Sensible Sex with Dr. Wendasha

What's it like being married to a sex doc? Do you have sex everyday? Do you ever get jealous or intimidated by their work? These are questions Dr. Wendasha has received time and time again! BUT, she's ready to tackle these topics with a very special guest--her husband, Donte! Join them as they offer a peek into their relationship.

Did you know that Black folks make and watch porn, too? I'm talking Black production crews, actors, and streaming platforms! In this episode I chat with Brian Dwayne and discuss how his production company BLK Touch is shaking up the mainstream porn industry!

Most Americans have had sex by the time they are 18. We rarely enter adulthood with the 'V' card. But what about those of us who waited until their 20s or 30s? What are their stories? In fact, what does it really mean to be a virgin? Is 'real' sex only limited to penetrative acts of 'P' in 'V' or 'P' in 'A'? Join Dr. Wendasha and Ashley D. as they discuss sexual debuts after 30!

STDs are on the rise again in the US. So it's no surprise to see prevention campaigns everywhere. But, what happens when prevention efforts fail and someone tests positive? What happens when that positive is for an incurable (but treatable) STD like herpes? Join Dr. Wendasha and Courtney Brame, creator of Something Positive for Positive People, as they discuss navigating life after herpes. Connect with Courtney Brame: https://www.spfpp.org/ https://www.facebook.com/honmychest/ IG: @HonMyChest

Relationships sometimes hit snags, especially when it comes to sex! Often time, life gets in the way and we can't seem to get on the same page when it comes to our sexual needs and desires. BUT that doesn't mean they can't be overcome. Join Dr. Wendasha and her Guest Dr. Lexx Brown-James as they discuss mismatched libidos/sex drives in relationships and how to overcome these barriers. Featured Guest: Dr. Lexx Brown James (she/her/Doctor) is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and enjoys working from a systemic and emotional focused position. She is also a certified sex educator who is a  best selling author, keynote speaker, curriculum designer and grand rounds lecturer. Website: https://www.lexxsexdoc.com/ Instagram: @LexxSexDoc Twitter: @LexxSexDoc Other sexuality professionals mentioned: Marla Stewart: @VelvetLipsSxed (Instagram) Shanaë: @honestlynae (Instagram) Midori: @PlanetMidori (Instagram)

As a Black person, have you ever been curious about BDSM but was abruptly told “THAT S**T FOR WHITE PEOPLE!” or “AIN'T NOBODY TYING MY BLACK A** UP!”? Well, you are not alone. BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism) is at best misunderstood (thank you, 50 Shades of Grey) and at worse shunned (think chattel slavery) in many circles. And you definitely don't see a lot of Black outside of the leather. BUT there are Black folks who have embraced the kink and found a home in the BDSM community. Join Dr. Wendasha and Mr. Big Dick Energ (a Dom and rope play enthusiast) as they discuss BDSM'ing while Black. Check Mr. Big Dick Energ IG: @bigdickenerg

It's Pride Month and rainbows are literally everywhere. Not to mention, members of the Black LGBTQ+ community are showing up and showing on every platform! We have Pose, RuPaul's Drag Race, and Legendary, to name a few. But behind the commercialization and corporatization of LGBTQ Pride, we have have the every day, young Black queer folk whose stories will never be mainstream or viral BUT are important. Join Dr. Wendasha as she chats with Tribe member Vikki about navigating the world as a young, Black, bisexual, agender person.

Dating was damn near insufferable pre-2020. Dating in the middle of a pandemic, is absolutely atrocious! We were not ready for the foolishness known as COVID and the havoc it would wreak on our sex lives! Join Dr. Wendasha and Boonie of The Boonie Breakdown Podcast as we chat about the highs and (super) lows of dating during a pandemic! Featured Guest: Boonie of the Boonie Breakdown Podcast! Boonie is a 30-something Baltimore native who cultivated her audience with a unique and highly engaging twitter chat, and her daily 5Spot Facebook post. Her audience looks to her to have honest, candid conversations on pop culture, sex, relationships, feminism and a host of other lifestyle topics; sometimes you may laugh, at times you may cry, but you can always count on Boonie to break it down. She's truly your source for all things responsible and ratchet.    Connect with Boonie on:   Instagram: @TheBoonieBreakdown Twitter: @BoonieBreakdown  

