Both Sides of The Bed

In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss Romance. What it means to be romantic in a relationship, how to bring more romance into a relationship and they share how they would prefer to experience romance with each other. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebedFor Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her websitehttps://www.b-intimate.com For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw

In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss how societal views impact how we all view sex. They touch on how we all should dictate our own sex lives on our own terms and not let society or any other outside influences determine what sex looks like for us, and how in doing so we can find true sexual liberation.PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her websitehttps://www.b-intimate.com For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEwJoin our Patreon for exclusive contenthttps://www.patreon.com/BSOTBConnect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebedhttps://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed

In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss their Relationship Resolutions and how they plan to show up in their lives and relationship during 2024. They discuss being more intentional with their quality time, scheduling relationship check in's and their desires to level up their sex life and explore new things like tantra. Listen as they share their resolutions and remember to check in and establish new goals with yourself and/or your partner.  PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her websitehttps://www.b-intimate.comFor the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEwConnect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed

In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss Intentionality and what it means to show up intentionally in your life, relationship, and bedroom. Listen as they define intention and share what showing up intentionally means to them, men's misleading intentions, women's deeper intentions around relationships, the importance of honesty, and gain some tips on how we can all show up more intentionally to strengthen our relationships.For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEwConnect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebedPLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her websitehttps://www.b-intimate.com

In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss their journey with couples therapy and relationship coaching, they delve into why they started, how it has helped their relationship with themselves and each other, and also its impact on how they coach their clients. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For Sex and relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her websitehttps://www.b-intimate.comConnect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebedFor the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw

In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah share their experiences as the take the next big step in their relationship and move in with one another and also share their transformative spiritual journey and how it has impacted their lives and relationship. Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebedFor Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her websitehttps://www.b-intimate.com For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebedhttps://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw GO FUND ME FOR PAGE  AHMIR'S MOTHERS HOUSE FIREhttps://www.gofundme.com/f/help-marie-after-a-devastating-fire?utm_campaign=p_cp+share-sheet&utm_medium=copy_link_all&utm_source=customer

Are you a dom, sub or switch in your relationship?  Ahmir and Basirah believe that in every relationship, each person in it is either embodying a dominant energy, a submissive energy or switches between the two energies depending on how they feel. By knowing which personality aligns most with you, you can begin to better navigate your relationships by playing the role that comes most naturally to you.Join Ahmir and Basirah in part two of this this  two-part series that explores the world of dominance and submission. In this part , they  share insights into the characteristics and styles of dominance and the things to consider when developing your style. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her websitehttps://www.b-intimate.comConnect with us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/bothsidesoftheb... lhttps://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebedShare your stories, ask advice, or connect with us atshare@bothsidesofthebed.tv

Are you a dom, sub or switch in your relationship?  Ahmir and Basirah believe that in every relationship, each person in it is either embodying a dominant energy, a submissive energy or switches between the two energies depending on how they feel. By knowing which personality aligns most with you, you can begin to better navigate your relationships by playing the role that comes most naturally to you.Join Ahmir and Basirah in this  two-part series that explores the world of dominance and submission. In this part 1, they  share insights into the emotional aspects of being a submissive, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, trust, and open dialogue. They also shed light on the intricate nature of submission, offering listeners a chance to uncover the transformative power of understanding and embracing different relationship dynamics and how they naturally impact a relationship intentionally and unintentionally. 

In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah delve into the world of sex toys and share their tips on incorporating them into the bedroom. From sensual exploration to impact play, they've got you covered. Join them as they take you on an exciting tour of their favorite sexy toys that are sure to enhance your pleasure and playfulness.PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebedhttps://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEwConnect with us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her websitehttps://www.b-intimate.com Maude Lube and Massage CandlesPromo Code: Maude is BSOTB10 Join our Patreon for exclusive contenthttps://www.patreon.com/BSOTB https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed

Want to experience a deeper connection with your partner in and out of the bedroom? Or do you simply want some tips to help you and your partner get exactly what you desire sexually from each other? Join Ahmir and Basirah as they discuss the five love languages with a seductive twist,Continuing their mini-series about re-building connection, they'll show you how to use these love languages to take intimacy to new heights from Words of Affirmation to Physical Touch. Get ready for some exciting tips to amp up pleasure and passion using the power of the 5 love languages. Unlock new levels of connection, desire, and communication with the love languages we all know and love. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her websitehttps://www.b-intimate.com For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEwConnect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= lhttps://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebedShare your stories, ask advice, or connect with us at share@bothsidesofthebed.tv

