Podcasts about libidos

A person's overall sexual drive or desire for sexual activity

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Best podcasts about libidos

Latest podcast episodes about libidos

The Great Love Debate with Brian Howie
GLD 530 - Was The High Worth The Pain?

The Great Love Debate with Brian Howie

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2025 29:45 Transcription Available


How seductive is sex to a relationship?  "Love, Lies, and Libidos" author Stephanie Todd stops by to talk about her new book, how she got ensnared in a sexual trap, why women need to feel liberated, getting outside your comfort zone, ignoring red flags, and much, much more!

The Hook Up
How To Deal With Mismatched Libidos

The Hook Up

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2025 40:23


Have you got a different sex drive to your partner? When your libido is out of sync, you can feel guilt, shame and rejection, making you question if your relationship is compatible. We get advice from sexologist and psychologist Laura Lee on how to work through those feelings and how to find a balance. SHOW NOTES:How Often Should You Have Sex? VodcastDM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

F**ks Given
Libidos, Love and Longterm Relationships with Asa and David

F**ks Given

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2025 80:18


This week, Florence is joined by the ultimate love duo — Asa and David, relationship coaches, partners, and parents, who are keeping it raw, real, and ultra practical when it comes to long-term love. From mismatched libidos to conflict spirals, morning routines to raising a baby, they're spilling the kind of advice that makes you go, “Oof… why didn't anyone tell me this sooner?” We dive into how to fight fair (without the silent treatment or full-blown meltdowns), why honesty only works if you can handle hearing the uncomfortable stuff, and how to bring back intimacy when Netflix and exhaustion have taken over your evenings. Asa and David share their own story too — from a suitcase that turned into six months of living together, to a move abroad, to parenthood — and how they built a foundation that can hold both deep healing and wild love. Expect laughter, vulnerability, and so many “aha” moments as we ask: what does it really take to keep desire, connection, and teamwork alive once the honeymoon fades? Curious f**kers, if you've ever thought “are we normal?” when it comes to fights, mismatched sex drives, or parenting stress — this episode is your permission slip to breathe, laugh, and know you're not alone. ASA's Links: IG @coachwithasa The Boundary Blueprint - Asa Baav (free download): www.asabaav.com/the-boundary-blueprint/ Unapologetic 2025 - Asa Baav: www.asabaav.com/unapologetic-2025/ DAVID'S Links:  YT ⁨@TheAuthenticMan⁩  IG @theauthenticman_ Breaking The Chains of Avoidance: www.theauthenticman.net/btca-sep-2025 FREE GIFT Why You Keep Pulling Away (Even When You Don't Want To): ⁠www.theauthenticman.net/why-you-keep-pulling-away-page⁠ To watch the full video, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Produced by @_thesassyshow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
396. - Raw Talk About Mismatched Libidos & Sex Drive in Marriage - With Austin Ellis LMFT

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2025 33:26


This episode is intended for couples in a healthy relationship who are looking to create better sexual balance in their marriage.Sexual intimacy is a very important aspect of a healthy and thriving marriage. However, many if not most couples find themselves in a dynamic where one spouse has a higher sex drive than the other. This is completely normal, as no two people have the exact same libido.The problem arises when (in a healthy marriage) the lower-desire spouse, often unintentionally, takes control over the couple's sex life by determining "if" and "when" intimacy happens. This imbalance can lead to frustration, resentment, and emotional disconnection. The key to overcoming this challenge is understanding the dynamics at play and working together to find a balance that satisfies both spouses.If this is what it feels like in your marriage, you are not alone!A study published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy found that 80% of couples report having mismatched sex drives at some point in their relationship.According to the Kinsey Institute, 60–80% of married individuals say they wish their spouse wanted sex more often.A survey from the Marriage Foundation discovered that couples who have sex at least once a week are three times more likely to report being “very happy” in their marriage compared to those who have sex less frequently.A report in Archives of Sexual Behavior noted that lack of sexual intimacy is one of the top reasons for marital dissatisfaction and divorce. In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we are joined by Austin Ellis, a licensed sex therapist, who addresses one of the most common issues in marriage: finding sexual balance when you and your spouse have completely different sex drives, and how to create a balance that works for both of you.We asked Austin a few questions in this episode:What if a spouse wants it daily and the other spouse wants it monthly?What do you do if you cannot find a balance? Is sex really a need in marriage?What does healthy rejection look like? Join us for this incredible episode, where you'll not only understand why this happens but, more importantly, learn how to find a balance that you can both be happy with, so you can enjoy a thriving marriage. This might be the most important episode that completely changes your marriage!If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

#MOMTRUTHS with Cat & Nat
Menopause & Our Libidos

#MOMTRUTHS with Cat & Nat

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2025 32:47


Menopause research is (finally) getting the attention it deserves. In this repeat episode we dive into an old article on reviving your sex drive in perimenopause and share our take. Our grandmas didn't have hormone therapy, libido boosters, or fancy lubes… so did they just suffer in silence, or were they onto something we don't know? We explore the options and share our thoughts. Disclaimer: In another life, we totally would have been doctors—but in this one, not so much. We may have gotten a few facts wrong in this episode!Want our podcasts sent straight to your phone? Text us the word "Podcast" to +1 (917) 540-8715 and we'll text you the new episodes when they're released!Tune in for new Cat & Nat Unfiltered episodes every Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday!Follow @catandnatunfiltered on Instagram: https://instagram.com/catandnatunfilteredOur new book "Mom Secrets" is now available! Head to www.catandnat.ca/book to grab your autographed copy! Come see us LIVE on tour!! To see a full list of cities and dates, go to https://catandnattour.com.Are you a parent that is struggling understanding the online world, setting healthy screen-time limits, or navigating harmful online content? Purchase screen sense for $49.99 & unlock Cat & Nat's ultimate guide to parenting in the digital age. Go to https://www.thecommonparent.com/guideFollow our parenting platform - The Common Parent - over on Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecommonparentMake sure you subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://bitly.com/catnatyoutubeCheck out our Amazon Lives here: https://bitly.com/catnatamazonliveOrder TAYLIVI here: https://taylivi.comGet personalized videos from us on Cameo: https://cameo.com/catandnatCome hang with us over on https://instagram.com/catandnat all day long.And follow us on https://tiktok.com/@catandnatofficial! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sex Talk
Understanding Mismatched Libidos

Sex Talk

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2025 2:36


Description: This content explores the common causes and healthy solutions for mismatched libidos in relationships. It outlines four main contributing areas—biological, psychological, lifestyle, and relational—highlighting factors like hormone changes, stress, differing schedules, and emotional disconnection. It then offers compassionate, practical strategies to bridge the gap, such as open communication, understanding different types of desire, expanding intimacy beyond intercourse, and redefining sex to prioritize mutual connection and pleasure. The message emphasizes empathy, compromise, and the value of seeking professional help when needed.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/lets-talk-sex--5052038/support.

