Podcasts about unavailable men

Do you ever feel like you are unconsciously seeking the unavailable type and you don't know how to break the pattern? We're chatting with Drea who had a history of dating emotionally unavailable partners about how she started dating differently – by recognizing the real red flags to look for and also taking accountability for her choices. We discuss ways you can actually abandon yourself when you settle for this type of relationship, the behavior you no longer stand for, and the on-going journey it takes to heal your past so you can have the future you want.Follow Drea at @thedrearenee and check out her podcast Hey Babe Can We TalkTake the Dating Archetypes quiz now: https://howtobedateable.com/HOW TO BE DATEABLE IS OUT! Order now: https://howtobedateable.com/Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/Our Sponsors:* Quince: Go to https://quince.com/dateable for free shipping and 365 day returns. * Washington Red Raspberries: Check out https://redrazz.org to learn about Washington Red Raspberris and get recipes and more!Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Why does it feel like there's a shortage of emotionally available men? In this episode, we dive deep into the truth about modern masculinity, emotional unavailability, and what it really means for men to step into their full power. We explore how men are often taught to suppress emotions and over-identify with traditional masculinity, and why reconnecting with both their emotional world and physical body can create incredible strength, intimacy, and leadership. True power doesn't come from shutting down feelings, it comes from integrating the masculine and feminine within. This conversation is a wake-up call for men and a guide for anyone seeking healthier, deeper relationships built on balance, vulnerability, and authenticity.New episodes every Wednesday! Watch the videos on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@billiondollarbbFollow Tara at @taruhhh on Instagram and Tik Tok

Ever feel like you're always the safe space for men—but not the one they choose fully? This episode of Reality Inspyrd with @ashleyinspyrz dives deep into the unconscious patterns that keep us stuck in cycles of emotional unavailability, half-love, and energetic burnout. Ashley opens up about her own experiences and the soul-level realizations that came from years of playing the rescuer. You'll hear the truth about: ✨ Why emotional intimacy can feel safe—but secretly drain you ✨ How early conditioning shapes the partners you attract ✨ The real reason “chemistry” sometimes comes with chaos ✨ What it takes to attract from WHOLENESS, not wounding If you're done being the healer, the fixer, or the fallback girl… this one's for you. Come for the realization, stay for the liberation

In this episode, Matt speaks with queer relationship coach Lonay Halloum about why we attract unavailable men. This episode will provide you with a deeper understanding of your relationship patterns and why you might be attracting unavailable men. This episode was inspired by a deep desire to help you heal the subconscious programs that lead to self-abandonment so you can end this exhausting cycle and finally attract available men. The concepts and questions we explore in this episode are: Matt and Lonay both share their stories about attracting unavailable men Why do we attract unavailable men? How do attachment styles play a role? What is the subconscious mind, and how does it contribute to this? How can we work with the subconscious mind to heal? How does low self-worth play a role in this? How can we break this cycle and start to attract available men? Related Topics: Matt's blog “Why do I keep on attracting avoidant men”? Meeting your emotions: guided meditation Research study about gay men having avoidant attachment styles Today's Guest: Lonay Halloum Website Instagram Today's Host: Matt Landsiedel Facebook Instagram TikTok Support the Show - viewer and listener support helps us to continue making episodes - CONNECT WITH US - Watch podcast episodes on YouTube Join the Gay Men's Brotherhood Facebook community Get on our email list to get access to our monthly Zoom calls Follow us on Instagram | TikTok Learn more about our community at GayMenGoingDeeper.com - LEARN WITH US - Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others. Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame. Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series. Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report.

Ever feel like you're on date #200, with the same guy? In this episode, Hilary breaks down emotional unavailability for what it actually is: a lack of real intimacy. If you're attracting men who can't go deep, there's a reason. And it may have more to do with you than you think. For high-functioning women especially, this is a sneaky blind spot. You might be warm, flirty, and fun—but still totally guarded. You might talk about your emotions, but not feel them in real time. And that performative intimacy? It's what keeps real connection out of reach.   Episode Highlights: Why emotional unavailability isn't just a “man” problem The two biggest reasons people avoid true intimacy The subtle difference between being expressive and actually being emotionally available How to finally break the pattern by turning inward   Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why “200 First Dates” Is a Red Flag 01:51 What Emotional Availability Actually Means 02:45 Fear of Vulnerability and Rejection 04:19 Emotional Expression Is a Learnable Skill 06:06 Why Surface-Level Connection Isn't Enough 08:04 How to Break the Pattern for Good   If you're done settling for surface-level connections—or being the one who always “catches feelings” first—this is the episode for you.

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Send us a textIn this captivating episode of the Lost Loverboy Podcast, Demetri delves deep into the enigmatic world of emotionally unavailable men. Through insightful commentary and personal anecdotes, he uncovers the underlying reasons for their behaviors and the methods they employ to navigate relationships. Listeners will gain a better understanding of the emotional barriers these men put up and learn practical strategies for recognizing red flags. Demetri also shares tips on how to communicate effectively and foster emotional connection, empowering those struggling to connect with an emotionally distant partner. Join us for an enlightening discussion that just might change the way you view love and relationships!Viewer discretion is advised for this love-themed podcast. The content may contain discussions of sensitive topics related to relationships, dating, and love. Some content may not be suitable for all listeners, especially those uncomfortable with open and vulnerable conversations. We encourage our listeners to practice self-care and to reach out to a trusted friend or professional if they need support. If you have no friends, you have me! Welcome to the Lost Loverboy Podcast!

