Podcasts about Selfishness

Happy Sunday! Welcome to Heal Squad's The Sunday Set Up. Life lessons to help you start the week. This week's episode kicks off with the uplifting lyrics of Belinda Carlisle and blossoms into a spirited talk about the difference between possessing and admiring. Why admiring something—a house, a car, a theater, even success—might bring you more peace than actually owning it. We explore the age of Aquarius, generational disillusionment, and how the old systems just don't vibe anymore. Keven shares why the younger generation seems lost (hint: it's not laziness), and how our unconscious minds obey the scripts we write—whether that's “my relationships never work out” or “I'm not enough.” We revisit Letting Go by Dr. David Hawkins to learn why guilt is just another indulgence of the small self and why stepping into “Selfishness” with a capital S (the empowered Self) might just be the most generous thing you can do. Add in a deep cut from Star Trek, ironic lessons to Captain Lou Albano and you've got this week's Sunday Set Up. Remember, the bullets aren't real. Not theirs. Not yours. Nothing here is permanent—except change. Let go and be present. Have a great week, Heal Squad! -- HEAL SQUAD SOCIALS IG: https://www.instagram.com/healsquad/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@healsquadxmaria HEAL SQUAD RESOURCES: Heal Squad Website:https://www.healsquad.com/ Heal Squad x Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/HealSquad/membership Maria Menounos Website: https://www.mariamenounos.com My Curated Macy's Page: Shop My Macy's Storefront Prenuvo: Prenuvo.com/MARIA for $300 off Delete Me: https://bit.ly/43rkHwi   code: SQUAD EMR-Tek Red Light: https://emr-tek.com/discount/Maria30 for 30% off Airbnb: https://www.airbnb.com/  ABOUT MARIA MENOUNOS: Emmy Award-winning journalist, TV personality, actress, 2x NYT best-selling author, former pro-wrestler and brain tumor survivor, Maria Menounos' passion is to see others heal and to get better in all areas of life. ABOUT HEAL SQUAD x MARIA MENOUNOS: A daily digital talk-show that brings you the world's leading healers, experts, and celebrities to share groundbreaking secrets and tips to getting better in all areas of life. DISCLAIMER: This Podcast and all related content (published or distributed by or on behalf of Maria Menounos or http://Mariamenounos.com and http://healsquad.com) is for informational purposes only and may include information that is general in nature and that is not specific to you. Any information or opinions provided by guest experts or hosts featured within website or on Company's Podcast are their own; not those of Maria Menounos or the Company. Accordingly, Maria Menounos and the Company cannot be responsible for any results or consequences or actions you may take based on such information or opinions. This podcast is presented for exploratory purposes only. Published content is not intended to be used for preventing, diagnosing, or treating a specific illness. If you have, or suspect you may have, a health-care emergency, please contact a qualified health care professional for treatment.

Experience sharing articles from the Minghui website. Original Articles:1. The Buddha Light Shines on My Family and Displays Its Miraculous Nature2. Woman from the Countryside Gains New Life After Practicing Falun Dafa3. A Brief Discussion of “Selfishness”4. My Understanding on Eliminating a Fundamental Attachment To provide feedback on this podcast, please email us at feedback@minghuiradio.org

“I'm just putting myself first, is that narcissistic?” “Am I being selfish or setting a boundary?” “I think I might be a narcissist.” Sound familiar? If you've asked yourself any of these questions, take a deep breath. You're probably not a narcissist. But the fact that you're even wondering is worth unpacking, because somewhere between healthy self-love and full-blown Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), things get murky. So let's clear it up. Today we're digging into the difference between being self-focused (a good thing), being selfish (sometimes good, sometimes not), and having narcissistic traits or full-blown NPD (not great). Then, you'll learn my five action steps for building healthy self-love without going overboard.____________________________Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/are-you-a-narcissist-and-dont-know-it-the-truth-about-healthy-selfishness-vs-narcissistic-personality-disorderTake the Quiz! Self-Love or Narcissism? https://abbymedcalf.com/narcissism-quizLearn how to create and hold healthy, loving boundaries with my book Boundaries Made Easy: Your Roadmap to Connection, Ease and Joy https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries or The Workbook: Boundaries Made Easier https://abbymedcalf.com/boundaries-workbookWant to feel happier and more connected in your relationship? Buy my #1 bestselling book on Amazon, Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won't Do a Thing: https://abbymedcalf.com/book____________________________Looking for past episodes of the Relationships Made Easy Podcast? Head over to  https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast and https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives where you'll find past episodes.Subscribe today to get my love letter to you! This biweekly reminder will keep you on the path to creating connected, happy relationships (especially the one with yourself!). https://abbymedcalf.comReady to dig deeper? Take one of my online courses (some are FREE!) or grab a workbook: https://abbymedcalf.com/shopSay hello on social:Facebook: https://substack.com/@abbymedcalfphdInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/abbymedcalfthrivingLinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/abbymedcalfthrivingYouTube: https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dr. Vitz discusses selfishness and self-centeredness and the impact on those around you. (Originally aired 11-14-2022)

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Selfishness can produce an unhealthy and harmful attitude. From this divine demonstration of compassion let us learn that the most effective way to perform the tasks set before us each is to simply follow instructions. And let's be prudent enough to follow God's instructions learned from the word of God by the directions of God's spirit.

