Podcasts about unavailable men

Many women long to be in a happy relationship, in which they feel safe, heard and understood, but have given up after years of disappointment and heartbreak. This week dating coach EVAN MARC KATZ joins Andrew to discuss why it's so hard for women to find a man who wants to commit and to build a genuine relationship. They cover: How to get psychologically prepared to date successfully.  Knowing which compromises to make in the service of love.  The difference between compromise and “settling”.  The importance of accepting men as they are, rather than viewing them as fixable works in progress.  Balancing chemistry and compatibility in your relationship decisions.  Evan's personal experiences of dating frustration, and how they led him to write one of the first and most popular books about online dating.  Evan Marc Katz is an author, CEO, podcaster, dating coach and former screenwriter who works to support strong, successful women to find lasting relationships. He has been featured by Today, the New York Times, and CNN. A total of 13,000 women from 40 countries have graduated from Love U, his coaching course and community that helps women understand men and find love. If You're Looking for More…. You can subscribe to The Meaningful Life (via Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Google Podcasts) and hear a bonus mini-episode every week. Or you can join our Supporters Club on Patreon to also access exclusive behind-the-scenes content, fan requests  and the chance to ask Andrew your own questions. Membership starts at just £4.50.  This week supporters will hear: Dealing with Unavailable Men. Three Things Evan Marc Katz knows to be true.  AND subscribers also access all of our previous bonus content - a rich trove of insight on love, life and meaning created by Andrew and his interviewees. Follow Up Get Andrew's free guide to difficult conversations with your partner: How to Tell Your Partner Difficult Things  Take a look at Andrew's new online relationship course: My Best Relationship Tools  Learn more about working with Evan Marc Katz on his website  Read Evan Marc Katz's books Listen to Evan Marc Katz's Love U podcast  Follow Evan Marc Katz on Facebook @EvanMarcKatzfan, on Instagram @realevanmarckatz and on Twitter/X and YouTube @evanmarckatz.  Join our Supporters Club to access exclusive behind-the-scenes content, fan requests and the chance to ask Andrew your own questions. Membership starts at just £4.50.  Andrew offers regular advice on love, marriage and finding meaning in your life via his social channels. Follow him on Twitter, Facebook and YouTube @andrewgmarshall   

Lyn welcomes back Caroline Ackroyd, a hypnotherapist and love coach, to explore the compelling topic of why women often attract emotionally unavailable men. Caroline shares her insights on unhealthy patterns that stem from our childhood experiences, emphasising how unmet emotional needs can lead to a cycle of seeking affection and validation from men who mirror those early relationships. The conversation delves into the psychological aspects of these dynamics, including the concept of "pining patterns", & the trauma bonds that attract unhealthy relationships, and how we can heal and break free from them. KEY TAKEAWAYS Understanding Emotional Unavailability: Emotional unavailability in men can stem from their childhood experiences, where their emotional needs were not met. This can manifest in various ways, from lack of affection/ attention to more severe issues like narcissisic behaviours. The Pining Pattern: The "pining pattern," is where love is associated with longing and chasing and feeling anxious. This pattern often leads to choosing men who mirror the emotional unavailability experienced in childhood, perpetuating a cycle of unfulfilling/ unhealthy relationships. Self-Responsibility: It's crucial to recognise that while attraction to emotionally unavailable men is external, it's actually a reflection of what's going on internally. Taking responsibility for any unhealthy choices we make in relationships is the first step towards healing and breaking the pattern. Healing involves changing your negative self-talk/ narrative about self-worth and being good enough, and learning to positively validate yourself. By acknowledging your own lovability and worthiness, you can attract more attention/ affection and healthier relationships. BEST MOMENTS "When I say emotionally unavailable, that can manifest itself... from someone who is not affectionate, all the way to higher degrees... a narcissist all the way to psychopath." "You are trying to change your parent by changing that partner... if you can make him into a warm, cuddly, loving pussycat, you will have put a happy ending on your childhood." "You will know that you have healed when that type and those red flags no longer come into your radar." "It's not about finding love. It's about attracting that partner... it's possible and available for you."ABOUT THE GUEST - Caroline Ackroyd - Hypnotherapist & Love CoachCaroline Ackroyd is an RTT Hypnotherapist, Dating Coach and Soulmate Attraction Mentor helping women elevate their self-concept, sense of worthiness and lovability to feel whole and confident to date in their power. She helps women heal love blocks that keep them single or in negative relationship patterns with emotionally unavailable or uncommitted men, and supports them to raise their standards through self-love. She herself overcame unworthiness and insecurity through inner child healing, reparenting, and wiring in a new upgraded self-concept with hypnotherapy. Longing to have a healthy, happy relationship, she specialised in Feminine Communication that leads to emotional connection and commitment, and Feminine Dating that creates sizzling polarity and lasting attraction. Her dream of finding her Soulmate came true after manifesting him with her signature Soulmate Attraction Process. FB - https://www.facebook.com/amazonkidIG - https://www.instagram.com/hypnolovecoach/Email - hypnolovecoach@gmail.com ABOUT THE HOST Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace. She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe. HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.CONTACT METHOD lyn@hearts-entwined.com

