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Unterschiedliche Bedürfnisse beim Sex können in Partnerschaften zu Frust führen. In dieser Folge unseres Ehe-Podcasts erfährst Du: • Warum Paare oft unterschiedlich starke Libidos haben • Praktische Tipps für mehr Harmonie im Liebesleben • Warum Euer Sex es wert sein muss, gewollt zu sein • Wie Du konstruktiv mit abweichenden Bedürfnissen umgehst • Strategien, um Lust statt Frust in Deine Beziehung zu bringen Egal ob Sex täglich oder monatlich - wir helfen Dir, eine bessere Balance für Deine Partnerschaft und eine erfüllte Liebesbeziehung zu finden.
Mismatched libidos is a topic somatic sexologist Lillie Brown gets asked about A LOT. She discusses factors that might be dampening your libido and how to manage the mismatched issue with your partner. WANT MORE FROM LILLIE? To hear today's full interview, where she discusses how to get out of your head during foreplay ...search for Extra Healthy-ish wherever you get your pods. Catch Lillie @sexwithlillie or on TikTok here, or via her site here. For more on the Body+Soul 2024 Sex Census see here. WANT MORE BODY + SOUL? Online: Head to bodyandsoul.com.au for your daily digital dose of health and wellness. On social: Via Instagram at @bodyandsoul_au or Facebook. Or, TikTok here. Got an idea for an episode? DM host Felicity Harley on Instagram @felicityharley. In print: Each Sunday, grab Body+Soul inside The Sunday Telegraph (NSW), the Sunday Herald Sun (Victoria), The Sunday Mail (Queensland), Sunday Mail (SA) and Sunday Tasmanian (Tasmania). See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah dives into the rejection-pressure-avoidance cycle that so many couples face when there's a difference in libido. She breaks down why forcing yourself to have sex just to please your partner can actually harm your desire even more, and shares what you should do instead. Learn how to explore your own pleasure, build security in your relationship beyond sex, and create deeper intimacy, even when your libido levels differ.
We're covering all things libido with sex therapist (and libido expert) Dr. Emily Jamea. We chat about: What libido is and isn't The difference between libido, sex drive, and desire What a "normal" libido looks like Why low libido isn't inherently bad How to navigate mismatched libidos in a relationship Common libido myths What can negatively impact your libido [Episode 138 on Youtube] Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Welcome to the Summer Lovin' Series, where we are taking some of the most beloved episodes and bringing you a mix of equipping you with a mix of mindset, mentoring and practicals to help you see the goodness of God in your bedroom and your body. What do I do if I have a higher drive than my husband? What should I do if my sex drive seems non-existent? Today's episode is a fresh perspective and discussion as we unpack sexual desire and high and low libidos, which happens to be one of the most frequently asked questions. Education and understanding can lead to celebration, therefore let's discuss the sexual response cycle, spontaneous desire vs. responsive desire and factors that contribute to seasons of higher/lower seasons of spontaneous desire. Let's get equipped and be encouraged as we seek to see sex and connection through a fresh lens. Keep learning with Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God's heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God's heart for sex. Learn more here: The Circle 101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you're newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You'll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you've received over the years. Learn more here. Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here. Connect with Francie: Receive Francie's weekly newsletter
I'm very excited about today's episode today! We get to address a lot of juicy topics, such as the following: a reluctant wife feeling pressure to give her husband a hand job a couple that wants to try pegging, but is unsure about it a frustrated wife that feels like all the effort she's making to improve her marriage is one sided and feels a lot of pain because of that a husband shares that the pain of being in a low intimacy marriage, where either fight about sex or have none at all, and he's tired of it a couple asks about using penis rings a frustrated wife, whose husband is only interested in sex if he's the one initiating (which is unfortunately really infrequent) a discouraged wife that must resort to using a vibrator in order to orgasm when penetrative manual oral stimulation is preferred These are real questions on the hearts of many of you listeners, and I am humbled that you would trust me with your most perplexing questions relating to sexual intimacy in your marriage. I'm on a mission to help you have the very best sexual and intimate marriage possible. And I hope that the discussion today spurs deeper conversations within you and your marriage. If you have a question you'd like to submit anonymously for me to address in a future podcast episode, fill out the form here, and that comes straight to me. Resources mentioned in today's episode: Episode 194: “Is this ok for us to do?” Seeking God's Direction In Your Sex Life Episode 87: Healing From Pornography with Zach & Darcy Spafford Get Your Marriage On Program Intimately Us App FREE TRAINING: How to Become One: Overcoming obstacles to intimacy and significantly improving sex and connection in your marriage, in 90 days or less Couples Retreat in St. George, UT, October 10-13 Retreat testimonial videos You can find links to all these and more at our website: getyourmarriageon.com
