Podcasts about family therapists

Happy Day, Friend! In this podcast episode I'm talking about bridging the gap in female and male relational and communication dynamics by covering topics of emotions, embodiment, and expression with my special guest, Dr. Matt Brown. This is part 3 of a 3-part series. Dr. Matt Brown is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, owner of Relate Therapy Houston, and co-host of the podcast The Manspace. He has been working in the mental health field for 20 years and his career has included working as a university professor, researcher, and clinician. He specializes in men's mental and relational health and couples navigating ruptures in trust. He and his wife, Lisa, are the proud parents of three amazing daughters.Podcast Sponsor This episode is brought to you by the Teacher's Resource Intensive, a program created by Gioconda Parker and Sarah Montross. The program is designed to help you return to the source of your own teaching journey. It brings like-minded individuals together as peers to give, share, and receive through yoga practice and study. For more information visits www. sarahmontrossyoga.com BIG favor - I would so appreciate it if you could take a moment to rate and review my show, and while you're at it click the subscribe button so you're alerted when new episodes are released. Remember, take time to pause, breath, and reflect. Until next time, keep shining out there!  ~ Athea Connect with me on IG, FB, X, and LinkedIn: @atheadavis or www.atheadavis.com

Today, I am so excited to introduce two special guests, Julie Scelfo and Julie Fruman, from Mothers Against Media Addiction (or MAMA). I believe so much in MAMA's vision and mission for healthier tech and healthier families. I can't wait for you to meet them. You'll Learn:How a simple shift helped my guest's son love reading.Why the era of anxious parenting is making it even harder for parents to say no to screens.Short and long term risks of media overuse.3 ways to help your kids develop healthier relationships with screensWhy community is the key to battling media addictionThis episode is full of simple, practical ways you can help your family have a healthier, more balanced relationship with screens and media.So sit back and listen to us talk about the hope for an environment where media does not infiltrate everything and our kids can grow up without overexposure to media and screens.------------------------------------------Meet the MAMAsJulie Scelfo is the founder and executive director of MAMA, and she has created a chapter-based grassroots movement of parents who are fighting back against media addiction. Her goal is to create a world in which real life experiences and interactions remain at the heart of a healthy childhood. She is an award-winning journalist, a former New York Times staff writer, a media ecologist, and a parent. She says, “MAMA grew out of my own frustration as a parent trying to keep my kids safe online and realizing that the problem was beyond anything I alone could manage as a parent. At one point, I signed them up for software that was going to let me know anytime they were exposed to something dangerous. And I started getting over 100 emails a day. And I realized there's no way that I could manage all of that alone.”Now, MAMA has a 3-part mission to educate parents, get smartphones out of schools, and advocate for basic safeguards on technology products. Julie Fruman is the leader of the local chapter of MAMA in my community. For more than a decade, Julie has provided mental health support to individuals, couples and families. She holds a Masters degree in clinical psychology from Pepperdine University and is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in private practice. She hosts frequent workshops for parents, teens and tweens, encouraging safe, intentional, balanced technology use through the Conejo Valley Chapter of MAMA.She says, “When MAMA first launched, I heard about it and I knew immediately I wanted to get involved. I loved the idea of having other parents around me and not doing this work solo. I like being with other parents who want the same things for our children and for the community, too. I wanted to do this hand in hand and not by myself.” Effects of Media Addiction & OveruseIf you're like a lot of moms I talk to, you just feel a little “off” when it comes to screens and tech. You know something doesn't feel quite right, but you're not sure why or what exactly to do about it. Scelfo says, “We as a society right now are completely addicted to media and screens. Think of all the places we have screens. They are in our restaurants, they are in our cars, our elevators, our gas pumps. There's almost no place that you can go anymore and just enjoy the natural setting without being bombarded with information.”And this constant exposure comes with some downsides. Acute RisksWe know what dangers look like in the “real world”, but we can't always see what's happening online. Social algorithms often promote content that includes...

Send us a textThis week on Here's What We Know, join us for a warm and eye-opening episode with Mary Crocker Cook, a licensed therapist and the author of Bad Taste: Self-Care and Financial Planning When You Have Bad Taste in Men and You Don't Want To Leave, to talk about what it really means to love someone whose life is in chaos. From addiction and criminal behavior to the tangled roots of attachment, Mary offers practical advice and heartfelt stories that feel both reassuring and unflinchingly honest. Listen now!In This Episode:A Therapist's JourneyThe Generational Impact of AddictionWhen Love Isn't EnoughPractical Tools for Staying in Difficult RelationshipsThe Psychology of Attachment and AttractionPatterns and Awareness: Even Experts Aren't ImmuneRelationship Red Flags and Lessons LearnedProtecting Yourself in Relationships and DivorceEveryday Relationship MaintenanceCommunication and Being SeenDating, Disappointments, and Letting GoAttachment Challenges and Quick ConnectionsHumor, Hope, and Continued GrowthThis episode is sponsored by: Reed Animal Hospital (Be sure to tell them Gary sent you!) Bio:Mary Crocker Cook is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and addictions counselor who has been helping individuals and families heal since 1988. She serves as Program Coordinator and full-time faculty for the Alcohol and Drug Studies program at San Jose City College, which she launched in 1990.An accomplished author, Mary has written several books grounded in both her professional expertise and her personal experience with over 25 years in Al-Anon. Her work resonates with counselors and anyone affected by a loved one's addiction.Website: https://www.marycrockercookbooks.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/recoverykittyart/Connect with Gary: Gary's Website Follow Gary on Instagram Gary's Tiktok Gary's Facebook Watch the episodes on YouTube Advertise on the Podcast Thank you for listening. Let us know what you think about this episode. Leave us a review!

I am thrilled to welcome Brooke Lamb to the show: Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and self-proclaimed amateur mystic, and co-founder of Abide Counseling and Private Practice Residency here in Nashville. We discuss Brooke's own journey of healing from religious trauma, coming out as queer, navigating a later-in-life ADHD diagnosis, and the transformative process of advocating for her nonbinary child within her family and society at large. We also discuss her incredible stories around working spiritually and energetically with her ancestors and carrying their torches of activism forward in fighting to dismantle oppressive systems and prioritize capitalist-critical business structures.Follow Brooke's work and various projects here! Substack: B.A. Lamb and @therapistbrooke on TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠Sign up for Dream Your Masterpiece: A Virtual Jungian Active Imagination workshop to unblock your creativity - coming up Monday 7/14!Psyche Magic Website, Socials and more!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠QUEER + TRANS RESOURCES: The Trevor Project GLAAD Resources PFLAGHRC LGBTQ+ Youth SupportTrans Lifeline Oasis Center Nashville Trans Aid Nashville The Psyche Magic Salon is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit psychemagic.substack.com/subscribe

Dr. Rob and Marriage and Family Therapist and CSAT Arlene Rosen continue their discussion about discernment counseling. They consider how to determine what each person needs throughout the collaborative divorce process, how to protect children and pets throughout the journey, and realistic timelines when addiction is a factor in a relationship. Arlene shares advice, resources, and a message of hope and healing in the collaborative divorce process.    TAKEAWAYS: [1:22] Determining what each person needs throughout the collaborative divorce. [5:42] Child welfare versus child safety in court order agreements.  [8:10] Timeline possibilities when addiction is at play.  [11:20] Handling chronic lying in a legal setting.  [15:55] A message of hope in the collaborative divorce process. [18:09] Is there a simple way to know that I should get divorced?  [23:00] Guidelines for an effective separation period.  [29:35] Determining the right next step based on your current stage of life.  [32:32] Navigating divorce in a non-legal partnership.    RESOURCES: Sex and Relationship Healing @RobWeissMSW Sex Addiction 101  Seeking Integrity Free Sexual Addiction Screening Assessment Partner Sexuality Survey Arlene Rosen Seeking Integrity Podcasts are produced in partnership with Podfly Productions.    QUOTES: “You can make agreements about what will be talked about your addiction in your divorce.”  “Why do more damage when you've decided not to live together anymore?”  “The collaborative divorce process is simply more respectful.”  “The collaborative divorce process has the most opportunity for people to get back together.”

Dr. Rob and Marriage and Family Therapist and CSAT Arlene Rosen explore the options available to couples who are on the fence about staying together or separating. They discuss discernment counseling, litigation, and collaborative divorce; and consider the benefits and difficulties associated with each route. Arlene is an advocate of restructuring the marriage or divorce through a discernment counseling process, and she shares the value of engaging in discernment counseling to explore whether there is really any breath left in a relationship.   TAKEAWAYS: [1:22] The driver behind Arlene's work with addiction and divorce.  [4:39] The role and value of a mediator in divorce.  [6:30] Litigation and court process horror stories.  [10:38] Discernment counseling as a preliminary divorce consideration.  [13:10] Restructuring the marriage through a discernment counseling process.  [14:30] Separation is always on the table.  [17:15] Discernment counseling explores whether there is any breath left in a relationship.  [19:53] Collaborative divorce is an excellent alternative to traditional divorce.  [25:49] First steps in getting started with collaborative divorce.    RESOURCES: Sex and Relationship Healing @RobWeissMSW Sex Addiction 101  Seeking Integrity Free Sexual Addiction Screening Assessment Partner Sexuality Survey Arlene Rosen Seeking Integrity Podcasts are produced in partnership with Podfly Productions.    QUOTES: “Discernment counseling is a protocol for when one person is leaning out of a relationship and the other person is leaning in.”  “Discernment counseling is not for people who have already made a decision about divorce.”  “Discernment counseling is an opportunity to determine if you are willing to meet the other person's needs and to work on this relationship.”

