Podcast appearances and mentions of christian marriage

This week on Trailer Parked Theology, Josh and Kristi share a takeaway from a recent marriage retreat that challenged one of the most common images used to explain Christian marriage: the triangle. They explore how sacramental marriage is about far more than two individuals independently pursuing God.Together they unpack a richer vision of marriage as a living icon of Christ's love for the Church, where spouses become instruments of God's grace for one another and for the world.The conversation then shifts into 1 John 2:7-11, where John speaks of an "old" commandment that is somehow also "new." Josh and Kristi explore how Jesus fulfilled the commandment of love, transforming it from instruction into lived demonstration through His life, death, and resurrection.Episode HighlightsThe popular "marriage triangle" analogySacramental marriage as an icon of Christ and His ChurchHow spouses help lead one another to heavenThe difference between the "old" and "new" commandment in 1 JohnHow Jesus demonstrated perfect love rather than simply teaching itWhy growth often begins when God reveals our blind spotsLearning to receive correction with humility and gracePractical ways to see God's presence in everyday lifeScripture Discussed1 John 2:7-11 Support the show

What if some of the marriage advice you've always believed is actually hurting your relationship? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy reveal the most common marriage advice they were given (or that they have heard) before and after getting married, advice that sounded wise, was widely accepted, and was often shared with the best intentions, but ultimately did more harm than good.From popular relationship clichés to long-held beliefs about what makes a marriage successful, they unpack the advice they discovered was actually creating frustration, misunderstanding, and disconnection instead of strengthening their relationship.You may be surprised by how many of these marriage "rules" you've heard, or even followed yourself. Tune in and see if you agree with their list! We would also love to hear anything you have heard and include them in a future episode.

Send us Fan MailWhy does life suddenly feel chaotic when routines disappear?Maybe summer isn't creating the problem.Maybe it's revealing it.In this episode, Chelsey unpacks how easily life drifts out of order- especially during busy seasons—and why many women unintentionally place kids, schedules, responsibilities, and work above the things that actually create peace.You'll learn how God's design for right order creates stability, why environment matters more than motivation, and how to intentionally build a home that flourishes instead of simply surviving.Because peace rarely happens accidentally. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

Send us Fan MailGod gave me this vision of a courtroom. This image should break us of self-righteousness in marriage. Are you standing next to the accuser in agreement over your husband's offenses? Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

Samuel Goulet shares a practical and encouraging message on how strong families are built by centering the home on Christ. He explains that discipleship begins at home through both testimony and structure—parents modeling God's faithfulness while creating a culture marked by love, forgiveness, compassion, and daily spiritual formation. This episode challenges families to move beyond condemnation, embrace conviction, and intentionally build homes where God's Word is lived out, passed on, and reflected in everyday life.

Send us Fan MailYou study business.You study parenting.You study nutrition.But do you intentionally study your husband?In this episode, I'm teaching wives how to become students of their husbands—not to control them or fix them—but to understand, support, and build the kind of marriage where both people flourish.You'll learn practical ways to understand how your husband thinks, what creates safety and connection for men, and how intentional curiosity creates stronger marriages than assumption ever will.Because high level marriages are built by spouses who never stop learning each other. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

By Stephen Bouchette - Marriage is one of the most rewarding and challenging things in life. Through the seasons of a marriage, what actually holds a marriage together over time? There are four foundational pillars of marriage: humility, effort, communication, and empathy. These are not only interpersonal skills, but

Send us Fan MailWhat do you do when nothing seems to be changing?When your marriage feels impossible… finances feel tight… prayers feel unanswered… and you've done everything you know how to do?In this episode, we walk through one of the most powerful biblical pictures of God's provision and power from 2 Kings 6–7 and reminds listeners that God is still the God of suddenly.You'll learn why surrender comes before breakthrough, how God often works outside of human understanding, and why your job is not to force outcomes—but to create space for God to move.Because what feels impossible to you…may simply be the setup for God's suddenly. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

Send us Fan MailYou love your spouse.But do you actually like them? This reel sparked a HUGE reaction!In this episode, Chelsey Holm unpacks why so many marriages slowly drift from friendship, fun, and genuine enjoyment—and why simply staying married is not the same thing as flourishing together.You'll learn why resentment quietly kills friendship, how survival mode changes connection, and what creates the kind of marriage where you genuinely enjoy being together again.Because marriage was never meant to be endured.It was meant to reflect something much deeper. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

