Kandid with LadyT

This episode, I'm joined by Shubi who is a phenomenal mum of 3 and soon to divorcee. She details her journey from meeting hur husband, marriage, cheating, emotional abuse, mental health, forgiveness and not marrying again. Follow Shubi: IG - @shubi_tksdaughter_ariibike HELPING HAND: Women can call - The Freephone National Domestic Abuse Helpline, run by Refuge on 0808 2000 247 for free at any time, day or night. Women can email - helpline@womensaid.org.uk. Staff will respond to your email within 5 working days Men can call - Men's Advice Line on 0808 8010 327 (Monday and Wednesday, 9am to 8pm, and Tuesday, Thursday and Friday, 9am to 5pm) for non-judgemental information and support. Men can email - info@mensadviceline.org.uk Organisations Refuge: https://www.refuge.org.uk/our-work/forms-of-violence-and-abuse/domestic-violence/ Citizens Advice Bureau: https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/family/gender-violence/domestic-violence-and-abuse-getting-help *FOLLOW KANDID WITH LADY T PODCAST* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/kandidwithladyt/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/kandidwithladyt YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ladytofficial *FOLLOW ME ON SOCIALS:* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/ladytofficial_/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/ladytofficial_ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/ladytoluofficial

This episode, I'm joined by Elsa Christie who is a survivor of sex trafficking. She details her journey of child abuse from the age of 8yrs old by her father, who subsequently trafficked her to America a number of times. She talk being in foster care, broken marriage and about forgiveness being a process. Follow Elsa Christie: IG - @iamelsachristie Get In Touch: https://linktr.ee/iamelsachristie ACTION: If you suspect modern slavery/trafficking, report it to the Modern Slavery Helpline on 08000 121 700 or the police on 101. In an emergency always call 999. Salvation Army's 24hr confidential helpline for reporting modern slavery on 0800 818 3733. Modern Day Slavery Foundation's helpline on 0800 0121 700, 24 hrs a day. NSPCC's helpline on 0808 800 5000 if you think a child is in danger of trafficking. Organisations: https://www.a21.org/ https://www.antislavery.org/ *FOLLOW KANDID WITH LADY T PODCAST* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/kandidwithladyt/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/kandidwithladyt YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ladytofficial *FOLLOW ME ON SOCIALS:* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/ladytofficial_/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/ladytofficial_ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/ladytoluofficial

This episode, I'm joined by Victor Edward who shares his story from being gay to heterosexual. Listen to find out his earliest exposure to porn, losing his virginity & his first gay sexual encounter. We also discuss church views, people's perceptions & whether there is a temptation to go back to that life. Follow Victor: IG - @loveandsword Email: victor.edwardministries@gmail.com *FOLLOW KANDID WITH LADY T PODCAST* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/kandidwithladyt/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/kandidwithladyt YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ladytofficial *FOLLOW ME ON SOCIALS:* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/ladytofficial_/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/ladytofficial_ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/ladytoluofficial

This weeks episode is about losing a child and dealing with grief as a black man. Nothing can ever prepare any parent with the thought of losing their child before they are born. We often hear women talk about their experience but rarely from men. My guest this episode is Donald Mbeutcha who tells his story about losing his 4th child and where the loss took him mentally, emotionally and spiritually. SOMEONE TO TALK TO: SANDS - https://sands.org.uk/ Message Donald: d.mebutcha@gmail.com *FOLLOW KANDID WITH LADY T PODCAST* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/kandidwithladyt/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/kandidwithladyt YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ladytofficial *FOLLOW ME ON SOCIALS:* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/ladytofficial_/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/ladytofficial_ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/ladytoluofficial

This weeks episode is all about being friend zoned. After a post I made about the subject and the responses received, I decided to talk about it with my friend Prince Made. He talks about escaping the friend zone that eventually led to marriage. There's tips on how to avoid being friend zoned and things to look out for before it happens. *FOLLOW KANDID WITH LADY T PODCAST* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/kandidwithladyt/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/kandidwithladyt YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ladytofficial *FOLLOW ME ON SOCIALS:* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/ladytofficial_/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/ladytofficial_ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/ladytoluofficial

