Podcast appearances and mentions of christian marriage

Why dedicate an entire episode to kissing? Because this simple, sweet act is packed with incredible benefits for your relationship and your health!Did you know that kissing can burn calories, strengthen your immune system, and even boost your mood by reducing depression? Plus, research shows couples who kiss often tend to enjoy stronger, more connected marriages.In this fun episode, Nick and Amy share fascinating facts you've probably never heard before, along with tips for making kissing a more intentional and meaningful part of your relationship.Tune in, because you'll never look at a kiss the same way again!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Send us a textLet's talk about trauma—because everyone has it, but not everyone knows how it's shaping their marriage, leadership, and life.In this episode, I unpack what trauma really is, the difference between big T and little t trauma, and how the patterns you developed to protect yourself are often the same ones keeping you from experiencing intimacy, trust, and freedom today.We dive into:What trauma really means (and how culture is missing it)The power of protection patterns: where they came from and what they costHow to identify trauma responses masquerading as personalityWhy disconnection, over-functioning, and control might be rooted in painHow to invite the Holy Spirit into your healingWhether you've done trauma work before or this is your first time thinking about it this way, this conversation is a gentle but powerful invitation to stop coping and start healing.Here's that link for Jim's Trauma-informed ministry: https://www.foxfireministries.com/ Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives flourish deeply as YOU in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-freetraining2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Welcome back to the podcast, Nancy is joining me again today. These have become some of my favorite episodes, getting to do this with her!  Today we're talking about something every marriage needs, and that's forgiveness and grace. We know that even in the best marriages, we hurt each other, sometimes in small ways, sometimes in big ways. The question isn't if we'll need to forgive, but how we can forgive well, and extend grace like God extends grace to us. Our prayer is that this is relatable and encouraging, but also that it inspires you to evaluate the opportunities you have every day to extend grace and forgiveness to your spouse.   Episode Highlights: It's important to acknowledge where you are storing up resentment. Forgiveness is key in the big things, but even more important in the little nuances of life.  Marriage isn't a game to keep score. When you know what a great sacrifice our Savior made, you're able to come before Him and allow His forgiveness to pour through you onto our spouse. Both spouses must own their part of the conflict.    Quotes from Today's Episode: It's easy to get in the habit of score keeping. We have opportunities every day to forgive. If it's a big deal I need to address it, if it's not then I need to let it go. Your marriage is so much happier if you don't let something derail you. This is our marriage, we have to figure out what works for us. When you forgive, it doesn't make the sin okay.  The Holy Spirit has the job of conviction, it's not my job.  Couples' Conversation Guide: Where in our marriage might we be unintentionally "keeping score”? In what areas do you find it difficult to extend grace? How can we shift our mindset? How can we better reflect God's forgiveness towards us in the way we respond to each other's mistakes   Mentioned in this Episode: Find Dr. Kim on Instagram Find Awesome Marriage on Instagram Help your children write God's Word on their hearts with our FREE 11 Bible Verses For Kids to Memorize Parenting in today's society can feel overwhelming, especially when you desire to intentionally shepherd your children toward Christ in a world that preaches quite the opposite. Create a Christ-centered culture at home with our Raising Faithful Kids Journal. Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you work toward having a forgiving and graceful marriage, find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Try this FREE YouVersion plan: Learning to Apologize Well in Marriage If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to . receive our Raising Faithful Kids in a Cancel Culture.  

With your co-hostesses: Lyschel Burket from HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from StrongWives.com Support HFW through a donation Listen now: Today, we are answering a listener who has several questions. We Discuss: How do we balance taking responsibility for our own safety while growing our window of tolerance around our husbands who are gradually learning to become safe? How do we lean into the discomfort of being somewhat vulnerable with them while remaining boundaried? How do we care for ourselves and do our own work while our husbands are in early recovery and maybe not very safe. Resources mentioned in this show: Episode 27: The Hidden Wounds Under Triggers Episode 28: The Spectrum of Triggers Submit a question to be answered on a future podcast. The Power of Vulnerability by Brene Brown Info for the Redeemed Hope Retreat

Join marriage and family therapists, Lindsey Castleman and Aron Strong as they discuss the reasons that change can be so hard.   Also learn the importance of working with blocks in the therapy room.   To connect with Lindsey and Aron and learn more, visit inrelationship.us

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We often hear about how a lack of intimacy affects men, but what about the women? What happens when he's the one with little to no sexual desire? Or if a wife is withholding or doesn't want sexual intimacy? Either scenario, the negative impacts are the same.A man's healthy sex drive often fuels romance, emotional connection, and the drive to pursue and cherish his wife. But when that is missing, it can leave a woman feeling undesired, disconnected, and confused.In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive deep into the emotional toll and relationship challenges women face when intimacy fades on his side of the marriage bed. You won't want to miss this raw and powerful conversation that's rarely talked about, but desperately needs to be.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

What is covenant faithfulness in marriage and is it still possible today? In this episode Tyler, Maron, and Barry go deeper into week 1 of our new sermon series, First Comes Love. We talk about agape love, marriage as a spiritual act, and what it means to pursue a Christlike covenant today.