If you've ever found yourself stuck in a toxic cycle—chasing someone who keeps pulling away, getting angry, then blaming yourself—this video will hit you deep.Kenny Weiss walks through a powerful real-life coaching conversation that exposes the hidden emotional addiction behind our patterns with emotionally unavailable partners.You'll discover:

If you've ever found yourself stuck in a toxic cycle—chasing someone who keeps pulling away, getting angry, then blaming yourself—this video will hit you deep.Kenny Weiss walks through a powerful real-life coaching conversation that exposes the hidden emotional addiction behind our patterns with emotionally unavailable partners.You'll discover:

Send us a textMeet Sophie, a 37-year-old woman who spent years feeling stuck in painful relationship cycles. Like many women I work with, she kept attracting emotionally unavailable or narcissistic men — despite knowing, deep down, that something wasn't right.In this episode, I'll walk you through Sophie's journey: from identifying her relational schemas (like abandonment, emotional deprivation, and subjugation), to understanding how her childhood shaped her “love template,” to the powerful moment she made a clear commitment to change.We'll explore how she:Finally ended a 7-year relationship that drained her emotionallyIdentified red flags and stopped rationalising harmRebuilt self-trust by healing her inner vulnerable childLet go of the idea that she had a specific “type”Started dating with emotional clarity, rather than fear or old patternsThis transformation is exactly the kind of work we do inside Love Wisely. If you've ever asked yourself “Why do I keep ending up in the same kind of relationship?” — this episode is for you.Support the show

Are you doing everything right in dating—but still attracting men who ghost, breadcrumb, or won't commit? You're not crazy. You're not too much. You're just stuck in a cycle you were never taught how to break. In this episode, we're talking about: ✔️ Why emotionally unavailable men keep finding you ✔️ The hidden patterns no one talks about (including in the church) ✔️ How to finally shift your energy, your standards, and your results Whether you're a high-achieving Christian woman who's ready for real love—or just done with dating drama—this conversation will help you reclaim your worth and start attracting the kind of relationship that actually aligns with your faith, values, and future. :raised_hands|type_5: ✨ APPLY TO JOIN MY COACHING EXPERIENCE: From Toxic to Thriving

Shownotes   Why the archetype of successful women is often unsuccessful in love The hardest thing about keeping things sexy as a mother Why rewiring ourselves for healthy love means being available to be chosen How the feminine archetypes impact dating and relationships Why we choose the love that feels comfortable to us, even if it hurts us Mel's best advice for anyone who is worried about dying alone   Bio   Mel Wells is a world-renowned 7-figure love and leadership mentor for successful female entrepreneurs. She empowers women to create the love lives and intimacy they deeply crave by fully understanding and embodying their feminine power, unlocking their wild magnetism and irresistible energy. Mel also mentors ambitious, spiritually driven women to scale their businesses by harnessing the power of their feminine energy and unique superpowers. Through her work, Mel helps women thrive in both love and leadership, embodying their most authentic and radiant selves.   Timestamps   00:01:33 - Guest introduction 00:04:29 - The archetype of successful women is often unsuccessful in love 00:07:34 - Why we think of feminine energy as less powerful 00:08:04 - Sign up for Layla's newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:09:56 - Mel shares about the relationship that sent her into a deep portal of reflection 00:13:22 - If his energy isn't pursuing you, he's disqualified 00:16:32 - Discover MOOD™ Sex Magic 00:17:16 - Mel and Layla drink MOOD SEX MAGIC 00:20:25 - Men go after what they want 00:21:38 - If he's not moving towards you, it's not your job to figure it out 00:25:47 - Rewiring ourselves for healthy love means being available to be chosen 00:26:02 - Unlock your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples 00:28:34 - We choose the love that feels comfortable to us, even if it hurts us 00:31:40 - Mel explains the feminine archetypes and how they impact dating 00:35:33 - Why it's important to listen deeply to your universal path 00:39:23 - Fall in love with your body and unlock outrageous orgasms with Obliss 00:43:04 - Finding delight in wherever you are on your dating journey 00:46:40 - Never discount the possibility of being fully chosen at every stage in your life 00:48:19 - You can be a female entrepreneur AND be filled with life and magic 00:51:10 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification  00:54:18 - When you mother your partner, he will show up as a child 00:54:54 - The hardest thing about keeping things sexy as a mother 00:57:46 - Mel's advice for anyone who is worried about dying alone 01:00:47 - A practice for switching from the Huntress archetype to the Queen 01:02:01 - A practice for shifting from the Mother archetype to the Lover 01:03:27 - Conclusion  

Let's be real—he's not confused, he's just not emotionally available. In this video, I'm breaking down exactly why women need to stop entertaining emotionally unavailable men. No more waiting on mixed signals, no more fixing projects, and definitely no more chasing bare minimum energy.It's time to choose peace, not potential.If you needed a sign—this is it.