My guest on todays episode is Dr Eddie Connor Jr. He is a best selling author of 12 books, stage 4 cancer survivor, college professor, international speaker, Recipient of the President Barack Obama Volunteer Service Award & Life time achievement award. We discuss surviving stage 4 cancer, pressures to get married and how to succeed in romantic, professional and family relationships, his new book 'Relationship Rules' & more *FOLLOW KANDID WITH LADY T PODCAST* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/kandidwithladyt/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/kandidwithladyt YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ladytofficial *FOLLOW ME ON SOCIALS:* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/ladytofficial_/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/ladytofficial_ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/ladytoluofficial

This episodes guest is Brittany Broaddus-Smith. She is a sex educator, christian sexologist & intimacy coach. She is the founder of The Intimacy Firm. It's an intimacy coaching and sexuality education agency for christians and non-christians. We talk about how the subject of sex is often diluted in the church, shame surrounding sexuality in the church, preparing for sex before marriage, oral sex, sex toys etc. Brittany - https://www.instagram.com/theintimacyfirm/ *FOLLOW KANDID WITH LADY T PODCAST* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/kandidwithladyt/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/kandidwithladyt YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ladytofficial *FOLLOW ME ON SOCIALS:* INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/ladytofficial_/ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/ladytofficial_ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/ladytoluofficial

LadyT is joined by some good friends of hers Emmanuel, Ruth, Junior & Yolanda. They discuss why some men take on a woman's surname and the consequences if their partner don't take their surname. Find out who cancelled their wedding a week before the big day. Would you give the ring back after a break up? Is it ok for the guy to ask for the ring back? Join the conversation and let us know your thoughts and perspectives. Follow and share your thoughts on: TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @Kandidwithladyt #kandidpodcast Follow Emmanuel: @Mr1elusive (IG & Twitter) Yolanda: @missyolanda4 (IG & Twitter) Ruth: @oluwaruth (IG) Junior: @JNR_TDH (Twitter)

LadyT is joined by some good friends of hers Emmanuel, Ruth, Junior & Yolanda. They discuss Online dating vs Being introduced to someone. Which one would you prefer? They also explore whether men and women can just be friends with no strings attached. What do you think? Join the conversation and let us know your thoughts and perspectives. Follow and share your thoughts on: TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @Kandidwithladyt #kandidpodcast Follow Emmanuel: @Mr1elusive (IG & Twitter) Yolanda: @missyolanda4 (IG & Twitter) Ruth: @oluwaruth (IG) Junior: @JNR_TDH (Twitter)

Lady T is back after a long hiatus. She kicks off her return in the month of love and relationships. In this episode, she is joined by two witty and intelligent men, Emmanuel & Afaron This is the single mens edition where they talk about different aspects of single life and being a single dad. Discussions on shooting your shot - are they ok with that? Toxic relationships, trust issues, dealing with heart break and more. Follow and share your thoughts on: TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @Kandidwithladyt #kandidpodcast

Lady T is back after a long hiatus. She kicks off her return in the month of love and relationships. In this episode, she is joined by two beautiful ladies, Tamara who is a make-up artist and Che Kirah who is a singer/songwriter and a member of the world famous The Kingdom Choir! This is the single ladies edition where they talk about different aspects of single life and being a single mum. Discussions on peer pressures, adoption, IVF, egg freezing, dating in lockdown and horrible dating stories. Share your thoughts on: TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @Kandidwithladyt #kandidpodcast

Lady T is back after a long hiatus. She kicks off her return in the month of love and relationships. In this episode, she speaks to Eteyen & Josephine who planned their wedding & got married within 24hrs in LOCKDOWN! They talk about their journey of meeting, struggles of long distance relationships and the crazy activities that happened before the wedding. Share your thoughts on: TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @Kandidwithladyt #kandidpodcast