Tune in to this weeks episode as Ahmir and Basirah share personal anecdotes, actionable advice on how to foster authentic connections and dive into Love Mapping by John Gottman. Whether you're seeking to enhance your existing relationships or forge new connections, this episode is sure to leave you inspired and equipped with valuable tools to navigate the real of human connection at its core.PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!Share your stories, ask advice, or connect with us at share@bothsidesofthebed.tvFor Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her websitehttps://www.b-intimate.com (https://www.b-intimate.com)Connect with us on Instagramhttps://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw Join our Patreon for exclusive contenthttps://www.patreon.com/BSOTB (https://www.patreon.com/BSOTB)Connect with us on discord https://discord.gg/JhCQCqm4 (https://discord.gg/JhCQCqm4)Shoutout to Elle X Eroticahttps://www.youtube.com/@ElleX https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed

In this deeply honest and insightful episode, Ahmir and Basirah continue their conversation from part one, delving even further into the challenges they've faced in their relationship and the ways in which they've grown and healed together. With vulnerability and authenticity, they share their journey of overcoming turmoil and finding a deeper connection, ultimately emerging stronger and more resilient. And in addition to exploring the depths of their personal experiences, they also share exciting news about the new directions that BSOTB will be taking. Tune in for a powerful and inspiring conversation about love, growth, and the beauty of overcoming adversity.PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEwShare your stories, ask advice, or connect with us at share@bothsidesofthebed.tvFor Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her websitehttps://www.b-intimate.com (https://www.b-intimate.com)Linktreehttps://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebedSHOUT OUT TO JAY KAIZEN FOR THE INFO ON TWIN FLAMESGo Check out more of his content on IG and TikTok @jay.kaizenhttps://instagram.com/jay.kaizen?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

WELCOME TO SEASON 2!!!Come join Ahmir and Basirah in this amazing two-part first episode as they share their beautiful but intense twin flame journey. Get ready to feel all the feels as they get real about the ups and downs they've been facing and how their love for each other helped them through it all to get where they are today.Tune in next week for Part 2 of this episode. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEwShare your stories, ask advice, or connect with us at share@bothsidesofthebed.tvFor Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her websitehttps://www.b-intimate.com (https://www.b-intimate.com)Linktreehttps://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed SHOUT OUT TO JAY KAIZEN FOR THE INFO ON TWIN FLAMESGo Check out more of his content on IG and TikTok @jay.kaizenhttps://instagram.com/jay.kaizen?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss Masturbation, why they do it, what they fantasize about, the value of self pleasure and the positive and negative effects it can have on our sex life. Stay tuned to hear about the ways you can switch up you self pleasure “routine”PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her websitehttps://www.b-intimate.com (https://www.b-intimate.com)For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw (https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw)Join our Patreon for exclusive contenthttps://www.patreon.com/BSOTB (https://www.patreon.com/BSOTB)Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= (https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=)https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed (https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed)

In this episode, after receiving many questions on the subject, Ahmir and Basirah finally take a deep dive into open relationship and talk about the different types of open relationships, what their open relationship looks like, and break down the good, the bad and all the sexy things that comes with being in one. Stay tuned to hear about the important questions you should ask yourself if you are considering being in one too. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her websitehttps://www.b-intimate.com (https://www.b-intimate.com)For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw (https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw)Join our Patreon for exclusive contenthttps://www.patreon.com/BSOTB (https://www.patreon.com/BSOTB)Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= (https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=)https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed (https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed)

BSOTB IS BACK! In this weeks episode Ahmir and Basirah bring in the New Year catching us up on where they have been these last few months and some major challenges they faced during that time.Come along for the ride as they take you back to the loving beginnings of their relationship and the beginning of Both Sides of The Bed. Stick around until the end for clips of bonus Patreon content of a conversation they had as they dive in deeper and unpack their feeling surrounding their relationship.PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For the full video on YouTube, check out our Channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed (https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed)

Seduction is an energy, a dance, an intent and an art. In this weeks episode Ahmir and Basirah dive into the 9 different seduction styles, share their personal seductive techniques and discuss how having a seductive game can amplify your chances of getting what you desire…and your prey. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For the full video on YouTube, check out our Channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEwConnect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://www.bothsidesofthebed.tv

Have you wanted to spice things up in the bed room but struggled with how to bring up the topic to your partner? In this weeks episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss “The Sex Blueprint”, a guide to help you get a better understanding of what you want and get a better understanding of your partners needs by, Getting clear about your wants, Identifying you desires and Being vulnerable. The Sex Blueprint:https://drive.google.com/file/d/1xZsEaAstvqKsU8J-ZeIZcBZ6_mMqHZmJ/viewPLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For the full video on YouTube, check out our Channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEwConnect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed

What are the right ingredients for great sex?In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah chat with Kiki and Medinah, the lovely ladies of the Cocktails: Dirty Discussions podcast. They discuss how to have great sex, being the beloved unicorn, and uncommon porn interests! Kiki and Medinah are honest, hilarious, and know exactly what great sex means. Connect with our guests: Cocktails Podcasthttps://linktr.ee/cocktalespodcasthttps://instagram.com/cocktalespodcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=@Kikisaidsohttps://instagram.com/kikisaidso?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=@coffeebeandeanhttps://instagram.com/coffeebeandean?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=j