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What happens when you seem drawn to the same type of person, but that “type” is someone who is emotionally unavailable? Why are certain people drawn to these types of unhealthy cycles of relationships, and how do you break the cycle? Today I talk to Erica, who is tired of emotionally unavailable men, and wanting to understand her role in attracting these types of relationships. Listen into this powerful conversation! You can also watch the full episode on YouTube. Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast Extras: The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY!  DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She's written seven books including Choosing Marriage,True Love Dates, Love In Every Season,Are You Really OK?, Married Sex, RESET, and Soul Care. She's also the host of Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (formerly the Love + Relationships Podcast) where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Many women long to be in a happy relationship, in which they feel safe, heard and understood, but have given up after years of disappointment and heartbreak. This week dating coach EVAN MARC KATZ joins Andrew to discuss why it's so hard for women to find a man who wants to commit and to build a genuine relationship. They cover: How to get psychologically prepared to date successfully.  Knowing which compromises to make in the service of love.  The difference between compromise and “settling”.  The importance of accepting men as they are, rather than viewing them as fixable works in progress.  Balancing chemistry and compatibility in your relationship decisions.  Evan's personal experiences of dating frustration, and how they led him to write one of the first and most popular books about online dating.  Evan Marc Katz is an author, CEO, podcaster, dating coach and former screenwriter who works to support strong, successful women to find lasting relationships. He has been featured by Today, the New York Times, and CNN. A total of 13,000 women from 40 countries have graduated from Love U, his coaching course and community that helps women understand men and find love. If You're Looking for More…. You can subscribe to The Meaningful Life (via Apple Podcasts, Spotify or Google Podcasts) and hear a bonus mini-episode every week. Or you can join our Supporters Club on Patreon to also access exclusive behind-the-scenes content, fan requests  and the chance to ask Andrew your own questions. Membership starts at just £4.50.  This week supporters will hear: Dealing with Unavailable Men. Three Things Evan Marc Katz knows to be true.  AND subscribers also access all of our previous bonus content - a rich trove of insight on love, life and meaning created by Andrew and his interviewees. Follow Up Get Andrew's free guide to difficult conversations with your partner: How to Tell Your Partner Difficult Things  Take a look at Andrew's new online relationship course: My Best Relationship Tools  Learn more about working with Evan Marc Katz on his website  Read Evan Marc Katz's books Listen to Evan Marc Katz's Love U podcast  Follow Evan Marc Katz on Facebook @EvanMarcKatzfan, on Instagram @realevanmarckatz and on Twitter/X and YouTube @evanmarckatz.  Join our Supporters Club to access exclusive behind-the-scenes content, fan requests and the chance to ask Andrew your own questions. Membership starts at just £4.50.  Andrew offers regular advice on love, marriage and finding meaning in your life via his social channels. Follow him on Twitter, Facebook and YouTube @andrewgmarshall   

Lyn welcomes back Caroline Ackroyd, a hypnotherapist and love coach, to explore the compelling topic of why women often attract emotionally unavailable men. Caroline shares her insights on unhealthy patterns that stem from our childhood experiences, emphasising how unmet emotional needs can lead to a cycle of seeking affection and validation from men who mirror those early relationships. The conversation delves into the psychological aspects of these dynamics, including the concept of "pining patterns", & the trauma bonds that attract unhealthy relationships, and how we can heal and break free from them. KEY TAKEAWAYS Understanding Emotional Unavailability: Emotional unavailability in men can stem from their childhood experiences, where their emotional needs were not met. This can manifest in various ways, from lack of affection/ attention to more severe issues like narcissisic behaviours. The Pining Pattern: The "pining pattern," is where love is associated with longing and chasing and feeling anxious. This pattern often leads to choosing men who mirror the emotional unavailability experienced in childhood, perpetuating a cycle of unfulfilling/ unhealthy relationships. Self-Responsibility: It's crucial to recognise that while attraction to emotionally unavailable men is external, it's actually a reflection of what's going on internally. Taking responsibility for any unhealthy choices we make in relationships is the first step towards healing and breaking the pattern. Healing involves changing your negative self-talk/ narrative about self-worth and being good enough, and learning to positively validate yourself. By acknowledging your own lovability and worthiness, you can attract more attention/ affection and healthier relationships. BEST MOMENTS "When I say emotionally unavailable, that can manifest itself... from someone who is not affectionate, all the way to higher degrees... a narcissist all the way to psychopath." "You are trying to change your parent by changing that partner... if you can make him into a warm, cuddly, loving pussycat, you will have put a happy ending on your childhood." "You will know that you have healed when that type and those red flags no longer come into your radar." "It's not about finding love. It's about attracting that partner... it's possible and available for you."ABOUT THE GUEST - Caroline Ackroyd - Hypnotherapist & Love CoachCaroline Ackroyd is an RTT Hypnotherapist, Dating Coach and Soulmate Attraction Mentor helping women elevate their self-concept, sense of worthiness and lovability to feel whole and confident to date in their power. She helps women heal love blocks that keep them single or in negative relationship patterns with emotionally unavailable or uncommitted men, and supports them to raise their standards through self-love. She herself overcame unworthiness and insecurity through inner child healing, reparenting, and wiring in a new upgraded self-concept with hypnotherapy. Longing to have a healthy, happy relationship, she specialised in Feminine Communication that leads to emotional connection and commitment, and Feminine Dating that creates sizzling polarity and lasting attraction. Her dream of finding her Soulmate came true after manifesting him with her signature Soulmate Attraction Process. FB - https://www.facebook.com/amazonkidIG - https://www.instagram.com/hypnolovecoach/Email - hypnolovecoach@gmail.com ABOUT THE HOST Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace. She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe. HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.CONTACT METHOD lyn@hearts-entwined.com