Today is day 146 and we are studying The Sacrament of Marriage. 146. What is Christian marriage? Christian marriage, or Holy Matrimony, is a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman, uniting them in self-giving love, joy, and faithfulness. It is ordained by God for the procreation and spiritual nurture of children, the sanctification of husband and wife, the mutual support of their common life, and the flourishing of family, church, and society. Husband and wife enter into this covenant by exchanging vows before God and in the presence of witnesses. (Genesis 2:18–25; Song of Solomon 4:7–10; Matthew 19:3–9; John 2:1–11; Romans 7:2–3; Hebrews 13:4; see questions 322–23) We will conclude today with the Address to the Congregation during Holy Matrimony on pages 201-202 of the Book of Common Prayer (2019). If you would like to buy or download To Be a Christian, head to anglicanchurch.net/catechism. Produced by Holy Trinity Anglican Church in Madison, MS. Original music from Matthew Clark. Daily collects and Psalms are taken from Book of Common Prayer (2019), created by the Anglican Church in North America and published by the Anglican Liturgical Press. Used by permission. All rights reserved. Scripture quotations are from The ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. Catechism readings are taken from To Be a Christian - An Anglican Catechism Approved Edition, copyright © 2020 by The Anglican Church in North America by Crossway a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

On this episode of the The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy sit down with menopause and perimenopause expert Jesse Robertson for a powerful and eye-opening conversation about what millions of women are experiencing... often silently.Perimenopause and menopause impact far more than hormones. They can affect energy, emotions, sleep, confidence, intimacy, mental clarity, and relationships. Yet many couples still don't fully understand what's happening during this stage of life, which can leave women feeling alone and misunderstood.In this episode, Jesse shares invaluable insights into the physical, emotional, and relational changes women experience during perimenopause and menopause, while also helping men better understand how they can support their spouse with empathy, patience, and connection.They dive into why education and communication are so important for couples navigating this season together. When couples understand what's happening beneath the surface, it creates more compassion, deeper intimacy, and stronger emotional connection.This conversation is a must-listen for couples who want to strengthen their relationship, improve communication, and better navigate the challenges and opportunities that come with hormonal transitions. Whether you're currently experiencing perimenopause or menopause, or simply want to prepare for the future, this episode offers hope, practical guidance, and reassurance that you are not alone.

How to Confront a Cheating Spouse Without Pushing Him or Her AwayAnger, fear, and hurt can make confronting a cheating spouse feel impossible. Reacting too quickly, arguing, or offering instant forgiveness can make reconciliation harder, so this episode helps listeners prepare for a confrontation that is calm, clear, loving, and firm.What You'll Learn: How to confront cheating without turning it into a fight or discussion  What to say when you want reconciliation but cannot accept ongoing cheating  How to avoid threats, blame, and emotional overexplaining  Why boundaries matter before forgiveness and reconnection can happen Want to Work With Coach Jack?:For listeners who want help deciding whether to build first, require a choice, or set stronger boundaries after an affair, Coach Jack's Coaching Package for Ending a Spouse's Affair can help them take steadier steps toward either reconciliation or a clear separation path.Key Takeaways: Confrontation should be simple, short, and deliberate.  Love and firmness can work together.  Instant forgiveness can encourage continued cheating.  Boundaries need to be clear and enforceable.  Reconciliation requires the affair to end first. Additional Resources: A Christian Guide to Preventing and Ending Men's Affairs, by Jack Ito PhDOne session consultation with Coach Jack Coaching Package for Ending a Spouse's AffairWork one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