Sex With Emily
How to Handle Mismatched Libidos Without Ruining Your Relationship

Sex With Emily

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2025 45:48


Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!:https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily Morse tackles the myths, insecurities, and real-life situations that often come with high sex drives, mismatched libidos, and performance anxiety. Alongside co-host Anderson, she answers listener questions and offers heartfelt, humorous, and sex-positive advice on topics ranging from post-baby confidence to breakups and virginity. We explore whether wanting more sex is actually a problem (spoiler: it's not), how to navigate mismatched libidos without shame or labels, and why performance anxiety during first-time experiences is completely normal. Emily addresses a new mom struggling with body confidence and low libido postpartum, offering practical advice on patience, mindful touch, and rebuilding sexual energy through Kegels and self-care. This episode also dives into breakup survival, including how to live with an ex, resist "revenge sex," and create your own closure rather than expecting it from someone else. We tackle the age-old question of whether you should share your sexual history with partners (Emily's answer: probably not) and explore why "body count" doesn't determine sexual skill. Communication, presence, and adaptability do. Timestamps: Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction 4:29 - Breaking Dating Patterns 10:04 - Sexual History: Should You Share Your Number? 15:11 - High Sex Drive Mismatch 22:04 - Living with Your Ex: Survival Guide 24:10 - Post-Baby Body Confidence Crisis 31:02 - The 31-Year-Old Virgin's Performance Anxiety 36:39 - Breakup Sex Fantasy: Why It's a Bad Idea 39:17 - Wrap-Up

Adjusting Motherhood
Book Club: Smut Edition — Lights Out and Libidos On

Adjusting Motherhood

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2025 39:31


This week, we're cracking open Lights Out by Navessa Allen and letting the spice flow. Join us as we dive into this steamy read and talk all things smut, intimacy, and reclaiming your sensual self — especially in the postpartum chapter of life. From blushing scenes to real-life libido lows (and highs!), we're keeping it honest, hilarious, and just the right amount of unhinged. Book club has never been so hot.

Strictly Anonymous
1167 - Mismatched Libidos, Sexless Marriages, Infidelity and More with Dr. Laurie

Strictly Anonymous

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2025 71:51


SEXUAL HEALTH SATURDAYS - Dr. Laurie Betito called in to discuss how and why couples stop having sex and then addresses what comes next. Tune in to hear all the details, including the collaboration she has with Porn Hub and what she does for them, gender differences and how they show up sexually, how desire discrepancy can happen to any couple at any age . why it happens and what couples can do about it, how, why and when desire tends to dissipate for women in relationships and what both partners can do about it, spontaneous vs responsive desire and how they differ, how sex for a man is more then just sex and how denying really makes him feel, the questions she asks a man who comes to see her who's in a sexless marriage, why how knowing your partners love language is important, the difference between couples who successfully navigate desire descrepencies vs. the ones who don't, how she treats couples who want to work through infidelity and how they feel on the other side, ADHD and the issues it can lead to in sex and relationships plus a whole lot more.  Sex Bible for People Over 50 book link: https://amzn.to/4lnhgg2 Link to her website: https://www.drlaurie.com **To see HOT pics of my female guests + gain access to my PRIVATE Discord channel where people get super XX naughty + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.   Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2520-anonymous⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Use code anonymous to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14 day money back guarantee    Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Everything else ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sex Ed with DB
What do I do if my partner and I have mismatched libidos?

Sex Ed with DB

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2025 13:48


Coping with mismatched libidos in your partnership? You are sooo not alone! DB breaks down why desire isn't just a switch you can flip, how stress and hormones play a role, and offers some evidence-based advice about what to do when you and your partner aren't in sync.  Mentioned in this episode: Initiating Sex with Confidence with Whitni Miller ABOUT SEASON 12 Season 12 of Sex Ed with DB is ALL ABOUT PLEASURE! Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies—you name it. We're here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex. CONNECT WITH US Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdbTwitter: @sexedwithdb Threads: @sexedwithdbpodcast YouTube: Sex Ed with DB SEX ED WITH DB SEASON 12 SPONSORS Lion's Den, Uberlube, & Magic Wand Get discounts on all of DB's favorite things here! GET IN TOUCH Email: sexedwithdb@gmail.comSubscribe to our BRAND NEW newsletter for hot goss, expert advice, and *the* most salacious stories. FOR SEXUAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS Check out DB's workshop: "Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand" ABOUT THE SHOW Sex Ed with DB is your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education—delivering trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. Empowering, inclusive, and grounded in real science, it's the sex ed you've always wanted. ASK AN ANONYMOUS SEX ED QUESTION Fill out our anonymous form to ask your sex ed question. SEASON 12 TEAM Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) (she/her) Producer: Sadie Lidji (she/her) Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen (she/her) Growth Marketing Manager: Wil Williams (they/them) MUSIC Intro theme music: Hook Sounds Background music: Bright State by Ketsa Ad music: Soul Sync by Ketsa and Soul Trap by Ketsa

Double Teamed with Cami and Niki
High & Low Libidos

Double Teamed with Cami and Niki

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2025 36:41


Welcome back DT Fam :) Today, we are diving into a topic we briefly covered on Steff's pod (Broke Girl Therapy): high and low libidos! Chances are one of you in the relationship has a higher or lower libido than the other, and there are ways to work through this issue. We discuss some of the mindsets and methods we employ, such as communication tactics, conversation starters, and more. We also briefly touch on using non-monogamy as a tool for couples looking to bridge the gap with the help of others outside the relationship. Hope you enjoy! For those of you over 21, check out our favorite gummies at VIIA Hemp! Use code DTFAM at checkout for savings ! Order your vaginal microbiome test at Evvy with code DTFAM10 and take charge of your vaginal health today!

MissPerceived
Do Men Have Higher Libidos?

MissPerceived

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2025 22:39


Are men really wired to desire more sex, or have we just been taught to think so? In this episode, Leah dives into the age-old question: do men have higher sex drives? Join us as we unpack the science behind libido, explore how hormones, culture, and social norms shape our desires, and challenge the stereotypes that keep this conversation stuck in the bedroom.Follow Leah Ruppanner at https://www.instagram.com/prof.leah/Follow the MissPerceived Podcast on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/missperceivedpodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

SexTok with Zibby and Tracey
S13 Ep. 8: No Strings Sex, Secret Turn Ons, and Suspiciously Raised Libidos

SexTok with Zibby and Tracey

Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2025 20:27


In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I'm a 25-year-old straight woman and am not interested in a relationship right now. But, I do want sex. How and when do I bring this up with people I date—and do I have to?2) My boyfriend of four years is suddenly doing new things in bed which is making me suspicious. I've always been the higher libido one; now he's the one initiating sex and wanting to try new things. I feel like maybe he's attracted to someone else and this is what's firing him up. I don't want to ask because I don't want to know, but it's making me uneasy. What should I do?3) My wife and I went to a remote beach in Greece while on holiday last year. It was just us on the beach, but then another couple turned up, stripped off and, in full sight of us, had sex. We both pretended not to look, but obviously did. That night we had the most amazing sex. But whenever I try to talk about it with my wife, she blocks discussion and called me a pervert for bringing it up. I felt the whole experience unlocked a moment of sexual magic. Should I drop it, or try to talk about it again in the hope of having better sex? To have Tracey and Kelsey discuss YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously at https://bit.ly/3C4AelUWant a copy of Tracey's book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Real Sex Radio
#82: How We Make Sex Work With Different Libidos: A Real-Life Story

Real Sex Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2025 11:48


Ever wonder how couples with mismatched sex drives actually make it work? In this episode, I'm giving you a real, behind-the-scenes look into my relationship with my partner Taylor—and exactly how we navigate our desire discrepancy without pressure, guilt, or disconnection. You'll learn:

Libido Lounge
Why You're Not Turned On: The Truth About Low Desire, Sexual Shame & Mismatched Libidos

Libido Lounge

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2025 31:49


Ever wondered why you don't crave sex the way you used to? Or why your partner always seems to want it more (or less) than you? You're not broken—but the way we've been taught to think about desire is. In this episode, I sit down with Susan Morgan Taylor, a renowned somatic sex therapist, to uncover the real reasons behind low sex drive, desire discrepancies, and why women are often blamed for “not wanting it enough.” If you've ever felt disconnected, pressured, or “not in the mood” more than you'd like, this episode will change everything you thought you knew about desire. Get the FREE Pleasure Keys eBook → www.pleasurekeys.comThe Connection Code Monthly Masterclass (Link coming soon!)

Ask A Sex Therapist with Heather Shannon
Ep. 118 Are You Navigating Different Libidos in Relationships? Top Tips for Connection

Ask A Sex Therapist with Heather Shannon

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2025 31:49


Apply for a free Intimacy Breakthrough Call to learn about Heather's Pathway to Passion coaching method. https://heathershannon.co/new-clients/ Navigating Low Libido in Relationships: Empathy and UnderstandingIn this episode of the 'Ask a Sex Therapist' podcast, Heather Shannon discusses why your partner's lack of interest in sex might not be about you. She delves into reasons such as stress, hormonal imbalances, and emotional challenges. Heather emphasizes the importance of empathy, avoiding pressure, and building inner security. She provides actionable advice for both high and low libido partners, helping them foster better understanding and intimacy in their relationships. Tune in to learn how to communicate effectively and create a more fulfilling sex life together.00:00 Introduction: Understanding Your Partner's Low Libido00:39 Welcome and Setting the Scene01:12 The Challenge of Waiting for Your Partner's Libido02:43 Understanding Pressure and Its Impact on Libido05:47 Exploring the Lower Libido Partner's Perspective20:32 Strategies for the Higher Libido Partner29:17 Conclusion and Encouragement31:10 Closing Remarks and How to Stay ConnectedWORK WITH HEATHER:Apply for a free Intimacy Breakthrough Call to learn about Heather's Pathway to Passion coaching method. https://heathershannon.co/new-clients/ LET'S CONNECT! FIND HEATHER HERE ⤵️:Heather's Website - https://HeatherShannon.co Heather's Instagram - https://instagram.com/AskASexTherapist Heather's YouTube - Check out the video version of this podcast & more! - https://www.youtube.com/@AskASexCoach Heather's Pathway to Passion- https://heather-shannon.mykajabi.com/pathway Heather's Courses- https://heather-shannon.mykajabi.com/storeHeather's Amazon Storefront- https://www.amazon.com/shop/heathershannonlcpc Finding Your Fire Libido Course: https://heather-shannon.mykajabi.com/offers/RLM4tXqi/checkout SIMILARLY AWESOME / MENTIONED EPISODES:Liked the episode? Here's a few more episodes of Ask A Sex Therapist that you'll enjoy:Ep. 7: The Libido Issue | Ask A Sex Therapist Podcast https://youtu.be/hEvbEHqIfA8?si=96gr_czHjWoynwvz Sex and Disability Video

Flirtations! with Benjamin, the Flirt Coach
69. Let's Talk About Sex: Libidos, Desire, and Connection with Hannah Deindorfer

Flirtations! with Benjamin, the Flirt Coach

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2025 55:56


Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we have Hannah Deindorfer, the Libido Fairy!, on the show to explore with us physical intimacy, libidos, and sex in dating! Up for discussion are questions around consent, desire, and the touch barrier, and we'll play in the space of intimacy here as we talk about different ways to connect with your partner or partners on that physical level. We even go into your kissing dilemmas!  But that's not all. Hannah will also offer guidance on how to navigate mismatched libidos, responsive vs. spontaneous desire, what to do in those moments when intimacy dips, and how to communicate your desires - without any shame. So, whether you're struggling with desire differences, looking to strengthen emotional intimacy, or simply curious about how to approach these conversations in dating, this episode is full of actionable advice that is sure to keep the spark alive! C'mon flirties, let's meet Hannah! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review Flirtations on your favorite podcast platform, and share this episode to spread BFE - big flirt energy, all over the world! Enjoying the show and want to support my work? Buy the Flirt Coach a coffee! About our guest:  Hannah Deindorfer, also known as "The Libido Fairy," has helped hundreds of women who struggle with low libido feel more connected to their partners and look forward to intimacy again. With her expertise in somatic and emotional healing, she guides women through practical steps to rekindle desire. You can connect with Hannah on Instagram, YouTube, and the web! About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy, with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun! As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic and romantic connection - to take center stage and transform lives for greater healing and ultimately, a deeper connection with the self. You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.

Last First Date Radio
EP 641: Susan Morgan Taylor - What to Do When Your Libidos Don't Match

Last First Date Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2024 46:41


When your libidos don't match, who do you call? Susan Morgan Taylor! She is a leading somatic sex therapist who helps couples deepen their intimacy and create lasting, fulfilling connections. With over 25 years of experience in somatic healing, she developed The Pleasure Keys Process™, a powerful approach to reigniting sexual and emotional harmony in relationships. After a personal awakening from a sexless marriage, Susan became passionate about helping others remove obstacles to pleasure, love, and orgasm. She is also the creator of the Pleasure Keys Retreats and host of the Sex Talk Café Podcast. When not working, she enjoys hiking and singing karaoke in the mountains of Western North Carolina. In this episode of Last First Date Radio: The #1 obstacle to pleasure and how to overcome it Why low sex drive in women is a myth and how we can rewrite the narrative on women's sexuality The most effective way for couples to resolve differences in sex drive Why focusing on climax as the “goal” of sex can detract from reaching one's orgasmic potential How couples can get what they want without sacrificing their needs or desires just to please the other person Connect With Susan  Website: www.pathwaytopleasure.com  FB: https://www.facebook.com/susantaylorma/  IG: @susanmorgantaylor Free Gift: The Pleasure Keys eBook www.pleasurekeys.com ►Please subscribe/rate and review the podcast on Apple Podcasts http://bit.ly/lastfirstdateradio  ►If you're feeling stuck in dating and relationships and would like to find your last first date, sign up for a complimentary 45-minute breakthrough session with Sandy https://lastfirstdate.com/application  ►Join Your Last First Date on Facebook https://facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate  ►Get Sandy's books, Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love https://bit.ly/womanofvaluebook  and Choice Points in Dating https://amzn.to/3jTFQe9 and Love at Last https://amzn.to/4erpj7C  ►Get FREE coaching on the podcast! https://bit.ly/LFDradiocoaching  ►FREE download: “Top 10 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Pull Away” http://bit.ly/whymendisappear  ►Group Coaching: https://lastfirstdate.com/the-woman-of-value-club/  ►Website → https://lastfirstdate.com/  ► Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/  ►Get Amazon Music Unlimited FREE for 30 days at https://getamazonmusic.com/lastfirstdate  

The Powerful Man Show
Revisit: When Your Libidos Don't Match: Bridging the Desire Gap in Marriage

The Powerful Man Show

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2024 15:53


Episode #917 What happens when your libidos don't match? Maybe you want sex more than your wife—or she wants it more than you. It's a common challenge, but one you can tackle together with the right tools. In this revisit episode, we're bringing back one of our most impactful conversations on navigating mismatched desires in the bedroom. We explore practical strategies for improving intimacy, from scheduling "sex dates" to understanding the emotional and hormonal dynamics at play. You'll learn how connection fuels desire, why open communication about sex matters, and steps to reignite passion—even when life feels too busy. If your relationship feels stuck or needs a boost, this timeless advice will help you create the passionate, connected marriage you both deserve. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Grindhouse Girls Podcast
GGP Episode 156: Rated R for Razors, Ravers, and Raging Libidos AKA NIGHT OF THE DEMONS

Grindhouse Girls Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2024 76:24


You're invited... TO ONE HELL OF A PARTY! So begins this week's Spooptober movie NIGHT OF THE DEMONS (1988). This raunchy horror common has it all! Demons! Douchebags! Boobies! All in one place!Next time we're diving into some childhood trauma for our Spooptober finale!Stay spoopy ya'll!Timestamps:00:00:52 Intro00:01:53 The Substance and Other Horror Streams00:05:35 Night of the Demons Discussion Begins00:27:50 Rundown00:28:45 Cast00:33:06 SPOILERS!!!01:05:18 Ratings01:07:20 Next Time01:08:29 GoodbyesThe Grindhouse Girls Podcast is created by Katie Dale and Brit Ray and edited by Katie Dale.Royalty free music used: Ready Set Go and Outro White SmokeCopyright 2020 Grindhouse Girls PodcastThis podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podcorn - https://podcorn.com/privacy

On The Verge
#98 Cédric : « Je cherche des solutions pour que nos libidos s'accordent  »

On The Verge

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2024 78:46


C'est un jeune homme de presque 26 ans que j'ai interviewé pour ce 98ème épisode.Cédric, enseignant, avait à coeur de partager la situation compliquée dans laquelle il évolue depuis plusieurs années.Avant cela il se raconte adolescent et jeune homme peu à l'aise avec la sexualité ou encore le porno. Il se met beaucoup de barrières autour de son intimité.Quelques expériences chastes et affectives l'ont construit. En couple depuis bientôt 4 ans avec sa compagne, celle avec qui il a perdu sa virginité à 21 ans, il dépeint une sexualité peu épanouissante et surtout un décalage de libido très important qui créé chez lui beaucoup de frustration. A leur début, ils ont eux 6 mois d'intimité heureuse mais depuis sa situation est peu satisfaisante.C'est à l'écoute de l'épisode de Ben (épisode #89) qu'il a décidé lui aussi de parler au micro et surtout de changer sa situation qu'il ne lui convient pas afin de ne pas vivre une histoire similaire à celle de Ben.Comme vous le constaterez surement c'est un échange différent des précédents épisodes, en effet Cédric communique un réel besoin de réponse et de parler de sa situation qui prend beaucoup de place. Ainsi nous sommes sur un format plus de dialogue que de témoignage habituel. Il s'interroge sur sa normalité et sur les clés possibles afin de ré adopter une sexualité épanouissante.Pour ma part, j'ai essayé d'accueillir comme à chaque fois sa parole sans tabou et jugement et de l'accompagner positivement dans cet échange.

The Road to Wisdom Podcast
Porn, Mismatched Libidos, Orgasms & More With Men's Sex Coach Taylor Clark Johnson

The Road to Wisdom Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2024 59:52


In episode 69 of The Road to Wisdom Podcast Chloe and Keshia speak to sexologist and men's sex coach Taylor Johnson and dive deep into critical conversations around sexuality, relationships, and sexual health. We explore various topics, offering fresh perspectives and valuable insights for both men and women.   Key Highlights Ejaculation vs. Orgasm: Taylor discusses the often misunderstood distinction between ejaculation and orgasm, explaining why separating the two can lead to more fulfilling sexual experiences.    Porn's Influence: The impact of pornography on individual sexuality and relationships is explored, along with practical ways to reduce its negative effects.    Mismatched Libidos in Relationships: Taylor shares strategies for couples navigating differences in sexual desire, emphasizing the importance of meeting each other's needs and fostering open communication.   Circumcision and Vasectomies: The conversation touches on the emotional and physical implications of circumcision, as well as addressing common fears and misconceptions about vasectomies. Taylor highlights the positive experiences many men have had with vasectomy procedures.    Semen Retention & Testosterone: The benefits of semen retention and its relationship to testosterone levels are discussed, offering insights on how ejaculation frequency can impact men's health.   Throughout the episode, Taylor emphasizes the power of open, honest dialogue in relationships and sexual health, encouraging listeners to make informed choices about their bodies and well-being. We hope to have contributed valuable perspectives, ensuring a balanced and informed discussion.   Taylor's work and contact details can be found at www.taylorjohnson.life and his IG is @taylorclarkjohnson   Loved what you heard in this episode? Your support means the world. Make sure to hit that subscribe button, spread the word with your pals, and drop us a review. By doing so, you're not just tuning in – you're fueling our community's growth and paving the way for more incredible guests to grace our show. As the week rolls by, we're already cooking up more tantalizing content for your hungry ears. Keen to stay in the loop with the latest episode releases? Follow our journey on Instagram at @theroadtowisdom.podcast and catch behind-the-scenes action on our YouTube channel @theroadtowisdompodcast. Don't miss out on a thing – also, snag the freshest updates straight to your inbox by subscribing to our newsletter over at ⁠⁠https://www.theroadtowisdompodcast.com/⁠⁠. It's your VIP ticket to all things The Road To Wisdom

The Road to Wisdom Podcast
Porn, Mismatched Libidos, Orgasms & More With Men's Sex Coach Taylor Clark Johnson

The Road to Wisdom Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2024 60:07


In episode 69 of The Road to Wisdom Podcast Chloe and Keshia speak to sexologist and men's sex coach Taylor Johnson and dive deep into critical conversations around sexuality, relationships, and sexual health. We explore various topics, offering fresh perspectives and valuable insights for both men and women.   Key Highlights Ejaculation vs. Orgasm: Taylor discusses the often misunderstood distinction between ejaculation and orgasm, explaining why separating the two can lead to more fulfilling sexual experiences.    Porn's Influence: The impact of pornography on individual sexuality and relationships is explored, along with practical ways to reduce its negative effects.    Mismatched Libidos in Relationships: Taylor shares strategies for couples navigating differences in sexual desire, emphasizing the importance of meeting each other's needs and fostering open communication.   Circumcision and Vasectomies: The conversation touches on the emotional and physical implications of circumcision, as well as addressing common fears and misconceptions about vasectomies. Taylor highlights the positive experiences many men have had with vasectomy procedures.    Semen Retention & Testosterone: The benefits of semen retention and its relationship to testosterone levels are discussed, offering insights on how ejaculation frequency can impact men's health.   Throughout the episode, Taylor emphasizes the power of open, honest dialogue in relationships and sexual health, encouraging listeners to make informed choices about their bodies and well-being. We hope to have contributed valuable perspectives, ensuring a balanced and informed discussion.   Taylor's work and contact details can be found at www.taylorjohnson.life and his IG is @taylorclarkjohnson   Loved what you heard in this episode? Your support means the world. Make sure to hit that subscribe button, spread the word with your pals, and drop us a review. By doing so, you're not just tuning in – you're fueling our community's growth and paving the way for more incredible guests to grace our show. As the week rolls by, we're already cooking up more tantalizing content for your hungry ears. Keen to stay in the loop with the latest episode releases? Follow our journey on Instagram at @theroadtowisdom.podcast and catch behind-the-scenes action on our YouTube channel @theroadtowisdompodcast. Don't miss out on a thing – also, snag the freshest updates straight to your inbox by subscribing to our newsletter over at ⁠⁠https://www.theroadtowisdompodcast.com/⁠⁠. It's your VIP ticket to all things The Road To Wisdom

Dating Intentionally
106. Navigating mismatched libidos & keeping your sex life spicy w/ Whitni Miller (@bde.moves)

Dating Intentionally

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2024 58:32


In this episode, you'll hear from Whitni Miller, a couples' intimacy coach and sex educator. We talk about desire discrepancy, speaking up during sex, and keeping it spicy in the bedroom.  You'll hear about how Whitni helps clients with different levels of desire start the conversation and work through it together. And Whitni provides a ton of tips for people pleasers who don't want to fake orgasms anymore. At the end, we answer a dating dilemma about differing kinks and sexual likes early on.  Follow Whitni on IG: https://www.instagram.com/bde.moves/ Get 50% off Factor with code DI50 at checkout: https://factormeals.com/di50 Submit a dating dilemma: https://forms.gle/xCmAWvDPGJdr3rFz9  Slide into my DMs on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dating.intentionally/ Follow on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dating.intentionally Get my free dating FAQ guide: https://datingintentionally.myflodesk.com/free-guides Read more on the blog: https://intentionally.dating/blog-posts/  Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Dating.Intentionally Rate on Apple: https://t.ly/JJgpP  About Whitni: Whitni Miller, also known as Bde.moves, is a distinguished figure in Queer couples' intimacy coaching and sex education, boasting over four years of expertise in guiding individuals and couples toward authentic pleasure. Grounded in principles of radical self-acceptance and relational communication, Whitni fosters transformative experiences, empowering clients to embrace their desires with confidence. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Mom Room
SOLO: Crying in a Movie Theatre, Libidos, and is he The A-Hole?

The Mom Room

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2024 28:11


EP436. Renee finally saw It Ends With Us and gives a full recap. Kate Winslet tells ua how she got her libido back. Travis Kelce decorates his suite. A husband asks "am I the a-hole?" on Reddit. SPONSORS   Lumen — Go to lumen.me/MOMROOM to get 15% off your Lumen.  iRestore — Reverse hair loss with @iRestore and get $600 off with the code MOMROOM at https://www.irestorelaser.com/MOMROOM #irestorepod  Fungies — You can find these yummy gummies in the Vitamin section at your local Walmart or conveniently shop on their website, eatfungies.com. Enjoy free shipping and 20% off with code MOMROOM.  Little Spoon — Simplify your kiddo's mealtime with 30% OFF your first order. Go to LITTLESPOON.COM/MOMROOM and enter our code MOMROOM at checkout to get 30% OFF your first Little Spoon order.    RENEE REINA   Instagram: @themomroom | @thereneereina   TikTok: @thereneereina   Facebook Community - The Mom Room Community  Youtube: Renee Reina - The Mom Room Podcast  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Mom Room
SOLO: Crying in a Movie Theatre, Libidos, and is he The A-Hole?

The Mom Room

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2024 21:46


EP436. Renee finally saw It Ends With Us and gives a full recap. Kate Winslet tells ua how she got her libido back. Travis Kelce decorates his suite. A husband asks "am I the a-hole?" on Reddit. SPONSORS  Lumen — Go to lumen.me/MOMROOM to get 15% off your Lumen. iRestore — Reverse hair loss with @iRestore and get $600 off with the code MOMROOM at https://www.irestorelaser.com/MOMROOM #irestorepod Fungies — You can find these yummy gummies in the Vitamin section at your local Walmart or conveniently shop on their website, eatfungies.com. Enjoy free shipping and 20% off with code MOMROOM. Little Spoon — Simplify your kiddo's mealtime with 30% OFF your first order. Go to LITTLESPOON.COM/MOMROOM and enter our code MOMROOM at checkout to get 30% OFF your first Little Spoon order.  RENEE REINA  Instagram: @themomroom | @thereneereina  TikTok: @thereneereina  Facebook Community - The Mom Room Community Youtube: Renee Reina - The Mom Room Podcast  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Healthy-ish
A sexologist on dealing with mismatched libidos

Healthy-ish

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2024 10:00


Mismatched libidos is a topic somatic sexologist Lillie Brown gets asked about A LOT. She discusses factors that might be dampening your libido and how to manage the mismatched issue with your partner.    WANT MORE FROM LILLIE? To hear today's full interview, where she discusses how to get out of your head during foreplay ...search for Extra Healthy-ish wherever you get your pods. Catch Lillie @sexwithlillie or on TikTok here, or via her site here. For more on the Body+Soul 2024 Sex Census see here.    WANT MORE BODY + SOUL?  Online: Head to bodyandsoul.com.au for your daily digital dose of health and wellness. On social: Via Instagram at @bodyandsoul_au or Facebook. Or, TikTok here. Got an idea for an episode? DM host Felicity Harley on Instagram @felicityharley.  In print: Each Sunday, grab Body+Soul inside The Sunday Telegraph (NSW), the Sunday Herald Sun (Victoria), The Sunday Mail (Queensland), Sunday Mail (SA) and Sunday Tasmanian (Tasmania). See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Real Sex Radio
#53: How to Reignite Desire When Libidos Don't Match

Real Sex Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2024 9:34


In this episode of The Libido Fairy Podcast, Hannah dives into the rejection-pressure-avoidance cycle that so many couples face when there's a difference in libido. She breaks down why forcing yourself to have sex just to please your partner can actually harm your desire even more, and shares what you should do instead. Learn how to explore your own pleasure, build security in your relationship beyond sex, and create deeper intimacy, even when your libido levels differ.

Honeydew Me
Summer Rewind: Finding Your Normal: Navigating Low & Mismatched Libidos

Honeydew Me

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2024 56:08


We're covering all things libido with sex therapist (and libido expert) Dr. Emily Jamea. We chat about: What libido is and isn't The difference between libido, sex drive, and desire What a "normal" libido looks like Why low libido isn't inherently bad How to navigate mismatched libidos in a relationship Common libido myths What can negatively impact your libido [Episode 138 on Youtube] Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Heaven In Your Home
203. Summer Lovin' Series: Week Five, High and Low Libidos

Heaven In Your Home

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2024 32:10


Welcome to the Summer Lovin' Series, where we are taking some of the most beloved episodes and bringing you a mix of equipping you with a mix of mindset, mentoring and practicals to help you see the goodness of God in your bedroom and your body. What do I do if I have a higher drive than my husband? What should I do if my sex drive seems non-existent? Today's episode is a fresh perspective and discussion as we unpack sexual desire and high and low libidos, which happens to be one of the most frequently asked questions. Education and understanding can lead to celebration, therefore  let's discuss the sexual response cycle, spontaneous desire vs. responsive desire and factors that contribute to seasons of higher/lower seasons of spontaneous desire.  Let's get equipped and be encouraged as we seek to see sex and connection through a fresh lens. Keep learning with Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God's heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God's heart for sex. Learn more here:  The Circle   101 Course: Strong Foundations to Starting Well CLAIMING A HEALTHY VISION FOR MARRIED SEX   To build a love that lasts, you must begin with a strong foundation. Whether you're newly engaged or in need of a new lens, this course is essential. You'll be equipped to set a Biblically integrated and practically grounded vision for sex, marriage and the calling to steward the gift of pleasure and intimacy. This course is pivotal as you begin to unlearn unhelpful perspectives and sift through shame, lies and painful messages you've received over the years. Learn more here. Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here.   Connect with Francie: Receive Francie's weekly newsletter  

Get Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell
196: Handjobs, Pegging, Mismatched Libidos, Husband Won't Let Me Initiate: Q&A

Get Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2024 37:38


I'm very excited about today's episode today! We get to address a lot of juicy topics, such as the following: a reluctant wife feeling pressure to give her husband a hand job a couple that wants to try pegging, but is unsure about it a frustrated wife that feels like all the effort she's making to improve her marriage is one sided and feels a lot of pain because of that a husband shares that the pain of being in a low intimacy marriage, where either fight about sex or have none at all, and he's tired of it a couple asks about using penis rings a frustrated wife, whose husband is only interested in sex if he's the one initiating (which is unfortunately really infrequent) a discouraged wife that must resort to using a vibrator in order to orgasm when penetrative manual oral stimulation is preferred These are real questions on the hearts of many of you listeners, and I am humbled that you would trust me with your most perplexing questions relating to sexual intimacy in your marriage. I'm on a mission to help you have the very best sexual and intimate marriage possible. And I hope that the discussion today spurs deeper conversations within you and your marriage. If you have a question you'd like to submit anonymously for me to address in a future podcast episode, fill out the form here, and that comes straight to me.   Resources mentioned in today's episode: Episode 194: “Is this ok for us to do?” Seeking God's Direction In Your Sex Life Episode 87: Healing From Pornography with Zach & Darcy Spafford Get Your Marriage On Program Intimately Us App FREE TRAINING: How to Become One: Overcoming obstacles to intimacy and significantly improving sex and connection in your marriage, in 90 days or less Couples Retreat in St. George, UT, October 10-13 Retreat testimonial videos You can find links to all these and more at our website: getyourmarriageon.com 

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
276. Every High Libido Husband Needs To Know These Things About His Low Libido Wife

The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2024 29:32 Transcription Available


This is an episode that both the high desire and low desire spouse (every couple) is going to want to listen to. As many of you know, Nick is a high desire spouse, and Amy is a low desire spouse, yet they have a great sex life. In this episode Nick puts Amy on the spot and she answers all the important questions about how she (as a lower desire spouse) makes sexual intimacy a priority, and she also shares the things high desire husbands need to know about their low desire wife.If you are looking to better understand how you can still enjoy sexual intimacy with different Libidos, and the things you need to know about your low libido wife, then this episode is a must listen to.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why over 700,000 couples have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREThe Ultimate Intimacy Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course can be found HEREThe Intimacy and Adventure Marriage Retreat to connect on a deeper level as a couple! Find out more at https://ultimateintimacy.com/retreats/Follow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.

The Intimate Marriage Podcast with Alexandra Stockwell, MD
184. Navigating Mismatched Libidos: Tips for Your Sexual Relationships to Thrive

The Intimate Marriage Podcast with Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2024 32:21


In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, addresses various complexities when navigating libido mismatch. She offers easily implemented advice and practical strategies for nurturing emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy in long-term relationships.  Dr. Alexandra emphasizes the importance of emotional intimacy and relaxation as prerequisites for a fulfilling sexual relationship and answers listener questions about mismatched sexual desires and the challenges of intimate time with adult children around. Learn how to resensitize your clitoris and discover ways to carve out safe, private spaces that allow your intimate connections to thrive, ensuring a vibrant marital bond despite inconveniences and constraints.   Also in this episode: Emotional intimacy acts as a cornerstone for rekindling sexual desire in long-term relationships. Establish deliberate, scheduled private time to address intimacy barriers related to children or other adult relatives living at home. Balancing individual sensual pleasure practices significantly improves overall relationship satisfaction. Effective communication about needs and vulnerabilities fosters deeper emotional and physical connection between partners.   Timestamps:  0:06 - Deepening Emotional, Sensual, and Erotic Intimacy in Relationships 3:35 - Balancing Emotional and Sexual Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships 14:41 - Transform Your Relationship with the Aligned and Hot Marriage Program 18:09 - Navigating Intimacy With Adult Children at Home 24:31 - Reawakening Clitoral Sensitivity Without Toys 30:20 - Enhancing Intimacy and Passion in Marriage   Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram   Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe   This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

Sex Ed with DB
Asexuality and Sexless Marriage Myths with Cody Daigle-Orians

Sex Ed with DB

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2024 56:08


DB sits down with Cody Daigle-Orians, creator of Ace Dad Advice, to discuss good queer representation and bust common myths and misconceptions about asexuality. They also delve into a recent article in The New York Times about sexless marriages, and answer a listener question on navigating relationships with differing sex drives! Want more ace content? Listen to our previous episode Asexuality with Daniel Walker! Cody Daigle-Orians is a writer an asexuality educator. They are the creator of Ace Dad Advice, a social-media based asexuality education project that helps asexual folks and those who are questioning live their best ace lives. Their first book, I AM ACE, is out now and their second book THE ACE AND ARO RELATIONSHIP GUIDE comes out in October. ——   Do you have a silly sex story to share, need some advice, or have thoughts on the episode you just heard? Send us a voicemail for a chance to be featured on the podcast!  —— Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdbTwitter : @sexedwithdbThreads: @sexedwithdbpodcast YouTube: Sex Ed with DB Rep your favorite sex ed podcast with our brand new merch! Sign up for our newsletter with BTS content and exclusive giveaways here. Are you a sexual health professional? Check out DB's workshop: Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand. Want to get in touch with Sex Ed with DB? Email us at sexedwithdb@gmail.com. —— Sex Ed with DB, Season 10 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den, Uberlube, and Magic Wand. Get discounts on all of DB's favorite things here! —— About Sex Ed with DB: Sex Ed with DB is a feminist podcast bringing you all the sex ed you never got through unique and entertaining storytelling, centering LGBTQ+ and BIPOC experts. We discuss topics such as birth control, pleasure, LGBTQ+ health and rights, abortion, consent, BDSM, sex and disability, HIV, sex in the media, and more. —— Sex Ed with DB, Season 10 Team: Creator, Host, Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) Producer: Sadie Lidji Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen Marketing Coordinator: Mitch Coburn Social Media Coordinator: Emm-Kirsty Fraser

Girls Gone Deep
Episode 075: Sexologist Bridget Scholes on Connected Pleasure, Mismatched Libidos, Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire, and Piss Play

Girls Gone Deep

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2024 71:20


Elle and Vee chat with Bridget Scholes (@bridgetscholessexology) who is a sexologist in Australia. She also owns her on dildo sex company, Madame Dahlia (@madame.dahlia).Being sexually attracted to others while married. (2:03)Healthy sex life in marriage and now divorced. (8:14)Using the lifestyle app Feeld to meet partners and always saying yes. (11:43)Sex club tips and lessons learned. (14:31)Going to sex clubs alone vs with a partner. (18:28)ENM nuggets: fostering communication, honesty and self reflection. (23:35)If a previously discussed boundary feels right in the moment, should you push it? (26:40)Common issues brought up in couples relationship therapy: reigniting desire in a longterm relationship, and the misconception of mismatched libidos. (28:13)How do partners with mismatched libidos navigate a conversation to get on the same page? (31:29)Pleasure languages, spontaneous vs responsive desire... or in other words, an Ellle vs a Vee. (34:07)Books that have helped on a personal sexual level and journey into non monogamy: Polysecure, Come As You Are, Mating in Captivity and other self help books. (36:46)Seducing yourself: Madame Dahlia dildo company, connected pleasure vs vibrator play. (40:45)Ebbs and flows of sex and how to get out of your head. (45:04)How to foster desire: sensual and simple pleasures. (48:58)Using social media to look at erotic art. (53:50)How male orgasms differ physiologically from female orgasms. (57:12)Kink: turned on by pee play / piss play. (59:49)Letting go of the messiness of sex, and dissociation from masturbation. (1:02:18)Website: bridgetscholessexology.com.auWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

The Redeemed Marriage Podcast
Summer Shorts: What's the best way to deal with libidos that don't match?

The Redeemed Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2024 31:25


Rusty and Heather tackle a common challenge many couples face - differing levels of sexual desire within the marriage. A listener from North Carolina writes in asking for advice on how to handle the situation when one spouse has a higher libido than the other. Giving insight from their own journey toward sexual fulfillment, Rusty and Heather provide a compassionate and practical perspective on this sensitive topic. They emphasize that mismatched libidos are extremely normal and almost every couple experiences this to some degree. The key is managing the differences through open communication, mutual understanding, and a willingness to serve each other in this area. Ask Us Anything

The Powerful Man Show
When Your Libidos Don't Match: Bridging the Desire Gap in Marriage

The Powerful Man Show

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2024 15:53


Ever wonder how mismatched libidos can impact a marriage and what you can do about it? In this episode of the TPM Show, Doug Holt delves into the common but rarely discussed issue of the "desire gap" in relationships. Discover how differences in sexual desire between partners can strain a marriage and the practical, actionable strategies that can help bridge this gap. Doug shares personal anecdotes and professional insights on the dynamics of desire, revealing why connection is crucial for intimacy. He discusses the impact of schedules, stress, and biological rhythms on sexual health and offers tips on how to synchronize your sexual relationship with your partner. From scheduling sex dates to understanding each other's needs and fostering open communication, this episode is packed with advice to help you enhance intimacy and strengthen your relationship. Join Doug as he explores how to turn a challenging situation into an opportunity for growth and deeper connection in your marriage. Don't miss out on these insights! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Taboo to Truth: Unapologetic Conversations About Sexuality in Midlife
Episode 32: Unveiling Desire - Navigating Mismatched Libidos in Relationships

Taboo to Truth: Unapologetic Conversations About Sexuality in Midlife

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2024 7:14


In this episode, I'm opening up about a topic that's often whispered about but rarely spoken out loud: mismatched libidos. I'll share with you my thoughts and experiences on the lack of sexual desire—whether it's something that can be revived or an intrinsic part of someone's being. I talk abut strategies for finding what gets you in the mood, and how to communicate these needs to your partner. Whether it's setting a romantic scene or experimenting with new forms of foreplay, finding the key to your desire can be a rewarding journey. Let's get comfortable and start the conversation on making our sex lives as fulfilling as they can be. ************************************************************* Have a burning question or topic suggestion? karen@taboototruth.com ⁠⁠⁠https://www.taboototruth.com/⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@taboototruth⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Youtube @taboototruthpodcast⁠⁠⁠ *this podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your medical provider. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/taboototruth/message

How’s Your Sex Life?
Tackling Mismatched Libidos with Erica Chidi

How’s Your Sex Life?

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2024 35:42


How to enjoy intimacy again after a miscarriage? How to handle mismatched libidos in long term relationships? And getting turned off by messy sex. 

The Horny Housewife
172- managing mismatched libidos & how much sex are you having

The Horny Housewife

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2024 41:11


Today we have listener questions addressing how much "maintenance sex" should a couple be having? One husband wants to know how to confront his wife about her lack of drive. Another wife feels like she is married to an unwilling spouse and feels hopeless, let's discuss. BlueChew: Get your first month supply free by going to bluechew.com and using code "housewife" at checkout. Butter Wellness: Use code "housewife" to get 20% off the Personal Massager at butterwellness.com ASK ANON @ www.thehornyhousewifepodcast.com shop new merch @ www.THHmerch.com Follow me on instagram: @_thehornyhousewifepodcast

The Quicky
Long Covid & The Way It's Killing Women's Libidos

The Quicky

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2024 15:44


A new, first of its kind study has revealed a link between women who experience long covid and a decrease in their sexual health. We know so much about how the coronavirus impacted other areas of our health, but this study finally looks at the impact of COVID-19 on 6 key sexual health areas in women, finding those who had contracted covid were more likely to be experiencing sexual disfunction. So can we do anything about it? How do we discuss it with our doctors and why is the world in general having less sex in 2024? The Quicky team investigates the link between covid and our low libidos Want to try our new exercise app? Click here to start a seven day free trial of MOVE by Mamamia. Subscribe to Mamamia GET IN TOUCH Feedback? We're listening! Call the pod phone on 02 8999 9386 or email us at podcast@mamamia.com.au CONTACT US Got a topic you'd like us to cover? Send us an email at thequicky@mamamia.com.au CREDITS  Host: Claire Murphy With thanks to:  Amelia M. Stanton, Ph.D - Assistant Professor at the Dept. of Psychological & Brain Sciences, Boston University Producer: Claire Murphy Executive Producer: Kally Borg Audio Producer: Jacob RoundBecome a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Mindful Healers Podcast with Dr. Jessie Mahoney and Dr. Ni-Cheng Liang
183. Navigate Mismatched Libidos with Mindful Love

The Mindful Healers Podcast with Dr. Jessie Mahoney and Dr. Ni-Cheng Liang

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2024 41:01


Do you and your partner have different levels of sexual desire?  Do libido differences cause tension in your relationship?  Do you feel guilt, blame or shame about your desire for sex?  Studies show that a lack of interest in sex is by far the most common and distressing sexual problem.  When sex suffers, so do all other areas of life. The brain is our most powerful sex organ." Take a listen to Episode 88 with Dr. Kelly Casperson to learn more. As such, mindfulness and coaching are key to finding solutions to different sexual desires in long-term relationships. They help you cultivate desire, increase sexual pleasure, and find connection and joy. Listen to this episode to hear approaches to navigating differing levels of sexual desires with mindful love. In brief: Show up with compassion for yourself and your partner Notice the differences without judgment  Set an intention to stay out of blame, shame, and guilt  Set an intention for connection Accept and allow and/or accept and not like that you and your partner are different in this moment in time Have patience with each other and different life seasons Drop all-or-nothing thinking and any catastrophizing Think generously Practice presence Nourish and replete yourself.  Of course, sex is low on the priority list when you are stressed and depleted Take good care of your parasympathetic nervous system by practicing mindfulness and/or yoga  Tell good stories and healthy narratives about pleasure, your body, and “the mismatch.” Ask what love would do. Get coached. Getting help helps.   Join Jessie for Mindful Love Small Group Relationship Coaching. It starts in late March and is only offered once a year. This group helps you navigate every issue that comes up in intimate relationships - parenting, bill paying, vacation planning, division of labor, intimacy, and so much more.  www.jessiemahoneymd.com/mindfulrelationshipcoaching Come to the Mindful Healers Connect in Nature Retreat with your partner. Enjoy a long weekend at a beautiful inn, soak up nature, and practice mindfulness together.  Non-medical beloveds and welcome and encouraged to join. It's a win-win for everyone. If you want to work on your relationship before then and/or with literal spaciousness from your home environment, join me for a Sagrada retreat. They are the perfect place to refill your cup, grow a mindfulness practice, and have clarity about how you would like to move forward. Reach out to either of us to work on building and growing a mindful and self-compassion practice at themindfulhealerspodcast.com *Nothing in this episode should be considered medical advice.  

4 Badass Bitches ~ Uncensored Wellness 4U
When Libidos Don't Match Up w/ Sheila Ramsay

4 Badass Bitches ~ Uncensored Wellness 4U

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2023 35:34


When Libidos Don't Match Up ~ with guest Sheila Ramsay ~ Women's Empowerment & Sexuality Coach This episode is soooo good and packed with tons of great info on "turn-on", how much is too much, vs not enough, how to identify where there might be an issue, and what reconnecting to your sexuality and turn-on can do for you!! Plus so much more!!EPISODE NOTESWe talk about…What results you can expect when you learn to live in your bodyHealing & Sexual Shame from trauma and societal conditioningNormalizing turn-on, sex and our desiresDisconnection from our bodies & from our sexuality as a collective wholeHow we can heal individually and as a collectiveNoticing what you feel in your body and tracking itRegulating your nervous system so we can handle hard things in lifeGrounding in your bodyPorn Addiction and the various nuancesSex Addiction; is there such a thing??How to identify where there might be an issueAnd how we can all heal by reconnecting back into our bodies, into our truth and core Follow Sheila…https://instagram.com/luxuriousfemininepowerhttps://www.facebook.com/sheila.ramsay.9/ 

Reimagining Love
Desire Differences: What to Do When You and Your Partner Have Mismatched Libidos with Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy & Dr. Jennifer Vencill

Reimagining Love

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2023 65:19


If you and your partner have a desire difference between you, you're not alone. In this episode, Dr. Solomon is joined by guests Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy and Dr. Jennifer Vencill for an honest and compassionate conversation about mismatched libidos and how partners can navigate this challenge as a team.Order Dr. Solomon's new book, Love Every Day:https://bookshop.org/p/books/love-every-day-365-relational-self-awareness-practices-to-help-your-relationship-heal-grow-and-thrive-alexandra-solomon/19970421?ean=9781683736530Desire: An Inclusive Guide to Navigating Libido Differences in Relationships by Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy & Dr. Jennifer Vencillhttps://drlaurenfogel.com/book/Subscribe to Dr. Solomon's Newsletter:https://dralexandrasolomon.com/subscribe/Submit a Listener Question:https://form.jotform.com/212295995939274 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The Thyroid Fix
356. Wake Her Up! Mind, Body, Spirit and Libidos with Marcella Hill

