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Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2025 30:38

Send us a textIn this episode, our heroes start to lay the groundwork for some future events and our 203 event goes into turbo mode!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

126. Renee was Sold A Bill of Goods

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Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2025 31:21

Send us a textThe first six days of August bring life-changing events into the household.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

125. They Who Fail to Prepare, Prepare to Fail

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Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2025 31:16

Send us a textRenee sets the stage for a future event as she and Dan go to a fundraiser for a local dog rescue. Plus the strategic planning takes shape.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

Ep. 201: The Affair That Saved Her Life

Love Anarchy

Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2025 46:44

Send us a textWhat if the moment you were most judged for was the beginning of your freedom? In this unfiltered and soul-stirring episode, host Andrea Atherton is joined by spiritual intuitive and truth-speaker Michelle Ella Powell for a courageous conversation about healing that doesn't fit the mold. Together, they explore the sacred unraveling that begins when we choose ourselves—even when the world tells us we're wrong—and how pleasure, truth, and embodiment can lead us home to the life we were born to live.Michelle opens up about surviving a decade-long, toxic, and emotionally abusive marriage to a sociopathic narcissist. This relationship left her disconnected from her truth, her power, and her body. But it was an affair — one that involved BDSM — that became the spark of her liberation. Far from being a source of shame, this relationship cracked her open, allowing her to reclaim her voice, her sensuality, and her right to safety and pleasure. Through BDSM, Michelle found a path to healing that honored her boundaries, restored her sense of sovereignty, and reawakened her spirit in ways traditional healing paths could not.Now married to the love of her life, Jesse, and mothering two spirited boys, Michelle continues to walk the path of radical authenticity and conscious connection. She and Andrea speak openly about love's complexities, separation and reunion cycles, and the holy work of becoming. This episode is a reclamation song for anyone who's ever been told their healing was wrong, messy, or too much — a reminder that the path to freedom is often wild, but always sacred.Michelle Ella PowellWebsite: https://awkwardsinner.comSocial media links: https://www.facebook.com/share/18zUBnXJ1v/?mibextid=wwXIfrhttps://www.instagram.com/awkwardsinnerigsh=MXh2MHV3ZnNycWtlbw%3D%3D&utm_source=qrhttps://www.tiktok.com/@theawkwardsinner?_t=ZT-8uXgQmbKjgU&_r=130-minute Consultation with Andrea https://www.andreaatherton.com/booking-calendarAndrea Atherton Websitehttps://www.andreaatherton.com/Love Anarchy Websitehttps://www.andreaatherton.com/podcasthttps://loveanarchypodcast.buzzsprout.comLove Anarchy Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/loveanarchypodcast/Andrea Atherton Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/andreaatherton-17/

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124. Strategic Planning

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Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2025 29:20

Send us a textDan and Renee return from the cruise and work to find a new balance in their life. They also make some plans related to All Tied Up San Diego that yield interesting results.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

123. The Sloth in the Suite

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Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2025 30:57

Send us a textRenee makes a very important decision that causes her to change her mind about a specific type of adventure!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

122. The Aftermath

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Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2025 40:08

Send us a textNow that Renee's parents' memorial services have been completed, she takes on a new role in life.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

121. Special Episode: KinkFest

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Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2025 31:56

Send us a textThis is episode Dan and Renee report live, or at least Dan does, while Renee sleeps in his lap, from the KinkFest Conference in Portland, OR.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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The truth about a 24 hour Dom/sub relationship with Andrew from Infinite Devotion

UNcivilized UNplugged

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2025 58:47

If you're curious how to build more trust, devotion, and polarity in your relationship, this episode is for you.Ever wonder what really happens in a relationship dynamic where both parties have agreed to a complete Dom/sub relationship? Ever wonder how that dynamic could help you be a better partner in your own relationship, no matter how it's put together?In this candid conversation with Andrew from Infinite Devotion, we get into all the pros, cons, and learning lessons he and his wife Dawn have had on their journey from a burnt out, borderline cliche married couple, to one thriving in a new dynamic.Please do me a favor and share this episode with one person in your life.Cheers,Traver

120. Well, We're Going to Need DNA Evidence at this Point.

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Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2025 33:37

Send us a textThe question remains, whose remains did she carry?End of Season Six!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

119. ". . . is a Little Respect."

