Fast-Forward To 50 Podcast

The Conversation- Join us for this again off again topic asking: What's the best gift you NEVER received? Or the best gift you've given someone….We try to stay on topic, honest we do…… It's hard when we have so much fun!

A legacy is more than passing material possessions down to offspring….We build legacies by helping others succeed & helping others know their worth. Additionally, your favorite hosts introduce a new/fun segment: STAY/GO or DIE.

This episode was recorded September 2020. It took us some time to share this conversation. We hope what we have been through, experienced and learned from can help someone else. Please don't ignore the Red Flags.

Just when you think you know life. You find out there is something new that you just didn't know or you've never experienced at 50! Here's our take on this topic. Life Lessons we know and some we didn't until now.

As with any medically related decision, consult with your physician. Listen to our take on the Covid 19 vaccines available.

Aches & Pains? Yea, we've all got them. Many of us are unhealthy due to our own devices. But what are you going to do about it? What are your health-wise habits, for life?

Catch our explosive & candid conversations with our special guests & childhood friends from Philadelphia Sheila and Nikki. Collectively, we've seen or experienced more than the average bear….

Do you play? Have you hit? Who would you tell, if you did? Hear our thoughts & experiences playing ‘da numbas'

Listen as your co-host discloses a delicate & private occurrence in her life. We somehow find humor even in this.

Today It's Whatever! Freestyle Convo. We will discuss a lil of this and a lil of that.

What secrets are you hiding or holding on to?  Are there secrets amongst married couples? Should they be disclosed, even if it won't benefit the relationship?  We think some secrets should just be taken TDG.

Check out the two co-hosts (Iyalua & Tamika) as they express things they refuse to do anymore for anyone.  

We discuss signs that let you know when it's time to quit and move on. No judgement just our experience on the subject. Life sends us signs when it's time to move and sometimes it pushes us even when we are not ready. We are not suggesting anyone quits their job or relationship this is just our observation and our opinions.

Where do you stand regarding Marriage or the Single life?  Check out our GROWN WOMAN opinions on this topic.  We finally agreed on one thing in the end…..find out what that is.

It's always a blessing when friends gather together and catch up on their lives. But, in a world of “new normals”, with video chats, it's extra special when old childhood friends gather. This episode delves into our challenges and experiences RECONNECTING, that main element which was scarce in our daily lives over the past year.  But, be careful with whom you reconnect….. and we'd like to know; How are YOU reconnecting?

We are living in the new normal the virtual world is here to stay even in our homes. Meetings! School! Socializing! Get into it or get left behind. Just do us a favor. Mute is your friend us it !

We discuss family dynamics and conflict with blood relatives , the family you make (friends etc ) and in-laws

Is dating someone new even an option with the new normal of precautionary measures ? How are you dating these days ? It can't stay virtual forever or can it ? We want to know how are you coping with the new adjustments of dating?

Storming the US Capital January 6th 2021. We will never forget this day!

How will you know who's really for you? Is that person the in your corner ? Is the relationship selfish or always a struggle. What does your gut and experience tell you ? When do you decide to learn from past relationship red flags and run for the hills ? What were the signs that confirmed this person was the one for you ?

We catch up with each other in this episode and ask you (the listeners) How are you doing ? With all that's going on in the world it's time to take care of your health. Mental, physical and spiritually. With the levels of hate going on it's time to make you a priority. Remember you can't take care of anyone if you're not well. Today we thank our Veterans and introduce an old friend and I use that word loosely !

We discuss the stress and relationship strains that the pandemic has caused. This pandemic has caused us all to reflect on how we feel, what's important and what we will and will not tolerate moving forward. Life is short and it's time too free yourself mind, body, and spirit.

We discuss knowing when we are at a level of maturity to make the changes that are necessary for your own personal health, mentally and spiritually to grow and just plain ole I'm too old to keep letting these things happen and knowing your boundaries and living in your truth. With a lil humor of course !

We ask the question Why Why Why? Are you traveling during this time. Are you taking all precautions? Is this travel a want or a required necessity ? Is Cabin fever taking over you better judgement ? How do you respond to invites to catch up during the Covid -19 pandemic days ? 2020 the year of the invisible adversary !

We imagine what we would do if and when we hit the lottery. We take a moment to envision a life when money is no object . Who would we be ? What would change ? Are we all the same when money changes are life ? What would you do first ?

We discuss how do couples manage home life responsibilities should we have separate bank accounts? Who is the neat freak ? Are you spoiled? Should you require more from your partner in a shared household? Hmmmm .

This episode we discuss: When did you realize you were turning into your Mother/Father or the person who most influenced your life? What traits and or flaws are recognizable? How do you deal with it? Is it a good thing ? in most cases we discover that we emulate we admire the most about them and try to learn from their life lessons.

We discuss apologies and debate whether or not they are necessary with your ability to move on. We discover some hard truths within our own relationship and acknowledge how it made us feel.

In this episode we discuss regrets and how you can cope with them acknowledge and move through it. Regrets at times can consume your life if you let them. We had a special guest with us tonight Angie our good friend from childhood to discuss this topic and what we have learned from this episode is that sometimes regrets can have a nightmare effect on your life. Remember acknowledge, forgive and move forward .

We discuss being petty and why we all have petty tendencies. We take a look at some examples of spousal, work , friends and family petty moments we all have had and admit to our own pettiness.

We discuss life adjustments to the Covid epidemic and things we just won't do moving forward. We also discussed things we should do precautions, we should take and most importantly we checked in on or physical and mental health with healthcare hero's! Lastly we discussed checking in on one another and recommend every one do the same. As always there a joke or two in the mix enjoy!

This episode discusses when “You too old for that,” We know when we do things that we should have let go years ago. With maturity, wisdom should follow. But sometimes it doesn't. We take a look at some examples of things we should let go of, or adjust for your growth and personal development with a splash of humor. Enjoy !

This episode addresses processes you can do to prevent being snatched and precautions you should take in the event you are faced with danger. We take a very serious, safety and prevention topic and bring it to you with humor and facts. We want to make you think and laugh at some of your own behaviors and lack of preparedness.