This is an episode that both the high desire and low desire spouse (every couple) is going to want to listen to. As many of you know, Nick is a high desire spouse, and Amy is a low desire spouse, yet they have a great sex life. In this episode Nick puts Amy on the spot and she answers all the important questions about how she (as a lower desire spouse) makes sexual intimacy a priority, and she also shares the things high desire husbands need to know about their low desire wife.If you are looking to better understand how you can still enjoy sexual intimacy with different Libidos, and the things you need to know about your low libido wife, then this episode is a must listen to.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, addresses various complexities when navigating libido mismatch. She offers easily implemented advice and practical strategies for nurturing emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy in long-term relationships. Dr. Alexandra emphasizes the importance of emotional intimacy and relaxation as prerequisites for a fulfilling sexual relationship and answers listener questions about mismatched sexual desires and the challenges of intimate time with adult children around. Learn how to resensitize your clitoris and discover ways to carve out safe, private spaces that allow your intimate connections to thrive, ensuring a vibrant marital bond despite inconveniences and constraints. Also in this episode: Emotional intimacy acts as a cornerstone for rekindling sexual desire in long-term relationships. Establish deliberate, scheduled private time to address intimacy barriers related to children or other adult relatives living at home. Balancing individual sensual pleasure practices significantly improves overall relationship satisfaction. Effective communication about needs and vulnerabilities fosters deeper emotional and physical connection between partners. Timestamps: 0:06 - Deepening Emotional, Sensual, and Erotic Intimacy in Relationships 3:35 - Balancing Emotional and Sexual Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships 14:41 - Transform Your Relationship with the Aligned and Hot Marriage Program 18:09 - Navigating Intimacy With Adult Children at Home 24:31 - Reawakening Clitoral Sensitivity Without Toys 30:20 - Enhancing Intimacy and Passion in Marriage Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, addresses various complexities when navigating libido mismatch. She offers easily implemented advice and practical strategies for nurturing emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy in long-term relationships. Dr. Alexandra emphasizes the importance of emotional intimacy and relaxation as prerequisites for a fulfilling sexual relationship and answers listener questions about mismatched sexual desires and the challenges of intimate time with adult children around. Learn how to resensitize your clitoris and discover ways to carve out safe, private spaces that allow your intimate connections to thrive, ensuring a vibrant marital bond despite inconveniences and constraints. Also in this episode: Emotional intimacy acts as a cornerstone for rekindling sexual desire in long-term relationships. Establish deliberate, scheduled private time to address intimacy barriers related to children or other adult relatives living at home. Balancing individual sensual pleasure practices significantly improves overall relationship satisfaction. Effective communication about needs and vulnerabilities fosters deeper emotional and physical connection between partners. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
DB sits down with Cody Daigle-Orians, creator of Ace Dad Advice, to discuss good queer representation and bust common myths and misconceptions about asexuality. They also delve into a recent article in The New York Times about sexless marriages, and answer a listener question on navigating relationships with differing sex drives! Want more ace content? Listen to our previous episode Asexuality with Daniel Walker! Cody Daigle-Orians is a writer an asexuality educator. They are the creator of Ace Dad Advice, a social-media based asexuality education project that helps asexual folks and those who are questioning live their best ace lives. Their first book, I AM ACE, is out now and their second book THE ACE AND ARO RELATIONSHIP GUIDE comes out in October. —— Do you have a silly sex story to share, need some advice, or have thoughts on the episode you just heard? Send us a voicemail for a chance to be featured on the podcast! —— Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdbTwitter : @sexedwithdbThreads: @sexedwithdbpodcast YouTube: Sex Ed with DB Rep your favorite sex ed podcast with our brand new merch! Sign up for our newsletter with BTS content and exclusive giveaways here. Are you a sexual health professional? Check out DB's workshop: Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand. Want to get in touch with Sex Ed with DB? Email us at sexedwithdb@gmail.com. —— Sex Ed with DB, Season 10 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den, Uberlube, and Magic Wand. Get discounts on all of DB's favorite things here! —— About Sex Ed with DB: Sex Ed with DB is a feminist podcast bringing you all the sex ed you never got through unique and entertaining storytelling, centering LGBTQ+ and BIPOC experts. We discuss topics such as birth control, pleasure, LGBTQ+ health and rights, abortion, consent, BDSM, sex and disability, HIV, sex in the media, and more. —— Sex Ed with DB, Season 10 Team: Creator, Host, Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) Producer: Sadie Lidji Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen Marketing Coordinator: Mitch Coburn Social Media Coordinator: Emm-Kirsty Fraser