JOIN CONNECT TO SELF- https://www.carlamcgreevy.com/connect-to-self In this week's episode, Carla discusses a topic so many of us can relate to—dating emotionally unavailable men. Sharing her own experiences, she looks at why we keep finding ourselves in these patterns, how our core beliefs shape the relationships we choose, and what's really going on underneath all of this. Carla also chats about the resistance that comes with doing inner work, what she's learned from over a decade of healing, and the connection between our inner child and the choices we make as adults. She shares how humour can really help you to heal and why unprocessed trauma often pushes us to stay busy instead of allowing ourselves to just be. Timestamps: 00:00 – Ovulation tracking, subtle messages from our body, and the full moon 06:39 – What to expect with the Connect to Self course 12:01 – My approach to this work 13:05 – Why we laugh at traumatic experiences 14:27 – The link between unprocessed trauma and the need to constantly produce 15:52 – How laughter helps you heal 17:45 – Dating emotionally unavailable men 21:30 – Grieving and death 24:45 – Tools and techniques for self-soothing and nurturing 26:15 – Reconnecting with passion and purpose through inner child work 30:00 – Carla's own healing journey and lessons she's learned If you enjoyed this episode, please rate it 5 stars and follow so you never miss an episode! Connect with Carla: Instagram: @CarlaMcGreevy1 Work with Carla: Carla McGreevy Join Carla's mailing list: Stay Connected

This week, we're joined by the incredible Dr. Marnie Feuerman, a renowned couples therapist and author of Ghosted and Breadcrumbed. Together, we tackle the heart-wrenching question so many face: Should I stay in this relationship or should I leave? Dr. Marnie shares her wisdom on navigating divorce ambivalence, emotional disconnection, and the power of discernment counseling to find clarity and confidence. Are you in a “gray divorce” phase or just questioning your connection? The insights Dr. Marni Feuerman shares can help you move forward with intention.We talk about the importance of emotional availability, how systemic understanding can transform relational dynamics, and why some relationships struggle during midlife transitions. Dr. Marnie also unpacks the nuances of attachment styles and how they shape the way couples connect or disconnect. Don't miss this candid and compassionate conversation that may just help you find the clarity you've been searching for. Episode Highlights:[00:02] - Introducing Dr. Marnie Feuerman and her expertise in relationship counseling.[01:56] - Dr. Marnie shares her perspective on why divorce ambivalence is so common and the complexities behind such a monumental decision.[05:23] - Discussing "gray divorce" and how empty nest syndrome can magnify marital issues.[08:05] - The impact of menopause and hormonal changes on intimacy and connection in relationships.[11:39] - Emotional unavailability explained: What it looks like, how it affects relationships, and the role of attachment styles.[15:55] - Colette reflects on her own experience with emotional disconnection in a marriage.[20:23] - The "lottery test" question: A surprising way to explore how someone feels about staying in their marriage.[26:34] - The difference between being “in love” versus experiencing a deeper, companionate love.[30:48] - Dr. Marnie explains discernment counseling: What it is and how it helps couples clarify their next steps.[36:30] - Why couples therapy requires at least one “cheerleader” for the relationship to succeed.[41:22] - Final takeaways: Why seeking professional guidance with a systemic approach is essential when facing relationship crossroads. Resources:Dr. Marni Feuerman's Website: https://www.drmarnionline.com/ Dr. Marni Feuerman's Psychotherapy: https://thetalkingsolution.com/ Dr. Marni Feuerman's Book: Ghosted and Breadcrumbed: Stop Falling for Unavailable Men and Get Smart about Healthy RelationshipsFor more on this topic visit our website insightsfromthecouch.org If you have questions please email us at info@insightsfromthecouch.org we would love to hear from you!If today's discussion resonated with you or sparked curiosity, please rate, follow, and share "Insights from the Couch" with others. Your support helps us reach more people and continue providing valuable insights. Here's to finding our purposes and living a life full of meaning and joy. Stay tuned for more!

In today's episode of Men's Therapy Podcast, host Marc Azoulay welcomes Owen Marcus. He is a seasoned expert in somatic therapy and emotional development. Owen sheds light on the complexities of emotionally unavailable men. He has years of experience helping men embrace vulnerability and heal from trauma. He provides valuable insights into the impact of toxic masculinity on emotional detachment. Additionally, he examines how societal expectations play a role in this issue. Owen shares, "For many men, emotional unavailability is a defense mechanism. It's not a trait, but a learned response to years of conditioning. Where vulnerability was often seen as weakness." He emphasizes the importance of healing emotional wounds and taking time to focus on personal growth. Owen emphasizes that embracing vulnerability fosters deeper connections with oneself and others. This approach can lead to a more fulfilling life. Owen examines how men often adopt coping mechanisms like suppression and avoidance. These behaviours can hinder their ability to form meaningful connections. As a result, men may struggle to build deeper relationships. Owen's somatic therapy approach targets both the mind and body. It is an effective tool for men looking to break free from harmful cycles. This therapy helps them heal emotionally.