What if the biggest problem in your marriage isn't the argument… but the way you argue? In this episode of Married AF, we celebrate a huge milestone, 500,000 downloads, and then dive straight into one of the most important relationship communication conversations we've ever had: why so many couples are trying to win arguments instead of understanding each other.We break down the hidden communication habits quietly damaging marriages, emotional intimacy, dating relationships, friendships, and even faith conversations. From shutting down emotionally to mentally preparing your comeback while your spouse is still talking, we unpack why modern conflict resolution feels more exhausting than productive and what healthy communication actually looks like.We also walk through five practical tools for better marriage communication and healthier relationships:How to stop treating conversations like competitionsWhy undistracted presence changes everythingThe power of asking better questionsHow to find common ground even during disagreementWhy grace and truth matter in every hard conversationIf you're struggling with marital issues, emotional disconnect, intimacy challenges, recurring fights, or feeling unheard in your relationship, this episode offers practical marriage advice and support you can actually use. Whether you're newly married, dating, navigating relationship challenges, or simply trying to communicate better with the people you love, this conversation will challenge the way you think about conflict, happiness, love, and connection.This episode is packed with:Marriage adviceRelationship communicationConflict resolution toolsChristian marriage coachingEmotional intimacy insightsCommunication strategiesDating and newlywed adviceBiblical perspectives on relationships and ChristianityPractical support for healthier marriagesBecause sometimes the strongest marriages aren't the ones that never fight… they're the ones that learn how to fight without destroying each other.

Most people who know the five love languages have tried speaking their partner's language — and wondered why it still isn't working. The problem usually isn't the language. It's something underneath it.Dr. Gary Chapman returns with new research showing how personality, empathy, and the subtle dialects within each love language determine whether love actually lands. In this conversation, he and Michael explore why speaking someone's love language can backfire if it runs against their personality, what it looks like to confuse encouragement with pressure, and why the most important question in a marriage might be as simple as "How can I make your life easier?"At 88 years old, Chapman also shares the turning point in his own marriage — a vision of Jesus washing his disciples' feet that changed not his technique, but his posture.Dr. Gary Chapman is a marriage counselor, pastor, and author of The Five Love Languages, which has sold over 20 million copies worldwide, and his newest book, The Love Language That Matters Most.Support the showENGAGE THE RESTORING THE SOUL PODCAST:- Follow us on YouTube - Tweet us at @michaeljcusick and @PodcastRTS- Like us on Facebook- Follow us on Instagram & Twitter- Follow Michael on Twitter- Email us at info@restoringthesoul.com Thanks for listening!

Dive into one of the most powerful communication skills in christian marriage: validation. If you've ever felt unheard, misunderstood, or stuck in the same conflict patterns with your spouse, this conversation will help you learn how to create emotional safety, deeper connection, and healthier communication in your Christian marriage. This episode is part of the Marriage Transformation Series and focuses on how validation helps your spouse feel truly heard — even when you disagree. You'll learn: What validation really means in relationships Why validation is biblical and transformational The 5-step validation process for healthy communication How to reduce defensiveness during conflict Why empathy builds emotional safety in marriage How to handle difficult conversations without escalating Daily habits couples can practice to strengthen connection Practical examples for Christian husbands and wives Whether you are newly married, struggling with communication, or wanting to deepen intimacy in your relationship, this episode will give you practical tools to improve your marriage.

Send us Fan MailIf you are feeling like there's just too much hurt and years of frustration in your marriage for it to truly flourish (or even be borderline good at this point), listen to this episode! God can do it! God is working in your marriage! He is working out sprouts...buds...blossoms...and ripe almonds! Because "shoqed"! Jeremiah 1:11 "I am watching over my word to perform it." Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

The fastest way to drain joy from your faith is to turn it into a grading system. When we start believing that God approves of us because we performed well today, we do not just carry that pressure internally, we bring it into our Christian marriage, our parenting, and our daily home life. We get stuck on the performance treadmill, chasing a personal “it” that promises relief but delivers more fear, guilt, and constant self-evaluation.We dig into how legalism works, why it can feel so convincing, and why Paul warns that it spreads like yeast in Galatians 5. We also ask a question many believers are afraid to say out loud: can a true Christian still be legalistic? From there, we name what happens when we “become judge,” set our own bar, and swing between determination and condemnation. If you have perfectionistic tendencies, or you feel like you and your spouse are always measuring each other, this conversation puts language to what is happening beneath the surface.Then we pivot to hope and a practical way forward. John 15 reframes spiritual growth as abiding in Christ, not straining to earn love, and First John 4 draws the line clearly: legalism runs on fear, but obedience grows from love. We close with a real marriage moment and a challenge to talk honestly with your spouse about the “pit” you fall into, inviting support without making them your rescuer.If this helped you, subscribe, share it with a friend who feels crushed by performance, and leave a review so more couples can find grace-filled, Christ-centered marriage help.Support the showFor episode transcripts, click HERE.For more marriage encouragement, visit: www.VowsToKeep.com | V2K Blog | Marriage Counseling | Insta | FBApple Podcast listener? Would you consider leaving us a review, as this helps more couple's to find our resources?! Leave your review HERE.