Elle and Vee chat with Bridget Scholes (@bridgetscholessexology) who is a sexologist in Australia. She also owns her on dildo sex company, Madame Dahlia (@madame.dahlia).Being sexually attracted to others while married. (2:03)Healthy sex life in marriage and now divorced. (8:14)Using the lifestyle app Feeld to meet partners and always saying yes. (11:43)Sex club tips and lessons learned. (14:31)Going to sex clubs alone vs with a partner. (18:28)ENM nuggets: fostering communication, honesty and self reflection. (23:35)If a previously discussed boundary feels right in the moment, should you push it? (26:40)Common issues brought up in couples relationship therapy: reigniting desire in a longterm relationship, and the misconception of mismatched libidos. (28:13)How do partners with mismatched libidos navigate a conversation to get on the same page? (31:29)Pleasure languages, spontaneous vs responsive desire... or in other words, an Ellle vs a Vee. (34:07)Books that have helped on a personal sexual level and journey into non monogamy: Polysecure, Come As You Are, Mating in Captivity and other self help books. (36:46)Seducing yourself: Madame Dahlia dildo company, connected pleasure vs vibrator play. (40:45)Ebbs and flows of sex and how to get out of your head. (45:04)How to foster desire: sensual and simple pleasures. (48:58)Using social media to look at erotic art. (53:50)How male orgasms differ physiologically from female orgasms. (57:12)Kink: turned on by pee play / piss play. (59:49)Letting go of the messiness of sex, and dissociation from masturbation. (1:02:18)Website: bridgetscholessexology.com.auWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
Rusty and Heather tackle a common challenge many couples face - differing levels of sexual desire within the marriage. A listener from North Carolina writes in asking for advice on how to handle the situation when one spouse has a higher libido than the other. Giving insight from their own journey toward sexual fulfillment, Rusty and Heather provide a compassionate and practical perspective on this sensitive topic. They emphasize that mismatched libidos are extremely normal and almost every couple experiences this to some degree. The key is managing the differences through open communication, mutual understanding, and a willingness to serve each other in this area. Ask Us Anything
Ever wonder how mismatched libidos can impact a marriage and what you can do about it? In this episode of the TPM Show, Doug Holt delves into the common but rarely discussed issue of the "desire gap" in relationships. Discover how differences in sexual desire between partners can strain a marriage and the practical, actionable strategies that can help bridge this gap. Doug shares personal anecdotes and professional insights on the dynamics of desire, revealing why connection is crucial for intimacy. He discusses the impact of schedules, stress, and biological rhythms on sexual health and offers tips on how to synchronize your sexual relationship with your partner. From scheduling sex dates to understanding each other's needs and fostering open communication, this episode is packed with advice to help you enhance intimacy and strengthen your relationship. Join Doug as he explores how to turn a challenging situation into an opportunity for growth and deeper connection in your marriage. Don't miss out on these insights! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.
Taboo to Truth: Unapologetic Conversations About Sexuality in Midlife
In this episode, I'm opening up about a topic that's often whispered about but rarely spoken out loud: mismatched libidos. I'll share with you my thoughts and experiences on the lack of sexual desire—whether it's something that can be revived or an intrinsic part of someone's being. I talk abut strategies for finding what gets you in the mood, and how to communicate these needs to your partner. Whether it's setting a romantic scene or experimenting with new forms of foreplay, finding the key to your desire can be a rewarding journey. Let's get comfortable and start the conversation on making our sex lives as fulfilling as they can be. ************************************************************* Have a burning question or topic suggestion? karen@taboototruth.com https://www.taboototruth.com/ https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth https://www.tiktok.com/@taboototruth Youtube @taboototruthpodcast *this podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your medical provider. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/taboototruth/message
How to enjoy intimacy again after a miscarriage? How to handle mismatched libidos in long term relationships? And getting turned off by messy sex.
Today we have listener questions addressing how much "maintenance sex" should a couple be having? One husband wants to know how to confront his wife about her lack of drive. Another wife feels like she is married to an unwilling spouse and feels hopeless, let's discuss. BlueChew: Get your first month supply free by going to bluechew.com and using code "housewife" at checkout. Butter Wellness: Use code "housewife" to get 20% off the Personal Massager at butterwellness.com ASK ANON @ www.thehornyhousewifepodcast.com shop new merch @ www.THHmerch.com Follow me on instagram: @_thehornyhousewifepodcast
A new, first of its kind study has revealed a link between women who experience long covid and a decrease in their sexual health. We know so much about how the coronavirus impacted other areas of our health, but this study finally looks at the impact of COVID-19 on 6 key sexual health areas in women, finding those who had contracted covid were more likely to be experiencing sexual disfunction. So can we do anything about it? How do we discuss it with our doctors and why is the world in general having less sex in 2024? The Quicky team investigates the link between covid and our low libidos Want to try our new exercise app? Click here to start a seven day free trial of MOVE by Mamamia. Subscribe to Mamamia GET IN TOUCH Feedback? We're listening! Call the pod phone on 02 8999 9386 or email us at podcast@mamamia.com.au CONTACT US Got a topic you'd like us to cover? Send us an email at thequicky@mamamia.com.au CREDITS Host: Claire Murphy With thanks to: Amelia M. Stanton, Ph.D - Assistant Professor at the Dept. of Psychological & Brain Sciences, Boston University Producer: Claire Murphy Executive Producer: Kally Borg Audio Producer: Jacob RoundBecome a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Mindful Healers Podcast with Dr. Jessie Mahoney and Dr. Ni-Cheng Liang
