Podcasts about emotionally unavailable

Why do some women attract providers while others keep ending up with partners they have to take care of? Tara and Tosh unpack how childhood conditioning, family roles, parental approval and unresolved trauma can quietly shape your relationships, career choices and ability to receive support. Tara and Tash open up about attracting emotionally unavailable men, struggling to trust the masculine, suppressing emotions and confusing hyper-independence with strength. They also explain why discomfort, procrastination and resistance may be signs that an old wound is ready to be healed. This conversation will make you look differently at your relationship patterns, your ambition and the type of love you believe you deserve. Instagram https://www.instagram.com/billiondbabie https://www.instagram.com/taruhhh https://www.instagram.com/tash9pm Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@billiondbabie CHAPTERS: 00:00 How Childhood Shapes Dating and Success 01:39 Choosing Love or Wealth Based on Trauma 02:42 Dating Someone Who Looked Perfect on Paper 03:56 Why Some Women Struggle to Receive Help 05:08 The Older Sibling Relationship Pattern 06:00 How Trauma Can Become Your Biggest Driver 07:23 Facing Learning Disabilities and School Trauma 09:11 Why Procrastination Is Not Always Laziness 11:45 Learning to Trust Someone to Take Care of You 13:27 Watching Childhood Patterns Repeat 15:01 Why You Keep Attracting People You Must Fix 17:08 Attracting Successful but Emotionally Unavailable Men 18:54 Is Emotional Vulnerability a Weakness? 20:23 Suppressing Anger and Rejecting Masculine Energy 22:00 Your Resistance Is Revealing Your Blocks 24:13 Why Successful People Need Hobbies 27:43 How Play Can Attract Love and Abundance 28:52 What Cats Can Teach Us About Receiving 31:35 Play Is the Highest Frequency #RelationshipAdvice #ChildhoodTrauma #EmotionalHealing #DatingPsychology #PersonalGrowth Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mercedes Coffman, LMFT, is a seasoned Marriage and Family Therapist known for her insightful, compassionate approach to emotional healing and relational growth.  Today on the show we discuss how inconsistency can make relationships feel addictive, why chemistry is not always the same as compatibility, how love bombing and emotional highs can dysregulate your nervous system, the difference between emotional unavailability and manipulation, why childhood wounds can cause people to chase the wrong partners, how trauma bonds actually work, why safe love can feel boring at first, and how to rebuild self-trust so you can choose healthier relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ce 1er juillet, Marjorie Hache orchestre une nouvelle édition de Pop-Rock Station. Les classiques s'enchaînent avec The Who, The Cure, AC/DC, Deportivo, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Soundgarden, The 5.6.7.8's, Supergrass, The Velvet Underground, Alice Cooper, Infectious Grooves, The White Stripes, Arctic Monkeys, Bob Dylan et Kate Bush. L'animatrice souligne le 81e anniversaire de Debbie Harry avec "Rip Her To Shreds" de Blondie. En matière de découvertes, Suede ouvre le bal avec "Emotionally Unavailable", issu de la réédition de son disque "Antidepressants". PJ Harvey dévoile l'envoûtant "Voyager", inspiré par la conquête spatiale, tandis que les Lambrini Girls et le duo Deary rejoignent la sélection. La primeur de la soirée met en lumière les Australiens de Pond, qui offrent le morceau "Two Hands", extrait de leur onzième album "Terrestrial". L'album de la semaine s'attarde sur "Songs Of Personal Loss and Protest" de Jon Spencer, porté par "Give It Up For The Devil" qui mêle urgence punk et blues new-yorkais. Enfin, la reprise de la soirée s'annonce bouleversante : le regretté Charles Bradley, surnommé le "Screaming Eagle of Soul", transfigure le mythique "Heart Of Gold" de Neil Young avec une intensité vocale déchirante. Suede - Emotionally Unavailable AC/DC - Rock 'n' Roll Ain't Noise Pollution Blondie - Rip Her To Shreds The Who - Magic Bus Deportivo - Parmi Eux Lynyrd Skynyrd - Simple Man Soundgarden - Fell On Black Days Jon Spencer - Give It Up 4 The Devil The Rolling Stones - Sympathy For The Devil The 5.6.7.8's - Woo Hoo The Cure - A Forest PJ Harvey - Voyager Bradley Charles - Heart Of Gold Supergrass - Rebel In You Deary - Seabird The Velvet Underground - Sweet Jane The Rapture - Echoes Lambrini Girls - Love Alice Cooper - No More Mr. Nice Guy Infectious Grooves - Violent & Funky Pond - Two Hands The White Stripes - Seven Nation Army Kate Bush - Sat In Your Lap Arctic Monkeys - Do I Wanna Know? Bob Dylan - Hurricane Hébergé par Audiomeans. Visitez audiomeans.fr/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

In this episode Rachel is joined by her friend Tehila! Tehila and Rachel discuss what it means to be emotionally available and if certain things indicate that they're still caught up on someone. Tehila tells Rachel her funniest stories, from her Yeshivish dating days to older guys trying to buy her time. This is definitely an episode you don't want to miss!Shticky Situations is sponsored by CoronaCrush. To find out more information about CoronaCrush visit their website and coronacrush.co. Also join the CoronaCrush Facebook group and sign up for speed dating events!Remember to like the Shticky Situations page on Facebook, follow @shtickysituationspod on Instagram, and follow @shtickysituationspod on Tiktok! And make sure to join the Shticky Situations Loop Group:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://loopmein.app.link/invite?uuid=7bd5252c-c1ff-47fc-938b-1c319c57354e⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Want to be a guest and hang out with Rachel and discuss your own dating stories? Apply today https://forms.gle/FhwZs74JBTJgGpw8A! Want to try your luck at dating Rachel or any of her guests? Also apply today https://forms.gle/J31HUQ5aYTzjz5Bv6! You can also send an email too shtickysituationspod@gmail.com or DM @shtickysituationspod on Instagram. Serious inquiries only.Shticky Situations is sponsored by Primrose Flower Shoppe! Primrose is located at 2922 Avenue M, Brooklyn, phone number 929-376-9815, and follow them on Instagram @primroseny.