Wives — have you ever wondered what your husband truly needs from you in marriage, or what being a great wife really looks like from his perspective?This week on the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Austin joins us for an honest and eye-opening conversation about what it means to be a better wife in marriage. From emotional connection and communication to support, intimacy, and strengthening your relationship, this episode is filled with insights that can transform your marriage.If you want a deeper connection, a happier relationship, and practical ways to strengthen your marriage, this is an episode you won't want to miss.

Send us Fan MailIt's so easy to let our feelings be the authority, but high level wives learn how to create space for the Spirit to work because they are rooted and grounded in the love of Christ. Come learn how too! Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

Having the grandchildren for more than a couple of hours visit, reminded me of how difficult it really is to raise children. Why do humans do this?Why do we have children that require so much sacrifice?Why are we shielded from the knowledge of the terrific amount of sacrifice before we have children?Why?  Well, I think it is a seed planted in our hearts from God.  In my experience, the only way to find joy in motherhood is to see it as a higher calling - to be a mom is to have a calling from God.Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching

Send us Fan MailHow often do you feel overwhelmed by the chaos, bad attitudes, and fights that start in your own house, family, and marriage? Learn how to shift the atmosphere and recalibrate the "tudes" like a high level wife! Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send us Fan MailOffense is what our flesh does and when we let it take root, it becomes resentment, then bitterness, and finally unforgiveness. Learn how to be unoffendable in your marriage!  Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Marriage comes with expectations — some healthy, some completely unrealistic. When those expectations go unspoken or unmet, disappointment, frustration, and resentment can quietly creep into the relationship, creating distance between couples who deeply love each other.In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into the realistic vs. unrealistic expectations couples bring into marriage, from communication and intimacy to roles, romance, and emotional connection. They share practical ways to uncover hidden expectations, communicate openly, and get on the same page so you can build a stronger, happier, and more connected marriage.If you've ever felt let down in your relationship or wondered why your spouse “just doesn't get it,” this episode will give you powerful insights to help transform your marriage.

In this tender and honest episode, Elisabeth invites you into the sacred space where grief becomes holy—not by pretending everything is fine, but by sharing our sorrow with God. Through stories of lies we've believed, pain we've carried, and the surprising ways God speaks into ourbreaking points, you'll find hope, comfort, and gentle truth. This episode is for every woman who longs for healing but isn't sure where to begin. REFLECTION QUESTIONS What lie about yourself have you been carrying so long it feels like the truth—and what might God be whisperinginstead?Where has your pain been leaking onto others—and what would it look like to invite Jesus into that place beforeanyone gets cut?Is there something God might be whispering to you—but you're afraid to believe because it feels too strange, too personal, or too hopeful?What part of your story have you been grieving alone—and what might it feel like to let God sit in that sorrow withyou?What comfort from God have you received in the past that you've forgotten—and what would it mean to remember it today?Every Kind of FreeKindle: https://amzn.to/4b1Q2ZNPaperback: https://amzn.to/4bACRz7Hardcover: https://amzn.to/4bJ8xm7 Audible: https://amzn.to/3OeBCgbFREE (or Super Affordable) ResourcesStories Only Strangers Can See e-book: ⁠⁠https://form.jotform.com/250124488113147⁠⁠If You're in a Difficult Marriage:Safety First: If you're not safe—or if you or your children are being physically or sexually harmed—pleasecreate a safety plan and reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233). Safety plan: ⁠⁠https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/create-your-personal-safety-plan/⁠⁠Confidential marriage assessment: ⁠⁠http://bit.ly/marriage-assessment⁠⁠7 Days of Prayer for Your Hard Marriage: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/7-days-of-prayer-for-your-hard-marriage⁠⁠Surviving in a Difficult Christian Marriage e-book: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠⁠Better Way to Stay e-course: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/better-way-to-stay-marriage-ecourse⁠⁠Decision Time e-course: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/courses-for-wholeness⁠⁠If You're Separated, Divorced, or a Single Mom:Unraveling: Hanging Onto Faith Through the End of a Christian Marriage book:⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠⁠Moving On as a Christian Single Mom e-book: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠⁠Heartbreak to Hope divorce recovery e-course: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Heartbreak-to-Hope-ecourse⁠⁠All other courses: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/courses-for-wholeness