Today's guest, Madison Watkins, discusses expressing emotions in relationships and dealing with the fears of being "too much," along with exciting updates about her music journey! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest  Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library  Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast  Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en . . . . .  A quick thank you to one of our friends! Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single? We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we'd love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission. http://compassion.com/heartofdating Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Lordy, we are getting vulnerable today but look, if it helps someone - I've done my job. Today is a story time of how I ended a 9 YEAR long cycle of dating emotionally unavailable men. Settle in pals, it's a juicy one. WORK WITH ME: https://www.katiebambrick.com/work-with-me INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/katiebambrickcoaching/ TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@katiebambrickcoaching?_t=8kEPoSiidAV&_r=1

If you are so done with emotionally unavailable men and SO ready for real connection, support, and deep conversations in an emotionally mature relationship…This episode is for you! I provide the 5 key ways that you can end the cycle of attracting emotionally unavailable men for good.If you are coming to this episode, you most likely haven't only had ONE encounter with an emotionally unavailable man, it's been too many to count. Am I right? That's because it's a cycle. And that cycle STOPS with this episode.Support the Show.Let's connect on Instagram – send me a message @meleah_manning Get Meleah's Free Masterclass on How to STOP Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men So That You Can Finally Find a Compatible, Secure Partner Within 90 Days.Join the Waitlist for Radiant Relationship Academy — a mentorship to overcome your patterns in dating & relationships and experience a healthy, fulfilling love.Apply for private 1:1 coaching with Meleah.

Send us a Text Message.Have you ever found yourself inexplicably drawn to someone who keeps you at arm's length? Tune in to Life Points with Rhonda as we dissect the complex tapestry of relationships and the magnetic pull of emotionally unavailable men. This episode peels back the layers of hypergamy, uncovering how societal expectations, past experiences, and psychological patterns weave into the choices women make in love. We also shed light on the paradox of scarcity, and how it can twist the heart's desires, making the emotionally distant so enticing.Together with expert insights, we traverse the realm of self-awareness and the transformative power it holds in breaking away from cycles of unfulfillment in love. This heart-to-heart conversation isn't just an exploration of modern romance's pitfalls; it's an empowering guide to recognizing our innermost needs, seeking validation within, and embracing the pursuit of genuine emotional intimacy. Join us for an episode that promises to resonate with your own journey towards healthier, more connected relationships.Support the Show.https://chat.openai.com/g/g-8E47AuJfB-life-points-assistanthttps://FaceBook.com/Lifepointswithronda1https://youtube.com/@lifepointswithronda2968https://TikTok.com/@lifepointswithrondahttps://Instagram.com/@lifepointswithrondahttps://Patreon.com/@lifepointswithrondahttps://Lifepointswithronda.com

Is it possible to attract proactive, loving partners? Yes! Mishi joins Lily to share her story of how she went from attracting completely emotionally unavailable men to attracting the most proactive partner. They dive into Mishi's journey - it's total empowerment vibes! From dealing with consecutive breakups to finding self-trust with the help of personal reflection and the Brazen Breakthrough program, Mishi's story is a roadmap to living your best life. They get into the nitty-gritty of self-growth and that ah-mazing moment when you start trusting your gut to attract the kind of connections you desire.  We get into: How Mishi learned to rediscover herself after enduring two challenging breakups  The most significant difference in Mishi's dating life today The act of listening to your intuition and embracing self-trust  Some of the Brazen Breakthrough strategies that Mishi found helpful, including Bless-Release and the Dating Feedback System What it's like to be in a proactive and loving relationship  Links: Free Training With Lily Womble on May 7th! 3 Steps to Attract the Right Partner With a Joyful as Fuck Dating Life Lily's book, Thank You More Please, is available for preorder right now and you can grab it and the preorder bonuses with this link! Show notes: http://datebrazen.com/blog/attracting-proactive-loving-partner  

In this episode, Maya and Erin dive deep into this pervasive pattern. Maya shares the 5 steps to release the addiction to unavailable men, how to become empowered in your love journey instead of a victim, and how to finally find an available partner.To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit empowerlove.us/apply/Join the Rewire Your Attachment Style Facebook group for women here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/maptolastinglove/Follow Maya on Instagram: @mayadiamond.empowerloveOpening song by Tara Divina - Click here for SpotifySupport the show

When you're dating and putting yourself out there, you want to meet a normal guy, that will treat you well, does what he says he's going to do, and actually put in a decent level of effort to pursue you. You don't need him to do everything but you do need him to show up. And if you've been dating for a bit and aren't attracting quality men, I want to invite you to go inwards and see what's actually going on and why you're attracting deadbeats. (I promise you, it has nothing to do with the city you live in!) On this episode, you'll learn: How do you know you're attracting emotionally unavailable men Three reasons why you're attracting your emotionally available men Tangible tools and prompts to help you shift your mindset and energy to start attracting quality men, right now. Featured on the podcast: JOIN LET LOVE IN FREE CHALLENGE: https://www.sythelovecoach.com/let-love-in-challenge FREE 5 MIN DATING STYLE QUIZ: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sythelovecoach.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ WORK WITH ME: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://syeda-neary.mykajabi.com/work-with-me⁠⁠⁠⁠ SY THE LOVE COACH ON TIK-TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@sythelovecoach⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@sythelovecoach⁠⁠⁠ SY THE LOVE COACH ON INSTAGRAM: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/sythelovecoach/⁠⁠⁠

Women who love men they can't have are those who attract and are attracted to emotionally unavailable men. Emotionally unavailable men, spouses and boyfriends often mirror the relationships women have had with the male role models in their lives. In some cases, women who have suffered emotional neglect of a mother can also find themselves settling for emotionally unavailable partners. Women who lack a healthy sense of self, and who have been conditioned to feel as if they need to prove themselves worthy of love, generally do not attract high quality men. We are women who settle for breadcrumbs, beg for approval, are often codependent and emotionally dependent.  The good news is, Lisa A. Romano has found a way to breakthrough the cognitive distortions, subconscious programs, and habitual thought processes that keep women seeking the love of men they can't have.  Ready to take a 90 day deep dive into healing from the patterns and programs that keep so many women seeking the love of those they can't have? If so, click this link to learn more about Lisa's highly successful 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program  https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp  This class starts soon! Participate from anywhere in the world. Follow along on Facebook and join the live Q&A sessions with Lisa herself, as your coach and mentor. 