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Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2025 31:23

Send us a textAnd the second shoe . . . with a mic drop!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

Dom/sub Dynamics Unveiled: Decoding Power vs. Poison

Conscious Kink with Ms. Elle X

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2025 36:47

In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a curious newbie in the #ellexarmy distinguish between healthy D/s and her abusive marriage, highlighting the differences between Domination and narcissism, submission and compliance.Support the show Support this Podcast Watch on YouTube Read the Blog Follow on TikTok Follow on Insta Follow on X

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Bonus Episode - Divine Love and Dom/sub - Andrew being interviewed on Date with the Divine

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Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2025 63:53

This is a conversation I had on A Date With The Divine with Isabelle Stephan—and I knew immediately I needed to share it with all of you here on Dom Sub Devotion as a bonus episode. It was one of the most potent, grounded, and heartfelt conversations I've had on love, polarity, Dominance, and the deeper spiritual truths that live underneath our dynamics. I didn't want you to miss it. In this episode, Isabelle and I explore: • What it actually means to live in polarity in a long-term relationship • How my wife Dawn and I transformed our marriage through embodying Dominance and surrender • The emotional truth underneath a woman's “too much” and a man's “not enough” • Why most men fear a woman's full emotional range—and how to become the kind of man who can hold all of her without collapse • What everyday masculine leadership looks like—from structure to sexuality to sensitivity • Why feminine surrender doesn't happen through force, but through deep trust in his strength • The truth about polarity: it's not something you try to “do,” it's what naturally arises when you let go of what's in the way • And how all of this is not just about relationship—but about meeting God, not through light and ease, but through destruction, healing, and the fire of full embodiment This isn't a theoretical conversation. It's real, raw, and personal. I speak directly from my lived experience as a man, a Dominant, and a husband walking the path of total devotion and truth. I'm honored to bring this episode to you. May it move something in you the way it moved something in us. — Andrew

118. A Loving Sacrifice

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Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2025 29:48

Send us a textDaisy makes a sacrifice for Renee. Renee's Dad starts to decline and chaos ensues in Victorville!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

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Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2025 77:43

T8. E2. Diccionario Kinky ¿Qué es BDSM? Ser dom, sub, switch y más ft Diablurs

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Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2025 62:18

En este episodio me acompaña @diablurs para adentrarnos en el fascinante mundo del kink y el BDSM. Compartimos nuestras experiencias, desmitificamos algunas ideas y repasamos los básicos que cualquiera debe conocer antes de explorar estas prácticas. También cuestionamos el papel del feminismo dentro del BDSM, hablamos del derecho al placer y de la importancia de aprender a recibirlo sin culpa. Para cerrar, te dejamos un diccionario kinky, una guía esencial para que puedas entender a fondo los siguientes episodios de esta temporada.Si alguna vez has sentido curiosidad por este mundo o quieres explorar tu placer de una forma más consciente, ¡este episodio es para ti!

117. "All I'm Asking for . . ."

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Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2025 30:42

Send us a textThe first shoe drops . . .Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

116. Better Citizens of the Kinkdom, Part 2

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Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2025 39:07

Send us a textIn the second part of the Katie and Melizza take-over, they ask some very important questions about the negotiation and vetting processes related to kink. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

298 Wolf Warrior Taper

Meat in the Middle podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2025 36:11

Andy discusses Chinese international diplomacy. Dan learns some dating jargon. Tyler learns about baby hair. All our guests have tv credits. try not 2 cum.

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115. Better Citizens of the Kinkdom, Part 1.