Wednesday 05-14-2025. Verse-by-Verse through Proverbs.

Open Forum: Pastor Amos led a multifaceted discussion covering ministry development, fasting, obedience, and spiritual growth. He announced the upcoming Ministry Accelerator event on June 21st for those with ministerial callings and shared that the Open Forum time has moved to 9 PM EST on Wednesdays. Arlene requested prayer regarding a potential business opportunity, and Pastor Amos offered guidance on discerning God's will. The group also explored fasting as a spiritual discipline rather than a mandate, with Alicia, Nehemie, and others expressing a desire to grow in prayer and study. Nehemie and Stephanie raised questions about obedience, tithing, and giving, which Pastor Amos addressed by emphasizing listening to the Holy Spirit and giving from the heart. LaToya and Pastor Amos underscored the importance of believers personally understanding Scripture and how Christianity empowers women through service. The conversation concluded with a reflection on marriage, emphasizing unconditional love and mutual service, and a group prayer for Curtis, who is recovering from a stroke.   Partner with Us: https://churchforentrepreneurs.com/partner Connect with Us: https://churchforentrepreneurs.com                  

Speaker: Carson BuchannanSeries: "Respectable Sins" and SanctificationText: Various PassagesTheme: Selfishness

Join us for church in-person at 9am and 11am or online at 9am every Sunday. Discover more about Pathway Church in Vero Beach, FL at pathwayvb.com #TreasureCoast #ChristianChurch #Sermons #IndianRiver #God #Jesus #churches For Freedom: “Mother's Day” 1. Stand Firm in Freedom (Galatians 5:1)                 • Moms (and all of us) need to hear this: you are not loved because of                        your performance. You're loved because Christ has already secured                          your worth.   2. Love Over Law (Galatians 5:2–6)                  • Encourage moms today: Your quiet acts of service are seen by God.   3. Beware of the Leaven (Galatians 5:7–9)                   • Paul says: Don't let that stuff grow. It spoils freedom.   4. Serve One Another in Love (Galatians 5:13–14)                 • This is Jesus-shaped love—the love that lays down its rights for the                           good of others.   5. Avoiding the Bite (Galatians 5:15)              "But if you bite and devour one another, watch out that you are not                            consumed by one another." (Galatians 5:15)          • Love guards the mouth. Selfishness weaponizes it.          • You can't avoid the bite by trying harder-you must walk by the Spirit.   Next Step Questions: 1.) Do you need to experience freedom in Christ today? 2.) What do you need to do today to avoid the bite?

In this episode of Everyone's Talkin' Money, we're diving into the untold story of stay-at-home moms and financial independence with Karen Johnson, also known as The 21st Century SAHM. Karen opens up about her powerful new book, What Do I Want to Be When They Grow Up?, and the identity crisis many mothers face when they step away from a paycheck to raise their kids. You'll hear: How to reclaim your financial worth as a stay-at-home mom — even if you're not bringing in income The emotional and financial cost of sacrificing your career for your family and how to rebuild your sense of self Why investing in yourself isn't selfish — and how to do it without the mom guilt How to have honest money conversations with your partner when you're not earning a paycheck Karen's top advice for women in their 40s navigating big life pivots and financial decisions Whether you're a stay-at-home mom, a working mom, or somewhere in between, this conversation will remind you that your worth isn't defined by a paycheck — and that it's never too late to invest in you. You'll walk away learning:  Many women feel guilt about pursuing interests outside of motherhood. Motherhood can feel like a death of previous identity. Social media often portrays an unrealistic view of motherhood. Women are conditioned to feel guilty about not enjoying every moment. Perfectionism can negatively impact mental health in motherhood. It's important to focus on accomplishments rather than shortcomings. Unpaid labor in the household is valuable and should be recognized. Women should feel empowered to ask for what they deserve. Many women handle day-to-day finances but lack knowledge of larger financial matters. It's crucial for both partners to be educated about household finances. Financial literacy can prevent future hardships in case of unexpected events. Women often feel guilty about spending money on themselves. Selfishness in financial decisions can be redefined as self-care. Finding personal hobbies is essential for mental well-being. Aging can bring a sense of freedom and acceptance. Conversations about money should be open and honest, without guilt. Follow Karen on social media @21stcenturysahm and visit the21stcenturysahm.com to pre-order her book, What Do I Want to Be When They Grow Up? And don't forget to follow us on Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney for more real talk about money, motherhood, and finding your power. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

One of the worst things you could be in a cult is selfish. Pursue a career? Selfish. Go to college? Selfish. Skip a meeting because you're too exhausted to feign interest? Selfish. When you're handed the grandiose mission of saving the human race from Armageddon, even a tiny spark of personal joy starts to feel like a moral failure. But now you're out. You survived. And for the first time, you can do anything you want. The only problem? You've never been allowed to want anything for yourself. It feels weird. It feels wrong. You feel guilty. (Which, of course, is by design.) In this episode, we're going to deconstruct and recalibrate the idea of "selfish"—and explore why taking care of your own needs isn't just okay… it's essential. For your healing, and for the people you love. We'll cover: How high-control religion weaponizes "selflessness" to keep you obedient Why everything we do—including “selfless” acts—is actually motivated by self-interest (and that's not a bad thing) The beautiful irony: how prioritizing your joy makes you more generous, more grounded, and more whole This is your permission slip to want things, try things, and be a little gloriously selfish—for your own sanity, healing, and yes, the joy of eventually giving back from a full cup. DrRyanLee.com/beyondbelief