Let's be real, marriage comes with a whole lot of love... and a few cringe-worthy things we didn't sign up for. From open-mouth chewing to chronic nagging to that "Thanks-for-nothing" attitude, sometimes the smallest things can flip the switch from turned on to totally turned off. In this episode, we share "your" poll answers on the things that really turn you off. These are the silent killers of connection, the subtle sabotage moves you probably don't even realize you're making... but totally are. The good news? Awareness is everything. Once you recognize these turn-offs, you can flip the script and build deeper intimacy, appreciation, and that irresistible attraction you've been craving. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Send us a textCouples that grind together... but do not grow togetherIn this powerful episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings, we dive into the real-life tension between building success and building intimacy. Many couples are grinding together but slowly growing apart. From emotional disconnection to spiritual misalignment, we'll help you identify the warning signs — and give you practical, faith-based tools to reconnect, rebuild, and truly grow together.Support the show

How did you navigate the Stepparent Name Game in your blended family? We know there is a lot to consider when it comes to this part of the blending journey. This podcast is for you if you, your spouse, and your co-parents are struggling with Stepparent Names or if you are unsure of how to approach the subject with your children. A question we receive frequently is: What should a child call their stepparent? In this episode we share why we feel that it is important for children to have input in naming their stepparent and provide strategies for bio and stepparents to support and find peace in your child's decision. We're so excited to share the third installment of Blending Your Bunch with you! If you missed the first two episodes of this series, you can watch them here on our YouTube channel, or listen to them on any podcast streaming platform! We pray this episode blesses you today! Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/ For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

With the number of marital affairs on the rise in America, it's important to address what circumstances can lead to affairs as well as the shame strongholds that inevitably follow. How can one partner forgive this type of betrayal? Is there hope for the marriage after the affair? Join us for a discussion with Affair Recovery Founder and President Rick Reynolds.

Sermon on Deuteronomy 6:1-9 titled The Means of Grace and Christian Marriage. It was preached by Dr. Anthony Curto on August 3rd, 2025 at Manhattan Presbyterian Church (PCA) in Manhattan, Kansas. You can learn more at ManhattanPres.com

You've heard us talk about how different men and women are when it comes to sexual desires, and what puts a husband or wife in the mood. Men can be ready to go at any moments notice, and sex for most men is the way they feel loved, and gives them the validation that they are loved. For women, they need to feel loved before they are going to have the desire for sexual intimacy.For a woman to feel loved, they need to feel valued, listened to, respected, safe and emotionally connected. For men to feel loved, they need to be sexually connected.It is vital for couples to understand what each other needs to feel loved, and the importance of sexual intimacy in the relationship. In this episode we talk about why women need to feel loved to make love, and how to do that, and why men need to make love to feel loved.

SUMMARY: *In this conversation, guest Kim Harr shares her journey through grief, loss, and trauma as a Christian woman who faced significant challenges in her marriage and personal life. *After 23 years of marriage and four children, she experienced difficulties that led to divorce, despite her strong commitment to her faith and the belief that marriage should last until death. *She shares a harrowing experience of being kidnapped and assaulted by her ex-husband and how she found God's presence during that traumatic event. *Kim discusses the emotional turmoil she faced, including feelings of disappointment and shame, and how she sought counsel and support. *The conversation also touches on the importance of forgiveness, healing, and the presence of God during difficult times. *Kim emphasizes that healing is a choice and involves navigating through various emotions, including anger and sorrow. *Throughout the discussion, Kim highlights the significance of community, the process of reclaiming joy after loss, and the importance of setting boundaries. *Her book, "Healing from Life's Deepest Hurts," offers tools for readers to find their own healing. *Kim closes the conversation with a message of hope, emphasizing that no story is too broken for God to heal and restore, encouraging others to trust in God's plan for their lives. PODCAST INTRO: What happens when your dreams of a fairytale marriage, a Prince Charming husband and living happily ever after come crashing down around you? Kim Harr, a woman of faith diligently sought God's heart for her marriage and pressed Him for His ability to make all things new and yet her marriage ended in divorce. By her choice. Author Kim Haar shares her personal story not only with divorce but the harrowing experience of her ex-husband kidnapping her, assaulting her for 4 hours and then shooting her boyfriend Andrew, 10 times. Initially when Kim was trying to make her marriage work she shares that while she and her husband attended marriage counseling there were many times when she felt lost and unsupported and that's what motivated her to work toward and achieve her license as a professional therapist. Today she's helping women become the best version of themselves and she's super passionate about helping women get “unstuck” from the things they may not be able to put a finger on yet but they do realize there's a disconnect. Once a victim, Kim now walks in victory and that is what lead Kim to write and publish her book, Healing from Life's Deepest Hurts - Reclaiming Your Life After Grief, Loss, or Trauma. She shares her personal story in much more detail than we have time for in this podcast episode and she also gives the reader tools so they can initiate their own healing and wholeness in their personal story. If you find yourself facing a divorce or in the aftermath of divorce, listen to Kim because not only does she remind you that you are not alone, she'll help you navigate the painful terrain of what can feel like a shameful failure. If you'd like more wisdom and discernment for the journey, you can check out her book (links below) or you can reach out to her using her contact info (as seen below). Side Note: When Kim is talking about her ex-husband shooting Andrew we leave you hanging. I didn't mean to do that! 'm sure it was because Kim and I had already talked so I knew how it turns out and therefore could easily focus on other aspects of Kim's message. Do know that at the end we come back to Andrew and let you know how that all turned out. You could fast forard to the end but you'd miss so much deep wisdom that Kim shares along the way. So hang in there because Kim does tell you what happened not only with Andrew but brings us up to speed on her life. Let's listen in to find out that there's no story so broken that God cannot heal it! Live Loved and Thrive! @alifeofthrive.com Sherrie Pilk Other podcast episodes and/or blogs on this topic: *Making Marriage Healthy with Marriage Counselor, Leslie Davis: https://alifeofthrive.com/2023/11/08/marriage-healthy/ *Christian marriage, Abuse and Boundaries, with Stephanie Jordan: https://alifeofthrive.com/2023/04/12/christian-marriage-abuse-and-boundaries/ *A Porn Free Marriage is Possible with Rosie MaKinney: https://alifeofthrive.com/2022/05/11/porn-free/ *Healing for Male Sexual Abuse Survivors with Dr. Kelli Palfy: https://alifeofthrive.com/2022/03/30/male-sexual-abuse/ CONNECT WITH KIMBERLY: Website: https://kimberlyhaar.com/ Podcast: Keeping It Real: https://kimberlyhaar.com/podcast/ Purchase Her Book (link is on the page near the bottom): https://kimberlyhaar.com/healing-from-lifes-deepest-hurts-book/ BIO: Kimberly Haar is a licensed therapist, author, and speaker with nearly two decades of experience in trauma recovery and marriage and family therapy. Blending clinical insight with deep faith, she helps others move from pain to purpose. Drawing from her own story of healing, Kimberly shares a message of hope and restoration, reminding others that with God, no story is too shattered to be rewritten, and no life too broken to be beautifully restored.

