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Lyn welcomes back Caroline Ackroyd, a hypnotherapist and love coach, to explore the compelling topic of why women often attract emotionally unavailable men. Caroline shares her insights on unhealthy patterns that stem from our childhood experiences, emphasising how unmet emotional needs can lead to a cycle of seeking affection and validation from men who mirror those early relationships. The conversation delves into the psychological aspects of these dynamics, including the concept of "pining patterns", & the trauma bonds that attract unhealthy relationships, and how we can heal and break free from them. KEY TAKEAWAYS Understanding Emotional Unavailability: Emotional unavailability in men can stem from their childhood experiences, where their emotional needs were not met. This can manifest in various ways, from lack of affection/ attention to more severe issues like narcissisic behaviours. The Pining Pattern: The "pining pattern," is where love is associated with longing and chasing and feeling anxious. This pattern often leads to choosing men who mirror the emotional unavailability experienced in childhood, perpetuating a cycle of unfulfilling/ unhealthy relationships. Self-Responsibility: It's crucial to recognise that while attraction to emotionally unavailable men is external, it's actually a reflection of what's going on internally. Taking responsibility for any unhealthy choices we make in relationships is the first step towards healing and breaking the pattern. Healing involves changing your negative self-talk/ narrative about self-worth and being good enough, and learning to positively validate yourself. By acknowledging your own lovability and worthiness, you can attract more attention/ affection and healthier relationships. BEST MOMENTS "When I say emotionally unavailable, that can manifest itself... from someone who is not affectionate, all the way to higher degrees... a narcissist all the way to psychopath." "You are trying to change your parent by changing that partner... if you can make him into a warm, cuddly, loving pussycat, you will have put a happy ending on your childhood." "You will know that you have healed when that type and those red flags no longer come into your radar." "It's not about finding love. It's about attracting that partner... it's possible and available for you."ABOUT THE GUEST - Caroline Ackroyd - Hypnotherapist & Love CoachCaroline Ackroyd is an RTT Hypnotherapist, Dating Coach and Soulmate Attraction Mentor helping women elevate their self-concept, sense of worthiness and lovability to feel whole and confident to date in their power. She helps women heal love blocks that keep them single or in negative relationship patterns with emotionally unavailable or uncommitted men, and supports them to raise their standards through self-love. She herself overcame unworthiness and insecurity through inner child healing, reparenting, and wiring in a new upgraded self-concept with hypnotherapy. Longing to have a healthy, happy relationship, she specialised in Feminine Communication that leads to emotional connection and commitment, and Feminine Dating that creates sizzling polarity and lasting attraction. Her dream of finding her Soulmate came true after manifesting him with her signature Soulmate Attraction Process. FB - https://www.facebook.com/amazonkidIG - https://www.instagram.com/hypnolovecoach/Email - hypnolovecoach@gmail.com ABOUT THE HOST Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace. She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe. HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.CONTACT METHOD lyn@hearts-entwined.com
Lyn invites back hypnotherapist and love coach Caroline Ackroyd to discuss the secret of attracting a high-value man. Caroline shares her insights on the importance of self-perception, self-worth, and the internal dialogue that shapes our dating experiences. They explore how negative self-talk hinders our ability to attract high quality men and provide practical tips for building confidence and a positive self-image. KEY TAKEAWAYS To attract a high-value man, it's essential to have high self-worth and view oneself as a high-value woman. This involves cultivating self-love a positive self-image and confidence. Recognising and changing negative internal self-talk is crucial. Catching yourself having negative thoughts and reframing them into positive affirmations can significantly impact self-esteem and how you present yourself. Many feelings of inadequacy stem from early childhood experiences. Identifying and healing these past events will reshape self-image and vastly improve your dating experiences. The energy we exude is felt by others. Confidence and self-acceptance create a magnetic presence that attracts high-value men, who are drawn to women who feel worthy and confident. High-value men are attracted to women who see themselves as valuable and who maintain high standards in a relationship. This includes having healthy boundaries by showing you're interested but not appearing overly eager or desperate, allowing a man to pursue and chase you, which reinforces your value in his mind. BEST MOMENTS "The secret to attracting a high value man is for you to have a high self-concept, how you view yourself. You need to view yourself