What do you do when your marriage is in crisis and one partner wants out? In this insightful episode, we sit down with Dr. Becky Whetstone, a Marriage and Family Therapist, consultant, life coach, and author of I (Think) I Want Out. After experiencing her own disappointing marriage counseling that led to divorce, Dr. Becky became determined to learn how to truly help couples reconcile when possible—or create an amicable divorce when necessary.Dr. Becky explains how, when a partner's nervous system is activated, they enter fight-or-flight mode, feeling as though their survival is at stake. This often leads them to believe that leaving is the only option. However, by calming the nervous system, addressing the root causes of conflict, and encouraging personal growth, many marriages can be saved.Join us as Dr. Becky shares her expert insights on navigating a marriage crisis, strengthening relationships, and finding the best path forward—whether that means healing together or parting peacefully.Learn more about Dr. Becky Whetstone and her work at MarriageCrisisManager.com.Thank you for supporting Linda's Corner! Please take a moment to share this episode, subscribe to the podcast, and leave a rating and review. Visit the Linda's Corner website at lindascornerpodcast.com, and follow us on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, and Pinterest @lindascornerpodcast.Discover free resources to increase happiness, build confidence, improve relationships, manage stress, and calm feelings of depression and anxiety at the Hope for Healing website: hopeforhealingfoundation.org.For a transformative experience in deep inner healing, visit healingbreathworkdetox.com—a digital platform offering life-changing results.Become the champion of your own story as you overcome life's challenges and unlock your full potential!

In this week's episode, we bring back a previously released episode that is worth a replay, where host Lisa Foster sits down with Kayla Crane, a renowned marriage and family therapist, to tackle a topic that resonates with countless parents: rekindling romance amidst the chaos of family life. As busy parents, it's all too easy to let intimacy take a backseat to the demands of parenting. This episode examines the unique challenges of maintaining a romantic connection amid life's chaos. Tune in now for a conversation that promises to inspire and empower you to take actionable steps toward rekindling romance in your busy life.About Kayla Crane, M.A., LMFTWebsite: ⁠https://www.southdenvertherapy.com/⁠Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/southdenvertherapy⁠Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/SouthDenverTherapy⁠Linkedin: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/kayla-crane-m-a-lmft-7972686b/⁠About The Host: Lisa Foster, PT, CSTWebsite: ⁠https://www.reallifemomz.com/⁠Explore the ⁠⁠Real Life Momz ⁠⁠website for more resources, including weekly episodes, blog posts, momz calming corner, and tips for the mompreneur.

Send us a textJoin us as we sit down with Marriage and Family Therapist, Dr, Becky Whetstone, to talk through the emotional stages of divorce, and how to move from grief to growth once you've made the decision to leave your marriage. As a leading divorce firm in Portland, our attorneys provide guidance on custody, alimony, separation, estate planning, and more. Learn what to expect in Oregon and Washington divorce cases and how we can help.If you would like to speak with one of our attorneys, please call our office at (503) 227-0200, or visit our website at https://www.pacificcascadelegal.com.To learn more about Dr. Becky Whetstone and how she can help you, you can visit her website at: https://doctorbecky.com/Disclaimer: Nothing in this communication is intended to provide legal advice nor does it constitute a client-attorney relationship, therefore you should not interpret the contents as such.

Talking points: relationship, attachment, cultureI love Stan because he's able to cut through so much of the modern BS around relationships, and get straight to practical, tactical perspectives and advice. We covered a TON of ground here, from the importance of social contracts and mutual protection, to the need for shared vision and purpose in creating equitable and collaborative relationships. This is definitely a convo that will spark some discussion, so listen in, team.(00:00:00) - Intro and the nature of secure functioning(00:05:52) - Human Nature and Relationship Dynamics(00:10:01) - Impact of Technology on Relationships(00:23:35) - Creating Secure Functioning Relationships(00:35:06) - Predictability and Prevention in Relationships(00:36:51) - The Importance of Quick Repair(00:43:02) - Mutual Protection and Solidarity(00:47:20) - Compatibility and Relationship Agreements(00:51:59) - The Role of Attachment in Relationships(01:00:42) - Final Thoughts and Practical AdviceStan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a renowned expert in human behaviour and couple relationships, known for developing the Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy® (PACT). He is a global speaker and teacher on secure-functioning relationships, with his insights reaching over 1.7 million viewers through his TEDx talk. Stan has authored six bestselling books, translated into multiple languages, and has published numerous academic articles.In 2010, Stan co-founded the PACT Institute with his wife, Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin, PhD, to train therapists in integrating psychobiological approaches into their practices. His work has earned him the Educator of the Year award from the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists CA in 2014.Stan leads couples in creating healthy attachments through his clinical practice in Calabasas, California, and Wired For Love Couple Retreats. He has held academic positions at UCLA and serves on the boards of Lifespan Learning Institute and Relationships First. A former president of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists, Ventura County chapter, Stan is trained in various psychotherapeutic techniques, including Adult Attachment, Facial Action Coding System, and Vipassana meditation.Connect with Dr. Tatkin-Website: https://www.thepactinstitute.com/-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drstantatkin/-Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PactTrainingInstitute***Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worthPick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don't know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation |

Dr. Lisa Cooney is a leading authority on thriving after childhood sexual abuse. As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, certified Access Consciousness Facilitator, and Master Theta Healer. She has spent the last 25+ years helping people across the globe move from trauma to truth—from silently surviving to radically alive. Through her trauma therapy practice, intuitive Soul Sessions, ThetaHealing®, and the ROAR® Method she developed, she has guided thousands through deep emotional healing—especially those living with childhood abuse, PTSD, chronic anxiety, or a deep sense of disconnection. Whether in a one-on-one session or a global workshop, she's witnessed what's possible when someone chooses to heal.  She is the author of the books: “Creating After Abuse” and her newest book is, “The Body Of Change.” This book is a profound exploration of how reconnecting with our bodies can unlock our highest potential. Her unique approach, combining scientific and spiritual insights, offers practical tools and techniques that empower individuals to break free from emotional and physical limitations and live a radically alive and fulfilling life. Praise from Gwyneth Paltrow: “After one cathartic session with Dr. Lisa Cooney, I noticed such a remarkable shift in how I felt in my body. I hope this book helps many more people who may be feeling disconnected to follow their path back to themselves." — Gwyneth Paltrow, Founder and CEO of Goop. https://www.drlisacooney.com @drlisacooney www.senseofsoulpodcast.com

Janet Goldstein-Ball is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Eating Disorder Specialist Consultant (CEDS-C), and EMDR Certified.  Janet has been in private practice since 2012, and in her current location in Burbank since 2014.  Her special interests are eating disorders, trauma, and working with creative professionals.  In addition to her private practice, Janet was the Eating Disorder Case Manager at Kaiser Permanente's Department of Psychiatry in Los Angeles from July 2014 to January 2024, where among other duties she co-facilitated the clinic's “Emotional Overeaters Group.”  Her past experience and training includes working at eating disorder treatment programs, seeing clients at community clinics, and counseling adolescents at a school for students with severe emotional disorders and learning disabilities.   Janet is the co-author of the book “Straight Expectations,” a memoir of her colleague Peggy Cryden's experiences raising two gay sons, one transgender, along with insights and support for involved family members and friends, clinicians, and the gender non-conforming community.   We discuss topics including: Binge eating disorder (BED) and emotional overeating is complex One of the goals of supporting someone who is struggling with binge eating disorder (BED) is to have intuitive eating (IE) as apart of treatment Binge eating is using as coping mechanisms when an individual is struggle with tolerating uncomfortable feelings Those struggling with (BED) need to do deeper psychological work before embarking on intuitive eating (IE)   SHOW NOTES: www.jgbcounseling.com https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/janet-goldstein-ball-burbank-ca/112848 instagram.com/jgbcounseling   ____________________________________________ If you have any questions regarding the topics discussed on this podcast, please reach out to Robyn directly via email: rlgrd@askaboutfood.com You can also connect with Robyn on social media by following her on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and LinkedIn. If you enjoyed this podcast, please leave a review on iTunes and subscribe. Visit Robyn's private practice website where you can subscribe to her free monthly insight newsletter, and receive your FREE GUIDE “Maximizing Your Time with Those Struggling with an Eating Disorder”. Your Recovery Resource, Robyn's new online course for navigating your loved one's eating disorder, is available now! For more information on Robyn's book “The Eating Disorder Trap”, please visit the Official "The Eating Disorder Trap" Website. “The Eating Disorder Trap” is also available for purchase on Amazon.

Joe Sosta is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and late-realized AuDHDer. He shares some of our questions about therapy as an AuDHD adult, and we talk about the ups and downs of therapy and modalities. Note: "The Discord" mentioned is part of the Like Your Brain (Patreon) community spaceThis is the first of 7 interconnected episodes Connect with Joe:https://www.therapywithjoe.comhttps://barnliferecovery.comResources:Transcript DocEmail Newsletter: Nothing Wrong With UsLike Your Brain community space (Patreon/Discord) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hailey is a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist working in Kansas City. She is also a mom of two little girls. She has a full, hectic life where free time is precious & limited. She discusses her occupation as well as how she has been able to keep fitness a part of her busy life.