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Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2025 29:22

Send us a textGuest Hosts Katie and Melizza are BACK! And they have their own questions about the Kinkdom and what it means to be kinky and polyamorous!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

114. Hello Insecurity My Old Friend.

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Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2025 32:05

Send us a textIn this episode, Dan and Renee's relationship agreements are tested as Renee's insecurities come full force as Dan continues to tie with Liz. Plus, one of the podcast award companies throws a curveball!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

113. First Episode & Friends Galor Ring in 2023!

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Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2025 29:37

Send us a textIt sounds way more exciting in the title than it was, but hey we published and officially launched the Vanilla with a Side of Kink podcast on January 2nd, 2023! Plus, as Dan continues to tie with Liz, there are lots of opportunities to connect with friends, both old and new. Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

112. Recording Starts & Renee Starts Looking!

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Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2025 30:08

Send us a textIn this episode, we record the first episode of Vanilla with a Side of Kink in December of 2022! Plus, Renee starts to look for a boyfriend, and Dan continues to tie with the new bottom.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

Submission, Embodiment, and Feminine Energy with Nadia Munla - Dom Sub Devotion Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2025 61:11

In this episode of Dom Sub Devotion, Andrew sits down with Nadia Munla, an embodiment and intimacy coach, to discuss the intricate dynamics of Dom/sub dynamics, especially as they relate to women in their feminine energy.. Nadia shares insights from her 11+ years of coaching, emphasizing the importance of deep intimacy, self-awareness, and the transformational power of embodiment practices. The conversation explores how women can transition from people-pleasing behaviors to genuine submission, the interplay of masculine and feminine energies, and practical steps men can take to lead effectively in relationships. Nadia also touches on the societal challenges both men and women face in embracing their true desires and roles within power exchange dynamics. ~~~ About Nadia Nadia is an Embodiment & Intimacy Coach who helps leaders become better lovers and guides people into a deeper level of embodied expression. Through her work with women and couples, she is on a mission to bring more erotic aliveness, intimacy and confidence into her clients' lives. She is also the creator of Embody by Nadia™, an embodiment method that has helped thousands of women reconnect to their pleasure, power and play. Embody has been featured at the Health Coach Institute, Soul Camp (East & West), Goddess-on-the-Go, World Domination Summit, and many other events/retreats in Bali, Peru, Tulum and Hawaii. Embody has been taught at a UK Women's Prison, at an Eating Disorder Clinic and will soon teach classes to teens and WOC fighting depression. Nadia's core belief is that embracing our full range is the way we access our deepest potential and create space for an Embodied Union that heals the planet. You can find her at nadiamunla.com and on Instagram @nadiamunla Nadia is offering listeners of Dom Sub Devotion a 50% discount off of a single session with her. Email nadia@nadiamunla.com and mention this podcast! ~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 01:32 Meet Nadia: Embodiment and Intimacy Coach 03:02 Challenges Women Face in Self-Intimacy 07:08 The Journey to Erotic Aliveness 12:02 Balancing Feminine Expression and Business 20:44 The Power of Submission and Embodiment 31:00 Union and Partnership in Dominance 32:04 Generosity in Dominance and Submission 33:38 Challenges of Receiving and Worthiness 36:34 Vulnerability in Dominance and Submission 38:57 The Complexity of Leadership 43:29 Feedback and Communication in Relationships 46:00 Balancing Strength and Sensitivity 49:56 The Role of Dominance and Leadership 57:57 Integrating Heart and Erotic Energy 01:00:35 Concluding Thoughts and Contact Information

111. Thankful for Friendship

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2025 30:52

Send us a textTsunamis, Board Games and Bottoms! Remember our heroes explaining how awesome the board game Gloomhaven was during the pandemic? It was the thing that they did to help pass the time. Well, Dan found another epic board game that was getting rave reviews, and in this episode, you will hear all about it! Our heroes also attend a local rope event, and Dan ties with a new bottom.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

110. Has anyone seen a beach around here?

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Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2025 31:54

Send us a textOur intrepid heroes continue their epic vacation in Hawaii and this time cannot find the beach! Imagine that being on an island in the middle of the Pacific Ocean and they cannot find the beach! Well, it happened! Dan's unfailing sense of direction was not working this day.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

