Love In The Middle

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A conversation loaded with tips and advice about godly Relationships, Dating, Marriage and everything in between... from a couple that's been through it all! Charity and Laban Reeves have been married for over 10 years and share their story and what they have learned in their journey to encourage and guide you in your journey.

Laban & Charity Reeves


    • Nov 20, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
    • weekly NEW EPISODES
    • 49m AVG DURATION
    • 28 EPISODES


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    Ep. 27 - The Dark Side of Marriage: Uncovering the Hidden Challenges

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2023 22:45


    Episode 27 - Marriages don't fail overnight... usually. They fail over time. In this episode we discuss some blindspots that exist in every marriage that can lead to a marriage slowly corroding over a few short years. Be careful not to over look these... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveinthemiddle/support

    Ep. 26 - Finding Love WITHOUT DATING: Our Story of Boundaries & Faith (StoryTime)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2023 44:46


    Episode 26: Have you ever thought what if God never intended you to find your spouse through dating trial and error? What if dating actually does more harm than good? God provided Laban with a new healthy way of dating that did not leave a string of broken hearts. And, Laban learned that it was actually possible to walk by faith and through it, God led him to Charity!!! God can do the same for you. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveinthemiddle/support

    Ep. 25 - EVERY WOMAN Needs to KNOW This! (and EVERY MAN Needs to Hear...)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2023 29:17


    Episode 25 (Raw and Uncut!!!) - Women often wonder why men won't commit to marriage. Laban and Charity break it down and challenge men to step up... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveinthemiddle/support

    Ep. 24 - 4 REASONS You're STILL SINGLE

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2023 41:08


    Episode 24 (Raw and Uncut!!!) - YOU might be the reason you aren't being approached if you're single or receiving a commitment to marriage if you are dating or already in a relationship... Here are 4 things you should consider... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveinthemiddle/support

    Ep. 23 - How to Find the ONE (and what if I marry the WRONG ONE?)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2023 58:56


    EPISODE 23 - Finding the Right person for you is a complicated beast when we are trying to do it ourselves. Here are our best tips for finding the one for people that are dating and hoping to be married. And for people who might feel they married the WRONG ONE, we dropped some jewels in this video for you too... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveinthemiddle/support

    Ep. 22 - The Essential Guide to Building a Happy Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2023 20:26


    EPISODE 22 - Relationship advice for whether you are in a relationship or dating. Nobody wants to be in an unhappy relationship! Here's what you can do to prevent being in an unhappy relationship or to improve your marriage. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveinthemiddle/support

    Ep. 21 - NO ONE TALKS ABOUT THIS!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2023 90:14


    Episode 21 - From Dating and through marriage, Vision is of utmost importance!!! We go ALL THE WAY IN on the why and the how... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveinthemiddle/support

    Ep. 20 - UNMET EXPECTATIONS in our Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2023 21:27


    EPISODE 20 - This is a must watch if you are dating, preparing for marriage, or currently married. We have learned A LOT about expectations! When we first got married, we both experienced constant disappointment because of unmet expectations. Over the years, God helped us find a better way.... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveinthemiddle/support

    Ep. 19 - Our Relationship Struggles: How God Exposed Our Selfishness in Our Christian Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2023 39:28


    EPISODE 19 - the Love In The Middle Show featuring Christian Relationship Advice for a Dating and a Kingdom Marriage --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveinthemiddle/support

    Ep. 18 - DON'T IGNORE THIS Advice for Effective Relationship Communication

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2023 31:02


    EPISODE 18 - Communication: Our Greatest Weapon In Relationships... We give advice for communication in relationships from start to finish in this episode; advice that is tested and has stood the test of time for us. And this was probably one of the most fun to record. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveinthemiddle/support

    Ep. 17 - THIS Helped Us Grow A More INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2023 43:21


    EPISODE 17 - How do we keep our relationship thriving? This one adjustment changed our relationship for the better!!! It started before we got married, back when it was so much easier. After we got married, going out on dates took a back seat to everything else. Needless to say, our marriage suffered. Everyone is great at it before marriage, but without this, your relationship might not last and be healthy when you get married. Let's call it DWM... Dating While Married! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveinthemiddle/support

    Ep. 16 - How Forgiveness Keeps Your Relationship Healthy Every Day

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2023 46:58


    EPISODE 16 - For couples who argue alot or have resentment in your relationship, these 7 Secrets will help grow and maintain a healthy relationship or marriage, or spice up your relationship or your marriage. This is part 1 of the series "7 Secrets for a Healthy Relationship"... --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveinthemiddle/support

    Ep. 15 - Say Goodbye to Divorce: How to Save Your Marriage and Receive a Prayer for Your Broken Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2023 33:25


    EPISODE 15 - This is a marriage helper video for relationships on the brink of divorce. We use Kim Kardashian and Kanye West as a case study that can help your marriage. A relationship, marriage, or divorce can look broken beyond repair. And many times, one or both parties don't even want it to be fixed. As we do with all marriages, we were rooting for Kanye West and Kim Kardashian to have a successful marriage. But when your relationship struggles are regularly the topic of celebrity news, its easy to count God out of fixing that. We truly believe that God is still in the business of restoring broken relationships and turning them into healthy marriages. These are our thoughts on what you can do if your relationship is broken. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveinthemiddle/support

    Ep. 14 - Single to Married in 12 months + Waiting Till Marriage (Our Love Story Part 4)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2023 61:07