In this episode, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, Esther Boykin shares how she cultivates compassion and community on her Compassion Collective Retreats for high-achieving, successful African American women.  Esther shares how important providing a safe space for marginalized communities can foster greater intimacy, connection, and community and lead to a profound shift toward self-compassion.Brooke Bralove, LCSW-C is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Psychotherapist, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, Master Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) Practitioner, and Certified Daring Way™ Facilitator.  Brooke specializes in treating adults, couples, and groups with anxiety, trauma, and sexual and relationship challenges.  Brooke helps women of all ages let go of perfectionism and move toward greater authenticity, joy, pleasure, and connection.  Brooke's new passion is Accelerated Resolution Therapy, a brief treatment modality using bilateral eye movements to provide lasting relief and healing to patients with PTSD, trauma, phobias, anxiety, and depression.  She has maintained a private practice in Bethesda, Maryland for 21 years. Esther Boykin is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, executive coach, and keynote speaker recognized for bridging the gap between clinical insight and real-world business strategy. A former CEO and founder of a thriving therapy practice, she is now celebrated for her Compassion Collective Retreat, an immersive experience designed specifically for high-achieving women of color.Rooted in the belief that true success depends on self-compassion, community, and cultural relevance, Esther helps leaders, entrepreneurs, and everyday professionals cultivate workplaces—and personal lives—that “light them up.” From corporate consulting on mental health equity to one-on-one coaching for executives wrestling with burnout, she's known for her warm, inviting style and thought-provoking insights.A TEDx speaker and media mental health expert, Esther has shaped conversations around modern wellness, challenging harmful norms like productivity obsession in her popular talk, “Laziness is a Lie.” As President of NAMI DC, she tirelessly advocates for more inclusive mental health resources. Drawing on two decades of expertise, Esther offers workshops, retreats, and custom trainings that blend empathy with action, empowering clients to lead authentically and maintain meaningful connections.In This Episode:BrookeIG: @brookebralovepsychotherapyFB:@brookebralovepsychotherapyTikTok: @bbralovepsychotherapyEstherIG & LinkedIn: @estherbmftwww.estherboykin.com The Trauma Therapist PodcastJoin my email list and receive podcast updates and other news: https://bit.ly/3LuAG2iListen to all Trauma Therapist Podcast episodes here: https://bit.ly/3VRNy8zBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-trauma-therapist--5739761/support.

Text Monique directly! Share thoughts, feels or feedback! Tune in as Dené Logan joins Monique to explore the dynamics of feminine and masculine energy and how they impact our relationships and personal growth. They explore how these dynamics shape our identities, relationships, and ambitions in a world that often demands we suppress our true selves. As high-achieving women, we often find ourselves caught between the demands of our professional lives and the yearning for personal fulfillment. Monique and  Dené tackle the realities of motherhood, the pressure to conform to societal expectations, and the challenges of maintaining intimacy in relationships. They discuss the significance of vulnerability and the power of asking for help, emphasizing that true strength lies in embracing our feminine essence.Don't miss out on this enlightening conversation that encourages us all to reclaim our joy, creativity, and connection to one another.GUEST INFODené Logan Marriage and Family Therapist, a group facilitator, and an author of Sovereign Love: A Guide to Healing Relationships by Reclaiming the Masculine and Feminine Within | Website | InstagramGEMS DROPPED“All ​the ​things ​like ​wounded, ​masculine ​energetic ​quality, ​afraid ​of ​fear…all ​of ​those ​are ​human ​qualities. ​They're ​not ​necessarily ​bad, but ​when ​they ​become ​the ​paradigm from where ​we ​are ​operating ​from ​as ​a ​baseline, ​which ​I ​would ​say ​our ​culture ​really ​does ​value ​things ​that ​are ​sort ​of ​wounded ​masculine ​qualities ​or ​ways ​of ​being,​ ​then ​they ​become ​distortions. ​They ​really ​are ​us ​operating ​with ​our ​wounds ​​versus ​in ​that ​conscious ​space ​of ​'how ​do ​I ​want ​to ​respond ​based ​on what ​is ​coming ​up ​for ​me' ​and ​'what ​is ​the ​truth ​of ​how ​I ​want ​to ​show ​up ​in ​this ​moment?' ” -  Dené Logan“As ​grateful ​as ​we ​all ​are ​for ​the ​modern ​feminist ​movement, ​I ​think ​there's ​a ​way ​that ​what ​we ​were ​really ​taught ​to ​embrace ​​was ​a ​lot ​of ​wounded ​masculine ​energy. That, ​we ​can ​do ​everything ​that ​men ​can ​do. ​We ​can ​show ​up ​and ​work ​like ​men ​and ​make ​ourselves ​sick. ​Productivity ​at ​all ​costs. ​All ​these ​things ​that ​if ​we ​really ​think ​about ​them ​aren't ​necessarily ​healthy ​qualities ​for ​anyone. ​​But ​in ​order ​for ​us ​to ​sort ​of ​be ​competitive ​in ​the ​workplace ​and ​feel ​like ​we ​have ​a ​seat ​at ​the ​table, ​​so ​many ​of ​us ​were ​conditioned ​to ​reject ​what ​would ​be ​​some ​of ​our ​healthy ​feminine ​characteristics ​like ​trust ​in ​life,​ and ​receptivity , ​and ​our ​willingness ​to ​be ​vulnerable. ​So for ​a ​lot ​of ​us, ​those ​things ​can ​be ​really ​hard ​for ​us ​to ​recalibrate ​into ​stepping ​into ​or ​accepting ​within ​ourselves.”  -  Dené Logan“So ​many ​things ​in ​our ​society ​are ​just a ​reaction to ​​this ​fear ​of ​the ​feminine ​essence. The ​feminine ​spirit and ​so much ​of ​what ​we're ​experiencing ​day ​to ​day ​is ​rooted ​in ​that ​fear.​ We're ​just ​so ​terrified ​of it.” - Monique R. Shields“Wounded ​masculinity ​is basically ​a ​kind ​of ​a ​fear ​based ​state, it ​cuts ​you ​off ​from ​creativity ​and ​that's what ​the ​healthy ​feminine ​is ​all ​about- ​creativity ​and ​being ​in ​your ​creative ​mode.” - Monique R. ShieldsSTAY IN TOUCHCome and follow me on Instagram @moniquershields and I would love your feedback so send an email to ambition@moniquershields.com. 

In this episode, I sit down with Lisa Mustard, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and life coach, to delve into the complexities of family dynamics and the evolving landscape of therapy. We explore the alarming trend of family estrangement, particularly among young adults who are cutting ties with their parents, often leaving those parents bewildered despite having provided loving upbringings. Lisa shares her insights from the therapy room, highlighting how political stress and anxiety are further straining familial relationships, making it increasingly difficult for families to engage in constructive conversations.We also discuss Lisa's innovative approach to continuing education for therapists through her podcourses, which combine podcasting with self-study content. This affordable and accessible method allows therapists to earn continuing education credits while engaging with relevant topics. As we navigate the conversation, we touch on the lack of resources for blended families and the need for more focus on pressing issues that affect modern marriages and families.Throughout our discussion, we reflect on the importance of resilience, the impact of parenting styles, and the necessity of instilling values in children. We question how societal shifts have influenced therapy practices and the implications for future generations. Join us as we unpack these critical themes and consider what it means to foster healthy relationships in today's world.Lisa Mustard is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Life Coach in South Carolina, host of The Therapy Show with Lisa Mustard, and creator of continuing education for therapists. While these resources weren't mentioned during the episode, Lisa has created two powerful tools to help therapists and coaches navigate politically charged sessions with greater confidence and ease:Coping with Political Stress eBook & Workbook: This 62-page guide is packed with reflection exercises, grounding practices, and strategies to help you manage media consumption and reconnect with your values. You can edit the ebook workbook (through Canva) with your branding and share with your clients. Not a therapist but want the ebook workbook, click HERE (pdf download only, not editable). Deep-Dive Therapist Conversation Framework (Printable PDF) Navigating Politics in Therapy Without Taking Sides: For my fellow therapists, this printable guide includes 97 essential questions to help you navigate political conversations in sessions with compassion and without taking sides.  00:00 Start[00:00:10] Family estrangement in modern times.[00:04:10] Introduction to gender dysphoria.[00:09:05] AAMFT's focus on transgender resources.[00:13:40] Family estrangement and therapy.[00:14:24] Family estrangement and politics.[00:18:15] Estrangement in family relationships.[00:24:56] Struggles in affluent parenting.[00:27:08] Parental values and child rebellion.[00:31:20] Child of divorce experiences.[00:35:06] Personal growth through therapy.[00:37:36] Therapy and self-reflection.[00:41:18] Future self and values.[00:46:23] Neuroplasticity and personal growth.[00:49:07] Emotional health and relationships.[00:54:15] Family therapy's declining relevance.[00:58:16] Military concerns about therapy confidentiality.[01:02:07] Therapy vs. Coaching Distinctions.[01:06:46] Coaching advice for therapists.[01:09:18] Therapy growth and therapist fit.ROGD REPAIR Course + Community gives concerned parents instant access to over 120 lessons providing the psychological insights and communication tools you need to get through to your kid. 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At the end of this mini-series, we will host a Q&A episode where Barbara will answer questions from the community. To submit your question, please visithttps://srna.ngo/submitIn the second part of the “Ask the Expert, Research Edition” mini-series, “Parenting is Hard,” Barbara Babcock shared more about her research on how parents navigate the needs of their non-diagnosed children alongside those of a child with a rare neuroimmune disorder. She described the demographic details of the participating families and the process of recruiting participants for the study [00:02:25]. Barbara highlighted her unique perspective and the potential biases she brought to the research as a non-parent [00:05:33]. She emphasized the importance of honesty and vulnerability in sharing experiences, as well as focusing on the strengths of families facing these challenges [00:09:46]. Barbara Babcock works as a Family Therapist in a child and adolescent mental health outpatient unit in the United Kingdom's National Health Service. In her private practice, she works with individuals and couples who are navigating challenging health issues and wish to get their lives back. She obtained her Master of Science in Family Therapy from the Institute of Psychiatry, Psychology, and Neuroscience at King's College London. Barbara also has a Master of Arts in Coaching Psychology/Psychological Coaching and her dissertation research focused on the impact that a systemic approach to coaching has on the wellbeing of adults who have a rare neuroimmune disorder and their primary caregivers. Previously, she was Chair of the Transverse Myelitis Society, from 2013 to 2016, and led their Family Weekend from 2015 to 2019, an event to support families who have a child/adolescent with a rare neuroimmune disorder to discover their potential through challenging outdoor activities. She had transverse myelitis in 2008 and is originally from Pennsylvania, USA. You can contact her at barbara@returntowellness.co.uk and her website is www.returntowellness.co.uk00:00 Introduction01:29 Overview of Barbara's Research02:25 Participant Demographics and Methodology05:33 Researcher's Perspective and Bias09:46 Themes and Insights from the Research12:24 Conclusion