Why Dawn is pulling back from Dom Sub Devotion

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2025 63:32

Episode 72: Why Dawn is pulling back from Dom Sub Devotion Lots of tears in this episode. But make no mistake, this is a celebration. A few weeks ago, I had a massive realization. I had still been living so much of my life as an absolute lie. Sitting down with Sir over breakfast, I was feeling pretty agitated, and as he always does, he encouraged me to just open up and let it out. And what I said next changed my life. “I am not here to help people.” I didn't intend to say those words when I opened my mouth. But when they came out, my whole body breathed a sigh of relief. It was like I had finally spoken up for the biggest lie of all. That I had to use my experiences to help other people in order to be a good person. In that moment, I realized that I had gone through my whole life living for everyone else. Never just letting myself be good enough for myself, just as I am. Never able to just enjoy my own life for my sake. It was always about someone else. Helping someone. Giving to someone. Sharing for someone. And it became obvious pretty quickly that I couldn't continue doing this podcast in the same way. Because while I absolutely love that my experiences have been helpful for so many of you, I've been so wrapped up in talking about how I got here that I haven't really let myself just enjoy this life that I'm so fucking grateful to be living. Every time I sit down and talk about how religion affected me, about how I used to show up, about all of the fears I've let go of, all of the pain I've overcome, how controlling and tense and stressed I used to be… Those things are all getting dragged back out of the past and into the present. They're still in control of my experience, because I'm constantly reflecting on them. I am not that woman anymore. I have come so fully into my body, my life, and my truth. And all of that stuff from my past needs to be left in the past. I finally saw how deeply that was affecting all of those moments of my life outside of this podcast and business. I'm here to live my own life, and living it is what I intend to do. So this isn't goodbye forever, but it is goodbye for now. Andrew will continue with the podcast, and it'll continue to be great. He'll keep everyone updated on our life, our dynamic, and how I'm doing. He'll also be bringing on guests and diving even deeper into D/s dynamics. And when you do see me again in the future, I'll be bringing more of my true self. I've shared everything I have to share about what it's taken to be here, now it's time for me to go enjoy it. Thanks for having me as a part of your lives. Dawn Enjoy! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 01:02 Realizations and Reflections 02:42 The Feminine Monthly Cycle 04:30 A Life-Changing Realization 05:38 The Lie of Helping Others 07:43 Choosing Myself 15:56 Living in the Present 17:30 Navigating Change and Letting Go 28:22 Future of the Podcast 33:12 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Closure 34:49 Embracing New Freedoms and Responsibilities 38:57 Exploring the Dynamics of Submission and Leadership 43:32 Navigating Uncertainty with Excitement 47:33 The Power of Letting Go and Moving Forward 57:35 A Heartfelt Goodbye and Future Aspirations

109. This Place Made Salt Exciting

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2025 31:59

Send us a textVacation! Everyone needs a vacation, and in this episode, our heroes take one to the Big Island of Hawaii! Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

How to Reignite the Fire in Your Dom/sub Relationship

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2025 14:17

#068 Feeling like the passion in your D/s dynamic has faded? You're not alone—but you can bring it back!

BDSM in Real Life: A Dom/sub Married Couple Shares Their Journey

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2025 36:13

#067 Is it possible to balance love, family, and a Dom/sub dynamic?

108. Renee's Crystal Ball Shows Us the Future

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2025 32:26

Send us a textHave we told you about Renee's voices in her head? Well the voices started talking again and she came up with a whole new idea. Guess what it is?Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

0106 Female Led Relationships: Exploring Real-Life Dom-Sub Dynamics

Krystine's FLR Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2025 28:49 Transcription Available