Ce 23 juin, Marjorie Hache met à l'honneur Led Zeppelin, Thin Lizzy, T. Rex, The Four Tops, Amy Winehouse, Neil Young and Crazy Horse, Daft Punk, Radiohead, Arctic Monkeys, Queen, Fleetwood Mac, Placebo, Moodoïd et The Who. L'animatrice célèbre par ailleurs le 64e anniversaire de Steve Shelleyavec "My Friend Goo", soulignant son parcours depuis son arrivée à New York jusqu'à son rôle de batteur emblématique au sein de Sonic Youth. Suede donne le coup d'envoi des nouveautés avec "Emotionally Unavailable", issu de la réédition de son disque "Antidepressants". Tahiti 80 révèle "Too Much Too Fast Too Soon", tandis que Jack White, Korn, Deep Purple et la Néo-Zélandaise Gin Wigmore complètent le tableau. La primeur de la soirée met en lumière Schnallo, projet dark wave de Kimi Recor, qui offre l'envoûtant "Doom Generation", aux sonorités électroniques ancrées dans les années 80. L'album de la semaine s'attarde sur "Castle Park", le tout nouveau disque de Graham Coxon, guitariste de Blur, dont on découvre la charmante pépite "There's A Little House". Enfin, pour la reprise du jour Muse s'approprie avec grandiloquence et théâtralité le mythique "Feeling Good", popularisé par Nina Simone en 1965. Suede - Emotionally Unavailable Led Zeppelin - Heartbreaker Sonic Youth - My Friend Goo Eiffel - À Tout Moment La Rue Thin Lizzy - Dancing In The Moonlight Four Tops - Reach Out I'll Be There Amy Winehouse - You Know I'm No Good Graham Coxon - There's A Little House T. Rex - Get It On Neil Young & Crazy Horse - Break The Chain Daft Punk - Robot Rock Tahiti 80 - Too Much Too Fast Too Soon Muse - Feeling Good Radiohead - Nude Arctic Monkeys - R U Mine? Gin Wigmore - Beautiful Mess Queen - Hammer To Fall Korn - Here To Stay Deep Purple - Arrogant Boy Fleetwood Mac - Go Your Own Way Placebo - This Picture Schnallo - Doom Generation The B-52's - Planet Claire Moodoïd - Heavy Metal Be Bop 2 The Who - My Generation Jack White - Dollar Bill All Them Witches - InternetHébergé par Audiomeans. Visitez audiomeans.fr/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

What happens when deep grief meets the journey of healing, honesty, and vulnerability? In this heartfelt episode of Better Call Daddy, host Reena Friedman Watts reconnects with Malisa Hepner grief expert and host of Emotionally Unavailable who has faced unimaginable loss. Malisa shares her profound journey through the heartache of losing her child, revealing the layers of grief that come with such a loss and how it has shaped her understanding of emotional availability. Malisa opens up about her experiences with loss, including the passing of her parents and her child, and how these events have reshaped her perspective on vulnerability and connection. Reena and Malisa dive deep into authentic communication, the discomfort that often accompanies grief, and the necessity of allowing yourself to feel every emotion without judgment. They also talk honestly about the adjustments that come with major life changes how grief forces you to rebuild your sense of normal, and what that process actually looks like day to day. They discuss how societal expectations often lead to dismissive responses to grief, the importance of creating safe spaces for those who are mourning, and the power of vulnerability and community support. Sharing one's story, they explore, can be a healing act not just for the person grieving, but for everyone who hears it.

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Part 5 of the Relationship Psychology Series: Emotionally Unavailable Men Aren't Your Type — They're Your Pattern What if emotionally unavailable men aren't actually your “type”…but a nervous system pattern your body learned to normalize?In this final episode of the Relationship Psychology Series, we're diving into one of the deepest relationship truths women can uncover:Sometimes the attraction to emotionally unavailable men isn't about love…It's about familiarity.The inconsistency.The emotional distance.The longing.The chasing.The intermittent validation.And for many women, those dynamics feel intoxicating not because they're healthy……but because they feel familiar to the nervous system.In this episode, we unpack:why emotionally unavailable men feel so magneticthe anxious/avoidant relationship dynamichow women unknowingly abandon themselves trying to earn loveand what actually changes when a woman heals her relationship patterns.Because emotionally unavailable men are not your destiny.They're a pattern.And patterns can change.Inside this episode, we explore:Why emotionally unavailable men often feel so attractiveHow childhood emotional patterns shape adult attractionThe connection between proving your worth and emotionally distant menWhy women over-empathize and wait for potential instead of realityThe difference between compassion vs self-abandonmentHow intermittent validation creates emotional attachmentWhy emotionally unavailable dynamics can feel addictiveThe hidden ways women can also be emotionally unavailableWhy some women feel safer chasing love than receiving itWhat shifts when a woman heals her nervous system and attachment patternsThis episode is for you if:You keep attracting emotionally unavailable menYou constantly over-explain low effort or inconsistencyYou feel addicted to “the chase” in loveYou struggle to trust healthy, emotionally available menYou mistake anxiety and emotional highs/lows for chemistryYou've stayed too long waiting for someone's potential to become realityYou fear being “too much” or hard to loveBecause being chosen by emotionally unavailable men…will never heal the abandonment wound.Because no amount of finally being “picked” by unavailable love…will create the emotional safety your nervous system is actually craving.We also talk about…Why women often unconsciously recreate familiar relationship dynamics.Not because they're broken.But because the nervous system naturally gravitates toward what feels familiar — even when it's painful.And for many women…love became associated with:provingwaitingchasingover-functioningearning connectionInside LOVER…This is exactly the deeper work we do.LOVER is for the woman who is done:chasing emotionally unavailable loveproving her worth in relationshipsromanticizing inconsistencyconfusing chaos for chemistryabandoning herself to preserve connectionInside this experience, we work with:feminine embodimentnervous system healingemotional safetyattachment patternsself-worthpolarity & relationship dynamicsSo you stop recreating painful relationship cycles……and finally become emotionally available for the kind of love you truly desire.>> CLICK HERE TO JOIN LOVER