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There's an emotionally unavailable men apocalypse and I don't want you to keep falling victim. Today I discuss how to stop attracting emotionally unavailable men.

In this episode I speak with a successful Claimed Program graduate who shares her story of how she went from being in a marriage that was lacking polarity and eventually getting a divorce to starting to attract some incredible men and, eventually, getting in a relationship with her dream man.  =============================

This podcast episode is proudly sponsored by BetterHelp. Take a step towards enhancing your mental and emotional well-being by joining BetterHelp. As a special offer for our listeners, you can now enjoy 10% off your first month when you sign up using the link provided HERE #adIn the 88th episode, Sinead joins Sabrina Zohar, podcast host and dating expert to talk about dating emotionally unavailable men and offer guidance on how to move forward after a breakup. Here's a detailed breakdown of the topics in this episode:Healing After a Breakup, How to Get Over Your ExHow can you heal and grow after a tough breakup?What are some effective methods for recovering from a breakup?Understanding Emotional Unavailability, When to Leave Your Partner?What are the signs of emotional unavailability in a partner?How does emotional unavailability affect relationships, and what can you do about it?Communication in RelationshipsHow can you improve communication with your partner to address emotional unavailability?What steps can you take to better understand your relationship needs and desires?Tools for Personal GrowthHow can therapy contribute to personal growth and help with relationship challenges?What mindfulness practices and self-reflection techniques can enhance self-improvement?Overcoming Harmful ComparisonsHow can you avoid the negative effects of comparing yourself to others, especially in the age of social media?What strategies can help you focus on self-improvement instead of comparisons?Listener QuestionsAnswering some common questions and concerns from listeners regarding emotional unavailability and relationship anxiety?Guest Details:Guest: Sabrina ZoharSabrina can be found on Instagram and TikTok as @sabrina.zohar.Questions and Feedback:Do you have questions or feedback for future episodes of "The Sinead Says Podcast"?You can submit your inquiries on Instagram by following @thesineadsayspodcast or via email at scenarios@sineadhegarty.com.Your questions will be considered for upcoming episodes to provide you with valuable insights.Stay Engaged:If you enjoyed this episode, show your support by liking, subscribing, and leaving a review on your preferred podcast platform.Topics Covered: Emotional unavailability, relationship dynamics, self-awareness, open communication, identifying relationship needs and wants, post-breakup healing, personal growth tools, avoiding harmful comparisons, break ups, relationship advice, healing.Hashtags: #EmotionalUnavailability #RelationshipAdvice #SelfAwareness #BreakupRecovery #PersonalGrowth #CommunicationSkills  #SelfImprovement #SelfDevelopment #BreakUp

Do you keep attracting men who aren't ready for a relationship or are in and out of your life? In this episode, I'm sharing why this keeps happening to you and how you can break this pattern. Mio x Connect with me on Instagram @itsellemio

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Have you ever felt frustrated at yourself for choosing yet ANOTHER unavailable partner? Maybe he is married or lives in another state or country. Maybe he is dating you, but seems to be married to his work, his mother or friends. Or maybe he is living with you but is emotionally unavailable, leaving you feeling deeply alone in your relationship. Whatever the situation, here you are again with yet another unavailable partner, wondering if it is you or just bad luck. In this episode, Jen distils the research into relationships and unpacks the six main reasons why women with an anxious attachment adaptation will often be attracted to men with an avoidant attachment adaptation - some will be a surprise! ______ Resources: Heal Your Anxious Attachment by Jennifer Nurick To learn more about avoidant and anxious adaptions - listen to Episodes 2 and 3. Apple Podcast: EP 2 Avoidant Attachment Explained https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/psychotherapy-central/id1701257974?i=1000623584769 EP 3 Anxious Attachment Explained https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/psychotherapy-central/id1701257974?i=1000623929027 Geher, G. Perceived and actual characteristics of parents and partners: A test of a freudian model of mate selection. Curr Psychol 19, 194–214 (2000). https://doi.org/10.1007/s12144-000-1015-7 Extra Resources FREE TRAINING: I'll take you through the three stages of transformation; Discovery, Healing and Growth. We will explore Attachment Styles, and I'll share with you three things you can do to help you have more effective conflicts that don't deteriorate into relationship killers: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/cycle-breaker-registration Join Jen in her exclusive online program to help you heal from an insecure attachment style and break repeating patterns in your relationships: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/rcb-registration Browse Jen's suite of other online courses: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/store Follow Jen on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychotherapy.central/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/psychotherapy.central/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychotherapycentral

On this week's episode, Syeda shares three reasons why you keep attracting unavailable men and how to finally put an end to it once and for all so that you can attract your Mr. Right. It's easier than you think. The love & relationship you desire IS possible. You deserve to be fiercely loved and deeply adored. Ready to work together? Check out the following programs & free resources: Curious about working with Sy and learning more about Attraction Alchemy? Click here to learn more.   Having trouble building emotional attraction with men? Download this free cheat sheet.  ⁠⁠ Let's be friends on the 'gram and connect here @sythelovecoach.