Do you and your partner have different levels of sexual desire? Do libido differences cause tension in your relationship? Do you feel guilt, blame or shame about your desire for sex? Studies show that a lack of interest in sex is by far the most common and distressing sexual problem. When sex suffers, so do all other areas of life. The brain is our most powerful sex organ." Take a listen to Episode 88 with Dr. Kelly Casperson to learn more. As such, mindfulness and coaching are key to finding solutions to different sexual desires in long-term relationships. They help you cultivate desire, increase sexual pleasure, and find connection and joy. Listen to this episode to hear approaches to navigating differing levels of sexual desires with mindful love. In brief: Show up with compassion for yourself and your partner Notice the differences without judgment Set an intention to stay out of blame, shame, and guilt Set an intention for connection Accept and allow and/or accept and not like that you and your partner are different in this moment in time Have patience with each other and different life seasons Drop all-or-nothing thinking and any catastrophizing Think generously Practice presence Nourish and replete yourself. Of course, sex is low on the priority list when you are stressed and depleted Take good care of your parasympathetic nervous system by practicing mindfulness and/or yoga Tell good stories and healthy narratives about pleasure, your body, and “the mismatch.” Ask what love would do. Get coached. Getting help helps. Join Jessie for Mindful Love Small Group Relationship Coaching. It starts in late March and is only offered once a year. This group helps you navigate every issue that comes up in intimate relationships - parenting, bill paying, vacation planning, division of labor, intimacy, and so much more. www.jessiemahoneymd.com/mindfulrelationshipcoaching Come to the Mindful Healers Connect in Nature Retreat with your partner. Enjoy a long weekend at a beautiful inn, soak up nature, and practice mindfulness together. Non-medical beloveds and welcome and encouraged to join. It's a win-win for everyone. If you want to work on your relationship before then and/or with literal spaciousness from your home environment, join me for a Sagrada retreat. They are the perfect place to refill your cup, grow a mindfulness practice, and have clarity about how you would like to move forward. Reach out to either of us to work on building and growing a mindful and self-compassion practice at themindfulhealerspodcast.com *Nothing in this episode should be considered medical advice.
When Libidos Don't Match Up ~ with guest Sheila Ramsay ~ Women's Empowerment & Sexuality Coach This episode is soooo good and packed with tons of great info on "turn-on", how much is too much, vs not enough, how to identify where there might be an issue, and what reconnecting to your sexuality and turn-on can do for you!! Plus so much more!!EPISODE NOTESWe talk about…What results you can expect when you learn to live in your bodyHealing & Sexual Shame from trauma and societal conditioningNormalizing turn-on, sex and our desiresDisconnection from our bodies & from our sexuality as a collective wholeHow we can heal individually and as a collectiveNoticing what you feel in your body and tracking itRegulating your nervous system so we can handle hard things in lifeGrounding in your bodyPorn Addiction and the various nuancesSex Addiction; is there such a thing??How to identify where there might be an issueAnd how we can all heal by reconnecting back into our bodies, into our truth and core Follow Sheila…https://instagram.com/luxuriousfemininepowerhttps://www.facebook.com/sheila.ramsay.9/
This week we meet Dr. Elisabeth Gordon, a New York based Integrative sexual health psychiatrist, who is passionate about sexual health education, health and happiness. It was very exciting to speak with Elisabeth, who had some great insights to share on mismatched libidos. This is an issue I am often asked about in clinic, and I reached out to Dr. Elisabeth to see if she could share her knowledge with us. Dr. Gordon's philosophy is that - “Sexuality is an essential component of identity and a key element of our lives and intimate relationships, with ourselves and others. In addition, sexual health is intrinsically related to physical and mental health. Being satisfied with your sexuality and sexual interactions can create a sense of happiness, support your well-being and health, and increase satisfaction with relationships. Unfortunately, many people have difficulties with sex, both psychologically and/ or physically and, in turn, these difficulties and dysfunctions can negatively impact your mood, health, and relationships.” I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I enjoyed speaking with Elisabeth. She is a great communicator and makes a difficult subject all seem so simple. To find out more about Elisabeth go to www.psychandsexmd.com Instagram: @psychandsexmd Linked In: Elisabeth Gordon Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/psychandsexmd https://www.nytimes.com/2023/08/11/well/family/sex-drive-libido-partner.html End Credits: ---------- Websites: https://melissahadleybarrett.com Men's health only https://rshealth.com.au/ All genders https://www.prostaterehabilitation.com/ http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/ http://prost.com.au/ Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/ https://www.facebook.com/Restorativeshealthclinic Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/ https://www.instagram.com/rshealth_perth/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/ Producer www.voicemate.com.au