My guest today is Karla Elizondo. Karla Elizondo is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Mindset Coach with over 20 years of personal and spiritual development expertise. She is trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), is a practitioner of Internal Family Systems (IFS), and incorporates the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) into her coaching practice. She is also the Chief Media Officer for The Napoleon Hill Institute as well as a certified coach facilitating their life-changing programs. With over 4,000 hours of clinical experience, Karla has helped thousands uncover the root issues holding them back from living their highest potential using a holistic approach. She has helped many navigate issues, including anxiety, depression, self-esteem, self-image, creative blocks, and addictive behavior. With a Master of Science Degree in Clinical Psychology and a Bachelor's Degree in Film & TV Production, Karla strives to create conscious content that teaches and uplifts others. She believes that the medium of film and television is the most powerful way to tell inspiring and educational stories that help raise the collective consciousness. As an award-winning Toastmasters International Speaker, content producer, and sought-after coach, Karla uses her deep knowledge of the human condition, to create more empathetic connections and empower people around the world. In this episode we discuss Napoleon Hill, mindset mastery, radical responsibility, relationships, therapy, legacy leadership and personal development.Website - https://www.karlaelizondo.com/IG - https://www.instagram.com/karla_elizondo_/YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4Y2P5qkPPQ-cBFlO3PmXsgLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/karla-elizondo-lmft-886b461ab/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@karlaelizondo_In this episode you will learn:1. The common pitfalls in relationships and how to bridge the gap when partners are on different paths.2. How taking full responsibility for our thoughts and actions can lead to creating the life that we desire.3. What some of the most empowering principles from Napoleon Hill are and how you can apply them to your own life to create lasting success. “The biggest pain, Brad, is when you betray yourself. That is the most painful thing.” - 00:04:31“We self-sabotage unconsciously. Nobody does it like we do know when we have we just we love the bad boy we just sabotage we like have we're addicted to the drama but it's more unconscious with every thought." 00:27:53“To empower someone is to put in or to put on power to that person. To empower myself is to put in, think empowering thoughts, to put in and to put on power. ” 00:52:32

Bobby talks with Michael Gasparro, a licensed therapist and musician about his faith journey, his work in the mental health field and sharing our creative gifts. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist #131154 and Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor #10913 in California, Michael Gasparro helps treat a wide variety of mental health issues with compassion and a Christ-centered worldview. He is passionate about the intersection of faith and psychology.He now serves regularly as a speaker/presenter regarding his personal experience and clinical expertise on matters related to human sexuality and psychology. Combining his original passion for music and his first career as a music instructor with his expertise in human development, he recently released his debut album of original Christian children's music, The Gift of Me: Theology of the Body Songs for Kids, which is available for purchase through his website www.michaelgasparro.com or you can check out his brand new YouTube channel which features lyric music videos of songs from the album: https://www.youtube.com/@MrMichaelSings -- Thanks for listening! For more info on our talks, books, and resources, please visit our website at: ⁠⁠⁠https://jackieandbobby.com/⁠ ⁠⁠ If you feel called to support us financially in this ministry endeavor, please prayerfully consider visiting our support page: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/jackieandbobby

Learn how the Polyvagal Theory helps explain healthy boundaries through a combination of safety and sympathetic activation.Episode Introduction and Context — 0:00Understanding Ventral Vagal Safety State — 0:34Balancing Safety and Sympathetic Activation — 1:16Proactive Practice for Boundary Setting — 3:29Compassionate Boundary Enforcement — 5:16Realistic Expectations and Self-Connection — 7:20Conclusion and Invitation to Unstucking Academy — 10:14Resources:⬇️ Download the Polyvagal One-Pagers - https://stucknauts.circle.so/c/public_resources/polyvagal-checklist-download-8a9597 Resources:

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Episode 329 talks about how to create unlimited income as a therapist, featuring Liz Fernandez. Listen now!Liz Fernandez is a former Marriage and Family Therapist turned multi-6-figure Business Coach, helping Latina therapists and coaches break free from burnout and build profitable, freedom-filled businesses. As the founder of The Therapist to Coach Collective and host of The Beyond Private Practice Podcast, she teaches women how to ethically market their work, increase their income, and create generational wealth—without the limits of traditional therapy.For full episode show notes, visit here.Watch the full interview on our YouTube channel! Subscribe here.My new book is officially available to buy! Order Financially Lit! Today!Want to join our signature programs? Click here to learn more!Check out this YQD™ Sponsor:BetterHelp—Professional support when you need it, at a fraction of the cost of in-person therapy. Get 10% off your first month with our sponsor: https://betterhelp.com/dinero. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hi everyone! Welcome back to another episode of The Chai on Life Podcast. I'm Alex Segal and today, I have Elisheva Liss, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist on the show. Elisheva works with individuals and couples to help improve their quality of life and relationships — most commonly treating depression, anxiety, relationship problems and anything dealing with intimacy. She has a collaborative approach, which means she looks at her work as a partnership with each client.In this episode, we basically have a mini (or honestly, extended) therapy session about a lot of common issues women may be dealing with in the religious community, outside of it and in the unique time we're living in.As frum Jewish women, we live a beautiful life with holy values. We plan and often host Shabbat meals every week, opening our homes to those who need it. We bake challah, daven, say Tehillim, try to do chesed when we can, often work outside of the home, raise children, try to be a giving and loving wife, find time to learn and grow as people, find time for our own wellbeing and self-care with exercise, preparing healthy meals, maybe even our own therapy, we prepare simchas for our families, make time for friends to nourish ourselves and focus on what's going on in their lives, and so much more — the list goes on.Even just crafting this list — which I'm sure is still missing a lot — shows me just how much we may have on our plates at any given time. So especially when you lean more to the overachieving, perfectionist side of the mental health spectrum, it can often feel like you're not measuring up. We are taught that Hashem gives us time to partner with Hashem in this world, and the worst feeling is to feel like we're not utilizing that potential. How do we know when it's enough? How do we feel okay with just not being able to do it all?So I brought on Elisheva Liss to help me work through this concept. She is a beautiful, well-spoken therapist who actually has her own book called “Find Your Horizon of Healthy Thinking: Hack Your Thoughts and Improve Your Mood” which really was a perfect match for this topic. In our conversation, we speak about the pressures frum women face today, how to feel more comfortable with where we're at in this exact moment and how to use our brains to develop a healthier way of thinking and honestly, enjoy the lives that we're leading.Here, the books she shares in the episode:168 Hours: You Have More Time Than You Think by Laura VanderkamThe Rhythm of Life: Living Every Day with Passion and Purpose by Matthew KellySlowing Down to the Speed of Life — by Richard Carlson and Joseph BaileyBittersweet by Susan CainFollow Elisheva on Instagram here.Join her weekly newsletter here.