Send us Fan MailA viral debate about women losing the right to vote opened the door to a much bigger conversation about Christian marriage, biblical submission, leadership, love, communication, and the challenges many couples face behind closed doors. In this episode of Married AF, we unpack how fear, politics, and misused Scripture can quietly distort relationships, emotional intimacy, conflict resolution, and healthy partnership inside marriage.We talk honestly about the growing push toward “household voting,” rigid gender roles, and the dangerous belief that biblical leadership means control. Too often, people quote “wives submit to your husbands” while completely ignoring the command for husbands to love their wives like Christ loved the church. That imbalance creates marital issues that damage communication, intimacy, happiness, trust, and emotional connection.This episode dives deep into what healthy Christian leadership actually looks like in marriage. We discuss sacrifice, servant leadership, relationship communication, emotional intimacy, and why real biblical love never demands domination. We also confront how spiritual manipulation can create unhealthy power dynamics, silence women, and destroy the support and safety that strong marriages need.Then we turn to Scripture and the many women God used powerfully throughout the Bible. From Deborah and Esther to Priscilla, Phoebe, Miriam, and Abigail, the Bible paints women as essential leaders, advisors, helpers, and partners in God's story. We also unpack Galatians 3:28, the true meaning of “helper” in Genesis, and why one-flesh marriage was always meant to reflect unity, partnership, intimacy, and mutual respect.Whether you are dating, engaged, newly married, navigating marital challenges, looking for marriage advice, seeking marriage coaching, or trying to strengthen communication and intimacy in your relationship, this conversation will challenge the way you think about Christianity, leadership, love, and healthy marriage.If you want honest conversations about marriage, support, conflict resolution, dating, emotional intimacy, relationship communication, happiness, love, newlywed advice, and building stronger relationships through faith and communication, subscribe to Married AF and join the conversation.

Send us Fan MailYou're out here walking in the masculine because it feels safer. I get it. That was me too. But learning how God uniquely designed you and how He created you to function within marriage is going to feel like a scary but exhilarating superpower to you. Let's gooooo!*this episode cuts off because our wifi went out, lame, but come back for part 2. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send us Fan MailLet's bring it all home with the core foundation of HOW we are enabled to walk in the nature and function of biblical femineity: it's the gospel applied! Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send us Fan MailLearn how to make space for and support the mission in your family. You bear your husband's authority, not to mention the power of the newness of life by the Cross. Walk in your authority and identity on SUBmission in your marriage! Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Series: EphesiansScripture: Ephesians 5:21-23 33; 1 Peter 3:1-6May 17, 2026 - Worship Service

Send us Fan MailWhat are you focusing on that is showing up as complaint in your life? Dive in with Chelsey on the topic of complaint and how it's a bigger thing than you think. Plus 2 passages that give warnings on the devastation of complaining. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send us Fan MailWhat did you expect when you got married? Those unmet expectations are the seed of resentment that drains your marriage of the tender love you once had for your husband.Learn to ditch the expectations and have a right view of God, your spouse, and yourself in marriage. You'll feel so free, you won't even believe it! Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Husbands — ever feel like you're trying your best, but still wondering what your wife actually needs from you? What does being a truly great husband even look like from her perspective?In this powerful episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Austin dive into the real conversations men need to hear about marriage, connection, leadership, and intimacy. They break down practical ways to become the husband your wife deeply desires, respects, and feels emotionally connected to.If you want a stronger marriage, deeper intimacy, and a better understanding of your wife, this episode is a game-changer you don't want to miss.