Hey! I see you! Have a question for me, you can privately text me here! Back to the nuanced world of dominance and submission (Dom/sub) dynamics. With a genuine interest and personal experience in alternative relationship structures, I'm passionate about sharing insights from my own life as a Dominant Female, married to a submissive male within a female-led relationship.We bring a our base of knowledge on balancing non-traditional relationship dynamics with everyday family life, drawing from years of living authentically despite societal norms. Our journey includes navigating the delicate interplay of power, trust, and communication in a way that is both empowering and enlightening for their audience.In this episode, we take you on a captivating journey into the realities of D/s living. We provide a transparent look at how these dynamics play out beyond the realm of fantasy, particularly within the context of a family. The discussion covers how mutual respect and teamwork are essential in maintaining harmony in our household. The episode further explores the foundational aspects of trust and communication in female-led relationships, while also addressing societal perceptions. Listeners are treated to personal anecdotes, including a humorous yet insightful story about navigating airport security while practicing chastity.For those intrigued by real-life dom-sub dynamics, this episode offers a wealth of information and personal stories that illustrate the complexities and joys of such relationships. Keywords like "dominance and submission," "female-led relationship," and "chastity in BDSM" are deeply explored, providing a rich source of content for anyone researching these topics. Listeners interested in alternative lifestyles will gain a better understanding of how these dynamics can be successfully integrated into daily life, providing a model for authentic living. The episode references the concept of a "vanilla lifestyle" alongside dom-sub dynamics, and offers practical insights into balancing these worlds.Questions:What are the realities of living in a dom-sub relationship with children?How does chastity play a role in female-led relationships?What are the key elements of trust and communication in alternative relationships?Lovense brings tech to the bedroom with high quality sex toys that can be controlled via bluetooth at close range, or through the app across the world!Find out more HERE!Support the show Want to support the podcast and be involved with the behind-the-scenes, including voting on episode topics, as well as tiptoe with me into this whole "coaching" thing. Also, my psuedo-autobiographical audio drama podcast "Control" will "re-debut" this spring as we drop the entire first season exclusively on Patreon! Find my Patreon HERE!

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107. Renee Really Tried to be Humble

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2025 33:49

Send us a textOur heroine goes to a conference humble and comes home feeling validated.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

Six Years in a 24/7 Dom/sub Marriage

Hump Day Quickies : Swinger Confessions

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2025 64:37

Enrollments are open for Rapture, our 5 month course teaching you how to build a healthy, loving D/s dynamic. Click here to learn more about Rapture. https://infinitedevotion.com/rapture We begin on January 16th, 2025, so don't wait! Episode 69: Six Years in a 24/7 Dom/sub marriage In this episode, we reflect on six years since the beginning of our Dom/sub dynamic. When we began this journey together, we were already 8 years deep into a very vanilla, and very unconscious relationship. And the process of integrating power exchange dynamics into our marriage has made every part of our relationship better. We had to learn new skills. Unlearn old ways of connecting and experiencing intimacy, and find a deeper, more honest, transparent way of relating each other in order to make D/s work. We've experienced such drastic improvements in every part of our relationship as a Dom/sub couple, compared to our relationship as it was before. Power exchange, and Dominance and submission, have led to better communication, relationships with ourselves, ability to speak up and express our true desires with each other, brought us closer together, reignited our sex life, more respect for ourselves and each other, healing from past traumas, and so much more. Tune into this episode and witness how these power exchange dynamics have improved a marriage and brought us to new levels of intimacy, passion, and connection, even after 14 years of marriage and commitment. Enjoy! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Reflecting on Six Years of DS Marriage 01:28 The Evolution of Communication 05:21 Building Self-Awareness and Presence 08:57 Trust and Self-Trust in Relationships 19:56 Expressiveness in Dominance and Submission 25:20 Taking Action and Letting Go 32:13 The Role of Dominance and Submission 32:49 Communication and Avoiding Landmines 33:54 Letting Go and Taking Charge 37:27 Responsibility and Ownership 44:04 Commitment and Trust 58:45 The Skill of Patience 01:03:06 The Transformative Power of D/S Dynamics 01:04:00 Conclusion and Gratitude