At the end of this mini-series, we will host a Q&A episode where Barbara Babcock will answer questions from the community. To submit your question, please visit:https://srna.ngo/submitIn the first part of the “Ask the Expert, Research Edition” mini-series, “Parenting is Hard,” Barbara Babcock discussed the challenges faced by parents raising a child with a rare neuroimmune disorder and the impact on non-diagnosed siblings. Barbara shared her personal journey with transverse myelitis (TM) and how it led her to conduct research on this topic [00:02:20]. She explored themes from her research, highlighting fairness in parenting, and the role of sibling support [00:13:03]. Finally, Barbara emphasized the importance of adapting parenting strategies to balance the needs of all children in the family [00:15:42]. Barbara Babcock works as a Family Therapist in a child and adolescent mental health outpatient unit in the United Kingdom's National Health Service. In her private practice, she works with individuals and couples who are navigating challenging health issues and wish to get their lives back. She obtained her Master of Science in Family Therapy from the Institute of Psychiatry, Psychology, and Neuroscience at King's College London. Barbara also has a Master of Arts in Coaching Psychology/Psychological Coaching and her dissertation research focused on the impact that a systemic approach to coaching has on the wellbeing of adults who have a rare neuroimmune disorder and their primary caregivers. Previously, she was Chair of the Transverse Myelitis Society, from 2013 to 2016, and led their Family Weekend from 2015 to 2019, an event to support families who have a child/adolescent with a rare neuroimmune disorder to discover their potential through challenging outdoor activities. She had transverse myelitis in 2008 and is originally from Pennsylvania, USA. You can contact her at barbara@returntowellness.co.uk and her website is www.returntowellness.co.uk00:00 Introduction01:26 Meet Barbara Babcock: A Journey into Family Therapy02:20 Barbara's Personal Experience with TM03:20 Creating Support Systems for Families06:35 Research Focus: Parenting and Sibling Dynamics13:03 Themes from the Research15:42 The Importance of Fairness and Balance18:38 Challenges and Guilt in Parenting24:33 Conclusion

What happens after the baby arrives—and the real-life weight of marriage kicks in? In this powerful episode of Reed Between The Vows, we're diving into a viral Facebook post that listed 15 truths someone learned after becoming a parent and a spouse. We break it down through the lens of two Christian Marriage & Family Therapists—and a real-life husband and wife who've lived it.From sleepless nights to emotional disconnection, mental load to miscommunication—we unpack the first half of these powerful truths with therapeutic insight, honest storytelling, and biblical encouragement. This is part one of a two-part conversation you don't want to miss.Whether you're a new parent, a couple in the thick of it, or someone still healing from this season—you are seen, you're not alone, and there is a way forward.

Episode 14 brought lots of eavesdropping, name calling, and clashing and to help me sort through that, and add deeper context is my good friend and Marriage & Family Therapist, Janae Tipton, just in time to review Episode 14 of Love Island USA. Check the details below to support us on social media, and check out the creators whose TikTok we shouted out on the episode.Support us on Social Media: Follow Positively Uncensored: https://www.instagram.com/positivelyuncensored/Follow Janae on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janaebreahn/Follow Positively Uncensored on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@positivelyuncensored?lang=enSubscribe to Positively Uncensored on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2hJdY1lWDIFfHXq76Tiqnc?si=69e95fbaa6f744c6Schedule with Janae, Marriage Family Therapist: https://www.doutecounselingservices.com/janae-tipton-mft/Schedule Directly with Janae on her Website: https://www.janaebreahn.com/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaevsHG_Pv26YpizW5nroBqvlHFOAI4ZLK1tneA2siMu6AXR-RXGYeSmkryV5w_aem_ba0HHIW4Kh6KpOkDn0gjjADownload Janae's 'Building Foundations' Workbook: https://www.janaebreahn.com/workbooksDonate to NJ Perinatal Health Equity Initiative: https://givebutter.com/hzoFR5 CREATORS MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE: Ace Content Cal TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marisamusings/video/7516746128126266638?_r=1&_t=ZT-8xLDXUjODNuHuda's Love Island Fantasy ( Cheetah Girl Headband): https://www.tiktok.com/@anna_belise/video/7517437105962781983?_r=1&_t=ZP-8xLDbT8cUgBWildin FR Love Island Commentary: https://www.tiktok.com/@thelastsoda/video/7517087682686668046?_r=1&_t=ZP-8xLDdLTKJfL

Why Hasn't Love Found You Yet & How to Call it In with Katherine Woodard Thomas  Katherine Woodward Thomas is the New York Times bestselling author of Calling in “The One”: 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life and Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After. She is an award winning licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, creator of two Mindvalley Quests and has trained thousands of people as certified relationship coaches of her highly transformative methods. She is also the creator of the acclaimed True You Awakening process and lead teacher of the True You Membership Program.  For more information about Katherine Woodward Thomas, go to: https://callingintheone.com/ For her free digital workshop, Liberated to Love and Be Loved: https://www.kwthomas.com/rewrite-your-love-story For her: Calling in the One book: https://amzn.to/4i9rUVq Learn more about Junie here: https://www.midlifeloveoutloud.com

Hi all! Please keep in mind that this episode was recorded a few months ago, and the intro was recorded early last week. I want to hold space for anyone affected by issues occurring globally - especially for the immigrants that make this country what it is and for fellow Iranians waiting to hear from loved ones as they flee their home.To introduce this week's guest: Dr. Trevino is a Texas-based Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist whose private practice specializes in men's mental well-being and relational therapy. He is also the Director of Clinical Training at Antioch University Seattle's Couple and Family Therapy Program, where he is dedicated to shaping the next generation of mental health professionals. Passionate about breaking down stigma, Dr. Trevino leverages his social media platforms to normalize mental health discussions, encouraging honest and open dialogue that empowers individuals to prioritize their wellness.In this episode, we dive deep into the topic of men's mental health, diverse representation within the mental health field, and cultural stigma around vulnerability and seeking therapy. We explore what it can look like to find the right therapist fit, one that either can resonate with your lived experience or approaches it with genuine curiosity. We also discuss the importance of culturally competent care and the responsibility of therapists to address larger societal issues that impact their clients, rather than avoiding them.FOLLOW DR. TREVINO:INSTA: @dr.zachtrevinoWEBSITE: https://www.ztrevinotherapy.comSTAY CONNECTED:INSTA: @trustandthriveTIKOK: @trustandthriveTHREADS: @trustandthriveFACEBOOK: bit.ly/FBtaramontEMAIL: trustandthrive@gmail.com

In today's episode, host Kelly Higdon is joined by Alicia, a California-based Marriage and Family Therapist breaking new ground with ketamine-assisted psychotherapy (CAP). Alicia shares how she's creatively structured her practice - from one-on-one sessions to dynamic groups and couples intensives - to deliver the most meaningful client outcomes while staying true to her own growth and passions.Tune in as Alicia and Kelly discuss the importance of innovation in a shifting mental health landscape, navigating insurance limitations, and reigniting your own enthusiasm for the work you do. If you're craving inspiration and fresh ideas for your counseling practice, this episode is for you!---Alicia's Website: https://www.ranchocounseling.com/Learn more about Business School for Therapists: news.zynnyme.com/business-school/Website: zynnyme.comBlog: zynnyme.com/blogFacebook: facebook.com/kellyandmirandaInstagram: instagram.com/zynnyme/LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/2456942/Pinterest: pinterest.com/zynnyme/Check out more episodes of the Starting a Counseling Practice Success Stories podcast on these platforms + leave a review letting us know what you think:Apple PodcastsGoogle PodcastsSpotify

Discover why trying to force a change in your polyvagal state might be holding you back from true self-regulation. In this episode, therapist and coach Justin Sunseri challenges the common advice around prescriptive breathing techniques and invites you to connect with your body's natural rhythms instead. Through insights from a live Q&A, learn how mindful awareness and listening to your body can lead to genuine calm, balance, and lasting change—without counting breaths or forcing a state shift.Timestamps:0:00 – Introduction to Inner Balance0:39 – The Power of Natural Breathing2:02 – Critique of Prescriptive Breathing3:53 – Connecting with Your Body's Needs5:03 – The Body's Natural Self-Regulation11:05 – Creating Optimal Conditions for Self-Regulation15:02 – Final Thoughts and InvitationResources:

What's the real difference between “fawn” and “appease”? Therapist Justice Sunseri breaks down these trauma responses, how they relate to Polyvagal Theory, and what it means for recovery. Download the free Polyvagal One Pagers in the description for more resources!00:00 – Episode intro00:51 – Understanding Fawn and Appeasement02:11 – Behavioral Adaptations in Severe Situations03:23 – Appeasement and Social Activation07:53 – Dissociation and Survival Mechanisms11:50 – Recovery and Self-Regulation out of Severe Dissociation15:07 – Episode outro and final thoughtsResources:⬇️ Download the Polyvagal One-Pagers - https://stucknauts.circle.so/c/public_resources/polyvagal-checklist-download-8a9597 Resources:

Guest: Geoff Steurer, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Betrayal Trauma Specialist, and Co-Host of From Crisis to Connection  Episode Summary: In this powerful conversation, Dr. Debi Silber sits down with Geoff Steurer to unpack the deeply layered process of rebuilding trust after betrayal. Whether the betrayal came from infidelity, emotional disconnection, or broken agreements, Geoff explains how couples can not only survive the fallout—but create a completely new, stronger relationship. Drawing from his personal marriage journey and 20+ years of professional experience, Geoff shares the turning point that transformed his own relationship and the essential roadmap he uses with couples navigating the aftermath of betrayal.  You'll hear how full disclosure is not just a confessional but a structured, trauma-informed process that sets the stage for healing. You'll also learn why most traditional couples counseling fails betrayed couples, what real accountability looks like, and how the betrayer can become a source of strength instead of pain.  This episode is a must-listen for anyone considering rebuilding after betrayal—or helping others do the same.   