"And Adam knew Eve his wife; and she conceived, and bare Cain, and said, I have gotten a man from the Lord. And she again bare his brother Abel. And Abel was a keeper of sheep, but Cain was a tiller of the ground. And in process of time it came to pass, that Cain brought of the fruit of the ground an offering unto the Lord. And Abel, he also brought of the firstlings of his flock and of the fat thereof. And the Lord had respect unto Abel and to his offering: But unto Cain and to his offering he had not respect. And Cain was very wroth, and his countenance fell. And the Lord said unto Cain, Why art thou wroth? and why is thy countenance fallen? If thou doest well, shalt thou not be accepted? and if thou doest not well, sin lieth at the door. And unto thee shall be his desire, and thou shalt rule over him. And Cain talked with Abel his brother: and it came to pass, when they were in the field, that Cain rose up against Abel his brother, and slew him. And the Lord said unto Cain, Where is Abel thy brother? And he said, I know not: Am I my brother's keeper? And he said, What hast thou done? the voice of thy brother's blood crieth unto me from the ground. And now art thou cursed from the earth, which hath opened her mouth to receive thy brother's blood from thy hand" Genesis 4:1-11

What happens when "me first" becomes the default setting in a relationship? Selfishness, often disguised as legitimate needs or expectations, can quietly creep in and destroy a marriage from the inside out. Join Rusty and Heather Bryant on the Redeemed Marriage Podcast for the latest episode in their "Marriage Killers" series as they tackle this common but devastating issue. They get brutally honest about the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways selfishness manifests – from unrealistic expectations and entitlement ("make me happy!") to poor communication and a lack of genuine sacrifice. Heather shares her personal struggles and vulnerability with this very issue, revealing how focusing solely on your own happiness can lead to marital breakdown and hurt. Discover why wanting your spouse to fulfill your desires isn't enough, and how this mindset can erode trust and intimacy.. Learn why shifting focus from receiving to giving, practicing true selflessness, and recognizing the importance of serving your partner are crucial steps toward building a healthier, stronger, and truly redeemed marriage, even when it feels difficult. The Redeemed Marriage Website Subscribe to our YouTube channel

www.northmaincog.org/online Selfishness (2 Timothy 3:1-5) Yearly Theme: “Faithfulness Is…” Series Title: ““Respectable” Sins” May 4th, 2025 Follow along on the Bible App: http://bible.com/events/49428824

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I sat down with Frey Chu (https://x.com/freychu), who started by building profitable directory websites and later began teaching others how to do the same. We talked about how he went from flipping items at flea markets to pulling in up to $3,000/month in passive income from sites he barely touches. He broke down his process for finding untapped SEO opportunities, how he uses Ahrefs and Reddit for research, and shared a realistic approach to building simple, mostly passive websites that can steadily bring in income over time. Timestamps below. Enjoy!---Watch this on YouTube instead here: tkopod.co/p-ytAsk me a question on or off the show here: http://tkopod.co/p-askLearn more about me: http://tkopod.co/p-cjkLearn about my company: http://tkopod.co/p-cofFollow me on Twitter here: http://tkopod.co/p-xFree weekly business ideas newsletter: http://tkopod.co/p-nlShare this podcast: http://tkopod.co/p-allScrape small business data: http://tkopod.co/p-os---00:00 The Power of Simple Solutions03:12 Opportunism and Business Growth06:01 Navigating Online Criticism09:23 The Nature of Selfishness in Business Relationships12:16 Stress Management and Decision Making15:09 The Role of a CEO18:03 AI in Business Efficiency21:54 The Impact of AI on Employment25:18 Navigating Wealth and Parenting31:53 The Reality of Entrepreneurship36:15 Business Ideas and Getting Started42:03 The Book Writing Journey

Link to buy Nick's book on Amazon: https://amzn.to/4bLazjWLink to buy Nick's book in the UK: https://bit.ly/422njPWNick's Offshore Recruiting Company: https://tkopod.co/huberNick's Real Estate Cost Segregation business: https://tkopod.co/recostsegI sat down with Nick Huber and we talked about what it actually takes to build wealth through service businesses. We started with Nick's framework for opportunity, how being an opportunist isn't a bad thing if you use it to build momentum, not chase distractions. He walked me through his current companies, explaining how each one fits into a power-law strategy. We also got into his view on AI. Nick shared how he's approaching parenting with wealth, and how to raise humble kids in a privileged environment. Toward the end, we talked about his new book The Sweaty Startup, the brutally hard process of writing it, and why he ultimately partnered with HarperCollins. You can find Nick on X (@sweatystartup) or download his 500+ business ideas at sweatystartup.com/ideas.Links to all Nick's social profiles:www.x.com/sweatystartupwww.instagram.com/sweatystartupwww.linkedin.com/in/sweatystartupwww.youtube.com/sweatystartupwww.tiktok.com/sweatystartupwww.threads.net/@sweatystartup.comTimestamps below. Enjoy!---Watch this on YouTube instead here: tkopod.co/p-ytAsk me a question on or off the show here: http://tkopod.co/p-askLearn more about me: http://tkopod.co/p-cjkLearn about my company: http://tkopod.co/p-cofFollow me on Twitter here: http://tkopod.co/p-xFree weekly business ideas newsletter: http://tkopod.co/p-nlShare this podcast: http://tkopod.co/p-allScrape small business data: http://tkopod.co/p-os---00:00 The Power of Simple Solutions03:12 Opportunism and Business Growth06:01 Navigating Online Criticism09:23 The Nature of Selfishness in Business Relationships12:16 Stress Management and Decision Making15:09 The Role of a CEO18:03 AI in Business Efficiency21:54 The Impact of AI on Employment25:18 Navigating Wealth and Parenting31:53 The Reality of Entrepreneurship36:15 Business Ideas and Getting Started42:03 The Book Writing Journey---Links to Nick's businesses: www.sweatystartup.comwww.nickhuber.comwww.sweatystartupbook.comwww.somewhere.com/nick www.boltstorage.comwww.recostseg.comwww.adrhino.comwww.spidexx.comwww.boldseo.comwww.webrun.comwww.titanrisk.comwww.recruitjet.comwww.hubermethod.com