This is my Episode #3 of my new relationship show podcast. Why Emotionally Unavailable People Attract Each Other: The emotional skills we were never taught about intimacy Emotionally unavailable people often attract each other because the relationship feels familiar, safe, and validating of their existing beliefs about intimacy. Familiarity feels like chemistry Neither person has to face deep vulnerability They reinforce each other's core beliefs The pursuit creates intensity Available partners can initially feel boring Intimacy requires the following five emotional skills: Emotional Awareness "How to identify and express emotions" Vulnerability "How to be vulnerable without feeling weak" Direct Communication of Needs "How to ask for what you need" Staying Connected During Conflict "How to stay present when emotions rise" Repair "How to come back together after hurt"

Work with me for free: https://www.skool.com/inspired-life-method-9441/If you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners — or you know deep down that you're the one who's been emotionally unavailable — this video is going to change everything. Most people try to fix their relationships from the outside. But the real shift happens when you understand why you're the one drawing this pattern into your life in the first place.I've coached over 10,000 people through this exact process. And what I know for certain is this: the pattern doesn't break until YOU do the inner work first.✅ WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS VIDEO:→ The 3 things you need to become aware of before anything else can change (identity, patterns, and triggers)→ Why past hurt creates future fear — and how it's silently running your relationships right now→ What emotional hygiene actually is and why it's non-negotiable for emotional availability→ How to do the integration work that most people skip (and why skipping it keeps you stuck)→ A simple, honest way to communicate with your partner that creates alignment — without control or ultimatumsYou are not broken. You are not cursed. You are a projector — and your relationships are the projection. If you want to change what you're attracting, you have to change the projector. This video shows you exactly how.

Emotionally unavailable is the wrong word. The man you call distant is not unavailable, he is unprotected. What you have been calling a personality flaw is a survival strategy with a specific childhood origin and a specific dissolution path nobody else is teaching you.If you have spent years asking your partner why he shuts down, why every emotional question lands on a wall, why he can be warm in public and silent the second the door closes, this video will name what is actually happening underneath. You will see the engulfment that built the wall, the bodyguard that has been on duty since he was five years old, and the reason therapy and couples counseling have not been able to touch it. You will also see why you, the pursuer, picked him in the first place, and what your own work is.This video walks through the Worst Day Cycle™, the Authentic Self Cycle™, and the Emotional Authenticity Method™ as applied specifically to the love avoidant or shutdown partner, with the doctrine of Silence as the Bodyguard, the three core fears underneath the wall, and the blueprint symmetry that magnetically locks the pursuer and the avoidant together.Emotional unavailability is a survival strategy, not a personality. It forms when closeness in childhood meant being consumed by a parent's unmet emotional needs. The avoidant grew up in a home marked not by absence but by too much, too much emotional responsibility, too much enmeshment, too much pressure to manage the parent's inner world. The child made the only move available, which was to wall off, and the adult is still using a strategy a five year old built. Kenny Weiss teaches that the fix is not better communication, it is dissolution of the survival persona at the root through the Emotional Authenticity Method™.The avoidant has three core fears running underneath the wall. The fear of being consumed, the fear of being seen, and the fear of being responsible for another adult's emotional world like he was for his parent's. His greatest conscious fear is intimacy, but his greatest unconscious fear is abandonment, which is why the wall is the exact thing pushing his partner toward the door. This is the paradox the relationship advice industry has not been naming, and naming it correctly is the first step out of the dynamic.Kenny Weiss is a relationship, communication, and childhood trauma recovery specialist who works with high-functioning adults trapped in repeating pursuer-avoidant dynamics. He created the Worst Day Cycle™, the Authentic Self Cycle™, and the Emotional Authenticity Method™. His books include Your Journey to Success and Your Journey to Being Yourself.TOPICS COVERED: emotionally unavailable, emotionally unavailable partner, emotionally unavailable man, why he shuts down, love avoidant, shutdown partner, falsely empowered codependent, engulfment, enmeshment childhood, three core fears of the avoidant, kenny weiss, worst day cycle, authentic self cycle, emotional authenticity method, why your partner cant connect, dating an emotionally unavailable man, signs of emotional unavailability, healing avoidant attachment, pursuer avoidant dynamic, blueprint symmetry, codependence spectrum, why therapy didnt work, emotionally immature men, how to be emotionally available, dissolving the survival persona