One of the biggest challenges inside longterm partnerships… ‘Mismatched libidos'. When one partner feels like they could have sex ALL THE TIME! And the other… well, feels like sex is a bit of a chore. Meg & Jacob dive deep into how to navigate differing sex drives in relationship & why it can actually be a portal to deeper intimacy & connection. In this episode we explore… How health & hormones directly affects libido Why Meg doesn't like the term ‘mismatched libidos' The common pattern of ‘shaming' our partner for their high/ low libido The power of curiosity when navigating differing sexual desire The truth about a woman's libido & desire How lack of safety & attunement locks up a woman's libido & desire Men - Are you creating a safe environment for her to tap into her sexual desire? How taking sex off the table can lead to MORE SEX!!! The first time Meg & Jacob mutually masturbated And much, much more! Sign up for Ignite your Intimacy: https://bit.ly/3R0ihxU
If you and your partner have a desire difference between you, you're not alone. In this episode, Dr. Solomon is joined by guests Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy and Dr. Jennifer Vencill for an honest and compassionate conversation about mismatched libidos and how partners can navigate this challenge as a team.Order Dr. Solomon's new book, Love Every Day:https://bookshop.org/p/books/love-every-day-365-relational-self-awareness-practices-to-help-your-relationship-heal-grow-and-thrive-alexandra-solomon/19970421?ean=9781683736530Desire: An Inclusive Guide to Navigating Libido Differences in Relationships by Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy & Dr. Jennifer Vencillhttps://drlaurenfogel.com/book/Subscribe to Dr. Solomon's Newsletter:https://dralexandrasolomon.com/subscribe/Submit a Listener Question:https://form.jotform.com/212295995939274 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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In this episode, you will learn:You have a LOT more control over your libido (and your partners) than you think!Rejection does not have to feel as personally painful when you make your sex life a team effort.It's important to have conversations with your partner, so you can see how sexually different they are than you!Join Sex Meditations! https://www.stephanieganowski.com/offers/2gA2VzBHPE COURSE https://www.stephanieganowski.com/endyourpenowFollow my YouTubeDE MASTERCLASS https://www.stephanieganowski.com/offers/9bsQSmruEffective vs. Ineffective Communication FREE TRAINING* https://www.stephanieganowski.com/joinus1:1 Coaching (serious applicants only) https://stephanieganowski.typeform.com/to/Fm6LGfa9GET WEEKLY SEX TIPS https://www.stephanieganowski.com/news-letter MY OTHER OFFERS: https://www.stephanieganowski.com/offers/hBDReQLCINSTAGRAM https://www.instagram.com/stephganowski/
Links & Resources: Guide: Art Of Initiation Are you a woman who wants sex more than your male partner? All we see on TV, movies, and social media is men wanting it more, so if that's not the case in your relationship, you may feel like something is horribly wrong. But after polling our community, we found that almost half of male-female relationships have this dynamic! That has even been the case for us in seasons of our relationship. We're here to remove the shame, show you how normal it is for the woman to want sex more often, and tell you what to do to balance your libidos. Because mismatched sex drives - regardless of who has the higher drive - don't need to be a dealbreaker. In this episode you'll learn: Real life responses from men and women about how higher female libido affects them The 4 ways couples accidentally make things worse The single most overlooked step that could make a world of difference Go to GreenChef.com/60pillow and use code 60pillow to get 60% off plus free shipping. Thanks Dipsea. Get a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/pillow. Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode121
In this episode of the Unbound Writer's Club, Nicola's in conversation with unbound author Mariella Pearson about her recently birthed book, ‘Libidos and Life Lessons'. It started more as a MENmoir and turned into a MEmoir – Mariella's brave, honest and beautiful journey through life, from thinking men and relationships defined her to realising neither did.In this Episode:Why did Mariella decide to write Libidos and Life Lessons?Being as authentic as you possibly canThe way Mariella's voice really comes throughWhat was it like for Mariella, revisiting her life experiences?Who is Mariela's book for?Links Mentioned:UNBOUND and Unbound WritingCreate a Community ExperienceThe Unbound Writing MastermindThe Unbound Writing Mastermind waitlistThe Unbound Writer's Club membershipNicola's free ‘connecting with your book' visualisationBuy Nicola's unbound365 journal hereThe Unbound Press Book ClubThe Unbound Book IncubatorWhat to do when you have your first draftBook a chat with Nicola here.Connect with Nicola on Instagram, and The UNBOUND Press on Instagram or Facebook.Connect with Mariella Pearson on Instagram.Music Credit: Joseph McDadeWe'd love you to share this episode with your friends, community, and anyone you think would enjoy it.
This episode Natalie got to sit down with one of her favorite people in the world Jen Keefe! They talk proposals, porn (obvi), libidos, the bravo universe and so much more!