    EPISODE 14 - Our Most Vulnerable and Transparent Episode YET! We give our testimony and our best Christian dating advice about our how I knew she was the one, how I knew he was the one, wedding night regrets after no sex before marriage and the hardest part of our celibacy journey, why waiting for marriage was the best plan and how it can keep getting better 12 years later, our proposal story, preparing for a blended family, meeting his baby mama, meeting her family, planning a wedding in a month, and MORE in this episode. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveinthemiddle/support

    Ep. 13 - A MIRACLE How God Brought Us Back Together (Our Love Story Part 3)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2023 49:26


    EPISODE 13 - In part 3 of our When God Writes Your Love Story Testimony, Charity spills all the beans on the no label, let's just be friends, we're off, now we're on again, back and forth relationship with Laban. When God writes your love story, it can quickly become more complicated when you try to hijack the pen. This is part 3 in the story of how we met detailing why we broke up and how God brought us back together... If you're looking for christian dating advice about when to break up, we offer some good advice and tips in this video. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveinthemiddle/support

    Ep. 12 - We Can't Date Because You're Not A Christian (Our Love Story Part 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2023 49:36


    EPISODE 12 - Charity meets God in the Friendzone. So many AMAZING things happened for Charity spiritually while she was in the friendzone. The friendzone isn't all that bad when you let God walk you through it… After our first date, Laban made it clear: we cant date because you're not a christian... Many people wonder is it ok to date a non Christian? Dating a Christian when you're not can be a complicated thing! Laban explains why he held his ground and was able to see God do amazing things in Charity! See what happens next and how it would eventually shape our entire marriage into a godly marriage. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveinthemiddle/support

    Ep. 11 -How We Met (Our Love Story Part 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2023 32:05


    EPISODE 11 - From how we first met to our first date...When god writes your love story, it is so much better than the story we try to write on our own. Our love story is part love at first sight, and part patience and waiting on God. Now we're working on couple goals... We share part 1 of Our Love Story testimony starting with "How we met" and including our first date on this first video episode of the Love In The Middle Show where we talk about relationships, dating, marriage and everything in between... Its Storytime! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/loveinthemiddle/support

    Ep 10 - Dealing with Baby Mama Drama

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2021 64:08


    We are no strangers to Baby Mama and Baby Daddy drama. However, we have discovered some healthy ways of navigating it through lots of trial and error. Whether you are dating and considering being with someone with a child and the other parent is in the picture, or you're in a marriage already and you're struggling in this area. This is the episode for you... --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Ep. 9 - Blinded By Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2021 63:34


    What's the harm in having sex before marriage? It seems harmless, but is it really? In this episode, Charity and Laban discuss the challenges with having sex before marriage. Interested in Starting your own podcast? Here's a link to all the gear we use to record "Love In The Middle" --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Ep. 8 - High Value Man (Does it matter how much money he makes?)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2021 67:29


    The conversation around women seeking a "High Value Man" and if it matters how much money a man makes, sparks a discussion about a "High Values Man". Charity and Laban discuss the intangible qualities you should look for in a mate. Interested in Starting your own podcast? Here's a link to all the gear we use to record "Love In The Middle" --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Ep. 7 - Relationship Survival Guide (Part 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2021 69:34


    5 things that are essential to building a healthy and sustainable relationship. Interested in Starting your own podcast? Here's a link to all the gear we use to record "Love In The Middle" --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Ep. 6 - Relationship Survival Guide (Part 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2020 61:25


    What does it take to make a relationship survive the test of time? In this episode, Charity and Laban begin to share the fundamental things that have helped to enhance their relationship over the years and keep it going strong, even through Covid-19. Interested in Starting your own podcast? Here's a link to all the gear we use to record "Love In The Middle" --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Ep. 5 - Relationship Boundaries (Part 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2020 70:40


    Establishing healthy boundaries in dating can lead to a sustainable marriage. In the episode, we explore our top 5 boundaries that dating couples should have in place. Leave comments with your thought and your top boundaries. Interested in Starting your own podcast? Here's a link to all the gear we use to record "Love In The Middle" --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Ep. 4 - Relationship Boundaries (Part 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2020 77:09


    Charity and Laban share a couple "juicy and salacious" stories and talk about boundaries they have implemented in their relationship to help protect against infidelity and encourage longevity. Interested in Starting your own podcast? Here's a link to all the gear we use to record "Love In The Middle" --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Ep. 3 - Avoiding the "D" Word (divorce)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2020 59:54


    Charity and Laban share plenty of stories and practical tips about how they navigate their relationship to steer clear of the "D" word, aka divorce. Interested in Starting your own podcast? Here's a link to all the gear we use to record "Love In The Middle" --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Ep. 2 - Looking for Something Real

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2020 65:24


    Charity and Laban discuss what's really "real" in a relationship... Interested in Starting your own podcast? Here's a link to all the gear we use to record "Love In The Middle" --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Ep. 1 - How to find THE ONE

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2020 64:20


    Charity and Laban share tips on How to find the ONE. Interested in Starting your own podcast? Here's a link to all the gear we use to record "Love In The Middle" --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Introducing "Love In The Middle" - Trailer

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2020 0:36


    Welcome to the Love in the Middle Show where we talk about relationships, dating, marriage, and everything in between. Interested in Starting your own podcast? Here's a link to all the gear we use to record "Love In The Middle"

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