April 27, 2025 | Pastor Steve Gaines speaks on "The Selfishness of Sin" out of 2 Samuel 18 where Absalom builds a statue in his own honor and rebels against his father, King David. In this story we see the painful effects of our sin and how pride can drive us to do terrible things. For more sermons each week, be sure to subscribe so you can stay in the know. If you've liked what you've heard in this message, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and follow us on Spotify. Bellevue Baptist Church, Memphis, TN | bellevue.org

Garth Heckman TDAgiantslayer@Gmail.com  The David Alliance   The life and times of Remus Reid   Check the source Check the money trail Check the background Check the history Check the    Someone trying to manipulate you might display a range of traits aimed at gaining control or influencing your decisions and feelings. Here are some common ones: Emotional Tactics:  * Playing the Victim: They portray themselves as helpless or wronged to evoke your sympathy and make you feel obligated to help them.  * Guilt-Tripping: They make you feel responsible for their problems or emotions, leading you to do things you wouldn't normally do.  * Love Bombing: They overwhelm you with excessive attention, affection, and praise early on to create a strong emotional bond and make you more susceptible to their influence.  * Playing on Your Insecurities: They identify your weaknesses and use them against you to undermine your confidence and make you dependent on them.  * Emotional Blackmail: They threaten to harm themselves or others, or to withdraw affection if you don't comply with their demands.  * Gaslighting: They distort or deny your reality, making you doubt your memory, perception, and sanity.  * Using Charm and Flattery: They can be excessively nice and complimentary to disarm you and make you more agreeable.  * Creating Chaos and Drama: They thrive on instability and may create conflicts to distract you or make you rely on them to resolve the issues.  * Inconsistent Behavior: Their moods and actions can change unpredictably, keeping you off balance and making you try harder to please them. Communication Tactics:  * Lying and Deception: They may outright lie or omit information to control the narrative and achieve their goals.  * Exaggeration and Generalization: They might exaggerate their own achievements or misfortunes and use sweeping statements to influence your opinion.  * Blame Shifting: They avoid taking responsibility for their actions and instead blame others, including you.  * Changing the Subject: They abruptly switch topics to avoid uncomfortable conversations or deflect scrutiny.  * Vagueness and Indirect Communication: They may not clearly state their needs or intentions, making it easier to manipulate the situation later.  * Using Confusion: They might use complex language or illogical arguments to confuse you and make you doubt your understanding.  * Withholding Information: They strategically omit details to give you an incomplete picture and steer you in their desired direction. Behavioral Tactics:  * Boundary Violations: They disregard your personal boundaries and push your limits to see what they can get away with.  * Controlling Behavior: They try to control aspects of your life, such as your time, money, or relationships.  * Isolation: They may try to isolate you from your friends and family to increase your dependence on them.  * Triangulation: They involve a third party to manipulate the situation, often by creating jealousy or using the third person to relay messages.  * Pressuring You: They create a sense of urgency to make you act quickly without thinking.  * Ignoring or Dismissing Your Needs: They prioritize their own needs and disregard your feelings and desires.  * Playing the Martyr: They act as if they are making huge sacrifices for you to make you feel indebted to them. It's important to remember that these traits can appear individually or in combination. Recognizing these patterns is the first step in protecting yourself from manipulation. Trust your instincts if something feels "off" in a relationship.           What does the Bible say about deception… well it actually comes down to one simple - not so simple thing: Words! Your mouth gives away your heart… but they are tied to your actions… meaning if I use the words “I love you… sounds good, but my words might be true OR they might be manipulative. So words are only as powerful as the actions behind them.  Again… think on this: If I say one thing and it is true - it proves my heart and my words back it up. If I say one thing and it is not true according to my actions- then it is just as powerful in that it reveals my deception.      Focus on Deception and Falsehood:  * Speaking Lies and Deceit: The Bible frequently warns against lying and those who speak falsehoods. Manipulators often rely on deception to achieve their goals.    * "Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, but those who act faithfully are his delight." (Proverbs 12:22)    * "Whoever speaks the truth gives honest evidence, but a false witness speaks deceitfully." (Proverbs 12:17)  * Having a Double Heart: This refers to those who say one thing but mean another, or who act with ulterior motives.    * "They speak falsehood to one another; with flattering lips and a double heart they speak." (Psalm 12:2) Emphasis on Selfishness and Pride:  * Seeking Their Own Interests: Manipulators are often driven by their own selfish desires and disregard the needs of others.    * "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others." (Philippians 2:3-4) This verse highlights the contrast between selfless love and self-centeredness.  * Boasting and Arrogance: Manipulators may inflate their own importance and achievements to impress and control others.    * "The Lord detests all the proud of heart. Be sure of this: They will not go unpunished." (Proverbs 16:5) Warning Against Flattery and Smooth Talk:  * Using Flattering Words: Manipulators often use excessive praise and charm to disarm and influence their targets.    * "A man who flatters his neighbor spreads a net for his feet." (Proverbs 29:5)    * "For there is no truth in their mouth; their inmost self is destruction; their throat is an open grave; they flatter with their tongue." (Psalm 5:9) Importance of Discernment and Wisdom:  * Testing the Spirits: The Bible encourages believers to be discerning and not believe everything they hear.    * "Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world." (1 John 4:1) This principle can be applied to discerning the motives behind people's words and actions.  * Seeking Wisdom: Wisdom allows you to see beyond surface appearances and understand people's true intentions.    * "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him." (James 1:5) Focus on Actions and Fruits:  * Judging by Their Fruits: Jesus taught that we can recognize people by the results of their actions. Manipulative individuals often leave a trail of broken relationships, hurt feelings, and negative consequences.    * "You will recognize them by their fruits. Are grapes gathered from thornbushes, or figs from thistles? So also, every healthy tree bears good fruit, but the diseased tree bears bad fruit." (Matthew 7:16-17) The Contrast with Genuine Love and Humility:  * True Love is Selfless: Biblical love (agape) is characterized by selflessness, patience, kindness, and a focus on the well-being of others – the opposite of manipulation.    * "Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)  * Humility Values Others: Genuine humility leads to valuing others above oneself, which stands in stark contrast to the manipulator's self-centeredness. In summary, while the Bible doesn't provide a checklist of "manipulator traits," it equips us with principles to discern those who operate in deceit, selfishness, and pride. By focusing on truth, humility, genuine love, and the fruits of their actions, we can gain wisdom in recognizing and protecting ourselves from manipulative individuals.