How much sex drive is too much of a sex drive? Do we use orgasms as a release from day to day life? Can you have a problem with too many orgasms? What if your partner whats to have sex and you don't?Today, we ask you - have you ever stopped to ask WHY you or your partner wants or needs to orgasm, or orgasm so much? It's a fascinating, often undiscussed question. In the episode, Louise Rumball and Dr. Massimo Fontana, therapist and sexologist, dive into various aspects of high sex drive the WHY behind your orgasms. They look at: The dopamine hit of orgasm and the allure of orgasmic escape Orgasms as coping mechanisms, distractions, connections, and self-soothing techniques Difference in libidos and the root cause of high and low libidos How painkillers and mouthwash might make orgasming harder Justin Bieber's sex addiction The concept of ‘penetration' and using penetration for validation Louise also brings Dr. Massimo a question from the community area, The House. They discuss a couple who feel that their sexual intimacy has been limited recently after one of them contracted an STI and they can't be intimate. The pair delve into *why* that partner are struggling and whether sex can ever be *too* integral for a relationship? ⭐ THE PLEASURE PLAYBOOK - ⭐ the ultimate guide to understanding and revolutionising your sex life with Dr. Massimo Fontana & Louise Rumball: purchase here: https://www.thisisopenhouse.com/therapy-shop/p/0m17z75cf69di5c3nc90vki0zlkjeq ⭐ Want more Home Truths, Voice Notes from Lu and bonus content? Join OPENHOUSE PREMIUM for weekly bonus episodes, a full back catalogue of episodes, access to our Community Area 'The House,' and our exclusive 'Ask A Therapist' room with guaranteed therapist responses. Plus, enjoy all episodes ad-free! ⭐ Join OPENHOUSE PREMIUM now at: https://openhouse.supercast.com/Additional recommended listening:70 - Sex happens in our bodies, so why do we get so damn stuck in our heads?66 - If casual sex traumatizes the f**k out of you, you are not alone - but why? –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– Connect with Louise on Instagram: @iamlouiserumballConnect with Louise on TikTok: @thetherapygirl__Connect with OPENHOUSE: @theopenhousepodcastConnect with Dr Massimo Fontana: @massimo.stochi.fontanaSign up to join the OPENHOUSE mailing list to receive first access to all workshops, courses and live events: www.thisisopenhouse.com –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––– Music SourcesVibe With Me by Joakim Karud http://soundcloud.com/joakimkarudMusic promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/-7YDBIGCXsY Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
We're covering all things libido with sex therapist (and libido expert) Dr. Emily Jamea. We chat about: What libido is and isn't The difference between libido, sex drive, and desire What a "normal" libido looks like Why low libido isn't inherently bad How to navigate mismatched libidos in a relationship Common libido myths What can negatively impact your libido Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
It's true that men have more testosterone than women, which is a simple answer to the mismatched libido question, however...there is more to this quandary than you think! In our conversation with Dr. Skyler, we learn more about elusive libidos and why it's important to take responsibility for our own arousal to feel empowering and sexy and how to recalibrate mismatched libidos between couples. Kim's husband George joins the conversation to give his point of view! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
What do I do if I have a higher drive than my husband? What should I do if my sex drive seems non-existent? Today's episode is a fresh perspective and discussion as we unpack sexual desire and high and low libidos, which happens to be one of the most frequently asked questions. Education and understanding can lead to celebration, therefore let's discuss the sexual response cycle, spontaneous desire vs. responsive desire and factors that contribute to seasons of higher/lower seasons of spontaneous desire. Let's get equipped and be encouraged as we seek to see sex and connection through a fresh lens. Related Episodes: Rethinking Sex: Recovering a Biblical Lens, Episode 3 Pleasure & Orgasm with Bonny Burns, episode 136 Your Wonderful Female Body Series - Episode 104 to Episode 113 Great Sex Grows Series - Episode 119 to Episode 124 You're Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God's heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God's heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie's weekly newsletter Website Instagram
We're back after a bathroom break to talk about Christmas presents, low libidos, period underwear, and something that's oddly erotic even for a peace-loving Quaker. You can find this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Google Podcasts, and Amazon Music. We're on Twitter at @SexIsFunnyPod, Facebook at TheSexIsFunnyPodcast, and on the web at sexisfunnypodcast.com! You can drop a buck in the jar at Patreon!
One of the most awkward and emotionally charged conversations couples often don't have is about mismatched libidos, frequently leading to disconnection and conflict.Sexologist Dr. Anya of TeachMeAboutSex.com prescribes healthy discussion to find balance between your libidos so you can boost intimacy and sexual freedom. Learn her secrets in this juicy episode!Connect with Dr. Anya:https://teachmeaboutsex.com anya@teachmeaboutsex.com@dr_anya_sexologist on IG Want to Be a Guest or Get Advice?Write us at datingissuchadrag@gmail.comHOW TO LISTEN:Tune in now to the episode on various streaming platforms, including but not limited to:· https://open.spotify.com/show/3gRkpgoU4FF5crsVmCAcpr· https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1615563572· https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/7b77b8cc-a964-494c-98fe-5a6b98ef992d/dating-is-such-a-drag
Have you ever wondered how someone's hair is so shiny and why hairs are suddenly sprouting from your chin? Listen in to hear Sydnee unpack it all. Sydnee talks all things supplements: from libido gummies, to vaginal suppositories, to hormone stimulators, and skin remedies. Follow Sydnee on Instagram and TikTok: @sydnee_paige and @sydneeinthesheets. Check out her official website sydneeinthesheets.com.New episodes come out every Thursday.Sydenee in the Sheets is available now on Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, Spotify or wherever you listen. You can listen ad-free by subscribing to Wondery Plus in Apple Podcasts or the Wondery app. https://wondery.app.link/SydneeInTheSheetsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Dr. Laurie discusses men and their libidos with Dr. Sarah Hunter Murray. You'll also hear answers to listener submitted questions, and get Dr. Laurie's take on "Sex in the News".