If you've ever been called resilient when what you really needed was a hand, this episode is for you.More info, resources & ways to connect - https://www.tacosfallapart.com/podcast-live-show/podcast-guests/malisa-hepnerMalisa Hepner has lived a lot of life. Foster care, addiction in her family, incarceration, profound loss... and she went beyond surviving to build a career helping others navigate the same kind of pain. As a therapist, speaker and podcast host, Malisa brings both clinical expertise and raw personal honesty to everything she does, including this conversation on Even Tacos Fall Apart.We dig into what resilience actually means, because it's not about bouncing back fast or being "God's strongest soldier." Malisa talks candidly about how she used to resent that word, how it felt like people watching her drown while cheering her on. Her reframe of the word is powerful: resilience is the ability to show up authentically, find meaning in the mess and know that nothing outside of you changes your worth as a person.Self-compassion gets a real, practical look here too. Malisa walks through how it started for her as a single decision... a decree, really... to stop tearing herself apart and start treating herself like someone worth caring for. She talks about the body-based tools she uses when grief or anxiety gets loud, how to get out of your head and into your heart in about 90 seconds, and why your brain is genuinely lying to you most of the time it feels like catastrophe.One of the most powerful threads in this episode is vulnerability. Malisa was told by a trusted friend that she was emotionally unavailable, and she was furious! ...until she realized the friend was right. She had been retelling her trauma like it happened to someone else, using humor as armor, and calling it healing. That moment became the foundation of her podcast, Emotionally Unavailable, and a whole new chapter in her own growth.This episode was recorded just one month after Malisa lost her son to an accidental overdose. She shows up anyway, in real time, and shares what grief is teaching her about trust, connection and asking for help. It is one of the most honest conversations we have had on this show.If you are navigating trauma recovery, complex PTSD, perfectionism or just trying to figure out how to be a little kinder to yourself, this conversation could help.

Most men believe relationship problems happen because they don't know what to say. So when she's upset… when conflict starts… when emotions rise… they do what they've always done. They freeze. She's standing right in front of them. They can hear every word. They want to respond. But their chest tightens. Their mind starts racing. And suddenly the words disappear. Then later—when the moment is gone—they know exactly what they should have said. And that's where the deeper frustration begins. Because it doesn't feel like a communication problem. It feels like something inside you keeps taking over. In this episode, David breaks down why so many men shut down emotionally in relationships—and why it has far less to do with communication than most men realize. What looks like silence on the surface is often something much deeper underneath: A nervous system that interprets emotional closeness as danger. He explains why men withdraw, overthink, become "nice," avoid conflict, and slowly disappear inside their own relationships—without fully understanding why they're doing it. And the hardest part? Most men think they can think their way out of it. But the very thinking they rely on… is often the thing keeping them stuck. Instead of trying to find the perfect words, David reveals why the real work is learning how to stay present when emotion enters the room. Because until you can remain with discomfort— you will keep abandoning yourself, and the people you love.

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Why do smart self-aware women keep mistaking emotional unavailability for chemistry and calling the chase love? You can know better and still go right back to the same man. You can talk it through in therapy, name your patterns, and swear you are done, then find yourself pulled in the second he reaches out. So what gives? Hilary gets to the deeper truth behind why so many smart accomplished women still end up hooked on men who cannot fully show up. She breaks down the difference between insight and actual change, and why self-awareness alone does not heal the part of you that still confuses longing with love. What if the problem is not that you missed the red flags? What if your body has been trained to read inconsistency as chemistry and calm as a lack of spark? This conversation goes straight to the root. Until your sense of worth lives deeper than your thoughts, you will keep trying to earn what should be freely given. Hilary shows why the real work is not learning one more dating rule. It is changing the identity and nervous system pattern that keeps making unavailable men feel like home. Episode Highlights:  Why insight alone does not change your love life How the nervous system confuses struggle with chemistry The self-worth wound beneath unavailable men Why healthy love can feel unfamiliar at first What changes when you stop trying to earn love Episode Breakdown: 00:00 The Pull of Unavailable Love 02:46 Understanding the Cycle of Emotional Choices 06:06 The Body's Role in Love and Attachment 08:50 The Impact of Childhood Experiences 12:11 The Deep Subconscious Beliefs 14:55 Transforming Self-Worth and Identity ✨ I'm Hilary Silver, LCSW, former psychotherapist turned master coach and founder of Ready for Love. I help high-achieving women show up in love as confidently as they do in their careers.

If you've ever felt confused, blindsided, or completely thrown off in modern dating… this episode is for you. I'm breaking down what we can actually learn from Love Is Blind Season 10, specifically how emotionally unavailable partners show up, why that intense early connection can feel so real (but isn't always sustainable), and what secure, healthy love truly looks like. Whether you watched the show or not, this is a powerful deep dive into attachment styles, emotional availability, and how to stop repeating painful dating patterns for good.Inside this episode:How to identify avoidant attachment and emotionally unavailable partners early on (before you get attached)Why fast, intense emotional connection can be misleading and what real compatibility actually requiresThe key traits of secure, healthy love (and how to start embodying them in your own dating life)I also walk you through what actually matters when you're dating, hint: it's not chemistry, attraction, or how quickly someone opens up. It's about consistency, emotional capacity, and how someone shows up when things aren't perfect.And if you're ready to stop the cycle of confusing, hot-and-cold relationships and finally experience secure, aligned love… this is your next step.✨ Private 1:1 Coaching - Empowered Secure Loved Intensive If you're ready for your secure attachment identity shift and want high-level support to get there, apply here:

Today we're unpacking the signs of emotional unavailability with relationship coaches Caleb and Stefanie Rouse as they share their personal stories, expert insights, and practical tips for breaking toxic dating cycles! Need 1:1 support for your specific dating situation? Book a coaching call today! https://www.heartofdating.com/coaching  Find out your Dating Personality Type for free by taking our QUIZ here! https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz Join Basics of Dating! The 6-Week Program for the Christian single feeling stuck, anxious, or healing from heartbreak. https://www.heartofdating.com/basics-of-dating   Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest  Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library  Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast  Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en Interested in advertising on this show? Learn more here! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/16V_c91F1iIYNZOVvrEinrB9h2dsZq-kZFqYYEDQ4A60/viewform?edit_requested=true  . . . . .  Check out this week's sponsors: Better Help: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/HOD and get on your way to being your best self. . . . . .  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this Part 2 episode of the series “Your Secure Era”, we're diving into something that so many high-achieving, self-aware women struggle with: why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners and why it feels so hard to stop. If you've ever felt like you're dating the same person in a different body, stuck on the “please choose me” treadmill, or confusing chaos for chemistry… this episode is your wake-up call (and your way out).Inside this episode:Why emotionally unavailable partners feel addictive - We break down intermittent reinforcement, repetition compulsion, and how your nervous system mistakes inconsistency for chemistry, creating the rollercoaster dynamic that feels intense but is actually unhealed relational trauma.The real reason you keep choosing the same dynamic (it's not a “broken picker”) - This isn't about willpower. It's about unfinished emotional business. I explain how subconscious attachment wounds drive you to recreate old patterns with new faces, hoping this time you'll finally be chosen.What actually shifts when you enter your Secure Love Era - Secure attachment isn't about convincing someone to love you. It's about healing at the root, embodying a new identity, and choosing consistency over intensity. We talk about what changes in your attraction patterns when you truly rewire your brain for secure love.If you're exhausted from watering plastic plants… if you're done confusing red flags for challenges… if you're ready to stop performing for love and start receiving it, this episode will hit home.And if you know you're ready to do this work at a deep level, I mentioned at the beginning of the episode that Private 1:1 Coaching may be your next step. This is where we rewire your attachment patterns, release past relational trauma, and help you embody the securely attached version of you. Apply here:

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Free 7 days & 1 on 1 call with me: https://www.skool.com/inspired-life-method-9441/ Are you wondering why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners? This video, guided by a seasoned dating coach, examines the science behind these repeating relationship patterns. Learn practical frameworks and steps to break the cycle and move towards a healthy relationship. Join the discussion and share your thoughts below!

Whitney answers two listener questions about family relationships that don't go full no-contact but are also deeply dysfunctional. She also discusses a viral Chinese app called "Are You Dead?"Whitney Goodman is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and the founder of Calling Home, a membership community that helps people navigate complex family dynamics and break harmful cycles.Have a question for Whitney? Send a voice memo or email to whitney@callinghome.coJoin the Family Cyclebreakers Club⁠⁠Follow Whitney on Instagram | sitwithwhitFollow Whitney on YouTube | @whitneygoodmanlmft⁠⁠Order Whitney's book, Toxic PositivityThis podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice.1:12 The viral "Are You Dead?" app from China06:24 Listener question #114:42 Listener question #2 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

She's won races most people can't finish. Built businesses. Commanded stages. But relationships? That's where the pattern kept breaking. Danica Patrick joins Adam Lane Smith and Andrey Korikov for a raw conversation about why high-achieving women keep attracting emotionally unavailable men: and what actually has to change. In this video:  → The "quiet disorganized" attachment pattern most successful women don't know they have  → Why making life easy for men destroys the bond you're trying to build  → The four levels of safety men must provide: and where most fail  → Adam's three-date method for filtering out avoidant men fast  → How to stop erasing yourself in relationships  → The CEO/COO model that lets you stay in your feminine at home  → Why male discomfort is actually a good sign

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Broadcasting live from the Sierra Vista Golf Center — where Dave Davies declared it “not chilly out here today,” immediately removed his jacket, and compared the driving range favorably to Top Golf “because it’s a lot cheaper” — Davies and Paul Corder sprinted through a full Cochise County winter sports roundup, pausing only to endorse VISTA cards, lament missing stat uploads, and remind everyone that high school sports are apparently a weekly referendum on whether the AIA respects southeastern Arizona. Spoiler: they do not. According to Dave and Paul, anyway. And honestly? They make a persuasive case.Support the show: https://www.myheraldreview.com/site/forms/subscription_services/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Free 7 days & 1 on 1 call with Lewis: https://www.skool.com/inspired-life-method-9441/ Why do you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners — even when you know better?In this episode, I break down why relationship triggers aren't random, why love can feel unsafe, and how unhealed childhood wounds quietly shape who you're drawn to. We explore the role of the inner child, nervous system capacity, and why intimate relationships activate parts of us nothing else can.You'll learn why awareness alone isn't enough, how to regulate your nervous system when you're triggered, and what actually stops the same relationship patterns from repeating.If you've ever felt anxious, avoidant, shut down, or overwhelmed in relationships — this conversation will give you clarity.

Why do you keep feeling drawn to women who can't meet you emotionally, while overlooking those who actually want you? In this episode, David breaks down the unconscious drivers of attraction, attachment patterns, and nervous system conditioning that shape who we desire. You'll learn why attraction is not a conscious choice, how childhood attachment wiring influences adult dating, and what it actually takes to rewire attraction toward healthy, secure relationships. This is not surface-level dating advice. It's deep work on responsibility, self-awareness, and emotional maturity for men who want real connection.   Key Topics:  ⭐ Why attraction is unconscious, not a logical choice ⭐ The limbic system and emotional pattern recognition ⭐ How childhood attachment shapes adult relationships ⭐ Why emotionally unavailable partners feel intoxicating ⭐ Intermittent reinforcement and dating addiction ⭐ Anxious vs avoidant attachment dynamics ⭐ Why secure partners often feel "boring" at first ⭐ Projection and falling in love with fantasy ⭐ How confirmation bias keeps you stuck in dating loops ⭐ Why insight alone doesn't change attraction ⭐ Nervous system regulation and rewiring attraction ⭐ Reframing chemistry as a signal, not truth ⭐ Building attraction toward safety, stability, and intimacy   Connect With David - The Authentic Man:   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe     

In this episode we talk about why you keep choosing people who can't give you what you need.It's not because you're weak or stupid. It's because that kind of love feels familiar.I explain how old pain, family patterns, and culture trained you to expect the bare minimum in relationships.If you're tired of being the strong one, the patient one, or the one who “understands,” this episode will hit home.If you want to stop settling, start here:

In this episode we talk about why you keep choosing people who can't give you what you need.It's not because you're weak or stupid. It's because that kind of love feels familiar.I explain how old pain, family patterns, and culture trained you to expect the bare minimum in relationships.If you're tired of being the strong one, the patient one, or the one who “understands,” this episode will hit home.If you want to stop settling, start here:

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If you keep attracting emotionally unavailable men, you've probably been told that it must mean you are emotionally unavailable too.But what if that explanation doesn't tell the full story?In this video, I break down the psychology behind why emotionally available women can still find themselves drawn to emotionally unavailable partners—and why this pattern often has less to do with a lack of vulnerability and more to do with learned beliefs about love, safety, and worthiness.I share my personal experience of chasing emotionally unavailable men, then struggling in a healthy relationship—not because I didn't want love, but because I had never been taught how to ask for what I needed or trust emotional safety.We talk about: • Why emotionally unavailable men pull more emotion out of you • The belief that love has to be earned (and where it comes from) • Why healthy love can feel scarier than emotional unavailability • How childhood and relationship trauma shape attachment patterns • Why “knowing better” doesn't always mean you know how to do better • How to begin breaking this cycle and learning to receive love safelyIf you've ever felt like you could beg the wrong person to love you but struggled to speak up in a healthy relationship, this video is for you.You are not broken.You are not incapable of love.You may just be unlearning what love was never supposed to cost you.✨ If this resonates, don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments.✨ Let's connect:

In this heartfelt and revealing episode, we dive deep into the patterns, red flags, and emotional toll of loving someone who just can't meet you emotionally. We're joined by our brilliant friend Dr. Marni Feuerman—psychotherapist, author of Ghosted and Breadcrumbed, and relationship expert regularly featured in outlets like Psychology Today and SELF. Together, we unpack the signs of emotional unavailability, why so many women get stuck in these painful dynamics, and how to reclaim your power and self-worth in love.If you've ever found yourself stuck in a loop of confusing relationships, holding out hope for someone to change, or caught in the charm of a man who's all spark and no follow-through, this episode is for you. We explore everything from love bombing and ghosting to deeper therapeutic patterns rooted in childhood attachment. Whether you're dating, healing from heartbreak, or helping a friend, this conversation offers insight, validation, and practical advice to help you break free and choose healthier love. Episode Highlights:[0:02] - Welcoming Dr. Marni and introducing her book Ghosted and Breadcrumbed [2:45] - What defines emotional unavailability and its many forms [5:00] - Dating dynamics: the seductive yet misleading early connection [6:27] - Ghosting explained—why it happens and how it impacts the nervous system [11:37] - Breadcrumbing: what it is and how it keeps you stuck [14:37] - What healthy dating should look like (hint: it's consistent) [18:23] - When emotional inconsistency feels like love (but isn't) [22:44] - Why some men are emotionally unavailable: socialization, trauma, and patterns [27:17] - The dark triad: narcissism, charm, and emotional manipulation [31:54] - Affairs with married men: why they're more common than you think and rarely end well [38:00] - Hard truths about “being the one he'll finally choose” [42:37] - How therapy and self-awareness help you break the cycle [45:25] - The danger of “projects” and choosing from compassion instead of compatibility [48:53] - Attachment wounds, revising your definition of love, and healing forward [49:43] - Final encouragement from Dr. Marni and where to find her work Links & ResourcesDr. Marni Feuerman's Book: Ghosted and Breadcrumbed: Stop Falling for Unavailable Men and Get Smart About Healthy Relationships Website & Free Checklist: www.drmarnionline.com Psychotherapy Practice: www.thetalkingsolution.com  Pre-order The Cost of Quiet now! Colette's new book, The Cost of Quiet: How to Have the Hard Conversations that Create Secure, Lasting Love, launches February 3rd. Secure your copy today and get VIP bonuses available only before launch day. https://www.colettejanefehr.com/new-book

Send us a textAre they saying “just friends” but treating you like more?In this episode, Nina Garcia shares a true and emotional story between Dani and Jack—two people who loved each other deeply but weren't on the same page. While Dani was emotionally aware and clear on her boundaries, Jack's mixed signals created a painful pattern of confusion and disconnection. Through their journey, Nina shows how emotional awareness can protect you from staying stuck in cycles that hurt. If you've ever questioned someone's behavior or felt emotionally stretched by someone who wouldn't fully show up, this episode will help you understand why—and what to do about it.What you're going to walk away with:

Send us a textAre you protecting yourself so well that no one, not even you, can get in?In this episode, Nina Garcia breaks down emotional unavailability through the story of Wolverine: strong, fierce, and deeply alone. Using this powerful metaphor, she explains how emotional armor might look like resilience on the outside, but often hides deep discomfort with connection. Nina shares three practical steps to help you move from shutdown to self-awareness, and reminds you that emotional security isn't about staying safe, it's about showing up. If you've ever felt alone in a crowded room or struggled to let people in, this episode is your starting place.What you're going to walk away with:

Ever feel like you're stuck dating people who never fully show up?Maybe they're avoidant, inconsistent, or just not ready for real commitment—yet somehow, you keep holding on, hoping things will change.In this episode, Matthew unpacks why we get attached to people who can't give us what we need and how to break free from that pattern for good. You'll learn how to reconnect with your self-worth, spot emotional unavailability early, and start saying “no” faster—so you can finally say “yes” to something real.---►► Find the Beautiful & LASTING Relationship You Want. Watch My Masterclass, From Casual to Committed, for FREE at GetCommitment.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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In this episode of The Voice of the Coach, Penélope Cruz reads a heartfelt letter from one of her listeners who feels trapped in the same painful pattern — falling for men who can't love her back.Penélope doesn't offer comfort; she offers truth. This episode will help you understand why you're drawn to the unavailable, how your nervous system mistakes intensity for love, and what it really takes to break free and finally choose yourself.Take a deep breath, open your heart, and listen closely — this might be the episode that finally sets you free.If this episode spoke to you, join me in person for CHANGES, my end-of-year healing workshop in New York City on December 13.An evening designed to help you release what no longer fits, realign with your truth, and welcome the love, clarity, and power that await you in the new year.