Do you give your self permission to be sexually free? Do you prioritize fun in your sexual experiences? In this episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss sexual freedom and the true embodiment of your sexual energy with sex enthusiast Majestyyy the self proclaimed “Funsexual”. Majestyyy takes us on a ride as they all discusses the importance of prioritizing fun and play in your sexual experiences. You can find Majestyyy at The Funsexual Podcast and on social media @thefunsexualhttps://linktr.ee/thefunsexual

For many of us our sex education journey has been anything but educational! Most of us have been taught about “the birds and the bees” and our schools have showed us many graphic images of all the STDS we were bound to get if we dared to have sex. But what about all the many MANY things they didn't teach us? In this episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss all the things we wish we learned about sex growing up! From communicating to your partner effectively to knowing how to please your self and your partner. Along with the things they did manage to learn about sex on their own journey's. They also share some tips on how to normalize talking about sex in the home.PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For the full video on YouTube, check out our Channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEwConnect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed

Sexual Confidence sets the tone for any sexual experience, it determines how present we are, how well we connect and how good we f*ck.  In this episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss the importance of Sexual Confidence and deep dive into questions like “What kind of things make you feel sexually confident?” and “tell us about a time for you lacked sexual confidence?”. Listen as they share their journey to sexual confidence and some tips to help enhance your confidence in the bedroom.PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For the full video on YouTube, check out our Channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEwConnect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed

Are you Vanilla, Freaky, or Kinky? How would you define Vanilla, Freaky, and Kinky? In this episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss the different definitions and perspectives surround Vanilla sex, Freaky behaviors and Kinky mindsets. Tune in as they share their personal experiences surrounding the type of sex they indulge in and how no matter the “category” you land in, sex is amazing as long as it's consensual and you show up fully. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT!For the full video on YouTube, check out our Channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEwConnect with us on Instagram @bothsidesofthebed@ahmir_rashad@Basirah__https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed

So, you wanna have a threesome! Has it been a fantasy of yours for a long time? Not sure how to navigate the world of manaja twa at all? Or are you seasoned in the world of threesomes and want to amplify your experience even more?  In this episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss threesomes, foursomes and moresomes and share their personal experiences and offer some tips on what they believe would be helpful to have a successful group sex encounter. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, COMMENT AND SHARE AND  COMMENT!For the full video on YouTube, check out our Channel @bothsidesofthebed https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEConnect with us on Instagram @bothsidesofthebed@ahmir_rashad@Basirah__

What do you REALLY, desire? Do you know? Does your partner know?Acknowledging your own desires and your partners desires is vital if you are seeking an open, connected and fulfilling relationship. Whether it's the type of relationship style you want, or the kinks you lust after, identifying and communicating your desires is the first step to achieving full satisfaction.In this episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss identifying and addressing desires, relationship styles and their “Relationship Blueprint” that supported them in going after the type of relationship they truly desired with each other.For the video version and more sexy content you can check us out on YouTube and to follow and connect with us you can follow us on Instagram @bothsidesofthebed  @ahmir_rashad and @basirah__Download “The Blueprint” here:https://drive.google.com/file/d/1krW95qhxCS43M6FppoVV0mQ4CTa1erB7/view?usp=sharingCheck us out on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw/featured

EP: 1 Why do people have sex?Welcome to the very first of many episodes of Both Sides of The Bed! Do you ever wonder why you have sex? What entices your partner(s) to have sex? What your motives are?In this episode we will dive in to the question “Why do people have sex?” We will learn about what drives Ahmir and Basirah to have sex and their opinions on why other do as well.Take note to what inspires you to have sex, and ask yourself are you happy with your answer?Let's keep this connection going. For more content and to reach out, follow us on Youtube Instagram at @bothsidesofthebed or Ahmir and Basirah individually at @ahmir_rashad and @basirah__

This Podcast is a platform all about sex, love and relationships, join @ahmir_rashad & @Basirah__ every Wednesday as we dive into topics like:Why do people have sex?How to go after the sex you desireThe difference between Kinky sex, Vanilla sex and freaky sexHow your boundaries can set you freePlaying with “toys” Connecting to your sensual selfButt stuff and so much more!Our hope is that this podcast inspires you to connect with your self, your lover(s) and challenges you to explore your sexuality and enhance your sexual experiences. Join our community and help us build a more sex positive world!

Here is some Foreplay for ya! Get a taste of what we have in store for you!Ahmir Rashad and Basirah Rahim will deep dive into conversations surrounding sex relationships and intimacy!. They will give their honest raw and real opinions on various topics and share their insights on how they have cultivated their relationships and help their listeners explore and become more open-minded to new ways to receive pleasure and support the cause to destigmatize sex and pleasure.