JOIN CONNECT TO SELF- https://www.carlamcgreevy.com/connect-to-self In this week's episode, Carla discusses a topic so many of us can relate to—dating emotionally unavailable men. Sharing her own experiences, she looks at why we keep finding ourselves in these patterns, how our core beliefs shape the relationships we choose, and what's really going on underneath all of this. Carla also chats about the resistance that comes with doing inner work, what she's learned from over a decade of healing, and the connection between our inner child and the choices we make as adults. She shares how humour can really help you to heal and why unprocessed trauma often pushes us to stay busy instead of allowing ourselves to just be. Timestamps: 00:00 – Ovulation tracking, subtle messages from our body, and the full moon 06:39 – What to expect with the Connect to Self course 12:01 – My approach to this work 13:05 – Why we laugh at traumatic experiences 14:27 – The link between unprocessed trauma and the need to constantly produce 15:52 – How laughter helps you heal 17:45 – Dating emotionally unavailable men 21:30 – Grieving and death 24:45 – Tools and techniques for self-soothing and nurturing 26:15 – Reconnecting with passion and purpose through inner child work 30:00 – Carla's own healing journey and lessons she's learned If you enjoyed this episode, please rate it 5 stars and follow so you never miss an episode! Connect with Carla: Instagram: @CarlaMcGreevy1 Work with Carla: Carla McGreevy Join Carla's mailing list: Stay Connected

This week, we're joined by the incredible Dr. Marnie Feuerman, a renowned couples therapist and author of Ghosted and Breadcrumbed. Together, we tackle the heart-wrenching question so many face: Should I stay in this relationship or should I leave? Dr. Marnie shares her wisdom on navigating divorce ambivalence, emotional disconnection, and the power of discernment counseling to find clarity and confidence. Are you in a “gray divorce” phase or just questioning your connection? The insights Dr. Marni Feuerman shares can help you move forward with intention.We talk about the importance of emotional availability, how systemic understanding can transform relational dynamics, and why some relationships struggle during midlife transitions. Dr. Marnie also unpacks the nuances of attachment styles and how they shape the way couples connect or disconnect. Don't miss this candid and compassionate conversation that may just help you find the clarity you've been searching for. Episode Highlights:[00:02] - Introducing Dr. Marnie Feuerman and her expertise in relationship counseling.[01:56] - Dr. Marnie shares her perspective on why divorce ambivalence is so common and the complexities behind such a monumental decision.[05:23] - Discussing "gray divorce" and how empty nest syndrome can magnify marital issues.[08:05] - The impact of menopause and hormonal changes on intimacy and connection in relationships.[11:39] - Emotional unavailability explained: What it looks like, how it affects relationships, and the role of attachment styles.[15:55] - Colette reflects on her own experience with emotional disconnection in a marriage.[20:23] - The "lottery test" question: A surprising way to explore how someone feels about staying in their marriage.[26:34] - The difference between being “in love” versus experiencing a deeper, companionate love.[30:48] - Dr. Marnie explains discernment counseling: What it is and how it helps couples clarify their next steps.[36:30] - Why couples therapy requires at least one “cheerleader” for the relationship to succeed.[41:22] - Final takeaways: Why seeking professional guidance with a systemic approach is essential when facing relationship crossroads. Resources:Dr. Marni Feuerman's Website: https://www.drmarnionline.com/ Dr. Marni Feuerman's Psychotherapy: https://thetalkingsolution.com/ Dr. Marni Feuerman's Book: Ghosted and Breadcrumbed: Stop Falling for Unavailable Men and Get Smart about Healthy RelationshipsFor more on this topic visit our website insightsfromthecouch.org If you have questions please email us at info@insightsfromthecouch.org we would love to hear from you!If today's discussion resonated with you or sparked curiosity, please rate, follow, and share "Insights from the Couch" with others. Your support helps us reach more people and continue providing valuable insights. Here's to finding our purposes and living a life full of meaning and joy. Stay tuned for more!