The First Step In Our Dom / Sub Contract Play - Season 4 - Episode 45

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2025 54:14

So we sent our cards back to Chris and Blake letting them know we are interested in taking part in their contract play. After a little while we received a very discrete package from them. Listen in as we open the package and share how we start this amazing journey. One of the main parts of this package was a 60 page questionnaire for each of us. After we complete the questionnaire we sit down together and go over some of the answers. Chris and Blake will be back in town soon for us to negotiate our new contacts with them. Email your questions to Nessa here to be part of "Ask Nessa". Please subscribe on your favorite podcast platform. You can catch us on SLSRadio every Wednesday at 4pm Eastern Time. You can find tons of amazing lifestyle show on FullSwapRadio, including our show, Every Wednesday at 6:30pm and Midnight Eastern Time. We are now hosts on the Swinger Society Discord Server as well. If you have your own sexy stories, please call our hotline and share them with us and our audience. 844-4-Hump-Day If you have any questions for us, please email us at humpdayquickies@gmail.com Visit our website as well. HumpDayQuickies.com Please follow us on all the social platforms: Twitter - HumpDayQuickies Instagram - HumpDayQuickies FaceBook - HumpDayQuickies TikTok - HumpDayQuickies We are adding new content as quickly as we can!

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106. The One with a Fly

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2025 31:57

In this episode, our heroes are beset by a fly! And they attend their first lifestyle party. Plus we jump into different ways that people connect.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

How to Handle Dom/sub Conflict Without Breaking the Dynamic

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2024 17:24

#063 Can conflict in a Dom/sub relationship become a tool for deeper connection?

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Polarity and Masculine/Feminine Energy in Dom/sub relationships - Part 2

Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2024 62:01

**Please forgive the audio quality issues we had in this episode...we've made upgrades to prevent this from happening on any of our future episodes! Get the free Polarity ebook we reference in this episode here: https://infinitedevotion.com/polarity-ebook Episode 66: Polarity and Masculine/Femin acine Energy in Dom/sub relationships - Part 2 Welcome back, Devoted ones! In this second part of a two part episode, we dive DEEP into the truth of what it actually means to live a relationship in “polarity”. And what most people get wrong when they talk about these concepts in relationships. These two episodes, and the free ebook above, will teach you everything you need to know about how to build a relationship that gets more loving AND more passionate over time. Everything we are, and everything we teach, is based on this information. We can't wait for you to hear next week's episode as well, so make sure you're subscribed! Enjoy! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 04:24 Handling Emotions in a Dominant Role 21:40 Expressing Needs and Wants in a DS Relationship 25:04 Dealing with a Depressed Dominant Partner 29:14 Leading an Independent Submissive 30:32 Understanding the Brat Dynamic 32:16 Exploring Masculine and Feminine Roles 34:47 Navigating Dominance and Submission in Relationships 35:23 Living in Submission While Single 41:33 Balancing Structure and Freedom in D/S Dynamics 48:38 Dealing with Fear and Vulnerability 52:30 Reconnecting and Maintaining Polarity 01:00:40 Final Thoughts on Dominance and Submission

Sensual Blindfold Erotic MF Dom sub Erotica Fiction Excerpt by Author Cornelia Quick

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2024 27:55

Send us a textEp 545: Sensual Blindfold Erotic MF light Dom/sub Fiction Excerpt from the erotica fiction story "Trust Fall" by author Cornelia Quick focused on female pleasure and heightened sensory experience from sensory deprivation. This man is hot! What an amazing lover!About the Author Cornelia Quick: I'm just a gal who knows what she likes and that's what I write about; I enjoy exploring new kinks, usually in a lighthearted mode, and helping readers discover new turn-ons.Find more information about her book: "Dorothy's Stocking Stuffer" https://corneliaquick.blog/buy-my-books/dorothys-stocking-stuffer/ - people who like the story in "Not-So-Guilty Pleasures" will also enjoy Dorothy's Christmas Eve spanking.Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time).Anthology Blurb: We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places).So go ahead, indulge in these not-so-guilty pleasures. After all, it's for charity - you're practically a saint!Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane relief).Exercise your sexuality daily! Sexual health is mental health! Marinate in your sexuality daily and enjoy your relationships, cherish them! Enjoy the spicy entertainment!Podcast Host Ruan Willow's Books:http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/Learn more about Ruan's open door Romantasy book "The Siren Who Couldn't Sing" ARC signup here: https://bit.ly/4ganVaOReserve your ebook copy here: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thesirenwhocouldntsingWant to play Holiday Spicy Book Bingo? Learn more here: https://geni.us/BingoCardSupport the showSubscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowI Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge

103. Affliction and Relief

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Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2024 30:07

Dan and Renee return safely from Walt Disney World in Florida, but Dan brings a special "something something" with him from WDW. Then there is a new beginning that brings a change in a nick of time.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

Polarity and Masculine/Feminine Energy in Dom/sub relationships - Part 1

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Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2024 53:29

Get the free Polarity ebook we reference in this episode here: https://infinitedevotion.com/polarity-ebook Episode 65: Polarity and Masculine/Feminine Energy in Dom/sub relationships - Part 1 Welcome back, Devoted ones! In this first of a two part episode, we dive DEEP into the truth of what it actually means to live a relationship in “polarity”. And what most people get wrong when they talk about these concepts in relationships. These two episodes, and the free ebook above, will teach you everything you need to know about how to build a relationship that gets more loving AND more passionate over time. Everything we are, and everything we teach, is based on this information. We can't wait for you to hear next week's episode as well, so make sure you're subscribed! Enjoy! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 01:21 Understanding Polarity in Relationships 07:34 The Concept of Masculine and Feminine Energies 14:19 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies 18:39 The Masculine Shield and Emotional Sensitivity 27:21 Understanding Receptive and Expressive Energies 27:46 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies 29:25 Personal Experiences with Energy Inversion 30:54 Living Authentically in Relationships 34:09 Divine Masculine and Feminine Roles 46:44 Balancing Submissiveness and Responsibilities 52:58 Conclusion and Next Steps

102. Skyler Sparkles

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Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2024 34:21

In this episode, our heroes encounter a technical glitch at the beginning that is thankfully fixed around the 3-minute mark. Sorry about that! Our new normal continues to take shape as Dan keeps looking for a job, we travel to Walt Disney World in Florida and Skyler finally comes home after his epic trip to become a diamond.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

Embracing the Unknown: Leaning in to our Dom/sub dynamic when life gets challenging

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2024 69:47

We created a pop up store with some really fun coffee mugs and kneeling pillows for the holidays. This will only be available until the end of December, but you can check it out at https://infinitedevotion.printful.me! Episode 64:Embracing the Unknown: Nomadic life and our Dom/sub dynamic Welcome back, Devoted ones! We recorded this episode about three weeks after leaving home to become full time nomads, living on the road in our RV and traveling the country. This nomadic life is something we've looked forward to for many years, but the actual process of leaving the only place Dawn has ever called home has been an intense one, to say the least. Up until now, she's never lived more than 20 minutes from the place where she grew up, and there are many generations before her who have almost all stayed very close to home. So this uprooting was an even bigger deal than either of us could have anticipated. This episode discusses what some of that process has been like for her, and how our Dom/sub dynamic has given her the space to let go of what was, so that she can embrace more of herself. We lean pretty heavily into the concepts from Don Miguel Ruiz's book “The Four Agreements” in this discussion, and if you haven't read it, we highly recommend it! Enjoy! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 00:33 Embarking on a Nomadic Journey 01:02 Emotional Challenges and Self-Discovery 02:08 Confronting Deep-Seated Beliefs 10:11 The Role of Dominance and Submission 16:40 Breaking Free from Programming 22:05 Choosing Self and Authenticity 34:50 Exploring Feminine and Masculine Roles 35:25 Tuning into Intuition and Experience 36:01 Disconnect from Source and Societal Expectations 36:56 Encouragement to Be Yourself 39:01 Journey of Self-Commitment 41:01 Facing Fears and Authenticity 43:07 The Challenge of Letting Go 45:28 Confronting Relationship Fears 53:45 Inner Child Meditation Experience 01:01:42 Physical Manifestations of Emotional States 01:06:48 Embracing Change and New Beginnings 01:09:41 Conclusion and Gratitude

101. Resigning Ourselves to a New Normal

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Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2024 30:52