9 games into this Premier League season, that's over 23% of matches in and some trends are emerging.  Arsenal clear at the top but the table tightens up behind them. Bryce and Rob breakdown the entire 10 game slate and as always give you 2 plays a piece. The show does get tough for Rob,

If you have an anxious attachment style or find yourself constantly attracting emotionally unavailable, avoidant, or inconsistent partners, this episode will change everything..In this powerful episode, Candice Tamara reveals the real reason you keep repeating the same relationship patterns — and why it's not about them being avoidant or unavailable, but about the mirror of your own fears, wounds, and self-concept..You'll learn:✨ How your fear of abandonment, rejection, commitment, vulnerability, and being “too much” creates emotional unavailability within yourself..✨ Why every partner is a mirror reflecting your beliefs, attachment wounds, and nervous system state — not your worth..✨ How to heal anxious attachment patterns at the root so you can finally attract and hold secure, consistent love.✨ The exact mindset and embodiment shifts Candice used to go from anxious and avoidant dynamics to being securely loved and chosen..This episode will help you see relationships differently - not as something happening to you, but as a reflection of what's ready to be healed within you. When you stop abandoning yourself, you stop attracting people who abandon you..Want to go deeper? My masterclass Stop Attracting Avoidants is now live..Break the cycle of chasing avoidant, emotionally unavailable love and become the secure version of you who only creates consistent, available relationships.This masterclass works whether single or in a relationship to stop avoidant patterns. .⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to join Stop Attracting Avoidants now⁠⁠.Connect with me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@candicetamara_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Ways to work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Enjoying the podcast? Follow for more episodes & please rate your experience on your streaming platform so others can find it! Thank you!

If you've ever felt that wave of panic when he suddenly pulls away… this episode will change everything.Melissa Peters - relationship and feminine embodiment coach - unpacks the Masculine Cycle of Intimacy™ - a framework Melissa coined - that helps women understand why men need space after connection and how that space can actually strengthen love instead of destroying it.What looks like emotional unavailability is often emotional regulation — and when you know how to meet it with grounded, feminine energy, you stop chasing and start magnetizing.

Have you ever wondered why you keep ending up in the same kind of painful relationship almost like you're tuned to a certain frequency that keeps pulling you toward emotionally unavailable partners? In this episode of Language of Love Session, I answer a heartfelt question from Sarah, a listener who wrote in asking: “Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable people, and how can I heal whatever inside me is drawing me to these relationships?”  We explore how the energy you carry, your vibration, and your earliest experiences all play a role in who you're drawn to and why. I also share how healing practices like somatic experiencing and Internal Family Systems therapy can help shift your frequency so you attract partners who are truly capable of love and connection. We explore: Why emotionally unavailable partners feel so familiar (and why it's not just “bad luck”) How childhood patterns set the vibration for the partners we're drawn to later in life Ways somatic therapy helps release unconscious patterns stored in the body How Internal Family Systems therapy rewires your inner world for healthier love Why “butterflies” aren't always passion, they may be your nervous system picking up on an old, unhealthy frequency This is all about learning how to change your vibration so you stop repeating painful cycles and open yourself up to safe, supportive love. For resources on somatic experiencing,  visit the Hakomi Institute or traumatherapy.org  for more on this powerful mindfulness-centered approach to healing. Have a question you'd like me to answer on the show? Email me at languageoflovepod@gmail.com, leave a voice message or question at SpeakPipe.com/LanguageofLove  or connect with me on social media @DrLauraBerman. For more support, visit my website for expert resources and don't forget to check out my newest book, Sex Magic. And if you're navigating betrayal or struggling to rebuild trust, share your story with me at languageoflovepod@gmail.com for a chance to be featured in a future episode. Your journey could be exactly what someone else needs to hear. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful and emotional "In The Trenches" episode, Sabrina Zohar tackles your toughest dating dilemmas with her signature no-nonsense yet compassionate approach. We dive into a listener's story about a man who re-entered her life only to pull away once more, and Sabrina breaks down exactly why we chase "unfinished business" and emotionally unavailable partners. She also answers a question from a woman stuck in a 2-year relationship with a partner who shuts down during conflict, offering crucial advice on when to fight for a connection and when to choose yourself. Plus, we get a profile review for someone re-entering the dating scene later in life and hear from a listener experiencing panic attacks in a new, healthy relationship. Sabrina normalizes dating anxiety and provides tangible tools to self-soothe and expand your window of tolerance. If you're struggling with mixed signals, self-abandonment, or the fear that you'll never find a secure partner, this episode is your guide to breaking the cycle. Stuck After the Podcast? Master Implementation in 8 Weeks with Sabrina's Foundation Course HERE! Enrollment for The Self Love Course, The Nervous System Course, and The Break Up Course is now closed. For your continued education and growth, please explore The Foundation Course, which is currently available. Get Ad free HERE! Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Get merch for The Sabrina Zohar Show HERE! Don't forget to follow Sabrina and The Sabrina Zohar Show on Instagram and Sabrina on TikTok! Video now available on YOUTUBE! Please support our sponsors!  Treat yourself to gear that looks good, feels good, and doesn't break the bank with Fabletics. Go to Fabletics.com/SABRINA and sign up as a VIP and get eighty percent off everything! Find your curl confidence and take the Curl Quiz at Curlsmith.com to get 10% off your first purchase, or shop Curlsmith now at Ulta Beauty. This episode is sponsored by Betterhelp. Get 10% off your first month of Betterhelp at betterhelp.com/sabrina Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity.