Are you ready to attract the right kind of men into your life? It's time to take control of your dating life and transform your relationship patterns from the inside out. We'll dive into the reasons why you may be attracting the wrong kind of men and how to break those patterns once and for all. Plus, we'll share some tips on how to boost your self-worth and attract high-quality partners who are ready to commit. So, if you're ready to up-level your dating game and find the love you've been dreaming of, I got your back! Take those sexy thumbs and write us a review and then head over to our Instagram and let us know what you thought @itslaurapatriciamartin and @healingtohappy You can take it step further by applying for LIBERATED here or jump into ARRVIAL here.

Hi raw tea fam ! On today's episode i have Melissa Roberts, a dating coach and host of Gumball Love podcast . Melissa talks us through the 8 different flavors of Gumballs or types of men women tend to go for. Melissa gives us insight into what to look for during a first date. We talk about a what a high- achieving woman looks like and tips for maintaining and gaining confidence. We also discuss unhealthy patterns and tips for breaking out of a cycle. Melissa and I go through some listener questions. Dating can be hard , I know that first hand Melissa and I hope this episode reaches you and maybe helps in dating as you navigate all the different dating apps. You are enough and worthy and the most important relationship is the one build with yourself. XOXO , raw tea Follow Melissa on instagram : melissajaneroberts

If all you seem to talk to & attract are emotionally unavailable men or men that end up not wanting to commit, this is for you. Watch the YouTube video here: https://youtu.be/8Kv7wC4qQws PATREON: MORE podcast episodes 1:1 Mindset & Intuitive Coaching https://www.patreon.com/Ivebeenthatgirl Website where you can find my books: https://www.ivebeenthatgirl.net MY SOCIALS: Brand Instagram: (119k followers) https://www.instagram.com/ivebeenthatgirltoo/ Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thatgirlkindalld Facebook: (13.9K followers) https://www.facebook.com/beenthatgirl/ Brand TikTok: (29.3 Followers) (IVEBEENTHATGIRL) https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPd2kj4AS/ Personal TikTok: (THATGIRLKINDALLD) https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTdCdTNwM/ Twitter: https://mobile.twitter.com/beenthatgirltoo BUSINESS INQUIRIES: https://www.ivebeenthatgirl.net/contact --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ivebeenthatgirltoo/support

We tend to think just because we want a relationship that we're emotionally available. But one does't automatically equate to the other.Most women I work with, despite their deep-seated desires for partnership, aren't emotionally available themselves. What we typically pin on men who, "don't want to settle down," exists in trickier ways within ourselves. If you find you consistently attract men who:Say they're not looking for a serious relationshipAre flaking about following upSeem wishy washy on their desiresOr you simply endure experience after experience where things just dissolve, this episode is for you.In this episode I cover:What emotional availability and unavailability actually looks likeWhy the pattern of consistently attracting emotionally unavailable men says more about you than it does about themWhere emotional availability stems fromHow to become more emotionally available to yourself, and, subsequently, to othersHow to shift the pattern of consistently meeting men who aren't seeking relationshipHow emotional availability, like strengthening any muscle, is something the grows over time.This episode will resonate if you really desire a relationship but keep dating or attracting individuals who are flakey, non-committal, or have no interest in long terms partnership.Work with me One on OneConnect on InstagramWebsitePodcast Music Credit: James Maldonado

If you think your attraction to unavailable men is super confusing because you believe you're super available, this episode is for you.Get ready to hunker down and eat a slice of humble pie for this episode.Claire truly believes that like attracts like, NO MATTER WHAT, and if you're willing to look at how YOU might have something to do with your continued pattern of attracting unavailable men-- despite how much healing work you've done on yourself-- get cozy and take a listen! www.theurbanandthemystic.com 20% off with code : HeartbreakCoach20www.winnowskincare.com 20% off with code : HeartbreakCoach20

So many women are trying to sexually tame a man that simply is not a good candidate for male submission. He presents himself to you as horny, kinky, and ready to explore and play, but those qualities alone do not make him a good candidate for a Female-Led Relationship. Today's episode is for women who want to lead in their relationships. You need to know that a man who is emotionally unavailable cannot be trusted. Don't waste your time with these sorts, Ladies. --- Official Website https://www.AlisaCoaches.com Like the show and want to support my work? Consider buying me a coffee! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/alisacoaches

In this episode I chat with one of my private clients Kim to talk more about her incredible transformation. In this episode you'll hear her story, what it was like working with me and what her life looks like now! Apply to WOMAN (begins January 11)- https://caprisharichards.typeform.com/to/oZ38aHS7 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/caprisha-richards/support

We discuss the 8 signs to look for to tell when your in a relationship with someone who's emotionally unavailable.