Happy Day, Friend! In this podcast episode I'm talking about bridging the gap in female and male relational and communication dynamics by covering topics of emotions, embodiment, and expression with my special guest, Dr. Matt Brown. This is part 1 of a 3-part series. Dr. Matt Brown is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, owner of Relate Therapy Houston, and co-host of the podcast The Manspace. He has been working in the mental health field for 20 years and his career has included working as a university professor, researcher, and clinician. He specializes in men's mental and relational health and couples navigating ruptures in trust. He and his wife, Lisa, are the proud parents of three amazing daughters.Podcast Sponsor This episode is brought to you by the Teacher's Resource Intensive, a program created by Gioconda Parker and Sarah Montross. The program is designed to help you return to the source of your own teaching journey. It brings like-minded individuals together as peers to give, share, and receive through yoga practice and study. For more information visits www. sarahmontrossyoga.com BIG favor - I would so appreciate it if you could take a moment to rate and review my show, and while you're at it click the subscribe button so you're alerted when new episodes are released. Remember, take time to pause, breath, and reflect. Until next time, keep shining out there!  ~ Athea Connect with me on IG, FB, X, and LinkedIn: @atheadavis or www.atheadavis.com

Hi everyone, welcome back to another episode of The Chai on Life Podcast. I'm Alex Segal and today we have Rebbetzin Ruthi Lynn on the show. Ruthi is a Marriage and Family therapist. For more than 15 years, she has conducted seminars, lectures and online classes for parents.As a therapist, Ruthi specializes in parenting, teens and relational issues within the family. Her ultimate goal is to help parents have amazing relationships with their kids, to see themselves as leaders to their children and to build the next generation strong, moral and passionate. She is also the mother of 8 kids bli ayin hara so she has a little experience herself in the thick of it.Ruthi has worked closely with Rebbetzin Sima Spetner, the renowned chinuch expert from Eretz Yisrael, and has become a teacher of her work. She was basically like an apprentice and went around Israel with her for years, eventually even taking over some of her classes. Now, she's continuing to bring that wisdom to others.She is running a 10-week seminar based on Rebbetzin Spetner's teachings this summer and it starts tonight, Monday June 16, via Zoom to anyone around the world. To sign up, contact Rivky Weiss at 216-965-4107. If you happen to be listening to this once the class is started, you can still reach out and catch up on the recordings that you missed.In our conversation, Ruthi and I speak about -how she became so connected with Rebbetzin Spetner and what that relationship looked like at that time-How to get back in touch with your intuition when it comes to parenting and why it gets lost for so many of us-How to know when a kid's behavior is important to respond to or you can let go a little bit more-How we can bring Hashem consistently back into our parenting-How Ruthi achieved such a beautiful relationship with her own kids with one of the main things she credits that to-How to get through hectic and changing summer schedules and any upcoming travel you may be taking-What a realistic life looks like when you have multiple children of various ages and genders under one roof…and so much more!This episode is informative, relatable and just so necessary when it comes to all we're dealing with consistently as parents. I hope that Ruthi will help you take some of the pressure off and really allow you to have fun and enjoy the summer with your family. Enjoy!

Today's special guest is Ashlea Taylor Barber, licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and owner of the therapy & consulting practice "Favor & Grace Under Fire" . Part 2 of 2 - Therapy for Black Marriages See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Today's special guest is Ashlea Taylor Barber, licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and owner of the therapy & consulting practice "Favor & Grace Under Fire" . Part 1 of 2 - Therapy for Black Marriages See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dive into Scripture and build the home life you want with the Building A Home Of Godliness And Joy Devotional Workbook.   Episode 253 // Today, I want to offer a few quick ideas on how to make your summer more meaningful - for yourself and for your whole family!   Yes, do the big vacations and the fun events and the special summer things. But summer is also a unique (and perfect!) time for self-reflection. You can continue growing in your walk with the Lord and your family relationships even while enjoying extra sun and vacation time.   These ideas will be fun and encouraging, so let's hop in!   hugs & blessings, Jess   RESOURCES FOR YOU   FREE: Find ALL the freebies! Head to www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com/free   DEVOTIONAL: Dive into Scripture and build the home life you want with the Building A Home Of Godliness And Joy Devotional Workbook.   LISTEN NEXT: How To Ask The Right Questions To Deepen Your Family Relationships: 10 Tips From A Family Therapist (Episode 233)   GET MORE & SUPPORT THE SHOW   NEW in our Patreon community this year - daily(ish) devotionals to encourage your faith and family life: Support the show on Patreon today.   Please leave a 5-star review and share the link to this episode with a friend who needs encouragement today!   FIND EXACTLY THE RESOURCE YOU NEED: Faith | Marriage | Parenting | Emotions | Communication | Home & Family | Freebies | Devotionals | Blog | Pinterest   DISCLAIMERS    I am a licensed therapist in South Carolina, but this podcast is not therapy. I may use affiliate links and earn a small commission if you purchase through my links. Read my full disclaimers here.   MISSION   Love Your People Well is all about helping you ENJOY family life as you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships. Keep Jesus at the center of it all and joy at the center of your days.   Find your resources, devotionals, and more support at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com  

Forest Benedict, LMFT - Porn Is Not the ProblemDivorced: Evangelical ChristianityCW: Frank discussion of porn, sex, and self-pleasureForest Benedict is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California and Washington states who specializes in religious trauma and sexual shame.  Forest began his career as a Christian who was passionate about helping others recover from sex and porn addiction—believing at the time that he was in recovery himself. He became a leading voice in the “anti-pornography movement,” and served as the Clinical Director of a sex addiction treatment program and trained pastors and therapists in a sex addiction certification program.  Since deconverting from Christianity, Forest has dramatically shifted his focus to helping those wounded by religious systems reclaim their sexuality and authentic sense of self. Today, he offers online therapy through his private practice and also works online with Storm Haven Counseling & Wellness in Temecula, California. Forest is active on social media and regularly shares insights through his blog.FIND FOREST: Website: ForestBenedict.com Instagram: @ForestBenedictLMFTFIND JANICE:Janice Selbie's Best-selling book Divorcing Religion: A Memoir and Survival Handbook is now available in the USA https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DP78TZZF and CANADA https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B0DP78TZZFRecordings are available for the Shameless Sexuality: Life After Purity Culture conference 2025! Get your Resource Ticket now: https://www.shamelesssexuality.org/Religious Trauma Survivor Support Group is happening on Tuesdays at 5pm Pacific and Thursdays at 6pm Eastern (starting April 17). Don't miss this opportunity to connect with others for healing and support: https://www.divorcing-religion.com/servicesNeed help on your journey of healing from Religious Trauma? Book a free 20-minute consultation with Janice here: https://www.divorcing-religion.com/servicesFollow Janice and Divorcing Religion on Social Media:Threads: Wisecounsellor@threads.netBlueSky: @janiceselbie.bsky.socialFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DivorcingReligionTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@janiceselbieInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/wisecounsellor/Subscribe to the audio-only version here: https://www.divorcing-religion.com/religious-trauma-podcastThe Divorcing Religion Podcast is for entertainment purposes only. If you need help with your mental health, please consult a qualified, secular, mental health clinician.Support the show