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Join hosts Michael and Wayne as they sit down to continue discussing temptations that are seen around us all of the time. This week they stop to consider a few questions on selfishness. Visit our linktree: https://linktr.ee/scatteredabroadnetwork Visit our website, www.scatteredabroad.org, and subscribe to our email list. "Like" and "share" our Facebook page: https:// www.facebook.com/sapodcastnetwork Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ the_scattered_abroad_network/ Subscribe to our Substack: https://scatteredabroad.substack.com/Subscribe to our YouTube channel: The Scattered Abroad Network Contact us through email at san@msop.org. If you would like to consider supporting us in any way, don't hesitate to contact us through this email.

In an attempt to trap Jesus the Pharisees ask Him a question about divorce. Jesus responds and tells them that divorce was never part of God's plan but only allowed because of the hardness of their hearts. God seems to specialize in concessions because there are many times He works with us where were are instead of insisting we conform to the high goal He has for us. We note that the situation for divorce back then was much different than it is today. Jesus blesses the children and confronts a rich man with the hard reality that it is not easy for the rich to enter the kingdom. The pdf is located at www.rediscoveringgod.ca

Of all the foolish things that have led to nations going to war, could a pastry be the worst of all? In 1832, amid tensions between France and Mexico, a group of Mexican army officers visited a French pastry shop in Mexico City and sampled all the baker’s goods without paying. Though the details get complicated (and other provocations compounded the troubles), the result was the first Franco-Mexican War (1838-39)—known as the Pastry War—in which more than three-hundred soldiers died. It’s sad what a moment of anger can incite. Most human conflicts—shattered marriages and ruined friendships—are likely rooted in some form of unmanaged anger. Selfishness and power plays, unresolved misunderstandings, slights and counter-aggression—it’s all foolishness. So often, our ill-advised perceptions or reactions lead to destructive anger. Yet Ecclesiastes offers wisdom: “Do not be quickly provoked in your spirit, for anger resides in the lap of fools” (7:9). It’s foolish to have a short fuse and be easily provoked to anger, especially when God offers a better way—perhaps through “the rebuke of a wise person” (v. 5). Pursuing wisdom, we can allow “the peace of God to rule in [our] hearts” (Colossians 3:15). We can live in wisdom and forgiveness as He helps us.

This podcast is a short daily audio provided by the online recovery group Transitions Daily. The daily distribution consists of different recovery quotes from various resources, including; Twenty-Four Hours a Day, A.A. Thought for the Day, Daily Reflections, Big Book Quote, Just for Today, As Bill Sees It, plus more! Transitions Daily also distributes this same content in a daily email with a secret Facebook group for discussion. Go to www.DailyAAEmails.com for more information.   Do you want to stop drinking? Have you ever listened to sobriety podcasts? Does alcoholism or addiction run in your family? Have you tried Alcoholics Anonymous or the 12 Steps of A.A.? Are you considering how to get sober? Are you seriously thinking about sobriety for the first time? Is alcohol controlling your life as never before? If so, you will definitely want to check out this recovery podcast.