#8. Do you have a pattern of NEVER wanting the men who like you, yet ALWAYS wanting the men who don't like you? Are you tired of falling for the elusive, non-comital guy who's absolutely terrified of committing to you (or anyone)? Are you ready finally attract an emotionally available man ready to commit? If so, this podcast episode is for you. I dive into four reasons why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable men. Self-awareness is the first step to healing any unhealthy relationship pattern manifesting in your love life! Ready to dive in? Enjoy the episode? If so, please take a second to Leave a rating and review! Post a screenshot of the podcast on your Instagram story and tag me @erikasimone_ Sending so much love, Erika Simone G E T S T A R T E D: ⤑ Coaching: Book a 1:1 Coaching Session! F R E E B I E S: ⤑ Free Guide: 5 Keys to Feminine Energy Dating Guide ⤑ Free Assessment: Emotional Availability Assessment ⤑ Free Guide: Attachment Styles 101 Guide ⤑ Free Journal Prompts: Inner Work for Healing & Growth Journal Prompts R E S O U R C E S: ⤑ Blog: Read the Latest Blog ⤑ Books: My Top Book Recommendations C O N N E C T: ⤑ Instagram ⤑ TikTok ⤑ Twitter C O N T A C T: ⤑ Email ⤑ Contact --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/erikasimone/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/erikasimone/support

Oh boy. Emotional unavailability. Defined widely as not being able to respond to emotional needs or cues. But for host Harpo, emotionally unavailable is her type. Or so it was. In this episode, Harpo shares the story of the first time she realized she was attracting emotionally unavailable men. Spoiler alert: she realized it had everything to do with her own emotional unavailability. Tune in and see how she's navigating relationships with this newfound intel and ensuring that she shows up differently in relationships. The key ingredients? Authenticity, self-respect, and a whole lot of honesty.  Co-produced by Harpo & Jeevan Sangha Edited by Simran Dale All the ways you can support your beloved BGG: 1. Subscribe to the podcast (you can also leave a review!) 2. Subscribe to the weekly newsletter 3. Buy merch and ROCK it (browse our online shop on our website) 4. Follow us on Instagram @_browngirlguilt and Twitter @browngirlguilt 5. Become a sponsor for season 6!

In Ep 28, Julie speaks with Self Worth & Dating Coach Sy Neary. They discuss: The Energetics of Dating --> What is Masculine Energy vs Feminine energy and the role it plays in relationships (and life) Why the traits that make you successful in your careers may not be helping your dating life Why you keep attracting unavailable men Red flags + green flags of dating Moving from the "talking" phase" to the dating phase How to avoid getting attached too quickly Human Design readings - what are they and how can they be beneficial #thebrowngirlpodcast #datingpodcast #datingadviceforwomen #southasiandating GET IN TOUCH WITH US : Connect with Sy on IG : https://www.instagram.com/sythelovecoach/ Join Sy's Attraction Academy: https://syeda-neary-s-school.teachable.com/p/attraction-alchemy Connect with The Brown Girl Podcast on IG: https://www.instagram.com/thebrowngirl_podcast/ Connect with Julie on IG: www.instagram.com/juliegeorge723/ Follow the Podcast Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCB42br7pT2cuJsoCrNzhxEg

This is a msut listen episode! My client Suzi and I peel back the curtain on what it's like to work together and what it really takes to release the pattern of attracting unavailable men for good. Suzi is now in her dream relationship and she has a very inspiring transformation you will relate to. Suzi also shares how attending an in-person event with me (coming from across the world!) created a surprising breakthrough that was significantly more impactful than virtual coaching. Want to have your own love breakthrough? Join me for The Irresistible Woman Activation LIVE, this November 10-12 in Denver, Colorado. This LIVE experience is designed to help successful women develop confident dating skills, turn on their feminine magnetism, and learn the exact steps to attract their high quality man without endlessly swiping on apps or painful dates that go nowhere.   Grab your Early Bird ticket now >> https://madelinecharlescoaching.com/iw-activation-live/

Does Adopting Mindsets Men Love Work With Emotionally/Romantically Unavailable Men? Does It Change The Situation? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/matthew-coast/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/matthew-coast/support

Red Flag Phrases Emotionally Unavailable Men Tell Women  If you have followed me for any length of time, you know that I talk about emotional availability quite often. What seems like a simple concept is actually quite complex and it can make or break a relationship. When a man is emotionally available or emotionally mature, […] The post Red Flag Phrases Emotionally Unavailable Men Tell Women appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  Welcome to Dear Matchmaker!  In this week's episode, I cover one of the most asked questions as a dating coach & Matchmaker: "Why do I only attract emotionally unavailable men?"  What can you do to stop the pattern of attracting the same type of people over and over again?  The answer might not be what you think!  In this episode, I cover a three step process to ask yourself when you find yourself in this rut.  Tune in to find out!  Go to https://theheartagency.com/pages/quiz to take my Attachment Style Quiz!  Click here to follow me on IG: https://www.instagram.com/catcantrill/  Click here to like me on FB: https://www.facebook.com/catcantrill Click here for more infomation about my services: www.theheartagency.com   