In today's episode of Men's Therapy Podcast, host Marc Azoulay welcomes Owen Marcus. He is a seasoned expert in somatic therapy and emotional development. Owen sheds light on the complexities of emotionally unavailable men. He has years of experience helping men embrace vulnerability and heal from trauma. He provides valuable insights into the impact of toxic masculinity on emotional detachment. Additionally, he examines how societal expectations play a role in this issue. Owen shares, "For many men, emotional unavailability is a defense mechanism. It's not a trait, but a learned response to years of conditioning. Where vulnerability was often seen as weakness." He emphasizes the importance of healing emotional wounds and taking time to focus on personal growth. Owen emphasizes that embracing vulnerability fosters deeper connections with oneself and others. This approach can lead to a more fulfilling life. Owen examines how men often adopt coping mechanisms like suppression and avoidance. These behaviours can hinder their ability to form meaningful connections. As a result, men may struggle to build deeper relationships. Owen's somatic therapy approach targets both the mind and body. It is an effective tool for men looking to break free from harmful cycles. This therapy helps them heal emotionally.

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Lordy, we are getting vulnerable today but look, if it helps someone - I've done my job. Today is a story time of how I ended a 9 YEAR long cycle of dating emotionally unavailable men. Settle in pals, it's a juicy one. WORK WITH ME: https://www.katiebambrick.com/work-with-me INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/katiebambrickcoaching/ TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@katiebambrickcoaching?_t=8kEPoSiidAV&_r=1

If you are so done with emotionally unavailable men and SO ready for real connection, support, and deep conversations in an emotionally mature relationship…This episode is for you! I provide the 5 key ways that you can end the cycle of attracting emotionally unavailable men for good.If you are coming to this episode, you most likely haven't only had ONE encounter with an emotionally unavailable man, it's been too many to count. Am I right? That's because it's a cycle. And that cycle STOPS with this episode.Support the Show.Let's connect on Instagram – send me a message @meleah_manning Get Meleah's Free Masterclass on How to STOP Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men So That You Can Finally Find a Compatible, Secure Partner Within 90 Days.Join the Waitlist for Radiant Relationship Academy — a mentorship to overcome your patterns in dating & relationships and experience a healthy, fulfilling love.Apply for private 1:1 coaching with Meleah.

Send us a Text Message.Have you ever found yourself inexplicably drawn to someone who keeps you at arm's length? Tune in to Life Points with Rhonda as we dissect the complex tapestry of relationships and the magnetic pull of emotionally unavailable men. This episode peels back the layers of hypergamy, uncovering how societal expectations, past experiences, and psychological patterns weave into the choices women make in love. We also shed light on the paradox of scarcity, and how it can twist the heart's desires, making the emotionally distant so enticing.Together with expert insights, we traverse the realm of self-awareness and the transformative power it holds in breaking away from cycles of unfulfillment in love. This heart-to-heart conversation isn't just an exploration of modern romance's pitfalls; it's an empowering guide to recognizing our innermost needs, seeking validation within, and embracing the pursuit of genuine emotional intimacy. Join us for an episode that promises to resonate with your own journey towards healthier, more connected relationships.Support the Show.https://chat.openai.com/g/g-8E47AuJfB-life-points-assistanthttps://FaceBook.com/Lifepointswithronda1https://youtube.com/@lifepointswithronda2968https://TikTok.com/@lifepointswithrondahttps://Instagram.com/@lifepointswithrondahttps://Patreon.com/@lifepointswithrondahttps://Lifepointswithronda.com

Is it possible to attract proactive, loving partners? Yes! Mishi joins Lily to share her story of how she went from attracting completely emotionally unavailable men to attracting the most proactive partner. They dive into Mishi's journey - it's total empowerment vibes! From dealing with consecutive breakups to finding self-trust with the help of personal reflection and the Brazen Breakthrough program, Mishi's story is a roadmap to living your best life. They get into the nitty-gritty of self-growth and that ah-mazing moment when you start trusting your gut to attract the kind of connections you desire.  We get into: How Mishi learned to rediscover herself after enduring two challenging breakups  The most significant difference in Mishi's dating life today The act of listening to your intuition and embracing self-trust  Some of the Brazen Breakthrough strategies that Mishi found helpful, including Bless-Release and the Dating Feedback System What it's like to be in a proactive and loving relationship  Links: Free Training With Lily Womble on May 7th! 3 Steps to Attract the Right Partner With a Joyful as Fuck Dating Life Lily's book, Thank You More Please, is available for preorder right now and you can grab it and the preorder bonuses with this link! Show notes: http://datebrazen.com/blog/attracting-proactive-loving-partner  

In this episode, Maya and Erin dive deep into this pervasive pattern. Maya shares the 5 steps to release the addiction to unavailable men, how to become empowered in your love journey instead of a victim, and how to finally find an available partner.To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit empowerlove.us/apply/Join the Rewire Your Attachment Style Facebook group for women here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/maptolastinglove/Follow Maya on Instagram: @mayadiamond.empowerloveOpening song by Tara Divina - Click here for SpotifySupport the show