Episode Overview   In this unfiltered and dynamic episode of Higher Density Living, host Jason Rigby sits down with Dr. Audrey Schnell, an emotional intelligence expert with over 40 years of experience studying human behavior, self-sabotage, and personal transformation. With an M.A. in Clinical Psychology and a Ph.D. in Epidemiology and Biostatistics, Dr. Schnell brings a unique blend of science-backed insight and practical wisdom to the conversation. She's spent decades helping clients—from entrepreneurs to everyday individuals—end self-sabotage, master their emotions, and unlock their potential. Together, Jason and Dr. Schnell dive into the messy truths of emotions, boundaries, and productivity, offering actionable strategies to turbocharge emotional intelligence and live a more intentional life.   Guest Bio: Dr. Audrey Schnell Credentials: M.A. in Clinical Psychology, Ph.D. in Epidemiology and Biostatistics Experience: Over 40 years researching why and how people change Mission: Enables clients to stop self-sabotage, eliminate emotional triggers, and achieve their goals by identifying blind spots and mastering emotions Impact: Helps individuals and businesses build long-term relationships, turn difficult clients into success stories, and reach peak performance Achievements: Featured speaker at retreats, frequent podcast guest, and founder of two successful online summits featuring 20+ top experts in healing and peak performance Personal Life: Lives off-grid on 40 acres in rural West Virginia with her husband and dogs Website: audreyschnell.com     Key Topics Discussed   Boundaries: The Ultimate Power Move (00:36 - 06:51) Why We Struggle with Boundaries: Dr. Schnell explains that boundaries are less about others and more about self-care—what we're willing to accept or not. Many fail to set them due to a need to be liked, hypervigilance, or fear of rejection. Practical Tip: For entrepreneurs, set time boundaries (e.g., no client texts at 6 a.m. unless it's a true emergency). A simple automated response like “I've seen your message and will reply soon” can ease the pressure. Jason's Insight: Entrepreneurs often get addicted to busyness, feeding off high cortisol levels and the need to feel wanted. Saying No to Good Things: Dr. Schnell highlights the challenge of rejecting appealing opportunities that derail focus—a lesson reinforced by Jason's anecdote about a billionaire who mastered saying “no” to amazing offers.   2.  Emotional Intelligence for Everyone (12:14 - 18:22) Underrated EI Skill: Empathy is the game-changer we're sleeping on. It's about understanding others' feelings, not just feeling them (empathy vs. sympathy). Cultural Traps: Jason notes society's victimhood obsession, asking how narcissists can develop empathy. Dr. Schnell debunks the overuse of “narcissist” labels and urges people to escape survival mode to unlock self-awareness and empathy. Practical Application: In relationships, aim to connect, not win. Start conversations from shared goals (e.g., “We both want to retire by 70”) and ask curious questions like “What made you say that?” instead of arguing.   3. The Science of Getting Things Done (09:15 - 11:41, 21:24 - 28:10) Dr. Schnell's Journey: Her shift from clinical psychology to research (sparked by the rise of computers in the ‘80s) taught her discipline and the power of starting overwhelming projects. Fear of Finishing: People avoid completing projects due to fear of imperfection or uncertainty about “what's next.” Dr. Schnell calls BS on perfectionism—it's often avoidance or lack of commitment, not a noble trait. Discipline Equals Freedom: Procrastination stems from relying on urgency rather than motivation. Jason ties this to his own shift from fear-driven hustle to intentional discipline, noting it protects the nervous system.   4. Dumbest Emotional Traps and How to Escape (29:09 - 37:18) The Trap: Worry and selfishness top the list. Worry is “praying for the outcome you don't want,” draining energy without purpose. Selfishness shows up when we obsess over ourselves instead of serving others (e.g., coaches fixating on client perceptions). Climbing Out: Take care of your nervous system first—hunger and fatigue amplify toddler-like meltdowns. Self-awareness is key: name your feelings (e.g., “I'm agitated”) to contain them, and don't trust them as facts. Jason's Take: Society's feelings-obsession (especially among younger generations) reflects a pendulum swing from repression to indulgence, fueled by our brain's energy-conserving wiring.   5. Decision-Making and Overthinking (38:58 - 44:26) Why We Overthink: Survival instincts overestimate task difficulty and underestimate post-task relief, stalling action. Visualization can trick the brain into thinking a job's done, reducing motivation. Solutions: Set a timer for 15 minutes to start, lean on discipline over habits, and anchor decisions to identity (e.g., “I'm not an average person” stopped Dr. Schnell from mindless scrolling). Jason's Game: He challenges his ego's comfort-seeking, realizing unchecked indulgence leads to stagnation.   6. Saying No Without Guilt (46:24 - 50:04) The Guilt Trap: People (especially women, per Jason) say “yes” to draining relationships or tasks to avoid discomfort. Guilt isn't inherently bad—it can motivate—but unchecked, it's self-focused. How to Say No: Reflect on the “why” behind guilt (e.g., “Will I feel like a bad person?”). Weigh the cost to yourself vs. others, and practice sitting with uncomfortable feelings instead of caving.   7. Three No-BS EI Strategies (51:50 - 55:00) Watch More TV: Observe others' behaviors in media to spot what you don't want to emulate (e.g., whining). Feel Your Feelings: Name and own them—don't suppress or over-trust them for decisions. Believe in Yourself: Focus on competence and courage, not fleeting confidence. Practice beats imposter syndrome every time.   Memorable Quotes Dr. Schnell: “Boundaries are really about us and what we are willing and not willing to do.” Jason: “We can get so caught up in daily tasks that we look at people as ‘Did you perform?' instead of having empathy for them as a human.” Dr. Schnell: “If one more person says they work better under pressure, nobody works better under pressure—they just work.” Dr. Schnell: “Feelings aren't facts. Don't trust your feelings.” Jason: “Discipline equals freedom—that's so true.” Dr. Schnell: “What you name, you contain.”     Resources Mentioned Dr. Schnell's Website: audreyschnell.com Upcoming Docu-Series: “How to Have Vibrant Health, Wealth, Freedom, and Live the Life You Desire” – Launches April 1, 2025 (details on her website, Facebook, and LinkedIn) Social Media: Follow Dr. Schnell on Facebook and LinkedIn     Final Thoughts   This episode is a masterclass in emotional intelligence, blending Dr. Schnell's 40 years of expertise with Jason's relatable insights as an entrepreneur and seeker of higher living. From setting boundaries to escaping emotional traps, their conversation cuts through the noise with no-BS strategies anyone can apply. Whether you're running a business or just running your life, this deep dive will leave you equipped to master your emotions and reach your goals.   Visit audreyschnell.com to explore Dr. Schnell's coaching, blog, and upcoming docu-series. 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It's easy to get caught up in the culture of “Me, Myself, and I,” where self-help and self-care often take center stage. But for followers of Jesus, this self-centered mindset isn't the answer—He calls us to humility and service. When we shift our focus from ourselves to others, using our gifts to serve and bless those around us, we live out the love of Jesus and reflect God's heart of generosity. In this message, Megan Marshman looks to 1 Peter 4:10-11 to encourage us to move from selfishness to selflessness, living a life that honors God and makes a difference in the lives of others!

