerability Makes Relationships Real  52:07 The Harvard Study: Love Is Everything  55:36 The Champagne Question: Being Present  57:33 EOPC  

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As a culture change enthusiast with hundreds of presentations under her belt, Dr. Christy Kane transforms audiences when she speaks. Her message is based on the belief that embracing mental health as a positive is essential to thriving.   All of Dr. Kane’s work has one goal: to help people care for their brains and live better lives. By incorporating brain-based research, storytelling, and a thought-provoking delivery, she makes difficult topics engaging and memorable.​   Dr. Kane has a Doctorate in Psychology and a clinical license (CMHC) in addition to being a successful business owner and leader. Dr. Kane has provided mental health corporate consulting, corporate training, and professional development training for school districts in multiple states.  Links KaneCounselingServices.com Watch the video and share your thoughts in the Zion Lab community Transcript available with the video in the Zion Lab community Highlights Dr. Kane discusses the complexities of mental health within the context of church leadership. The conversation focuses on how leaders can better understand mental health dynamics, set appropriate boundaries, and support members effectively. Key Insights Understanding Mental Health Trends: Dr. Kane highlights the rise of “gray divorce,” where older couples are increasingly seeking divorce after decades of marriage, often due to lack of growth and connection in their relationships. Boundaries in Leadership: Leaders must establish clear boundaries to protect their mental health and avoid overstepping into roles that require professional training, such as therapy. This includes recognizing when to refer members to mental health professionals. Curiosity Over Judgment: Leaders should approach conversations with curiosity rather than jumping to conclusions. Asking open-ended questions can help members feel safe and understood, allowing for more effective support. Recognizing Mental Health Issues: Leaders need to differentiate between spiritual struggles and mental health issues. Persistent feelings of disconnection from the spirit may indicate underlying mental health concerns that require professional intervention. Communication with Professionals: When referring members to therapists, leaders should ensure that proper releases of information are signed, allowing for effective communication between the therapist and the church leader. Leadership Applications Establishing Clear Expectations: Leaders can set the tone for their interactions by clarifying that they are not therapists and that they will refer members to professionals when necessary. This helps manage expectations and reduces the risk of burnout. Promoting Open Dialogue: By fostering an environment of curiosity and openness, leaders can encourage members to share their struggles without fear of judgment, leading to more meaningful support and connection. Utilizing Resources Wisely: Leaders should leverage available resources, such as mental health professionals, to assist members effectively while maintaining their own well-being. This includes participating in training sessions to better understand mental health dynamics and how to address them. 00:02:00 – Mental Health Trends: Gray Divorce 00:04:00 – Dynamics of Empty Nesters and Relationships 00:05:30 – Vision for Mental Health Content Creation 00:06:00 – Importance of Understanding Mental Health for Leaders 00:08:00 – Navigating Shame, Guilt, and Godly Sorrow 00:10:00 – Boundaries in Leadership Roles 00:12:00 – Comparing Bishop and Therapist Roles 00:14:00 – Recognizing Depression vs. Spiritual Issues 00:16:00 – Setting Boundaries in Conversations 00:18:00 – Importance of Curiosity in Leadership 00:20:00 – Referring to Professional Therapists 00:22:00 – Communicating with Therapists: Best Practices 00:24:00 – Managing High-Risk Conversations 00:26:00 – Maintaining Trust in Confidentiality 00:28:00 – Addressing Secrets in Relationships 00:30:00 – Importance of Self-Care for Leaders 00:32:00 – Strengthening Family and Ward Culture 00:34:00 – Addressing Feelings of Loneliness Among Women 00:36:00 – Upcoming Topics for Mental Health Discussions The award-winning Leading Saints Podcast is one of the top independent Latter-day Saints podcasts as part of nonprofit Leading Saints’ mission to help Latter-day Saints be better prepared to lead. 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