as a high value woman." "Imagine that if you were someone else telling you the things that you're telling yourself, would you be friends with them?" "A high value man wants a woman who is worthy of that chase, who sees and feels herself like the prize that she is." "It's not only about the looks. Sometimes we look at couples and think, what's he doing with her? We're just looking superficially at the external physical looks." ABOUT THE GUEST - Caroline Ackroyd - Hypnotherapist & Love CoachCaroline Ackroyd is an RTT Hypnotherapist, Dating Coach and Soulmate Attraction Mentor helping women elevate their self-concept, sense of worthiness and lovability to feel whole and confident to date in their power. She helps women heal love blocks that keep them single or in negative relationship patterns with emotionally unavailable or uncommitted men, and supports them to raise their standards through self-love. She herself overcame unworthiness and insecurity through inner child healing, reparenting, and wiring in a new upgraded self-concept with hypnotherapy. Longing to have a healthy, happy relationship, she specialised in Feminine Communication that leads to emotional connection and commitment, and Feminine Dating that creates sizzling polarity and lasting attraction. Her dream of finding her Soulmate came true after manifesting him with her signature Soulmate Attraction Process. FB - https://www.facebook.com/amazonkidIG - https://www.instagram.com/hypnolovecoach/Email - hypnolovecoach@gmail.com ABOUT THE HOST Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace. She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe. HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.CONTACT METHODlyn@hearts-entwined.com
Lyn welcomes hypnotherapist and love coach Caroline Ackroyd to discuss the concept of 'love blocks' and how they hinder our ability to find true love. Caroline explains that love blocks are subconscious barriers that form because of negative past experiences and beliefs, often rooted in childhood trauma, that prevent individuals from feeling worthy of love. The conversation delves into common love blocks, such as feelings of unworthiness and fear of showing vulnerability and emphasises the importance of doing the inner work to heal these wounds so that we can attract healthy love relationships. KEY TAKEAWAYS Love blocks are subconscious barriers that prevent individuals from attacting healthy love in their lives. These usually stem from childhood experiences and beliefs that create fears around love and relationships. To remove love blocks, it's essential to explore childhood experiences and traumas that may have created negative beliefs about self-worth and lovability. Healing these wounds is crucial in order for us to feel deserving of healthy love. Cultural/ religeous beliefs and messages received during upbringing can also contribute to love blocks. It's important to identify and reframe any negative beliefs to align with a more positive healthier outlook on love. To attract a soulmate, one must first get clear on what they truly desire in a partner, focusing on how they want to 'feel' in the relationship rather than just looking at the physical attributes of a potential match. After doing the inner work and setting intentions for love, it's vital to 'let go' of the need to control 'how' and 'when' love will come into your life. Trusting the process allows for unexpected and magical connections to magnetically present themselves. BEST MOMENTS "Love blocks are subconscious blocks that actually prevent love from manifesting in our lives." "You cannot receive love if you don't feel worthy of it. Feeling that you're enough is going to be the foundation to attracting that love." "Being aware that you can view the term 'rejection' in a different way... see that as protection." "Vulnerability is really at the core of learning to receive, and you need to open yourself up to be able to receive." "If you have that desire in your heart to meet that special someone, it is a sign that that is there for you." ABOUT THE GUEST - Caroline Ackroyd - Hypnotherapist & Love CoachCaroline Ackroyd is an RTT Hypnotherapist, Dating Coach and Soulmate Attraction Mentor helping women elevate their self-concept, sense of worthiness and lovability to feel whole and confident to date in their power. She helps women heal love blocks that keep them single or in negative relationship patterns with emotionally unavailable or uncommitted men, and supports them to raise their standards through self-love. She herself overcame unworthiness and insecurity through inner child healing, reparenting, and wiring in a new upgraded self-concept with hypnotherapy. Longing to have a healthy, happy relationship, she specialised in Feminine Communication that leads to emotional connection and commitment, and Feminine Dating that creates sizzling polarity and lasting attraction. Her dream of finding her Soulmate came true after manifesting him with her signature Soulmate Attraction Process. FB - https://www.facebook.com/amazonkidIG - https://www.instagram.com/hypnolovecoach/Email - hypnolovecoach@gmail.com ABOUT THE HOST Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace. She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe. HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.CONTACT METHODlyn@hearts-entwined.com