Part 2 Lady T is back after a long hiatus. She kicks off her return in the month of love and relationships. In the second of a two part episode, she speaks to Brendell & Sam Lambe. Who got married after 25years during lockdown 2020. They talk about their journey of meeting, getting married, having children, infidelity & more. Wisdom is shared on reconciliation and healing. Share your thoughts on: TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @Kandidwithladyt #kandidpodcast

Episode 1, Part 1 Lady T is back after a long hiatus. She kicks off her return in the month of love and relationships. In the first of a two part episode, she speaks to Brendell & Sam Lambe. Who got married after 25years during lockdown 2020. They talk about their journey of meeting, getting married, having children, infidelity & more. Wisdom is shared on reconciliation and healing. Share your thoughts on: TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @Kandidwithladyt #kandidpodcast

In this episode LadyT discusses going on holiday with your spouse but the GUYS EDITION! She's joined by Junior & Emmanuel who give their male perspective on going on holiday before marriage. Should you or shouldn't you. Your location won't change your antics, right? Share your thoughts. TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @kandidwithladyt #kandidpodcast

So should you go on holiday before marriage? Can you resist the temptation? Your location won't change your antics, right? Let us know whether you have been away, did anything happen, regrets and what would you advise? GIRLS EDITION! Share your thoughts. TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @kandidwithladyt #kandidpodcast

Back with a new episode and we are talking about praying for your future spouse. Following a challenge set by Natasha & Jamal Miller about praying for your spouse, it was an intense week of prayer and teachings. We discuss why you should and the things we learnt that you should be praying for whether you are a man seeking a wife and a woman waiting to be sought out. Let us know whether you as a man or woman are REALLY praying for your future spouse. Share your thoughts. TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @kandidwithladyt #kandidpodcast

- Is it ok? - What if your partner physically or psychologically can’t perform sexually(i.e. chronic ED, paralysed or disabled, trauma from previous experience, etc.)? - Would a subtitle partner be ok, JUST for sex? They would be like a human sex aid. - Polyamory – ‘extra-marital affair involve emotional love’ - Swinging – ‘extra-marital affair involves recreational/casual sex’ - What does the bible says? Share your thoughts. TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @kandidwithladyt

- Can you marry a non-Christian? - How about living with a non-Christian in a committed relationship, but not marrying them? - What about Christians who are happily married to non-Christians? - If you got pregnant (or made a non-Christian pregnant), would you pursue the relationship? Or would you ask them to convert? Would you denounce your faith so you can be responsible to your child and partner? Share your thoughts. TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @kandidwithladyt

This is part 2 of a 2 part episode. It was so heated it had to be split. Check out the discussion & let me know your thoughts. - Is Chivalry dead or on life support? - Do Americans do it better than others? - Should women expect men to be chivalrous? - Has the definition of Chivalry become tainted? Share your thoughts. TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @kandidwithladyt

This is part 1 of a 2 part episode. It was so heated it had to be split. Check out the discussion & let me know your thoughts. - What do we actually mean by traditional roles? - Does being an independent woman deny a man, a role in your life? - Is it a problem when the woman earns more? - Is chivalry dead or on life support? Share your thoughts. TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @kandidwithladyt

What does it mean to be celibate, to have purity? What are the struggles & challenges? Is it harder for men or women to be celibate? Share your thoughts. TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @kandidwithladyt

Would you be able to tell your friend or sibling if their partner is unfaithful? How long do you wait until you confront the person involved? Share your thoughts. TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @kandidwithladyt

How far should your man go to protect you? What would you do if he uses you as a shield in an altercation? Share your thoughts. TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @kandidwithladyt

Once a cheat, always a cheat. Can one be forgiven for cheating? The girls discuss the impact of cheating and forgiveness and whether one can ever stop cheating. Share your thoughts. TW / IG - @kandidonline FB - @kandidwithladyt

Setting: Sunny day in London, sat outside a restaurant in Canary Wharf. In this impromptu/test episode, I talk about, being single, culture, relationships, marriage, divorce & different seasons of life. I'm joined by Ruth & Yaa VV who give honest thoughts & real life experience on this discussion. Hit me up on Facebook - kandid with ladyt Instagram - kandidonline Twitter - kandidonline