"Eastward" (Ancient) of Eden?; Two creation accounts; How to get back to Tree of Life; Visions of Abraham; Euphrates = fruitfulness; "Help meet"; nun-gimel-dalet; What is woman?; Vessels of Holy Spirit; Gen 15:1; The word of God; "Vision" - biet-mem-chet-zayin-hey; Law of nature; Damascus; Eliezer = "helper"; Abraham's journey; Ur; God's prophecy to Abraham; Sons; Bondage opportunity; Righteousness; Giving purpose and value; Respecting the small things; Altars of stone and clay; "this land" = "erets"; aleph-resh-tzedek; freewill vs force; right to my body?; Charity alone; Turtledoves; Sophistry; Biblical "goat"; Red Heifer; Recognizing meaning; Driving away "fowls"; Moneychangers; Basics of who Abrahm was; Why Abraham?; Great darkness?; aleph-yod-mem-hey (horror); city?; gimel = cause/effect; sitting in darkness; v13: Bondage of Egypt; Satisfaction of righteousness; Virtue; Procreation a burden?; Selfishness; Revelation; Gathering in tens, hundreds and thousands; Giving to strengthen; Amorites = blood lickers; "President"; Where is love?; Are you a vulture? Amorite?; Abraham's altars; gimel-vav-zayin-lamad (turtledove); Welfare by forced giving; Lady Godiva; Gen 15:9 "Heifer"; Num 19:2 "Heifer" pey-resh-hey; Sacrifice; Doing what Christ/Moses/Abraham said to do; v18 - covenant for what land?; Living by faith; Covetous practices; Egypt (bondage) to Euphrates (fruitful); Kingdom of God AT HAND; Living by force; V19 List of names; Kenites - associated with Cane; Rolling back socialism; Weakened societies; Individual repentance; Spoiling; Giving your best; Division; Find fruitfulness.

A practitioner in China endured many trials and tribulations when her husband became critically ill. They went into debt to pay medical bills and had to move out of their home. She then had to take work in another city to make ends meet. Through this arduous process she corrected her long standing selfish notions. […]

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In Ephesians 4:17-19, Paul seems to condemn all Gentiles for certain beliefs and behaviors. But is this really what the gracious Apostle to the Gentiles is doing? No. Listen to this study of Ephesians 4:17-19 to learn more.

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by Elder Chris McCool, Pastor (preached on February 16, 2025) As we close out chapter five of Nehemiah today, we finish up our consideration of the problem of selfishness among God’s people. Nehemiah did not tolerate this sin, but he confronted it directly. But not only did he call it out, he also modeled his...

In this episode of Faithful Marriage, Pastor Craig Stephens, Pastor Robey Barnes, and Angelica Barros discuss one of the biggest challenges in marriage—selfishness. Drawing from Biblical principles, they explore how self-centeredness can erode trust and intimacy, while self-sacrificial love strengthens the foundation of a lasting relationship. Through real-life examples and Scripture, they challenge couples to shift their focus from “me” to “we,” embracing the call to love as Christ loved. Tune in to discover how overcoming selfishness can transform your marriage into a true reflection of God's love.

by Elder Chris McCool, Pastor (preached on February 12, 2025) As we continue looking at the problem of selfishness among God’s people, we see the great example that Nehemiah set before them in his own life. His life was a life of self-sacrifice, even though he held great privilege within the kingdom of Persia. Nonetheless,...