Are you dating someone who constantly seeks your attention and admiration but when the tables are turned, they  couldn't care less about what you feel and what your needs are?Perhaps they love bombed you in the beginning to the point where you felt you had met your soul mate and now they have become a monster that you barely recognise?Do you find that in arguments you always seem to end up being the one apologising even when things are not your fault?If this sounds familiar, then you may be dealing with a narcissist person i.e. someone who always has the urge to control people, and who is ruthless about getting their demands needs met at any cost.So how do you survive such a tumultuous and draining dynamic?This is why I had to bring on my next guest on to the show! On this episode, we have with us the gorgeous Lindsay O'Brien!Lindsay is a former Speech Language Pathologist turned Toxic Relationship Healing Mentor and energy healer. After going through a spiritual awakening journey and still getting into toxic and abusive relationships, Lindsay realized there was something that was missing in all the healing she had done. After working with mentors and trying many different healing modalities, she finally figured out how to break the toxic relationship cycle and is now in a healthy relationship. Her work as an energy healer brought her clients who were struggling with similar relationships. She realized her personal experience and the subconscious healing modalities she was using were powerful healing forces in her client's lives, helping them break their own toxic relationship cycles and find healthy partners. She now dedicates her life to helping other women heal, love themselves and find real love.FOLLOW LINDSAY!Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/livingfreefindinglove/?hl=enWebsite: https://www.livingfreehealing.us/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCV3W4vAqYSBs6vU4E1vWx-gREADY TO ACTIVATE GODDESS MODE?:FREE #LevelUpInYourSleep AFFIRMATIONS: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/60f469a4d2b5fdc86c4c2931 JOIN MY MAILING LIST AND KICK START YOUR DIVINE FEMININE LEADERSHIP JOURNEY:https://view.flodesk.com/pages/6001c602d46c01e89abef94eFOLLOW ME EVERYWHERE:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehealingroseholistics/?hl=enFacebook: www.facebook.com/thehealingroseholisticsWebsite: www.thehealingroseholistics.comPodcast: https://www.thehealingroseholistics.com/whatwildwomenwantpodcast

What You'll Hear In This Episode:Part of being an empowered and powerful woman is looking for what we can do to create a space for men to feel safe. Lisa explains how the labels we put on men as constantly being emotionally unavailable actually give our power away.We have a tremendous capacity and a gift for being able to draw out the best in men. How do we create that safe space for a man? If you tell him to be honest, you must be ready for what his true honest answers are. Yelling at him after will make him feel that he actually can't tell you the truth! Male vulnerability and female vulnerability look and sound very different. From a young age, men can be bullied and made fun of for expressing their emotions. Lisa talks about how she realized that being in a relationship meant she had to make room for the man, and things couldn't always be exactly how she wanted them. Continue On Your JourneyLisa Shield | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call With LisaEmail the podcast at: podcast@lisashield.comMentioned: lisashield.comQuotes“When women are being vulnerable, it sounds very different than when a man is being vulnerable.” “Whenever we blame men or we label them as being emotionally unavailable, or whatever labels we put on them, we give our power away.” “We as women have a tremendous capacity and gift of being able to draw out the best in men.” “We have the ability to open up a space for men, where they can actually feel safe coming to us and sharing their innermost thoughts and dreams with us.” “Being an adult for me in a relationship meant that I had to learn how to make room for the man, and that it couldn't always be my way.”

Starr Burroughs talks all about how to spot emotionally unavailable men in this HOD bonus episode! Want to WATCH the podcast? We're now on YouTube!  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Are you always saying that there are no ‘good Christian singles'? We have hundreds of eligible singles in our Drop the Hanky Dating Program!  Women: https://www.heartofdating.com/dth-girls  Men: https://www.heartofdating.com/dth-guys Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness . . . . .  A quick thank you to some of our friends! Faithful Counseling: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, Christian therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to http://faithfulcounseling.com/heartofdating Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make a lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single? We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we'd love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission. http://compassion.com/heartofdating Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It seems like now a days finding a man that opens up is impossible. You keep looking for one but simply can't seem to find him. Aren't you tired of that? I know you probably are. So let's talk about what you can do to stop meeting these men.   WHAT YOU WILL LEARN: - How to deal with emotionally unavailable men - Being committed to yourself - The importance of external help   WANT TO BETTER UNDERSTAND YOURSELF IN JUST 2 MINUTES? After over 17 years of helping hundreds of women find their soulmates, we've identified 5 different Love Patterns, each with different characteristics that can keep you from finding true love. Find what your Love Pattern is and what to do about it by taking our free, 2 minute quiz. Just go to https://singletosoulmate.com/quiz, discover your Love Pattern, and learn what changes you can make starting TODAY.   ----   DID YOU ENJOY THIS EPISODE? If so, please let us know by leaving a review and sharing it with a friend that might get something out of it. To be notified when a new episode comes out, subscribe to the show on your favorite platform.

Welcome back to the pod babe! Today we're talking about how to create a conscious relationship & healing your attraction to unavailable men.  SHOP:  Conscious Relationship Coaching LET'S CONNECT: Insta: @taiha.lee Essays + Writing: taihalee.com/blog

Get ready for a deep dive into WHY you are attracted to the “bad boys”   Many of us have been there…we logically know they are bad for us, but our heart is screaming: YES, I'M INTO HIM!    Inside of this episode I break down:  Why relationship health is so important  Beliefs that support attraction to unavailable partners  How your attachment style can show up in these kinds of dynamics    You deserve to heal, you deserve to choose the highest and best version of you.    If you're ready to do the work on healing your attachment style, and you know its time for you to attract a great relationship; it is time to choose faith over fear and invest in your growth.    The E.S.L. Program has limited spots in May; don't miss out! Apply to the program today and say yes to growth:    Click Here to Apply!