Stefan Gonick is an Expert EFT Practitioner and Soulmate Attraction Mentor and in this episode he shares HOW to start working on yourself TODAY with EFT. It's easy to learn but gives AMAZING results! What if you could rid of old emotional/thought patterns that are holding you back from the life of your dreams? For over 25 years Stefan has been helping individuals with a wide range of emotional challenges using EFT, including help with their love life, major life issues, business challenges, and physical pain and medical conditions. For more information, check out his web sites at: http://www.eft-alive.com https://Single2Soulmate.me
The #1 Reason You Haven't Found Your Soul Mate Yet with Stefan Gonick There are so many people who struggle to find the love of their life without success. Instead, they may have one painful relationship after another or mediocre unsatisfying relationships or no relationships at all. No matter what they try, nothing seems to help, and the reason for their lack of success remains a great mystery. In this interview, our guest, Stefan Gonick, will help take the mystery out of the search for love, and help you understand what has been getting in your way and how to break free and finally attract the love of your life!Stefan Gonick, Soulmate Attraction Mentor, EFT Practitioner, and founder of the Soulmate Attraction Academy, shows smart, loving singles who are struggling to find their soul mate, how to finally attract the spine-tingling and lasting love they long for...even when they think it's not possible for them. Stefan has been helping individuals and couples with their relationship issues for over 25 years. Stefan has helped thousands of people have the life and love they most desire. Get his special gift, the 3 Secrets to Attracting Amazing Love Masterclass, at his web site:https://Single2Soulmate.me/joan Stop being lonely. Find the love of your life with Joan's course. https://www.udemy.com/love-of-your-li... Joan Kaylor, M.S.Ed., L.P.C., DCEPTappingwithJoan.com“My passion is helping you feel better today.”Joan@JoanKaylor.com Joan is an international trainer of Emotional Freedom Techniques, aka, EFT, tapping. Joan is an Accredited Advanced EFT Practitioner with the Association for the Advancement of Meridian Energy Therapies, AAMET International. She is a, keynote speaker, consultant and best-selling instructor on Udemy.com. Joan has helped individuals and families since 1994.Joan is owner of Joan Kaylor, MSEd, LPC, DCEP Counseling and Consulting International. She is an Energy Wellness Coach and Consultant. She is a sought-after speaker and trainer.Joan is a member of the Association for Comprehensive Energy Psychology, ACEP, EFT International, the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, the International OCD Foundation, the Pennsylvania Counseling Association and the TLC Foundation for Body Focused Repetitive Behaviors. Joan is certified in energy psychology, Emotional Freedom Techniques and cognitive behavior therapy. Contact: Joan@JoanKaylor.comFacebook: Facebook.com/JoanKaylor,MSEd,LPCLinkedIn.com/joankaylorTwitter: @joankaylorhttp://www.joankaylor.com
Finding your soulmate for many can be a challenge. In this interview Stefan Gonick talks about the number one reason that stops people meeting the partner of their dreams. He also discusses how EFT can be a powerful tool that can help transform people's relationships bringing love into their lives. Guest: Stefan Gonick, Relationship Expert and EFT Trainer Contact: Website: https://Single2Soulmate.me About: Stefan Gonick, EFT Expert and Soulmate Attraction Mentor, shows smart, loving singles who are struggling to find their soul mate, how to finally attract the spine-tingling and lasting love they long for... even when they think it's not possible for them. Stefan has been helping individuals and couples with their relationship issues for over 23 years. Stefan has helped thousands of people have the life and love they most desire. For more information, check out his website at: https://Single2Soulmate.me Enter 'tanialove' if you wish to take up Stefan's offer to listeners of this show of $150 off the full price for his program. Please note that I am an affiliate of Stefan's and will receive monetary compensation. Please note also I only choose to be affiliate of programs that I believe in.
When it comes to creating the right loving relationship for our life it isn't simply about finding a relationship. We want to find our way to the right relationship at feeds and nurtures us. Unfortunately many people keep finding themselves in the same type of relationship over and over again that isn't right for them. In this conversation Stefan Gonick talks about what we can learn from our relationship pattern and how to get clear of conscious and unconscious fears about romantic relationships which leads us to taking useful action to creating that relationship. Guest: Stefan Gonick Contact: web @ FindingTheLoveYouWant.com; phone @ 413/527-5491 About Stefan: Stefan Gonick is an internationally recognized Soulmate Attraction Mentor and Expert EFT Practitioner. For over 20 years, Stefan has helped smart, loving people attract the spine-tingling and lasting love they've always longed for, even when they thought it wasn't possible for them.