This week in the Dear Clementine inbox: I am a few months away from 40 and am feeling really anxious. I am particularly struggling with unpicking the patriarchal lies within that tell me women over 40 have no value. While I can look around and see so many women in their 40s and older thriving and continuing to be vibrant, beautiful, powerhouses, I still can't shake this feeling that it's all downhill from here. A very yuck part of me wonders whether or not I'm “allowed” to write a book as a someone who hasn't been to university. I would never judge a person for choosing a life path that best serves them, so why am I judging myself and speculating the way other people may view me? Do you have any advice for how to best navigate something like this? My boyfriend's sex drive is through the roof, whereas mine is what I would consider pretty average. I hate turning him down, but I also hate having sex I don't really want. Do you think people with different sexual needs can make their relationships work, or do we both need to look for someone more compatible? If you have a question for Clementine, send her an email at dearclementine@novapodcasts.com.auCREDITSExecutive Producer: Edwina StottAudio Production: Adrian WaltonManaging Producer: Elle Beattie For more great Nova Podcasts head to novapodcasts.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Have you ever been in a physical relationship with someone, maybe one that started out all hot and heavy, only to find out a little further down the track that your libidos aren't on the same page? With one partner becoming the pursuer and seeming to constantly want sex ending up frustrated at the lack of physical intimacy, the other, withdraws and starts to resent the pursuer for not understanding that they simply aren't in the mood. It can be a deal breaker for some but can you actually overcome it? Today, we look at why some of us have a high sex drive while others are a slower burn and whether we can actually find a way to meet somewhere in the middle. Subscribe to Mamamia GET IN TOUCH Feedback? We're listening! Call the pod phone on 02 8999 9386 or email us at podcast@mamamia.com.au CONTACT US Got a topic you'd like us to cover? Send us an email at thequicky@mamamia.com.au CREDITS Host: Claire Murphy With thanks to: Dr Kate Balestrieri - Licensed Psychologist & founder of Modern Intimacy Producer: Claire Murphy Executive Producer: Kally Borg Audio Producer: Thom LionBecome a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Is it normal to want sex all the time? Or not at all? And what should you do if your partner's libido is different to yours?Find out in our guide to libidos and managing those sex drives (SPOILER: Everything is probably completely normal).Instagram- @comecuriousTwitter- @comecuriousFacebook group- https://www.facebook.com/groups/600094518220881/Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacyThis show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5888205/advertisement
Have you ever wondered WHAT you can do about different levels of desire? How to actually navigate those times when you're feeling low/high desire and your partner is feeling the opposite? In this episode you'll learn How to communicate effectively about this, what to do to navigate the challenging lows, what some of the things are that actually contribute to low desire. Theres also an art to understanding your desire, you'll leave this episode understanding how you can find out what turns you on sexually and non sexually and knowing how you can shift to the sex you actually want with one simple trick. xo The Pussy Fairy Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course. This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other! https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easyCome find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group! Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes!
It's true that men have more testosterone than women, which is a simple answer to the mismatched libido question, however...there is more to this quandary than you think! In our conversation with Dr. Skyler, we learn more about elusive libidos and why it's important to take responsibility for our own arousal to feel empowering and sexy and how to recalibrate mismatched libidos between couples. Kim's husband George joins the conversation to give his point of view! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Today's Hot Topic conversation finally tackles a common theme among our Shandies' relationship questions over the last 2 years: What to do when one partner wants to get frisky way more than the other? Shan Boodram, our esteemed expert joining us today, could not be more qualified to take on this subject: Shan is a certified sexologist and sex and intimacy educator, among her many other qualifications, and she helps us navigate how to broach the topic of wanting more sex, how to work towards raising one's own libido, how to communicate likes/dislikes in the bedroom (without killing the mood), and how to get back into sexy time postpartum. Shan is as fun as she is knowledgeable and we guarantee you'll both laugh and learn something new throughout this conversation!More Shan:Book "The Game Of Desire" - https://www.thegameofdesire.com/buyLovers And Friends Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1586679298Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/shanboody/Website - https://www.shanboodram.comShan's Turn-On Trigger Quiz - https://www.thegameofdesire.com/quizTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Sexologist And Intimacy Educator Shan Boodram!3:16 - What Is Sexology And Why Did She Get Into It?8:36 - Tips For Couples Navigating Mismatched Libidos13:55 - Does