Women are conditioned to put everyone else first—but what if that's the very thing holding us back? In this episode of Charlie's Toolbox, we're challenging the idea that selfishness is a flaw and reframing it as a tool for self-preservation, success, and personal power. We'll unpack why centering yourself isn't just radical—it's necessary. Plus, hear real stories of women who unapologetically chose themselves and transformed their lives. Tune in to learn how to break free from societal conditioning, protect your energy, and fully step into your autonomy.

by Elder Chris McCool, Pastor (preached on February 9, 2025) In our study of Nehemiah, we are currently in the fifth chapter where we find that selfishness has become manifest among the workers in Jerusalem. The rich were exploiting the poor for gain, thereby going directly contrary to the Law of Moses. Nehemiah did not...

In this episode, Jaya brings forward a challenge that many of us can relate to - leaving conversations feeling undermined or devalued.  She struggles with how to maintain her power and self-worth when people dismiss, invalidate, or fail to recognize her contributions.  Her core questions include:How do I keep my power when dealing with people who undermine or devalue me?What language can I use to defend myself?How do I navigate situations where I freeze in response to subtle invalidation?Why do some people always take a contrarian point of view, and how can I respond?How do I handle accusations of being selfish when I set boundaries or withdraw?Key Takeaways for ListenersShift Your Perspective - Stop seeing these moments as something being done to you and instead as data about the other person's patterns and needs.Break the Victim Cycle - Seeing yourself as prey in a predator-prey dynamic keeps you in freeze mode.  Recognizing others' behaviors as their habitual strategies helps reclaim your power.Practice Self-Connection - Instead of seeking validation from someone who won't provide it, turn inward and self-attune:  What am I feeling?  What do I need?Ask for What You Want - If someone is dismissing your feelings, redirect the conversation by explicitly asking them to focus on your experience rather than rationalizing the other person's behavior.Recognize Their Needs - Many people default to giving advice or taking a contrarian stance as a way of meeting their own needs - to feel helpful, competent, or insightful.  Seeing this can help depersonalize their behavior.Exit With Grace - If someone is Monopolizing the conversation or invalidating you, set a boundary:  "I just realized I need to get going."  No justification is needed.Selfishness vs. Self-Connection - True self-care benefits everyone.  When you act from self-connection rather than obligation, you model healthy relational dynamics.We Discuss: 1:01 Opening thoughts3:05 I feel undermined and I freeze.  How can I reframe this?12:17 They're not "doing something to me".  They're providing data about themselves.14:28 Asking for what you want as a strategy out of the educating20:51 What can I say if I don't want to listen anymore?28:27 What can I say when someone accuses me of being selfish?31:04 Closing ThoughtsPlease share with your family and friends! For ongoing practice and deeper learning, join my monthly membership program. You will find a safe space for live discussions and a supportive community of like-minded, open-hearted humans. Subscribe & Follow:Stay updated on new episodes and resources by subscribing wherever you listen to podcasts or visiting yvetteerasmus.com.Thank you for listening! Here are more ways to connect with me: Become a member of my online learning community Join my Spring Deep Dive: The Art of Repair Work Join our calls live Set up a private session Follow me on TikTok @dr.yvetteerasmus

by Elder Chris McCool, Pastor (preached on February 9, 2025) Last time, we saw that selfishness had arisen among the workers on the walls of Jerusalem. Some of the Jews were taking advantage of their brethren, giving rise to internal dissension. It is clear that internal problems often outweigh external opposition when it comes to...

Rabbi Shlomo Usher Tauber on Let's Get Real with Coach Menachem, Sunday March 23, 2025 # 225Discovering Your True Self, Embracing Self-Care, Avoiding Selfishness, and Finding Balance in LifeTo reach Rabbi Shlomo Usher Tauber:keshercoaching@gmail.com845-540-4140Link to the book Mentioned: Mirror Work: 21 Days to Heal Your Life: https://amzn.to/4iXEh7T

Mark 12: 41-44 (KJV) 41 And Jesus sat over against the treasury, and beheld how the people cast money into the treasury: and many that were rich cast in much. 42 And there came a certain poor widow, and she threw in two mites, which make a farthing. 43 And he called unto him his disciples, and saith unto them, Verily...

Jesus was Lazarus' friend, so why didn't He heal him before he died? Joyce shares wisdom from life and the Bible to help us understand.

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3528: A self-centered person shifts every conversation to themselves, often without realizing it, while selfishness involves consistently prioritizing personal desires over others' needs. Dr. Margaret Rutherford clarifies how self-awareness stands apart, it's about acknowledging personal wants and needs while valuing those of others equally. By recognizing these distinctions, you can break free from harmful conditioning, embrace vulnerability, and start prioritizing yourself without guilt. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/whats-the-difference-between-being-selfish-and-being-self-aware/ Quotes to ponder: "You keep in mind your own needs or wants, and treat them with as much consideration as you treat the wants and needs of others." "You're giving yourself the message that you're important, a message that maybe you never or rarely received." "It may feel awkward at first to do things like this for yourself, but it's so worth it. Because you're worth it." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices