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Can long-term relationships do more harm than good? Where is the line between intimacy and codependence? And should we all try to be more like Mike's parents? RESOURCES:"A Record-High Share of 40-Year-Olds in the U.S. Have Never Been Married," by Richard Fry (Pew Research Center, 2023)."Divorce Skyrocketing Among Aging Boomers," by Sharon Jayson (AARP, 2023)."Don't Let Love Take Over Your Life," by Faith Hill (The Atlantic, 2023)."Marriage Provides Health Benefits – and Here's Why," by Libby Richards, Melissa Franks, and Rosie Shrout (The Conversation, 2023)."The Benefits of Diversifying Your Social Portfolio," by Samantha Boardman (Psychology Today, 2023)."Satisfying Singlehood as a Function of Age and Cohort: Satisfaction With Being Single Increases With Age After Midlife," by Yoobin Park, Elizabeth Page-Gould, and Geoff MacDonald (Psychology and Aging, 2022)."Pathology in Relationships," by Susan C. South (Annual Review of Clinical Psychology, 2021)."Behind 'the Collateral Heartbreak' and Intense Devotion of the Reagans' Decades-Long Romance," by Virginia Chamlee (People, 2021)."U.S. Marriage Rate Plunges to Lowest Level on Record," by Janet Adamy (The Wall Street Journal, 2020)."The Suffocation Model: Why Marriage in America Is Becoming an All-or-Nothing Institution," by Eli J. Finkel, Elaine O. Cheung, Lydia F. Emery, Kathleen L. Carswell, and Grace M. Larson (Current Directions in Psychological Science, 2015).EXTRAS:"Are We Getting Lonelier?" by No Stupid Questions (2023)."The Facts Are In: Two Parents Are Better Than One," by Freakonomics Radio (2023).“Why Did You Marry That Person? (Replay),” by Freakonomics Radio (2023).“The Fracking Boom, a Baby Boom, and the Retreat From Marriage,” by Freakonomics Radio (2017).
Kristen and Russell review a Harvard Business Review article titled, "Leadership In a Politically Charged Age", by Nour Kteily and Eli J. Finkel. We live in very divisive times and more and more, people are bringing their political beliefs with them to the workplace. This article discusses some ways that managers can approach this issue to help build stronger teams.We'll be taking a break from books for a bit and reviewing magazine articles. If you have any suggestions for books to be featured on RFS, please let us know! Be sure to subscribe and share RFS with other Customer Success professionals.
Dr. Eli Finkel, a social psychology professor at Northwestern University, joins Dr. Solomon for an in-depth discussion about the state of marriage and long-term partnership today, in an ever-changing and ever-complicated world. They also discuss Eli's book, The All-Or-Nothing Marriage, and answer a listener question together about a new relationship. The Family Institute at Northwestern University:https://www.family-institute.org/The All-Or-Nothing Marriage by Eli J. Finkel:https://bookshop.org/books/the-all-or-nothing-marriage-how-the-best-marriages-work/9781101984345Dr. Eli Finkel's Website:https://elifinkel.com/Subscribe to Dr. Solomon's Newsletter:https://dralexandrasolomon.com/subscribe/Submit your question to Dr. Solomon:https://form.jotform.com/212295995939274 See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
This week, Chelsea is joined by social psychology professor and relationship researcher Eli J. Finkel to discuss marriage, monogamy, and why data matters when it comes to relationship advice. Then: A recent breakup makes an ex-girlfriend question her gut. A wife wonders how to get her husband to put down the phone when they're in bed. And a twenty-something explores opening up her relationship with her non-binary partner. * Executive Producer Nick Stumpf Produced by Catherine Law Edited & Engineered by Brandon Dickert * * * * * The views and opinions expressed are solely those of the Podcast author, or individuals participating in the Podcast, and do not represent the opinions of iHeartMedia or its employees. This Podcast should not be used as medical advice, mental health advice, mental health counseling or therapy, or as imparting any health care recommendations at all. Individuals are advised to seek independent medical, counseling advice and/or therapy from a competent health care professional with respect to any medical condition, mental health issues, health inquiry or matter, including matters discussed on this Podcast. Guests and listeners should not rely on matters discussed in the Podcast and shall not act or shall refrain from acting based on information contained in the Podcast without first seeking independent medical advice. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
This week, Chelsea is joined by social psychology professor and relationship researcher Eli J. Finkel to discuss marriage, monogamy, and why data matters when it comes to relationship advice. Then: A recent breakup makes an ex-girlfriend question her gut. A wife wonders how to get her husband to put down the phone when they're in bed. And a twenty-something explores opening up her relationship with her non-binary partner. * Executive Producer Nick Stumpf Produced by Catherine Law Edited & Engineered by Brandon Dickert * * * * * The views and opinions expressed are solely those of the Podcast author, or individuals participating in the Podcast, and do not represent the opinions of iHeartMedia or its employees. This Podcast should not be used as medical advice, mental health advice, mental health counseling or therapy, or as imparting any health care recommendations at all. Individuals are advised to seek independent medical, counseling advice and/or therapy from a competent health care professional with respect to any medical condition, mental health issues, health inquiry or matter, including matters discussed on this Podcast. Guests and listeners should not rely on matters discussed in the Podcast and shall not act or shall refrain from acting based on information contained in the Podcast without first seeking independent medical advice. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com