When you're dating and putting yourself out there, you want to meet a normal guy, that will treat you well, does what he says he's going to do, and actually put in a decent level of effort to pursue you. You don't need him to do everything but you do need him to show up. And if you've been dating for a bit and aren't attracting quality men, I want to invite you to go inwards and see what's actually going on and why you're attracting deadbeats. (I promise you, it has nothing to do with the city you live in!) On this episode, you'll learn: How do you know you're attracting emotionally unavailable men Three reasons why you're attracting your emotionally available men Tangible tools and prompts to help you shift your mindset and energy to start attracting quality men, right now. Featured on the podcast: JOIN LET LOVE IN FREE CHALLENGE: https://www.sythelovecoach.com/let-love-in-challenge FREE 5 MIN DATING STYLE QUIZ: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sythelovecoach.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ WORK WITH ME: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://syeda-neary.mykajabi.com/work-with-me⁠⁠⁠⁠ SY THE LOVE COACH ON TIK-TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@sythelovecoach⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@sythelovecoach⁠⁠⁠ SY THE LOVE COACH ON INSTAGRAM: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/sythelovecoach/⁠⁠⁠

Women who love men they can't have are those who attract and are attracted to emotionally unavailable men. Emotionally unavailable men, spouses and boyfriends often mirror the relationships women have had with the male role models in their lives. In some cases, women who have suffered emotional neglect of a mother can also find themselves settling for emotionally unavailable partners. Women who lack a healthy sense of self, and who have been conditioned to feel as if they need to prove themselves worthy of love, generally do not attract high quality men. We are women who settle for breadcrumbs, beg for approval, are often codependent and emotionally dependent.  The good news is, Lisa A. Romano has found a way to breakthrough the cognitive distortions, subconscious programs, and habitual thought processes that keep women seeking the love of men they can't have.  Ready to take a 90 day deep dive into healing from the patterns and programs that keep so many women seeking the love of those they can't have? If so, click this link to learn more about Lisa's highly successful 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program  https://www.lisaaromano.com/12wbcp  This class starts soon! Participate from anywhere in the world. Follow along on Facebook and join the live Q&A sessions with Lisa herself, as your coach and mentor. 

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There's an emotionally unavailable men apocalypse and I don't want you to keep falling victim. Today I discuss how to stop attracting emotionally unavailable men.

In this episode I speak with a successful Claimed Program graduate who shares her story of how she went from being in a marriage that was lacking polarity and eventually getting a divorce to starting to attract some incredible men and, eventually, getting in a relationship with her dream man.  =============================

This podcast episode is proudly sponsored by BetterHelp. Take a step towards enhancing your mental and emotional well-being by joining BetterHelp. As a special offer for our listeners, you can now enjoy 10% off your first month when you sign up using the link provided HERE #adIn the 88th episode, Sinead joins Sabrina Zohar, podcast host and dating expert to talk about dating emotionally unavailable men and offer guidance on how to move forward after a breakup. Here's a detailed breakdown of the topics in this episode:Healing After a Breakup, How to Get Over Your ExHow can you heal and grow after a tough breakup?What are some effective methods for recovering from a breakup?Understanding Emotional Unavailability, When to Leave Your Partner?What are the signs of emotional unavailability in a partner?How does emotional unavailability affect relationships, and what can you do about it?Communication in RelationshipsHow can you improve communication with your partner to address emotional unavailability?What steps can you take to better understand your relationship needs and desires?Tools for Personal GrowthHow can therapy contribute to personal growth and help with relationship challenges?What mindfulness practices and self-reflection techniques can enhance self-improvement?Overcoming Harmful ComparisonsHow can you avoid the negative effects of comparing yourself to others, especially in the age of social media?What strategies can help you focus on self-improvement instead of comparisons?Listener QuestionsAnswering some common questions and concerns from listeners regarding emotional unavailability and relationship anxiety?Guest Details:Guest: Sabrina ZoharSabrina can be found on Instagram and TikTok as @sabrina.zohar.Questions and Feedback:Do you have questions or feedback for future episodes of "The Sinead Says Podcast"?You can submit your inquiries on Instagram by following @thesineadsayspodcast or via email at scenarios@sineadhegarty.com.Your questions will be considered for upcoming episodes to provide you with valuable insights.Stay Engaged:If you enjoyed this episode, show your support by liking, subscribing, and leaving a review on your preferred podcast platform.Topics Covered: Emotional unavailability, relationship dynamics, self-awareness, open communication, identifying relationship needs and wants, post-breakup healing, personal growth tools, avoiding harmful comparisons, break ups, relationship advice, healing.Hashtags: #EmotionalUnavailability #RelationshipAdvice #SelfAwareness #BreakupRecovery #PersonalGrowth #CommunicationSkills  #SelfImprovement #SelfDevelopment #BreakUp

Feminine Energy Mastery with Roksana Brzostek Grab a cuppa, get comfy and tune into the best feminine energy podcast around! You're invited to be part of the conversation; we're manifesting our dreams, creating epic relationships and building lives we're wildly obsessed with!  **  WORK WITH ME  https://linktr.ee/roksanabrzostek ** FREE FB COMMUNITY https://www.facebook.com/groups/3176677885756370 ** ONLINE COURSES https://roksanabrzostek.thinkific.com/courses/ FEM: Become a self actualised woman. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/feminineenergymastery/message