What if the chaos in your life and marriage isn't random, but the result of living out of sync with God's divine order? In this powerful episode, Dr. Kim welcomes pastor, author, and Bible teacher Manny Arango to the show for the first time. Drawing from his book Crushing Chaos, Manny shares how God brings peace by establishing order and how that same truth can transform our marriages. From understanding “Sequence, Authority, Rhythm” to identifying the chaos we invite into our homes, this conversation is full of practical wisdom and biblical depth. Whether you're navigating stress, disconnection, or just longing for more peace at home, this episode will help you move toward order, unity, and rest.   Episode Highlights: God's first works calm the chaos. Understanding God's context changes the way we read the Bible. God is an expert at not just blessing people with peace, but giving people order. We can't make lasting decisions in our marriage based on a temporary rhythm. Boundaries are necessary for proper order.   Quotes from Today's Episode: Alot of times we are really good at knowing what the Bible says, but not good at knowing what the Bible means.  He takes our lives which are naturally chaotic and dysfunctional and God begins to create order.  Most people think the opposite of chaos is peace, but the reality is the opposite of chaos is order.  Life is full of rhythm. You can't fight against the rhythm of life.  God does healthy, biblically inspired boundaries.  Your feelings aren't a good indicator of whether or not something is godly or biblical. The Word of God has to have preeminence.    Couples' Conversation Guide: Where might we be living out of sync with God's order in our marriage or home? How do we define peace in our marriage? Do you feel like it is based on emotions or God's order? What boundaries might we need to set to protect the rhythm and health of our relationship?   Mentioned in this Episode: Find Manny on IG. A book worth reading. Crushing Chaos by Manny Arango is powerful and challenging in the best way. Order yours today! We believe that keeping marriage fun means date night can't be boring. Check out our Date Night Boosters. Reignite the fun and intimacy in your date nights with your spouse. Find Dr. Kim on Instagram Awesome Marriage swag is now LIVE! Grab a gift for you, your spouse or another couple. There's something for everyone.  Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you intentionally choose to prevent the chaos from taking over your marriage, find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Try this FREE YouVersion plan: MindCraft: Take Your Thoughts Captive to Transform Your Marriage If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to . receive our Date Night Boosters.  

This might just be one of our most powerful and influential episodes we have ever done packed with insight, wisdom, and practical tools that apply to every marriage, no matter where you are in your relationship journey.In this episode, Nick and Amy interview Tamara Fackrell, a divorce attorney, author, and PhD in Marriage & Family Relationships. Yes, you read that right! A divorce attorney who's passionately working to help couples stay together and thrive.Tamara shares transformative strategies for resolving conflict in marriage. These steps are clear, easy to apply, and designed to bring lasting peace and deeper connection to your relationship. Whether you're facing frequent tension or just looking to strengthen an already solid foundation, this episode is full of tools that can change the trajectory of your marriage fast.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.This episode was recorded in 2022 and reposted. Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

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Balancing marriage and parenting can feel overwhelming at times. Between work, childcare, and household responsibilities, it's easy for intimacy to take a backseat. However, transitioning from “parent mode” to “lover mode” is crucial for maintaining a strong emotional and physical connection with your spouse. But it is extremely hard for some women (and men) to do. In fact, in our recent poll we took, 60% of women stated it was hard for them to switch from mom (parent) mode to lover mode.In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we share answers from our audience about how they shift from parent mode to lover mode, and of course we will share our insight as well.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

In this really fun episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're turning up the heat on your typical date night with some spicy game ideas for couples, and the best part? You probably already own everything you need!This is one of our favorite things to do, because after all, the Ultimate Intimacy App bedroom game was developed because of one of the games we were playing to spice things up!Think you need to buy fancy products or plan a big night out to connect intimately with your spouse? Think again. We're sharing our favorite creative and playful ways to turn common household and classic games into something that sparks laughter, connection, and major chemistry.From intimate twists on card games, dice games, and even things like truth or dare, and Jenga, we'll show you how to reimagine game night as something that brings both fun and fire into your relationship.

With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from StrongWives.com Support HFW through a donation Listen now: Our topic of discussion, today, is how a woman can heal when fantasy was a part of his acting out behaviors? This type of fantasy is more than just an innocent daydream anticipating your upcoming vacation, Patrick Carnes, in his book Out of the Shadows, defines fantasy as, “…the altered [mental] state where anticipation and planning override conscience and consequence.” In other words, this type of fantasy goes against values and ignores the relational consequences that can come if this fantasy is acted out. We Will be Discussing: Definitions of fantasy What about fantasy impacts a partner so greatly? How does comparison play into this scenario for her?