Meaningful relationships are mutual. Balanced with give and take, equal influence between partners, and a vibrant dance of loving responsiveness and caring attention.Marriage and Family Therapist and professor Dr. Jessica ChenFeng is calling us toward a more justice-oriented approach to relationships and to mental health and well-being, She invites us to open-hearted and empathic perspective taking, and seeking an integrated wholeness that incorporates all of who we are—highlighting the gift of mutuality in our most intimate relationships in marriage and family life.In this conversation with Jessica ChenFeng, we discuss:The importance of integrated and whole experience of ourselves—allowing racial, gender, and cultural identities to weave together in our sense of vocation and contribution to the worldThe importance of mutuality in relationships—but particularly in marriage and family systems.The ways emotional power flows in a relationship and impacts marriage and family dynamicsThe difference between partners focusing on meeting their individual needs and caring for the health of an intimate relationshipAnd she offers a guided practical exercise to help us lovingly notice and accept our inner experience with a heart open to justice, vulnerability, and the reminder that we are beloved in the eyes of God.Episode Highlights"Systems of power harm everyone—and to live life to the full, we have to see each other fully.""I believe our move toward life to the full requires us to see the world through a third-order lens: not just family systems, but the racial, gender, and societal systems they exist within.""Mutuality means not just expressing our needs but being willing to be changed by the needs of others.""If we're not attuned to the pleasant sensations in our bodies, we miss the invitations to thrive.""Cultural norms are not God-given realities; they are social constructs we are invited to discern and transform.""Knowledge without authentic relationship keeps us from truly seeing the embodied experiences of others."Helpful Links and ResourcesCheck out the programs in Marriage & Family Therapy at Fuller School of Psychology www.fuller.edu/school-of-psychology/Fuller Asian American Center aac.fuller.edu/Socio-Emotional Relationship Therapy (SERT) OverviewCircle of Care Model ExplainedPositive Psychology and EmotionsJeanne Tsai's Research on Culture and EmotionAsian American Values Scale ReferenceRace and Trauma ResourcesJeanne Tsai's research on culture and emotion – Stanford SPARQJohn and Julie Gottman Relationship ResearchAsian American Values Scale – Paniagua & Yamada (Academic resource)Show NotesJessica ChenFeng shares her "yes and" identity as a second-generation Taiwanese American grounded in both math and creativity.How earthy aesthetics and connection to nature shape Jessica's professional and personal flourishing.The integration of Christian faith with clinical work at Fuller Seminary."Seeing systems of systems" — why thriving requires understanding how race, gender, and cultural forces shape individuals and families.Introduction to socio-emotional relationship therapy (SERT) and the value of mutuality in relationships.Defining mutuality: mutual attunement, mutual influence, mutual vulnerability, and mutual relational responsibility."Mutuality asks: Are both people tending to the relationship itself?"Practical signs of mutual and non-mutual relationships, including emotional attunement and willingness to be influenced.The importance of humility and relational awareness in building mutual relationships.The Circle of Care model: cultivating healthy relational dynamics through attunement and responsiveness.Discerning relational power dynamics in marriages, friendships, and work relationships."Thriving is an open heart, even on a stressful day."How emotional self-control in Asian American cultures is often rooted in relational ethics, not personal repression.The risk and gift of navigating cross-generational emotional communication in immigrant families.Differentiated selfhood: balancing authenticity with cultural respect in relational dynamics.Race, culture, and relational healing: why systems of privilege harm everyone."Love your neighbor as yourself" as an ethic for mutual flourishing across racial and cultural difference.Building trust by leaning into discomfort and courageous conversations.The need for embodied encounters with real people beyond theories of race and difference.Mindfulness practice: Jessica leads a guided exercise in attuning to pleasant sensations in the body.The transformational power of positive emotions and embodiment for creativity and resilience.The relational impact of systemic racialization and why "colorblindness" fails to honor real lived experience.Final reflections: How knowing who we are through systemic and relational lenses allows deeper thriving.Pam King's Key TakeawaysEach of us in the human family is a beloved child of God—and we need to continue to shape society to reflect this foundational truth.The path to meaning and fulfillment in a relationship starts with noticing and acknowledging the flow of emotional power, and its destination is mutuality and humilityThriving means incorporating all of who we are—our heritage and histories especially—into our love of ourselves, our love of others, and love of God.Our intimate relationships need care and attention as a third reality beyond our selves and our partners.And finally, thriving means opening our hearts each day, connecting our inner and relational realities, and learning to love patiently the multitudes we all contain.About Jessica ChenFengDr. Jessica ChenFeng is Associate Professor at the School of Psychology & Marriage and Family Therapy at Fuller Seminary, and is also Director of the Asian American Well-being Collaboratory at Fuller's Asian American Center. Prior to her time at Fuller she was a professor at Loma Linda University and California State University, Northridge.Jessica is known for her clinical expertise and scholarship integrating socio-contextual lenses of race, gender, and generation into work with minoritized individuals, families, and communities. In the last few years, her primary clinical focus has been the well-being of physicians, especially through pandemic-related trauma and burnout. She's co-authored two books, Finding Your Voice as a Beginning Marriage and FamilyTherapist, as well as Asian American Identities, Relationships, and Cultural Legacies: Reflections from Marriage and Family Therapists. She received the 2022 American Family Therapy Academy Early Career Award. About the Thrive CenterLearn more at thethrivecenter.org.Follow us on Instagram @thrivecenterFollow us on X @thrivecenterFollow us on LinkedIn @thethrivecenter About Dr. Pam KingDr. Pam King is Executive Director the Thrive Center and is Peter L. Benson Professor of Applied Developmental Science at Fuller School of Psychology & Marriage and Family Therapy. Follow her @drpamking. About With & ForHost: Pam KingSenior Director and Producer: Jill WestbrookOperations Manager: Lauren KimSocial Media Graphic Designer: Wren JuergensenConsulting Producer: Evan RosaSpecial thanks to the team at Fuller Studio and the Fuller School of Psychology & Marriage and Family Therapy.

Kate Alcamo is a Licensed Clinical Marriage & Family Therapist and founder of Family Therapy Center of Bethesda and Fairwinds Counseling Group where she provides therapy to teens and adults around issues of anxiety, relationships, and divorce. Kate is also a trained Collaborative Divorce professional and serves as Child Specialist in Collaborative cases. She has extensive experience working with children and families around issues of separation, divorce, and blended families.Hallie is a licensed psychologist in private practice in Bethesda. Hallie frequently works in the divorce realm, as a custody evaluator, mediator, parent coordinator, parent coach, and therapist. Additionally, Hallie also provides individual therapy to adults through psychodynamically informed therapy. She also acts in an evaluative capacity for a number of local agencies (social security disability, international adoptions, various forensic evaluations).Learn more at:https://www.thecoparentcollective.com/Follow them on IG @thecoparentcollectivehttps://www.instagram.com/thecoparentcollective/Follow Robin on Insight Timer:https://insighttimer.com/robinsmith--Become a supporter on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/therobinsmithshowGet in touch: robinsmithshow@gmail.comCall the hotline: +1 (301) 458-0883Got a question? We'd love to hear from you!

Kimberly Haar tells her personal story of surviving domestic violence, plus shares helpful information on how to heal from life's deepest hurts.  Note:  Kim is a Licensed Professional Counselor & Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.  Guest information:  www.kimberlyhaar.com  Our website:  www.oasisnetwork.org

Dr. Deborah Vinall joins the podcast today to discuss schizophrenia, trauma, mental health, and her two most recent books, Gaslighting and Trauma Recovery Workbook for Teens. Dr. Vinall is a trauma expert and author who holds a Doctor of Psychology and works as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. She currently runs a private practice in Los Angeles where she specializes in helping individuals heal from traumatic life experiences and painful relationship dynamics. In this conversation, we cover: When and how gaslighting occurs. The importance of recognizing mental health issues in gaslighters. Different types of cognitive distortions and how to treat them. How trauma typically manifests in people's lives. How does Dr. Vinall help people heal, cultivate self-compassion, and build meaningful connections in holistic and sustainable ways? Join us now to explore her transformative approach – and gain valuable insights into reclaiming empowerment and fostering resilience. Learn more about Dr. Vinall and her work by visiting her website! Episode also available on Apple Podcasts: http://apple.co/30PvU9

Picture yourself staring in the mirror at 3 AM, promising yourself that tomorrow will be different, while that familiar voice whispers "you're weak" and "what's wrong with you?" If this sounds familiar, you need to hear this episode. Host Duane Osterlind delivers a solo episode that completely destroys the most dangerous myth about addiction - that it's a moral failing or character flaw. As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who has personally walked through addiction, Duane brings both professional expertise and lived experience to this life-changing conversation. This isn't another "just try harder" message. Instead, Duane shares groundbreaking brain science that proves addiction is a chronic brain disorder, not a weakness. You'll discover how your brain's reward system gets hijacked, why willpower alone isn't enough, and why shame actually makes recovery harder. Drawing from leading researchers like Dr. Gabor Maté, Dr. Nora Volkow, and Dr. Anna Lembke, Duane explains the three stages of addiction and how genetics, environment, and brain chemistry all play crucial roles. More importantly, he provides practical steps to move from shame to self-compassion. If you've ever felt broken, weak, or alone in your struggle with addiction, this episode will give you a new understanding of what you're really dealing with - and hope for genuine healing. You'll learn why connection is the opposite of addiction and how curiosity can replace judgment in your recovery journey. This episode includes a free worksheet called "Reframing Your Addiction Story" to help you put these insights into practice immediately. Download The Worksheet Key Topics Addiction as Brain Disease - Understanding the neurological changes that occur in addiction  The Shame Cycle - How moral failure myths keep people trapped in addiction  Brain Science Breakdown - Dopamine, prefrontal cortex, and the three stages of addiction  Genetics vs. Choice - Why addiction risk is 40-60% genetic  Self-Compassion Practices - Practical steps to move from shame to healing  Connection as Medicine - Why isolation feeds addiction and relationships heal  Rewriting Your Story - Separating who you are from what you've done Timestamps [00:01:00] - The 3 AM mirror moment: Breaking the shame cycle  [00:03:00] - What addiction really is: Brain disorder vs. moral failing  [00:05:00] - How your brain gets hijacked: The dopamine flood explained  [00:06:00] - Historical perspective: From moral failing to medical condition  [00:08:00] - The damage of shame: Why stigma makes addiction worse  [00:10:00] - Practical healing steps: Self-compassion and education  [00:12:00] - Recovery is possible: Brains heal and neural pathways rewire If you live in California, Idaho, Virginia, or Florida and are looking for counseling or therapy, please visit Novus Mindful Life Counseling and Recovery Center. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠NovusMindfulLife.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ We want to hear from you. Please leave us a message or ask us a question: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/addictedmind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Disclaimer⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Picture yourself staring in the mirror at 3 AM, promising yourself that tomorrow will be different, while that familiar voice whispers "you're weak" and "what's wrong with you?" If this sounds familiar, you need to hear this episode. Host Duane Osterlind delivers a solo episode that completely destroys the most dangerous myth about addiction - that it's a moral failing or character flaw. As a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who has personally walked through addiction, Duane brings both professional expertise and lived experience to this life-changing conversation. This isn't another "just try harder" message. Instead, Duane shares groundbreaking brain science that proves addiction is a chronic brain disorder, not a weakness. You'll discover how your brain's reward system gets hijacked, why willpower alone isn't enough, and why shame actually makes recovery harder. Drawing from leading researchers like Dr. Gabor Maté, Dr. Nora Volkow, and Dr. Anna Lembke, Duane explains the three stages of addiction and how genetics, environment, and brain chemistry all play crucial roles. More importantly, he provides practical steps to move from shame to self-compassion. If you've ever felt broken, weak, or alone in your struggle with addiction, this episode will give you a new understanding of what you're really dealing with - and hope for genuine healing. You'll learn why connection is the opposite of addiction and how curiosity can replace judgment in your recovery journey. This episode includes a free worksheet called "Reframing Your Addiction Story" to help you put these insights into practice immediately. Download The Worksheet Key Topics Addiction as Brain Disease - Understanding the neurological changes that occur in addiction  The Shame Cycle - How moral failure myths keep people trapped in addiction  Brain Science Breakdown - Dopamine, prefrontal cortex, and the three stages of addiction  Genetics vs. Choice - Why addiction risk is 40-60% genetic  Self-Compassion Practices - Practical steps to move from shame to healing  Connection as Medicine - Why isolation feeds addiction and relationships heal  Rewriting Your Story - Separating who you are from what you've done Timestamps [00:01:00] - The 3 AM mirror moment: Breaking the shame cycle  [00:03:00] - What addiction really is: Brain disorder vs. moral failing  [00:05:00] - How your brain gets hijacked: The dopamine flood explained  [00:06:00] - Historical perspective: From moral failing to medical condition  [00:08:00] - The damage of shame: Why stigma makes addiction worse  [00:10:00] - Practical healing steps: Self-compassion and education  [00:12:00] - Recovery is possible: Brains heal and neural pathways rewire If you live in California, Idaho, Virginia, or Florida and are looking for counseling or therapy, please visit Novus Mindful Life Counseling and Recovery Center. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠NovusMindfulLife.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ We want to hear from you. Please leave us a message or ask us a question: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/addictedmind⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Disclaimer⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy Pride month to all! Sending love to those who haven't had the safe space, resources, or support to show up authentically. I see you and am so glad you exist. This episode contains clips from past episodes, discussing LGBTQ+ mental health, queer self-expression, transgender health, body libation, non-binary representation, intersecting identifies, and more. I've included the original episodes below, along with links to the guests' social media accounts.81: A Conversation on Black LGBTQ+ Mental Health - with Josh Odam, Founder of Healing While Black - (@josh.odam)127: Gender Identity & Non-Binary Representation - with Chris Sheridan, Psychotherapist & Founder of The Queer Therapist - (@theqtherapist)128: Trans Health & Body Liberation - with Dr. Sand Chang, Licensed Psychologist & Gender Specialist (@heydrsand)220: LGBTQ+ Mental Health & Self-Expression - with Luis Cornejo, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist (@luis_thee_lmft)STAY CONNECTED:INSTA: @trustandthriveTIKOK: @trustandthriveEMAIL: trustandthrive@gmail.com 