Well, the pandemic is over and we are excited to see life returning to . . . WTF! Yeah, life took a turn and now our heroes get to figure out a new normal that is post-pandemic, but also post-Renee's working. Fortunately, there is a bit of a bright side that comes in the form of forgiveness.Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

100. The One With The 100th Episode!

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Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2024 32:34

Welcome to our 100th episode! Wow, this has been a journey.In this episode, our heroes take an epic studio tour, and if you read the title of this episode, you might get a hint as to what we saw during this tour! Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

Service-Oriented BDSM: Elevate Your Dom/sub Dynamic

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Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2024 18:10

#059 How do small, intentional acts of service transform a relationship? Join us as we dive into balancing parenthood, health, and wellness, all while serving from a place of strength. We've got tips on setting up intimate scenes, starting small with acts of service, and creating meaningful rituals. From helping with morning routines to mindful tasks like making coffee, you'll see how intentional service can really deepen your bond. Want to try it out? Grab our free list of 20 service protocols!– Free list of 20 protocol ideas: https://domsubliving.com/protocols– Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/059

Detaching With Love: Breaking free from codependency in Dom/sub dynamics

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Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2024 56:24

Free gift: 7 Tips for a Rock Solid Dom/sub dynamic. Click here: https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips ~~~~~~~ Welcome back, Devoted Ones! In this episode, Dawn and I dive into codependency and how it can infect, and ultimately cause harm to our relationship. We share stories of how we've shown up in codependent patterns in the past and what it's taken to overcome them, and why we have to detach in order to experience the fullness of love and intensity in our Dom/sub relationship. We also discuss the place that individuality and personal agency play in a deep, loving, spiritually connected union. In other words, how do we manage the fact that we're separate people, but also desiring to experience the fullness of union, becoming one with each other. This episode will be invaluable to any couple wanting to explore D/s together without losing yourselves, and in a way that honors both your individuality and your oneness. Enjoy! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations 00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Understanding Codependency 02:19 Personal Experiences with Codependency 03:23 Impact on Dominance and Submission 05:07 Navigating Codependency in Relationships 07:06 The Journey of Self-Discovery 08:49 Balancing Dependence and Independence 10:44 Challenges and Growth in Union 14:03 Maintaining Connection and Awareness 18:14 Overcoming Unconscious Patterns 28:01 Navigating Emotional Reactions 29:17 Facing Deep Wounds 32:11 The Importance of Authenticity 33:18 Understanding Individuality vs. Independence 36:07 Dominance and Submission Dynamics 38:53 Overcoming Codependency 41:08 Practical Examples and Reflections 48:37 Encouraging Authenticity in Relationships 53:55 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

99. We Finally Get A Key to the Kinkdom!

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Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2024 30:43

Welcome to Season Six! Which is irrelevant in episode terms, but helps us know what part of our journey we are talking about! And Season Six is about the time period after the pandemic starting in February 2022. In this episode, numbers explode, life starts to return to the new normal and the renovations start on the house, sending our heroes in all sorts of different directions. Plus a miscommunication leads to Dan and Renee finally getting a key they have wanted for more than five years!Visit our website: www.VanillawithaSideofKink.comInstagram: VanillawithaSideofKinkAlso, you can learn more about our Shibari Rope Bondage business at www.AllTiedUpSanDiego.comAnd our new operation, the All Good Things Center for Inclusivity and Acceptance. Fetlife.com Group: Vanilla with a Side of Kink - The Podcast

10 Dom/sub Ideas for Public Spaces – No One Will Notice!

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Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2024 18:09

#058 Worried about keeping your Dom/sub dynamic alive in public without drawing attention We've got you covered! Join us as we dive into 10 subtle and kinky ideas for maintaining your D/s connection in everyday settings. Learn creative tips from secret hand signals to special dress codes, ensuring your dynamic stays strong and thrilling, even at family gatherings! And stick around for our favorite sneaky trick at the end!– Free list of 20+ protocol ideas: https://domsubliving.com/protocols– Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/058

98. Rodents Of Unusual Sneakiness (R.O.U.S)