Send us Fan MailYour eyes and ears are the gateway to your mind- what you fill it with is what then overflows from your heart through your words and actions. So what or who is getting your attention? Is it your husband? Or is it your phone? Let's bring awareness and shift the atmosphere to deeper connection in marriage, sister! Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Are you ready for summer?  The key is to plan well so that you AND the kids have a great time!  Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching

Send us Fan MailHappy Mother's Day! (a few days later since I recorded this earlier this week- I like to extend the fun, ya know)Update on the 5k with Emma this past weekend and sorrow over remembering a decade ago when I wanted my kids and husband just to leave me alone for Mother's Day. If you've felt this- you're not alone. But also, it's time to actually enjoy your blessings! Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send us Fan MailRemember when you saw all the good things in your man? You saw it and then you said it to him. I bet that man felt like he was 10 ft tall and could move mountains for you. Let's bring this back into the atmosphere of your marriage, sis! Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Early in our marriage, communication was one of our biggest struggles, and honestly, it nearly led to divorce. We misunderstood each other, handled conflict poorly, and spent too much time reacting instead of truly listening.Everything began to change when we learned how to communicate in a healthier way… but even more importantly, when we started genuinely hearing each other's feelings, needs, and perspectives.That transformation didn't just improve our communication, it completely changed our marriage, intimacy, connection, and friendship.In this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're sharing the communication tools that made the biggest difference in our relationship and the skills we believe EVERY marriage needs. Plus, Nick shares a very recent personal experience that brought these lessons into real life in a powerful way.If you've ever felt misunderstood, disconnected, frustrated, or stuck in the same arguments over and over, this episode is for you.

In this guided meditation, bring your fears about the future to God and release your anxiety into His hands. Receive Hispeace, courage, and guidance as you trust His timing and walk forward in faith.FREE (or Super Affordable) ResourcesEvery Kind of FreeKindle: https://amzn.to/4b1Q2ZNPaperback: https://amzn.to/4bACRz7Hardcover: https://amzn.to/4bJ8xm7 Audible: https://amzn.to/3OeBCgbStories Only Strangers Can See e-book: ⁠⁠https://form.jotform.com/250124488113147⁠⁠If You're in a Difficult Marriage:Safety First: If you're not safe—or if you or your children are being physically or sexually harmed—please create a safety plan and reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline(1-800-799-7233). Safety plan: ⁠⁠https://www.thehotline.org/plan-for-safety/create-your-personal-safety-plan/⁠⁠Confidential marriage assessment: ⁠⁠http://bit.ly/marriage-assessment⁠⁠7 Days of Prayer for Your Hard Marriage: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/7-days-of-prayer-for-your-hard-marriage⁠⁠Surviving in a Difficult Christian Marriage e-book: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠⁠Better Way to Stay e-course: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/better-way-to-stay-marriage-ecourse⁠⁠Decision Time e-course: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/courses-for-wholeness⁠⁠If You're Separated, Divorced, or a Single Mom:Unraveling: Hanging Onto Faith Through the End of a Christian Marriage book:⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠⁠Moving On as a Christian Single Mom e-book: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Elisabeth-Klein-books-on-Amazon⁠⁠Heartbreak to Hope divorce recovery e-course: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/Heartbreak-to-Hope-ecourse⁠⁠All other courses: ⁠⁠https://bit.ly/courses-for-wholeness

Will Dating Others Help You Get Your Cheating Spouse Back?When your spouse has cheated, dating someone else can feel justified or even strategic. But reacting out of hurt, jealousy, or retaliation can make reconciliation harder and create damage that lasts beyond the affair. In this episode, Coach Jack helps listeners understand why staying faithful matters if reconciliation is still the goal.What You'll Learn:Why dating others can reduce the chances of reconciling with a cheating spouseHow jealousy tactics can create short-term movement but long-term damageWhy faithfulness matters even when a spouse has been unfaithfulWhat helps create the conditions for ending an affair and rebuilding the marriageWant to Work With Coach Jack?If your spouse is having an affair and you want guidance on how to respond without making things worse, Coach Jack's Coaching Package for Ending a Spouse's Affair can help you focus on what is most likely to move your spouse toward reconciliation. Coach Jack helps clients work on becoming a more valuable spouse while also using the kind of boundaries that make reconciliation possible.Key Takeaways:Dating others while married works against reconciliation.Retaliation makes an affair more desirable, not less.Jealousy can create temporary fear without rebuilding trust.Staying faithful helps you know you did what you could for the marriage.Reconciliation requires both value and boundaries.Additional Resources:A Christian Guide to Preventing and Ending Men's Affairs, by Jack Ito PhDOne-on-one coaching to end your spouse's affairWork one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