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Do you ever feel like you are unconsciously seeking the unavailable type and you don't know how to break the pattern? We're chatting with Drea who had a history of dating emotionally unavailable partners about how she started dating differently – by recognizing the real red flags to look for and also taking accountability for her choices. We discuss ways you can actually abandon yourself when you settle for this type of relationship, the behavior you no longer stand for, and the on-going journey it takes to heal your past so you can have the future you want.Follow Drea at @thedrearenee and check out her podcast Hey Babe Can We TalkTake the Dating Archetypes quiz now: https://howtobedateable.com/HOW TO BE DATEABLE IS OUT! Order now: https://howtobedateable.com/Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Quince: Go to https://quince.com/dateable for free shipping and 365 day returns. * Washington Red Raspberries: Check out https://redrazz.org to learn about Washington Red Raspberris and get recipes and more!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Join us as Kati Morton breaks down emotional unavailability—how to recognize it in yourself and others, navigate tricky friendships, and spot the three key indicators in relationships. Stick around as Kati shares her journey growing as a YouTuber, dives into her book Why Do I Keep Doing This, and reflects on what fulfillment truly means to her.Kati Morton, LMFT, is a licensed marriage and family therapist, Best-selling Author, and a highly sought-after speaker in the field of mental health. With a Master's in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University, Kati has delivered impactful talks at prestigious events and platforms worldwide. Kati's upcoming book, Why Do I Keep Doing This?  (out December 2025), explores why we fall into the same emotional loops, such as people-pleasing or self-sabotage, and how to break them once and for all.Kati has been at the forefront of the mental health movement since 2011, sharing powerful videos that demystify mental health and replace stigmas with understanding. Her influential YouTube channel - with over 1.5 million subscribers and 130 million views, has made her a prominent figure in translating complex mental health concepts into accessible language.An accomplished author of two best-selling books "Are u ok?: A Guide to Caring for Your Mental Health" and “TRAUMATIZED: Identify, Understand, and Cope with PTSD and Emotional Stress,” Kati's dedication to dismantling barriers to mental health services and fostering a supportive global community is unmatched.Through her dynamic presence on social media and appearances on top-rated shows such as TODAY Show, CNN, E! News, CBS The Doctors, Dr. Phil, and The Dr. Drew Show, she has also appeared in numerous prestigious digital outlets such as the New York Times, USA Today, The Hollywood Reporter, Glamour UK, Bustle, INSIDER, HUFFPOST, and many more.Kati has successfully spread awareness, reduced stigma, and empowered individuals to prioritize their mental well-being.For more information, go to www.KatiMorton.com  Follow Kati Morton on YouTube // Instagram // TikTok, Twitter // FacebookChapters: 0:00 - Introduction0:48 - Emotional unavailability explained: How to spot it in yourself and others2:54 - Friendship dynamics with emotionally unavailable people6:15 - 3 key indicators of emotional unavailability in relationships25:00 - Kati Morton on creating content and growing as a YouTuber30:18 - Deep dive into Why Do I Keep Doing This and what the book offers36:21 - Kati reflects on what fulfillment means to her→ CONTACT ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA ← 1:1 CONSULTING CALL: https://calendly.com/rorymitchell-biz/15-minute-discovery-call?month=2025-02INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/officially.rory/YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@officiallyroryX/TWITTER: https://twitter.com/officiallyroryHOO.BE: https://hoo.be/officiallyroryPAYPAL DONATIONS: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/rorymitch

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Today I'm joined by DFCN counselor Melissa, as we take an on-air call from Adrienne from Florida who asks: How should I navigate a relationship with my mom who doesn't invest/participate in a relationship with me and my sisters and hasn't in a long time. The only time she reaches out is when she needs something. She's not emotionally available with us and if we didn't reach out, we probably wouldn't hear from her at all. I've distanced myself from people who don't meet me halfway. But can I do that with my mom?  What do you do when the very person that isn't showing up in a relationship is your own mother? Does setting boundaries mean cutting her out of your life, or is there a better way? We dig deep in this on-air session and help Adrienne understand how to move forward in a complicated relationship with her mother. Don't miss this conversation! Book a session with Melissa Crutchfield, M.A., LPC today! You can also ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠watch the full episode on YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast Extras: The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Debra Fileta Counselors Network⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY!  DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, and founder of the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Debra Fileta Counselors Network⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. She is the bestselling author of eight books including ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Choosing Marriage⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Are You Really OK?⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RESET⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Soul Care⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Debra is the host of the popular podcast and nationally syndicated radio show ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Talk To Me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions with notable pastors and leaders. You may also recognize her voice from her appearances on national television and radio, including Better Together, The Kirk Cameron Show, Focus on the Family, The 700 Club, and many others. She reaches millions of people each year with the message of mental, emotional, and relational health. Connect with her on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠DebraFileta.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why do amazing people—kind, self-aware, emotionally intelligent—keep falling for partners who can't meet them halfway? In this week's video, we uncover the five reasons behind this painful cycle and how to finally break free. From the scarcity mindset to the addictive highs and lows of unstable relationships, we'll explore why we settle for less and how to rewrite the story we tell ourselves about love. If you've ever felt stuck between the chaos of unhealthy relationships and the “dullness” of safe ones, this video is for you. Learn how to break the patterns that keep you tethered to the wrong people, and start creating the love life you truly deserve. --- ►► Want Your # 1 Dating Problem Solved Personally? Ask Matthew AI Your First Question Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at →  http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com