Bringing It Up More Scare It Away?20:14 - For The Partner Who Wishes They Wanted Sex More27:56 - Comfort and Familiarity29:29 - Turn-On Triggers31:12 - Where's The Line Between Maintaining A Sex Life With A Low Libido Versus Agreeing To Have Sex When You Don't Want To? 35:44 - Does More Beget More?37:55 - Advice For Sex And Intimacy Postpartum 40:53 - Tips For Orgasming43:44 - Tips On How To Get A Partner To Change What They're Doing Without Killing The Mood?46:12 - True Or False: Ejaculation Is Good For Men's Health50:32 - Thoughts On Today's Swipe Culture And Dating Climate 57:42 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSupport Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Dr Amy Killen, a leading anti-aging and regenerative physician, takes on this essential (and sensitive) subject, questioning whether we should just accept “losing” our sex drives. She offers an alternative pathway, working with the body (and coolest new sex-tech) to cultivate true inside-out health that allows us to feel younger, longer (and LOVE like we are younger, longer!). Brought to you by La Vette - an Intentional Dating platform for self-aware singles. Apply now and try your first month free: https://portal.lavette.love/ About Dr. Amy Killen: Dr. Amy Killen is a leading anti-aging and regenerative physician specializing in “Sex and Skin.” In her Utah-based practices she combines stem cell and exosome injections, as well as light and sound-based therapies, with bioidentical hormones, peptides and old fashioned healthy lifestyle to give patients unparalleled synergistic regenerative effects for skin, hair and sexual systems. Dr. Killen has spoken to audiences around the world and believes that optimizing skin and sexual health leads to renewed confidence and connection, two powerful forces in the quest for betterment and longevity. Check out www.hopbox.life for Dr. Killen's longevity supplement subscription product launching in mid-September, 2022!
The guys recall their cartellish high school days when we had an operation of creating and distributing a zine called Libido.
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In episode 151 we talk about different libidos in a relationship and the complexities of not feeling desired.
Fetish, turn-offs, and bedroom communication is IT today, #broadsquad! The Broads are joined by the fantastic Nicoletta Heidegger (sexologist, psychotherapist, and host of “Sluts and Scholars” podcast) - but first Bekah and Jess chat and get honest about some current challenges and growth with family. Then they dive into a great conversation with Nicoletta about partners with differing libidos, the “erotic blueprint”, breaks and accelerators, the difference between desire and arousal, responsive versus spontaneous desire, kink, how to practice asking for what you want, fart and foot fetishes, aliens, and much more! NICOLETTA HEIDEGGER: Listen to “Sluts and Scholars” podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sluts-and-scholars/id1223781930 Follow Sluts and Scholars here: https://www.instagram.com/slutsandscholars/ Follow Nicoletta here: https://www.instagram.com/therapywithnicoletta/ Website: https://www.nicolettavheidegger.com/ THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO FRESH: Go to HELLOFRESH.COM/CHATTY16 and use code CHATTY16 for up to 16 free meals and 3 free gifts! PRETTY LITTER: Go to PRETTYLITTER.COM/CHATTY to save 20% on your first order! FIELD OF GREENS: Get 15% off your first order PLUS get another 10% off when you subscribe for recurring orders at FIELDOFGREENS.COM and use promo code CHATTY NATIVE; Go to NATIVEDEO.COM/CHATTY or use code CHATTY to get 20% off your first order! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Gay men's specialist sex therapist Ken Howard, LCSW, CST, gives tips for gay male couples to manage mismatched libidos and desire discrepancy.
I see a lot of couples in my sex therapy sessions, who struggle with different levels of sex drive and desire in the bedroom. Sometimes it's the husband that wants more sex and other times it's the wife. And the issue of mismatched libidos can be a very tricky thing to navigate and deal with, unless you know how… So in this week's podcast episode, I'm sharing with you my top tips to overcome the issue of mismatched libidos in a relationship! Here are some of the things you'll learn about in this episode: - Why the problem of mismatched libidos is so common, - Why you should never compare your sex drive to other people, - The nature of libido is to change and flow, - Factors that will reduce your sex drive, - Do couples who have more sex report higher sexual satisfaction? - Why you should date each other again, - How to expand your definition of sex, - Who wants sex more - men or women? - And more! Resources mentioned in this episode: Tantra for Beginners FREE online course: https://helenanista.com/tantra-for-beginners-course/ “Legendary Lover” book: https://helenanista.com/legendary-lover-book/ Helena's website: https://helenanista.com/ Helena's online courses: https://helenanista.com/online-courses/ Connect with Helena on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/helenanista/ YouTube: youtube.com/helenanista TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@helena_nista
Libidos are an essential part of a woman's health and important for relationships, yet so few of us talk about it. If you noticed a hormonal imbalance perhaps because of perimenopause you are not alone. In this episode, Dr. Renee Wellenstein, a board-certified OB-Gyn and functional medicine doctor, discusses why women may experience low libido, how to identify a low libido, and ways to get your sexy back. More about Dr. Wellenstein: https://www.drreneewellenstein.com/