Feeling stuck in old patterns or chronic anxiety? In this episode, you'll hear Janie's inspiring story of moving from a lifelong freeze state to genuine connection and safety. Discover how she overcame emotional numbness, built meaningful relationships, and found practical ways to feel more at ease in her own body. You'll learn:⌲ Real-life strategies for getting "unstuck" and building safety in your nervous system⌲ The power of co-regulation and supportive community⌲ How small, consistent steps can lead to big changes in your sense of calm and confidenceResources:

We kicked off the program with four news stories and different guests on the stories we think you need to know about!Lowell Summer Music Series Set To Kick Off The 35th Season – Produced by the Lowell Festival Foundation, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit. With James MacDonald – Lowell Music Series Director.AAA Travel's Money-Saving Hacks for Summer Trips - ways to save on both big-ticket items and the smaller purchases that can quickly add up. With Mark Schieldrop – AAA Senior Spokesperson.Study reveals decline in mental health among US mothers… Only 25% of moms report "excellent" mental health, down from 38% in 2016. A 64% increase in mothers reporting fair/poor health. With Christi Taylor Jones - Marriage & Family Therapist & author of "Touched by Suicide: A Personal and Psychological Perspective on the Longing for Death and Rebirth".Rare 1-in-30-million orange lobster is found at The Union Oyster House in Boston! The Restaurant donates it to a NH Aquarium! With Rico DiFronzo - Executive Chef at the Union Oyster House.Listen to WBZ NewsRadio on the NEW iHeart Radio app and be sure to set WBZ NewsRadio as your #1 preset!

Happy Day, Friend! In this podcast episode I'm talking about bridging the gap in female and male relational and communication dynamics by covering topics of emotions, embodiment, and expression with my special guest, Dr. Matt Brown. This is part 1 of a 3-part series. Dr. Matt Brown is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, owner of Relate Therapy Houston, and co-host of the podcast The Manspace. He has been working in the mental health field for 20 years and his career has included working as a university professor, researcher, and clinician. He specializes in men's mental and relational health and couples navigating ruptures in trust. He and his wife, Lisa, are the proud parents of three amazing daughters.Podcast SponsorThe Yoga Triangle is a female-founded brand committed to fostering inclusive, accessible, and innovative growth by creating spaces that empower every individual. Their flagship product, the Yoga Triangle, is an innovative upgrade on traditional yoga blocks, boasting over 68 uses and counting. Designed for accessibility and adaptability, the Yoga Triangle seamlessly integrates yoga, fitness, foam rolling, and myofascial release, overcoming the limitations of outdated equipment with a forward-thinking mindset and technologist expertise.Guided by their mission to collaborate with engaged and forward-thinking partners, The Yoga Triangle offers workshops, teacher training, and comprehensive online resources that support adaptive movement practices for yogis, bodyworkers, and wellness professionals alike. Founded by Amanda Field, an AI brand developer and business analyst, we blend technological insight with a passion for mindful movement to ensure our products and trainings promote growth and wellness for all. Join them in transforming how the world moves, heals, and connects through The Yoga Triangle.Website: www.theyogatriangle.comYouTube: @YogaTriangleEmail: info@theyogatriangle.comDiscount: Athea10 (case sensitive)BIG favor - I would so appreciate it if you could take a moment to rate and review my show, and while you're at it click the subscribe button so you're alerted when new episodes are released. Remember, take time to pause, breath, and reflect. Until next time, keep shining out there!  ~ Athea Connect with me on IG, FB, X, and LinkedIn: @atheadavis or www.atheadavis.com

Shownotes The difference between secure attachment and secure functioning Why a deep desire for love is underneath all attachment styles How shared purpose in your relationship brings you closer Why you have to become a whisperer for your partner One of Dr. Tatkin's top ways to create safety for your partner The biggest mistake people make in modern dating Bio Dr. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT is a clinician, author, researcher, PACT developer, co-founder of the PACT Institute and an assistant clinical professor at UCLA, David Geffen School of Medicine. He also teaches and supervises family medicine residents at Kaiser Permanente, Woodland Hills, CA. He maintains a private practice in Southern California and leads PACT programs in the US and internationally. Dr Tatkin is the author of In Each Other's Care, We Do, Wired for Love, Your Brain on Love, Relationship Rx, Wired for Dating, What Every Therapist Ought to Know, co-author of Love and War in Intimate Relationships and co-author of Baby Bomb. Dr. Tatkin received his early training in developmental self and object relations (Masterson Institute), Gestalt, psychodrama, and family systems theory. His private practice specialized for some time in treating adolescents and adults with personality disorders. More recently, his interests turned to psycho-neurobiological theories of human relationship and applying principles of early mother-infant attachment to adult romantic relationships. Dr. Tatkin was clinical director of Charter Hospital's intensive outpatient drug and alcohol program and is a former president of the California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists, Ventura County chapter.  He is a veteran member of Allan N. Schore's study group. He also trained in the Adult Attachment Interview by way of Mary Main and Erik Hesse's program through UC Berkeley. Timestamps 00:00:43 - Guest introduction 00:03:58 - The difference between secure attachment and secure functioning 00:06:00 - How to find compassion for an anxious or avoidant 00:09:59 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at ⁠LaylaMartin.com⁠ 00:11:49 - Layla describes an avoidant's experience as a baby 00:13:19 - Why a deep desire for love is underneath all attachment styles 00:16:17 - Attachment isn't personality, it's memory 00:21:49 - Plan for your devils, not your angels 00:25:43 - How shared purpose in your relationship brings you closer 00:26:54 - Discover the ⁠VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification⁠  00:33:32 - Dr. Tatkin's advice for the moments you see your partner as an enemy 00:37:27 - Discover ⁠MOOD™ Sex Magic⁠ 00:38:20 - What do you secretly put in front of your relationship? 00:45:48 - Why you have to become a whisperer for your partner 00:46:53 - How to learn to take care of your partner's nervous system 00:49:14 - Fall in love with your body and unlock outrageous orgasms with ⁠Obliss⁠ 00:50:50 - One of Dr. Tatkin's top ways to create safety for your partner 00:54:05 - Why apologizing can subconsciously feel like weakness 00:57:11 - Dr. Tatkin explains the details of “The Couple Bubble” 01:00:34 - What Dr. Tatkin sees that the happiest long term couples do 01:03:50 - Insecures don't believe there's such a thing as fairness and justice 01:05:44 - The biggest mistake people make in modern dating 01:08:07 - Dr. Tatkin celebrates his wife and his relationship 01:11:55 - Secure functioning is very hard but it's worth it 01:12:00 - Conclusion