Send us Fan MailAnyone can serve your husband; only YOU can enjoy him and delight in him. Let's dive in and bring awareness so you can make some powerful shifts in your marriage today! Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send us Fan MailHLH and HLW cut out alcohol and other substances early in the program which is harder for some than others, but it's necessary. Why? Substances take the edge of discomfort off and inhibit oneness, unity, and growing up that is necessary for vulnerability within marriage.Also, if you aren't the one who has or is working on giving up substance reliance, you must put on a heart of flesh that overflows with understanding for your spouse as he/she walks through this process in submission to Holy Spirit. Let's get to it... Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

What if the biggest breakthrough in your marriage starts with TWO simple boundaries? In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner begin the Marriage Transformation Series by unpacking the first two guardrails for a healthy Christian marriage: ✔️ Why emotional conversations destroy connection ✔️ How to pause conflict before it escalates ✔️ The danger of bringing up the past in arguments ✔️ How healthy couples handle difficult conversations ✔️ Biblical wisdom for communication and emotional regulation ✔️ What to do when your spouse won't stop pushing conflict If you feel stuck in repeated arguments, walking on eggshells, or struggling to feel heard in your marriage, this episode will give you practical and biblical tools to create safety, understanding, and connection again.

Happy Mother's Day to all of the incredible mothers out there. Today's episode is a deeper conversation about the urgent need for stronger, more biblical men and women in our culture, people willing to stand for truth, protect the vulnerable, and refuse to stay silent in the face of evil.We discuss the ongoing outrage surrounding the Epstein files, the lack of accountability for powerful people, and the broader cultural failure to protect victims from wicked and predatory individuals. But this conversation goes beyond headlines. It's about morality, courage, justice, faith, and what happens when societies stop valuing strong families, strong character, and biblical principles.This episode is ultimately about hope too, because evil does not win forever. Real justice matters, truth matters, and good people still have a responsibility to speak up.

Send us Fan MailWe recently had new friends over for dinner and she sent us a text after saying "Thank you so much for having us over tonight!!! We loved hanging with you guys. Your home is so full of love and so healing (which we know is Him!) but it was so beautiful to see. We can't wait to hang again!" What do people experience when they walk into your home? Wife, you have the unique authority and role to be the atmosphere setting and creator in your home! Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

Send us Fan MailI was co-leading a mediation session between a hurting Christian couple last week, and the Spirit kept urging me to see this husband's lonely heart, to see this wife's hurting heart, and to help them see each other for the first time as 2 broken, hurting, but redeemed people. In in this episode, Chelsey challenges you to put off division and to pray the hard prayer that aligns your heart to the Father's: " God, help me see him like You see him." This is a key to having a heart of flesh and God removing your heart of stone in your marriage. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you're ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

A Florida pastor who wrote a book about "biblical marriage" has been arrested after allegedly marrying a second woman while still married to his first wife. Frank and Dan dive into the very awkward collision between Christian marriage advice, secret spouses, and a pastor who may have taken "biblical marriage" a little too literally. Also this week: TikTokers are "speedrunning" Scientology buildings, a strange UK religious cult faces slavery and forced marriage charges, Trump's "anti-Christian bias" task force releases a report full of grievances and very little evidence, a liberal megachurch pastor shakes up Kansas politics, and the Mormon church somehow makes their youth programs even weirder. Support the show: www.thankgodimatheist.com/donate

When we try to control our children's behavior, it usually results in anger, yelling, and probably some guilt.  The truth is, we can't control their behavior, but we can teach and lead them to proper behavior.In this episode, I talk about the five virtues that we need to teach our children so they are happy and cooperative, and so that our home is peaceful and joyful - all of which will contribute to our becoming a happy, calm mom.My program, "Virtue-Based Parenting" is now open for enrollment until May 9th.  Check out the details HERE.It is THE perfect Mother's Day gift to give yourself!Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching

Listen to the three parenting strategies that every successful parent uses to help their children behave and live virtue.Enrollment for Virtue-Based Parenting Course + Coaching is now open through May 9th.  Click HERE for more Details. Check out my free resources on marriage, parenting, home management, and faith life/mindset at janetquinlan.comFollow me on Instagram @janetquinlancoaching