Have you ever felt frustrated at yourself for choosing yet ANOTHER unavailable partner? Maybe he is married or lives in another state or country. Maybe he is dating you, but seems to be married to his work, his mother or friends. Or maybe he is living with you but is emotionally unavailable, leaving you feeling deeply alone in your relationship. Whatever the situation, here you are again with yet another unavailable partner, wondering if it is you or just bad luck. In this episode, Jen distils the research into relationships and unpacks the six main reasons why women with an anxious attachment adaptation will often be attracted to men with an avoidant attachment adaptation - some will be a surprise! ______ Resources: Heal Your Anxious Attachment by Jennifer Nurick To learn more about avoidant and anxious adaptions - listen to Episodes 2 and 3. Apple Podcast: EP 2 Avoidant Attachment Explained https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/psychotherapy-central/id1701257974?i=1000623584769 EP 3 Anxious Attachment Explained https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/psychotherapy-central/id1701257974?i=1000623929027 Geher, G. Perceived and actual characteristics of parents and partners: A test of a freudian model of mate selection. Curr Psychol 19, 194–214 (2000). https://doi.org/10.1007/s12144-000-1015-7 Extra Resources FREE TRAINING: I'll take you through the three stages of transformation; Discovery, Healing and Growth. We will explore Attachment Styles, and I'll share with you three things you can do to help you have more effective conflicts that don't deteriorate into relationship killers: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/cycle-breaker-registration Join Jen in her exclusive online program to help you heal from an insecure attachment style and break repeating patterns in your relationships: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/rcb-registration Browse Jen's suite of other online courses: https://www.psychotherapycentral.health/store Follow Jen on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychotherapy.central/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/psychotherapy.central/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychotherapycentral

On this week's episode, Syeda shares three reasons why you keep attracting unavailable men and how to finally put an end to it once and for all so that you can attract your Mr. Right. It's easier than you think. The love & relationship you desire IS possible. You deserve to be fiercely loved and deeply adored. Ready to work together? Check out the following programs & free resources: Curious about working with Sy and learning more about Attraction Alchemy? Click here to learn more.   Having trouble building emotional attraction with men? Download this free cheat sheet.  ⁠⁠ Let's be friends on the 'gram and connect here @sythelovecoach.

Are you ready to attract the right kind of men into your life? It's time to take control of your dating life and transform your relationship patterns from the inside out. We'll dive into the reasons why you may be attracting the wrong kind of men and how to break those patterns once and for all. Plus, we'll share some tips on how to boost your self-worth and attract high-quality partners who are ready to commit. So, if you're ready to up-level your dating game and find the love you've been dreaming of, I got your back! Take those sexy thumbs and write us a review and then head over to our Instagram and let us know what you thought @itslaurapatriciamartin and @healingtohappy You can take it step further by applying for LIBERATED here or jump into ARRVIAL here.

Hi raw tea fam ! On today's episode i have Melissa Roberts, a dating coach and host of Gumball Love podcast . Melissa talks us through the 8 different flavors of Gumballs or types of men women tend to go for. Melissa gives us insight into what to look for during a first date. We talk about a what a high- achieving woman looks like and tips for maintaining and gaining confidence. We also discuss unhealthy patterns and tips for breaking out of a cycle. Melissa and I go through some listener questions. Dating can be hard , I know that first hand Melissa and I hope this episode reaches you and maybe helps in dating as you navigate all the different dating apps. You are enough and worthy and the most important relationship is the one build with yourself. XOXO , raw tea Follow Melissa on instagram : melissajaneroberts

If all you seem to talk to & attract are emotionally unavailable men or men that end up not wanting to commit, this is for you. Watch the YouTube video here: https://youtu.be/8Kv7wC4qQws PATREON: MORE podcast episodes 1:1 Mindset & Intuitive Coaching https://www.patreon.com/Ivebeenthatgirl Website where you can find my books: https://www.ivebeenthatgirl.net MY SOCIALS: Brand Instagram: (119k followers) https://www.instagram.com/ivebeenthatgirltoo/ Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thatgirlkindalld Facebook: (13.9K followers) https://www.facebook.com/beenthatgirl/ Brand TikTok: (29.3 Followers) (IVEBEENTHATGIRL) https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPd2kj4AS/ Personal TikTok: (THATGIRLKINDALLD) https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTdCdTNwM/ Twitter: https://mobile.twitter.com/beenthatgirltoo BUSINESS INQUIRIES: https://www.ivebeenthatgirl.net/contact --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ivebeenthatgirltoo/support