One thing is for certain, and two things for sure, is that each relationship with will experience some form of conflict. BUT, it's not a comfortable topic and many of us aren't particularly skilled in conflict resolution. In fact, we often avoid it. Join Dr. Wendasha and sex therapist Dr. Lauren as they discuss the four communication styles that can kill a relationship and how to overcome those barriers to have a thriving relationship. Featured Guest: Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy is a clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist practicing in Minneapolis, Minnesota. She specializes in sexual health issues such as low sexual desire, libido mismatches in relationships, arousal difficulties, orgasm difficulties, and sexual pain. She is also trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy to help people improve their relationships. Connect with Dr. Lauren: Instagram: @drlaurenfogelmersy Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drlaurenfogelmersy

It's time to get your head in the game and step up your oral skills! Listen in as Master Oralist Headusa Divine shares her journey to becoming a Head Master and monetizing that skill on platforms such as O*ly Fans and P*rn Hub! We talking six-figure head, y'all!!!! And she can teach you how to do the same! Featured Guest: Headusa Divine is a Master Oralist, Webcam Artist, Self-Published Author and Content Creator. Using her wisdom and experience, Headusa aims to influence and level up the the fellatio and webcam culture and inspire others on their journey to becoming their own Artist and Master Oralist. True to her commitment to sharing her expert knowledge and skills with the world, she authored three books: 1. The Official Blowjob Handbook (Vol. 1) The Mind, The Body, The Spirit 2. The Official Blowjob Handbook (Vol.2) My Official D*ck Sucking Techniques & Mind-Blowing Finishing Moves 3. The Official Webcam Handbook (Vol. 1) The Webcam Creative Artist & Performer Route and Perspective To learn more, check her out at: http://iamheadusa.com/ https://twitter.com/iamheadusa  https://www.instagram.com/nextlevelhead/  

For Black millennial women and femmes, motherhood just hits different. We're navigating multiple identities, parenting intentionally, fulfilling our hopes and dreams, all while breaking and healing from generational trauma. This ain't your mama's and grandmama's motherhood journey! Join Dr. Wendasha, Akua, and Dr. Brittny as they discuss our (mis)adventures in motherhood as millennial Black women and femmes.   Featured Guests: Akua (Uh-koo-uh)[pronouns: she/her] is a fluid demisexual  millenial of Ghanaian - American ethnicity and single mother to one. She works as Licensed Mental Health Counselor with an interest in the intersections of race, culture, gender/sexuality and mental health. She moonlights as a sex podcaster, cohosting Inner Hoe Uprising Podcast which is a comedic but educational podcast on all things sex, love and dating from the perspective of 4 Queer, Black feminists. She enjoys intellectually stimulating conversation, well executed corny pick up lines and all things #blackgirlmagic. Dr. Brittny James is a college professor and department chair, wife, and step mama. She is a public health researcher with an interest in eliminating social inequality through access to quality adult education. She is an avid gym goer, loves to cook, and operates two side hustles - writing and social media content consulting as well as a custom gift shop.

Many of you have been rocking with me since I established The Sensible Sexpert back in 2018. BUT, some of you are new here and still getting a feel for things. So, I invited you all to ask me some of your most pressing questions and, to put it simply, you all wanted to know, "Who the HELL is Dr. Wendasha?" This episode, I tell my story (a.k.a. how I become Dr. Wendasha) and answer a few of your other questions. If you've been wondering about who I am, how I got here, and other random stuff, this episode it for you!

Are you down for fresh, shameless, pleasure-based conversations about sex, love, and relationships that unabashedly center Black women and femmes? Well you've found the right podcast! Join Dr. Wendasha and her special guests as they discuss real sex, for real people, in real life! Listen! Subscribe! Comment! Rate! Tell a friend to tell a friend!