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're bringing back the charm, romance, and respect that make marriages thrive, starting with a deep dive into chivalry and what it actually looks like in modern-day marriage. Chivalry not as outdated gestures or grand displays, but as small daily, intentional acts of love and respect, like opening the door, protecting your spouse's heart, putting their needs first, and showing up with kindness and thoughtfulness, even when life gets crazy. This episode will leave you inspired to bring more old-school romance into your everyday life, which your wife will love.Spoiler alert: chivalry isn't just for husbands. Wives can be chivalrous too! And when both spouses step up, the result is a marriage full of warmth, safety, admiration… and yes, intimacy.If you're ready to bring the “wow” back into your relationship and lead with love in the little things, this episode is for you.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

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July 13th, 2025:  Christian Marriage - An Overview; Christian Marriage - As A Sacrament; Holy Matrimony, Part of God's Plan

In today's episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into the amazing benefits of being married, and we're not just talking about tax breaks and shared chores! In fact we don't even mention either of those! We discuss emotional security and companionship to better health and deeper intimacy, marriage brings a unique kind of fulfillment that singles just don't experience the same way.But this episode isn't just our opinion, we asked you, our incredible audience, to tell us what YOU think the biggest perks of marriage are, and today we're sharing your honest, heartfelt, and even hilarious answers!Whether you've been married for two years or twenty, this episode will remind you why you said "I do"—and might even inspire you to appreciate your spouse a little more today.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Just when you thought you couldn't love Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy more—this episode takes things to a whole new level. With honesty and heart, they open up about the real journey of their marriage—sharing the intentional choices, tough seasons, and deep faith that carried them through. From early challenges that could have pulled them apart to the daily decisions that drew them closer, their story reflects what's possible when a couple chooses to build on the foundation of Christ. Their marriage is both relatable and inspiring—a powerful reminder that when God is kept first, a marriage doesn't just survive—it thrives. Episode Highlights: Intentionality is key. Marriages won't thrive naturally. Taking ownership and openly communicating are important tools for successful marriages.   Quotes from this Episode: Don't be negative.  I think we were in lust not in love. I think we had to build true love in our marriage. We've learned to build bit by bit. I thought if I loved you enough everything was going to be ok. Until you realize how much God loves you as a person you aren't truly free to love another person. Divorce isn't a word in our vocabulary anymore, commitment is! We realize now what we were missing. Just getting married doesn't mean you won't feel alone.    Questions for Conversation: What part of Dr. Kim and Nancy's story felt most relatable or surprising to you? Why? Have you ever assumed love alone would be enough to fix everything? How has your view of love and commitment changed over time? Have there been moments where one (or both) of you felt alone in your marriage? What helped reconnect you—or what could help now? Is “divorce” or emotional withdrawal ever subtly present as an option in your mindset or language? What does it look like to choose commitment every day? How can you better prioritize keeping God first in your marriage this week? What's one thing you want to be intentional about after listening to this episode—together or individually?   Mentioned in this episode: Find Dr. Kim on Instagram We believe that keeping marriage fun means date night can't be boring. Check out our Date Night Boosters. Reignite the fun and intimacy in your date nights with your spouse. Awesome Marriage swag is now LIVE! Grab a gift for you, your spouse or another couple. There's something for everyone.  Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you intentionally choose to build a thriving marriage, find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Try this FREE YouVersion plan: Celebrating Differences in Marriage If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to . receive our Date Night Boosters.  

In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're diving headfirst into one of the most requested topics from our community: Foreplay! We asked thousands of wives to share their favorite foreplay things they want to see from their husbands, and what puts them in the mood, and wow… they delivered! From emotional connection to those can't-miss physical touches, this top 10 list is packed with real, tried-and-true tips that will take your intimacy game to the next level. Whether you're looking to rekindle the spark or just want to be a more thoughtful and confident spouse, this episode is for you. Husbands, take notes. Wive's, send this to your man. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Wallet Win Catholic financial coaches Jonathan & Amanda Teixeira dive into the housing market and when to buy a new home on Trending with Timmerie. (0:48) What about a one-income family, how do you address that issue in terms of buying a home? (20:31) The most common question Catholic financial coaches receive – how do we drop down to a one income home and bring mom home? (32:28) Resources mentioned: https://walletwin.com/ Casti Connubi – Encyclical on Christian Marriage https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.vatican.va/content/pius-xi/en/encyclicals/documents/hf_p-xi_enc_19301231_casti-connubii.html&sa=D&source=docs&ust=1647565051866630&usg=AOvVaw0Q23g0i_XaOhIZCLPYn37v Complete My Joy – Apostolic Exhortation to Christian Spouses https://family.dphx.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/2018-Complete-My-Joy-Apostolic-Exhortation-English.pdf

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Faith and Remarriage: Adultry?In this powerful episode of The 'NEW' Marriage, we confront a sensitive and often controversial topic: Is remarriage after divorce a form of adultery?We unpack biblical teachings, faith-based guilt, and the emotional fallout couples experience when religion collides with love and second chances.If you're wrestling with spiritual shame or judgment around remarriage, this is for you.

Send us a textLet's be real—affirmations sound empowering, but they're empty without truth.In this no-fluff episode, Chelsey exposes the hollowness of self-help mantras and explains why “I am enough” just doesn't cut it without a biblical foundation. You'll learn why it's not about finding your truth, becoming your best self, or repeating fluffy phrases—it's about anchoring yourself in who God actually says you are.This is your permission slip to stop striving and start abiding. Let's burn the counterfeit and root ourselves in Truth that sets us free. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives flourish deeply as YOU in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-freetraining2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

In Part 2 of our interview, we welcome back Yamilexis Fernandez and her husband, Jacob Pizarro—a youth pastor and Bible teacher—to explore how Christian families can protect the next generation from digital dangers like pornography and overexposure to technology.Jacob shares a powerful analogy of Alaskan wolf hunters to help parents understand how early exposure to explicit content can be silently harmful. Together, he and Yamilexis offer real-life tools, biblical guidance, and practical parenting strategies to help kids build a foundation of purity, discipline, and faith.

This is the perfect episode to kick off July, as this month at Awesome Marriage we're highlighting the importance of dating your spouse. Arlene Pellicane joins me in the studio to talk about keeping your spouse first and your marriage fun! But what does that actually look like? In the midst of life's demands, Arlene shares practical tips and loads of wisdom to help you keep investing in your marriage and enjoying your spouse. We pray this episode encourages your marriage. Episode Takeaways: Marriage and parenting are common pain points for many people. The divorce rate is down, but so is the marriage rate. Men are marrying later and less frequently than in the past. Gray divorce is on the rise, with more older couples divorcing. Couples often stay together for the kids but drift apart afterward. Awareness of vulnerability in marriage is crucial. Gratitude can transform how you view your spouse. Serving your spouse should be unconditional, regardless of their actions. Fun is essential in maintaining a healthy marriage. Finding common interests can strengthen the bond between spouses. Be creative in finding fun activities together. Family meals are essential for daily connection. Prioritizing your spouse can enhance the marriage. It's important to forgive quickly in a marriage. Express gratitude for your spouse regularly. Shared experiences create lasting memories. Nurturing the marriage benefits the entire family. Every day together is a gift to cherish. The book 'Making Marriage Easier' offers practical insights.   Quotes from this Episode: "It's never too late to turn that around." "We want to avoid drifting apart." "Play by God's rules in your marriage." "Who can out-serve the other?" "I will try it, even if I'm not good at it." "What can we do all together?" "You don't have to do it like everyone else." "It blesses your kids." "Every day is a gift that we have together."   Questions for Conversation: What practical steps can you take this week to put your marriage first, even amidst busy schedules and family demands? How can you create more opportunities for fun and laughter with your spouse, making your relationship a joyful priority? In what ways can prioritizing your spouse help you both feel more connected and valued in your daily life? What new or creative activities can you plan together to bring more excitement and shared enjoyment into your marriage?   Mentioned in this Episode:  Find Arlene Pellicane on IG.  We believe that keeping marriage fun means date night can't be boring. Check out our Date Night Boosters. Reignite the fun and intimacy in your date nights with your spouse. Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you intentionally choose to pursue the marriage God intended, find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Try this FREE YouVersion plan: 7 Secrets of an Awesome Marriage If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to . receive our Date Night Boosters.

Sometimes the Church just doesn't know what to do with women in hard marriages...here are some thoughts. (Feel free to share this with your pastor, adult ministries leader, women's ministry director, or small group leader.)NEW E-BOOK: https://bit.ly/stories-only-strangers-can-see-access If my work has been helpful to you in any way, feel free to leave a little tip: ⁠https://www.venmo.com/u/Elisabeth-KleinFisherresources:in a difficult marriage?*if you're not safe or if you or your children are being physically or sexually hurt, please set up a safetyplan (https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/create-your-personal-safety-plan/) and contact theNational Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233)*confidential marriage assessment: http://bit.ly/marriage-assessment*Surviving in a Difficult Christian Marriage e-book: https://elisabethklein.com/books *3-month e-course, Better Way to Stay:⁠https://bit.ly/better-way-to-stay-marriage-ecourse⁠ *if you're in a difficult marriage with biblical grounds to divorce and you're trying to decide whether to stay or go: my 5-week e-course, Decision Time: https://bit.ly/wholeness-courses separated or divorced or single mom?*my book, Unraveling: Hanging Onto Faith Through the End of a Christian Marriage: bit.ly/UnravelingMarriage*Surviving as a Christian Single Mom: www.elisabethklein.com/books*3-month e-course, Heartbreak to Hope: https://bit.ly/Heartbreak-to-Hope-ecourse⁠for church leaders: A Cry for Justice by Jeff Crippen & Anna WoodDivorce and Remarriage in the Church by David Instone-BrewerSurviving in a Difficult Christian Marriage by Elisabeth KleinThe Emotionally Destructive Marriage by Leslie VernickNo Place for Abuse: Biblical and Practical Resources to Counteract Domestic Violence by Catherine Clark Kroeger

LOOK OUT!   What you continually mind you'll eventually find. Pastor Jim Frease delivers a powerful and refreshingly humorous wake-up call about protecting your most precious relationships. In this candid message, he tackles one of the most challenging topics facing marriages today with such warmth, transparency, and joyful humor that you'll find yourself both laughing and deeply convicted. From eye-opening statistics about adultery to the "reclassification trap" that slowly conditions us to accept what we once rejected, this isn't your typical "don't do this" sermon - it's a loving, hope-filled roadmap for building marriages that last. Whether you're newlyweds, struggling in your relationship, or wanting to affair-proof your future, this message offers biblical wisdom wrapped in relatable humor and real-life stories from Pastor Jim's 34-year marriage. The bottom line: adultery doesn't begin in the bed - it begins in the head, but there's incredible hope when you know what to look out for. Perfect for couples to listen to together or anyone who wants to understand how small choices lead to life-changing consequences - plus, you'll find yourself genuinely laughing along the way!

Lindsey and Aron continue the conversation around how we are designed by discussing what oneness in marriage is..... and what it is not.  Join in the conversation! Also visit www.inrelationship.us to learn more about the marriage workshop Lindsey and Aron teach that walks couples through how to experience this oneness. 

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The difficult, the monotony, the repetition is the sacrifice of motherhood. But it is ALWAYS in the sacrifice that we end up finding joy – if we're looking for it.It's when we sacrifice for another out of love, that we become a better person. We have a God-given mission as mothers – and as dads for those men listening.We are in partnership with God in conception and in raising our children. We are our children's first teachers in everything!When we see our role in our child's life as teacher, mentor, model, and as a calling from God it will change the way you parent.Check out my Virtue-Based Parenting Course to help you parent better and find JOY!Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching

Send us a textIn this raw, honest, and Holy Spirit-led episode, Chelsey takes you behind the scenes of a chaotic game night turned spiritual revelation. From parenting breakdowns to a face-first fall at the gas station, she shares how God used the everyday and the unexpected to uncover deeper truths—about spiritual warfare, gluttony, control, and walking in the Spirit.Chelsey unpacks the power of spiritual fasting (and the pitfalls of doing it with the wrong heart), the difference between surface conflict and deeper battles, and how to stop waging war against the wrong enemy—in marriage, parenting, and life. If you're ready to starve your flesh, feed your spirit, and reclaim your authority in Christ, this one is for you.God's Chosen Fast by Arthur WallisPracticing the Way by John Mark Comer Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives flourish deeply as YOU in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-freetraining2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

When Jesus introduced the new blueprint for marriage—no divorce, total monogamy—it stunned the Apostles. His vision was bold, uncompromising, and utterly countercultural. But with the power of the Holy Spirit, it's not only possible—it's transformational.Enter Father Josiah Trenham: Orthodox pastor, husband of 37 years, and father of ten. In this episode, he unpacks the divine design for marriage—why it's essential for civilization and for sanctifying your soul. You'll walk away challenged, inspired, and ready to see marriage as a holy mission with eternal impact.Marriage Conference: https://www.themarriageconference.com/Patristic Nectar Website/App: https://patristicnectar.org/Patristic Nectar YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@PatristicNectarFilmsNEW:Join our exclusive Rose Report community! https://lilaroseshow.supercast.com - We'll have BTS footage, ad-free episodes, monthly AMA, and early access to our upcoming guests.A big thanks to our partner, EWTN, the world's leading Catholic network! Discover news, entertainment and more at https://www.ewtn.com/ Check out our Sponsors:-Seven Weeks Coffee: https://www.sevenweekscoffee.com Buy your pro-life coffee with code LILA and get up to 25% off!-We Heart Nutrition: https://www.weheartnutrition.com/ Get high quality vitamin supplements for 20% off using the code LILA. -Hallow: https://www.hallow.com/lila Enter into prayer more deeply this season with the Hallow App, get 3 months free by using this link to sign up! 00:00:00 - Intro00:03:40 - Why Focus on Love and Marriage?00:09:57 - Seven Weeks Coffee00:10:40 - What is St John Chrysostom's vision of marriage?00:18:43 - Jesus establishing the importance of marriage00:21:55 - Marriage got completely mangled00:22:48 - Hallow00:23:38 - (‘No such thing as Judeo-Christian ethic'00:30:45 - What did early Christians think about marriage?00:32:25 - Why was sexual revolution so ‘effective'?00:42:14 - What about single people?00:47:39 - The role of contraception in demise of sexual morality00:52:18 - No Fault Divorce00:55:06 - Pastoring LGBT people00:59:03 - Theological understanding of marriage01:07:44 - Honoring Children01:09:11 - Eros and Sexual Attraction01:10:07 - Why should couples have children?01:22:00 - Be fruitful and multiply01:24:14 - Natural Family Planning01:28:40 - Sexual Fasting

Is Your Marriage Truly Intimate? It's Not About Frequency—It's About Fulfillment.Intimacy isn't a scoreboard. It's not about how often you're having sex compared to other couples, it's about whether it's meeting the emotional, physical, and relational needs of both spouses.Sex in marriage goes far beyond the physical. It's neurological. It's hormonal. It's deeply emotional. Science shows that regular sexual intimacy literally rewires your brain to feel more love, more trust, and more connection with your spouse.In this powerful episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we dive into eye-opening stats, surprising research, and real talk about what makes a marriage truly intimate. and how to know if yours is. We even have a quiz to help you find out.Don't miss this one, it might just change everything.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

BBQ Judging, Scythe Harvesting, and Christian MarriageBarbecue Competition Judging: Adam shares his first experience as a barbecue competition judge at a local Catholic church and school fundraiser in Tulsa, where he was joined by his son Jude (assistant judge) and two priests.Judged four categories: chicken, pulled pork, ribs, and brisket (Adam insists brisket is the primary measure; David (wrongly) argues for ribs).12 pit masters competed; judged on appearance, taste, tenderness, texture, uniqueness, and overall (max score 25).Advice from Joe Martin's son: Take one bite per entry to avoid overeating (48 bites total across 40 minutes).Adam judged strictly (e.g., scores as low as 14, zero for appearance), while priests gave higher scores (23–24), highlighting differing standards.Event fostered camaraderie among pit masters (12 hours together) and service to attendees, teaching kids sacrifice, friendship, and craft articulation.Shout-out to Brian Schooley for organizing; Adam and David plan to enter as The Catholic Man Show next year, with Jim in a dunk tank.Main DiscussionWheat Harvest with a ScytheDavid's Experience: David harvested two 45x45-foot wheat plots using a scythe, finding it soothing, peaceful, and in tune with nature despite being exhausting.Quotes Wendell Berry: “The means we use to do our work almost certainly affects the way we look at the world” (via an X account, @minahan8).Compared to last year's sickle (felt “commie”), the scythe was efficient for small-scale farming; not practical for large-scale but satisfying.Kids raked straw (post-harvest, nutritionless due to seeding) for pig bedding or garden mulch; straw vs. hay explained (hay retains nutrition).Adam plans to borrow David's scythe for his own wheat harvest, nervous about back strain.Wendell Berry Reflection: Hosts revisit Berry's essays, appreciating his beautiful, idealistic conclusions but finding his reasoning insufficient (e.g., abandoning tractors would starve people).Compare Berry's idealism to J.R.R. Tolkien and Guardini's Letters at Lake Como; both depict lovely worlds but lack practical solutions for modern challenges.Christian Marriage and Pope Leo XIIIIntroduction to Pope Leo XIII: Adam introduces Pope Leo XIII (1810–1903), a prophetic figure who addressed modernity's challenges (secularism, communism, liberalism) in the late 19th century.Known for Rerum Novarum (1891, Catholic social teaching), reviving Thomism in seminaries (to counter Nietzsche, Hegel, and communism), and engaging modern society.His encyclical Arcanum Divinae Sapientiae (1880) emphasizes Christian marriage as a divine, not secular, institution, foundational to society.Critiqued rise of divorce, moral relativism, and civil interference undermining marriage's sanctity; argued church, not state, holds primary authority over marriage.Marriage as Trinitarian Image: Marriage mirrors the Trinity's relational society, where spousal love is so real it produces a third (child), reflecting Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.Secular view (Enlightenment-era and today) reduces marriage to a consensual contract, ignoring its sacramental, stable, and permanent nature.State has a role in regulating marriage per natural law, but church's supernatural authority supersedes.Ephesians 5 and Mutual SubmissionScriptural Basis: Leo XIII references Ephesians 5 (footnoted), where St. Paul instructs mutual submission out of reverence for Christ, with specific roles: wives submit to husbands, husbands love wives as Christ loved the church.Secular society fixates on “wives submit,” ignoring mutual submission and...

If you sat your kids down and asked them what they think about your marriage, what would they say? Would they describe a relationship filled with love, kindness, respect, and affection—or would they notice tension, distance, or disconnection?In this thought-provoking episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we explore the powerful impact your marriage has on your children. Whether you realize it or not, your kids are watching, learning, and forming beliefs about love, commitment, and connection based on what they see between you and your spouse.We dive into the intentional choices couples can make to model a healthy, loving relationship—one that teaches your children what a strong marriage truly looks like. From the way you communicate and resolve conflict to how you prioritize time together, this episode is a must-listen for couples who want to leave a lasting legacy of love.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

The mother-in-law/daughter-in-law relationship has been the subject of jokes, sitcom shows, stereotypes and unfortunately, for some, painful moments in our lives.In this episode, I'm sharing the "Families of Character" podcast episode in which Jordan Langdon and I discuss the sometimes complex relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.Let's talk about how to have a better (dare I say great?) relationship with your daughter-in-law or mother-in-law!Check out Jordan's resources on how to have a great family HERE.If you want help to make your relationship with your mother-in-law or daughter-in-law better, please see the details of my course:  "The MIL/DIL Dynamic Course" HERE.Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching

Enneagram The Greek word Ennea means 9 and Gram means points. The picture we often see drawn out is a 9 pointed star as a visual way for us to see each type and their tendencies.References and resources: Relate Better Enneacast Podcast, Enneagram and Marriage Podcast with Christa Hardin, MA, Becoming Us by Your Enneagram Coach Beth McCord.Gut Triad: 8 - 9 - 1Heart: 2 - 3 - 4Head: 5 - 6 - 7@millionpodcastsNumber 40 married Couple PodcastNumber 96 in Christian Marriage Podcasts  We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.comOr on Instagram at Marriage_Infiltered_PodcastWe hope to hear from you! Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX

In today's episode, we explore how constant connectivity and work stress can quietly invade our marriages. When work becomes all-consuming, it can turn into an idol and create emotional distance between spouses. We discuss why learning to leave work at work is a spiritual discipline and how true support means walking alongside your spouse, not having all the answers. You'll hear practical wisdom on setting boundaries together, sharing burdens, and seeking counsel early. Marriage is about more than success—it's about not facing struggles alone.   Episode Highlights:  Technology has blurred our boundaries between work and home.  Learning to leave work at work is a spiritual discipline. Being supportive doesn't mean you have to all the answers- it means you're walking alongside your spouse. The pace of modern culture doesn't allow proper mental closure.   Quotes from Today's Episodes: A lot of people in the workplace feel the expectation to be available 24/7/365 Work problems begin to feel like personal problems- like they need immediate attention. Our ultimate identity is not in our professional performance.  Work stress can be like an invisible third person in your marriage. When work becomes all consuming it shifts into an idol. Our marriages are about something bigger than career success. Marriage is about sharing burdens- not just the good stuff.  Trying to handle stress alone creates distance in the marriage. There's something spiritually significant about not facing struggles alone.  The most effective boundaries are the ones you create together. They need to know your concern comes from a place of care not criticism. The earlier you involve wise counsel the more effectively you can address issues before they become entrenched patterns.  Questions for Discussion: Do you currently have any transitional rituals in place? If not, what rituals can the two of you agree to implement?  Do you currently implement any device free times/ zones? Are you using technology to connect with your spouse in healthy ways? (encouraging text, midday phone call)   Mentioned in This Episode: Find Dr. Kim on Instagram Check out our June resource of the month: Love That Honors Want to ensure you aren't unintentionally disrespecting your spouse- our FREE resource can help: 17 Unintentionally Disrespectful Phrases To Cut Out When Speaking To Your Spouse Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you intentionally choose to grow the intimacy in your marriage and your relationship with Christ, find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Try this FREE YouVersion plan just in time for summer: Islands, Tides and the Deep: A Marriage Message from the Sea If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! If your marriage is struggling or in crisis, don't give up and give in. Our 11 Things to do Before you Get a Divorce webinar is your next step. There is always hope for healing and this free webinar will give you the foundation to start rebuilding if you're willing to try!