The Thyroid Fix

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2023 43:30


You know, I've always been a firm believer in never, ever giving up on ourselves or our health. How many times have you been told everything's "normal" even when every bone in your body screams otherwise? Too many of us have been there, and it's time we shake things up. Today, I've got someone super special for you all – Marcella Hill. She's a powerhouse of a woman, and when you hear her story, you'll know why. Marcella took her personal hormone rollercoaster ride and turned it into this amazing movement. It's not just about her journey, it's about giving all of us the hope, the education, and the real-talk information we need. You're in for a treat with this one. Marcella is all about empowering us to take our health by the reins. After hearing her, I promise you'll feel a fire in your belly to listen to your body and step up your health game. So, let's dive in and get inspired together! Marcella Hill's book: Wake Her Up Shop ALL of Dr. Amie's Fixxr® Supplements: Fixxrsupps.com Subscribe to my Text Club: Text DRAMIE to 8332631365 LET'S GET YOUR LIFE BACK...Connect with Dr. Amie Hornaman Book a free discovery call: https://dramiehornaman.com/pages/book-a-call MY FAVS… Want to know what Dr Amie‘s favorite companies are that she uses on a daily basis plus grab a sweet discount? Go to: https://dramiehornaman.com/pages/sponsors FREE DOWNLOADS… Are My Labs Optimal? What Do I Do? Don't know where to start...don't know which labs are useful? And what to do when you get your results? Heal Your Hashi with Keto a 7 Day Challenge: 7 daily tasks to implement if you are looking for that nutritional change, and a challenge that can help get you on the road to healthier, dietary choices!  Can Supplements Help with Hypothyroidism? Grab this thorough guide to help you select the most advantageous supplements that will best suit your health circumstances. 3 Things You Can Do Right Now To Lose Fat: If you're frustrated and ready to give up on all efforts to lose fat ...these 3 action steps are invaluable! You can do them IMMEDIATELY.  CONNECT WITH ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Join my exclusive Facebook Group, Dr. Amie…The Thyroid Fixer®...Love Your Mirror, for a Community of HOPE and Support in your thyroid journey. https://www.facebook.com/groups/dramie/ Like me on Facebook: Amie Hornaman Nutrition and Functional Medicine Subscribe on Youtube: Dr. Amie Hornaman Follow me on Instagram: @dramiehornaman

What I Love about Men!
#321 Mismatched Libidos (5 major reason why this happens)!

What I Love about Men!

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2023 43:21


In this episode, you will learn:You have a LOT more control over your libido (and your partners) than you think!Rejection does not have to feel as personally painful when you make your sex life a team effort.It's important to have conversations with your partner, so you can see how sexually different they are than you!Join Sex Meditations! https://www.stephanieganowski.com/offers/2gA2VzBHPE COURSE https://www.stephanieganowski.com/endyourpenowFollow my YouTubeDE MASTERCLASS https://www.stephanieganowski.com/offers/9bsQSmruEffective vs. Ineffective Communication FREE TRAINING* https://www.stephanieganowski.com/joinus1:1 Coaching (serious applicants only) https://stephanieganowski.typeform.com/to/Fm6LGfa9GET WEEKLY SEX TIPS https://www.stephanieganowski.com/news-letter MY OTHER OFFERS: https://www.stephanieganowski.com/offers/hBDReQLCINSTAGRAM https://www.instagram.com/stephganowski/

Pillow Talks
Episode 121: When She Wants It More: Navigating Mismatched Libidos When The Woman Has A Higher Drive

Pillow Talks

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2023 56:07


Links & Resources: Guide: Art Of Initiation Are you a woman who wants sex more than your male partner? All we see on TV, movies, and social media is men wanting it more, so if that's not the case in your relationship, you may feel like something is horribly wrong. But after polling our community, we found that almost half of male-female relationships have this dynamic! That has even been the case for us in seasons of our relationship. We're here to remove the shame, show you how normal it is for the woman to want sex more often, and tell you what to do to balance your libidos. Because mismatched sex drives - regardless of who has the higher drive - don't need to be a dealbreaker. In this episode you'll learn: Real life responses from men and women about how higher female libido affects them The 4 ways couples accidentally make things worse The single most overlooked step that could make a world of difference Go to GreenChef.com/60pillow and use code 60pillow to get 60% off plus free shipping. Thanks Dipsea. Get a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/pillow. Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode121

Honeydew Me
138. Finding Your Normal: Navigating Low & Mismatched Libidos

Honeydew Me

Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2023 69:11


We're covering all things libido with sex therapist (and libido expert) Dr. Emily Jamea. We chat about: What libido is and isn't The difference between libido, sex drive, and desire What a "normal" libido looks like Why low libido isn't inherently bad How to navigate mismatched libidos in a relationship Common libido myths What can negatively impact your libido Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dear Shandy
Navigating Mismatched Libidos With Sexologist Shan Boodram - Ep 164

Dear Shandy

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2022 66:13 Very Popular


Today's Hot Topic conversation finally tackles a common theme among our Shandies' relationship questions over the last 2 years: What to do when one partner wants to get frisky way more than the other? Shan Boodram, our esteemed expert joining us today, could not be more qualified to take on this subject: Shan is a certified sexologist and sex and intimacy educator, among her many other qualifications, and she helps us navigate how to broach the topic of wanting more sex, how to work towards raising one's own libido, how to communicate likes/dislikes in the bedroom (without killing the mood), and how to get back into sexy time postpartum. Shan is as fun as she is knowledgeable and we guarantee you'll both laugh and learn something new throughout this conversation!More Shan:Book "The Game Of Desire" - https://www.thegameofdesire.com/buyLovers And Friends Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1586679298Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/shanboody/Website - https://www.shanboodram.comShan's Turn-On Trigger Quiz - https://www.thegameofdesire.com/quizTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Sexologist And Intimacy Educator Shan Boodram!3:16 - What Is Sexology And Why Did She Get Into It?8:36 - Tips For Couples Navigating Mismatched Libidos13:55 - Does Bringing It Up More Scare It Away?20:14 - For The Partner Who Wishes They Wanted Sex More27:56 - Comfort and Familiarity29:29 - Turn-On Triggers31:12 - Where's The Line Between Maintaining A Sex Life With A Low Libido Versus Agreeing To Have Sex When You Don't Want To? 35:44 - Does More Beget More?37:55 - Advice For Sex And Intimacy Postpartum 40:53 - Tips For Orgasming43:44 - Tips On How To Get A Partner To Change What They're Doing Without Killing The Mood?46:12 - True Or False: Ejaculation Is Good For Men's Health50:32 - Thoughts On Today's Swipe Culture And Dating Climate 57:42 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSupport Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Your Mom & Dad
389: “Mismatched” Libidos & “Weird Stuff” We're Into!

Your Mom & Dad

Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2022 87:48 Very Popular


Fetish, turn-offs, and bedroom communication is IT today, #broadsquad! The Broads are joined by the fantastic Nicoletta Heidegger (sexologist, psychotherapist, and host of “Sluts and Scholars” podcast) - but first Bekah and Jess chat and get honest about some current challenges and growth with family. Then they dive into a great conversation with Nicoletta about partners with differing libidos, the “erotic blueprint”, breaks and accelerators, the difference between desire and arousal, responsive versus spontaneous desire, kink, how to practice asking for what you want, fart and foot fetishes, aliens, and much more!    NICOLETTA HEIDEGGER: Listen to “Sluts and Scholars” podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sluts-and-scholars/id1223781930  Follow Sluts and Scholars here: https://www.instagram.com/slutsandscholars/ Follow Nicoletta here: https://www.instagram.com/therapywithnicoletta/  Website: https://www.nicolettavheidegger.com/   THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: HELLO FRESH: Go to HELLOFRESH.COM/CHATTY16 and use code CHATTY16 for up to 16 free meals and 3 free gifts!  PRETTY LITTER: Go to PRETTYLITTER.COM/CHATTY to save 20% on your first order! FIELD OF GREENS: Get 15% off your first order PLUS get another 10% off when you subscribe for recurring orders at FIELDOFGREENS.COM and use promo code CHATTY NATIVE;  Go to NATIVEDEO.COM/CHATTY or use code CHATTY to get 20% off your first order! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.