In today's episode Angela is in conversation with Dr Marni Feuerman. Dr. Marni Feuerman is a licensed psychotherapist in private practice in South Florida. She is a nationally recognized relationship and marriage expert with specialized training in couples therapy. Dr. Marni is a frequently quoted expert in the media and content contributor. She has written for HuffPo, VeryWell.com, Dr. Oz's ShareCare and The Gottman Institute among others. Her popular self-help book for women who struggle with repeated unhealthy relationship patterns is titled, Ghosted & Breadcrumbed: Stop Falling for Unavailable Men and Get Smart about Healthy Relationships.In this episode Dr Marni looks in more detail at underlying work that needs to be done when couples say they need to improve their communication.Dr Marni highlights what a healthy relationship looks like. For example, in a healthy relationships couples are able to be emotionally open and vulnerable with each other. Partners are curious about their own as well as their partner's experiences. They want to learn what's going on for their partner. The starting point in any relationship is knowing yourself. When you are self aware, you have the capacity to notice your triggers points: what makes you feel angry, disappointed, sad or frustrated? How does your partner elicit this response from you? What do you need to feel better? What can you do for yourself/what can your partner do for you?Dr Marni highlights ways of responding that enable you to get the support that you need from your partner and to learn to tune into your partner's needs. What kind of checklist should you have when looking for a partner? Dr Marni highlights the four As that can serve as red flags in a new relationship: Agenda, alignment of values, addiction, abuse.Do you want to explore the issues discussed in today's episode in more detail? Do you want to gain a better understanding of your way of being in relationships? Do you want to learn  how to build an emotionally fulfilling relationship? All of these questions get addressed in great detail in our self paced online course, The Relationship Maze. Find lots of instructional videos and plenty of activities that help you gain more understanding of your needs and those of your partner.

In this week's episode, Syeda will help you identify signs you're dating Mr. Unavailable and how to stop attracting these men. Chances are, this may be a pattern for you and it's time to put an end to it. Listen now to learn how to manifest the love and relationship you truly desire! And don't forget to rate & review/subscribe and email Syeda (syeda@syedanearycoaching.com) or send her a DM (IG @manifestlovewithsy) with a screenshot on IG for the FREE Attract Your Soulmate Bundle. Schedule a Free Discovery Call to see what working together looks like: https://syedanearycoaching.as.me/discoverycall Enroll in ACENSION Coaching Intensive: https://syedanearycoaching.com/acension Apply for Private 1:1 Coaching: https://syedanearycoaching.com/application Free 8 Secrets to a Winning Online Dating Profile: https://syedanearycoaching.com/onlinedatingresource Follow Syeda on IG @manifestlovewithsy --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/syedanearycoaching/support

What is Emotionally Focused Therapy? Why do people consistently choose unhealthy or "emotionally unavailable" partners? What are some unhealthy patterns we might observe in our relationships and how can we change them? Find out in this week's episode of The Learn to Love Podcast, where your host Zach Beach interviews the psychotherapist and author Dr. Marni Feuerman on Changing Unhealthy Patterns For more on this episode click here: https://www.the-heart-center.com/ep-83-changing-unhealthy-patterns-with-dr-marni-feuerman/ Learn more about your guest below: Dr. Marni Feuerman is a licensed psychotherapist in private practice in South Florida. She is a nationally recognized relationship and marriage expert with specialized training in couples' therapy. Dr. Marni is a frequently quoted expert in the media and content contributor. She has written for HuffPo, VeryWell.com, Dr. Oz's ShareCare and The Gottman Institute among others. Dr. Marni authored a self-help book for women who struggle with repeated unhealthy relationship patterns titled, Ghosted & Breadcrumbed: Stop Falling for Unavailable Men and Get Smart about Healthy Relationships. Learn more at - www.DrMarniOnline.com - www.TheTalkingSolution.com - www.instagram.com/drmarnifeuerman - https://www.facebook.com/DrMarniFeuerman - twitter.com/drmarnifeuerman Learn more about your host and the show at: www.zachbeach.com www.the-heart-center.com Support The Show: If you like the show there are many ways you can support it, such as, - Buy a book from our blossoming professional network: http://www.the-heart-center.com/books/ - Register for Relationship Mastery, a 6-week self-guided course to take your relationship to the next level. https://www.the-heart-center.com/relationship-mastery-landing-page/ - Check out one of our sponsors, Listenable and use the discount code “zachbeach” for the first seven days on the platform for free. There you can find Zach's How To Be a Better Partner Course: https://frstre.com/go/?a=76205-87a7d9&s=1256514-e13191&p_affiliate.referral_code=zachbeach - Purchase The Seven Lessons of Love: Heart Wisdom for Troubling Times on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/Lessons-Love-Heart-Wisdom-Troubling/dp/1983940704/ - Purchase a love shirt and show the world your love of love https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-heart-center/ - Review, Like, and Subscribe to the show on iTunes. - Like us on Facebook facebook.com/learntolovenow - Join the Facebook Community Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1428012130828678/

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In this episode we turn it over to you, the listeners and answer your questions. The first was How has life outside of London been treating us, the second was how to deal with emotionally unavailble men and the final one was how do we deal with each other after a decade of being together. Expect lots of chuckles and some strong language