Stéphanie welcomes Ann and Dave Wilson, the hosts of global ministry and syndicated radio show FamilyLife, to discuss key insights from their decades of marriage and ministry. The title of their new book says it all: "How to speak life to your husband when all you want to do is yell at him." What if one small shift—like choosing encouragement over criticism—could change the tone of your whole marriage? Real people in real relationships have real problems, but with God's help, you can heal and sustain your marriage for a lifetime. The Wilsons, through vulnerability and wisdom, highlight how Christian spouses—particularly wives, though the lessons are universal—can profoundly impact their marriages by transforming their mindset and the words they speak. Recognizing Shifting Cultural Dynamics Ann shares that over 45 years of marriage and ministry, she's observed a cultural shift. Dissatisfaction and unrest in marriages seem more common, with a tendency for spouses—especially wives—to see their partners as adversaries or projects for improvement. Ann notes the escalation of negative speech and a belief that critiques or reminders will motivate change. In reality, frequent criticism often demotivates the other partner. The Power of Words A pivotal story shared by Ann involves her realization that her well-intended feedback sounded like constant “booing” to Dave. Ann genuinely believed her critiques would help Dave become a better husband, father, and man. However, after an honest conversation and prayer, Ann discovered that her negative words were discouraging him more than anything. This revelation led her to a critical self-examination and a commitment to use her words to encourage rather than to correct. The Path from Critique to Affirmation Ann's journey involved asking God for conviction—not condemnation—and humbly examining her attitude. She confronted her own pride, recognizing the difference between thinking "I failed" (which God forgives and restores) and "I am a failure" (which is condemnation and shame). With this shift, she chose to focus on what was good and praiseworthy in Dave, believing that God calls spouses to be each other's chief encouragers. The Science Behind Positive Illusion Ann references Dr. Helene Fisher's research, which found that happy, long-term marriages are characterized by a “positive illusion”—focusing on what you like about your spouse, intentionally rewiring your mindset to notice and affirm the good. This is supported by brain science and aligns with biblical instructions about renewing your mind. Practical Outworking and Challenges Practically, Ann began to express gratitude and appreciation—starting with simple thanks for Dave's hard work. Dave testifies that these words of encouragement were more powerful than any affirmation he received elsewhere. This shift motivated him to grow into the person Ann saw in him. A Revolution of Respect and Gratitude Ann frames this approach as a “rebellion” against a culture that devalues respect. By choosing respect and gratitude—whether verbally, in writing, or through a daily journal—wives can breathe life and hope into their husbands, families, and homes. Dave affirms that authentic encouragement, rather than critique, draws men toward home and transforms family culture. The God-Given Power of Influence Through Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit, any spouse can become a speaker of life in marriage. This transformation is not about being passive or suppressing truth but about courageously choosing love, hope, and affirmation as radical acts of faith—ultimately reflecting God's heart for us. How might shifting from critique to encouragement change the atmosphere in your closest relationships? What step can you take today to practice the “positive illusion” in your marriage or family? ABOUT THE BOOK “HOW TO SPEAK LIFE TO YOUR HUSBAND WHEN ALL YOU WANT TO DO IS YELLE AT HIM” Discover the marriage you've always hoped for. With practical tools to help you communicate more effectively, you'll learn to speak the language of love and grace that will encourage and strengthen your husband at every turn. Buy the book here: https://shop.familylife.com/product/how-to-speak-life-to-your-husband-when-all-you-want-to-do-is-yell-at-him/  Ann Wilson spent more than a decade longing for a better marriage and for her husband to be more attentive, more involved, more helpful, and just all-around better. And every chance she got, she told him so. Where she thought she was being helpful, she was instead badgering him with constant critiques until all he heard was, “Boo! Boo!” when they were together. It almost broke their marriage. But Ann discovered the power that God has given wives. No matter how long you've been married, you don't need to spend another minute hoping and wishing for things to be different. They can! And the power is in your hands. In this motivating, honest new book, Ann–marriage coach and bestselling author with her husband, Dave–shares how she breathed new life into her marriage by stewarding one of the most powerful gifts believers inherit from the Creator: encouragement. God has given wives a superpower to influence their husbands and homes, and you can use that power to build up and encourage your man to be a better husband, father, and man of God while still speaking truth to him. Relatable, encouraging, biblical, and funny, Ann shares stories from her own life, as well as valuable insights from Scripture, to help you: ·         Address the ways you process and justify your communication patterns ·         Seek spiritual and relational (re)alignment with both your husband and God ·         Learn to exercise self-control and demonstrate radical grace in conversations with your husband ·         Begin to cheer more than boo–in a way that isn't put on, fake, or inauthentic ·         Learn to speak truth in a way your husband can really hear you ·         And, ultimately, cultivate a grace-based marriage that thrives ·         Real people in real relationships have real problems, but with God's help, you can heal and sustain your marriage for a lifetime. MORE ABOUT ANN AND DAVE WILSON Dave and Ann Wilson are hosts of FamilyLife Today®, FamilyLife's nationally-syndicated radio program on more than 1,300 radio outlets in all 50 states. They are also cofounders of Kensington Church, a national, multi-campus church that hosts more than 14,000 attendees every weekend. Since 1993, they have been featured speakers at FamilyLife's Weekend to Remember® marriage getaways and have also hosted their own marriage conferences across the country. The Wilsons live in the Detroit area where Dave served as the Detroit Lions chaplain for 33 years. Dave and Ann have three grown sons, CJ, Austin, and Cody, as well as three daughters-in-law and four grandchildren. We invite you to check out the first episode of each of our series, and decide which one you will want to start with. Go to gospelspice.com for more, and go especially to gospelspice.com/podcast to enjoy our guests! Interested in our blog? 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