Search for the "Dear Chelsea..." Podcast and download new episodes every Thursday! This week, Chelsea is joined by social psychology professor and relationship researcher Eli J. Finkel to discuss marriage, monogamy, and why data matters when it comes to relationship advice. Then: A recent breakup makes an ex-girlfriend question her gut. A wife wonders how to get her husband to put down the phone when they're in bed. And a twenty-something explores opening up her relationship with her non-binary partner. * Executive Producer Nick Stumpf Produced by Catherine Law Edited & Engineered by Brandon Dickert * * * * * The views and opinions expressed are solely those of the Podcast author, or individuals participating in the Podcast, and do not represent the opinions of iHeartMedia or its employees. This Podcast should not be used as medical advice, mental health advice, mental health counseling or therapy, or as imparting any health care recommendations at all. Individuals are advised to seek independent medical, counseling advice and/or therapy from a competent health care professional with respect to any medical condition, mental health issues, health inquiry or matter, including matters discussed on this Podcast. Guests and listeners should not rely on matters discussed in the Podcast and shall not act or shall refrain from acting based on information contained in the Podcast without first seeking independent medical advice. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com
Plus... One-on-one with New York Times Opinion editor Kathleen Kingsbury; Daniel Dale's data about Biden's first 100 days; the shifting tone of Covid coverage; and more. Eli J. Finkel, Daniel Dale, Nicole Hemmer, Oliver Darcy, Zeynep Tufekci, David Leonhardt, Kathleen Kingsbury and Bill Carter join Brian Stelter. To learn more about how CNN protects listener privacy, visit cnn.com/privacy
This week on Let's Get Into It, Alex Aiono is joined by comedians (and newlyweds!) Steve Hernandez (Who's Your God Podcast) and Julia Loken (What's Your Sign? Podcast), as well as marriage and relationship expert Eli J. Finkel (The All-or-Nothing Marriage). There are literally hundreds of people studying what makes a marriage work, but we sometimes assume it's all guesswork. Alex and his guests dive into one of the most complex types of relationship: the open marriage. How do open marriages work - and DO they work? Do monogamous couples have the more trust in their relationship? If you open up your marriage, will it fall apart - or could it thrive? Eli J. Finkel, author of the bestselling book The All-or-Nothing Marriage, reveals some surprising truths about monogamy - and where it fails us. Steve and Julia tell us all about their partially-open marriage - and how it works. All this and more are covered on this brand new ep! Find Eli's book, The All-or-Nothing Marriage, at https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/318510/the-all-or-nothing-marriage-by-eli-j-finkel/. Executive Producers Jack O'Brien + Miles Gray Produced by Catherine Law + Joelle Smith Edited + Engineered by Catherine Law Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com
Ever feel like you're constantly climbing up the marriage mountain with no summit in sight? What is it that makes marriage harder than it's ever been, but also more rewarding? In this week's episode, Nate and Emily discuss their favorite book on marriage, The All or Nothing Marriage by Eli J. Finkel. Learn about the history of marriage in America, and how our journey towards becoming the best version of ourselves puts more stress on American marriage than in any time in history. With incredible insight into the challenges and opportunities modern couples face, this book offers perspective, "lovehacks," recalibration techniques, and so much more! Learn more about the author, Eli J. Finkel hereFind us on Facebook, Instagram, and Youtube Have a question or an idea for an episode? Email us at lessnotperfect@gmail.com
This is the first episode in a series of episodes on Erotic Companionship. We wanted to explore how and why eroticism fades in a committed relationship and how we could debunk this long standing statistic. "When we bring our wild, untamed, authentic self to the relationship we are creating a safe space, without shame, that acts as an incubator for deep, transcendent eroticism-the kind most people have yet to experience. We shake the foundation of our relationship, push ourselves beyond our comfort zone and dissolve our fears over and over again." We have an Erotic Companionship Periodical that goes along with this series for sale in our shop: www.johnnyandbailey.com/shop Books we mention in the episode: Mating in Captivity, Ester Perel The All or Nothing Marriage, Eli J. Finkel