We tend to think just because we want a relationship that we're emotionally available. But one does't automatically equate to the other.Most women I work with, despite their deep-seated desires for partnership, aren't emotionally available themselves. What we typically pin on men who, "don't want to settle down," exists in trickier ways within ourselves. If you find you consistently attract men who:Say they're not looking for a serious relationshipAre flaking about following upSeem wishy washy on their desiresOr you simply endure experience after experience where things just dissolve, this episode is for you.In this episode I cover:What emotional availability and unavailability actually looks likeWhy the pattern of consistently attracting emotionally unavailable men says more about you than it does about themWhere emotional availability stems fromHow to become more emotionally available to yourself, and, subsequently, to othersHow to shift the pattern of consistently meeting men who aren't seeking relationshipHow emotional availability, like strengthening any muscle, is something the grows over time.This episode will resonate if you really desire a relationship but keep dating or attracting individuals who are flakey, non-committal, or have no interest in long terms partnership.Work with me One on OneConnect on InstagramWebsitePodcast Music Credit: James Maldonado

If you think your attraction to unavailable men is super confusing because you believe you're super available, this episode is for you.Get ready to hunker down and eat a slice of humble pie for this episode.Claire truly believes that like attracts like, NO MATTER WHAT, and if you're willing to look at how YOU might have something to do with your continued pattern of attracting unavailable men-- despite how much healing work you've done on yourself-- get cozy and take a listen! www.theurbanandthemystic.com 20% off with code : HeartbreakCoach20www.winnowskincare.com 20% off with code : HeartbreakCoach20

In this episode I chat with one of my private clients Kim to talk more about her incredible transformation. In this episode you'll hear her story, what it was like working with me and what her life looks like now! Apply to WOMAN (begins January 11)- https://caprisharichards.typeform.com/to/oZ38aHS7 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/caprisha-richards/support

#8. Do you have a pattern of NEVER wanting the men who like you, yet ALWAYS wanting the men who don't like you? Are you tired of falling for the elusive, non-comital guy who's absolutely terrified of committing to you (or anyone)? Are you ready finally attract an emotionally available man ready to commit? If so, this podcast episode is for you. I dive into four reasons why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable men. Self-awareness is the first step to healing any unhealthy relationship pattern manifesting in your love life! Ready to dive in? Enjoy the episode? If so, please take a second to Leave a rating and review! Post a screenshot of the podcast on your Instagram story and tag me @erikasimone_ Sending so much love, Erika Simone G E T S T A R T E D: ⤑ Coaching: Book a 1:1 Coaching Session! F R E E B I E S: ⤑ Free Guide: 5 Keys to Feminine Energy Dating Guide ⤑ Free Assessment: Emotional Availability Assessment ⤑ Free Guide: Attachment Styles 101 Guide ⤑ Free Journal Prompts: Inner Work for Healing & Growth Journal Prompts R E S O U R C E S: ⤑ Blog: Read the Latest Blog ⤑ Books: My Top Book Recommendations C O N N E C T: ⤑ Instagram ⤑ TikTok ⤑ Twitter C O N T A C T: ⤑ Email ⤑ Contact --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/erikasimone/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/erikasimone/support

In Ep 28, Julie speaks with Self Worth & Dating Coach Sy Neary. They discuss: The Energetics of Dating --> What is Masculine Energy vs Feminine energy and the role it plays in relationships (and life) Why the traits that make you successful in your careers may not be helping your dating life Why you keep attracting unavailable men Red flags + green flags of dating Moving from the "talking" phase" to the dating phase How to avoid getting attached too quickly Human Design readings - what are they and how can they be beneficial #thebrowngirlpodcast #datingpodcast #datingadviceforwomen #southasiandating GET IN TOUCH WITH US : Connect with Sy on IG : https://www.instagram.com/sythelovecoach/ Join Sy's Attraction Academy: https://syeda-neary-s-school.teachable.com/p/attraction-alchemy Connect with The Brown Girl Podcast on IG: https://www.instagram.com/thebrowngirl_podcast/ Connect with Julie on IG: www.instagram.com/juliegeorge723/ Follow the Podcast Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCB42br7pT2cuJsoCrNzhxEg

Starr Burroughs talks all about how to spot emotionally unavailable men in this HOD bonus episode! Want to WATCH the podcast? We're now on YouTube!  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Are you always saying that there are no ‘good Christian singles'? We have hundreds of eligible singles in our Drop the Hanky Dating Program!  Women: https://www.heartofdating.com/dth-girls  Men: https://www.heartofdating.com/dth-guys Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness . . . . .  A quick thank you to some of our friends! Faithful Counseling: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, Christian therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to http://faithfulcounseling.com/heartofdating Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make a lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single? We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we'd love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission. http://compassion.com/heartofdating Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get ready for a deep dive into WHY you are attracted to the “bad boys”   Many of us have been there…we logically know they are bad for us, but our heart is screaming: YES, I'M INTO HIM!    Inside of this episode I break down:  Why relationship health is so important  Beliefs that support attraction to unavailable partners  How your attachment style can show up in these kinds of dynamics    You deserve to heal, you deserve to choose the highest and best version of you.    If you're ready to do the work on healing your attachment style, and you know its time for you to attract a great relationship; it is time to choose faith over fear and invest in your growth.    The E.S.L. Program has limited spots in May; don't miss out! Apply to the program today and say yes to growth:    Click Here to Apply!